1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 1: online at advocatesla dot com. 3 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 2: Julia is on the phone today for a first day 4 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 2: follow up, but she's getting ghosted by a guy named Walker. 5 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 2: So in a minute, we're gonna call him and see 6 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 2: if we can figure out why he's ghostinger. But first, Julia, 7 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Walker? 8 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 3: About a week? 9 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 4: Okay? 10 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 5: Week? 11 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 6: Okay, that's kind of the sweet spot. How many times 12 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 6: have you reached out to him in that in that time? 13 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 4: I've sent him a couple of packs, like three or four, Like, 14 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 4: what's a couple about three? 15 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 2: It's not too bad, and you've heard nothing. 16 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 4: From him, nothing, not a peep. 17 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:39,559 Speaker 2: All right, tell us a little bit about your date. 18 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:42,959 Speaker 4: He asked me to meet him at a sushi restaurant, 19 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:47,639 Speaker 4: which I thought was really cool. Okay, we had dinner 20 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 4: and she hadn't had much sushi before, so he let 21 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 4: me kind of pick everything out, and he seemed to 22 00:00:55,240 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 4: really like what I picked out, like especially the spicy tuna. A. Yeah, 23 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,639 Speaker 4: so dinner was went really well. He told me all 24 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 4: about his business study starting, and he just seems so 25 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 4: motivated and passionate. I loved that. And then we went 26 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 4: for a walk, which I thought was a really good sign. 27 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 2: Okay, how was the walk? It was nice. 28 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 4: I mean it lasted about an hour and we just 29 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 4: kept talking. 30 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 2: How did it end? Like, did you'll kiss? 31 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 3: Hug? 32 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:29,479 Speaker 4: Five? 33 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:31,199 Speaker 2: We hugged? 34 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah. Did anything happen between the walk and dinner 35 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 3: that may have been a little bit off? 36 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 4: I mean, the only thing I can think is that 37 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 4: I recently I told him a lot about my work too, 38 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 4: because he was telling me a lot about his business. 39 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 4: And I recently got a promotion at work and I 40 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 4: was so excited about it. 41 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 3: Rats, thank you. 42 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 4: So I just wondered if that rubbed him the wrong 43 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 4: way or something like, how. 44 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 2: Do you think that could rubbed him the wrong way? 45 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 4: Well, he loves a little I don't know, like he 46 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 4: didn't want to ask me a lot about it or something. 47 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 4: And I wondered if because he's having he's just at 48 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 4: the beginning stages of starting a business, if he felt 49 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 4: a little insecure or something that I'm doing so well 50 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 4: in my career. 51 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 3: Did he talk a lot about his business? He did 52 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 3: talk a fair amount. 53 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 4: I mean he seemed excited about it and like he 54 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 4: was really interested in what he's doing. 55 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 3: I don't know how that would take away from what 56 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 3: you're doing, but I mean there are guys like that, 57 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 3: so I believe it. 58 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 4: But I know this, Yeah, yeah, it seems like maybe 59 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 4: he's not quite where he wants to be in his career. 60 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 4: So I wonder if that was it. 61 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 6: Well, that's also kind of a red flag for you, 62 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 6: because you want to be with somebody that's a little 63 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:01,359 Speaker 6: bit more secure in that space, right, If that was it, 64 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 6: I mean, we're highly speculating it's this point. 65 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I honestly, I feel like I've come 66 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 4: across this before. So Okay, that's what made me wonder 67 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:15,799 Speaker 4: if that's the only thing I can think of, Because 68 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 4: we just had the best time, okay. 69 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 2: And then at the end when you guys hugged, did 70 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 2: he say like, oh I want to meet up again 71 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:24,639 Speaker 2: or anything like that, or did he just bounce? 72 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:28,799 Speaker 4: No, I think we just said we had a really 73 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 4: nice time. 74 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 2: Okay. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out 75 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 2: for you. We'll play a song, come back and then 76 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 2: call him and see if he'll tell us why he's 77 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 2: ghosting you and maybe get you another date if you 78 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 2: still want one. Okay, okay, all right, we'll plaus on 79 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 2: come back. Get your first Date follow Up, Next. 80 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 81 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com. 82 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first Date follow Up, 83 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Julia is on the phone 84 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 2: and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Walker. So 85 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 2: we're just about to call him see if he'll tell 86 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 2: us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. 87 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 2: But before we do that, Julia, why don't you refresh 88 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 2: everybody's memory on your date with Walker. 89 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 4: We went out for an amazing sushi dinner and had 90 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 4: a nice walk afterwards, and he told me about his 91 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 4: business that he's starting up, and he seems super into it, 92 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 4: and I told him all about my promotion at work 93 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 4: and how excited I. 94 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,239 Speaker 2: Was about it. Did you make a lot of Walker 95 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:24,720 Speaker 2: jokes while you were walking? I didn't even think about that. 96 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 2: I just thought of her right now. That could also 97 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 2: be a reason if you wouldn't stop with the Walker jokes, 98 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 2: like I would go hand on that. 99 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 4: That would have been a great joke. I totally. 100 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 2: Okay. I was thinking maybe that is the reason, But 101 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 2: maybe not William. We'll call him right now. Are you ready? 102 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 5: Yeah? 103 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. He Hi'm I seek the Walker please? Yeah, 104 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 2: this Jim, Hey man, how are you? This is a 105 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 2: radio show. It's called the Jubil Show. My name's Jubil. Hi. 106 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 3: You know. Also on the show, Hi, I'm Victoria. 107 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 2: We got an email about you from somebody that you 108 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 2: are ghosting and they want to know why you're not 109 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:08,279 Speaker 2: calling them back. 110 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 5: Oh okay, yeah, okay, this is Julia. 111 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 2: Yes, it is Walker. Yeah, Julia emailed us, told us 112 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 2: a little bit about your date and is really confused 113 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 2: why you're ghosting her? Am I telling us? 114 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 5: I mean, that's that's about it. I'm starting to think 115 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 5: maybe emailing a radio show about it could be on 116 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 5: that list. But that wasn't it initially? 117 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 2: Okay, so wait, what's the deal? Why are you ghosting? 118 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 5: I don't know, man. Like, we went to dinner and 119 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 5: it was fun. It was great. Actually, we got some sushi. 120 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 5: I'm not used to that stuff, but I housed a 121 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 5: couple of spicy tuneroles. Those things are great and it 122 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 5: was fun, you know, like it seemed pretty easy at first, 123 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 5: but she kind of got on. Oh god, she kind 124 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 5: of got into like this tangent about her job and 125 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 5: stuff and how she got this new promotion and then 126 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 5: she was very excited about it. It's it's it's cool, 127 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 5: but it's kind of dominated the whole back end of 128 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 5: the night, so I don't know, it just kind of 129 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 5: felt weird. I don't know. 130 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 2: She talked about her job too much? Is that it it's. 131 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 5: Not even just about I don't know about the job, 132 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 5: but just seemed to be just all encompassing, you know, 133 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 5: like I don't know, like somebody's whole identity is wrapped 134 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:28,279 Speaker 5: up in that, you know, and it's just I don't know, 135 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 5: it just kind of was it was kind of boring. 136 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 3: I'm sorry her job is boring or the way she 137 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 3: talked about it. 138 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 5: No, not that I don't know, you like, I don't 139 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 5: know much about finance, but that you know, just the 140 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:44,559 Speaker 5: same thing over and over again. 141 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 6: You know. 142 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:48,359 Speaker 5: Does that make sense if somebody's talking about just something 143 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 5: like you get excited and then it just goes downhill 144 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 5: and it's like, God, all right, I get it, you. 145 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 2: Know, I mean, is that all she talked about? It 146 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:58,600 Speaker 2: just wasn't interesting or what I mean, Sure. 147 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 5: It's interesting, your fears talked about some friends too, and 148 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 5: you know, they seem nice, and a little bit about 149 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 5: her family. But for the whole thing, it was about 150 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 5: like wanting a promotion and then what I had to 151 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 5: do to get it, and I finally got it. Now 152 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 5: I felt about it afterwards, like God, rent a movie 153 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 5: or something that's terrible. I shouldn't say that, but I 154 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 5: feel something. 155 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 3: Did you ask a question? 156 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 5: I mean the usual stuff like, you know, where'd you 157 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 5: grow up and what were you into as a kid? 158 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 5: You know, did you play any sports? You know, where 159 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 5: do you live in the city, like that kind of stuff. 160 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 5: You know, pretty pretty basic stuff I think when you're 161 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 5: on a first date. 162 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 2: All right, well thanks for telling us, man. 163 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, for sure, thanks for asking. 164 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 2: No problem. Yeah, Julia is also on the on the 165 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 2: phone and has been listening this whole time and wants 166 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 2: to talk to you. I shall tell you that I 167 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 2: don't have any recommendations. 168 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, no, I'm I'm sure she is, man, Yeah. 169 00:07:57,520 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 2: Right, she really is. 170 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 4: Hey, Hey, welcome. 171 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 2: Hey Julia. 172 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 4: Hey. Yeah, I guess I'm a little confused. 173 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 5: I mean, you seem Yeah, I don't even know how 174 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 5: to put it any more plainly than I did when 175 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 5: I didn't know you were there. But uh, you know, 176 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 5: I don't want to be mean. It's just I'm really 177 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 5: happy for you, but it just I don't know. I 178 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 5: just feel like maybe we're it's just not in the 179 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:33,439 Speaker 5: same spot. 180 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 4: I mean, I just feel like someone can't accept a 181 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 4: woman in a relationship to be successful. 182 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:45,439 Speaker 5: Well, I mean, that's that's not it. That's no, it's 183 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 5: not it at all. It's you know, I just want 184 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 5: to at interest in life. 185 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 4: I just are you intimidated by me? 186 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 5: Not even a little bit. No, no, not at all. 187 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 5: I think it's great, you know, it seems to make 188 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 5: you really happy, and that's wonderful. I just don't know 189 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 5: if I can be a part of it. 190 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:10,560 Speaker 4: Well, I think you're intimidated by me, and you can't 191 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 4: be with a woman who's more successful than you. I 192 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 4: think that's what it is. 193 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 5: I'm sorry. I really don't know how to respond to that. 194 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 5: But that's absurd, that's not what this is. And it 195 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 5: feels kind of I don't know, that feels oddly accusatory 196 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:29,959 Speaker 5: and weird to go to. It's not that at all, 197 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 5: trust me. I just think we're on two different playing 198 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:34,319 Speaker 5: fields right now. 199 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:38,679 Speaker 4: That's all, okay, I think that's exactly what it is. 200 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:40,199 Speaker 4: But agree to disagree. 201 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 5: I guess, sure, I guess yeah. I'm sorry if I 202 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 5: gave you that impression, but that's not what this is. 203 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 5: So please don't don't harbor that ill will towards me. 204 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, if you don't want someone who's happy and 205 00:09:56,679 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 4: feels good about their job, then you know, can I 206 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 4: do about that? 207 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 5: There's nothing you can do about it. Keep being those things. 208 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:07,959 Speaker 5: It's just not for me. I think it's great. I'm 209 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 5: very happy for you. 210 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I don't really believe you. So you know, 211 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 4: just because you can't be happy at your job doesn't 212 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 4: mean I can't be happy at mine. 213 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 5: I sure, yeah, okay. 214 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 2: Walker, would you like another day with Julia? We'll pay 215 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 2: for it. 216 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 5: I mean, I think that would be a horrible idea. 217 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 1: Jubile's first day follow up powered by the Advocates Injury 218 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:38,079 Speaker 1: Attorney Online at Advocates Law dot com.