WEBVTT - This Is Why Men Cheat Feat Brunch With The Boyz 0:00:19.680 --> 0:00:20.840 What's up you guys. 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:24.360 Welcome back to good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and 0:00:24.440 --> 0:00:29.120 I'm Nila. Happy Wednesday, Happy hump Day, y'all. Hope y'all 0:00:29.120 --> 0:00:34.159 fucking on this happy Wednesday. I just suck some petus earlier. 0:00:34.360 --> 0:00:36.600 Yeah wow, So honest, did you I'm just going to 0:00:36.640 --> 0:00:38.120 come this close to me with your digma. 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:40.479 Did you swallow? 0:00:41.000 --> 0:00:41.240 Yep? 0:00:41.560 --> 0:00:42.600 Do you always swallow? 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:43.080 Yep? 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:45.480 One time in high school I've probably said this before. 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:46.280 Somebody told me. 0:00:46.800 --> 0:00:49.320 A guy told me, if you don't swallow, it's disrespectful. 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:52.000 And I spent the next like fifteen years just swallowing. 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:52.320 Come. 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:57.040 And so I realized that is not true. Fucked these neggas. 0:00:59.040 --> 0:01:01.720 So now I'm as a rebellion to that motherfucker. 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:06.160 Who told me that I swallow seldomly, very particular particularly well, 0:01:06.200 --> 0:01:08.120 I don't just suck any dick either, So it's not 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:08.959 like I'm sort here just. 0:01:09.000 --> 0:01:10.920 Like, No, I know, I wasn't suggesting that was a joke. 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:13.920 I'm just letting you know. I'm just letting very particular 0:01:13.920 --> 0:01:17.280 about my dick sucks. Okay, Well, yeah me too. 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:20.959 It has to be very beneficial, it must be. 0:01:20.920 --> 0:01:23.840 Clean, and I got to know that I'm going to 0:01:23.880 --> 0:01:25.680 get it in return. 0:01:25.840 --> 0:01:28.839 Try to start with me first so you can transition. 0:01:28.959 --> 0:01:30.000 I'm an give her anyway. 0:01:30.760 --> 0:01:32.720 I'm not a person though, that likes to just give 0:01:32.800 --> 0:01:35.640 head and then that's it. So that makes you feel like, 0:01:35.680 --> 0:01:38.560 oh no, I'm just in general, I need something in return. 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:40.839 I'm not going to get off by giving you head. 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:46.199 Anytime I've ever given head and not gotten received back, I'm. 0:01:46.080 --> 0:01:47.480 Sure I did too, if it's ever happened. 0:01:47.680 --> 0:01:49.880 Also, I'm not that confident, like I have good dick 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:51.720 sucking skills, but I'm not gonna I'm not. I'm not 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:53.280 gonna make you come like I don't want to suck 0:01:53.320 --> 0:01:55.920 your dick that long. So we're gonna have to move 0:01:55.960 --> 0:02:00.680 forward here. Okay, anyway, if. 0:02:00.560 --> 0:02:04.880 I could interject there, you have a guest there. 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:07.200 If you're sucking it right, you won't have to suck it. 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:10.840 Oh well, Daisy, Okay, we have guests. We're we're here 0:02:11.040 --> 0:02:13.440 joined by brunch with the boys. 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:16.440 Gez, mister j KINGDZ. 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:19.160 King, Yes, you got it. 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:21.959 What are you drinking? Gez? What's that over there? 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:25.080 Just a little boka and a splash of pineapple? 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:26.960 You re drinking beer? 0:02:27.200 --> 0:02:29.120 I copied somebody I saw with a beer. Now I'm 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:31.720 feeling like I'm having I'm having fomo. 0:02:34.240 --> 0:02:34.400 Oh. 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:36.960 Anyway, speaking Geze, I know I know what the fun 0:02:37.040 --> 0:02:39.000 you're talking about because I heard what you said about 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:40.519 the dick. Second, we want a bitch to put a 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:44.640 nap in underneath, yo, but just just to make sure it's. 0:02:44.520 --> 0:02:47.639 Gonna get sloppy. What Yeah, the only drink. 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:48.880 Second he likes, Gez. 0:02:49.320 --> 0:02:51.840 He wants you to lift his ass up and put 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:54.240 like almost like a knack in underneath beause it's about 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:55.600 to get filthy nasty. 0:02:55.639 --> 0:02:57.560 That's the only kind of She wants a lot of spit. 0:02:57.639 --> 0:03:00.480 He wants pick and like I want to, I'm gonna 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:02.480 choke and throw up if it's too much. 0:03:02.560 --> 0:03:06.440 Like it, Okay, I mean I go for it. I 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:08.120 go all the way and then until I'm. 0:03:07.960 --> 0:03:09.079 Like, oh no, don't throw up. 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:14.200 In the morning. You won't have to worry about that's smart. 0:03:14.200 --> 0:03:16.919 There's nothing stomach, there's nothing worse than throwing up. I 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:19.120 remember I told you that when I went to Dallas. 0:03:19.400 --> 0:03:20.880 Oh you did throw up, and it turned him on 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:21.360 a little bit. 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:22.840 He was a nastyness, yeah he was. 0:03:23.320 --> 0:03:24.760 But I was like it's not gonna turn me on. 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:26.040 I'm gonna be gross that with myself. 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:29.400 I'm like, oh, no, chunks, that's. 0:03:29.200 --> 0:03:31.680 A whole genre before and actually that's a whole genre. 0:03:31.720 --> 0:03:33.080 I don't want to see that genre. I don't want 0:03:33.080 --> 0:03:33.840 to se anybody else. 0:03:34.360 --> 0:03:35.240 But I know it's out there. 0:03:35.440 --> 0:03:36.280 That's nasty. 0:03:38.160 --> 0:03:40.800 That's an important question. Did you keep sucking it afterwards? Me? 0:03:41.040 --> 0:03:41.400 Yeah, I did. 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:44.960 I thought I felt it come up in my mouth 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:47.400 and then I immediately sucked it back down. 0:03:47.400 --> 0:03:49.880 I did that, and then it was too late. I 0:03:49.920 --> 0:03:50.120 had to. 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:56.400 It was like projectile, but I turned on over here. 0:03:56.840 --> 0:04:02.320 Yes you are getting hard and you're like whoa today? 0:04:02.840 --> 0:04:05.160 First, but first I yelled at him because I. 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:06.800 Was like, nigga, relaxed, what the fuck are you doing? 0:04:06.880 --> 0:04:08.880 And then he was like sorry, and then I was 0:04:08.880 --> 0:04:12.640 like okay, okay, as you're sorry. 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:17.039 Sorry when say sorry, man, he don't really mean it. 0:04:17.160 --> 0:04:17.520 My bad. 0:04:17.640 --> 0:04:20.240 He didn't mean it because he was just like he didn't. 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:25.840 It was unnecessary during that that that moment, you know what, 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:28.200 bitches ain't ship either, because this is the same nigga 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:29.599 that suck my toes in the bar though. 0:04:29.520 --> 0:04:32.760 I know, but we say like, oh we be respectful. 0:04:32.800 --> 0:04:38.120 Blah blah blah. They're like, chalk me, call me a bitch, slap, 0:04:38.760 --> 0:04:40.599 call me a slug used. 0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:43.840 To bipolar behavior anyway, So it really is something that 0:04:43.880 --> 0:04:44.479 we expect. 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:47.039 So and what kind of slap are we talking about? 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:48.280 To slap across the face. 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:52.480 A little like I've been telling you. 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:54.640 Coupled with like a passionate kiss. 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:57.279 It's just like a like a like a balance of 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:59.800 both balance of love and like maybe like maybe one 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:04.280 of the yeah, ok, sorry. 0:05:03.800 --> 0:05:06.440 Sorry, just like we're watching porn right now. 0:05:06.400 --> 0:05:12.880 If you guys joined Patreon, smack. 0:05:12.680 --> 0:05:13.440 The funk out of me. 0:05:13.560 --> 0:05:14.440 Jesus Christ. 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:18.080 That was a love chat pitch whatever exactly. 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:19.000 That's what I say too. 0:05:19.839 --> 0:05:21.240 I got to get three SIPs of beer. 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:21.719 I don't know how to. 0:05:23.400 --> 0:05:24.520 Mighty get this girl, drake. 0:05:27.240 --> 0:05:30.000 You guys will tell our listeners. Wait, where where you 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:30.560 guys are at? 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:33.000 First of all, Lando, Florida. 0:05:33.320 --> 0:05:35.640 Orlando, the land of you're in Florida, the land of 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:38.320 covid Is that. 0:05:36.920 --> 0:05:38.440 Is that what it's called? 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:42.320 You hit us in the stomach with that one. 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:45.720 But okay, but but Loki, California, We're right with you too. 0:05:45.800 --> 0:05:48.200 So y'all just know how to do the right thing though, 0:05:48.480 --> 0:05:49.359 we're still working on that. 0:05:50.320 --> 0:05:52.400 Apparently New York is doing great and they were the 0:05:52.520 --> 0:05:53.920 Land of Covid like three weeks ago. 0:05:53.960 --> 0:05:54.800 So yeah, I know. 0:05:56.920 --> 0:05:58.800 So why did you guys start your podcast? Tell us 0:05:58.839 --> 0:06:01.080 a little bit about with the boys. 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:06.120 Yeah, so we were just I mean, we're greedy motherfuckers, right, 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:08.880 We like to work out for the sake of eating. Actually, 0:06:08.920 --> 0:06:12.400 so you know, we hit brunch on a Sunday, man, 0:06:12.480 --> 0:06:14.680 and you know, we're doing our normal things that dudes do, 0:06:14.800 --> 0:06:17.080 barbershop talk, but we just taking it in so we 0:06:17.120 --> 0:06:20.000 can actually enjoy some fine brunch dining. 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:20.360 Right. 0:06:20.800 --> 0:06:23.400 So we at this place called Another Broken Egg, and 0:06:23.440 --> 0:06:26.400 we eating, we cracking jokes, we're talking about stuff. We 0:06:26.520 --> 0:06:28.640 always challenging each other, so it's like a bunch of 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:30.320 a type personalities fighting. 0:06:30.120 --> 0:06:33.280 Over the last piece of piece of meat. Right, And so. 0:06:35.000 --> 0:06:37.520 We're we're sitting down having the conversation and some white 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:39.680 people come up to us and they're like, listen, you 0:06:39.720 --> 0:06:41.960 guys need to be on like the radio. I mean, 0:06:42.080 --> 0:06:43.840 you guys, we were listening to you back there, and 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:47.039 you guys are freaking hilarious. And I was like all right, 0:06:47.279 --> 0:06:49.360 and Dez was like man, we should do that ship, 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:51.840 we should do something. And Gez was like, as long 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:54.159 as I get to smoke, we're good, right, So yeah, 0:06:54.200 --> 0:06:54.640 I'm with you. 0:06:56.320 --> 0:07:00.720 Let me roll up real quick. You to roll up? 0:07:00.720 --> 0:07:01.000 What are we? 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:03.080 What do we not han show Indica? 0:07:03.760 --> 0:07:07.680 Yeah, that might label on it. I shouldn't know. 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:08.360 We could. 0:07:10.440 --> 0:07:11.880 They ball over there doing what? 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:15.239 Man, we still got a cop on the corner and ship. 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:17.160 You know what I'm saying, come in the biplock bag. 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:19.600 I missed those, man. 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:20.560 I wish I had a weed. 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:20.760 Man. 0:07:21.240 --> 0:07:23.240 Sometimes over here, if you get desperate and. 0:07:23.200 --> 0:07:27.080 All the dispensaries are closed, you can go on Craigslist 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:27.880 and you can't. 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:28.520 We've done it. 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:29.200 We've got on c. 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:34.080 She did it. She don't even know you can't. 0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:36.440 You could just put a delivery like because we four 0:07:36.480 --> 0:07:38.680 twenty delivery and they'll just pop up some numbers and 0:07:38.720 --> 0:07:40.000 then you just there you go. 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:40.400 Wow. 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:41.160 I had no idea. 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:45.640 That's the nigga selling weed on I G and I, oh, yeah, 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:54.440 that's some Florida ship. Ye as if the police don't exist, right, I'm. 0:07:54.320 --> 0:07:56.440 Surprised he hasn't been flag because I G is on 0:07:56.480 --> 0:07:56.880 our app. 0:07:56.960 --> 0:07:58.680 Yeah, we postedly and that you would act like we're 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:00.720 not even in California, like we're the weed. 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:00.840 Man. 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:05.040 He was a picture of like a smiling today like 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:08.880 nic is flag they're selling hilarious. 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:12.520 How long have you guys been friends ship? 0:08:13.600 --> 0:08:19.080 I'd say probably what about twenty years now? Wow? 0:08:20.040 --> 0:08:22.840 Me my brother so I known that nigga since birth. 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:27.520 I went to school together. And then Jeezy was the 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:29.320 nigga he bring around every once in a while. 0:08:29.560 --> 0:08:30.200 Caused trouble. 0:08:30.800 --> 0:08:34.720 We didn't really like whatever there you are. And when 0:08:34.760 --> 0:08:38.120 I visit and you know, fun some hoes in Gainesville. 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:43.000 And leave, Yeah Gainesville hose. Huh the hose in Gainesville. 0:08:42.840 --> 0:08:45.120 Where they are shout out to Gainesville. 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:45.920 Yes. 0:08:47.640 --> 0:08:49.920 How long have you guys been doing the podcast? 0:08:50.280 --> 0:08:52.040 It's running almost close to two years. 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:53.880 Man, cool, congratulations, that's do. 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:56.000 Thank thank you very much, Thank you very much. 0:08:56.760 --> 0:08:58.160 I love huh. 0:08:58.440 --> 0:09:00.280 I said, it's a labor love. We love it. 0:09:00.720 --> 0:09:00.960 Yeah. 0:09:01.920 --> 0:09:04.160 We always tell people and anybody listening, if you want 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:07.040 to start a podcast, you must love it because this 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:09.240 ship is not going to make you rich anytime soon. 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:12.320 And it's a whole lot of work. 0:09:12.440 --> 0:09:16.160 Every week. Every week is a production. It's a production. 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:20.560 It is it's therapy. Literally, we say that all the time. 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:23.079 Like coming here and talking shit and having to be 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:26.800 like responsible for what we said last week has been 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:28.160 very therapeutic. 0:09:28.320 --> 0:09:29.800 I'm like, damn, I've been talking about this shit for 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:30.280 two years. 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:35.320 I've been fucking up for two years straight. Well everybody knows. 0:09:35.880 --> 0:09:39.880 It's not just my friends circle anymore. Now everybody knows 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:42.719 shits I need to grow up. 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:44.640 Let me ask you guys a question. Do you guys 0:09:44.640 --> 0:09:47.360 have friends who are jealous that they're not a part 0:09:47.440 --> 0:09:48.960 of this podcast you guys. 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:50.400 Have together, I'm sure secretly. 0:09:50.679 --> 0:09:52.720 Yeah, I don't think anybody that wants to be on 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:56.240 the podcast, but maybe people that are like get our friendship. 0:09:56.280 --> 0:09:58.480 You know, so we basically became friends on the podcast. 0:09:58.480 --> 0:10:01.320 We were friends before, but like like like mom friends, 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:04.120 our kids are the same age. Yeah, So then like 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:06.920 we started really really getting to know each other on 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:09.920 the podcast and became best friends. And you know, and 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:12.080 because we're work together and we're together all the time, 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:13.680 people be like, damn, this is the only bit you 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:14.200 hang out. 0:10:14.040 --> 0:10:16.880 With now with the fuck kind of we have a business, 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:18.199 we have money to get bit just. 0:10:18.760 --> 0:10:22.920 No yeah, no, true? So do you do you all 0:10:22.960 --> 0:10:23.680 have kids? 0:10:24.640 --> 0:10:24.880 Yeah? 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:27.240 Yeah, okay, so tell us how many kids each of 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:27.520 you have? 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:30.240 The ages and shit, we're black men, so we have 0:10:30.320 --> 0:10:31.360 six kids, six women. 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:34.840 Don't do that shit, don't you dare? 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:39.600 Don't that shit all our non non black listeners that 0:10:39.720 --> 0:10:40.520 is not true. 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:43.400 Not subscribe to that belief. 0:10:44.000 --> 0:10:47.200 We all have kids each. I have a thirteen year 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:50.240 old and eleven year old. I got a twelve and 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:52.880 the ten, and it's gonna hurt my feelings. But I 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:55.840 got a nineteen year old and a sixteen year old. 0:10:56.080 --> 0:10:58.360 Oh they think with you still? 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:00.560 No nineteen year Oh he don't. 0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:06.840 Unless I'm taking them on vacations or setting up appointments 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:09.079 at a massage parlor for him or something like that. 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:14.720 Wow parlor goddam yeah. 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:16.559 Yeah, And I never and I don't mean the Asian ones. 0:11:16.559 --> 0:11:20.319 And I was literally going to ask, is this inappropriate? 0:11:20.360 --> 0:11:22.040 But what you let you're so get a happy ending 0:11:22.160 --> 0:11:22.720 at nineteen? 0:11:23.760 --> 0:11:24.640 Why not? Absolutely? 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:28.679 You would facilitate that, though I would facilitate it, and 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:31.160 I would tell him they're gonna use jurgons. 0:11:31.360 --> 0:11:32.480 Do not subscribe to that. 0:11:33.960 --> 0:11:35.840 I would send him in with a lunch bad full 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:38.480 of appropriate substitute liquids. 0:11:38.679 --> 0:11:42.520 That should place, you know, cocoa. 0:11:43.920 --> 0:11:46.160 Coc What about coconut oil? 0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:50.040 Oh that it was good too. That's the ship, are. 0:11:49.920 --> 0:11:55.000 You suggesting asking? 0:11:56.440 --> 0:11:58.240 I tell him he'll take your draws. He find his 0:11:58.320 --> 0:12:00.400 hell so he'll look. 0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:04.120 I'm not going nineteen women, it's legal. 0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:08.880 He got he got his beard growing in. You'll never know. 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:11.600 And man, look like he already stops. 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:12.560 Soliciting your Sundays. 0:12:12.600 --> 0:12:16.680 Okay, No, we're not. We're not talking about Desi's son. 0:12:16.800 --> 0:12:20.600 But what would you fuck okay, like ninus circumstances jah 0:12:20.600 --> 0:12:22.120 blah blah, Jen Jensen? 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:23.320 Sorry, sorry? 0:12:23.400 --> 0:12:25.960 Would you fuck up with nineteen right now at thirty two? 0:12:25.960 --> 0:12:27.480 If he was like fine us out and like look 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:28.360 like you might have a big day? 0:12:28.520 --> 0:12:29.080 Yes she would. 0:12:29.440 --> 0:12:32.520 No, I couldn't never even be like a slight thrill 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:33.120 about it. 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:35.560 I haven't love that motherfucker. You just got to fuck 0:12:35.600 --> 0:12:36.880 that only. 0:12:36.559 --> 0:12:38.800 Like the lower the youngest person I've ever had sex 0:12:38.880 --> 0:12:41.120 with his Tulum bay and he's like twenty six. 0:12:41.960 --> 0:12:44.559 Like I just putting your whole name out, did No? 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:47.320 That ain't his name? Okay, I met him in Tuloom 0:12:47.440 --> 0:12:48.280 and he's in a bay. 0:12:48.640 --> 0:12:49.080 He wasn't. 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:55.640 Oh name too hot too. I just say you're doing names. 0:12:55.720 --> 0:12:58.280 Nobody has a real name, no one. I don't even 0:12:58.320 --> 0:13:00.440 know these real name, you. 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:02.000 Know. 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:05.679 Yeah, we call our niggas bass, so they are bad 0:13:05.840 --> 0:13:08.559 even characteristic that they show plus a bed. 0:13:08.679 --> 0:13:11.040 Yeah, that is a nice approach. 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:13.920 I like that you used jan I don't know why 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:18.840 you're acting like you just that's amazing. I'm like, I 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:23.199 like the consistency of men also, so we're consistent. 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:24.440 Kind of. 0:13:27.280 --> 0:13:29.920 Oh my gosh, I think I might do it nineteen 0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:31.400 or twenty for one time. 0:13:31.800 --> 0:13:32.720 Wasn't you you will? 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:34.079 What do you mean? 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:35.079 I know you would. 0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:37.160 Know. 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:39.760 Don't don't let me, don't go come into my eyes. 0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:42.840 You're free spirited. You know you'll be down with the 0:13:42.880 --> 0:13:45.000 downs and you might do it too. 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:48.000 Erica. I think I think Erica would do it, and just. 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:50.080 Yeah, you tell me. 0:13:50.280 --> 0:13:51.960 She would tell me like a week later, like when 0:13:51.960 --> 0:13:53.000 we can't I. 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:56.000 Remember, remember the bus boy, remember the bust boy in 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:57.640 that bar y. 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:01.080 She'd be way past where she cares you are you 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:02.679 judging her? That's when she. 0:14:02.720 --> 0:14:04.480 Tells you she knows I ain't judging her. 0:14:04.520 --> 0:14:06.560 I don't have space to judge anyone. I don't judge 0:14:06.640 --> 0:14:11.040 I can't. She knows too much of my business. 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:14.200 So you know, we're from La so we're really into 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:16.719 astrology and ship. So can you tell us what your 0:14:16.720 --> 0:14:19.240 signs are so we can judge you? 0:14:19.320 --> 0:14:22.920 Now, I can judge you. Now, just wrap up your aries. 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:25.280 Yeah, what's your birthday? 0:14:25.960 --> 0:14:30.440 April fourteen? Leo Sagittarius? 0:14:30.920 --> 0:14:31.680 What's your birthday? 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:33.720 Sag November twenty eight? 0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:35.560 Oh, my daughter's is the twenty seventh. 0:14:36.080 --> 0:14:38.200 All right, I mean she's amazing, basically. 0:14:38.400 --> 0:14:41.240 Basically, basically, I'll agree with you. I like I like 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:43.320 sage men in my past I have. 0:14:43.960 --> 0:14:47.120 They're always like kind of mystery, mystery, mysterious, mysterious, the 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:48.359 kind of mystery. 0:14:48.920 --> 0:14:54.600 Ain't that mysterious? Well, goddamn, what what do the signs. 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:56.560 Do for you? What it's done the best for you? 0:14:57.320 --> 0:14:59.960 I understand it, but I'm not sure I get it. 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:03.320 So they just kind of give you a framework of someone. 0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:06.240 It's not you can't judge everybody off of everything, but 0:15:06.320 --> 0:15:09.280 you just can't deny the trends in each sign. 0:15:09.520 --> 0:15:12.360 So and a lot of times we're all different. We're 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:16.240 all like a collection of signs. There's our sun sign, 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:18.080 which is the ones you just said on the date 0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:20.000 you're born, and then then when you know your date, 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:20.920 your time of birth. 0:15:20.960 --> 0:15:21.760 There's your moon. 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:26.400 Sign and your rising sign, which you appear as something 0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:29.800 and maybe alone by yourself or something else, and. 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:31.000 Emotionally or something else. 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:32.360 So there's a combination of things. 0:15:32.440 --> 0:15:34.960 And then there's even the year you're born in the 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:37.880 Chinese New Year, and that also makes a difference. 0:15:37.920 --> 0:15:41.720 You're well, you actually make relationship. 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:46.000 I'm looking at I'm looking at does his face right now? 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:52.800 And he's like, okay, bitch, like I know everything about 0:15:52.840 --> 0:15:56.360 every sign. Okay, he's located astrologer by now. 0:15:56.480 --> 0:15:57.080 He hates her. 0:15:57.600 --> 0:15:59.960 I gave her some demographic information she sort of got. 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:01.200 She knew me for like ten years. 0:16:01.240 --> 0:16:03.120 She could tell me about Did you think any of 0:16:03.160 --> 0:16:03.760 it was true? 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:05.160 You know? 0:16:05.240 --> 0:16:08.480 Interestingly enough, she had me take this fucking test. I 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:09.800 don't know what she got. What it's called. 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:15.160 Yes, yes, she had me do that. 0:16:15.560 --> 0:16:17.200 And that's where the guys she had a session with 0:16:17.240 --> 0:16:18.880 me started telling me about myself. 0:16:19.040 --> 0:16:21.840 I was keeping ship bundled up, like well ship maybe 0:16:21.880 --> 0:16:23.920 I am, you know what I mean. But of course 0:16:24.560 --> 0:16:25.680 I gave you the bit for the doubt. 0:16:25.720 --> 0:16:29.960 But it wasn't a man I just go five, you 0:16:30.040 --> 0:16:31.400 know what I mean? I don't need a bunch of 0:16:31.400 --> 0:16:31.960 extra stuff. 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:35.040 Let me tell you what witchy bitches we are. 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:37.160 I literally just looked down at my phone and opened 0:16:37.160 --> 0:16:40.720 a text message from my bay and he's sending me 0:16:41.280 --> 0:16:44.440 his chart, and he said, I think he needed this. 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:47.080 Oh yes, nigga, I sure you've been asking for months. 0:16:47.160 --> 0:16:49.160 I haven't. That's why we're having a conversation. I just 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:50.720 looked it up and tapped it. I was like, oh, 0:16:50.760 --> 0:16:51.680 the niggas in my head. 0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:55.600 Yeah, stay clear. 0:16:55.680 --> 0:17:00.360 Whatchy bitches, we get you every time. Yeah, yeah, if 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:01.480 you've had what you bit your too. 0:17:02.720 --> 0:17:06.720 I mean, I've had people who are spiritual in nature. However, 0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:08.879 I don't think i've had anyone to that level of 0:17:08.960 --> 0:17:11.960 extreme where you know, they making life decisions on it. 0:17:12.040 --> 0:17:14.879 You know what I'm saying, Are you guys religious or 0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:16.080 what are you guys? 0:17:16.400 --> 0:17:16.480 Like? 0:17:17.000 --> 0:17:17.280 Man? 0:17:18.000 --> 0:17:18.800 What's your religion? 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:25.280 Christian? Any certain penelcosta is what I grew up. 0:17:25.480 --> 0:17:28.720 You know, I can't always distinguish the difference between some 0:17:28.880 --> 0:17:32.760 of them, but you know, I'm definitely religious. 0:17:32.800 --> 0:17:36.280 I understand the spiritual, so I get it. 0:17:37.000 --> 0:17:38.919 You know, I think to each their own, and I 0:17:39.000 --> 0:17:41.960 just respect whatever it is you have faith. 0:17:41.680 --> 0:17:43.760 In so I think that's all it comes down to. 0:17:44.119 --> 0:17:51.720 Yeah, you know, yeah, yeah, you the same question. I 0:17:51.760 --> 0:17:54.119 would say I grew up very religious, grow up bout this. 0:17:55.920 --> 0:17:57.879 But for me, I'm probably more spiritual. You know, I 0:17:57.880 --> 0:18:01.200 believe in a higher power, believe it howgh being. But 0:18:02.280 --> 0:18:04.080 I don't know that one of true religions got it 0:18:04.160 --> 0:18:06.040 right and the other one hundred and fifty don't right, 0:18:06.240 --> 0:18:08.720 Like I need the explanation for that. So for me, 0:18:08.760 --> 0:18:11.120 it's a little different. But but definitely don't think we 0:18:11.680 --> 0:18:14.159 there's there's definitely there's things out there we don't understand. 0:18:14.200 --> 0:18:15.359 We don't know about the. 0:18:15.480 --> 0:18:19.280 Kind of God of course, you know so well yeah, 0:18:19.359 --> 0:18:22.320 so of course Jeszi and our brothers. So we grew 0:18:22.359 --> 0:18:26.840 up Pentecosta a family that was really kind of dedicated 0:18:26.880 --> 0:18:29.840 to the church game, right, I mean you're talking about 0:18:29.840 --> 0:18:34.080 Wednesday night Bible study, Friday nights family training, our you know, 0:18:34.720 --> 0:18:38.560 Saturday might be a revivals. You got Sunday school, you 0:18:38.640 --> 0:18:40.800 got morning service and night services. 0:18:40.840 --> 0:18:43.560 She felt like you needed it right so night. 0:18:44.080 --> 0:18:45.320 They couldn't give us the night off. 0:18:45.960 --> 0:18:48.120 No, nope, we need Jesus at night too. 0:18:49.720 --> 0:18:53.919 I went to church summer camp. Okay, so did we 0:18:54.480 --> 0:18:55.280 it's called vacation. 0:18:55.359 --> 0:19:03.960 Bible school budd me and warned you about insert witch 0:19:04.080 --> 0:19:04.560 laugh here. 0:19:11.560 --> 0:19:14.200 So speaking of this is actually a good way to 0:19:14.240 --> 0:19:16.360 segue into this because I have a question for you guys. 0:19:16.440 --> 0:19:17.560 What are your views? 0:19:17.560 --> 0:19:19.160 Because I mean, I don't know if they're influenced by 0:19:19.320 --> 0:19:22.320 you know, your upbringing, but what are your views on monogamy? 0:19:24.520 --> 0:19:26.360 You want to take this first? Jesu or you got 0:19:26.520 --> 0:19:30.840 in his mouth? I wish the city was in my mouth. 0:19:30.880 --> 0:19:37.359 But listen, man, I believe. 0:19:39.480 --> 0:19:41.400 It's possible. I believe it's possible. 0:19:41.600 --> 0:19:45.560 I just believe that it's highly unlikely because what it 0:19:45.600 --> 0:19:49.640 would take to keep a man from wanting more than 0:19:49.640 --> 0:19:52.159 one woman would require a lot of work from that 0:19:52.200 --> 0:19:54.919 one woman. And I have not yet met that woman 0:19:55.119 --> 0:19:56.840 that wants that amount of work. 0:19:57.000 --> 0:19:57.920 Do you mean sexually? 0:19:58.480 --> 0:20:01.000 Yeah, bitches aren't putting enough work to make sure the 0:20:01.040 --> 0:20:03.880 bigget don't cheat one one bitch can't put in enough work. 0:20:03.920 --> 0:20:05.440 It's not physically possible. 0:20:06.640 --> 0:20:07.600 I believe it is. 0:20:07.760 --> 0:20:11.840 I just don't think it's been the uh what we've 0:20:11.840 --> 0:20:12.760 seen consistently. 0:20:12.920 --> 0:20:14.240 You know, the proof is in the pudding. 0:20:14.520 --> 0:20:16.600 I think, what do you need to not cheat? What 0:20:16.640 --> 0:20:17.719 are the what are the things. 0:20:18.200 --> 0:20:24.200 Consistency, consistency across the board, consistency sexually, consistency emotionally, And 0:20:24.760 --> 0:20:27.560 a lot of men receive love through respect. So I 0:20:27.560 --> 0:20:30.600 believe consistent respect, and I believe if you do all 0:20:30.720 --> 0:20:34.040 of those things consistently, a man will not cheat and 0:20:34.160 --> 0:20:35.760 a woman will say, yeah, I'm fucking him and I'm 0:20:35.800 --> 0:20:36.880 doing this, and I'm doing that. 0:20:37.240 --> 0:20:37.720 I hear you. 0:20:37.800 --> 0:20:39.600 But he went on Friday night with his boys. Did 0:20:39.600 --> 0:20:40.800 you suck him off before you left? 0:20:40.800 --> 0:20:42.439 Probably not? Probably not. 0:20:42.560 --> 0:20:44.520 You see, you never let your man leave with a 0:20:44.560 --> 0:20:47.399 full sack. Two days go by, and that nigga's not drained. 0:20:47.440 --> 0:20:48.240 You already slipping. 0:20:48.480 --> 0:20:51.359 If you want aigga the only think about you, you 0:20:51.440 --> 0:20:53.160 have to maintain your shape. 0:20:53.800 --> 0:20:55.040 How often does it resell? 0:20:57.400 --> 0:20:59.840 If a man is to only have eyes. 0:20:59.640 --> 0:21:02.600 For you, you should look good, you should look you should 0:21:02.640 --> 0:21:03.800 look like the woman he met. 0:21:04.440 --> 0:21:07.280 And so you're saying women be falling off and maybe getting. 0:21:07.080 --> 0:21:09.200 Comfortable, and men do too. Men do too. 0:21:09.200 --> 0:21:11.640 But if we're talking about cheating, I think in order 0:21:11.640 --> 0:21:13.199 to keep a man, you're gonna have to keep it 0:21:13.240 --> 0:21:18.199 tight across the board, consistently, keeping it tight physically, sexually, emotionally, 0:21:18.640 --> 0:21:22.040 keeping that vibe, and I think with the inconsistencies that 0:21:22.400 --> 0:21:26.600 women tend to bring and I'm not trying to be yeah. 0:21:26.520 --> 0:21:29.600 Yeah, and men do that ship too, I'm curious. 0:21:29.240 --> 0:21:30.240 You know like that. 0:21:31.680 --> 0:21:34.440 So I think a lot of times whatever the woman, 0:21:35.080 --> 0:21:39.680 a lot of times is fall unfortunately following the man's lead. 0:21:40.240 --> 0:21:41.600 So I feel like. 0:21:43.920 --> 0:21:45.160 You want to say we own it them. 0:21:45.440 --> 0:21:47.480 I just want to say, like, y'all make just be 0:21:47.520 --> 0:21:49.359 doing ship to make us do want to fuck you? 0:21:49.480 --> 0:21:53.919 Like okay, Like i'd be like, like, why we're not 0:21:53.960 --> 0:21:55.080 going on dates anymore? 0:21:55.240 --> 0:21:57.840 We're not doing it, as your question, and that's just 0:21:58.400 --> 0:22:01.440 the problem there. Why it's difficult talking to me about 0:22:01.440 --> 0:22:03.359 that is I'm a good nigga, and I know what 0:22:03.400 --> 0:22:06.080 to do, and I'm romantic what you bring, so I 0:22:06.119 --> 0:22:07.760 know what I bring to the table a date. To me, 0:22:08.440 --> 0:22:11.120 I love dating. So you're talking to a different type 0:22:11.119 --> 0:22:11.480 of nigga. 0:22:11.480 --> 0:22:12.879 But I hear you though, well, you're also talking to 0:22:12.960 --> 0:22:15.080 two very different type of women, and that's why some 0:22:15.119 --> 0:22:16.200 of these things are saying. 0:22:16.280 --> 0:22:17.760 We're rolling our eyes up because. 0:22:17.520 --> 0:22:20.320 You suck this morning and I didn't get ahead this morning, 0:22:20.359 --> 0:22:23.080 so I'm already you know what I'm saying so. 0:22:22.960 --> 0:22:26.040 We're different type of bitches, and I'm exactly exactly are 0:22:26.040 --> 0:22:26.240 you in. 0:22:26.240 --> 0:22:27.399 A relationship, Jessy. 0:22:29.440 --> 0:22:30.600 That's a very easy question. 0:22:31.480 --> 0:22:32.760 I'm just curious. 0:22:32.359 --> 0:22:33.960 Because, like I thought, he said he had a live 0:22:33.960 --> 0:22:35.520 in hairstylist, so I'm trying to. 0:22:35.480 --> 0:22:35.959 Figure it out. 0:22:35.920 --> 0:22:36.520 I didn't hear that. 0:22:37.040 --> 0:22:42.800 Oh yeah, okay, okay, okay, but you are you in 0:22:42.840 --> 0:22:43.600 a relationship? 0:22:44.680 --> 0:22:44.840 What? 0:22:45.000 --> 0:22:45.119 What? 0:22:45.280 --> 0:22:45.760 What? Will? 0:22:45.760 --> 0:22:46.600 And Jada call him? 0:22:48.200 --> 0:22:50.560 Oh? Whoa wait? 0:22:50.560 --> 0:22:52.159 Can I ask you guys a question? How old are you? 0:22:52.160 --> 0:22:53.880 Guys? I'm thirty eight. 0:22:57.040 --> 0:22:57.600 I'm sure not. 0:22:59.400 --> 0:23:01.639 And you know, just take it up one more Matt Fordy, 0:23:01.680 --> 0:23:03.879 I'm so uh. 0:23:04.080 --> 0:23:07.640 This is how often it is good a good enough 0:23:07.800 --> 0:23:10.400 amount of times to have sex a week in your opinion? 0:23:11.240 --> 0:23:15.720 Man, for me, probably three or four. I'm cool with that, 0:23:16.560 --> 0:23:16.919 cool with you. 0:23:17.080 --> 0:23:20.080 I mean, listen, this is assuming you're talking about a relationship, 0:23:20.119 --> 0:23:22.800 a family situation right where there's other shit going on. 0:23:23.000 --> 0:23:25.040 If you're talking about we're just single, we young, and 0:23:25.040 --> 0:23:28.720 there's nothing else, probably like every day that we're. 0:23:28.600 --> 0:23:30.919 Able, every day that we're able. But if we're in. 0:23:30.880 --> 0:23:33.000 A relationship, we married or we're together, probably three or 0:23:33.000 --> 0:23:35.560 four times. I think that's realistic. I think it's I 0:23:35.560 --> 0:23:37.720 think he keeps a nigga from straying, honestly. 0:23:39.160 --> 0:23:41.639 So sex is the main reason why Nigga's strayed. 0:23:42.040 --> 0:23:42.639 Nah No. 0:23:42.880 --> 0:23:44.640 And I disagree with what Jeeze said a little bit 0:23:45.680 --> 0:23:49.920 because he said basically, if a woman's checking these boxes, 0:23:50.280 --> 0:23:51.800 then then Nigga's not gonna do. 0:23:51.840 --> 0:23:52.560 It's not gonna achieve. 0:23:52.880 --> 0:23:54.720 I think what he's kind of saying is if she 0:23:54.880 --> 0:23:57.359 checks those boxes for him, he would a cheat, right. 0:23:57.400 --> 0:23:59.960 But I think there are dudes who have a woman 0:24:00.040 --> 0:24:02.840 that respect them, who cooks and cleans and does all 0:24:02.880 --> 0:24:05.320 the right things, and some easy pussy falls in their 0:24:05.400 --> 0:24:07.840 lap and they fuck the easy pussy and it has 0:24:07.960 --> 0:24:10.800 nothing to do with anything that a woman's not doing, 0:24:10.880 --> 0:24:12.960 because I don't think it takes much for some dudes 0:24:13.000 --> 0:24:15.920 to cheat, honestly, Like, I think dudes are programmed a 0:24:15.960 --> 0:24:19.840 little bit different than women, And I think dudes are 0:24:19.880 --> 0:24:23.160 predisposed to not being monogamous, and I think it takes 0:24:23.160 --> 0:24:26.560 a consistent effort on their part to be monogamous, whereas 0:24:26.600 --> 0:24:29.240 I think women, not that they can't be all over 0:24:29.280 --> 0:24:32.879 the place, but I think they're more more tuned towards 0:24:33.119 --> 0:24:35.119 being in that relationship as long as that man is 0:24:35.119 --> 0:24:38.000 contributing everything that she feels like she needs from a man. 0:24:38.480 --> 0:24:50.800 So I mean, I guess I agree. Are you married, Yeah. 0:24:48.760 --> 0:24:50.560 I guess I agree with that. I just feel like. 0:24:52.040 --> 0:24:53.800 Sometimes it has nothing, like you said, has nothing to 0:24:53.800 --> 0:24:56.119 do with women. Sometimes met are just insecure and need 0:24:56.600 --> 0:25:00.399 actually extra validate, they need extra pussy. 0:25:01.080 --> 0:25:02.160 And I don't mean, I don't mean. 0:25:02.440 --> 0:25:05.120 I don't mean being insecure and needing extra pussy are related. 0:25:05.160 --> 0:25:07.480 I more so mean that, like your woman is checking 0:25:07.520 --> 0:25:10.080 off all the bloxes, you're sexually attracted, the pussy's bomb, 0:25:10.680 --> 0:25:13.880 You're still not fulfilled, So like you have to ask 0:25:13.920 --> 0:25:16.160 yourself why why am I not fulfilled? 0:25:16.200 --> 0:25:16.800 You know what I mean? 0:25:16.960 --> 0:25:21.080 But also but for me that gets tricky too because 0:25:21.119 --> 0:25:24.160 I don't necessary I don't believe monogamy is natural. So 0:25:24.240 --> 0:25:28.080 I believe that as humans, we see things and we 0:25:28.119 --> 0:25:31.080 want to fuck, oh shiny, and like that I want 0:25:31.080 --> 0:25:33.000 to try, and we have been told that, like, no, 0:25:33.400 --> 0:25:36.520 this is these are boundaries, the boundaries we're setting, we're structuring, 0:25:36.560 --> 0:25:38.400 and this is what family is and all those things. 0:25:38.600 --> 0:25:40.320 I'm not like, do I want to be in a 0:25:40.359 --> 0:25:43.960 polyamous relationship? No, Like I'm possessive ass bitch. 0:25:43.760 --> 0:25:44.280 Too, you know. 0:25:44.760 --> 0:25:49.480 But I feel like the idea that like we're supposed 0:25:49.520 --> 0:25:52.879 to only have sex with one person, we once we 0:25:52.960 --> 0:25:55.280 sit in front of people and tell the world we're. 0:25:55.080 --> 0:25:56.760 Only because basically that's what a wedding is. 0:25:57.000 --> 0:26:01.639 Like, hey, we're not anymore each other, everybody, let the 0:26:01.680 --> 0:26:02.199 world know. 0:26:04.040 --> 0:26:05.159 Really big announcements me. 0:26:07.320 --> 0:26:07.840 Simplified. 0:26:08.080 --> 0:26:11.440 Well, but like I think, like I think. 0:26:11.520 --> 0:26:14.240 But but going back to the like why people cheat 0:26:14.320 --> 0:26:16.359 or even women like, you know, you can have a 0:26:16.359 --> 0:26:18.760 great nigga too. You can have a man that's just 0:26:18.800 --> 0:26:21.240 doing taking care of you, is the father of the year, 0:26:21.400 --> 0:26:24.760 Like those things are possible too, you know, and she 0:26:24.920 --> 0:26:26.800 might still be fulfilled. 0:26:26.800 --> 0:26:29.000 Well, it's it's just it's just not it's not human 0:26:29.119 --> 0:26:32.840 nature to only be attracted to one thing or one person, 0:26:32.960 --> 0:26:33.159 you know. 0:26:33.280 --> 0:26:34.080 Think of attraction. 0:26:34.240 --> 0:26:37.480 Think of how we admire and love nature or trees, 0:26:37.600 --> 0:26:40.679 like it's like we we I've learned, as like a 0:26:40.720 --> 0:26:45.679 sexual person that I need to probably better scale what's shiny? 0:26:45.800 --> 0:26:46.320 What looks good? 0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:48.200 Do I need to sit on everything that looks good? 0:26:48.280 --> 0:26:51.040 No? No, some things are just for looking at. 0:26:51.119 --> 0:26:54.000 You know, but it would be it would be it 0:26:54.000 --> 0:26:56.119 would be a lie to go to get married and 0:26:56.480 --> 0:26:58.920 have a partnership with somebody and then pretend that suddenly 0:26:58.960 --> 0:27:01.560 that switch gets turned off and you're not attracted or 0:27:01.600 --> 0:27:03.600 turned on by any other person. 0:27:03.680 --> 0:27:05.720 That would be we'd be both acting dumb as fuck 0:27:05.800 --> 0:27:06.880 to sit and agree with that. 0:27:07.160 --> 0:27:08.800 That's why I'd rather be like, oh, he looked at it. 0:27:09.160 --> 0:27:11.080 You know, I like girls. Let's talk about it. 0:27:11.320 --> 0:27:11.960 She had a fat house. 0:27:12.240 --> 0:27:12.639 You right to you? 0:27:12.760 --> 0:27:16.879 Right, you're right, you know, like, let's be honest about it. 0:27:16.920 --> 0:27:18.560 And I yeah, I don't know. 0:27:18.840 --> 0:27:21.719 Not gonna be with a man that is okay with 0:27:21.800 --> 0:27:22.840 you sleeping with other men? 0:27:26.920 --> 0:27:27.679 I don't I don't know. 0:27:27.760 --> 0:27:30.280 I don't want you to be okay with it, but 0:27:30.440 --> 0:27:33.320 I don't want that to necessarily be a deal breaker. 0:27:35.200 --> 0:27:39.199 Our sexual appetites change. I like to like I have 0:27:39.240 --> 0:27:43.199 a high sexual appetite if I go on vacation and 0:27:43.240 --> 0:27:45.840 I come back, like share our relationship in because like. 0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:50.520 Vacation and vice versa. 0:27:52.600 --> 0:27:55.480 Painting the visual the cruise, Why why would have to 0:27:55.480 --> 0:28:02.160 be on the cruise? That is actually what. 0:28:02.119 --> 0:28:02.640 I would do. 0:28:07.680 --> 0:28:11.639 If it goes both ways and you're open with him 0:28:11.640 --> 0:28:13.879 about it, I'm sure you can find a man. 0:28:13.760 --> 0:28:14.480 That agrees with that. 0:28:14.800 --> 0:28:18.560 Look how reluctant he said it. I'm sure, I'm sure 0:28:18.640 --> 0:28:23.760 there's a guy out there. I'm sure if you go 0:28:23.920 --> 0:28:24.920 to helm back. 0:28:27.400 --> 0:28:28.840 Whatever you're into, your into. 0:28:29.720 --> 0:28:34.439 But but but you never cheat, You've never cheated. 0:28:34.800 --> 0:28:35.720 I've definitely cheated. 0:28:35.880 --> 0:28:37.280 Oh okay, I thought that's what you said. 0:28:38.680 --> 0:28:48.320 I never judged, but. 0:28:47.280 --> 0:28:50.160 Oh my god, I think the standards are definitely different 0:28:50.200 --> 0:28:52.240 for men and women, and a lot of men expect 0:28:52.240 --> 0:28:54.480 to be forgiven and expected like, oh you don't you 0:28:54.520 --> 0:28:57.080 don't just fuck because you know nikerd be honey and ship, 0:28:57.400 --> 0:28:59.720 but like Nigga's brains are different. 0:28:59.760 --> 0:28:59.840 You. 0:29:00.080 --> 0:29:01.600 Oh, I just I don't care about her. 0:29:02.200 --> 0:29:05.680 It's like, why can't we's horrible? 0:29:06.880 --> 0:29:07.720 No, I don't think that. 0:29:07.720 --> 0:29:08.440 I don't love her. 0:29:08.960 --> 0:29:12.000 It was just one of the one night she pushed she 0:29:12.040 --> 0:29:13.640 pushed up on I don't love that bit. 0:29:15.080 --> 0:29:16.240 Right and again. 0:29:16.640 --> 0:29:21.920 Yeah, you literally gave a rundown of every response a 0:29:21.960 --> 0:29:26.640 man could give in less than forty five We've heard Mom. 0:29:28.440 --> 0:29:29.080 Turned them out. 0:29:30.080 --> 0:29:34.720 She forget drug. I don't remember. I was drunk. 0:29:34.840 --> 0:29:38.120 Oh yeah, that's all of course, that's yeah, I was drunk. 0:29:38.560 --> 0:29:40.600 Yeah, girls can't say that one because that just you're 0:29:40.600 --> 0:29:41.880 gonna get rady you're gonna get raped. 0:29:41.960 --> 0:29:46.000 Yeah, so you also you are getting right, you don't 0:29:46.040 --> 0:29:46.800 remember you were. 0:29:47.160 --> 0:29:49.680 I'm so happy you said that because literally, like you 0:29:49.720 --> 0:29:51.720 can't say that, like, oh, women can't say that. 0:29:51.880 --> 0:29:54.200 You're just the dumbest bitch ever. If you were drunk, Yeah, 0:29:54.360 --> 0:29:57.760 if you're drunk, I forgive your truth. It's so true. 0:29:58.120 --> 0:30:01.480 It's sad though, it's sad. 0:29:59.360 --> 0:30:02.880 It's and this is why, this is why you making 0:30:02.920 --> 0:30:04.520 that face. 0:30:04.760 --> 0:30:06.520 When you said so you expect your nigga just let 0:30:06.600 --> 0:30:09.760 you fuck out of niggas when niggas often expects us 0:30:09.760 --> 0:30:11.560 to let them just be fucking out her bitchous and 0:30:11.600 --> 0:30:12.560 we're supposed to just. 0:30:12.640 --> 0:30:15.360 I don't think that men expect it, and I don't 0:30:15.640 --> 0:30:17.720 think a woman should take it if you don't want it. 0:30:17.800 --> 0:30:20.680 You know, niggas fuck up if you a man, fucked up. 0:30:21.240 --> 0:30:22.000 If you don't want to. 0:30:22.000 --> 0:30:23.160 Take it, leave them. 0:30:23.600 --> 0:30:27.880 Most women tend to forgive, and you know that's where 0:30:27.880 --> 0:30:30.400 the double standard kicks in. But I don't agree that 0:30:30.760 --> 0:30:32.240 it's okay if a man does it. 0:30:32.240 --> 0:30:33.120 It's all fucked up. 0:30:33.320 --> 0:30:36.040 And honestly, what I really think it is is the 0:30:36.120 --> 0:30:39.000 hyper sensitive to a man's ego. I think men are 0:30:39.080 --> 0:30:43.880 much more hypersensitive as it relates to their ego and how. 0:30:43.840 --> 0:30:46.400 Because it's so important to us. 0:30:46.560 --> 0:30:49.840 It's important for our survival, right our for but a 0:30:49.880 --> 0:30:54.840 woman born strong, I'm talking about four tough like y'all 0:30:54.840 --> 0:30:57.880 can't handle that and it doesn't bruise your ego the 0:30:57.920 --> 0:30:59.720 same way that it would do a man. 0:31:00.080 --> 0:31:02.080 That's what we should ask them. 0:31:05.600 --> 0:31:08.200 We just we just keep going, keep trying. 0:31:08.880 --> 0:31:11.000 But I mean, just like that's the perfect point. I mean, 0:31:11.080 --> 0:31:13.360 you are strong, it's a strong you. 0:31:13.320 --> 0:31:15.080 Know, it just shows up differently. 0:31:15.160 --> 0:31:20.400 Then it just turns into us hating other women versus usually. 0:31:20.000 --> 0:31:21.920 A nigga is not gonna hate the man. He's gonna 0:31:21.960 --> 0:31:22.440 hate the woman. 0:31:22.680 --> 0:31:26.840 He'll probably the man, but he's not like women will 0:31:26.840 --> 0:31:30.680 full on hate you for life if you yeah, forever. 0:31:31.640 --> 0:31:33.360 Whereas with them, I feel like, what the dude, they're 0:31:33.360 --> 0:31:36.960 gonna be like, man, she's a hope, right right. I'm 0:31:37.000 --> 0:31:39.160 not gonna get mad at a man for doing it because. 0:31:38.880 --> 0:31:41.040 That's what men do, right right exactly. 0:31:41.120 --> 0:31:45.160 So I don't know, it sounds like a lose lose 0:31:45.200 --> 0:31:49.840 situation for y'all, yeah, but I. 0:31:49.800 --> 0:31:51.680 Do I believe in monogatly some people could do it 0:31:51.720 --> 0:31:53.280 I could probably do it if I was like, I 0:31:53.320 --> 0:31:54.080 believe in that too. 0:31:54.120 --> 0:31:56.280 If I I don't wonder, I really won't stray. 0:31:56.360 --> 0:31:59.520 If I'm being fucked enough, being cared for, being communicated 0:31:59.520 --> 0:32:00.640 with being respected. 0:32:01.120 --> 0:32:03.120 You know, you fuck me enough, and I'll be clicking 0:32:03.160 --> 0:32:04.360 and cleaning and taking the kids. 0:32:04.360 --> 0:32:06.000 You I'll be so happy I'll be if you'd be 0:32:06.080 --> 0:32:10.720 nice to me and be nice to me. 0:32:10.880 --> 0:32:13.280 Give me. So. 0:32:14.960 --> 0:32:17.840 I'm a simple girl. You know, I'm a simple gal. 0:32:18.760 --> 0:32:21.160 I don't need a lot, but I does. It does 0:32:21.480 --> 0:32:23.960 it's a balance of having all of those things. 0:32:24.000 --> 0:32:25.840 I know that I can be monogamous because I've been 0:32:25.960 --> 0:32:30.200 in a monogamous relationship. I was monogamous, he was not monogamous. 0:32:32.080 --> 0:32:35.200 So but I always felt in my core, even during 0:32:35.520 --> 0:32:36.720 my monogamy that I was. 0:32:36.680 --> 0:32:42.280 Like like this, what can we just like? 0:32:42.400 --> 0:32:43.000 How about you? 0:32:43.040 --> 0:32:43.400 Do you? 0:32:43.600 --> 0:32:44.160 I can do me? 0:32:44.280 --> 0:32:46.840 But there was not enough trust. There was no trust. 0:32:46.840 --> 0:32:49.520 There wasn't enough trust for us. Yeah, there was enough 0:32:49.520 --> 0:32:50.960 trust to do that, but I feel. 0:32:50.680 --> 0:32:54.560 Like trust, man, have you guys have you guys done 0:32:54.600 --> 0:32:56.520 that before in your relationships ship? 0:32:56.680 --> 0:33:01.400 And I can only wish, but because I think in 0:33:01.440 --> 0:33:04.480 all honesty giving those out and I'm not saying you 0:33:04.600 --> 0:33:07.840 passing them out like you know coupon from McDonald's which 0:33:07.920 --> 0:33:10.920 coming out weekly. I'm just saying, like you're passing it 0:33:11.000 --> 0:33:14.360 out once every five years, once a year, maybe just 0:33:14.400 --> 0:33:17.080 a little hall pass man, get it at your system. 0:33:17.200 --> 0:33:19.720 What's what's the difference between that and a purge day. 0:33:20.160 --> 0:33:22.480 I mean, think about it. We just want one day 0:33:22.520 --> 0:33:24.800 to purge, you know what I'm saying, get all. 0:33:24.680 --> 0:33:26.520 The evil out of us so that we could be 0:33:26.560 --> 0:33:29.600 good Americans. 0:33:32.360 --> 0:33:33.840 Can't evil? Oh my god. 0:33:34.400 --> 0:33:36.560 Okay, So you know what this makes me think of 0:33:36.760 --> 0:33:40.800 is like I feel like, imagine that like being married 0:33:40.840 --> 0:33:43.320 my whole year, five years, just waiting for this one weekend, 0:33:43.480 --> 0:33:45.960 like just like pour it out, like I. 0:33:46.000 --> 0:33:48.520 Can't wait at December second, can't. 0:33:48.040 --> 0:33:53.200 Wait, you know, perfect right like eight am, wake up. 0:33:55.120 --> 0:33:56.040 Massage, Charlotte. 0:33:57.400 --> 0:33:59.920 I just you know what, because I think at heart, 0:34:00.080 --> 0:34:01.800 I do want something monogamous. 0:34:01.840 --> 0:34:04.600 That's what I want, that type of relationship. 0:34:04.640 --> 0:34:07.880 But I think when you give someone the freedom to 0:34:08.000 --> 0:34:10.239 be and it's not like I'm like the puppy, I'm 0:34:10.239 --> 0:34:12.719 squeezing you like a puppy syndrome. You're online, no one 0:34:12.719 --> 0:34:15.200 else can have you, then it's like you're free to 0:34:15.239 --> 0:34:16.840 be you and you're doing you and I'm doing me. 0:34:16.920 --> 0:34:18.480 And like, as soon as you turn that corner, I 0:34:18.480 --> 0:34:20.000 don't have to worry about where you're going on who's 0:34:20.000 --> 0:34:21.640 taking you. I know you're going to come back and 0:34:21.680 --> 0:34:24.680 circle back and find me. Like we have this friendship 0:34:24.719 --> 0:34:27.040 and this love and this partnership that like you can. 0:34:27.120 --> 0:34:28.320 Of course, people want to be attractive. 0:34:28.400 --> 0:34:30.640 You might see know what, you might fuck up, you know. 0:34:30.640 --> 0:34:32.600 And then but really when you don't have that, like. 0:34:34.360 --> 0:34:37.359 You're not tripping on these hose, because the truth is, hey, 0:34:37.360 --> 0:34:38.239 really shit out here. 0:34:38.320 --> 0:34:40.280 I'll tell you. 0:34:39.719 --> 0:34:44.440 Know, I've seen the hose attracted in all the hose. 0:34:44.520 --> 0:34:46.600 I bey on tender, I be on hand. 0:34:47.080 --> 0:34:49.400 I have my alerts on for women and women just 0:34:49.440 --> 0:34:51.239 to see what's going on out there. And it's just 0:34:51.239 --> 0:34:53.799 really not much out here. So if you just let 0:34:53.880 --> 0:34:58.600 your partner have the respect and the freedom of ipective 0:34:58.800 --> 0:35:01.719 respecting me, not make me look crazy out here. Don't 0:35:01.760 --> 0:35:03.480 let anybody be coming out here telling me, you know, 0:35:03.960 --> 0:35:07.480 and if you develop feelings for somebody, let's talk about it. 0:35:07.560 --> 0:35:08.600 You know. I think that's what it is. 0:35:08.600 --> 0:35:08.759 For me. 0:35:08.800 --> 0:35:10.920 It's just communication. Like I said, Like I don't want 0:35:10.960 --> 0:35:12.440 to have like a polygamous relationship. 0:35:12.520 --> 0:35:14.640 I'm possessive, like I want, I need to know that 0:35:14.680 --> 0:35:17.520 our love is exclusive, and like you're not. You don't 0:35:17.560 --> 0:35:21.040 share this connection with other people, like the other stuff, 0:35:21.080 --> 0:35:23.399 like the sex stuff, Like you know, we can work 0:35:23.440 --> 0:35:23.759 that out. 0:35:23.840 --> 0:35:24.719 To me, Like, I don't. 0:35:24.920 --> 0:35:26.080 Is it going to be a free Are we just 0:35:26.160 --> 0:35:29.680 fucking n Like we might we might only ever have 0:35:29.760 --> 0:35:32.000 sex with one person in like five years, but just 0:35:32.040 --> 0:35:34.080 the idea that I can't And I'm like, I'm like 0:35:34.160 --> 0:35:36.560 Jamila too, Like if I'm sexually satisfied and we're good, 0:35:37.160 --> 0:35:39.120 I'm all into you, like I'm about you. 0:35:39.320 --> 0:35:41.360 I mean, that's kind of all I need. 0:35:41.480 --> 0:35:44.480 But i'd also I'm realistic about a long term relationship 0:35:44.520 --> 0:35:46.319 and your needs start to change and then you. 0:35:46.280 --> 0:35:48.239 Start to just I don't know. I just feel like 0:35:48.440 --> 0:35:52.000 it's a natural. It would be it's a natural. 0:35:51.560 --> 0:35:55.359 Instinct to be attracted to people and to I don't know, 0:35:55.480 --> 0:35:58.520 Like I believe that you can love more than one person. 0:35:58.560 --> 0:36:00.560 Now do I want my partner to go love a 0:36:00.600 --> 0:36:02.040 bitch and be fall in love? 0:36:02.160 --> 0:36:04.480 No, But I feel like I feel like I feel 0:36:04.520 --> 0:36:07.120 like you can't you also can't help if your partner 0:36:07.280 --> 0:36:08.920 is going to fall in love with someone, and I 0:36:08.920 --> 0:36:10.960 would much rather be in a position where you're that 0:36:11.080 --> 0:36:13.560 happens and you're like, yo, you're my friend and I 0:36:13.600 --> 0:36:14.160 respect you to so much. 0:36:14.200 --> 0:36:15.879 I want to let you know that I'm having these 0:36:15.920 --> 0:36:17.960 feelings because the niggas will go to work and have 0:36:18.000 --> 0:36:20.239 a whole relationship with a bitch at work for two 0:36:20.360 --> 0:36:23.279 years and ship and you know you have fallen. 0:36:22.960 --> 0:36:25.000 In love and really let go of me and moved on. 0:36:25.080 --> 0:36:28.160 And I don't even you really wanted your nigga to 0:36:28.200 --> 0:36:30.239 come home and like, listen, I met this chick. 0:36:30.280 --> 0:36:32.920 The vibe is right. I don't want us to end, 0:36:33.000 --> 0:36:35.200 but I don't want to see what this goes. 0:36:37.280 --> 0:36:37.720 To you. 0:36:37.840 --> 0:36:40.959 And yeah, because I yeah, because I've had the other way. 0:36:42.280 --> 0:36:43.359 I've had that way. 0:36:43.440 --> 0:36:45.719 He just so like, what do you mean, Like, do 0:36:45.840 --> 0:36:48.000 I really want my nigga to lie behind my back 0:36:48.080 --> 0:36:51.120 and fuck these bitches? And yeah, like I've already done 0:36:51.160 --> 0:36:55.040 that part, Like yeah, nigga, I would like to try 0:36:55.120 --> 0:36:56.440 the other where. 0:36:56.280 --> 0:36:59.799 I at least put it like that. And any man 0:36:59.840 --> 0:37:01.840 that's listening to this right now, first off. 0:37:01.680 --> 0:37:04.000 They think you're a unicorn with glitter and you already 0:37:04.040 --> 0:37:05.640 up here every twelve years, right. 0:37:06.000 --> 0:37:10.440 But the reality is if if they know that there 0:37:10.440 --> 0:37:12.520 are women out there like that, I think they're going 0:37:12.600 --> 0:37:15.520 to be more ed to asking and and digging to 0:37:15.600 --> 0:37:19.239 find out if they can they can find that type 0:37:19.280 --> 0:37:23.760 of woman. Because any man, any decent man with good intentions, 0:37:24.480 --> 0:37:25.600 they'll gravitate to that. 0:37:25.800 --> 0:37:26.120 I think. 0:37:26.640 --> 0:37:29.279 I think a lot of women have this. Most women 0:37:29.400 --> 0:37:31.439 are have this in them. It's just like we don't. 0:37:31.719 --> 0:37:35.439 We don't have these conversations. We don't feel vulnerable enough. 0:37:35.480 --> 0:37:38.040 We think that if we admit that we're okay. 0:37:37.760 --> 0:37:41.840 With this, you might look at us differently. O'll take advantage. 0:37:41.840 --> 0:37:42.719 That's what a lot of niggas do. 0:37:42.760 --> 0:37:44.359 You give a nigga an inch, They take him out 0:37:44.360 --> 0:37:46.960 and said, oh I could do a what and then 0:37:47.320 --> 0:37:50.400 you know, yeah, But it's like, you have to be 0:37:50.400 --> 0:37:50.840 an adult. 0:37:50.960 --> 0:37:52.000 You have to know how to be an. 0:37:51.880 --> 0:37:53.000 Adult and not abuse. 0:37:53.320 --> 0:37:55.680 You know, the freedom and respects me. 0:37:56.360 --> 0:37:58.040 Are you going to keep sucking him throughout this? 0:37:59.560 --> 0:37:59.600 What? 0:38:00.719 --> 0:38:02.520 Are you going to continue to have sex with him 0:38:02.640 --> 0:38:06.640 while he's still dealing through Oh, if he's in love. 0:38:06.480 --> 0:38:07.520 Or whatever, I don't know. 0:38:07.600 --> 0:38:11.640 Everybody tells you he's exploring, he's feeling. How where does 0:38:11.680 --> 0:38:13.920 that stand for you and him? Do you continue to 0:38:13.920 --> 0:38:16.440 have sex? Do you continue to you know, vibing? 0:38:17.080 --> 0:38:18.319 I don't know. This is the thing. 0:38:18.360 --> 0:38:20.520 I'm not saying that, Like I might hear this and 0:38:20.520 --> 0:38:23.040 and be totally like cool happy, Like I might be 0:38:23.120 --> 0:38:26.000 completely heartbroken. You said you want to love somebody, and 0:38:26.040 --> 0:38:29.200 like you're in love and you're about to go go to. 0:38:28.800 --> 0:38:32.600 Fucking explore that. I don't know if he'll but like 0:38:32.840 --> 0:38:34.560 I just feel. 0:38:34.280 --> 0:38:37.280 Like it's just it's more about like being a human 0:38:37.440 --> 0:38:39.000 and like a sharing if we're going to be in 0:38:39.040 --> 0:38:41.439 a relationship, like let's actually be in like a real 0:38:41.520 --> 0:38:44.239 humanistic relationship where we talk to each other and like 0:38:44.280 --> 0:38:47.080 we communicate with one another and we don't take away 0:38:47.600 --> 0:38:50.279 our options, you know what I mean, Like you rob 0:38:50.360 --> 0:38:52.799 me of my choice when you lie to me, you know, 0:38:53.040 --> 0:38:54.600 and vice versa. 0:38:54.719 --> 0:38:57.080 And I feel like at the core of a relationship, 0:38:57.120 --> 0:38:58.400 that's really what I want anyway. 0:38:58.400 --> 0:39:00.520 I want someone that I feel like I can really 0:39:00.719 --> 0:39:02.920 share anything with and like. 0:39:03.560 --> 0:39:05.239 I'm not going to be judged. I'm not going to 0:39:05.280 --> 0:39:08.480 be like ridiculed, You're not going to disrespect me. We're 0:39:08.480 --> 0:39:09.400 going to be It's like, you. 0:39:09.440 --> 0:39:10.399 Know, not all. 0:39:10.760 --> 0:39:12.840 I'm not for everybody, you know, and that's cool. I 0:39:12.840 --> 0:39:13.799 don't want to be for you. 0:39:14.040 --> 0:39:16.480 Then I can't make myself any other way. 0:39:16.640 --> 0:39:21.200 Yeah and yeah, so I don't know, but so we asked. 0:39:21.760 --> 0:39:26.560 Speaking of relationships, we we talked about We've talked about monogamy. 0:39:27.239 --> 0:39:28.839 What about like the breaking up? 0:39:29.120 --> 0:39:32.280 Right, Like breaking up with people can be this really 0:39:32.320 --> 0:39:38.400 scary and awkward and terrible. 0:39:37.600 --> 0:39:40.399 Thing or funny. I'm not good at it. 0:39:40.520 --> 0:39:42.960 I'm not a good breakup for you know, you just 0:39:43.000 --> 0:39:44.839 avoid I just avoid it, just wait till they break 0:39:44.920 --> 0:39:45.279 up with me. 0:39:47.040 --> 0:39:49.400 That is a tactic, though, I mean it's not a 0:39:49.400 --> 0:39:52.399 good one that that's that weighted out game, like there's 0:39:52.440 --> 0:39:55.200 a hosted negotiation and you are going to attempt to 0:39:55.200 --> 0:39:56.200 wait them out, right. 0:39:56.920 --> 0:39:57.600 But not anymore. 0:39:57.640 --> 0:39:57.879 I don't. 0:39:57.880 --> 0:39:58.960 I think I've grown out of that. 0:39:59.040 --> 0:39:59.359 I hope. 0:39:59.480 --> 0:40:02.520 I think I've I'm a dramatic breaker upper, like and 0:40:02.600 --> 0:40:04.240 we had to just hate each other for a while, 0:40:04.280 --> 0:40:05.960 like we gotta just we had to go out in 0:40:06.040 --> 0:40:09.160 a burning flame, Like burning flame, you go with the bank. 0:40:09.320 --> 0:40:11.560 Yeah, he was like, we're done for real. 0:40:11.960 --> 0:40:15.440 Huh, even even if the breakup wasn't caused by any wrongdoing, 0:40:15.600 --> 0:40:18.120 just to realize that you guys were in the right relationship. 0:40:18.640 --> 0:40:19.800 I've never had that. 0:40:21.920 --> 0:40:23.200 Talking all this mature shit. 0:40:23.840 --> 0:40:26.680 But also I've only ever been I've only i haven't 0:40:26.719 --> 0:40:27.840 been in that many relationships. 0:40:27.880 --> 0:40:29.879 All my relationships are pretty long term. 0:40:29.960 --> 0:40:32.800 Like I had a boyfriend like right out of college 0:40:32.920 --> 0:40:36.080 for like three years, and another one for like five years. 0:40:36.160 --> 0:40:39.799 My baby daddy I was with for seven years, So 0:40:40.400 --> 0:40:43.279 they were very invested relationships. So when they ended, they 0:40:43.280 --> 0:40:46.400 were gonna either we were gonna peace amicably or it 0:40:46.480 --> 0:40:49.040 was gonna be on some fiery ship. And I'm a scorpio, 0:40:49.280 --> 0:40:55.960 so you know, And so yeah, my breakups have always 0:40:56.000 --> 0:40:58.600 been really overly dramatic. 0:40:59.320 --> 0:40:59.520 You know. 0:41:00.320 --> 0:41:02.759 You know, I think when it comes to breakups, I 0:41:02.760 --> 0:41:04.520 think it's just a realization of the obvious, you know, 0:41:04.520 --> 0:41:06.560 in the last part, the last kind of portion of 0:41:06.560 --> 0:41:08.560 what we were talking about. I think, if you're in 0:41:08.600 --> 0:41:12.200 a relationship with the right person, then you don't have time, 0:41:12.280 --> 0:41:15.160 effort energy for anything else. And if you have time 0:41:15.239 --> 0:41:18.000 effort energy for something else, you're not in the right relationship. 0:41:18.080 --> 0:41:20.680 So once you come to that realization, the breakup is 0:41:20.719 --> 0:41:23.719 just getting back some of your time for efficiency safe. 0:41:23.520 --> 0:41:25.560 Because this ain't the motherfuck I'm supposed to end up 0:41:25.600 --> 0:41:26.839 with anyway, you know what I mean? 0:41:27.520 --> 0:41:29.440 So it's true. 0:41:29.480 --> 0:41:31.440 Time will tell if you don't want to put it 0:41:31.440 --> 0:41:33.479 in the energy and the effort. It's not the one. 0:41:33.719 --> 0:41:36.600 I feel the same way as only as I get 0:41:36.640 --> 0:41:38.759 older my time though, like I would would we send 0:41:38.800 --> 0:41:41.799 so much time in relationships before, like at least I knew. 0:41:41.800 --> 0:41:43.439 I mean I knew for at least like six months. 0:41:43.480 --> 0:41:45.879 It was like this ship wasn't working, you know, before 0:41:45.920 --> 0:41:46.520 I broke up? 0:41:46.960 --> 0:41:47.759 How did you end it? 0:41:48.080 --> 0:41:48.239 Now? 0:41:48.719 --> 0:41:49.040 End it? 0:41:50.320 --> 0:41:50.520 What? 0:41:50.960 --> 0:41:52.600 How did you end it? So you said you end 0:41:52.680 --> 0:41:53.560 up that relationship? 0:41:54.400 --> 0:41:56.640 Yeah, I mean it was just he gave me no 0:41:56.800 --> 0:41:58.200 way I could stay basically. 0:41:58.360 --> 0:42:00.560 Of course, that's another tactic the menu. 0:42:01.080 --> 0:42:03.759 Oh but this was did you ask? Did you ask 0:42:03.760 --> 0:42:05.520 God for that? I feel like all all of the 0:42:05.640 --> 0:42:07.920 really endings of relationship I knew there I kind of. 0:42:07.880 --> 0:42:10.200 Then I asked God, like, please do something that no 0:42:10.200 --> 0:42:12.000 matter what I can't They did. 0:42:11.920 --> 0:42:14.520 Not ask God for that. I for sure did not ask. 0:42:14.520 --> 0:42:17.279 Not that, but like not that, but like something so 0:42:17.520 --> 0:42:20.319 bad that it would like it was like to show 0:42:20.360 --> 0:42:21.920 the truth and if it and then it gets so 0:42:22.000 --> 0:42:24.080 bad and you're like fuck, I did ask God for this, 0:42:24.080 --> 0:42:26.360 this truth telling, and then it's like the worst way possible. 0:42:27.080 --> 0:42:29.200 Every time I do that, God's like, here you go, bitch. 0:42:34.239 --> 0:42:36.200 You keep pretending like you don't see it. Have about now? 0:42:37.680 --> 0:42:40.080 Hey, have you guys ever ghosted anyone? 0:42:40.160 --> 0:42:42.520 I mean as opposed to having like just a straight 0:42:42.560 --> 0:42:45.800 up adult conversation with him, just like literally stopped talking 0:42:45.840 --> 0:42:46.160 to them. 0:42:46.239 --> 0:42:47.520 And why did you do that? Why did you think 0:42:47.560 --> 0:42:48.120 that was? Okay? 0:42:48.360 --> 0:42:51.480 Oh? Like a lot like someone Okay, what okay? Is ghosting? 0:42:51.480 --> 0:42:51.560 Like? 0:42:51.600 --> 0:42:53.160 I met a n at the club and then he 0:42:53.239 --> 0:42:55.000 called me and I didn't call him back? Or is 0:42:55.000 --> 0:42:57.000 this like long to like we've dated for like maybe 0:42:57.000 --> 0:43:01.479 a month or two and then disappeared? Yes, because yes 0:43:01.600 --> 0:43:06.160 I might have yeah kind of Yeah. 0:43:06.200 --> 0:43:09.359 Why why I've done it? 0:43:09.360 --> 0:43:12.000 Because I'm inconsistent and I've only really done it one 0:43:12.040 --> 0:43:13.399 time and it was the the. 0:43:15.200 --> 0:43:15.880 Broke Bay. 0:43:16.719 --> 0:43:17.040 You just. 0:43:19.360 --> 0:43:20.000 Broke back. 0:43:22.360 --> 0:43:22.920 McDonald's. 0:43:23.440 --> 0:43:23.759 That's what. 0:43:23.760 --> 0:43:26.719 That's what the little dairy car you let you. 0:43:27.000 --> 0:43:28.440 Besides that, I don't act like that. 0:43:28.680 --> 0:43:31.680 I'm not proud of that name. Okay, I'm not. I'm not. 0:43:31.760 --> 0:43:33.840 I feel it's accurate. 0:43:34.400 --> 0:43:37.960 I've grown a lot since then. 0:43:38.600 --> 0:43:44.840 Last eighteen months, I've done a whole lot anyway. 0:43:43.440 --> 0:43:45.319 So you broke up with did you break up with him? 0:43:45.320 --> 0:43:49.160 Because we okay, we we finally like we we dated 0:43:49.200 --> 0:43:51.600 and like he was like he was super fine and 0:43:51.640 --> 0:43:55.319 I was like I'm not. Like we met on through Instagram, right, 0:43:55.360 --> 0:43:56.839 and then we hung out and then I. 0:43:56.760 --> 0:43:58.960 Was like, yeah, he looks like his pictures, but like 0:43:59.440 --> 0:44:01.200 the vibe, it just wasn't. I couldn't. 0:44:01.239 --> 0:44:03.919 There was something that like wasn't working and I don't 0:44:03.920 --> 0:44:05.719 know what it was. Because he was attractive. I was 0:44:05.760 --> 0:44:08.640 attracted to him, and so I kept going on dates 0:44:08.640 --> 0:44:10.600 with him for like probably like about a month and 0:44:10.640 --> 0:44:13.800 a half, and like we would kiss and like finally 0:44:13.840 --> 0:44:14.680 we had sex and. 0:44:14.640 --> 0:44:15.440 The sex was really good. 0:44:15.440 --> 0:44:19.239 And the sex and I understaid this story. This was always. 0:44:21.719 --> 0:44:24.080 It was sex was a girl. I couldn't stand them. 0:44:28.239 --> 0:44:30.480 Wait, there was all there's the pheromones. There was a 0:44:30.520 --> 0:44:33.400 pheromone thing like you smell not really like there was 0:44:33.400 --> 0:44:34.160 like a scent. 0:44:34.080 --> 0:44:39.560 That he had kidding me right now, took his ass 0:44:39.560 --> 0:44:43.279 and the diller's and fucking tried everything on in that mother. 0:44:43.800 --> 0:44:45.320 It didn't want to return. 0:44:45.680 --> 0:44:51.360 It was not you can't do anything with someone scent. Okay, 0:44:51.520 --> 0:44:54.200 it's just there. And like you know, when you like 0:44:54.280 --> 0:44:57.560 really fun with someone and you are all love the 0:44:57.560 --> 0:45:01.680 way they like, you want to be in their face 0:45:01.719 --> 0:45:07.399 and ship. Yeah, like imagine meeting someone where you're like 0:45:08.320 --> 0:45:11.640 you don't smell, but you're just not my smell, like 0:45:11.719 --> 0:45:16.400 I'm not. Sometimes it's like greasy respect. 0:45:18.520 --> 0:45:21.319 Anyway, I would not know it was like on this 0:45:21.440 --> 0:45:22.200 level right here. 0:45:23.320 --> 0:45:29.400 Pheromones, It's a real thing. Yes, So anyway, we had sex. 0:45:29.160 --> 0:45:30.319 And I just I don't know. 0:45:30.400 --> 0:45:34.560 After that, I just like stop calling him, just stop 0:45:34.600 --> 0:45:39.040 responding to him, like yeah, he would like text me 0:45:39.120 --> 0:45:42.120 and be like what's up. Like way, we didn't really 0:45:42.200 --> 0:45:45.200 talk like all the time, like every day, so it. 0:45:45.200 --> 0:45:46.000 Was easy to stop. 0:45:46.040 --> 0:45:46.560 It was easy. 0:45:46.600 --> 0:45:51.040 I was just like okay, yeah, but that was text one, 0:45:52.239 --> 0:45:53.160 you know, take care of you. 0:45:53.280 --> 0:45:56.399 Just we've since talked. We've since talked. It took about 0:45:56.400 --> 0:45:57.520 a year and a half. 0:45:59.239 --> 0:46:01.920 Yeah, it's sometimes I feel like, why don't need to 0:46:01.920 --> 0:46:04.120 spell it out for you? 0:46:04.120 --> 0:46:06.239 No, that just wasn't nice. I was that was not well. 0:46:06.280 --> 0:46:08.480 I don't really I don't even do a month and 0:46:08.560 --> 0:46:09.320 I don't I don't. 0:46:09.440 --> 0:46:11.719 I don't condone ghosting, but I feel like niggas do 0:46:11.760 --> 0:46:13.879 that ship way more than women anyway, So I really 0:46:13.920 --> 0:46:15.719 don't feel that bad that. 0:46:15.760 --> 0:46:20.840 Before the gentleman, when you guys done that before? 0:46:21.320 --> 0:46:23.760 Have I been ghosted? Yeah? Ghosted? 0:46:23.840 --> 0:46:28.839 Everybody ghosts before you have geez, go toost. 0:46:28.840 --> 0:46:30.919 Ghosting is a go to. 0:46:32.400 --> 0:46:33.520 Ghosting is a go. 0:46:33.400 --> 0:46:38.520 To you'd rather avoid and and that's just sad, but 0:46:38.600 --> 0:46:39.360 it's the reality. 0:46:39.480 --> 0:46:40.680 What do you mean You don't want to be like, oh, 0:46:40.680 --> 0:46:42.719 I just fucked you. I didn't really want anything more. 0:46:42.719 --> 0:46:45.279 You don't want to say that, Well, you know, I 0:46:45.320 --> 0:46:47.520 haven't done that, you know, in a long time, so 0:46:47.640 --> 0:46:49.520 I really shouldn't speak in that way. 0:46:49.600 --> 0:46:50.600 But when I did do. 0:46:50.640 --> 0:46:53.560 It, it was just I thought it was obvious it 0:46:53.600 --> 0:46:55.239 was sex and nothing more. 0:46:55.800 --> 0:46:59.400 So you know how that ship go Like here. 0:46:59.320 --> 0:47:01.560 You were feeling he was feeling you. You weren't feeling 0:47:01.640 --> 0:47:04.040 him like that, and he just had to take the 0:47:04.320 --> 0:47:05.440 That's really what it comes down to. 0:47:05.920 --> 0:47:08.719 Let me ask you a question, though, Is there a certain amount. 0:47:08.480 --> 0:47:10.400 Of time after which you have an obligation to that 0:47:10.480 --> 0:47:13.480 person because you've occupied so much of their time for 0:47:13.600 --> 0:47:15.040 whatever that defined period. 0:47:14.840 --> 0:47:19.120 Is a month or two, I should have told that nigga, Hey, 0:47:19.480 --> 0:47:21.360 I wasn't feeling you know what I'm saying. 0:47:21.520 --> 0:47:24.200 I agree, like a month or two, I'll be in 0:47:24.200 --> 0:47:26.160 consistent even with the dates. If I got to like, 0:47:26.200 --> 0:47:27.880 I'm not even going to be as consistent as a 0:47:27.920 --> 0:47:28.640 month or. 0:47:28.640 --> 0:47:34.120 Two and you couldn't text that, Nigga, I'm not feeling you. 0:47:34.320 --> 0:47:35.960 That's broke Bay. That's broke Bay. 0:47:36.480 --> 0:47:39.800 So that's that's broke Why. 0:47:42.760 --> 0:47:50.600 Mommy burger, that's a classic. You know, he was trying 0:47:50.600 --> 0:47:55.440 to classy burger place. Mommy is like very loud. 0:47:56.520 --> 0:47:58.520 Never taken a chick for a burger. 0:47:58.760 --> 0:48:00.000 It's a very class It's not. 0:48:01.480 --> 0:48:03.200 You didn't care about her. You have if you didn't 0:48:03.239 --> 0:48:03.640 care about it? 0:48:03.760 --> 0:48:05.719 Is there is there like a minimum like do you 0:48:05.760 --> 0:48:07.719 feel as men like if you're taking a woman on 0:48:07.760 --> 0:48:11.480 a date, there's like a like a men maximum you 0:48:11.520 --> 0:48:13.840 would spend or like a minimum like you know that 0:48:13.880 --> 0:48:16.760 you can't spend under this amount, like I think. 0:48:16.760 --> 0:48:18.879 I think it depends on how much you like her. 0:48:19.000 --> 0:48:21.440 Honestly that in terms of the budget, like every droll 0:48:21.480 --> 0:48:22.400 don't get the same budget. 0:48:22.600 --> 0:48:25.360 That's true. 0:48:25.440 --> 0:48:26.960 Yeah, that's true, I would imagine. 0:48:26.960 --> 0:48:29.240 So, yeah, that makes sense. 0:48:29.600 --> 0:48:32.560 Sometimes women just get lucky too, right, I want to 0:48:32.560 --> 0:48:36.279 try this new restaurant. You know, I want a little 0:48:36.280 --> 0:48:38.240 on candy, So I'm going to take your ass along. 0:48:40.280 --> 0:48:43.600 I just want to love company and I want anyway. 0:48:43.640 --> 0:48:46.239 You just get to ride to ride. So sometimes it's 0:48:46.280 --> 0:48:49.160 not necessarily you're worth the money more than he just 0:48:49.200 --> 0:48:50.120 wants to experience. 0:48:52.880 --> 0:48:54.759 That's true. 0:48:54.440 --> 0:48:59.759 Are anything married or just oh you're married? 0:48:59.880 --> 0:49:00.000 Right? 0:49:00.600 --> 0:49:04.320 Yeah, you guys are intended to entanglement both. 0:49:04.120 --> 0:49:09.600 Of your ment Okay, are you single? 0:49:09.680 --> 0:49:10.600 Are you in a relationship? 0:49:10.600 --> 0:49:17.960 I'm in a relationship. Okay, I'm a relationship. 0:49:21.280 --> 0:49:24.520 How long have you been? I was single for three years. 0:49:24.640 --> 0:49:26.400 You said it, you know, I said it, but yourself. 0:49:27.680 --> 0:49:29.279 Yeah, that's the longest I've ever been single with my 0:49:29.320 --> 0:49:31.279 whole life. But yes, I'm very proud of that. 0:49:31.400 --> 0:49:33.440 I did it because you did it on purpose. 0:49:34.880 --> 0:49:36.759 Well, I did it on purpose. And then like I 0:49:36.800 --> 0:49:39.400 was having a good time and I was like, and 0:49:39.400 --> 0:49:39.719 then I. 0:49:39.680 --> 0:49:42.960 Just didn't have the capacity to like open myself up. 0:49:42.960 --> 0:49:45.040 I would just like I just I had like I 0:49:45.040 --> 0:49:47.279 was dating with a kid for the first time. It 0:49:47.320 --> 0:49:49.959 wasn't just about me anymore, Like do I really fuck 0:49:50.000 --> 0:49:53.560 with you? Like it was just yeah, but I have 0:49:53.560 --> 0:49:59.000 a boyfriend now, So you know that's we both we 0:49:59.080 --> 0:50:02.759 both recently aren't boyfriend boyfriend girlfriends. 0:50:04.000 --> 0:50:05.880 Did you say boyfriends and girlfriend. 0:50:05.920 --> 0:50:09.799 Girlfriend But we are girlfriends. We are girlfriends two boyfriends. 0:50:11.520 --> 0:50:13.720 You can tell we're not used to being in relationships. 0:50:13.920 --> 0:50:24.680 I know, Grandma girlfriends, guys girlfriends. 0:50:26.000 --> 0:50:28.319 I don't know what I just said right now. I 0:50:28.360 --> 0:50:30.920 have no clue what I I gotta work on that. 0:50:30.960 --> 0:50:32.120 I gotta work on that speech. 0:50:33.080 --> 0:50:35.480 Yeah, brou because if I was, if I was standing 0:50:35.560 --> 0:50:37.400 right beside you, man, we're gonna have. 0:50:37.360 --> 0:50:39.360 A strong conversation when we get back to the house. 0:50:39.440 --> 0:50:42.120 That's where the guys we both have boyfriends. 0:50:43.440 --> 0:50:45.640 Oh, you got it on the third try, that's for sure. 0:50:45.840 --> 0:50:46.319 I got you. 0:50:48.800 --> 0:50:49.000 Try. 0:50:49.600 --> 0:50:52.680 It's new. They're new. They're new boyfriends from like the 0:50:52.760 --> 0:50:53.600 last three months. 0:50:53.640 --> 0:50:56.359 So every time y'all say that, y'all look at each 0:50:56.400 --> 0:50:59.719 other like, I don't know what about you. 0:50:59.719 --> 0:51:03.840 No, I love my boyfriend. I have a boyfriend. 0:51:04.640 --> 0:51:05.640 I love him already. 0:51:06.840 --> 0:51:07.160 I do. 0:51:07.239 --> 0:51:09.400 I do love him. 0:51:08.239 --> 0:51:14.880 M M, I feel like bridesmaids. No, it's true, I do. 0:51:15.040 --> 0:51:16.919 I do. 0:51:20.560 --> 0:51:21.000 Too much. 0:51:21.120 --> 0:51:21.400 Weed. 0:51:21.480 --> 0:51:22.120 This is great? 0:51:22.160 --> 0:51:22.440 Weed? 0:51:22.760 --> 0:51:23.279 Is there more? 0:51:24.280 --> 0:51:26.960 Yeah, don't do that. 0:51:29.360 --> 0:51:30.560 Us like that. We know it's great. 0:51:30.600 --> 0:51:36.840 We wait so speaking of breakups, we're talking about breakup. 0:51:36.840 --> 0:51:38.920 I don't even know because'm kind of kind Okay. 0:51:39.000 --> 0:51:44.360 So we we asked some of our followers listeners to 0:51:44.360 --> 0:51:49.200 tell us their breakup stories, and we have some. 0:51:49.360 --> 0:51:51.319 We have one, we have, We've got a few good ones. 0:51:51.320 --> 0:51:55.480 We're only gonna read one and uh, this one. 0:51:55.760 --> 0:51:56.239 What are you doing? 0:51:56.400 --> 0:51:59.040 I'm just doing like a little how do you say? 0:51:59.080 --> 0:52:01.360 A picture for the Okay, everyone's. 0:52:01.040 --> 0:52:05.000 Mile, I'm mad, I. 0:52:07.320 --> 0:52:09.320 Did it. 0:52:11.520 --> 0:52:11.800 Okay. 0:52:11.840 --> 0:52:14.560 So this this girl wrote us and told us that 0:52:14.840 --> 0:52:17.719 she was dating the Sky and she was tired of 0:52:17.760 --> 0:52:20.760 his ass and so he really wanted to go to Asia. 0:52:21.040 --> 0:52:23.720 So she bought him a ticket around her ticket to Asia, 0:52:24.560 --> 0:52:27.960 sent him to Asia Philippines, the Philippines specifically, and then 0:52:28.080 --> 0:52:33.759 canceled his returns. It was like his lifelong way and 0:52:33.760 --> 0:52:36.319 he couldn't afford to come back for a year. 0:52:37.160 --> 0:52:38.960 The only reason he came back and says the government. 0:52:38.960 --> 0:52:41.200 He overstated his visa and the government paid for him 0:52:41.239 --> 0:52:42.000 to get shipped back. 0:52:42.880 --> 0:52:45.560 He couldn't afford to come back for a whole year. 0:52:46.400 --> 0:52:48.360 I mean, I'm sure the nigga probably was like, whatever, 0:52:48.480 --> 0:52:53.040 he's so bad here, let me just stick you brought 0:52:53.120 --> 0:52:55.000 me mess some Filipino mommy. 0:52:56.760 --> 0:53:01.279 He spent he tricked that off thirty times. Mm hmm. Man, 0:53:02.400 --> 0:53:04.359 and that's that's that's kind of hard right there. 0:53:05.160 --> 0:53:07.120 I was like, I told her, I said, damn, bit, 0:53:07.160 --> 0:53:09.640 you are cold. 0:53:11.360 --> 0:53:13.000 I'm not a crazy type, but you do that to me. 0:53:13.080 --> 0:53:16.600 I won't find you talk about this. You're gonna talk 0:53:16.640 --> 0:53:17.000 about this. 0:53:17.040 --> 0:53:19.080 I'm not gonna put my hands on you, per se, 0:53:19.280 --> 0:53:20.719 but we're gonna talk about this year. 0:53:20.800 --> 0:53:21.839 A year later, you're coming. 0:53:21.960 --> 0:53:23.280 Fine, we might send someone. 0:53:24.000 --> 0:53:25.840 I'll never forget you left me. 0:53:27.320 --> 0:53:29.000 I was like, that's the coldest ship I ever heard. 0:53:29.000 --> 0:53:30.640 You're about a nigga a plane ticket to get out 0:53:30.680 --> 0:53:31.080 your face. 0:53:31.640 --> 0:53:37.000 Man, speaking about talking about ghosting, that's the ultimate ghost God, Yeah, 0:53:37.760 --> 0:53:38.080 it is. 0:53:42.160 --> 0:53:43.360 What about you, guys. 0:53:43.440 --> 0:53:45.160 I'm gonna carry this one for the rest of my life. 0:53:45.160 --> 0:53:47.319 I'm gonna I'm gonna start threatening. I'm gonna start threatening 0:53:47.320 --> 0:53:48.200 my niggas. I'll send you. 0:53:48.280 --> 0:53:51.359 I'll send you and you'll think it's a vacation too. 0:53:54.360 --> 0:53:55.880 Worst break what's your worst breakup? 0:53:56.000 --> 0:54:01.600 Jez Man, I'm telling you I have never been broken 0:54:02.040 --> 0:54:04.400 up with. Man, I have never been broken up with 0:54:04.480 --> 0:54:05.959 I cannot speak from that press. 0:54:06.080 --> 0:54:09.440 You are just you are perfectly romantic. I'm checking out 0:54:09.600 --> 0:54:10.520 all the boxes. 0:54:11.520 --> 0:54:13.400 No one has ever broken. 0:54:13.200 --> 0:54:17.360 Up relationship accordingly, and I do what I'm supposed to, 0:54:17.520 --> 0:54:20.320 and they typically want to stay. And that's not bragging, 0:54:20.360 --> 0:54:21.360 that's just anybody. 0:54:21.440 --> 0:54:23.440 I need some numbers. I'm need a roster. 0:54:23.680 --> 0:54:24.440 I need a referral. 0:54:24.800 --> 0:54:25.280 Referral. 0:54:26.760 --> 0:54:30.440 I guarantee that that's a real like somebody has somebody 0:54:30.480 --> 0:54:32.120 has your reading glasses. 0:54:35.000 --> 0:54:37.160 Yeah, yeah, I don't have a breakup story, but I 0:54:37.200 --> 0:54:38.080 have been cheated on. 0:54:38.560 --> 0:54:42.239 And I remember when she cheated on me. I told her. 0:54:42.239 --> 0:54:44.120 I was like, look, I don't want to end the relationship, 0:54:44.239 --> 0:54:45.920 like can we still be together? 0:54:46.640 --> 0:54:47.759 Wow? You love? 0:54:48.000 --> 0:54:51.800 Wow, Wow that must have been some good pussy wow, 0:54:51.920 --> 0:54:54.080 because that does not happen often. 0:54:54.520 --> 0:54:57.200 It was amazing, and I stayed with her. She heated 0:54:57.239 --> 0:55:02.719 on me again, right, so like me respect and I 0:55:02.840 --> 0:55:09.080 ended this right her again about six months later, very 0:55:09.280 --> 0:55:13.600 like you know, I'm established college, I start my career job, 0:55:13.680 --> 0:55:16.040 My money is pretty good, Like I'm ready to see 0:55:16.880 --> 0:55:21.480 this whole is pregnant as fuck, like four months she. 0:55:20.680 --> 0:55:21.840 She pops up, doesn't. 0:55:21.640 --> 0:55:24.640 Say she's just pregnant, pregnant, pregnant by another nigga. She's 0:55:25.920 --> 0:55:28.480 but were you think? No, no, no, no, I know. 0:55:30.320 --> 0:55:33.160 So she says, hey, you know, I know I'm pregnant 0:55:33.200 --> 0:55:35.359 out of y'all, but I missed this, I missed us 0:55:35.440 --> 0:55:36.279 out of y'all. 0:55:36.360 --> 0:55:39.040 Can you can we be together? Listen to me? I 0:55:39.080 --> 0:55:39.359 told her. 0:55:39.360 --> 0:55:41.279 I said, yeah, if you want to be together, kill 0:55:41.320 --> 0:55:43.720 this baby because she's like two and a half months pregnant. 0:55:43.760 --> 0:55:48.560 You know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, you could say. 0:55:49.880 --> 0:55:51.320 This is the Christian. 0:55:53.680 --> 0:55:56.840 We can be together just killing Bible, school nights, school, 0:55:57.000 --> 0:55:58.000 summer camp, Bible. 0:55:58.080 --> 0:56:00.760 Can't this is what happened ship. 0:56:00.800 --> 0:56:01.600 Your mama's paid. 0:56:03.920 --> 0:56:08.200 No, it's fine, listen. We're not always happy without decision. 0:56:11.040 --> 0:56:12.960 So after she says no, of course she's going to 0:56:13.080 --> 0:56:16.000 keep the baby, I proceeded to fuck the ship out 0:56:16.000 --> 0:56:18.600 of her just for you know, general principle. 0:56:18.280 --> 0:56:19.880 And general principal. 0:56:20.200 --> 0:56:22.759 Yeah you what you know? And I moved on. So 0:56:22.800 --> 0:56:24.440 I kind of sold her like, yeah, yeah, we can 0:56:24.480 --> 0:56:25.160 do something. Let's go. 0:56:25.480 --> 0:56:25.680 You know. 0:56:26.360 --> 0:56:28.920 Oh she thought that there was a cheer let her 0:56:28.920 --> 0:56:36.240 on just to you know, Smash went pregnant. Yes, that's 0:56:36.680 --> 0:56:39.400 that's like a like a part two break up, like 0:56:39.480 --> 0:56:40.319 she probably thought y'all. 0:56:40.760 --> 0:56:42.319 She was probably he was gonna he was like he 0:56:42.360 --> 0:56:44.279 was getting her back for the second cheating too. 0:56:44.480 --> 0:56:47.719 Yeah, that was a baby. We got to talk about 0:56:47.760 --> 0:56:49.360 the baby. That was the third incident. 0:56:49.440 --> 0:56:50.719 She was bold, she was. 0:56:50.680 --> 0:56:54.439 Bold up bold, pregnant, she's showing she was better. 0:56:54.480 --> 0:56:59.800 I'm not saying a little bit, a little bit made it. 0:57:00.280 --> 0:57:01.120 That made it a little hard. 0:57:01.320 --> 0:57:03.840 Yeah, he wanted that pregnant person. He was curious, like, 0:57:04.280 --> 0:57:05.920 you don't say we have any of you guys ever 0:57:05.960 --> 0:57:06.400 had sex. 0:57:06.280 --> 0:57:08.960 With a pregnant woman that like, isn't your isn't your baby? 0:57:10.000 --> 0:57:14.520 No? No, Jesus ever, that was. 0:57:14.480 --> 0:57:16.800 Not besides her another one? 0:57:16.920 --> 0:57:21.920 Yeah, and how many she was five? 0:57:22.760 --> 0:57:24.600 What was that like? Did you rub her belly? Like 0:57:24.720 --> 0:57:26.560 was it a turn on? Or was it weird? Like 0:57:26.560 --> 0:57:27.280 did it turn you on? 0:57:27.720 --> 0:57:29.720 Not weird at all? Rubbed that belly? You know what 0:57:29.720 --> 0:57:31.320 I'm saying. It was it was awesome, you know what 0:57:31.320 --> 0:57:31.600 I'm saying. 0:57:31.680 --> 0:57:33.280 She probably needed that love at that time. 0:57:33.400 --> 0:57:33.640 Yeah. 0:57:34.000 --> 0:57:34.920 I gave it to it too. 0:57:35.720 --> 0:57:36.840 I'm so glad you exist. 0:57:37.840 --> 0:57:39.640 I mean, I imagine being like, I don't know if 0:57:39.640 --> 0:57:42.040 she was single, I'm hoping so whatever. I'm just like 0:57:42.120 --> 0:57:44.320 imagine like needing love being pregnant. 0:57:46.400 --> 0:57:47.440 Just imagine needing love. 0:57:47.520 --> 0:57:49.240 Sometimes you just need love when you're pregnant. 0:57:49.280 --> 0:57:53.160 Ship, definitely, you guys got another one? 0:57:54.800 --> 0:57:55.640 No, do y'all have one? 0:57:58.040 --> 0:57:58.240 Are you? 0:57:58.240 --> 0:57:59.120 Are you going to share one? 0:57:59.560 --> 0:57:59.680 I do? 0:58:00.000 --> 0:58:02.800 I share one too. I'll share one too. 0:58:02.880 --> 0:58:05.960 So I don't know if you know, but like boys, like, 0:58:06.440 --> 0:58:10.440 we hold grudges from like young right, so shit shit 0:58:10.520 --> 0:58:12.680 can happen to us, and we'll hold baggage from the 0:58:12.720 --> 0:58:15.640 age of seventeen and eighteen. So I'm gonna give you 0:58:15.720 --> 0:58:17.040 one of my young man's stories. 0:58:17.120 --> 0:58:17.320 Right. 0:58:17.640 --> 0:58:23.520 So I'm dating this girl. She's Trinidadian. She finally tells 0:58:23.640 --> 0:58:28.600 she had a huge body downtown queen, you know. And 0:58:30.280 --> 0:58:32.520 you know I was in the tenth grade and she 0:58:32.720 --> 0:58:35.560 was in twelfth grade. So for me, this was like 0:58:35.640 --> 0:58:38.040 the biggest come up. Everybody coveted at her, you know 0:58:38.080 --> 0:58:42.160 what I'm saying, And so when she chose me, I 0:58:42.280 --> 0:58:45.080 was just like, all right, so me and I'm doing 0:58:45.120 --> 0:58:47.960 all this shit. Man, I'm saving lunch money giving it 0:58:48.000 --> 0:58:49.040 to this chick and everything. 0:58:49.080 --> 0:58:49.720 You know what I'm saying. 0:58:51.200 --> 0:58:54.520 You know that's tenth grade shit, right, taking on picnics, 0:58:54.560 --> 0:58:55.400 all this type of stuff. 0:58:55.440 --> 0:58:58.840 So she goes off to college, right, and so she 0:58:58.960 --> 0:59:01.760 swears up and down like this is the love of 0:59:01.760 --> 0:59:04.760 her life. This is real. Like she's like, I'm going 0:59:04.800 --> 0:59:06.760 to wait for you when you get to college. We're 0:59:06.760 --> 0:59:11.280 gonna link back up. It's gonna be everything. So, uh, 0:59:11.560 --> 0:59:13.680 I'm talking about maybe six months later. 0:59:15.680 --> 0:59:19.480 I got I got something in the mail and it's uh, 0:59:19.560 --> 0:59:21.960 it's from her. So I'm super excited. We're supposed to 0:59:21.960 --> 0:59:24.480 be going to Disney World. We in the van, I'm 0:59:24.520 --> 0:59:27.000 in the back. I'm cozy, I got I got my 0:59:27.160 --> 0:59:29.120 package with me. Man, I'm about to make this trip 0:59:29.160 --> 0:59:33.760 by everything that's supposed to be right. So this is 0:59:33.800 --> 0:59:36.000 back in the day when you know, people used to 0:59:36.040 --> 0:59:39.000 record cassette tapes to deliver their message. 0:59:39.200 --> 0:59:42.160 I don't know, I do remember those, yeah, man. 0:59:42.040 --> 0:59:43.240 When you had to when you had to press the 0:59:43.280 --> 0:59:48.080 boat the buttons and yeah yeah, and then they captured 0:59:48.080 --> 0:59:51.360 that jam and they might make a monologue on front 0:59:51.360 --> 0:59:52.640 of it, on the front end of it, you know how. 0:59:52.680 --> 0:59:55.960 I go back in the day ship so I have 0:59:56.080 --> 0:59:58.600 my Sony walkment in. I was like, oh, ship my 0:59:58.640 --> 1:00:01.000 Buddha and gave me a tape. It's about to be 1:00:01.120 --> 1:00:03.200 the turn up. So I put it in, I pop 1:00:03.240 --> 1:00:05.080 it in and she comes on. 1:00:05.240 --> 1:00:10.280 And she has this very monotune, sad voice, and then 1:00:10.280 --> 1:00:12.440 she dropped her dear john let on her brother, just 1:00:12.520 --> 1:00:15.680 like listen, I know I said I'd be with you, 1:00:15.960 --> 1:00:16.760 but I can't. 1:00:20.760 --> 1:00:23.640 So so she was like, but this. 1:00:23.600 --> 1:00:27.640 Song is really going to tell you how I feel. 1:00:27.680 --> 1:00:31.240 So a breakup playlist, just. 1:00:31.200 --> 1:00:35.280 One song, and she repeated over and over on the cassette. 1:00:35.640 --> 1:00:40.320 You know what I'm saying was up. But and you know, 1:00:40.440 --> 1:00:42.480 she could have gave me a whole explanation, but she's. 1:00:42.440 --> 1:00:46.680 Like, wave, this is like a beautiful breakupkup. 1:00:46.800 --> 1:00:49.360 So then she she she she. 1:00:49.320 --> 1:00:53.160 Leaves this song by Johnny and it's called everything Happens 1:00:53.160 --> 1:00:57.520 for a Reason, and it literally keeps saying that. 1:00:56.440 --> 1:00:59.520 That's what they say, everything happens for her. I was like, really, 1:00:59.520 --> 1:01:01.200 this bitch, this to me, this is what you want. 1:01:01.440 --> 1:01:03.640 So I'm in the back trunk and I'm going like 1:01:03.720 --> 1:01:06.840 this and my mom is Jamaican, so we're Jamaican. 1:01:06.880 --> 1:01:11.880 So she said, are you fucking kidding? I'm podcasting. Are 1:01:11.880 --> 1:01:13.280 you take a picture? 1:01:13.880 --> 1:01:16.959 So, so d take yourself off? 1:01:17.360 --> 1:01:19.800 So I just I'm tucked the camera because I didn't 1:01:19.800 --> 1:01:20.480 know the fuck you. 1:01:21.680 --> 1:01:26.560 Damn oh ship, Like, what's going on right now? 1:01:26.680 --> 1:01:28.160 I him, I want to hear. 1:01:31.160 --> 1:01:32.959 We're gonna have to get that story back from then. 1:01:33.720 --> 1:01:37.840 So either way, I'm crying in the back and my 1:01:37.840 --> 1:01:40.760 mom's screaming about are you all right? And so later 1:01:40.800 --> 1:01:42.600 I come to find out she gets it. She gets 1:01:42.640 --> 1:01:44.360 to college. I get to college. 1:01:44.880 --> 1:01:48.560 She hits me up, uh, and she says she's been 1:01:48.600 --> 1:01:49.960 in an abusive relationship. 1:01:50.040 --> 1:01:51.960 She's been in too, you know what I'm saying. 1:01:52.040 --> 1:01:54.600 So and she's just saying the best time I ever 1:01:54.680 --> 1:01:55.680 had in my life, or the. 1:01:55.600 --> 1:01:58.880 Time I felt loved was you. And then you know, 1:01:59.400 --> 1:02:00.320 I said, well whatever. 1:02:00.760 --> 1:02:02.919 She hits me up one time, says I'm in town, 1:02:03.080 --> 1:02:05.440 left something my voice message saying she's upstairs at a 1:02:05.440 --> 1:02:07.720 friend's house who I didn't know lived in the complex. 1:02:08.280 --> 1:02:10.200 And the same thing that Jezu just did when he 1:02:10.240 --> 1:02:17.240 got his revenge sex. And she said, and before she 1:02:17.320 --> 1:02:19.960 allowed me to hear it, she was like, I only 1:02:20.000 --> 1:02:21.480 want you to take it if you'll tell me it. 1:02:21.560 --> 1:02:23.040 I only want you to take it if you still 1:02:23.080 --> 1:02:24.720 love me. What do you think? I said? 1:02:25.120 --> 1:02:31.320 Of course, I love you, girl, don't I loved you? 1:02:29.400 --> 1:02:34.200 I knew we found our way back to each other. 1:02:36.440 --> 1:02:39.640 Like I cat and then as she slept, as she 1:02:39.760 --> 1:02:47.680 laid it. Yeah, I don't think people are breaking up 1:02:47.720 --> 1:02:51.400 the same these days, you know, unless you're may be married, 1:02:51.720 --> 1:02:54.240 you know. I think that's more of a real breakup 1:02:54.680 --> 1:02:56.240 these days, people just getting missing. 1:02:58.400 --> 1:03:00.680 I did recently some guy kind that like ended it 1:03:00.720 --> 1:03:00.960 with me. 1:03:01.040 --> 1:03:02.960 Remember that was remember that guy like I would hanging 1:03:02.960 --> 1:03:04.840 out with the New York every now and then, and then. 1:03:04.800 --> 1:03:06.720 Like we were like we weren't really a thing. And 1:03:06.720 --> 1:03:08.760 then he called me to tell me like, hey, it's 1:03:08.880 --> 1:03:12.640 just not working. I was like, who was it. I'll 1:03:12.640 --> 1:03:14.840 show you his picture, but I was like, we don't 1:03:14.880 --> 1:03:18.920 even really be talking. Though I appreciate you. I remember, 1:03:19.360 --> 1:03:21.880 it was a whole official it was a whole conversation, 1:03:22.040 --> 1:03:24.240 a thing. And I was like, this is strange. 1:03:25.760 --> 1:03:31.240 We've had sex three times in six months. But yeah, 1:03:31.280 --> 1:03:33.320 I mean, I guess, but I appreciated it. I thought 1:03:33.360 --> 1:03:35.480 it was weird, but also like it was cool, like. 1:03:35.440 --> 1:03:39.000 I have no questions. There's no questions here, We're not unclear. 1:03:39.640 --> 1:03:45.680 Yeah, and then try to place the title relationships or 1:03:46.200 --> 1:03:49.280 are you finding that they're pretty free flowing as far as. 1:03:49.160 --> 1:03:52.120 That goes just casually vibing. 1:03:52.080 --> 1:03:54.840 And fucking putting a title. 1:03:55.360 --> 1:03:58.200 Yeah, you find men like hey trying to lock you down? 1:03:58.360 --> 1:03:59.840 Or is this like everyone's just cool. 1:04:00.240 --> 1:04:02.240 I feel like a lot of people want open relationships 1:04:02.440 --> 1:04:02.960 Los Angeles. 1:04:03.000 --> 1:04:05.400 It's mostly been casual except for these two guys we 1:04:05.480 --> 1:04:06.200 just started dating. 1:04:07.360 --> 1:04:09.600 The guy that I'm dating now blocked me down. Yeah, 1:04:09.640 --> 1:04:11.360 they are aggressive about it, but it blocked me the 1:04:11.360 --> 1:04:13.800 fuck down. He was very clear about what he wanted, 1:04:14.040 --> 1:04:15.520 and that's what I meant. 1:04:16.320 --> 1:04:19.360 But what made you get into that though? It wasn't 1:04:20.040 --> 1:04:21.160 obviously no. 1:04:21.120 --> 1:04:23.880 It wasn't. I think I felt, like I've talked about 1:04:23.880 --> 1:04:24.480 this before, is that. 1:04:24.440 --> 1:04:26.680 I felt safe, Like he made me feel safe, like 1:04:26.720 --> 1:04:29.360 I trusted him. 1:04:28.080 --> 1:04:31.280 I I just we just vibe. 1:04:31.360 --> 1:04:34.840 We have a great energy together that is just really 1:04:35.240 --> 1:04:36.440 special and unique. 1:04:36.680 --> 1:04:39.640 And he had possesses a lot of the qualities and a. 1:04:39.680 --> 1:04:43.320 Man that I I've met along the way, Like I 1:04:43.320 --> 1:04:46.840 feel like there's been a lot of I've met people 1:04:46.840 --> 1:04:49.000 along the way that have led me to him and 1:04:49.080 --> 1:04:52.200 to understand exactly what it is that I want, what 1:04:52.240 --> 1:04:55.960 I can do without, you know, And it just felt 1:04:56.000 --> 1:04:57.840 like I don't know, I don't know I don't know 1:04:57.880 --> 1:04:59.720 how else to describe it, except that it felt like 1:05:00.560 --> 1:05:02.200 it made sense. 1:05:02.240 --> 1:05:04.520 It just made sense to me. I wasn't scared. I 1:05:04.600 --> 1:05:05.880 wasn't scared to do it. 1:05:06.920 --> 1:05:10.440 Question no, no, go ahead, I was gonna say. 1:05:10.560 --> 1:05:13.320 So, you talked about the things that led you to 1:05:13.400 --> 1:05:16.720 this man. If you would have met him, assuming you 1:05:16.760 --> 1:05:19.320 weren't in another relationship, if you would have met him 1:05:19.360 --> 1:05:21.960 five or six years ago, would you have been ready 1:05:21.960 --> 1:05:22.400 for him? 1:05:22.720 --> 1:05:24.160 And would he have been a man that you would 1:05:24.200 --> 1:05:24.880 have selected? 1:05:25.840 --> 1:05:26.040 No? 1:05:26.320 --> 1:05:34.240 Absolutely not, nope, no, yeh nah, I wouldn't. I would 1:05:34.240 --> 1:05:38.120 have thought he was too sensitive or like. 1:05:38.080 --> 1:05:42.840 My idea of what a man was or yeah, it 1:05:42.880 --> 1:05:48.000 was is like an alpha male that takes control that 1:05:48.240 --> 1:05:49.840 people kind of fear a little bit. 1:05:50.520 --> 1:05:53.440 That's the thing. I'm attracted to narcissists. I've been attracted 1:05:53.440 --> 1:05:59.840 to narcissist. A lot of narcissists are alphas mhm. 1:06:01.000 --> 1:06:05.000 And a lot of that is because there's an immense insecurity, 1:06:05.280 --> 1:06:08.800 you know. And so the guy that I'm dating now, 1:06:08.840 --> 1:06:13.920 I would say is an alpha, but he's like a feminist. 1:06:14.080 --> 1:06:18.360 So it's a little different, like it's he's not gonna 1:06:18.360 --> 1:06:21.240 he doesn't assert his alpha onto me and he knows 1:06:21.280 --> 1:06:23.760 I'm an alpha female. He lets me be that, and 1:06:23.800 --> 1:06:26.040 it's I don't ever feel. I feel like true alphas 1:06:26.080 --> 1:06:30.680 can coexist like because of so like I think that's 1:06:30.680 --> 1:06:32.800 what I found, you know, and like I know that 1:06:32.840 --> 1:06:34.880 I'm attracted to the alpha male for sure. I like 1:06:34.920 --> 1:06:37.080 the man that can shift the room when he when 1:06:37.080 --> 1:06:41.080 he enters, you know, like that his energy is powerful 1:06:41.320 --> 1:06:43.160 because mine is and I don't want to be known 1:06:43.600 --> 1:06:44.919 no week weak energy. 1:06:44.960 --> 1:06:46.320 Have a motherfucker so. 1:06:48.800 --> 1:06:51.240 Energy, and he and you have no problem giving into 1:06:51.280 --> 1:06:53.440 his and that's why I can work. I definitely agree 1:06:53.520 --> 1:06:56.480 that two alphas can be together. And it's funny to 1:06:56.520 --> 1:06:58.800 me that you brought up you thought he would be 1:06:58.840 --> 1:07:00.960 too sensitive. I think I think a lot of women 1:07:01.000 --> 1:07:03.560 as they mature, they find that they want a man 1:07:03.640 --> 1:07:08.160 that is not only sensitive, but that communicates well. I 1:07:08.160 --> 1:07:10.320 think that you weren't ready for him years ago, but 1:07:10.400 --> 1:07:12.760 you are now because you offer that young girl shit 1:07:13.280 --> 1:07:15.919 when like you know, you said your baby daddy's a thug, 1:07:16.000 --> 1:07:19.440 Like you thought that bravado and that fucking swag was 1:07:19.480 --> 1:07:22.680 the ship when really a lot of it is bullshit. 1:07:22.880 --> 1:07:24.800 So all right, I mean, I know slights of him 1:07:24.800 --> 1:07:26.280 because like I was in love with him and he 1:07:26.400 --> 1:07:29.040 possessed he there's a lot of qualities in him that 1:07:29.120 --> 1:07:32.600 are now requirements you know, in these in these other relationships. 1:07:32.600 --> 1:07:34.720 Like that's what I'm saying, Like that I had, like 1:07:34.880 --> 1:07:37.640 they led me to this person because like I needed 1:07:37.680 --> 1:07:42.760 all those parts, even the unnecessary thug shit, you know, 1:07:43.960 --> 1:07:44.400 to know. 1:07:44.320 --> 1:07:44.960 That you don't need it. 1:07:45.080 --> 1:07:46.400 Yeah, I'm good. Yeah. 1:07:47.440 --> 1:07:51.160 Horror Stories Yeah, okay, so you guys, I think we 1:07:51.240 --> 1:07:53.200 told you. We have a segment on our show called 1:07:53.240 --> 1:07:54.080 horror Story. 1:07:58.440 --> 1:08:03.960 Who story in certain moons here? In certain moones here 1:08:04.440 --> 1:08:05.640 we have a drop and it's. 1:08:05.520 --> 1:08:09.800 Like, oh, horror Stories. 1:08:09.960 --> 1:08:14.520 Yeah, we made it ourselves. 1:08:14.560 --> 1:08:15.080 Yeah, we did it. 1:08:15.120 --> 1:08:17.720 We recorded the track, which we did some moaning on 1:08:17.760 --> 1:08:19.200 the track alone one night together. 1:08:19.240 --> 1:08:20.120 It was really weird. 1:08:21.560 --> 1:08:23.519 How did you capture that energy? Did you just have to? 1:08:23.800 --> 1:08:25.080 It's just like just like it right now. 1:08:25.080 --> 1:08:31.800 It's got into thinking about our sex sounds I thought 1:08:31.840 --> 1:08:32.519 would help. 1:08:32.360 --> 1:08:33.360 With that, but I got it. 1:08:34.640 --> 1:08:36.519 Would you like, wouldn't you like that? 1:08:36.720 --> 1:08:39.320 We turned on a little bass and me were a 1:08:39.320 --> 1:08:41.120 little year. 1:08:41.240 --> 1:08:44.120 We were just on my couch one day, like group, 1:08:44.400 --> 1:08:46.800 we just started touching each other pussy like that's what 1:08:46.840 --> 1:08:48.439 we next, morn into the microphone. 1:08:48.520 --> 1:08:49.280 That's what girls do. 1:08:50.800 --> 1:08:52.760 He has a smile so big since the podcast started. 1:08:53.120 --> 1:08:59.920 Say oh, if I only knew, it's so not like 1:09:00.160 --> 1:09:02.160 that in the shower talking ship. 1:09:07.280 --> 1:09:09.800 So anyway, so do you one of you guys want 1:09:09.880 --> 1:09:15.599 to share a horse? Sorry? Who's Who's who's offering themselves 1:09:15.640 --> 1:09:16.280 up as tribute? 1:09:16.320 --> 1:09:19.000 I'm gonna say Gez definitely, you know from the from 1:09:19.000 --> 1:09:21.400 the things you've said on this conversation, I'm like, he 1:09:21.439 --> 1:09:23.080 definitely has a horse. 1:09:23.160 --> 1:09:25.160 You Yeah. 1:09:25.960 --> 1:09:27.880 I mean, I've done some nasty day. 1:09:30.000 --> 1:09:36.320 I've had a chick I was dealing with and she 1:09:36.400 --> 1:09:39.519 came through. We took a little trip and she came through, 1:09:40.439 --> 1:09:44.519 and uh, I left to go hit another chick that 1:09:44.600 --> 1:09:45.040 I knew. 1:09:46.120 --> 1:09:48.240 And wait, you let does she know you were leaving 1:09:48.320 --> 1:09:48.599 to go? 1:09:49.120 --> 1:09:49.920 He didn't know that. 1:09:50.520 --> 1:09:51.639 Where did she think you were going? 1:09:51.960 --> 1:09:53.720 Just to go catch a vibe with a homie? You 1:09:53.760 --> 1:09:54.120 know what? 1:09:54.120 --> 1:09:54.599 The wait? 1:09:54.680 --> 1:09:57.840 So she was staying at your house and then you 1:09:57.920 --> 1:09:59.720 left her at the house to go catch a vibe 1:09:59.760 --> 1:09:59.880 with the. 1:10:00.240 --> 1:10:01.680 Yeah, I was like, you know, I'm gonna smoke one 1:10:01.720 --> 1:10:02.720 with the homie. I'll be back. 1:10:04.439 --> 1:10:07.800 So I left there, And worst part is I took 1:10:07.840 --> 1:10:14.160 her car. Yeah, niggas ain't ship. And I took her 1:10:14.240 --> 1:10:19.479 car and went and hit the next hole. And then 1:10:19.520 --> 1:10:23.599 I came back and hit her. And then I had 1:10:23.600 --> 1:10:27.679 another chick when she left, Man, I take I can't 1:10:27.680 --> 1:10:29.439 bake this sh up. When she left, I had a 1:10:29.520 --> 1:10:34.240 chick stopped by randomly. I can say her name because 1:10:34.240 --> 1:10:35.640 I don't know her last thing. I couldn't tell you 1:10:35.920 --> 1:10:36.559 about where. 1:10:36.400 --> 1:10:42.559 She is right now, they stick thy flat stomach. 1:10:43.120 --> 1:10:45.519 She would always pop up at my crib randomly. I 1:10:45.560 --> 1:10:48.880 stayed in an apartment right behind campus, and she would 1:10:48.920 --> 1:10:51.320 always pop up randomly, like hey, what you doing, And 1:10:51.360 --> 1:10:53.880 I'd always say nothing, and she pushed me in and 1:10:53.920 --> 1:10:56.599 start fucking me. She popped up right after the other 1:10:56.680 --> 1:10:59.280 chick left. Keep in mind already fucked her. Didn't even 1:10:59.280 --> 1:11:04.680 take a shower, and I kendrew right down to right 1:11:04.720 --> 1:11:06.240 on my cops. She didn't even make it to the room. 1:11:06.800 --> 1:11:08.160 So you had three puss season one. 1:11:08.120 --> 1:11:11.320 Day season one day and no shower, no shower. 1:11:11.520 --> 1:11:15.400 That's not that's a good I've had that, But I 1:11:15.439 --> 1:11:21.519 had a shower. I'm not as nasty showered hy. 1:11:23.600 --> 1:11:25.040 I never got the opportunity. 1:11:25.080 --> 1:11:28.160 It would have been suspicious coming back from my boy's house, 1:11:28.720 --> 1:11:29.200 you know what I'm. 1:11:29.120 --> 1:11:31.680 Saying, and to take a shower like I just like 1:11:31.680 --> 1:11:33.519 I was, like I was, I don't know. 1:11:35.320 --> 1:11:39.280 No, I don't think we would. I think bitches think 1:11:39.320 --> 1:11:39.600 they do. 1:11:39.800 --> 1:11:42.599 Would some might, but I think a lot of women 1:11:42.680 --> 1:11:45.120 really think they do. And how many times y'all have 1:11:45.240 --> 1:11:47.720 y'all fucked the bitch right after another one and she 1:11:47.800 --> 1:11:49.800 had no clue and it was business as usual, and 1:11:49.880 --> 1:11:52.920 she ain't even still don't know, probably still don't know 1:11:54.000 --> 1:11:54.400 good night. 1:11:56.040 --> 1:11:59.200 I mean, because you have to really be sniffing dick 1:11:59.360 --> 1:12:01.679 to create a form of calibration system. 1:12:03.200 --> 1:12:06.439 They michael wash their dick off and the want They're 1:12:06.439 --> 1:12:08.920 definitely gonna wash the bird bath, the whole bath in 1:12:08.960 --> 1:12:10.920 the bathroom. 1:12:11.240 --> 1:12:11.519 Wow. 1:12:11.920 --> 1:12:16.040 I have another whole story too, the same that got pregnant, 1:12:16.080 --> 1:12:21.800 that fucked me over years later, I fucked her her 1:12:21.840 --> 1:12:26.000 first cousin, the younger for her. Your first cousin was 1:12:26.040 --> 1:12:29.439 probably like twenty years old, And I fucked her cousin 1:12:30.360 --> 1:12:33.200 so fucking gladly too, busting them and everything. 1:12:34.360 --> 1:12:34.679 I knew. 1:12:34.680 --> 1:12:36.559 Her cousin always low key liked me, you know how 1:12:36.560 --> 1:12:37.479 that little ship vibe. 1:12:37.479 --> 1:12:39.280 And she was grown woman now ship. 1:12:39.439 --> 1:12:42.519 Okay, jeez, okay, calm down. 1:12:43.600 --> 1:12:45.160 So when I tell you, if I, if I were 1:12:45.160 --> 1:12:47.280 to sit here and keep going, I give y'all ten 1:12:47.320 --> 1:12:47.760 more of those. 1:12:48.040 --> 1:12:50.880 Oh I like fully loaded. 1:12:53.479 --> 1:12:54.479 I'm not mad at it. 1:12:54.960 --> 1:12:58.120 We're gonna do a of Geni's. 1:12:57.720 --> 1:13:05.879 Horris horse Shop Jesus Little Shop of Horries. 1:13:06.240 --> 1:13:09.880 Oh I like that. That's good. Brandon right there? 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