Speaker 1: Hell We Suck At Being Newlyweds.
Speaker 2: With Dean Aungler, Haylen, Mikey and Jared Haven, an iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 3: What is going on? Everybody?
Speaker 4: Welcome to an all new episode of Help We Suck
Speaker 4: At Being Newlyweds. I'm Dean Bell, joined here by Kaylin Bell,
Speaker 4: with Jared Haven tuning in from his wife's glen room
Speaker 4: in Rhode Island.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's exactly where I am, dude. Sorry, Okay, First
Speaker 1: of all, I just left the dentist, so, like you
Speaker 1: guys can probably tell, they like half my face. It
Speaker 1: feels paralyzed right now, I'm getting a crown and listen,
Speaker 1: my dentist is great, but I've been to the dentist.
Speaker 1: I think this is the fifth time now. I went
Speaker 1: for my checkout and then I had I had a
Speaker 1: cavity and I needed a root canal. So then I
Speaker 1: went back got the root canal, but then they couldn't
Speaker 1: finish the root canal in time. It took like two
Speaker 1: hours and they said listen, so sorry, we're not done.
Speaker 1: To get a come back next week. So I went
Speaker 1: back next week, spend another two hours there, finished off
Speaker 1: the root canal, then went back to the dentist's office,
Speaker 1: like two weeks later. They needed to fill the cavity,
Speaker 1: so that took a couple hours. And then I went
Speaker 1: back this morning because they needed to shave down the
Speaker 1: tooth to get the crown in there. And now I
Speaker 1: go back in a couple hours to actually get the crown.
Speaker 1: So I've been to the dentists lot here. It sucks, Jared.
Speaker 1: Why do you have to do all that stuff? Why
Speaker 1: do you have to go to the dentist? Why do
Speaker 1: you have to do you have to forget your dental
Speaker 1: hygiene anyway, so everybody go you just don't get cavities
Speaker 1: and then go to the dentist more often.
Speaker 2: So how often do you go to the dentist?
Speaker 1: This is my first appointment in a couple of years,
Speaker 1: probably like three years.
Speaker 3: Let's be honest.
Speaker 2: I'll do it.
Speaker 1: I know it sucks. I brush, I floss, I do
Speaker 1: everything you need to do, but you just need to
Speaker 1: go and get that clean.
Speaker 3: Don't be honest. How often do you floss?
Speaker 1: I mean I've lost once a week. It's probably still
Speaker 1: not good enough.
Speaker 3: But I don't I don't know that really is helping
Speaker 3: it anyway.
Speaker 1: It's got to help at least a little bit.
Speaker 2: Dina's like one of those strange people who floss is
Speaker 2: like three times a day.
Speaker 4: You gotta get a water pick. I swear I haven't
Speaker 4: used it in a couple of weeks. But water pick,
Speaker 4: I think I've talked about it on this podcast before.
Speaker 4: Best invention in mankind in the history of mankind.
Speaker 2: But you usually floss and water pick.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's so great.
Speaker 4: Rants brush. But there are days where I skimp on
Speaker 4: my dental care routine, like forgetting to brush.
Speaker 3: Sometimes you do that often.
Speaker 2: But even if he forgets to brush, he still flosses.
Speaker 1: What the help you've done that before?
Speaker 4: I bet you if you asked a dentist, we should
Speaker 4: get a dentist on the spodcast. I bet if you
Speaker 4: were to ask a dentist like, hey, if I'm only
Speaker 4: going to do one at night, which one do you
Speaker 4: think is better for me to do? I bet you
Speaker 4: he would say floss. I bet you he'd say.
Speaker 1: I have to jump in here.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I have to contribute something.
Speaker 4: My father in law was in Vietnam and he didn't
Speaker 4: have a toothbrush for like four months, but he had floss,
Speaker 4: and he floss twice a day, and when he came back, his.
Speaker 3: Tea were perfect. There we go, they say it is.
Speaker 1: I swear to God, that's real.
Speaker 3: I just want to do it.
Speaker 1: First of all, Vietnam was back in the seventies. Yes,
Speaker 1: so the you know, a dentist back then probably didn't
Speaker 1: know what the hell they were talking about. So like, yeah,
Speaker 1: your teeth are perfect, and in fact, his teeth were terrible.
Speaker 2: I think we should all start brushing our teeth.
Speaker 4: Start stop. No, you still should brush them. But to
Speaker 4: Easton's point, and to my point, if you're only going
Speaker 4: to do one floss.
Speaker 2: I am stumped. My mind is blown.
Speaker 4: Think about all the grime and gunk that gets stuck
Speaker 4: between your teeth throughout the day. When you brush, you
Speaker 4: don't get rid of that stuff. It's still there. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I wonder why we just decided that flossing, like most
Speaker 2: of America decided that fossing, we just it's not necessary.
Speaker 4: I think it's because it hurts a lot of people
Speaker 4: and your gums bleed the first few times you do it.
Speaker 4: It's like a little uncomfortable, but it's quicker, it's more fun.
Speaker 3: I have way more fun than I floss.
Speaker 1: First of all, nobody has fun.
Speaker 4: Oh when they flush, I will tell you that, so okay,
Speaker 4: I can guys see it coming from. I have fun
Speaker 4: when I water picked, because even after flossing and brushing
Speaker 4: and rinsing a water pick and I still see little
Speaker 4: chunks of food pop out of the teeth sometimes, And
Speaker 4: that's fun.
Speaker 2: That's fun.
Speaker 3: It makes fun. I'm like, yeah, that could have turned
Speaker 3: into plaque or tartar, but not anymore because now it's
Speaker 3: water picked right out of my mouth.
Speaker 2: Tina is great dental hygiene, like perfectly, you know.
Speaker 3: It's funny.
Speaker 4: I said that once on my Instagram story a long
Speaker 4: long time ago. I was like, the one thing I
Speaker 4: care most about is dental hygiene, and that's why I
Speaker 4: haven't been to the dentist in seven years. And some
Speaker 4: own responded and they're like, oh, you care so much
Speaker 4: about it, but you haven't been to the dentist in
Speaker 4: seven years.
Speaker 3: That doesn't really check out. So I do. I think
Speaker 3: I do it preventively because I hate the dentist so much.
Speaker 2: But we have a good dentist. Shout out to Chris.
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, but I haven't seen him in three years.
Speaker 1: I know I miss going a cupcake. I missed going
Speaker 1: a cupcake a lot, So I'm on hellfline dot com. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it says they interviewed doctor Anne Lornette in Louisiana
Speaker 1: and she said flossing and brushing isn't really an either
Speaker 1: or equation for optimum health. However, if you had to
Speaker 1: pick one, according to doctoral and Lorgnette in Louisiana, she
Speaker 1: says that flossing is more important if done correctly.
Speaker 3: There we go. I was thinking about getting braces when
Speaker 3: I moved to Colorado. Oh my gosh, would you be okay?
Speaker 3: Would you still love me if I had braces?
Speaker 2: Sure? But you don't need them. Your your thing with
Speaker 2: your teeth is so interesting to me.
Speaker 3: I have bad teeth.
Speaker 1: What about they're not braces but in visible line in.
Speaker 3: Visile line three times.
Speaker 4: I did smile direct club once and the first stint
Speaker 4: with in visi line did make a big difference. It
Speaker 4: corrected the major issue to a point that I was
Speaker 4: okay with. But then I kept getting in visilne wanting
Speaker 4: to fix this one little issue. This tooth is like
Speaker 4: two millimeters too far forward, and the invisil line doesn't
Speaker 4: have precise enough movements to fix it exactly how I want,
Speaker 4: and so now I need to get braces or surgery.
Speaker 3: But that's a little too extreme for me.
Speaker 4: Surgery for what like they could they could probably cut
Speaker 4: my gum open and like put the tooth in the
Speaker 4: exact spot that I want it.
Speaker 2: To be gan. There's nothing wrong with your teeth.
Speaker 3: There is so many things wrong with my teeth.
Speaker 1: Except I mean, there is that one tooth that I mean,
Speaker 1: I've noticed it quite a bit. That is two millimeters
Speaker 1: a little bit further off than your other teeth. Like,
Speaker 1: I didn't want to say anything, but every time I
Speaker 1: look at your face, I mean, I'm immediately drawn to it.
Speaker 3: Look.
Speaker 4: I know you guys probably don't notice it, but I
Speaker 4: see in all my photos that I take, Kaylen's teeth
Speaker 4: are perfect. So every time I smile next to her,
Speaker 4: it just amplifies my you know, wonky looking teeth.
Speaker 2: Take compared to man made teeth.
Speaker 3: My teeth are man made.
Speaker 2: What would you call mine compared to artificial teeth?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Well, what are we talking about today, Kayelin?
Speaker 2: We're talking about New Year's Let's talk about the holidays
Speaker 2: that's coming up. Do you do you have any plans?
Speaker 1: Dean Jared No, I don't like going out for New
Speaker 1: Year's because it's just a recipe for getting a U
Speaker 1: or there's cops on the road. Don't drink and drive. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but even if you have two drinks, you could blow
Speaker 1: one point five or whatever the limit is. What is
Speaker 1: the limit?
Speaker 3: Point eight?
Speaker 1: Dean?
Speaker 2: You should know this, don't You guys have Uber out there?
Speaker 1: No, it's Rhode Island. It's might as well be you know,
Speaker 1: some other place.
Speaker 3: I mean, we're not gonna have Uber in Colorado. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so we're right there with them.
Speaker 1: We talked about you have Uber in Colorado, not in Aspen.
Speaker 1: That's a fair point because.
Speaker 2: I think you guys got stuck going to the wedding, right,
Speaker 2: You guys had to rent a car or someone did,
Speaker 2: maybe Tanya.
Speaker 1: For your wedding.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because there.
Speaker 1: Were no ubers there. It was very difficult to get
Speaker 1: an Uber. So we ended up renting a car. Shout
Speaker 1: out to Turo, great app. But yeah, so we're not
Speaker 1: doing anything for New Year's. I very much enjoy watching
Speaker 1: New Year's Rocky and Eves. My ideal New Year's Eve
Speaker 1: is staying in having friends come over, like a couple
Speaker 1: of friends. We played board games, we play card games.
Speaker 1: They stay the night so no one's on the road,
Speaker 1: so we can drink and have fun and chill out,
Speaker 1: go to bed, watch New Year's Rock and Eve great times.
Speaker 1: And that's my ideal New Year's Eve. I'm not a
Speaker 1: big party guy. I mean, I guess it would be
Speaker 1: fun for once, you know, one time to dress up,
Speaker 1: you know, go to some sort of Gatsby party, drink champagne,
Speaker 1: you know, really really do it right, But that would
Speaker 1: be like a I only want to do that once
Speaker 1: in my life and that's it, and it's definitely not
Speaker 1: this year. You know, kids just throw wrenches into that.
Speaker 3: You've done that. You've probably done that in your twenties.
Speaker 1: Me, yes, No, Honestly my twenties, most of the time
Speaker 1: we would go over a friend's house. But when you
Speaker 1: lived in La for all those years, what did I know?
Speaker 1: I never, yo, did we do anything? Most of the
Speaker 1: time we were home for New Years first year off
Speaker 1: the bachelorette.
Speaker 4: You're telling me you didn't dress up nice in a
Speaker 4: nice suit and go out with some fancy hallowe Hollywood
Speaker 4: New Year's E party?
Speaker 2: Did you No?
Speaker 1: I went to a club. I went to a bar.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that counts.
Speaker 2: A bar could be fun. I'm not into the whole
Speaker 2: club thing, but my ideal New Year's is like a
Speaker 2: cozy cabin, playing games, staying in like what we did
Speaker 2: last year in Aspen. That was perfect.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we saw the fireworks at seven. I was asleep
Speaker 4: by ten. Yeah, don't drink a little too mass back
Speaker 4: up at one.
Speaker 2: But this year I think we are. I kind of
Speaker 2: want to just go to dinner, go have one last
Speaker 2: nice dinner in Vegas, dress up a little, just a little,
Speaker 2: nothing crazy, and then go home. Maybe watch the ball drop,
Speaker 2: maybe not. It would just be nice to end our
Speaker 2: Vegas residency on a high.
Speaker 3: A residency. Yeah that's true. Is that an ending on
Speaker 3: a high? Because that doesn't really sound very enjoyable to me?
Speaker 2: For me, ended on a high for me? Right, So
Speaker 2: that's that's what I want to do. Cassie beach House.
Speaker 1: Have you guys always kiss someone at at midnight? As there?
Speaker 3: Do you?
Speaker 1: Is there like a men, Marie of you either not
Speaker 1: kissing someone and it being an impactful moment for you
Speaker 1: or kissing someone and it being an impactful moment for you.
Speaker 2: I thought you were talking about us as a couple
Speaker 2: because I don't. I think one of us is always
Speaker 2: asleep when the ball drops, when it hits midnight, one
Speaker 2: of us. Yeah, but I don't think I have a memory,
Speaker 2: do you Guys? Let me think about it for a second.
Speaker 1: I've never like kissed a stranger, you know, to be like, oh,
Speaker 1: if it's midnight, we're sitting next to each other.
Speaker 3: Let's go.
Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely not a stranger.
Speaker 3: I think I've done that.
Speaker 2: It's like a rom com thing.
Speaker 3: I've done that in Colorado.
Speaker 2: I think that makes sense for you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're just looking around, all your friends are busy
Speaker 4: doing stuff. The ball is dropping. You go into panic mode.
Speaker 4: You see a person that isn't kissing someone. You say, hey,
Speaker 4: do you want to kiss real quick? And they're like yeah, sure,
Speaker 4: and then you just kiss and then you leave and
Speaker 4: never talk to them again. That's happened to me before.
Speaker 1: Interesting that has happened to you before?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Definitely? Was it?
Speaker 1: Like, you know, it's obviously weird now because your wife
Speaker 1: is sitting us to you. But was it like horrible?
Speaker 1: Was it a horrible kiss? No?
Speaker 4: I'm I mean everyone's drunk enough tour, nothing is really
Speaker 4: that bad at that point. But yeah, no, I mean
Speaker 4: I know for a fact. It happened once in Colorado
Speaker 4: when I was like probably twenty three or twenty four.
Speaker 3: I think that was probably the only time in Denver.
Speaker 4: Oh gosh, I had hated Denver because going out it
Speaker 4: was like pure chaos, and unless you had a good,
Speaker 4: solid friend group to go out with, it like wasn't
Speaker 4: very fun. So there's a couple of nights I went
Speaker 4: out in Denver with like one or two friends, and
Speaker 4: you know, if they bring a girl with them, especially
Speaker 4: for New Years, then you're kind of on your own
Speaker 4: to figure out to defend for yourself. And so there
Speaker 4: was one years where I was like, oh gosh, I've
Speaker 4: got nothing going on. No one's talking to me.
Speaker 3: My game is so bad, and then desperation sets in
Speaker 3: and you got to find someone to kiss. Thankfully I
Speaker 3: wasn't alone.
Speaker 2: I've never heard you talk about your game before.
Speaker 4: Well, it's because I don't have games. Well, I don't
Speaker 4: talk about it. I can't talk about something that doesn't exist.
Speaker 2: My game is so bad.
Speaker 1: It is.
Speaker 3: It is bad. It's very bad.
Speaker 2: Hey, life.
Speaker 4: Thankfully, I've been able to coast by on my looks
Speaker 4: for a while, but now that those are out the
Speaker 4: window as well. And well I'm married, so I don't
Speaker 4: need game, I guess, but but yeah, it's it's tough
Speaker 4: out there for you know, I'm conventionally mildly attractive person
Speaker 4: that can't spit any game.
Speaker 2: On see with some crooked, crooked butt teeth. You're crazy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So yeah, that's it.
Speaker 1: My goal in life. You guys talked about like some
Speaker 1: of your goals in terms of entertainment, wanted to be
Speaker 1: back on TV. My goal is I want to be
Speaker 1: a part of the New Year's Rocky and Eve celebration
Speaker 1: in New York. I want to be one of the
Speaker 1: correspondents that Seacrest sends it down to and is in
Speaker 1: the midst of the crowd and getting reactions to be like,
Speaker 1: we're only forty five minutes away from the ball dropping.
Speaker 1: I have Susie here from Illinois, was traveled all the way.
Speaker 1: She's never been to New York before. I want to
Speaker 1: be that guy.
Speaker 2: I feel like you can make that happen.
Speaker 1: So I have put out feelers this year. I put
Speaker 1: them out too late, though, because they said that everything
Speaker 1: was already scheduled and ready to go. So my goal
Speaker 1: for twenty twenty four one of my New Year's resolutions
Speaker 1: something we could talk about, because you know, twenty twenty
Speaker 1: four is right around the corner. My new Year's resolution
Speaker 1: is to be in some way a part of the
Speaker 1: New Year's Rocket Eve celebration in New York, not visiting it.
Speaker 1: It would be cool visit, but it seems actually I lied.
Speaker 1: It's so funny how I would never want to be
Speaker 1: a part of the crowd there if I was just
Speaker 1: going to watch, but I would love to be about
Speaker 1: a part of the crowd there if I was working it.
Speaker 1: So my new Year's resolution is I want to work
Speaker 1: the New Year's Rocket Eve next year in some capacity.
Speaker 2: That's a great goal.
Speaker 3: That's it.
Speaker 2: What's your goal?
Speaker 1: Tem I got a whole year?
Speaker 3: Yeah, what's your goal, Kaitlin? Your resolution?
Speaker 2: I pointed to you because I'm not sure and I
Speaker 2: need to think about it. So what's yours?
Speaker 3: You don't have a single resolution?
Speaker 2: Will you go first, and then I'll come up with mine.
Speaker 3: I don't really ever make New Year's solutions, Can you start?
Speaker 1: I knew he was gonna say that. God, you're so dean.
Speaker 4: I don't prescribe to the idea of everything. I don't
Speaker 4: need a New Year to convince me to start doing something.
Speaker 4: If I care enough about it, I'll just start doing it.
Speaker 2: That's frustrating.
Speaker 1: See symbolism of a new year, like I like the
Speaker 1: idea of like flipping the page. Okay, here we go
Speaker 1: a new year, January. First, let's get going. I know
Speaker 1: it's ridiculous, Dean. Your thought process is much more logical,
Speaker 1: much more sound, and something that I should prescribe to,
Speaker 1: like don't wait till the first of the year. Having
Speaker 1: said that, for some reason, maybe it's just human nature,
Speaker 1: there is something about the new year. Hey, let's let's
Speaker 1: get it going. It's going.
Speaker 4: It's a fresh star. It's like a good way to
Speaker 4: kind of kick yourself in the butt. I will say
Speaker 4: I probably will use this next year to get back
Speaker 4: in shape. I say that every year never happens. I
Speaker 4: even climbed a bunch of mountains this summer and I
Speaker 4: got kind of okay shape, but I wasn't happy with
Speaker 4: my muscle tone. So I'm gonna get some new I'm
Speaker 4: gonna get some muscle tone back. That's the plan.
Speaker 2: That's cool. I was thinking about, you know, maybe becoming
Speaker 2: a personal trainer one day, so I could become your
Speaker 2: personal trainer.
Speaker 4: No hard pass, hard pastor both of those things. Why
Speaker 4: I don't want you to be a personal trainer A
Speaker 4: and I don't want you to personally train.
Speaker 2: Why can I be a personal trainer?
Speaker 4: Well, I'm saying that you can't be one. I would
Speaker 4: just don't think it's a good career path for you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm really into working out these days and
Speaker 2: it's pretty fun. That's great, So I could turn it
Speaker 2: into a business. But I think, speaking of businesses, I
Speaker 2: think one of my goals there have been two businesses
Speaker 2: that I have been thinking about for a couple of
Speaker 2: years now, and I want to officially like start.
Speaker 3: Not some here on the podcast.
Speaker 2: No, I need to like get you know, all the
Speaker 2: copyright stuff.
Speaker 3: Well, Slava track, come on.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm really into jewelry, so I would love to
Speaker 2: eventually start my own jewelry line. Okay, and then do
Speaker 2: just do a brand with Dean, like kind of a camping,
Speaker 2: outdoorsy hiking brand with Dean.
Speaker 3: Whatever happened to your backpacks?
Speaker 2: That's what I was just talking about.
Speaker 3: Oh, whatever happened to them?
Speaker 2: We need to put some more work into it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we worked so hard on it for a second,
Speaker 3: and then nowhere.
Speaker 1: So those are my two goals.
Speaker 3: I am a.
Speaker 1: I'm a backpack whore. Oh great, I love backpacks. So
Speaker 1: if you guys designed a backpack, you let me know
Speaker 1: because I would love to get one and sample it
Speaker 1: and just talk about how much. Obviously I'll love it.
Speaker 2: Oh amazing, it's designed. We just have to I mean, like,
Speaker 2: you know, I've got the whole render, but we need
Speaker 2: to actually make it, put it into production, so you'll
Speaker 2: be the first one to get one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, is it like not giving away too many details?
Speaker 1: Is it a backpack that's more for function like Dean like,
Speaker 1: you're going hiking with this backpack? Or am I you know?
Speaker 1: Is this more of a fashion overfunction?
Speaker 3: Yeah, Caitlyn, what is it?
Speaker 2: It's versatile. It's not necessarily like you're not going to
Speaker 2: go backpacking like his crazy big backpack, but you can
Speaker 2: hike or you can travel. You know, there's there's a
Speaker 2: lot of functions to it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like it. It's nice.
Speaker 2: We'll see if this backpack ever comes to life.
Speaker 3: It's been about three years in the making now. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's probably not going anywhere.
Speaker 2: But you know, we always have things going on. We
Speaker 2: have the wedding, we have the honeymoon. We're now just
Speaker 2: bought a house, so it's like, now that we're in
Speaker 2: our permanent home, going to be in a couple of weeks,
Speaker 2: I feel like we can focus on on that.
Speaker 4: Maybe yeah, on the backpacks, m h, yeah, I just
Speaker 4: don't really. The thing with those things is I don't
Speaker 4: really have anything to contribute to the whole process, and
Speaker 4: so I don't really I don't feel connection to those
Speaker 4: types of things.
Speaker 2: That's fair. I want to go back to why you
Speaker 2: think I shouldn't be a personal trainer.
Speaker 4: Weird hours, inconsistent work, interesting in client base, unpredictable.
Speaker 2: Seems like the place for it, like gonna need personal
Speaker 2: trainers and AskMen you like have.
Speaker 3: To make it your whole persona to.
Speaker 2: Because yeah, that's what I don't want to do. Okay,
Speaker 2: I'll pivot.
Speaker 4: So yeah, that's why I don't want you to become
Speaker 4: a personal trainer. The dive into the persona is what
Speaker 4: I don't like. Not that it's a bad thing. Personal
Speaker 4: trainers are great. I know a few, but.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not ready for it to become my whole personality.
Speaker 2: I'll just work out by myself.
Speaker 3: I guess.
Speaker 1: I was watching Chris's vacation and it's so nice having
Speaker 1: the snow on the ground and getting ready for the holidays,
Speaker 1: and it's like we're just I feel like everything is
Speaker 1: pushed back. The seasons are changing. Whenever you think about
Speaker 1: climate change, something's happening because it's it's changed. December is
Speaker 1: much warmer, and then it starts getting like we're not
Speaker 1: going to get snow till late January or forebody feels
Speaker 1: like and it's very sad. There's no such thing as
Speaker 1: a Whitechristmas around here anymore. It's depressing. Uh and uh,
Speaker 1: you know, spring and Summer's a whole nother conversation I
Speaker 1: can get into, but as of right now, like, I
Speaker 1: just want to white Christmas, guys. I want it to
Speaker 1: be like cold, and I want to walk outside there's
Speaker 1: snow flurries and I got my pea coat on and
Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm just like in a Hallmark Christmas movie?
Speaker 1: Is that too much to ask for? This is why
Speaker 1: I live a Wood Island.
Speaker 3: That's why.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you think I live with my friends and family,
Speaker 1: I don't give a shit about them. I just want
Speaker 1: cold weather for Christmas.
Speaker 4: Okay, I think we're supposed to get four inches in
Speaker 4: Bozeman on Sunday, which would be Christmas Day. Yeah, so
Speaker 4: we'll see. We'll see if gus Christmas Eve, that's right.
Speaker 4: But yeah, I just excited to watch some football, eat
Speaker 4: some food. My brother's birthdays are coming up, so we're
Speaker 4: gonna get to celebrate with them, even though when my
Speaker 4: my one brother's being a real punk about bringing our
Speaker 4: dog with us to his house for Christmas.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Dean has to drive the van out to Bozeman.
Speaker 2: He's going to sleep in the van with Alistair because
Speaker 2: Alister's band from the house.
Speaker 1: Why is Alistair banned from the house Because he's.
Speaker 3: A little crapper.
Speaker 2: He bites but he doesn't have teeth.
Speaker 4: Yeah, they've got they've got a young kid, and they're
Speaker 4: worried about traumatizing the kid, which I guess I understand.
Speaker 3: I'm not going to argue.
Speaker 4: I mean, I am going to argue against it, obviously,
Speaker 4: but only to a certain degree because I do see
Speaker 4: where he's coming from. But yes, I'm driving the van
Speaker 4: de Boseman so that way Alistair can have a little
Speaker 4: mobile home on wheels and he doesn't have to go
Speaker 4: into the house.
Speaker 3: But because I don't want to board board the dog.
Speaker 3: He's so old.
Speaker 4: Calen thinks he has dementia, which I think it might
Speaker 4: be like setting on And I don't know how many
Speaker 4: more Christmas Christmases we're going to have with him, so
Speaker 4: I want to make sure that we, you know, enjoy
Speaker 4: the time that we have.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's pretty sad. He's an old guy. He's we
Speaker 2: don't know how many years he's got left. It's going downhill.
Speaker 1: I also think, like from personal experience with Alistair him
Speaker 1: when he was at the wedding and he was just
Speaker 1: throwing around, you know, biting people, and I would just
Speaker 1: let him bite my fingers. It's very nice feeling. It's
Speaker 1: just gums against your fingers. Like I actually quite enjoyed
Speaker 1: that feeling. I don't think you would tumatize their kids.
Speaker 1: I mean, the only thing would be like the actual snapping,
Speaker 1: the visual of it. But he's not inflicting any pain
Speaker 1: on anybody, right. You and TJ were really the only
Speaker 1: two guests at the wedding that I kind of like
Speaker 1: leaned into it. Everyone else got a little too scared,
Speaker 1: but you and TJ were like, bite me, I don't
Speaker 1: care which I get.
Speaker 3: Oh, come on, teeth it's like a little hand massage.
Speaker 3: It's like a people probably pay good money for that
Speaker 3: kind of stuff.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's our Christmas plan. Dane's going to sleep
Speaker 2: in the van on Christmas. I'm going to sleep in
Speaker 2: the warmhouse.
Speaker 3: Yeah. How do you feel about that?
Speaker 2: Oh, it's not what I would prefer. I'm a little annoyed.
Speaker 2: I do get where they're coming from. And if we
Speaker 2: had a baby and we just moved into a new
Speaker 2: house and one of the their dogs was problematic, I
Speaker 2: would say just bored them. But if it were up
Speaker 2: to me, we would board out. But it's it's too late.
Speaker 2: And I get where Dean's coming from.
Speaker 4: It's like, also, you you kind of like you kind
Speaker 4: of take these responsibilities on when you adopt a senior.
Speaker 4: You know it's not gonna be perfect. You kind of
Speaker 4: have to like take the punches.
Speaker 2: And I get that people, you know, people don't love
Speaker 2: his attitude and it's not the best. And we've tried
Speaker 2: with trainers, you know, we've gone through many trainers, but
Speaker 2: we can't give up on him. Like the other option
Speaker 2: is to send him back to a shelter and then
Speaker 2: they'll put him down.
Speaker 4: So yeah, so the van it is, yeah, and it's
Speaker 4: just it's just a little it's a little inconvenient for
Speaker 4: me because it's twelve hours from here to Bozeman and
Speaker 4: then twelve hours from Bozeman to Carbondale, or it's just
Speaker 4: seven hours from here to Carbondale. So just it's a
Speaker 4: bit not it doesn't put a wrench in anything, but
Speaker 4: it does. It does complicate the situation a little bit,
Speaker 4: and hopefully the van makes it. You know, I haven't
Speaker 4: really driven the van all that much lately. I've done
Speaker 4: some work on it recently to get it ready for
Speaker 4: this road trip. But you never know when you might
Speaker 4: have a breakdown. So if it breaks down, I'm just
Speaker 4: gonna be spinning Christmas by myself on the side of
Speaker 4: the road somewhere in Utah.
Speaker 2: Probably I'll come join you.
Speaker 3: You would, Yeah, No, you wouldn't.
Speaker 1: I would.
Speaker 4: I don't think it'd be possible to, Like, how would
Speaker 4: you get out there, flying into an airport, rent the
Speaker 4: car and just come driving. I guess, yeah, it's true,
Speaker 4: But yeah, that's our plan. Pretty pretty lame and boring Christmas.
Speaker 4: Now that we're married and have an old dog.
Speaker 2: So well, it's not lame, it's it's just a little inconvenient,
Speaker 2: but it'll still be fun.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, it's not like we're doing anything crazy
Speaker 3: exciting for Christmas.
Speaker 2: I don't think we ever really do well.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, because we're married.
Speaker 2: Even before we were married, does anyone have like a
Speaker 2: crazy Christmas?
Speaker 4: I've had some crazy Christmases. I went to Australia one year.
Speaker 4: I broke my leg in Switzerland one year. That was
Speaker 4: Christmas day before Christmas, two days day before Chrismas.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Nice, yeah, but no more of that. You know.
Speaker 1: We also have a lot of single people that probably
Speaker 1: listen to this podcast. Ah, And it's said and widely
Speaker 1: accepted that the holidays are the worst time of year
Speaker 1: to be single.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I don't know what's your argument against that idea.
Speaker 1: Well, when you're with someone, U there's a lot of
Speaker 1: compromise in terms of family time, where you're going to be,
Speaker 1: whose house you're going to be at, if you have
Speaker 1: to go to multiple families on the day. I mean,
Speaker 1: there's so many people that I know that don't even
Speaker 1: go to their family's house anymore because they're like, I
Speaker 1: just we just want to stay home. We just want
Speaker 1: to chill out. We want to stay in our like
Speaker 1: relax on Christmas because they've done the family Christmases because
Speaker 1: they've been in relationships and they're just you know, they
Speaker 1: have to go to this person's house and then that
Speaker 1: person's house, and then they eat a little bit there,
Speaker 1: and then they eat a little bit there, and then
Speaker 1: they go to dessert, and it's like by the time
Speaker 1: the day's over, it's like, well that that was just chaos.
Speaker 1: That wasn't even fun. So my point being is if
Speaker 1: you're single, hopefully at some point in your life you
Speaker 1: won't be single and you'll have a significant other that
Speaker 1: you can spend the holidays with. But as of right now,
Speaker 1: enjoy this time because guess what Christmas morning comes, you
Speaker 1: can do whatever the hell you want. Christmas Eve, you
Speaker 1: can do whatever you You can go to this person's
Speaker 1: house if you want. You don't have to go to
Speaker 1: this person's house. Because ideally, like when you're with the holidays,
Speaker 1: you know, it's like if you're not in a relationship,
Speaker 1: it's just like it's not as not that you're not wanted,
Speaker 1: but it's like, you know, oh, cousin Caroline didn't come
Speaker 1: over today, that's all right, we'll move on. But if
Speaker 1: you've got kids or magnificant other people want to meet them.
Speaker 1: People want to hang out. So like my point being,
Speaker 1: just enjoy your time. Enjoy this time in your life
Speaker 1: right now where it's calm, and you can look forward
Speaker 1: to New Year's Eve because then you can go out
Speaker 1: and you can kiss a stranger if you want, because
Speaker 1: there's no there's nothing holding your back.
Speaker 2: Yeah. For me, it's food reminds me a lot of
Speaker 2: the holidays, like the things that we grew up eating.
Speaker 2: So does Ashley's family eat similar things to what you
Speaker 2: did for Christmas? Even Christmas?
Speaker 1: I forced them to, Oh that's smart.
Speaker 2: I don't know that.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So they're never turkey stuffing mashed potato people. They just
Speaker 1: are not that family. And then I said, listen, because
Speaker 1: we go there for Thanksgiving. If we go over for Thanksgiving,
Speaker 1: I want to have a Thanksgiving at the house and
Speaker 1: I'll cook the turkey. I don't care. I'll do whatever
Speaker 1: needs it needs to be done in order to have
Speaker 1: this happen. Because they were the type of people that
Speaker 1: would go out to dinner and not even get a
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dinner. It was like they were going to like
Speaker 1: capital grill for Thanksgiving, and I was like, I'm not going.
Speaker 1: I'm not getting a steak on the last Thursday of
Speaker 1: every novempin Like this is not happening. So I really
Speaker 1: made sure that we like stayed at home watch football.
Speaker 1: Like even I get a little I don't get dressed up,
Speaker 1: but I'll put a nice like we're not leaving the house,
Speaker 1: but I'll put a nice sweater on, some jeans on,
Speaker 1: you know, make myself look presentable.
Speaker 3: I like it.
Speaker 1: I like the whole thing. So and that includes Christmas
Speaker 1: as well. We just haven't spent a Christmas to Virginia,
Speaker 1: so Christmas is here in Rhode Island are very similar
Speaker 1: to the food, like I, you know, my mom still
Speaker 1: makes you know, mashed potato, knows my dad still makes
Speaker 1: the stovetop stuffing. So very nostalgic towards that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm used to like a potluck we had like
Speaker 2: a very suburban neighborhood where all neighbors would get together
Speaker 2: on Christmas Eve and everyone would bring different dishes, and
Speaker 2: then on Christmas we'd usually have like similar to Thanksgiving,
Speaker 2: like a big kind of Thanksgiving e meal, maybe ham
Speaker 2: instead of turkey, I don't know. But and then you
Speaker 2: come into other people you know, you're in law's family
Speaker 2: and they're in laws you like, it's it's kind of
Speaker 2: so Dean's brother's wife has different traditions than Dean and
Speaker 2: his family than me and my family, So it's kind
Speaker 2: of like mixing all the different foods together, and it's
Speaker 2: something I'm not used to. Ashually typically eats spaghetti on Christmas,
Speaker 2: which isn't something I'm particularly used to.
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, let's be honest, everyone that had a semi
Speaker 4: decent and upbringing is going to always miss the Christmas
Speaker 4: and the Thanksgiving dinners that they had at their family
Speaker 4: when they were kids, just from a pure nostalgia thing.
Speaker 4: Like even if my mom made the turkey and bad
Speaker 4: mashed potatoes and crappy stuffing every Thanksgiving, that's what I
Speaker 4: would still want to have every Thanksgiving is the same
Speaker 4: style of food because it's just what I grew up eating.
Speaker 4: I was happy and comfortable with. So I think any
Speaker 4: time that you, you know, differ from whatever you're used to,
Speaker 4: it gets a little because I agree, like even when
Speaker 4: we go over to your grandparents' house, their food is
Speaker 4: so good. They're such good cooks and they make such
Speaker 4: interesting cuisines, but because it's not what I've i ate
Speaker 4: for so long as a kid, it just doesn't ever
Speaker 4: feel fully like the same holiday. It's a great holiday,
Speaker 4: and I still have so much fun, and I still
Speaker 4: enjoy every second of it, but it doesn't feel exactly
Speaker 4: the same.
Speaker 2: You know, they make traditional Thanksgiving food.
Speaker 3: What are you used to not salmon? Oh?
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, that was weird, But that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: Even the traditional food that they make, it is traditional
Speaker 4: Thanksgiving food, but it's not cooked in the same style
Speaker 4: that I'm used to eating it as a kid. And again,
Speaker 4: not to say one's better or worse, but simply just
Speaker 4: because I'm used to eating it a certain way for
Speaker 4: so long as a kid, that's kind of what I've
Speaker 4: grown accustomed to and gotten used to, you know, not
Speaker 4: saying one's better or worse than the other.
Speaker 3: It could be very clear.
Speaker 2: It just I mean, even similar foods to me make
Speaker 2: it feel more like the holidays. Like I'm not used
Speaker 2: to having Chinese food on Christmas Eve or pasta on Christmas.
Speaker 3: Day, Jared, do you do that right? Chinese food on
Speaker 3: Christmas Eve?
Speaker 1: A variation of it really depends, but most likely it's
Speaker 1: New Year's Eve, but either an eve, a New Year's Eve,
Speaker 1: Christmas Eve. We're getting Chinese food at some point.
Speaker 3: Who gets Chinese food on New Year's Eve? That's crazy unless.
Speaker 2: You're like in a cabin just hanging out. What do
Speaker 2: you mean New Year's Eve. Yeah, if you're in a
Speaker 2: cabin hanging out, like.
Speaker 4: I just said, I don't understand. That's when you get
Speaker 4: Chinese food, you get Chinese yo.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're staying in yeah, playing games.
Speaker 3: I guess I get that. I just you're going to do.
Speaker 3: I didn't think that there was a New Year's Eve
Speaker 3: food tradition that people have.
Speaker 1: All I know is that The Islander, which is a
Speaker 1: very popular Chinese restaurant near my house, grew up on
Speaker 1: every New Year's Eve. Bonker's in there. It's off the chain,
Speaker 1: Like you're waiting an hour and a half for your food,
Speaker 1: so we always call ahead, make sure we give them
Speaker 1: plenty of time. Oh yeah, it's a whole kit and
Speaker 1: kaboodle that I enjoy a lot. This is a I'm
Speaker 1: not sure if this is a dumb question or not
Speaker 1: if I should know what this is, But all my life,
Speaker 1: I've never known what it is. I've never asked what
Speaker 1: it is, and I always hear the phrase, what is
Speaker 1: a potluck?
Speaker 4: Isn't that just a Kitlin probably knows it seems like
Speaker 4: kind of more of an Eastern Southern thing maybe, but.
Speaker 2: A potluck is just you know, everyone brings a different dish,
Speaker 2: so like you're I'm coming, I'm bringing soup. Dean comes,
Speaker 2: he brings mashed potatoes, and everyone's just and then you've
Speaker 2: got an incredible meal.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a Ray style, Like everyone brings their own
Speaker 4: dish byof.
Speaker 2: Yeah, byof bring your own food.
Speaker 1: So there's no uh direction, there's nobody saying you bring this,
Speaker 1: you bring that. Like everybody they're on their own. They
Speaker 1: cook whatever the hell they want to cook.
Speaker 2: Typically, you have good communication and you guys discuss what
Speaker 2: you're bringing, Like I've got desserts covered and I've got
Speaker 2: appetizers covered.
Speaker 4: Right, you can't have twenty people bring brownies. Oh that's
Speaker 4: a lot of brownies.
Speaker 2: Yes, there's a lot of communication involved.
Speaker 3: What made you think of pot luck, by the way,
Speaker 3: because I said it, Oh you said potluck?
Speaker 2: Pot luck on Christmas Eve.
Speaker 1: I've heard of potluck before. Easton is saying, you've never
Speaker 1: heard that before. I have heard potluck before, he's saying.
Speaker 4: He's not just saying you never heard that before. He's
Speaker 4: saying in all caps. Ha, he's laughing in your face
Speaker 4: about having never heard of a potluck before. That's okay, Ah,
Speaker 4: what a jerk? Where what are my thoughts? Oh, it's
Speaker 4: it's I have heard it before.
Speaker 1: It's just that I've never inquired about what it means
Speaker 1: because I'm like a potluck And then I get it
Speaker 1: makes sense now that you explain it. That's kind of
Speaker 1: where I would assumed it was. But I've never just
Speaker 1: like been a part of a pot luck. I don't
Speaker 1: know why it's called potluck. It used to mean food
Speaker 1: provided for an unexpected guest, for the luck of the pot.
Speaker 3: That's where the name there.
Speaker 2: We go for the luck of the pot.
Speaker 4: We learned something new every time we hear from you,
Speaker 4: we too. He's the voice of information. I guess, yeah,
Speaker 4: so that's that's that's what we're doing for Christmas.
Speaker 2: So you guys have never cooked for a potluck, then
Speaker 2: I'm guessing.
Speaker 3: I've never cooked for myself.
Speaker 2: True. Our friend Alicia was just talking on her podcast
Speaker 2: and she was like, there's nothing more embarrassing than going
Speaker 2: to a potluck and at the end of the night,
Speaker 2: you're like, where's my dish? Let me go, hope everyone
Speaker 2: enjoyed it and nobody has touched your dish. It's mortifying.
Speaker 3: Alicia was saying that she.
Speaker 2: Like posted it on her Instagram. Oh, I see yeah,
Speaker 2: and it really truly is. I've had that happen before
Speaker 2: and you're like, hmm, be cooked. Yeah, but you guys
Speaker 2: haven't partaken, so you wouldn't know the shame involved.
Speaker 4: Sure, but maybe sometimes people just thought like that specific
Speaker 4: dish and it's less about how you prepared it and
Speaker 4: more about just what you made could be you know.
Speaker 3: That's what I would tell myself anyways to make myself
Speaker 3: feel better.
Speaker 2: Especially with desserts, because desserts are so personal and there's
Speaker 2: always so many desserts, so if yours doesn't get touched,
Speaker 2: it's like, it's fine.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: We went to that cookie party last weekend in LA
Speaker 4: and pot luck for cookies. More or less everyone brought
Speaker 4: a batch of cookies. There's you know, twenty different styles
Speaker 4: of cookies. Similar thing there was, you know, one or
Speaker 4: two of the batches were consumed pretty quickly and then
Speaker 4: by the end of the night. There was like some
Speaker 4: people's cookies hadn't even been touched, and then I feel
Speaker 4: really bad for them, so I like to eat them.
Speaker 4: They eat a couple of them, throw a couple in
Speaker 4: the trash can so it looks like they've been eating.
Speaker 2: That's also something that was a tradition growing up. My
Speaker 2: mom would always have cookie parties, and these are things
Speaker 2: that I want to do when I have more adult
Speaker 2: friends in Asmen hopefully, and all of our friends would
Speaker 2: come over and they'd like play games. And this was
Speaker 2: when Chick fil at sauce was really big, and before
Speaker 2: they actually bottled it and selled it sold it, you
Speaker 2: could like dispense it from a machine, so people would
Speaker 2: like all be gunning for the Chick fil a sauce
Speaker 2: and it was just a really fun time. So I'm
Speaker 2: excited to grow up a bit and have more adult friends.
Speaker 3: Do you think we're going to be good at making
Speaker 3: friends in the Aspen?
Speaker 2: I think so because I've put myself out there more
Speaker 2: in Vegas and I've made a handful of friends recently
Speaker 2: at workout classes, and I think I'll be immediately doing
Speaker 2: that in Aspen versus waiting two years.
Speaker 3: That's good I'm pumped.
Speaker 2: I'm going to make a lot of friends, and then
Speaker 2: we can have also one of my girlfriends toy she
Speaker 2: grew up having her parents would have progressive dinner parties,
Speaker 2: which I'm really interested in this, So like their whole neighborhood.
Speaker 2: They would start drinks at this person's house, move have
Speaker 2: appetizers at the next person's house, and then they'd have
Speaker 2: sitters for all the kids, and then they keep moving
Speaker 2: around to different meals, which would be really fun. That's
Speaker 2: what I want. I want like a more neighborhoody feel
Speaker 2: like right now, know, we have neighbors and they're friendly,
Speaker 2: but nobody's really friends.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because every time they have the community party, we're
Speaker 4: out of town. That's very true, and they all have kids.
Speaker 4: And also we're not going to get that in Colorado
Speaker 4: because we don't really have many neighbors.
Speaker 2: Yeah right, maybe maybe more houses will be developed.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I think that's kind of the appeal of
Speaker 4: living up there is you don't really have anyone close
Speaker 4: to you, super close to you, at least actually Jared
Speaker 4: funny story. So I email their hoa president you should.
Speaker 4: I'm not going to share all of it, but I
Speaker 4: email their Hoa President and I was like, hey, just
Speaker 4: introducing myself for moving out there in January, blah blah blah.
Speaker 4: And he goes, oh, happy to have you moving in.
Speaker 4: By the way, are you Brad Unclert's brother? And I
Speaker 4: was like I am, and he goes, oh, it's just
Speaker 4: like the fact that the eighth the president were Hoa
Speaker 4: who I've never heard of, happens to know my brother.
Speaker 4: It's just such a small world.
Speaker 2: No, I mean Aspen Salt Carbon Eail is so small.
Speaker 2: It's crazy because everyone knows Dean. Like, no matter where
Speaker 2: we go, everyone's like, oh, Dean Ungling.
Speaker 3: Which isn't a good thing.
Speaker 4: By the way, you're going to see pretty fast that
Speaker 4: that's going to be quite an obstacle for us to Well,
Speaker 4: that's why.
Speaker 2: We changed our last names. Nobody knows the Bells.
Speaker 3: Yet, right, nobody knows the Bells yet.
Speaker 4: But whenever you say who your father in law is,
Speaker 4: they're going to be like, oh, God, to keep away
Speaker 4: from this girl.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 3: So it should be a good should be a good
Speaker 3: experience for us.
Speaker 1: I think, why are you, uh, why does everybody know
Speaker 1: who you are just because of the show?
Speaker 4: No, well maybe, but small town. I was in trouble
Speaker 4: with the cops a lot as a kid out there.
Speaker 4: My brothers also like similar situation.
Speaker 2: They you know, nobody is saying about okay, so we're
Speaker 2: running into people left and right when we're an Aspen
Speaker 2: and everyone just knows of you guys as like nobody's
Speaker 2: ever said a bad thing, Like oh everyone, you guys
Speaker 2: are very kind people and very friendly people.
Speaker 4: I'm not going to say it to our faces, but
Speaker 4: like popular people, we're always like, don't hang around those kids. Well,
Speaker 4: I guess Brad was like kind of a big he
Speaker 4: was a big person personality in town, and he lived there.
Speaker 4: He lived there for like seven years after college, so
Speaker 4: he made a name for himself. I guess he was
Speaker 4: like a contributor to the Aspen Times. He was active
Speaker 4: in the community. Maybe he was just a really popular guy,
Speaker 4: and so I'm always kind of living in his shadow
Speaker 4: a little bit.
Speaker 3: But hopefully once we get out there we can make
Speaker 3: names for ourselves.
Speaker 2: And I don't know a lot about Asmen, but it
Speaker 2: feels like it's pretty pretty small and it's mostly just
Speaker 2: people traveling in to ski or hike or whatever.
Speaker 3: Right, you see, Justin Bieber was just there with Oh, Haley,
Speaker 3: what's your name?
Speaker 2: Bieber?
Speaker 3: Haley Bieber. Of course they were just there.
Speaker 2: That's pretty cool. Yeah, you should hit him up next.
Speaker 2: He was there last time. We were there too with
Speaker 2: Kendall last year. But yeah, it seems like it's just
Speaker 2: very small and most people are just coming and going
Speaker 2: intourss So it feels like a fun little community to
Speaker 2: be a part of.
Speaker 4: Right, and then when X games comes around, you can
Speaker 4: get up on the tables and say.
Speaker 1: We grew here, you flew here, We grew here, you
Speaker 1: flew here.
Speaker 3: That's what we used to yell at tourists.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that sounds like a high school thing.
Speaker 4: Pretty embarrassing, and but hey, it's not wrong. They're they're
Speaker 4: stepping on it all right. Before we wrap up. Before
Speaker 4: we wrap up this podcast, we've had about forty minutes now.
Speaker 4: Any last New Year resolutions I'm in mind was to
Speaker 4: be a part of New Year's Rocket Eve. Also my
Speaker 4: second one, number two in no particular order, and I'm
Speaker 4: putting family stuff aside. This is more of just like
Speaker 4: you know, resolutions for work purposes. I would love in
Speaker 4: the year of twenty twenty four.
Speaker 1: I think I made this as a New Year's resolution
Speaker 1: this year, so I'm pushing it back, is to write
Speaker 1: and direct my own short film. So I plan on
Speaker 1: doing that, and I am putting it out in the
Speaker 1: universe to hold myself accountable because I really really think
Speaker 1: that i'd be able to do it. I think I'd
Speaker 1: be able to do it well, and.
Speaker 4: I want to do it more importantly, if you need
Speaker 4: a like an extra, I'll be an extra in that,
Speaker 4: like the fifth the fifth person on the call sheet.
Speaker 1: You'll be my AD so, which is the assistant to
Speaker 1: the director. So you'll just get me a coffee and stuff.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, I want to be in the film,
Speaker 4: but I don't want to have any speaking lines. Maybe
Speaker 4: like one word like watch out and then like that's
Speaker 4: my only life and then I get shot in the
Speaker 4: head or something. You know, Oh that could be nice,
Speaker 4: just a simple, like hard thing for me to mess up.
Speaker 4: But you know, by no means do you feel should
Speaker 4: you feel obligated to do this. I'm just I'm just
Speaker 4: simply trying to, you know, put it out into the universe,
Speaker 4: hold myself accountable, as some would say, and see if
Speaker 4: I can make something happen.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like if I was to make a Spider Man movie.
Speaker 1: You be the guy in the crowd to be like,
Speaker 1: look Spider Man, and then that would be it exactly.
Speaker 4: And then when you become a huge director, it could
Speaker 4: be like the stan Lee thing where instead of putting
Speaker 4: yourself in small roles, I'm always in a small role.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, so that'd be slily strick.
Speaker 3: Just keep it in mind. Just keep it in mind.
Speaker 3: That's great.
Speaker 4: Do you have a script ready or are you just
Speaker 4: going to kind of do it all from starting now.
Speaker 4: I'm writing a script right now.
Speaker 1: My idea is I would love to do a short
Speaker 1: horror film feels like the most obtainable and cost friendly
Speaker 1: and also just production wise, i'd be able to you know,
Speaker 1: I want to keep it as grounded as possible so
Speaker 1: I can just shoot everything in camera. But I do
Speaker 1: have a concept of a horror movie that I like,
Speaker 1: and it's kind of like a home invasion film. So
Speaker 1: that's kind of what my mind goes towards right now.
Speaker 4: So what are your other news resolutions besides becoming a
Speaker 4: personal trainer and starting a backpack line.
Speaker 2: I'm not going to become a personal trainer. I just
Speaker 2: really like working out. I thought I could maybe profit
Speaker 2: from it in some way.
Speaker 1: I think you can.
Speaker 3: I'm sure you could. That would involve wee.
Speaker 2: I could create my own workouts and like do an
Speaker 2: app or something. Not that there's you know, so many
Speaker 2: of those out there already. But another goal is just
Speaker 2: this is silly, but to make Aspen feel like home
Speaker 2: and find good friends out there, because right now my
Speaker 2: friends are mostly in LA so it would be nice
Speaker 2: to have a good group out there.
Speaker 1: Well, I wonder if there's some way to create something
Speaker 1: where you can have events like Kaylen, you would be
Speaker 1: able to create friends or like make friends by creating
Speaker 1: events that are centered around working out, so you meet
Speaker 1: new people, you're still going down the path of a
Speaker 1: healthy lifestyle. It kind of like combines both. I don't know,
Speaker 1: that's interesting. I feel like there's something there isn't that
Speaker 1: just like a workout class.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my friend does something like that in New York.
Speaker 2: He names Live and she brings I think it's called
Speaker 2: hot and Social. So she like brings all these young
Speaker 2: people together. They do workout classes. They like, she's done
Speaker 2: camp social where they all go to camp, And especially
Speaker 2: in New York, it's like such a hard place to
Speaker 2: meet people, so that could be fun.
Speaker 1: In Aspen, you got to be young and hot though
Speaker 1: for it that's just her name for it.
Speaker 2: Hot. In Social Animal, you don't have to be young
Speaker 2: or hot.
Speaker 1: If if you're in New York and you're part of
Speaker 1: that app, you probably have to be hot and young.
Speaker 3: But yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I like the idea. It's I just really
Speaker 2: need to work on putting myself out there, and I'm
Speaker 2: interested to see how you will do. If you'll like
Speaker 2: just fall onto your high school friends and their friends,
Speaker 2: or if you'll put yourself out there and meet new people.
Speaker 3: M it's gonna be tricky for me.
Speaker 4: I've I've kind of been stressed about it a little
Speaker 4: bit about how I'm going to do this.
Speaker 2: So we'll see, are you going to insert yourself back
Speaker 2: into this life?
Speaker 4: Like you know, my brother's got a lot of friends
Speaker 4: that still live out there, and they're really great people,
Speaker 4: but I'm not really going to be friends with them,
Speaker 4: you know, at least, like I'll like ski with them sometimes,
Speaker 4: but I'm not gonna be like best friends with them
Speaker 4: and go hang out with them or anything like that.
Speaker 3: For the most part.
Speaker 2: Well, the cool thing about being an adult is you
Speaker 2: get to decide who friends are.
Speaker 3: That's a really good point. Yeah, that's a good point.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know at this point in my life, Like,
Speaker 4: I don't need more friends, and so if you're going
Speaker 4: to be my friend, you really got to blow my
Speaker 4: socks off.
Speaker 2: We need friends locally.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm pretty introverted and reclusive as it is,
Speaker 4: Like I could I could never see anyone else for
Speaker 4: the rest of my life and still be fine. You know,
Speaker 4: sure you don't believe me, No, you don't agree.
Speaker 2: You were just telling me that the way the best
Speaker 2: way to fight depression is to have male friendships.
Speaker 4: Well I'm not saying the best way. I've said that
Speaker 4: on the podcast many times that it's scientifically proven that
Speaker 4: the more male friendships you have in your life, the
Speaker 4: less you are likely to be rest Yeah, so don't
Speaker 4: twist my words.
Speaker 3: And that's something that I didn't actually say.
Speaker 4: I'm saying me personally, I could probably skate by for
Speaker 4: the rest of my life without having many friends, Like
Speaker 4: I don't need a lot of friends, but I would
Speaker 4: like them, Like sure, why not.
Speaker 3: So we'll see how it all unfolds. I'm curious to
Speaker 3: see how it happens.
Speaker 1: Yeah, is this the final episode twenty twenty three. I
Speaker 1: believe so this is Oh my god, we're.
Speaker 4: About to move into our eighth year of existence, right.
Speaker 4: Twenty sixteen is probably when we.
Speaker 1: Said that's the stupidest thing I've ever heard of my
Speaker 1: entire life. Yeah, go us so podcast is murder around
Speaker 1: for eight years.
Speaker 3: Go you guys.
Speaker 4: If you've been listening to this podcast in September twenty sixteen,
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Speaker 4: what the heck are what the heck.
Speaker 1: Are you doing our listeners Australia, Now, good on your mate.
Speaker 3: No, No, you're right, you're right.
Speaker 4: I don't know if that's actually true or not if
Speaker 4: it's been eight years, but I do think September twenty
Speaker 4: sixteen is when this podcast started, so we would be
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