1 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: Rooking jewels a second date update for today's second day updated. 2 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:09,840 Speaker 1: Dude name Ryan. This is on the phone and he 3 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:11,799 Speaker 1: went out with a girl named Lisa, and she's not 4 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: talking to him after their date, which is standard for 5 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: a second date update, but apparently, according to his email, 6 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:19,799 Speaker 1: she wasn't even talking to him on the date. So 7 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:21,600 Speaker 1: I don't even know why he wants to call her, 8 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 1: but we'll find out. What's up, Brian, how are you? Hey, guys, 9 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:26,760 Speaker 1: I'm doing all right. How about you that she's not 10 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 1: like mute or anything? Right, She's not mute? Okay? Your 11 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 1: email said that it was kind of an awkward date 12 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:36,879 Speaker 1: for you. Yeah, it was all set up to be perfect, 13 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 1: but it just turned out a lot worse than I 14 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 1: planned it to be. How did it get set up? 15 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 1: Me and Lisa? We met, you know, on dating after 16 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: I believe it was bumble and she'd been telling me 17 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: about how she had a stressful work week, and I 18 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: just felt like the perfect thing to do would be 19 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: a massage. You know who doesn't like a massage? Right? Wait, 20 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: are you guys in the same room massage or is 21 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 1: it separate massages? Well? I hadn't done it before, but 22 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: I kind of pictured it like kind of the same 23 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 1: room music, the sense or whatever, the like the smells 24 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 1: and I don't know, clothes kind of coming off maybe 25 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: kind of romantic and that way, you know what I mean, 26 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 1: kind of a lot for a first date, I would think, 27 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: But who knows. Did she seem to like it? I 28 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: ran it past her and she was actually really excited 29 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 1: about it. Okay, well, I mean she's yeah, if she's 30 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 1: on the same page as you, cool. Yeah, So you know, 31 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 1: it was set up to be something really cool. In fact, 32 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 1: when we got there, the whole vibe that I thought 33 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: it would be was in place, you know, the music, 34 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:39,680 Speaker 1: the smells and everything was. It was kind of it 35 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 1: was romantic. And then we get there and the two 36 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: different massage tables were set up so that we were 37 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: looking at each other that that could be kind of awkward. Yeah, 38 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, well, um, we'll get a chance 39 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: to kind of chat. Oh man, I've been talking dirty. 40 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: Massage is the worst time to talk, even talking to 41 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 1: the masseus. No, I mean I don't even want to pass. Like, yeah, 42 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: I like it hard, that's all I want to say. Yeah, 43 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 1: I mean I have very limited massage experience, so I 44 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: just thought, Hey, it'll be relaxing, you know, we'll get 45 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:16,119 Speaker 1: to you know, connect, Okay, and did that work out 46 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 1: for you? Well, Unfortunately, as I start to try and 47 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 1: talk to Lisa, the massus like shuts us down, like immediately, 48 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 1: She's like, no talking. I can't do my work if 49 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: there's talking. I have to let the music guide me. 50 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 1: What you got like the most serious? Yeah, yeah, I'm 51 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: paying for this. Yeah, yeah, it was. It was awkward. 52 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: That's like, that's a little woo boo. Let my music 53 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,799 Speaker 1: guide me. Yeah. Yeah. So we're just kind of like 54 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: scaring at each other in silence while we're getting his massage. 55 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 1: It was it was a little weird. Yeah, that sounds weird. 56 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: I wouldn't keep my eyes closed. Yeah. Is that all 57 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: you did for your date too? Did you just end 58 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 1: things after that? No? I mean like I tried to 59 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: still communicate, like after fifteen minutes that awkward silence. I like, 60 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 1: I end up raising my hand at one point and 61 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: I asked her a piece of paper from the massuit. 62 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: But you're gonna write notes back and forth? Yeah? Yeah, 63 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: it was like I'm gonna try it at least talk 64 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 1: to her through, you know, writing notes. On paper. Well 65 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 1: that's persistent. So I tried that, and after a while, 66 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: like literally my arms were like getting tired, and it 67 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 1: was just awkward. Yeah, I gotta think trying to write 68 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 1: notes where you're getting a massage would be tough. Yeah. 69 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: So then I like I tried to mouth little questions 70 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: for a while, and it was just like so awkward. 71 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: Why did you just not give up and just be silent? 72 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:43,119 Speaker 1: Are you uncomfortable in silence? Oh? I was just trying 73 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: to get to know her, you know, like I don't 74 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: really know her that well except for like messaging through 75 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: the app. So how did it end up? Well? Like, 76 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: it also bought tickets to go see a movie right 77 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 1: next door afterwards, so like we finished things up, but 78 00:03:57,200 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 1: we're running a little late, so we scurry over to 79 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: the movie and we get there right as the last 80 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: previews ending. Another instance where you can't really talk. Oh 81 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: my god, yeah, like another two hours. I'm sitting there 82 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: right next to this pretty girl I want to get 83 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 1: to know and I can't say anything. This is a 84 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: kind of horrible date planet. Hey, movies are great, massages 85 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 1: are great, Maybe not for the first date together. Did 86 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,239 Speaker 1: you guys ever talk well? That's the thing. Like after 87 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 1: the movie, I'm like, hey, you want to go grab 88 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: a drink? Like I feel terrible. We didn't get to 89 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 1: like chat much, and at this point she was just like, 90 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 1: we've already spent quite a bit of time together and 91 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 1: I had some plans afterwards. And I was just like, 92 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:42,039 Speaker 1: oh crap, So overall, you probably said five words to 93 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 1: your date. Yeah, I buy well five out loud words. 94 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 1: He mounts a lot of words apparently during the massage. 95 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 1: I'm guessing no kiss no. Unfortunately, all right, and she 96 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 1: hasn't called you back at all after No, she hasn't called. 97 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 1: I've been trying to text her a little bit. She 98 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 1: won't respond. And mean, it wasn't like we were angry 99 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 1: at each other anything or someone terribly wrong. It's just 100 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 1: I feel like she doesn't really know me, and I'd 101 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: just like to get another chance to like show her 102 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: what I am. You know. Yeah, it doesn't sound like 103 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: a bad date. It just sounds incredibly awkward. Yeah, just 104 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: bad planning, I think, is what. You can chalk that 105 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 1: one up too. So maybe you can get a second shot. 106 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: I sure hope. So all right, maybe you guys can help. 107 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:25,160 Speaker 1: We'll play a song and then come back and call 108 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,600 Speaker 1: her and get your second day update. Okay, cool? Thanks? 109 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 1: All right, hand brooking jubil in the morning dates. I'm 110 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: gonna start the second part of today's second date update 111 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 1: with a live reenactment of the date that our listener 112 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: Ryan went on with his girl Lisa. Here's how it went. Hey, hy, okay, bye. 113 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 1: That was pretty much it. There was like not a 114 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 1: lot of talking and it was long too. If you 115 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: missed the first part of today's second Date, Ryan went 116 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: out with Lisa. He scheduled a couple's massage, which is 117 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 1: kind of weird for a first date, but she was 118 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 1: into it. They got the massage, but there was no 119 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: talking during the massage, so they couldn't talk then, and 120 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 1: then they had to high tail it over to a 121 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: movie that they were late for, so they sat in 122 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: the movie theater, didn't talk then, and then the date 123 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 1: was over after. So they really didn't talk at all 124 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:19,919 Speaker 1: on their first date and now she's not responding to 125 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: any of his texts or phone calls. All right, Ryan, 126 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 1: are you ready to actually talk to Lisa? I would 127 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:27,479 Speaker 1: love to talk to Lisa. Oh my god, Yeah, I 128 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 1: think you can do this, right, I think we can 129 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:31,359 Speaker 1: get you a second date. Yeah. Granted she may have 130 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: spent the entire hour long massage regretting the decision to 131 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: do it, but I think you have a shot here. Yeah, 132 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: I mean if you could just like he's, just try 133 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 1: your hardest, because like she's amazing, and I know sometimes 134 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: you guys don't always try that hard. We'll give it 135 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 1: an effort. We'll at least say more than five words 136 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:55,159 Speaker 1: to her. Excellent. That'll be better than I did. Okay, 137 00:06:55,360 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Ally, May I speak to Lisa? Please? 138 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 1: This is she Lisa? How are you? This is Jewel 139 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay. 140 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 1: Have you ever heard of the show before? I think 141 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: I've heard it a few times. Sweet? Okay, have you 142 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: ever heard a second date update before? No? Okay, Well 143 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 1: I'll describe what that is. And that's the reason I'm 144 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 1: calling you today. We do a segment on our show 145 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: called a second date Update. That's where if you go 146 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: out on a date with somebody and then end up 147 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 1: not talking to them after, they can email us to 148 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 1: get you on the phone and ask why any of 149 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: this making sense yet? Um? Good for those people, I 150 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 1: guess I don't what if I told you are one 151 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 1: of those people. No, I didn't email you. Wow, yeah 152 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: I know I know that, But somebody did email us 153 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 1: about you. Wait, what about me? Yeah? We got an 154 00:07:56,160 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: email from a dude named Ryan. Oh boy? Uh yeah, okay, 155 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 1: you remember you went out with Ryan? Sure? Yeah, yeah, 156 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 1: and I'm assuming it was probably wasn't the best date 157 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: you've ever been on. Yeah, I mean it was. It 158 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: was pretty disappointing. Yeah, it sounds like it. We talked 159 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 1: to Ryan because he emailed us. He said that you're 160 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: not returning any of his phone calls. I mean, he 161 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: kind of knows that it was an awkward date. He 162 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: told us about how you did the couple's massage thing, 163 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 1: you couldn't really talk, and then you went to movie 164 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: theater couldn't really talk, and he thought the whole thing 165 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 1: was awkward, and he wants a shot at a do over. 166 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: That's why we're calling. Okay, I mean it was so awkward. Well, 167 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: I mean, what did you expect those I will say 168 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: when he said that he even suggested a couple's massage 169 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 1: for a first date, I mean with a person he 170 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 1: met on a dating app. I can't believe that you 171 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: agreed to it, to be honest, Yeah, I mean I 172 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:52,679 Speaker 1: guess I kind of just assumed it was a very 173 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: sweet gesture. We had obviously been talking and it was 174 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 1: a really stressful week. It is a sweet gesture. I 175 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 1: mean you still think that, right, Yeah? Absolutely. It means 176 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 1: he was listening to me and he understood where I 177 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: was emotionally. I guess, but I don't know. It just 178 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 1: still it was odd, but I didn't want to just 179 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 1: like put the kabash on it. So I was like, yeah, 180 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 1: well if we do that, then it's going to be weird, 181 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 1: But then you know, then we'll go out to dinner 182 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 1: or something and then be able to actually get to 183 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 1: know one another. Okay, And that obviously didn't happen. He 184 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: told us that you guys went to the movies and 185 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: you couldn't talk there either, and then that was the 186 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 1: end of the date. Was it worse than what he 187 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 1: describes though, because what he describes as just awkward it 188 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 1: was we had to like rush to the movie. We 189 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: were late after the massage, so then there was really 190 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 1: not even talking in between the two things. Yeah, so 191 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 1: it just sounds like really bad planning. Yeah, I mean, 192 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:46,679 Speaker 1: bad planning. But I also just had this feeling like 193 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 1: he didn't even want me to talk the entire time. 194 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: You think you planned at all on purpose so you 195 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 1: wouldn't talk. I don't know, because like I was just 196 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: trying to find ways to connect, right, and so at 197 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: one point there was like this cool special the effects things, 198 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: so I leaned over just to be like, oh my gosh, 199 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 1: how cool is that? Like very quickly yeah, and he 200 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:11,559 Speaker 1: shifted me. So you didn't talk beforehand, and then you're 201 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 1: at the movie and he actually shished you. He shished me, 202 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 1: And then I was gonna say like, I'm sorry, because 203 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 1: I did feel like an idiot because it's like, okay, 204 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 1: well we're in a movie. I shouldn't say anythings. So 205 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 1: then I go to say sorry, I just wanted to talk, 206 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: and he shifted me again. I couldn't even apologize. But 207 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:31,680 Speaker 1: maybe it's just a natural reaction, like if you're sitting 208 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 1: in a movie theater and someone's talking. Because he did 209 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 1: say that he was trying to talk to you during 210 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 1: the massage, that he was like mouthing words to you 211 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 1: and even attempted to write a note. But that's weird, 212 00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:45,960 Speaker 1: Like I'm not going to pass notes back and forth 213 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 1: as I'm getting my naked body rubbed down by another stranger. 214 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: There's a lot of strangers there. And it wasn't like 215 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 1: he shished me once. He shished me twice. That's a 216 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 1: rude thing to do. Yeah, and it's weird because he 217 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 1: said he was disappointed that he didn't get to talk 218 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 1: to you very much. He didn't mention that he shohed you. Yeah, 219 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 1: it was all very confusing. Honestly, was it like an 220 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 1: amazing movie that he was super into? He must have been, 221 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 1: But I wasn't talking through the whole movie. I was 222 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 1: just trying to make one little I'm sorry, you know, habit. 223 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 1: I guess at least I can understand why you're not 224 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,199 Speaker 1: calling him back then. But he is on the other 225 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 1: line and actually wants to talk to you. What yep, 226 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: Ryan's on the other line listening and wants to talk 227 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 1: to you. Ryan, I'm here. Look that the whole shirsting 228 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 1: kind of was on you. I mean, you did try 229 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:44,719 Speaker 1: to talk to me during the most exciting part of 230 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 1: the whole movie, are you or after? Like, you know, 231 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 1: that's cool, we can say something here or there, But 232 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 1: during like the climax of the movie, come on, it 233 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 1: was almost three hours where we hadn't spoken. Ryan, That's 234 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 1: what you're coming with, is it's on you. I'm sorry. Yeah, well, hey, 235 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:07,680 Speaker 1: hearing her now like saying she was into the movie, 236 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 1: she was gonna comment on the movie, I thought she 237 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 1: was like trying to bring up something right at that point, 238 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 1: and I get into movies. I'm sorry. We had been 239 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:18,199 Speaker 1: in silence for hours. I was just trying to establish 240 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 1: like a little connection, just a little bit. I get 241 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 1: it now, and I apologize. Maybe I shouldn't have done that. 242 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 1: But like, other than that, like did you like me? 243 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:32,200 Speaker 1: Do you have fun? I don't know how I'm supposed 244 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:34,079 Speaker 1: to responding us. How would I know if I liked 245 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 1: you other than the fact that you told her to 246 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 1: shut up? Like you know, just like the vibes that 247 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 1: like coming off of me that you were giving me, 248 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 1: like the chemistry that we had, like the way that 249 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:46,319 Speaker 1: you were looking at me and the way I was 250 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:48,439 Speaker 1: looking back at you. I know you had to feel 251 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: some of what I was feeling. I feel like I 252 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: guess I'm confused because we barely looked at each other 253 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 1: either because my face was down for the massage in 254 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:01,199 Speaker 1: a hole and then we're at a movie looking at 255 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 1: a screen. Well, I mean when I was mouth in 256 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:05,440 Speaker 1: the words, you were looking back at me, when I 257 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: was mouth like trying to mouth the words. Yeah, no, 258 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 1: you're right. When you were mouthing words to me, I 259 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:15,079 Speaker 1: was very excited and turned on trying to figure out 260 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 1: what you were trying to mouse perfect. She's joking, Ryan, 261 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 1: I don't think she's serious about that. I mean, right 262 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 1: at first, you sounded like a sweet dude, and now 263 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 1: you sound like a guy who just doesn't get it 264 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 1: and maybe didn't want her to talk. No, look like 265 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:32,960 Speaker 1: that's not it, Like I totally wanted to talk, like 266 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:35,839 Speaker 1: we're just in a bad situation, Like, well, let's talk, 267 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 1: like right now, let's let's have a date right now. 268 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 1: It's like, I know we're not seeing each other in person, 269 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 1: but like, let's use this time and like, let's date. 270 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 1: I don't think we have time for you to go 271 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 1: on a date right now. I'd like to hear it. 272 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 1: Come on, let's give it a chance. Why not. Let's 273 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:53,319 Speaker 1: pretend like we're at a nice restaurant, Like there's candles, 274 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 1: like the lightings dim. You know, we've already ordered a 275 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 1: really nice appetizer. It's on its way. This does not 276 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:02,680 Speaker 1: have a like no no, I mean like like, where 277 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 1: did you grow up? You know, what do you like 278 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 1: to do for fun? You're actually trying this? Where do 279 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:13,079 Speaker 1: you grow up? What do you so, Lisa? We're on 280 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 1: a radio show. I don't know. This is so weird. 281 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:17,840 Speaker 1: I think you need to be more open minded Lisa 282 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 1: and answer the question, you know, even minded? And what 283 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 1: kind of TV shows you like? I can't. I'm not 284 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 1: gonna do this right now. Just go out on another 285 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 1: date with me. Come on, there you go? All right, Lisa? 286 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 1: Would you like to go on a second date with Ryan? 287 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: We'll pay for it and then you can have this 288 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 1: awkward conversation in real life. Um, that was the most 289 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 1: awkward date I've ever been on. I don't even know 290 00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 1: if we can call it a date. Which one the 291 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 1: date you actually went out on or the one we 292 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 1: just heard? Oh my goodness, Yeah, that's fine, you can 293 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 1: classify that as a date. So we've now been on 294 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 1: too bad dates. So I'm gonna have to say, now, 295 00:14:54,640 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 1: oh come on, I admit the plenty. The next time, 296 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 1: I promise no couples, massages, no movies where you can't 297 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 1: talk we'll go to a nice, actual nice dinner instead 298 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 1: of trying to imagine one over the phone. And you're 299 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: not gonna take me to the library, are you? Yeah? Actually, 300 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 1: Ryan sounds adorable. And you did say in the very 301 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 1: beginning you thought he was thoughtful and listened to you 302 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 1: when he even booked that massage to begin with. Okay, 303 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 1: here's the deal. If this is going to happen, what 304 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 1: you had to do? Did you just sus here, I'm 305 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 1: just kidding. Is a joke? Is a joke? Maybe too soon? Yeah, 306 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to work on your comedy there a 307 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 1: little bit too. So what do you think, Lisa, where 308 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 1: you got with him one more time? Well, it seems 309 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 1: like this isn't going to end until I say yes, 310 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 1: So I guess I'm saying yes. Congratulations, Ryan, you got 311 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 1: a date. Not because she wants to, She just wants 312 00:15:57,080 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 1: to get off the phone. Congratulations broken opol in the morning,