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Speaker 1: Hello, my loves, Welcome to the Give Them Lalla Podcast,

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Speaker 1: and welcome back and ready newcomers, welcome to the circus.

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Speaker 1: I've got Easton.

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Speaker 2: I'm half a brain today.

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Speaker 1: Well that's standard half a brain today. I'm totally kiddy. Jessica,

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Speaker 1: how are you hello?

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Speaker 3: I'm a brain and a half today, So I got you.

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Speaker 1: Oh did you get a lot of sleep?

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Speaker 3: I got such good sleep.

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Speaker 1: We're so jealous.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry you guys, because can you tell everyone how

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Speaker 4: your night went?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 1: Ocean? I took her to sky Zone yesterday and we

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Speaker 1: spent the weekend with Bow and Stossey and Hartford, and

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Speaker 1: we had like the most fun weekend in the entire world.

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Speaker 1: And Ocean was thriving. And then all of this sudden

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Speaker 1: after sky Zone, she like hit her like a ton

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Speaker 1: of bricks, just sobbing, my mouth hurts, grabbing her face

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Speaker 1: and I'm like this came out of nowhere. I was

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Speaker 1: freaking out. I go to urgent Care and they're like

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Speaker 1: it's fort and I thought he said forty five minutes

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Speaker 1: and I was like forty five minutes and he goes, no,

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Speaker 1: four to five hours. I was like, change a sign

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Speaker 1: on this place, because that ain't urgent. No, no mean

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Speaker 1: performing surgery back here, like, I'm gonna strip mall and

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Speaker 1: you're televie it's gonna take four to five hours. Come

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Speaker 1: on now. So I went to CVS, got the little

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Speaker 1: gun thing to check the temp because anything that goes

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Speaker 1: near her actual body, she freaks out about the temperature.

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Speaker 1: I was not super concerned about It was one hundred, okay,

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Speaker 1: but I'm like, okay, we're all good right now, I'll

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Speaker 1: keep an eye on it. I got her some ibuprofen.

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Speaker 1: Lisa emptied out the nerds bag, put the ibuprofen in there,

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Speaker 1: said you get the last one, and it's only cause

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Speaker 1: you're sick. Gave it to her she thought that she

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Speaker 1: had and she's like this, guys, I'm like, isn't it good?

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Speaker 1: She's like, wait, is this.

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Speaker 3: It's chewable candy?

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Speaker 1: Not I be okay, okay, No, it's ibuprofen. But kids,

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Speaker 1: it says ibuprofen. But it's like kids chewable tablets. Sense, Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: an ocean doesn't take medicine because I used to put

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Speaker 1: it in her bubba and that's why she looks at

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Speaker 1: her bubba and hung goes. She looks sus looks so

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Speaker 1: little sus. So she's terrified of medication now. But she

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Speaker 1: took this thing and it was nerds, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: if you're not gonna eat it, I would love to

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Speaker 1: have it because it's the last one. And me and

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Speaker 1: my mom are sitting there stereot her.

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Speaker 2: Like, eat it.

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Speaker 1: If you don't eat it very well, eyebrows up to

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Speaker 1: my hairline made he all the scared in the world,

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Speaker 1: and she she ate it. Tempt came down. She was

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Speaker 1: acting normal, but she kept me up all night long,

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Speaker 1: every single hour with this with the pain. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: my mom's taking her too urgent carry That was a

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Speaker 1: long winded story, but that was my night. And I'm tired.

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Speaker 1: Af We have two tireds Ason's always tired. They tell

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Speaker 1: them what you're struggling with.

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Speaker 5: I feel like it's anxiety or like panic attacks. I

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Speaker 5: can't sit down and relax. I think only no right now,

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Speaker 5: I could feel like it's settling, like it's just I

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Speaker 5: need to move around. I don't like being in one area.

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Speaker 5: But it just recently started with like three weeks ago.

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Speaker 1: No, I feel like it started when when you found

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Speaker 1: our dad.

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Speaker 5: Yes, but it's just yeah, no, it started when I

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Speaker 5: found Pops. But yeah, after like that, after that, it

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Speaker 5: was like a month of how I'm feeling right now?

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Speaker 2: Okay, but I got over it. I don't know how,

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Speaker 2: but now it's back. Yeah. But also his birthday is.

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Speaker 1: No, it's not it's in two days. Oh yeah today

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Speaker 1: it is one oh today when this airs, when this

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Speaker 1: air is birthday Dad, March twenty.

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Speaker 2: So. And I don't know.

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Speaker 5: That is like a thing that's weighing over me subconsciously

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Speaker 5: of like birthday.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know. I just am not loving who

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Speaker 2: I am right now and sitting with myself. But I

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Speaker 2: have a doctor's appointment coming up.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I'm gonna yeah, I'm gonna go in and

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Speaker 5: see what we can do to figure out what is.

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Speaker 2: Going on in here.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 5: I hear you be able to just sit and relax,

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Speaker 5: like if I'm on the couch, I'm happy for a minute,

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Speaker 5: wildest thing and it just sucks.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, yeah, I am question for you because

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Speaker 4: I told you, and they wouldn't mind me saying this.

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Speaker 3: I have a lot of like myself.

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Speaker 4: My family members deal with anxiety and depression is huge

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Speaker 4: throughout my family and we've all dealt with it different ways.

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Speaker 4: But for me, I I'm not I never like to

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Speaker 4: push this on anyone because when this was pushed on me,

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Speaker 4: I was like, shut up, I'm not ready. But for me,

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Speaker 4: I've started doing therapy this past month.

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Speaker 3: I do it.

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Speaker 4: I go once a week for myself, just individual therapy,

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Speaker 4: and I it's like, for some reason now in my life,

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Speaker 4: if this was a year ago, I would have dropped

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Speaker 4: of a difference.

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Speaker 3: Right now, it's like a game changer.

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Speaker 1: Because you're open to it.

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Speaker 4: It's either I'm open to it or like more open minded, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: something like that. Because now it's just like I go

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Speaker 4: in and I'm like, I don't really have anything to

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Speaker 4: talk about, but let's see what comes up.

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Speaker 3: And then all of a sudden, it's like I'll be

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Speaker 3: crying by the end.

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Speaker 1: So it's great.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been great.

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Speaker 2: Can you send me a link or anything to where

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Speaker 2: you go?

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Speaker 3: I will.

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Speaker 1: I think that would be good for you. T T

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Speaker 1: Because Easton recorded a song about my dad after his passing,

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Speaker 1: which we're approaching in April April twenty first, my dad's

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Speaker 1: it's the six year anniversary. And Easton did a song,

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Speaker 1: an incredible song. After my dad passed. Easton has met

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Speaker 1: people in his building who are in the music world,

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Speaker 1: very talented. And Easton did a song and sent it

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Speaker 1: I loved it. He's very, very talented, a really great writer.

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Speaker 1: He knows music very well. I trust his opinion when

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Speaker 1: things that are trashy. But this this song was also

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Speaker 1: about my dad, and I think that's amazing. I want

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Speaker 1: six years and I want you to always sing about dad. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I want you to talk to somebody.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I need to be healthy while talking about it.

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Speaker 1: Right, because there's obviously something underlying that I think unless

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Speaker 1: you're a doctor, mom, and I can't help you, you

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Speaker 5: And that's the one thing that's like really that hurts

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Speaker 5: Like it wasn't a nightmare that I saw and can

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Speaker 5: go back and be like, all right, here's how I

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Speaker 2: Like I don't know right there to go?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, well there, this is what doctors, yep,

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Speaker 3: It's probably so common.

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Speaker 4: And thank you for sharing that, because I feel like

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Speaker 4: a lot of us go through stuff and I'm like,

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Speaker 4: I'm never going to admit that, and here you are

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Speaker 4: talking about it on the podcast, probably helping a lot

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Speaker 2: If you deal with it, you're not alone.

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Speaker 5: So reach out to me as well, and maybe we

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Speaker 2: The hell do we do this?

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Speaker 1: People that are in a hole and not quite sure

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Speaker 1: I think I appreciate you sharing that on such a

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Speaker 1: huge platform with so many people listening, And no, that's

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Speaker 5: Point where like I deal with it so long, it's

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Speaker 5: like I just don't it's your norm. Yeah, it's like, yeah, whatever,

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Speaker 1: What a nightmare.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: I do thoroughly enjoy though when Easton, I mean, I

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Speaker 1: know that he's he goes home, and then all of

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Speaker 3: House, couch up drive to log yes night.

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Speaker 5: So last night I was hanging out with Backing Moment

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Speaker 5: and Sicko and yeah shout out. They're the ones who

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Speaker 2: She was chew chewing away.

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Speaker 1: She was guiding ships through the fog.

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Speaker 2: So I was like, all right, this is not the greatest.

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Speaker 5: So I went over to the couch and then I

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Speaker 2: So it's like front door open. So I'm like I

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm either getting robbed right now or

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Speaker 1: But so I'm like walking slowly, I like stop breathing

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna find out. Take what you want. So

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Speaker 2: I'm walking around, just pacing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I just hear like her talking, yeah, like

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Speaker 5: what time three point thirty four?

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Speaker 1: I was up every hour with my kid, and she.

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Speaker 2: Was like, you gotta take it way down. So I

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Speaker 1: I was not screaming at her. I was telling her.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, if you're not gonna take the ib prof

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Speaker 1: and again, you can't cry anymore. And she was like, okay, Mama,

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Speaker 1: I was so tired. I didn't even pretend like it

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Speaker 1: was nerds. I'm like, it's medication.

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Speaker 2: Eat it.

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Speaker 5: I open her door, bing has her eye above her eyes,

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Speaker 5: sitting straight up, going through it.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, high, Easton, I'll come.

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Speaker 5: Her hair looks like mine. Yeah, she's just looking at me.

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Speaker 5: I was like, oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: That theater schools, Yes, they really like tee you up

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, maybe I won't. I know

445
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Speaker 1: Ocean won't lose her mind because she's been having to

446
00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:39,760
Speaker 1: separate from her mamma since the age of seven months

447
00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,040
Speaker 1: and so I'm like, maybe I also won't freak out

448
00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:44,639
Speaker 1: because I do have to part ways with my child

449
00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:50,920
Speaker 1: for you know, hours on end dates. Okay, but it's

450
00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:54,560
Speaker 1: not even about like the separation. It's about like, my

451
00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:56,640
Speaker 1: baby is going to school.

452
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Speaker 3: Now, that's what I'm saying.

453
00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:01,440
Speaker 4: Your baby, your baby, she's a baby. How is she

454
00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:02,199
Speaker 4: going to school?

455
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Speaker 1: I don't know? And I tell her, I say, you're

456
00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:08,200
Speaker 1: my baby, and she's no, yeah, the baby and your belly,

457
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,719
Speaker 1: And I go, but you're always mommy's baby. You're always

458
00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:16,160
Speaker 1: mommy's first baby. And she'll say to Gigi because mom

459
00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:18,840
Speaker 1: will say like, you're you're my baby, and she's like,

460
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:24,359
Speaker 1: I'm MoMA's baby. I'm freaking. My child's rounded back to magical.

461
00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:29,000
Speaker 1: She I'm even with last night. Even with last night,

462
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,880
Speaker 1: she wasn't feeling good and she's not cussing at me anymore.

463
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 1: We were it was a bad time, and she was, mom,

464
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Speaker 1: you know, fuck is a bad wood. I go, it

465
00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:39,280
Speaker 1: is a bad word. To stop saying it. She was like, no,

466
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,280
Speaker 1: fucking is a bad wood. I go, so stop saying it.

467
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Speaker 3: So I'm telling you it's bad.

468
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Speaker 2: I go.

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Speaker 1: I know, she says fucking, I go, I know. Stop

470
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Speaker 1: saying the word. Stop saying the word.

471
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Speaker 2: I said it.

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00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:56,480
Speaker 5: I was on bluetooth and I didn't know I was

473
00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:58,320
Speaker 5: on bluetooth and I said it, and I just hear

474
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Speaker 5: her right in.

475
00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 2: The back go fuck it.

476
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:02,640
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no no. You dropped the EF word,

477
00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:04,440
Speaker 1: not knowing that Ocean was in the car.

478
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 2: I heard, and she was like this.

479
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:10,200
Speaker 1: She goes, T T you do not say fucking oh way,

480
00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:17,159
Speaker 1: that is a bad book. Why is she is the best?

481
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:19,440
Speaker 1: And one last story and then we'll move on from

482
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:24,320
Speaker 1: Ocean Kent but Kate. So I've tried to keep her

483
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Speaker 1: in her room, and she treats that time as like,

484
00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:29,879
Speaker 1: let's read my closet and put on every article of

485
00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:38,000
Speaker 1: clothing that I own, and she she gets all dressed up.

486
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 1: At this point in time, I've told her, girl, I'm

487
00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:44,920
Speaker 1: done better. Stay in your bed. You come out of

488
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:50,679
Speaker 1: this room. I'm not playing playing anymore. So I go upstairs.

489
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,199
Speaker 1: I'm reading my book whatever. The next morning I come

490
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Speaker 1: down and Mom goes, I have to I have to

491
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Speaker 1: tell you and show you photos. She said. Last night,

492
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 1: at twelve thirty, Ocean comes in with all her new clothes.

493
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 1: She has put on her new little pants inside out

494
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 1: and backwards. She's got her new T shirt on. She's

495
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:18,639
Speaker 1: got these new ballet flats. This brand, hucks hu X

496
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 1: sent the most fantastic clothing. I love this brand. Okay,

497
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 1: I've purchased their clothes. I've posted her in it, and

498
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 1: then they sent me like a cute little package. Obsessed anyway,

499
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 1: she has on glitter glasses. She walks into my mom

500
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 1: a midnight night midnight. She walks in. She poses one

501
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 1: leg like cocked, you know, hands on the hips, head

502
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 1: to the side, and she poses for my mom to

503
00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: take pictures, and she has sh you cannot down my mama.

504
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 1: You cannot tell my mom my mom, because I was

505
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:03,720
Speaker 1: like into it for a minute. But then like the

506
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 1: clock kept ticking and it's like, okay, we're almost that

507
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:07,480
Speaker 1: one am, and she's I can hear your mom, you

508
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 1: better go to bed. This girl she's my mom said.

509
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:13,680
Speaker 1: She hauled ass into her roof faster than if Santa

510
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 1: Claus were coming, because she thought Mama was coming. But

511
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is so stink and cute, Like even

512
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 1: though I can't get you to bed, I really love that.

513
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 1: Like she's a little fashion fashionista.

514
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 3: Man Fashionisa imagination. She's posing, posing model. I'm obsessed with her.

515
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, anyway, you guys hilarious.

516
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 3: I need photo.

517
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:38,040
Speaker 1: I'm really obsessed with being a parent. I think I

518
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 1: might have an umbilical corternia.

519
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 2: Is that a real thing?

520
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 1: It's a real thing, because my belly buttons started hurting

521
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 1: an ocean's birthday party and I was like, what is that?

522
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,400
Speaker 1: And then it seems to be like the tiniest little

523
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 1: bit of a bulge, tiniest little bit, okay, and it

524
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 1: is sensitive, So of course I google it. I google

525
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 1: that shit bulge near the belly button, pressure near the

526
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 1: belly button, have all that belly button is tender to

527
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:07,640
Speaker 1: the touch, yep, dull pain that becomes worse with exertion.

528
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 1: I'm not exertioning myself, but I assume if I did,

529
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:17,920
Speaker 1: it would hurt. Not nausey and constipation.

530
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 2: Yes, you have that being pregnant.

531
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:22,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, but usually a good cup of coffee can get

532
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:27,679
Speaker 1: it move in. Listen to this, Listen to this. Thanks

533
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:31,919
Speaker 1: to the body's design, umbilical hernias are still pretty rare

534
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: in pregnant people. They are estimated to occur in just

535
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 1: under one percent of pregnancies. If you think I didn't

536
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 1: text my doctor and say, first of all, my ego's

537
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 1: gonna love if I'm part of the of all, it hurts,

538
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:45,919
Speaker 1: and I need to know if this is an umbilical

539
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 1: cord hernia or umbilical hernia because it is less sensitive.

540
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 3: Is it? Lie? What did they? What did they say?

541
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 3: And I'm like, first off.

542
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,640
Speaker 1: Well he's got to look at it. You're gonna pass

543
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 1: out the.

544
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 3: Thought of hernia. You were talking and I was like, whoa,

545
00:25:59,240 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 3: I'm going down.

546
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 1: No, No, I'm sorry, no, no, no, is it?

547
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:04,719
Speaker 3: What did he say?

548
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:06,399
Speaker 1: He said, I'll look at it when I see you.

549
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:07,959
Speaker 1: Next he was like, I wouldn't worry about it. I

550
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 1: doubt that it's that it's that, but we'll look at.

551
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,199
Speaker 3: It if it is. Congrats, You're so unique.

552
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 1: Thank you and I appreciate it. The next thing I

553
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: want to say before we move on to breaking news

554
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 1: and Potomac and also vpr Okay you guys, someone DMD

555
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 1: the podcast page. Oh yes, and they said, don't know

556
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:34,439
Speaker 1: if you're interested in this, but I found this TikTok

557
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:38,920
Speaker 1: and it's through. It's a Reddit thread on who has

558
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: bought followers from vander Pump rules Stop it I swear. Okay,

559
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 1: let's start by saying this. I don't know if it's fact.

560
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: I'm just here reading the headlines, reading the comments section

561
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: or whatever of the podcast, and reporting things that I

562
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: find interesting, even if they're not entirely true.

563
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 4: I cannot wait to hear the Also, my heart is

564
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:01,440
Speaker 4: a racist.

565
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 1: Okay again again again, it may not be one hundred percent.

566
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 1: All right, let's preface it with that, so I don't

567
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 1: need any of my vander Pumperwle's cast members og or

568
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:19,880
Speaker 1: now to come for me. All right, Okay, let's start

569
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 1: with uh. The most followed VPR person og Stacy Schroeder

570
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 1: three point three million followers, U zero inactive. So inactive

571
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 1: basically means they were purchase bots. That's why they're marked.

572
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:37,439
Speaker 1: Is inactive. This is what the dm is say. That's

573
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: why they're marked is inactive. I wouldn't know how to

574
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 1: do this shit if you paid me a billion dollars.

575
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about. Inactive just means

576
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 1: it's a bot. They're not real. So hers is zero.

577
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 1: Music kills Kate one point six y three million. Again, allegedly,

578
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 1: it shows that her inactive following is forty three point

579
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 1: six forty three point six thousand. Okay, okay, okay, Next

580
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 1: is me okay two point three six million, zero zero

581
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 1: inactive pitches. I would know how to purchase a follower,

582
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,240
Speaker 1: And by the way I've inquired, I'm like, yo, how

583
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 1: do you get your following up like that? I have

584
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:27,959
Speaker 1: no shame, just kidding. But then you get the price. Well,

585
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 1: I just know from like this person I used to

586
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: be with who you used to pay that, I'm like,

587
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 1: you're spending that much to get your following up each month?

588
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 3: You're crazy. I would never and people can tell from

589
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 3: your activity.

590
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 2: Of course, you can tell you got a million followers.

591
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 4: And you're getting like thirty comments, Yeah, what are you

592
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 4: doing here?

593
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 1: Okay? Now remember these could have been purchased at any time,

594
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 1: even before they were on vander Pump. So like the

595
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 1: next is Ariana. At this point in time, she had

596
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 1: one point five to three million. She now I think

597
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:03,479
Speaker 1: has two million, but her inactive is seven hundred and

598
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 1: seven thousand. W yep. Next we have t Schwartz. He's

599
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: got one point one one million, he has zero inactive.

600
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: Sure see Tom sand of all scanned of all himself,

601
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 1: the man who looks you dead in the eyes and

602
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 1: tells lies. Guess what he's rolling in at one point

603
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: zero one million and zero inactive, So he may fuck

604
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: the best friend, but he is not purchasing followers. That's

605
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 1: where he drops the line.

606
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 3: I was not expected that. I thought he was going

607
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 3: to be the most inactive.

608
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 1: No, how wild is that? James Kennedy nine hundred and

609
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 1: eighteen thousand followers and his inactive following is seventeen point

610
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 1: one thousand. Ali Luber, we have one hundred and fourteen

611
00:29:55,400 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 1: k for her followers and inactive. So when I read

612
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 1: the first one, it says real followers and then inactive

613
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 1: followers sixty six point five thousand inactive followers. Okay, Kristen

614
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 1: Doty seven hundred and seven thousand followers, two hundred and

615
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: fifty two thousand inactive. This game is fun.

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Speaker 4: It's eleven eleven guys, But anyway, keep going, make a wish.

617
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 1: Lisa Vanner Pump two point seven million real followers. I

618
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:29,440
Speaker 1: think she's now in the threes, but her inactive following

619
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 1: at this time was four hundred and seventy seven thousand.

620
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 1: Sina Shay one point seven two million, Her inactive is

621
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 1: forty eight point two.

622
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Speaker 4: K Let's also state, I don't know if this is

623
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Speaker 4: true or not. Do you think when you hire, if

624
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 4: you're if you hire a social media team, do you

625
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 4: think they might be like, we're going to purchase them

626
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 4: some followers with that.

627
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:56,719
Speaker 1: I think if your team is advising you to do

628
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 1: that and they don't know enough about well, I would

629
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 1: see if my team advise me to do that, just

630
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 1: because I know I've seen where Instagram goes through and

631
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 1: clears out the bots.

632
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

633
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 1: Like, I don't know why your team would advise you

634
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 1: because your following has nothing to do with your engagement, right,

635
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 1: Like if a brand comes in and wants to pay

636
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 1: you money to promote their product, they don't give a

637
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 1: shit about how many followers you have. They care about

638
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: the engagement that you have. Like my mom's engagement it

639
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 1: is probably like ninety eight percent. It's wild. She probably

640
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 1: gets just a couple thousand shy of her entire following

641
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 1: viewing her page.

642
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 3: That is fantastic. Yeah, they look at insights.

643
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 4: I will say the following will bring will will peak there.

644
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 1: Bring eyes. Yes, but they always ask can you send

645
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 1: me her engagement? Yes? Okay, Jack's Taylor, we have we

646
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: have him around a million followers, right, he has inactive

647
00:31:54,680 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 1: nine hundred and fifty three k again allegedly. Don't even

648
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 1: know if this is real. It's just interesting. Someone sent

649
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 1: it to the page. Yeah, and I have to like

650
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: it knows that I didn't purchase any followers. It knows

651
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 1: that Stassi didn't, right, Yeah, Brittany has I think around

652
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 1: a million point five The ones that are there are

653
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 1: some where it's like they they're saying give or take

654
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 1: on the actual real following, which is weird. It's not

655
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 1: doing it with the cast that's here now nine hundred

656
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 1: and thirty seven inactive, nine hundred and thirty seven thousand,

657
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 1: nine hundred and thirty seven thousand inactive. So I thought

658
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: that was interesting. That's very How much does it cost

659
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 1: to yah?

660
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 3: Not the look?

661
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 2: How much does it cost to purchase all those?

662
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 3: So I thought that was interesting. Not the blood, not

663
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 3: the lug right at the camera. That's funny.

664
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 4: I like the office energy you do yes, No, like

665
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 4: the Office the show where he like you're like Jim.

666
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 1: Oh, where he says you meant the office give them la.

667
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 3: But I also love that energy as well.

668
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 1: Thank you, you're welcome. I enjoy your energy. Thank you

669
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 1: as well. Breaking news in Potomac, by the way, fantastic season.

670
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 1: They have a lot of episodes Potomac. Yeah, I just

671
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 1: got caught up and the last one I watched it

672
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 1: was not the finale, was episode seventeen.

673
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 3: Wow. How many do they have? Twenty?

674
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 2: Do you?

675
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 1: I bet that there's one more for eighteen storyline episodes

676
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 1: and probably three reunions.

677
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 2: Wow.

678
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 1: So yeah, they're killing it amazing. Candice Dillard, the singer,

679
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 1: and Robin Dixon, Wan's wife are out of filming Real

680
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: Housewives of Potomac.

681
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 3: Okay, what do we mean by out?

682
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: They're not coming back to the show.

683
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 3: Did they quit or get fired or what?

684
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 2: You know?

685
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 1: That I'm a little unsure of. I highly doubt. I

686
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 1: would be shocked if they got fired. But then again,

687
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 1: I was shocked when Derinda was put on pause because

688
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 1: she was excellent television. Sometimes people get a little bit

689
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 1: too messy. Do I feel like they got too messy

690
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 1: this season? I think there's no such thing. They were

691
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 1: at each other's throats. They had a very very strong

692
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 1: friendship and then it just went left. And Candace Dillard

693
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: loves to be up on Twitter or x or whatever

694
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: it's called you know, and there's two people on Bravo

695
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 1: that I would never go up against verbally. That's Kenya

696
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 1: Moore Candas Dillard. I would never. I don't know the

697
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 1: Grand dam also can can throw some shit.

698
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:34,359
Speaker 4: Can you beat Keny Moore out for Shade Queen during

699
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:35,360
Speaker 4: Bravo con or something?

700
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I still think she's the Queen of Shade.

701
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, Queen of Shade.

702
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:40,800
Speaker 1: She is the Queen of Shade.

703
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 3: Wow.

704
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 1: You know, I think I probably beat because Scandaval kind

705
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 1: of took over everything. We were at the forefront. It's

706
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 1: like we were the show that everyone was talking about.

707
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:54,280
Speaker 1: You know, Cable's number one hit show. Here's a couple

708
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 1: Emmy nominations. Of course people are gonna probably get on

709
00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: not even really know what kind of I've ever thrown, ever,

710
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 1: and just click because that's the show that's being talked about. Yeah.

711
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,200
Speaker 1: I don't think I would ever beat Kennymore in like

712
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 1: the real world whatever.

713
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 3: Wow, this is wild.

714
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 4: So then they'll be replaced, you think, or do you

715
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:16,320
Speaker 4: think it'll just be same cast.

716
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if they'll be replaced. They've got a

717
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,439
Speaker 1: hefty cast right now. They've got I think eight eight

718
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: main players and then a couple players that are on

719
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 1: the that are benchwarmers that come in hot and like

720
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 1: really do the job.

721
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 3: The friends of oh yeah really, yes, yes, I guess

722
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 3: we'll see, We'll see.

723
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 1: Don't sleep on Potomac. You so it is really really good.

724
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 1: I'm actually excited. I'm a little bummed that we slept

725
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:49,359
Speaker 1: on it for this long seventeen weeks straight. However, once

726
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 1: the reunion airs, I'll be able to recap like a

727
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 1: champ because so much happens. Yeah, there's never a dull moment,

728
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,319
Speaker 1: you know how some episodes are like snooze and then

729
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 1: the very end leaves you hanging. You're like, Okay, next

730
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:05,320
Speaker 1: week will be a good episode. No, every single episode

731
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 1: five star, one hundred percent. You get an a.

732
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 4: Okay, so we're watching it now because I need because

733
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 4: we did Miami and Beverly Hills.

734
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 3: But now should we be watching Potomac?

735
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 1: I mean yes, I don't think you need to start

736
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 1: from If you don't want to start from the beginning,

737
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 1: you don't have to. I'm obsessed with That's like my

738
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:24,799
Speaker 1: favorite thing. I've got seventeen episodes that I watched back

739
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 1: to bag. I know what I'm doing on Sunday, Did

740
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:35,800
Speaker 1: you guys watch vander Pump? Of course course, all right, perfect,

741
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:37,280
Speaker 1: let's let's get it poppin'.

742
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 3: All right, vander Pump talk.

743
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 4: First and foremost that I wrote in my notes is

744
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:44,280
Speaker 4: your creation lunch.

745
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 3: Creation is a place with schwartz h I'm jumping forward

746
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 3: a little.

747
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 4: But I laugh, Carl, and I laughed out loud when

748
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 4: you were telling the girls you were like, I went

749
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,359
Speaker 4: to You're like, I went to.

750
00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 3: Juice with Schortzy or whatever. Do you remember for that part?

751
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 3: You're like, I went and got it. I went to

752
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:04,399
Speaker 3: juice wi Swartzy.

753
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 4: I laughed so hard because people would be like, I

754
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 4: went to a drink or I went to coffee, or

755
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 4: like I went to juice Wish, And it made me think,

756
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:16,359
Speaker 4: like she she must not go to juice very me.

757
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:18,160
Speaker 1: No, I don't.

758
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 3: Can I ask a BTS who picked that location?

759
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 1: Schwartzy the creation place? Yeah, yeah, Schwartzy picked it. And

760
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 1: by the way, creations are all over LA and they're amazing.

761
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 1: But I got that's the time I got the poop enforcer.

762
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:33,960
Speaker 1: And when I tell you the stomach cramps that I

763
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 1: had to where for the first time ever, I may

764
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:38,760
Speaker 1: or may not have shipped myself.

765
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 4: Okay, I realized what Senna does and that's all I'm

766
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 4: gonna say.

767
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:46,759
Speaker 1: Just shy of kills you is what Senna I will

768
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: never again.

769
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, Senna's tough, tough.

770
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:53,319
Speaker 1: I was bent over in the fetal position, being like,

771
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,919
Speaker 1: what is wrong with me? This is how I die?

772
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 2: Right? Yeah? Nightmare?

773
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 1: No, it's awful, it's really it was horrific. But yes,

774
00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 1: I went and got I went and got juice. I

775
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 1: got the juice. That's where he drops the bomb.

776
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:11,600
Speaker 4: That's where he drops the bomb. About the makeout? Had

777
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 4: you heard this before at all?

778
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: Shea swears that she told told this to me.

779
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 2: Okay, but you can't remember it.

780
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 1: And I'm looking at her going she and literally she

781
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 1: told me because she's just watched the episode, and said,

782
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 1: do you really not remember me telling me this? And

783
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, you can tell me all the livelong day

784
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:32,800
Speaker 1: you told me. And I'm not calling you a liar,

785
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:39,280
Speaker 1: I'm really not. I do not recall this conversation ever happened.

786
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 2: And I would assume that is a conversation you would

787
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 2: have remembered.

788
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 3: I kind of.

789
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:47,320
Speaker 4: Remember most things was years ago when you were drinking,

790
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 4: she said, She was telling.

791
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 1: You, well, yeah, because she was I and I don't

792
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 1: recall the timeline of when she told me that. She

793
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:55,840
Speaker 1: told me so well. I feel like when I was drinking,

794
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:57,879
Speaker 1: I wasn't super close with her. I don't think, oh

795
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,919
Speaker 1: you were. No, we kind of went like after season six,

796
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:02,240
Speaker 1: we kind of fell off a bit.

797
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:04,880
Speaker 4: Okay, because that's the only thing I could think is

798
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 4: when she told you when you were hammered or something.

799
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 1: No, I think I would recall even if you were

800
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 1: hammered and heard that, you'd be like, oh my god. Well,

801
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:15,439
Speaker 1: but I feel like if I were hammered and would

802
00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:18,280
Speaker 1: have heard that, Katie and I got really thick around

803
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 1: season seven eight, you know, I would have told.

804
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 4: Her, yeah, very well, it's very you could tell you

805
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 4: were shocked. Schwartz, it was very much. I don't know

806
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 4: what he was doing in this moment, I as a

807
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:39,239
Speaker 4: viewer and watching him and going, why is he saying this?

808
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:40,440
Speaker 3: Did it slip?

809
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 4: Is he purposely saying it for some sort of reason

810
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 4: to be like we're all you got light up on,

811
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 4: you know, lighting up on sand of all.

812
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:48,719
Speaker 3: We all make mistakes.

813
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 1: That's what I felt like. It was more like, Okay,

814
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:55,800
Speaker 1: I think he was all season. I feel like people

815
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 1: were getting the sense that I was tired of everybody,

816
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 1: Like I don't know when we changed up what we

817
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 1: do and how we do things, but y'all seem to

818
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 1: be moving in a way I don't like, I don't

819
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 1: know when we started like keeping This is feeling very

820
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 1: like season four of when I came into the picture,

821
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 1: and I like to think that we've all evolved since

822
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 1: season four. Yeah, well, I mean some of y'all are

823
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 1: pushing forty Like get it together.

824
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 3: Just came out at the end of the episode. I

825
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 3: have that in my notes.

826
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:29,400
Speaker 1: But that was like the tone, right, So I'm thinking

827
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,959
Speaker 1: maybe he like kind of dropped that, hoping it would

828
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:35,200
Speaker 1: be like just kind of a throwaway line, right, and

829
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: it was not. It was like, let's go back to that.

830
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:41,800
Speaker 1: But I feel like the initial was we've all made mistakes,

831
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:42,840
Speaker 1: we've all hooked up with each.

832
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:46,000
Speaker 3: Other, right right. Well, interesting scene.

833
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 4: So Katie comes to your apartment and tell her about

834
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 4: the makeout with Schwartz and Shena And is this the

835
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 4: first time you ever told her?

836
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:58,479
Speaker 3: Is this honestly? Yes?

837
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 1: Okay, had I known about this, I would have told

838
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 1: her sooner. I told her as soon as I found.

839
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 4: Out, Okay, can I ask a BTS question? Yeah, do

840
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:10,319
Speaker 4: you say beforehand or do you text her and you say, hey,

841
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 4: I've got a bomb that I'm going to drop just

842
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:14,840
Speaker 4: a heads up or hey or no.

843
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 1: I think had Schwartzy and Katie still been together in

844
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:22,359
Speaker 1: the moment, like I would have said, I just want

845
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 1: to give you the heads up, okay, but they weren't together,

846
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:27,520
Speaker 1: I felt like she needed to know. But I didn't

847
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,879
Speaker 1: think that it would weigh as heavy on her now

848
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:32,920
Speaker 1: because it's like, of course that of course he did that.

849
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:37,360
Speaker 4: Right right moving into the episode. Now that I'm just

850
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 4: thinking about it, you said you didn't think it weighs

851
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 4: heavy on her. Now it seemed like it did a bit.

852
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, it did.

853
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 3: What are your thoughts on that?

854
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 4: Because part of me was like, oh my god, I

855
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,359
Speaker 4: would be definitely reacting the same way.

856
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:51,360
Speaker 3: It's like, ugh, I was like in the dark.

857
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 4: And another part of me is like, is she just

858
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 4: kind of clinging onto this to make it a problem.

859
00:41:58,239 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, to be angry about something.

860
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 2: She could be angry at something. That's what I got.

861
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 1: It's gonna be really hard for me, just so you

862
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 1: guys know, Yeah, going forward, and talking about these episodes

863
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 1: because when I left that reunion, I truly look at

864
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 1: everyone differently.

865
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 4: Really, yeah, more than last season, because last season you seem.

866
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,320
Speaker 3: To look at some people differently. For sure.

867
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 1: This is a different type of thing.

868
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:24,359
Speaker 3: Okay, this is like.

869
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 2: You.

870
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 3: Okay, So then no comment.

871
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 1: I think we should move on.

872
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 3: Okay, no comment.

873
00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:34,800
Speaker 1: I like the question about.

874
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, about Joe.

875
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 1: Joe was feeling very uncomfortable, and I could tell she

876
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:46,799
Speaker 1: felt uncomfortable. Shina, I don't think has it in her.

877
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:51,240
Speaker 1: She's very shady at times. It doesn't hit as shade,

878
00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 1: it hits differently than that. But I don't find her

879
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 1: to be like a bully, right, Yes, but I do

880
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 1: feel like Joe felt bullied in that moment where it

881
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 1: was like the five of us, we're all dressed the

882
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:07,280
Speaker 1: way we're dressed, which looked like a very intimidating group

883
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 1: of people. Yes, and you've got Shena who's pulling her

884
00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:14,240
Speaker 1: hat off at the very beginning, being like, show your braids.

885
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 1: I really give props to Joe. You remove my hat.

886
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:20,399
Speaker 1: I'm not violent. I'm punching you in.

887
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 2: The fucking face.

888
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:25,160
Speaker 1: Just you touch my hat, I'm punching you in the face.

889
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 3: Do not touch what if?

890
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:29,359
Speaker 4: I'm like, there are so many reasons, like now, oh

891
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 4: my god, if you remove my hat, everyone be horrified.

892
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 3: I have sweaty, greasy hair underneath. Don't touch my stuff.

893
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:38,359
Speaker 1: It's just completely inappropriate. I love she shit. Yeah, all

894
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,720
Speaker 1: the livelong day, you fucking touch my hat. I'm taking

895
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,760
Speaker 1: your head off, like said, all right.

896
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm glad you said that. I was like a.

897
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,759
Speaker 4: Hat for a head bitch, right, So I feel I

898
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,879
Speaker 4: felt like there were two moments where I was like good.

899
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 4: One was where you said something to Sheena and you're like, damn,

900
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 4: I think I wrote it, but you said she was

901
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:01,919
Speaker 4: being shady and you said something like, uh.

902
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:02,280
Speaker 1: You're an icy bitch.

903
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 4: You're an icy bitch, which was like good because you

904
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 4: were keeping it light.

905
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 1: You weren't making I was trying to keep it light. Yes,

906
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 1: I was trying to keep it very light. There was

907
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:12,359
Speaker 1: a lot of heaviness happening. I hope that Joe does

908
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 1: feel uncomfortable. I want her to feel uncomfortable. I was like,

909
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 1: this space is weird, Okay, you want to feel uncomfortable. No,

910
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 1: that's what Katie said, got it, And for me, I

911
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 1: just was I'm not there anymore. I don't like these conversations.

912
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:30,440
Speaker 1: I don't how do I make light of them and

913
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:32,240
Speaker 1: kind of try to move on whatever.

914
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, and Alie said something too.

915
00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 4: I could tell it got cut out a little, but

916
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:40,440
Speaker 4: Allie did say something like she started saying, I want

917
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 4: her to be able to come to these events or something.

918
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 4: I think Ali was in between, just in the middle.

919
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:47,840
Speaker 4: I think she was in the middle. I think she

920
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 4: wanted Joe to feel comfortable, but also, you know, wanted

921
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:51,840
Speaker 4: to respect you guys.

922
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,320
Speaker 3: So yeah, yeah, it was interesting.

923
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 1: Well, Allie's very sweet. Ali's not going to let anyone

924
00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:03,359
Speaker 1: fall down the the black hole of what is the

925
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 1: initiation of vander pump roles. It's very intense.

926
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 4: You can tell, and how uncomfortable that could be. I

927
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:10,840
Speaker 4: thought Joe's always been very sweet to me. She was

928
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:11,760
Speaker 4: at the live show.

929
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 1: She was like, I truly believe she's harmless. She's okay.

930
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: I think she moves without thinking, and some people, you know,

931
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:20,959
Speaker 1: you could call that dangerous. I get worried about people

932
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 1: who move without thinking. I totally get where Katie's coming from,

933
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 1: But at what point do we say, like, okay, you're

934
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 1: getting mad at literally every single person that's coming in

935
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:33,239
Speaker 1: contact with Schwartz, you know, every single one of them. Now,

936
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 1: the way she moved sending Katie that text and then

937
00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 1: moving in with him was like it was a little weird.

938
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:41,319
Speaker 1: But when you meet Joe you're like, oh, I get

939
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 1: it right, Yeah, what do we have next?

940
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:48,759
Speaker 3: Okay, we could do. So you walked in on Sandoval's

941
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:50,240
Speaker 3: emotional moment?

942
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 1: Did you a got air? Is that what it was

943
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 1: last night? I go to the house, yep.

944
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:57,840
Speaker 3: And you it seemed to affect you a little.

945
00:45:57,840 --> 00:45:59,879
Speaker 4: But I want to know were you uncomfortable or were

946
00:45:59,920 --> 00:46:03,280
Speaker 4: you like, Wow, good for him, this is powerful because

947
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 4: your face.

948
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:05,840
Speaker 2: Also, yeah, your face.

949
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 1: First of all, when I walked in, I felt like

950
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:10,280
Speaker 1: he was someone was fucking him with a butcher's knife.

951
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 1: I was like, what is going on?

952
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:16,360
Speaker 2: I'm not I don't get it for like a breathing thing.

953
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 1: But it's healing. It's ultimately healing. Okay for me. I

954
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 1: know what it feels like to talk about changing and

955
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,479
Speaker 1: have people say it's bullshit, and you want to say,

956
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 1: go fuck yourself. You have no idea what you're talking about, right, Like,

957
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:37,839
Speaker 1: don't act like you know me? And so I had

958
00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 1: no real opinion about it. It was like he's saying

959
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 1: that he's changing. Yes, I got it. He lied, He

960
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 1: lied a lot, But there are turning points in people's lives,

961
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 1: whether this is one for him or not. And let's

962
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 1: say he is a narcissistic motherfucker. Number one. I'm not

963
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 1: a doctor. I can only take my own experience and

964
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:02,440
Speaker 1: draw parallels. Okay, but at some point in time I

965
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 1: have to say, not everything you come in contact with

966
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: is parallel to your experience. That was a part of

967
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:11,759
Speaker 1: my healing, right. I was looking at Tom Sandoval this

968
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 1: season and specifically in this scene. Please make me believe

969
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:20,719
Speaker 1: that just because someone does something shitty does not I'm

970
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:23,360
Speaker 1: gonna get emotional, It does not make them a shitty person.

971
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: Because that's how it's been for a year and a

972
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 1: half of my life. Of every every person that I

973
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:43,239
Speaker 1: come in contact with, specifically straight men, they do one

974
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: thing and I'm like, this is a red flag. You're

975
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 1: a piece of shit, and I feel like I need

976
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 1: to warn people about you, and it's exhausting. So going

977
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 1: into that conversation, my biggest thing was, if you're truly healing,

978
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:01,319
Speaker 1: I'm really happy for you. If you're not, and you're

979
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:04,479
Speaker 1: just putting this facade on. I get to go home

980
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 1: and be mean, and I'm happy about that, and you

981
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,360
Speaker 1: have to stay being you, and I don't have to

982
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 1: live in your head. So you're ultimately the one that

983
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 1: has to deal with the shit that you're saying that's

984
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 1: coming out of your mouth. If it's realer it's not.

985
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 1: You have to sleep with that. I don't have to

986
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:22,720
Speaker 1: sleep with that. I've never had to, Like, I've always

987
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 1: kept you at arm's length, but I felt the need

988
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 1: to have that conversation with him to make him understand

989
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 1: this is so far beyond one one thing, which was

990
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:37,839
Speaker 1: last year, which I still it's mind blowing because it's

991
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:39,759
Speaker 1: beyond the cheating. It's the looking in the eyes. We

992
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 1: can go down the whole freaking scroll of shit. That

993
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:48,360
Speaker 1: was fucking weird, but I wasn't directly affected by it.

994
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 1: It was a trigger for me, but it did not

995
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 1: affect my life, right. It was just a trigger. It

996
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 1: just reminded me of my own shit, and now I'm

997
00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 1: trying to let that go. So if I'm gonna let

998
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: my own shit go, then I can certainly try to

999
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 1: hear you out and let you know that there's a

1000
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:08,759
Speaker 1: plethora of reasons why I have a fucking problem with you,

1001
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:12,319
Speaker 1: and you need to understand what they are. And we're

1002
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 1: not gonna have you bring up all the things that

1003
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,439
Speaker 1: I've done to you, because we can, we can each

1004
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 1: have a heyday with each other. At some point, we've

1005
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: got to just have a productive conversation. And for me,

1006
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 1: that conversation was not we're moving forward and being friends.

1007
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 1: This is we're gonna move forward so that I can

1008
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 1: see you in a room and I don't go, Oh,

1009
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 1: I fucking hate you. Yeah, I don't want that, So

1010
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 1: there we go.

1011
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 3: Well that's I mean.

1012
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:41,320
Speaker 4: I always say the opposite of love is not hate,

1013
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 4: it's indifference. So it's like, you're just indifferent to him.

1014
00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:48,360
Speaker 3: They say that, I mean, because if you hate someone.

1015
00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 4: It's because you just there's having so much feeling towards someone.

1016
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:55,280
Speaker 4: Is still that feeling. They're taking your energy. If you're indifferent,

1017
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 4: they can't take your energy.

1018
00:49:56,520 --> 00:49:59,320
Speaker 1: You're like, okay, right, exactly.

1019
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:03,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean it was a great episode.

1020
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 4: If you want to just end on, I'd love to

1021
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:09,799
Speaker 4: mention the dinner scene or whatever it was. You guys,

1022
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:13,799
Speaker 4: it's sir, where you I thought this was special. And

1023
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 4: here's why. You see the moment in your eyes where

1024
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 4: you hear about Max, Katie and Max and you kind

1025
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 4: of like look around at the group and there's this

1026
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 4: shift of like ugh, like I'm leaving, who.

1027
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 3: Are these people?

1028
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:31,239
Speaker 4: And it gives me goosebumps because it's I think it's

1029
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 4: setting up a lot for the rest of the season

1030
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:39,799
Speaker 4: for you. I think there's the shift, and I'm excited

1031
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 4: to see all of the episodes, but like the finale,

1032
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:48,279
Speaker 4: I'm drooling after freaking that scene from you. I just think,

1033
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:50,240
Speaker 4: I think there's a lot coming.

1034
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:51,800
Speaker 3: That's all I'll say.

1035
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:56,720
Speaker 1: Let's cut to make it release.

1036
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 3: Oh my, who's going first? Tt?

1037
00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 2: Oh?

1038
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:08,880
Speaker 5: Well, I spoke about my ache already, the anxiety that

1039
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 5: has been my ache of the past few weeks. But

1040
00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 5: my relief is I have a doctor's appointment that I

1041
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:19,359
Speaker 5: am going to get some answers, which is kind of

1042
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 5: helping out already. Of course, of course ache anxiety relief,

1043
00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:27,360
Speaker 5: doctor's appointment for anxiety.

1044
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:31,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, actual ache and relief. I'm so proud.

1045
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 1: We're so proud of you, t proud my.

1046
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 3: Ache and relief. You guys.

1047
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:41,400
Speaker 4: My hair is slowly but surely falling out starting to

1048
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:41,959
Speaker 4: grow back.

1049
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:44,880
Speaker 3: Oh, like, so is Lisa's by the way, Mom.

1050
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 1: Lisa, she was like, the little.

1051
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:49,719
Speaker 4: But that's the thing. I will wake up in the morning.

1052
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 4: My baby hairs are like all in my hairdresser. I

1053
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 4: thought that it was breakage. I was like, what is

1054
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:54,440
Speaker 4: going on?

1055
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 3: She was like, these are new hairs.

1056
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 4: But now I wake up in the morning and I've

1057
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,839
Speaker 4: like naturally kind of curly hair. So I have like

1058
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:05,319
Speaker 4: the straight, like gangly whatever is love.

1059
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:09,280
Speaker 3: I have all these curly.

1060
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 1: Hair that are brand new. I'm just happy to be here.

1061
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 4: Kyle said, I look like you know when a potato

1062
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 4: sprouts is old and sprouts the things.

1063
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 1: And when I walk out and he says, I look

1064
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 1: like a potato, old potato, a wrinkle ass, and he

1065
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:25,960
Speaker 1: still loves you.

1066
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:31,800
Speaker 3: Crusty potato roast. So that is my ache and my relief.

1067
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:36,319
Speaker 1: My ache of the week was finding out that Kate

1068
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:45,240
Speaker 1: Middleton has been battling cancer. Heartbreaking, heartbreaking. I understood why people,

1069
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:49,360
Speaker 1: well actually I didn't understand because I just feel like

1070
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:53,759
Speaker 1: when someone like my my mom explained it perfectly, this

1071
00:52:54,160 --> 00:53:00,120
Speaker 1: is many many years of a family in power, right,

1072
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:03,880
Speaker 1: and when they see that the next family They've trusted

1073
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:07,760
Speaker 1: this family for many years. So when someone who's about

1074
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:12,080
Speaker 1: to take over goes m I A, they start feeling

1075
00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:16,480
Speaker 1: like they start feeling unsafe. Right, So I was like, Okay,

1076
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 1: I understand why their demanding answers us over here in

1077
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:21,319
Speaker 1: the United States, because we're so fucking out of touch

1078
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:24,880
Speaker 1: with everything and we just want what can I pose

1079
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:27,400
Speaker 1: that's gonna get a lot of likes, a letter of

1080
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:31,279
Speaker 1: people gonna write about that. Hey, you know, I was

1081
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 1: like buffoonery at its finest. Welcome to America where Donald

1082
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 1: Trump can become fucking president. Did you see the stormy Daniels.

1083
00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 4: It's all making me he was our president and could

1084
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 4: be a good No, it's making me terrifying, horrifying.

1085
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:49,319
Speaker 3: I'm scared for us.

1086
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:54,520
Speaker 1: I'm so scared. I'm so fucking scared.

1087
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:56,400
Speaker 3: Okay, it makes me feel powerless.

1088
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 1: So let me tell you that is my ache of

1089
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:02,400
Speaker 1: the week. And I I wish her nothing but health

1090
00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 1: and happiness. And you know what, if you need to retreat,

1091
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,919
Speaker 1: I hope you retreat and take care of yourself. And

1092
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:11,839
Speaker 1: you have three beautiful children and that is way more

1093
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Speaker 1: important than whatever else is going on in the outside world. Again,

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Speaker 1: I'm not running shit, all right, I'm running give them lawless.

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Speaker 1: So if I disappeared, not many people are gonna give

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Speaker 1: a fuck.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well we'll be with her. What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: You know? So that's what I'm wishing for. My relief

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Speaker 1: of the week is that I'm going on a Dodo

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Speaker 1: dream date. Let me tell let me tell you what

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Speaker 1: this means. Today. I have teamed up with the Dodo

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Speaker 1: and I'm going on a doggy date with this sexy

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Speaker 1: piple mix named Goofy, and he's from the Animal Rescue Mission.

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Speaker 1: There's a huge problem, I know, specifically in Los Angeles,

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Speaker 1: maybe in California. I'm gonna get the deats right, but

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Speaker 1: there's more dogs than there are people, and people are

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Speaker 1: surrendering their dogs left and right. I cannot stress enough.

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Speaker 1: Please adopt, do not shop, Please spay and neuter your animals,

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Speaker 1: because I'm looking at this gorgeous animal and my mission

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Speaker 1: today is to find him a home.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: I've been on dates with a lot of dogs before, right,

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Speaker 1: and then I realized I was like, we're going on

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Speaker 1: dates with the different, the wrong kind of dog. I

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Speaker 1: need the ones that are furry and on all fours.

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Speaker 1: That's what's wrong here. So Goofy and I are about

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Speaker 1: to go bump gums get to know each other.

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Speaker 3: I love it, you know.

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Speaker 1: I just want to know about his past. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: tell him about my past, you know, things that have

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Speaker 1: gone wrong in relationships. We're gonna grab a sandwich. I

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Speaker 1: will say, though, I'm hooked just based on the looks,

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Speaker 1: but it's also about personality. And we've spoken a few

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Speaker 1: times and he's really funny. He's a charmer, So that's

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Speaker 1: my relief. I'm very, very very excited about this.

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Speaker 2: Yay.

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Speaker 3: I cannot wait.

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Speaker 1: You guys, I love you so much. I had so

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Speaker 1: much fun on this episode. I loved it, laughing and

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Speaker 1: cracking jokes, crawing a little bit. And I will catch

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Speaker 1: you guys next week.