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Speaker 1: We are in the building. How's everybody doing today? Everybody solid?
Speaker 1: Everybody good? What's up? Let a hot text or something?
Speaker 1: Didn't she just cash out? Let's let let's let's jump
Speaker 1: straight into what you what I'm saying? You know, the people,
Speaker 1: all the people be loving when we when we chop
Speaker 1: it up about just you know, saying real life ship
Speaker 1: and real life topics like throughout the weak people being
Speaker 1: the comments and having discussions amongst their sales barber shop
Speaker 1: talking all that. So today we are discussing something that's
Speaker 1: really interesting. What brings out the real person more? Is
Speaker 1: it poverty and being sucked up and being broke? Is
Speaker 1: that when the person is showing their true colors? Or
Speaker 1: is it when that person comes up and actually gets
Speaker 1: money and becomes rich, wealthy, whatever you want to call it? Like,
Speaker 1: what brings out the true colors and the person more?
Speaker 1: What's your opinion on that? I think that the true
Speaker 1: colors come out more like when the when a person
Speaker 1: that's up. Because when you have money and when you're
Speaker 1: not stressed about certain things, your person, your real personality
Speaker 1: and your character flaws magnify themselves. So everything that's in you,
Speaker 1: good or bad, is going to be more prevalent because
Speaker 1: you don't have to suppress it to get out of
Speaker 1: people what you're trying to get out of them, because
Speaker 1: you really don't need anybody. So you agree with the
Speaker 1: turn when they say money show your true colors, you
Speaker 1: would agree with that. What you think? I agree what
Speaker 1: she said. But at the same time, depending on the
Speaker 1: person to me, so you think I got them be
Speaker 1: being his silf too, m with nothing but fail broke people. No,
Speaker 1: this is hold real quick. We put it on the scale.
Speaker 1: We're saying that is it more of the more of
Speaker 1: the person that they really are their true colors with
Speaker 1: over without the money. We know that a broke person
Speaker 1: could that's who they are when they're broke, you see
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But when they become rich, or they
Speaker 1: come up, or they get money, can you maintain to
Speaker 1: be the same person? Can you do that? It's impossible
Speaker 1: to stay the same person. You ain't gonna be the
Speaker 1: same person if you go from rich to broke rich.
Speaker 1: What if you go from broke to rich to back
Speaker 1: to broke, what happens. We're talking about character or just change,
Speaker 1: because you gotta change. You gotta change what you eat
Speaker 1: and once you drive and where you live, we know
Speaker 1: that's gonna change. I'm talking about the way you talk,
Speaker 1: the way you act around your people, the way you
Speaker 1: handle your people, the way that you treat people that
Speaker 1: you don't know, just how you move. I feel like
Speaker 1: the people that have less sometimes are more pure. But
Speaker 1: like he's saying, it can go, it can go both
Speaker 1: ways because just like just like taking myself for instance,
Speaker 1: like me, I'm I'm not I'm not broke, but I'm
Speaker 1: not rich, and I like to help people. But I know,
Speaker 1: like if I got a real bag, like I'm gonna
Speaker 1: help everybody and I'm really gonna like make a difference
Speaker 1: in the world, like with my ship. The same way
Speaker 1: a nigga who it's selfish, once he gets more money,
Speaker 1: he's going to be more selfish and he's yeah, like
Speaker 1: and do only for him. That's what I'm saying, is
Speaker 1: it varies for a person to person like you're speaking
Speaker 1: of characteristics, which that's a that's a very good point.
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is just generally, Okay, you have
Speaker 1: a million dollars, you got fifty hundred thousand, whatever the
Speaker 1: case is, how you interact and maybe treat Koda and
Speaker 1: Shine whoever. You know what I'm saying. With that change
Speaker 1: now that you're rich, like you're half a billionaire, can
Speaker 1: you still maintain to show people that decency and respect?
Speaker 1: Or when you just get on some asshole shot like
Speaker 1: she said, it's just gonna magnify. You can already see
Speaker 1: a nigga if he got nothing his m like, no
Speaker 1: matter what, you can, I can walk into the motherfucker
Speaker 1: with nothing to still act funny. Yeah, for sure, you
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying, But neither gonna be funny. You're
Speaker 1: right gonna be. I feel like you can. Like she said,
Speaker 1: it just magnifies when you get the money, because opinion
Speaker 1: start mattering lessers, that's what she's saying. Okay, I say, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you because you don't give a funk. Now, yeah, you
Speaker 1: don't have to give a fun Yeah, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But when the nigga but this is gonna
Speaker 1: be gonna be humble when he when he got live.
Speaker 1: Ever done that nigger in the hood that was just
Speaker 1: broke but still didn't give an You know those particular
Speaker 1: characters that you'd be like that they could probably not
Speaker 1: gonna change if you get money. You see what I'm saying. Like,
Speaker 1: that's why you never know because it's some people still
Speaker 1: the same but handling the business difference. Like, so I
Speaker 1: like to clarify a lot of ship, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because we could be talking about one thing
Speaker 1: and I could be responding to something else. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, because everything goes different ways. If we
Speaker 1: tell abody character, then some people character be already what
Speaker 1: it is you just overlooking it. You just can see
Speaker 1: it more that he got something. Yeah, you get what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Now that now that now that the nigga
Speaker 1: done got it bad, right, you can see all the
Speaker 1: funks did he do because you could take in them?
Speaker 1: So what is that watching them? What is the essence
Speaker 1: of that term when they say, oh, bro change and
Speaker 1: switch when he got the money, where does that come from? Like?
Speaker 1: Where is what is the essence of that term? What
Speaker 1: did he stopping with him hating niggas, he stopped sucking
Speaker 1: with them niggas. And one thing about it, man, the days, man,
Speaker 1: is how you measure your friendship and lords is what's
Speaker 1: the last thing you did for a person. That's how
Speaker 1: you measure that ship winning hold. Look, I can know
Speaker 1: everything is still fun with me about game some of
Speaker 1: the land two or three months and it's been a year.
Speaker 1: This nigga don't fun with me, man, right right? Am?
Speaker 1: I right wrong? That's how you measure friendship these days.
Speaker 1: But it's the truth. I'm just being real. So like
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, he could be someone
Speaker 1: saying anything that I'm saying. So it's just like once again,
Speaker 1: we gotta when you clarified, we gotta day. You never
Speaker 1: know what the fun is, the what the fun is
Speaker 1: the root of no problem, bro know nothing. So it's
Speaker 1: people gonna say everybody change. But like I said, every
Speaker 1: some people, it's just like a fly nigger, a fly
Speaker 1: nigga be fly with nothing with some bullshit clothes on.
Speaker 1: So you can tell like that neig gonna get that
Speaker 1: money all he needed that money, He's gonna be turned. No,
Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying, Like you can already tell
Speaker 1: he win, he wining the little, the little the little.
Speaker 1: That ship looked good with that. You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Like like a female like she probably needs some titted
Speaker 1: she gonna be. You know what I'm saying. She already
Speaker 1: got the rest. We getting us some titted sheep. So hey, yeah,
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna change you. So yeah, yeah, that's
Speaker 1: good change though, those are things that's good change. So
Speaker 1: I never her t done and go to the right
Speaker 1: people to do her makeup. She's gonna be just like
Speaker 1: the rest of the women. You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You can already see that ship up under that. You
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. Right with everything else, like you
Speaker 1: can see that a nigga got bitch ways. Bro. You
Speaker 1: just it just it just don't appear to you as
Speaker 1: much when the nigga don't have nothing, because it don't
Speaker 1: affect you. But when the nigga got something and you
Speaker 1: know him, it's gonna affect you because he's, like, like
Speaker 1: you said, a selfish person. Like you've been noticed, nigga
Speaker 1: was selfish when he got damn didn't take it ball
Speaker 1: and go home get my ball. You know, we bring
Speaker 1: it back the personal experiences. Have ever been disappointed in
Speaker 1: someone and the way they act when they got more
Speaker 1: money all the time. Okay, so we're not an example.
Speaker 1: They're got of got their own way of how they think. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're how they do ship. So you know I used
Speaker 1: to be that way, Like I just can't believe that
Speaker 1: you're this way, right, Like that's everybody, but bro, you
Speaker 1: have to be cured from that because you know, I'm
Speaker 1: your day. That would consume trying to cutique another motherfucker
Speaker 1: and what they should do. So I think it's circumstances though,
Speaker 1: because it's like if you if you if you go
Speaker 1: back to somebody that you're just an associate with or
Speaker 1: whatever the case is, and they changed what you get
Speaker 1: a bunch of money, you're probably not gonna give a funk.
Speaker 1: But you can't say that it just completely don't mentally
Speaker 1: affect you at all. If you everything folding should mentally
Speaker 1: affect you. That's that's that's shouldn't we shouldn't. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's strong we're trying to get there. What
Speaker 1: I'm saying shouldn't affect you because at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, you got already had that being ready to press.
Speaker 1: I agree, and it's life that we're living in. Yes,
Speaker 1: I won't be surprised or nothing no more. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: big facts especially after right right, you know what I'm saying, Like, man,
Speaker 1: I'm not surprised that ship, like I should believe it.
Speaker 1: They say he just saw alien in his yard doing
Speaker 1: whatever with his long almost some ship, but drinking and
Speaker 1: drinking the gas out a long more. I believe that
Speaker 1: I'm just being one hundred like if this is a stream,
Speaker 1: if you call them like brothers, ain't gonna think screen
Speaker 1: are lost in mind, be like that. You don't fake time.
Speaker 1: Let me see because I can believe it initially. Right,
Speaker 1: that's what the world has done. We got a fucking pandemic.
Speaker 1: It's the word stop. We can't use the word surprise,
Speaker 1: but can't we use the word disappointed? Are you disappointed
Speaker 1: in the person that you will give your last, that
Speaker 1: you that you will give your last, that you might
Speaker 1: have given your last, that you might have died for
Speaker 1: for them to get some money and be in a
Speaker 1: position to my be my brother's keeper. And they decide
Speaker 1: that they're not going to because they have money and
Speaker 1: they're disappointed and got them surprised. That's what I show
Speaker 1: you for show people. Guess what we get disappointment from
Speaker 1: people all the time. Yes, people are disappointed. You shouldn't
Speaker 1: put too much faith. That's what your kids with, your
Speaker 1: wife and you whoever, like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: She can cook some food, be mass here. You'd be
Speaker 1: disappointed by that ship. That's good. That's good that you
Speaker 1: bring that up though. And then and then well we'll
Speaker 1: get the candy shots to candy. She's on the way
Speaker 1: big fast. We're gonna chop it. Whatever. That's good that
Speaker 1: you bring it up. Because how do y'all think money
Speaker 1: affects a relationship? Because that a lot of times they
Speaker 1: say Niggers lose their mind on their women. They day
Speaker 1: one down women at their peak. What's the ship? They'd
Speaker 1: be saying on social media. Man is loyalty is tested
Speaker 1: when he has all the money, and man's loyalty is
Speaker 1: a woman's loyalty is tested when she has nothing, but
Speaker 1: a man's loyalty is testing when he has everything. That's
Speaker 1: a perfect example of the money. So how they think
Speaker 1: that money affects relationships and ship? Did the money change
Speaker 1: the person who wasn't getting the money. Can't always say
Speaker 1: it changed the person who was getting the money. No,
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying bank like, you could get so
Speaker 1: much money to run your own lady crazy double it
Speaker 1: back bro the when and the woman got they're just
Speaker 1: regular living right. I two situations. Now, the nigga has millions,
Speaker 1: meaning as in, he has all the cards, the jury
Speaker 1: orders of the ship. He can go play harder. Will
Speaker 1: he still be loyal? Now? The woman on the other
Speaker 1: end is like, we don't hit hard times. We funked up.
Speaker 1: Now she's gonna sit through them hard times or she's
Speaker 1: gonna start thinking, I could be with this nigga and
Speaker 1: I have to go through this hard times but just passed? Right?
Speaker 1: What is going on in these years like you're talking
Speaker 1: about you're talking about beforehand or now I'm talking about today?
Speaker 1: My nigga man, the holds man, that bank road getting low?
Speaker 1: What they say, you damn if that? If that, if
Speaker 1: that money get loaded? What they say nah? What she's like, Hey,
Speaker 1: don't see it? Sales? If the money, if the money
Speaker 1: go uh the money, yeah, if the money go this
Speaker 1: puts it going single? That shouldn't just come up out
Speaker 1: of nothing they didn't come up on old goddamn nigga.
Speaker 1: Them girls was expired by that. They see that going
Speaker 1: on every day. We have got to the bottom of it. Yes,
Speaker 1: if you know, if if you if you become extremely
Speaker 1: poor or you become extremely rich, it shows your true
Speaker 1: colors because the woman wasn't never down with you in
Speaker 1: the first place. Because I'm not leaving my nigga just
Speaker 1: because he went broke. You're one of periods. You're unique.
Speaker 1: We're gonna figure that out facts what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: what I'm saying half out of a thousand to be
Speaker 1: that's very important shot. But I don't say it to
Speaker 1: be fair to the women too. Like if if if
Speaker 1: that woman was down with you, which you didn't have
Speaker 1: ship like clean draws, nothing, then when you get the
Speaker 1: millions of them billions, you're supposed to treat her as
Speaker 1: the queen she is that stood with you to become that.
Speaker 1: But I think if a nigga, if a nigga in
Speaker 1: that situation like that, right, nine times, would they married
Speaker 1: or just a boyfriend girl friend? If you're married and you,
Speaker 1: y'all was she was fucked up. You was funked up
Speaker 1: before you came up. She diuldn't get some of that
Speaker 1: anyway because we no prenum me right right, no post,
Speaker 1: no pre no that real ship. So y'all already you
Speaker 1: already an old he had that money anyway. But if
Speaker 1: you just got a nigga, like I said, man, you
Speaker 1: gotta read the signs. Lady, you see, so you gotta
Speaker 1: be going up. We can't know ladies and gentlemen like
Speaker 1: if at the end of the day, what are you doing?
Speaker 1: Why this person is kiming a millions? But what the
Speaker 1: funk are you know? That's what I'm said. I have
Speaker 1: to be real because I got sisters to teach me
Speaker 1: this type of ship. They could be supported and putting
Speaker 1: everything into bank and not doing that own ship because
Speaker 1: they just loved banks so much that I got to
Speaker 1: help you get the way. But if you're hipping me
Speaker 1: to get me what I'm going, I ain't got You're
Speaker 1: on the payroll. Ain't listen. That love makes you do
Speaker 1: stupid ship, just like love and all that ship love
Speaker 1: making stupid. I feel like if if, if if I
Speaker 1: ever was to go separate ways when my wife whatever,
Speaker 1: you can deserve whatever you get. The reason why I
Speaker 1: grant for this ship was fun, my family, my kid. Well,
Speaker 1: so bit you can have half of that money, Like
Speaker 1: how do you need to be acting when they when
Speaker 1: need when he gets me to somebody getting that money.
Speaker 1: And there's been that now I can see now if
Speaker 1: I met you up, I met you up and then
Speaker 1: it's all kind of knock tom. But we don't came
Speaker 1: from goddamn kids to goddamn sleeping on floes together eating
Speaker 1: sardines and ship and all that. You deserve this regardless.
Speaker 1: It's a situation and for female is down with a
Speaker 1: nigga for let's say, tend them better. But but you
Speaker 1: got some female we don't know the situation because you've
Speaker 1: got some females been with a nigga but holding her
Speaker 1: nuts on this nigga in the relationship. True, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. True, Like we were just talking about
Speaker 1: the other day about the okay, just because you did
Speaker 1: certain things for me while I was down, you still
Speaker 1: it was mentally abusing these people and telling these people
Speaker 1: not really believe that's a different one. Your person hold
Speaker 1: you down and that's yeah, that's something else. But if
Speaker 1: y'all just in a bullshit that relationship all the time
Speaker 1: the outside, I just don't know. The relationship was no bullshit. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it's like, Okay, there was something going on that
Speaker 1: made you stay in that relationship. So what did you
Speaker 1: do to this bit to make her talk down on
Speaker 1: your treat you however you did for all these many
Speaker 1: years and make you stay. I think I think people
Speaker 1: be frustrated with the other person's it's just lack of progression,
Speaker 1: not even that. It's just, man, if you round a
Speaker 1: different person, I mean, if you round up another person
Speaker 1: like you and another person trying to be one y'all
Speaker 1: don't know each other, flowers, I don't know everything about
Speaker 1: each other. So it's certain ships you could do and
Speaker 1: say to that person to make them feel like you
Speaker 1: would exploit that. You get what I'm saying. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Looking at you like some bullshit because
Speaker 1: you just don't tell her the truth, vulnerability or whatever.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. It's like, man, that ship
Speaker 1: that's the hardest in the real trying to be like
Speaker 1: a relationship for a longer time. It ain't, but it is,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Because at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, how are you not going to agree with
Speaker 1: the person. I mean, how you how are you not
Speaker 1: gonna disagree with people? And some people take arguments too
Speaker 1: fun and some people take you know, what, agreement to fun?
Speaker 1: What do I believe you? What you think? I mean?
Speaker 1: I think, like I don't know, Like that relationship ship,
Speaker 1: it just gets really tricky because, like Scream said, it's
Speaker 1: all about vulnerability, but like it's all kind of like
Speaker 1: factors that play into that ship. Like if the people
Speaker 1: that are trying to be together have been through some ship,
Speaker 1: or if they've been cheated on a lie to before
Speaker 1: they got with the person that they went now and
Speaker 1: they got that in the back of their mind, like
Speaker 1: they're emotionally scarred and they can't they just can't, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, get it together because of like
Speaker 1: other factors outside of like whatever's going on, Like that ship,
Speaker 1: that relationships, it is crazy that it's really for the birth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's we're gonna We're gonna have a whole another show
Speaker 1: about that. Chop some of that ship off to as
Speaker 1: as you get money and you come up, just stick
Speaker 1: stick to um your morals, That's all I ask. If
Speaker 1: you're getting money, stick to your morals, you're gonna change,
Speaker 1: something's gonna money. Stick to your morals. But maybe people
Speaker 1: like this is what I keep trying to get y'all
Speaker 1: to see. Sometimes people well display their true morals, their
Speaker 1: true value until they can comfortably and the money makes
Speaker 1: it easy. You get what I'm saying. So so you'll
Speaker 1: be looking at the moment like they actually change, but
Speaker 1: they actually was doing business being being who they needed
Speaker 1: to be to get where they were trying to go.
Speaker 1: At the same time, we're looking at you, looking at
Speaker 1: a person as a friend, and they're looking at you
Speaker 1: as an opportunity. And it's a science that it's a
Speaker 1: sigence to coming up, but it's a bigger science to
Speaker 1: staying up, you know what I mean. But who's to
Speaker 1: say when that person turned into whoever then they is
Speaker 1: for real, they won't stay up. What I'm saying is like,
Speaker 1: you can never see a person change if you never
Speaker 1: really truly knew him. Yeah, that's true. The person where
Speaker 1: I thought you, well, I thought this because this may
Speaker 1: be the hand you showed me on the hand or
Speaker 1: put on the other shoot I made to show your
Speaker 1: hand that I was this person. But I could could
Speaker 1: be this person on the inside. I agree. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I agree. Like so when we're saying
Speaker 1: the person change, oh, the motherucker might still be like ship,
Speaker 1: what chang fool? But he didn't change? What change about bank?
Speaker 1: What would change about Jade? If there was a billion
Speaker 1: dollars to your access? Access okay, access totally nothing else
Speaker 1: like And then you're gonna probably take that some kind
Speaker 1: of way because you can't just keep me on the
Speaker 1: phone or whatever. You can't just do it that face.
Speaker 1: You gotta go through ten different people. The ninth person
Speaker 1: is gonna get you to someone. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: because that's that's the only way you're gonna get peace. Bro.
Speaker 1: If you just control the assets that the world have
Speaker 1: on to you, You get what I'm saying, Like if
Speaker 1: it because you think every time you try and get
Speaker 1: so rich, your phone ring and and it's never even
Speaker 1: though you up financially, it's never for nothing that not
Speaker 1: most times out of none that to help you is
Speaker 1: not to check on you, is for what they need
Speaker 1: at think and then if if if it's if it's
Speaker 1: something that's if you somewhat the other importance. Get what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, you're gonna have the right people to get
Speaker 1: in touch with it, to get in touch with me.
Speaker 1: That's just how it goes. But if it's some I
Speaker 1: don't give a funk what you could be calling me about.
Speaker 1: You could be on fire, I wouldn't you You're not
Speaker 1: gonna be to get in touch with me. You won't
Speaker 1: saying so people will probably be like, that's some false
Speaker 1: ship switch stuff. Yeah, any switch stuff. Can't get any
Speaker 1: on phone, Like somebody ere working on Instagram ain't knowning
Speaker 1: you can't talk to him unless you want to be
Speaker 1: talked to. How how How is that some funk? If
Speaker 1: that's how you how you at peace? If you get
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, That's what I'm saying. Like people gonna
Speaker 1: always have an opinion on whatever you do. How did
Speaker 1: that some funk? She could? That's the way I sleep?
Speaker 1: But that's the way you got them. That's that's that's
Speaker 1: that's helped in my health because instead of me just saying,
Speaker 1: you know what, I want to talk to you, bro,
Speaker 1: you got a negative vibe, I don't fuck you. Instead
Speaker 1: of me just saying that, I just do it my
Speaker 1: way and just hey man, I'm gonna control my piece
Speaker 1: I don't even I don't wanta talk nobody, so I
Speaker 1: want to talk to him. I check on not saying
Speaker 1: I cut you out to the point, but the access, Bro,
Speaker 1: that's what that's what I get. That's what I guess. Um,
Speaker 1: I totally agree. Like he's saying you got a billion dollars. No,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying that. Like I know if I
Speaker 1: had a billion dollars, like a lot of places that
Speaker 1: I go now, I'm not gonna be able to go. Um,
Speaker 1: And it's no like offense to the people that are
Speaker 1: in those places that I go to, but it's just
Speaker 1: like I just know I'm not gonna be able to
Speaker 1: do that, So I'm gonna have to figure out something
Speaker 1: else to occupy my time or you know, like you
Speaker 1: in knowledge on your way to being all all that,
Speaker 1: She's gonna changed anyway, Bro, you going on unless you
Speaker 1: like hit the lottery or something like that. It's over
Speaker 1: night ship. But if you yeah, if you work on
Speaker 1: that ship. Yeah, like you said, that's gonna be changed anyway,
Speaker 1: because you can't reach certain others of heights without changing
Speaker 1: some ship like dedicate we're all already ever be Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can't go to the top. If I didn't get
Speaker 1: a bigion being banked, I would have been had that
Speaker 1: motherfucker right, damn show been thought my grand was a
Speaker 1: being all the grand Yeah, so I would already have it.
Speaker 1: Like certain ship, you gotta meet certain people that you
Speaker 1: just gotta do. Certain ship and that ship came on
Speaker 1: a lot. So at the end of the day, how
Speaker 1: can you just how can you even though I get
Speaker 1: what you're saying, like, do it make a nigga just
Speaker 1: want to be like, but you gotta think some niggas
Speaker 1: is it's way they hold time and ship on niggas,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean the niggas it is like that.
Speaker 1: It's crazy when people think about that. You don't know
Speaker 1: what they think about. We'll never know what the nigga
Speaker 1: thinking about for all those years, Like I can't wait
Speaker 1: to get exactly they don't say. You never know, like
Speaker 1: and it could be self country. It could just be
Speaker 1: just you know what I'm saying. It's like I say,
Speaker 1: anything you buy is just to say when I pull
Speaker 1: up in their mother and the body nigga faith when
Speaker 1: he holds he did who woo? That just that just
Speaker 1: I don't do a who you could be got them,
Speaker 1: whether the tree and all the corporations you could be
Speaker 1: got damn with the niggas. Who's selling them um testes
Speaker 1: the ship? You can beat them. Niggas, they still when
Speaker 1: they pull their yalled up next to goddamn such and
Speaker 1: such and such and such corporation, they still want to
Speaker 1: be like, wait did they see them? And just human nature,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But some people just got
Speaker 1: it bad to the point of I just want to
Speaker 1: light on me at all time and showing the gas
Speaker 1: so and then the people. Some people go look at
Speaker 1: that ship as shit. But that could have been my motivation.
Speaker 1: That could be what keep me going, like I try
Speaker 1: to look at everybody point man. That's what they told me.
Speaker 1: Wait till I get my money right right like Kanye West,
Speaker 1: who don't feel like that though, Yeah that's true, but
Speaker 1: I just that don't be my motivation. Don't be more
Speaker 1: so let me get it so I can shoot on
Speaker 1: people more than it is. Let me get it to
Speaker 1: help people. That's just man. Nigga is motivated by his haters.
Speaker 1: Nigga is motivated by the is motivated by his haters.
Speaker 1: I won't give a fun motivated. You don't say as
Speaker 1: a man, as a man, you motivated to for I
Speaker 1: don't mean I'm taking to take care of your family,
Speaker 1: But that don't mean I'm controlled by them and they
Speaker 1: got to show them nothing. But see, the thing is like,
Speaker 1: that's cool to be motivated by your haters and everybody
Speaker 1: is true enough, But when you live your life based
Speaker 1: off of that, you're never truly happy because every time
Speaker 1: you do something, you're not doing it for yourself. You're
Speaker 1: doing it for the applause or for the recognition of
Speaker 1: somebody else. Yeah, you're right, you're right, you're right, you're
Speaker 1: right about that. But what I'm saying is that might
Speaker 1: if that's your only motivation, then you don't never be happy.
Speaker 1: But if that's a part of your motivation, and you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, you know, you gotta get some money,
Speaker 1: little because this is what I want this baby. But
Speaker 1: what I'm saying that ship is a small part of everybody.
Speaker 1: Though I don't give a funk what I need to say.
Speaker 1: You want to go, damn, It's just like it's just
Speaker 1: like a class reunion. You to find a bit in
Speaker 1: school back then you you're trying to them exercise always
Speaker 1: to attack because you want to look like what you
Speaker 1: look like in school when you go to your class reunion,
Speaker 1: I'm gotta contact for I'm trapping your class reunion. All right,
Speaker 1: Yeah you want you don't want to go back to
Speaker 1: your classroom. You get sucked up. You want to go
Speaker 1: back like hey, y'all thought I want it, but I'm
Speaker 1: in for sure. That's what I'm saying. Ain't saying that
Speaker 1: show everyday motivus. So all right, So when you come
Speaker 1: to your class union right now from high school and
Speaker 1: the folks see DJ screen pull up, you pull it
Speaker 1: up in your wieks, You pull up with your beautiful
Speaker 1: wife and DJ screen big facts, but rich, I'll know
Speaker 1: what it is you and the nigga say you change
Speaker 1: because you're coming in. Yeah, No, I get it, that
Speaker 1: I get I'm just saying that there are some people
Speaker 1: that wrong, No, that could be perceived as you. Hollywood
Speaker 1: and TV. Now, if you put on stage and you
Speaker 1: got a luxury card and you look and you're know
Speaker 1: you're on TV, You're gonna have such a you have
Speaker 1: a TV back, want nia look at your back? They're
Speaker 1: back gonna be moving like you on TV And Nick
Speaker 1: and Nigga just gonna look at you like because they're
Speaker 1: gonna look at you different like, but gets on. That's
Speaker 1: on the audience though, that's not like, that's not on screen.
Speaker 1: That's just on on nigga's being insecure and niggas already
Speaker 1: having act of jealousy. But you ain't gotta like of
Speaker 1: a pep in your step from your accomplishment. I'm supposed
Speaker 1: to fun. That's what I'm saying. That that could be
Speaker 1: received at some bulls. You'all gonna agree with this, right,
Speaker 1: And we're not talking about like some of the coolest
Speaker 1: most down the earth motherfucker's I've ever met are I'm
Speaker 1: not talking about rich people. I'm talking about the wealthy motherfucker's.
Speaker 1: Like I'm talking to them and it's like, this ship
Speaker 1: is unreal. See what I'm saying. I don't think they're
Speaker 1: motivated by let me put on this chain because back
Speaker 1: fin a walking room, I'm talking about wealthy man when
Speaker 1: they go, when they go, because it ain't I can't
Speaker 1: flake on the screen. Nigga, shut up. But we're not
Speaker 1: going need board meetings. We need mother who got the
Speaker 1: same kind of manage me and been competing competing against
Speaker 1: me to try to buy pelps in we compete and
Speaker 1: doing all this Now I'm finish. Niggas, when when this
Speaker 1: ship come out, when you noone's come out at the
Speaker 1: top of the year. Who's still standing up though? Facts
Speaker 1: beat what to do? Not the boy who just beat
Speaker 1: the man for the got the most money now, ain't
Speaker 1: got a chap pot that. Yeah, even though even though
Speaker 1: it's we still can do busines together, we're sticking whatever,
Speaker 1: but there's still a sense of competition and everything. And
Speaker 1: one could be looking at the other as he thinks
Speaker 1: he is. But I do think I'm that because I am.
Speaker 1: I'm doing that. I can't argue with that. I ain't,
Speaker 1: but I ain't trying to convince you that. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like what I'm saying is it's always
Speaker 1: it's perception. Is all this ship is perception? Everything is awful.
Speaker 1: But another person thing I could think I could look
Speaker 1: at this person get motivated by him, like yeah, what
Speaker 1: he doing instead of I could look at it like
Speaker 1: anybody that's in the same line as you, you damnit
Speaker 1: in the competition with him. No matter what the niggle
Speaker 1: want to say, no matter what the nigga want to say,
Speaker 1: because it ain't never one number one spot facts, So
Speaker 1: trying to get the number one spot and nigga could
Speaker 1: receive any of this ship, I'll try to be Joe
Speaker 1: Rogan though, Yeah, number one. You get what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like the real the real number one of all that ship,
Speaker 1: like the check number one, that that one, Like, you
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. You don't play that, You don't
Speaker 1: play the game. You don't play the game to be
Speaker 1: number two. So you think he ain't got his chess
Speaker 1: pope that is I run this podcast. What I'm saying
Speaker 1: is I think definitely is he wrong for that? Though
Speaker 1: didn't he work hardly man got them there? Two thousand episode? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I think the I think I think sometimes the
Speaker 1: nigger chess poking is just much more irrelevant than the
Speaker 1: real chess poking. Meaning that's I'm gonna go buy some
Speaker 1: ship only when you live facts. You see what I'm saying. No,
Speaker 1: but niggas ain't flexing on them. They're flexing on niggas
Speaker 1: and they leading. It's a different levels to this ship.
Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying. Yeah, nigger ain't even
Speaker 1: flex on a nigger like that. I don't even know them.
Speaker 1: I don't know them yet. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: that's the nigga I'm saying acting funding because I conflict
Speaker 1: some niggers up nder me. I'm saying ever about over
Speaker 1: me acting hunting, right, You get what I'm saying, right,
Speaker 1: Oh damn, I wouldn't do it because you don't always
Speaker 1: say you wouldn't do it like another motherfucker, because everybody,
Speaker 1: everybody got their own stories that said about telling me
Speaker 1: like all this she doing? Like, you can't say that
Speaker 1: ship ain't gonna work. You know, I start saying that,
Speaker 1: I'll be looking at nigga, i'd be right now, a
Speaker 1: lot of time, a lot of ship to be wacked out,
Speaker 1: that ship wat where it don't work. But now I
Speaker 1: believe it making work benefit of benefit. If you just
Speaker 1: keep going and making work, I don't doubt. Hey, man,
Speaker 1: who am I to judge? Get your own thing? Who
Speaker 1: am I to judge? Get your money? Like? How can
Speaker 1: I judge you for being arrogant? How can I judge
Speaker 1: you for being whatever you are? Like? How because I
Speaker 1: got my own ways what I'm saying like, and I
Speaker 1: might not You're gonna have a different attitude, but you
Speaker 1: have a different attitude when you get your hell cut
Speaker 1: you have you can not have a hell cuting you
Speaker 1: to be regular. You got your hell could you got
Speaker 1: damn acting different? The same way with that one where
Speaker 1: they healthy, they nailed up and all that that button on,
Speaker 1: they're looking they're kind of looking shorter, you know, get
Speaker 1: head and they got that ship. Man, it's a perking
Speaker 1: that ship. Bro. You get what I'm saying. Oh, so
Speaker 1: you're gonna say, oh, you're acting different because your health
Speaker 1: now you are. You're trying to be seen like you might.
Speaker 1: You might catch a woman and strow when they ain't
Speaker 1: name the party, might have a hood on a mask,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And tipping in, tipping in,
Speaker 1: tipping off when they know they got that thing. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying is what it is you can
Speaker 1: see them? So now you're acting different cause like I
Speaker 1: don't get that ship though, Bro, it's just certain ship
Speaker 1: come with certain ship. Yeah, tripping away, bro, as crazy
Speaker 1: as that sounds, certain ship come with certain ship and
Speaker 1: you gotta know what come with that ship exactly like
Speaker 1: you can't I get what you're saying. Like do people
Speaker 1: let search ships define them? Like? Okay, now you like
Speaker 1: search ship give you more confidence that the money gonna
Speaker 1: definitely give you more confidence. You're generally happy, right, You're happy.
Speaker 1: You get really fucking rich, you're happy er right. I
Speaker 1: truly believe that. Let's not even speak it, but if
Speaker 1: you got extremely rich and they had to go back
Speaker 1: to it being extremely poor, you would still be happy.
Speaker 1: See what I'm saying. Some people depression this that we
Speaker 1: see it. We see what Hollywood stars they can't handle
Speaker 1: the swings of the up to swallow them. They ain't
Speaker 1: better keep grinding, man, because that is a hard peal
Speaker 1: to swallow. To go from. It can happen like the
Speaker 1: third million all to nothing, that can happen. We see it. No,
Speaker 1: definitely it's happening. We've seen it. What you asked was
Speaker 1: does money or poverty to show your true character? I
Speaker 1: say both both. That's the answer. That's what we haven
Speaker 1: say both. It depends on the person. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Because like I said, you could be dead
Speaker 1: ass broke with no money, no nothing but your thief
Speaker 1: at heart, but you never seen nothing that's worth stealing.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You could be a thief
Speaker 1: at heart. I ain't gonna show his hand to his
Speaker 1: worth stealing something like I can't believe this ain't never
Speaker 1: stolen fifty year? Didn't he just stole a five hundred
Speaker 1: thousand from me? Yeah, it won't work me exposing the
Speaker 1: real me? You get what I'm saying, Like, you can
Speaker 1: never say what's the real person? And toil they show
Speaker 1: you who they is? You say all day, man, I
Speaker 1: know my girl won't never do this until you see
Speaker 1: it with a Johnson in them out real ship though
Speaker 1: you like, no, I hate like, bro, you don't don't
Speaker 1: say that, bro, Like just say you pray that never happens.
Speaker 1: Worswer my brother, Big Bank, we got Candy joined us
Speaker 1: today on Big Facts. You know she's gonna chop it
Speaker 1: up real good with us. Make sure your visitors online
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Speaker 1: the whole truth and nothing but the live for first
Speaker 1: class sounds. It's time for another edition of Big Facts.
Speaker 1: Is the voice of DJ screen right here. Big Bank
Speaker 1: is right, baby, Jade, I'm just seeing it through recorner
Speaker 1: Man that billion dollars smile. But we have a special
Speaker 1: guest in the building. Oh my gosh, I can't even
Speaker 1: call you a hustle. I'm gonna call you an entrepreneur.
Speaker 1: You have makeup, you have restaurants, you have a catalog
Speaker 1: of music, you have sex toys, you have acting, you
Speaker 1: have spinoff shows, you have touring, you have all the money.
Speaker 1: You're getting on it. Let's get up for candy facts.
Speaker 1: How you doing, Candy? I'm good? How you doing? Thank
Speaker 1: you for pulling up on us. We've been trying to
Speaker 1: get you for some time. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You know you're like family to us all especially you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Bank you I got a history.
Speaker 1: So welcome to big fact. I think we're gonna have
Speaker 1: some so fun today. Thanks for having me so so
Speaker 1: so give everybody. I guess let's talk about entrepreneurship a
Speaker 1: little bit. Everything that I said is it is factual.
Speaker 1: Like those are businesses that you have. You have makeup,
Speaker 1: you have three restaurants in Atlanta. Okay, you got sex toys?
Speaker 1: Are they like in the sex toy stores? And I
Speaker 1: gotta order them online? Um? Well, we used to be
Speaker 1: in some sex toys stores, but now you order them
Speaker 1: online or from one of our consultants. So we have
Speaker 1: over five thousand consultants across the country and we kind
Speaker 1: of like on some merrication. Yeah. Ok so you either
Speaker 1: have like the home party consultants or now people have
Speaker 1: like online parties or you can get them, okay, and
Speaker 1: then you also have UM there was something that was
Speaker 1: crazy that you have. What's a party that you do? Oh?
Speaker 1: The dungeon, the candy dungeon? What what? What? What go
Speaker 1: First off, what goes on in this candy dungeon? I
Speaker 1: don't know about this candy dungeon For starters, Well, it's
Speaker 1: just like wild over the top basically UM burlesque slash
Speaker 1: variety show. You know what I mean, dump it down.
Speaker 1: It's hard to explain because it's no sexually charged or
Speaker 1: sexually charged definitely UM and then anybody on some domination.
Speaker 1: It's domination, but it's like live performances, so we have
Speaker 1: artists that come and perform. But it's a mix of things.
Speaker 1: It's not a party wingers party like it. See, it's
Speaker 1: alway's confused. A lot of people don't know what they
Speaker 1: expect when it comes. So it's like a concert slash um.
Speaker 1: How do you come dressed? Encourage all the people that
Speaker 1: come to the show to wear as little as you
Speaker 1: would like to win, okay, but then by that some
Speaker 1: people come in their regular close. But it's more fun
Speaker 1: when you come dressed in you can come in, but
Speaker 1: jumpers you can come in, Lingerie, you can come in
Speaker 1: you know, uh Dominatrix and we come like this, We're
Speaker 1: gonna look awkward with our hoodies. And it depends like
Speaker 1: some cities, you know, everybody don't always participate, so you
Speaker 1: know it'd be something had to crowd being their costumes,
Speaker 1: has had to crowd b whatever. But then some kids
Speaker 1: some cities, people go all the way out. So everybody
Speaker 1: we're in there dressed overtopping. Wow, and that makes it
Speaker 1: more fun, you know what I mean. Yes, I've told
Speaker 1: it to Yeah. Me and my husband we were have
Speaker 1: promoted a tour. We actually did um well when we
Speaker 1: toured across country. We did have just sharp on the
Speaker 1: last time. He was our co promoter. Um help. He
Speaker 1: just helped us get the venues because sometimes you know,
Speaker 1: when you are a new promoter, sometimes the venues be
Speaker 1: hating on you. I'm sure you understand that. So um
Speaker 1: to locking in all the venues, we did have to
Speaker 1: bring in a big dog to help us get all
Speaker 1: the meanings we wanted. But um, yeah, we did everything ourselves.
Speaker 1: So yeah, the same thing with the pay you did
Speaker 1: to play yourself to right, we did that with the play.
Speaker 1: We did it ourselves just in Atlanta, and then we
Speaker 1: had signed it over to another promoter and that's when
Speaker 1: it messed up up. And that's what I learned my
Speaker 1: lesson that first time around. And so the next time
Speaker 1: around when we did the Dungeons for we was like,
Speaker 1: we never wanted to do another tour again unless we
Speaker 1: were our own promoter. And so that's how we end
Speaker 1: up being our own some promoter for the Dungeon tour.
Speaker 1: But yeah, so anyway, can you know you was the
Speaker 1: first female like to be noticed, like one of the
Speaker 1: first females to be noticed as a boss, like real
Speaker 1: ship after real nip, like after you came, you know,
Speaker 1: because you brought it to TV. So it's like the
Speaker 1: actual female boss like a hustler. You know. That's funny
Speaker 1: because it wasn't like it was in tensional. I know
Speaker 1: that I'm just saying you was already doing what you
Speaker 1: was doing, But it's like, do you feel like you
Speaker 1: inspired women? Though? I think well now looking back, yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess yeah for sure. Um, I get a lot
Speaker 1: of women who say that. So now I recognize that
Speaker 1: I do inspire women, and so you know, now I
Speaker 1: make it a point that when I do stuff on
Speaker 1: the show, I always try to be a person of
Speaker 1: my word and I try to make it happen. Like
Speaker 1: I don't like to just be on the show just
Speaker 1: talking about ship. Like if I say something, I want
Speaker 1: you to actually see it happen. Like I hate when
Speaker 1: people be on TV talking about, Oh, I want to
Speaker 1: do this, and you never see it come together. You
Speaker 1: never see it come to life. Like I don't never
Speaker 1: want to be just on there talking about some stuff
Speaker 1: and you don't never see it come together. Like if
Speaker 1: I start talking about something at the beginning of the season,
Speaker 1: I want to have something actually come together, whether it's
Speaker 1: a sample or something of substance, happened by the end
Speaker 1: of that season. Yeah, that makes sense because they used
Speaker 1: when you first came on show, everybody know Canny got money.
Speaker 1: There was all the girls just say you remember we
Speaker 1: went to the first the first the opening, Uh, when
Speaker 1: your first um, you know what y'all had had the
Speaker 1: debut ship? When when your first season and then when
Speaker 1: they showed you everybody, Well, yeah, and the whole city
Speaker 1: like remember that ship. Yeah, the very first first season
Speaker 1: was yeah, yeah, that's funny. What you know what the
Speaker 1: funny thing is, Before I got on this show, I
Speaker 1: didn't really think that many people knew I had no
Speaker 1: money like that, like to be for real, because I
Speaker 1: felt like I was always pretty low key, like I
Speaker 1: didn't really like you buy a lot of big stuff.
Speaker 1: I didn't spend big you know what I mean, Like
Speaker 1: I had a house, but I didn't buy like a
Speaker 1: huge house, you know what I'm saying. I didn't buy
Speaker 1: a out of jewelry. I had a decent car. I
Speaker 1: wasn't buying big, big cars or nothing. So I remember
Speaker 1: even time he used to be like, Cann, if I
Speaker 1: had your money, I'd be bawling on these like that.
Speaker 1: So I never really when I would go to the club,
Speaker 1: I would always go with y'all. I would go with
Speaker 1: people sitting in the section. It wasn't like I was
Speaker 1: buying my own section, buying it out of My point
Speaker 1: is like I never thought nobody thought I really had
Speaker 1: money like that. Understand we've had Cannon, like y'all need
Speaker 1: to be like niggles y'all got candy. Yeah, yeah, but
Speaker 1: I was like, y'all gotta understake Candy is candy that
Speaker 1: she comes from, all that she's she knows what's going on.
Speaker 1: What's going on Candy from Escate. Now you see what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like this is like people could just do
Speaker 1: music and be successful. We looked on TV like, oh,
Speaker 1: she actually doing it. You think what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: it's a different perception for some people. In fact, no,
Speaker 1: they was she's to be a tosh. Yeah, even like
Speaker 1: people people don't be feeling like like people on her level,
Speaker 1: like as high as she is and with all the
Speaker 1: ship that she's accomplished, they don't think that she knows
Speaker 1: how to come back down the same way like Monica.
Speaker 1: Like Monica goes to all the same places. She'll pull
Speaker 1: up on me a crucial or you know what I'm saying, wherever,
Speaker 1: like the most down to our person ever in the world.
Speaker 1: But people just see the the glitz and don't understand
Speaker 1: that like these are real deal, real human beings. Feel
Speaker 1: like that's real Atlanta ship too. When you're really from Atlanta.
Speaker 1: You want to kick it in Atlanta, like that's what
Speaker 1: you work hard and got successful. I want to go
Speaker 1: kick it in the city. I want to be regular,
Speaker 1: like ye want to go wherever I want to go? Yeah,
Speaker 1: back and then me and Monica used to ye in
Speaker 1: the wall Southside okay all the time? Right um yeah, man,
Speaker 1: I just feel like, you know, when I got on
Speaker 1: the show, I just feel like all that it's got
Speaker 1: put out there really heavy. There. Oh she got all
Speaker 1: this money and it is, but I feel like it
Speaker 1: got put out there real heavy because to me, like
Speaker 1: just being somebody that was just watching the show with you,
Speaker 1: in comparison to the rest of the wives or whatever.
Speaker 1: You I don't want to say we're the only one
Speaker 1: that really had some ship going on, but you were
Speaker 1: like one of the only ones that really had some
Speaker 1: tangible ship going on that you could go touch like hey,
Speaker 1: I have actually done this, or I actually have this business,
Speaker 1: or hey, bitch, I gotta grammy or you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying whatever, Like nobody, like everybody else kind of
Speaker 1: was just like a wife like real ship. Like they
Speaker 1: started going up, though, Like do you feel like it
Speaker 1: was pressure you put pressure on yourself by people started
Speaker 1: saying like Kenny got this is doing this, doing that,
Speaker 1: you think you put more pressure on yourself after that,
Speaker 1: because it's like you had three different you gotta think him, uh,
Speaker 1: for the car handler had three different eras, like as
Speaker 1: a child, as a young adult, and as an adult fool.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like each one, each one
Speaker 1: of those times, like you reaventage yourself. Yes, well, I
Speaker 1: think that's the important though. To stay in the game.
Speaker 1: That's the key to Longevin. That's the key to Longevin.
Speaker 1: You have to readmit yourself, like, Um, you can't stay
Speaker 1: the same and stay relevant. You can't, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Um, you know, people stop caring at some point.
Speaker 1: And I always tell everybody, nobody cares what you used
Speaker 1: to be used to body cares, like nobody cared what
Speaker 1: you accomplished before. Nobody cared what you did. It does
Speaker 1: not matter as soon as you did it, So you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, it's like something else now And
Speaker 1: it's so it's like, Um, I remember my cousin told
Speaker 1: one of my cousins on me a long time ago.
Speaker 1: We were sitting around. It's a lot of time ago.
Speaker 1: She said, Uh, used to bees don't make no honey,
Speaker 1: So don't nobody care what you used to be. Like, Okay,
Speaker 1: but that shi's stuck with me, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Because I was like, that ship is real? You know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Because you know people always be If
Speaker 1: you ever really be around somebody that was super hot
Speaker 1: that ain't hot, no mode, they always man, we used
Speaker 1: to be blah blah blah. Man. Remember we used to
Speaker 1: be like a jail Yeah ye a thousand times. Yes,
Speaker 1: they just want to run back to how we used
Speaker 1: to be up. Yeah. Do you feel that once you
Speaker 1: fear that no, you always do something. Yes, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Once you fear being that person, like
Speaker 1: I listen, I have that fear. I have that fear, man,
Speaker 1: I have that fear. So for me, I have that
Speaker 1: figure constantly. I am always trying to figure out what's
Speaker 1: my next move. Always when I'm in my current move,
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about what's my next move. And I'm always like, okay,
Speaker 1: this whatever I'm working on right now, like whatever's hot
Speaker 1: right now, whatever I'm being celebrated for today is what
Speaker 1: I worked on last year, what I worked on last month.
Speaker 1: So is if I ain't got something that I'm working
Speaker 1: on right now, then I ain't gonna have nothing coming
Speaker 1: out next week, next month, next year, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. I gotta consistently be working on something new
Speaker 1: to keep it going, you know what I mean. And
Speaker 1: so that's why I'm like, I'm always like Aunty, We're
Speaker 1: trying to figure out what's next, what's next, what we're doing,
Speaker 1: what we're doing with me, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Speaking on some real Atlanta ship. How you feel about
Speaker 1: the Water Boys, Candy, Like when you see the water Boys,
Speaker 1: if you whip up like you do you contribute to
Speaker 1: their cause? Or are you scared on now because they've
Speaker 1: been on some bullshit like the water Okay, So at
Speaker 1: first I was like, oh, this is dope, like they're really,
Speaker 1: you know, entrepreneurs. And now now I'm annoyed. I'm like,
Speaker 1: find a new hustle, like shit is oh now, y'all
Speaker 1: they don't want this hut Like this ship wore out.
Speaker 1: Y'all need to move on to the next hustle, like
Speaker 1: you know how when they wear that hustle out, and
Speaker 1: this time for the next move like this world, this
Speaker 1: hustle is well out, y'all need to move to the next.
Speaker 1: They don't mess it up for y'all, Like from the
Speaker 1: one I live off Cascade. What was it last year
Speaker 1: when they gonna shot somebody like y'all Come on, now,
Speaker 1: this is not it like we can't do it them all.
Speaker 1: But as an entrepreneur and hustler, what would you suggest
Speaker 1: maybe that reinvent yourself. Reinvent yourself. Okay, don't say the
Speaker 1: water something else, something good, you know, not the water
Speaker 1: be hot. I don't even care. I'm over the need
Speaker 1: to keep the label on the water. You ain't even
Speaker 1: pretending no more. You ain't even trying to keep a
Speaker 1: cold like no. And so now like that, you're in
Speaker 1: the mind frame of always wanting to evolve and elevate
Speaker 1: and do something new and always happen to have that
Speaker 1: next thing going on. Were you in that same mind
Speaker 1: frame when you wrote No Scrubs and builds Bills Bills? Um? Well, okay,
Speaker 1: back when we did No Scrubs, I was um I
Speaker 1: was a hustle over for real. Yeah, hustle mode for
Speaker 1: real because um our group was breaking up at the time. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: so our group was falling apart. We knew one of
Speaker 1: our group members was supposed to be doing a solo
Speaker 1: album and um I had told Tiny we was working
Speaker 1: on a third album, but we knew that once that
Speaker 1: third album released, that was it. Yeah, we was gonna
Speaker 1: be on a height all right. Yeah. So I told Tiny,
Speaker 1: I was like, Yo, we need to you know, will
Speaker 1: do it project. And and I was telling her less like,
Speaker 1: you know, write our own stuff and present it to
Speaker 1: the label so they can see the vision. Right. So, um,
Speaker 1: we had started writing with producers and stuff for our
Speaker 1: demotate for ourselves, and No Scrubs was one of the
Speaker 1: songs that we did for ourselves. So it was supposed
Speaker 1: to be a cat project Kiddy and Tiny, So that's
Speaker 1: what No Scrubs was. And um, when we had so
Speaker 1: Shakespeare was one of the producers that we had worked
Speaker 1: with for ourselves. And I had just kept you know,
Speaker 1: at the time, like I said, I was on hustles.
Speaker 1: I was just like trying to stay in the studio.
Speaker 1: So I was like kept writing with them. I would
Speaker 1: call I be like, yo, let's go to the studio.
Speaker 1: When she'd be like, well, what we're writing is it
Speaker 1: for us? I'm like, okay, what's for Let's just go
Speaker 1: to the studio. And she was like, nah, you knowin'
Speaker 1: for us? You know, like sometimes she would come sometimes,
Speaker 1: you know and be like, well, you know, let me know,
Speaker 1: you know what we're doing or whatever. And so I
Speaker 1: was just writing at that point, just to be writing,
Speaker 1: even if it wasn't for us. And um, he had
Speaker 1: just got a publishing deal. They invited him to go
Speaker 1: to work with Destiny's Child and he asked me to go.
Speaker 1: I went, and you know, and that's all she wrote
Speaker 1: from there. Okay, cold speaking speaking of music, now, preservation
Speaker 1: self preservation, Tell we have you both here and talk
Speaker 1: talk a little bit about the process of creating. Try
Speaker 1: it out, like how did that happen? Did you hit
Speaker 1: her that she had shot together, like recorded the house,
Speaker 1: you recorded at her house? Okay, yeah, but I was
Speaker 1: I was over the spot with a j went back
Speaker 1: at your studio from the old house yet with the
Speaker 1: stud Yeah, yeah, recorded the song then was like until
Speaker 1: can come this and Ship like that's it whatever, went
Speaker 1: to password the next day and recorded it right ship
Speaker 1: m Yeah that I ain't smoking my blood. They can
Speaker 1: you to be crying with you to be running the
Speaker 1: vans and the front of the ship smoking. You know,
Speaker 1: I ain't smoking the blood. But you probably one of
Speaker 1: the few people I'll put it out for you. Dropped
Speaker 1: me off, dropped me out. You've been drop me off
Speaker 1: smoking too, But I hate it. Well, you're so accomplished
Speaker 1: like yourself. You know what I'm saying. You already said
Speaker 1: what drives you? But what can we expect next? Like
Speaker 1: what what's What's some things you haven't conquered yet that
Speaker 1: you just like, I gotta conquer this ship. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: guess I'm going to do a book one day, but like,
Speaker 1: my story ain't done yet, right, I feel like my
Speaker 1: story is dag it. But um, yeah, eventually I want
Speaker 1: to do a book. I really want to do the
Speaker 1: whole fictional series, though I think that would be dope.
Speaker 1: I'm really going hard at this acting thing right now.
Speaker 1: I was just about to say that you ain't being
Speaker 1: on bullshit you like you snapped on the shot that
Speaker 1: you know what I'm I'm had it back. Um actually
Speaker 1: in a couple of weeks to go back to Chicago
Speaker 1: to um start on season four. So I'm excited abous hard. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I'm going hard on that. I've been doing a
Speaker 1: lot of auditions to do more and um, actually my
Speaker 1: husband and I were trying to produce some stuff I
Speaker 1: can't wait to this damn COVID ship go away so
Speaker 1: we can do some more too. Yeah, you want to
Speaker 1: produce in the way, we want to produce some films
Speaker 1: and stuff ourselves as well. Um and man, take over
Speaker 1: this internet stuff as well. We have you have I
Speaker 1: haven't been, um no, but not yet. Man, it's just
Speaker 1: too much. There's so much stuff that we need to
Speaker 1: be on now that it's something like, you know, I
Speaker 1: got a hundred advices. Let's tell you what happened on
Speaker 1: my white clubhouse experienced. So nobody told me what club
Speaker 1: house was, right. They just kept saying, get on clubhouse,
Speaker 1: get o clubhouse. So I kept getting these advices, and
Speaker 1: one person told me that if you don't accept it
Speaker 1: that you may not get another invitce or something. So
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, let me go on to make
Speaker 1: my profile, my profile, because you know how some time
Speaker 1: to people take your names. Yeah, let me make my
Speaker 1: profile before somebody steal my name. So I'm making my name,
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, I get all these damn
Speaker 1: texts like you need to hurry on mona. Yeah, she
Speaker 1: texted me, And next thing I know, I'm like here
Speaker 1: somebody talking to me, so I like, I said, like,
Speaker 1: you can't hear me. I didn't realize it was a
Speaker 1: phone call and people was talking. Yeah, yeah, it's like
Speaker 1: I didn't know. It was like a whole phone, like
Speaker 1: a whole like three white call, but like with the masses.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, no, no, no, and it
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, we're trying to welcome you, and I
Speaker 1: was like, no, I wasn't trying to talk right now.
Speaker 1: I was trying to make my profile. I wasn't really
Speaker 1: trying to talk to me all right now. And it
Speaker 1: was like, no, we're trying to make it big, like
Speaker 1: we wanted to welcome you, and I said no, no,
Speaker 1: I was trying to watch a movie right now. But
Speaker 1: I was just trying to hold my name. And it
Speaker 1: was like, well, we got to welcome you. Come back
Speaker 1: and we're gonna let us know we can welcome you.
Speaker 1: And yeah, okay, well we're gonna do this another time.
Speaker 1: So I had hungle. But I was like because I
Speaker 1: was like, this isn't what I was trying to do tonight.
Speaker 1: What this this? She was cool at first, though, hear
Speaker 1: me out, Yeah she got burnt quick. You ain't been made. No,
Speaker 1: I ain't go back say to go. I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be on there. Everybody could hear me,
Speaker 1: and then people was hearing me up later that was
Speaker 1: so funny. You thought she was like you didn't know
Speaker 1: was on the phone call? Like what it was random?
Speaker 1: People like can't hear me? I didn't know that, like
Speaker 1: or something. Yeah, that was too much for me. I
Speaker 1: don't want you to just hear me talking about you
Speaker 1: can mute it though you got five thousand and be moderators.
Speaker 1: Yeah that should be. Don't worry five thousand moderators, Like
Speaker 1: who the fuck? Or you'd be like banking savage and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take over people. Rooms ain't got mad. They
Speaker 1: get mad about that ship now they haven't mad. Rules
Speaker 1: like you can't like there to leach your ship if
Speaker 1: you do that now for really, like when when somebody
Speaker 1: invites you, they it'll pop up like these are these
Speaker 1: are the worlds for this room? Do you agree? And
Speaker 1: if you agree and try to do something, they'll get
Speaker 1: rid of you. I don't get it. Never mind. To me,
Speaker 1: it sounds like it sounds like a free seminar. That's
Speaker 1: what it is. That's what that's what And you got
Speaker 1: a bunch of niggers on that line too, like you
Speaker 1: got a bunch of got good talk, good voices. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because we were on that other night. It was a
Speaker 1: nigga whose profile picture was like a four p F
Speaker 1: chain or some ship. So a little man was like
Speaker 1: you you work for baby or something, and then everybody
Speaker 1: in the room started looking at the nigga like like
Speaker 1: who are you? Who are you like? And then they're like, well,
Speaker 1: who brought this nigga up? And then they got to
Speaker 1: the bottom of who brought this nig up? The nigga
Speaker 1: disappeared because he had in his bio he worked for
Speaker 1: Sony and R C A and he was this that
Speaker 1: and the third whatever whatever assistant the four PF blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. So goddamn, they got to the bottom of
Speaker 1: which moderator brought the nigga up and like made him
Speaker 1: able to speak and gave him a green being and
Speaker 1: all that ship. And they ended up holding court. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: that ship crazy try on a little man dash. It
Speaker 1: was like a whole bunch of people. They held court
Speaker 1: for the for the moderator nigga that brought the nigga up,
Speaker 1: and they kicked the moderator Nigga off. It was just
Speaker 1: it's funny. That ship was funny, but it's like now
Speaker 1: it's kind of like give it out, greedy lady going
Speaker 1: in too. Yeah, okay, so listen, like reality TV, right,
Speaker 1: so most people who are relationships on marriages and reality TV,
Speaker 1: they probably don't make it. So what's your secret? Like,
Speaker 1: how are you able to be on reality TV and
Speaker 1: have a successful relationship and marriage? Um, well we met
Speaker 1: TV that's number one. Okay, So it wasn't like we
Speaker 1: came in together reality We met on reality TV and
Speaker 1: he was a producer, so he knows how production works.
Speaker 1: So they can't mess us up. If we get messed up,
Speaker 1: it's because we missed the owners. You couldn't work your
Speaker 1: way up on the boards, so they don't cut you
Speaker 1: in it. Oh, I know you negotiating on the real
Speaker 1: houseband level ship. You've been on us a long list thing.
Speaker 1: You are the chop brand, Like yeah, all right, please,
Speaker 1: They ain't never got to change that. Like Bravo is
Speaker 1: a machine man. If you say you was about to leave,
Speaker 1: you don't think they negotiate whatever you want them to negotiate?
Speaker 1: Absolutely not. Why not? Because they are a machine. They
Speaker 1: feel like they replace as quick anybody. I mean, I
Speaker 1: feel like they feel like they could replace anybody. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying, you know. Um, I mean I
Speaker 1: feel like they probably could, to be honest with it's
Speaker 1: so many people up and coming as rather. I mean,
Speaker 1: I got new girls on that right, Yeah, we got
Speaker 1: new people that. Yeah. I mean at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, that's been going for a very long time
Speaker 1: and it's and you know, they got a built in
Speaker 1: fan base that's gonna watch it no matter what. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't. I don't feel like any of
Speaker 1: us are bigger than the show it is. They changed good,
Speaker 1: So I don't care to do should you be doing anyway,
Speaker 1: there's the normal. It's not stripped it at all. The
Speaker 1: only thing like where people don't realize it's like okay,
Speaker 1: so we don't pick the restaurants or the trip, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, So they'll pick that or like say,
Speaker 1: for instance, um, if you and I went out on
Speaker 1: a date or whatever and we was arguing and because
Speaker 1: you wanted to start your own business, then when I
Speaker 1: go and have lunch with him, then they're gonna be like,
Speaker 1: make sure you told him what which I was arguing about,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So they don't tell me
Speaker 1: to tell us what we're gonna say, but they will.
Speaker 1: They want me to mention it, because how you're gonna
Speaker 1: keep the story going or consistent if you don't mention
Speaker 1: things that happened in the previous scene. You gotta see
Speaker 1: it play out. So it's no way you can if
Speaker 1: you just want to have random things have been all
Speaker 1: around and I think ever continuously goes on like it
Speaker 1: wouldn't make sense, so you have to have it something
Speaker 1: be continuous. So but no, they don't tell you what
Speaker 1: to say, you know, you know as far as like
Speaker 1: verbat on, you know what I'm saying. But flashback a
Speaker 1: little bit to Tri Cities High School Candy. What was
Speaker 1: Tri Cities High School candy? Like, whoa, it's Tri City
Speaker 1: Kity like for everybody who don't know, Tri Cities popular
Speaker 1: high school in Atlanta worldwide. Okay, so wow, that was
Speaker 1: a long time ago. We know that. You know you
Speaker 1: were singing, Yes, I was definitely singing. Okay, So Tri
Speaker 1: City when I first went and went there, it was
Speaker 1: a brand new school. They had put three rival schools
Speaker 1: together to make Tri Cities. So, um, it was a
Speaker 1: brand new building. Okay. So we had to fight every
Speaker 1: single week for the first two months, and our principal
Speaker 1: did the Joe Clark had suspend the expelled all the
Speaker 1: people at the end of the first month of school.
Speaker 1: And it was like we was on the news every week.
Speaker 1: It was like crazy, like we had all these like
Speaker 1: crazy fights and stuff. Yeah. But like when when I
Speaker 1: went to try City, Um, it was amazing, like in
Speaker 1: my first couple of years a Tri City because like
Speaker 1: when I was there, you know, KP was there when
Speaker 1: I was there, they weren't outcast. They now they was
Speaker 1: out casting. You know, they were figuring themselves out, just
Speaker 1: like Escay was. We was there, you know what I mean. Um,
Speaker 1: you know Windo man, we go with you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Damn near everybody lived. A lot of a
Speaker 1: lot of people lived in like it's on four in
Speaker 1: the Swaths and like East Point. So I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's trust you. Yeah. So it was. And I had
Speaker 1: so I went to like white schools growing up. MENI
Speaker 1: I went to hers very rich view. So my mom
Speaker 1: had bust me. Remember the minority to majority program. So
Speaker 1: I was tired of going to white schools and I
Speaker 1: wanted to go to a black school. I was supposed
Speaker 1: to go to Creekside, but my friend wanted to audition
Speaker 1: for the performing arts program and she asked me to
Speaker 1: audition with her because so she wouldn't be by herself,
Speaker 1: and I went with her. They end up picking me.
Speaker 1: So that's how I ended up going to try to
Speaker 1: Um but I'm saying one thing. You know, I feel
Speaker 1: like everything happens for a reason. But I thank her
Speaker 1: for that because it helped change my life. Yeah, shout
Speaker 1: out to her home girl where she is, But what's
Speaker 1: she doing now? She went on to be a teacher
Speaker 1: and so yeah, so you know, everything happened for a
Speaker 1: reason for so anyway, I ended up going to try
Speaker 1: City and it was mistnay and for me, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Um, So I was in a performing
Speaker 1: ice program. You know, I met to Mika Tasha and
Speaker 1: um tiny you know I end up meeting her later
Speaker 1: because um, she ended up coming I I ended up
Speaker 1: meeting her, I guess the summer coming into the tenth
Speaker 1: grade through to Mika Scott. But yeah, and yeah, it
Speaker 1: just was fun. So speaking of like escape and you
Speaker 1: guys all meeting like in high school and coming together
Speaker 1: and stuff. Once you guys formed and came together. How
Speaker 1: did Jermaine come into the picture? Oh okay, so Ian Burke.
Speaker 1: I feel like I just did this interview because we
Speaker 1: did a thing about Ian Burke not that long ago,
Speaker 1: but so okay, So I'm gonna rewind back. So in
Speaker 1: ninth grade, which was a great year for me, but
Speaker 1: I was when I met my group members. Like I said,
Speaker 1: we were singing and stuff like that. Um, all performing arts.
Speaker 1: Everything was fun n grade year. At the end of summer,
Speaker 1: end of the end of my ninth grade year. Um,
Speaker 1: you know it started, I told you, I said, we
Speaker 1: started being a group, but not I had not met
Speaker 1: In yet. My brother introduced us to and berg Um.
Speaker 1: Shortly thereafter my brother passed away, okay, and then shortly
Speaker 1: thereafter Tiny ended up being in the group which was
Speaker 1: like the summer like I said, after in tenth grade,
Speaker 1: and then shortly there after In took us this thing
Speaker 1: for Germaine dupri Um for his nineteenth birthday. So um
Speaker 1: then he was at the time, he was still working
Speaker 1: with Criss Cross, and he said, I'll come back and
Speaker 1: help y'all. You know sign y'all when I finished working
Speaker 1: with this group and he was like, yeah, yeah whatever,
Speaker 1: thinking bullshitting us, but he wasn't, and we went on
Speaker 1: about our business and later on he saw us. We
Speaker 1: ended up doing the performance you know when they had
Speaker 1: that what was that Team Summit show thing. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: they had their talent show thing and we did hold
Speaker 1: on by a Vogue, but we couldn't do it with
Speaker 1: the music, so we did it. Yeah, we had a
Speaker 1: compella ship box and he said that he loved us
Speaker 1: because we was the ghetto in Vogue signed us and
Speaker 1: that's hard. Yeah. So we were trying to figure out
Speaker 1: on big factors the Grammys. We don't always understand the Grammys.
Speaker 1: When we look at some of the nominations and all
Speaker 1: that ship, we didn't we didn't wholeheartedly agree with they
Speaker 1: left a little baby out some of the nominations and
Speaker 1: all that ship. So as a as a Grammy winner,
Speaker 1: I guess help us out with the process of this
Speaker 1: Grammy ship a little bit, like what it means to
Speaker 1: you how they come up with this ship, who wins
Speaker 1: and all that stuff, Like give us your opinion on
Speaker 1: the Grammys or some information on it. Okay. So the Grammys,
Speaker 1: So basically you have to be on the Grammy boot
Speaker 1: Grammy Committee UM to be able to vote. Um. Okay,
Speaker 1: So anybody who who everybody who is a member? Are
Speaker 1: you on the board, Well yeah, I'm in the No no, no, okay.
Speaker 1: So it's it's weird. Okay. So one year I was
Speaker 1: actually on the board. Who the people who actually got
Speaker 1: to vote vote? So basically everybody UM votes and then
Speaker 1: I think they narrow it down and then they have
Speaker 1: like this secret group of people who votes on the
Speaker 1: top sounds like some No, no, it's like you vote
Speaker 1: on the top five. You know what I'm saying. That
Speaker 1: is what I'm saying. It's like, okay, so let me
Speaker 1: ask you this before and I'm like going, and so
Speaker 1: save for instance, here's the thing. All the people that
Speaker 1: as in the Grammy Association or whatever. Obviously it's way
Speaker 1: more others than it is black people, right, But if
Speaker 1: you are if you don't know these names, it's a
Speaker 1: popularity contest at that point, and you're just going through
Speaker 1: voting based off of the names you recognize. So you're
Speaker 1: gonna narrow it down to five people. So when it
Speaker 1: gets the five people that we that the secret Committee
Speaker 1: get to choose from is the one that the masses
Speaker 1: of the got narrowed it down to. So if I'm like,
Speaker 1: how come it's only these people for me to pick from?
Speaker 1: What happened to you know, this person webbing app Why
Speaker 1: you'll only put these people in? Because the majority of
Speaker 1: the people in the Grammy Association are not people who
Speaker 1: actually listen to rep music. You get what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: the same way as if I'm voting, I may not
Speaker 1: listen to classical music, but may I put in my
Speaker 1: vote for you know, the top names in the cloud?
Speaker 1: Just voting on the name I don't know who that is.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. So my question is somebody
Speaker 1: was in my comments saying that you have to pay
Speaker 1: some sort of dudes, and if you haven't paid your dudes,
Speaker 1: then you aren't even considered to be a nominee. Is
Speaker 1: that true? I guess? But yeah, I mean, I guess,
Speaker 1: but I think the artists yeah, yeah, I mean, yeah
Speaker 1: that and that may be true. I don't even remember,
Speaker 1: But I think the main problem, like I said, is
Speaker 1: that just like the majority of the majority of the
Speaker 1: association who votes, they do not listen to rap music.
Speaker 1: So if you know, if we go in, if I
Speaker 1: log in and all the names of the rappers that
Speaker 1: are there, I'm just if I see all these names,
Speaker 1: I see a little baby, a little this little dirt, little,
Speaker 1: a little something's little stung. And I see Will Smith, Oh,
Speaker 1: I know Will Smith, I see whoever. I'm gonna vote
Speaker 1: for the popular name. I'm not gonna vote. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna check the name that's really pop. I'm gonna just
Speaker 1: vote for the name I know I've heard of before
Speaker 1: you get. And that goes back to the type of
Speaker 1: people that are voting, Yeah, the type they know a
Speaker 1: certain type of right, So those names get narrowed down
Speaker 1: to the top five, and then it's a group of
Speaker 1: people that are picked up. Basically, rap don't even belong
Speaker 1: with the grammar. Basically, well, I'm saying it's just a
Speaker 1: category now, but it's not even a part, really a
Speaker 1: part of the grammar. And it's not a fair competition.
Speaker 1: Why cann't take it as to like you vote, you're
Speaker 1: voting based on popularity as opposed to the art. So
Speaker 1: whoever had the hardest or the best album or even
Speaker 1: the highest selling album, but then again, the popularity is
Speaker 1: their definition of popularity, the the pop ularity of it.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying that just that goes back
Speaker 1: to how like we always say everybody has their own
Speaker 1: definition of everything, like populate, like like baby was the
Speaker 1: most popular nigga out this year, but not to the
Speaker 1: pop you learn people that are picking the popularity disregard
Speaker 1: people who aren't black or who don't listen to round
Speaker 1: Because you gotta think, all of these people are still
Speaker 1: in the music industry. A lot of you still do
Speaker 1: their research and go through the charge and say, okay,
Speaker 1: well this person is on the charge of project. So
Speaker 1: they still you know, you know, try to you know,
Speaker 1: check a name that's you know, popular. But when when
Speaker 1: it gets down to that group, that secret group, those
Speaker 1: people are voting based off of different things. So let me,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just say from my experience when I got
Speaker 1: put in the secret group. So the secret groups are
Speaker 1: split up, right, so each group may get different categories.
Speaker 1: I don't remember that year, I might have got R
Speaker 1: and B album with you, or I'm pop Artists of
Speaker 1: the Year whatever whatever. So in my group, I may
Speaker 1: have had a person who was an engineer, a person
Speaker 1: that was this, the person that was blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: We all different backgrounds, but we in this group together
Speaker 1: and we all trying to vote. But they're they're voting
Speaker 1: based off a different thing. I'm a vote because oh
Speaker 1: that was a badass out this person out of the
Speaker 1: die or their vocals were so dope. And this person
Speaker 1: he's an engineer, so he's based off of the I
Speaker 1: can hear they use too much auto tune, they used
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Everybody's voting based off of different things,
Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying. And so that was what
Speaker 1: happened in my experience, and i'd ever even I thought
Speaker 1: about how people based their votes. You know what I'm saying, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's good information about the ground whatever, because it was
Speaker 1: kind of and they just stayed just black other ship.
Speaker 1: But now when you when you make it, when you
Speaker 1: when you the way you may broke it down made sense.
Speaker 1: Like de folks don't they know music? Okay, So so
Speaker 1: I might be listening for the snare, I might be
Speaker 1: a producer listening to you know what I'm saying, not
Speaker 1: get it. Everybody's voting based off of what it is
Speaker 1: like speaking speaking on what it did? They like, what's
Speaker 1: on candy playlist? Right now? Who? What you ride to?
Speaker 1: What you're working out? Oh yeah, she snapped, she snaps,
Speaker 1: what I just taket? Y'all like we need to do
Speaker 1: a relationship episode with her because she went berserk for real,
Speaker 1: for real, Like y'all think the just that they're going
Speaker 1: on Instagram is talking about some ship. Go listen to
Speaker 1: Jasmin and Solomon. Go listen to Jasmin Soloman. Yes, oh no,
Speaker 1: I was saying, what made you decide to do? Why not?
Speaker 1: Screen kept pushing Now he confirmed it because we was
Speaker 1: already talking about doing one. Because I just see, like,
Speaker 1: isn't making make that's it's uh yeah about now when
Speaker 1: you're gonna be turk you get what a lot of
Speaker 1: your ship be looking like? I thought you was already
Speaker 1: doing that though with to speak on it. Oh well,
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, through the sight and all of that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but we're talking about oh yeah yeah yeah, say can
Speaker 1: they sit on can she about to cry? Well, it
Speaker 1: was cracking so fast. I can't control it, like she
Speaker 1: could be talking about some regular ship. Just start cracking
Speaker 1: up like she filling that up. You know, it's so funny,
Speaker 1: like I cannot control it, and I don't know why
Speaker 1: I'd be doing it. It makes me so mad, man,
Speaker 1: I don't know why i'd be doing it. My funniest,
Speaker 1: my funniest Candy moment was when you and oh girl
Speaker 1: were It was like, this was like in the beginning
Speaker 1: of the like the seasons or whatever, and y'all were
Speaker 1: have something like art gallery or some ship, and you
Speaker 1: were like, you better leave me alone before I ain't
Speaker 1: somebody that point I'm to my life. She could be
Speaker 1: having a regular conversation. No, but she does that on
Speaker 1: the reunions, like and you know, like she's been a
Speaker 1: blow like blow you know what it was, Oh that,
Speaker 1: I know what you're talking about. Though, to go back
Speaker 1: to that one, because that was that ship was like
Speaker 1: that was your first real blow up on the show,
Speaker 1: Like you know what it was for me though, I
Speaker 1: had gone the whole season without together any arguments or altercations, altercations,
Speaker 1: and you know, I had her and say little chokes
Speaker 1: and saying I was, you know, get over whatever, like
Speaker 1: jokes in here and there, and so I was trying
Speaker 1: to like keep my cool the whole seasons. I was
Speaker 1: thinking like okay, so right at the end, she made
Speaker 1: me go there and I was like that I was
Speaker 1: I was man, I had my little popcorn. I was like, man,
Speaker 1: Candy gonna beat this bitch. Man. I was so mad
Speaker 1: at myself because I have my fingers crossed, like please,
Speaker 1: you're the last one and we can look up to
Speaker 1: they don't do. I was so mad at my socks
Speaker 1: all like damn, Now she don't made me have down
Speaker 1: go to this other side on TV because everybody, everybody
Speaker 1: was like, don't be a part of that show and
Speaker 1: make black people look bad. They was saying black people
Speaker 1: look bad on TV reality. So I was trying to
Speaker 1: do my best not to go on there and I
Speaker 1: was bad for black Like now she got me over
Speaker 1: here acting a fool. I was like, damn. I was
Speaker 1: so mad. It was a mess. Dude, do whatever you
Speaker 1: d got you do, got that goddamn on funk what
Speaker 1: you face though, like on them girls, like you got
Speaker 1: one of them faces right this ship until it go
Speaker 1: Like I'll be like, can go in getting into it
Speaker 1: with her because I can see she don't like her. Dame.
Speaker 1: When you get in your confession area, when you're getting
Speaker 1: your confession area, you say so she in the way
Speaker 1: you ship you laugh at I could offend on people. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't be trying to offend. Just say that. I
Speaker 1: just said. I just know I deal with targes, so
Speaker 1: I already know, like it just unnnoyingly unnormally. Yeah, it's unnormally.
Speaker 1: I guess it's just it's just in them, like to
Speaker 1: be like some faces all this ship. We can't control it.
Speaker 1: It just happens it. I saw Instagram. It said it
Speaker 1: was like a little it was like a little girl
Speaker 1: and another little thing or whatever, and they said, I
Speaker 1: didn't the teacher was. The teacher was telling her, I
Speaker 1: didn't realize that you were this shady, and the little
Speaker 1: girl said, yeah, I made all a's in school. I
Speaker 1: love to read. I know Kennie would laugh at me.
Speaker 1: I don't give it's okay. That ship was funny, but
Speaker 1: we probably gotta see it right, right, we probably have
Speaker 1: to see that it's okay, it's all right. But another
Speaker 1: thing that I wanted to ask to, like coming from
Speaker 1: a female perspective, and I know like a lot of
Speaker 1: females deal with this and you know have had experiences
Speaker 1: with this. I want you to speak on your experience
Speaker 1: with the in vitro fertilization and the surrogacy. As far
Speaker 1: as like your pregnancies and stuff, we're concerned. Okay. Um, well,
Speaker 1: so basically, you know, obviously I had Riley without out
Speaker 1: even trying. Okay, so she just came on up. I
Speaker 1: didn't think I was gonna have problems get bregnant, you know, like, Um,
Speaker 1: I did have fibroid issues in my thirty Oh okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: so that's what like, yeah, okay, so later I did
Speaker 1: not know I had scar tissue from the fibroid surgery
Speaker 1: and what does that like, what does that mean? Because
Speaker 1: I've always wondered about that. So fibroids are like tumors
Speaker 1: that and it's more prominent in black women. Did they hurt? Well,
Speaker 1: they can cause you to have serious cramping, heavier periods. Um.
Speaker 1: They can have different um effects effects and different women,
Speaker 1: you know. So anyway, Um, so I had fibroid issues
Speaker 1: in my thirties or whatever, and so I did have
Speaker 1: them removed. Um, I did not know that I had
Speaker 1: scar tissue from the fibroids and that they were causing
Speaker 1: me to not get pregnant because I wasn't trying to
Speaker 1: get pregnant right until later? Right, So okay, So after
Speaker 1: Tid and I, you know, it was together and you know,
Speaker 1: we were got we had got married, and nothing had happened.
Speaker 1: And I noticed, I'm like, okay, we never had no mistakes,
Speaker 1: no slip ups, no nothing. Okay, And we went and
Speaker 1: you know when they do that little test or whatever,
Speaker 1: and that's when I realized that I was the reason
Speaker 1: why we weren't getting pregnant, and so um, that's when
Speaker 1: we went and we decided to go to the IVF
Speaker 1: clinic and we went ahead. And so the so, the
Speaker 1: IVF ship is a procedure that you can get done
Speaker 1: to basically your infertility. Yeah, basically they went in there,
Speaker 1: they basically give you medicine to make you produce more eggs,
Speaker 1: and then they go retrieve the eggs out, put your
Speaker 1: eggs in the dish, take his sperm and put the
Speaker 1: eggs with the sperm and the fertilized and then put
Speaker 1: the fertilized egg back in you. So, but but when
Speaker 1: you did your um IVF procedure or whatever, didn't you
Speaker 1: have like some leftover eggs? Yes? I did, and like
Speaker 1: then you save them, so like you have like some
Speaker 1: little babies in a thing that you can make like
Speaker 1: whenever you want them. Whoa, that's what became a Blaze's
Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, okay, that's how she got here. Okay, cool, cool, cool, cool,
Speaker 1: that's so interesting to me. Well, everybody don't have extra eggs. Sometimes,
Speaker 1: um it doesn't work out the same for everybody. So
Speaker 1: some people may get one egg when they try. Some
Speaker 1: people get multiple eggs. So I ended up with four
Speaker 1: good eggs. I put two in. I only got one
Speaker 1: with ace um and then I had too left. And
Speaker 1: so you have Blaze and so yeah, we did so
Speaker 1: what you did with the other one, you scrambled it.
Speaker 1: We put wet, we put the we put the two in,
Speaker 1: and only um one development we got blazes. Okay, cool cool.
Speaker 1: And when only one made it, did they give you
Speaker 1: some say song on whether or not it's a boiled
Speaker 1: girl of twins and stuff like that, when you can
Speaker 1: you pick the gender or no? Well no, well basically
Speaker 1: what happens is no, you don't pick the gender. Whatever
Speaker 1: you get. So we ended up out of the ones
Speaker 1: that fertilized, we ended up having two boys and two
Speaker 1: girls that ended up fertilizing. So the first time they
Speaker 1: put two ben it was two boys. The two boys,
Speaker 1: the two boy eggs they put in, and then they
Speaker 1: put the two girl eggs in, but each time only
Speaker 1: one made it. So just because they put them in
Speaker 1: don't mean that they're gonna actually make it. So so
Speaker 1: that's why you hear people trying and it doesn't work
Speaker 1: out for them, and people be really devastated because they
Speaker 1: go through this process and they don't always work. So
Speaker 1: let me ask you this, like one last question, and
Speaker 1: I'm just curious, like, so what would happen, like if
Speaker 1: they put a boy egg and a girl egg in
Speaker 1: and you can put them both in and they can
Speaker 1: both work. But like no, but I mean, like what
Speaker 1: if like like it was a situation where like she
Speaker 1: had two boy eggs and only one of them came about?
Speaker 1: Like could it be some weird like cross breed ship,
Speaker 1: Like okay, they just look come, they'll just be twins
Speaker 1: that come. They don't cross breed, they just you know,
Speaker 1: it's like you hope that they you know, find a
Speaker 1: space in the uterus that they attached and they grow,
Speaker 1: you know, But okay, you know, either they attached and
Speaker 1: they grow or they don't. But it's not no in between. No, okay,
Speaker 1: I get it now and I understand information on IBF
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Speaker 1: never get comfortable, keep going and don't give it down
Speaker 1: when nobody had to say about you. There you go
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Speaker 1: the main thing that I have learned in my career
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