WEBVTT - Ep 52 Clip* " Scamming Etiquette feat. Daylor

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<v Speaker 1>Talk talk. We're just too unapologetically black women with an

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<v Speaker 1>opinion to talk back. So look, y'all, I know a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of y'all utilities niggas out here, and black women

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<v Speaker 1>always be like, you know what, I'm gonna get me

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<v Speaker 1>a African? W do do African men even want y'all? Last? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, they do? And they do. So we

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<v Speaker 1>got what our friends on We got Dailor on the

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<v Speaker 1>on the show this week. He is an African American

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<v Speaker 1>like a real one. If you make your house comfortable,

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<v Speaker 1>right then that's all you gotta do. Like, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to spend no guys them money the club team,

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<v Speaker 1>but who are you trying to impress him? Club? Make

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<v Speaker 1>sure your house look have a nice couch, like scenes,

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<v Speaker 1>nice lights. Just make your house, make it look nice,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're gonna get free pussy. Damn, I'll be having problem.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be having um get to get us at my house.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, people come around. You'll bring your own drinks

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<v Speaker 1>and make sure they don't take you back because I remember,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't bought liquor since since June. Oh my goodness,

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<v Speaker 1>when I need to look up, like hey, guys, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>come to my house, kick back, bring a bottle. When

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<v Speaker 1>you bring the bottle, I hide like two. Some people

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<v Speaker 1>be confused. You see scamel mamma, hold on, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on. You know what's the word. No, it's not maga.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember I sent you that fucking scaming. I was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to scam you on Instagram. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I like you. When you send me that, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to die laugh And I'm like, the hell code?

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<v Speaker 1>How did she know about? I was so confused. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you do? I like? It means yes. So

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<v Speaker 1>the person kept text me about like stock ship, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know they look at my profile and see I

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<v Speaker 1>post a couple of things about stocks, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>messaging me and I was like, man, where are you at?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you trying to scare me? And he just said

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<v Speaker 1>that how do you prodounce it? And I googled it.

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<v Speaker 1>I said you in Africa and it was like no,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was like the profile as a white man.

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<v Speaker 1>So I said it today, Lord, like, look at this ship.

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<v Speaker 1>You're trying to scare me on Instagram. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>happened though, So this is what happens because that happens

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<v Speaker 1>to me. So they try to. They try to scam

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<v Speaker 1>me sometimes and I would reply to them like, hey, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>you know I used to use the court find somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else or if if the if their method is real bad,

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<v Speaker 1>I would be like, bro, that do it this way,

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<v Speaker 1>like I will coach them, like you know so, but

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<v Speaker 1>I just tell him like yo, that stuff is not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna work, like you gotta do better. But anyways, he

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<v Speaker 1>called you, I like because he probably they thought that

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<v Speaker 1>you were African because you caught trying to scam you.

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<v Speaker 1>So that because I kept accident semi five thousand, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, SENTI five thousand dollars. I kept asking him

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<v Speaker 1>for five, like over a few days. I was like

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<v Speaker 1>semi five thousand. So that's when he responded with that,

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<v Speaker 1>like calling me a scammer. All while you've been trying

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<v Speaker 1>to scam me for like a month, you kept messaging

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<v Speaker 1>me time, but might you have a date an African scammer?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I think that guy um that I liked

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<v Speaker 1>was a scammera because he used to be doing some

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<v Speaker 1>weird ship like he's like, oh, I ship cars, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's what most people do. That's that's a that's a

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<v Speaker 1>very legit business. You can ship Like I know someone

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<v Speaker 1>that ships like over a hundred cars and for each

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<v Speaker 1>of those cards, he might make like three or four

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars profits. So yeah, that's alleged business. So then

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<v Speaker 1>people and people that ship cards they have they usually

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<v Speaker 1>have bulk money so you can ease the scamp not scampus,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can get some money from them. So card

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<v Speaker 1>dealers are good people to date if you want money. Yeah, money,

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<v Speaker 1>we should date the other Africans. Avoid Africans bank me

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, because he ain't get I mean you

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<v Speaker 1>have you have a good time though, but I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>giving you no money, like I'm not like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't you know. Yeah, but you should date um

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<v Speaker 1>African nurses men that are nurses. Yeah, because they've worked

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<v Speaker 1>too hard. So when they want to spend time, they

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<v Speaker 1>spend all their money because they're working twelve hours twelve hours,

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<v Speaker 1>so when they want to have a good time, they're

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<v Speaker 1>spending all their money. Um, date car dealers, correction officers, No,

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<v Speaker 1>think think bigger. Well, what we're holding, got about how

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<v Speaker 1>much money? And they got it? How much they're gonna spend?

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<v Speaker 1>How money canna spend? Yeah, because people might make a

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<v Speaker 1>hundred and fifty thousand and spend twenty tho you. You You

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<v Speaker 1>can date someone that makes a million and spend four

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<v Speaker 1>fifty on you. So yeah, it all depends on that's

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<v Speaker 1>wh Taylor. Do you have a SIMP series? I know

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<v Speaker 1>you know about sim series? Do you have one to

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<v Speaker 1>share with us? I of me being a same? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Someone I know? I do? I do? Actually, well, you

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<v Speaker 1>get us both. Actually you know a girl one is

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<v Speaker 1>one of your friends that got played. Do both? I'll

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<v Speaker 1>give you. Let me see. I got to think about

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<v Speaker 1>me being the same, because you know, I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>say I was the same, but I was thinking this

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<v Speaker 1>girl right, and she, well, we're together. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>was my last girlfriend. I think it was seven years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>years ago, and we're together. But she was cheating on

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<v Speaker 1>me with an ex boyfriend, and that her ex boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>she saved. She she saved his name as her little cards, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and also her ex boyfriend. She was someone I knew,

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<v Speaker 1>but she didn't tell me that was an expert friend.

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<v Speaker 1>She kind of made up three people. That was one

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<v Speaker 1>person so hot to in, right, so let me get there, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So she saved his name on her phone as a

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<v Speaker 1>little Carse. So she told me, oh, she's going to

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<v Speaker 1>see a little cause and he's having a problem with

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<v Speaker 1>her grandmother. Right, that was her ex pirfriend. Then she

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<v Speaker 1>would say, oh, I'm going to see James, right, James

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<v Speaker 1>is the homeboy that I know James, but that was

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<v Speaker 1>her ex pirfriend. And she would tell me, Hey, my

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<v Speaker 1>ex birfriend asked me to do something for him, and

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<v Speaker 1>that was an ex pirfriend. So three people in one

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<v Speaker 1>and it took me so long to figure that out,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was dumb me, But that was the reason

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<v Speaker 1>why it lasted that long was because she had money.

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<v Speaker 1>I was broken. She had a nice house and I

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed going to a house and staying and my mom,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was a bomb and a sink at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time. So you know, let me blow your Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been there because he had money. So I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she she had a nice house. I just love going

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<v Speaker 1>to her house and it was comfortable. I found out,

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<v Speaker 1>but I stayed like six months later, and she woke

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<v Speaker 1>up one time at two am and said, hey, you

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<v Speaker 1>know i've been I'm sorry I've been. I said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've know him for six months. Then she's called me

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<v Speaker 1>the back. She told me, and I'm crazy that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>narcissistic for knowing that I'm keeping it to myself and

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<v Speaker 1>she kicked me out? Did you head up it? Wait

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<v Speaker 1>a minute, So she was mad because you knew that

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<v Speaker 1>she was cheating for six months but didn't say ship.

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<v Speaker 1>So she flipped it on your ass and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>really give a funk about me. She knew she a

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<v Speaker 1>grown ass man. Okay, that's that's a double simp story.

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<v Speaker 1>You got cheated on. I ain't kicked the funk out,

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<v Speaker 1>And she's actually the narcissist, Like could you imagine flipping

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<v Speaker 1>on somebody like that? Damn, that's fucked up. Yeah, that's before. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but well my home someone I know he bought a

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<v Speaker 1>car for this girl, right, and this girl was using

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<v Speaker 1>the car to take her export from a baby baby

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<v Speaker 1>father to work African. That's one of the reasons why

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the way I am because I've seen things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So she was literally live the guy's house at night,

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<v Speaker 1>drive to a baby father, take him to walk in

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<v Speaker 1>the car that he bought her, right, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>too messive with each other. That's like, uh, non, you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta be careful. I wouldn't that's why I'm not buying

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<v Speaker 1>nobody car. Let's be living in the same house. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not buying your car. You're not buying your car. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not paying for school, you're not working on a weekend

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<v Speaker 1>or at night during the weeks. Got American America eats

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<v Speaker 1>his babies. America changes you. You You gotta learn American eats

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<v Speaker 1>his babies. That's what TUPACS said. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>he said, but what it means that no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the way I meant. No, no, that's what Tupacs said.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to break across song twopac backs America used

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<v Speaker 1>his babies. But what it means is when you come here,

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<v Speaker 1>you yeah, you got to change. They're gonna play you