WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: No Talking

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jewels a second date update for today's second day updated.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude name Ryan. This is on the phone and he

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<v Speaker 1>went out with a girl named Lisa, and she's not

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<v Speaker 1>talking to him after their date, which is standard for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update, but apparently, according to his email,

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't even talking to him on the date. So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know why he wants to call her,

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<v Speaker 1>but we'll find out. What's up, Brian, how are you? Hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing all right. How about you that she's not

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<v Speaker 1>like mute or anything? Right, She's not mute? Okay? Your

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<v Speaker 1>email said that it was kind of an awkward date

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Yeah, it was all set up to be perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>but it just turned out a lot worse than I

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<v Speaker 1>planned it to be. How did it get set up?

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<v Speaker 1>Me and Lisa? We met, you know, on dating after

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<v Speaker 1>I believe it was bumble and she'd been telling me

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<v Speaker 1>about how she had a stressful work week, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just felt like the perfect thing to do would be

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<v Speaker 1>a massage. You know who doesn't like a massage? Right? Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>are you guys in the same room massage or is

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<v Speaker 1>it separate massages? Well? I hadn't done it before, but

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of pictured it like kind of the same

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<v Speaker 1>room music, the sense or whatever, the like the smells

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know, clothes kind of coming off maybe

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<v Speaker 1>kind of romantic and that way, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a lot for a first date, I would think,

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<v Speaker 1>But who knows. Did she seem to like it? I

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<v Speaker 1>ran it past her and she was actually really excited

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Okay, well, I mean she's yeah, if she's

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<v Speaker 1>on the same page as you, cool. Yeah, So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was set up to be something really cool. In fact,

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<v Speaker 1>when we got there, the whole vibe that I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it would be was in place, you know, the music,

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<v Speaker 1>the smells and everything was. It was kind of it

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<v Speaker 1>was romantic. And then we get there and the two

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<v Speaker 1>different massage tables were set up so that we were

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<v Speaker 1>looking at each other that that could be kind of awkward. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, well, um, we'll get a chance

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of chat. Oh man, I've been talking dirty.

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<v Speaker 1>Massage is the worst time to talk, even talking to

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<v Speaker 1>the masseus. No, I mean I don't even want to pass. Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I like it hard, that's all I want to say. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I have very limited massage experience, so I

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<v Speaker 1>just thought, Hey, it'll be relaxing, you know, we'll get

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, connect, Okay, and did that work out

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<v Speaker 1>for you? Well, Unfortunately, as I start to try and

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<v Speaker 1>talk to Lisa, the massus like shuts us down, like immediately,

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, no talking. I can't do my work if

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<v Speaker 1>there's talking. I have to let the music guide me.

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<v Speaker 1>What you got like the most serious? Yeah, yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>paying for this. Yeah, yeah, it was. It was awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like, that's a little woo boo. Let my music

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<v Speaker 1>guide me. Yeah. Yeah. So we're just kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>scaring at each other in silence while we're getting his massage.

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<v Speaker 1>It was it was a little weird. Yeah, that sounds weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't keep my eyes closed. Yeah. Is that all

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<v Speaker 1>you did for your date too? Did you just end

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<v Speaker 1>things after that? No? I mean like I tried to

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<v Speaker 1>still communicate, like after fifteen minutes that awkward silence. I like,

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<v Speaker 1>I end up raising my hand at one point and

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<v Speaker 1>I asked her a piece of paper from the massuit.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're gonna write notes back and forth? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like I'm gonna try it at least talk

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<v Speaker 1>to her through, you know, writing notes. On paper. Well

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<v Speaker 1>that's persistent. So I tried that, and after a while,

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<v Speaker 1>like literally my arms were like getting tired, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was just awkward. Yeah, I gotta think trying to write

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<v Speaker 1>notes where you're getting a massage would be tough. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So then I like I tried to mouth little questions

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<v Speaker 1>for a while, and it was just like so awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you just not give up and just be silent?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you uncomfortable in silence? Oh? I was just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get to know her, you know, like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really know her that well except for like messaging through

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<v Speaker 1>the app. So how did it end up? Well? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it also bought tickets to go see a movie right

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<v Speaker 1>next door afterwards, so like we finished things up, but

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<v Speaker 1>we're running a little late, so we scurry over to

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<v Speaker 1>the movie and we get there right as the last

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<v Speaker 1>previews ending. Another instance where you can't really talk. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, yeah, like another two hours. I'm sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>right next to this pretty girl I want to get

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<v Speaker 1>to know and I can't say anything. This is a

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<v Speaker 1>kind of horrible date planet. Hey, movies are great, massages

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<v Speaker 1>are great, Maybe not for the first date together. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys ever talk well? That's the thing. Like after

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<v Speaker 1>the movie, I'm like, hey, you want to go grab

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<v Speaker 1>a drink? Like I feel terrible. We didn't get to

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<v Speaker 1>like chat much, and at this point she was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>we've already spent quite a bit of time together and

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<v Speaker 1>I had some plans afterwards. And I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh crap, So overall, you probably said five words to

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<v Speaker 1>your date. Yeah, I buy well five out loud words.

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<v Speaker 1>He mounts a lot of words apparently during the massage.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm guessing no kiss no. Unfortunately, all right, and she

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't called you back at all after No, she hasn't called.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been trying to text her a little bit. She

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<v Speaker 1>won't respond. And mean, it wasn't like we were angry

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<v Speaker 1>at each other anything or someone terribly wrong. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like she doesn't really know me, and I'd

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<v Speaker 1>just like to get another chance to like show her

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<v Speaker 1>what I am. You know. Yeah, it doesn't sound like

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<v Speaker 1>a bad date. It just sounds incredibly awkward. Yeah, just

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<v Speaker 1>bad planning, I think, is what. You can chalk that

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<v Speaker 1>one up too. So maybe you can get a second shot.

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<v Speaker 1>I sure hope. So all right, maybe you guys can help.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll play a song and then come back and call

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<v Speaker 1>her and get your second day update. Okay, cool? Thanks?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, hand brooking jubil in the morning dates. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna start the second part of today's second date update

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<v Speaker 1>with a live reenactment of the date that our listener

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan went on with his girl Lisa. Here's how it went. Hey, hy, okay, bye.

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<v Speaker 1>That was pretty much it. There was like not a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of talking and it was long too. If you

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<v Speaker 1>missed the first part of today's second Date, Ryan went

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<v Speaker 1>out with Lisa. He scheduled a couple's massage, which is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of weird for a first date, but she was

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<v Speaker 1>into it. They got the massage, but there was no

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<v Speaker 1>talking during the massage, so they couldn't talk then, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they had to high tail it over to a

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<v Speaker 1>movie that they were late for, so they sat in

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<v Speaker 1>the movie theater, didn't talk then, and then the date

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<v Speaker 1>was over after. So they really didn't talk at all

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<v Speaker 1>on their first date and now she's not responding to

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<v Speaker 1>any of his texts or phone calls. All right, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>are you ready to actually talk to Lisa? I would

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<v Speaker 1>love to talk to Lisa. Oh my god, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you can do this, right, I think we can

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<v Speaker 1>get you a second date. Yeah. Granted she may have

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<v Speaker 1>spent the entire hour long massage regretting the decision to

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<v Speaker 1>do it, but I think you have a shot here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean if you could just like he's, just try

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<v Speaker 1>your hardest, because like she's amazing, and I know sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you guys don't always try that hard. We'll give it

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<v Speaker 1>an effort. We'll at least say more than five words

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<v Speaker 1>to her. Excellent. That'll be better than I did. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, Ally, May I speak to Lisa? Please?

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<v Speaker 1>This is she Lisa? How are you? This is Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever heard of the show before? I think

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard it a few times. Sweet? Okay, have you

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<v Speaker 1>ever heard a second date update before? No? Okay, Well

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<v Speaker 1>I'll describe what that is. And that's the reason I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling you today. We do a segment on our show

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<v Speaker 1>called a second date Update. That's where if you go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with somebody and then end up

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<v Speaker 1>not talking to them after, they can email us to

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<v Speaker 1>get you on the phone and ask why any of

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<v Speaker 1>this making sense yet? Um? Good for those people, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I don't what if I told you are one

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<v Speaker 1>of those people. No, I didn't email you. Wow, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>I know I know that, But somebody did email us

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<v Speaker 1>about you. Wait, what about me? Yeah? We got an

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<v Speaker 1>email from a dude named Ryan. Oh boy? Uh yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you remember you went out with Ryan? Sure? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm assuming it was probably wasn't the best date

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<v Speaker 1>you've ever been on. Yeah, I mean it was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty disappointing. Yeah, it sounds like it. We talked

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<v Speaker 1>to Ryan because he emailed us. He said that you're

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<v Speaker 1>not returning any of his phone calls. I mean, he

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<v Speaker 1>kind of knows that it was an awkward date. He

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<v Speaker 1>told us about how you did the couple's massage thing,

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<v Speaker 1>you couldn't really talk, and then you went to movie

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<v Speaker 1>theater couldn't really talk, and he thought the whole thing

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<v Speaker 1>was awkward, and he wants a shot at a do over.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why we're calling. Okay, I mean it was so awkward. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what did you expect those I will say

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<v Speaker 1>when he said that he even suggested a couple's massage

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<v Speaker 1>for a first date, I mean with a person he

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<v Speaker 1>met on a dating app. I can't believe that you

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<v Speaker 1>agreed to it, to be honest, Yeah, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I kind of just assumed it was a very

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<v Speaker 1>sweet gesture. We had obviously been talking and it was

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<v Speaker 1>a really stressful week. It is a sweet gesture. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you still think that, right, Yeah? Absolutely. It means

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<v Speaker 1>he was listening to me and he understood where I

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<v Speaker 1>was emotionally. I guess, but I don't know. It just

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<v Speaker 1>still it was odd, but I didn't want to just

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<v Speaker 1>like put the kabash on it. So I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well if we do that, then it's going to be weird,

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<v Speaker 1>But then you know, then we'll go out to dinner

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<v Speaker 1>or something and then be able to actually get to

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<v Speaker 1>know one another. Okay, And that obviously didn't happen. He

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<v Speaker 1>told us that you guys went to the movies and

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<v Speaker 1>you couldn't talk there either, and then that was the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the date. Was it worse than what he

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<v Speaker 1>describes though, because what he describes as just awkward it

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<v Speaker 1>was we had to like rush to the movie. We

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<v Speaker 1>were late after the massage, so then there was really

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<v Speaker 1>not even talking in between the two things. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>it just sounds like really bad planning. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>bad planning. But I also just had this feeling like

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't even want me to talk the entire time.

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<v Speaker 1>You think you planned at all on purpose so you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't talk. I don't know, because like I was just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to find ways to connect, right, and so at

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<v Speaker 1>one point there was like this cool special the effects things,

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<v Speaker 1>so I leaned over just to be like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>how cool is that? Like very quickly yeah, and he

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<v Speaker 1>shifted me. So you didn't talk beforehand, and then you're

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<v Speaker 1>at the movie and he actually shished you. He shished me,

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<v Speaker 1>And then I was gonna say like, I'm sorry, because

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<v Speaker 1>I did feel like an idiot because it's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well we're in a movie. I shouldn't say anythings. So

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<v Speaker 1>then I go to say sorry, I just wanted to talk,

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<v Speaker 1>and he shifted me again. I couldn't even apologize. But

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it's just a natural reaction, like if you're sitting

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<v Speaker 1>in a movie theater and someone's talking. Because he did

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<v Speaker 1>say that he was trying to talk to you during

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<v Speaker 1>the massage, that he was like mouthing words to you

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<v Speaker 1>and even attempted to write a note. But that's weird,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm not going to pass notes back and forth

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<v Speaker 1>as I'm getting my naked body rubbed down by another stranger.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of strangers there. And it wasn't like

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<v Speaker 1>he shished me once. He shished me twice. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>rude thing to do. Yeah, and it's weird because he

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<v Speaker 1>said he was disappointed that he didn't get to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you very much. He didn't mention that he shohed you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was all very confusing. Honestly, was it like an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing movie that he was super into? He must have been,

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<v Speaker 1>But I wasn't talking through the whole movie. I was

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to make one little I'm sorry, you know, habit.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess at least I can understand why you're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back then. But he is on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line and actually wants to talk to you. What yep,

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan's on the other line listening and wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Ryan, I'm here. Look that the whole shirsting

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<v Speaker 1>kind of was on you. I mean, you did try

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to me during the most exciting part of

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<v Speaker 1>the whole movie, are you or after? Like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's cool, we can say something here or there, But

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<v Speaker 1>during like the climax of the movie, come on, it

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<v Speaker 1>was almost three hours where we hadn't spoken. Ryan, That's

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<v Speaker 1>what you're coming with, is it's on you. I'm sorry. Yeah, well, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>hearing her now like saying she was into the movie,

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<v Speaker 1>she was gonna comment on the movie, I thought she

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<v Speaker 1>was like trying to bring up something right at that point,

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<v Speaker 1>and I get into movies. I'm sorry. We had been

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<v Speaker 1>in silence for hours. I was just trying to establish

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<v Speaker 1>like a little connection, just a little bit. I get

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<v Speaker 1>it now, and I apologize. Maybe I shouldn't have done that.

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<v Speaker 1>But like, other than that, like did you like me?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have fun? I don't know how I'm supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to responding us. How would I know if I liked

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<v Speaker 1>you other than the fact that you told her to

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<v Speaker 1>shut up? Like you know, just like the vibes that

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<v Speaker 1>like coming off of me that you were giving me,

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<v Speaker 1>like the chemistry that we had, like the way that

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<v Speaker 1>you were looking at me and the way I was

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<v Speaker 1>looking back at you. I know you had to feel

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<v Speaker 1>some of what I was feeling. I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I'm confused because we barely looked at each other

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<v Speaker 1>either because my face was down for the massage in

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<v Speaker 1>a hole and then we're at a movie looking at

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<v Speaker 1>a screen. Well, I mean when I was mouth in

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<v Speaker 1>the words, you were looking back at me, when I

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<v Speaker 1>was mouth like trying to mouth the words. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right. When you were mouthing words to me, I

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<v Speaker 1>was very excited and turned on trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>what you were trying to mouse perfect. She's joking, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she's serious about that. I mean, right

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<v Speaker 1>at first, you sounded like a sweet dude, and now

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<v Speaker 1>you sound like a guy who just doesn't get it

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe didn't want her to talk. No, look like

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<v Speaker 1>that's not it, Like I totally wanted to talk, like

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<v Speaker 1>we're just in a bad situation, Like, well, let's talk,

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<v Speaker 1>like right now, let's let's have a date right now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, I know we're not seeing each other in person,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, let's use this time and like, let's date.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we have time for you to go

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<v Speaker 1>on a date right now. I'd like to hear it.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, let's give it a chance. Why not. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>pretend like we're at a nice restaurant, Like there's candles,

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<v Speaker 1>like the lightings dim. You know, we've already ordered a

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<v Speaker 1>really nice appetizer. It's on its way. This does not

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<v Speaker 1>have a like no no, I mean like like, where

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<v Speaker 1>did you grow up? You know, what do you like

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<v Speaker 1>to do for fun? You're actually trying this? Where do

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<v Speaker 1>you grow up? What do you so, Lisa? We're on

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show. I don't know. This is so weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you need to be more open minded Lisa

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<v Speaker 1>and answer the question, you know, even minded? And what

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<v Speaker 1>kind of TV shows you like? I can't. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do this right now. Just go out on another

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<v Speaker 1>date with me. Come on, there you go? All right, Lisa?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you like to go on a second date with Ryan?

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<v Speaker 1>We'll pay for it and then you can have this

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<v Speaker 1>awkward conversation in real life. Um, that was the most

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<v Speaker 1>awkward date I've ever been on. I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>if we can call it a date. Which one the

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<v Speaker 1>date you actually went out on or the one we

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<v Speaker 1>just heard? Oh my goodness, Yeah, that's fine, you can

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<v Speaker 1>classify that as a date. So we've now been on

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<v Speaker 1>too bad dates. So I'm gonna have to say, now,

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<v Speaker 1>oh come on, I admit the plenty. The next time,

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<v Speaker 1>I promise no couples, massages, no movies where you can't

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<v Speaker 1>talk we'll go to a nice, actual nice dinner instead

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<v Speaker 1>of trying to imagine one over the phone. And you're

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna take me to the library, are you? Yeah? Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan sounds adorable. And you did say in the very

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<v Speaker 1>beginning you thought he was thoughtful and listened to you

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<v Speaker 1>when he even booked that massage to begin with. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the deal. If this is going to happen, what

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<v Speaker 1>you had to do? Did you just sus here, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just kidding. Is a joke? Is a joke? Maybe too soon? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have to work on your comedy there a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit too. So what do you think, Lisa, where

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<v Speaker 1>you got with him one more time? Well, it seems

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<v Speaker 1>like this isn't going to end until I say yes,

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<v Speaker 1>So I guess I'm saying yes. Congratulations, Ryan, you got

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<v Speaker 1>a date. Not because she wants to, She just wants

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<v Speaker 1>to get off the phone. Congratulations broken opol in the morning,