WEBVTT - Resolution Revolution 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:02.880 Hell We Suck At Being Newlyweds. 0:00:02.320 --> 0:00:06.880 With Dean Aungler, Haylen, Mikey and Jared Haven, an iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.640 --> 0:00:09.840 What is going on? Everybody? 0:00:09.880 --> 0:00:12.559 Welcome to an all new episode of Help We Suck 0:00:12.680 --> 0:00:16.960 At Being Newlyweds. I'm Dean Bell, joined here by Kaylin Bell, 0:00:17.120 --> 0:00:22.759 with Jared Haven tuning in from his wife's glen room 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:23.560 in Rhode Island. 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:27.520 Yeah, that's exactly where I am, dude. Sorry, Okay, First 0:00:27.520 --> 0:00:31.360 of all, I just left the dentist, so, like you 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:35.680 guys can probably tell, they like half my face. It 0:00:35.680 --> 0:00:39.800 feels paralyzed right now, I'm getting a crown and listen, 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:42.800 my dentist is great, but I've been to the dentist. 0:00:42.920 --> 0:00:44.840 I think this is the fifth time now. I went 0:00:45.240 --> 0:00:49.400 for my checkout and then I had I had a 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:53.199 cavity and I needed a root canal. So then I 0:00:53.240 --> 0:00:55.120 went back got the root canal, but then they couldn't 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:58.160 finish the root canal in time. It took like two 0:00:58.160 --> 0:01:00.000 hours and they said listen, so sorry, we're not done. 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:02.360 To get a come back next week. So I went 0:01:02.400 --> 0:01:05.800 back next week, spend another two hours there, finished off 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:08.200 the root canal, then went back to the dentist's office, 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:10.520 like two weeks later. They needed to fill the cavity, 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:12.760 so that took a couple hours. And then I went 0:01:12.840 --> 0:01:17.959 back this morning because they needed to shave down the 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:20.399 tooth to get the crown in there. And now I 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:22.200 go back in a couple hours to actually get the crown. 0:01:22.240 --> 0:01:26.480 So I've been to the dentists lot here. It sucks, Jared. 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:28.000 Why do you have to do all that stuff? Why 0:01:28.000 --> 0:01:29.480 do you have to go to the dentist? Why do 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:31.680 you have to do you have to forget your dental 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:35.480 hygiene anyway, so everybody go you just don't get cavities 0:01:35.520 --> 0:01:36.880 and then go to the dentist more often. 0:01:36.920 --> 0:01:39.800 So how often do you go to the dentist? 0:01:40.240 --> 0:01:41.959 This is my first appointment in a couple of years, 0:01:42.200 --> 0:01:43.000 probably like three years. 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:43.600 Let's be honest. 0:01:43.600 --> 0:01:44.080 I'll do it. 0:01:45.160 --> 0:01:49.320 I know it sucks. I brush, I floss, I do 0:01:49.400 --> 0:01:50.840 everything you need to do, but you just need to 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:51.520 go and get that clean. 0:01:51.680 --> 0:01:54.000 Don't be honest. How often do you floss? 0:01:54.240 --> 0:01:56.520 I mean I've lost once a week. It's probably still 0:01:56.600 --> 0:01:57.240 not good enough. 0:01:57.680 --> 0:02:00.919 But I don't I don't know that really is helping 0:02:00.920 --> 0:02:01.760 it anyway. 0:02:02.320 --> 0:02:03.600 It's got to help at least a little bit. 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:05.840 Dina's like one of those strange people who floss is 0:02:05.840 --> 0:02:06.720 like three times a day. 0:02:07.280 --> 0:02:09.280 You gotta get a water pick. I swear I haven't 0:02:09.320 --> 0:02:11.239 used it in a couple of weeks. But water pick, 0:02:11.360 --> 0:02:13.160 I think I've talked about it on this podcast before. 0:02:13.440 --> 0:02:16.600 Best invention in mankind in the history of mankind. 0:02:16.639 --> 0:02:18.880 But you usually floss and water pick. 0:02:18.960 --> 0:02:20.640 Oh yeah, it's so great. 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:24.880 Rants brush. But there are days where I skimp on 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:27.760 my dental care routine, like forgetting to brush. 0:02:27.760 --> 0:02:30.080 Sometimes you do that often. 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:32.360 But even if he forgets to brush, he still flosses. 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:34.720 What the help you've done that before? 0:02:34.760 --> 0:02:36.919 I bet you if you asked a dentist, we should 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:38.720 get a dentist on the spodcast. I bet if you 0:02:38.720 --> 0:02:40.919 were to ask a dentist like, hey, if I'm only 0:02:40.919 --> 0:02:43.120 going to do one at night, which one do you 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:45.040 think is better for me to do? I bet you 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:49.040 he would say floss. I bet you he'd say. 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:49.000 I have to jump in here. 0:02:49.000 --> 0:02:50.600 I'm sorry, I have to contribute something. 0:02:50.960 --> 0:02:53.800 My father in law was in Vietnam and he didn't 0:02:53.800 --> 0:02:56.880 have a toothbrush for like four months, but he had floss, 0:02:56.919 --> 0:02:59.840 and he floss twice a day, and when he came back, his. 0:02:59.760 --> 0:03:02.959 Tea were perfect. There we go, they say it is. 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:04.600 I swear to God, that's real. 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:06.600 I just want to do it. 0:03:06.639 --> 0:03:11.240 First of all, Vietnam was back in the seventies. Yes, 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:14.320 so the you know, a dentist back then probably didn't 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:16.280 know what the hell they were talking about. So like, yeah, 0:03:16.320 --> 0:03:18.560 your teeth are perfect, and in fact, his teeth were terrible. 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:20.760 I think we should all start brushing our teeth. 0:03:21.240 --> 0:03:24.960 Start stop. No, you still should brush them. But to 0:03:25.000 --> 0:03:27.360 Easton's point, and to my point, if you're only going 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:30.040 to do one floss. 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:31.800 I am stumped. My mind is blown. 0:03:31.840 --> 0:03:33.960 Think about all the grime and gunk that gets stuck 0:03:34.000 --> 0:03:36.400 between your teeth throughout the day. When you brush, you 0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:38.880 don't get rid of that stuff. It's still there. Yeah. 0:03:38.920 --> 0:03:41.920 I wonder why we just decided that flossing, like most 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:45.040 of America decided that fossing, we just it's not necessary. 0:03:45.120 --> 0:03:46.680 I think it's because it hurts a lot of people 0:03:46.760 --> 0:03:49.240 and your gums bleed the first few times you do it. 0:03:49.240 --> 0:03:53.920 It's like a little uncomfortable, but it's quicker, it's more fun. 0:03:54.680 --> 0:03:56.240 I have way more fun than I floss. 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:57.960 First of all, nobody has fun. 0:03:58.000 --> 0:04:01.040 Oh when they flush, I will tell you that, so okay, 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:02.640 I can guys see it coming from. I have fun 0:04:02.720 --> 0:04:05.800 when I water picked, because even after flossing and brushing 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:08.200 and rinsing a water pick and I still see little 0:04:08.240 --> 0:04:10.160 chunks of food pop out of the teeth sometimes, And 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:10.720 that's fun. 0:04:11.400 --> 0:04:11.839 That's fun. 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:14.640 It makes fun. I'm like, yeah, that could have turned 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:17.000 into plaque or tartar, but not anymore because now it's 0:04:17.080 --> 0:04:18.279 water picked right out of my mouth. 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:21.279 Tina is great dental hygiene, like perfectly, you know. 0:04:21.279 --> 0:04:21.680 It's funny. 0:04:21.680 --> 0:04:24.320 I said that once on my Instagram story a long 0:04:24.360 --> 0:04:25.840 long time ago. I was like, the one thing I 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:29.120 care most about is dental hygiene, and that's why I 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:30.800 haven't been to the dentist in seven years. And some 0:04:30.839 --> 0:04:32.560 own responded and they're like, oh, you care so much 0:04:32.560 --> 0:04:34.160 about it, but you haven't been to the dentist in 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:34.719 seven years. 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:38.280 That doesn't really check out. So I do. I think 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:40.720 I do it preventively because I hate the dentist so much. 0:04:41.240 --> 0:04:43.520 But we have a good dentist. Shout out to Chris. 0:04:43.839 --> 0:04:45.640 I mean, yeah, but I haven't seen him in three years. 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:48.720 I know I miss going a cupcake. I missed going 0:04:48.760 --> 0:04:51.880 a cupcake a lot, So I'm on hellfline dot com. Yeah, 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:59.279 and it says they interviewed doctor Anne Lornette in Louisiana 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:03.680 and she said flossing and brushing isn't really an either 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:08.040 or equation for optimum health. However, if you had to 0:05:08.160 --> 0:05:13.040 pick one, according to doctoral and Lorgnette in Louisiana, she 0:05:13.279 --> 0:05:18.080 says that flossing is more important if done correctly. 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:21.120 There we go. I was thinking about getting braces when 0:05:21.160 --> 0:05:23.520 I moved to Colorado. Oh my gosh, would you be okay? 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:24.719 Would you still love me if I had braces? 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:27.040 Sure? But you don't need them. Your your thing with 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:28.760 your teeth is so interesting to me. 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:30.279 I have bad teeth. 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:34.039 What about they're not braces but in visible line in. 0:05:34.040 --> 0:05:35.520 Visile line three times. 0:05:36.160 --> 0:05:40.119 I did smile direct club once and the first stint 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:42.320 with in visi line did make a big difference. It 0:05:42.400 --> 0:05:44.360 corrected the major issue to a point that I was 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:47.359 okay with. But then I kept getting in visilne wanting 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:49.520 to fix this one little issue. This tooth is like 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:52.559 two millimeters too far forward, and the invisil line doesn't 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:55.280 have precise enough movements to fix it exactly how I want, 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:58.040 and so now I need to get braces or surgery. 0:05:58.400 --> 0:05:59.800 But that's a little too extreme for me. 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:03.360 Surgery for what like they could they could probably cut 0:06:03.400 --> 0:06:04.920 my gum open and like put the tooth in the 0:06:04.960 --> 0:06:05.960 exact spot that I want it. 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:09.119 To be gan. There's nothing wrong with your teeth. 0:06:09.160 --> 0:06:12.240 There is so many things wrong with my teeth. 0:06:11.960 --> 0:06:14.040 Except I mean, there is that one tooth that I mean, 0:06:14.120 --> 0:06:16.839 I've noticed it quite a bit. That is two millimeters 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:19.520 a little bit further off than your other teeth. Like, 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:21.160 I didn't want to say anything, but every time I 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:23.600 look at your face, I mean, I'm immediately drawn to it. 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:23.800 Look. 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:25.400 I know you guys probably don't notice it, but I 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:28.000 see in all my photos that I take, Kaylen's teeth 0:06:28.000 --> 0:06:30.400 are perfect. So every time I smile next to her, 0:06:30.880 --> 0:06:35.160 it just amplifies my you know, wonky looking teeth. 0:06:35.200 --> 0:06:36.680 Take compared to man made teeth. 0:06:37.200 --> 0:06:38.080 My teeth are man made. 0:06:38.640 --> 0:06:41.400 What would you call mine compared to artificial teeth? 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:41.800 Yeah? 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:43.760 Well, what are we talking about today, Kayelin? 0:06:44.120 --> 0:06:47.160 We're talking about New Year's Let's talk about the holidays 0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:49.560 that's coming up. Do you do you have any plans? 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:54.320 Dean Jared No, I don't like going out for New 0:06:54.400 --> 0:07:00.240 Year's because it's just a recipe for getting a U 0:07:01.200 --> 0:07:05.479 or there's cops on the road. Don't drink and drive. Yeah, 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:07.479 but even if you have two drinks, you could blow 0:07:07.640 --> 0:07:10.120 one point five or whatever the limit is. What is 0:07:10.160 --> 0:07:10.520 the limit? 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:11.760 Point eight? 0:07:12.040 --> 0:07:12.240 Dean? 0:07:12.240 --> 0:07:15.200 You should know this, don't You guys have Uber out there? 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:18.880 No, it's Rhode Island. It's might as well be you know, 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:20.480 some other place. 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:23.240 I mean, we're not gonna have Uber in Colorado. Yeah, 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:24.680 so we're right there with them. 0:07:24.800 --> 0:07:28.320 We talked about you have Uber in Colorado, not in Aspen. 0:07:28.880 --> 0:07:30.080 That's a fair point because. 0:07:29.840 --> 0:07:32.520 I think you guys got stuck going to the wedding, right, 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:34.320 You guys had to rent a car or someone did, 0:07:34.760 --> 0:07:35.720 maybe Tanya. 0:07:35.960 --> 0:07:36.679 For your wedding. 0:07:37.120 --> 0:07:38.800 Yeah, yeah, because there. 0:07:38.760 --> 0:07:41.360 Were no ubers there. It was very difficult to get 0:07:41.360 --> 0:07:44.960 an Uber. So we ended up renting a car. Shout 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:47.800 out to Turo, great app. But yeah, so we're not 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:50.640 doing anything for New Year's. I very much enjoy watching 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:53.800 New Year's Rocky and Eves. My ideal New Year's Eve 0:07:54.800 --> 0:07:58.400 is staying in having friends come over, like a couple 0:07:58.440 --> 0:08:00.920 of friends. We played board games, we play card games. 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:03.200 They stay the night so no one's on the road, 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:05.120 so we can drink and have fun and chill out, 0:08:05.640 --> 0:08:08.400 go to bed, watch New Year's Rock and Eve great times. 0:08:09.120 --> 0:08:12.720 And that's my ideal New Year's Eve. I'm not a 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:15.120 big party guy. I mean, I guess it would be 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:19.280 fun for once, you know, one time to dress up, 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:24.560 you know, go to some sort of Gatsby party, drink champagne, 0:08:25.400 --> 0:08:30.000 you know, really really do it right, But that would 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:32.000 be like a I only want to do that once 0:08:32.040 --> 0:08:35.079 in my life and that's it, and it's definitely not 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:37.480 this year. You know, kids just throw wrenches into that. 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:39.520 You've done that. You've probably done that in your twenties. 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:43.440 Me, yes, No, Honestly my twenties, most of the time 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:45.319 we would go over a friend's house. But when you 0:08:45.360 --> 0:08:48.319 lived in La for all those years, what did I know? 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:52.679 I never, yo, did we do anything? Most of the 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:54.480 time we were home for New Years first year off 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:55.200 the bachelorette. 0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:57.360 You're telling me you didn't dress up nice in a 0:08:57.480 --> 0:09:01.000 nice suit and go out with some fancy hallowe Hollywood 0:09:01.040 --> 0:09:01.880 New Year's E party? 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:03.280 Did you No? 0:09:03.400 --> 0:09:05.079 I went to a club. I went to a bar. 0:09:06.120 --> 0:09:06.880 Yeah, that counts. 0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:08.920 A bar could be fun. I'm not into the whole 0:09:09.000 --> 0:09:12.120 club thing, but my ideal New Year's is like a 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:15.520 cozy cabin, playing games, staying in like what we did 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:17.679 last year in Aspen. That was perfect. 0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:20.640 Yeah, we saw the fireworks at seven. I was asleep 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:24.040 by ten. Yeah, don't drink a little too mass back 0:09:24.120 --> 0:09:25.000 up at one. 0:09:25.840 --> 0:09:28.160 But this year I think we are. I kind of 0:09:28.200 --> 0:09:30.640 want to just go to dinner, go have one last 0:09:30.720 --> 0:09:33.880 nice dinner in Vegas, dress up a little, just a little, 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:37.640 nothing crazy, and then go home. Maybe watch the ball drop, 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:40.520 maybe not. It would just be nice to end our 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:43.280 Vegas residency on a high. 0:09:43.400 --> 0:09:47.480 A residency. Yeah that's true. Is that an ending on 0:09:47.520 --> 0:09:49.360 a high? Because that doesn't really sound very enjoyable to me? 0:09:50.240 --> 0:09:52.839 For me, ended on a high for me? Right, So 0:09:52.960 --> 0:09:55.080 that's that's what I want to do. Cassie beach House. 0:09:55.360 --> 0:09:59.000 Have you guys always kiss someone at at midnight? As there? 0:09:59.080 --> 0:09:59.240 Do you? 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:02.040 Is there like a men, Marie of you either not 0:10:02.200 --> 0:10:04.599 kissing someone and it being an impactful moment for you 0:10:05.000 --> 0:10:08.280 or kissing someone and it being an impactful moment for you. 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:12.000 I thought you were talking about us as a couple 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:15.480 because I don't. I think one of us is always 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:18.920 asleep when the ball drops, when it hits midnight, one 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:22.280 of us. Yeah, but I don't think I have a memory, 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:23.839 do you Guys? Let me think about it for a second. 0:10:25.480 --> 0:10:28.240 I've never like kissed a stranger, you know, to be like, oh, 0:10:28.240 --> 0:10:29.920 if it's midnight, we're sitting next to each other. 0:10:30.080 --> 0:10:30.360 Let's go. 0:10:30.559 --> 0:10:31.679 Yeah, definitely not a stranger. 0:10:32.080 --> 0:10:32.679 I think I've done that. 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:33.720 It's like a rom com thing. 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:34.800 I've done that in Colorado. 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:36.559 I think that makes sense for you. 0:10:37.520 --> 0:10:39.760 Yeah, you're just looking around, all your friends are busy 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:42.120 doing stuff. The ball is dropping. You go into panic mode. 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:44.920 You see a person that isn't kissing someone. You say, hey, 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:46.720 do you want to kiss real quick? And they're like yeah, sure, 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:48.120 and then you just kiss and then you leave and 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:49.840 never talk to them again. That's happened to me before. 0:10:50.160 --> 0:10:52.160 Interesting that has happened to you before? 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:53.559 Yeah? Definitely? Was it? 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:56.640 Like, you know, it's obviously weird now because your wife 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:59.520 is sitting us to you. But was it like horrible? 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:01.000 Was it a horrible kiss? No? 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:04.240 I'm I mean everyone's drunk enough tour, nothing is really 0:11:04.320 --> 0:11:07.560 that bad at that point. But yeah, no, I mean 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:09.360 I know for a fact. It happened once in Colorado 0:11:09.400 --> 0:11:11.320 when I was like probably twenty three or twenty four. 0:11:11.880 --> 0:11:14.960 I think that was probably the only time in Denver. 0:11:15.200 --> 0:11:17.719 Oh gosh, I had hated Denver because going out it 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:21.600 was like pure chaos, and unless you had a good, 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:23.400 solid friend group to go out with, it like wasn't 0:11:23.480 --> 0:11:25.120 very fun. So there's a couple of nights I went 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:27.319 out in Denver with like one or two friends, and 0:11:27.760 --> 0:11:29.440 you know, if they bring a girl with them, especially 0:11:29.480 --> 0:11:31.040 for New Years, then you're kind of on your own 0:11:31.120 --> 0:11:33.720 to figure out to defend for yourself. And so there 0:11:33.800 --> 0:11:35.439 was one years where I was like, oh gosh, I've 0:11:35.480 --> 0:11:37.599 got nothing going on. No one's talking to me. 0:11:37.880 --> 0:11:41.559 My game is so bad, and then desperation sets in 0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:43.880 and you got to find someone to kiss. Thankfully I 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:44.480 wasn't alone. 0:11:44.640 --> 0:11:46.360 I've never heard you talk about your game before. 0:11:47.200 --> 0:11:49.640 Well, it's because I don't have games. Well, I don't 0:11:49.640 --> 0:11:52.040 talk about it. I can't talk about something that doesn't exist. 0:11:52.280 --> 0:11:53.240 My game is so bad. 0:11:53.520 --> 0:11:53.719 It is. 0:11:53.920 --> 0:11:55.560 It is bad. It's very bad. 0:11:55.679 --> 0:11:56.440 Hey, life. 0:11:56.559 --> 0:11:58.280 Thankfully, I've been able to coast by on my looks 0:11:58.320 --> 0:12:00.559 for a while, but now that those are out the 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:02.320 window as well. And well I'm married, so I don't 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:06.080 need game, I guess, but but yeah, it's it's tough 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:10.679 out there for you know, I'm conventionally mildly attractive person 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:11.960 that can't spit any game. 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:17.000 On see with some crooked, crooked butt teeth. You're crazy. 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:20.080 Yeah, So yeah, that's it. 0:12:32.280 --> 0:12:35.480 My goal in life. You guys talked about like some 0:12:35.600 --> 0:12:37.559 of your goals in terms of entertainment, wanted to be 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:41.319 back on TV. My goal is I want to be 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:44.960 a part of the New Year's Rocky and Eve celebration 0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:46.559 in New York. I want to be one of the 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:51.079 correspondents that Seacrest sends it down to and is in 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:54.280 the midst of the crowd and getting reactions to be like, 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:57.400 we're only forty five minutes away from the ball dropping. 0:12:57.800 --> 0:13:00.920 I have Susie here from Illinois, was traveled all the way. 0:13:01.040 --> 0:13:03.079 She's never been to New York before. I want to 0:13:03.080 --> 0:13:03.560 be that guy. 0:13:04.040 --> 0:13:05.280 I feel like you can make that happen. 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:07.600 So I have put out feelers this year. I put 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:09.400 them out too late, though, because they said that everything 0:13:09.480 --> 0:13:13.440 was already scheduled and ready to go. So my goal 0:13:13.600 --> 0:13:16.120 for twenty twenty four one of my New Year's resolutions 0:13:16.200 --> 0:13:18.319 something we could talk about, because you know, twenty twenty 0:13:18.360 --> 0:13:20.880 four is right around the corner. My new Year's resolution 0:13:21.240 --> 0:13:23.839 is to be in some way a part of the 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:27.839 New Year's Rocket Eve celebration in New York, not visiting it. 0:13:27.920 --> 0:13:30.640 It would be cool visit, but it seems actually I lied. 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:33.240 It's so funny how I would never want to be 0:13:33.360 --> 0:13:35.319 a part of the crowd there if I was just 0:13:35.400 --> 0:13:37.400 going to watch, but I would love to be about 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:39.240 a part of the crowd there if I was working it. 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:41.640 So my new Year's resolution is I want to work 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:43.880 the New Year's Rocket Eve next year in some capacity. 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:45.000 That's a great goal. 0:13:45.640 --> 0:13:45.920 That's it. 0:13:46.480 --> 0:13:47.000 What's your goal? 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:48.079 Tem I got a whole year? 0:13:48.760 --> 0:13:50.960 Yeah, what's your goal, Kaitlin? Your resolution? 0:13:52.960 --> 0:13:55.400 I pointed to you because I'm not sure and I 0:13:55.480 --> 0:13:57.520 need to think about it. So what's yours? 0:13:57.600 --> 0:13:58.720 You don't have a single resolution? 0:14:00.200 --> 0:14:01.920 Will you go first, and then I'll come up with mine. 0:14:03.559 --> 0:14:06.680 I don't really ever make New Year's solutions, Can you start? 0:14:07.040 --> 0:14:10.960 I knew he was gonna say that. God, you're so dean. 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:13.480 I don't prescribe to the idea of everything. I don't 0:14:13.480 --> 0:14:15.880 need a New Year to convince me to start doing something. 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:17.839 If I care enough about it, I'll just start doing it. 0:14:18.920 --> 0:14:21.280 That's frustrating. 0:14:21.560 --> 0:14:25.840 See symbolism of a new year, like I like the 0:14:25.960 --> 0:14:28.560 idea of like flipping the page. Okay, here we go 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:31.720 a new year, January. First, let's get going. I know 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:35.240 it's ridiculous, Dean. Your thought process is much more logical, 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:40.960 much more sound, and something that I should prescribe to, 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:43.520 like don't wait till the first of the year. Having 0:14:43.600 --> 0:14:47.640 said that, for some reason, maybe it's just human nature, 0:14:48.400 --> 0:14:51.200 there is something about the new year. Hey, let's let's 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:52.840 get it going. It's going. 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:54.920 It's a fresh star. It's like a good way to 0:14:55.080 --> 0:14:57.080 kind of kick yourself in the butt. I will say 0:14:57.200 --> 0:14:59.800 I probably will use this next year to get back 0:14:59.840 --> 0:15:04.680 in shape. I say that every year never happens. I 0:15:04.800 --> 0:15:06.840 even climbed a bunch of mountains this summer and I 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:09.200 got kind of okay shape, but I wasn't happy with 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:11.480 my muscle tone. So I'm gonna get some new I'm 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:13.400 gonna get some muscle tone back. That's the plan. 0:15:14.120 --> 0:15:19.000 That's cool. I was thinking about, you know, maybe becoming 0:15:19.040 --> 0:15:20.800 a personal trainer one day, so I could become your 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:21.880 personal trainer. 0:15:21.720 --> 0:15:24.320 No hard pass, hard pastor both of those things. Why 0:15:24.560 --> 0:15:26.000 I don't want you to be a personal trainer A 0:15:26.160 --> 0:15:27.600 and I don't want you to personally train. 0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:28.920 Why can I be a personal trainer? 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:32.240 Well, I'm saying that you can't be one. I would 0:15:32.240 --> 0:15:33.880 just don't think it's a good career path for you. 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:36.120 Yeah, but I'm really into working out these days and 0:15:36.160 --> 0:15:39.400 it's pretty fun. That's great, So I could turn it 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:42.480 into a business. But I think, speaking of businesses, I 0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:44.640 think one of my goals there have been two businesses 0:15:45.520 --> 0:15:47.200 that I have been thinking about for a couple of 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:51.040 years now, and I want to officially like start. 0:15:51.720 --> 0:15:52.720 Not some here on the podcast. 0:15:53.680 --> 0:15:57.120 No, I need to like get you know, all the 0:15:57.560 --> 0:15:58.320 copyright stuff. 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:00.440 Well, Slava track, come on. 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:03.800 Well, I'm really into jewelry, so I would love to 0:16:03.880 --> 0:16:07.400 eventually start my own jewelry line. Okay, and then do 0:16:07.920 --> 0:16:10.160 just do a brand with Dean, like kind of a camping, 0:16:10.840 --> 0:16:12.360 outdoorsy hiking brand with Dean. 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:13.680 Whatever happened to your backpacks? 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:15.200 That's what I was just talking about. 0:16:15.400 --> 0:16:16.760 Oh, whatever happened to them? 0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:18.880 We need to put some more work into it. 0:16:19.200 --> 0:16:20.680 Yeah, we worked so hard on it for a second, 0:16:20.720 --> 0:16:21.680 and then nowhere. 0:16:21.800 --> 0:16:22.840 So those are my two goals. 0:16:24.640 --> 0:16:25.000 I am a. 0:16:26.760 --> 0:16:30.000 I'm a backpack whore. Oh great, I love backpacks. So 0:16:30.040 --> 0:16:33.200 if you guys designed a backpack, you let me know 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:37.120 because I would love to get one and sample it 0:16:37.320 --> 0:16:39.720 and just talk about how much. Obviously I'll love it. 0:16:39.920 --> 0:16:42.600 Oh amazing, it's designed. We just have to I mean, like, 0:16:42.800 --> 0:16:45.360 you know, I've got the whole render, but we need 0:16:45.440 --> 0:16:47.800 to actually make it, put it into production, so you'll 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:48.720 be the first one to get one. 0:16:49.320 --> 0:16:55.120 Yeah, is it like not giving away too many details? 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:58.680 Is it a backpack that's more for function like Dean like, 0:16:58.880 --> 0:17:02.480 you're going hiking with this backpack? Or am I you know? 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:06.520 Is this more of a fashion overfunction? 0:17:06.840 --> 0:17:07.680 Yeah, Caitlyn, what is it? 0:17:07.680 --> 0:17:10.760 It's versatile. It's not necessarily like you're not going to 0:17:10.800 --> 0:17:14.080 go backpacking like his crazy big backpack, but you can 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:16.600 hike or you can travel. You know, there's there's a 0:17:16.640 --> 0:17:17.600 lot of functions to it. 0:17:19.280 --> 0:17:20.280 Yeah, I like it. It's nice. 0:17:20.320 --> 0:17:22.720 We'll see if this backpack ever comes to life. 0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:25.120 It's been about three years in the making now. Yeah, 0:17:25.160 --> 0:17:26.280 it's probably not going anywhere. 0:17:26.359 --> 0:17:28.280 But you know, we always have things going on. We 0:17:28.359 --> 0:17:30.840 have the wedding, we have the honeymoon. We're now just 0:17:30.920 --> 0:17:33.440 bought a house, so it's like, now that we're in 0:17:33.520 --> 0:17:35.920 our permanent home, going to be in a couple of weeks, 0:17:36.359 --> 0:17:38.080 I feel like we can focus on on that. 0:17:38.560 --> 0:17:42.760 Maybe yeah, on the backpacks, m h, yeah, I just 0:17:42.800 --> 0:17:45.520 don't really. The thing with those things is I don't 0:17:45.520 --> 0:17:49.000 really have anything to contribute to the whole process, and 0:17:49.080 --> 0:17:51.000 so I don't really I don't feel connection to those 0:17:51.040 --> 0:17:51.600 types of things. 0:17:51.880 --> 0:17:53.080 That's fair. I want to go back to why you 0:17:53.119 --> 0:17:54.399 think I shouldn't be a personal trainer. 0:17:55.800 --> 0:18:03.760 Weird hours, inconsistent work, interesting in client base, unpredictable. 0:18:03.480 --> 0:18:07.320 Seems like the place for it, like gonna need personal 0:18:07.359 --> 0:18:09.040 trainers and AskMen you like have. 0:18:09.119 --> 0:18:11.480 To make it your whole persona to. 0:18:11.480 --> 0:18:13.119 Because yeah, that's what I don't want to do. Okay, 0:18:13.880 --> 0:18:14.399 I'll pivot. 0:18:14.840 --> 0:18:16.360 So yeah, that's why I don't want you to become 0:18:16.359 --> 0:18:19.600 a personal trainer. The dive into the persona is what 0:18:19.680 --> 0:18:22.040 I don't like. Not that it's a bad thing. Personal 0:18:22.080 --> 0:18:24.000 trainers are great. I know a few, but. 0:18:25.640 --> 0:18:27.520 Yeah, I'm not ready for it to become my whole personality. 0:18:27.520 --> 0:18:28.639 I'll just work out by myself. 0:18:28.760 --> 0:18:29.360 I guess. 0:18:30.800 --> 0:18:35.040 I was watching Chris's vacation and it's so nice having 0:18:35.119 --> 0:18:38.359 the snow on the ground and getting ready for the holidays, 0:18:38.400 --> 0:18:41.080 and it's like we're just I feel like everything is 0:18:41.160 --> 0:18:44.960 pushed back. The seasons are changing. Whenever you think about 0:18:45.000 --> 0:18:50.639 climate change, something's happening because it's it's changed. December is 0:18:50.720 --> 0:18:54.159 much warmer, and then it starts getting like we're not 0:18:54.200 --> 0:18:56.320 going to get snow till late January or forebody feels 0:18:56.400 --> 0:18:58.679 like and it's very sad. There's no such thing as 0:18:58.720 --> 0:19:03.639 a Whitechristmas around here anymore. It's depressing. Uh and uh, 0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:07.000 you know, spring and Summer's a whole nother conversation I 0:19:07.040 --> 0:19:09.440 can get into, but as of right now, like, I 0:19:09.560 --> 0:19:11.080 just want to white Christmas, guys. I want it to 0:19:11.119 --> 0:19:12.880 be like cold, and I want to walk outside there's 0:19:12.880 --> 0:19:14.760 snow flurries and I got my pea coat on and 0:19:14.840 --> 0:19:17.640 I'm you know, I'm just like in a Hallmark Christmas movie? 0:19:17.680 --> 0:19:19.280 Is that too much to ask for? This is why 0:19:19.280 --> 0:19:20.160 I live a Wood Island. 0:19:21.160 --> 0:19:21.560 That's why. 0:19:22.080 --> 0:19:23.920 Yeah, you think I live with my friends and family, 0:19:23.960 --> 0:19:25.840 I don't give a shit about them. I just want 0:19:26.080 --> 0:19:27.280 cold weather for Christmas. 0:19:27.320 --> 0:19:29.119 Okay, I think we're supposed to get four inches in 0:19:29.160 --> 0:19:34.040 Bozeman on Sunday, which would be Christmas Day. Yeah, so 0:19:34.119 --> 0:19:36.600 we'll see. We'll see if gus Christmas Eve, that's right. 0:19:37.440 --> 0:19:40.040 But yeah, I just excited to watch some football, eat 0:19:40.119 --> 0:19:43.200 some food. My brother's birthdays are coming up, so we're 0:19:43.200 --> 0:19:45.920 gonna get to celebrate with them, even though when my 0:19:46.080 --> 0:19:48.399 my one brother's being a real punk about bringing our 0:19:48.440 --> 0:19:50.240 dog with us to his house for Christmas. 0:19:50.720 --> 0:19:53.160 Yeah, Dean has to drive the van out to Bozeman. 0:19:53.880 --> 0:19:55.680 He's going to sleep in the van with Alistair because 0:19:55.680 --> 0:19:56.879 Alister's band from the house. 0:19:57.320 --> 0:19:59.399 Why is Alistair banned from the house Because he's. 0:19:59.240 --> 0:19:59.919 A little crapper. 0:20:00.200 --> 0:20:02.960 He bites but he doesn't have teeth. 0:20:03.440 --> 0:20:05.920 Yeah, they've got they've got a young kid, and they're 0:20:05.920 --> 0:20:08.800 worried about traumatizing the kid, which I guess I understand. 0:20:08.960 --> 0:20:09.840 I'm not going to argue. 0:20:10.119 --> 0:20:12.240 I mean, I am going to argue against it, obviously, 0:20:12.440 --> 0:20:14.920 but only to a certain degree because I do see 0:20:14.960 --> 0:20:16.560 where he's coming from. But yes, I'm driving the van 0:20:16.600 --> 0:20:19.000 de Boseman so that way Alistair can have a little 0:20:19.040 --> 0:20:21.840 mobile home on wheels and he doesn't have to go 0:20:21.920 --> 0:20:22.360 into the house. 0:20:22.400 --> 0:20:24.600 But because I don't want to board board the dog. 0:20:25.040 --> 0:20:25.760 He's so old. 0:20:26.400 --> 0:20:28.640 Calen thinks he has dementia, which I think it might 0:20:28.680 --> 0:20:31.280 be like setting on And I don't know how many 0:20:31.280 --> 0:20:33.399 more Christmas Christmases we're going to have with him, so 0:20:33.480 --> 0:20:36.520 I want to make sure that we, you know, enjoy 0:20:36.560 --> 0:20:37.159 the time that we have. 0:20:38.440 --> 0:20:42.119 Yeah, it's pretty sad. He's an old guy. He's we 0:20:42.160 --> 0:20:45.800 don't know how many years he's got left. It's going downhill. 0:20:46.040 --> 0:20:50.480 I also think, like from personal experience with Alistair him 0:20:51.560 --> 0:20:53.359 when he was at the wedding and he was just 0:20:53.400 --> 0:20:55.560 throwing around, you know, biting people, and I would just 0:20:55.640 --> 0:20:58.960 let him bite my fingers. It's very nice feeling. It's 0:20:59.040 --> 0:21:02.480 just gums against your fingers. Like I actually quite enjoyed 0:21:02.520 --> 0:21:04.640 that feeling. I don't think you would tumatize their kids. 0:21:04.760 --> 0:21:06.720 I mean, the only thing would be like the actual snapping, 0:21:07.320 --> 0:21:10.760 the visual of it. But he's not inflicting any pain 0:21:10.840 --> 0:21:13.639 on anybody, right. You and TJ were really the only 0:21:13.720 --> 0:21:15.600 two guests at the wedding that I kind of like 0:21:15.680 --> 0:21:18.439 leaned into it. Everyone else got a little too scared, 0:21:18.480 --> 0:21:20.480 but you and TJ were like, bite me, I don't 0:21:20.520 --> 0:21:22.600 care which I get. 0:21:22.680 --> 0:21:25.040 Oh, come on, teeth it's like a little hand massage. 0:21:25.119 --> 0:21:27.399 It's like a people probably pay good money for that 0:21:27.520 --> 0:21:28.080 kind of stuff. 0:21:29.960 --> 0:21:32.359 Yeah, so that's our Christmas plan. Dane's going to sleep 0:21:32.359 --> 0:21:33.840 in the van on Christmas. I'm going to sleep in 0:21:33.840 --> 0:21:34.440 the warmhouse. 0:21:34.720 --> 0:21:35.720 Yeah. How do you feel about that? 0:21:36.760 --> 0:21:40.320 Oh, it's not what I would prefer. I'm a little annoyed. 0:21:40.359 --> 0:21:42.560 I do get where they're coming from. And if we 0:21:42.680 --> 0:21:44.320 had a baby and we just moved into a new 0:21:44.359 --> 0:21:46.680 house and one of the their dogs was problematic, I 0:21:46.720 --> 0:21:50.480 would say just bored them. But if it were up 0:21:50.520 --> 0:21:52.760 to me, we would board out. But it's it's too late. 0:21:52.840 --> 0:21:54.320 And I get where Dean's coming from. 0:21:54.840 --> 0:21:57.720 It's like, also, you you kind of like you kind 0:21:57.760 --> 0:21:59.840 of take these responsibilities on when you adopt a senior. 0:22:00.359 --> 0:22:02.399 You know it's not gonna be perfect. You kind of 0:22:02.440 --> 0:22:03.520 have to like take the punches. 0:22:03.640 --> 0:22:05.879 And I get that people, you know, people don't love 0:22:05.960 --> 0:22:08.040 his attitude and it's not the best. And we've tried 0:22:08.080 --> 0:22:10.159 with trainers, you know, we've gone through many trainers, but 0:22:10.680 --> 0:22:12.720 we can't give up on him. Like the other option 0:22:12.880 --> 0:22:16.280 is to send him back to a shelter and then 0:22:16.600 --> 0:22:17.320 they'll put him down. 0:22:17.440 --> 0:22:22.000 So yeah, so the van it is, yeah, and it's 0:22:22.080 --> 0:22:24.800 just it's just a little it's a little inconvenient for 0:22:24.920 --> 0:22:27.320 me because it's twelve hours from here to Bozeman and 0:22:27.400 --> 0:22:30.359 then twelve hours from Bozeman to Carbondale, or it's just 0:22:30.440 --> 0:22:33.200 seven hours from here to Carbondale. So just it's a 0:22:33.240 --> 0:22:34.960 bit not it doesn't put a wrench in anything, but 0:22:35.040 --> 0:22:39.080 it does. It does complicate the situation a little bit, 0:22:40.040 --> 0:22:41.880 and hopefully the van makes it. You know, I haven't 0:22:41.880 --> 0:22:43.920 really driven the van all that much lately. I've done 0:22:43.960 --> 0:22:46.200 some work on it recently to get it ready for 0:22:46.280 --> 0:22:48.239 this road trip. But you never know when you might 0:22:48.320 --> 0:22:50.680 have a breakdown. So if it breaks down, I'm just 0:22:50.720 --> 0:22:52.560 gonna be spinning Christmas by myself on the side of 0:22:52.600 --> 0:22:53.640 the road somewhere in Utah. 0:22:53.720 --> 0:22:55.080 Probably I'll come join you. 0:22:55.640 --> 0:22:57.640 You would, Yeah, No, you wouldn't. 0:22:57.840 --> 0:22:58.120 I would. 0:22:58.119 --> 0:22:59.840 I don't think it'd be possible to, Like, how would 0:22:59.840 --> 0:23:01.840 you get out there, flying into an airport, rent the 0:23:01.880 --> 0:23:05.720 car and just come driving. I guess, yeah, it's true, 0:23:06.119 --> 0:23:09.800 But yeah, that's our plan. Pretty pretty lame and boring Christmas. 0:23:10.600 --> 0:23:12.280 Now that we're married and have an old dog. 0:23:12.280 --> 0:23:15.760 So well, it's not lame, it's it's just a little inconvenient, 0:23:15.840 --> 0:23:16.800 but it'll still be fun. 0:23:17.119 --> 0:23:18.720 I'm just saying, it's not like we're doing anything crazy 0:23:18.800 --> 0:23:19.760 exciting for Christmas. 0:23:20.080 --> 0:23:21.800 I don't think we ever really do well. 0:23:21.680 --> 0:23:22.800 That's what I'm saying, because we're married. 0:23:23.119 --> 0:23:25.080 Even before we were married, does anyone have like a 0:23:25.119 --> 0:23:25.760 crazy Christmas? 0:23:25.800 --> 0:23:28.200 I've had some crazy Christmases. I went to Australia one year. 0:23:28.920 --> 0:23:32.040 I broke my leg in Switzerland one year. That was 0:23:32.119 --> 0:23:35.119 Christmas day before Christmas, two days day before Chrismas. 0:23:35.840 --> 0:23:40.720 Yeah. Nice, yeah, but no more of that. You know. 0:23:40.880 --> 0:23:42.560 We also have a lot of single people that probably 0:23:42.600 --> 0:23:49.080 listen to this podcast. Ah, And it's said and widely 0:23:49.200 --> 0:23:53.640 accepted that the holidays are the worst time of year 0:23:53.680 --> 0:23:54.240 to be single. 0:23:54.960 --> 0:23:59.000 Yeah, And I don't know what's your argument against that idea. 0:23:59.400 --> 0:24:02.760 Well, when you're with someone, U there's a lot of 0:24:02.880 --> 0:24:05.840 compromise in terms of family time, where you're going to be, 0:24:06.040 --> 0:24:09.080 whose house you're going to be at, if you have 0:24:09.160 --> 0:24:12.119 to go to multiple families on the day. I mean, 0:24:12.200 --> 0:24:15.280 there's so many people that I know that don't even 0:24:15.359 --> 0:24:17.720 go to their family's house anymore because they're like, I 0:24:17.960 --> 0:24:20.040 just we just want to stay home. We just want 0:24:20.080 --> 0:24:22.119 to chill out. We want to stay in our like 0:24:22.440 --> 0:24:26.359 relax on Christmas because they've done the family Christmases because 0:24:26.359 --> 0:24:29.479 they've been in relationships and they're just you know, they 0:24:29.560 --> 0:24:31.080 have to go to this person's house and then that 0:24:31.160 --> 0:24:32.840 person's house, and then they eat a little bit there, 0:24:32.880 --> 0:24:34.119 and then they eat a little bit there, and then 0:24:34.119 --> 0:24:35.639 they go to dessert, and it's like by the time 0:24:35.680 --> 0:24:38.480 the day's over, it's like, well that that was just chaos. 0:24:38.600 --> 0:24:41.520 That wasn't even fun. So my point being is if 0:24:41.520 --> 0:24:45.159 you're single, hopefully at some point in your life you 0:24:45.200 --> 0:24:47.680 won't be single and you'll have a significant other that 0:24:47.680 --> 0:24:50.000 you can spend the holidays with. But as of right now, 0:24:51.920 --> 0:24:56.280 enjoy this time because guess what Christmas morning comes, you 0:24:56.359 --> 0:24:59.280 can do whatever the hell you want. Christmas Eve, you 0:24:59.359 --> 0:25:01.480 can do whatever you You can go to this person's 0:25:01.480 --> 0:25:02.639 house if you want. You don't have to go to 0:25:02.720 --> 0:25:05.600 this person's house. Because ideally, like when you're with the holidays, 0:25:06.000 --> 0:25:08.520 you know, it's like if you're not in a relationship, 0:25:09.320 --> 0:25:14.240 it's just like it's not as not that you're not wanted, 0:25:14.760 --> 0:25:18.879 but it's like, you know, oh, cousin Caroline didn't come 0:25:18.880 --> 0:25:20.800 over today, that's all right, we'll move on. But if 0:25:20.840 --> 0:25:23.560 you've got kids or magnificant other people want to meet them. 0:25:23.560 --> 0:25:26.280 People want to hang out. So like my point being, 0:25:27.560 --> 0:25:30.480 just enjoy your time. Enjoy this time in your life 0:25:30.560 --> 0:25:33.520 right now where it's calm, and you can look forward 0:25:33.520 --> 0:25:35.119 to New Year's Eve because then you can go out 0:25:35.160 --> 0:25:36.920 and you can kiss a stranger if you want, because 0:25:36.920 --> 0:25:38.680 there's no there's nothing holding your back. 0:25:39.119 --> 0:25:41.879 Yeah. For me, it's food reminds me a lot of 0:25:41.960 --> 0:25:44.920 the holidays, like the things that we grew up eating. 0:25:45.080 --> 0:25:47.320 So does Ashley's family eat similar things to what you 0:25:47.359 --> 0:25:48.679 did for Christmas? Even Christmas? 0:25:49.880 --> 0:25:51.800 I forced them to, Oh that's smart. 0:25:52.640 --> 0:25:53.040 I don't know that. 0:25:53.880 --> 0:25:54.040 Yeah. 0:25:54.840 --> 0:25:59.680 So they're never turkey stuffing mashed potato people. They just 0:26:00.240 --> 0:26:04.480 are not that family. And then I said, listen, because 0:26:04.520 --> 0:26:07.400 we go there for Thanksgiving. If we go over for Thanksgiving, 0:26:07.680 --> 0:26:11.720 I want to have a Thanksgiving at the house and 0:26:11.840 --> 0:26:14.080 I'll cook the turkey. I don't care. I'll do whatever 0:26:14.160 --> 0:26:15.840 needs it needs to be done in order to have 0:26:15.960 --> 0:26:18.560 this happen. Because they were the type of people that 0:26:18.560 --> 0:26:21.879 would go out to dinner and not even get a 0:26:21.960 --> 0:26:24.359 Thanksgiving dinner. It was like they were going to like 0:26:24.480 --> 0:26:28.560 capital grill for Thanksgiving, and I was like, I'm not going. 0:26:28.640 --> 0:26:31.720 I'm not getting a steak on the last Thursday of 0:26:31.760 --> 0:26:35.040 every novempin Like this is not happening. So I really 0:26:35.119 --> 0:26:37.920 made sure that we like stayed at home watch football. 0:26:38.480 --> 0:26:40.639 Like even I get a little I don't get dressed up, 0:26:40.720 --> 0:26:42.560 but I'll put a nice like we're not leaving the house, 0:26:42.600 --> 0:26:44.520 but I'll put a nice sweater on, some jeans on, 0:26:45.240 --> 0:26:46.879 you know, make myself look presentable. 0:26:47.080 --> 0:26:47.480 I like it. 0:26:47.600 --> 0:26:50.679 I like the whole thing. So and that includes Christmas 0:26:50.720 --> 0:26:52.639 as well. We just haven't spent a Christmas to Virginia, 0:26:53.080 --> 0:26:55.760 so Christmas is here in Rhode Island are very similar 0:26:55.800 --> 0:26:58.080 to the food, like I, you know, my mom still 0:26:58.160 --> 0:27:01.160 makes you know, mashed potato, knows my dad still makes 0:27:01.200 --> 0:27:03.720 the stovetop stuffing. So very nostalgic towards that. 0:27:03.960 --> 0:27:19.840 Yeah, I'm used to like a potluck we had like 0:27:19.960 --> 0:27:22.320 a very suburban neighborhood where all neighbors would get together 0:27:22.359 --> 0:27:26.000 on Christmas Eve and everyone would bring different dishes, and 0:27:26.040 --> 0:27:29.240 then on Christmas we'd usually have like similar to Thanksgiving, 0:27:29.400 --> 0:27:32.720 like a big kind of Thanksgiving e meal, maybe ham 0:27:32.800 --> 0:27:35.440 instead of turkey, I don't know. But and then you 0:27:35.560 --> 0:27:38.280 come into other people you know, you're in law's family 0:27:38.359 --> 0:27:40.800 and they're in laws you like, it's it's kind of 0:27:41.000 --> 0:27:45.440 so Dean's brother's wife has different traditions than Dean and 0:27:45.520 --> 0:27:47.439 his family than me and my family, So it's kind 0:27:47.480 --> 0:27:50.120 of like mixing all the different foods together, and it's 0:27:50.480 --> 0:27:54.280 something I'm not used to. Ashually typically eats spaghetti on Christmas, 0:27:54.680 --> 0:27:56.680 which isn't something I'm particularly used to. 0:27:56.760 --> 0:27:59.520 Well, yeah, let's be honest, everyone that had a semi 0:27:59.680 --> 0:28:03.160 decent and upbringing is going to always miss the Christmas 0:28:03.240 --> 0:28:04.840 and the Thanksgiving dinners that they had at their family 0:28:04.880 --> 0:28:07.280 when they were kids, just from a pure nostalgia thing. 0:28:07.840 --> 0:28:12.000 Like even if my mom made the turkey and bad 0:28:12.119 --> 0:28:15.040 mashed potatoes and crappy stuffing every Thanksgiving, that's what I 0:28:15.080 --> 0:28:17.160 would still want to have every Thanksgiving is the same 0:28:17.280 --> 0:28:19.359 style of food because it's just what I grew up eating. 0:28:19.400 --> 0:28:22.040 I was happy and comfortable with. So I think any 0:28:22.080 --> 0:28:25.320 time that you, you know, differ from whatever you're used to, 0:28:25.440 --> 0:28:28.440 it gets a little because I agree, like even when 0:28:28.480 --> 0:28:30.560 we go over to your grandparents' house, their food is 0:28:30.640 --> 0:28:33.080 so good. They're such good cooks and they make such 0:28:33.160 --> 0:28:36.879 interesting cuisines, but because it's not what I've i ate 0:28:36.960 --> 0:28:39.120 for so long as a kid, it just doesn't ever 0:28:39.680 --> 0:28:43.520 feel fully like the same holiday. It's a great holiday, 0:28:43.520 --> 0:28:44.720 and I still have so much fun, and I still 0:28:44.800 --> 0:28:46.560 enjoy every second of it, but it doesn't feel exactly 0:28:46.600 --> 0:28:46.840 the same. 0:28:46.880 --> 0:28:49.440 You know, they make traditional Thanksgiving food. 0:28:49.440 --> 0:28:51.880 What are you used to not salmon? Oh? 0:28:52.000 --> 0:28:53.920 Well, yeah, that was weird, But that's what I'm saying. 0:28:53.960 --> 0:28:56.360 Even the traditional food that they make, it is traditional 0:28:56.440 --> 0:28:58.840 Thanksgiving food, but it's not cooked in the same style 0:28:58.880 --> 0:29:01.240 that I'm used to eating it as a kid. And again, 0:29:01.320 --> 0:29:03.320 not to say one's better or worse, but simply just 0:29:03.400 --> 0:29:05.000 because I'm used to eating it a certain way for 0:29:05.120 --> 0:29:06.960 so long as a kid, that's kind of what I've 0:29:07.000 --> 0:29:10.520 grown accustomed to and gotten used to, you know, not 0:29:10.600 --> 0:29:12.360 saying one's better or worse than the other. 0:29:12.640 --> 0:29:13.560 It could be very clear. 0:29:13.960 --> 0:29:17.440 It just I mean, even similar foods to me make 0:29:17.520 --> 0:29:20.400 it feel more like the holidays. Like I'm not used 0:29:20.400 --> 0:29:25.480 to having Chinese food on Christmas Eve or pasta on Christmas. 0:29:25.240 --> 0:29:27.360 Day, Jared, do you do that right? Chinese food on 0:29:27.440 --> 0:29:27.920 Christmas Eve? 0:29:28.440 --> 0:29:33.719 A variation of it really depends, but most likely it's 0:29:33.800 --> 0:29:36.800 New Year's Eve, but either an eve, a New Year's Eve, 0:29:36.920 --> 0:29:39.080 Christmas Eve. We're getting Chinese food at some point. 0:29:39.120 --> 0:29:43.800 Who gets Chinese food on New Year's Eve? That's crazy unless. 0:29:43.640 --> 0:29:45.440 You're like in a cabin just hanging out. What do 0:29:45.480 --> 0:29:48.040 you mean New Year's Eve. Yeah, if you're in a 0:29:48.120 --> 0:29:49.080 cabin hanging out, like. 0:29:49.120 --> 0:29:50.880 I just said, I don't understand. That's when you get 0:29:50.920 --> 0:29:52.000 Chinese food, you get Chinese yo. 0:29:52.040 --> 0:29:54.840 Yeah, you're staying in yeah, playing games. 0:29:55.400 --> 0:29:57.640 I guess I get that. I just you're going to do. 0:29:57.720 --> 0:29:58.959 I didn't think that there was a New Year's Eve 0:29:58.960 --> 0:29:59.880 food tradition that people have. 0:30:00.880 --> 0:30:03.880 All I know is that The Islander, which is a 0:30:04.080 --> 0:30:07.520 very popular Chinese restaurant near my house, grew up on 0:30:08.080 --> 0:30:12.120 every New Year's Eve. Bonker's in there. It's off the chain, 0:30:12.560 --> 0:30:15.240 Like you're waiting an hour and a half for your food, 0:30:15.280 --> 0:30:17.080 so we always call ahead, make sure we give them 0:30:17.120 --> 0:30:20.040 plenty of time. Oh yeah, it's a whole kit and 0:30:20.120 --> 0:30:26.520 kaboodle that I enjoy a lot. This is a I'm 0:30:26.600 --> 0:30:28.200 not sure if this is a dumb question or not 0:30:28.320 --> 0:30:31.160 if I should know what this is, But all my life, 0:30:32.200 --> 0:30:34.200 I've never known what it is. I've never asked what 0:30:34.360 --> 0:30:37.320 it is, and I always hear the phrase, what is 0:30:37.360 --> 0:30:37.920 a potluck? 0:30:39.520 --> 0:30:42.000 Isn't that just a Kitlin probably knows it seems like 0:30:42.080 --> 0:30:45.240 kind of more of an Eastern Southern thing maybe, but. 0:30:45.360 --> 0:30:48.320 A potluck is just you know, everyone brings a different dish, 0:30:48.400 --> 0:30:51.040 so like you're I'm coming, I'm bringing soup. Dean comes, 0:30:51.080 --> 0:30:53.480 he brings mashed potatoes, and everyone's just and then you've 0:30:53.480 --> 0:30:54.440 got an incredible meal. 0:30:54.640 --> 0:30:56.960 Yeah, that's a Ray style, Like everyone brings their own 0:30:57.000 --> 0:30:58.640 dish byof. 0:30:58.560 --> 0:31:00.520 Yeah, byof bring your own food. 0:31:00.800 --> 0:31:04.440 So there's no uh direction, there's nobody saying you bring this, 0:31:04.640 --> 0:31:07.400 you bring that. Like everybody they're on their own. They 0:31:07.520 --> 0:31:08.960 cook whatever the hell they want to cook. 0:31:09.040 --> 0:31:11.960 Typically, you have good communication and you guys discuss what 0:31:12.000 --> 0:31:14.239 you're bringing, Like I've got desserts covered and I've got 0:31:14.280 --> 0:31:15.240 appetizers covered. 0:31:15.360 --> 0:31:18.200 Right, you can't have twenty people bring brownies. Oh that's 0:31:18.240 --> 0:31:19.000 a lot of brownies. 0:31:19.040 --> 0:31:20.920 Yes, there's a lot of communication involved. 0:31:21.160 --> 0:31:22.640 What made you think of pot luck, by the way, 0:31:23.000 --> 0:31:24.760 because I said it, Oh you said potluck? 0:31:24.800 --> 0:31:25.960 Pot luck on Christmas Eve. 0:31:26.000 --> 0:31:28.320 I've heard of potluck before. Easton is saying, you've never 0:31:28.400 --> 0:31:31.560 heard that before. I have heard potluck before, he's saying. 0:31:31.720 --> 0:31:33.640 He's not just saying you never heard that before. He's 0:31:33.640 --> 0:31:37.320 saying in all caps. Ha, he's laughing in your face 0:31:37.360 --> 0:31:42.000 about having never heard of a potluck before. That's okay, Ah, 0:31:43.080 --> 0:31:46.760 what a jerk? Where what are my thoughts? Oh, it's 0:31:46.920 --> 0:31:48.520 it's I have heard it before. 0:31:48.680 --> 0:31:52.840 It's just that I've never inquired about what it means 0:31:53.200 --> 0:31:55.840 because I'm like a potluck And then I get it 0:31:55.920 --> 0:31:57.760 makes sense now that you explain it. That's kind of 0:31:57.760 --> 0:32:01.680 where I would assumed it was. But I've never just 0:32:02.040 --> 0:32:04.400 like been a part of a pot luck. I don't 0:32:04.440 --> 0:32:06.880 know why it's called potluck. It used to mean food 0:32:06.920 --> 0:32:10.040 provided for an unexpected guest, for the luck of the pot. 0:32:10.320 --> 0:32:12.280 That's where the name there. 0:32:12.360 --> 0:32:13.800 We go for the luck of the pot. 0:32:13.920 --> 0:32:15.600 We learned something new every time we hear from you, 0:32:16.160 --> 0:32:20.640 we too. He's the voice of information. I guess, yeah, 0:32:20.720 --> 0:32:23.800 so that's that's that's what we're doing for Christmas. 0:32:23.920 --> 0:32:25.720 So you guys have never cooked for a potluck, then 0:32:26.200 --> 0:32:27.160 I'm guessing. 0:32:27.160 --> 0:32:28.440 I've never cooked for myself. 0:32:28.800 --> 0:32:32.120 True. Our friend Alicia was just talking on her podcast 0:32:32.160 --> 0:32:34.800 and she was like, there's nothing more embarrassing than going 0:32:34.840 --> 0:32:36.680 to a potluck and at the end of the night, 0:32:36.760 --> 0:32:38.760 you're like, where's my dish? Let me go, hope everyone 0:32:38.840 --> 0:32:41.520 enjoyed it and nobody has touched your dish. It's mortifying. 0:32:41.640 --> 0:32:42.960 Alicia was saying that she. 0:32:43.120 --> 0:32:44.960 Like posted it on her Instagram. Oh, I see yeah, 0:32:45.040 --> 0:32:47.560 and it really truly is. I've had that happen before 0:32:47.600 --> 0:32:51.000 and you're like, hmm, be cooked. Yeah, but you guys 0:32:51.080 --> 0:32:53.680 haven't partaken, so you wouldn't know the shame involved. 0:32:54.000 --> 0:32:56.360 Sure, but maybe sometimes people just thought like that specific 0:32:56.440 --> 0:32:58.280 dish and it's less about how you prepared it and 0:32:58.320 --> 0:33:00.880 more about just what you made could be you know. 0:33:01.240 --> 0:33:03.000 That's what I would tell myself anyways to make myself 0:33:03.040 --> 0:33:03.600 feel better. 0:33:03.600 --> 0:33:07.000 Especially with desserts, because desserts are so personal and there's 0:33:07.040 --> 0:33:09.240 always so many desserts, so if yours doesn't get touched, 0:33:09.280 --> 0:33:10.680 it's like, it's fine. 0:33:10.960 --> 0:33:11.160 Yeah. 0:33:11.760 --> 0:33:14.000 We went to that cookie party last weekend in LA 0:33:14.400 --> 0:33:18.040 and pot luck for cookies. More or less everyone brought 0:33:18.360 --> 0:33:21.280 a batch of cookies. There's you know, twenty different styles 0:33:21.320 --> 0:33:24.520 of cookies. Similar thing there was, you know, one or 0:33:24.600 --> 0:33:27.520 two of the batches were consumed pretty quickly and then 0:33:28.080 --> 0:33:29.400 by the end of the night. There was like some 0:33:29.520 --> 0:33:31.560 people's cookies hadn't even been touched, and then I feel 0:33:31.560 --> 0:33:33.160 really bad for them, so I like to eat them. 0:33:33.240 --> 0:33:34.640 They eat a couple of them, throw a couple in 0:33:34.640 --> 0:33:36.360 the trash can so it looks like they've been eating. 0:33:37.480 --> 0:33:39.960 That's also something that was a tradition growing up. My 0:33:40.040 --> 0:33:42.880 mom would always have cookie parties, and these are things 0:33:42.920 --> 0:33:44.880 that I want to do when I have more adult 0:33:44.960 --> 0:33:48.640 friends in Asmen hopefully, and all of our friends would 0:33:48.680 --> 0:33:50.320 come over and they'd like play games. And this was 0:33:50.360 --> 0:33:53.320 when Chick fil at sauce was really big, and before 0:33:53.400 --> 0:33:56.400 they actually bottled it and selled it sold it, you 0:33:56.520 --> 0:33:58.800 could like dispense it from a machine, so people would 0:33:58.880 --> 0:34:01.080 like all be gunning for the Chick fil a sauce 0:34:01.160 --> 0:34:03.360 and it was just a really fun time. So I'm 0:34:03.400 --> 0:34:06.240 excited to grow up a bit and have more adult friends. 0:34:06.360 --> 0:34:07.560 Do you think we're going to be good at making 0:34:07.600 --> 0:34:08.320 friends in the Aspen? 0:34:08.640 --> 0:34:11.759 I think so because I've put myself out there more 0:34:11.800 --> 0:34:14.600 in Vegas and I've made a handful of friends recently 0:34:14.680 --> 0:34:19.520 at workout classes, and I think I'll be immediately doing 0:34:19.560 --> 0:34:21.200 that in Aspen versus waiting two years. 0:34:21.360 --> 0:34:22.520 That's good I'm pumped. 0:34:22.640 --> 0:34:24.160 I'm going to make a lot of friends, and then 0:34:24.200 --> 0:34:27.640 we can have also one of my girlfriends toy she 0:34:27.760 --> 0:34:30.360 grew up having her parents would have progressive dinner parties, 0:34:30.680 --> 0:34:33.040 which I'm really interested in this, So like their whole neighborhood. 0:34:33.280 --> 0:34:36.320 They would start drinks at this person's house, move have 0:34:36.400 --> 0:34:38.759 appetizers at the next person's house, and then they'd have 0:34:38.880 --> 0:34:41.080 sitters for all the kids, and then they keep moving 0:34:41.160 --> 0:34:43.880 around to different meals, which would be really fun. That's 0:34:43.920 --> 0:34:46.320 what I want. I want like a more neighborhoody feel 0:34:46.480 --> 0:34:49.160 like right now, know, we have neighbors and they're friendly, 0:34:49.239 --> 0:34:50.360 but nobody's really friends. 0:34:50.640 --> 0:34:53.000 Yeah, because every time they have the community party, we're 0:34:53.040 --> 0:34:55.160 out of town. That's very true, and they all have kids. 0:34:55.360 --> 0:34:57.280 And also we're not going to get that in Colorado 0:34:57.360 --> 0:34:59.160 because we don't really have many neighbors. 0:35:00.480 --> 0:35:04.640 Yeah right, maybe maybe more houses will be developed. 0:35:05.160 --> 0:35:06.520 Yeah, but I think that's kind of the appeal of 0:35:06.560 --> 0:35:08.359 living up there is you don't really have anyone close 0:35:08.400 --> 0:35:10.560 to you, super close to you, at least actually Jared 0:35:10.600 --> 0:35:14.160 funny story. So I email their hoa president you should. 0:35:14.200 --> 0:35:15.279 I'm not going to share all of it, but I 0:35:15.320 --> 0:35:17.759 email their Hoa President and I was like, hey, just 0:35:17.800 --> 0:35:20.560 introducing myself for moving out there in January, blah blah blah. 0:35:21.000 --> 0:35:22.560 And he goes, oh, happy to have you moving in. 0:35:22.880 --> 0:35:24.719 By the way, are you Brad Unclert's brother? And I 0:35:24.800 --> 0:35:27.160 was like I am, and he goes, oh, it's just 0:35:27.280 --> 0:35:30.600 like the fact that the eighth the president were Hoa 0:35:30.640 --> 0:35:33.080 who I've never heard of, happens to know my brother. 0:35:33.239 --> 0:35:34.279 It's just such a small world. 0:35:34.880 --> 0:35:38.480 No, I mean Aspen Salt Carbon Eail is so small. 0:35:38.640 --> 0:35:41.319 It's crazy because everyone knows Dean. Like, no matter where 0:35:41.360 --> 0:35:42.960 we go, everyone's like, oh, Dean Ungling. 0:35:42.760 --> 0:35:43.480 Which isn't a good thing. 0:35:43.560 --> 0:35:45.640 By the way, you're going to see pretty fast that 0:35:45.719 --> 0:35:47.480 that's going to be quite an obstacle for us to Well, 0:35:47.480 --> 0:35:47.879 that's why. 0:35:47.760 --> 0:35:50.200 We changed our last names. Nobody knows the Bells. 0:35:49.960 --> 0:35:52.239 Yet, right, nobody knows the Bells yet. 0:35:52.280 --> 0:35:54.440 But whenever you say who your father in law is, 0:35:54.480 --> 0:35:56.120 they're going to be like, oh, God, to keep away 0:35:56.120 --> 0:35:56.680 from this girl. 0:35:57.040 --> 0:35:57.879 Yeah, that's true. 0:35:59.000 --> 0:36:00.560 So it should be a good should be a good 0:36:00.600 --> 0:36:01.319 experience for us. 0:36:01.360 --> 0:36:04.880 I think, why are you, uh, why does everybody know 0:36:04.920 --> 0:36:06.879 who you are just because of the show? 0:36:07.239 --> 0:36:10.560 No, well maybe, but small town. I was in trouble 0:36:10.600 --> 0:36:13.680 with the cops a lot as a kid out there. 0:36:14.480 --> 0:36:16.760 My brothers also like similar situation. 0:36:17.000 --> 0:36:20.719 They you know, nobody is saying about okay, so we're 0:36:20.760 --> 0:36:22.840 running into people left and right when we're an Aspen 0:36:23.200 --> 0:36:25.640 and everyone just knows of you guys as like nobody's 0:36:25.680 --> 0:36:29.520 ever said a bad thing, Like oh everyone, you guys 0:36:29.520 --> 0:36:31.520 are very kind people and very friendly people. 0:36:31.520 --> 0:36:32.800 I'm not going to say it to our faces, but 0:36:34.239 --> 0:36:37.319 like popular people, we're always like, don't hang around those kids. Well, 0:36:37.680 --> 0:36:39.520 I guess Brad was like kind of a big he 0:36:39.680 --> 0:36:42.200 was a big person personality in town, and he lived there. 0:36:42.239 --> 0:36:44.160 He lived there for like seven years after college, so 0:36:44.960 --> 0:36:46.719 he made a name for himself. I guess he was 0:36:46.760 --> 0:36:50.440 like a contributor to the Aspen Times. He was active 0:36:50.480 --> 0:36:56.439 in the community. Maybe he was just a really popular guy, 0:36:56.520 --> 0:36:59.240 and so I'm always kind of living in his shadow 0:36:59.280 --> 0:36:59.680 a little bit. 0:36:59.760 --> 0:37:01.520 But hopefully once we get out there we can make 0:37:01.640 --> 0:37:02.320 names for ourselves. 0:37:02.480 --> 0:37:03.920 And I don't know a lot about Asmen, but it 0:37:04.000 --> 0:37:08.080 feels like it's pretty pretty small and it's mostly just 0:37:08.120 --> 0:37:10.359 people traveling in to ski or hike or whatever. 0:37:10.520 --> 0:37:13.240 Right, you see, Justin Bieber was just there with Oh, Haley, 0:37:13.360 --> 0:37:13.879 what's your name? 0:37:14.200 --> 0:37:14.520 Bieber? 0:37:14.719 --> 0:37:17.160 Haley Bieber. Of course they were just there. 0:37:18.000 --> 0:37:20.239 That's pretty cool. Yeah, you should hit him up next. 0:37:20.400 --> 0:37:22.080 He was there last time. We were there too with 0:37:22.239 --> 0:37:26.719 Kendall last year. But yeah, it seems like it's just 0:37:27.040 --> 0:37:29.279 very small and most people are just coming and going 0:37:29.320 --> 0:37:32.520 intourss So it feels like a fun little community to 0:37:32.600 --> 0:37:33.040 be a part of. 0:37:33.400 --> 0:37:36.200 Right, and then when X games comes around, you can 0:37:36.239 --> 0:37:37.520 get up on the tables and say. 0:37:37.400 --> 0:37:41.560 We grew here, you flew here, We grew here, you 0:37:41.760 --> 0:37:42.279 flew here. 0:37:42.440 --> 0:37:43.840 That's what we used to yell at tourists. 0:37:44.560 --> 0:37:46.279 Yeah, yeah, that sounds like a high school thing. 0:37:46.320 --> 0:37:51.439 Pretty embarrassing, and but hey, it's not wrong. They're they're 0:37:51.800 --> 0:37:54.760 stepping on it all right. Before we wrap up. Before 0:37:54.760 --> 0:37:57.640 we wrap up this podcast, we've had about forty minutes now. 0:37:57.800 --> 0:38:01.360 Any last New Year resolutions I'm in mind was to 0:38:01.480 --> 0:38:03.880 be a part of New Year's Rocket Eve. Also my 0:38:04.040 --> 0:38:09.680 second one, number two in no particular order, and I'm 0:38:09.719 --> 0:38:11.719 putting family stuff aside. This is more of just like 0:38:11.840 --> 0:38:16.200 you know, resolutions for work purposes. I would love in 0:38:16.280 --> 0:38:17.359 the year of twenty twenty four. 0:38:17.400 --> 0:38:19.200 I think I made this as a New Year's resolution 0:38:19.320 --> 0:38:22.160 this year, so I'm pushing it back, is to write 0:38:22.320 --> 0:38:26.480 and direct my own short film. So I plan on 0:38:26.640 --> 0:38:31.239 doing that, and I am putting it out in the 0:38:31.320 --> 0:38:34.319 universe to hold myself accountable because I really really think 0:38:34.360 --> 0:38:36.040 that i'd be able to do it. I think I'd 0:38:36.040 --> 0:38:37.120 be able to do it well, and. 0:38:37.200 --> 0:38:39.319 I want to do it more importantly, if you need 0:38:39.360 --> 0:38:41.440 a like an extra, I'll be an extra in that, 0:38:41.600 --> 0:38:43.880 like the fifth the fifth person on the call sheet. 0:38:44.360 --> 0:38:47.800 You'll be my AD so, which is the assistant to 0:38:47.880 --> 0:38:49.600 the director. So you'll just get me a coffee and stuff. 0:38:49.880 --> 0:38:51.360 No, no, no, I want to be in the film, 0:38:51.800 --> 0:38:53.600 but I don't want to have any speaking lines. Maybe 0:38:53.680 --> 0:38:56.600 like one word like watch out and then like that's 0:38:56.640 --> 0:38:57.759 my only life and then I get shot in the 0:38:57.800 --> 0:39:00.000 head or something. You know, Oh that could be nice, 0:39:00.880 --> 0:39:03.279 just a simple, like hard thing for me to mess up. 0:39:03.520 --> 0:39:05.440 But you know, by no means do you feel should 0:39:05.440 --> 0:39:07.680 you feel obligated to do this. I'm just I'm just 0:39:07.719 --> 0:39:10.880 simply trying to, you know, put it out into the universe, 0:39:10.920 --> 0:39:13.880 hold myself accountable, as some would say, and see if 0:39:13.880 --> 0:39:14.799 I can make something happen. 0:39:15.280 --> 0:39:17.239 Yeah, Like if I was to make a Spider Man movie. 0:39:17.360 --> 0:39:19.080 You be the guy in the crowd to be like, 0:39:19.200 --> 0:39:22.279 look Spider Man, and then that would be it exactly. 0:39:22.440 --> 0:39:24.279 And then when you become a huge director, it could 0:39:24.320 --> 0:39:26.239 be like the stan Lee thing where instead of putting 0:39:26.280 --> 0:39:29.040 yourself in small roles, I'm always in a small role. 0:39:30.200 --> 0:39:33.080 Yeah, you know, so that'd be slily strick. 0:39:33.480 --> 0:39:35.120 Just keep it in mind. Just keep it in mind. 0:39:35.320 --> 0:39:35.719 That's great. 0:39:35.760 --> 0:39:37.800 Do you have a script ready or are you just 0:39:37.840 --> 0:39:39.560 going to kind of do it all from starting now. 0:39:39.680 --> 0:39:41.080 I'm writing a script right now. 0:39:42.760 --> 0:39:45.359 My idea is I would love to do a short 0:39:45.360 --> 0:39:49.560 horror film feels like the most obtainable and cost friendly 0:39:51.360 --> 0:39:55.360 and also just production wise, i'd be able to you know, 0:39:55.400 --> 0:39:57.120 I want to keep it as grounded as possible so 0:39:57.239 --> 0:40:00.920 I can just shoot everything in camera. But I do 0:40:01.040 --> 0:40:05.880 have a concept of a horror movie that I like, 0:40:06.200 --> 0:40:09.000 and it's kind of like a home invasion film. So 0:40:11.040 --> 0:40:14.799 that's kind of what my mind goes towards right now. 0:40:15.280 --> 0:40:17.480 So what are your other news resolutions besides becoming a 0:40:17.520 --> 0:40:19.160 personal trainer and starting a backpack line. 0:40:19.440 --> 0:40:21.360 I'm not going to become a personal trainer. I just 0:40:21.440 --> 0:40:23.480 really like working out. I thought I could maybe profit 0:40:23.520 --> 0:40:24.239 from it in some way. 0:40:24.600 --> 0:40:25.239 I think you can. 0:40:25.520 --> 0:40:27.799 I'm sure you could. That would involve wee. 0:40:28.000 --> 0:40:31.200 I could create my own workouts and like do an 0:40:31.200 --> 0:40:34.200 app or something. Not that there's you know, so many 0:40:34.239 --> 0:40:37.800 of those out there already. But another goal is just 0:40:38.280 --> 0:40:42.200 this is silly, but to make Aspen feel like home 0:40:42.320 --> 0:40:44.600 and find good friends out there, because right now my 0:40:44.680 --> 0:40:49.000 friends are mostly in LA so it would be nice 0:40:49.040 --> 0:40:51.279 to have a good group out there. 0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:54.000 Well, I wonder if there's some way to create something 0:40:54.120 --> 0:40:57.840 where you can have events like Kaylen, you would be 0:40:57.920 --> 0:41:02.520 able to create friends or like make friends by creating 0:41:02.600 --> 0:41:06.200 events that are centered around working out, so you meet 0:41:06.239 --> 0:41:10.400 new people, you're still going down the path of a 0:41:10.440 --> 0:41:13.400 healthy lifestyle. It kind of like combines both. I don't know, 0:41:13.600 --> 0:41:15.840 that's interesting. I feel like there's something there isn't that 0:41:15.920 --> 0:41:16.840 just like a workout class. 0:41:17.280 --> 0:41:19.359 Yeah, my friend does something like that in New York. 0:41:19.360 --> 0:41:21.920 He names Live and she brings I think it's called 0:41:21.960 --> 0:41:23.879 hot and Social. So she like brings all these young 0:41:23.960 --> 0:41:27.359 people together. They do workout classes. They like, she's done 0:41:27.400 --> 0:41:30.360 camp social where they all go to camp, And especially 0:41:30.400 --> 0:41:31.800 in New York, it's like such a hard place to 0:41:31.840 --> 0:41:34.520 meet people, so that could be fun. 0:41:34.560 --> 0:41:36.239 In Aspen, you got to be young and hot though 0:41:36.280 --> 0:41:37.880 for it that's just her name for it. 0:41:37.920 --> 0:41:39.719 Hot. In Social Animal, you don't have to be young 0:41:39.840 --> 0:41:40.160 or hot. 0:41:41.440 --> 0:41:42.960 If if you're in New York and you're part of 0:41:43.000 --> 0:41:44.319 that app, you probably have to be hot and young. 0:41:44.400 --> 0:41:45.799 But yeah, that's true. 0:41:46.120 --> 0:41:49.120 But yeah, I like the idea. It's I just really 0:41:49.280 --> 0:41:51.279 need to work on putting myself out there, and I'm 0:41:51.320 --> 0:41:52.960 interested to see how you will do. If you'll like 0:41:53.719 --> 0:41:56.360 just fall onto your high school friends and their friends, 0:41:56.520 --> 0:41:58.359 or if you'll put yourself out there and meet new people. 0:41:58.480 --> 0:42:00.880 M it's gonna be tricky for me. 0:42:01.120 --> 0:42:02.959 I've I've kind of been stressed about it a little 0:42:03.000 --> 0:42:04.239 bit about how I'm going to do this. 0:42:04.640 --> 0:42:06.480 So we'll see, are you going to insert yourself back 0:42:06.480 --> 0:42:07.080 into this life? 0:42:07.560 --> 0:42:09.439 Like you know, my brother's got a lot of friends 0:42:09.440 --> 0:42:11.480 that still live out there, and they're really great people, 0:42:11.560 --> 0:42:13.560 but I'm not really going to be friends with them, 0:42:14.200 --> 0:42:15.960 you know, at least, like I'll like ski with them sometimes, 0:42:16.000 --> 0:42:17.239 but I'm not gonna be like best friends with them 0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:18.560 and go hang out with them or anything like that. 0:42:18.680 --> 0:42:19.319 For the most part. 0:42:19.800 --> 0:42:21.600 Well, the cool thing about being an adult is you 0:42:21.840 --> 0:42:23.040 get to decide who friends are. 0:42:23.280 --> 0:42:25.239 That's a really good point. Yeah, that's a good point. 0:42:26.000 --> 0:42:28.000 Yeah, I don't know at this point in my life, Like, 0:42:28.040 --> 0:42:29.920 I don't need more friends, and so if you're going 0:42:29.960 --> 0:42:31.560 to be my friend, you really got to blow my 0:42:31.680 --> 0:42:32.160 socks off. 0:42:32.280 --> 0:42:34.480 We need friends locally. 0:42:34.560 --> 0:42:38.120 Yeah, but I'm pretty introverted and reclusive as it is, 0:42:38.200 --> 0:42:40.200 Like I could I could never see anyone else for 0:42:40.239 --> 0:42:43.200 the rest of my life and still be fine. You know, 0:42:43.800 --> 0:42:46.320 sure you don't believe me, No, you don't agree. 0:42:46.960 --> 0:42:49.000 You were just telling me that the way the best 0:42:49.040 --> 0:42:50.920 way to fight depression is to have male friendships. 0:42:51.160 --> 0:42:53.000 Well I'm not saying the best way. I've said that 0:42:53.080 --> 0:42:56.040 on the podcast many times that it's scientifically proven that 0:42:56.480 --> 0:42:58.320 the more male friendships you have in your life, the 0:42:58.440 --> 0:43:02.759 less you are likely to be rest Yeah, so don't 0:43:02.800 --> 0:43:03.520 twist my words. 0:43:03.600 --> 0:43:05.160 And that's something that I didn't actually say. 0:43:05.840 --> 0:43:08.400 I'm saying me personally, I could probably skate by for 0:43:08.440 --> 0:43:10.120 the rest of my life without having many friends, Like 0:43:10.160 --> 0:43:11.560 I don't need a lot of friends, but I would 0:43:11.600 --> 0:43:12.560 like them, Like sure, why not. 0:43:13.640 --> 0:43:15.719 So we'll see how it all unfolds. I'm curious to 0:43:15.760 --> 0:43:16.600 see how it happens. 0:43:17.280 --> 0:43:20.759 Yeah, is this the final episode twenty twenty three. I 0:43:20.840 --> 0:43:23.680 believe so this is Oh my god, we're. 0:43:23.520 --> 0:43:25.560 About to move into our eighth year of existence, right. 0:43:25.640 --> 0:43:26.840 Twenty sixteen is probably when we. 0:43:26.880 --> 0:43:30.080 Said that's the stupidest thing I've ever heard of my 0:43:30.239 --> 0:43:34.359 entire life. Yeah, go us so podcast is murder around 0:43:34.400 --> 0:43:35.000 for eight years. 0:43:35.160 --> 0:43:35.799 Go you guys. 0:43:35.840 --> 0:43:38.720 If you've been listening to this podcast in September twenty sixteen, 0:43:39.480 --> 0:43:42.919 good on you, Good on your mate, because what the heck, 0:43:43.239 --> 0:43:44.560 what the heck are what the heck. 0:43:44.400 --> 0:43:47.719 Are you doing our listeners Australia, Now, good on your mate. 0:43:47.960 --> 0:43:49.319 No, No, you're right, you're right. 0:43:49.320 --> 0:43:50.640 I don't know if that's actually true or not if 0:43:50.640 --> 0:43:52.600 it's been eight years, but I do think September twenty 0:43:52.640 --> 0:43:55.239 sixteen is when this podcast started, so we would be 0:43:55.280 --> 0:43:57.719 moving into our eighth calendar year, which is quite the feat. 0:43:59.080 --> 0:44:01.160 But yeah, thank you guys so much for listening, Thank 0:44:01.239 --> 0:44:06.799 you for subscribing to the podcast and continuing to give 0:44:06.880 --> 0:44:10.279 us a chance. 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