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Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning, the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 2: Morning.

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Speaker 3: Everybody is DJ n V, Jess, Larry Scharlamaine the Guy.

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Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club. We got some special guests

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Speaker 2: in the building from Bold and Bougie, Crystal and Tamika Foster.

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Speaker 2: Welcome ladies.

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Speaker 1: Hey y'all, good morning. What a title Bolden Boot I

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Speaker 1: mean you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean like, did y'all Did all of y'all

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Speaker 4: know each other before?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Because it's it's Crystal, it's Tamika, it's Malaysia.

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Speaker 6: And Princess Precess. I always missed it up. Sorry, Princess bad,

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Speaker 6: but you know I love you.

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Speaker 7: Did y'all know each other?

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Speaker 8: Like?

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Speaker 4: We all friends?

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Speaker 6: I knew of Malaysia.

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Speaker 9: We've been to like some birthday parties together, but it's

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Speaker 9: my first time me and all the ladies.

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Speaker 10: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Well, Princess and I were cool.

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Speaker 5: She tried to get me on Housewives a few seasons

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Speaker 5: and I don't know. I thought it was gonna be messy,

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Speaker 5: but I guess it's still messy where we are some

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Speaker 5: type of way.

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Speaker 4: The fire pan.

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Speaker 2: So what is Bold and Boogie about if we haven't

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Speaker 2: seen it?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I think all reality shows have the same premise.

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Speaker 5: They followed the lives of each of the cast, so

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Speaker 5: they just follow us around each of our different lives.

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Speaker 5: Like she owns a restaurant, I have a clothing business,

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Speaker 5: and I have books and this and that, and they

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Speaker 5: follow us and then they have us come together and

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Speaker 5: argue about ship.

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Speaker 4: We don't know that we're arguing about why did you say?

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Speaker 4: Why were you late to my event?

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Speaker 5: Because I'd be like, because my name ain't on the cake,

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Speaker 5: it's not my birthday, like it's that kind of thing.

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Speaker 2: So why did you decide to do it?

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Speaker 3: Because if ya knew it was gonna beefing and and

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Speaker 3: you know what, they're gonna put it on TV. They

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Speaker 3: ain't gonnaut the night stuff. Theyin't gonna put your restaurant packed,

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Speaker 3: they ain't gonna put your No, they.

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Speaker 9: Did, they did a good job of showcasing our business

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Speaker 9: and stuff like that. But for myself, I did it

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Speaker 9: because like I'm getting back out here, you know, single mom,

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Speaker 9: and so I'm getting to my bag period and that's it.

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Speaker 9: That's all my only focus period.

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Speaker 5: So why didn't you You know, some some wives they

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Speaker 5: choose to keep the last name of the man.

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Speaker 4: Why didn't you keep the last names.

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Speaker 9: Well, he's not known as Neil Smith and those are

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Speaker 9: my name, so it was an easy decision.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean people didn't know his name though he's

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Speaker 5: not known and that's not what they called him.

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Speaker 4: But people do know his last name. Why you didn't

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Speaker 4: keep m I keep. I still use Raymond. It's easier.

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Speaker 4: It's easier to use Raymond.

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Speaker 5: But on social media, I dropped it because they would

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Speaker 5: be on my page, like he got rid of you,

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Speaker 5: he signed them papers, you got to them. But my

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Speaker 5: kids have the same name, my passport. It's just so

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Speaker 5: much to change that stuff. Your credit cards, your bank accounts,

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Speaker 5: your passport, your social security.

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Speaker 4: Got that kind of time trying to be in lighten

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Speaker 4: where like social media want me to change my name.

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Speaker 5: Only black community really trip off of that. Yeah, think

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Speaker 5: about it. We be mad. That's because they're fans of

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Speaker 5: the artists, so they think that we took their husbands.

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Speaker 4: And it's just.

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Speaker 1: Tell us more about these niggas.

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Speaker 7: I like when people had those conversations.

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Speaker 5: Not seriously though, it's only the black community that like

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Speaker 5: flip out over because you'll see the Hiltons and people

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Speaker 5: like that. They'll keep the same last name. It doesn't

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Speaker 5: matter matches their children. Black people be so worried about

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Speaker 5: your last name, and.

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Speaker 9: It becomes your brand after a while, you know what

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Speaker 9: I'm saying. So I'm not gonna let let that go

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Speaker 9: for for social media.

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Speaker 1: Also, people people always want drama.

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Speaker 10: So if they think y'all not together, they think you're

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Speaker 10: keeping the last name ya, that's right on.

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Speaker 4: At all except these cheering that's it. That's all like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: that's it. Well, congratulations on your restaurant business.

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Speaker 1: Girl.

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Speaker 4: The first episode of Bold Bougie.

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Speaker 6: You doing music, That's something I do for fun.

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Speaker 9: You know you've heard some of they played with that scene.

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Speaker 9: They played hard with that.

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Speaker 4: You're not taking it serious?

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Speaker 6: No, it's just something I do for fun.

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Speaker 4: Okay. And but but you got a name and everything VVS.

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Speaker 4: What's up?

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Speaker 6: So I mean, why not ride with it?

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Speaker 4: Vv Jesus, I thought she was about to really really

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Speaker 4: drive something.

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Speaker 6: No, she got I.

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Speaker 5: Got like Hella songs like yeah and you So you're

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Speaker 5: that's something that you're never going to do.

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Speaker 6: I don't. I don't think. I mean, I'm thirty seven.

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Speaker 6: I mean, you know, so I don't want to.

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Speaker 4: Be like a pediatric repper. I got on there too.

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Speaker 9: I have so many things out on my plate right now.

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Speaker 9: That music is just like you know, it's it's it's

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Speaker 9: a slow like build to making money, and I need

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Speaker 9: I need the bag to come quicker than that, because.

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Speaker 7: Reality if you be helping her like the overall brand

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Speaker 7: of everything.

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Speaker 5: So the reason why I even agreed to do it

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Speaker 5: is because I have a clothing line, Eli Kish and

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Speaker 5: then of course my books, and so I was hoping, yeah,

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Speaker 5: here I stand in white bras and now have an

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Speaker 5: animated book coming out soon, and so I was really

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Speaker 5: hoping that it would really spotlight my businesses. And I

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Speaker 5: think it did. Yeah, it did a little bit. I

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Speaker 5: just think that they didn't get the like they want,

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Speaker 5: the drama of it. So like I had a fashion show,

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Speaker 5: for example, and we had too much power running, so

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Speaker 5: the generator, I mean, the lights went down for a second.

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Speaker 5: They highlighted that five seconds of the lights going down,

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Speaker 5: like it was a did they not pay their bill?

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Speaker 4: I'm like, come on. It was at an art gallery

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Speaker 4: and bucket.

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Speaker 5: It was fine and it was nice, but they made

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Speaker 5: it seem like instead of showing the clothes and how

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Speaker 5: beautiful the models were and all that, they didn't focus

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Speaker 5: on any It was a really nice show.

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Speaker 4: It was a great show, and the clothes were banging, of.

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Speaker 6: Course, so it hurts.

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Speaker 4: It didn't hurt, It just didn't help.

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Speaker 5: It was like, damn, we put all that money into

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Speaker 5: the fashion show and you know, selecting the models and

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Speaker 5: the makeup and the hair, and you guys want to

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Speaker 5: show the five seconds that the lights went out, that

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Speaker 5: that's what you wanted to focus on.

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Speaker 4: Could y'all ever like have meetings or art? Is it

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Speaker 4: like complaints to someone that.

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Speaker 6: You know the group chair.

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Speaker 9: Let me tell you this one with the group chat

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Speaker 9: we get we get a message every day and is long.

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Speaker 6: I don't read none of that. Love you to the

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Speaker 6: group chair. Take me out of it.

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Speaker 5: I go off giving whole dissertations.

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Speaker 1: Who get a seven minute person?

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Speaker 6: She will write you, you see, she likes to write.

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Speaker 2: Writer.

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Speaker 6: She will write chapters. But I think that it's I memorialized.

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Speaker 4: Check this out.

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Speaker 11: We are bigger than this, We're above this.

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Speaker 4: I was like, my brand is not that you know

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Speaker 4: what I mean?

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Speaker 9: But I mean, I mean when you answer into something

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Speaker 9: like that, you know what you're signing up for. So

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Speaker 9: I think it's up to the individual on how you

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Speaker 9: conduct yourself and how you handle yourself. Like for me,

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Speaker 9: I feel like it was a benefit to me because

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Speaker 9: you know, I don't really speak out. I don't really

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Speaker 9: do all that kind of stuff, So it was able

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Speaker 9: to showcase like who I am as a person and

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Speaker 9: my morals and my standards.

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Speaker 6: And how I am. So it worked out for me

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Speaker 6: actually very well.

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Speaker 5: And we really started out rocky on the show. Because

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Speaker 5: it's the thing, I'm friends with her ex husband.

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Speaker 4: First, I don't know, I.

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Speaker 2: Know friends with the ex husband's X.

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Speaker 5: I'm friends with right because we did a show years ago,

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Speaker 5: and she's I'm just loyal like that.

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Speaker 4: So when I met her, I was just like she

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Speaker 4: was drunk.

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Speaker 6: They got her.

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Speaker 9: Know, she wasn't Patty, she was just being she was

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Speaker 9: just being a realize bitch to me. I respected it.

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Speaker 9: But the thing I.

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Speaker 4: Just said, Hi, I said, I am Tamika.

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Speaker 5: I was like, I'm friends with Mo, like like, so

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Speaker 5: you know who I am, Like put a face with

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Speaker 5: the name whatever, and they made it like doom doom doo.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, let's go to commercial like it was some drama.

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Speaker 4: I was just like, I'm just don't I'm friends with

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Speaker 4: Mo and that's it. But there is the way they

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Speaker 4: amplified it.

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Speaker 11: They had the music in the awkward pause where her

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Speaker 11: month was.

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Speaker 5: Like, and then gave you shots before before that shot it.

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Speaker 6: Was actually, she's like one of my favorite people on

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Speaker 6: the show. Like we hang out in real life, like

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Speaker 6: bould y'all.

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Speaker 3: Think celebrities again, since you like your life is so

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Speaker 3: out there, like they pick in part everything that you

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Speaker 3: guys do.

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Speaker 6: I think I want to man, I sit behind the

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Speaker 6: desk think I think I'm over it.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, just over it, the whole lifestyle. I'll take the

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Speaker 9: forefront in the bed.

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Speaker 1: Would you ate a bus driver?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I'm just a decent three kids.

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Speaker 9: I'm a single mother, and my bills, the salary just

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Speaker 9: not covering my bills, and I just it's not for me.

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Speaker 4: Then you ain't saying why his salar got to cover

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Speaker 4: your bills. You should be able to cover your bills.

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Speaker 4: I already know what you've got it. I'm just thinking,

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Speaker 4: but it's not just going to say are you living?

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Speaker 6: I live in Atlanta, Lanta.

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Speaker 1: Let me shoot that. Let's see the Marti bus driver

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Speaker 1: making Atlanta.

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Speaker 5: She already said, no, no, no, shame your show twelve

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Speaker 5: to thirty in hours.

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Speaker 1: School bus driving make between twenty four fifty a year.

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Speaker 10: The average salary for drivers nineteen eleven per hour.

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Speaker 1: But they got benefits better. They got benefits, my own benefits. Okay,

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Speaker 1: who's on the bus drive?

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Speaker 4: That doesn't sound beneficial.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you. If Crystal doesn't, no shame.

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Speaker 4: But you know I would date a bus driver if

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Speaker 4: he owned.

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Speaker 5: The If you're on the bus, okay, shouts out.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna shout out.

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Speaker 5: Carlos king too. What's up Carlos for bringing us together?

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Speaker 5: Black Production Company.

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Speaker 6: Kingdom, Reign Entertainment, all the rain drops.

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Speaker 4: So you guys got to catch up on our show.

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Speaker 4: It's not All Black now.

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Speaker 5: I think they moved it over, you know, because we

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Speaker 1: Then will you bring it back?

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Speaker 4: I think people will bring just like the run so

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Speaker 4: you can see it. Yeah, I think they got it.

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Speaker 4: There is living on All Black.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I want to ask you about your book here.

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Speaker 10: I stand interesting title, uh, because someone could say it's

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Speaker 10: named his album here. I stand that's right. So why

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Speaker 4: Here I stand, Well, here I stand.

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Speaker 5: You remember that was a time where people were really

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Speaker 4: And the album.

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Speaker 5: Was dedicated to me, if you read the credits and

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Speaker 5: all that. And I was very kind of instrumental on

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Speaker 4: But anyway, so no, So here I stand.

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Speaker 5: It has a double entendre because I've been through a

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Speaker 4: I think it started with you, Wendy, But wellcome back

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Speaker 5: My first I don't think I was during that time

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Speaker 4: Would you like to come on my show?

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Speaker 5: I was thinking like, oh, it's gonna be great again

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Speaker 6: Well, I got on here.

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Speaker 5: The first question was like, so is that da da gay?

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Speaker 6: I'm here, and I was did your research?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I didn't have people because I met her one one

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Speaker 7: When I got Philly.

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Speaker 4: That was no on Park Avenue. When she was asking

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Speaker 5: This whatever time it was, I was there and I

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Speaker 4: I would never tell it.

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Speaker 5: was just like, that's not we can you guys got

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Speaker 4: Interview kick her. She was like, there's the door, honey,

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Speaker 4: that's not what she said.

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Speaker 5: She was going to give us the tea, But I

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Speaker 4: Or just said who damaged the wardrobe?

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Speaker 5: Like you know that kind of messy, not messy, like

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Speaker 7: To his mother?

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Speaker 5: I didn't know, Yeah, I didn't know. I just thought

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Speaker 1: So then he's looking it up right now. I'm looking

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Speaker 5: Even in her documentary when she did the whole doc,

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Speaker 11: She's this, she's ugly, she's old, she's.

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Speaker 5: You know, so I didn't have a chance. Damn God,

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Speaker 11: No, No, I don't want they.

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Speaker 4: Call me a man. Having all these kids, I'm like,

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Speaker 10: But with the titles called here I Stand because the album.

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Speaker 5: Here I Stand because I I You know, I've been

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Speaker 4: Like life happens. Life is gonna come at you.

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Speaker 11: Things gonna have You're gonna lose people, You're gonna lose love, You're.

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Speaker 5: Gonna have heart break. But you have to remain in

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Speaker 5: Don't you think I'm in a beautiful stay pretty much?

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Speaker 4: You know, most of the time, when am.

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Speaker 10: I not name of time, see that little When when

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Speaker 11: You don't be in a beautiful time on the show.

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Speaker 5: Well, no, I mean, being in a beautiful state doesn't

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Speaker 5: mean you won't check somebody.

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Speaker 4: That don't mean you won't get your point off.

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Speaker 5: Go back, then you go back to like when we're

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Speaker 4: I stay in a beautiful state.

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Speaker 1: Was the book the therapeutic for you to write? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 4: It was like a big diary.

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Speaker 5: So I just started writing it when I first was

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Speaker 4: So I have life lessons in the book.

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Speaker 5: I talk about what I did to contribute to everything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do you wish you never came from behind the.

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Speaker 5: At times I think, but it was kind of inevitable,

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Speaker 5: They need to mess up again. So then it's just

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 10: I saw I was reading the article that us you did,

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Speaker 7: I know, it just was should you care what the

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Speaker 7: You love you do?

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Speaker 5: But then I think it weighs on you if like

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Speaker 4: You remember he went on.

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Speaker 5: MTV like shut the hell up about her. He kind

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Speaker 5: of got tired of it. He was very judged. Very

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys forgave a lot of people because there's

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Speaker 4: I didn't. I was cussing him out. I was on Twitter.

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Speaker 5: I had Twitter fingers bad as here, like should me

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Speaker 4: Yeah, unbig your back and then make your damnages.

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Speaker 7: So on the.

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Speaker 5: On the show, you said that Neil had never asked you.

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Speaker 5: Hell no, I just you know. But but if he

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Speaker 6: Clearly I did that already. There's no third party. I don't.

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Speaker 6: I'm not sharing my husband.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, knowingly, right exactly, And so that was and that's

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Speaker 5: you wouldn't give it to him?

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Speaker 4: He's yeah, men know who to ask?

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Speaker 9: I'm not sharing ding a ling. I'm just not doing it.

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Speaker 6: Like it's too much nasty ship in the world.

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Speaker 9: And I just I don't. If you want something else,

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Speaker 5: That and where are you guys now? Because I know

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Speaker 9: I mean for him, I was I was in peace, yeah,

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Speaker 9: and I'm still in peace.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I'm in a good place in my life right now.

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Speaker 2: What was the decision that made you say, you know what,

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 6: What's funny is it was the breakfast club.

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Speaker 9: Jesus when y'all asked him of the question it would

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Speaker 9: And he was like, I would live in a bliss

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Speaker 6: Is that how he wants me to think?

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Speaker 9: And then I found everything that I needed to find

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Speaker 6: Was? It was a phone?

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Speaker 10: Listen to a person say something you like, you know what,

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Speaker 10: Let me he's projected.

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Speaker 1: Let me go.

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Speaker 7: Snoop around him and see what he got going Lord.

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Speaker 9: So he just would because he because with me, he

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00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,400
Speaker 9: was he has a little jealousy in him or whatever,

454
00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:51,840
Speaker 9: so I know that he would never be okay with.

455
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Speaker 6: Me doing that, you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah.

456
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Speaker 2: So it was like some right did he come clean

457
00:18:58,080 --> 00:18:58,480
Speaker 2: all the way?

458
00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:01,639
Speaker 9: He had no choice, you know, choice, you know, And

459
00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:03,720
Speaker 9: I feel like that was just God's redirection for me.

460
00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:05,480
Speaker 6: It was a situation that was no longer.

461
00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:08,240
Speaker 9: Serving me, and he knew that that wasn't what I

462
00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:10,320
Speaker 9: wanted in a marriage, and he just removed me from

463
00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:12,040
Speaker 9: that situation. And I think that he did it in

464
00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:15,359
Speaker 9: a way that I had no choice to leave because

465
00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:18,359
Speaker 9: my values, my morals would never be involved in something

466
00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:18,720
Speaker 9: like that.

467
00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:20,800
Speaker 2: Was it the first time you caught him cheating on him?

468
00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:24,520
Speaker 9: Yeah, in twenty twenty. I thought that it was a

469
00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:27,320
Speaker 9: thing and I left him then. So if I thought

470
00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:30,440
Speaker 9: something and I know something, Yeah, are you sure?

471
00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:31,920
Speaker 1: Because black men don't cheat?

472
00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:42,400
Speaker 5: Studio triggering, I'm saying that, you know, I think that

473
00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:44,320
Speaker 5: all men cheat, I really do.

474
00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:47,960
Speaker 1: No all the black men like no.

475
00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:48,639
Speaker 4: No, no, all.

476
00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:55,919
Speaker 9: But I think, yeah, I think there's different types, Like

477
00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:57,879
Speaker 9: there's men that have cheated and learned their lesson and

478
00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:00,359
Speaker 9: then like they find someone that like I would. And

479
00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:03,199
Speaker 9: then there's men that that's just what they do, you

480
00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:03,800
Speaker 9: know what I'm saying.

481
00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:05,240
Speaker 6: So it's just, yeah, I don't think.

482
00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:08,199
Speaker 5: I don't I don't think it's it's realistic to believe that.

483
00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:11,520
Speaker 11: I don't even think that we're I don't know.

484
00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:15,320
Speaker 5: I don't think we're going to be made for man,

485
00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:20,320
Speaker 5: not like that for the rest of your life, one man,

486
00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:22,359
Speaker 5: but the rest of your life.

487
00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:23,000
Speaker 4: I don't believe.

488
00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:23,439
Speaker 1: I believe.

489
00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:25,400
Speaker 10: I think so if you find that, if you find

490
00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:27,360
Speaker 10: that one that actually fulfilled.

491
00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:30,240
Speaker 4: One human beings the reason we say black.

492
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Speaker 3: Boys cheap right, and most boys when they become a

493
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Speaker 3: man and that's what they realized, then step out.

494
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Speaker 5: There's some that do it on a serial basis. And

495
00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:41,359
Speaker 5: I'm not saying from personal experience. I'm just saying, I

496
00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:43,199
Speaker 5: just think in general, I'm friends with a lot. I'm

497
00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:46,480
Speaker 5: a girl that loves guys, and then my homies and

498
00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:48,359
Speaker 5: I talk to them and they just do.

499
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,080
Speaker 1: I think if a woman is fulfilling you on every level.

500
00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:54,840
Speaker 6: Of spiritual.

501
00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:57,639
Speaker 5: One strip to Puchakana, there's that one time you and

502
00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:01,680
Speaker 5: your homies went and you accidentally just met somebody at the.

503
00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:08,400
Speaker 2: I thinks, you know what I'm saying.

504
00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:13,879
Speaker 9: A woman can do everything under the sun clean? Do

505
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 9: you bedroom all of that? And if a man still

506
00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:18,199
Speaker 9: wants to cheat, that's what he's gonna do, you know

507
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:18,720
Speaker 9: what I'm saying.

508
00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:21,520
Speaker 6: So I don't think that has anything to get the woman.

509
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:24,960
Speaker 10: I'm telling you, if a woman fulfills you spiritually, mentally

510
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:28,280
Speaker 10: and emotions, shouldn't the physical. You won't even think about

511
00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:28,920
Speaker 10: another woman.

512
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Speaker 6: If that's the type of person that you are.

513
00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 4: Right, you have to be that, yeah, because you slip ups.

514
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 5: I think you have cheaters at a Cereal and they

515
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:40,840
Speaker 5: just have a whole other relationship on the side, Then

516
00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:43,199
Speaker 5: you have people to slip up. I just think that

517
00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:48,240
Speaker 5: something happens regarding another party at some point, and I'm

518
00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:51,080
Speaker 5: talking about in a lifetime. It may happen once, but

519
00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:51,959
Speaker 5: it still happened.

520
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:52,399
Speaker 4: I don't know.

521
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:55,040
Speaker 10: So how do you handle if you got that mentality

522
00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:56,800
Speaker 10: and you feel like a man gonna slip up anyway?

523
00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:57,879
Speaker 1: How do you handle the slip up?

524
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Speaker 4: I don't know. I haven't. I don't know because I'm

525
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:04,480
Speaker 4: single now, so I don't. I don't know. I don't know.

526
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:06,280
Speaker 1: You ever had somebody slip up.

527
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

528
00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:09,120
Speaker 4: I think we all have yeah.

529
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 7: Sometimes and you don't leave them.

530
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:15,119
Speaker 4: I have, I have.

531
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Speaker 5: I've left you over a slip up, for sure, But

532
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:21,600
Speaker 5: in hindsight, I don't think that's big enough to ruin

533
00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:22,479
Speaker 5: your whole marriage.

534
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:23,480
Speaker 4: I don't think it should be.

535
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 2: Have you guys ever say I disagree?

536
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:34,760
Speaker 9: Yeah, in a marriage, I feel like nobody's perfect, and

537
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 9: I guess the in the situation.

538
00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 6: It's situational. So some situations it's like, all right, I

539
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:41,040
Speaker 6: might could give you a pass. I mean, you ain't

540
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:43,160
Speaker 6: getting off easy, but I could give you a pass.

541
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Speaker 9: But if it's something there's degrees to cheating, like you

542
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:49,159
Speaker 9: in love, you have relationships, you cuddling and all that

543
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:51,439
Speaker 9: kind of stuff, it's not just the one off and

544
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,480
Speaker 9: you only get one pass, you know what I'm saying,

545
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:55,160
Speaker 9: Because then at that point its repetitive.

546
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:57,040
Speaker 6: That's that's not a slip up. That's who you are,

547
00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:57,880
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying.

548
00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:59,959
Speaker 9: So if you if you that's something that you continue,

549
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:01,439
Speaker 9: that's what you're always gonna do.

550
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:03,159
Speaker 1: Have up.

551
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:10,439
Speaker 5: I don't I don't like, but no, forget to slip up.

552
00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:15,440
Speaker 11: I was just saying, I like how you guys decorated everything.

553
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 4: Have you ever cheated? Yes?

554
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 5: I have, Yes, I have, I have, and we were

555
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:23,640
Speaker 5: we were both cheating on each other.

556
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:24,719
Speaker 4: I was in a relationship.

557
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 5: I found out that my partner was cheating, and I cheated,

558
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 5: cheated back, cheated.

559
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:34,640
Speaker 4: Back, Okay, cheat it up, Okay you cheated up? Did

560
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 4: you get left?

561
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:39,480
Speaker 5: They should have just left each other.

562
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:40,560
Speaker 7: We did, We did.

563
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 4: We left each other. It was no one and it

564
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 4: was it was no one's fault. We both.

565
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:46,919
Speaker 11: It was both of our fault. We knew, you know,

566
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:47,400
Speaker 11: we both.

567
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 1: She's not talking about us blogs.

568
00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 4: I'm not he cheated.

569
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Speaker 5: I'm not talking about my marriages period. I'm just saying

570
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 5: I'm just talking about relationship. I think people don't realize

571
00:23:58,800 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 5: that you date.

572
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:00,800
Speaker 4: More than the people you married.

573
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:03,680
Speaker 5: And again, every time i'm speaking, they think I'm talking

574
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:07,440
Speaker 5: about my ex husband or husband's But no, I've dated

575
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:09,200
Speaker 5: since and before them. You know what I mean.

576
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:14,119
Speaker 4: I know other men, guys. I would marry again. I

577
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:15,840
Speaker 4: sure would. I would marry again.

578
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 11: The right person who's got his stuff together.

579
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 5: He's got to have his stuff together because I'm always

580
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:23,639
Speaker 5: trying to start a business or working on something.

581
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,360
Speaker 4: I'm really entrepreneurial. So you got to have your bread.

582
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 3: Together, Neil clippers in there if you want to hear

583
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 3: what what Neil?

584
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 1: I do want to hear it. I don't remember this.

585
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,879
Speaker 10: Than we're putting together the breakfast cub doctor trying to

586
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 10: find these moments that cause people trauma.

587
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:42,399
Speaker 8: Listen, I personally am am a person that is not

588
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,679
Speaker 8: angry at living in a blissful bubble of ignorance. The

589
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:50,160
Speaker 8: truth is rarely pretty in this world. In his life,

590
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 8: you have to choose your happy. So I choose to

591
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 8: believe that the truth that makes me happy as opposed

592
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 8: to such a for the ugly truth that's.

593
00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 2: Going to mess up my happy.

594
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Speaker 8: I even tell my friends like, yo, if you have

595
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 8: found out anything about my wife, don't bring me that.

596
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 8: I'll wake up every morning and breakfast, just cook my

597
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 8: kids and taken care of. Every time we around each other,

598
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:09,160
Speaker 8: we smiling and happy and things are blissful. And then

599
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 8: on my deathbed, somebody told me that you was cheating

600
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 8: on me. In my whole life, I.

601
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 2: Lived a pretty good damn life. I'm not going trip

602
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 2: off that that's me. That was the part.

603
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:21,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, that that actual though, that's true, though.

604
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:26,359
Speaker 3: I suspected something before. Then, Yeah, you suspected something before.

605
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,040
Speaker 9: Them, so I would be a fool and a liar

606
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 9: to be like I didn't have suspicions or thinking like

607
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 9: you know that any man that was possibility that they're

608
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 9: gonna cheat. But to the extent of the way things happened,

609
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 9: I never in a million years would have you know, like,

610
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,680
Speaker 9: wasn't that wasn't the person that that.

611
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 6: I was in love with.

612
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,399
Speaker 10: I just wonder why you're telling me that on my deathbed.

613
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 10: You're trying to make me go faster and enjoying my

614
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 10: final moments. Why would you call me that kind of

615
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:50,920
Speaker 10: stress and trauma on my deathbed?

616
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 5: I think I was just so surprised because being around

617
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:56,360
Speaker 5: y'all were like best friends, Like it wasn't just like

618
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 5: you know, everything wasn't always romantic like they was cool,

619
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 5: like y'all were like real best friends.

620
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.

621
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 5: It's not worth it to lead well girl, what well

622
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:09,400
Speaker 5: wait wait, actually.

623
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:11,159
Speaker 6: Just that is your disposition.

624
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 9: However, it's different yea, no, thank you, Yeah, because I

625
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 9: know my worth and I and I'm not gonna settle

626
00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 9: for just sharing somebody when I know I deserve a

627
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 9: whole man.

628
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 4: So think I'm just older we met.

629
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:26,639
Speaker 9: He had picked me for it was he was going

630
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 9: to do a mini movie for his nonfiction album, and

631
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 9: he had picked me for the lead role. And that's

632
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 9: how we met. The movie never got shot, so I

633
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 9: don't know. Maybe it was a setup.

634
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 4: He wanted you. That was the way he was gonna

635
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 4: catch you.

636
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 10: You know.

637
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:41,959
Speaker 7: To me, that's something just now she said, you're oldest.

638
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:42,679
Speaker 7: You probably just won.

639
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 5: It took it took a long time to get to

640
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,719
Speaker 5: the way I think now, because I was the person

641
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 5: that if you even look somewhere else, I was ready

642
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 5: to snatch your neck, you know what I mean.

643
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:53,239
Speaker 4: So I'm like, bring your eyes back over here.

644
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:54,880
Speaker 5: What you're doing and what you're doing looking at him,

645
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 5: I was like I was on that hot wire stuff.

646
00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 5: I just think I'm in a different I'm in a

647
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 5: different place, and that it took time to get here.

648
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,439
Speaker 4: So trust me, I used to be like that, like,

649
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 4: first of all, I'm gonna pull up.

650
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 6: I respect your.

651
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,440
Speaker 4: Mind, am.

652
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 5: But I think what she's saying is she knows what

653
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:15,880
Speaker 5: she's not gonna take, like.

654
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 4: Just telling you, I'm not sharing my man.

655
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 6: Like long.

656
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:23,920
Speaker 5: So I gotta be willing to share my man because

657
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 5: I don't know when I'm gonna die.

658
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 4: No one wants to hold on. Let's just let's clarify this.

659
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 5: Yes, please, girl, I am one hundred percent not down

660
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,399
Speaker 5: to share anything. I don't even want to share my

661
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 5: damn sandwich. So I definitely not sharing my man.

662
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 4: I am not that person.

663
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 5: But I'm just saying that when it comes to a

664
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 5: relationship something I so death do us part if he

665
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 5: makes a mistake. I don't think that that is the.

666
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 6: Depth of the relationship and we're partying.

667
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:52,199
Speaker 4: No for me, Well, I used to.

668
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 5: I'm telling you, like I said, were thirteen years younger,

669
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 5: I definitely would.

670
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:58,679
Speaker 4: Have said that I would agree. But just get to

671
00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:02,360
Speaker 4: your fifties you might feel a little different. You may

672
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:03,640
Speaker 4: We'll just see.

673
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 2: You would lik to Safaria one time too.

674
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 9: I don't know why y'all say people could be in

675
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 9: the same room together.

676
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:16,160
Speaker 3: Lord Jesus, because you said you love hip hop Landa

677
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:17,400
Speaker 3: that your link that you would dating.

678
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 6: I was all love hip hop.

679
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 2: They said that you're going to do the next season.

680
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 6: I don't know why they said that. I would never.

681
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 6: I was already I was already contracted. I don't know

682
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:27,879
Speaker 6: why they said that.

683
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:32,119
Speaker 4: You know, but y'all were never No, it's cool, but

684
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 4: I plan.

685
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,719
Speaker 9: To be single for a while because I have a

686
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 9: lot of healing to go through and do or whatever,

687
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 9: and I don't want to distract myself from what I

688
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 9: have going on because I'm so focused on my career

689
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 9: right now.

690
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 6: You know, I'm acting now, I.

691
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 9: Just did a movie, about to do another movie, so

692
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 9: I'm I'm focused on Crystal right now for the first time.

693
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 9: I'm I'm happy and content and just being with myself.

694
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 3: Christ did you ever key Neo's calls? Because it seems

695
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 3: like you still got a little hurt something. No, nothing,

696
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 3: nothing hit his hats in the world.

697
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 4: I got you now, just get the story.

698
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 9: No, no, I I walked away peacefully because when you

699
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 9: when you fight and areg you it's because you still

700
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 9: want to be there. And although I mean, one of

701
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 9: the hardest things to do is to walk away from

702
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 9: somebody you're still in love with.

703
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 6: But I love myself more.

704
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 9: And I knew that I was going to go crazy

705
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 9: if I chose to try to work it out and stay.

706
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying.

707
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 9: And I always have love for him, but it's it's

708
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 9: different now, you know.

709
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 4: So the kids are good.

710
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 6: The kids are good.

711
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 9: You know, they go and spend time with Daddy. They

712
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 9: love their their their father, and they're good. I let

713
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 9: him be a father and and not be keep communication

714
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 9: at a minimal just because I'm focused on rebuilding my

715
00:29:57,960 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 9: life and what that means for me. So I don't

716
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 9: want to surround myself with what the past was that

717
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 9: could potentially put me in a place where I'm emotional

718
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 9: and all those things.

719
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 6: So I choose to just.

720
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 2: So there was no drunk less like, hey, big head.

721
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 5: Nothing, but did he tried? Okay, what that he tried?

722
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 6: Listen?

723
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 9: I think at this point he knows that there's there's

724
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 9: no coming back. So we we're trying to figure out

725
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 9: what Cole parents and looks like for us because I

726
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 9: just I.

727
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 6: Just don't want to be around the situation.

728
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 9: And you know, I all the respects, all love to

729
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 9: him and no shade, but I just when somebody hurts

730
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 9: you to a certain extent, I don't want to be

731
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 9: in that environment.

732
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying?

733
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 2: Did ya try therapy? Did you try to make it? Men?

734
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 2: So he was done. He was like, there's no therapy.

735
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 5: Was I fought the next day and Crystal filed the

736
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 5: next day after hearing that breakfast club ship.

737
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 1: Really it wasn't it wasn't really know.

738
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 6: That that is that is what prompted me to.

739
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: To look around.

740
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 2: How you getting his phone?

741
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 6: He was the same past and all.

742
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: He wasn't trying to hide anything.

743
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 4: Some of them smart, that's what you get out of her.

744
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, she'd be like, hold on, where the other phone is?

745
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 4: Another phone?

746
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 2: He was sleeping, and he just picked up the phone

747
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 2: and just.

748
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 4: Yeaheah, No, he was here, he was here.

749
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 6: He was doing another interview. Yes, he was at the

750
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 6: radio station. I was at the hotel. He was like

751
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 6: in New York, you scrolling down.

752
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 10: So when he came back, So by the time he

753
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 10: got back to the hotel from the interview, you was

754
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 10: on his head.

755
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 6: I was gone.

756
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:41,239
Speaker 1: I know.

757
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 6: I didn't say anything or you left the Oh.

758
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 2: My god, you didn't tell nothing. You ain't tell nothing.

759
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 2: You just know.

760
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 9: I mean, he he he knew that his phone was

761
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 9: was missing, and so he realized and and you know, oh.

762
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 1: My god, he took the phone and left.

763
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 4: They took the phone.

764
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 6: I am a black woman. I am not done.

765
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 11: You can just least say I would put it all

766
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 11: back like nothing happened.

767
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, he didn't try to apologize and nothing like you don't.

768
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 9: I mean, of course he apologized, and you know, he

769
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:09,719
Speaker 9: didn't want me to get a divorce or whatever. But

770
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 9: he knows, he knows how I value myself and he

771
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 9: knows what I'm not playing in and that situation.

772
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 6: I think he just he knew they was no coming back.

773
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 1: You know, So what it is you love to know

774
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 1: what he learned?

775
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 6: We had.

776
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 9: We had a beautiful relationship, a beautiful marriage, a beautiful friendship.

777
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 6: And I don't regret it. I don't take it back.

778
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 9: And I'm appreciative to the love that we did have

779
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 9: because a lot of people don't experience the love like

780
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 9: that that I had. You know, but that season it's gone,

781
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 9: that that that chapter is closed.

782
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 6: And how long were we all together? Almost ten years?

783
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 4: Damn?

784
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 1: Oh.

785
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 10: I got a question for both of you on your

786
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:47,200
Speaker 10: on your healing journeys that you're on your healing journeys

787
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 10: of self? What have you learned about yourself that you're

788
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 10: most passionate.

789
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 9: About my my strength and my perseverance. I didn't I

790
00:32:56,400 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 9: don't think that I thought that I would be in

791
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 9: the mind state that I am now because a lot

792
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 9: of people would have broken, you know, And I have

793
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 9: my moments, but I'm proud of myself for the way

794
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 9: that i have maintained my grace.

795
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 6: In this situation.

796
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 9: Yeah, you know so, because it's easy to the fame

797
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 9: a black man and tear him down and tell all

798
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,720
Speaker 9: the business and do all those things. I refuse to

799
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 9: do that because and it's not for him, it's for

800
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 9: me and my children, you know what I'm saying. So

801
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 9: I don't I don't benefit by tearing him down.

802
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 6: I wish him nothing but the best. I want to

803
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:28,720
Speaker 6: see him succeed, but just not with me.

804
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 5: What about you, I'm really committed to remaining in a

805
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 5: beautiful state because I really, like I say this, I said,

806
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 5: and I mean, I think we share a friend. It's

807
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 5: not to major in the miners. Absolutely don't major in

808
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 5: the miners, and I really I'm really passionate about that.

809
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 4: I am.

810
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 5: You know, you really question your self worth when you're

811
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 5: in a public relationship because your life becomes about them,

812
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 5: like everything is about their schedule, where they have.

813
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 4: To be, what time the flight is, what you're gonna wear.

814
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 5: Because you got to be with them, And so you

815
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 5: do lose the sense of yourself when you're in that situation.

816
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 4: I'm happy now. I just I feel so free. I

817
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:14,240
Speaker 4: always say that, I just feel free.

818
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:17,680
Speaker 5: I'm just able to move around without you know, having

819
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 5: that pressure anymore.

820
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 4: The peace, the peace.

821
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 6: That you have.

822
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 3: And I can't imagine because they scrutinize you if you're

823
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 3: taking kids to the game, I'm sure they're taking pictures

824
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 3: of what you're wearing.

825
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 4: They're looking at everything.

826
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:30,879
Speaker 3: You go to the grocery store, I'm sure they're looking

827
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 3: at what you're wearing.

828
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 5: I don't even care about what I'm wearing because I

829
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 5: ain't never worried about that.

830
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 4: It's always Oh even at the super Bowl when you

831
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:38,360
Speaker 4: went and he.

832
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 5: Was there and he performed halftime, how did you feel

833
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 5: about that being there?

834
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:43,319
Speaker 6: It was great?

835
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 4: No, I went, Yeah, I went, My kids were there.

836
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 5: He did a great job. You know, he's dope like

837
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 5: that that I can always say. He's a phenomenal person

838
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 5: and phenomenal artists.

839
00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was good. They were looking.

840
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:57,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, they're always looking at my reaction everything like did

841
00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 5: she clap?

842
00:34:58,239 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 4: Does she cry? Did she like?

843
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 5: Sounded like his music like everybody else? And you got

844
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 5: to realize everything he performed.

845
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:05,399
Speaker 4: These are things.

846
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:08,720
Speaker 5: I was his stylist, so I did all those videos.

847
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 5: I was a part of the imaging for the whole thing.

848
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 5: It was important for me to be there.

849
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 11: I was sad that I wasn't in charge of the

850
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 11: whole imaging for it.

851
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:24,239
Speaker 4: To be honest, That's what I'm came from. I love

852
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 4: j D. Don't talk about it, not too much.

853
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 5: On l Did you like that little socks the way?

854
00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:33,839
Speaker 6: No, I don't know the way.

855
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,800
Speaker 4: I don't know everything.

856
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 1: You know what I think it is.

857
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 10: I think people aren't used to seeing, uh, healthy functioning

858
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 10: co parenting.

859
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:48,920
Speaker 5: Yes, I have a healthy functioning co parenting situation because

860
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 5: my kids are you know, fifteen and sixteen, and they

861
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:53,839
Speaker 5: basically say where they want to be, and like we

862
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,400
Speaker 5: have and we are very supportive of each other's like

863
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 5: I'm here, I'm in New York. The kids are with him,

864
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:02,319
Speaker 5: and when he's busy, the kids are with me. We

865
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,959
Speaker 5: just we we kind of got rid of that whole

866
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 5: schedule thing, like you have him on.

867
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 4: Thursday to Wednesday and no, we just are you traveling? Okay?

868
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 1: Cool?

869
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 5: We are you gonna be home? Are the kids gonna

870
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 5: be with me? Are they gonna be with you, and

871
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 5: I think we get along. Find our kids are super

872
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:19,800
Speaker 5: vocal and grown as hell, so they tell you what

873
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 5: they want to They be like, I need to be

874
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 5: a dad because my game setup is over here.

875
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 4: He's got better Wi Fi than you. I'd be like,

876
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 4: of course he's got better. Everything's better.

877
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 2: Entertainment industry. When you want you kids to be.

878
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:41,920
Speaker 9: My oldest he he he his father is his idol,

879
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 9: like he wants to do me and that he needs

880
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 9: trying to make his own beats.

881
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 6: He think he got a YouTube channel. It's tall.

882
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 9: So I mean, I I know the the negative that

883
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 9: comes with it. I don't want that for my kids,

884
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:54,879
Speaker 9: you know, but I do want him to, you know,

885
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 9: whatever his dreams are to do it, you know, if

886
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:00,800
Speaker 9: that's what he wants. But I would prefer him to

887
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 9: go to college, get a degree and you know, do

888
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 9: something else. But if that's what he wants to.

889
00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 5: Do it, well, my son Sinko, he's the fifth Uh,

890
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 5: he's sixteen. He's a gamer, so he really wants to

891
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:17,759
Speaker 5: do this gaming thing on a high level, like that's his.

892
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 2: Money.

893
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 5: He is focused. He didn't go on vacation. We went

894
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 5: to Angleill and all this for spring break. He stayed

895
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 5: with his setup. He was serious about like I can't

896
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:28,360
Speaker 5: take my computers.

897
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,399
Speaker 4: I can't take all my monitors and my hard drop.

898
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,240
Speaker 5: I was like, okay, it's a serious thing now literally

899
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 5: better Wi Fi and Usherton.

900
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 4: Girl, you gotta let this man make this money.

901
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 5: On these I'm we're supporting. We both are supporting him

902
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:44,839
Speaker 5: doing my son did the create. He did a lot

903
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 5: of creative direction for the super Bowl. That's no, he's

904
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 5: now he's so serious he wants to be an artist.

905
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 5: I don't love that idea because I know what the

906
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 5: scrutiny that comes with it. But behind the scenes, if

907
00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:00,320
Speaker 5: he wants to do lighting and creative direction. And he

908
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 5: really was very involved in that super Bowl performance, more

909
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 5: than he even.

910
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 4: Got credit for.

911
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 5: He really was like, no, not that song and when

912
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:10,359
Speaker 5: you come out the chair, you need to stand and

913
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 5: look that way.

914
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 4: No, he was definitely involved.

915
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 7: Yeah, because you said earlier here, I can't flopped.

916
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 10: And we were talking about this, talking about that this week,

917
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 10: and we were talking about that that that particular, we're

918
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 10: talking about chance to rap him and you know what

919
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 10: happened when an artist makes an album dedicated.

920
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 4: To his wife.

921
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, and the album this album is whack.

922
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 5: The album was good, understand, was a banging album. And

923
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 5: let me tell you this, I'm gonna say this. This

924
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 5: is in defense of him really quick, and I don't

925
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 5: want to talk about his ask I'm okay.

926
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:47,399
Speaker 4: It was enough on Usher, But Here I.

927
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 5: Stand was so solid because he was ahead of his time.

928
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,399
Speaker 5: He got married before anybody before.

929
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 4: This was before J and B. This is before justin Chimberlake.

930
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:59,760
Speaker 5: This is before he was an outlier in like trying

931
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 5: to be mature and wear suits.

932
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 4: That suit and tied ship. That was we did that already.

933
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 5: Sorry, no offense, JT, but you know what I mean,

934
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,239
Speaker 5: Like we were trying to make him go to the

935
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 5: next level. The fans weren't ready for him to evolve

936
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 5: and get to that level. And then now it's cool,

937
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 5: everybody's married, and see, we just were ahead of our time,

938
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:18,839
Speaker 5: but we did it too soon.

939
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:20,359
Speaker 4: So they were like, he.

940
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 5: Married this old ass lady and she's whack and that's

941
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 5: that and we hate him. And so Here I Stand

942
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 5: wasn't received the way it should have been. But it

943
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 5: was solid songs on that album Flop Fly, but it

944
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:36,719
Speaker 5: didn't do a million a million copies in the first week,

945
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 5: like you know all the other albums.

946
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 1: Did you blame yourself for that in some way?

947
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 4: I didn't. I think that. I think I blamed that.

948
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,319
Speaker 5: I think that the label pulled back on it real fast,

949
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 5: like they put it out and it wasn't received the

950
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 5: way they thought, and I think they're just like.

951
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 4: All right, let's let's hide that to me.

952
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,080
Speaker 5: Can stay home, have a baby, just don't come outside

953
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:54,399
Speaker 5: no more.

954
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 7: They hate you?

955
00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I I think I got a lot of backlash,

956
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:01,840
Speaker 5: like you're making his whole thing flop, and I'm like

957
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:04,880
Speaker 5: that dude been married again and again after that.

958
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:05,399
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

959
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 10: Is the goal for both of y'all, because y'all have

960
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 10: so much going on, It's the goal for both of

961
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 10: y'all to get to a place where nobody asks you

962
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 10: about them, is what I say.

963
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 6: I want the world to know Crystal or not.

964
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 11: But it's impossible, you know what I'm saying.

965
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:20,879
Speaker 5: And that's what people always say. You don't want people

966
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 5: to ask you about him, but you still have his

967
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 5: last name.

968
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:25,120
Speaker 6: But I'm still I'm still.

969
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 4: My own Perton, you know what I mean. Diane von

970
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 4: Furstenberg is Diane von Furstenberg.

971
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 5: She was married to Count von Furstenberg, but she's still

972
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 5: an amazing designer.

973
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:35,760
Speaker 4: Like I just again, it's our community.

974
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,399
Speaker 2: Do you still do styling like that or not too much?

975
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 4: I have a clothing line called Eli Kish.

976
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 5: I will style certain artists if they have certain people,

977
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 5: if they have a budget. It's not even artists, it's

978
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:47,400
Speaker 5: just if you have a budget and you can afford

979
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 5: to pay me.

980
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 3: A stylist a lost art now, like you don't really

981
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 3: see them as like growing up in the two thousands,

982
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:55,440
Speaker 3: you'd see stylists niggas.

983
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:56,240
Speaker 1: You see these niggas.

984
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 11: Yes, it's a.

985
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 5: Styling is a lost art because it's so it's oversaturated

986
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 5: with people who have taken the title.

987
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:07,359
Speaker 4: You can work a gap for three days.

988
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:10,439
Speaker 5: And all you guys rolling a trench code.

989
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 4: You be like, I'm a stylist in the stars.

990
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 11: That's that's all you need. You walk out and say

991
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 11: you're the top stylist.

992
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 6: I'm looking like.

993
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 4: It happens in every league.

994
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:25,440
Speaker 5: Listening people can get what to viral videos now their

995
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 5: comedy you can you know, you can get act now

996
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 5: you're a radio person now, yeah, yeah, you know.

997
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 1: So.

998
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:33,320
Speaker 4: I think it's the oversaturation in every lane, every lane.

999
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 5: It probably is because you know why, I'm not just

1000
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 5: not too much on our people, but it's low hanging fruit.

1001
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 5: They people don't. You don't see too many people fighting

1002
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 5: to be scientists or doctors or lawyers. You know what

1003
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 5: I'm saying. It requires a lot of work that requires

1004
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 5: work in reading, like actual reading, like read hello, read

1005
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:53,759
Speaker 5: if you would read? No, they want to do what's

1006
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,280
Speaker 5: you know, the easiest thing, like I'm a stylist.

1007
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,840
Speaker 4: I love clothes. That's not how it works. Why's so delicious?

1008
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 1: Here? Put them on?

1009
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:02,279
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, girl, that's right.

1010
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 2: All right, thank you ladies for joining us.

1011
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:09,839
Speaker 10: Man make comments, screamboled and boogie on all black. Right now,

1012
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:13,239
Speaker 10: go get Tamika Tamika Raymonds book here, I stand.

1013
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 11: Here, I stand in a beautiful state.

1014
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 1: That's right. That's right.

1015
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 2: It's Krystal Renee and Tamika Foster. It's the Breakfast Club.

1016
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 2: Good morning, wake tail An's up in the morning.

1017
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:22,120
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club