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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. We got

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Speaker 1: a new episode for you in your Second Date podcast. Ye.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm glad we all made it back after a

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Speaker 2: big World Cup weekend. Oh yeah, what do we got

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Speaker 2: before this episode? Though? Lexus and comments, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: John mcgiggan said, listening to this while my wife gives Burt.

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Speaker 3: Whoa my gosh, Jean, no more.

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Speaker 2: Podcast, get in there and hyper up?

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Speaker 3: Did she approve? Is this a good or a bad thing?

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's a good thing.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but the end of that was not

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Speaker 2: what I expected.

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Speaker 3: No, it's like, honey, keep it down. They're about to

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Speaker 3: reveal the big twist.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, let's do it your brand new episode

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Speaker 1: right now, Brook.

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Speaker 4: And Jeffrey in the Morning, Second Date updates.

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Speaker 3: Before our segment, our producer asked me, have I ever

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Speaker 3: dated somebody that was low maintenance?

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Speaker 2: And I.

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Speaker 3: Had to think about it, But then I remembered I

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Speaker 3: did meet somebody through this show. Actually we went out

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Speaker 3: bowling and this person felt comfortable enough to show me

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Speaker 3: their bunions. Oh so is that low maintenance or is

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Speaker 3: it just low I mean happening?

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Speaker 2: You're a feet guy, right, so that's cool.

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Speaker 3: After that, I'm not so sure.

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Speaker 2: I just kind of like bones that are you know,

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Speaker 2: they're out there.

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Speaker 3: But I only ask because our listener Field says he's

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Speaker 3: been on the apps for a while now and he

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Speaker 3: isn't sure that low maintenance women even exist anymore, and

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Speaker 3: he's apparently okay with it. So Field, welcome to the

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Speaker 3: show man. Can guys, what do you mean by your

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Speaker 3: comment there's no such thing as low maintenance women.

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Speaker 5: I'm of the opinion that women should know they're worth

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Speaker 5: and it's not like past generations where they had to

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Speaker 5: put up with chocolodite men who don't understand how this works.

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Speaker 5: I think they needed a sense of what they're going

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Speaker 5: to get in a relationship with you, and so out

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Speaker 5: the gate, you should treat him like a princess.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, so this is your like what you're bringing

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Speaker 1: to the table. But why don't you think women are

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Speaker 1: low maintenance?

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Speaker 5: Because part of it is expectations?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I could see that.

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Speaker 4: When you say low maintenance.

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Speaker 5: At this point, I just think it's somebody who's lazy

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Speaker 5: and it's just good for whatever you give them.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, So you're happy with high maintenance women exactly.

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Speaker 3: Okay, a person who knows what they want. So tell

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Speaker 3: us the non low maintenance woman that you matched with.

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Speaker 3: What's her name?

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Speaker 5: Her name is Sabrina. And at first there was a

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Speaker 5: little bit of a rigamarole in that can.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, we usually don't have high maintenance guests on

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Speaker 3: this segment, so all your vocabulary is really throwing us

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Speaker 3: for a rigamarole of a loop, So.

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Speaker 2: You have to like jump through a bunch of hoops

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Speaker 5: She created a bit of an obstacle, of course, before

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Speaker 3: What do you mean?

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Speaker 5: Well, I was trying to make a day with her,

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Speaker 5: and she said she doesn't do Wednesdays and I was like, okay, cool.

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Speaker 5: And then she doesn't do weekends and I was like, okay,

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Speaker 5: Dodays or Mondays, and so I was like, okay, do

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Speaker 6: Now?

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Speaker 2: Why wouldn't she just say Tuesday's work great for me. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I'm not trying to question how she wants to do things.

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Speaker 5: I just want to make time with her.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So what did you guys do? How to go.

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Speaker 5: We went to a popular restaurant, but she wouldn't let

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Speaker 1: Would be great if women could trust all men to

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Speaker 5: I'm not trying to question how she wants to do things.

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Speaker 5: Met her at the restaurant. She looked exactly like her pictures,

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Speaker 5: And then I thought it would be pretty proactive to

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Speaker 2: Okay, did you know what she liked?

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Speaker 5: I made an educated guess.

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Speaker 3: So how many yellow shots did you buy?

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Speaker 5: It is based on her online presence. I thought she

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Speaker 5: I know in advance that this restaurant serves a really

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Speaker 3: Toma gotchi tea.

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Speaker 2: Did she like it?

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Speaker 5: I don't think she hated it that she She just

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Speaker 5: so it's to get rid of any awkwardness. I was like,

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Speaker 5: all right, well, I don't want it to go to way,

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Speaker 5: So I just finished it.

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Speaker 3: You drank her drink and your drink.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully she just got a new one. Yeah, but he's

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Speaker 3: So you're down two drinks at once. Now, yeah, I did.

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Speaker 5: I did, And now that you guys said I should

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Speaker 2: She just sat there with her water while you down too.

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Speaker 3: I had already tried.

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Speaker 5: To push the drink and she didn't want it. So

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Speaker 5: I didn't want to be the guy who was like,

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Speaker 3: Got to drink something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So recovered bad moment for sure.

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Speaker 3: There's been a lot of awkward moments. Did any positive

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Speaker 5: Yes. At one point a waiter came over and was

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Speaker 3: You need this, bro.

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Speaker 5: Yes, exact opposite. He was like, how long have you

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Speaker 2: I got for you. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: So how things end.

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Speaker 5: The date kind of just naturally wind it down, and

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Speaker 5: I know the date went well is because she leaned

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Speaker 5: And then she did the side hug when the uh

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Speaker 3: Date, okay, But just going back to the cheek kiss.

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Speaker 3: It's not traditional like you ended it on a great note,

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Speaker 3: like alexis, what do you think about going in for

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Speaker 3: a cheat kiss?

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Speaker 2: So many times I don't think a kiss necessarily means

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Speaker 5: But I think I'm capable of telling when someone is

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Speaker 5: being platonically nice and when someone is romantically interesting.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so you think it's a second for her.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I got a but she's not calling you back.

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Speaker 3: This is also true, different type of vibes, So let's

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Speaker 3: find out where she actually stands. When we come back.

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Speaker 3: We'll call Sabrina for you and try to get you

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Speaker 3: your second date update right after this hold on.

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Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date update.

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Speaker 3: The more we learned about Field and his first date

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Speaker 3: with Sabrina, the hotter and hotter it sounded.

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Speaker 7: First of all, it happened on the sexiest day of

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Speaker 7: the week, a Tuesday after work. Nice, and then he

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Speaker 7: ordered her a novelty cocktail which he ended up drinking himself.

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Speaker 2: It was called a Tamagotchi tea, which the.

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Speaker 1: Name alone sounds powerful, sounds like a headache, so thumbs up.

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Speaker 3: There, And it ended with her initiating a cheek kiss

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Speaker 3: and a side hug before getting into her uber and

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Speaker 3: telling the driver to punch it. So all good signs

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Speaker 3: by my book. But remember I'm the guy who gets

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Speaker 3: people showing me their onions on a first date, So

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Speaker 3: that's true. Field. By comparison, you are looking pretty good,

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Speaker 3: my friend.

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Hey, what was your last interaction with her? Did she

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Speaker 2: text it all after.

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Speaker 5: The date just to say that she got home safe?

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Speaker 5: And after that it was communications silence?

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Speaker 3: And this is one big rumble roll whatever that word. Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 3: So let's revive this Rigama Mortis role and call Sabrina.

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Speaker 3: We'll see where her head's at if she answers the phone.

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Speaker 3: I'm in a dialod right now here we go. Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 3: is this Sabrina?

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Speaker 2: Yes, this sounds like you are very busy right now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 3: in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Okay, why are you calling me?

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Speaker 3: It's kind of weird, we know. Yeah, it's part of

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Speaker 3: a thing we do called the Second Date Update, where

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Speaker 3: we help listeners who've gone out with somebody once and

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Speaker 3: they're not getting a call back. We can reach out

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Speaker 2: Why, and it won't take very long.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so if you're busy, we'll make it quick.

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Speaker 4: I mean, okay, I don't have a lot of time.

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Speaker 4: What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, so we were contacted by a guy that

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Speaker 3: you want on a date with recently seemingly a nice

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Speaker 3: guy named Field.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I remember him.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, he's got a unique name. Yeah, so he Yeah,

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Speaker 3: he told us about your date, and he had a

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Speaker 3: lot of nice things to say about you. He's a

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Speaker 3: little bit confused why there hasn't been a second meet

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Speaker 4: I mean, that's kind of dumb of him.

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Speaker 1: Really, it's always Yeah, did he do something that is

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Speaker 4: Guys are so clueless, So I don't know. Did he

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Speaker 4: tell you all that he wanted to pick me up?

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Speaker 3: He did mention that he he wanted to pick you

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Speaker 3: up and said you felt uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: With it, so and we told him that that's totally normal.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I don't want his hands on me.

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Speaker 4: I just met him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, whoa hands Why would he put his hands on you?

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Speaker 5: Ever?

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Speaker 4: Because he literally wanted to pick me up, Like he's

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Speaker 4: six three and I'm five two, and he was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: you're so cute and small. Let me pick you up.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like, I'm not a circus freak.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't that nice?

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Speaker 4: No, that was just like a moment where I was like,

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Speaker 3: Or he did see and.

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Speaker 2: Maybe that's what I meant.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I don't even want to ask about what happened

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Speaker 1: Like okay, So what was the cheek kiss? What message

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Speaker 4: I just wanted to say bye. I don't know. I

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Speaker 3: She was trying to suck warmth out of his cheek

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Speaker 2: His radar, remember he's like, I have a great radar

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Speaker 3: I wonder what his radar is pinging right now, because Sabrina,

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Speaker 5: Oh no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 3: Really, yeah, come on, I'm the Field.

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Speaker 4: But you know him, But you know these people.

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Speaker 5: I just think I just think my genuine affection was

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Speaker 5: maybe misinterpreted. I had no point meant to bully you

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I didn't feel like that. It was just an

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Speaker 4: It was just weird.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like you're six three. Do people often say,

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Do you normally pick up women the first time that

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Speaker 5: I come from an athletic background. I come from a

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Speaker 5: All right, you have a point. I shouldn't pick women

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Speaker 3: War I feel like saying I get cold when I'm

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Speaker 1: Okay, But here's here's the thing. Field is saying, he's

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Speaker 3: But in this Irish Catholic family, I get cold easily

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Speaker 2: It means you need more clearly.

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Speaker 5: You know, it wouldn't have been an issue if she

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Speaker 2: Then, okay, items to sound more like a plan.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go out on a limb here just like

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: No, I think I'm good on this one.

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Speaker 2: Wait is that direct enough though? For Field?

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Speaker 4: He's like, wait a minute, I do not want to

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Speaker 3: How you reading that? Field?

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Speaker 5: I'm picking that up?

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Speaker 2: Well that was good.

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Speaker 3: Here we go. He's learning very good hints. Well, Field,

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Speaker 3: you got your answer. It's a know this time, but

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Speaker 3: What are you gonna do? Not answer. We wouldn't like

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Speaker 3: to invite you to the studio, jeff and I would

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Speaker 3: love some uppisies. Oh yeah, can you do to it once?

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Speaker 3: I cannot wait to see your Bunyan's.

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Speaker 6: Field brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, Texan seventy five

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Speaker 6: nine to two says I'm a woman and I'd never

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Speaker 3: It sounds it's kind of fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, Like Brooks said, she has a short female

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Speaker 2: It's the strangest thing.

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Speaker 3: I've never had that instinct to do it personally, but

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Speaker 2: As most guys are enough.

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Speaker 3: Another Texas yikes. Now, when I ask a girl to

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Speaker 2: May I drive you in my vehicle?

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Speaker 3: Give the making model and the license plate too, just

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Speaker 2: And that didn't work out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's too bad. But you can always listen to

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Speaker 3: more weird dates wherever you pick up our podcast. Just

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