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Speaker 1: Second date update.

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Speaker 2: Some people might say it's presumptuous on a first date

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Speaker 2: to bring a girl straight to a hotel. Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: Brooke would say the laquinza.

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Speaker 3: Oh my, I didn't know you were going to say,

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Speaker 3: a nice hotel.

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Speaker 2: You don't even need a room. I'll just lay on

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Speaker 2: the breakfast bar. You feed me Raisin brand till I

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Speaker 2: say stop.

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Speaker 3: I'll show you how to use that waffle maker.

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Speaker 1: That's how Brooke likes it.

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Speaker 2: But I only bring it up because, according to our

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Speaker 2: listener Jack, in his email, he says he had his

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Speaker 2: first date at a local hotel and that's all I know.

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Speaker 1: So Jack, you don say a.

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Speaker 3: Nice restaurant at a local hotel, Chris my fingers for

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Speaker 3: a bar?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hey man, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Dude, thank you wearing me? And you know what, that

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Speaker 4: sounds really great?

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Speaker 3: But wasn't that we're talking about the breakfast bar. Sounds

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Speaker 3: really great.

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Speaker 1: Hook up with the waffle machine.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm talking about taking the lady to a hotel

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Speaker 4: on the first date.

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Speaker 1: You did it didn't happen? Oh yeh, that not happened.

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Speaker 1: I thought that's what it's said in the email. But

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Speaker 1: what a sorry?

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Speaker 2: Reading's hard Okay, I apologize. So maybe you should just

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Speaker 2: start at the beginning. Tell us about this lady that

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Speaker 2: you met.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, we did go to a hotel, but

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Speaker 4: it was the coffee bar.

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Speaker 2: So Jeff read the word hotel and was like, it

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Speaker 2: was a hotel name.

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Speaker 1: What else do you do at a hotel?

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Speaker 3: You can't get a coffee coffee bar? Okay, but the

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Speaker 3: Lacina breakfast bar isn't. What is the difference your name?

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Speaker 4: I just figured if I put hotel in the email,

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Speaker 4: it's like, oh, this is getting somebody's town, yeahs to

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Speaker 4: get Yeah, her name is Delilah.

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Speaker 1: Okay, And how did you meet her?

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Speaker 4: We met on a dating app?

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Speaker 5: Did you take everything in your power not to sing

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: God?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: And you would think like that alone would make me remember.

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Speaker 4: But I don't know if it's because you know dating

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Speaker 4: apps and you're looking at a lot of different people,

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Speaker 4: a lot of different names. But we were sitting there

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Speaker 4: and I say, within five minutes, I can't remember her name?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what did you do? Oh ye?

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Speaker 4: Luckily she kind of saved me from it because she

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Speaker 4: started telling a story about her and a friend and

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Speaker 4: she was like, oh, and my friend was like, Delilah,

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Speaker 4: what are you doing? And I'm like, oh, that's it.

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Speaker 1: Oh Delilah, Oh my god, you listened to her. That's

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Speaker 1: a good thing. Okay, now you're listening.

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Speaker 2: So now that you're fifteen minutes into the date and

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Speaker 2: you finally refigured out her name, where does it go

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Speaker 4: I mean, back up a little bit. She's very pretty

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Speaker 4: and I was really attracted. And this may have been

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Speaker 4: like the whole I forgot her name thing, but she

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Speaker 4: had just like brown reddish hairs, picture like Emma Stone,

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Speaker 4: but prettier.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, that shots fired em A Stone.

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Speaker 3: I know, she's really pretty.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Emason is a big listener to this show. So

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Speaker 2: that's okay.

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Speaker 3: I mean that's awesome. You were blown away. How gorgeous

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Speaker 3: this woman was, Delilah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And it was aside from like I can't remember

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Speaker 4: kind of take us a good side, Like we were

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Speaker 4: wearing the same colors.

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Speaker 3: Did she notice that or did you point it out?

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Speaker 4: She actually was the one who pointed that out, talking like.

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Speaker 3: Black and brown both the black shirt.

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Speaker 1: Wearing all green polka dots together this must mean super specific.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 2: I mean, aside from the color of her hair and

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Speaker 2: that's very good?

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Speaker 1: What other highlights did you and Delilah have with each other?

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Speaker 4: I thought it was a good date. You know, we

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Speaker 4: had a good conversation. It kind of veered off in

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Speaker 4: a weird direction at one point. I don't know how

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Speaker 4: we got there, but like we started talking about childhood

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Speaker 4: dentist drama.

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Speaker 5: Oh that's a good one, and everyone has a.

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Speaker 3: Story about that.

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Speaker 2: It's a really hot thing to talk about on a

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Speaker 2: first day.

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Speaker 3: Did it make you laugh?

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Speaker 4: I mean ye kind of. I had a story about,

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Speaker 4: you know, wisdom teeth getting pulled and lots of blood

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Speaker 4: and actually vomiting or whatever. But she was laughing at it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I like it.

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Speaker 3: She finds a human you like a little dry socket.

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Speaker 3: At least you keep up with your teeth.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm.

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Speaker 1: Maybe we should just jump right to how did it end?

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Speaker 4: I thought it ended well, you know, I mean, it's

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Speaker 4: the daytime to day, so it wasn't like we were

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Speaker 4: kiss We hugged. Okay, I'm trying to think of you know,

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Speaker 4: I used the coupon to pay for the coffee. But

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Speaker 4: I don't think she even saw that, so it's not

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Speaker 4: like she's gonna go, oh, guys cheap or something.

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Speaker 5: Some people love an issue with coupons for some reason

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Speaker 5: because I think that just means you were a smart

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Speaker 5: So I.

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Speaker 3: Need to know.

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Speaker 1: Was it like your phone coupon you had like a

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Speaker 1: paper cutout? Why that's kind of old.

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Speaker 3: Who cares where the coupon came from?

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Speaker 2: Okay, but the brism that you it brooke it so

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Speaker 2: that you can tip less on the final that's a bad.

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Speaker 5: Also, it just means you found a man that could

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Speaker 4: I don't even think she's solid. I mean it was

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Speaker 4: on my phone. I don't even think she's solid. But

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Speaker 4: if she did, then yeah, it was on the phone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah they're fine. Okay, how long has it been since

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Speaker 4: Uh? It is then just over a week and I'm

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Speaker 4: getting absolutely nothing back.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you hesitated there, and I thought you might be

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Speaker 2: saying seven years.

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Speaker 1: So this is than what I was expecting.

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Speaker 2: That means we still have a chance when we come

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Speaker 2: back and we called Delilah for you, Hopefully she has

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Speaker 2: some memory of who you are and some memory of

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Speaker 5: If she forgets his name, it'll just make him feel better. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: that's also positive.

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Speaker 4: I would prefer you didn't bring that fart up, okay,

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Speaker 4: but yeah, whatever you gotta do, Okay.

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Speaker 1: We'll make it happen for you with your second date

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Speaker 1: update right after this hold on second date update us

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Speaker 1: joining us.

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Speaker 2: We've been chopping it up with our listener Jack about

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Speaker 2: his first date with a lovely woman with reddish brown

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Speaker 3: Say, auburn hair, that's not how he described that is

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Speaker 3: what reddish brown is.

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Speaker 1: That's how you read it was red.

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Speaker 2: But you've heard of the app coffee meets Bagel. Well,

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Speaker 2: Jack said no to that bagel, just grabbed coffee with

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Speaker 2: her at a hotel bar, and that it was a

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Speaker 2: great transition, and.

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Speaker 1: Thought when he wrote that down in his head, he's like,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to say this. I'm hearing the people laughing

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Speaker 1: in their cars right now.

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Speaker 2: And they discussed hobbies and childhoods, traumatic dental experiences, all

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Speaker 2: the usual first date topics.

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Speaker 1: But now, just like the ring.

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Speaker 2: It's been seven days, so it's time to go get

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Speaker 2: our girl.

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Speaker 1: Scary you guys see the.

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Speaker 2: Ring you know, you see the video and then you

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Speaker 2: have seven days to like forward or you die.

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Speaker 3: I don't watch those movies. They are two frightens.

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Speaker 2: It's seven days and then the entity comes to get you.

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Speaker 1: And that's what we are. We are the entity coming

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Speaker 1: to her phone, were to ask her what's up. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's okay, Brook.

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Speaker 2: I know you don't appreciate amazing transitions like that, but

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Speaker 2: that's what we're gonna do in radio.

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Speaker 5: But this whole time, Joe was like, I'm coming in

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Speaker 5: with a coffee bagel, Joe, I'm following up with the

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Speaker 5: ring man.

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Speaker 1: This is gonna be.

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Speaker 3: I don't even have to day after you. These two

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Speaker 3: got me because when we.

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Speaker 2: Win on Marconi Award after this, you're gonna see who's laughing.

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Speaker 5: But that's no one knows what Marconi is in radio

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Speaker 5: for twenty I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a radiogram. I didn't know until.

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Speaker 1: Jack, you feel me.

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Speaker 2: You felt like that was a good recap, right, Yeah, no,

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Speaker 2: I thought you guys got You can't say no, Jack no,

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Speaker 2: because he thinks he says no.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, we all know the answer.

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Speaker 4: I only hesitated because I was listening to you guys

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Speaker 4: talking about what the Marconi.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the highest prize you can win in radio.

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Speaker 3: It's not included in for a reason.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Fine, the reckoning is coming. Let's just call this.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Hello, Hey is this Delilah?

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Speaker 5: This is she?

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Speaker 1: Hey Delilah? Happy? What?

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Speaker 3: No, you're in for a treat. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You're hearing a lot of voices right now because you're

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Speaker 2: on the radio right now on the show called Broken

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Speaker 2: Jebbuary in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, hi the show.

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Speaker 3: Thanks, that's appropriate response.

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Speaker 2: I know you're probably wondering what's going on, and I

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Speaker 1: You may have heard of it before. It's called a

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Speaker 1: second Date update.

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Speaker 4: Ah, okay.

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Speaker 2: It's where if we have a listener who wants some

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Speaker 2: help getting in touch with someone they went on a

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Speaker 2: date with recently, we can call them on their behalf

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Speaker 2: and try to figure out if there's a reason why

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Speaker 2: they aren't getting together again.

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Speaker 3: Oh kind of cute.

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Speaker 4: Huh yeah, I guess.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And the reason that we're calling you is because you

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Speaker 2: met up with a guy named Jack recently.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, the coffee date.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, coffee Jack, Right, it was a piece of date

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Speaker 8: but I mean overall, I mean, unfortunately I kind of

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Speaker 8: founded a little a little boring you know, Oh.

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Speaker 1: No, that's the world. Which part was boring?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, there was just like not a lot of initiatives

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Speaker 5: Uh, okay, so you felt like you had to lead

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Speaker 7: Yeah, like a little bit. I honestly think that we

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Speaker 2: Ended up there, okay, And when he was describing how

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Speaker 1: That didn't give you romantic butterflies.

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Speaker 7: It's not necessarily the exciting first date conversation you like,

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Speaker 2: Be fair, like what is like what were you hoped for?

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Speaker 7: A first date script that I expect to be like

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Speaker 3: I mean I can kind of understand what she's saying.

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Speaker 5: When you have a conversation with someone and it feels

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Speaker 5: I'm not saying she should give up on it. I'm

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I didn't hear her saying like, god, that was exhausting.

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Speaker 2: It was just like I was kind of bored. I

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Speaker 4: When people are like, oh, it felt like we already

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Speaker 1: This is like the opposite event.

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Speaker 2: But you're describing Brooke and her cousins at their fam

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Speaker 3: That my second or third date feelings, not a first day.

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Speaker 3: So Delilah, you're saying it was.

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Speaker 5: So boring, it didn't even warrant more exploration into if

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Speaker 7: Like he is a good guy, but to be perfectly honest,

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Speaker 1: Okay, It's like, you know, I got his audition.

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Speaker 2: Sure, but who's to say that he wasn't also equally

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Speaker 1: The conversation chef time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's what he said, because that's the polite

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Speaker 1: Then, and I'm not just going to say that in

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Speaker 2: I'll let him tell you, because Jack is on the

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Speaker 8: Yeah, oh, Orry, I I would not have.

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Speaker 7: It like that had I known that you were I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Brook, he's just doing a j Well, I listen.

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Speaker 4: I'm just gonna say in my defense, I mean, it

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Speaker 4: I don't know what you expect.

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Speaker 7: I don't know. Maybe we connect over a mutual hobby

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Speaker 4: I mean, I was just hold him back, because again

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Speaker 4: I thought we were just trying to go slow, try

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Speaker 3: Get you know, where you get to hobbies.

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Speaker 4: I'm not boring. I mean I eat a whole rope

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Speaker 1: And a boy, now we're talking a lot.

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Speaker 7: What were you making like a what do they called

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Speaker 7: like a mop bong video where you eat in.

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Speaker 8: Front of the camera.

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Speaker 2: He's just an interesting guy who does crazy interesting things

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Speaker 2: all the time. Yeah, and you would, yeah, you would

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Speaker 3: I want more examples, if you want to know what

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Speaker 7: I just didn't feel that connection spark.

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Speaker 2: Are you sure, Delilah, Because back then maybe you didn't

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Speaker 4: Maybe there's a bad example. Okay, my neighbors. My neighbor's

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Speaker 4: cat follows me everywhere like I'm some kind of a

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Speaker 3: Oh judge, why do we go to that analogy?

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Speaker 4: But I'm just saying because I don't wanted to think

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Speaker 5: I say, I say, I mean, I will say, sometimes

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Speaker 3: And that's okay, that's literally.

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Speaker 5: You know, it's better that he didn't talk your ear

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Speaker 7: That's true. I do like being able to have an

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a good opportunity, Jack, give her a.

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Speaker 7: Chance to talk, I will say, Jack, getting in touch

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Speaker 7: with me through the radio is certainly interesting.

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Speaker 1: You have millions of people listening to you right now.

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Speaker 3: You think the tides are turning, Jeff.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but she did mention that she has a ton

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Speaker 3: Why would bring that up right now?

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Speaker 1: Well, she brought it up, But we don't have to

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Speaker 1: go back there, You're right, broke.

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Speaker 2: I'm hoping that we don't and that she just agrees

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Speaker 2: to another date right now with Jack.

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Speaker 3: That's excited.

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Speaker 2: A coffee and possibly a bagel date that we would

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Speaker 4: No, I've got to have a dinner like we'll caught

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Speaker 4: at night?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what about a movie night?

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Speaker 3: Ring.

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Speaker 1: Sure.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that movie is terrifying.

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Speaker 7: I don't want to watch the Ring.

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Speaker 1: Well, this is sounding a lot better.

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Speaker 2: So what do you think about giving him one more

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Speaker 1: We would pay for it if you say yes.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I do have a couple of other dates

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Speaker 7: willing to, you know, be that fourth date, I would

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Speaker 7: totally go on a second date with you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, she's volleyed it back over the net to you.

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Speaker 1: Jack.

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm just saying I might have some dates myself.

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Speaker 1: All right, I.

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Speaker 4: Agree, I agree.

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Speaker 3: All right, you're excited.

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Speaker 4: I'm excited. I just wanted to kind of. I'm not

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Speaker 2: Well, Jack, if you're really not boring, maybe you go

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Speaker 2: on the other dates with Delilah and you can meet

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Speaker 3: What are you on today?

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Speaker 1: I know, man, seven days.

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Speaker 4: I don't think anybody likes that idea.

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Speaker 7: Just to me, four more dates, we're gonna.

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Speaker 3: Go get Jeff and napped.

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Speaker 1: Brook's gonna leave us with a really quippy thing on

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Speaker 1: the very end of it. Go Brook.

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Speaker 3: No, I think that we just end the call. Congratulations.

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Speaker 3: You can't wait to hear back from you. Let us

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Speaker 1: Well, that was boring rook Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's nice to hear the boring guy get

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Speaker 1: I like that.

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Speaker 3: I think it's funny. Like when we were talking to him,

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Speaker 3: I didn't find him boring.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but he seemed like normal.

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Speaker 3: But maybe we talked more than he did and that

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Speaker 1: Definitely interesting one. It's good that he realized that and

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Speaker 2: What the bad news is, we're not going to be

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Speaker 2: out again. Because the thing that really seemed to change

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Speaker 5: I feel like this is one of those things where

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like what's your body count?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: After like middle school school?

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Speaker 5: Okay, what's a better one, like the most embarrassing thing

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Speaker 5: that happened to you in middle school?

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Speaker 2: No, that sounds like that sounds like all of the

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Speaker 2: other stories that he was telling about the dentist.

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Speaker 5: No, no, I don't have the list in front of me.

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Speaker 5: If he needs help, we can do that. Make the

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Speaker 5: list and let us know that's your own personality.

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Speaker 1: Forward us that list so that we don't have to

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Speaker 1: think of it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but remember, if you want help with your dating life,

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Speaker 2: we can be there for you to call that person

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Speaker 2: who isn't calling you back. And remember all of our

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Speaker 2: second dates are online on YouTube, where you can also

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Speaker 2: watch Brook eat an entire rotisserie chicken in under twenty minutes.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe I haven't done that yet.

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Speaker 2: It's the ball the way that Jawn hinges, It's wild.

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Speaker 2: You got check it out at Brooke and Jeffrey