WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Third Wheel Steal

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<v Speaker 1>The second date up date, Brooke, I have a question. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>looking back on your dating history, how many boyfriends roughly,

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<v Speaker 1>would you say you stole away from your friends?

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<v Speaker 2>None?

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<v Speaker 1>Unfortunately, don't use that I was too ugly excuse?

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<v Speaker 3>Again No, I did get asked for their number a lot,

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<v Speaker 3>but never not as often mine.

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<v Speaker 2>You were aware your friends. Yeah, they'd be like hey,

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<v Speaker 2>and I thought.

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<v Speaker 3>They'd hit were hitting on me, and then they'd be like,

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<v Speaker 3>your friend's really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, man, Okay, you were the stepping stone.

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<v Speaker 2>I was much shorter and not as gorgeous as they.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, again, I said that the too ugly excuse you keep.

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<v Speaker 1>We've heard it, you lived it. Can we just get

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<v Speaker 1>past it? Can we just asked me.

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<v Speaker 3>You asked me, and you wanted an answer, then you

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<v Speaker 3>get mad at the answer, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>I only asked because one of our listeners is thinking

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<v Speaker 1>of going out with the guy that her friend went

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<v Speaker 1>out with previously. Oh. Interesting, But there's a twist to

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<v Speaker 1>it and we're going to find that out soon. But

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<v Speaker 1>first let's talk to Maya. Maya, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh hi, oh hi, Maya.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if I want to know about your

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<v Speaker 3>friend first, or the guy first.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, there's a lot of tea. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot to unpack here. Why don't you tell

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<v Speaker 1>us how it all happened.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's all kind of like intertwined, so you'll get

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<v Speaker 4>both in one story. Okay, this was a couple of

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<v Speaker 4>weeks ago. I'm like doing some errands. I'm at the drugstore,

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<v Speaker 4>mine in my own business. I get a call from

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<v Speaker 4>my friend. She's like, hey, what are you doing. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>like nothing, just running errands. And she's like, so, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>going on this Tinder date in like literally twenty minutes.

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<v Speaker 4>Any chance you can just swing by and do like

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<v Speaker 4>an oh hi, you know, just in case it's going terrible.

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<v Speaker 4>Then I can just like extract her, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, yeah, like play dumb, like, oh, I never meant

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<v Speaker 1>to walk in at this exact time while you're at table.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a good wellness check, yeah, you know, make sure

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<v Speaker 2>he's not too crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, yeah, girl, I got you. Let me get

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<v Speaker 4>these tampons and I'll head right over.

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<v Speaker 1>Perfect. Okay, a little t m I on that, But

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<v Speaker 1>that's all right, So let's focus. Let's focus more on

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<v Speaker 1>the dating situation and less on what's happening to your bodies?

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<v Speaker 1>So you go to this place and meet up with

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<v Speaker 1>your friend and her date.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I do the oh hi, and we're acting

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<v Speaker 4>like we haven't you know, we're putting on this whole.

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<v Speaker 2>Thing, are you guys? Like at a coffee shop? Where

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<v Speaker 2>are you?

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<v Speaker 4>It was like at a bar. There was like a

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<v Speaker 4>happy hour situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, did you clock the guy's reaction when you

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<v Speaker 1>walked in? But did he seem annoyed?

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<v Speaker 4>No, he seemed not bothered by it. It seemed like

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<v Speaker 4>good played it off like I'm an act. Treat you guys.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like it's good to I think it's good

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<v Speaker 4>to see that your date has like friends, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so wait, did your friend need rescuing from this guy?

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<v Speaker 4>No? Well, okay, so I thought it was just going

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<v Speaker 4>to be like me in and out saying hi and

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<v Speaker 4>like dipping. But then she was like, oh, do you

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<v Speaker 4>want to join us? And I was like, well, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>here to help my friends.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess if she asked me.

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<v Speaker 4>To joy, I'm going to join right okay? And I

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<v Speaker 4>ended up staying on this date with them for like

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<v Speaker 4>a full hour. It was a whole date.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a great friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Was she not filling him then?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I don't. Here's the thing, I definitely didn't

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<v Speaker 4>feel like a third wheel. I actually kind of felt

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<v Speaker 4>like me and him were hitting it off a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit more than she and it because I'm again, this

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<v Speaker 4>man is a stranger to her, you know, so who knows.

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<v Speaker 4>But like that was kind of the vibe I was getting.

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<v Speaker 4>But like it all goes fine. It wasn't weird or uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 4>He I mean like I was like, oh, he's cute,

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<v Speaker 4>He's like a good hang you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, do we know the guy's name yet? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>His name's Finn.

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<v Speaker 1>Finn. Okay, all right, okay, so you and Finn were

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<v Speaker 1>vibing a little bit better than he was with your friend, but.

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<v Speaker 4>You didn't get his name mobile no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 4>So I we go our separate ways. I didn't act

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<v Speaker 4>on at all. It was just kind of the feeling

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<v Speaker 4>I had that're like, oh, it seemed like me and

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<v Speaker 4>him were hitting it off in that way, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So a couple of days later, I talked to my

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<v Speaker 4>friend and I'm like, oh, what's going on with you

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<v Speaker 4>and Finn? And She's like nothing, he's not texting me back.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, maybe it's not there.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, And she was okay with that. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 3>it's like, well, whatever, move on.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I feel like she was a little bothered

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<v Speaker 4>by it, because obviously it's annoying when somebody goes to you.

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<v Speaker 4>But I didn't get the feeling that like she thought

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<v Speaker 4>there was like fireworks flying, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, but you're saying that you felt fireworks happening

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<v Speaker 1>between you and Finn.

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<v Speaker 4>I've also little something something, So I went into detective

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<v Speaker 4>mode and I find him on social media and I

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<v Speaker 4>get his number. No, I didn't do anything. I'm just

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<v Speaker 4>hoping you guys will call him and do the dirty

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<v Speaker 4>work for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. I don't know if I feel really

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable doing this.

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<v Speaker 2>Because because we don't have the friends blessing? Is that?

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<v Speaker 1>Why? Right, there's that she hasn't gotten the green light

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<v Speaker 1>from her friend to call. And also the guy doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>necessarily even know that there was like a connection happening, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, it's going to be a totally But why wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>you just text him first or as my friend?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, listen, I waited two weeks. He's not texting

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<v Speaker 4>her back. She doesn't seem that torn up about it,

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<v Speaker 4>and I do feel like she's a good enough friend

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<v Speaker 4>that she'll be cool about it. But I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>you're right, I didn't get her blessing. Okay, okay, the

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<v Speaker 4>first the guy goes like, honestly, if he's not into it,

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<v Speaker 4>it's not a big deal. It was one weird date

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<v Speaker 4>situation and I just kind of felt like we were

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<v Speaker 4>hitting off. And if I was wrong, I'm fine with it.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not crazy deep. You know, she's kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>An ask forgiveness later type of sure.

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<v Speaker 1>And if she can't forgive you, then it's always easy

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<v Speaker 1>to find yourself a new best friend. First, we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to call this guy and try and get you a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. Update. We'll do it right after this second

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<v Speaker 1>an update. You know what best friends do. They show

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<v Speaker 1>up when you need them to be your wing woman

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date so that they can have your back.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, and if that doesn't go well, they'll swoop

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<v Speaker 1>in and date that guy for that doesn't feel good, Alexis,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure Brooke would do that for you any guy

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<v Speaker 1>that you are dating. She is one phone call away.

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<v Speaker 1>I can do it to each other.

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<v Speaker 2>I've seen Alexis's type. But yeah, quite a mess.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, text you back, you'll be bitter, But a beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>friendship between you two, they really are. See that's what

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners, Maya is about to try with

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<v Speaker 1>us here, because she was the third wheel on a

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<v Speaker 1>date the other night. She observed, she supported, and now

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<v Speaker 1>she's just checking to see if maybe Finn liked her more.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, you know typical best friends stuff, as women

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<v Speaker 1>are cruel to each other. Not me, not me, that's

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<v Speaker 1>for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you don't think a guy would do this?

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<v Speaker 1>Never, Oh you did not have an roommate model who

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<v Speaker 1>would sleep with girls.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure you did it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, but you're still friends, and that's that's the

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<v Speaker 3>important part, right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>For now, feel good about this, Maya.

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<v Speaker 4>Well not after hearing y'all say sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, that was mostly Brook that probably trying to swoop

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<v Speaker 1>in on that was very rude. I get that, but no,

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<v Speaker 1>we're here to have your back because we want to

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<v Speaker 1>be your best friend.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, and to be fair, I didn't say she was

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<v Speaker 4>my best friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, hopefully she doesn't hear this.

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<v Speaker 3>We should just like go with it at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>And remember the friend does not know that we're doing this,

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<v Speaker 1>that we're reaching out to the guy.

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<v Speaker 2>The guy doesn't know that we have his number. No,

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<v Speaker 2>there's a lot of unknowns in this.

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<v Speaker 1>One surprises in story. But we like that on you show,

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<v Speaker 1>on his social media, he's just tuning in.

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<v Speaker 4>It's you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's let's reach out to him right now, see

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<v Speaker 1>if he answers and see what he has to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, Hey is this Finn? Yeah? Who's this? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't well, maybe you do know me. My name

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<v Speaker 1>is jeff from a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Finn, you're on the show right, Welcome? Why I

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<v Speaker 2>like your directness? Then, yeah, I applaud that.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't worry, it's for a good reason. It means that

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who's a listener of our show really likes you.

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<v Speaker 4>Who.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Well, do you remember you went out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with a girl a couple of weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 5>You're gonna have to be more specific.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, you guys went to a bar and did

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<v Speaker 1>happy hour and while you were there on the date,

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<v Speaker 1>her friend came in randomly and sat with you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, I mean it sounds like the friend hung

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<v Speaker 3>out for like an hour?

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<v Speaker 5>Was your name Maya?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>How did that date go? In your eyes? Like, what

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<v Speaker 1>did you think of it?

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<v Speaker 5>We were all just sort of having a good time

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<v Speaker 5>together and hanging out at the bar.

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<v Speaker 4>Pay Like, what did you guys say your name was?

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<v Speaker 1>Again?

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<v Speaker 5>Why is this happening?

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like you're having a good day already.

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<v Speaker 1>Some Irish coffees this morning. Yeah, to answer your original question,

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<v Speaker 1>remember we're broken Jeffrey in the morning, and the reason

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<v Speaker 1>we're calling you.

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<v Speaker 2>Hola, how do I ask this? It's part of a

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<v Speaker 2>second date update, But it's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know your date, like, you had the friend

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<v Speaker 1>that came in and joined you. What did you think

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<v Speaker 1>of the friend of Maya? Right?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean she was cute, She's kind of cool. Uh,

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<v Speaker 5>it's kind of weird. You don't usually go on dates

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<v Speaker 5>with three people, unless you know, you're like Italian and

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<v Speaker 5>wear those kind of shoes and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Like a mom, Like, what do you mean, especially.

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<v Speaker 5>Unless you're like, like, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think we get it, well, don't. I'm getting the vibe

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<v Speaker 1>that you had a good time with everybody.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, yeah, everybody's cool. In fact, Caitlyn, I've sort

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<v Speaker 5>of been like hanging out with her a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, what you've been hanging out with Caitlyn? Who you

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<v Speaker 2>were on the date.

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<v Speaker 1>With my friend?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? You know, she's kind of cool. We sort of

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<v Speaker 5>hitting off. We went on a few other dates.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh.

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<v Speaker 5>We went to like the movies and did my light

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<v Speaker 5>and she met my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa, Wow, she met your mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you're like dating Caitlyn right now?

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<v Speaker 5>If I could have kept my mom, I'm from meeting her.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, we did not know a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Of that, and that's shady.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that Maya knew that either, or did she.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, I really don't know what that is going

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<v Speaker 4>on right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you don't know you are you sure?

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<v Speaker 4>No? I mean it sounds like he's saying that my

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<v Speaker 4>friends just lied to me that she's been seeing him,

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<v Speaker 4>and this in fact met his mom while telling me

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<v Speaker 4>that he's ghosting her. Like I don't that doesn't make anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, wow, Maya, thank you for that beautiful reason.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't have said it any better myself. But then

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<v Speaker 1>that's Maya who has been waiting and listening in on

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<v Speaker 1>the other phone line, wanting to talk to you. No.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean Maya told me that you haven't responded to

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<v Speaker 4>any of her calls or text for like two weeks.

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<v Speaker 4>And I mean, honestly, I did think you and I

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<v Speaker 4>were hitting it off. So I was like, maybe he

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<v Speaker 4>was more into me than her. But it sounds like

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<v Speaker 4>I was totally wrong, and my friend is, I guess,

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<v Speaker 4>a little insecure about us maybe getting it off. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like, look at what her friend is doing.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she was insecure for a reason.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't think she was dating him. I obviously

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<v Speaker 4>wouldn't have reached out like it actually did.

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<v Speaker 1>Why we didn't know any of this.

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<v Speaker 2>We thought that you were talking to Caitlyn at all.

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<v Speaker 2>We thought that you were totally single and available to.

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<v Speaker 5>Move to another town change my name.

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<v Speaker 1>Why wouldn't Caitlyn want her friend to note about that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't get it either.

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<v Speaker 4>Owe doesn't want her friend to go do this.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly what's happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but if she knew they were dating. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm on Maya's side on this one.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, no, I would have just not gone for it

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<v Speaker 4>at all. I would have just be like, okay, cool,

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<v Speaker 4>they hit it off. I was wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>That's Can you like step in and give us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of clarity here, we're all really confused.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like Kitlyn felt like you were coming on

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<v Speaker 5>too strong, you know, and it was her date, so

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<v Speaker 5>I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean fair enough. I don't know. I mean, it

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<v Speaker 4>did feel like you and I were hitting it off.

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<v Speaker 4>I tried to downplay it, but maybe i'd into a

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<v Speaker 4>good job of that.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know. I think she saw the connection happening

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<v Speaker 5>between us and she was scared it was going to

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<v Speaker 5>take away from our connection.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Okay, So I wasn't wrong about the connection then, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I mean that's something.

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<v Speaker 2>And what's funny is Caitlyn also read it right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but Caitlyn did I think called dibbs based on

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<v Speaker 1>the swiping.

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<v Speaker 4>So, but that's fine. Like I said, this was low stakes,

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<v Speaker 4>Like if he wasn't into it, he's not into it.

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<v Speaker 4>If he's not into it because he's with my friend,

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<v Speaker 4>that's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, and think of it as a benefit.

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<v Speaker 3>You're going to be taking off of her emergency list

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<v Speaker 3>on the future day.

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<v Speaker 4>There.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Oh my god, this is going to be so

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<v Speaker 3>embarrassing to explain to Kaitlyn later.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you to your friend.

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<v Speaker 5>No, can I explain it?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm going if I already know, if she's

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<v Speaker 4>in the car, I know she could be listening.

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<v Speaker 3>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe you guys can sit down all together and

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<v Speaker 1>explain it and figure it out. When we send you

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<v Speaker 1>out on another date. We would pay for three people

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<v Speaker 1>to go to a happy hour and hash it out.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you laughing? You said it was a good times.

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<v Speaker 4>It was when it wasn't all awkward. Now it sounds terrible.

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<v Speaker 3>You just add alcohol to that and I'm sure it'll

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<v Speaker 3>get better if you really want.

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<v Speaker 1>We can see you and Caitlyn at different tables and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll have Finn go back and forth. Just sit down

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes apiece you up for that, Finn.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it'll be like miss.

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<v Speaker 2>You are a strange mansion.

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<v Speaker 3>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever you've been doing this morning, do less of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I figure before you meet up with Caitlin.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been working five am.

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<v Speaker 2>He's been working.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what co operation all right, Well, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like we're going to send you down on another date. Congratulations.

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<v Speaker 2>They said no, they said no.

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<v Speaker 4>To that. That's crazy. Also, he seems like he's on something.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, so clearly Maya's being sarcastic. She can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>to sit down with and fight to the finish. Whoever

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<v Speaker 1>comes out on top winds Finn's heart rooking Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, you got a text seventy five nine two

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<v Speaker 1>that says, I like Finn. He sounds fun, right word.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently our listeners are trying to swoop in on Finn

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<v Speaker 1>never ends and weird. A lot of the texts are

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<v Speaker 1>coming from Brooks phone number, interested in. Uh yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>the air like Finn, some like random stone or degenerate,

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<v Speaker 1>but off the air, you're like, oh, Finn. I dated

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<v Speaker 1>to see Radio INSIGHT's latest article that I'm the ninety

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<v Speaker 1>eighth most up and coming female radio host under age sixty.

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<v Speaker 2>I dated a dozen Finns when I was like twenty three.

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<v Speaker 2>Been there, done that, Do not need them.

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<v Speaker 1>Mama has experienced with me.

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<v Speaker 2>You are so weird.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of text men on this one, so it's

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<v Speaker 1>resonating with people. I don't know if it's in a

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<v Speaker 1>good way.

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<v Speaker 2>That is not a healthy friendship.

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<v Speaker 1>Ah, yeah at all. I know they're keeping secret from

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<v Speaker 1>each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, swooping in on each other's men.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Mike I'm hoping that we get an update from

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<v Speaker 1>this situation though.

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<v Speaker 2>Somebody date of what if he's still dating Caitlin do.

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<v Speaker 1>Why don't we ask her to make the awkward Tuesday

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<v Speaker 1>call to her friend on the air. It could happen

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<v Speaker 1>like a disaster. Yeah, maybe not.

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<v Speaker 3>Yea.

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