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Speaker 1: What's up you guys.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 2: I'm Nila. Happy Wednesday, Happy hump Day, y'all. Hope y'all

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Speaker 2: fucking on this happy Wednesday. I just suck some petus earlier.

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Speaker 3: Yeah wow, So honest, did you I'm just going to

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Speaker 3: come this close to me with your digma.

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Speaker 1: Did you swallow?

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Speaker 4: Yep?

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Speaker 5: Do you always swallow?

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Speaker 1: Yep?

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Speaker 5: One time in high school I've probably said this before.

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Speaker 5: Somebody told me.

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Speaker 3: A guy told me, if you don't swallow, it's disrespectful.

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Speaker 3: And I spent the next like fifteen years just swallowing.

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Speaker 5: Come.

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Speaker 3: And so I realized that is not true. Fucked these neggas.

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Speaker 5: So now I'm as a rebellion to that motherfucker.

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Speaker 3: Who told me that I swallow seldomly, very particular particularly well,

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Speaker 3: I don't just suck any dick either, So it's not

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Speaker 3: like I'm sort here just.

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Speaker 1: Like, No, I know, I wasn't suggesting that was a joke.

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Speaker 1: I'm just letting you know. I'm just letting very particular

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Speaker 1: about my dick sucks. Okay, Well, yeah me too.

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Speaker 5: It has to be very beneficial, it must be.

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Speaker 2: Clean, and I got to know that I'm going to

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Speaker 2: get it in return.

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Speaker 1: Try to start with me first so you can transition.

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Speaker 1: I'm an give her anyway.

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Speaker 3: I'm not a person though, that likes to just give

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Speaker 3: head and then that's it. So that makes you feel like,

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Speaker 3: oh no, I'm just in general, I need something in return.

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to get off by giving you head.

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Speaker 2: Anytime I've ever given head and not gotten received back, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Sure I did too, if it's ever happened.

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Speaker 3: Also, I'm not that confident, like I have good dick

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Speaker 3: sucking skills, but I'm not gonna I'm not. I'm not

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Speaker 3: gonna make you come like I don't want to suck

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Speaker 3: your dick that long. So we're gonna have to move

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Speaker 3: forward here. Okay, anyway, if.

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Speaker 6: I could interject there, you have a guest there.

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Speaker 4: If you're sucking it right, you won't have to suck it.

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Speaker 3: Oh well, Daisy, Okay, we have guests. We're we're here

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Speaker 3: joined by brunch with the boys.

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Speaker 1: Gez, mister j KINGDZ.

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Speaker 4: King, Yes, you got it.

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Speaker 1: What are you drinking? Gez? What's that over there?

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Speaker 4: Just a little boka and a splash of pineapple?

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Speaker 5: You re drinking beer?

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Speaker 3: I copied somebody I saw with a beer. Now I'm

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Speaker 3: feeling like I'm having I'm having fomo.

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Speaker 7: Oh.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, speaking Geze, I know I know what the fun

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Speaker 3: you're talking about because I heard what you said about

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Speaker 3: the dick. Second, we want a bitch to put a

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Speaker 3: nap in underneath, yo, but just just to make sure it's.

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Speaker 1: Gonna get sloppy. What Yeah, the only drink.

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Speaker 5: Second he likes, Gez.

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Speaker 3: He wants you to lift his ass up and put

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Speaker 3: like almost like a knack in underneath beause it's about

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Speaker 3: to get filthy nasty.

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Speaker 1: That's the only kind of She wants a lot of spit.

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Speaker 3: He wants pick and like I want to, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: choke and throw up if it's too much.

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Speaker 8: Like it, Okay, I mean I go for it. I

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Speaker 8: go all the way and then until I'm.

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Speaker 1: Like, oh no, don't throw up.

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Speaker 4: In the morning. You won't have to worry about that's smart.

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Speaker 2: There's nothing stomach, there's nothing worse than throwing up. I

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Speaker 2: remember I told you that when I went to Dallas.

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Speaker 1: Oh you did throw up, and it turned him on

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Speaker 1: a little bit.

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Speaker 5: He was a nastyness, yeah he was.

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Speaker 1: But I was like it's not gonna turn me on.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna be gross that with myself.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, no, chunks, that's.

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Speaker 9: A whole genre before and actually that's a whole genre.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to see that genre. I don't want

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Speaker 5: to se anybody else.

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Speaker 9: But I know it's out there.

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Speaker 1: That's nasty.

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Speaker 4: That's an important question. Did you keep sucking it afterwards? Me?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I did.

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Speaker 3: I thought I felt it come up in my mouth

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Speaker 3: and then I immediately sucked it back down.

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Speaker 1: I did that, and then it was too late. I

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Speaker 1: had to.

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Speaker 2: It was like projectile, but I turned on over here.

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Speaker 2: Yes you are getting hard and you're like whoa today?

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Speaker 1: First, but first I yelled at him because I.

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Speaker 5: Was like, nigga, relaxed, what the fuck are you doing?

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Speaker 2: And then he was like sorry, and then I was

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Speaker 2: like okay, okay, as you're sorry.

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Speaker 6: Sorry when say sorry, man, he don't really mean it.

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Speaker 1: My bad.

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Speaker 2: He didn't mean it because he was just like he didn't.

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Speaker 2: It was unnecessary during that that that moment, you know what,

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Speaker 2: bitches ain't ship either, because this is the same nigga

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Speaker 2: that suck my toes in the bar though.

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Speaker 5: I know, but we say like, oh we be respectful.

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Speaker 5: Blah blah blah. They're like, chalk me, call me a bitch, slap,

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Speaker 5: call me a slug used.

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Speaker 10: To bipolar behavior anyway, So it really is something that

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Speaker 10: we expect.

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Speaker 4: So and what kind of slap are we talking about?

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Speaker 4: To slap across the face.

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Speaker 6: A little like I've been telling you.

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Speaker 5: Coupled with like a passionate kiss.

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Speaker 3: It's just like a like a like a balance of

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Speaker 3: both balance of love and like maybe like maybe one

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Speaker 3: of the yeah, ok, sorry.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, just like we're watching porn right now.

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Speaker 3: If you guys joined Patreon, smack.

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Speaker 1: The funk out of me.

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Speaker 4: Jesus Christ.

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Speaker 1: That was a love chat pitch whatever exactly.

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Speaker 4: That's what I say too.

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Speaker 1: I got to get three SIPs of beer.

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Speaker 5: I don't know how to.

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Speaker 4: Mighty get this girl, drake.

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Speaker 1: You guys will tell our listeners. Wait, where where you

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Speaker 1: guys are at?

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Speaker 4: First of all, Lando, Florida.

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Speaker 1: Orlando, the land of you're in Florida, the land of

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Speaker 1: covid Is that.

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Speaker 5: Is that what it's called?

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Speaker 4: You hit us in the stomach with that one.

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Speaker 1: But okay, but but Loki, California, We're right with you too.

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Speaker 9: So y'all just know how to do the right thing though,

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Speaker 9: we're still working on that.

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Speaker 3: Apparently New York is doing great and they were the

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Speaker 3: Land of Covid like three weeks ago.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I know.

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Speaker 2: So why did you guys start your podcast? Tell us

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Speaker 2: a little bit about with the boys.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, so we were just I mean, we're greedy motherfuckers, right,

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Speaker 10: We like to work out for the sake of eating. Actually,

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Speaker 10: so you know, we hit brunch on a Sunday, man,

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Speaker 10: and you know, we're doing our normal things that dudes do,

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Speaker 10: barbershop talk, but we just taking it in so we

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Speaker 10: can actually enjoy some fine brunch dining.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 10: So we at this place called Another Broken Egg, and

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Speaker 10: we eating, we cracking jokes, we're talking about stuff. We

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Speaker 10: always challenging each other, so it's like a bunch of

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Speaker 10: a type personalities fighting.

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Speaker 4: Over the last piece of piece of meat. Right, And so.

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Speaker 10: We're we're sitting down having the conversation and some white

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Speaker 10: people come up to us and they're like, listen, you

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Speaker 10: guys need to be on like the radio. I mean,

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Speaker 10: you guys, we were listening to you back there, and

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Speaker 10: you guys are freaking hilarious. And I was like all right,

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Speaker 10: and Dez was like man, we should do that ship,

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Speaker 10: we should do something. And Gez was like, as long

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Speaker 10: as I get to smoke, we're good, right, So yeah,

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Speaker 10: I'm with you.

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Speaker 1: Let me roll up real quick. You to roll up?

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Speaker 11: What are we?

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Speaker 1: What do we not han show Indica?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, that might label on it. I shouldn't know.

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Speaker 1: We could.

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Speaker 4: They ball over there doing what?

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Speaker 6: Man, we still got a cop on the corner and ship.

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Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, come in the biplock bag.

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Speaker 1: I missed those, man.

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Speaker 5: I wish I had a weed.

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Speaker 9: Man.

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Speaker 8: Sometimes over here, if you get desperate and.

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Speaker 3: All the dispensaries are closed, you can go on Craigslist

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Speaker 3: and you can't.

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Speaker 5: We've done it.

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Speaker 1: We've got on c.

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Speaker 4: She did it. She don't even know you can't.

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Speaker 3: You could just put a delivery like because we four

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Speaker 3: twenty delivery and they'll just pop up some numbers and

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Speaker 3: then you just there you go.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 9: I had no idea.

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Speaker 6: That's the nigga selling weed on I G and I, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 6: that's some Florida ship. Ye as if the police don't exist, right, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Surprised he hasn't been flag because I G is on

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Speaker 1: our app.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we postedly and that you would act like we're

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Speaker 3: not even in California, like we're the weed.

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Speaker 9: Man.

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Speaker 2: He was a picture of like a smiling today like

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Speaker 2: nic is flag they're selling hilarious.

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Speaker 5: How long have you guys been friends ship?

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Speaker 9: I'd say probably what about twenty years now? Wow?

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Speaker 4: Me my brother so I known that nigga since birth.

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Speaker 12: I went to school together. And then Jeezy was the

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Speaker 12: nigga he bring around every once in a while.

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Speaker 9: Caused trouble.

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Speaker 6: We didn't really like whatever there you are. And when

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Speaker 6: I visit and you know, fun some hoes in Gainesville.

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Speaker 5: And leave, Yeah Gainesville hose. Huh the hose in Gainesville.

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Speaker 8: Where they are shout out to Gainesville.

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Speaker 4: Yes.

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Speaker 5: How long have you guys been doing the podcast?

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Speaker 4: It's running almost close to two years.

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Speaker 5: Man, cool, congratulations, that's do.

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Speaker 9: Thank thank you very much, Thank you very much.

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Speaker 5: I love huh.

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Speaker 9: I said, it's a labor love. We love it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: We always tell people and anybody listening, if you want

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Speaker 3: to start a podcast, you must love it because this

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Speaker 3: ship is not going to make you rich anytime soon.

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Speaker 5: And it's a whole lot of work.

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Speaker 1: Every week. Every week is a production. It's a production.

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Speaker 5: It is it's therapy. Literally, we say that all the time.

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Speaker 3: Like coming here and talking shit and having to be

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Speaker 3: like responsible for what we said last week has been

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Speaker 3: very therapeutic.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, damn, I've been talking about this shit for

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Speaker 5: two years.

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Speaker 1: I've been fucking up for two years straight. Well everybody knows.

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Speaker 1: It's not just my friends circle anymore. Now everybody knows

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Speaker 1: shits I need to grow up.

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Speaker 9: Let me ask you guys a question. Do you guys

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Speaker 9: have friends who are jealous that they're not a part

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Speaker 9: of this podcast you guys.

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Speaker 5: Have together, I'm sure secretly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think anybody that wants to be on

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Speaker 2: the podcast, but maybe people that are like get our friendship.

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Speaker 2: You know, so we basically became friends on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: No yeah, no, true? So do you do you all

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Speaker 6: The ages and shit, we're black men, so we have

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Speaker 9: Don't do that shit, don't you dare?

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Speaker 9: Not subscribe to that belief.

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Speaker 6: We all have kids each. I have a thirteen year

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Speaker 1: Oh they think with you still?

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Speaker 4: No nineteen year Oh he don't.

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Speaker 10: Unless I'm taking them on vacations or setting up appointments

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I never and I don't mean the Asian ones.

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Speaker 5: And I was literally going to ask, is this inappropriate?

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Speaker 5: But what you let you're so get a happy ending

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Speaker 4: Why not? Absolutely?

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Speaker 6: You would facilitate that, though I would facilitate it, and

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Speaker 6: I would tell him they're gonna use jurgons.

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Speaker 4: Do not subscribe to that.

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Speaker 6: I would send him in with a lunch bad full

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Speaker 9: That should place, you know, cocoa.

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Speaker 5: Coc What about coconut oil?

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Speaker 4: Oh that it was good too. That's the ship, are.

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Speaker 1: You suggesting asking?

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Speaker 4: I tell him he'll take your draws. He find his

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Speaker 4: hell so he'll look.

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Speaker 5: I'm not going nineteen women, it's legal.

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Speaker 4: He got he got his beard growing in. You'll never know.

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Speaker 4: And man, look like he already stops.

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Speaker 1: Soliciting your Sundays.

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Speaker 5: Okay, No, we're not. We're not talking about Desi's son.

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Speaker 3: But what would you fuck okay, like ninus circumstances jah

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Speaker 3: blah blah, Jen Jensen?

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Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry?

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Speaker 3: Would you fuck up with nineteen right now at thirty two?

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Speaker 3: If he was like fine us out and like look

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Speaker 4: Yes she would.

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Speaker 3: No, I couldn't never even be like a slight thrill

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Speaker 9: I haven't love that motherfucker. You just got to fuck

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Speaker 2: Like the lower the youngest person I've ever had sex

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Speaker 4: Like I just putting your whole name out, did No?

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Speaker 1: That ain't his name? Okay, I met him in Tuloom

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Speaker 1: and he's in a bay.

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Speaker 4: He wasn't.

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Speaker 6: Oh name too hot too. I just say you're doing names.

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Speaker 6: Nobody has a real name, no one. I don't even

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Speaker 4: Know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we call our niggas bass, so they are bad

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Speaker 2: even characteristic that they show plus a bed.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that is a nice approach.

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Speaker 6: I like that you used jan I don't know why

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Speaker 6: you're acting like you just that's amazing. I'm like, I

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Speaker 6: like the consistency of men also, so we're consistent.

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Speaker 1: Kind of.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I think I might do it nineteen

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Speaker 4: Wasn't you you will?

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Speaker 5: What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: I know you would.

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Speaker 4: Know.

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Speaker 5: Don't don't let me, don't go come into my eyes.

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Speaker 1: You're free spirited. You know you'll be down with the

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Speaker 4: Erica. I think I think Erica would do it, and just.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you tell me.

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Speaker 5: She would tell me like a week later, like when

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Speaker 7: Remember, remember the bus boy, remember the bust boy in

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Speaker 9: She'd be way past where she cares you are you

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Speaker 9: judging her? That's when she.

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Speaker 5: Tells you she knows I ain't judging her.

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Speaker 3: I don't have space to judge anyone. I don't judge

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Speaker 3: I can't. She knows too much of my business.

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Speaker 2: So you know, we're from La so we're really into

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Speaker 5: Now, I can judge you. Now, just wrap up your aries.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's your birthday?

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Speaker 4: April fourteen? Leo Sagittarius?

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Speaker 5: What's your birthday?

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Speaker 4: Sag November twenty eight?

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Speaker 5: Oh, my daughter's is the twenty seventh.

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Speaker 4: All right, I mean she's amazing, basically.

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Speaker 5: Basically, basically, I'll agree with you. I like I like

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Speaker 5: sage men in my past I have.

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Speaker 3: They're always like kind of mystery, mystery, mysterious, mysterious, the

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Speaker 6: Ain't that mysterious? Well, goddamn, what what do the signs.

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Speaker 4: Do for you? What it's done the best for you?

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Speaker 4: I understand it, but I'm not sure I get it.

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Speaker 2: So they just kind of give you a framework of someone.

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Speaker 2: It's not you can't judge everybody off of everything, but

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Speaker 3: So and a lot of times we're all different. We're

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Speaker 1: There's your moon.

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Speaker 3: Sign and your rising sign, which you appear as something

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Speaker 1: Emotionally or something else.

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Speaker 5: So there's a combination of things.

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Speaker 4: You're well, you actually make relationship.

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Speaker 2: I'm looking at I'm looking at does his face right now?

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Speaker 2: And he's like, okay, bitch, like I know everything about

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Speaker 1: He hates her.

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Speaker 12: I gave her some demographic information she sort of got.

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Speaker 12: She knew me for like ten years.

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Speaker 5: She could tell me about Did you think any of

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Speaker 5: it was true?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 12: Interestingly enough, she had me take this fucking test. I

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Speaker 9: Yes, yes, she had me do that.

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Speaker 12: And that's where the guys she had a session with

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Speaker 9: I was keeping ship bundled up, like well ship maybe

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Speaker 9: I am, you know what I mean. But of course

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Speaker 9: I gave you the bit for the doubt.

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Speaker 12: But it wasn't a man I just go five, you

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Speaker 5: Let me tell you what witchy bitches we are.

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Speaker 3: I literally just looked down at my phone and opened

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, nigga, I sure you've been asking for months.

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Speaker 5: I haven't. That's why we're having a conversation. I just

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Speaker 5: the niggas in my head.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, stay clear.

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Speaker 5: Whatchy bitches, we get you every time. Yeah, yeah, if

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Speaker 10: I mean, I've had people who are spiritual in nature. However,

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Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, Are you guys religious or

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Speaker 5: what are you guys?

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Speaker 13: Like?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 5: What's your religion?

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Speaker 4: Christian? Any certain penelcosta is what I grew up.

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Speaker 6: You know, I can't always distinguish the difference between some

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Speaker 4: I understand the spiritual, so I get it.

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Speaker 6: You know, I think to each their own, and I

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Speaker 4: In so I think that's all it comes down to.

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Speaker 12: Like I need the explanation for that. So for me,

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Speaker 9: We don't know about the.

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Speaker 10: Kind of God of course, you know so well yeah,

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Speaker 10: to the church game, right, I mean you're talking about

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Speaker 10: Saturday might be a revivals. You got Sunday school, you

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Speaker 4: She felt like you needed it right so night.

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Speaker 9: They couldn't give us the night off.

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Speaker 5: No, nope, we need Jesus at night too.

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Speaker 9: I went to church summer camp. Okay, so did we

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Speaker 9: it's called vacation.

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Speaker 5: Bible school budd me and warned you about insert witch

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Speaker 2: So speaking of this is actually a good way to

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Speaker 1: What are your views?

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Speaker 2: Because I mean, I don't know if they're influenced by

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Speaker 14: You want to take this first? Jesu or you got

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Speaker 14: in his mouth? I wish the city was in my mouth.

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Speaker 14: But listen, man, I believe.

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Speaker 4: It's possible. I believe it's possible.

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Speaker 6: I just believe that it's highly unlikely because what it

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Speaker 6: one woman would require a lot of work from that

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Speaker 6: that wants that amount of work.

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Speaker 5: Do you mean sexually?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bitches aren't putting enough work to make sure the

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Speaker 5: It's not physically possible.

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Speaker 4: I believe it is.

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Speaker 6: I just don't think it's been the uh what we've

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Speaker 4: You know, the proof is in the pudding.

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Speaker 1: I think, what do you need to not cheat? What

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Speaker 6: a lot of men receive love through respect. So I

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00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:30,600
Speaker 6: believe consistent respect, and I believe if you do all

454
00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:34,040
Speaker 6: of those things consistently, a man will not cheat and

455
00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:35,760
Speaker 6: a woman will say, yeah, I'm fucking him and I'm

456
00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:36,880
Speaker 6: doing this, and I'm doing that.

457
00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:37,720
Speaker 4: I hear you.

458
00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:39,600
Speaker 6: But he went on Friday night with his boys. Did

459
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:40,800
Speaker 6: you suck him off before you left?

460
00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:42,439
Speaker 4: Probably not? Probably not.

461
00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:44,520
Speaker 6: You see, you never let your man leave with a

462
00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,399
Speaker 6: full sack. Two days go by, and that nigga's not drained.

463
00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:48,240
Speaker 4: You already slipping.

464
00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:51,359
Speaker 6: If you want aigga the only think about you, you

465
00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,160
Speaker 6: have to maintain your shape.

466
00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:55,040
Speaker 5: How often does it resell?

467
00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 4: If a man is to only have eyes.

468
00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:02,600
Speaker 6: For you, you should look good, you should look you should

469
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:03,800
Speaker 6: look like the woman he met.

470
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 1: And so you're saying women be falling off and maybe getting.

471
00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,200
Speaker 4: Comfortable, and men do too. Men do too.

472
00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:11,640
Speaker 6: But if we're talking about cheating, I think in order

473
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:13,199
Speaker 6: to keep a man, you're gonna have to keep it

474
00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:18,199
Speaker 6: tight across the board, consistently, keeping it tight physically, sexually, emotionally,

475
00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:22,040
Speaker 6: keeping that vibe, and I think with the inconsistencies that

476
00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:26,600
Speaker 6: women tend to bring and I'm not trying to be yeah.

477
00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:29,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, and men do that ship too, I'm curious.

478
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:30,240
Speaker 1: You know like that.

479
00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:34,440
Speaker 2: So I think a lot of times whatever the woman,

480
00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:39,680
Speaker 2: a lot of times is fall unfortunately following the man's lead.

481
00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:41,600
Speaker 1: So I feel like.

482
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Speaker 4: You want to say we own it them.

483
00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:47,480
Speaker 2: I just want to say, like, y'all make just be

484
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:49,359
Speaker 2: doing ship to make us do want to fuck you?

485
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:53,919
Speaker 2: Like okay, Like i'd be like, like, why we're not

486
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 2: going on dates anymore?

487
00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 6: We're not doing it, as your question, and that's just

488
00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,440
Speaker 6: the problem there. Why it's difficult talking to me about

489
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,359
Speaker 6: that is I'm a good nigga, and I know what

490
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,080
Speaker 6: to do, and I'm romantic what you bring, so I

491
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:07,760
Speaker 6: know what I bring to the table a date. To me,

492
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:11,120
Speaker 6: I love dating. So you're talking to a different type

493
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 6: of nigga.

494
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Speaker 3: But I hear you though, well, you're also talking to

495
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,080
Speaker 3: two very different type of women, and that's why some

496
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:16,200
Speaker 3: of these things are saying.

497
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 5: We're rolling our eyes up because.

498
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 6: You suck this morning and I didn't get ahead this morning,

499
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 6: so I'm already you know what I'm saying so.

500
00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:26,040
Speaker 3: We're different type of bitches, and I'm exactly exactly are

501
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 3: you in.

502
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:27,399
Speaker 1: A relationship, Jessy.

503
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 5: That's a very easy question.

504
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:32,760
Speaker 1: I'm just curious.

505
00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 2: Because, like I thought, he said he had a live

506
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:35,520
Speaker 2: in hairstylist, so I'm trying to.

507
00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:35,959
Speaker 9: Figure it out.

508
00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 5: I didn't hear that.

509
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, okay, okay, but you are you in

510
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 2: a relationship?

511
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 4: What?

512
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:45,119
Speaker 12: What?

513
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:45,760
Speaker 4: What? Will?

514
00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:46,600
Speaker 9: And Jada call him?

515
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 1: Oh? Whoa wait?

516
00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:52,159
Speaker 5: Can I ask you guys a question? How old are you?

517
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:53,880
Speaker 4: Guys? I'm thirty eight.

518
00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 9: I'm sure not.

519
00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,639
Speaker 10: And you know, just take it up one more Matt Fordy,

520
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 10: I'm so uh.

521
00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:07,640
Speaker 3: This is how often it is good a good enough

522
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,400
Speaker 3: amount of times to have sex a week in your opinion?

523
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 9: Man, for me, probably three or four. I'm cool with that,

524
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:16,919
Speaker 9: cool with you.

525
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:20,080
Speaker 12: I mean, listen, this is assuming you're talking about a relationship,

526
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 12: a family situation right where there's other shit going on.

527
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 12: If you're talking about we're just single, we young, and

528
00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 12: there's nothing else, probably like every day that we're.

529
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,919
Speaker 9: Able, every day that we're able. But if we're in.

530
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:33,000
Speaker 12: A relationship, we married or we're together, probably three or

531
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,560
Speaker 12: four times. I think that's realistic. I think it's I

532
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 12: think he keeps a nigga from straying, honestly.

533
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,639
Speaker 1: So sex is the main reason why Nigga's strayed.

534
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:42,639
Speaker 9: Nah No.

535
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:44,640
Speaker 12: And I disagree with what Jeeze said a little bit

536
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:49,920
Speaker 12: because he said basically, if a woman's checking these boxes,

537
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 12: then then Nigga's not gonna do.

538
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 9: It's not gonna achieve.

539
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 12: I think what he's kind of saying is if she

540
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 12: checks those boxes for him, he would a cheat, right.

541
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 12: But I think there are dudes who have a woman

542
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 12: that respect them, who cooks and cleans and does all

543
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 12: the right things, and some easy pussy falls in their

544
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 12: lap and they fuck the easy pussy and it has

545
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 12: nothing to do with anything that a woman's not doing,

546
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 12: because I don't think it takes much for some dudes

547
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 12: to cheat, honestly, Like, I think dudes are programmed a

548
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 12: little bit different than women, And I think dudes are

549
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:23,160
Speaker 12: predisposed to not being monogamous, and I think it takes

550
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 12: a consistent effort on their part to be monogamous, whereas

551
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 12: I think women, not that they can't be all over

552
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 12: the place, but I think they're more more tuned towards

553
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,119
Speaker 12: being in that relationship as long as that man is

554
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 12: contributing everything that she feels like she needs from a man.

555
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 2: So I mean, I guess I agree. Are you married, Yeah.

556
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 1: I guess I agree with that. I just feel like.

557
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 2: Sometimes it has nothing, like you said, has nothing to

558
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,119
Speaker 2: do with women. Sometimes met are just insecure and need

559
00:24:56,600 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 2: actually extra validate, they need extra pussy.

560
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:02,160
Speaker 1: And I don't mean, I don't mean.

561
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:05,120
Speaker 2: I don't mean being insecure and needing extra pussy are related.

562
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 2: I more so mean that, like your woman is checking

563
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 2: off all the bloxes, you're sexually attracted, the pussy's bomb,

564
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,880
Speaker 2: You're still not fulfilled, So like you have to ask

565
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 2: yourself why why am I not fulfilled?

566
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

567
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 2: But also but for me that gets tricky too because

568
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 2: I don't necessary I don't believe monogamy is natural. So

569
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 2: I believe that as humans, we see things and we

570
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 2: want to fuck, oh shiny, and like that I want

571
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 2: to try, and we have been told that, like, no,

572
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 2: this is these are boundaries, the boundaries we're setting, we're structuring,

573
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 2: and this is what family is and all those things.

574
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 2: I'm not like, do I want to be in a

575
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 2: polyamous relationship? No, Like I'm possessive ass bitch.

576
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 1: Too, you know.

577
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 2: But I feel like the idea that like we're supposed

578
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:52,879
Speaker 2: to only have sex with one person, we once we

579
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 2: sit in front of people and tell the world we're.

580
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 1: Only because basically that's what a wedding is.

581
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Speaker 7: Like, hey, we're not anymore each other, everybody, let the

582
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:02,199
Speaker 7: world know.

583
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:05,159
Speaker 1: Really big announcements me.

584
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 4: Simplified.

585
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 1: Well, but like I think, like I think.

586
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 2: But but going back to the like why people cheat

587
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,359
Speaker 2: or even women like, you know, you can have a

588
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 2: great nigga too. You can have a man that's just

589
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 2: doing taking care of you, is the father of the year,

590
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 2: Like those things are possible too, you know, and she

591
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 2: might still be fulfilled.

592
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 3: Well, it's it's just it's just not it's not human

593
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 3: nature to only be attracted to one thing or one person,

594
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 3: you know.

595
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 5: Think of attraction.

596
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 8: Think of how we admire and love nature or trees,

597
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,679
Speaker 8: like it's like we we I've learned, as like a

598
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:45,679
Speaker 8: sexual person that I need to probably better scale what's shiny?

599
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: What looks good?

600
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 8: Do I need to sit on everything that looks good?

601
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 5: No? No, some things are just for looking at.

602
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 7: You know, but it would be it would be it

603
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,119
Speaker 7: would be a lie to go to get married and

604
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,920
Speaker 7: have a partnership with somebody and then pretend that suddenly

605
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 7: that switch gets turned off and you're not attracted or

606
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 7: turned on by any other person.

607
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 15: That would be we'd be both acting dumb as fuck

608
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:06,880
Speaker 15: to sit and agree with that.

609
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 3: That's why I'd rather be like, oh, he looked at it.

610
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 3: You know, I like girls. Let's talk about it.

611
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 5: She had a fat house.

612
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 4: You right to you?

613
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 3: Right, you're right, you know, like, let's be honest about it.

614
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 3: And I yeah, I don't know.

615
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,719
Speaker 6: Not gonna be with a man that is okay with

616
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 6: you sleeping with other men?

617
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:27,679
Speaker 5: I don't I don't know.

618
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 3: I don't want you to be okay with it, but

619
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 3: I don't want that to necessarily be a deal breaker.

620
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:39,199
Speaker 3: Our sexual appetites change. I like to like I have

621
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:43,199
Speaker 3: a high sexual appetite if I go on vacation and

622
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 3: I come back, like share our relationship in because like.

623
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 4: Vacation and vice versa.

624
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: Painting the visual the cruise, Why why would have to

625
00:27:55,480 --> 00:28:02,160
Speaker 1: be on the cruise? That is actually what.

626
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:02,640
Speaker 4: I would do.

627
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 6: If it goes both ways and you're open with him

628
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 6: about it, I'm sure you can find a man.

629
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 4: That agrees with that.

630
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 5: Look how reluctant he said it. I'm sure, I'm sure

631
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 5: there's a guy out there. I'm sure if you go

632
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 5: to helm back.

633
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 4: Whatever you're into, your into.

634
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:34,439
Speaker 5: But but but you never cheat, You've never cheated.

635
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 4: I've definitely cheated.

636
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I thought that's what you said.

637
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 4: I never judged, but.

638
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I think the standards are definitely different

639
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 3: for men and women, and a lot of men expect

640
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 3: to be forgiven and expected like, oh you don't you

641
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 3: don't just fuck because you know nikerd be honey and ship,

642
00:28:57,400 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 3: but like Nigga's brains are different.

643
00:28:59,760 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 6: You.

644
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 5: Oh, I just I don't care about her.

645
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 3: It's like, why can't we's horrible?

646
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 4: No, I don't think that.

647
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 5: I don't love her.

648
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 1: It was just one of the one night she pushed she

649
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 1: pushed up on I don't love that bit.

650
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 9: Right and again.

651
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, you literally gave a rundown of every response a

652
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 6: man could give in less than forty five We've heard Mom.

653
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 4: Turned them out.

654
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 9: She forget drug. I don't remember. I was drunk.

655
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that's all of course, that's yeah, I was drunk.

656
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, girls can't say that one because that just you're

657
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 2: gonna get rady you're gonna get raped.

658
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you also you are getting right, you don't

659
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 1: remember you were.

660
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 3: I'm so happy you said that because literally, like you

661
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 3: can't say that, like, oh, women can't say that.

662
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 1: You're just the dumbest bitch ever. If you were drunk, Yeah,

663
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 1: if you're drunk, I forgive your truth. It's so true.

664
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 4: It's sad though, it's sad.

665
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 8: It's and this is why, this is why you making

666
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 8: that face.

667
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 3: When you said so you expect your nigga just let

668
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 3: you fuck out of niggas when niggas often expects us

669
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 3: to let them just be fucking out her bitchous and

670
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 3: we're supposed to just.

671
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 6: I don't think that men expect it, and I don't

672
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 6: think a woman should take it if you don't want it.

673
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 6: You know, niggas fuck up if you a man, fucked up.

674
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 6: If you don't want to.

675
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 4: Take it, leave them.

676
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 6: Most women tend to forgive, and you know that's where

677
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 6: the double standard kicks in. But I don't agree that

678
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 6: it's okay if a man does it.

679
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 4: It's all fucked up.

680
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 10: And honestly, what I really think it is is the

681
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 10: hyper sensitive to a man's ego. I think men are

682
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 10: much more hypersensitive as it relates to their ego and how.

683
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 4: Because it's so important to us.

684
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 6: It's important for our survival, right our for but a

685
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 6: woman born strong, I'm talking about four tough like y'all

686
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 6: can't handle that and it doesn't bruise your ego the

687
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 6: same way that it would do a man.

688
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 4: That's what we should ask them.

689
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 1: We just we just keep going, keep trying.

690
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 4: But I mean, just like that's the perfect point. I mean,

691
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 4: you are strong, it's a strong you.

692
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 1: Know, it just shows up differently.

693
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 2: Then it just turns into us hating other women versus usually.

694
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 1: A nigga is not gonna hate the man. He's gonna

695
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 1: hate the woman.

696
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 2: He'll probably the man, but he's not like women will

697
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 2: full on hate you for life if you yeah, forever.

698
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 2: Whereas with them, I feel like, what the dude, they're

699
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 2: gonna be like, man, she's a hope, right right. I'm

700
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 2: not gonna get mad at a man for doing it because.

701
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 1: That's what men do, right right exactly.

702
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 6: So I don't know, it sounds like a lose lose

703
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 6: situation for y'all, yeah, but I.

704
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 3: Do I believe in monogatly some people could do it

705
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 3: I could probably do it if I was like, I

706
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 3: believe in that too.

707
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 5: If I I don't wonder, I really won't stray.

708
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 3: If I'm being fucked enough, being cared for, being communicated

709
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 3: with being respected.

710
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 1: You know, you fuck me enough, and I'll be clicking

711
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 1: and cleaning and taking the kids.

712
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 5: You I'll be so happy I'll be if you'd be

713
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 5: nice to me and be nice to me.

714
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,280
Speaker 4: Give me. So.

715
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 5: I'm a simple girl. You know, I'm a simple gal.

716
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 3: I don't need a lot, but I does. It does

717
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 3: it's a balance of having all of those things.

718
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 2: I know that I can be monogamous because I've been

719
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 2: in a monogamous relationship. I was monogamous, he was not monogamous.

720
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 2: So but I always felt in my core, even during

721
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:36,720
Speaker 2: my monogamy that I was.

722
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 1: Like like this, what can we just like?

723
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 9: How about you?

724
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 11: Do you?

725
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 1: I can do me?

726
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 2: But there was not enough trust. There was no trust.

727
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 2: There wasn't enough trust for us. Yeah, there was enough

728
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 2: trust to do that, but I feel.

729
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 3: Like trust, man, have you guys have you guys done

730
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 3: that before in your relationships ship?

731
00:32:56,680 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 6: And I can only wish, but because I think in

732
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 6: all honesty giving those out and I'm not saying you

733
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 6: passing them out like you know coupon from McDonald's which

734
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 6: coming out weekly. I'm just saying, like you're passing it

735
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 6: out once every five years, once a year, maybe just

736
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 6: a little hall pass man, get it at your system.

737
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 4: What's what's the difference between that and a purge day.

738
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 4: I mean, think about it. We just want one day

739
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 4: to purge, you know what I'm saying, get all.

740
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 6: The evil out of us so that we could be

741
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 6: good Americans.

742
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 1: Can't evil? Oh my god.

743
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 3: Okay, So you know what this makes me think of

744
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 3: is like I feel like, imagine that like being married

745
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 3: my whole year, five years, just waiting for this one weekend,

746
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 3: like just like pour it out, like I.

747
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 5: Can't wait at December second, can't.

748
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 3: Wait, you know, perfect right like eight am, wake up.

749
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 5: Massage, Charlotte.

750
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 3: I just you know what, because I think at heart,

751
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 3: I do want something monogamous.

752
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 8: That's what I want, that type of relationship.

753
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 3: But I think when you give someone the freedom to

754
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,239
Speaker 3: be and it's not like I'm like the puppy, I'm

755
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:12,719
Speaker 3: squeezing you like a puppy syndrome. You're online, no one

756
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 3: else can have you, then it's like you're free to

757
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 3: be you and you're doing you and I'm doing me.

758
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 3: And like, as soon as you turn that corner, I

759
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 3: don't have to worry about where you're going on who's

760
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 3: taking you. I know you're going to come back and

761
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 3: circle back and find me. Like we have this friendship

762
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 3: and this love and this partnership that like you can.

763
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,320
Speaker 1: Of course, people want to be attractive.

764
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 5: You might see know what, you might fuck up, you know.

765
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 1: And then but really when you don't have that, like.

766
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:37,359
Speaker 3: You're not tripping on these hose, because the truth is, hey,

767
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 3: really shit out here.

768
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:40,280
Speaker 5: I'll tell you.

769
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 3: Know, I've seen the hose attracted in all the hose.

770
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 1: I bey on tender, I be on hand.

771
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 3: I have my alerts on for women and women just

772
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 3: to see what's going on out there. And it's just

773
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 3: really not much out here. So if you just let

774
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 3: your partner have the respect and the freedom of ipective

775
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:01,719
Speaker 3: respecting me, not make me look crazy out here. Don't

776
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 3: let anybody be coming out here telling me, you know,

777
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 3: and if you develop feelings for somebody, let's talk about it.

778
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 1: You know. I think that's what it is.

779
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 4: For me.

780
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 1: It's just communication. Like I said, Like I don't want

781
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 1: to have like a polygamous relationship.

782
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 2: I'm possessive, like I want, I need to know that

783
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 2: our love is exclusive, and like you're not. You don't

784
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 2: share this connection with other people, like the other stuff,

785
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,399
Speaker 2: like the sex stuff, Like you know, we can work

786
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 2: that out.

787
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 1: To me, Like, I don't.

788
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 2: Is it going to be a free Are we just

789
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 2: fucking n Like we might we might only ever have

790
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 2: sex with one person in like five years, but just

791
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 2: the idea that I can't And I'm like, I'm like

792
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 2: Jamila too, Like if I'm sexually satisfied and we're good,

793
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 2: I'm all into you, like I'm about you.

794
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,360
Speaker 1: I mean, that's kind of all I need.

795
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 2: But i'd also I'm realistic about a long term relationship

796
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:46,319
Speaker 2: and your needs start to change and then you.

797
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 1: Start to just I don't know. I just feel like

798
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 1: it's a natural. It would be it's a natural.

799
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:55,359
Speaker 2: Instinct to be attracted to people and to I don't know,

800
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 2: Like I believe that you can love more than one person.

801
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 1: Now do I want my partner to go love a

802
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 1: bitch and be fall in love?

803
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 15: No, But I feel like I feel like I feel

804
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 15: like you can't you also can't help if your partner

805
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 15: is going to fall in love with someone, and I

806
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 15: would much rather be in a position where you're that

807
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 15: happens and you're like, yo, you're my friend and I

808
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 15: respect you to so much.

809
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:15,879
Speaker 3: I want to let you know that I'm having these

810
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 3: feelings because the niggas will go to work and have

811
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 3: a whole relationship with a bitch at work for two

812
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 3: years and ship and you know you have fallen.

813
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 5: In love and really let go of me and moved on.

814
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 6: And I don't even you really wanted your nigga to

815
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 6: come home and like, listen, I met this chick.

816
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 4: The vibe is right. I don't want us to end,

817
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 4: but I don't want to see what this goes.

818
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:37,720
Speaker 9: To you.

819
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,959
Speaker 2: And yeah, because I yeah, because I've had the other way.

820
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:43,359
Speaker 1: I've had that way.

821
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 2: He just so like, what do you mean, Like, do

822
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 2: I really want my nigga to lie behind my back

823
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 2: and fuck these bitches? And yeah, like I've already done

824
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 2: that part, Like yeah, nigga, I would like to try

825
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:56,440
Speaker 2: the other where.

826
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 4: I at least put it like that. And any man

827
00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 4: that's listening to this right now, first off.

828
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 10: They think you're a unicorn with glitter and you already

829
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 10: up here every twelve years, right.

830
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 6: But the reality is if if they know that there

831
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 6: are women out there like that, I think they're going

832
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 6: to be more ed to asking and and digging to

833
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 6: find out if they can they can find that type

834
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:23,760
Speaker 6: of woman. Because any man, any decent man with good intentions,

835
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 6: they'll gravitate to that.

836
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 4: I think.

837
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 2: I think a lot of women have this. Most women

838
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:31,439
Speaker 2: are have this in them. It's just like we don't.

839
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:35,439
Speaker 2: We don't have these conversations. We don't feel vulnerable enough.

840
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 2: We think that if we admit that we're okay.

841
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 1: With this, you might look at us differently. O'll take advantage.

842
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 1: That's what a lot of niggas do.

843
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,359
Speaker 3: You give a nigga an inch, They take him out

844
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 3: and said, oh I could do a what and then

845
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 3: you know, yeah, But it's like, you have to be

846
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:50,840
Speaker 3: an adult.

847
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 5: You have to know how to be an.

848
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 1: Adult and not abuse.

849
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 5: You know, the freedom and respects me.

850
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 4: Are you going to keep sucking him throughout this?

851
00:37:59,560 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 1: What?

852
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 6: Are you going to continue to have sex with him

853
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 6: while he's still dealing through Oh, if he's in love.

854
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 5: Or whatever, I don't know.

855
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 6: Everybody tells you he's exploring, he's feeling. How where does

856
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 6: that stand for you and him? Do you continue to

857
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 6: have sex? Do you continue to you know, vibing?

858
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:18,319
Speaker 5: I don't know. This is the thing.

859
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that, Like I might hear this and

860
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 2: and be totally like cool happy, Like I might be

861
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 2: completely heartbroken. You said you want to love somebody, and

862
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 2: like you're in love and you're about to go go to.

863
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: Fucking explore that. I don't know if he'll but like

864
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 1: I just feel.

865
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:37,280
Speaker 2: Like it's just it's more about like being a human

866
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 2: and like a sharing if we're going to be in

867
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,439
Speaker 2: a relationship, like let's actually be in like a real

868
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 2: humanistic relationship where we talk to each other and like

869
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 2: we communicate with one another and we don't take away

870
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 2: our options, you know what I mean, Like you rob

871
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 2: me of my choice when you lie to me, you know,

872
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 2: and vice versa.

873
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 1: And I feel like at the core of a relationship,

874
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 1: that's really what I want anyway.

875
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 2: I want someone that I feel like I can really

876
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:02,920
Speaker 2: share anything with and like.

877
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 3: I'm not going to be judged. I'm not going to

878
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:08,480
Speaker 3: be like ridiculed, You're not going to disrespect me. We're

879
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 3: going to be It's like, you.

880
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:10,399
Speaker 8: Know, not all.

881
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 1: I'm not for everybody, you know, and that's cool. I

882
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:13,799
Speaker 1: don't want to be for you.

883
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 5: Then I can't make myself any other way.

884
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 1: Yeah and yeah, so I don't know, but so we asked.

885
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 2: Speaking of relationships, we we talked about We've talked about monogamy.

886
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:28,839
Speaker 1: What about like the breaking up?

887
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:32,280
Speaker 2: Right, Like breaking up with people can be this really

888
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 2: scary and awkward and terrible.

889
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:40,399
Speaker 1: Thing or funny. I'm not good at it.

890
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 3: I'm not a good breakup for you know, you just

891
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:44,839
Speaker 3: avoid I just avoid it, just wait till they break

892
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:45,279
Speaker 3: up with me.

893
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:49,400
Speaker 6: That is a tactic, though, I mean it's not a

894
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:52,399
Speaker 6: good one that that's that weighted out game, like there's

895
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 6: a hosted negotiation and you are going to attempt to

896
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 6: wait them out, right.

897
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 5: But not anymore.

898
00:39:57,640 --> 00:39:57,879
Speaker 4: I don't.

899
00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 5: I think I've grown out of that.

900
00:39:59,040 --> 00:39:59,359
Speaker 1: I hope.

901
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 2: I think I've I'm a dramatic breaker upper, like and

902
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:04,240
Speaker 2: we had to just hate each other for a while,

903
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 2: like we gotta just we had to go out in

904
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 2: a burning flame, Like burning flame, you go with the bank.

905
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was like, we're done for real.

906
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 12: Huh, even even if the breakup wasn't caused by any wrongdoing,

907
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 12: just to realize that you guys were in the right relationship.

908
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:19,800
Speaker 8: I've never had that.

909
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 5: Talking all this mature shit.

910
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 2: But also I've only ever been I've only i haven't

911
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:27,840
Speaker 2: been in that many relationships.

912
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:29,879
Speaker 1: All my relationships are pretty long term.

913
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:32,800
Speaker 2: Like I had a boyfriend like right out of college

914
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 2: for like three years, and another one for like five years.

915
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:39,799
Speaker 2: My baby daddy I was with for seven years, So

916
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:43,279
Speaker 2: they were very invested relationships. So when they ended, they

917
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 2: were gonna either we were gonna peace amicably or it

918
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:49,040
Speaker 2: was gonna be on some fiery ship. And I'm a scorpio,

919
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 2: so you know, And so yeah, my breakups have always

920
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 2: been really overly dramatic.

921
00:40:59,320 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 6: You know.

922
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:02,759
Speaker 12: You know, I think when it comes to breakups, I

923
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 12: think it's just a realization of the obvious, you know,

924
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 12: in the last part, the last kind of portion of

925
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 12: what we were talking about. I think, if you're in

926
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 12: a relationship with the right person, then you don't have time,

927
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 12: effort energy for anything else. And if you have time

928
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 12: effort energy for something else, you're not in the right relationship.

929
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 12: So once you come to that realization, the breakup is

930
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:23,719
Speaker 12: just getting back some of your time for efficiency safe.

931
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 9: Because this ain't the motherfuck I'm supposed to end up

932
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:26,839
Speaker 9: with anyway, you know what I mean?

933
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 1: So it's true.

934
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:31,440
Speaker 5: Time will tell if you don't want to put it

935
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:33,479
Speaker 5: in the energy and the effort. It's not the one.

936
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 2: I feel the same way as only as I get

937
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 2: older my time though, like I would would we send

938
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 2: so much time in relationships before, like at least I knew.

939
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,439
Speaker 2: I mean I knew for at least like six months.

940
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,879
Speaker 2: It was like this ship wasn't working, you know, before

941
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 2: I broke up?

942
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 4: How did you end it?

943
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 1: Now?

944
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 4: End it?

945
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 1: What?

946
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 4: How did you end it? So you said you end

947
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 4: up that relationship?

948
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it was just he gave me no

949
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 2: way I could stay basically.

950
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 4: Of course, that's another tactic the menu.

951
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 5: Oh but this was did you ask? Did you ask

952
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 5: God for that? I feel like all all of the

953
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 5: really endings of relationship I knew there I kind of.

954
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 3: Then I asked God, like, please do something that no

955
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 3: matter what I can't They did.

956
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 1: Not ask God for that. I for sure did not ask.

957
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:17,279
Speaker 3: Not that, but like not that, but like something so

958
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:20,319
Speaker 3: bad that it would like it was like to show

959
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 3: the truth and if it and then it gets so

960
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 3: bad and you're like fuck, I did ask God for this,

961
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:26,360
Speaker 3: this truth telling, and then it's like the worst way possible.

962
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 5: Every time I do that, God's like, here you go, bitch.

963
00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 5: You keep pretending like you don't see it. Have about now?

964
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 9: Hey, have you guys ever ghosted anyone?

965
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 12: I mean as opposed to having like just a straight

966
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:45,800
Speaker 12: up adult conversation with him, just like literally stopped talking

967
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 12: to them.

968
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 9: And why did you do that? Why did you think

969
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 9: that was? Okay?

970
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 1: Oh? Like a lot like someone Okay, what okay? Is ghosting?

971
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 6: Like?

972
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: I met a n at the club and then he

973
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 1: called me and I didn't call him back? Or is

974
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 1: this like long to like we've dated for like maybe

975
00:42:57,000 --> 00:43:01,479
Speaker 1: a month or two and then disappeared? Yes, because yes

976
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 1: I might have yeah kind of Yeah.

977
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:09,359
Speaker 9: Why why I've done it?

978
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 2: Because I'm inconsistent and I've only really done it one

979
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:13,399
Speaker 2: time and it was the the.

980
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:15,880
Speaker 1: Broke Bay.

981
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 4: You just.

982
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: Broke back.

983
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 4: McDonald's.

984
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 5: That's what.

985
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 1: That's what the little dairy car you let you.

986
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 4: Besides that, I don't act like that.

987
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: I'm not proud of that name. Okay, I'm not. I'm not.

988
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 4: I feel it's accurate.

989
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 2: I've grown a lot since then.

990
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:44,840
Speaker 3: Last eighteen months, I've done a whole lot anyway.

991
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:45,319
Speaker 4: So you broke up with did you break up with him?

992
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 2: Because we okay, we we finally like we we dated

993
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 2: and like he was like he was super fine and

994
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:55,319
Speaker 2: I was like I'm not. Like we met on through Instagram, right,

995
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:56,839
Speaker 2: and then we hung out and then I.

996
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 1: Was like, yeah, he looks like his pictures, but like

997
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 1: the vibe, it just wasn't. I couldn't.

998
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,919
Speaker 2: There was something that like wasn't working and I don't

999
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 2: know what it was. Because he was attractive. I was

1000
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 2: attracted to him, and so I kept going on dates

1001
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 2: with him for like probably like about a month and

1002
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:13,800
Speaker 2: a half, and like we would kiss and like finally

1003
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 2: we had sex and.

1004
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 1: The sex was really good.

1005
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 5: And the sex and I understaid this story. This was always.

1006
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 9: It was sex was a girl. I couldn't stand them.

1007
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 1: Wait, there was all there's the pheromones. There was a

1008
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,400
Speaker 1: pheromone thing like you smell not really like there was

1009
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 1: like a scent.

1010
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:39,560
Speaker 6: That he had kidding me right now, took his ass

1011
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 6: and the diller's and fucking tried everything on in that mother.

1012
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:45,320
Speaker 4: It didn't want to return.

1013
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:51,360
Speaker 1: It was not you can't do anything with someone scent. Okay,

1014
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 1: it's just there. And like you know, when you like

1015
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 1: really fun with someone and you are all love the

1016
00:44:57,560 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 1: way they like, you want to be in their face

1017
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:07,399
Speaker 1: and ship. Yeah, like imagine meeting someone where you're like

1018
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: you don't smell, but you're just not my smell, like

1019
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 1: I'm not. Sometimes it's like greasy respect.

1020
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:21,319
Speaker 4: Anyway, I would not know it was like on this

1021
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 4: level right here.

1022
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 2: Pheromones, It's a real thing. Yes, So anyway, we had sex.

1023
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:30,319
Speaker 1: And I just I don't know.

1024
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 2: After that, I just like stop calling him, just stop

1025
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:39,040
Speaker 2: responding to him, like yeah, he would like text me

1026
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 2: and be like what's up. Like way, we didn't really

1027
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 2: talk like all the time, like every day, so it.

1028
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 5: Was easy to stop.

1029
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 1: It was easy.

1030
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 6: I was just like okay, yeah, but that was text one,

1031
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 6: you know, take care of you.

1032
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:56,399
Speaker 2: Just we've since talked. We've since talked. It took about

1033
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 2: a year and a half.

1034
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's sometimes I feel like, why don't need to

1035
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 3: spell it out for you?

1036
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,239
Speaker 1: No, that just wasn't nice. I was that was not well.

1037
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 5: I don't really I don't even do a month and

1038
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:09,320
Speaker 5: I don't I don't.

1039
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 1: I don't condone ghosting, but I feel like niggas do

1040
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:13,879
Speaker 1: that ship way more than women anyway, So I really

1041
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 1: don't feel that bad that.

1042
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:20,840
Speaker 9: Before the gentleman, when you guys done that before?

1043
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,760
Speaker 1: Have I been ghosted? Yeah? Ghosted?

1044
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:28,839
Speaker 6: Everybody ghosts before you have geez, go toost.

1045
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:30,919
Speaker 4: Ghosting is a go to.

1046
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:33,520
Speaker 1: Ghosting is a go.

1047
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 6: To you'd rather avoid and and that's just sad, but

1048
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:39,360
Speaker 6: it's the reality.

1049
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:40,680
Speaker 3: What do you mean You don't want to be like, oh,

1050
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:42,719
Speaker 3: I just fucked you. I didn't really want anything more.

1051
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:45,279
Speaker 6: You don't want to say that, Well, you know, I

1052
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 6: haven't done that, you know, in a long time, so

1053
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 6: I really shouldn't speak in that way.

1054
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 4: But when I did do.

1055
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 6: It, it was just I thought it was obvious it

1056
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 6: was sex and nothing more.

1057
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 4: So you know how that ship go Like here.

1058
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 6: You were feeling he was feeling you. You weren't feeling

1059
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 6: him like that, and he just had to take the

1060
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:05,440
Speaker 6: That's really what it comes down to.

1061
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:08,719
Speaker 9: Let me ask you a question, though, Is there a certain amount.

1062
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:10,400
Speaker 12: Of time after which you have an obligation to that

1063
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 12: person because you've occupied so much of their time for

1064
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 12: whatever that defined period.

1065
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 6: Is a month or two, I should have told that nigga, Hey,

1066
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:21,360
Speaker 6: I wasn't feeling you know what I'm saying.

1067
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 3: I agree, like a month or two, I'll be in

1068
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 3: consistent even with the dates. If I got to like,

1069
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:27,880
Speaker 3: I'm not even going to be as consistent as a

1070
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 3: month or.

1071
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:34,120
Speaker 6: Two and you couldn't text that, Nigga, I'm not feeling you.

1072
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 9: That's broke Bay. That's broke Bay.

1073
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:39,800
Speaker 4: So that's that's broke Why.

1074
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 13: Mommy burger, that's a classic. You know, he was trying

1075
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 13: to classy burger place. Mommy is like very loud.

1076
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 4: Never taken a chick for a burger.

1077
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 5: It's a very class It's not.

1078
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 9: You didn't care about her. You have if you didn't

1079
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 9: care about it?

1080
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:05,719
Speaker 2: Is there is there like a minimum like do you

1081
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:07,719
Speaker 2: feel as men like if you're taking a woman on

1082
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 2: a date, there's like a like a men maximum you

1083
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:13,840
Speaker 2: would spend or like a minimum like you know that

1084
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:16,760
Speaker 2: you can't spend under this amount, like I think.

1085
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:18,879
Speaker 9: I think it depends on how much you like her.

1086
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 12: Honestly that in terms of the budget, like every droll

1087
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:22,400
Speaker 12: don't get the same budget.

1088
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:25,360
Speaker 5: That's true.

1089
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true, I would imagine.

1090
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:29,240
Speaker 4: So, yeah, that makes sense.

1091
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 6: Sometimes women just get lucky too, right, I want to

1092
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 6: try this new restaurant. You know, I want a little

1093
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:38,240
Speaker 6: on candy, So I'm going to take your ass along.

1094
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 6: I just want to love company and I want anyway.

1095
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 6: You just get to ride to ride. So sometimes it's

1096
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 6: not necessarily you're worth the money more than he just

1097
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:50,120
Speaker 6: wants to experience.

1098
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:54,759
Speaker 4: That's true.

1099
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 3: Are anything married or just oh you're married?

1100
00:48:59,880 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 4: Right?

1101
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:04,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys are intended to entanglement both.

1102
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 5: Of your ment Okay, are you single?

1103
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 1: Are you in a relationship?

1104
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 4: I'm in a relationship. Okay, I'm a relationship.

1105
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 1: How long have you been? I was single for three years.

1106
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:26,400
Speaker 5: You said it, you know, I said it, but yourself.

1107
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:29,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the longest I've ever been single with my

1108
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 2: whole life. But yes, I'm very proud of that.

1109
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:33,440
Speaker 4: I did it because you did it on purpose.

1110
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:36,759
Speaker 1: Well, I did it on purpose. And then like I

1111
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:39,400
Speaker 1: was having a good time and I was like, and

1112
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:39,719
Speaker 1: then I.

1113
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 2: Just didn't have the capacity to like open myself up.

1114
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 2: I would just like I just I had like I

1115
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,279
Speaker 2: was dating with a kid for the first time. It

1116
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:49,959
Speaker 2: wasn't just about me anymore, Like do I really fuck

1117
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 2: with you? Like it was just yeah, but I have

1118
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 2: a boyfriend now, So you know that's we both we

1119
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 2: both recently aren't boyfriend boyfriend girlfriends.

1120
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:05,880
Speaker 4: Did you say boyfriends and girlfriend.

1121
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:09,799
Speaker 1: Girlfriend But we are girlfriends. We are girlfriends two boyfriends.

1122
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:13,720
Speaker 5: You can tell we're not used to being in relationships.

1123
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 16: I know, Grandma girlfriends, guys girlfriends.

1124
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:28,319
Speaker 2: I don't know what I just said right now. I

1125
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 2: have no clue what I I gotta work on that.

1126
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 2: I gotta work on that speech.

1127
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, brou because if I was, if I was standing

1128
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 6: right beside you, man, we're gonna have.

1129
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:39,360
Speaker 4: A strong conversation when we get back to the house.

1130
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 5: That's where the guys we both have boyfriends.

1131
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 6: Oh, you got it on the third try, that's for sure.

1132
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:46,319
Speaker 6: I got you.

1133
00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 9: Try.

1134
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 5: It's new. They're new. They're new boyfriends from like the

1135
00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:53,600
Speaker 5: last three months.

1136
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:56,359
Speaker 12: So every time y'all say that, y'all look at each

1137
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:59,719
Speaker 12: other like, I don't know what about you.

1138
00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:03,840
Speaker 1: No, I love my boyfriend. I have a boyfriend.

1139
00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 4: I love him already.

1140
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:07,160
Speaker 1: I do.

1141
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:09,400
Speaker 4: I do love him.

1142
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:14,880
Speaker 5: M M, I feel like bridesmaids. No, it's true, I do.

1143
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:16,919
Speaker 5: I do.

1144
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 1: Too much.

1145
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:21,400
Speaker 4: Weed.

1146
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 5: This is great?

1147
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 4: Weed?

1148
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:23,279
Speaker 1: Is there more?

1149
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:26,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, don't do that.

1150
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:30,560
Speaker 9: Us like that. We know it's great.

1151
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:36,840
Speaker 2: We wait so speaking of breakups, we're talking about breakup.

1152
00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: I don't even know because'm kind of kind Okay.

1153
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 2: So we we asked some of our followers listeners to

1154
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 2: tell us their breakup stories, and we have some.

1155
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:51,319
Speaker 1: We have one, we have, We've got a few good ones.

1156
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:55,480
Speaker 1: We're only gonna read one and uh, this one.

1157
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 4: What are you doing?

1158
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 1: I'm just doing like a little how do you say?

1159
00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:01,360
Speaker 1: A picture for the Okay, everyone's.

1160
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 4: Mile, I'm mad, I.

1161
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:09,320
Speaker 5: Did it.

1162
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:11,800
Speaker 4: Okay.

1163
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 2: So this this girl wrote us and told us that

1164
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 2: she was dating the Sky and she was tired of

1165
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,760
Speaker 2: his ass and so he really wanted to go to Asia.

1166
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:23,720
Speaker 2: So she bought him a ticket around her ticket to Asia,

1167
00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 2: sent him to Asia Philippines, the Philippines specifically, and then

1168
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:33,759
Speaker 2: canceled his returns. It was like his lifelong way and

1169
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:36,319
Speaker 2: he couldn't afford to come back for a year.

1170
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 3: The only reason he came back and says the government.

1171
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 3: He overstated his visa and the government paid for him

1172
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 3: to get shipped back.

1173
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 4: He couldn't afford to come back for a whole year.

1174
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:48,360
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm sure the nigga probably was like, whatever,

1175
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 2: he's so bad here, let me just stick you brought

1176
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 2: me mess some Filipino mommy.

1177
00:52:56,760 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 4: He spent he tricked that off thirty times. Mm hmm. Man,

1178
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:04,359
Speaker 4: and that's that's that's kind of hard right there.

1179
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 2: I was like, I told her, I said, damn, bit,

1180
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 2: you are cold.

1181
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 9: I'm not a crazy type, but you do that to me.

1182
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:16,600
Speaker 9: I won't find you talk about this. You're gonna talk

1183
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 9: about this.

1184
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 12: I'm not gonna put my hands on you, per se,

1185
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:20,719
Speaker 12: but we're gonna talk about this year.

1186
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:21,839
Speaker 6: A year later, you're coming.

1187
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:23,280
Speaker 1: Fine, we might send someone.

1188
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:25,840
Speaker 9: I'll never forget you left me.

1189
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:29,000
Speaker 3: I was like, that's the coldest ship I ever heard.

1190
00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 3: You're about a nigga a plane ticket to get out

1191
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 3: your face.

1192
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:37,000
Speaker 2: Man, speaking about talking about ghosting, that's the ultimate ghost God, Yeah,

1193
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 2: it is.

1194
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:43,360
Speaker 5: What about you, guys.

1195
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 4: I'm gonna carry this one for the rest of my life.

1196
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:47,319
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna start threatening. I'm gonna start threatening

1197
00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 1: my niggas. I'll send you.

1198
00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:51,359
Speaker 5: I'll send you and you'll think it's a vacation too.

1199
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:55,880
Speaker 9: Worst break what's your worst breakup?

1200
00:53:56,000 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 6: Jez Man, I'm telling you I have never been broken

1201
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:04,400
Speaker 6: up with. Man, I have never been broken up with

1202
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:05,959
Speaker 6: I cannot speak from that press.

1203
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 2: You are just you are perfectly romantic. I'm checking out

1204
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 2: all the boxes.

1205
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:13,400
Speaker 1: No one has ever broken.

1206
00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:17,360
Speaker 6: Up relationship accordingly, and I do what I'm supposed to,

1207
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:20,320
Speaker 6: and they typically want to stay. And that's not bragging,

1208
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:21,360
Speaker 6: that's just anybody.

1209
00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:23,440
Speaker 5: I need some numbers. I'm need a roster.

1210
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 1: I need a referral.

1211
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:25,280
Speaker 5: Referral.

1212
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 2: I guarantee that that's a real like somebody has somebody

1213
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 2: has your reading glasses.

1214
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:37,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I don't have a breakup story, but I

1215
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:38,080
Speaker 6: have been cheated on.

1216
00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 4: And I remember when she cheated on me. I told her.

1217
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 6: I was like, look, I don't want to end the relationship,

1218
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:45,920
Speaker 6: like can we still be together?

1219
00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 1: Wow? You love?

1220
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 2: Wow, Wow that must have been some good pussy wow,

1221
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:54,080
Speaker 2: because that does not happen often.

1222
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:57,200
Speaker 6: It was amazing, and I stayed with her. She heated

1223
00:54:57,239 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 6: on me again, right, so like me respect and I

1224
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 6: ended this right her again about six months later, very

1225
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 6: like you know, I'm established college, I start my career job,

1226
00:55:13,680 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 6: My money is pretty good, Like I'm ready to see

1227
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 6: this whole is pregnant as fuck, like four months she.

1228
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:21,840
Speaker 5: She pops up, doesn't.

1229
00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 4: Say she's just pregnant, pregnant, pregnant by another nigga. She's

1230
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 4: but were you think? No, no, no, no, I know.

1231
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 6: So she says, hey, you know, I know I'm pregnant

1232
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:35,359
Speaker 6: out of y'all, but I missed this, I missed us

1233
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 6: out of y'all.

1234
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 4: Can you can we be together? Listen to me? I

1235
00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:39,359
Speaker 4: told her.

1236
00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 6: I said, yeah, if you want to be together, kill

1237
00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:43,720
Speaker 6: this baby because she's like two and a half months pregnant.

1238
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:48,560
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, you could say.

1239
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:51,320
Speaker 5: This is the Christian.

1240
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:56,840
Speaker 2: We can be together just killing Bible, school nights, school,

1241
00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:58,000
Speaker 2: summer camp, Bible.

1242
00:55:58,080 --> 00:56:00,760
Speaker 5: Can't this is what happened ship.

1243
00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:01,600
Speaker 1: Your mama's paid.

1244
00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 4: No, it's fine, listen. We're not always happy without decision.

1245
00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 6: So after she says no, of course she's going to

1246
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 6: keep the baby, I proceeded to fuck the ship out

1247
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:18,600
Speaker 6: of her just for you know, general principle.

1248
00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:19,880
Speaker 5: And general principal.

1249
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:22,759
Speaker 4: Yeah you what you know? And I moved on. So

1250
00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:24,440
Speaker 4: I kind of sold her like, yeah, yeah, we can

1251
00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 4: do something. Let's go.

1252
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:25,680
Speaker 9: You know.

1253
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:28,920
Speaker 2: Oh she thought that there was a cheer let her

1254
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:36,240
Speaker 2: on just to you know, Smash went pregnant. Yes, that's

1255
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:39,400
Speaker 2: that's like a like a part two break up, like

1256
00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:40,319
Speaker 2: she probably thought y'all.

1257
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:42,319
Speaker 5: She was probably he was gonna he was like he

1258
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 5: was getting her back for the second cheating too.

1259
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:47,719
Speaker 6: Yeah, that was a baby. We got to talk about

1260
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:49,360
Speaker 6: the baby. That was the third incident.

1261
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 1: She was bold, she was.

1262
00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:54,439
Speaker 5: Bold up bold, pregnant, she's showing she was better.

1263
00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:59,800
Speaker 4: I'm not saying a little bit, a little bit made it.

1264
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 4: That made it a little hard.

1265
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:03,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, he wanted that pregnant person. He was curious, like,

1266
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:05,920
Speaker 5: you don't say we have any of you guys ever

1267
00:57:05,960 --> 00:57:06,400
Speaker 5: had sex.

1268
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:08,960
Speaker 1: With a pregnant woman that like, isn't your isn't your baby?

1269
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:14,520
Speaker 4: No? No, Jesus ever, that was.

1270
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:16,800
Speaker 1: Not besides her another one?

1271
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, and how many she was five?

1272
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:24,600
Speaker 1: What was that like? Did you rub her belly? Like

1273
00:57:24,720 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 1: was it a turn on? Or was it weird? Like

1274
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:27,280
Speaker 1: did it turn you on?

1275
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:29,720
Speaker 6: Not weird at all? Rubbed that belly? You know what

1276
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:31,320
Speaker 6: I'm saying. It was it was awesome, you know what

1277
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 6: I'm saying.

1278
00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 5: She probably needed that love at that time.

1279
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1280
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:34,920
Speaker 4: I gave it to it too.

1281
00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:36,840
Speaker 1: I'm so glad you exist.

1282
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:39,640
Speaker 3: I mean, I imagine being like, I don't know if

1283
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 3: she was single, I'm hoping so whatever. I'm just like

1284
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 3: imagine like needing love being pregnant.

1285
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:47,440
Speaker 1: Just imagine needing love.

1286
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:49,240
Speaker 5: Sometimes you just need love when you're pregnant.

1287
00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:53,160
Speaker 4: Ship, definitely, you guys got another one?

1288
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 1: No, do y'all have one?

1289
00:57:58,040 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 3: Are you?

1290
00:57:58,240 --> 00:57:59,120
Speaker 1: Are you going to share one?

1291
00:57:59,560 --> 00:57:59,680
Speaker 9: I do?

1292
00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 4: I share one too. I'll share one too.

1293
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:05,960
Speaker 10: So I don't know if you know, but like boys, like,

1294
00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:10,440
Speaker 10: we hold grudges from like young right, so shit shit

1295
00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:12,680
Speaker 10: can happen to us, and we'll hold baggage from the

1296
00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 10: age of seventeen and eighteen. So I'm gonna give you

1297
00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:17,040
Speaker 10: one of my young man's stories.

1298
00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 4: Right.

1299
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 6: So I'm dating this girl. She's Trinidadian. She finally tells

1300
00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 6: she had a huge body downtown queen, you know. And

1301
00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 6: you know I was in the tenth grade and she

1302
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 6: was in twelfth grade. So for me, this was like

1303
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 6: the biggest come up. Everybody coveted at her, you know

1304
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 6: what I'm saying, And so when she chose me, I

1305
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:45,080
Speaker 6: was just like, all right, so me and I'm doing

1306
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:47,960
Speaker 6: all this shit. Man, I'm saving lunch money giving it

1307
00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 6: to this chick and everything.

1308
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:49,720
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

1309
00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 6: You know that's tenth grade shit, right, taking on picnics,

1310
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:55,400
Speaker 6: all this type of stuff.

1311
00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 10: So she goes off to college, right, and so she

1312
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:01,760
Speaker 10: swears up and down like this is the love of

1313
00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 10: her life. This is real. Like she's like, I'm going

1314
00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:06,760
Speaker 10: to wait for you when you get to college. We're

1315
00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:11,280
Speaker 10: gonna link back up. It's gonna be everything. So, uh,

1316
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:13,680
Speaker 10: I'm talking about maybe six months later.

1317
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:19,480
Speaker 6: I got I got something in the mail and it's uh,

1318
00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 6: it's from her. So I'm super excited. We're supposed to

1319
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 6: be going to Disney World. We in the van, I'm

1320
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 6: in the back. I'm cozy, I got I got my

1321
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 6: package with me. Man, I'm about to make this trip

1322
00:59:29,160 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 6: by everything that's supposed to be right. So this is

1323
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:36,000
Speaker 6: back in the day when you know, people used to

1324
00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 6: record cassette tapes to deliver their message.

1325
00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 4: I don't know, I do remember those, yeah, man.

1326
00:59:42,040 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 6: When you had to when you had to press the

1327
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:48,080
Speaker 6: boat the buttons and yeah yeah, and then they captured

1328
00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 6: that jam and they might make a monologue on front

1329
00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:52,640
Speaker 6: of it, on the front end of it, you know how.

1330
00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:55,960
Speaker 6: I go back in the day ship so I have

1331
00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 6: my Sony walkment in. I was like, oh, ship my

1332
00:59:58,640 --> 01:00:01,000
Speaker 6: Buddha and gave me a tape. It's about to be

1333
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 6: the turn up. So I put it in, I pop

1334
01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:05,080
Speaker 6: it in and she comes on.

1335
01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:10,280
Speaker 11: And she has this very monotune, sad voice, and then

1336
01:00:10,280 --> 01:00:12,440
Speaker 11: she dropped her dear john let on her brother, just

1337
01:00:12,520 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 11: like listen, I know I said I'd be with you,

1338
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 11: but I can't.

1339
01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:23,640
Speaker 4: So so she was like, but this.

1340
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:27,640
Speaker 6: Song is really going to tell you how I feel.

1341
01:00:27,680 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 1: So a breakup playlist, just.

1342
01:00:31,200 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 4: One song, and she repeated over and over on the cassette.

1343
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:40,320
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying was up. But and you know,

1344
01:00:40,440 --> 01:00:42,480
Speaker 4: she could have gave me a whole explanation, but she's.

1345
01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:46,680
Speaker 2: Like, wave, this is like a beautiful breakupkup.

1346
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:49,360
Speaker 4: So then she she she she.

1347
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 10: Leaves this song by Johnny and it's called everything Happens

1348
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:57,520
Speaker 10: for a Reason, and it literally keeps saying that.

1349
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:59,520
Speaker 4: That's what they say, everything happens for her. I was like, really,

1350
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 4: this bitch, this to me, this is what you want.

1351
01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:03,640
Speaker 6: So I'm in the back trunk and I'm going like

1352
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:06,840
Speaker 6: this and my mom is Jamaican, so we're Jamaican.

1353
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:11,880
Speaker 9: So she said, are you fucking kidding? I'm podcasting. Are

1354
01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:13,280
Speaker 9: you take a picture?

1355
01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:16,959
Speaker 4: So, so d take yourself off?

1356
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 9: So I just I'm tucked the camera because I didn't

1357
01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:20,480
Speaker 9: know the fuck you.

1358
01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 6: Damn oh ship, Like, what's going on right now?

1359
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:28,160
Speaker 5: I him, I want to hear.

1360
01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:32,959
Speaker 4: We're gonna have to get that story back from then.

1361
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 10: So either way, I'm crying in the back and my

1362
01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 10: mom's screaming about are you all right? And so later

1363
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:42,600
Speaker 10: I come to find out she gets it. She gets

1364
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 10: to college. I get to college.

1365
01:01:44,880 --> 01:01:48,560
Speaker 6: She hits me up, uh, and she says she's been

1366
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:49,960
Speaker 6: in an abusive relationship.

1367
01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:51,960
Speaker 4: She's been in too, you know what I'm saying.

1368
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,600
Speaker 10: So and she's just saying the best time I ever

1369
01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 10: had in my life, or the.

1370
01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:58,880
Speaker 4: Time I felt loved was you. And then you know,

1371
01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:00,320
Speaker 4: I said, well whatever.

1372
01:02:00,760 --> 01:02:02,919
Speaker 10: She hits me up one time, says I'm in town,

1373
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:05,440
Speaker 10: left something my voice message saying she's upstairs at a

1374
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 10: friend's house who I didn't know lived in the complex.

1375
01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 10: And the same thing that Jezu just did when he

1376
01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 10: got his revenge sex. And she said, and before she

1377
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,960
Speaker 10: allowed me to hear it, she was like, I only

1378
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 10: want you to take it if you'll tell me it.

1379
01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:23,040
Speaker 4: I only want you to take it if you still

1380
01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:24,720
Speaker 4: love me. What do you think? I said?

1381
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 6: Of course, I love you, girl, don't I loved you?

1382
01:02:29,400 --> 01:02:34,200
Speaker 5: I knew we found our way back to each other.

1383
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:39,640
Speaker 6: Like I cat and then as she slept, as she

1384
01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:47,680
Speaker 6: laid it. Yeah, I don't think people are breaking up

1385
01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:51,400
Speaker 6: the same these days, you know, unless you're may be married,

1386
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:54,240
Speaker 6: you know. I think that's more of a real breakup

1387
01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 6: these days, people just getting missing.

1388
01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 1: I did recently some guy kind that like ended it

1389
01:03:00,720 --> 01:03:00,960
Speaker 1: with me.

1390
01:03:01,040 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 2: Remember that was remember that guy like I would hanging

1391
01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:04,840
Speaker 2: out with the New York every now and then, and then.

1392
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:06,720
Speaker 1: Like we were like we weren't really a thing. And

1393
01:03:06,720 --> 01:03:08,760
Speaker 1: then he called me to tell me like, hey, it's

1394
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:12,640
Speaker 1: just not working. I was like, who was it. I'll

1395
01:03:12,640 --> 01:03:14,840
Speaker 1: show you his picture, but I was like, we don't

1396
01:03:14,880 --> 01:03:18,920
Speaker 1: even really be talking. Though I appreciate you. I remember,

1397
01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:21,880
Speaker 1: it was a whole official it was a whole conversation,

1398
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 1: a thing. And I was like, this is strange.

1399
01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:31,240
Speaker 2: We've had sex three times in six months. But yeah,

1400
01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:33,320
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess, but I appreciated it. I thought

1401
01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:35,480
Speaker 2: it was weird, but also like it was cool, like.

1402
01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:39,000
Speaker 1: I have no questions. There's no questions here, We're not unclear.

1403
01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:45,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, and then try to place the title relationships or

1404
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:49,280
Speaker 6: are you finding that they're pretty free flowing as far as.

1405
01:03:49,160 --> 01:03:52,120
Speaker 4: That goes just casually vibing.

1406
01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:54,840
Speaker 1: And fucking putting a title.

1407
01:03:55,360 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, you find men like hey trying to lock you down?

1408
01:03:58,360 --> 01:03:59,840
Speaker 6: Or is this like everyone's just cool.

1409
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:02,240
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people want open relationships

1410
01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:02,960
Speaker 1: Los Angeles.

1411
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:05,400
Speaker 3: It's mostly been casual except for these two guys we

1412
01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:06,200
Speaker 3: just started dating.

1413
01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 2: The guy that I'm dating now blocked me down. Yeah,

1414
01:04:09,640 --> 01:04:11,360
Speaker 2: they are aggressive about it, but it blocked me the

1415
01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:13,800
Speaker 2: fuck down. He was very clear about what he wanted,

1416
01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:15,520
Speaker 2: and that's what I meant.

1417
01:04:16,320 --> 01:04:19,360
Speaker 9: But what made you get into that though? It wasn't

1418
01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:21,160
Speaker 9: obviously no.

1419
01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:23,880
Speaker 1: It wasn't. I think I felt, like I've talked about

1420
01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 1: this before, is that.

1421
01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:26,680
Speaker 2: I felt safe, Like he made me feel safe, like

1422
01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 2: I trusted him.

1423
01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 1: I I just we just vibe.

1424
01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:34,840
Speaker 2: We have a great energy together that is just really

1425
01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:36,440
Speaker 2: special and unique.

1426
01:04:36,680 --> 01:04:39,640
Speaker 1: And he had possesses a lot of the qualities and a.

1427
01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:43,320
Speaker 2: Man that I I've met along the way, Like I

1428
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:46,840
Speaker 2: feel like there's been a lot of I've met people

1429
01:04:46,840 --> 01:04:49,000
Speaker 2: along the way that have led me to him and

1430
01:04:49,080 --> 01:04:52,200
Speaker 2: to understand exactly what it is that I want, what

1431
01:04:52,240 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 2: I can do without, you know, And it just felt

1432
01:04:56,000 --> 01:04:57,840
Speaker 2: like I don't know, I don't know I don't know

1433
01:04:57,880 --> 01:04:59,720
Speaker 2: how else to describe it, except that it felt like

1434
01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 2: it made sense.

1435
01:05:02,240 --> 01:05:04,520
Speaker 1: It just made sense to me. I wasn't scared. I

1436
01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:05,880
Speaker 1: wasn't scared to do it.

1437
01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:10,440
Speaker 9: Question no, no, go ahead, I was gonna say.

1438
01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:13,320
Speaker 12: So, you talked about the things that led you to

1439
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:16,720
Speaker 12: this man. If you would have met him, assuming you

1440
01:05:16,760 --> 01:05:19,320
Speaker 12: weren't in another relationship, if you would have met him

1441
01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:21,960
Speaker 12: five or six years ago, would you have been ready

1442
01:05:21,960 --> 01:05:22,400
Speaker 12: for him?

1443
01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:24,160
Speaker 9: And would he have been a man that you would

1444
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:24,880
Speaker 9: have selected?

1445
01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:26,040
Speaker 4: No?

1446
01:05:26,320 --> 01:05:34,240
Speaker 1: Absolutely not, nope, no, yeh nah, I wouldn't. I would

1447
01:05:34,240 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 1: have thought he was too sensitive or like.

1448
01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:42,840
Speaker 2: My idea of what a man was or yeah, it

1449
01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:48,000
Speaker 2: was is like an alpha male that takes control that

1450
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:49,840
Speaker 2: people kind of fear a little bit.

1451
01:05:50,520 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 1: That's the thing. I'm attracted to narcissists. I've been attracted

1452
01:05:53,440 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 1: to narcissist. A lot of narcissists are alphas mhm.

1453
01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:05,000
Speaker 2: And a lot of that is because there's an immense insecurity,

1454
01:06:05,280 --> 01:06:08,800
Speaker 2: you know. And so the guy that I'm dating now,

1455
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:13,920
Speaker 2: I would say is an alpha, but he's like a feminist.

1456
01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:18,360
Speaker 2: So it's a little different, like it's he's not gonna

1457
01:06:18,360 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 2: he doesn't assert his alpha onto me and he knows

1458
01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:23,760
Speaker 2: I'm an alpha female. He lets me be that, and

1459
01:06:23,800 --> 01:06:26,040
Speaker 2: it's I don't ever feel. I feel like true alphas

1460
01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:30,680
Speaker 2: can coexist like because of so like I think that's

1461
01:06:30,680 --> 01:06:32,800
Speaker 2: what I found, you know, and like I know that

1462
01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:34,880
Speaker 2: I'm attracted to the alpha male for sure. I like

1463
01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 2: the man that can shift the room when he when

1464
01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:41,080
Speaker 2: he enters, you know, like that his energy is powerful

1465
01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:43,160
Speaker 2: because mine is and I don't want to be known

1466
01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:44,919
Speaker 2: no week weak energy.

1467
01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:46,320
Speaker 4: Have a motherfucker so.

1468
01:06:48,800 --> 01:06:51,240
Speaker 6: Energy, and he and you have no problem giving into

1469
01:06:51,280 --> 01:06:53,440
Speaker 6: his and that's why I can work. I definitely agree

1470
01:06:53,520 --> 01:06:56,480
Speaker 6: that two alphas can be together. And it's funny to

1471
01:06:56,520 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 6: me that you brought up you thought he would be

1472
01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:00,960
Speaker 6: too sensitive. I think I think a lot of women

1473
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:03,560
Speaker 6: as they mature, they find that they want a man

1474
01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:08,160
Speaker 6: that is not only sensitive, but that communicates well. I

1475
01:07:08,160 --> 01:07:10,320
Speaker 6: think that you weren't ready for him years ago, but

1476
01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:12,760
Speaker 6: you are now because you offer that young girl shit

1477
01:07:13,280 --> 01:07:15,919
Speaker 6: when like you know, you said your baby daddy's a thug,

1478
01:07:16,000 --> 01:07:19,440
Speaker 6: Like you thought that bravado and that fucking swag was

1479
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:22,680
Speaker 6: the ship when really a lot of it is bullshit.

1480
01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:24,800
Speaker 2: So all right, I mean, I know slights of him

1481
01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:26,280
Speaker 2: because like I was in love with him and he

1482
01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:29,040
Speaker 2: possessed he there's a lot of qualities in him that

1483
01:07:29,120 --> 01:07:32,600
Speaker 2: are now requirements you know, in these in these other relationships.

1484
01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:34,720
Speaker 2: Like that's what I'm saying, Like that I had, like

1485
01:07:34,880 --> 01:07:37,640
Speaker 2: they led me to this person because like I needed

1486
01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 2: all those parts, even the unnecessary thug shit, you know,

1487
01:07:43,960 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 2: to know.

1488
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:44,960
Speaker 5: That you don't need it.

1489
01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:46,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm good. Yeah.

1490
01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:51,160
Speaker 2: Horror Stories Yeah, okay, so you guys, I think we

1491
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:53,200
Speaker 2: told you. We have a segment on our show called

1492
01:07:53,240 --> 01:07:54,080
Speaker 2: horror Story.

1493
01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:03,960
Speaker 5: Who story in certain moons here? In certain moones here

1494
01:08:04,440 --> 01:08:05,640
Speaker 5: we have a drop and it's.

1495
01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 2: Like, oh, horror Stories.

1496
01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:14,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, we made it ourselves.

1497
01:08:14,560 --> 01:08:15,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, we did it.

1498
01:08:15,120 --> 01:08:17,720
Speaker 2: We recorded the track, which we did some moaning on

1499
01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:19,200
Speaker 2: the track alone one night together.

1500
01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:20,120
Speaker 1: It was really weird.

1501
01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:23,519
Speaker 4: How did you capture that energy? Did you just have to?

1502
01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:25,080
Speaker 5: It's just like just like it right now.

1503
01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:31,800
Speaker 1: It's got into thinking about our sex sounds I thought

1504
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:32,519
Speaker 1: would help.

1505
01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:33,360
Speaker 4: With that, but I got it.

1506
01:08:34,640 --> 01:08:36,519
Speaker 5: Would you like, wouldn't you like that?

1507
01:08:36,720 --> 01:08:39,320
Speaker 1: We turned on a little bass and me were a

1508
01:08:39,320 --> 01:08:41,120
Speaker 1: little year.

1509
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:44,120
Speaker 2: We were just on my couch one day, like group,

1510
01:08:44,400 --> 01:08:46,800
Speaker 2: we just started touching each other pussy like that's what

1511
01:08:46,840 --> 01:08:48,439
Speaker 2: we next, morn into the microphone.

1512
01:08:48,520 --> 01:08:49,280
Speaker 1: That's what girls do.

1513
01:08:50,800 --> 01:08:52,760
Speaker 9: He has a smile so big since the podcast started.

1514
01:08:53,120 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 3: Say oh, if I only knew, it's so not like

1515
01:09:00,160 --> 01:09:02,160
Speaker 3: that in the shower talking ship.

1516
01:09:07,280 --> 01:09:09,800
Speaker 1: So anyway, so do you one of you guys want

1517
01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:15,599
Speaker 1: to share a horse? Sorry? Who's Who's who's offering themselves

1518
01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:16,280
Speaker 1: up as tribute?

1519
01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:19,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say Gez definitely, you know from the from

1520
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:21,400
Speaker 2: the things you've said on this conversation, I'm like, he

1521
01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:23,080
Speaker 2: definitely has a horse.

1522
01:09:23,160 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 1: You Yeah.

1523
01:09:25,960 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 4: I mean, I've done some nasty day.

1524
01:09:30,000 --> 01:09:36,320
Speaker 6: I've had a chick I was dealing with and she

1525
01:09:36,400 --> 01:09:39,519
Speaker 6: came through. We took a little trip and she came through,

1526
01:09:40,439 --> 01:09:44,519
Speaker 6: and uh, I left to go hit another chick that

1527
01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:45,040
Speaker 6: I knew.

1528
01:09:46,120 --> 01:09:48,240
Speaker 1: And wait, you let does she know you were leaving

1529
01:09:48,320 --> 01:09:48,599
Speaker 1: to go?

1530
01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:49,920
Speaker 4: He didn't know that.

1531
01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:51,639
Speaker 1: Where did she think you were going?

1532
01:09:51,960 --> 01:09:53,720
Speaker 4: Just to go catch a vibe with a homie? You

1533
01:09:53,760 --> 01:09:54,120
Speaker 4: know what?

1534
01:09:54,120 --> 01:09:54,599
Speaker 1: The wait?

1535
01:09:54,680 --> 01:09:57,840
Speaker 2: So she was staying at your house and then you

1536
01:09:57,920 --> 01:09:59,720
Speaker 2: left her at the house to go catch a vibe

1537
01:09:59,760 --> 01:09:59,880
Speaker 2: with the.

1538
01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:01,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was like, you know, I'm gonna smoke one

1539
01:10:01,720 --> 01:10:02,720
Speaker 4: with the homie. I'll be back.

1540
01:10:04,439 --> 01:10:07,800
Speaker 6: So I left there, And worst part is I took

1541
01:10:07,840 --> 01:10:14,160
Speaker 6: her car. Yeah, niggas ain't ship. And I took her

1542
01:10:14,240 --> 01:10:19,479
Speaker 6: car and went and hit the next hole. And then

1543
01:10:19,520 --> 01:10:23,599
Speaker 6: I came back and hit her. And then I had

1544
01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:27,679
Speaker 6: another chick when she left, Man, I take I can't

1545
01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:29,439
Speaker 6: bake this sh up. When she left, I had a

1546
01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:34,240
Speaker 6: chick stopped by randomly. I can say her name because

1547
01:10:34,240 --> 01:10:35,640
Speaker 6: I don't know her last thing. I couldn't tell you

1548
01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:36,559
Speaker 6: about where.

1549
01:10:36,400 --> 01:10:42,559
Speaker 2: She is right now, they stick thy flat stomach.

1550
01:10:43,120 --> 01:10:45,519
Speaker 6: She would always pop up at my crib randomly. I

1551
01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:48,880
Speaker 6: stayed in an apartment right behind campus, and she would

1552
01:10:48,920 --> 01:10:51,320
Speaker 6: always pop up randomly, like hey, what you doing, And

1553
01:10:51,360 --> 01:10:53,880
Speaker 6: I'd always say nothing, and she pushed me in and

1554
01:10:53,920 --> 01:10:56,599
Speaker 6: start fucking me. She popped up right after the other

1555
01:10:56,680 --> 01:10:59,280
Speaker 6: chick left. Keep in mind already fucked her. Didn't even

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01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:04,680
Speaker 6: take a shower, and I kendrew right down to right

1557
01:11:04,720 --> 01:11:06,240
Speaker 6: on my cops. She didn't even make it to the room.

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01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:08,160
Speaker 5: So you had three puss season one.

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01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:11,320
Speaker 4: Day season one day and no shower, no shower.

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01:11:11,520 --> 01:11:15,400
Speaker 9: That's not that's a good I've had that, But I

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01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:21,519
Speaker 9: had a shower. I'm not as nasty showered hy.

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01:11:23,600 --> 01:11:25,040
Speaker 4: I never got the opportunity.

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01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:28,160
Speaker 6: It would have been suspicious coming back from my boy's house,

1564
01:11:28,720 --> 01:11:29,200
Speaker 6: you know what I'm.

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01:11:29,120 --> 01:11:31,680
Speaker 3: Saying, and to take a shower like I just like

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01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:33,519
Speaker 3: I was, like I was, I don't know.

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01:11:35,320 --> 01:11:39,280
Speaker 1: No, I don't think we would. I think bitches think

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01:11:39,320 --> 01:11:39,600
Speaker 1: they do.

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01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:42,599
Speaker 2: Would some might, but I think a lot of women

1570
01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:45,120
Speaker 2: really think they do. And how many times y'all have

1571
01:11:45,240 --> 01:11:47,720
Speaker 2: y'all fucked the bitch right after another one and she

1572
01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:49,800
Speaker 2: had no clue and it was business as usual, and

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01:11:49,880 --> 01:11:52,920
Speaker 2: she ain't even still don't know, probably still don't know

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01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:54,400
Speaker 2: good night.

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01:11:56,040 --> 01:11:59,200
Speaker 10: I mean, because you have to really be sniffing dick

1576
01:11:59,360 --> 01:12:01,679
Speaker 10: to create a form of calibration system.

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01:12:03,200 --> 01:12:06,439
Speaker 2: They michael wash their dick off and the want They're

1578
01:12:06,439 --> 01:12:08,920
Speaker 2: definitely gonna wash the bird bath, the whole bath in

1579
01:12:08,960 --> 01:12:10,920
Speaker 2: the bathroom.

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01:12:11,240 --> 01:12:11,519
Speaker 1: Wow.

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01:12:11,920 --> 01:12:16,040
Speaker 6: I have another whole story too, the same that got pregnant,

1582
01:12:16,080 --> 01:12:21,800
Speaker 6: that fucked me over years later, I fucked her her

1583
01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:26,000
Speaker 6: first cousin, the younger for her. Your first cousin was

1584
01:12:26,040 --> 01:12:29,439
Speaker 6: probably like twenty years old, And I fucked her cousin

1585
01:12:30,360 --> 01:12:33,200
Speaker 6: so fucking gladly too, busting them and everything.

1586
01:12:34,360 --> 01:12:34,679
Speaker 4: I knew.

1587
01:12:34,680 --> 01:12:36,559
Speaker 6: Her cousin always low key liked me, you know how

1588
01:12:36,560 --> 01:12:37,479
Speaker 6: that little ship vibe.

1589
01:12:37,479 --> 01:12:39,280
Speaker 4: And she was grown woman now ship.

1590
01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:42,519
Speaker 1: Okay, jeez, okay, calm down.

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01:12:43,600 --> 01:12:45,160
Speaker 6: So when I tell you, if I, if I were

1592
01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:47,280
Speaker 6: to sit here and keep going, I give y'all ten

1593
01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:47,760
Speaker 6: more of those.

1594
01:12:48,040 --> 01:12:50,880
Speaker 1: Oh I like fully loaded.

1595
01:12:53,479 --> 01:12:54,479
Speaker 5: I'm not mad at it.

1596
01:12:54,960 --> 01:12:58,120
Speaker 1: We're gonna do a of Geni's.

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01:12:57,720 --> 01:13:05,879
Speaker 2: Horris horse Shop Jesus Little Shop of Horries.

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01:13:06,240 --> 01:13:09,880
Speaker 4: Oh I like that. That's good. Brandon right there? Oh

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01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:10,479
Speaker 4: my god.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you guys, well, thank you for joining us, for

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01:13:15,680 --> 01:13:20,439
Speaker 2: sharing your some what I would assume will be some

1602
01:13:20,560 --> 01:13:26,920
Speaker 2: unpopular opinions from from the man with the red curtain

1603
01:13:27,080 --> 01:13:27,879
Speaker 2: behind him.

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01:13:28,400 --> 01:13:29,599
Speaker 5: The Man with the Red Curtain.

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01:13:32,400 --> 01:13:34,080
Speaker 1: Can you tell our listeners where they can find you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

1607
01:13:35,240 --> 01:13:38,760
Speaker 10: They can find us on from a social standpoint, on Facebook,

1608
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Speaker 10: on Instagram, at Brunch with the Boy, at Brunch with Boys,

1609
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Speaker 10: on Twitter, at Brunch.

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01:13:46,120 --> 01:13:47,479
Speaker 4: Underscore, Boys with a Z.

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Speaker 10: We're on YouTube, We're on Apples, Spotify, any insta platform, yeah,

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Speaker 10: any major platform you want to listen to. We drop

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Speaker 10: episodes weekly and and it's as live as this show was.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, make sure go check them out. These niggas are

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Speaker 1: just kind of fine.

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Speaker 2: Go check our Patreon if you guys know where to

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Speaker 2: follow us on Instagram Good Mom's Underscore, Bad Choices. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: go check us out on Patreon. You can watch this

1620
01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:23,599
Speaker 2: episode there. We also have bonus episodes that we don't

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01:14:23,640 --> 01:14:24,759
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1623
01:14:27,840 --> 01:14:29,920
Speaker 1: can go to our Instagram click the link in our bio,

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Speaker 1: or you can.

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Speaker 5: Thank you so much.

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