1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: Big Bang and DJ Screen bring you Big Bats, the 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: hottest podcast in the streets. Visit the new website today 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: www dot Big Facts pod dot com live for first 4 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: class sounds. Is the voice of DJ screen Big Bankers. Here, 5 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: baby Jade, see it's time for another edition of Big Facts. 6 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 1: We are in the building. How's everybody doing today? Everybody solid? 7 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: Everybody good? What's up? Let a hot text or something? 8 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: Didn't she just cash out? Let's let let's let's jump 9 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: straight into what you what I'm saying? You know, the people, 10 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: all the people be loving when we when we chop 11 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:35,480 Speaker 1: it up about just you know, saying real life ship 12 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: and real life topics like throughout the weak people being 13 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,520 Speaker 1: the comments and having discussions amongst their sales barber shop 14 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 1: talking all that. So today we are discussing something that's 15 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 1: really interesting. What brings out the real person more? Is 16 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: it poverty and being sucked up and being broke? Is 17 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 1: that when the person is showing their true colors? Or 18 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 1: is it when that person comes up and actually gets 19 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 1: money and becomes rich, wealthy, whatever you want to call it? Like, 20 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:02,319 Speaker 1: what brings out the true colors and the person more? 21 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: What's your opinion on that? I think that the true 22 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:09,199 Speaker 1: colors come out more like when the when a person 23 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:15,320 Speaker 1: that's up. Because when you have money and when you're 24 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:19,959 Speaker 1: not stressed about certain things, your person, your real personality 25 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 1: and your character flaws magnify themselves. So everything that's in you, 26 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: good or bad, is going to be more prevalent because 27 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: you don't have to suppress it to get out of 28 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:34,559 Speaker 1: people what you're trying to get out of them, because 29 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 1: you really don't need anybody. So you agree with the 30 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: turn when they say money show your true colors, you 31 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 1: would agree with that. What you think? I agree what 32 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: she said. But at the same time, depending on the 33 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: person to me, so you think I got them be 34 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: being his silf too, m with nothing but fail broke people. No, 35 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: this is hold real quick. We put it on the scale. 36 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 1: We're saying that is it more of the more of 37 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: the person that they really are their true colors with 38 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: over without the money. We know that a broke person 39 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 1: could that's who they are when they're broke, you see 40 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But when they become rich, or they 41 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 1: come up, or they get money, can you maintain to 42 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: be the same person? Can you do that? It's impossible 43 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: to stay the same person. You ain't gonna be the 44 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: same person if you go from rich to broke rich. 45 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: What if you go from broke to rich to back 46 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:28,839 Speaker 1: to broke, what happens. We're talking about character or just change, 47 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 1: because you gotta change. You gotta change what you eat 48 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 1: and once you drive and where you live, we know 49 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: that's gonna change. I'm talking about the way you talk, 50 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: the way you act around your people, the way you 51 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 1: handle your people, the way that you treat people that 52 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: you don't know, just how you move. I feel like 53 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:49,359 Speaker 1: the people that have less sometimes are more pure. But 54 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 1: like he's saying, it can go, it can go both 55 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: ways because just like just like taking myself for instance, 56 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: like me, I'm I'm not I'm not broke, but I'm 57 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: not rich, and I like to help people. But I know, 58 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: like if I got a real bag, like I'm gonna 59 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:06,679 Speaker 1: help everybody and I'm really gonna like make a difference 60 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 1: in the world, like with my ship. The same way 61 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 1: a nigga who it's selfish, once he gets more money, 62 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: he's going to be more selfish and he's yeah, like 63 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:22,639 Speaker 1: and do only for him. That's what I'm saying, is 64 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 1: it varies for a person to person like you're speaking 65 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 1: of characteristics, which that's a that's a very good point. 66 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:32,959 Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is just generally, Okay, you have 67 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 1: a million dollars, you got fifty hundred thousand, whatever the 68 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 1: case is, how you interact and maybe treat Koda and 69 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: Shine whoever. You know what I'm saying. With that change 70 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: now that you're rich, like you're half a billionaire, can 71 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: you still maintain to show people that decency and respect? 72 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 1: Or when you just get on some asshole shot like 73 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: she said, it's just gonna magnify. You can already see 74 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: a nigga if he got nothing his m like, no 75 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: matter what, you can, I can walk into the motherfucker 76 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 1: with nothing to still act funny. Yeah, for sure, you 77 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: get what I'm saying, But neither gonna be funny. You're 78 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:17,840 Speaker 1: right gonna be. I feel like you can. Like she said, 79 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 1: it just magnifies when you get the money, because opinion 80 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:27,840 Speaker 1: start mattering lessers, that's what she's saying. Okay, I say, yeah, yeah, yeah, 81 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 1: you because you don't give a funk. Now, yeah, you 82 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:32,280 Speaker 1: don't have to give a fun Yeah, you know what 83 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 1: I'm saying. But when the nigga but this is gonna 84 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:36,839 Speaker 1: be gonna be humble when he when he got live. 85 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: Ever done that nigger in the hood that was just 86 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: broke but still didn't give an You know those particular 87 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:46,040 Speaker 1: characters that you'd be like that they could probably not 88 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: gonna change if you get money. You see what I'm saying. Like, 89 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: that's why you never know because it's some people still 90 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:55,360 Speaker 1: the same but handling the business difference. Like, so I 91 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 1: like to clarify a lot of ship, you know what 92 00:04:58,120 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 1: I'm saying, because we could be talking about one thing 93 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 1: and I could be responding to something else. You know 94 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, because everything goes different ways. If we 95 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 1: tell abody character, then some people character be already what 96 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 1: it is you just overlooking it. You just can see 97 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 1: it more that he got something. Yeah, you get what 98 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Now that now that now that the nigga 99 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 1: done got it bad, right, you can see all the 100 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 1: funks did he do because you could take in them? 101 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:23,799 Speaker 1: So what is that watching them? What is the essence 102 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: of that term when they say, oh, bro change and 103 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: switch when he got the money, where does that come from? Like? 104 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: Where is what is the essence of that term? What 105 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 1: did he stopping with him hating niggas, he stopped sucking 106 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 1: with them niggas. And one thing about it, man, the days, man, 107 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 1: is how you measure your friendship and lords is what's 108 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 1: the last thing you did for a person. That's how 109 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 1: you measure that ship winning hold. Look, I can know 110 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 1: everything is still fun with me about game some of 111 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 1: the land two or three months and it's been a year. 112 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 1: This nigga don't fun with me, man, right right? Am? 113 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: I right wrong? That's how you measure friendship these days. 114 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: But it's the truth. I'm just being real. So like 115 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, he could be someone 116 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 1: saying anything that I'm saying. So it's just like once again, 117 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 1: we gotta when you clarified, we gotta day. You never 118 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 1: know what the fun is, the what the fun is 119 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 1: the root of no problem, bro know nothing. So it's 120 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 1: people gonna say everybody change. But like I said, every 121 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 1: some people, it's just like a fly nigger, a fly 122 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:29,480 Speaker 1: nigga be fly with nothing with some bullshit clothes on. 123 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 1: So you can tell like that neig gonna get that 124 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 1: money all he needed that money, He's gonna be turned. No, 125 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying, Like you can already tell 126 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: he win, he wining the little, the little the little. 127 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: That ship looked good with that. You get what I'm saying. 128 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 1: Like like a female like she probably needs some titted 129 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: she gonna be. You know what I'm saying. She already 130 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 1: got the rest. We getting us some titted sheep. So hey, yeah, 131 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna change you. So yeah, yeah, that's 132 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 1: good change though, those are things that's good change. So 133 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: I never her t done and go to the right 134 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 1: people to do her makeup. She's gonna be just like 135 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,479 Speaker 1: the rest of the women. You get what I'm saying. 136 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:09,160 Speaker 1: You can already see that ship up under that. You 137 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. Right with everything else, like you 138 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 1: can see that a nigga got bitch ways. Bro. You 139 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: just it just it just don't appear to you as 140 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 1: much when the nigga don't have nothing, because it don't 141 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 1: affect you. But when the nigga got something and you 142 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: know him, it's gonna affect you because he's, like, like 143 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 1: you said, a selfish person. Like you've been noticed, nigga 144 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 1: was selfish when he got damn didn't take it ball 145 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 1: and go home get my ball. You know, we bring 146 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 1: it back the personal experiences. Have ever been disappointed in 147 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: someone and the way they act when they got more 148 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: money all the time. Okay, so we're not an example. 149 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: They're got of got their own way of how they think. Yeah, 150 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: you're how they do ship. So you know I used 151 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: to be that way, Like I just can't believe that 152 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 1: you're this way, right, Like that's everybody, but bro, you 153 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 1: have to be cured from that because you know, I'm 154 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 1: your day. That would consume trying to cutique another motherfucker 155 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 1: and what they should do. So I think it's circumstances though, 156 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: because it's like if you if you if you go 157 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 1: back to somebody that you're just an associate with or 158 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: whatever the case is, and they changed what you get 159 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: a bunch of money, you're probably not gonna give a funk. 160 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 1: But you can't say that it just completely don't mentally 161 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 1: affect you at all. If you everything folding should mentally 162 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: affect you. That's that's that's shouldn't we shouldn't. That's what 163 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's strong we're trying to get there. What 164 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,439 Speaker 1: I'm saying shouldn't affect you because at the end of 165 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 1: the day, you got already had that being ready to press. 166 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:40,319 Speaker 1: I agree, and it's life that we're living in. Yes, 167 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 1: I won't be surprised or nothing no more. Okay, all right, 168 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 1: big facts especially after right right, you know what I'm saying, Like, man, 169 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:53,599 Speaker 1: I'm not surprised that ship, like I should believe it. 170 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 1: They say he just saw alien in his yard doing 171 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 1: whatever with his long almost some ship, but drinking and 172 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,079 Speaker 1: drinking the gas out a long more. I believe that 173 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 1: I'm just being one hundred like if this is a stream, 174 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: if you call them like brothers, ain't gonna think screen 175 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: are lost in mind, be like that. You don't fake time. 176 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 1: Let me see because I can believe it initially. Right, 177 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:25,439 Speaker 1: that's what the world has done. We got a fucking pandemic. 178 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 1: It's the word stop. We can't use the word surprise, 179 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 1: but can't we use the word disappointed? Are you disappointed 180 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 1: in the person that you will give your last, that 181 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 1: you that you will give your last, that you might 182 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 1: have given your last, that you might have died for 183 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:43,319 Speaker 1: for them to get some money and be in a 184 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:47,079 Speaker 1: position to my be my brother's keeper. And they decide 185 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 1: that they're not going to because they have money and 186 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: they're disappointed and got them surprised. That's what I show 187 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 1: you for show people. Guess what we get disappointment from 188 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 1: people all the time. Yes, people are disappointed. You shouldn't 189 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:03,559 Speaker 1: put too much faith. That's what your kids with, your 190 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 1: wife and you whoever, like you know what I'm saying. 191 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:07,599 Speaker 1: She can cook some food, be mass here. You'd be 192 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:11,319 Speaker 1: disappointed by that ship. That's good. That's good that you 193 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 1: bring that up though. And then and then well we'll 194 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 1: get the candy shots to candy. She's on the way 195 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:16,959 Speaker 1: big fast. We're gonna chop it. Whatever. That's good that 196 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:19,679 Speaker 1: you bring it up. Because how do y'all think money 197 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 1: affects a relationship? Because that a lot of times they 198 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:25,319 Speaker 1: say Niggers lose their mind on their women. They day 199 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: one down women at their peak. What's the ship? They'd 200 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 1: be saying on social media. Man is loyalty is tested 201 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 1: when he has all the money, and man's loyalty is 202 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: a woman's loyalty is tested when she has nothing, but 203 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:42,959 Speaker 1: a man's loyalty is testing when he has everything. That's 204 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 1: a perfect example of the money. So how they think 205 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:49,680 Speaker 1: that money affects relationships and ship? Did the money change 206 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 1: the person who wasn't getting the money. Can't always say 207 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 1: it changed the person who was getting the money. No, 208 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:57,839 Speaker 1: But what I'm saying bank like, you could get so 209 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:00,439 Speaker 1: much money to run your own lady crazy double it 210 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:03,319 Speaker 1: back bro the when and the woman got they're just 211 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:11,119 Speaker 1: regular living right. I two situations. Now, the nigga has millions, 212 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 1: meaning as in, he has all the cards, the jury 213 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 1: orders of the ship. He can go play harder. Will 214 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: he still be loyal? Now? The woman on the other 215 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 1: end is like, we don't hit hard times. We funked up. 216 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 1: Now she's gonna sit through them hard times or she's 217 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 1: gonna start thinking, I could be with this nigga and 218 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: I have to go through this hard times but just passed? Right? 219 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:37,319 Speaker 1: What is going on in these years like you're talking 220 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: about you're talking about beforehand or now I'm talking about today? 221 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 1: My nigga man, the holds man, that bank road getting low? 222 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 1: What they say, you damn if that? If that, if 223 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 1: that money get loaded? What they say nah? What she's like, Hey, 224 00:11:56,120 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 1: don't see it? Sales? If the money, if the money 225 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: go uh the money, yeah, if the money go this 226 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 1: puts it going single? That shouldn't just come up out 227 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 1: of nothing they didn't come up on old goddamn nigga. 228 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: Them girls was expired by that. They see that going 229 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: on every day. We have got to the bottom of it. Yes, 230 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 1: if you know, if if you if you become extremely 231 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 1: poor or you become extremely rich, it shows your true 232 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:28,439 Speaker 1: colors because the woman wasn't never down with you in 233 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 1: the first place. Because I'm not leaving my nigga just 234 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: because he went broke. You're one of periods. You're unique. 235 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:36,559 Speaker 1: We're gonna figure that out facts what I'm saying. But 236 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:41,439 Speaker 1: what I'm saying half out of a thousand to be 237 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 1: that's very important shot. But I don't say it to 238 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 1: be fair to the women too. Like if if if 239 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:51,599 Speaker 1: that woman was down with you, which you didn't have 240 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 1: ship like clean draws, nothing, then when you get the 241 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 1: millions of them billions, you're supposed to treat her as 242 00:12:57,679 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: the queen she is that stood with you to become that. 243 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 1: But I think if a nigga, if a nigga in 244 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 1: that situation like that, right, nine times, would they married 245 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:07,959 Speaker 1: or just a boyfriend girl friend? If you're married and you, 246 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 1: y'all was she was fucked up. You was funked up 247 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:13,199 Speaker 1: before you came up. She diuldn't get some of that 248 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: anyway because we no prenum me right right, no post, 249 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:21,439 Speaker 1: no pre no that real ship. So y'all already you 250 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 1: already an old he had that money anyway. But if 251 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:27,439 Speaker 1: you just got a nigga, like I said, man, you 252 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 1: gotta read the signs. Lady, you see, so you gotta 253 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: be going up. We can't know ladies and gentlemen like 254 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 1: if at the end of the day, what are you doing? 255 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 1: Why this person is kiming a millions? But what the 256 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:46,079 Speaker 1: funk are you know? That's what I'm said. I have 257 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 1: to be real because I got sisters to teach me 258 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:50,959 Speaker 1: this type of ship. They could be supported and putting 259 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 1: everything into bank and not doing that own ship because 260 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 1: they just loved banks so much that I got to 261 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 1: help you get the way. But if you're hipping me 262 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:00,120 Speaker 1: to get me what I'm going, I ain't got You're 263 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:03,199 Speaker 1: on the payroll. Ain't listen. That love makes you do 264 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 1: stupid ship, just like love and all that ship love 265 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:10,319 Speaker 1: making stupid. I feel like if if, if if I 266 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 1: ever was to go separate ways when my wife whatever, 267 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 1: you can deserve whatever you get. The reason why I 268 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: grant for this ship was fun, my family, my kid. Well, 269 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 1: so bit you can have half of that money, Like 270 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 1: how do you need to be acting when they when 271 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 1: need when he gets me to somebody getting that money. 272 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 1: And there's been that now I can see now if 273 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 1: I met you up, I met you up and then 274 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 1: it's all kind of knock tom. But we don't came 275 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 1: from goddamn kids to goddamn sleeping on floes together eating 276 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 1: sardines and ship and all that. You deserve this regardless. 277 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 1: It's a situation and for female is down with a 278 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 1: nigga for let's say, tend them better. But but you 279 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 1: got some female we don't know the situation because you've 280 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 1: got some females been with a nigga but holding her 281 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 1: nuts on this nigga in the relationship. True, you know 282 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. True, Like we were just talking about 283 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 1: the other day about the okay, just because you did 284 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: certain things for me while I was down, you still 285 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:10,120 Speaker 1: it was mentally abusing these people and telling these people 286 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 1: not really believe that's a different one. Your person hold 287 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 1: you down and that's yeah, that's something else. But if 288 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 1: y'all just in a bullshit that relationship all the time 289 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 1: the outside, I just don't know. The relationship was no bullshit. Yeah, 290 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: but it's like, Okay, there was something going on that 291 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 1: made you stay in that relationship. So what did you 292 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 1: do to this bit to make her talk down on 293 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 1: your treat you however you did for all these many 294 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 1: years and make you stay. I think I think people 295 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 1: be frustrated with the other person's it's just lack of progression, 296 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 1: not even that. It's just, man, if you round a 297 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 1: different person, I mean, if you round up another person 298 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 1: like you and another person trying to be one y'all 299 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 1: don't know each other, flowers, I don't know everything about 300 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 1: each other. So it's certain ships you could do and 301 00:15:57,200 --> 00:16:00,080 Speaker 1: say to that person to make them feel like you 302 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:04,080 Speaker 1: would exploit that. You get what I'm saying. You know 303 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Looking at you like some bullshit because 304 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 1: you just don't tell her the truth, vulnerability or whatever. 305 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. It's like, man, that ship 306 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 1: that's the hardest in the real trying to be like 307 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 1: a relationship for a longer time. It ain't, but it is, 308 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Because at the end of 309 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 1: the day, how are you not going to agree with 310 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 1: the person. I mean, how you how are you not 311 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 1: gonna disagree with people? And some people take arguments too 312 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 1: fun and some people take you know, what, agreement to fun? 313 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 1: What do I believe you? What you think? I mean? 314 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 1: I think, like I don't know, Like that relationship ship, 315 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 1: it just gets really tricky because, like Scream said, it's 316 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 1: all about vulnerability, but like it's all kind of like 317 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 1: factors that play into that ship. Like if the people 318 00:16:56,800 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 1: that are trying to be together have been through some ship, 319 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 1: or if they've been cheated on a lie to before 320 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:05,639 Speaker 1: they got with the person that they went now and 321 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:07,359 Speaker 1: they got that in the back of their mind, like 322 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: they're emotionally scarred and they can't they just can't, you 323 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, get it together because of like 324 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:18,920 Speaker 1: other factors outside of like whatever's going on, Like that ship, 325 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 1: that relationships, it is crazy that it's really for the birth. Yeah, 326 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 1: that's we're gonna We're gonna have a whole another show 327 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:28,440 Speaker 1: about that. Chop some of that ship off to as 328 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 1: as you get money and you come up, just stick 329 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:35,159 Speaker 1: stick to um your morals, That's all I ask. If 330 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 1: you're getting money, stick to your morals, you're gonna change, 331 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 1: something's gonna money. Stick to your morals. But maybe people 332 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:43,360 Speaker 1: like this is what I keep trying to get y'all 333 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 1: to see. Sometimes people well display their true morals, their 334 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 1: true value until they can comfortably and the money makes 335 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 1: it easy. You get what I'm saying. So so you'll 336 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:57,639 Speaker 1: be looking at the moment like they actually change, but 337 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:01,160 Speaker 1: they actually was doing business being being who they needed 338 00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 1: to be to get where they were trying to go. 339 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:04,919 Speaker 1: At the same time, we're looking at you, looking at 340 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 1: a person as a friend, and they're looking at you 341 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:10,159 Speaker 1: as an opportunity. And it's a science that it's a 342 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:12,440 Speaker 1: sigence to coming up, but it's a bigger science to 343 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 1: staying up, you know what I mean. But who's to 344 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:19,080 Speaker 1: say when that person turned into whoever then they is 345 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:21,359 Speaker 1: for real, they won't stay up. What I'm saying is like, 346 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 1: you can never see a person change if you never 347 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:29,360 Speaker 1: really truly knew him. Yeah, that's true. The person where 348 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 1: I thought you, well, I thought this because this may 349 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 1: be the hand you showed me on the hand or 350 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:35,879 Speaker 1: put on the other shoot I made to show your 351 00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:37,880 Speaker 1: hand that I was this person. But I could could 352 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:41,200 Speaker 1: be this person on the inside. I agree. You know 353 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:43,600 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I agree. Like so when we're saying 354 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 1: the person change, oh, the motherucker might still be like ship, 355 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:50,400 Speaker 1: what chang fool? But he didn't change? What change about bank? 356 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:52,840 Speaker 1: What would change about Jade? If there was a billion 357 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:59,160 Speaker 1: dollars to your access? Access okay, access totally nothing else 358 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:01,239 Speaker 1: like And then you're gonna probably take that some kind 359 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 1: of way because you can't just keep me on the 360 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 1: phone or whatever. You can't just do it that face. 361 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 1: You gotta go through ten different people. The ninth person 362 00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 1: is gonna get you to someone. You know what I'm saying, 363 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 1: because that's that's the only way you're gonna get peace. Bro. 364 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:15,159 Speaker 1: If you just control the assets that the world have 365 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 1: on to you, You get what I'm saying, Like if 366 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 1: it because you think every time you try and get 367 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 1: so rich, your phone ring and and it's never even 368 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 1: though you up financially, it's never for nothing that not 369 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: most times out of none that to help you is 370 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:33,919 Speaker 1: not to check on you, is for what they need 371 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 1: at think and then if if if it's if it's 372 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 1: something that's if you somewhat the other importance. Get what 373 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:44,000 Speaker 1: I'm saying, you're gonna have the right people to get 374 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:45,399 Speaker 1: in touch with it, to get in touch with me. 375 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 1: That's just how it goes. But if it's some I 376 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 1: don't give a funk what you could be calling me about. 377 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 1: You could be on fire, I wouldn't you You're not 378 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 1: gonna be to get in touch with me. You won't 379 00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 1: saying so people will probably be like, that's some false 380 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 1: ship switch stuff. Yeah, any switch stuff. Can't get any 381 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,960 Speaker 1: on phone, Like somebody ere working on Instagram ain't knowning 382 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 1: you can't talk to him unless you want to be 383 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 1: talked to. How how How is that some funk? If 384 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:13,479 Speaker 1: that's how you how you at peace? If you get 385 00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, That's what I'm saying. Like people gonna 386 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 1: always have an opinion on whatever you do. How did 387 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:19,720 Speaker 1: that some funk? She could? That's the way I sleep? 388 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:22,720 Speaker 1: But that's the way you got them. That's that's that's 389 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:25,920 Speaker 1: that's helped in my health because instead of me just saying, 390 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 1: you know what, I want to talk to you, bro, 391 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:30,159 Speaker 1: you got a negative vibe, I don't fuck you. Instead 392 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:31,440 Speaker 1: of me just saying that, I just do it my 393 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: way and just hey man, I'm gonna control my piece 394 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 1: I don't even I don't wanta talk nobody, so I 395 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:39,360 Speaker 1: want to talk to him. I check on not saying 396 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:41,919 Speaker 1: I cut you out to the point, but the access, Bro, 397 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 1: that's what that's what I get. That's what I guess. Um, 398 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 1: I totally agree. Like he's saying you got a billion dollars. No, 399 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying that. Like I know if I 400 00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:58,159 Speaker 1: had a billion dollars, like a lot of places that 401 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 1: I go now, I'm not gonna be able to go. Um, 402 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 1: And it's no like offense to the people that are 403 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 1: in those places that I go to, but it's just 404 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 1: like I just know I'm not gonna be able to 405 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 1: do that, So I'm gonna have to figure out something 406 00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 1: else to occupy my time or you know, like you 407 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 1: in knowledge on your way to being all all that, 408 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 1: She's gonna changed anyway, Bro, you going on unless you 409 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 1: like hit the lottery or something like that. It's over 410 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:29,879 Speaker 1: night ship. But if you yeah, if you work on 411 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 1: that ship. Yeah, like you said, that's gonna be changed anyway, 412 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 1: because you can't reach certain others of heights without changing 413 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 1: some ship like dedicate we're all already ever be Yeah, 414 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:42,719 Speaker 1: you can't go to the top. If I didn't get 415 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 1: a bigion being banked, I would have been had that 416 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 1: motherfucker right, damn show been thought my grand was a 417 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 1: being all the grand Yeah, so I would already have it. 418 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:57,840 Speaker 1: Like certain ship, you gotta meet certain people that you 419 00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,760 Speaker 1: just gotta do. Certain ship and that ship came on 420 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 1: a lot. So at the end of the day, how 421 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:05,720 Speaker 1: can you just how can you even though I get 422 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 1: what you're saying, like, do it make a nigga just 423 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,480 Speaker 1: want to be like, but you gotta think some niggas 424 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 1: is it's way they hold time and ship on niggas, 425 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:15,159 Speaker 1: you know, I mean the niggas it is like that. 426 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:17,680 Speaker 1: It's crazy when people think about that. You don't know 427 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:19,640 Speaker 1: what they think about. We'll never know what the nigga 428 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 1: thinking about for all those years, Like I can't wait 429 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 1: to get exactly they don't say. You never know, like 430 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 1: and it could be self country. It could just be 431 00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:29,560 Speaker 1: just you know what I'm saying. It's like I say, 432 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 1: anything you buy is just to say when I pull 433 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 1: up in their mother and the body nigga faith when 434 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 1: he holds he did who woo? That just that just 435 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:40,719 Speaker 1: I don't do a who you could be got them, 436 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 1: whether the tree and all the corporations you could be 437 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:47,639 Speaker 1: got damn with the niggas. Who's selling them um testes 438 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 1: the ship? You can beat them. Niggas, they still when 439 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 1: they pull their yalled up next to goddamn such and 440 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,920 Speaker 1: such and such and such corporation, they still want to 441 00:22:55,920 --> 00:23:00,439 Speaker 1: be like, wait did they see them? And just human nature, 442 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:03,719 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But some people just got 443 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:06,200 Speaker 1: it bad to the point of I just want to 444 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 1: light on me at all time and showing the gas 445 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:10,639 Speaker 1: so and then the people. Some people go look at 446 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:14,160 Speaker 1: that ship as shit. But that could have been my motivation. 447 00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,960 Speaker 1: That could be what keep me going, like I try 448 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:19,840 Speaker 1: to look at everybody point man. That's what they told me. 449 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:22,880 Speaker 1: Wait till I get my money right right like Kanye West, 450 00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 1: who don't feel like that though, Yeah that's true, but 451 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:30,880 Speaker 1: I just that don't be my motivation. Don't be more 452 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,440 Speaker 1: so let me get it so I can shoot on 453 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,440 Speaker 1: people more than it is. Let me get it to 454 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:39,879 Speaker 1: help people. That's just man. Nigga is motivated by his haters. 455 00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 1: Nigga is motivated by the is motivated by his haters. 456 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:48,479 Speaker 1: I won't give a fun motivated. You don't say as 457 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 1: a man, as a man, you motivated to for I 458 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 1: don't mean I'm taking to take care of your family, 459 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:54,720 Speaker 1: But that don't mean I'm controlled by them and they 460 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:58,639 Speaker 1: got to show them nothing. But see, the thing is like, 461 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,880 Speaker 1: that's cool to be motivated by your haters and everybody 462 00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: is true enough, But when you live your life based 463 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 1: off of that, you're never truly happy because every time 464 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 1: you do something, you're not doing it for yourself. You're 465 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:17,359 Speaker 1: doing it for the applause or for the recognition of 466 00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 1: somebody else. Yeah, you're right, you're right, you're right, you're 467 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,239 Speaker 1: right about that. But what I'm saying is that might 468 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 1: if that's your only motivation, then you don't never be happy. 469 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,440 Speaker 1: But if that's a part of your motivation, and you 470 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:31,120 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, you know, you gotta get some money, 471 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 1: little because this is what I want this baby. But 472 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 1: what I'm saying that ship is a small part of everybody. 473 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:38,640 Speaker 1: Though I don't give a funk what I need to say. 474 00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,680 Speaker 1: You want to go, damn, It's just like it's just 475 00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:45,080 Speaker 1: like a class reunion. You to find a bit in 476 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 1: school back then you you're trying to them exercise always 477 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,280 Speaker 1: to attack because you want to look like what you 478 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 1: look like in school when you go to your class reunion, 479 00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:03,840 Speaker 1: I'm gotta contact for I'm trapping your class reunion. All right, 480 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 1: Yeah you want you don't want to go back to 481 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:07,119 Speaker 1: your classroom. You get sucked up. You want to go 482 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,880 Speaker 1: back like hey, y'all thought I want it, but I'm 483 00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 1: in for sure. That's what I'm saying. Ain't saying that 484 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 1: show everyday motivus. So all right, So when you come 485 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 1: to your class union right now from high school and 486 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 1: the folks see DJ screen pull up, you pull it 487 00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 1: up in your wieks, You pull up with your beautiful 488 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,040 Speaker 1: wife and DJ screen big facts, but rich, I'll know 489 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,959 Speaker 1: what it is you and the nigga say you change 490 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:32,159 Speaker 1: because you're coming in. Yeah, No, I get it, that 491 00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,680 Speaker 1: I get I'm just saying that there are some people 492 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:39,919 Speaker 1: that wrong, No, that could be perceived as you. Hollywood 493 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 1: and TV. Now, if you put on stage and you 494 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:47,200 Speaker 1: got a luxury card and you look and you're know 495 00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 1: you're on TV, You're gonna have such a you have 496 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,160 Speaker 1: a TV back, want nia look at your back? They're 497 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 1: back gonna be moving like you on TV And Nick 498 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,880 Speaker 1: and Nigga just gonna look at you like because they're 499 00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,920 Speaker 1: gonna look at you different like, but gets on. That's 500 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:05,359 Speaker 1: on the audience though, that's not like, that's not on screen. 501 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:09,440 Speaker 1: That's just on on nigga's being insecure and niggas already 502 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 1: having act of jealousy. But you ain't gotta like of 503 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 1: a pep in your step from your accomplishment. I'm supposed 504 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 1: to fun. That's what I'm saying. That that could be 505 00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:24,879 Speaker 1: received at some bulls. You'all gonna agree with this, right, 506 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:27,680 Speaker 1: And we're not talking about like some of the coolest 507 00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 1: most down the earth motherfucker's I've ever met are I'm 508 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 1: not talking about rich people. I'm talking about the wealthy motherfucker's. 509 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,440 Speaker 1: Like I'm talking to them and it's like, this ship 510 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:38,680 Speaker 1: is unreal. See what I'm saying. I don't think they're 511 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:41,440 Speaker 1: motivated by let me put on this chain because back 512 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 1: fin a walking room, I'm talking about wealthy man when 513 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,440 Speaker 1: they go, when they go, because it ain't I can't 514 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 1: flake on the screen. Nigga, shut up. But we're not 515 00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:54,359 Speaker 1: going need board meetings. We need mother who got the 516 00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:57,840 Speaker 1: same kind of manage me and been competing competing against 517 00:26:57,880 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 1: me to try to buy pelps in we compete and 518 00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:02,200 Speaker 1: doing all this Now I'm finish. Niggas, when when this 519 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:03,639 Speaker 1: ship come out, when you noone's come out at the 520 00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:06,280 Speaker 1: top of the year. Who's still standing up though? Facts 521 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 1: beat what to do? Not the boy who just beat 522 00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:18,960 Speaker 1: the man for the got the most money now, ain't 523 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:22,040 Speaker 1: got a chap pot that. Yeah, even though even though 524 00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 1: it's we still can do busines together, we're sticking whatever, 525 00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:28,480 Speaker 1: but there's still a sense of competition and everything. And 526 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,120 Speaker 1: one could be looking at the other as he thinks 527 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,479 Speaker 1: he is. But I do think I'm that because I am. 528 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:36,680 Speaker 1: I'm doing that. I can't argue with that. I ain't, 529 00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:38,159 Speaker 1: but I ain't trying to convince you that. You know 530 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,240 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like what I'm saying is it's always 531 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 1: it's perception. Is all this ship is perception? Everything is awful. 532 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,359 Speaker 1: But another person thing I could think I could look 533 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,879 Speaker 1: at this person get motivated by him, like yeah, what 534 00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:53,399 Speaker 1: he doing instead of I could look at it like 535 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,320 Speaker 1: anybody that's in the same line as you, you damnit 536 00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,000 Speaker 1: in the competition with him. No matter what the niggle 537 00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:01,879 Speaker 1: want to say, no matter what the nigga want to say, 538 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:05,440 Speaker 1: because it ain't never one number one spot facts, So 539 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 1: trying to get the number one spot and nigga could 540 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,320 Speaker 1: receive any of this ship, I'll try to be Joe 541 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:14,160 Speaker 1: Rogan though, Yeah, number one. You get what I'm saying, 542 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:17,080 Speaker 1: like the real the real number one of all that ship, 543 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 1: like the check number one, that that one, Like, you 544 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,760 Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. You don't play that, You don't 545 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:24,119 Speaker 1: play the game. You don't play the game to be 546 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 1: number two. So you think he ain't got his chess 547 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,920 Speaker 1: pope that is I run this podcast. What I'm saying 548 00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:33,680 Speaker 1: is I think definitely is he wrong for that? Though 549 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:37,640 Speaker 1: didn't he work hardly man got them there? Two thousand episode? Yeah, 550 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 1: but I think the I think I think sometimes the 551 00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:44,720 Speaker 1: nigger chess poking is just much more irrelevant than the 552 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 1: real chess poking. Meaning that's I'm gonna go buy some 553 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:51,720 Speaker 1: ship only when you live facts. You see what I'm saying. No, 554 00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:54,320 Speaker 1: but niggas ain't flexing on them. They're flexing on niggas 555 00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,800 Speaker 1: and they leading. It's a different levels to this ship. 556 00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying. Yeah, nigger ain't even 557 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,280 Speaker 1: flex on a nigger like that. I don't even know them. 558 00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:04,400 Speaker 1: I don't know them yet. You know what I'm saying, 559 00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:08,240 Speaker 1: that's the nigga I'm saying acting funding because I conflict 560 00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 1: some niggers up nder me. I'm saying ever about over 561 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 1: me acting hunting, right, You get what I'm saying, right, 562 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,720 Speaker 1: Oh damn, I wouldn't do it because you don't always 563 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 1: say you wouldn't do it like another motherfucker, because everybody, 564 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:21,440 Speaker 1: everybody got their own stories that said about telling me 565 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:24,280 Speaker 1: like all this she doing? Like, you can't say that 566 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,480 Speaker 1: ship ain't gonna work. You know, I start saying that, 567 00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:28,600 Speaker 1: I'll be looking at nigga, i'd be right now, a 568 00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:30,240 Speaker 1: lot of time, a lot of ship to be wacked out, 569 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 1: that ship wat where it don't work. But now I 570 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:39,800 Speaker 1: believe it making work benefit of benefit. If you just 571 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:43,800 Speaker 1: keep going and making work, I don't doubt. Hey, man, 572 00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:47,040 Speaker 1: who am I to judge? Get your own thing? Who 573 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,320 Speaker 1: am I to judge? Get your money? Like? How can 574 00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 1: I judge you for being arrogant? How can I judge 575 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,720 Speaker 1: you for being whatever you are? Like? How because I 576 00:29:56,800 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 1: got my own ways what I'm saying like, and I 577 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:03,840 Speaker 1: might not You're gonna have a different attitude, but you 578 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:05,600 Speaker 1: have a different attitude when you get your hell cut 579 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 1: you have you can not have a hell cuting you 580 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:10,320 Speaker 1: to be regular. You got your hell could you got 581 00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 1: damn acting different? The same way with that one where 582 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,880 Speaker 1: they healthy, they nailed up and all that that button on, 583 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 1: they're looking they're kind of looking shorter, you know, get 584 00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,400 Speaker 1: head and they got that ship. Man, it's a perking 585 00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 1: that ship. Bro. You get what I'm saying. Oh, so 586 00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 1: you're gonna say, oh, you're acting different because your health 587 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,920 Speaker 1: now you are. You're trying to be seen like you might. 588 00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 1: You might catch a woman and strow when they ain't 589 00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 1: name the party, might have a hood on a mask, 590 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:36,200 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And tipping in, tipping in, 591 00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:38,920 Speaker 1: tipping off when they know they got that thing. You 592 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,239 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying is what it is you can 593 00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 1: see them? So now you're acting different cause like I 594 00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,200 Speaker 1: don't get that ship though, Bro, it's just certain ship 595 00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:53,760 Speaker 1: come with certain ship. Yeah, tripping away, bro, as crazy 596 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,080 Speaker 1: as that sounds, certain ship come with certain ship and 597 00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:58,840 Speaker 1: you gotta know what come with that ship exactly like 598 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 1: you can't I get what you're saying. Like do people 599 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:05,640 Speaker 1: let search ships define them? Like? Okay, now you like 600 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 1: search ship give you more confidence that the money gonna 601 00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 1: definitely give you more confidence. You're generally happy, right, You're happy. 602 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:18,560 Speaker 1: You get really fucking rich, you're happy er right. I 603 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 1: truly believe that. Let's not even speak it, but if 604 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 1: you got extremely rich and they had to go back 605 00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:27,200 Speaker 1: to it being extremely poor, you would still be happy. 606 00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:31,560 Speaker 1: See what I'm saying. Some people depression this that we 607 00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:34,080 Speaker 1: see it. We see what Hollywood stars they can't handle 608 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:40,240 Speaker 1: the swings of the up to swallow them. They ain't 609 00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,520 Speaker 1: better keep grinding, man, because that is a hard peal 610 00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:45,760 Speaker 1: to swallow. To go from. It can happen like the 611 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 1: third million all to nothing, that can happen. We see it. No, 612 00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:53,440 Speaker 1: definitely it's happening. We've seen it. What you asked was 613 00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:59,840 Speaker 1: does money or poverty to show your true character? I 614 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:03,880 Speaker 1: say both both. That's the answer. That's what we haven 615 00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 1: say both. It depends on the person. You know what 616 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:08,680 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Because like I said, you could be dead 617 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 1: ass broke with no money, no nothing but your thief 618 00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 1: at heart, but you never seen nothing that's worth stealing. 619 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,120 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You could be a thief 620 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 1: at heart. I ain't gonna show his hand to his 621 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:24,800 Speaker 1: worth stealing something like I can't believe this ain't never 622 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 1: stolen fifty year? Didn't he just stole a five hundred 623 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 1: thousand from me? Yeah, it won't work me exposing the 624 00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:37,280 Speaker 1: real me? You get what I'm saying, Like, you can 625 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 1: never say what's the real person? And toil they show 626 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:43,680 Speaker 1: you who they is? You say all day, man, I 627 00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 1: know my girl won't never do this until you see 628 00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:51,960 Speaker 1: it with a Johnson in them out real ship though 629 00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 1: you like, no, I hate like, bro, you don't don't 630 00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 1: say that, bro, Like just say you pray that never happens. 631 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,480 Speaker 1: Worswer my brother, Big Bank, we got Candy joined us 632 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 1: today on Big Facts. You know she's gonna chop it 633 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:05,720 Speaker 1: up real good with us. Make sure your visitors online 634 00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 1: Triple w dot Big Facts pot dot com. Let's go 635 00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:13,160 Speaker 1: the whole truth and nothing but the live for first 636 00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 1: class sounds. It's time for another edition of Big Facts. 637 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:18,240 Speaker 1: Is the voice of DJ screen right here. Big Bank 638 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 1: is right, baby, Jade, I'm just seeing it through recorner 639 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:24,440 Speaker 1: Man that billion dollars smile. But we have a special 640 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:26,960 Speaker 1: guest in the building. Oh my gosh, I can't even 641 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:28,880 Speaker 1: call you a hustle. I'm gonna call you an entrepreneur. 642 00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 1: You have makeup, you have restaurants, you have a catalog 643 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:35,400 Speaker 1: of music, you have sex toys, you have acting, you 644 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,800 Speaker 1: have spinoff shows, you have touring, you have all the money. 645 00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:42,200 Speaker 1: You're getting on it. Let's get up for candy facts. 646 00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,040 Speaker 1: How you doing, Candy? I'm good? How you doing? Thank 647 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:47,560 Speaker 1: you for pulling up on us. We've been trying to 648 00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:49,160 Speaker 1: get you for some time. You know what I'm saying. 649 00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,760 Speaker 1: You know you're like family to us all especially you 650 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 1: know what I mean. Bank you I got a history. 651 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 1: So welcome to big fact. I think we're gonna have 652 00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 1: some so fun today. Thanks for having me so so 653 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 1: so give everybody. I guess let's talk about entrepreneurship a 654 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 1: little bit. Everything that I said is it is factual. 655 00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:07,600 Speaker 1: Like those are businesses that you have. You have makeup, 656 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:13,320 Speaker 1: you have three restaurants in Atlanta. Okay, you got sex toys? 657 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,239 Speaker 1: Are they like in the sex toy stores? And I 658 00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:21,560 Speaker 1: gotta order them online? Um? Well, we used to be 659 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:24,080 Speaker 1: in some sex toys stores, but now you order them 660 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:27,000 Speaker 1: online or from one of our consultants. So we have 661 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 1: over five thousand consultants across the country and we kind 662 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:35,239 Speaker 1: of like on some merrication. Yeah. Ok so you either 663 00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:38,120 Speaker 1: have like the home party consultants or now people have 664 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:43,440 Speaker 1: like online parties or you can get them, okay, and 665 00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:46,759 Speaker 1: then you also have UM there was something that was 666 00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,560 Speaker 1: crazy that you have. What's a party that you do? Oh? 667 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:53,800 Speaker 1: The dungeon, the candy dungeon? What what? What? What go 668 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:56,040 Speaker 1: First off, what goes on in this candy dungeon? I 669 00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:59,919 Speaker 1: don't know about this candy dungeon For starters, Well, it's 670 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:07,840 Speaker 1: just like wild over the top basically UM burlesque slash 671 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:12,759 Speaker 1: variety show. You know what I mean, dump it down. 672 00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:17,400 Speaker 1: It's hard to explain because it's no sexually charged or 673 00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:22,960 Speaker 1: sexually charged definitely UM and then anybody on some domination. 674 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 1: It's domination, but it's like live performances, so we have 675 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:31,560 Speaker 1: artists that come and perform. But it's a mix of things. 676 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:37,560 Speaker 1: It's not a party wingers party like it. See, it's 677 00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:39,400 Speaker 1: alway's confused. A lot of people don't know what they 678 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:43,279 Speaker 1: expect when it comes. So it's like a concert slash um. 679 00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:51,640 Speaker 1: How do you come dressed? Encourage all the people that 680 00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:55,120 Speaker 1: come to the show to wear as little as you 681 00:35:55,160 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 1: would like to win, okay, but then by that some 682 00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:05,759 Speaker 1: people come in their regular close. But it's more fun 683 00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:09,440 Speaker 1: when you come dressed in you can come in, but 684 00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:12,440 Speaker 1: jumpers you can come in, Lingerie, you can come in 685 00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:16,920 Speaker 1: you know, uh Dominatrix and we come like this, We're 686 00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:20,200 Speaker 1: gonna look awkward with our hoodies. And it depends like 687 00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:23,600 Speaker 1: some cities, you know, everybody don't always participate, so you 688 00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:26,360 Speaker 1: know it'd be something had to crowd being their costumes, 689 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,239 Speaker 1: has had to crowd b whatever. But then some kids 690 00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,960 Speaker 1: some cities, people go all the way out. So everybody 691 00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,560 Speaker 1: we're in there dressed overtopping. Wow, and that makes it 692 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:38,479 Speaker 1: more fun, you know what I mean. Yes, I've told 693 00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,279 Speaker 1: it to Yeah. Me and my husband we were have 694 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,320 Speaker 1: promoted a tour. We actually did um well when we 695 00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,920 Speaker 1: toured across country. We did have just sharp on the 696 00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:49,000 Speaker 1: last time. He was our co promoter. Um help. He 697 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,600 Speaker 1: just helped us get the venues because sometimes you know, 698 00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:54,640 Speaker 1: when you are a new promoter, sometimes the venues be 699 00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:57,799 Speaker 1: hating on you. I'm sure you understand that. So um 700 00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,160 Speaker 1: to locking in all the venues, we did have to 701 00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:01,839 Speaker 1: bring in a big dog to help us get all 702 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 1: the meanings we wanted. But um, yeah, we did everything ourselves. 703 00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,600 Speaker 1: So yeah, the same thing with the pay you did 704 00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:10,280 Speaker 1: to play yourself to right, we did that with the play. 705 00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:13,920 Speaker 1: We did it ourselves just in Atlanta, and then we 706 00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,920 Speaker 1: had signed it over to another promoter and that's when 707 00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:23,440 Speaker 1: it messed up up. And that's what I learned my 708 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:27,680 Speaker 1: lesson that first time around. And so the next time 709 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:29,480 Speaker 1: around when we did the Dungeons for we was like, 710 00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:31,440 Speaker 1: we never wanted to do another tour again unless we 711 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:35,360 Speaker 1: were our own promoter. And so that's how we end 712 00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,799 Speaker 1: up being our own some promoter for the Dungeon tour. 713 00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:41,440 Speaker 1: But yeah, so anyway, can you know you was the 714 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:44,040 Speaker 1: first female like to be noticed, like one of the 715 00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:47,080 Speaker 1: first females to be noticed as a boss, like real 716 00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:52,040 Speaker 1: ship after real nip, like after you came, you know, 717 00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:54,600 Speaker 1: because you brought it to TV. So it's like the 718 00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:58,239 Speaker 1: actual female boss like a hustler. You know. That's funny 719 00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:01,160 Speaker 1: because it wasn't like it was in tensional. I know 720 00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:02,840 Speaker 1: that I'm just saying you was already doing what you 721 00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,120 Speaker 1: was doing, But it's like, do you feel like you 722 00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:09,080 Speaker 1: inspired women? Though? I think well now looking back, yeah, 723 00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:11,680 Speaker 1: I guess yeah for sure. Um, I get a lot 724 00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:14,719 Speaker 1: of women who say that. So now I recognize that 725 00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:19,080 Speaker 1: I do inspire women, and so you know, now I 726 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,800 Speaker 1: make it a point that when I do stuff on 727 00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:24,320 Speaker 1: the show, I always try to be a person of 728 00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:26,320 Speaker 1: my word and I try to make it happen. Like 729 00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:28,440 Speaker 1: I don't like to just be on the show just 730 00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:31,399 Speaker 1: talking about ship. Like if I say something, I want 731 00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:34,239 Speaker 1: you to actually see it happen. Like I hate when 732 00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,840 Speaker 1: people be on TV talking about, Oh, I want to 733 00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 1: do this, and you never see it come together. You 734 00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:40,880 Speaker 1: never see it come to life. Like I don't never 735 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:43,320 Speaker 1: want to be just on there talking about some stuff 736 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,400 Speaker 1: and you don't never see it come together. Like if 737 00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:47,840 Speaker 1: I start talking about something at the beginning of the season, 738 00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 1: I want to have something actually come together, whether it's 739 00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:56,759 Speaker 1: a sample or something of substance, happened by the end 740 00:38:56,800 --> 00:39:01,359 Speaker 1: of that season. Yeah, that makes sense because they used 741 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:04,000 Speaker 1: when you first came on show, everybody know Canny got money. 742 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:07,360 Speaker 1: There was all the girls just say you remember we 743 00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:10,239 Speaker 1: went to the first the first the opening, Uh, when 744 00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:14,680 Speaker 1: your first um, you know what y'all had had the 745 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:17,560 Speaker 1: debut ship? When when your first season and then when 746 00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,880 Speaker 1: they showed you everybody, Well, yeah, and the whole city 747 00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:25,040 Speaker 1: like remember that ship. Yeah, the very first first season 748 00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:26,880 Speaker 1: was yeah, yeah, that's funny. What you know what the 749 00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:29,520 Speaker 1: funny thing is, Before I got on this show, I 750 00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:31,640 Speaker 1: didn't really think that many people knew I had no 751 00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:35,400 Speaker 1: money like that, like to be for real, because I 752 00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:38,560 Speaker 1: felt like I was always pretty low key, like I 753 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 1: didn't really like you buy a lot of big stuff. 754 00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:44,920 Speaker 1: I didn't spend big you know what I mean, Like 755 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:47,440 Speaker 1: I had a house, but I didn't buy like a 756 00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:50,600 Speaker 1: huge house, you know what I'm saying. I didn't buy 757 00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:54,279 Speaker 1: a out of jewelry. I had a decent car. I 758 00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:58,120 Speaker 1: wasn't buying big, big cars or nothing. So I remember 759 00:39:58,200 --> 00:39:59,640 Speaker 1: even time he used to be like, Cann, if I 760 00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:03,480 Speaker 1: had your money, I'd be bawling on these like that. 761 00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:06,879 Speaker 1: So I never really when I would go to the club, 762 00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,440 Speaker 1: I would always go with y'all. I would go with 763 00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:11,680 Speaker 1: people sitting in the section. It wasn't like I was 764 00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:18,040 Speaker 1: buying my own section, buying it out of My point 765 00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:21,399 Speaker 1: is like I never thought nobody thought I really had 766 00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:25,560 Speaker 1: money like that. Understand we've had Cannon, like y'all need 767 00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:30,279 Speaker 1: to be like niggles y'all got candy. Yeah, yeah, but 768 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:34,520 Speaker 1: I was like, y'all gotta understake Candy is candy that 769 00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:37,960 Speaker 1: she comes from, all that she's she knows what's going on. 770 00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:42,239 Speaker 1: What's going on Candy from Escate. Now you see what 771 00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:45,440 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like this is like people could just do 772 00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:48,440 Speaker 1: music and be successful. We looked on TV like, oh, 773 00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:50,520 Speaker 1: she actually doing it. You think what I'm saying. So 774 00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:53,320 Speaker 1: it's a different perception for some people. In fact, no, 775 00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:59,840 Speaker 1: they was she's to be a tosh. Yeah, even like 776 00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:05,959 Speaker 1: people people don't be feeling like like people on her level, 777 00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:08,120 Speaker 1: like as high as she is and with all the 778 00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:12,239 Speaker 1: ship that she's accomplished, they don't think that she knows 779 00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:14,200 Speaker 1: how to come back down the same way like Monica. 780 00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:17,799 Speaker 1: Like Monica goes to all the same places. She'll pull 781 00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:19,960 Speaker 1: up on me a crucial or you know what I'm saying, wherever, 782 00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:23,239 Speaker 1: like the most down to our person ever in the world. 783 00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:28,200 Speaker 1: But people just see the the glitz and don't understand 784 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:32,399 Speaker 1: that like these are real deal, real human beings. Feel 785 00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 1: like that's real Atlanta ship too. When you're really from Atlanta. 786 00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:36,239 Speaker 1: You want to kick it in Atlanta, like that's what 787 00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:38,600 Speaker 1: you work hard and got successful. I want to go 788 00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:40,520 Speaker 1: kick it in the city. I want to be regular, 789 00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:44,239 Speaker 1: like ye want to go wherever I want to go? Yeah, 790 00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:48,440 Speaker 1: back and then me and Monica used to ye in 791 00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:55,440 Speaker 1: the wall Southside okay all the time? Right um yeah, man, 792 00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,440 Speaker 1: I just feel like, you know, when I got on 793 00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:00,319 Speaker 1: the show, I just feel like all that it's got 794 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:03,000 Speaker 1: put out there really heavy. There. Oh she got all 795 00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:04,719 Speaker 1: this money and it is, but I feel like it 796 00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,200 Speaker 1: got put out there real heavy because to me, like 797 00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:12,040 Speaker 1: just being somebody that was just watching the show with you, 798 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:15,800 Speaker 1: in comparison to the rest of the wives or whatever. 799 00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:19,200 Speaker 1: You I don't want to say we're the only one 800 00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:22,080 Speaker 1: that really had some ship going on, but you were 801 00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:25,480 Speaker 1: like one of the only ones that really had some 802 00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:28,319 Speaker 1: tangible ship going on that you could go touch like hey, 803 00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:31,920 Speaker 1: I have actually done this, or I actually have this business, 804 00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,000 Speaker 1: or hey, bitch, I gotta grammy or you know what 805 00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:37,920 Speaker 1: I'm saying whatever, Like nobody, like everybody else kind of 806 00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:41,880 Speaker 1: was just like a wife like real ship. Like they 807 00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:46,719 Speaker 1: started going up, though, Like do you feel like it 808 00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:49,000 Speaker 1: was pressure you put pressure on yourself by people started 809 00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,080 Speaker 1: saying like Kenny got this is doing this, doing that, 810 00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,080 Speaker 1: you think you put more pressure on yourself after that, 811 00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:57,359 Speaker 1: because it's like you had three different you gotta think him, uh, 812 00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:01,960 Speaker 1: for the car handler had three different eras, like as 813 00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:06,920 Speaker 1: a child, as a young adult, and as an adult fool. 814 00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:10,239 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like each one, each one 815 00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:13,960 Speaker 1: of those times, like you reaventage yourself. Yes, well, I 816 00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 1: think that's the important though. To stay in the game. 817 00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:18,440 Speaker 1: That's the key to Longevin. That's the key to Longevin. 818 00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:22,480 Speaker 1: You have to readmit yourself, like, Um, you can't stay 819 00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:27,480 Speaker 1: the same and stay relevant. You can't, you know what 820 00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:31,520 Speaker 1: I mean? Um, you know, people stop caring at some point. 821 00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:36,359 Speaker 1: And I always tell everybody, nobody cares what you used 822 00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:40,480 Speaker 1: to be used to body cares, like nobody cared what 823 00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:44,080 Speaker 1: you accomplished before. Nobody cared what you did. It does 824 00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:48,440 Speaker 1: not matter as soon as you did it, So you 825 00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:54,880 Speaker 1: know what I mean, it's like something else now And 826 00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:59,879 Speaker 1: it's so it's like, Um, I remember my cousin told 827 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,160 Speaker 1: one of my cousins on me a long time ago. 828 00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:04,879 Speaker 1: We were sitting around. It's a lot of time ago. 829 00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:08,200 Speaker 1: She said, Uh, used to bees don't make no honey, 830 00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:13,400 Speaker 1: So don't nobody care what you used to be. Like, Okay, 831 00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:16,120 Speaker 1: but that shi's stuck with me, you know what I mean? 832 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:19,239 Speaker 1: Because I was like, that ship is real? You know 833 00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:22,279 Speaker 1: what I mean? Because you know people always be If 834 00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:25,919 Speaker 1: you ever really be around somebody that was super hot 835 00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:30,520 Speaker 1: that ain't hot, no mode, they always man, we used 836 00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,640 Speaker 1: to be blah blah blah. Man. Remember we used to 837 00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:42,799 Speaker 1: be like a jail Yeah ye a thousand times. Yes, 838 00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,480 Speaker 1: they just want to run back to how we used 839 00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:49,440 Speaker 1: to be up. Yeah. Do you feel that once you 840 00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:52,360 Speaker 1: fear that no, you always do something. Yes, you know 841 00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:54,320 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Once you fear being that person, like 842 00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:59,640 Speaker 1: I listen, I have that fear. I have that fear, man, 843 00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:04,800 Speaker 1: I have that fear. So for me, I have that 844 00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:11,040 Speaker 1: figure constantly. I am always trying to figure out what's 845 00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:14,759 Speaker 1: my next move. Always when I'm in my current move, 846 00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:18,400 Speaker 1: I'm thinking about what's my next move. And I'm always like, okay, 847 00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:21,640 Speaker 1: this whatever I'm working on right now, like whatever's hot 848 00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:25,440 Speaker 1: right now, whatever I'm being celebrated for today is what 849 00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:28,399 Speaker 1: I worked on last year, what I worked on last month. 850 00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:32,439 Speaker 1: So is if I ain't got something that I'm working 851 00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:34,439 Speaker 1: on right now, then I ain't gonna have nothing coming 852 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:36,960 Speaker 1: out next week, next month, next year, you know what 853 00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:40,120 Speaker 1: I mean. I gotta consistently be working on something new 854 00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:43,440 Speaker 1: to keep it going, you know what I mean. And 855 00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,680 Speaker 1: so that's why I'm like, I'm always like Aunty, We're 856 00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:48,879 Speaker 1: trying to figure out what's next, what's next, what we're doing, 857 00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:50,080 Speaker 1: what we're doing with me, you know what I mean? 858 00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,839 Speaker 1: Speaking on some real Atlanta ship. How you feel about 859 00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:56,160 Speaker 1: the Water Boys, Candy, Like when you see the water Boys, 860 00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:58,600 Speaker 1: if you whip up like you do you contribute to 861 00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:01,279 Speaker 1: their cause? Or are you scared on now because they've 862 00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:05,160 Speaker 1: been on some bullshit like the water Okay, So at 863 00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:09,919 Speaker 1: first I was like, oh, this is dope, like they're really, 864 00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:13,440 Speaker 1: you know, entrepreneurs. And now now I'm annoyed. I'm like, 865 00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:17,839 Speaker 1: find a new hustle, like shit is oh now, y'all 866 00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:21,520 Speaker 1: they don't want this hut Like this ship wore out. 867 00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:23,600 Speaker 1: Y'all need to move on to the next hustle, like 868 00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:26,120 Speaker 1: you know how when they wear that hustle out, and 869 00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:28,279 Speaker 1: this time for the next move like this world, this 870 00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:30,520 Speaker 1: hustle is well out, y'all need to move to the next. 871 00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:33,520 Speaker 1: They don't mess it up for y'all, Like from the 872 00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:37,680 Speaker 1: one I live off Cascade. What was it last year 873 00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:40,480 Speaker 1: when they gonna shot somebody like y'all Come on, now, 874 00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:42,839 Speaker 1: this is not it like we can't do it them all. 875 00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:46,680 Speaker 1: But as an entrepreneur and hustler, what would you suggest 876 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:51,080 Speaker 1: maybe that reinvent yourself. Reinvent yourself. Okay, don't say the 877 00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:54,439 Speaker 1: water something else, something good, you know, not the water 878 00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:57,400 Speaker 1: be hot. I don't even care. I'm over the need 879 00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:59,960 Speaker 1: to keep the label on the water. You ain't even 880 00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:01,880 Speaker 1: pretending no more. You ain't even trying to keep a 881 00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:05,800 Speaker 1: cold like no. And so now like that, you're in 882 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:09,280 Speaker 1: the mind frame of always wanting to evolve and elevate 883 00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:11,759 Speaker 1: and do something new and always happen to have that 884 00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:14,799 Speaker 1: next thing going on. Were you in that same mind 885 00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:20,040 Speaker 1: frame when you wrote No Scrubs and builds Bills Bills? Um? Well, okay, 886 00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:25,160 Speaker 1: back when we did No Scrubs, I was um I 887 00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:28,600 Speaker 1: was a hustle over for real. Yeah, hustle mode for 888 00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:34,640 Speaker 1: real because um our group was breaking up at the time. Okay, okay, 889 00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:37,640 Speaker 1: so our group was falling apart. We knew one of 890 00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:40,360 Speaker 1: our group members was supposed to be doing a solo 891 00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:46,160 Speaker 1: album and um I had told Tiny we was working 892 00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:49,160 Speaker 1: on a third album, but we knew that once that 893 00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:52,480 Speaker 1: third album released, that was it. Yeah, we was gonna 894 00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:56,680 Speaker 1: be on a height all right. Yeah. So I told Tiny, 895 00:47:57,280 --> 00:48:00,239 Speaker 1: I was like, Yo, we need to you know, will 896 00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:03,480 Speaker 1: do it project. And and I was telling her less like, 897 00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:06,279 Speaker 1: you know, write our own stuff and present it to 898 00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:09,719 Speaker 1: the label so they can see the vision. Right. So, um, 899 00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:13,480 Speaker 1: we had started writing with producers and stuff for our 900 00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:16,320 Speaker 1: demotate for ourselves, and No Scrubs was one of the 901 00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:19,440 Speaker 1: songs that we did for ourselves. So it was supposed 902 00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:25,319 Speaker 1: to be a cat project Kiddy and Tiny, So that's 903 00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:28,800 Speaker 1: what No Scrubs was. And um, when we had so 904 00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:31,520 Speaker 1: Shakespeare was one of the producers that we had worked 905 00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:35,120 Speaker 1: with for ourselves. And I had just kept you know, 906 00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:37,280 Speaker 1: at the time, like I said, I was on hustles. 907 00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:39,360 Speaker 1: I was just like trying to stay in the studio. 908 00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:43,319 Speaker 1: So I was like kept writing with them. I would 909 00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:45,120 Speaker 1: call I be like, yo, let's go to the studio. 910 00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:46,920 Speaker 1: When she'd be like, well, what we're writing is it 911 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:49,320 Speaker 1: for us? I'm like, okay, what's for Let's just go 912 00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:53,000 Speaker 1: to the studio. And she was like, nah, you knowin' 913 00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,400 Speaker 1: for us? You know, like sometimes she would come sometimes, 914 00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:58,000 Speaker 1: you know and be like, well, you know, let me know, 915 00:48:58,239 --> 00:48:59,920 Speaker 1: you know what we're doing or whatever. And so I 916 00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,280 Speaker 1: was just writing at that point, just to be writing, 917 00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:06,480 Speaker 1: even if it wasn't for us. And um, he had 918 00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:09,680 Speaker 1: just got a publishing deal. They invited him to go 919 00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:13,680 Speaker 1: to work with Destiny's Child and he asked me to go. 920 00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:19,200 Speaker 1: I went, and you know, and that's all she wrote 921 00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:23,320 Speaker 1: from there. Okay, cold speaking speaking of music, now, preservation 922 00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:26,040 Speaker 1: self preservation, Tell we have you both here and talk 923 00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,319 Speaker 1: talk a little bit about the process of creating. Try 924 00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:30,000 Speaker 1: it out, like how did that happen? Did you hit 925 00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:33,319 Speaker 1: her that she had shot together, like recorded the house, 926 00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:36,520 Speaker 1: you recorded at her house? Okay, yeah, but I was 927 00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:39,680 Speaker 1: I was over the spot with a j went back 928 00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:41,759 Speaker 1: at your studio from the old house yet with the 929 00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:48,880 Speaker 1: stud Yeah, yeah, recorded the song then was like until 930 00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:52,520 Speaker 1: can come this and Ship like that's it whatever, went 931 00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:55,600 Speaker 1: to password the next day and recorded it right ship 932 00:49:56,239 --> 00:50:01,160 Speaker 1: m Yeah that I ain't smoking my blood. They can 933 00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:02,600 Speaker 1: you to be crying with you to be running the 934 00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:06,680 Speaker 1: vans and the front of the ship smoking. You know, 935 00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:09,440 Speaker 1: I ain't smoking the blood. But you probably one of 936 00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:15,120 Speaker 1: the few people I'll put it out for you. Dropped 937 00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:18,319 Speaker 1: me off, dropped me out. You've been drop me off 938 00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:25,160 Speaker 1: smoking too, But I hate it. Well, you're so accomplished 939 00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:26,719 Speaker 1: like yourself. You know what I'm saying. You already said 940 00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:30,080 Speaker 1: what drives you? But what can we expect next? Like 941 00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:33,000 Speaker 1: what what's What's some things you haven't conquered yet that 942 00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,480 Speaker 1: you just like, I gotta conquer this ship. Yeah, I 943 00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:38,840 Speaker 1: guess I'm going to do a book one day, but like, 944 00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:41,239 Speaker 1: my story ain't done yet, right, I feel like my 945 00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:43,960 Speaker 1: story is dag it. But um, yeah, eventually I want 946 00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:45,600 Speaker 1: to do a book. I really want to do the 947 00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:48,840 Speaker 1: whole fictional series, though I think that would be dope. 948 00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:52,359 Speaker 1: I'm really going hard at this acting thing right now. 949 00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:54,359 Speaker 1: I was just about to say that you ain't being 950 00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:58,920 Speaker 1: on bullshit you like you snapped on the shot that 951 00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:02,680 Speaker 1: you know what I'm I'm had it back. Um actually 952 00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:04,440 Speaker 1: in a couple of weeks to go back to Chicago 953 00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:09,680 Speaker 1: to um start on season four. So I'm excited abous hard. Yeah, 954 00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:11,960 Speaker 1: So I'm going hard on that. I've been doing a 955 00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:15,560 Speaker 1: lot of auditions to do more and um, actually my 956 00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:18,520 Speaker 1: husband and I were trying to produce some stuff I 957 00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:21,320 Speaker 1: can't wait to this damn COVID ship go away so 958 00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:25,759 Speaker 1: we can do some more too. Yeah, you want to 959 00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:32,320 Speaker 1: produce in the way, we want to produce some films 960 00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:38,680 Speaker 1: and stuff ourselves as well. Um and man, take over 961 00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:43,680 Speaker 1: this internet stuff as well. We have you have I 962 00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:51,520 Speaker 1: haven't been, um no, but not yet. Man, it's just 963 00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:53,719 Speaker 1: too much. There's so much stuff that we need to 964 00:51:53,760 --> 00:52:00,360 Speaker 1: be on now that it's something like, you know, I 965 00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:03,040 Speaker 1: got a hundred advices. Let's tell you what happened on 966 00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:08,160 Speaker 1: my white clubhouse experienced. So nobody told me what club 967 00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:11,800 Speaker 1: house was, right. They just kept saying, get on clubhouse, 968 00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:14,000 Speaker 1: get o clubhouse. So I kept getting these advices, and 969 00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,080 Speaker 1: one person told me that if you don't accept it 970 00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:18,120 Speaker 1: that you may not get another invitce or something. So 971 00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:19,880 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, let me go on to make 972 00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:21,960 Speaker 1: my profile, my profile, because you know how some time 973 00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:25,120 Speaker 1: to people take your names. Yeah, let me make my 974 00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:28,560 Speaker 1: profile before somebody steal my name. So I'm making my name, 975 00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:30,040 Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, I get all these damn 976 00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:33,640 Speaker 1: texts like you need to hurry on mona. Yeah, she 977 00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:37,120 Speaker 1: texted me, And next thing I know, I'm like here 978 00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:42,239 Speaker 1: somebody talking to me, so I like, I said, like, 979 00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:46,080 Speaker 1: you can't hear me. I didn't realize it was a 980 00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:51,160 Speaker 1: phone call and people was talking. Yeah, yeah, it's like 981 00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:54,480 Speaker 1: I didn't know. It was like a whole phone, like 982 00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:58,120 Speaker 1: a whole like three white call, but like with the masses. 983 00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:01,040 Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, no, no, no, and it 984 00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:03,520 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, we're trying to welcome you, and I 985 00:53:03,719 --> 00:53:06,880 Speaker 1: was like, no, I wasn't trying to talk right now. 986 00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:08,920 Speaker 1: I was trying to make my profile. I wasn't really 987 00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:10,759 Speaker 1: trying to talk to me all right now. And it 988 00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:13,400 Speaker 1: was like, no, we're trying to make it big, like 989 00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:15,800 Speaker 1: we wanted to welcome you, and I said no, no, 990 00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:17,440 Speaker 1: I was trying to watch a movie right now. But 991 00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:19,600 Speaker 1: I was just trying to hold my name. And it 992 00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:22,600 Speaker 1: was like, well, we got to welcome you. Come back 993 00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:24,560 Speaker 1: and we're gonna let us know we can welcome you. 994 00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:27,279 Speaker 1: And yeah, okay, well we're gonna do this another time. 995 00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:31,800 Speaker 1: So I had hungle. But I was like because I 996 00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:33,880 Speaker 1: was like, this isn't what I was trying to do tonight. 997 00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:39,839 Speaker 1: What this this? She was cool at first, though, hear 998 00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:49,120 Speaker 1: me out, Yeah she got burnt quick. You ain't been made. No, 999 00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:52,960 Speaker 1: I ain't go back say to go. I was like, 1000 00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:55,800 Speaker 1: I don't want to be on there. Everybody could hear me, 1001 00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:58,040 Speaker 1: and then people was hearing me up later that was 1002 00:53:58,120 --> 00:53:59,840 Speaker 1: so funny. You thought she was like you didn't know 1003 00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:02,640 Speaker 1: was on the phone call? Like what it was random? 1004 00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:05,920 Speaker 1: People like can't hear me? I didn't know that, like 1005 00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:11,279 Speaker 1: or something. Yeah, that was too much for me. I 1006 00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:12,920 Speaker 1: don't want you to just hear me talking about you 1007 00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:15,960 Speaker 1: can mute it though you got five thousand and be moderators. 1008 00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:22,320 Speaker 1: Yeah that should be. Don't worry five thousand moderators, Like 1009 00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:24,480 Speaker 1: who the fuck? Or you'd be like banking savage and 1010 00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:28,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take over people. Rooms ain't got mad. They 1011 00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:30,400 Speaker 1: get mad about that ship now they haven't mad. Rules 1012 00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:32,520 Speaker 1: like you can't like there to leach your ship if 1013 00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:35,120 Speaker 1: you do that now for really, like when when somebody 1014 00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:38,960 Speaker 1: invites you, they it'll pop up like these are these 1015 00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:41,680 Speaker 1: are the worlds for this room? Do you agree? And 1016 00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:43,839 Speaker 1: if you agree and try to do something, they'll get 1017 00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:48,960 Speaker 1: rid of you. I don't get it. Never mind. To me, 1018 00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:52,919 Speaker 1: it sounds like it sounds like a free seminar. That's 1019 00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:55,319 Speaker 1: what it is. That's what that's what And you got 1020 00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:57,800 Speaker 1: a bunch of niggers on that line too, like you 1021 00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:01,120 Speaker 1: got a bunch of got good talk, good voices. Yeah, 1022 00:55:01,120 --> 00:55:02,560 Speaker 1: because we were on that other night. It was a 1023 00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:04,840 Speaker 1: nigga whose profile picture was like a four p F 1024 00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:08,000 Speaker 1: chain or some ship. So a little man was like 1025 00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:11,760 Speaker 1: you you work for baby or something, and then everybody 1026 00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:13,840 Speaker 1: in the room started looking at the nigga like like 1027 00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:16,680 Speaker 1: who are you? Who are you like? And then they're like, well, 1028 00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:18,840 Speaker 1: who brought this nigga up? And then they got to 1029 00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:20,600 Speaker 1: the bottom of who brought this nig up? The nigga 1030 00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:23,480 Speaker 1: disappeared because he had in his bio he worked for 1031 00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:25,400 Speaker 1: Sony and R C A and he was this that 1032 00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:28,359 Speaker 1: and the third whatever whatever assistant the four PF blah 1033 00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:32,360 Speaker 1: blah blah. So goddamn, they got to the bottom of 1034 00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:37,080 Speaker 1: which moderator brought the nigga up and like made him 1035 00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,440 Speaker 1: able to speak and gave him a green being and 1036 00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:43,799 Speaker 1: all that ship. And they ended up holding court. Yeah yeah, 1037 00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:49,960 Speaker 1: that ship crazy try on a little man dash. It 1038 00:55:50,080 --> 00:55:51,720 Speaker 1: was like a whole bunch of people. They held court 1039 00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:54,920 Speaker 1: for the for the moderator nigga that brought the nigga up, 1040 00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:56,880 Speaker 1: and they kicked the moderator Nigga off. It was just 1041 00:55:57,280 --> 00:55:59,200 Speaker 1: it's funny. That ship was funny, but it's like now 1042 00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:05,560 Speaker 1: it's kind of like give it out, greedy lady going 1043 00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:09,480 Speaker 1: in too. Yeah, okay, so listen, like reality TV, right, 1044 00:56:09,560 --> 00:56:14,000 Speaker 1: so most people who are relationships on marriages and reality TV, 1045 00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:16,719 Speaker 1: they probably don't make it. So what's your secret? Like, 1046 00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:18,640 Speaker 1: how are you able to be on reality TV and 1047 00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:24,520 Speaker 1: have a successful relationship and marriage? Um, well we met 1048 00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:28,880 Speaker 1: TV that's number one. Okay, So it wasn't like we 1049 00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:34,120 Speaker 1: came in together reality We met on reality TV and 1050 00:56:34,400 --> 00:56:39,240 Speaker 1: he was a producer, so he knows how production works. 1051 00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:42,160 Speaker 1: So they can't mess us up. If we get messed up, 1052 00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:45,239 Speaker 1: it's because we missed the owners. You couldn't work your 1053 00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:47,279 Speaker 1: way up on the boards, so they don't cut you 1054 00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:50,000 Speaker 1: in it. Oh, I know you negotiating on the real 1055 00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:52,360 Speaker 1: houseband level ship. You've been on us a long list thing. 1056 00:56:52,360 --> 00:57:05,520 Speaker 1: You are the chop brand, Like yeah, all right, please, 1057 00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:08,040 Speaker 1: They ain't never got to change that. Like Bravo is 1058 00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:10,759 Speaker 1: a machine man. If you say you was about to leave, 1059 00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:13,720 Speaker 1: you don't think they negotiate whatever you want them to negotiate? 1060 00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:18,680 Speaker 1: Absolutely not. Why not? Because they are a machine. They 1061 00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:21,960 Speaker 1: feel like they replace as quick anybody. I mean, I 1062 00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:24,680 Speaker 1: feel like they feel like they could replace anybody. Yeah, 1063 00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:27,840 Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying, you know. Um, I mean I 1064 00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:31,080 Speaker 1: feel like they probably could, to be honest with it's 1065 00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:34,440 Speaker 1: so many people up and coming as rather. I mean, 1066 00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:36,840 Speaker 1: I got new girls on that right, Yeah, we got 1067 00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:39,240 Speaker 1: new people that. Yeah. I mean at the end of 1068 00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:41,400 Speaker 1: the day, that's been going for a very long time 1069 00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:44,400 Speaker 1: and it's and you know, they got a built in 1070 00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:47,520 Speaker 1: fan base that's gonna watch it no matter what. Yeah, 1071 00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:50,080 Speaker 1: you know, I don't. I don't feel like any of 1072 00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:55,280 Speaker 1: us are bigger than the show it is. They changed good, 1073 00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:59,680 Speaker 1: So I don't care to do should you be doing anyway, 1074 00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:03,640 Speaker 1: there's the normal. It's not stripped it at all. The 1075 00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:06,640 Speaker 1: only thing like where people don't realize it's like okay, 1076 00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:12,680 Speaker 1: so we don't pick the restaurants or the trip, you 1077 00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:15,800 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, So they'll pick that or like say, 1078 00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:22,280 Speaker 1: for instance, um, if you and I went out on 1079 00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:26,600 Speaker 1: a date or whatever and we was arguing and because 1080 00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:29,200 Speaker 1: you wanted to start your own business, then when I 1081 00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:32,200 Speaker 1: go and have lunch with him, then they're gonna be like, 1082 00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:34,280 Speaker 1: make sure you told him what which I was arguing about, 1083 00:58:34,880 --> 00:58:38,040 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So they don't tell me 1084 00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:41,480 Speaker 1: to tell us what we're gonna say, but they will. 1085 00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:44,760 Speaker 1: They want me to mention it, because how you're gonna 1086 00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:49,120 Speaker 1: keep the story going or consistent if you don't mention 1087 00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:55,240 Speaker 1: things that happened in the previous scene. You gotta see 1088 00:58:55,280 --> 00:58:57,200 Speaker 1: it play out. So it's no way you can if 1089 00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:59,440 Speaker 1: you just want to have random things have been all 1090 00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:02,880 Speaker 1: around and I think ever continuously goes on like it 1091 00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:06,560 Speaker 1: wouldn't make sense, so you have to have it something 1092 00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:11,080 Speaker 1: be continuous. So but no, they don't tell you what 1093 00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:13,800 Speaker 1: to say, you know, you know as far as like 1094 00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:19,160 Speaker 1: verbat on, you know what I'm saying. But flashback a 1095 00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:22,360 Speaker 1: little bit to Tri Cities High School Candy. What was 1096 00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:28,480 Speaker 1: Tri Cities High School candy? Like, whoa, it's Tri City 1097 00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:31,520 Speaker 1: Kity like for everybody who don't know, Tri Cities popular 1098 00:59:31,600 --> 00:59:40,080 Speaker 1: high school in Atlanta worldwide. Okay, so wow, that was 1099 00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:42,320 Speaker 1: a long time ago. We know that. You know you 1100 00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:46,080 Speaker 1: were singing, Yes, I was definitely singing. Okay, So Tri 1101 00:59:46,280 --> 00:59:48,880 Speaker 1: City when I first went and went there, it was 1102 00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:52,400 Speaker 1: a brand new school. They had put three rival schools 1103 00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:56,960 Speaker 1: together to make Tri Cities. So, um, it was a 1104 00:59:57,000 --> 01:00:00,960 Speaker 1: brand new building. Okay. So we had to fight every 1105 01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:05,800 Speaker 1: single week for the first two months, and our principal 1106 01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:10,840 Speaker 1: did the Joe Clark had suspend the expelled all the 1107 01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:12,960 Speaker 1: people at the end of the first month of school. 1108 01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:14,760 Speaker 1: And it was like we was on the news every week. 1109 01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:16,440 Speaker 1: It was like crazy, like we had all these like 1110 01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:20,000 Speaker 1: crazy fights and stuff. Yeah. But like when when I 1111 01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:24,600 Speaker 1: went to try City, Um, it was amazing, like in 1112 01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:26,560 Speaker 1: my first couple of years a Tri City because like 1113 01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:30,440 Speaker 1: when I was there, you know, KP was there when 1114 01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:35,480 Speaker 1: I was there, they weren't outcast. They now they was 1115 01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:38,880 Speaker 1: out casting. You know, they were figuring themselves out, just 1116 01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:42,320 Speaker 1: like Escay was. We was there, you know what I mean. Um, 1117 01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:48,600 Speaker 1: you know Windo man, we go with you know what 1118 01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:52,440 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Damn near everybody lived. A lot of a 1119 01:00:52,520 --> 01:00:55,080 Speaker 1: lot of people lived in like it's on four in 1120 01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:59,320 Speaker 1: the Swaths and like East Point. So I was like, yeah, 1121 01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:04,439 Speaker 1: that's trust you. Yeah. So it was. And I had 1122 01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:10,040 Speaker 1: so I went to like white schools growing up. MENI 1123 01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:13,800 Speaker 1: I went to hers very rich view. So my mom 1124 01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:17,080 Speaker 1: had bust me. Remember the minority to majority program. So 1125 01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:19,240 Speaker 1: I was tired of going to white schools and I 1126 01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:21,520 Speaker 1: wanted to go to a black school. I was supposed 1127 01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:24,720 Speaker 1: to go to Creekside, but my friend wanted to audition 1128 01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:27,200 Speaker 1: for the performing arts program and she asked me to 1129 01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:30,680 Speaker 1: audition with her because so she wouldn't be by herself, 1130 01:01:30,880 --> 01:01:32,960 Speaker 1: and I went with her. They end up picking me. 1131 01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:35,360 Speaker 1: So that's how I ended up going to try to 1132 01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:43,800 Speaker 1: Um but I'm saying one thing. You know, I feel 1133 01:01:43,800 --> 01:01:46,360 Speaker 1: like everything happens for a reason. But I thank her 1134 01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:48,840 Speaker 1: for that because it helped change my life. Yeah, shout 1135 01:01:48,880 --> 01:01:52,320 Speaker 1: out to her home girl where she is, But what's 1136 01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:54,920 Speaker 1: she doing now? She went on to be a teacher 1137 01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:57,440 Speaker 1: and so yeah, so you know, everything happened for a 1138 01:01:57,520 --> 01:02:03,120 Speaker 1: reason for so anyway, I ended up going to try 1139 01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:08,440 Speaker 1: City and it was mistnay and for me, you know 1140 01:02:08,520 --> 01:02:11,160 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Um, So I was in a performing 1141 01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:14,040 Speaker 1: ice program. You know, I met to Mika Tasha and 1142 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,600 Speaker 1: um tiny you know I end up meeting her later 1143 01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:22,320 Speaker 1: because um, she ended up coming I I ended up 1144 01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:25,080 Speaker 1: meeting her, I guess the summer coming into the tenth 1145 01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:30,400 Speaker 1: grade through to Mika Scott. But yeah, and yeah, it 1146 01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:33,960 Speaker 1: just was fun. So speaking of like escape and you 1147 01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:37,000 Speaker 1: guys all meeting like in high school and coming together 1148 01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:40,520 Speaker 1: and stuff. Once you guys formed and came together. How 1149 01:02:40,600 --> 01:02:44,480 Speaker 1: did Jermaine come into the picture? Oh okay, so Ian Burke. 1150 01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:46,320 Speaker 1: I feel like I just did this interview because we 1151 01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:49,080 Speaker 1: did a thing about Ian Burke not that long ago, 1152 01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:54,120 Speaker 1: but so okay, So I'm gonna rewind back. So in 1153 01:02:54,320 --> 01:02:58,720 Speaker 1: ninth grade, which was a great year for me, but 1154 01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:00,520 Speaker 1: I was when I met my group members. Like I said, 1155 01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:04,880 Speaker 1: we were singing and stuff like that. Um, all performing arts. 1156 01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:08,720 Speaker 1: Everything was fun n grade year. At the end of summer, 1157 01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:11,880 Speaker 1: end of the end of my ninth grade year. Um, 1158 01:03:12,920 --> 01:03:14,400 Speaker 1: you know it started, I told you, I said, we 1159 01:03:14,440 --> 01:03:17,520 Speaker 1: started being a group, but not I had not met 1160 01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:23,000 Speaker 1: In yet. My brother introduced us to and berg Um. 1161 01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:30,120 Speaker 1: Shortly thereafter my brother passed away, okay, and then shortly 1162 01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:35,520 Speaker 1: thereafter Tiny ended up being in the group which was 1163 01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:37,800 Speaker 1: like the summer like I said, after in tenth grade, 1164 01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:40,880 Speaker 1: and then shortly there after In took us this thing 1165 01:03:40,960 --> 01:03:46,920 Speaker 1: for Germaine dupri Um for his nineteenth birthday. So um 1166 01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:49,880 Speaker 1: then he was at the time, he was still working 1167 01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:54,640 Speaker 1: with Criss Cross, and he said, I'll come back and 1168 01:03:54,760 --> 01:03:57,520 Speaker 1: help y'all. You know sign y'all when I finished working 1169 01:03:57,520 --> 01:03:59,240 Speaker 1: with this group and he was like, yeah, yeah whatever, 1170 01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:03,400 Speaker 1: thinking bullshitting us, but he wasn't, and we went on 1171 01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:07,480 Speaker 1: about our business and later on he saw us. We 1172 01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:10,320 Speaker 1: ended up doing the performance you know when they had 1173 01:04:10,400 --> 01:04:14,280 Speaker 1: that what was that Team Summit show thing. Yeah, so 1174 01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:16,880 Speaker 1: they had their talent show thing and we did hold 1175 01:04:16,960 --> 01:04:18,640 Speaker 1: on by a Vogue, but we couldn't do it with 1176 01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:21,640 Speaker 1: the music, so we did it. Yeah, we had a 1177 01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:24,920 Speaker 1: compella ship box and he said that he loved us 1178 01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:29,000 Speaker 1: because we was the ghetto in Vogue signed us and 1179 01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:34,200 Speaker 1: that's hard. Yeah. So we were trying to figure out 1180 01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:37,280 Speaker 1: on big factors the Grammys. We don't always understand the Grammys. 1181 01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:39,160 Speaker 1: When we look at some of the nominations and all 1182 01:04:39,200 --> 01:04:42,680 Speaker 1: that ship, we didn't we didn't wholeheartedly agree with they 1183 01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:44,760 Speaker 1: left a little baby out some of the nominations and 1184 01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:47,160 Speaker 1: all that ship. So as a as a Grammy winner, 1185 01:04:47,240 --> 01:04:49,800 Speaker 1: I guess help us out with the process of this 1186 01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:51,880 Speaker 1: Grammy ship a little bit, like what it means to 1187 01:04:52,040 --> 01:04:54,440 Speaker 1: you how they come up with this ship, who wins 1188 01:04:54,560 --> 01:04:56,320 Speaker 1: and all that stuff, Like give us your opinion on 1189 01:04:56,360 --> 01:05:01,480 Speaker 1: the Grammys or some information on it. Okay. So the Grammys, 1190 01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:06,440 Speaker 1: So basically you have to be on the Grammy boot 1191 01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:16,200 Speaker 1: Grammy Committee UM to be able to vote. Um. Okay, 1192 01:05:16,760 --> 01:05:21,760 Speaker 1: So anybody who who everybody who is a member? Are 1193 01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:28,160 Speaker 1: you on the board, Well yeah, I'm in the No no, no, okay. 1194 01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:30,680 Speaker 1: So it's it's weird. Okay. So one year I was 1195 01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:33,080 Speaker 1: actually on the board. Who the people who actually got 1196 01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:39,640 Speaker 1: to vote vote? So basically everybody UM votes and then 1197 01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:41,640 Speaker 1: I think they narrow it down and then they have 1198 01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:47,360 Speaker 1: like this secret group of people who votes on the 1199 01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:54,479 Speaker 1: top sounds like some No, no, it's like you vote 1200 01:05:54,520 --> 01:05:56,720 Speaker 1: on the top five. You know what I'm saying. That 1201 01:05:57,000 --> 01:06:03,080 Speaker 1: is what I'm saying. It's like, okay, so let me 1202 01:06:03,120 --> 01:06:05,400 Speaker 1: ask you this before and I'm like going, and so 1203 01:06:05,560 --> 01:06:11,040 Speaker 1: save for instance, here's the thing. All the people that 1204 01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:16,280 Speaker 1: as in the Grammy Association or whatever. Obviously it's way 1205 01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:22,400 Speaker 1: more others than it is black people, right, But if 1206 01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:26,040 Speaker 1: you are if you don't know these names, it's a 1207 01:06:26,120 --> 01:06:29,800 Speaker 1: popularity contest at that point, and you're just going through 1208 01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:33,080 Speaker 1: voting based off of the names you recognize. So you're 1209 01:06:33,120 --> 01:06:36,960 Speaker 1: gonna narrow it down to five people. So when it 1210 01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:40,720 Speaker 1: gets the five people that we that the secret Committee 1211 01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:44,200 Speaker 1: get to choose from is the one that the masses 1212 01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:47,680 Speaker 1: of the got narrowed it down to. So if I'm like, 1213 01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:52,439 Speaker 1: how come it's only these people for me to pick from? 1214 01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:56,120 Speaker 1: What happened to you know, this person webbing app Why 1215 01:06:56,160 --> 01:06:59,880 Speaker 1: you'll only put these people in? Because the majority of 1216 01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:04,080 Speaker 1: the people in the Grammy Association are not people who 1217 01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:07,240 Speaker 1: actually listen to rep music. You get what I'm saying, 1218 01:07:08,320 --> 01:07:12,520 Speaker 1: the same way as if I'm voting, I may not 1219 01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:18,680 Speaker 1: listen to classical music, but may I put in my 1220 01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:21,600 Speaker 1: vote for you know, the top names in the cloud? 1221 01:07:21,720 --> 01:07:24,520 Speaker 1: Just voting on the name I don't know who that is. 1222 01:07:25,280 --> 01:07:27,520 Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. So my question is somebody 1223 01:07:27,640 --> 01:07:30,840 Speaker 1: was in my comments saying that you have to pay 1224 01:07:31,040 --> 01:07:33,560 Speaker 1: some sort of dudes, and if you haven't paid your dudes, 1225 01:07:33,680 --> 01:07:36,560 Speaker 1: then you aren't even considered to be a nominee. Is 1226 01:07:36,640 --> 01:07:44,040 Speaker 1: that true? I guess? But yeah, I mean, I guess, 1227 01:07:44,120 --> 01:07:47,480 Speaker 1: but I think the artists yeah, yeah, I mean, yeah 1228 01:07:47,520 --> 01:07:49,880 Speaker 1: that and that may be true. I don't even remember, 1229 01:07:50,400 --> 01:07:54,600 Speaker 1: But I think the main problem, like I said, is 1230 01:07:54,720 --> 01:08:01,160 Speaker 1: that just like the majority of the majority of the 1231 01:08:01,240 --> 01:08:07,000 Speaker 1: association who votes, they do not listen to rap music. 1232 01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:10,480 Speaker 1: So if you know, if we go in, if I 1233 01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:13,800 Speaker 1: log in and all the names of the rappers that 1234 01:08:13,880 --> 01:08:17,400 Speaker 1: are there, I'm just if I see all these names, 1235 01:08:17,439 --> 01:08:20,200 Speaker 1: I see a little baby, a little this little dirt, little, 1236 01:08:20,600 --> 01:08:23,880 Speaker 1: a little something's little stung. And I see Will Smith, Oh, 1237 01:08:23,960 --> 01:08:29,719 Speaker 1: I know Will Smith, I see whoever. I'm gonna vote 1238 01:08:29,760 --> 01:08:32,800 Speaker 1: for the popular name. I'm not gonna vote. I'm not 1239 01:08:32,880 --> 01:08:36,680 Speaker 1: gonna check the name that's really pop. I'm gonna just 1240 01:08:37,160 --> 01:08:39,639 Speaker 1: vote for the name I know I've heard of before 1241 01:08:40,280 --> 01:08:42,600 Speaker 1: you get. And that goes back to the type of 1242 01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:47,680 Speaker 1: people that are voting, Yeah, the type they know a 1243 01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:55,080 Speaker 1: certain type of right, So those names get narrowed down 1244 01:08:55,240 --> 01:09:00,600 Speaker 1: to the top five, and then it's a group of 1245 01:09:00,720 --> 01:09:06,920 Speaker 1: people that are picked up. Basically, rap don't even belong 1246 01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:12,400 Speaker 1: with the grammar. Basically, well, I'm saying it's just a 1247 01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:14,680 Speaker 1: category now, but it's not even a part, really a 1248 01:09:14,800 --> 01:09:17,480 Speaker 1: part of the grammar. And it's not a fair competition. 1249 01:09:18,439 --> 01:09:20,920 Speaker 1: Why cann't take it as to like you vote, you're 1250 01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:23,439 Speaker 1: voting based on popularity as opposed to the art. So 1251 01:09:23,600 --> 01:09:26,160 Speaker 1: whoever had the hardest or the best album or even 1252 01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:31,240 Speaker 1: the highest selling album, but then again, the popularity is 1253 01:09:31,439 --> 01:09:36,920 Speaker 1: their definition of popularity, the the pop ularity of it. 1254 01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:39,000 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying that just that goes back 1255 01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:41,400 Speaker 1: to how like we always say everybody has their own 1256 01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:45,160 Speaker 1: definition of everything, like populate, like like baby was the 1257 01:09:45,240 --> 01:09:49,680 Speaker 1: most popular nigga out this year, but not to the 1258 01:09:49,880 --> 01:09:57,800 Speaker 1: pop you learn people that are picking the popularity disregard 1259 01:09:58,000 --> 01:10:00,519 Speaker 1: people who aren't black or who don't listen to round 1260 01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:02,320 Speaker 1: Because you gotta think, all of these people are still 1261 01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:04,800 Speaker 1: in the music industry. A lot of you still do 1262 01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:07,160 Speaker 1: their research and go through the charge and say, okay, 1263 01:10:07,280 --> 01:10:09,880 Speaker 1: well this person is on the charge of project. So 1264 01:10:09,960 --> 01:10:14,000 Speaker 1: they still you know, you know, try to you know, 1265 01:10:14,160 --> 01:10:17,439 Speaker 1: check a name that's you know, popular. But when when 1266 01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:21,719 Speaker 1: it gets down to that group, that secret group, those 1267 01:10:21,800 --> 01:10:24,080 Speaker 1: people are voting based off of different things. So let me, 1268 01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:26,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna just say from my experience when I got 1269 01:10:26,160 --> 01:10:30,639 Speaker 1: put in the secret group. So the secret groups are 1270 01:10:30,720 --> 01:10:35,800 Speaker 1: split up, right, so each group may get different categories. 1271 01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:39,360 Speaker 1: I don't remember that year, I might have got R 1272 01:10:39,400 --> 01:10:43,200 Speaker 1: and B album with you, or I'm pop Artists of 1273 01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:45,960 Speaker 1: the Year whatever whatever. So in my group, I may 1274 01:10:46,000 --> 01:10:48,240 Speaker 1: have had a person who was an engineer, a person 1275 01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:50,679 Speaker 1: that was this, the person that was blah blah blah blah. 1276 01:10:50,800 --> 01:10:53,240 Speaker 1: We all different backgrounds, but we in this group together 1277 01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:58,799 Speaker 1: and we all trying to vote. But they're they're voting 1278 01:10:58,840 --> 01:11:00,960 Speaker 1: based off a different thing. I'm a vote because oh 1279 01:11:01,200 --> 01:11:03,200 Speaker 1: that was a badass out this person out of the 1280 01:11:03,280 --> 01:11:05,880 Speaker 1: die or their vocals were so dope. And this person 1281 01:11:06,200 --> 01:11:09,760 Speaker 1: he's an engineer, so he's based off of the I 1282 01:11:09,880 --> 01:11:13,000 Speaker 1: can hear they use too much auto tune, they used 1283 01:11:13,120 --> 01:11:17,759 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Everybody's voting based off of different things, 1284 01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:23,040 Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying. And so that was what 1285 01:11:23,240 --> 01:11:26,880 Speaker 1: happened in my experience, and i'd ever even I thought 1286 01:11:26,960 --> 01:11:32,040 Speaker 1: about how people based their votes. You know what I'm saying, Yeah, 1287 01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:36,040 Speaker 1: that's good information about the ground whatever, because it was 1288 01:11:36,120 --> 01:11:40,320 Speaker 1: kind of and they just stayed just black other ship. 1289 01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:42,280 Speaker 1: But now when you when you make it, when you 1290 01:11:42,320 --> 01:11:45,960 Speaker 1: when you the way you may broke it down made sense. 1291 01:11:46,080 --> 01:11:49,800 Speaker 1: Like de folks don't they know music? Okay, So so 1292 01:11:49,920 --> 01:11:53,400 Speaker 1: I might be listening for the snare, I might be 1293 01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:56,240 Speaker 1: a producer listening to you know what I'm saying, not 1294 01:11:56,439 --> 01:11:59,560 Speaker 1: get it. Everybody's voting based off of what it is 1295 01:12:00,240 --> 01:12:05,040 Speaker 1: like speaking speaking on what it did? They like, what's 1296 01:12:05,080 --> 01:12:08,080 Speaker 1: on candy playlist? Right now? Who? What you ride to? 1297 01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:13,200 Speaker 1: What you're working out? Oh yeah, she snapped, she snaps, 1298 01:12:13,600 --> 01:12:15,479 Speaker 1: what I just taket? Y'all like we need to do 1299 01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:19,800 Speaker 1: a relationship episode with her because she went berserk for real, 1300 01:12:19,920 --> 01:12:21,960 Speaker 1: for real, Like y'all think the just that they're going 1301 01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:24,320 Speaker 1: on Instagram is talking about some ship. Go listen to 1302 01:12:24,400 --> 01:12:29,920 Speaker 1: Jasmin and Solomon. Go listen to Jasmin Soloman. Yes, oh no, 1303 01:12:30,040 --> 01:12:34,160 Speaker 1: I was saying, what made you decide to do? Why not? 1304 01:12:34,880 --> 01:12:41,479 Speaker 1: Screen kept pushing Now he confirmed it because we was 1305 01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:43,680 Speaker 1: already talking about doing one. Because I just see, like, 1306 01:12:45,360 --> 01:12:55,439 Speaker 1: isn't making make that's it's uh yeah about now when 1307 01:12:56,479 --> 01:13:01,040 Speaker 1: you're gonna be turk you get what a lot of 1308 01:13:01,120 --> 01:13:03,360 Speaker 1: your ship be looking like? I thought you was already 1309 01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:06,000 Speaker 1: doing that though with to speak on it. Oh well, 1310 01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:09,719 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, through the sight and all of that. Yeah, 1311 01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:16,800 Speaker 1: but we're talking about oh yeah yeah yeah, say can 1312 01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:19,600 Speaker 1: they sit on can she about to cry? Well, it 1313 01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:26,479 Speaker 1: was cracking so fast. I can't control it, like she 1314 01:13:26,560 --> 01:13:28,880 Speaker 1: could be talking about some regular ship. Just start cracking 1315 01:13:28,960 --> 01:13:33,360 Speaker 1: up like she filling that up. You know, it's so funny, 1316 01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:36,080 Speaker 1: like I cannot control it, and I don't know why 1317 01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:38,280 Speaker 1: I'd be doing it. It makes me so mad, man, 1318 01:13:38,439 --> 01:13:40,719 Speaker 1: I don't know why i'd be doing it. My funniest, 1319 01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:46,000 Speaker 1: my funniest Candy moment was when you and oh girl 1320 01:13:46,160 --> 01:13:48,439 Speaker 1: were It was like, this was like in the beginning 1321 01:13:48,520 --> 01:13:51,200 Speaker 1: of the like the seasons or whatever, and y'all were 1322 01:13:51,280 --> 01:13:53,600 Speaker 1: have something like art gallery or some ship, and you 1323 01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:59,599 Speaker 1: were like, you better leave me alone before I ain't 1324 01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:01,479 Speaker 1: somebody that point I'm to my life. She could be 1325 01:14:01,600 --> 01:14:04,240 Speaker 1: having a regular conversation. No, but she does that on 1326 01:14:04,320 --> 01:14:07,680 Speaker 1: the reunions, like and you know, like she's been a 1327 01:14:07,760 --> 01:14:11,920 Speaker 1: blow like blow you know what it was, Oh that, 1328 01:14:12,439 --> 01:14:14,559 Speaker 1: I know what you're talking about. Though, to go back 1329 01:14:14,640 --> 01:14:16,760 Speaker 1: to that one, because that was that ship was like 1330 01:14:17,479 --> 01:14:19,960 Speaker 1: that was your first real blow up on the show, 1331 01:14:20,160 --> 01:14:22,720 Speaker 1: Like you know what it was for me though, I 1332 01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:30,560 Speaker 1: had gone the whole season without together any arguments or altercations, altercations, 1333 01:14:31,200 --> 01:14:34,080 Speaker 1: and you know, I had her and say little chokes 1334 01:14:34,160 --> 01:14:37,080 Speaker 1: and saying I was, you know, get over whatever, like 1335 01:14:37,479 --> 01:14:39,719 Speaker 1: jokes in here and there, and so I was trying 1336 01:14:39,760 --> 01:14:41,840 Speaker 1: to like keep my cool the whole seasons. I was 1337 01:14:41,880 --> 01:14:46,000 Speaker 1: thinking like okay, so right at the end, she made 1338 01:14:46,080 --> 01:14:48,800 Speaker 1: me go there and I was like that I was 1339 01:14:48,920 --> 01:14:50,920 Speaker 1: I was man, I had my little popcorn. I was like, man, 1340 01:14:51,000 --> 01:14:53,599 Speaker 1: Candy gonna beat this bitch. Man. I was so mad 1341 01:14:53,680 --> 01:14:56,320 Speaker 1: at myself because I have my fingers crossed, like please, 1342 01:14:56,920 --> 01:14:58,800 Speaker 1: you're the last one and we can look up to 1343 01:14:59,120 --> 01:15:01,679 Speaker 1: they don't do. I was so mad at my socks 1344 01:15:01,680 --> 01:15:04,280 Speaker 1: all like damn, Now she don't made me have down 1345 01:15:04,520 --> 01:15:09,280 Speaker 1: go to this other side on TV because everybody, everybody 1346 01:15:09,400 --> 01:15:11,439 Speaker 1: was like, don't be a part of that show and 1347 01:15:11,520 --> 01:15:15,240 Speaker 1: make black people look bad. They was saying black people 1348 01:15:15,320 --> 01:15:18,160 Speaker 1: look bad on TV reality. So I was trying to 1349 01:15:18,240 --> 01:15:20,000 Speaker 1: do my best not to go on there and I 1350 01:15:20,160 --> 01:15:23,400 Speaker 1: was bad for black Like now she got me over 1351 01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:26,640 Speaker 1: here acting a fool. I was like, damn. I was 1352 01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:31,040 Speaker 1: so mad. It was a mess. Dude, do whatever you 1353 01:15:31,120 --> 01:15:34,880 Speaker 1: d got you do, got that goddamn on funk what 1354 01:15:34,960 --> 01:15:38,559 Speaker 1: you face though, like on them girls, like you got 1355 01:15:38,640 --> 01:15:42,920 Speaker 1: one of them faces right this ship until it go 1356 01:15:43,120 --> 01:15:45,240 Speaker 1: Like I'll be like, can go in getting into it 1357 01:15:45,360 --> 01:15:47,920 Speaker 1: with her because I can see she don't like her. Dame. 1358 01:15:47,960 --> 01:15:50,439 Speaker 1: When you get in your confession area, when you're getting 1359 01:15:50,439 --> 01:15:52,360 Speaker 1: your confession area, you say so she in the way 1360 01:15:52,400 --> 01:15:56,880 Speaker 1: you ship you laugh at I could offend on people. Yeah, 1361 01:15:57,680 --> 01:16:00,160 Speaker 1: I don't be trying to offend. Just say that. I 1362 01:16:00,280 --> 01:16:02,400 Speaker 1: just said. I just know I deal with targes, so 1363 01:16:02,479 --> 01:16:10,200 Speaker 1: I already know, like it just unnnoyingly unnormally. Yeah, it's unnormally. 1364 01:16:10,240 --> 01:16:12,240 Speaker 1: I guess it's just it's just in them, like to 1365 01:16:12,280 --> 01:16:18,280 Speaker 1: be like some faces all this ship. We can't control it. 1366 01:16:18,439 --> 01:16:25,640 Speaker 1: It just happens it. I saw Instagram. It said it 1367 01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:27,519 Speaker 1: was like a little it was like a little girl 1368 01:16:27,680 --> 01:16:30,920 Speaker 1: and another little thing or whatever, and they said, I 1369 01:16:31,040 --> 01:16:34,120 Speaker 1: didn't the teacher was. The teacher was telling her, I 1370 01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:36,599 Speaker 1: didn't realize that you were this shady, and the little 1371 01:16:36,640 --> 01:16:38,600 Speaker 1: girl said, yeah, I made all a's in school. I 1372 01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:45,560 Speaker 1: love to read. I know Kennie would laugh at me. 1373 01:16:46,320 --> 01:16:51,600 Speaker 1: I don't give it's okay. That ship was funny, but 1374 01:16:51,760 --> 01:16:59,000 Speaker 1: we probably gotta see it right, right, we probably have 1375 01:16:59,120 --> 01:17:04,599 Speaker 1: to see that it's okay, it's all right. But another 1376 01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:08,320 Speaker 1: thing that I wanted to ask to, like coming from 1377 01:17:08,479 --> 01:17:10,519 Speaker 1: a female perspective, and I know like a lot of 1378 01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:14,720 Speaker 1: females deal with this and you know have had experiences 1379 01:17:14,800 --> 01:17:17,440 Speaker 1: with this. I want you to speak on your experience 1380 01:17:17,560 --> 01:17:21,519 Speaker 1: with the in vitro fertilization and the surrogacy. As far 1381 01:17:21,600 --> 01:17:26,759 Speaker 1: as like your pregnancies and stuff, we're concerned. Okay. Um, well, 1382 01:17:28,520 --> 01:17:33,439 Speaker 1: so basically, you know, obviously I had Riley without out 1383 01:17:33,520 --> 01:17:38,920 Speaker 1: even trying. Okay, so she just came on up. I 1384 01:17:39,000 --> 01:17:43,599 Speaker 1: didn't think I was gonna have problems get bregnant, you know, like, Um, 1385 01:17:44,000 --> 01:17:48,479 Speaker 1: I did have fibroid issues in my thirty Oh okay, okay, okay, 1386 01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:52,200 Speaker 1: so that's what like, yeah, okay, so later I did 1387 01:17:52,280 --> 01:17:55,880 Speaker 1: not know I had scar tissue from the fibroid surgery 1388 01:17:56,000 --> 01:17:57,960 Speaker 1: and what does that like, what does that mean? Because 1389 01:17:57,960 --> 01:18:01,879 Speaker 1: I've always wondered about that. So fibroids are like tumors 1390 01:18:02,520 --> 01:18:06,559 Speaker 1: that and it's more prominent in black women. Did they hurt? Well, 1391 01:18:06,600 --> 01:18:12,280 Speaker 1: they can cause you to have serious cramping, heavier periods. Um. 1392 01:18:13,120 --> 01:18:16,759 Speaker 1: They can have different um effects effects and different women, 1393 01:18:16,800 --> 01:18:21,360 Speaker 1: you know. So anyway, Um, so I had fibroid issues 1394 01:18:21,560 --> 01:18:23,800 Speaker 1: in my thirties or whatever, and so I did have 1395 01:18:24,000 --> 01:18:29,120 Speaker 1: them removed. Um, I did not know that I had 1396 01:18:29,280 --> 01:18:34,759 Speaker 1: scar tissue from the fibroids and that they were causing 1397 01:18:34,840 --> 01:18:38,400 Speaker 1: me to not get pregnant because I wasn't trying to 1398 01:18:38,439 --> 01:18:45,080 Speaker 1: get pregnant right until later? Right, So okay, So after 1399 01:18:45,680 --> 01:18:48,840 Speaker 1: Tid and I, you know, it was together and you know, 1400 01:18:48,960 --> 01:18:52,439 Speaker 1: we were got we had got married, and nothing had happened. 1401 01:18:52,439 --> 01:18:55,280 Speaker 1: And I noticed, I'm like, okay, we never had no mistakes, 1402 01:18:55,360 --> 01:19:01,000 Speaker 1: no slip ups, no nothing. Okay, And we went and 1403 01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:03,880 Speaker 1: you know when they do that little test or whatever, 1404 01:19:04,439 --> 01:19:06,960 Speaker 1: and that's when I realized that I was the reason 1405 01:19:07,040 --> 01:19:13,720 Speaker 1: why we weren't getting pregnant, and so um, that's when 1406 01:19:13,800 --> 01:19:18,559 Speaker 1: we went and we decided to go to the IVF 1407 01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:22,240 Speaker 1: clinic and we went ahead. And so the so, the 1408 01:19:22,320 --> 01:19:24,719 Speaker 1: IVF ship is a procedure that you can get done 1409 01:19:25,320 --> 01:19:31,519 Speaker 1: to basically your infertility. Yeah, basically they went in there, 1410 01:19:32,320 --> 01:19:36,559 Speaker 1: they basically give you medicine to make you produce more eggs, 1411 01:19:37,120 --> 01:19:40,640 Speaker 1: and then they go retrieve the eggs out, put your 1412 01:19:40,680 --> 01:19:44,120 Speaker 1: eggs in the dish, take his sperm and put the 1413 01:19:44,200 --> 01:19:47,360 Speaker 1: eggs with the sperm and the fertilized and then put 1414 01:19:47,800 --> 01:19:52,200 Speaker 1: the fertilized egg back in you. So, but but when 1415 01:19:52,280 --> 01:19:57,960 Speaker 1: you did your um IVF procedure or whatever, didn't you 1416 01:19:58,040 --> 01:20:01,080 Speaker 1: have like some leftover eggs? Yes? I did, and like 1417 01:20:01,200 --> 01:20:03,720 Speaker 1: then you save them, so like you have like some 1418 01:20:03,880 --> 01:20:05,800 Speaker 1: little babies in a thing that you can make like 1419 01:20:05,880 --> 01:20:11,320 Speaker 1: whenever you want them. Whoa, that's what became a Blaze's 1420 01:20:11,720 --> 01:20:17,679 Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, okay, that's how she got here. Okay, cool, cool, cool, cool, 1421 01:20:18,880 --> 01:20:22,599 Speaker 1: that's so interesting to me. Well, everybody don't have extra eggs. Sometimes, 1422 01:20:22,800 --> 01:20:24,760 Speaker 1: um it doesn't work out the same for everybody. So 1423 01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:29,400 Speaker 1: some people may get one egg when they try. Some 1424 01:20:29,600 --> 01:20:32,400 Speaker 1: people get multiple eggs. So I ended up with four 1425 01:20:32,680 --> 01:20:36,479 Speaker 1: good eggs. I put two in. I only got one 1426 01:20:36,720 --> 01:20:41,320 Speaker 1: with ace um and then I had too left. And 1427 01:20:41,640 --> 01:20:44,880 Speaker 1: so you have Blaze and so yeah, we did so 1428 01:20:45,000 --> 01:20:46,479 Speaker 1: what you did with the other one, you scrambled it. 1429 01:20:48,760 --> 01:20:53,000 Speaker 1: We put wet, we put the we put the two in, 1430 01:20:53,200 --> 01:20:57,600 Speaker 1: and only um one development we got blazes. Okay, cool cool. 1431 01:20:58,960 --> 01:21:02,920 Speaker 1: And when only one made it, did they give you 1432 01:21:03,040 --> 01:21:04,960 Speaker 1: some say song on whether or not it's a boiled 1433 01:21:05,000 --> 01:21:07,080 Speaker 1: girl of twins and stuff like that, when you can 1434 01:21:07,120 --> 01:21:10,879 Speaker 1: you pick the gender or no? Well no, well basically 1435 01:21:11,400 --> 01:21:14,759 Speaker 1: what happens is no, you don't pick the gender. Whatever 1436 01:21:15,680 --> 01:21:20,200 Speaker 1: you get. So we ended up out of the ones 1437 01:21:20,240 --> 01:21:23,519 Speaker 1: that fertilized, we ended up having two boys and two 1438 01:21:23,600 --> 01:21:27,720 Speaker 1: girls that ended up fertilizing. So the first time they 1439 01:21:27,840 --> 01:21:31,960 Speaker 1: put two ben it was two boys. The two boys, 1440 01:21:32,040 --> 01:21:35,200 Speaker 1: the two boy eggs they put in, and then they 1441 01:21:35,320 --> 01:21:38,639 Speaker 1: put the two girl eggs in, but each time only 1442 01:21:38,720 --> 01:21:41,479 Speaker 1: one made it. So just because they put them in 1443 01:21:41,640 --> 01:21:44,320 Speaker 1: don't mean that they're gonna actually make it. So so 1444 01:21:44,439 --> 01:21:47,000 Speaker 1: that's why you hear people trying and it doesn't work 1445 01:21:47,040 --> 01:21:49,400 Speaker 1: out for them, and people be really devastated because they 1446 01:21:49,479 --> 01:21:51,880 Speaker 1: go through this process and they don't always work. So 1447 01:21:52,040 --> 01:21:53,680 Speaker 1: let me ask you this, like one last question, and 1448 01:21:54,080 --> 01:21:58,000 Speaker 1: I'm just curious, like, so what would happen, like if 1449 01:21:58,040 --> 01:21:59,880 Speaker 1: they put a boy egg and a girl egg in 1450 01:22:00,000 --> 01:22:03,920 Speaker 1: and you can put them both in and they can 1451 01:22:03,960 --> 01:22:08,280 Speaker 1: both work. But like no, but I mean, like what 1452 01:22:08,439 --> 01:22:11,120 Speaker 1: if like like it was a situation where like she 1453 01:22:11,280 --> 01:22:14,120 Speaker 1: had two boy eggs and only one of them came about? 1454 01:22:14,200 --> 01:22:16,679 Speaker 1: Like could it be some weird like cross breed ship, 1455 01:22:17,080 --> 01:22:21,719 Speaker 1: Like okay, they just look come, they'll just be twins 1456 01:22:21,960 --> 01:22:26,680 Speaker 1: that come. They don't cross breed, they just you know, 1457 01:22:26,880 --> 01:22:30,439 Speaker 1: it's like you hope that they you know, find a 1458 01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:33,240 Speaker 1: space in the uterus that they attached and they grow, 1459 01:22:33,840 --> 01:22:37,600 Speaker 1: you know, But okay, you know, either they attached and 1460 01:22:37,720 --> 01:22:43,040 Speaker 1: they grow or they don't. But it's not no in between. 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