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Speaker 1: I wanted to update everyone who read my original post.

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Speaker 1: Even though it's humiliating and painful, the truth is out.

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Speaker 1: Alex knows, and the quant and the consequences have been

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Speaker 1: worse than I could have imagined. I have no one

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Speaker 1: to blame but myself. Thursday evening, Alex did not come

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Speaker 1: home after work. I thought maybe he was staying late,

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Speaker 1: but around nine pm I got a text from him.

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Speaker 1: It was a photo of me and Jake kissing at

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Speaker 1: my bachelorette party.

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Speaker 2: That's oh man.

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Speaker 1: Also, Chad has voted oh he is the bigger a

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Speaker 1: hole over Jake ninety six four percent. Yeah, no words

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Speaker 1: in that text, just the photo. I panicked and immediately

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Speaker 1: texted Claire asking if she told Alex to reply that

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Speaker 1: he deserved to know the truth.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, wait is this the same friend? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's like, oh, it's a one last fling.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I think I think Op just said that

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Speaker 3: in her head and Claire really didn't say it, and

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Speaker 3: she just wanted Claire to be on her side so

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Speaker 2: Low key though, low key though, Claire. It's like, Yo,

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Speaker 2: where was this energy in the beginning?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like what you should Jake, Why did you invite Jake?

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Speaker 2: Why did you.

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Speaker 1: She wants Alex. I just saw it as Riley hit

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Speaker 1: the conspiracy. Dude, Claire wants Alex? Ay, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: that would be crazy.

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Speaker 4: Yo, that's a four D. Yes.

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Speaker 3: You know what I want to know. I want to

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Speaker 3: be there at the bachelorette party. Who was pushing them

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Speaker 3: both drinks? Who was pushing them drinks was clear, like, here,

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Speaker 3: have another one, have a shot with me, girl, d

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Speaker 3: da da da.

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Speaker 2: That would be the telling tale. Dude, you could be

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Speaker 2: you could.

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Speaker 4: Actually you're onto something.

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Speaker 2: You could one hundred percent right in my friend.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Wow. And then no, baby, it's okay. You deserve a

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Speaker 2: one time thing. It'll be all right.

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Speaker 1: Ah, gotcha, Okay, okay. So I don't think she did

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Speaker 1: it to be malicious. Maybe she was just feeling guilty herself.

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Speaker 1: But at the moment I was freaking out. I started

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Speaker 1: spamming Alex's phone with calls and texts, begging him to

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Speaker 1: logged onto social media and saw that Alex had posted

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Speaker 1: that our wedding was canceled because the woman I thought

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Speaker 1: I was marrying turned out to be someone I didn't.

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Speaker 2: Know who is she.

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Speaker 1: People started calling and messaging me, asking me what was

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Speaker 1: going on. I didn't know what to say, Hannic can lie,

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Speaker 1: telling them we had a huge argument but that we

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Speaker 1: were working it out. Meanwhile, Alex was replying to comments

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Speaker 1: under his post, saying things like she knows what she

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Speaker 1: did and there's nothing left to say.

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Speaker 2: Even it's almost even more of a nice knife twist

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Speaker 2: that he's being like, still being classy enough to not

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Speaker 2: like totally put her on blast for exactly what she did.

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Speaker 2: And it's like, bro, he's still being like a gentleman

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Speaker 2: in the end of like not even full. He could

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Speaker 2: he could destroy he could just post the photo being

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Speaker 2: like went and canceled. How hard would that be?

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Speaker 4: Freaking thumbnail that is that is freaking bars.

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Speaker 2: But he doesn't even do.

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Speaker 1: That, Alex, classy Alex. Friday night, Jake showed up at

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Speaker 1: my apartment. He said he was sorry, claimed he didn't

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Speaker 1: know Alex my fiance, and tried to explain himself.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you got invite to bachelorette party.

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Speaker 3: My dude, doesn't matter if it's Alex, don't matter who

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Speaker 3: it is bachelor.

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Speaker 1: Party exactly yeah, yeah, he's like, oh that Alexo.

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Speaker 2: Also, people have social media. Shut that. You know what

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Speaker 2: he said?

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Speaker 4: He said Alex's last name.

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Speaker 1: It's like, usually when I hook up with people's fiances,

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Speaker 1: I only do it once.

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Speaker 2: I don't do that.

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Speaker 4: I don't target the same guy twice.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: I told him it didn't matter. What we did ruin

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Speaker 1: the best thing in my life and I wanted Jake gone.

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Speaker 1: I told him to leave and not come back. He

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Speaker 1: tried to linger, saying something about how we could figure

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Speaker 1: makes my skin crawl. You should make your own skin crawl, girl.

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Speaker 1: Lo keto, Lo keto.

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Speaker 4: Then on Saturday morning, the hammer dropped.

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Speaker 2: What the hammer hasn't dropped already?

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Speaker 4: No, this is what more hammer is there to draw

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Speaker 4: for the nails?

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Speaker 1: We got more about a freaking hammer about to drop.

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Speaker 1: On Saturday morning, the hammer dropped. Alex's older brother Mark

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Speaker 1: showed up with two of Alex's grooms men. They knocked,

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Speaker 1: came in and started packing up Alex's things, his clothes,

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Speaker 1: what a lie was the girl one, Mark kept repeating

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Speaker 1: that there was nothing to talk about. When they were done,

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Speaker 1: Mark told me that Alex wanted me to keep the

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but this man, that is that is so wow.

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Speaker 4: Man, when when when she goes low, he goes ha.

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Speaker 2: He he soars into the heavens.

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Speaker 4: He soars into the eagles nest.

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Speaker 2: But what a I have never seen killing them with

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Speaker 2: this is truly murder with kindness.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is like you know, stabbing Caesar a thousand

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Speaker 1: times in the back with kindness, like like at two

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Speaker 1: So, when they were done, Mark told me that Alex

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Speaker 1: didn't want it back because he had no use for

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Speaker 1: it and selling it wouldn't make up for what had happened.

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Speaker 1: He also told me Alex would be sending a check

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Speaker 1: to cover my share of the canceled wedding costs that

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Speaker 1: his half of the lease was paid for. Mark to

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Speaker 1: at least put Alex on the phone with me that

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Speaker 1: he deserved some kind of closure by yelling at me,

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Speaker 1: and I'd at least be able to apologize where he

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Speaker 1: could hear my voice. He just said, Alex, that's all

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Speaker 1: the closure he needs, and to stop contacting him and

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Speaker 1: just leave him alone. And I've done enough.

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Speaker 2: I mean again, because literally once again, She's like, let

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Speaker 2: me just contact him so you know he can, you know,

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Speaker 2: get his frustration out. No, no, no, that's what you

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Speaker 2: want the closure. He's like, I want to be done.

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Speaker 2: I want to move on and not have to think

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Speaker 2: about you again. And that's only gonna make it way

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Speaker 2: doesn't want it.

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Speaker 4: He would have called you people want to.

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Speaker 1: Mark used to be so kind to me, like a

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Speaker 1: big brother. He was excited about the wedding, calling himself

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Speaker 1: the future crazy uncle. Now he was cold and distant,

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Speaker 1: really hit me. Alex was gone and my life was

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Speaker 1: gone too. I can't afford to stay in that apartment.

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Speaker 1: Alex paid the rent and utilities while I handle the groceries, cooking,

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Speaker 1: and chores. I don't make enough as a personal trainer

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Speaker 1: to cover everything on my own, and I let my

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Speaker 1: certifications elaps months ago because we planned me being a

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Speaker 1: traditional state at home wife and mother after the wedding,

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Speaker 1: which is something I really wanted. I've started packing my

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Speaker 1: things and we'll be moving back in with my parents.

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Speaker 1: I haven't told them the full story yet, but I

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Speaker 1: know the full conversation is coming and it's going to

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Speaker 1: be excruciating. My friends are avoiding me to some have

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Speaker 1: unfollowed me on social media, and Claire hasn't responded to

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Speaker 1: any of the messages since she told Alex, I don't

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Speaker 1: even know how to begin rebuilding my life from this. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: think you just moved to a new city something.

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Speaker 3: Or like yeah you gotta yahd zero go personal train

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Speaker 3: in BALI.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, change your name. No, Like, honestly, that's not a

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Speaker 1: bad idea. I think, you know, I really do think, like, okay,

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Speaker 1: Like as much as this person sucks, yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: it's important, Like you can start a new.

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Speaker 2: What do we what do we do from here? What

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Speaker 2: has happened?

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Speaker 1: Royally messed up? But hey, we are all human, some

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Speaker 1: of us mess up worse than others, but we can

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Speaker 1: start a new life. I think Riley's right. Personal train

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Speaker 1: in BALI, get some clients remote you know over here

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Speaker 1: US Dollar Arbitrage and Bali, and then you know, live

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Speaker 1: in like a little little small thing personal train over

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Speaker 1: there too, and.

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Speaker 3: Then work your way up to be tread or wife

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Speaker 3: for someone else.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Just literally just work on being a better person.

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Speaker 2: It's like, all right, I've already done all of this

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Speaker 2: fed up stuff. I literally can change that. All I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but hey, that's it. We're not here to crucify.

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Speaker 1: We're just here to make you better. Indeed, you know,

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Speaker 4: Chat's here to crucify. We're chats here to crucify, and

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Speaker 4: then we help you get better.

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Speaker 2: We're here to watch with our with on the sidelines.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then we'll take you down off the crucifixion,

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Speaker 1: you know, bury you for three days, and then you'll

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Speaker 1: come out new, shiny and improved.

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Speaker 1: So I don't even know how to begin rebuilding my

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Speaker 1: because of one selfish, stupid decision. Alex was my rock,

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Speaker 1: and I threw it all away for nothing. I betrayed

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Speaker 1: won't even talk to me, triving me crazy that I

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Speaker 1: can't at least apologize to him in person. To Michael

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Speaker 1: real name, I know you'll never see this. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Wait, she even used his real name.

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Speaker 4: His real name, dude.

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Speaker 1: I know my apology means nothing but all regret what

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Speaker 1: I did for the rest of my life. You deserved

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Speaker 1: so much better, and I failed you in every way

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Speaker 1: that mattered. I know that when I'm old and gray,

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Speaker 1: even if I find someone else, You'll always be in

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Speaker 1: my heart. No, no, say that you're gonna die alone

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Speaker 1: in this scenario, you know, say that you'll die alone.

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Speaker 1: I love you to the moon and back, and I

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Speaker 1: don't think I'll ever be able to love someone else

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Speaker 1: the way I loved you. There will always be some

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Speaker 1: part of me that's always yours, and if you want

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Speaker 1: some part of us to always be with you, you should

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Speaker 1: join us live on YouTube and Facebook every weekday at

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Speaker 1: three pm PST. We're probably live right now, just taper profile.

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Speaker 1: There's a little bit more to this story. Yeah, another

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Speaker 1: relevant update. But what do you think about this this girl,

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Speaker 1: this this this little this little scarlet witch dishing like

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Speaker 1: using this guy's real name on Reddit and like apologizing publicly.

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Speaker 2: Wow, what a story, guys, what a story fellas my

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Speaker 1: You know, have your wits about you, don't, don't you know,

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Speaker 3: Your your fiance hasn't been dead against two you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you never. I never thought, even on this show,

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Speaker 4: Here we are here, we you know. But if we're

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Speaker 2: Who else?

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Speaker 4: Sometimes duty calls.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes the duty calls and you need to flush it

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Speaker 1: But let me know if you disagree with anything we've said,

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Speaker 2: Time for okop Rewam. My husband swears he won't cheat again.

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Speaker 2: I believed him, but now I'm not so sure.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what He's not a bucket time when

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Speaker 2: Wow. My ex who will call Mike hate Mike and

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Speaker 2: I were together since we were fourteen and got married

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Speaker 2: at twenty two. Wow. We have two kids together, fifteen

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Speaker 2: one of those trips, guess what he did, Sam, What

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Speaker 2: do you do? He bought gifts for the family. Just kidding.

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Speaker 2: He hooked up with one of his coworkers. This is okop. Yikes, yikes,

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Speaker 2: no family gifts today. No.

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Speaker 1: You know, when he said to you, was gonna, you know,

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Speaker 2: You know, I think that's exactly what happens. I never

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Speaker 2: He begged me for forgiveness and said that he still

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Speaker 2: You know, it sounds like he made a big mistake.

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Speaker 2: and Mike was very supportive. That is good. Now. I

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Speaker 2: Since the lockdown, Mike has been over frequently, and at

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Speaker 4: Yes, she is.

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Speaker 2: I would be lying to you, guys, if I said

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Speaker 2: pros and cons. He's a great ada and the kids

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Speaker 4: I mean the cons are maybe cheats on you again.

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Speaker 2: It's been a few days now since I've posted, and

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Speaker 2: Reddit? I'm very grateful because this helped me calm down

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Speaker 4: Man is smooth as fuck.

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Speaker 2: Oh smoothest but oh. When the kids woke up, our

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Speaker 4: There's no way said that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, lobby daddy, I hear you yelling, all yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she thought we were fighting now. The divorce affected her,

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Speaker 2: we weren't fighting, but uh, quite the opposite, little lady,

439
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:40,479
Speaker 2: we were thinking about getting back together.

440
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 4: Oh.

441
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:43,159
Speaker 2: She thought about it for a while and said that

442
00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,600
Speaker 2: she was happy for us and hoped it was forever

443
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:48,720
Speaker 2: this time. The next day, I dropped my kids off

444
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 2: at my parents' house so I could talk to Mike

445
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:52,960
Speaker 2: at his place. We had a long talk about how

446
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,159
Speaker 2: we felt and about each other, what we planned to

447
00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,639
Speaker 2: do about it going forward, and what he planned to

448
00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 2: do next time we hit a rough patch, specially since

449
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 2: we plan on having a third kid. He told me

450
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:05,880
Speaker 2: that night he cheated still haunted him ten years later.

451
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 2: He told me how it wasn't worth it one bit

452
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,240
Speaker 2: and how it was the biggest mistake of his life.

453
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 2: He said if he ever hit a rough patch again,

454
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 2: we would talk about it like adults. We even suggested

455
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 2: we do couples counseling every now and then, even when

456
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 2: times are good. I liked this idea. There are some

457
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,320
Speaker 2: details about the conversation that I want to keep private,

458
00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:26,199
Speaker 2: but long story short, we got back together. We're going

459
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,160
Speaker 2: to take it slow, and in every step we take.

460
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 2: We both agreed that our children would take priority over everything.

461
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,200
Speaker 2: He's not going to move in yet, but he would

462
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:38,240
Speaker 2: spend a few nights a week with us at home.

463
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 2: Later that night, we sat the kids down and broke

464
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:44,360
Speaker 2: the news. Daughter didn't say much because she already knew,

465
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 2: but our son was over the moon.

466
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:48,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure he's like, ah, my parents would get

467
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:50,199
Speaker 1: it back together very nice.

468
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 2: Since we divorced when he was a baby, the concept

469
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:55,439
Speaker 2: of both of his parents being together is still quite

470
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:58,400
Speaker 2: new to him. They obviously asked questions and we answered them.

471
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 2: We're also planning on doing family counseling to make the

472
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 2: transition easier for everybody. Overall, I'm really happy right now.

473
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:06,920
Speaker 2: Mike made a mistake ten years ago, but I don't

474
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 2: hold it against him, and I've completely forgiven him for it.

475
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 2: I know he loves me now and won't shoot on

476
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 2: me anymore. I'm back together now with the love of

477
00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 2: my life, the father of my kids. Wow, and I

478
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 2: couldn't be any happier.

479
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 4: Good for you. Op, okayop, all right.

480
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:29,439
Speaker 1: So the first story has already got me laughing before

481
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:35,199
Speaker 1: I've even started, like actually going through it. I'm very

482
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 1: excited to share.

483
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 2: It's gonna be a good one. I can tell already.

484
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 2: I'm buckled in today. I eft up. You can't even

485
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:48,919
Speaker 2: say it. He can't even say it.

486
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 1: Today, I efed up by taking double my normal dose

487
00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 1: of adderall at eight pm than masturbating for nine hours.

488
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 1: Strap It's amazing, Right, this is honestly one of the

489
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: stupidest and most embarrassing things I've ever done, and I

490
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,639
Speaker 1: just feel like confessing will help me feel like less

491
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 1: of an idiot.

492
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,680
Speaker 4: Not really still pretty dumb.

493
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 1: So for context, I take twenty five milligrams of adderall

494
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:29,919
Speaker 1: XR on most mornings and had taken it yesterday. Also Okay, well,

495
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: the day was coming to an end and I could

496
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 1: tell my meds had mostly worn off. But I don't

497
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 1: really have anything to do until Monday, and there was

498
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:37,960
Speaker 1: a book that I had been meaning to read, so

499
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 1: I figured I would stay up reading just because I could.

500
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:43,680
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, stop, this all started because he wanted to

501
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 2: read a book.

502
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, you had noble intentions.

503
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 2: Bro, this guy's an idiot. Sorry, I'm sorry.

504
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 4: Alright, it goes downhill fast.

505
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 1: The problem is that it's hard for me to read

506
00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 1: without my meds, so I just thought that I would

507
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 1: take some in the evening, stay up all night, then

508
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 1: fix my sleep schedule over the weekend, which is a

509
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 1: terrible idea.

510
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, I don't know.

511
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 2: Why to do something, use like a use a flash

512
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 2: card or something, Yeah, to help you read.

513
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:13,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know what you're doing.

514
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 1: Man. Where I messed up though, is for some reason

515
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: I thought it would be a good idea to take

516
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,879
Speaker 1: double my normal dose, which would make it fifty milligrams,

517
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,119
Speaker 1: which is pretty close to the max that is prescribed

518
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 1: and way higher than.

519
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 4: I'm used to it.

520
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that'll do it.

521
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,439
Speaker 1: So I took fifty milligrams at eight pm and it

522
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 1: kicked in around nine pm. Then at about ten pm

523
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,639
Speaker 1: I started masturbata the plan. I love how you I

524
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,159
Speaker 1: has a plan, the plan, the.

525
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:45,439
Speaker 5: Masturbation plan, the master plan, the master plan, the master plan.

526
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 2: I just got that.

527
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: The plan was to masturbate for maybe thirty minutes max,

528
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 1: take a shower, read for a couple hours, then either

529
00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 1: watch a movie or go to sleep.

530
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 2: Thirty minutes that's a long time. That's a long time

531
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 2: to masturbate, Like you need a break. Maybe, I mean,

532
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 2: maybe he's a workhorse, but thirty minutes mascurbating good.

533
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 1: So if you've ever taken these types of stimulant meds, though,

534
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 1: you know that whatever you're doing when it kicks in,

535
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 1: that's what you're gonna be doing for a while. It

536
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 1: was even worse now because it took twice what I

537
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 1: usually take.

538
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

539
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:29,919
Speaker 1: I ended up edging myself for literally about five or

540
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 1: six hours, wow, masturbating normally for about three which I've.

541
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 2: Been masturbating normally. No, what does normally? No, there's no normally.

542
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 2: First of all, Also, like you know all the biagra commercials,

543
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 2: they're like, if you're hard for four hours, call your doctor. Bro,

544
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 2: he needs a whole surgeon team in this.

545
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, you need to, like the whole o R.

546
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 1: You got the emergency room, all the staff coming in

547
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,719
Speaker 1: because you have been hard for nine hours.

548
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 4: That is not normal. Please consult the doctor if you

549
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 4: are experiencing that.

550
00:27:58,200 --> 00:27:58,640
Speaker 2: Wow.

551
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 1: So I think the adderall kind of kept me from

552
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 1: finishing so I could just keep going. And it was

553
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 1: probably the most hyper focused moment of my life, just

554
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 1: so mad. So all good things must come to an end.

555
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 1: I finally finished about two hours before making this post,

556
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 1: and my dick just hurt, definitely because I kind of

557
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,160
Speaker 1: agitated the skin because a portion of it was done

558
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:30,199
Speaker 1: without any lube.

559
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 4: Which why, why, dude, you're giving yourself an Indian burn?

560
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 4: Did you ever get an Indian burn when you were

561
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 4: like in middle school, high.

562
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 2: School or whatever. Of course on your freaking penis. Yeah,

563
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 2: you got that needs recovery times.

564
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 1: Also, I just generally feel like shit, which most people

565
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 1: probably would from either masturbating for nine hours of course,

566
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 1: or having a bunch of amphetamines in their system, let alone.

567
00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 2: And staying up all night and staying up all night,

568
00:28:58,200 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 2: stay all night.

569
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm going to masturbate for the next month,

570
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 1: and I'm not picking adderalls for a few days either,

571
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 1: My guy, that is the prescription that you should have

572
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 1: no masturbating, no adderall.

573
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 2: Where is that doctor? Where is that doctor? Don't masturbate

574
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 2: for nine hours? Very simple. It shouldn't have to be

575
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 2: a prescription a rule.

576
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 4: There shouldn't be a rule that you did.

577
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 5: But I guess, all right, in our ten command we

578
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 5: that's number eleven.

579
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's number eleven, do not masturbate for nine.

580
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 2: Hours on adderall? So god, all right, what to even

581
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 2: say about this one?

582
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, man, I think I'll just leave it

583
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 1: at that. Don't masturbate for that long and too long?

584
00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 1: It's too long, honestly, Like, like, what what's the average

585
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 1: masturbation time?

586
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 4: Let's look it up.

587
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 2: Around or less than five minutes. You got that so quick?

588
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 4: Do you have that in your brain?

589
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 2: I'm guessing. I'm guessing.

590
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 1: Okay, I just know he's like around five minutes. I

591
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 1: researched this. Masturbation experts are in.

592
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 2: That's me.

593
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 4: Okay.

594
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 1: Seventy eight percent of all Americans age fourteen and older

595
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 1: have they masturbated. Fun fact apparently the laboratory. Okay, so

596
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: I'll just read this. The ejaculation latency sign was highest

597
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 1: during intercourse and then the lowest was in during masturbation

598
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 1: median four point eight nine minutes.

599
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 2: I was pretty spot on.

600
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, come at me on a journey masturbation facts.

601
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 2: Gosh, we got to cover. I think I need to

602
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:35,959
Speaker 2: take a shower.

603
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,880
Speaker 1: I know, even after reading that, dude too much, too

604
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 1: much thinking about masterbas doing over nine hours.

605
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 2: I do not care if you have cancer. My child

606
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 2: deserves a saint.

607
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:52,479
Speaker 4: Uh wow, come out swinging, coming out swinging.

608
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 2: This one's a little backstory. About a year ago I

609
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 2: was diagnosed with the cancer in the naval cavity stage two.

610
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 2: The tumor was quite large, but thankfully it is contained.

611
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 2: Basically it's not spreading anymore. So that's good. Good, good

612
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 2: to get it removed. I first had to undergo aggressive

613
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 2: chemo therapy to make it smaller. Thanks to the chemo,

614
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 2: I had severe alopecia hair loss, which made most of

615
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 2: my hair and even eyebrows and eyelashes fall out. That sucks.

616
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 2: At some point I had to go bald, but I

617
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 2: wore a wig because I didn't want to look like

618
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 2: a skinhead slash neo Nazi. Note I'm six four and

619
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 2: pretty muscular, so I thought people would assume that.

620
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 4: Subtle flex okay, subtle flex sera.

621
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 2: I didn't even think about that.

622
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know if it's even a subtle flex.

623
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 1: Like I'm super buff, but people think I'm in to

624
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 1: you a Nazi.

625
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 2: I guess it's a mixed flex, A mix mixed flex,

626
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 2: A mix flex, mixed flex.

627
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 4: I like that.

628
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 2: So once, after a long chemo session in the hospital,

629
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 2: I took the bus home. There's only one bus that

630
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 2: goes from the hospital to where I live, so I

631
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 2: took that one, only to see it was absolutely packed.

632
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 2: I felt like ish thanks to the chemo, so I

633
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 2: asked a middle aged dude to let me sit. He

634
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 2: was very understanding and gave me a spot without complaining.

635
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 2: Two stops lay enter entitled mom a lovely whale within,

636
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 2: a lovely whale rose, a lovely whale with an I

637
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 2: demand a parley with the CEO haircut, and a twelve

638
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 2: some year old kid.

639
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love all those descriptions. All those

640
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: descriptions are just purpose.

641
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 2: Super solid. It took her roughly five seconds to see

642
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 2: that the bus was packed and started looking for a

643
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 2: free seat, spot me and start marching towards me, or

644
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 2: in her case, just trying to squeeze through the aisles

645
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 2: while shoving others aside. When I saw her, I knew

646
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:40,959
Speaker 2: I was screwed. She then stood next to me and

647
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 2: decided to talk to me. This is the conversation that followed, Hey,

648
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 2: could you let my child sit down? You mean me?

649
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 2: Who else? Me? Oh, I'm sorry, but I'm on my

650
00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 2: way to the hospital. And she cuts them off, so

651
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 2: are we, which was nonsense because the stop was a

652
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 2: few kilometers away from the hospital, so there's no way

653
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 2: they could have been coming from the hospital.

654
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 4: Ridiculous.

655
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 2: My boy just broke his leg and we're coming straight

656
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 2: from the er. And her kid was standing next to

657
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 2: her without any support, and he was clearly embarrassed.

658
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 1: Which honestly like, if you have a mom like that,

659
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 1: your life is going to be embared.

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00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 2: That honestly sucks. I feel bad for the children of

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00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 2: the entitled parents that aren't the same.

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00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 1: Some of the at least eighteen years of just subjugation

663
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 1: under a dumb dictator also shout out to my mom.

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Speaker 4: I love you, mom.

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Speaker 2: Yes, not an evil dictator.

666
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 2: So the kid was standing there slightly embarrassed me. He's

668
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 2: standing next to you completely fine, entitled mom. Look here, boy,

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Speaker 2: I'm twenty one years old. He a my kid deserves

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00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 2: to sit down me. Look, ma'am, I'm sorry, but I

671
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 2: just got back from a chemo session in the hospital

672
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:00,479
Speaker 2: and I need to sit down and arrest. And then

673
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 2: I moved my wig a little bit so she could

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00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 2: see my bald head. The entitlement then started straight up

675
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 2: yelling in my.

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Speaker 6: Face, stop making excuses and get off the effing seats,

677
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 6: you effing skinhead piece of ish. No, she hit him

678
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 6: right where hes He just didn't want to be known

679
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 6: as his skinhead.

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00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:26,280
Speaker 1: Seriously, he showed this vulnerable moment where he's like, see,

681
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 1: I don't have any hair underneath here.

682
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 2: And she just ripped him to shreds and just please

683
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 2: imagine you just learned, like you want to sit them

684
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 2: down down somewhere on a bus. You just learned someone

685
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:37,720
Speaker 2: has cancer.

686
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 6: And that's your h that's your response, that's your response.

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00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:46,399
Speaker 2: This She could be the worst entitled parent that we've

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00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:49,360
Speaker 2: seen yet. At this point I was baffled. I would

689
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 2: be too.

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00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:50,440
Speaker 4: Also.

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00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: I don't know how anyone on the bus has it

692
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:54,840
Speaker 1: been like lady calmed down.

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00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, our hero is our hero is approach? Yes,

694
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 2: my hero. So at this point I was baffled. I

695
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 2: didn't know what to say. The kid was trying to

696
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 2: make his mother stop, and we had the attention of

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00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 2: the entire bus. She then grabbed me and tried to

698
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 2: yank me from my seat. You just grab someone who's

699
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 2: going through chemotherapy with cancer and tries to yank them

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00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 2: out of her seat.

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00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 4: Come on what?

702
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:26,439
Speaker 2: I held on tight and thankfully didn't fall off. Now

703
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 2: does enter, old gentleman, my savior, old gentlemird, old gentleman.

704
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 4: You are entering, and you are saving the day.

705
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 2: My knight in shining armor. He has now into the

706
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 2: chat O G will you please shut the f up?

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00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:46,760
Speaker 2: You don't cow Hurdie you think you're talking to og

708
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 2: with an ice cold voice. Stop assaulting our passengers or

709
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 2: I will be forced to step in.

710
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 4: Wow.

711
00:35:55,760 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 2: Also, every dumb moron can see that this man has cancer.

712
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 4: Wow.

713
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 2: No, he's just an effing skinhead. He's got no eyebrows.

714
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 2: You twat seems like he really offended a title mom

715
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 2: with that one, because she's spun around on the spot

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00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 2: and threw a falcon punch at Old Gent's face. I

717
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 2: was shocked and in disbelief. The whole bus was flabberg acid,

718
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 2: and the kid probably wished he'd never been born. I

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00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:38,359
Speaker 2: probably went to Old Gent then said something unbelievable, and

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00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 2: a golden sweet karma moment followed Old Gent, Okay, that

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00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:48,800
Speaker 2: does it. Grassing passengers on the bus, physical assault against

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00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 2: a passenger, and now assaulting an officer. No, you're in

723
00:36:55,280 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 2: deep trouble, lady, undercover car. That's right. Old Gent then

724
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,240
Speaker 2: pulled out a badge and told her to stay where

725
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 2: she was. Then he pulled out his phone and called

726
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 2: someone and told her that she was being arrested. I

727
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 2: couldn't believe it.

728
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 1: Wow, the Old Gent was literally a cop, an undercover

729
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:21,879
Speaker 1: bus cop.

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00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 2: Can you imagine like seriously. At this point, entitled mom

731
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 2: was white as.

732
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 4: A wall, as she should be.

733
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 1: You should be scared out of your begeebus, right now,

734
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 1: you should.

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00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 2: The bus had just come to a stop, so she

736
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 2: decided she'd make a run for it, but other passengers,

737
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 2: more heroes, blocked her way. She then got charged with

738
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 2: resisting arrest thanks to this, an extra charge.

739
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,360
Speaker 4: I love who he's like, thanks to this, more charges.

740
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:54,720
Speaker 2: Charges, racking it up, baby, making it rain. With these charges.

741
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 2: Three stops later, a police car was waiting for the

742
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:01,279
Speaker 2: entitled mom and kid. The entitled kid told me he

743
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 2: was so sorry for his mother's behavior, and I honestly

744
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 2: felt really sorry for the kid. He wasn't a bad child,

745
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:09,760
Speaker 2: but his mother was a hell spawn.

746
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 1: And I just again the kid, dude, he's like, the

747
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: poor kid, I'm sorry my mom. Like it's probably like,

748
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, my mom's doing this again, Like this isn't

749
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 1: the first.

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00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh oh, definitely this is repeat behavior. Definitely never

751
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 2: probably never assaulted an officer.

752
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 4: Though hopefully she learned her lasses.

753
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 2: We can only pray.

754
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 4: Here's the slammer.

755
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 2: Og then talked to me and asked me if I

756
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,879
Speaker 2: wanted to press charges, to which I gladly said yes,

757
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 2: as you should. He took a statement and thankfully was

758
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,840
Speaker 2: kind enough to let me solve everything on the phone,

759
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:42,839
Speaker 2: so I didn't have to come into the police station

760
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 2: for questioning. That was awesome, you know, doing him a solid.

761
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:49,240
Speaker 2: In the end entitled mom got some jail time, although

762
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,840
Speaker 2: I think it was only a few months and community service.

763
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 2: I in return, got a good story to tell At

764
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 2: the sweet taste of instant karma. I should also note

765
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 2: that this surgery went really well. I was declared cancer

766
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 2: free in November and my hair is starting to slowly return.

767
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 4: Happy endings.

768
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,799
Speaker 2: Also, I don't need to work so good. Absolutely, And

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00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 2: to top cherry on the cake, he doesn't need a

770
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 2: wig anymore. Wow.

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00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 4: Look yeah that look at that.

772
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 1: Karma will always balance out, the good will always win.

773
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:22,320
Speaker 2: This was This was definitely a roller coaster.

774
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 4: So if you're having a bad week, just know things

776
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:25,439
Speaker 4: are going to turn around.

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00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 2: That's right. You could be you could be attacked by

778
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 2: a whale.

779
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: You could be attacked by a whale. But then at

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00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 1: the end of that whale attack will be a beautiful rainbow.

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00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:35,839
Speaker 4: That's right, and you'll be bathing in it.

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