Speaker 1: What's up you guys.
Speaker 2: Welcome back to good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and
Speaker 2: I'm Nila. Happy Wednesday, Happy hump Day, y'all. Hope y'all
Speaker 2: fucking on this happy Wednesday. I just suck some petus earlier.
Speaker 3: Yeah wow, So honest, did you I'm just going to
Speaker 3: come this close to me with your digma.
Speaker 1: Did you swallow?
Speaker 4: Yep?
Speaker 5: Do you always swallow?
Speaker 1: Yep?
Speaker 5: One time in high school I've probably said this before.
Speaker 5: Somebody told me.
Speaker 3: A guy told me, if you don't swallow, it's disrespectful.
Speaker 3: And I spent the next like fifteen years just swallowing.
Speaker 5: Come.
Speaker 3: And so I realized that is not true. Fucked these neggas.
Speaker 5: So now I'm as a rebellion to that motherfucker.
Speaker 3: Who told me that I swallow seldomly, very particular particularly well,
Speaker 3: I don't just suck any dick either, So it's not
Speaker 3: like I'm sort here just.
Speaker 1: Like, No, I know, I wasn't suggesting that was a joke.
Speaker 1: I'm just letting you know. I'm just letting very particular
Speaker 1: about my dick sucks. Okay, Well, yeah me too.
Speaker 5: It has to be very beneficial, it must be.
Speaker 2: Clean, and I got to know that I'm going to
Speaker 2: get it in return.
Speaker 1: Try to start with me first so you can transition.
Speaker 1: I'm an give her anyway.
Speaker 3: I'm not a person though, that likes to just give
Speaker 3: head and then that's it. So that makes you feel like,
Speaker 3: oh no, I'm just in general, I need something in return.
Speaker 5: I'm not going to get off by giving you head.
Speaker 2: Anytime I've ever given head and not gotten received back, I'm.
Speaker 1: Sure I did too, if it's ever happened.
Speaker 3: Also, I'm not that confident, like I have good dick
Speaker 3: sucking skills, but I'm not gonna I'm not. I'm not
Speaker 3: gonna make you come like I don't want to suck
Speaker 3: your dick that long. So we're gonna have to move
Speaker 3: forward here. Okay, anyway, if.
Speaker 6: I could interject there, you have a guest there.
Speaker 4: If you're sucking it right, you won't have to suck it.
Speaker 3: Oh well, Daisy, Okay, we have guests. We're we're here
Speaker 3: joined by brunch with the boys.
Speaker 1: Gez, mister j KINGDZ.
Speaker 4: King, Yes, you got it.
Speaker 1: What are you drinking? Gez? What's that over there?
Speaker 4: Just a little boka and a splash of pineapple?
Speaker 5: You re drinking beer?
Speaker 3: I copied somebody I saw with a beer. Now I'm
Speaker 3: feeling like I'm having I'm having fomo.
Speaker 7: Oh.
Speaker 3: Anyway, speaking Geze, I know I know what the fun
Speaker 3: you're talking about because I heard what you said about
Speaker 3: the dick. Second, we want a bitch to put a
Speaker 3: nap in underneath, yo, but just just to make sure it's.
Speaker 1: Gonna get sloppy. What Yeah, the only drink.
Speaker 5: Second he likes, Gez.
Speaker 3: He wants you to lift his ass up and put
Speaker 3: like almost like a knack in underneath beause it's about
Speaker 3: to get filthy nasty.
Speaker 1: That's the only kind of She wants a lot of spit.
Speaker 3: He wants pick and like I want to, I'm gonna
Speaker 3: choke and throw up if it's too much.
Speaker 8: Like it, Okay, I mean I go for it. I
Speaker 8: go all the way and then until I'm.
Speaker 1: Like, oh no, don't throw up.
Speaker 4: In the morning. You won't have to worry about that's smart.
Speaker 2: There's nothing stomach, there's nothing worse than throwing up. I
Speaker 2: remember I told you that when I went to Dallas.
Speaker 1: Oh you did throw up, and it turned him on
Speaker 1: a little bit.
Speaker 5: He was a nastyness, yeah he was.
Speaker 1: But I was like it's not gonna turn me on.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna be gross that with myself.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, no, chunks, that's.
Speaker 9: A whole genre before and actually that's a whole genre.
Speaker 5: I don't want to see that genre. I don't want
Speaker 5: to se anybody else.
Speaker 9: But I know it's out there.
Speaker 1: That's nasty.
Speaker 4: That's an important question. Did you keep sucking it afterwards? Me?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I did.
Speaker 3: I thought I felt it come up in my mouth
Speaker 3: and then I immediately sucked it back down.
Speaker 1: I did that, and then it was too late. I
Speaker 1: had to.
Speaker 2: It was like projectile, but I turned on over here.
Speaker 2: Yes you are getting hard and you're like whoa today?
Speaker 1: First, but first I yelled at him because I.
Speaker 5: Was like, nigga, relaxed, what the fuck are you doing?
Speaker 2: And then he was like sorry, and then I was
Speaker 2: like okay, okay, as you're sorry.
Speaker 6: Sorry when say sorry, man, he don't really mean it.
Speaker 1: My bad.
Speaker 2: He didn't mean it because he was just like he didn't.
Speaker 2: It was unnecessary during that that that moment, you know what,
Speaker 2: bitches ain't ship either, because this is the same nigga
Speaker 2: that suck my toes in the bar though.
Speaker 5: I know, but we say like, oh we be respectful.
Speaker 5: Blah blah blah. They're like, chalk me, call me a bitch, slap,
Speaker 5: call me a slug used.
Speaker 10: To bipolar behavior anyway, So it really is something that
Speaker 10: we expect.
Speaker 4: So and what kind of slap are we talking about?
Speaker 4: To slap across the face.
Speaker 6: A little like I've been telling you.
Speaker 5: Coupled with like a passionate kiss.
Speaker 3: It's just like a like a like a balance of
Speaker 3: both balance of love and like maybe like maybe one
Speaker 3: of the yeah, ok, sorry.
Speaker 5: Sorry, just like we're watching porn right now.
Speaker 3: If you guys joined Patreon, smack.
Speaker 1: The funk out of me.
Speaker 4: Jesus Christ.
Speaker 1: That was a love chat pitch whatever exactly.
Speaker 4: That's what I say too.
Speaker 1: I got to get three SIPs of beer.
Speaker 5: I don't know how to.
Speaker 4: Mighty get this girl, drake.
Speaker 1: You guys will tell our listeners. Wait, where where you
Speaker 1: guys are at?
Speaker 4: First of all, Lando, Florida.
Speaker 1: Orlando, the land of you're in Florida, the land of
Speaker 1: covid Is that.
Speaker 5: Is that what it's called?
Speaker 4: You hit us in the stomach with that one.
Speaker 1: But okay, but but Loki, California, We're right with you too.
Speaker 9: So y'all just know how to do the right thing though,
Speaker 9: we're still working on that.
Speaker 3: Apparently New York is doing great and they were the
Speaker 3: Land of Covid like three weeks ago.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I know.
Speaker 2: So why did you guys start your podcast? Tell us
Speaker 2: a little bit about with the boys.
Speaker 10: Yeah, so we were just I mean, we're greedy motherfuckers, right,
Speaker 10: We like to work out for the sake of eating. Actually,
Speaker 10: so you know, we hit brunch on a Sunday, man,
Speaker 10: and you know, we're doing our normal things that dudes do,
Speaker 10: barbershop talk, but we just taking it in so we
Speaker 10: can actually enjoy some fine brunch dining.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 10: So we at this place called Another Broken Egg, and
Speaker 10: we eating, we cracking jokes, we're talking about stuff. We
Speaker 10: always challenging each other, so it's like a bunch of
Speaker 10: a type personalities fighting.
Speaker 4: Over the last piece of piece of meat. Right, And so.
Speaker 10: We're we're sitting down having the conversation and some white
Speaker 10: people come up to us and they're like, listen, you
Speaker 10: guys need to be on like the radio. I mean,
Speaker 10: you guys, we were listening to you back there, and
Speaker 10: you guys are freaking hilarious. And I was like all right,
Speaker 10: and Dez was like man, we should do that ship,
Speaker 10: we should do something. And Gez was like, as long
Speaker 10: as I get to smoke, we're good, right, So yeah,
Speaker 10: I'm with you.
Speaker 1: Let me roll up real quick. You to roll up?
Speaker 11: What are we?
Speaker 1: What do we not han show Indica?
Speaker 9: Yeah, that might label on it. I shouldn't know.
Speaker 1: We could.
Speaker 4: They ball over there doing what?
Speaker 6: Man, we still got a cop on the corner and ship.
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, come in the biplock bag.
Speaker 1: I missed those, man.
Speaker 5: I wish I had a weed.
Speaker 9: Man.
Speaker 8: Sometimes over here, if you get desperate and.
Speaker 3: All the dispensaries are closed, you can go on Craigslist
Speaker 3: and you can't.
Speaker 5: We've done it.
Speaker 1: We've got on c.
Speaker 4: She did it. She don't even know you can't.
Speaker 3: You could just put a delivery like because we four
Speaker 3: twenty delivery and they'll just pop up some numbers and
Speaker 3: then you just there you go.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 9: I had no idea.
Speaker 6: That's the nigga selling weed on I G and I, oh, yeah,
Speaker 6: that's some Florida ship. Ye as if the police don't exist, right, I'm.
Speaker 1: Surprised he hasn't been flag because I G is on
Speaker 1: our app.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we postedly and that you would act like we're
Speaker 3: not even in California, like we're the weed.
Speaker 9: Man.
Speaker 2: He was a picture of like a smiling today like
Speaker 2: nic is flag they're selling hilarious.
Speaker 5: How long have you guys been friends ship?
Speaker 9: I'd say probably what about twenty years now? Wow?
Speaker 4: Me my brother so I known that nigga since birth.
Speaker 12: I went to school together. And then Jeezy was the
Speaker 12: nigga he bring around every once in a while.
Speaker 9: Caused trouble.
Speaker 6: We didn't really like whatever there you are. And when
Speaker 6: I visit and you know, fun some hoes in Gainesville.
Speaker 5: And leave, Yeah Gainesville hose. Huh the hose in Gainesville.
Speaker 8: Where they are shout out to Gainesville.
Speaker 4: Yes.
Speaker 5: How long have you guys been doing the podcast?
Speaker 4: It's running almost close to two years.
Speaker 5: Man, cool, congratulations, that's do.
Speaker 9: Thank thank you very much, Thank you very much.
Speaker 5: I love huh.
Speaker 9: I said, it's a labor love. We love it.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: We always tell people and anybody listening, if you want
Speaker 3: to start a podcast, you must love it because this
Speaker 3: ship is not going to make you rich anytime soon.
Speaker 5: And it's a whole lot of work.
Speaker 1: Every week. Every week is a production. It's a production.
Speaker 5: It is it's therapy. Literally, we say that all the time.
Speaker 3: Like coming here and talking shit and having to be
Speaker 3: like responsible for what we said last week has been
Speaker 3: very therapeutic.
Speaker 5: I'm like, damn, I've been talking about this shit for
Speaker 5: two years.
Speaker 1: I've been fucking up for two years straight. Well everybody knows.
Speaker 1: It's not just my friends circle anymore. Now everybody knows
Speaker 1: shits I need to grow up.
Speaker 9: Let me ask you guys a question. Do you guys
Speaker 9: have friends who are jealous that they're not a part
Speaker 9: of this podcast you guys.
Speaker 5: Have together, I'm sure secretly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think anybody that wants to be on
Speaker 2: the podcast, but maybe people that are like get our friendship.
Speaker 2: You know, so we basically became friends on the podcast.
Speaker 2: We were friends before, but like like like mom friends,
Speaker 2: our kids are the same age. Yeah, So then like
Speaker 2: we started really really getting to know each other on
Speaker 2: the podcast and became best friends. And you know, and
Speaker 2: because we're work together and we're together all the time,
Speaker 2: people be like, damn, this is the only bit you
Speaker 2: hang out.
Speaker 8: With now with the fuck kind of we have a business,
Speaker 8: we have money to get bit just.
Speaker 1: No yeah, no, true? So do you do you all
Speaker 1: have kids?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so tell us how many kids each of
Speaker 1: you have?
Speaker 6: The ages and shit, we're black men, so we have
Speaker 6: six kids, six women.
Speaker 9: Don't do that shit, don't you dare?
Speaker 3: Don't that shit all our non non black listeners that
Speaker 3: is not true.
Speaker 9: Not subscribe to that belief.
Speaker 6: We all have kids each. I have a thirteen year
Speaker 6: old and eleven year old. I got a twelve and
Speaker 6: the ten, and it's gonna hurt my feelings. But I
Speaker 6: got a nineteen year old and a sixteen year old.
Speaker 1: Oh they think with you still?
Speaker 4: No nineteen year Oh he don't.
Speaker 10: Unless I'm taking them on vacations or setting up appointments
Speaker 10: at a massage parlor for him or something like that.
Speaker 1: Wow parlor goddam yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I never and I don't mean the Asian ones.
Speaker 5: And I was literally going to ask, is this inappropriate?
Speaker 5: But what you let you're so get a happy ending
Speaker 5: at nineteen?
Speaker 4: Why not? Absolutely?
Speaker 6: You would facilitate that, though I would facilitate it, and
Speaker 6: I would tell him they're gonna use jurgons.
Speaker 4: Do not subscribe to that.
Speaker 6: I would send him in with a lunch bad full
Speaker 6: of appropriate substitute liquids.
Speaker 9: That should place, you know, cocoa.
Speaker 5: Coc What about coconut oil?
Speaker 4: Oh that it was good too. That's the ship, are.
Speaker 1: You suggesting asking?
Speaker 4: I tell him he'll take your draws. He find his
Speaker 4: hell so he'll look.
Speaker 5: I'm not going nineteen women, it's legal.
Speaker 4: He got he got his beard growing in. You'll never know.
Speaker 4: And man, look like he already stops.
Speaker 1: Soliciting your Sundays.
Speaker 5: Okay, No, we're not. We're not talking about Desi's son.
Speaker 3: But what would you fuck okay, like ninus circumstances jah
Speaker 3: blah blah, Jen Jensen?
Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry?
Speaker 3: Would you fuck up with nineteen right now at thirty two?
Speaker 3: If he was like fine us out and like look
Speaker 3: like you might have a big day?
Speaker 4: Yes she would.
Speaker 3: No, I couldn't never even be like a slight thrill
Speaker 3: about it.
Speaker 9: I haven't love that motherfucker. You just got to fuck
Speaker 9: that only.
Speaker 2: Like the lower the youngest person I've ever had sex
Speaker 2: with his Tulum bay and he's like twenty six.
Speaker 4: Like I just putting your whole name out, did No?
Speaker 1: That ain't his name? Okay, I met him in Tuloom
Speaker 1: and he's in a bay.
Speaker 4: He wasn't.
Speaker 6: Oh name too hot too. I just say you're doing names.
Speaker 6: Nobody has a real name, no one. I don't even
Speaker 6: know these real name, you.
Speaker 4: Know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we call our niggas bass, so they are bad
Speaker 2: even characteristic that they show plus a bed.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that is a nice approach.
Speaker 6: I like that you used jan I don't know why
Speaker 6: you're acting like you just that's amazing. I'm like, I
Speaker 6: like the consistency of men also, so we're consistent.
Speaker 1: Kind of.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I think I might do it nineteen
Speaker 3: or twenty for one time.
Speaker 4: Wasn't you you will?
Speaker 5: What do you mean?
Speaker 1: I know you would.
Speaker 4: Know.
Speaker 5: Don't don't let me, don't go come into my eyes.
Speaker 1: You're free spirited. You know you'll be down with the
Speaker 1: downs and you might do it too.
Speaker 4: Erica. I think I think Erica would do it, and just.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you tell me.
Speaker 5: She would tell me like a week later, like when
Speaker 5: we can't I.
Speaker 7: Remember, remember the bus boy, remember the bust boy in
Speaker 7: that bar y.
Speaker 9: She'd be way past where she cares you are you
Speaker 9: judging her? That's when she.
Speaker 5: Tells you she knows I ain't judging her.
Speaker 3: I don't have space to judge anyone. I don't judge
Speaker 3: I can't. She knows too much of my business.
Speaker 2: So you know, we're from La so we're really into
Speaker 2: astrology and ship. So can you tell us what your
Speaker 2: signs are so we can judge you?
Speaker 5: Now, I can judge you. Now, just wrap up your aries.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's your birthday?
Speaker 4: April fourteen? Leo Sagittarius?
Speaker 5: What's your birthday?
Speaker 4: Sag November twenty eight?
Speaker 5: Oh, my daughter's is the twenty seventh.
Speaker 4: All right, I mean she's amazing, basically.
Speaker 5: Basically, basically, I'll agree with you. I like I like
Speaker 5: sage men in my past I have.
Speaker 3: They're always like kind of mystery, mystery, mysterious, mysterious, the
Speaker 3: kind of mystery.
Speaker 6: Ain't that mysterious? Well, goddamn, what what do the signs.
Speaker 4: Do for you? What it's done the best for you?
Speaker 4: I understand it, but I'm not sure I get it.
Speaker 2: So they just kind of give you a framework of someone.
Speaker 2: It's not you can't judge everybody off of everything, but
Speaker 2: you just can't deny the trends in each sign.
Speaker 3: So and a lot of times we're all different. We're
Speaker 3: all like a collection of signs. There's our sun sign,
Speaker 3: which is the ones you just said on the date
Speaker 3: you're born, and then then when you know your date,
Speaker 3: your time of birth.
Speaker 1: There's your moon.
Speaker 3: Sign and your rising sign, which you appear as something
Speaker 3: and maybe alone by yourself or something else, and.
Speaker 1: Emotionally or something else.
Speaker 5: So there's a combination of things.
Speaker 3: And then there's even the year you're born in the
Speaker 3: Chinese New Year, and that also makes a difference.
Speaker 4: You're well, you actually make relationship.
Speaker 2: I'm looking at I'm looking at does his face right now?
Speaker 2: And he's like, okay, bitch, like I know everything about
Speaker 2: every sign. Okay, he's located astrologer by now.
Speaker 1: He hates her.
Speaker 12: I gave her some demographic information she sort of got.
Speaker 12: She knew me for like ten years.
Speaker 5: She could tell me about Did you think any of
Speaker 5: it was true?
Speaker 4: You know?
Speaker 12: Interestingly enough, she had me take this fucking test. I
Speaker 12: don't know what she got. What it's called.
Speaker 9: Yes, yes, she had me do that.
Speaker 12: And that's where the guys she had a session with
Speaker 12: me started telling me about myself.
Speaker 9: I was keeping ship bundled up, like well ship maybe
Speaker 9: I am, you know what I mean. But of course
Speaker 9: I gave you the bit for the doubt.
Speaker 12: But it wasn't a man I just go five, you
Speaker 12: know what I mean? I don't need a bunch of
Speaker 12: extra stuff.
Speaker 5: Let me tell you what witchy bitches we are.
Speaker 3: I literally just looked down at my phone and opened
Speaker 3: a text message from my bay and he's sending me
Speaker 3: his chart, and he said, I think he needed this.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, nigga, I sure you've been asking for months.
Speaker 5: I haven't. That's why we're having a conversation. I just
Speaker 5: looked it up and tapped it. I was like, oh,
Speaker 5: the niggas in my head.
Speaker 1: Yeah, stay clear.
Speaker 5: Whatchy bitches, we get you every time. Yeah, yeah, if
Speaker 5: you've had what you bit your too.
Speaker 10: I mean, I've had people who are spiritual in nature. However,
Speaker 10: I don't think i've had anyone to that level of
Speaker 10: extreme where you know, they making life decisions on it.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, Are you guys religious or
Speaker 5: what are you guys?
Speaker 13: Like?
Speaker 4: Man?
Speaker 5: What's your religion?
Speaker 4: Christian? Any certain penelcosta is what I grew up.
Speaker 6: You know, I can't always distinguish the difference between some
Speaker 6: of them, but you know, I'm definitely religious.
Speaker 4: I understand the spiritual, so I get it.
Speaker 6: You know, I think to each their own, and I
Speaker 6: just respect whatever it is you have faith.
Speaker 4: In so I think that's all it comes down to.
Speaker 12: Yeah, you know, yeah, yeah, you the same question. I
Speaker 12: would say I grew up very religious, grow up bout this.
Speaker 12: But for me, I'm probably more spiritual. You know, I
Speaker 12: believe in a higher power, believe it howgh being. But
Speaker 12: I don't know that one of true religions got it
Speaker 12: right and the other one hundred and fifty don't right,
Speaker 12: Like I need the explanation for that. So for me,
Speaker 12: it's a little different. But but definitely don't think we
Speaker 12: there's there's definitely there's things out there we don't understand.
Speaker 9: We don't know about the.
Speaker 10: Kind of God of course, you know so well yeah,
Speaker 10: so of course Jeszi and our brothers. So we grew
Speaker 10: up Pentecosta a family that was really kind of dedicated
Speaker 10: to the church game, right, I mean you're talking about
Speaker 10: Wednesday night Bible study, Friday nights family training, our you know,
Speaker 10: Saturday might be a revivals. You got Sunday school, you
Speaker 10: got morning service and night services.
Speaker 4: She felt like you needed it right so night.
Speaker 9: They couldn't give us the night off.
Speaker 5: No, nope, we need Jesus at night too.
Speaker 9: I went to church summer camp. Okay, so did we
Speaker 9: it's called vacation.
Speaker 5: Bible school budd me and warned you about insert witch
Speaker 5: laugh here.
Speaker 2: So speaking of this is actually a good way to
Speaker 2: segue into this because I have a question for you guys.
Speaker 1: What are your views?
Speaker 2: Because I mean, I don't know if they're influenced by
Speaker 2: you know, your upbringing, but what are your views on monogamy?
Speaker 14: You want to take this first? Jesu or you got
Speaker 14: in his mouth? I wish the city was in my mouth.
Speaker 14: But listen, man, I believe.
Speaker 4: It's possible. I believe it's possible.
Speaker 6: I just believe that it's highly unlikely because what it
Speaker 6: would take to keep a man from wanting more than
Speaker 6: one woman would require a lot of work from that
Speaker 6: one woman. And I have not yet met that woman
Speaker 6: that wants that amount of work.
Speaker 5: Do you mean sexually?
Speaker 2: Yeah, bitches aren't putting enough work to make sure the
Speaker 2: bigget don't cheat one one bitch can't put in enough work.
Speaker 5: It's not physically possible.
Speaker 4: I believe it is.
Speaker 6: I just don't think it's been the uh what we've
Speaker 6: seen consistently.
Speaker 4: You know, the proof is in the pudding.
Speaker 1: I think, what do you need to not cheat? What
Speaker 1: are the what are the things.
Speaker 6: Consistency, consistency across the board, consistency sexually, consistency emotionally, And
Speaker 6: a lot of men receive love through respect. So I
Speaker 6: believe consistent respect, and I believe if you do all
Speaker 6: of those things consistently, a man will not cheat and
Speaker 6: a woman will say, yeah, I'm fucking him and I'm
Speaker 6: doing this, and I'm doing that.
Speaker 4: I hear you.
Speaker 6: But he went on Friday night with his boys. Did
Speaker 6: you suck him off before you left?
Speaker 4: Probably not? Probably not.
Speaker 6: You see, you never let your man leave with a
Speaker 6: full sack. Two days go by, and that nigga's not drained.
Speaker 4: You already slipping.
Speaker 6: If you want aigga the only think about you, you
Speaker 6: have to maintain your shape.
Speaker 5: How often does it resell?
Speaker 4: If a man is to only have eyes.
Speaker 6: For you, you should look good, you should look you should
Speaker 6: look like the woman he met.
Speaker 1: And so you're saying women be falling off and maybe getting.
Speaker 4: Comfortable, and men do too. Men do too.
Speaker 6: But if we're talking about cheating, I think in order
Speaker 6: to keep a man, you're gonna have to keep it
Speaker 6: tight across the board, consistently, keeping it tight physically, sexually, emotionally,
Speaker 6: keeping that vibe, and I think with the inconsistencies that
Speaker 6: women tend to bring and I'm not trying to be yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and men do that ship too, I'm curious.
Speaker 1: You know like that.
Speaker 2: So I think a lot of times whatever the woman,
Speaker 2: a lot of times is fall unfortunately following the man's lead.
Speaker 1: So I feel like.
Speaker 4: You want to say we own it them.
Speaker 2: I just want to say, like, y'all make just be
Speaker 2: doing ship to make us do want to fuck you?
Speaker 2: Like okay, Like i'd be like, like, why we're not
Speaker 2: going on dates anymore?
Speaker 6: We're not doing it, as your question, and that's just
Speaker 6: the problem there. Why it's difficult talking to me about
Speaker 6: that is I'm a good nigga, and I know what
Speaker 6: to do, and I'm romantic what you bring, so I
Speaker 6: know what I bring to the table a date. To me,
Speaker 6: I love dating. So you're talking to a different type
Speaker 6: of nigga.
Speaker 3: But I hear you though, well, you're also talking to
Speaker 3: two very different type of women, and that's why some
Speaker 3: of these things are saying.
Speaker 5: We're rolling our eyes up because.
Speaker 6: You suck this morning and I didn't get ahead this morning,
Speaker 6: so I'm already you know what I'm saying so.
Speaker 3: We're different type of bitches, and I'm exactly exactly are
Speaker 3: you in.
Speaker 1: A relationship, Jessy.
Speaker 5: That's a very easy question.
Speaker 1: I'm just curious.
Speaker 2: Because, like I thought, he said he had a live
Speaker 2: in hairstylist, so I'm trying to.
Speaker 9: Figure it out.
Speaker 5: I didn't hear that.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, okay, okay, but you are you in
Speaker 2: a relationship?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 12: What?
Speaker 4: What? Will?
Speaker 9: And Jada call him?
Speaker 1: Oh? Whoa wait?
Speaker 5: Can I ask you guys a question? How old are you?
Speaker 4: Guys? I'm thirty eight.
Speaker 9: I'm sure not.
Speaker 10: And you know, just take it up one more Matt Fordy,
Speaker 10: I'm so uh.
Speaker 3: This is how often it is good a good enough
Speaker 3: amount of times to have sex a week in your opinion?
Speaker 9: Man, for me, probably three or four. I'm cool with that,
Speaker 9: cool with you.
Speaker 12: I mean, listen, this is assuming you're talking about a relationship,
Speaker 12: a family situation right where there's other shit going on.
Speaker 12: If you're talking about we're just single, we young, and
Speaker 12: there's nothing else, probably like every day that we're.
Speaker 9: Able, every day that we're able. But if we're in.
Speaker 12: A relationship, we married or we're together, probably three or
Speaker 12: four times. I think that's realistic. I think it's I
Speaker 12: think he keeps a nigga from straying, honestly.
Speaker 1: So sex is the main reason why Nigga's strayed.
Speaker 9: Nah No.
Speaker 12: And I disagree with what Jeeze said a little bit
Speaker 12: because he said basically, if a woman's checking these boxes,
Speaker 12: then then Nigga's not gonna do.
Speaker 9: It's not gonna achieve.
Speaker 12: I think what he's kind of saying is if she
Speaker 12: checks those boxes for him, he would a cheat, right.
Speaker 12: But I think there are dudes who have a woman
Speaker 12: that respect them, who cooks and cleans and does all
Speaker 12: the right things, and some easy pussy falls in their
Speaker 12: lap and they fuck the easy pussy and it has
Speaker 12: nothing to do with anything that a woman's not doing,
Speaker 12: because I don't think it takes much for some dudes
Speaker 12: to cheat, honestly, Like, I think dudes are programmed a
Speaker 12: little bit different than women, And I think dudes are
Speaker 12: predisposed to not being monogamous, and I think it takes
Speaker 12: a consistent effort on their part to be monogamous, whereas
Speaker 12: I think women, not that they can't be all over
Speaker 12: the place, but I think they're more more tuned towards
Speaker 12: being in that relationship as long as that man is
Speaker 12: contributing everything that she feels like she needs from a man.
Speaker 2: So I mean, I guess I agree. Are you married, Yeah.
Speaker 1: I guess I agree with that. I just feel like.
Speaker 2: Sometimes it has nothing, like you said, has nothing to
Speaker 2: do with women. Sometimes met are just insecure and need
Speaker 2: actually extra validate, they need extra pussy.
Speaker 1: And I don't mean, I don't mean.
Speaker 2: I don't mean being insecure and needing extra pussy are related.
Speaker 2: I more so mean that, like your woman is checking
Speaker 2: off all the bloxes, you're sexually attracted, the pussy's bomb,
Speaker 2: You're still not fulfilled, So like you have to ask
Speaker 2: yourself why why am I not fulfilled?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
Speaker 2: But also but for me that gets tricky too because
Speaker 2: I don't necessary I don't believe monogamy is natural. So
Speaker 2: I believe that as humans, we see things and we
Speaker 2: want to fuck, oh shiny, and like that I want
Speaker 2: to try, and we have been told that, like, no,
Speaker 2: this is these are boundaries, the boundaries we're setting, we're structuring,
Speaker 2: and this is what family is and all those things.
Speaker 2: I'm not like, do I want to be in a
Speaker 2: polyamous relationship? No, Like I'm possessive ass bitch.
Speaker 1: Too, you know.
Speaker 2: But I feel like the idea that like we're supposed
Speaker 2: to only have sex with one person, we once we
Speaker 2: sit in front of people and tell the world we're.
Speaker 1: Only because basically that's what a wedding is.
Speaker 7: Like, hey, we're not anymore each other, everybody, let the
Speaker 7: world know.
Speaker 1: Really big announcements me.
Speaker 4: Simplified.
Speaker 1: Well, but like I think, like I think.
Speaker 2: But but going back to the like why people cheat
Speaker 2: or even women like, you know, you can have a
Speaker 2: great nigga too. You can have a man that's just
Speaker 2: doing taking care of you, is the father of the year,
Speaker 2: Like those things are possible too, you know, and she
Speaker 2: might still be fulfilled.
Speaker 3: Well, it's it's just it's just not it's not human
Speaker 3: nature to only be attracted to one thing or one person,
Speaker 3: you know.
Speaker 5: Think of attraction.
Speaker 8: Think of how we admire and love nature or trees,
Speaker 8: like it's like we we I've learned, as like a
Speaker 8: sexual person that I need to probably better scale what's shiny?
Speaker 1: What looks good?
Speaker 8: Do I need to sit on everything that looks good?
Speaker 5: No? No, some things are just for looking at.
Speaker 7: You know, but it would be it would be it
Speaker 7: would be a lie to go to get married and
Speaker 7: have a partnership with somebody and then pretend that suddenly
Speaker 7: that switch gets turned off and you're not attracted or
Speaker 7: turned on by any other person.
Speaker 15: That would be we'd be both acting dumb as fuck
Speaker 15: to sit and agree with that.
Speaker 3: That's why I'd rather be like, oh, he looked at it.
Speaker 3: You know, I like girls. Let's talk about it.
Speaker 5: She had a fat house.
Speaker 4: You right to you?
Speaker 3: Right, you're right, you know, like, let's be honest about it.
Speaker 3: And I yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 6: Not gonna be with a man that is okay with
Speaker 6: you sleeping with other men?
Speaker 5: I don't I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't want you to be okay with it, but
Speaker 3: I don't want that to necessarily be a deal breaker.
Speaker 3: Our sexual appetites change. I like to like I have
Speaker 3: a high sexual appetite if I go on vacation and
Speaker 3: I come back, like share our relationship in because like.
Speaker 4: Vacation and vice versa.
Speaker 1: Painting the visual the cruise, Why why would have to
Speaker 1: be on the cruise? That is actually what.
Speaker 4: I would do.
Speaker 6: If it goes both ways and you're open with him
Speaker 6: about it, I'm sure you can find a man.
Speaker 4: That agrees with that.
Speaker 5: Look how reluctant he said it. I'm sure, I'm sure
Speaker 5: there's a guy out there. I'm sure if you go
Speaker 5: to helm back.
Speaker 4: Whatever you're into, your into.
Speaker 5: But but but you never cheat, You've never cheated.
Speaker 4: I've definitely cheated.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I thought that's what you said.
Speaker 4: I never judged, but.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I think the standards are definitely different
Speaker 3: for men and women, and a lot of men expect
Speaker 3: to be forgiven and expected like, oh you don't you
Speaker 3: don't just fuck because you know nikerd be honey and ship,
Speaker 3: but like Nigga's brains are different.
Speaker 6: You.
Speaker 5: Oh, I just I don't care about her.
Speaker 3: It's like, why can't we's horrible?
Speaker 4: No, I don't think that.
Speaker 5: I don't love her.
Speaker 1: It was just one of the one night she pushed she
Speaker 1: pushed up on I don't love that bit.
Speaker 9: Right and again.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you literally gave a rundown of every response a
Speaker 6: man could give in less than forty five We've heard Mom.
Speaker 4: Turned them out.
Speaker 9: She forget drug. I don't remember. I was drunk.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that's all of course, that's yeah, I was drunk.
Speaker 2: Yeah, girls can't say that one because that just you're
Speaker 2: gonna get rady you're gonna get raped.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you also you are getting right, you don't
Speaker 1: remember you were.
Speaker 3: I'm so happy you said that because literally, like you
Speaker 3: can't say that, like, oh, women can't say that.
Speaker 1: You're just the dumbest bitch ever. If you were drunk, Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you're drunk, I forgive your truth. It's so true.
Speaker 4: It's sad though, it's sad.
Speaker 8: It's and this is why, this is why you making
Speaker 8: that face.
Speaker 3: When you said so you expect your nigga just let
Speaker 3: you fuck out of niggas when niggas often expects us
Speaker 3: to let them just be fucking out her bitchous and
Speaker 3: we're supposed to just.
Speaker 6: I don't think that men expect it, and I don't
Speaker 6: think a woman should take it if you don't want it.
Speaker 6: You know, niggas fuck up if you a man, fucked up.
Speaker 6: If you don't want to.
Speaker 4: Take it, leave them.
Speaker 6: Most women tend to forgive, and you know that's where
Speaker 6: the double standard kicks in. But I don't agree that
Speaker 6: it's okay if a man does it.
Speaker 4: It's all fucked up.
Speaker 10: And honestly, what I really think it is is the
Speaker 10: hyper sensitive to a man's ego. I think men are
Speaker 10: much more hypersensitive as it relates to their ego and how.
Speaker 4: Because it's so important to us.
Speaker 6: It's important for our survival, right our for but a
Speaker 6: woman born strong, I'm talking about four tough like y'all
Speaker 6: can't handle that and it doesn't bruise your ego the
Speaker 6: same way that it would do a man.
Speaker 4: That's what we should ask them.
Speaker 1: We just we just keep going, keep trying.
Speaker 4: But I mean, just like that's the perfect point. I mean,
Speaker 4: you are strong, it's a strong you.
Speaker 1: Know, it just shows up differently.
Speaker 2: Then it just turns into us hating other women versus usually.
Speaker 1: A nigga is not gonna hate the man. He's gonna
Speaker 1: hate the woman.
Speaker 2: He'll probably the man, but he's not like women will
Speaker 2: full on hate you for life if you yeah, forever.
Speaker 2: Whereas with them, I feel like, what the dude, they're
Speaker 2: gonna be like, man, she's a hope, right right. I'm
Speaker 2: not gonna get mad at a man for doing it because.
Speaker 1: That's what men do, right right exactly.
Speaker 6: So I don't know, it sounds like a lose lose
Speaker 6: situation for y'all, yeah, but I.
Speaker 3: Do I believe in monogatly some people could do it
Speaker 3: I could probably do it if I was like, I
Speaker 3: believe in that too.
Speaker 5: If I I don't wonder, I really won't stray.
Speaker 3: If I'm being fucked enough, being cared for, being communicated
Speaker 3: with being respected.
Speaker 1: You know, you fuck me enough, and I'll be clicking
Speaker 1: and cleaning and taking the kids.
Speaker 5: You I'll be so happy I'll be if you'd be
Speaker 5: nice to me and be nice to me.
Speaker 4: Give me. So.
Speaker 5: I'm a simple girl. You know, I'm a simple gal.
Speaker 3: I don't need a lot, but I does. It does
Speaker 3: it's a balance of having all of those things.
Speaker 2: I know that I can be monogamous because I've been
Speaker 2: in a monogamous relationship. I was monogamous, he was not monogamous.
Speaker 2: So but I always felt in my core, even during
Speaker 2: my monogamy that I was.
Speaker 1: Like like this, what can we just like?
Speaker 9: How about you?
Speaker 11: Do you?
Speaker 1: I can do me?
Speaker 2: But there was not enough trust. There was no trust.
Speaker 2: There wasn't enough trust for us. Yeah, there was enough
Speaker 2: trust to do that, but I feel.
Speaker 3: Like trust, man, have you guys have you guys done
Speaker 3: that before in your relationships ship?
Speaker 6: And I can only wish, but because I think in
Speaker 6: all honesty giving those out and I'm not saying you
Speaker 6: passing them out like you know coupon from McDonald's which
Speaker 6: coming out weekly. I'm just saying, like you're passing it
Speaker 6: out once every five years, once a year, maybe just
Speaker 6: a little hall pass man, get it at your system.
Speaker 4: What's what's the difference between that and a purge day.
Speaker 4: I mean, think about it. We just want one day
Speaker 4: to purge, you know what I'm saying, get all.
Speaker 6: The evil out of us so that we could be
Speaker 6: good Americans.
Speaker 1: Can't evil? Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Okay, So you know what this makes me think of
Speaker 3: is like I feel like, imagine that like being married
Speaker 3: my whole year, five years, just waiting for this one weekend,
Speaker 3: like just like pour it out, like I.
Speaker 5: Can't wait at December second, can't.
Speaker 3: Wait, you know, perfect right like eight am, wake up.
Speaker 5: Massage, Charlotte.
Speaker 3: I just you know what, because I think at heart,
Speaker 3: I do want something monogamous.
Speaker 8: That's what I want, that type of relationship.
Speaker 3: But I think when you give someone the freedom to
Speaker 3: be and it's not like I'm like the puppy, I'm
Speaker 3: squeezing you like a puppy syndrome. You're online, no one
Speaker 3: else can have you, then it's like you're free to
Speaker 3: be you and you're doing you and I'm doing me.
Speaker 3: And like, as soon as you turn that corner, I
Speaker 3: don't have to worry about where you're going on who's
Speaker 3: taking you. I know you're going to come back and
Speaker 3: circle back and find me. Like we have this friendship
Speaker 3: and this love and this partnership that like you can.
Speaker 1: Of course, people want to be attractive.
Speaker 5: You might see know what, you might fuck up, you know.
Speaker 1: And then but really when you don't have that, like.
Speaker 3: You're not tripping on these hose, because the truth is, hey,
Speaker 3: really shit out here.
Speaker 5: I'll tell you.
Speaker 3: Know, I've seen the hose attracted in all the hose.
Speaker 1: I bey on tender, I be on hand.
Speaker 3: I have my alerts on for women and women just
Speaker 3: to see what's going on out there. And it's just
Speaker 3: really not much out here. So if you just let
Speaker 3: your partner have the respect and the freedom of ipective
Speaker 3: respecting me, not make me look crazy out here. Don't
Speaker 3: let anybody be coming out here telling me, you know,
Speaker 3: and if you develop feelings for somebody, let's talk about it.
Speaker 1: You know. I think that's what it is.
Speaker 4: For me.
Speaker 1: It's just communication. Like I said, Like I don't want
Speaker 1: to have like a polygamous relationship.
Speaker 2: I'm possessive, like I want, I need to know that
Speaker 2: our love is exclusive, and like you're not. You don't
Speaker 2: share this connection with other people, like the other stuff,
Speaker 2: like the sex stuff, Like you know, we can work
Speaker 2: that out.
Speaker 1: To me, Like, I don't.
Speaker 2: Is it going to be a free Are we just
Speaker 2: fucking n Like we might we might only ever have
Speaker 2: sex with one person in like five years, but just
Speaker 2: the idea that I can't And I'm like, I'm like
Speaker 2: Jamila too, Like if I'm sexually satisfied and we're good,
Speaker 2: I'm all into you, like I'm about you.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's kind of all I need.
Speaker 2: But i'd also I'm realistic about a long term relationship
Speaker 2: and your needs start to change and then you.
Speaker 1: Start to just I don't know. I just feel like
Speaker 1: it's a natural. It would be it's a natural.
Speaker 2: Instinct to be attracted to people and to I don't know,
Speaker 2: Like I believe that you can love more than one person.
Speaker 1: Now do I want my partner to go love a
Speaker 1: bitch and be fall in love?
Speaker 15: No, But I feel like I feel like I feel
Speaker 15: like you can't you also can't help if your partner
Speaker 15: is going to fall in love with someone, and I
Speaker 15: would much rather be in a position where you're that
Speaker 15: happens and you're like, yo, you're my friend and I
Speaker 15: respect you to so much.
Speaker 3: I want to let you know that I'm having these
Speaker 3: feelings because the niggas will go to work and have
Speaker 3: a whole relationship with a bitch at work for two
Speaker 3: years and ship and you know you have fallen.
Speaker 5: In love and really let go of me and moved on.
Speaker 6: And I don't even you really wanted your nigga to
Speaker 6: come home and like, listen, I met this chick.
Speaker 4: The vibe is right. I don't want us to end,
Speaker 4: but I don't want to see what this goes.
Speaker 9: To you.
Speaker 2: And yeah, because I yeah, because I've had the other way.
Speaker 1: I've had that way.
Speaker 2: He just so like, what do you mean, Like, do
Speaker 2: I really want my nigga to lie behind my back
Speaker 2: and fuck these bitches? And yeah, like I've already done
Speaker 2: that part, Like yeah, nigga, I would like to try
Speaker 2: the other where.
Speaker 4: I at least put it like that. And any man
Speaker 4: that's listening to this right now, first off.
Speaker 10: They think you're a unicorn with glitter and you already
Speaker 10: up here every twelve years, right.
Speaker 6: But the reality is if if they know that there
Speaker 6: are women out there like that, I think they're going
Speaker 6: to be more ed to asking and and digging to
Speaker 6: find out if they can they can find that type
Speaker 6: of woman. Because any man, any decent man with good intentions,
Speaker 6: they'll gravitate to that.
Speaker 4: I think.
Speaker 2: I think a lot of women have this. Most women
Speaker 2: are have this in them. It's just like we don't.
Speaker 2: We don't have these conversations. We don't feel vulnerable enough.
Speaker 2: We think that if we admit that we're okay.
Speaker 1: With this, you might look at us differently. O'll take advantage.
Speaker 1: That's what a lot of niggas do.
Speaker 3: You give a nigga an inch, They take him out
Speaker 3: and said, oh I could do a what and then
Speaker 3: you know, yeah, But it's like, you have to be
Speaker 3: an adult.
Speaker 5: You have to know how to be an.
Speaker 1: Adult and not abuse.
Speaker 5: You know, the freedom and respects me.
Speaker 4: Are you going to keep sucking him throughout this?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 6: Are you going to continue to have sex with him
Speaker 6: while he's still dealing through Oh, if he's in love.
Speaker 5: Or whatever, I don't know.
Speaker 6: Everybody tells you he's exploring, he's feeling. How where does
Speaker 6: that stand for you and him? Do you continue to
Speaker 6: have sex? Do you continue to you know, vibing?
Speaker 5: I don't know. This is the thing.
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that, Like I might hear this and
Speaker 2: and be totally like cool happy, Like I might be
Speaker 2: completely heartbroken. You said you want to love somebody, and
Speaker 2: like you're in love and you're about to go go to.
Speaker 1: Fucking explore that. I don't know if he'll but like
Speaker 1: I just feel.
Speaker 2: Like it's just it's more about like being a human
Speaker 2: and like a sharing if we're going to be in
Speaker 2: a relationship, like let's actually be in like a real
Speaker 2: humanistic relationship where we talk to each other and like
Speaker 2: we communicate with one another and we don't take away
Speaker 2: our options, you know what I mean, Like you rob
Speaker 2: me of my choice when you lie to me, you know,
Speaker 2: and vice versa.
Speaker 1: And I feel like at the core of a relationship,
Speaker 1: that's really what I want anyway.
Speaker 2: I want someone that I feel like I can really
Speaker 2: share anything with and like.
Speaker 3: I'm not going to be judged. I'm not going to
Speaker 3: be like ridiculed, You're not going to disrespect me. We're
Speaker 3: going to be It's like, you.
Speaker 8: Know, not all.
Speaker 1: I'm not for everybody, you know, and that's cool. I
Speaker 1: don't want to be for you.
Speaker 5: Then I can't make myself any other way.
Speaker 1: Yeah and yeah, so I don't know, but so we asked.
Speaker 2: Speaking of relationships, we we talked about We've talked about monogamy.
Speaker 1: What about like the breaking up?
Speaker 2: Right, Like breaking up with people can be this really
Speaker 2: scary and awkward and terrible.
Speaker 1: Thing or funny. I'm not good at it.
Speaker 3: I'm not a good breakup for you know, you just
Speaker 3: avoid I just avoid it, just wait till they break
Speaker 3: up with me.
Speaker 6: That is a tactic, though, I mean it's not a
Speaker 6: good one that that's that weighted out game, like there's
Speaker 6: a hosted negotiation and you are going to attempt to
Speaker 6: wait them out, right.
Speaker 5: But not anymore.
Speaker 4: I don't.
Speaker 5: I think I've grown out of that.
Speaker 1: I hope.
Speaker 2: I think I've I'm a dramatic breaker upper, like and
Speaker 2: we had to just hate each other for a while,
Speaker 2: like we gotta just we had to go out in
Speaker 2: a burning flame, Like burning flame, you go with the bank.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was like, we're done for real.
Speaker 12: Huh, even even if the breakup wasn't caused by any wrongdoing,
Speaker 12: just to realize that you guys were in the right relationship.
Speaker 8: I've never had that.
Speaker 5: Talking all this mature shit.
Speaker 2: But also I've only ever been I've only i haven't
Speaker 2: been in that many relationships.
Speaker 1: All my relationships are pretty long term.
Speaker 2: Like I had a boyfriend like right out of college
Speaker 2: for like three years, and another one for like five years.
Speaker 2: My baby daddy I was with for seven years, So
Speaker 2: they were very invested relationships. So when they ended, they
Speaker 2: were gonna either we were gonna peace amicably or it
Speaker 2: was gonna be on some fiery ship. And I'm a scorpio,
Speaker 2: so you know, And so yeah, my breakups have always
Speaker 2: been really overly dramatic.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 12: You know, I think when it comes to breakups, I
Speaker 12: think it's just a realization of the obvious, you know,
Speaker 12: in the last part, the last kind of portion of
Speaker 12: what we were talking about. I think, if you're in
Speaker 12: a relationship with the right person, then you don't have time,
Speaker 12: effort energy for anything else. And if you have time
Speaker 12: effort energy for something else, you're not in the right relationship.
Speaker 12: So once you come to that realization, the breakup is
Speaker 12: just getting back some of your time for efficiency safe.
Speaker 9: Because this ain't the motherfuck I'm supposed to end up
Speaker 9: with anyway, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: So it's true.
Speaker 5: Time will tell if you don't want to put it
Speaker 5: in the energy and the effort. It's not the one.
Speaker 2: I feel the same way as only as I get
Speaker 2: older my time though, like I would would we send
Speaker 2: so much time in relationships before, like at least I knew.
Speaker 2: I mean I knew for at least like six months.
Speaker 2: It was like this ship wasn't working, you know, before
Speaker 2: I broke up?
Speaker 4: How did you end it?
Speaker 1: Now?
Speaker 4: End it?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 4: How did you end it? So you said you end
Speaker 4: up that relationship?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it was just he gave me no
Speaker 2: way I could stay basically.
Speaker 4: Of course, that's another tactic the menu.
Speaker 5: Oh but this was did you ask? Did you ask
Speaker 5: God for that? I feel like all all of the
Speaker 5: really endings of relationship I knew there I kind of.
Speaker 3: Then I asked God, like, please do something that no
Speaker 3: matter what I can't They did.
Speaker 1: Not ask God for that. I for sure did not ask.
Speaker 3: Not that, but like not that, but like something so
Speaker 3: bad that it would like it was like to show
Speaker 3: the truth and if it and then it gets so
Speaker 3: bad and you're like fuck, I did ask God for this,
Speaker 3: this truth telling, and then it's like the worst way possible.
Speaker 5: Every time I do that, God's like, here you go, bitch.
Speaker 5: You keep pretending like you don't see it. Have about now?
Speaker 9: Hey, have you guys ever ghosted anyone?
Speaker 12: I mean as opposed to having like just a straight
Speaker 12: up adult conversation with him, just like literally stopped talking
Speaker 12: to them.
Speaker 9: And why did you do that? Why did you think
Speaker 9: that was? Okay?
Speaker 1: Oh? Like a lot like someone Okay, what okay? Is ghosting?
Speaker 6: Like?
Speaker 1: I met a n at the club and then he
Speaker 1: called me and I didn't call him back? Or is
Speaker 1: this like long to like we've dated for like maybe
Speaker 1: a month or two and then disappeared? Yes, because yes
Speaker 1: I might have yeah kind of Yeah.
Speaker 9: Why why I've done it?
Speaker 2: Because I'm inconsistent and I've only really done it one
Speaker 2: time and it was the the.
Speaker 1: Broke Bay.
Speaker 4: You just.
Speaker 1: Broke back.
Speaker 4: McDonald's.
Speaker 5: That's what.
Speaker 1: That's what the little dairy car you let you.
Speaker 4: Besides that, I don't act like that.
Speaker 1: I'm not proud of that name. Okay, I'm not. I'm not.
Speaker 4: I feel it's accurate.
Speaker 2: I've grown a lot since then.
Speaker 3: Last eighteen months, I've done a whole lot anyway.
Speaker 4: So you broke up with did you break up with him?
Speaker 2: Because we okay, we we finally like we we dated
Speaker 2: and like he was like he was super fine and
Speaker 2: I was like I'm not. Like we met on through Instagram, right,
Speaker 2: and then we hung out and then I.
Speaker 1: Was like, yeah, he looks like his pictures, but like
Speaker 1: the vibe, it just wasn't. I couldn't.
Speaker 2: There was something that like wasn't working and I don't
Speaker 2: know what it was. Because he was attractive. I was
Speaker 2: attracted to him, and so I kept going on dates
Speaker 2: with him for like probably like about a month and
Speaker 2: a half, and like we would kiss and like finally
Speaker 2: we had sex and.
Speaker 1: The sex was really good.
Speaker 5: And the sex and I understaid this story. This was always.
Speaker 9: It was sex was a girl. I couldn't stand them.
Speaker 1: Wait, there was all there's the pheromones. There was a
Speaker 1: pheromone thing like you smell not really like there was
Speaker 1: like a scent.
Speaker 6: That he had kidding me right now, took his ass
Speaker 6: and the diller's and fucking tried everything on in that mother.
Speaker 4: It didn't want to return.
Speaker 1: It was not you can't do anything with someone scent. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's just there. And like you know, when you like
Speaker 1: really fun with someone and you are all love the
Speaker 1: way they like, you want to be in their face
Speaker 1: and ship. Yeah, like imagine meeting someone where you're like
Speaker 1: you don't smell, but you're just not my smell, like
Speaker 1: I'm not. Sometimes it's like greasy respect.
Speaker 4: Anyway, I would not know it was like on this
Speaker 4: level right here.
Speaker 2: Pheromones, It's a real thing. Yes, So anyway, we had sex.
Speaker 1: And I just I don't know.
Speaker 2: After that, I just like stop calling him, just stop
Speaker 2: responding to him, like yeah, he would like text me
Speaker 2: and be like what's up. Like way, we didn't really
Speaker 2: talk like all the time, like every day, so it.
Speaker 5: Was easy to stop.
Speaker 1: It was easy.
Speaker 6: I was just like okay, yeah, but that was text one,
Speaker 6: you know, take care of you.
Speaker 2: Just we've since talked. We've since talked. It took about
Speaker 2: a year and a half.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's sometimes I feel like, why don't need to
Speaker 3: spell it out for you?
Speaker 1: No, that just wasn't nice. I was that was not well.
Speaker 5: I don't really I don't even do a month and
Speaker 5: I don't I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't condone ghosting, but I feel like niggas do
Speaker 1: that ship way more than women anyway, So I really
Speaker 1: don't feel that bad that.
Speaker 9: Before the gentleman, when you guys done that before?
Speaker 1: Have I been ghosted? Yeah? Ghosted?
Speaker 6: Everybody ghosts before you have geez, go toost.
Speaker 4: Ghosting is a go to.
Speaker 1: Ghosting is a go.
Speaker 6: To you'd rather avoid and and that's just sad, but
Speaker 6: it's the reality.
Speaker 3: What do you mean You don't want to be like, oh,
Speaker 3: I just fucked you. I didn't really want anything more.
Speaker 6: You don't want to say that, Well, you know, I
Speaker 6: haven't done that, you know, in a long time, so
Speaker 6: I really shouldn't speak in that way.
Speaker 4: But when I did do.
Speaker 6: It, it was just I thought it was obvious it
Speaker 6: was sex and nothing more.
Speaker 4: So you know how that ship go Like here.
Speaker 6: You were feeling he was feeling you. You weren't feeling
Speaker 6: him like that, and he just had to take the
Speaker 6: That's really what it comes down to.
Speaker 9: Let me ask you a question, though, Is there a certain amount.
Speaker 12: Of time after which you have an obligation to that
Speaker 12: person because you've occupied so much of their time for
Speaker 12: whatever that defined period.
Speaker 6: Is a month or two, I should have told that nigga, Hey,
Speaker 6: I wasn't feeling you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: I agree, like a month or two, I'll be in
Speaker 3: consistent even with the dates. If I got to like,
Speaker 3: I'm not even going to be as consistent as a
Speaker 3: month or.
Speaker 6: Two and you couldn't text that, Nigga, I'm not feeling you.
Speaker 9: That's broke Bay. That's broke Bay.
Speaker 4: So that's that's broke Why.
Speaker 13: Mommy burger, that's a classic. You know, he was trying
Speaker 13: to classy burger place. Mommy is like very loud.
Speaker 4: Never taken a chick for a burger.
Speaker 5: It's a very class It's not.
Speaker 9: You didn't care about her. You have if you didn't
Speaker 9: care about it?
Speaker 2: Is there is there like a minimum like do you
Speaker 2: feel as men like if you're taking a woman on
Speaker 2: a date, there's like a like a men maximum you
Speaker 2: would spend or like a minimum like you know that
Speaker 2: you can't spend under this amount, like I think.
Speaker 9: I think it depends on how much you like her.
Speaker 12: Honestly that in terms of the budget, like every droll
Speaker 12: don't get the same budget.
Speaker 5: That's true.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true, I would imagine.
Speaker 4: So, yeah, that makes sense.
Speaker 6: Sometimes women just get lucky too, right, I want to
Speaker 6: try this new restaurant. You know, I want a little
Speaker 6: on candy, So I'm going to take your ass along.
Speaker 6: I just want to love company and I want anyway.
Speaker 6: You just get to ride to ride. So sometimes it's
Speaker 6: not necessarily you're worth the money more than he just
Speaker 6: wants to experience.
Speaker 4: That's true.
Speaker 3: Are anything married or just oh you're married?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys are intended to entanglement both.
Speaker 5: Of your ment Okay, are you single?
Speaker 1: Are you in a relationship?
Speaker 4: I'm in a relationship. Okay, I'm a relationship.
Speaker 1: How long have you been? I was single for three years.
Speaker 5: You said it, you know, I said it, but yourself.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the longest I've ever been single with my
Speaker 2: whole life. But yes, I'm very proud of that.
Speaker 4: I did it because you did it on purpose.
Speaker 1: Well, I did it on purpose. And then like I
Speaker 1: was having a good time and I was like, and
Speaker 1: then I.
Speaker 2: Just didn't have the capacity to like open myself up.
Speaker 2: I would just like I just I had like I
Speaker 2: was dating with a kid for the first time. It
Speaker 2: wasn't just about me anymore, Like do I really fuck
Speaker 2: with you? Like it was just yeah, but I have
Speaker 2: a boyfriend now, So you know that's we both we
Speaker 2: both recently aren't boyfriend boyfriend girlfriends.
Speaker 4: Did you say boyfriends and girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Girlfriend But we are girlfriends. We are girlfriends two boyfriends.
Speaker 5: You can tell we're not used to being in relationships.
Speaker 16: I know, Grandma girlfriends, guys girlfriends.
Speaker 2: I don't know what I just said right now. I
Speaker 2: have no clue what I I gotta work on that.
Speaker 2: I gotta work on that speech.
Speaker 6: Yeah, brou because if I was, if I was standing
Speaker 6: right beside you, man, we're gonna have.
Speaker 4: A strong conversation when we get back to the house.
Speaker 5: That's where the guys we both have boyfriends.
Speaker 6: Oh, you got it on the third try, that's for sure.
Speaker 6: I got you.
Speaker 9: Try.
Speaker 5: It's new. They're new. They're new boyfriends from like the
Speaker 5: last three months.
Speaker 12: So every time y'all say that, y'all look at each
Speaker 12: other like, I don't know what about you.
Speaker 1: No, I love my boyfriend. I have a boyfriend.
Speaker 4: I love him already.
Speaker 1: I do.
Speaker 4: I do love him.
Speaker 5: M M, I feel like bridesmaids. No, it's true, I do.
Speaker 5: I do.
Speaker 1: Too much.
Speaker 4: Weed.
Speaker 5: This is great?
Speaker 4: Weed?
Speaker 1: Is there more?
Speaker 4: Yeah, don't do that.
Speaker 9: Us like that. We know it's great.
Speaker 2: We wait so speaking of breakups, we're talking about breakup.
Speaker 1: I don't even know because'm kind of kind Okay.
Speaker 2: So we we asked some of our followers listeners to
Speaker 2: tell us their breakup stories, and we have some.
Speaker 1: We have one, we have, We've got a few good ones.
Speaker 1: We're only gonna read one and uh, this one.
Speaker 4: What are you doing?
Speaker 1: I'm just doing like a little how do you say?
Speaker 1: A picture for the Okay, everyone's.
Speaker 4: Mile, I'm mad, I.
Speaker 5: Did it.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: So this this girl wrote us and told us that
Speaker 2: she was dating the Sky and she was tired of
Speaker 2: his ass and so he really wanted to go to Asia.
Speaker 2: So she bought him a ticket around her ticket to Asia,
Speaker 2: sent him to Asia Philippines, the Philippines specifically, and then
Speaker 2: canceled his returns. It was like his lifelong way and
Speaker 2: he couldn't afford to come back for a year.
Speaker 3: The only reason he came back and says the government.
Speaker 3: He overstated his visa and the government paid for him
Speaker 3: to get shipped back.
Speaker 4: He couldn't afford to come back for a whole year.
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm sure the nigga probably was like, whatever,
Speaker 2: he's so bad here, let me just stick you brought
Speaker 2: me mess some Filipino mommy.
Speaker 4: He spent he tricked that off thirty times. Mm hmm. Man,
Speaker 4: and that's that's that's kind of hard right there.
Speaker 2: I was like, I told her, I said, damn, bit,
Speaker 2: you are cold.
Speaker 9: I'm not a crazy type, but you do that to me.
Speaker 9: I won't find you talk about this. You're gonna talk
Speaker 9: about this.
Speaker 12: I'm not gonna put my hands on you, per se,
Speaker 12: but we're gonna talk about this year.
Speaker 6: A year later, you're coming.
Speaker 1: Fine, we might send someone.
Speaker 9: I'll never forget you left me.
Speaker 3: I was like, that's the coldest ship I ever heard.
Speaker 3: You're about a nigga a plane ticket to get out
Speaker 3: your face.
Speaker 2: Man, speaking about talking about ghosting, that's the ultimate ghost God, Yeah,
Speaker 2: it is.
Speaker 5: What about you, guys.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna carry this one for the rest of my life.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna start threatening. I'm gonna start threatening
Speaker 1: my niggas. I'll send you.
Speaker 5: I'll send you and you'll think it's a vacation too.
Speaker 9: Worst break what's your worst breakup?
Speaker 6: Jez Man, I'm telling you I have never been broken
Speaker 6: up with. Man, I have never been broken up with
Speaker 6: I cannot speak from that press.
Speaker 2: You are just you are perfectly romantic. I'm checking out
Speaker 2: all the boxes.
Speaker 1: No one has ever broken.
Speaker 6: Up relationship accordingly, and I do what I'm supposed to,
Speaker 6: and they typically want to stay. And that's not bragging,
Speaker 6: that's just anybody.
Speaker 5: I need some numbers. I'm need a roster.
Speaker 1: I need a referral.
Speaker 5: Referral.
Speaker 2: I guarantee that that's a real like somebody has somebody
Speaker 2: has your reading glasses.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I don't have a breakup story, but I
Speaker 6: have been cheated on.
Speaker 4: And I remember when she cheated on me. I told her.
Speaker 6: I was like, look, I don't want to end the relationship,
Speaker 6: like can we still be together?
Speaker 1: Wow? You love?
Speaker 2: Wow, Wow that must have been some good pussy wow,
Speaker 2: because that does not happen often.
Speaker 6: It was amazing, and I stayed with her. She heated
Speaker 6: on me again, right, so like me respect and I
Speaker 6: ended this right her again about six months later, very
Speaker 6: like you know, I'm established college, I start my career job,
Speaker 6: My money is pretty good, Like I'm ready to see
Speaker 6: this whole is pregnant as fuck, like four months she.
Speaker 5: She pops up, doesn't.
Speaker 4: Say she's just pregnant, pregnant, pregnant by another nigga. She's
Speaker 4: but were you think? No, no, no, no, I know.
Speaker 6: So she says, hey, you know, I know I'm pregnant
Speaker 6: out of y'all, but I missed this, I missed us
Speaker 6: out of y'all.
Speaker 4: Can you can we be together? Listen to me? I
Speaker 4: told her.
Speaker 6: I said, yeah, if you want to be together, kill
Speaker 6: this baby because she's like two and a half months pregnant.
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, you could say.
Speaker 5: This is the Christian.
Speaker 2: We can be together just killing Bible, school nights, school,
Speaker 2: summer camp, Bible.
Speaker 5: Can't this is what happened ship.
Speaker 1: Your mama's paid.
Speaker 4: No, it's fine, listen. We're not always happy without decision.
Speaker 6: So after she says no, of course she's going to
Speaker 6: keep the baby, I proceeded to fuck the ship out
Speaker 6: of her just for you know, general principle.
Speaker 5: And general principal.
Speaker 4: Yeah you what you know? And I moved on. So
Speaker 4: I kind of sold her like, yeah, yeah, we can
Speaker 4: do something. Let's go.
Speaker 9: You know.
Speaker 2: Oh she thought that there was a cheer let her
Speaker 2: on just to you know, Smash went pregnant. Yes, that's
Speaker 2: that's like a like a part two break up, like
Speaker 2: she probably thought y'all.
Speaker 5: She was probably he was gonna he was like he
Speaker 5: was getting her back for the second cheating too.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that was a baby. We got to talk about
Speaker 6: the baby. That was the third incident.
Speaker 1: She was bold, she was.
Speaker 5: Bold up bold, pregnant, she's showing she was better.
Speaker 4: I'm not saying a little bit, a little bit made it.
Speaker 4: That made it a little hard.
Speaker 5: Yeah, he wanted that pregnant person. He was curious, like,
Speaker 5: you don't say we have any of you guys ever
Speaker 5: had sex.
Speaker 1: With a pregnant woman that like, isn't your isn't your baby?
Speaker 4: No? No, Jesus ever, that was.
Speaker 1: Not besides her another one?
Speaker 2: Yeah, and how many she was five?
Speaker 1: What was that like? Did you rub her belly? Like
Speaker 1: was it a turn on? Or was it weird? Like
Speaker 1: did it turn you on?
Speaker 6: Not weird at all? Rubbed that belly? You know what
Speaker 6: I'm saying. It was it was awesome, you know what
Speaker 6: I'm saying.
Speaker 5: She probably needed that love at that time.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I gave it to it too.
Speaker 1: I'm so glad you exist.
Speaker 3: I mean, I imagine being like, I don't know if
Speaker 3: she was single, I'm hoping so whatever. I'm just like
Speaker 3: imagine like needing love being pregnant.
Speaker 1: Just imagine needing love.
Speaker 5: Sometimes you just need love when you're pregnant.
Speaker 4: Ship, definitely, you guys got another one?
Speaker 1: No, do y'all have one?
Speaker 3: Are you?
Speaker 1: Are you going to share one?
Speaker 9: I do?
Speaker 4: I share one too. I'll share one too.
Speaker 10: So I don't know if you know, but like boys, like,
Speaker 10: we hold grudges from like young right, so shit shit
Speaker 10: can happen to us, and we'll hold baggage from the
Speaker 10: age of seventeen and eighteen. So I'm gonna give you
Speaker 10: one of my young man's stories.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 6: So I'm dating this girl. She's Trinidadian. She finally tells
Speaker 6: she had a huge body downtown queen, you know. And
Speaker 6: you know I was in the tenth grade and she
Speaker 6: was in twelfth grade. So for me, this was like
Speaker 6: the biggest come up. Everybody coveted at her, you know
Speaker 6: what I'm saying, And so when she chose me, I
Speaker 6: was just like, all right, so me and I'm doing
Speaker 6: all this shit. Man, I'm saving lunch money giving it
Speaker 6: to this chick and everything.
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: You know that's tenth grade shit, right, taking on picnics,
Speaker 6: all this type of stuff.
Speaker 10: So she goes off to college, right, and so she
Speaker 10: swears up and down like this is the love of
Speaker 10: her life. This is real. Like she's like, I'm going
Speaker 10: to wait for you when you get to college. We're
Speaker 10: gonna link back up. It's gonna be everything. So, uh,
Speaker 10: I'm talking about maybe six months later.
Speaker 6: I got I got something in the mail and it's uh,
Speaker 6: it's from her. So I'm super excited. We're supposed to
Speaker 6: be going to Disney World. We in the van, I'm
Speaker 6: in the back. I'm cozy, I got I got my
Speaker 6: package with me. Man, I'm about to make this trip
Speaker 6: by everything that's supposed to be right. So this is
Speaker 6: back in the day when you know, people used to
Speaker 6: record cassette tapes to deliver their message.
Speaker 4: I don't know, I do remember those, yeah, man.
Speaker 6: When you had to when you had to press the
Speaker 6: boat the buttons and yeah yeah, and then they captured
Speaker 6: that jam and they might make a monologue on front
Speaker 6: of it, on the front end of it, you know how.
Speaker 6: I go back in the day ship so I have
Speaker 6: my Sony walkment in. I was like, oh, ship my
Speaker 6: Buddha and gave me a tape. It's about to be
Speaker 6: the turn up. So I put it in, I pop
Speaker 6: it in and she comes on.
Speaker 11: And she has this very monotune, sad voice, and then
Speaker 11: she dropped her dear john let on her brother, just
Speaker 11: like listen, I know I said I'd be with you,
Speaker 11: but I can't.
Speaker 4: So so she was like, but this.
Speaker 6: Song is really going to tell you how I feel.
Speaker 1: So a breakup playlist, just.
Speaker 4: One song, and she repeated over and over on the cassette.
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying was up. But and you know,
Speaker 4: she could have gave me a whole explanation, but she's.
Speaker 2: Like, wave, this is like a beautiful breakupkup.
Speaker 4: So then she she she she.
Speaker 10: Leaves this song by Johnny and it's called everything Happens
Speaker 10: for a Reason, and it literally keeps saying that.
Speaker 4: That's what they say, everything happens for her. I was like, really,
Speaker 4: this bitch, this to me, this is what you want.
Speaker 6: So I'm in the back trunk and I'm going like
Speaker 6: this and my mom is Jamaican, so we're Jamaican.
Speaker 9: So she said, are you fucking kidding? I'm podcasting. Are
Speaker 9: you take a picture?
Speaker 4: So, so d take yourself off?
Speaker 9: So I just I'm tucked the camera because I didn't
Speaker 9: know the fuck you.
Speaker 6: Damn oh ship, Like, what's going on right now?
Speaker 5: I him, I want to hear.
Speaker 4: We're gonna have to get that story back from then.
Speaker 10: So either way, I'm crying in the back and my
Speaker 10: mom's screaming about are you all right? And so later
Speaker 10: I come to find out she gets it. She gets
Speaker 10: to college. I get to college.
Speaker 6: She hits me up, uh, and she says she's been
Speaker 6: in an abusive relationship.
Speaker 4: She's been in too, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 10: So and she's just saying the best time I ever
Speaker 10: had in my life, or the.
Speaker 4: Time I felt loved was you. And then you know,
Speaker 4: I said, well whatever.
Speaker 10: She hits me up one time, says I'm in town,
Speaker 10: left something my voice message saying she's upstairs at a
Speaker 10: friend's house who I didn't know lived in the complex.
Speaker 10: And the same thing that Jezu just did when he
Speaker 10: got his revenge sex. And she said, and before she
Speaker 10: allowed me to hear it, she was like, I only
Speaker 10: want you to take it if you'll tell me it.
Speaker 4: I only want you to take it if you still
Speaker 4: love me. What do you think? I said?
Speaker 6: Of course, I love you, girl, don't I loved you?
Speaker 5: I knew we found our way back to each other.
Speaker 6: Like I cat and then as she slept, as she
Speaker 6: laid it. Yeah, I don't think people are breaking up
Speaker 6: the same these days, you know, unless you're may be married,
Speaker 6: you know. I think that's more of a real breakup
Speaker 6: these days, people just getting missing.
Speaker 1: I did recently some guy kind that like ended it
Speaker 1: with me.
Speaker 2: Remember that was remember that guy like I would hanging
Speaker 2: out with the New York every now and then, and then.
Speaker 1: Like we were like we weren't really a thing. And
Speaker 1: then he called me to tell me like, hey, it's
Speaker 1: just not working. I was like, who was it. I'll
Speaker 1: show you his picture, but I was like, we don't
Speaker 1: even really be talking. Though I appreciate you. I remember,
Speaker 1: it was a whole official it was a whole conversation,
Speaker 1: a thing. And I was like, this is strange.
Speaker 2: We've had sex three times in six months. But yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess, but I appreciated it. I thought
Speaker 2: it was weird, but also like it was cool, like.
Speaker 1: I have no questions. There's no questions here, We're not unclear.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and then try to place the title relationships or
Speaker 6: are you finding that they're pretty free flowing as far as.
Speaker 4: That goes just casually vibing.
Speaker 1: And fucking putting a title.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you find men like hey trying to lock you down?
Speaker 6: Or is this like everyone's just cool.
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people want open relationships
Speaker 1: Los Angeles.
Speaker 3: It's mostly been casual except for these two guys we
Speaker 3: just started dating.
Speaker 2: The guy that I'm dating now blocked me down. Yeah,
Speaker 2: they are aggressive about it, but it blocked me the
Speaker 2: fuck down. He was very clear about what he wanted,
Speaker 2: and that's what I meant.
Speaker 9: But what made you get into that though? It wasn't
Speaker 9: obviously no.
Speaker 1: It wasn't. I think I felt, like I've talked about
Speaker 1: this before, is that.
Speaker 2: I felt safe, Like he made me feel safe, like
Speaker 2: I trusted him.
Speaker 1: I I just we just vibe.
Speaker 2: We have a great energy together that is just really
Speaker 2: special and unique.
Speaker 1: And he had possesses a lot of the qualities and a.
Speaker 2: Man that I I've met along the way, Like I
Speaker 2: feel like there's been a lot of I've met people
Speaker 2: along the way that have led me to him and
Speaker 2: to understand exactly what it is that I want, what
Speaker 2: I can do without, you know, And it just felt
Speaker 2: like I don't know, I don't know I don't know
Speaker 2: how else to describe it, except that it felt like
Speaker 2: it made sense.
Speaker 1: It just made sense to me. I wasn't scared. I
Speaker 1: wasn't scared to do it.
Speaker 9: Question no, no, go ahead, I was gonna say.
Speaker 12: So, you talked about the things that led you to
Speaker 12: this man. If you would have met him, assuming you
Speaker 12: weren't in another relationship, if you would have met him
Speaker 12: five or six years ago, would you have been ready
Speaker 12: for him?
Speaker 9: And would he have been a man that you would
Speaker 9: have selected?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: Absolutely not, nope, no, yeh nah, I wouldn't. I would
Speaker 1: have thought he was too sensitive or like.
Speaker 2: My idea of what a man was or yeah, it
Speaker 2: was is like an alpha male that takes control that
Speaker 2: people kind of fear a little bit.
Speaker 1: That's the thing. I'm attracted to narcissists. I've been attracted
Speaker 1: to narcissist. A lot of narcissists are alphas mhm.
Speaker 2: And a lot of that is because there's an immense insecurity,
Speaker 2: you know. And so the guy that I'm dating now,
Speaker 2: I would say is an alpha, but he's like a feminist.
Speaker 2: So it's a little different, like it's he's not gonna
Speaker 2: he doesn't assert his alpha onto me and he knows
Speaker 2: I'm an alpha female. He lets me be that, and
Speaker 2: it's I don't ever feel. I feel like true alphas
Speaker 2: can coexist like because of so like I think that's
Speaker 2: what I found, you know, and like I know that
Speaker 2: I'm attracted to the alpha male for sure. I like
Speaker 2: the man that can shift the room when he when
Speaker 2: he enters, you know, like that his energy is powerful
Speaker 2: because mine is and I don't want to be known
Speaker 2: no week weak energy.
Speaker 4: Have a motherfucker so.
Speaker 6: Energy, and he and you have no problem giving into
Speaker 6: his and that's why I can work. I definitely agree
Speaker 6: that two alphas can be together. And it's funny to
Speaker 6: me that you brought up you thought he would be
Speaker 6: too sensitive. I think I think a lot of women
Speaker 6: as they mature, they find that they want a man
Speaker 6: that is not only sensitive, but that communicates well. I
Speaker 6: think that you weren't ready for him years ago, but
Speaker 6: you are now because you offer that young girl shit
Speaker 6: when like you know, you said your baby daddy's a thug,
Speaker 6: Like you thought that bravado and that fucking swag was
Speaker 6: the ship when really a lot of it is bullshit.
Speaker 2: So all right, I mean, I know slights of him
Speaker 2: because like I was in love with him and he
Speaker 2: possessed he there's a lot of qualities in him that
Speaker 2: are now requirements you know, in these in these other relationships.
Speaker 2: Like that's what I'm saying, Like that I had, like
Speaker 2: they led me to this person because like I needed
Speaker 2: all those parts, even the unnecessary thug shit, you know,
Speaker 2: to know.
Speaker 5: That you don't need it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm good. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Horror Stories Yeah, okay, so you guys, I think we
Speaker 2: told you. We have a segment on our show called
Speaker 2: horror Story.
Speaker 5: Who story in certain moons here? In certain moones here
Speaker 5: we have a drop and it's.
Speaker 2: Like, oh, horror Stories.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we made it ourselves.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we did it.
Speaker 2: We recorded the track, which we did some moaning on
Speaker 2: the track alone one night together.
Speaker 1: It was really weird.
Speaker 4: How did you capture that energy? Did you just have to?
Speaker 5: It's just like just like it right now.
Speaker 1: It's got into thinking about our sex sounds I thought
Speaker 1: would help.
Speaker 4: With that, but I got it.
Speaker 5: Would you like, wouldn't you like that?
Speaker 1: We turned on a little bass and me were a
Speaker 1: little year.
Speaker 2: We were just on my couch one day, like group,
Speaker 2: we just started touching each other pussy like that's what
Speaker 2: we next, morn into the microphone.
Speaker 1: That's what girls do.
Speaker 9: He has a smile so big since the podcast started.
Speaker 3: Say oh, if I only knew, it's so not like
Speaker 3: that in the shower talking ship.
Speaker 1: So anyway, so do you one of you guys want
Speaker 1: to share a horse? Sorry? Who's Who's who's offering themselves
Speaker 1: up as tribute?
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say Gez definitely, you know from the from
Speaker 2: the things you've said on this conversation, I'm like, he
Speaker 2: definitely has a horse.
Speaker 1: You Yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean, I've done some nasty day.
Speaker 6: I've had a chick I was dealing with and she
Speaker 6: came through. We took a little trip and she came through,
Speaker 6: and uh, I left to go hit another chick that
Speaker 6: I knew.
Speaker 1: And wait, you let does she know you were leaving
Speaker 1: to go?
Speaker 4: He didn't know that.
Speaker 1: Where did she think you were going?
Speaker 4: Just to go catch a vibe with a homie? You
Speaker 4: know what?
Speaker 1: The wait?
Speaker 2: So she was staying at your house and then you
Speaker 2: left her at the house to go catch a vibe
Speaker 2: with the.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was like, you know, I'm gonna smoke one
Speaker 4: with the homie. I'll be back.
Speaker 6: So I left there, And worst part is I took
Speaker 6: her car. Yeah, niggas ain't ship. And I took her
Speaker 6: car and went and hit the next hole. And then
Speaker 6: I came back and hit her. And then I had
Speaker 6: another chick when she left, Man, I take I can't
Speaker 6: bake this sh up. When she left, I had a
Speaker 6: chick stopped by randomly. I can say her name because
Speaker 6: I don't know her last thing. I couldn't tell you
Speaker 6: about where.
Speaker 2: She is right now, they stick thy flat stomach.
Speaker 6: She would always pop up at my crib randomly. I
Speaker 6: stayed in an apartment right behind campus, and she would
Speaker 6: always pop up randomly, like hey, what you doing, And
Speaker 6: I'd always say nothing, and she pushed me in and
Speaker 6: start fucking me. She popped up right after the other
Speaker 6: chick left. Keep in mind already fucked her. Didn't even
Speaker 6: take a shower, and I kendrew right down to right
Speaker 6: on my cops. She didn't even make it to the room.
Speaker 5: So you had three puss season one.
Speaker 4: Day season one day and no shower, no shower.
Speaker 9: That's not that's a good I've had that, But I
Speaker 9: had a shower. I'm not as nasty showered hy.
Speaker 4: I never got the opportunity.
Speaker 6: It would have been suspicious coming back from my boy's house,
Speaker 6: you know what I'm.
Speaker 3: Saying, and to take a shower like I just like
Speaker 3: I was, like I was, I don't know.
Speaker 1: No, I don't think we would. I think bitches think
Speaker 1: they do.
Speaker 2: Would some might, but I think a lot of women
Speaker 2: really think they do. And how many times y'all have
Speaker 2: y'all fucked the bitch right after another one and she
Speaker 2: had no clue and it was business as usual, and
Speaker 2: she ain't even still don't know, probably still don't know
Speaker 2: good night.
Speaker 10: I mean, because you have to really be sniffing dick
Speaker 10: to create a form of calibration system.
Speaker 2: They michael wash their dick off and the want They're
Speaker 2: definitely gonna wash the bird bath, the whole bath in
Speaker 2: the bathroom.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 6: I have another whole story too, the same that got pregnant,
Speaker 6: that fucked me over years later, I fucked her her
Speaker 6: first cousin, the younger for her. Your first cousin was
Speaker 6: probably like twenty years old, And I fucked her cousin
Speaker 6: so fucking gladly too, busting them and everything.
Speaker 4: I knew.
Speaker 6: Her cousin always low key liked me, you know how
Speaker 6: that little ship vibe.
Speaker 4: And she was grown woman now ship.
Speaker 1: Okay, jeez, okay, calm down.
Speaker 6: So when I tell you, if I, if I were
Speaker 6: to sit here and keep going, I give y'all ten
Speaker 6: more of those.
Speaker 1: Oh I like fully loaded.
Speaker 5: I'm not mad at it.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do a of Geni's.
Speaker 2: Horris horse Shop Jesus Little Shop of Horries.
Speaker 4: Oh I like that. That's good. Brandon right there? Oh
Speaker 4: my god.
Speaker 2: Okay, you guys, well, thank you for joining us, for
Speaker 2: sharing your some what I would assume will be some
Speaker 2: unpopular opinions from from the man with the red curtain
Speaker 2: behind him.
Speaker 5: The Man with the Red Curtain.
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