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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 1: I'm Mila.

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Speaker 2: Happy hump Day, Happy hump day people.

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Speaker 1: What's everyone doing? How's everyone feeling? My back fucking hurts

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Speaker 1: because I'm an old bitch. That's my song. Oh dautiful, Wow, bravo.

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Speaker 1: I went to yoga class today for the first time

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Speaker 1: in like a very long time, and I was trying

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Speaker 1: to do way too much. I was really really pushing

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Speaker 1: it with these white people. They were doing a lot

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Speaker 1: of crazy shit and I was like, oh, I could

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Speaker 2: It was like a level seven class.

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Speaker 1: Like it's like intermediate and it's heated, so they get

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Speaker 1: you all warmed up and shit, and you'd be thinking

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Speaker 1: you can do more than you can really do. That's me.

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Speaker 1: So I was been at work all day. I was like, fuck, Like,

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Speaker 1: what the fuck?

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Speaker 3: Man?

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Speaker 1: This is what thirty two feels like today.

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Speaker 2: Erica asked me how old she was because she forgot

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Speaker 2: for a moment I did.

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Speaker 1: I literally genuinely forgot. I was hold at I was like,

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Speaker 1: am I thirty one?

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Speaker 2: I know, like thirty one, thirty one, thirty two, thirty

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Speaker 2: it just all seems the same.

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Speaker 1: I was at work and like one of the girls

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Speaker 1: is like she just had her twenty sixth birthday, one

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Speaker 1: of the girls that works for the brand, and she

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Speaker 1: was like, oh, I feel like I'm on the other

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Speaker 1: side of like the prime of my life. And I

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Speaker 1: was like, bitcha, you don't shut the fuck up. I

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Speaker 1: shut up. And I was like, actually, I feel better

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Speaker 1: that than then. Like there was this other guy who

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Speaker 1: if I can go back to any age, it would

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Speaker 1: be twenty eight, twenty nine, And I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: twenty eight. Wasn't that actually start to realize? I did,

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Speaker 1: But like, honestly, thirties, I'm really enjoying my thirties. Like

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Speaker 1: I'm no, there's obviously I'm struggling all the time, but

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Speaker 1: I don't. It's a different type of struggle. It's like

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Speaker 1: this like extreme desire to just be to grow and

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Speaker 1: be better, Whereas before I was just like what am

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Speaker 3: What am I doing?

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Speaker 1: What's having?

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Speaker 3: What am I doing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like you know, I am drowning.

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Speaker 1: And I and I am still drowning. But I just

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Speaker 1: know where I'm going, where you're headed. Yeah, Whereas in

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Speaker 1: my twenties, I did not have that fucking clue.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it was just like hoping for something

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Speaker 1: And I was in a relationship most of my twenties.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what. In my twenties, I felt like

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Speaker 2: sledting out so hard that I thought like, Okay, I

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Speaker 2: need to be in a relationship to contain myself. That

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Speaker 1: But it's good to be in a place for I

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Speaker 2: Life on both ends to be a controlled slut but

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Speaker 2: also I feel like I know, like I'm more sure

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Speaker 2: apologizing for things I said to us and we're like,

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Speaker 2: I don't fucking think about that shit. And literally my

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Speaker 2: want a business partner, and a partner like if we're

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Speaker 2: I don't really see it working. And she was like

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Speaker 1: Know what I want, I know who I am.

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Speaker 2: You can't offend me. That doesn't offend me. Like I

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Speaker 2: just I think that's a part of the thirties, just

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Speaker 2: knowing even in this space, what we're doing, Like I

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Speaker 2: think I mean a lot of you know, I've always

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Speaker 2: I'm always asked like, well, how do you make money

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Speaker 2: doing that or what do you know? Like so it's

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Speaker 2: about sweet smoking moms, like there's all. People may not

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Speaker 2: this space in thirty one, that doesn't matter if you

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Speaker 1: Like I don't. I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't need I feel like I need people's reassurance less. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: for sure, when I feel sexier, I feel like more

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Speaker 2: and he has like a stocking fetish, and back then

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Speaker 2: it just honestly being judgmental even though I participated or whatever.

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Speaker 1: But I of course you did.

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Speaker 2: Of course I did. Even then I was, you know.

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Speaker 2: But reconnecting with him now as like thirty one versus

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Speaker 2: can better appreciate, I can better appreciate the kinks that

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Speaker 1: I went through an actual like I really could have been.

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Speaker 1: You know, I was in a long term relationship, but

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Speaker 1: I just I wasn't. I feel more sexual now than

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Speaker 1: we're not doing it again. Yeah, sex for me has shifted.

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Speaker 2: I'm doing it less to get like to prove myself

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Speaker 1: I think there's still some of that.

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Speaker 2: There is definitely some of that, and also like way

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Speaker 2: to you see these moves, you're gonna love me. It's

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Speaker 2: more that like, oh you'll think you like me.

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Speaker 1: Now how about now, Oh right.

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Speaker 2: You didn't know I could get better? There's that?

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Speaker 1: Not about that sound yeah? No, I agree, that's so funny. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I really I definitely had so much sex for the

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Speaker 2: I had great sex in my in my with my

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Speaker 4: Probably the reason you probably overstayed, oh for for sure.

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Speaker 4: But other than that, like I had some good sex. No,

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Speaker 1: I always felt like I had something to prove, like sexually,

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Speaker 1: he was sure, I'm sure focused on pleasing me too.

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Speaker 1: But like for me, it was like, no, look what

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Speaker 2: Do right right? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Whereas now it's it's changed and I don't know it's

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Speaker 1: I it's gonna be. It's interesting to think about, like

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Speaker 1: don't look at it the same way all the time anymore,

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Speaker 1: will I only be with Yeah, obviously I need to

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Speaker 1: be with a man that is a pleaser. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: it's a give and take.

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Speaker 2: Well do you feel like, now as you've had more

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Speaker 2: sex and you're in a different place, do you feel

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Speaker 2: all the other qualities and maybe sexes are right because

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Speaker 2: you know how important those other qualities are.

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Speaker 1: Or do you feel like.

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Speaker 2: When you do the relationship, you know how important the

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Speaker 2: sex is gonna like it's it's still cause I think

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Speaker 2: I struggle. I'm struggling between the two, Like, cause I

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Speaker 2: really I do need a sexual a super sexual attraction,

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Speaker 2: to like be spontaneous. Like these are all really important.

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Speaker 2: Like it's that it's large or do you think like

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Speaker 2: as you get older those things become less important.

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Speaker 1: I think as we get older, we're told those things

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Speaker 1: are supposed to get less important. And that's the problem, Okay,

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Speaker 1: Like I think because if you haven't found your partner yet,

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Speaker 1: Anyway, so you guys were having a meetup in New York,

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Speaker 1: Thursday night Supper NYC. Make sure you go check out

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Speaker 2: You just made that up? Can you not?

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Speaker 1: Can you find the restaurant? Fucking try information?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is the worst. One fifty six East Second

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Speaker 2: And I don't see a website, but their profile is

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Speaker 1: They have bomb pasta. It's really good. Ooh, this looks

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Speaker 2: Out Thursday eight pm, Thursday eight pm, Supper, New York,

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Speaker 2: Supper NYC at one fifty sixty second set.

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Speaker 1: Wait, is this not gonna run? We're at work, people

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Speaker 1: There's gonna be limited reservations. So if you want to go,

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Speaker 2: No, we have ever made a reservation.

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Speaker 1: We've already told everyone where it is. You can't come.

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Speaker 2: You're not invited. No, honestly, Yeah, even if it's twelve

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Speaker 2: more people come, we could. Oh my god, what if

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Speaker 2: it take over the restaurant would be great, a good

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Speaker 2: Mom's Supper NYC. Takeover as many people as you want

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Speaker 2: to come. Fucking meet us up there, whether you can

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Speaker 2: sure we'll figure it out. I'll just let us know

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Speaker 1: I love our crew.

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Speaker 2: I just want to say this. I don't know if

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Speaker 2: the podcast, like in LA in New York. It's so bomb,

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Speaker 2: such a cancer I am, like, Gods is so exciting.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited too.

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Speaker 2: I love I love it, and I'm excited they're doing

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Speaker 1: Live show?

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Speaker 2: We have a live show scheduled for March twentieth. We

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Speaker 2: have a venue that's gonna be for twenty friendly and bomb.

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Speaker 1: It's amazing. It's it's a house of bad Choices. House.

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Speaker 1: I feel like Lady Goda like house, House you know,

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Speaker 1: it's like German house.

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Speaker 2: It's Germany.

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Speaker 1: No, but you know like House of Gada.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh oh, because it's so mad at me.

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Speaker 2: But what because it's house of bad Choices? Like we

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Speaker 2: should all dress like a little sluttie like a costume

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Speaker 2: party because like why not? You know, it's called like

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Speaker 2: house of bad Choices where your bad choices outsits.

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Speaker 1: Oh you like that you can wear catsuit? Maybe? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Our live show is now a costume party. Bitches, Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, who do I think I am? I mean

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Speaker 1: I wearing a wig so right now? And you said,

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Speaker 1: who do you think I really look like Cardi B?

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Speaker 3: Right now?

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Speaker 2: Cardi B's makeup artist did her makeup like? She looks

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Speaker 2: like Cardi? She has those poudy cardis and lips again Salon, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: oh my god. So did you take notes this time?

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Speaker 1: How I was like getting filmed? I did. I was listening.

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Speaker 1: I kept asking a lot of questions.

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Speaker 2: Because I feel like when you did it, I asked

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Speaker 2: her about the lips, when you did what the Ki

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Speaker 2: Kim lips? For a minute, I was like really focusing

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Speaker 2: on it because they were so bombed, and then I

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Speaker 2: just let it go.

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Speaker 1: I've tried to do it. I try to do like

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Speaker 1: that sometimes with like in my own like subtle way, right.

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Speaker 1: But I asked, I said, is there a technique that

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Speaker 1: you use to like make like the blow up doll lips?

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Speaker 1: And she was like no, I just like I just

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Speaker 1: overdraw your lip. Basically, I just go over Yeah. So

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Speaker 1: I got my makeup and I got my makeup done

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Speaker 1: to look like as a Cardi B tutorial her at

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Speaker 1: the Grammys this year. Oh yeah, okay, the purple eye.

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Speaker 1: I wish I could do this, I would you. I

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Speaker 1: mean for certain things what, But.

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Speaker 2: I know I have a very basic makeup routine.

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Speaker 1: I told her too. I was like, I'm basic as

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Speaker 1: fuck compared to this ship right here, it was it's

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Speaker 1: pretty intense. I really want to take this wig off though.

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Speaker 1: It's like take it off. It's just like people should

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Speaker 1: I take it off?

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Speaker 2: They know you're runing wig.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is so ghetto.

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Speaker 2: It's not ghetto.

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Speaker 1: Oh do you feel better? Oh it feels so good.

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Speaker 2: I put it out.

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Speaker 1: If I have these nots, this wig is bomb.

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Speaker 2: Though.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let me see I want one. I can't. I

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Speaker 1: would look crazy.

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Speaker 2: But tomorrow I just my six No I was talking

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Speaker 2: about where you are. I'm gonna buy it, but maybe Shit,

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Speaker 2: I hate doing my hair, but then the wigs are

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Speaker 2: not really I should just get clippings or something. Okay,

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Speaker 2: a live show, wear a costume, meet up, and.

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Speaker 1: Don't wear a costume. Please, don't wear a off just

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Speaker 1: look sexy. Don't listen to Jamie. You don't have to

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Speaker 1: wear a fucking costume. You start alienating people. You start

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Speaker 1: saying costume, bitch. Not everybody wants to wear a goddamn costroom. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I mean I do, but you know, so.

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Speaker 2: This is it's a redressing slutty I mean, okay, well,

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Speaker 2: speaking of slutty. The worst part is every time I

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Speaker 2: tell horrific a bad choice story. For a week, I'm

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Speaker 2: stressing air crow like I'm having anxiety about that thing

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Speaker 2: I said, and then the next week you share it.

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Speaker 2: I say, something to do.

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Speaker 1: Is this a horror story? Yeah, this is a horror story?

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Speaker 1: Who stories?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yes, I can't wait for a Jamila horr story. I

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Speaker 1: feel like it's been a little while.

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Speaker 2: No, I feel like it was like last week.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna light up for that, Okay, light it up.

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Speaker 2: So my horror story is that well, I have to

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Speaker 2: what is kind of funny and one is just horri Okay, wow,

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Speaker 2: I've had quite a week.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: So I I told my girlfriend. She she has traffic

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Speaker 2: going back downtown from the valley. Coming through the valley.

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Speaker 2: I was like, you know, let's go have a drink,

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Speaker 2: let's go have dinner, so deep deep in the valley,

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Speaker 2: I was I took way too long. She was trying

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Speaker 2: to leave me, and I was like, wait, no, like,

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Speaker 2: I'm almost finishing my client. Oh cause I did.

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Speaker 3: I didn't.

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Speaker 2: Me and my friend swap lashes, but she had her

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Speaker 2: granddaughter there and her granddaughter was like running all over.

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Speaker 1: It was like it was kind of difficult to do.

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Speaker 2: And then I decided to babysit the granddaughter the next

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Speaker 2: day for a whole day. And then I realized, whoa,

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Speaker 2: I don't think I wantny more kids. But that's beside

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Speaker 2: the point. Anyway, I go to this restaurant in the

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Speaker 2: valley with my girlfriend and we're talking and my girlfriend

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Speaker 2: is like a cancer Leo. And if you're a cancer leo,

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Speaker 2: cust I hope someone's listening and or you know, one

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Speaker 2: those bitches are crazy, that cancer Leo cust with your

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Speaker 2: birthday's like July twenty second, July twenty third, July twenty first,

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Speaker 2: I know you're crazy.

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Speaker 1: Anyway.

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Speaker 2: It's this group of like they look like maybe like

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Speaker 2: some kind of Middle Eastern older man, but they're all

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Speaker 2: pretty attractive, and I do. I keep looking at my

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Speaker 2: shoulder and like, god, this one in this turtleneck is

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Speaker 2: kind of sexy. Like, you know, I love an old man,

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Speaker 2: I really do. I don't know if I've said that before,

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Speaker 2: but I do. Like it's like a distinguished older man

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Speaker 2: who can dress swab and nice swave. Is like, you're older,

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Speaker 2: but you still like look sexy.

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Speaker 1: You have style.

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Speaker 2: He has style.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was like yeah, salt and pepper.

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Speaker 2: And I just like, like, you know, it's just a

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Speaker 2: big group of guys and look like they're talking about business.

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Speaker 2: You know, okay whatever, we continue to talk anyway, Literally

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Speaker 2: my friends.

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Speaker 1: Were talking about it looked like it was important business

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Speaker 1: being discuss.

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Speaker 2: So.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 2: Also, I saw Trey songs come in the building.

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Speaker 1: Where were you in?

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Speaker 2: Deep that Joey's and Woodlands.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's not that deep, it is, No, it's trendy.

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Speaker 1: Everyone lives over there now it's like fucking calabasas, bitch

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Speaker 1: you have basically, I mean I thought you were gonna

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Speaker 1: make her in Chatsworth of no bitch, I mean not

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Speaker 1: hill No, honestly, I mean there was really nobody here

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Speaker 1: except like it just happened to be fucking t songs,

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Speaker 1: and it happened.

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Speaker 2: These guys and that other guy who's my as drinks

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Speaker 2: from the bar. Anyway, so my friend is looking really

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Speaker 2: hard and she's like giving me the fuck me eye,

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Speaker 2: and she's really good at that, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: calm down with the fucking me. I've already been staring,

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Speaker 2: you know, relax. I got this under control. Anyway, halfway

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Speaker 2: through the dinner, I see them like destructor disperse because

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Speaker 2: they're like in a booth, and I see the guy

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Speaker 2: coming over. I'm like, oh my god, girl, he's walking over.

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Speaker 2: He's fuck's walking home. So he's walking over to us,

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Speaker 2: and like I'm like greeting and trying not to look guilty,

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Speaker 2: even though I've been steering for like twenty five minutes.

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Speaker 2: And my friend just swoops right in and says, hey.

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Speaker 1: How are you dying, toad? I want to fuck you?

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Speaker 1: She said that. Strap I was like whoa. She was

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Speaker 1: making sure you had no chance zero.

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Speaker 2: I was like, nope, sorry, okay, can't take that bitch anywhere.

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Speaker 1: Wow, wow, you might have to rethink that friendship. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: change your friend plot twist. There's a plot twist. So

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Speaker 1: at first I was like, wow, what a bitch.

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Speaker 2: But that didn't really care because I was like, that

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Speaker 2: was pretty aggressive. Maybe I still have a chance, you know.

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Speaker 2: But then I realized there was one guy whose back

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Speaker 2: was fit not facing me. I couldn't see him. I

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Speaker 2: saw his back of the end, but whatever, I can

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Speaker 2: se him. So he starts walking up or this one

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Speaker 2: is you cheaful? I'm a little bit younger too.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, he's fine as fuck. So I don't

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Speaker 1: even know.

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Speaker 2: I mean again, tequila, and even I didn't have that

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Speaker 2: many drinks I had.

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Speaker 1: Maybe like is that tequila? It's just he wanted to

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Speaker 1: do it. Yeah, there's that.

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Speaker 2: So he's like talking to me. Literally the conversation I

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Speaker 2: don't know was like, Hey, what's your name? We start

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Speaker 2: talking for two minutes, he starts making out with me

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Speaker 2: two minutes.

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Speaker 1: How did it get to that?

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Speaker 2: I mean maybe maybe it was three. It was like

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Speaker 2: a very small conversation and then I don't even know,

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Speaker 2: but I liked it anyway. I was like, oh, well bye,

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Speaker 2: and then the older guy like gave us some money

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Speaker 2: to put towards the bill. I was like, wow, that

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Speaker 2: was nice. Didn't even meat with us. And the guy

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Speaker 2: was like, where do you live? And I told him

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Speaker 2: and he's like, I live over there, is like take

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Speaker 2: my number. Then this other guy's like, you know how

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Speaker 2: many women waiting for him?

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Speaker 1: He's choosing you Shut the fuck up. No one needs

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Speaker 1: he doesn't need your help. I was like what He's like, no, no, no, yeah.

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Speaker 2: He was like no he was so anyway, he left

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Speaker 2: and I went to the house and then I said,

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Speaker 2: what's your address?

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Speaker 1: Okay? And I went over there. I was living in

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Speaker 1: situations like is he okay?

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Speaker 2: He's okay clean, he's clean, he's actually immaculate Fisco repeating now,

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Speaker 2: no okay. It was almost like a like a look

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Speaker 2: like a model the model apartment, like does he actually

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Speaker 2: live there?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: He does actually live there? I'm pretty sure yeah. There was.

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Speaker 2: There was pictures, I think, and I was like and

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Speaker 2: then I started overthinking it before I went like, I

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Speaker 2: don't know, he's gonna like I don't just fuck. Sometimes

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Speaker 2: those Middle Eastern guys can be super strovenistic and just.

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Speaker 1: Be like fuck fuck fuck, what do you mean.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you just like like they.

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Speaker 1: Just want to for their own self pleasure.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just like I don't like it, probably won't

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Speaker 2: go further anyway. You started really play is Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know, it's really manner. He's there inter being Israeli.

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Speaker 2: It's very play a play and very like women because

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Speaker 2: they fine, Yeah, because they're fine, and a lot of

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Speaker 2: times they have nice sticks. Anyway, so we got it.

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Speaker 2: I went in there, started making out. We had sex

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Speaker 2: because I have no self control and I was already there.

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Speaker 2: It was literally like three minutes from where I was,

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Speaker 2: and it was good. Then he disclosed to me that

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Speaker 2: he lasers entire body. He was completely hairless, completely hairless.

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Speaker 2: And also then he gets the book. I told him

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Speaker 2: what I do that I have a mobile spa. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: you have a mobile spa. Meals mobile spa.

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Speaker 1: Go check it out.

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Speaker 2: Follow Meal's Mumblespa, if you need any mobile services in

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Speaker 2: the LA area. Anyway, back to our regular schedule program.

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Speaker 2: He disclosed he also had some botox.

655
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 1: Oh done? Why why was he telling you this and

656
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: like to get old. Wait, why the fuck how did

657
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 1: you get to botox?

658
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 2: I said, I have a mobile spots, I do faces.

659
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 2: What do you do wax to do facials? I'm like,

660
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 2: but you seem pretty fucking hairless. He's like, oh, I

661
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 2: leave it, my old buddy. Anyway, although I was nervous

662
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 2: he wasn't gonna call me, he's definitely been.

663
00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 1: Calling me and trying to hang out. So how do

664
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 1: you feel?

665
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 3: For good?

666
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,200
Speaker 2: I actually want to go back over there and see

667
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 2: how I feel, like just like in a different day,

668
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 2: you know, not like immediately following a bar, makeout to

669
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 2: your house, to your dick goodbye.

670
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 3: Nice.

671
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 2: But other than that was great. He's been calling me

672
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 2: once hanging out this week. I said, of course, we're neighbors,

673
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 2: and he was hot. So even though my friend was

674
00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 2: really aggressive, it worked out in my favor.

675
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 1: Did she go what happened was her storyline? I don't

676
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 1: think anything happened with that.

677
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 3: Damn.

678
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: I'll follow up though, Yeah, I need update.

679
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 2: Okay, and now for my second story.

680
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 1: Horror story, Part two, horse story. You like that improv?

681
00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: You like that live? We sing our own songs, we

682
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 1: write our own hits. You can ask me the one

683
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 1: sure horror story Part two.

684
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 2: So I oh, okay. So I told you guys that

685
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 2: I rekindled with an old friend that I was dating

686
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 2: back in my twenties, my early twenties, like twenty three,

687
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 2: twenty two, maybe early twenty four. I met him in Atlanta.

688
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 2: Was working at a hotel, and again, you know, I

689
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 2: like an older man, and he was. He was ordering

690
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 2: some drinks and I was just like, in my head,

691
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I like him.

692
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 1: So we got to cut small talk.

693
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 2: We exchanged numbers. He's a designer. It's very cool guy Swedish.

694
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 2: We dated like pretty intensely back in the day, but

695
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 2: I was twelve, so I wasn't like really being serious. Anyway,

696
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:08,320
Speaker 2: we hooked back up. We went out one night, you know,

697
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 2: for dinner, came back to town. He lives in San Francisco.

698
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,760
Speaker 2: While I'm telling so many details, I hope he never listens.

699
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 2: He came down because he was work here and I

700
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 2: met her at his hotel. We went to dinner. He

701
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 2: made reservations. I love a guy that makes reservations.

702
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:25,399
Speaker 1: I love That's all it takes.

703
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:30,839
Speaker 2: Remember they just love accommodations. Tell us he made reservations.

704
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 1: No reservations is crucial. It's so basic, it's so basic

705
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: to do it. Letting me get check offs like, yep,

706
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 1: made reservations. I care, but that we're growing somewhere for

707
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 1: if your Jamila, yep owns plants? Yeah, do you own

708
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 1: a plant?

709
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 2: So we went to dinner, and you know, he has

710
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 2: a nice car, he's a really good career, he's established,

711
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 2: and he's basically just got out of relationship four years

712
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 2: and that he's jumping right back into one because we're

713
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 2: gonna be together.

714
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:11,880
Speaker 1: Just kidding not.

715
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 2: I don't even know what I was gonna say about

716
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:18,439
Speaker 2: that girl.

717
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:19,800
Speaker 1: I don't have no clue.

718
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 2: I forget.

719
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:21,240
Speaker 1: I don't have no clue.

720
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 2: I have no clue, don't have I don't have no

721
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:24,839
Speaker 2: clues about to say. I don't know where that was going.

722
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 2: I'm high you guys, Okay, we were going to a

723
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 2: horror story. Oh yeah, okay, okay, I'm wordy like anyway,

724
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 2: So we go over to dinner, have a great dinner.

725
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, I kind of like him. I forgot that

726
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 2: I kind of liked him. And oh, he tells me

727
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:44,800
Speaker 2: he doesn't want he doesn't. Oh this is what I

728
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:46,840
Speaker 2: was saying him, just go for breaking up because basically

729
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 2: she were the same age and she wants to have

730
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 2: kids and be married and he's like, I've been married,

731
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 2: I have a kid. I don't want to do it.

732
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 2: I was like perfect, and anyway, I'm like, I don't

733
00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 2: know whatever. So we go, we have dinner, we head

734
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 2: back to the hotel. We're supposed to go to this

735
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:03,920
Speaker 2: afrobeats party, but we're gonna put our food back in

736
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 2: the room, but instead we start like making out and

737
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 2: I'm giving him head and he says, yeah, something about

738
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 2: sucking his white cock and I was like, oh no,

739
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 2: he didn't.

740
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 1: Yep, he did. And I was like no, I can't

741
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 1: be it. You know.

742
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 2: I'm like continue and he's like, oh yeah, you know,

743
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 2: he's like a little like suck that white cheek. And

744
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, well he did say it. And then

745
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 2: you know, it's so fucked up. I have a podcast

746
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 2: and then I have friends every think everything is funny

747
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,319
Speaker 2: because immediately I'm like, oh my god, I can't watch

748
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 2: all Erica this ship and then I'm like should I stop?

749
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 2: This is all going in my head as I'm like

750
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 2: should I stop? And I'm like, well, I'm like black,

751
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,840
Speaker 2: I say it right, Like, I'm like, only when the

752
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 2: fucking white women, or do they tell you the black

753
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 2: women too? Like I'm like, please, don't say anything about

754
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 2: my black body. Just stop right here, let's just keep

755
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 2: it here. Thankfully, he didn't say anything, and I didn't stop,

756
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:15,959
Speaker 2: and I almost forgot about it till the next morning.

757
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:19,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh no, and then you told me and

758
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 2: I was like, what got so mad? And I'm like,

759
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 2: am I a cello? Like I should have stopped, but

760
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 2: I've actually come to terms with it.

761
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 1: Well, all I said was well, I said, what the fuck?

762
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 3: Yeah I did?

763
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:31,879
Speaker 1: And then I said what the fuck? Yeah?

764
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 2: I was a disgrace.

765
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 1: No, but and then I was like, well, I hope,

766
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 1: I hope you plan on talking to him about that.

767
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going to.

768
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:38,719
Speaker 1: I haven't yet.

769
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 2: I feel like you still should. I'm that's gonna happen again.

770
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 2: I'm definitely gonna talk.

771
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:43,399
Speaker 1: That's gonna happen again.

772
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:44,400
Speaker 3: I definitely know.

773
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: That I'm going to talk to tell you do. But

774
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 1: I just he's gotten away. Can you imagine? It was

775
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: his ex girlfriend black? He likes block on, so obviously

776
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 1: he was saying that to her. He felt comfortable.

777
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 2: That's another thing I was thinking. I was like, I

778
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 2: don't remember this type of talk before when we dated,

779
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:01,279
Speaker 2: but I don't remember any blacks. But I mean not

780
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,919
Speaker 2: any blacks, any whites, but also someone I was talking

781
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 2: to a couple people like someone it's just in the

782
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,720
Speaker 2: realms of sex, like it's true, he's white, you're black,

783
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 2: Like yeah, but I don't know.

784
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: I was like, you know, well, you know slavery Swedes

785
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 1: they have a very dark history. What they do is

786
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah.

787
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 2: I thought Swedes love the blacks. No, I know, so

788
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:21,880
Speaker 2: many sweet like I just there's a.

789
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:24,360
Speaker 1: Lot of mixed people in Sweden and there are like

790
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:28,400
Speaker 1: I feel like it is now yeah, more like liberal place.

791
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 1: But don't get a twisted what is their dark history?

792
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 3: Do you know?

793
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 1: I can't remember everything. Jennifer would always tell me Jenny,

794
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 1: because I'm from Sweden, she's white. But I I did that.

795
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 1: I just my mind went to she just says Swedish

796
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 1: people are pretty racist. Yeah, like there's like I remember

797
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:48,240
Speaker 1: that we went to this place and these little chocolate

798
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 1: balls and they're called something in Swedish it's racist. And

799
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:53,399
Speaker 1: she was like, oh yeah, the sweets called these little

800
00:38:53,440 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 1: chocolate balls like nigger balls. Yeah, specifically I remember that story,

801
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 1: and forever I've said the Swedish are racist. I mean,

802
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 1: but so you don't go to Sweden with him? No, No,

803
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 1: you should go to Sweden. Sweeden's beautiful and there are

804
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:13,879
Speaker 1: a lot of amazing cool people that are like general,

805
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 1: I know, I just.

806
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:17,000
Speaker 2: Know a lot of like Swedish, like Swedish artists that

807
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:18,840
Speaker 2: are like obviously like like, I don't want to.

808
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't want to say all Swedish people are racist. Okay,

809
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:22,240
Speaker 1: let's rewind.

810
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 2: Now, let's be clear.

811
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 1: European people are racist historically speaking. That is a fact.

812
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:31,359
Speaker 2: When you travel as a black person, the first thing

813
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 2: you ask is how is their temperature with the blacks?

814
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 2: Because it's fucked up everywhere. That's the reality of it.

815
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 2: We're not saying all Swedes obviously racist, I'm obviously sucking

816
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 2: a white.

817
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:44,800
Speaker 1: Well, I just feel like, well, clearly he said that

818
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 1: to his ex, who allowed it, and but I just

819
00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 1: feel like he's that's it's fetishizing you. Oh god, please

820
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 1: don't make this a clip. Well, I'm just saying like,

821
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 1: and he might not even realize it might be just

822
00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 1: a sex thing because We fetishize a lot of things

823
00:39:57,840 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 1: in sex, including race.

824
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 2: So it's is fetish?

825
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:01,840
Speaker 3: Is it fetish?

826
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:05,439
Speaker 2: That's what I'm sorry, so nervous.

827
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 1: Banging the safe He might he might be my man,

828
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 1: And this is what I'm the deal with.

829
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 2: No, I guess is having a fetish actually negative? Someone

830
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 2: said that if you fetishize something, is it negative?

831
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 1: It can be. I think it depends, you know. I

832
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 1: think race is kind of one of those things that

833
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 1: I mean I have obviously, I think when you search poorn,

834
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 1: you have a preference, which I guess I don't know

835
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:31,400
Speaker 1: if that's I don't that's not.

836
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 2: Is whatever's preferences?

837
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, which you know very well might be you know

838
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 1: who cares?

839
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:39,880
Speaker 2: Right?

840
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 1: But I know, but I don't think you should be

841
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 1: saying white cock but I care about that. I think

842
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 1: that's really don't because if you bend with that, what

843
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:49,800
Speaker 1: other ship will you bed with that? Will you'll normalize?

844
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:51,879
Speaker 2: Well, that's that's why I really want to say something.

845
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 2: I just don't wanted to graduate from there, and then

846
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 2: I'll really have to be like, look, well he might well.

847
00:40:56,280 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 1: Also, you need to know he needs to know who

848
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 1: you are. You're not like Timila, like you're black, you're

849
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 1: black as fun, and it's gonna be a time where

850
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:09,280
Speaker 1: like it's gonna pop up again and it's gonna irritate

851
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,319
Speaker 1: you to become an issue. So you need to know now.

852
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 2: But we talk, we talk about race. We like we joke,

853
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 2: you know, like you joke. I mean, like we don't joke,

854
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 2: but like it's not like oh, but it's it's comes up.

855
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 2: And I'm very vulcal. I mean, obviously I can't like

856
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 2: be dating someone and not be vocal about like everything

857
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 2: I said, you know, which is who I am. But yeah, no,

858
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 2: I do want to know, like what is like in

859
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 2: what way is that empowering to you? You know?

860
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 1: Or we're not or unempowering to you? And that's the dynamic.

861
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,800
Speaker 1: That's the which I get that because there's that dynamic

862
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:42,360
Speaker 1: and sex regardless of race too, like the power dynamic,

863
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 1: like you're my bitch and I'm fucking you right right,

864
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:48,840
Speaker 1: But like I don't know for me, that's I don't know,

865
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 1: it is weird. I mean, I mean, yeah, that is.

866
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:54,360
Speaker 1: That is a horror story, ladies and gentlemen. This is

867
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:57,839
Speaker 1: Erica's horror story. I'm so glad I have it. Hasn't

868
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 1: happened to me yet, because I don't know, I might

869
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 1: have punched a nigger in the face or a white

870
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:03,879
Speaker 1: person in the face. I guess I should say.

871
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 6: Oh.

872
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:07,320
Speaker 2: And then we got back in the car. It was

873
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 2: very luxurious, luxurious vehicle.

874
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:11,880
Speaker 1: Don't get blinded about the luxury, you know.

875
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 2: Like luxury and reservation bit like luxury. Honestly, Oh my god,

876
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 2: oh my god. Now that you say that, I'm never

877
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 2: telling you the real thought I had.

878
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god. It just reminded me.

879
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 2: Oh no, oh my god. So I got into first

880
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 2: of all, it's it's just not like a fucking Bentley.

881
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 2: It's the cheat wagon.

882
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 1: That's nice. It's just nice. Anyway. I don't depreciate and

883
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:32,320
Speaker 1: they don't appreciate.

884
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 2: I got in and had like like that nice car smell,

885
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:37,400
Speaker 2: and I was like, you know, what I thought to myself.

886
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 1: Was like, I'm home.

887
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 5: Literally, I was like, this is what I'm not, like,

888
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 5: oh god, like what I've been like, I'm tripping, I've

889
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 5: been in the wrong areas, Like this is my this

890
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:51,880
Speaker 5: is my smell, this.

891
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 1: Is my smell, this is what I Yeah. I was like, oh, yeah,

892
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:56,400
Speaker 1: you do.

893
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 6: I do.

894
00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:00,360
Speaker 2: But the fact that the set put my mind there. Anyway,

895
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 2: we got back in the car back to the hotel.

896
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 2: He was playing some music and I was like, trap music.

897
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 2: I don't know if you called trap music. Whatever's rap music.

898
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 2: And then I really realized, like, this is not like

899
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:14,800
Speaker 2: a Spotify playlist, this is an album.

900
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: And I was like, who is this.

901
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 2: He's like, oh, Roddy Rich. We're listening to the Roddy Rich.

902
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 1: But do you think he was playing that? Because no,

903
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:22,239
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't.

904
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 2: He's like, my son sent it to me.

905
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 1: I like this one.

906
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 2: And then he was like playing the songs that he

907
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 2: life and I was just.

908
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 1: Like, this is great. I love you. Look that out too. Okay, I'm.

909
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 2: I'm easily impressed by resus luxury cars and rap.

910
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:49,760
Speaker 1: White get white man that loves Roddy.

911
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:51,399
Speaker 3: Oh.

912
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 2: I'm embarrassed. I'm embarrassed for the truths that come into

913
00:43:56,280 --> 00:44:00,279
Speaker 2: my mind. But these are the truths. Nevertheless, that how.

914
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 1: Does she get in here? She has been Oh my god,

915
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 1: it's good something. Oh my god.

916
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 2: I hope all my black people were not like you

917
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 2: are a sell out, bitch.

918
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: Well you know, well you know, I don't think you're

919
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 1: a sellout, but I think it's like something a conversation

920
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 1: that needs to be had, and you need to keep

921
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 1: an keep an eye on what's happening. I don't get

922
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:27,640
Speaker 1: blinded by the luxury. I'm not No, it's not no.

923
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:29,399
Speaker 2: No, I do you actually like him?

924
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 1: No, he might be cool.

925
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 2: He sounds cool, but it's that it's cool, he's older.

926
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:33,839
Speaker 1: He's cool.

927
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 6: I just.

928
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: Also, some white people just need to be educated.

929
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,000
Speaker 2: And also I mentioned like being in a place where

930
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:44,799
Speaker 2: I don't like wherever you do, while you're where you're at,

931
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 2: wherever you're doing. Like I'm cool with that, you know,

932
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 2: Like if it's love here in a partnership here, I'm good.

933
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 2: So I'm just putting everything I want out in the

934
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 2: beginning and then like letting it see how that plays out,

935
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 2: because it's the truth. Like I really do like him,

936
00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 2: but he travels all the time. He's like always going places.

937
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:03,359
Speaker 2: He's always traveling, and I don't even like we talk

938
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 2: but not a lot, and I'm cool with that. And

939
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 2: then when I see you, let's.

940
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 1: Just be great, you know what. I even struggling with

941
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:13,800
Speaker 1: this makes me think of this because I feel like,

942
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:20,800
Speaker 1: you know, I've been doing my own oh shit, but

943
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 1: I still feel like I'm ready to be married. I

944
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 1: mean me too, like me too. I still however, but

945
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:31,840
Speaker 1: like I think what I'm having issues with in the

946
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 1: midst of all of what I'm doing, whatever I'm doing,

947
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 1: which isn't a lot whatever, I just, you know, I

948
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 1: feel like having that conversation with someone that you're just

949
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:44,359
Speaker 1: starting to date and telling them that, like because really,

950
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,400
Speaker 1: I really feel like this is what should be happening.

951
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 1: I feel like I've done it. I do it more

952
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:51,359
Speaker 1: with men. I don't give a fuck about that. I'm like, hey,

953
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 1: I'm not really looking for just like a sexual encounter.

954
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 2: Like say this to you, don't go.

955
00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 1: I just feel like I'm ready, Like just I'm not.

956
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:00,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to date just for fun, you know

957
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like if we're not if you're not ready,

958
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 1: or if the vibe isn't right and I'm not telling

959
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:07,759
Speaker 1: you to decide right now, they're just letting you know that.

960
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 1: Like that's the intention that I'm going with when I'm dating.

961
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, you didn't listen to Daphne's I feel

962
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 1: like I'm starting to take Daphne's advice.

963
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 2: Okay, because it's so funny because last week I'm pretty

964
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 2: sure you told me that that you don't really give

965
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 2: a fuck about said to you that he what did

966
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:27,439
Speaker 2: he say? He was like breaking up with you even

967
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 2: they were together, and you're like shocked, Right, I.

968
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 1: Don't want to date him, But you're saying you do

969
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 1: it to guys you don't care about. I don't care

970
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 1: about him.

971
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:37,359
Speaker 2: Actually, but you didn't do it to him, you didn't

972
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 2: say that.

973
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:42,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just well, that's because I'm saying I don't Okay,

974
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 1: well maybe not maybe not every guy I don't care about.

975
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 1: Some guys I don't care about it. I don't tell

976
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 1: him shit, who do you care about?

977
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:49,200
Speaker 2: Bitch?

978
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 1: I guess No, I'm just saying, but that's how I

979
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 1: feel like. That's how I need to start leading my conversation.

980
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 2: Oh right, so it's such a better like Okay, yeah.

981
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:07,360
Speaker 1: Better navigate the dating space because well me too, you know,

982
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:09,719
Speaker 1: like I haven't really been even like I guess I

983
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 1: went on, I went to dinner the other night. You know,

984
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 1: I haven't really been dating, you know, like I don't

985
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 1: feel like i've been.

986
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:20,480
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well, I mean I feel like we have

987
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 2: like it it's either it's either's like one or ten.

988
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 2: We're like dating or I met you five minutes ago,

989
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:28,080
Speaker 2: I'm run a matter your partment having sex, like and

990
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:29,359
Speaker 2: then by catch you later.

991
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 1: I have this very no but you know, like I

992
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 1: think a lot of women do that they I mean,

993
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 1: I think we're in a time two women feel really

994
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:38,759
Speaker 1: empowered and like we're sharing with the people that we're

995
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: spending our time with, or at least like once I can.

996
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's on the first date. But if

997
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 1: I decide that I feel like we're having a vibe,

998
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:49,400
Speaker 1: you should probably know that I like you and like,

999
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:52,800
Speaker 1: I'm going to allow this like to keep growing organically,

1000
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 1: right right, I'm not gonna withhold it. I'm not going

1001
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 1: to stop it because I actually I want. I want

1002
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 1: if I'm feeling it, like, let why not and if

1003
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 1: but if you don't feel that way, you should know

1004
00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: that I do, so that you can like fall back

1005
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 1: because I just I just feel like that's the fair

1006
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 1: thing to do.

1007
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,799
Speaker 2: But also I might be fucking other people that too, Yeah,

1008
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:14,279
Speaker 2: but I just.

1009
00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 1: Mean, at least I'm being honest about the fact that like,

1010
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,279
Speaker 1: I like you and I want to see where this

1011
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:22,319
Speaker 1: goes and it's not just sex versus emotion and sex,

1012
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. There's a difference. There's a

1013
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:26,120
Speaker 1: difference between the people I have casual sex with and

1014
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,359
Speaker 1: I call every now and then we don't talk, versus

1015
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 1: the people that like, maybe I have sex with and

1016
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:32,360
Speaker 1: they're like, I actually wanted to get to know you

1017
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: better type shit.

1018
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 2: Definitely, definitely, yeah, that's what I mean.

1019
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 1: Like more so it is like and then I've been

1020
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 1: struggling with that because like I've been thinking about, like, Okay,

1021
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:43,919
Speaker 1: what if I did want to have that conversation with someone,

1022
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:45,239
Speaker 1: how would that go? Would I say? Like how do

1023
00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 1: I say that? Like it's so fucking awkward? I feel

1024
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:49,839
Speaker 1: like you should just tell me And like and that's

1025
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:51,839
Speaker 1: like my ego too, like what the fuck? Like I'm

1026
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:54,720
Speaker 1: the woman. You should make me feel appreciated. You should

1027
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:56,439
Speaker 1: make me feel like this is what we're doing.

1028
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 2: Right. No, I do feel I feel it, and I.

1029
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,440
Speaker 1: Still feel like that in ways, like if you I

1030
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 1: also want to feel empowered enough to be able to say.

1031
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 2: How you feel I think I feel I most may

1032
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:08,520
Speaker 2: feel that way, like I feel like as a man,

1033
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 2: if you value me, you should like tell me that

1034
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 2: you want it to be more. But also like the

1035
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:18,399
Speaker 2: real side of me. Who I fucking I'm a lover

1036
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 2: and I can't help it.

1037
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 3: I love you?

1038
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 1: What do you mean? And I'm like this is serious,

1039
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 1: you know, like are you like that? I? When I

1040
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 1: like someone?

1041
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, when I like someone, I get really, like, get

1042
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:34,319
Speaker 2: really mesmerized, honestly, like.

1043
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess I just don't really see that side

1044
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:40,479
Speaker 1: of you. I don't see like you in that mode

1045
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:41,280
Speaker 1: with your men's.

1046
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:44,920
Speaker 2: I haven't because I hasn't really actually thinking about it.

1047
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,319
Speaker 1: I haven't really been around you and a lot of men,

1048
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 1: like in an intimate setting like my girlfriend type, like

1049
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:52,960
Speaker 1: someone i'm dating or like a little bit with like

1050
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 1: young Bay. But like that's it. Yeah, yeah, so I

1051
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:57,319
Speaker 1: can't imagine in that way.

1052
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:04,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, She's like, yeah, it's that's why I could be bad.

1053
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 2: I mean it's I'm not like annoying like PDIA annoying

1054
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:12,919
Speaker 2: like bitch, calm down. But also like if I like someone,

1055
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 2: I'm a girl like let me come, let me come.

1056
00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:23,920
Speaker 2: Yeah you make spackhetti, Okay, I'll be right off. Sure, Okay,

1057
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 2: mushrooms are not Okay, gotta go.

1058
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:30,799
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I'm a lover.

1059
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 2: When I love, I can love hard, so am I

1060
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:34,080
Speaker 2: and like.

1061
00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 1: I feel like my love is can be intense, so

1062
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 1: like I always try to, like I feel like I'm

1063
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:41,600
Speaker 1: always withholding it, with holding back, and like it's either

1064
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 1: like all or nothing with me. So it either feels

1065
00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 1: like I'm being cold or like I'm being too much,

1066
00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:48,880
Speaker 1: and then they get like I feel like people get nervous.

1067
00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 2: I am a lover, but also I can I've really

1068
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:56,840
Speaker 2: paid attention lately that I can. I can there's something

1069
00:50:56,880 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 2: I can hold away, Like I'm still very like blocked,

1070
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:05,040
Speaker 2: like I'm I'm open, but also like I don't let

1071
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 2: a lot of people in in, you know. So if

1072
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:09,360
Speaker 2: I really like you and I'm letting you in in,

1073
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:10,759
Speaker 2: then that's a big deal.

1074
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:18,040
Speaker 1: Like love her haters complicated and then we sit here

1075
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:19,359
Speaker 1: and say we're not complicated.

1076
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:20,359
Speaker 3: They are.

1077
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 2: No, it's not. I if it's mutual, it's not complicated

1078
00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:27,360
Speaker 2: if I'm forcing it or if I you know what

1079
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:29,799
Speaker 2: I mean, Like, it's not if it's mutual, it's not.

1080
00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:32,160
Speaker 1: How I do. Because that's how I felt for a

1081
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:33,359
Speaker 1: while with my happy pay.

1082
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 2: I felt like, is this is this mutual?

1083
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:37,160
Speaker 6: No?

1084
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 1: Well it felt no, it felt just like so free

1085
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 1: and flowing, you know, and like because that's the only

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Speaker 1: reference I have. I'm not only reference obviously, I have

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Speaker 1: it with my baby daddy. But like, it happened so

1088
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:50,880
Speaker 1: long before that, Like I literally been in a relationship

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00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 1: for so long that I forgot what that feeling, that

1090
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 1: beginning to like fall, but like the beginning is is

1091
00:51:56,680 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 1: like so it's so fun. I think that's what I want.

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Speaker 1: I just want to like begin at the beginning over

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00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:05,840
Speaker 1: and over. Let's just fall in love. Like let's just

1094
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:08,239
Speaker 1: like keep falling, keep falling in love and like and

1095
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:10,240
Speaker 1: then if we fall out, I'll find someone else immediately

1096
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 1: to fall No, but you know I used to do that,

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00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:16,480
Speaker 1: and that's weird. Like I think about like my I

1098
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:18,759
Speaker 1: used to just jump into a relationship after relationship. I

1099
00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:23,640
Speaker 1: was like a serial monogamous. I was in monogamous relationships

1100
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,359
Speaker 1: for a long period of time, back to back up

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00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 1: until the time I first even started dating. So I

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00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:30,719
Speaker 1: think about that now and I'm like, I don't even

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00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 1: like I was telling I tell you all the time,

1104
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:35,800
Speaker 1: like how do our friends have boyfriends? I'm like, what,

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00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:38,840
Speaker 1: Like it has to be like I know, I know

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00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:41,279
Speaker 1: it's a lot of it is because I dodge so

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00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 1: many people too, though I'd be like, like, how.

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00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:46,239
Speaker 2: Do like how does all your friends have boyfriends that

1109
00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 2: you'd never end up?

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Speaker 1: Or was before I did it, I would be like, Okay,

1111
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 1: you want my love, I'll give it to you. You know,

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00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:53,399
Speaker 1: I don't which I don't know if it's a good

1113
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:54,960
Speaker 1: thing or bad thing. And sometimes I wonder if I

1114
00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:57,880
Speaker 1: if I'm missing my love, you know, because I'm so

1115
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 1: caicky now whereas before, why I wasn't that picky. I

1116
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:04,840
Speaker 1: wasn't that picky, not to say my friends aren't that picky,

1117
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 1: because actually a lot of my friends are single. But like,

1118
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:09,880
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't.

1119
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 2: See, I don't I don't get a lot of boyfriend

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Speaker 2: like opportunities. I don't think, I mean, I mean, I

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00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 2: don't think I give people enough time to get to

1122
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 2: the opportunity to be my boyfriend, like quite next week

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00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:27,839
Speaker 2: and probably yeah, part of it is like the really

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00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 2: nice guys who could go there, Like I just.

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Speaker 1: I can think of a few nice guy options I

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00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 1: could have, Like I could still, I could foster and

1127
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 1: it could be more time, but I'm just not interested enough.

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00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:42,799
Speaker 2: I have to be interested enough to foster the relationship

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00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:45,720
Speaker 2: and you do too, And if it doesn't happen naturally.

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00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:47,919
Speaker 1: I'm cool with that. Maybe we could be friends, maybe

1131
00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:49,240
Speaker 1: we could have some like whatever.

1132
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:52,320
Speaker 2: But like I think, naturally, if we both have a

1133
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 2: mutual like for each other, that's natural and organic. We

1134
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 2: will both foster that relationship, and I trust that it

1135
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 2: will be mutual. It just doesn't happen that often, because

1136
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:05,959
Speaker 2: then everyone be falling in love every five minutes. Yeah,

1137
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 2: not this switch, not this switch either. I'm not a Yeah,

1138
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:10,399
Speaker 2: I don't fall in love every five minutes.

1139
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 1: I'll fall in love for a week or two.

1140
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, even right now.

1141
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 1: I'm actually in love right now.

1142
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 2: I've had like I've had like a couple like crazy.

1143
00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:17,400
Speaker 2: That's another thing.

1144
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 1: So the Swedish guy, Swedish bae.

1145
00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 2: I know it's so long, we're talking so much. She

1146
00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 2: saw me to hurt. Yet, okay, fine, what we're talking

1147
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:26,879
Speaker 2: about love?

1148
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:27,480
Speaker 1: I'm in love.

1149
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:28,920
Speaker 2: Oh I've had a couple of curzies.

1150
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:30,240
Speaker 1: I was like, what have I end up together forever?

1151
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:33,520
Speaker 1: But I realized how crazy women are. And I know

1152
00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 1: it's not just me, And I know there's some pitches

1153
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 1: out there that don't do this shit, okay, but most

1154
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 1: of them, and you know what, more power to you.

1155
00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 1: I want to be like you when I grow up,

1156
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 1: and I'm working on it, and sometimes I feel that way,

1157
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 1: but most of the time, I'm envisioning our future in

1158
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:47,279
Speaker 1: marriage and babies together after our second date, and I'm

1159
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 1: just gonna keep it real with you, like do I

1160
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:54,080
Speaker 1: like it's honestly out of my control at this point,

1161
00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:56,120
Speaker 1: Like it's not even like I'm trying to think about it.

1162
00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 1: It's not happened.

1163
00:54:57,239 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 3: It just happens.

1164
00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:01,560
Speaker 1: I surrender. I'm not them. I think about them. They

1165
00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:04,960
Speaker 1: look cute or they don't, or they look I'm like,

1166
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 1: I get yeah, So that's it. That's that's it. And

1167
00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:10,480
Speaker 1: if and if you can't and you can, if you

1168
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:13,239
Speaker 1: line to yourself and saying that you don't feel that.

1169
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:16,240
Speaker 2: Way sometimes then I've been out with this guy twice

1170
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:18,960
Speaker 2: since we've both re reconnected you and I've thought about

1171
00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 2: all types of happy endings because I'm crisy, and even

1172
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:27,799
Speaker 2: though he said white cock, I'm still thinking about it because.

1173
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 1: You're wedding in Sweden off the coast of Frands.

1174
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 2: He doesn't want to be married or have money more.

1175
00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 2: You're but I'm also like caking, I convince some otherwise you're.

1176
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:37,800
Speaker 1: You're togetherness ceremony.

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00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:40,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do want together in this ceremony. I'll suddle

1178
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:42,839
Speaker 2: without having the legal papers, but also like I need

1179
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:46,719
Speaker 2: to be your beneficiary. You feel like you can kill

1180
00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:50,319
Speaker 2: the man never, but I think I just never would

1181
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 2: never kill anyone, but unless you try to kill me.

1182
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:56,640
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is that's how people get fucked up.

1183
00:55:56,680 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 2: I know so many women who've been with men for

1184
00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:00,239
Speaker 2: twenty years. They never got married, but then at the

1185
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:01,880
Speaker 2: end they're fucked and I don't even know how to

1186
00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:03,480
Speaker 2: work because they weren't doing shit to begin with.

1187
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:04,800
Speaker 1: We need to have a setup.

1188
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:06,080
Speaker 2: We don't have to get married, but we do need

1189
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 2: to set up anyway. Women are crazy, and so are we.

1190
00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:14,600
Speaker 2: And we're also yeah, and so are we. We're confused

1191
00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:17,239
Speaker 2: but not very clear.

1192
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 1: Anyway. We had no idea what this episode was going

1193
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 1: to be about. But I think we've I think we're done.

1194
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 1: I think we've touched on everything.

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Speaker 2: So everything that's happened.

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Speaker 3: In one week.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, we're going to New York, so yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: get your tim Oh fuck, I wish we could exit

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Speaker 2: with a sap.

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Speaker 6: You know what.

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Speaker 1: I hate Apple and their fucking music laws. Can we

1241
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Speaker 1: just do it just this one time? Fuck it like it?

1242
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Speaker 6: I said. The nigga got Joe Ord and their swag

1243
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:53,080
Speaker 6: and the mouth full of go hose that shows they

1244
00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 6: be shipping clothes. And if all the girls write the

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Speaker 6: niggad name on Nigga's so ship to they get a

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Speaker 6: lot jaw. Come to get to get blocked jaw party

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Speaker 6: like Cowboy old Rockstaw. Anybody played the tough doctor ship

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Speaker 6: Pop let's.

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Speaker 1: Sake, get to the basis you. And then mister greatness

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Speaker 1: Mama and what's amazing? Rock on Jealous with no Lasist

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Speaker 1: first that go by the Chases, the wait, hold up,

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Speaker 1: that was racist.