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Speaker 1: I'm looking forward, Charles. Yeah, this Charlotte, this Una, this Chilotte.

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Speaker 1: one more thing. Is you listening? Man? What man like

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Speaker 1: let's not get ridiculous, Okay, get yeah. I don't see

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Speaker 1: the love Knoxville, Tennessee. Where is the love? I need

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Speaker 1: some love A Friday night baby. This coming Friday, me

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Speaker 1: and my boy Bruce. Bruce will be at Knoxville Civic Auditorium.

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Speaker 1: Tickets on Sill right now. We're coming there to destroy

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Speaker 1: the cut is Virginia Beach Comedy Club. May second through

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Speaker 1: the fourth, the nephew will be in town and then

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Speaker 1: Mother's Day week end text our cana. That's right. Maye

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Speaker 1: all right, we'll coming up at the top of the

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Speaker 1: hour Entertainment News. Right after this, you're listening to Steve

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Speaker 1: Morning Show coming up at twenty after the hour. Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey is trending. That is you, sir. You are trending

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Speaker 1: with your viral video interview with miss h Durana's pace.

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Speaker 1: Remember her? Oh yeah, oh yeah. We'll talk about it

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Speaker 1: at about twenty after the hour, Steve. Uh. Everybody's buzzing

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Speaker 1: about that. But first, in today's entertainment news, Art Kelly

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Speaker 1: maybe jailed again and soon after missing child support payments

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Speaker 1: that have already landed him in jail once before. Now

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Speaker 1: this is according to tm z R, Kelly has missed

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Speaker 1: his last two months of child support payments to his

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Speaker 1: x Drea Kelly. He's required to pay twenty thousand, eight

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Speaker 1: hundred and thirty three dollars a month to his ex.

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Speaker 1: As you know, Robert was jailed in early March after

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Speaker 1: racking up over one hundred and sixty thousand dollars. This

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Speaker 1: after he was arrested on sexual abuse charges. Robert was

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Speaker 1: released after he cleared that debt. Someone covered his tab,

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Speaker 1: we know. After getting out, Robert went back to court.

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Speaker 1: Robert went back to court and asked the judge to

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Speaker 1: afford it. The judge said he would hear arguments, but

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Speaker 1: that won't happen until May eighth. In the meantime, Robert

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Speaker 1: judge means business. Well, he could go back then. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's already missed two. Yeah. Yeah, there's always trouble. It's

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Speaker 1: sad man to see somebody who had so much. Man,

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Speaker 1: the guys talented beyond measure. Yeah. Man, something something's wrong somewhere. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: something's wrong somewhere a partner. Yeah you know. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: can't you know what I mean, you can't play that all? No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: doesn't look good at all. Yep. He said he believed

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Speaker 1: he could fly. He should have been left. Yeah. Long,

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Speaker 1: you can sing it at church Sunday huh yeah wow um.

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Speaker 1: In other entertainment news, Nipsey Hustle's family wants to make

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Speaker 1: it clear there is no reason to worry about the

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Speaker 1: financial well being of his children after multiple crowdfunding pages

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Speaker 1: and fundraising attempts by former NFL player Reggie Bush and

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Speaker 1: other celebrities. Um Sources close to the family said that

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Speaker 1: Nipsey made sure his two children would not have to

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Speaker 1: rely on anyone for money. Nipsey put away money and

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Speaker 1: trust funds for his family using the money he earned

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Speaker 1: from his music, clothing store, and his other business endeavors.

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Speaker 1: So they're straight, yeah, yeah, yeah, well, you know he

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Speaker 1: was a Yeah, that's what he stood for, to be

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Speaker 1: very smart with that, yeah, empowering himself and others, you know,

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Speaker 1: with knowledge in money business, you know, owning businesses, all

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Speaker 1: of that. Yeah. So yeah, that's what a lot of

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Speaker 1: what he'll be known for, you know, besides his community

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Speaker 1: work and his music, you know that sort of thing.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people have said, you know, he helped me,

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Speaker 1: he did this for me. Yeah, it wasn't for Nipsey.

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Speaker 1: He's the one that taught me to do this, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: seems like he knew the business part of the music

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Speaker 1: business too. Yeah yeah, yeah, because he had already made

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Speaker 1: money before he even got with the label, right by

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Speaker 1: selling his mixtape. So yeah, yeah, So anyway, thank god

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Speaker 1: he took care of his children. Thank God, yeah children,

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Speaker 1: Imani and Cross yeah Cross Cross Yeah. I like that

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Speaker 1: name Cross. Next name. All right, Steve, it is time

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Speaker 1: for today's headline. Well, ladies and gentlemen, Miss Anne Triump, well,

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Speaker 1: thank you very much everybody, and good morning. This is

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Speaker 1: and Triplet's the news. Okay. The spires of both a

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Speaker 1: York we're lit in the colors of the French flag

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Speaker 1: last night and to show a solidarity with the people

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Speaker 1: of France in the wake of Monday's massive fire at

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Speaker 1: the Cathedral of Notre Dame. The brelets left the eight

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Speaker 1: hundred and fifty year old structure disfigured but still standing,

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Speaker 1: with both the roof and spire destroyed. French President Makom

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Speaker 1: is vowing to rebuild a legendary structure in five years.

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Speaker 1: Some people say that's a little ambitious. Other people say, well,

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Speaker 1: it really can be done. President Trump participated in a

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Speaker 1: private swearing in ceremony yesterday of the new head of

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Speaker 1: the Environmental Protection Agency. The Senate confirmed Andrew Wheeler to

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Speaker 1: be the agency's fifteenth administrator at the end of February,

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Speaker 1: were replace his former administrator, Scott Pruitt, who resigned last

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Speaker 1: summer while facing more than a dozen ethics probes. Much

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Speaker 1: of Andrew Wheeler's Washington work Senate on reducing the Environmental

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Speaker 1: Agency's oversight. He was also a registered lobbyist for a

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Speaker 1: lot of fossil fuel companies, like coal companies, so environmental

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Speaker 1: groups supposed his nomination anyway. Bernie Sanders and Kamala Harris

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Speaker 1: have raised more money for their presidential campaign so far

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Speaker 1: than any of the other sixteen Democratic candidates. Vermont Senator

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Speaker 1: Bernie Sanders says he's raised eighteen million so far, California

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Speaker 1: Senator Kamala Harris has accumulated twelve mill Former Texas consent

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Speaker 1: and South Bend, Indiana Mayor Pete Buddhajes has already got

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Speaker 1: about seven mill in until On the other hand, though

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Speaker 1: Donald Trump has a war chest so far of thirty

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Speaker 1: million dollars. Distinguished historian author David Brian Davis has died

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Speaker 1: at age ninety two. Davis was a white history professor

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Speaker 1: the development of Europe, the US, and the industrial Revolution,

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Speaker 1: piece of American history. David Brian Davis, who proved that

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Speaker 1: black enslavement was actually central to the expansion of Europe,

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Speaker 1: the development of the modern world, and especially the economic

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Speaker 1: profits that led to the Industrial Revolution. And that's contrary

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Speaker 1: to the myth that only immigrants built America. He said,

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Speaker 1: American slavery was the key institution that contributed to the

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Speaker 1: rise of the West to global prominence. In twenty thirteen,

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Speaker 1: Davis was given the National Humanities Metal by President Obama.

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Speaker 1: Well she may not like it, but singer Share as

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Speaker 1: being embraced by the nation's conservatives. After questioning whether the

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Speaker 1: state she lives in, California can handle any more immigrants.

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Speaker 1: On Sunday, Share tweeted quote, I understand helping struggly immigrants,

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Speaker 1: but my city isn't taken care of its own. What

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Speaker 1: about the fifty thousand plus citizens who live on the streets,

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Speaker 1: people who live below the poverty line, who are hungry.

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Speaker 1: But if my state can take care of its own

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Speaker 1: and many of veterans, how can it take care of more.

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Speaker 1: Reaction Conservative actor James Wood says Share was awakened to reality. Finally,

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Speaker 1: Today's national Remember what I told you too? Forget Now

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Speaker 1: back to this Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to Steven show.

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Speaker 1: In today's trending story, Steve Harvey, you are trending, You,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, are trending and trending. What are you doing that? Well? Yesterday,

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Speaker 1: Tommy your uncle on his talk show always Something is Special. Guest.

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Speaker 1: Her name was miss Durannis Pace. She had a very

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Speaker 1: emotional story and such a wonderful spirit with some powerful,

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Speaker 1: powerful TV. It had your uncle crying. Take a listen.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know if I'm gonna be alive. God now

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Speaker 1: kept me alive to see you, sir, And I'm just

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Speaker 1: glad to be here. I can go to heaven. Now

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Speaker 1: I should go to heaven. I don't take much for me.

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Speaker 1: Hard he and he did you have it? Yeah, hard

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Speaker 1: set Bo, you have me a little sa I saw

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Speaker 1: it yesterday. It was very powerful, but you were there.

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Speaker 1: You was kind of right there by. The interview is

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Speaker 1: she wanted the Pace sister, Steve? Yeah, wow, that he

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Speaker 1: bought on because her video it wasn't viable of her

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Speaker 1: singing yeah gospel song. It was totally unexpected. We got

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Speaker 1: to talking about so many different things. Man. I don't

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Speaker 1: know how they edited it down and haven't seen it.

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Speaker 1: Somebody sent me a clip, a really short clip, and

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Speaker 1: it was just emotional for me because we were talking.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it's probably the first time I've

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Speaker 1: said it out loud, I know, on TV about having

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Speaker 1: the responsibility of taking my mother off life support, which

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Speaker 1: was really a rough thing for me to do. Man.

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Speaker 1: I'n't done a lot of crazy stuff in my day.

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Speaker 1: I hadn't done some hard stuff, but this one was tough,

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Speaker 1: and now we got to talking about that, and then

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Speaker 1: we started talking about, you know, just heaven and stuff,

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Speaker 1: and it was such a real raw conversation because it

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Speaker 1: was so unrehearsed and unplaying whe no produced segment where

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Speaker 1: no You asked ad SDN. She gonna say that it

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Speaker 1: was none of that, and it truly was a spiritual

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Speaker 1: moment for me because this woman was saying some stuff

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Speaker 1: to me. I don't know how much of the interview

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Speaker 1: went on TV, but she said some stuff to me,

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Speaker 1: man that was really really deep and touching to me,

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Speaker 1: and I knew I could and it's sort of crazy, man,

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Speaker 1: I could feel my mother's spirit. Oh wow, talking to me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because you were really emotional, Steve. Yeah, because I know

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Speaker 1: how my mother talked to me, and this woman was

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Speaker 1: talking to me like my mama. Wow. All right, Well,

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Speaker 1: coming up next, Steve at thirty four after the hour,

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Speaker 1: tell us more about this interview with mister Ranna's Pace.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Morning Show. All right,

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Speaker 1: Today's trending story is Steve Harvey's viral video and his emotional,

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Speaker 1: powerful interview with mister Ranna's Pace. Steve, mister Rannis was

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Speaker 1: so inspiring and you really brought everyone to tears. Take

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Speaker 1: a listen to this. You know, my mama raised me too.

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Speaker 1: Oh she says, Steve, God gonna get you a big

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Speaker 1: house on the heel. One day, he said, but you

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Speaker 1: can't get on the heeling. Don't tell anybody else how

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Speaker 1: to get up, Dan, that was the hardest thing I

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Speaker 1: ever did you know that? Tell her doctor take my

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Speaker 1: mom off life support. Oh my god. I suffered with

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Speaker 1: that for a long time. You know. So I was

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Speaker 1: raised where she in heaven? Now? You know? Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: she watches me, yes sees yes, sir. I just hope

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Speaker 1: she's seeing today, Yes, sir, watching this moment right here? Yes, sir,

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Speaker 1: I really only it is not straightened up, start doing right,

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Speaker 1: because I just want to see her. Yes, sir, Yes

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Speaker 1: you don't see her. Amen. Wow Wow, Wow, this was

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Speaker 1: on yesterday. I mean it got taped a couple of

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Speaker 1: weeks ago. I think it was sort of crazy, man.

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Speaker 1: I was somebody sent it to me on Steve Harvey film.

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Speaker 1: And you know, it's sort of crazy man. You know,

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Speaker 1: you try not tell, you know, it's it's almost like

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Speaker 1: I don't care what you do. It's an amazing thing, man,

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Speaker 1: that I've really had to come to terms with the

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Speaker 1: purpose of haters, because you know, I was when I

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Speaker 1: had a Victoria Oldstein on the show the other week

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Speaker 1: and she said something that I had never quite heard

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Speaker 1: put that way. She said that the devil is not

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Speaker 1: interested in you. He's just interested in making sure you

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Speaker 1: don't get to your destiny. That the devil's real interest

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Speaker 1: is not you because he don't care nothing about you.

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Speaker 1: But what his job is to be a deterrent so

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Speaker 1: that you don't ever get to your destiny. And so

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Speaker 1: what I've learned about the trolls and the haters that

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Speaker 1: they're actually doing work for Satan's imps, and their job

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Speaker 1: is to throw you off course. Yeah man, it's to

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Speaker 1: keep you out of your destiny. And it's sort of crazy, man,

630
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 1: because you look at some of the comments. I was,

631
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 1: I just read some comments that this girl had sent

632
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 1: me from Steve Harvey's film. Everything was so positive. It's

633
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 1: like crazy, like I'm not really messed up about this anything.

634
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 1: And you know, because I really come to the term

635
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 1: of understanding. And this one woman in the middle of

636
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:33,439
Speaker 1: all of this positivity, you know, people remember her name

637
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 1: mother and remembering how hard it is for them to

638
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 1: difficult and do you know everybody on this show, you know,

639
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 1: I mean, you know what the acception to Tommy. But

640
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 1: Tommy lost his dad, so I mean we all have

641
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 1: felt proud of lost yeah, you know. And so you know,

642
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 1: even in the middle of that, when the people are

643
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:58,279
Speaker 1: just grappling with that, uh, this woman said, I don't

644
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 1: really care for Steve Harvey. It's cool, I'm paying no,

645
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:08,279
Speaker 1: but I'm showing you that, I'm showing I'm showing y'all

646
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:12,719
Speaker 1: the point that Satan is not interested in you. He's

647
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 1: interested in you keeping you from your destiny and if

648
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 1: you're not careful, these little comments that you hear can

649
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:24,320
Speaker 1: can help you miss the real valid point of what

650
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 1: the whole mission of the interview was supposed to do.

651
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 1: And so man, you have to be careful in themselves.

652
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 1: Just reading along in this, woman go I don't really

653
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:35,160
Speaker 1: care for Steve Harvey because of the stuff his ex

654
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,839
Speaker 1: wife has said about him. And I just went, Wow,

655
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 1: that's amazing that you would miss. Okay, but let me

656
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 1: tell you that if I was anything she said I was.

657
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 1: God can't change people, right, man, you don't get allowed

658
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:59,239
Speaker 1: to get it right. Third chances that's what? Yeah, all right, Steve, Yeah,

659
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 1: pace a car on this episode. Yeah, that's a blessing,

660
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:12,000
Speaker 1: right there? Are you? And Jesus don't done any for

661
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 1: y'all to some may All right, thank you guys. Nephew

662
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: you're up next with a prying phone call. Right after this.

663
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 1: You're listening morning show coming up at the top of

664
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Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry

665
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 1: letter for today subject a huge problem in our relationship.

666
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 1: Wait till you hear this, But right now the nephew

667
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:36,239
Speaker 1: is here with today's prying phone call. What you got,

668
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:39,719
Speaker 1: neph We got a problem in this relationship that I'm

669
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 1: about to run Shirley. Oh yeah, yeah, that's a major

670
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:47,760
Speaker 1: problem and it happens a lot in some relationships, especially

671
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Speaker 1: before marriage. The ring, Oh, the ring, like the movie

672
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Speaker 1: The Rain, the horrible movie. That's how he said of

673
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 1: the rings, the Rain. I was looking for that ring. Yeah,

674
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 1: where is all right? Here? The rain rain running cat dog.

675
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: Let's go Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a Denise. Please. Yes,

676
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:22,760
Speaker 1: this is she. Hi, Denis. My name is Gavin. I'm

677
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:25,919
Speaker 1: actually the head jeweler here Diamonds. No, how you doing.

678
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 1: I'm good. You brought your ring in? What was it

679
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 1: last week? I actually wasn't here, but you gave it

680
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 1: to one of my salespersons. And yes you wanted to

681
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 1: get it resized as well as get it a praise correct, Yes, yes, yes,

682
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 1: and you don't have to tell him that, praise him

683
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: on my own. Okay, wow, okay, listen, I actually do

684
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 1: the resize of the ring. And first of all, let

685
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 1: me be the person say, um, congratulations, when when is

686
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 1: your wedding? Thank you? I'm getting married and stuff coming there. Well,

687
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 1: congratulations to thank you. Listen. I don't know how to

688
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 1: tell you this now, as far as yours a less concerned.

689
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 1: I've looked at your ring over and over and this

690
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 1: this ring is probably worth maybe fifty dollars. Excuse me,

691
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,839
Speaker 1: I've been I've been in this business for over twenty years.

692
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: But you know what, I'm confused on what you just said.

693
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 1: And I understand that. What I'm trying to explain to

694
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 1: you is that I've been in this business for over

695
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 1: twenty years. I've seen so many different pieces of jewelry

696
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:26,359
Speaker 1: and this is something that you that you buy late

697
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 1: night on an infomercial for nineteen ninety nine. This is

698
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:34,480
Speaker 1: a Cubic Declonian stones and the gold is not real

699
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Speaker 1: at all. It's like, wait, wait, you lost me. You

700
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 1: lost me as much money as my fans make and

701
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,759
Speaker 1: as much money as my father is putting down on

702
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 1: his winding or has put down. And you're gonna understand

703
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 1: everything you're saying. But Denise, honestly, what I need to

704
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 1: do is hold on. Wait wait. I need you to

705
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 1: hold on because we need to convictims. Wait. Wait man.

706
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 1: First of all, I can't wait wait wait, wait, wait, wait,

707
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 1: hold hold on? Do you wait wait? Wait? What are

708
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: you trying to what you're trying to do, sir, I

709
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 1: need I need you to repeat because what you just

710
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 1: said to me, okay, I little of personal stuff. Man,

711
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 1: you oh you hit it. It's personal now, So I

712
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 1: need you to hold on. Okay, oh she called her man. Okay,

713
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:28,760
Speaker 1: thank thank hello, Victim. I can listen to this jeweler

714
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:30,320
Speaker 1: that's on the front. I want you to hit it

715
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:32,720
Speaker 1: that he just told me. Hold what's what's the problem?

716
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:34,239
Speaker 1: What you mean, what's the problem. He gonna tell you

717
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:38,439
Speaker 1: what the problem is. Gonna hit on, sir, gonna hit on? Who? Hello, Yeah,

718
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 1: who's this all right? My name is Gavin. I'm from Diamonds.

719
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Speaker 1: And actually your wife, I mean where your fiance rather,

720
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:48,319
Speaker 1: she brought her ring in to actually be resized. Yeah,

721
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 1: and we we also did an appraisal on the ring

722
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 1: for her. And actually the ring is estimated to be only,

723
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:59,720
Speaker 1: in the words of around fifty dollars. Fifty dollars dollars

724
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:05,359
Speaker 1: if that's what the man said, dollars, sir, Obviously there's

725
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:07,400
Speaker 1: some sort of mistakes, sir. Now what you got to

726
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 1: say about that fifty dollars? That's that's got to be

727
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 1: some kind of mistakes. But what'd you say your name was, sir,

728
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 1: My name is Gavin. I work here at Diamonds. I'm

729
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 1: the head jeweler here. I've been here for twenty years.

730
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:21,399
Speaker 1: And there's there's no way that that ring is worth

731
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 1: fifty dollars. I know what I paid for it, so

732
00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:26,840
Speaker 1: obviously there's some sort of mistakes it. There's not a mistake.

733
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Speaker 1: I've been dealing with jury, I've seen it. I can't

734
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:31,880
Speaker 1: pretty much look at a ring, but I actually went

735
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 1: into detail on this one, as I do all of them,

736
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:37,840
Speaker 1: and so I promise you this is probably maybe between

737
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 1: forty and fifty dollars before his workers. No, absolutely not.

738
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 1: That's that's impossible. How is that impossible? He's a jeweler.

739
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:46,320
Speaker 1: You heard him say, he's been doing it for twenty

740
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 1: he's the highest impossible. I don't understand that all the

741
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 1: money that my day is putting down on this wedding

742
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 1: and you don't pay fifty You bought a cheap ring, sir, No, no, no,

743
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,320
Speaker 1: I did not buy a team. This is this is

744
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 1: this is O basically some kind of mistake. You didn't

745
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 1: got it? You shot right, you show got that right.

746
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:07,239
Speaker 1: So what you got to say for yourself? Fifty? Don

747
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 1: this you can't. I believe that that's right, that this

748
00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 1: is obviously some kind of mistairs. Oh, it is a mistake.

749
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:15,320
Speaker 1: I'm mistake and thinking I'm gonna get married to the

750
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:17,960
Speaker 1: man of my dream. I do have the engagement ring

751
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 1: that was purchased and bought for your wife. No, I

752
00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 1: don't think you I don't think you do. I don't

753
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 1: think you have my ring, because if you have my ring,

754
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:25,799
Speaker 1: you wouldn't be telling me this is worse fifty dollars.

755
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 1: I have the ring that your wife, your fiance brought

756
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:32,400
Speaker 1: in his wife. Yet hold on, hold on. The man

757
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:34,239
Speaker 1: is trying to explain. I'm trying to get to the body.

758
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 1: Thank you, So you have I don't think he has

759
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 1: the right ring. I have the right ring. And what

760
00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 1: I'm letting you know, sir, is that this is something

761
00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:46,319
Speaker 1: you buy on an infomercial in the two ocock the morning. Dude,

762
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 1: you know I ain't bottled damn ring on infomercial. I

763
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 1: bought the ring from a reputable establishment. I have the receipt,

764
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 1: I have the certificate. So obviously the mistake is on

765
00:50:57,800 --> 00:50:59,839
Speaker 1: your and where you are the mistakes now here? Sir.

766
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:02,840
Speaker 1: You bought a piece of jump he's been doing it

767
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 1: all these years. How hell he gonna make a mistake?

768
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:07,399
Speaker 1: Whe you come off telling me I bought a piece

769
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 1: of jump. I know what I bought. If there's any

770
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 1: mistakes that's been made, it's on your end, world, It's

771
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 1: not on my end. Yeah. Hold don't words of all,

772
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:19,359
Speaker 1: don't way you want things that my dad has had

773
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:21,479
Speaker 1: too much money for this wedding, But your doll gonna

774
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 1: pay fifty dollars on dollars wing you wait till I

775
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 1: tell him this? Chill? Hold on. First of all, I

776
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 1: don't appreciate you. I want to tell you this. This

777
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:31,160
Speaker 1: is a typical case of you trying to put it

778
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 1: off on us because you bought a piece of run

779
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 1: for fifty bucks, the money that you don't make, and

780
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,399
Speaker 1: I get fifty dollars worth of a ring, then he's

781
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 1: hold on, let me talk to this. Where you going

782
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 1: get talk and gets I never heard of it. So

783
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: your wife knows exactly where she's the one that brought

784
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:49,879
Speaker 1: the ring. I tell you what, I'm gonna come down

785
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:52,400
Speaker 1: there to see the ring that you're talking about. If

786
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 1: it's not the ring that I gave my girl, I'm

787
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:57,000
Speaker 1: gonna take seventy six hundred dollars out of your because

788
00:51:57,040 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 1: that's so. Now you want to jump on me because

789
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:03,759
Speaker 1: you bought your wife a pieces. Come on, you want

790
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 1: to put it on me? You you don't tell me

791
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 1: what the I don't know what the I spin on

792
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,279
Speaker 1: the ring and you I don't kind of trying to pull.

793
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 1: First of all, I don't appreciate you coming to my

794
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 1: household trying to mess my and you want to come

795
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 1: at me with this one. I know the ring's gotta

796
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 1: be real. If I were you, mister niece, I would

797
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 1: not marry somebody that's gonna be I'm coming there. I'm

798
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: looking for your puppet, and you know what. You don't

799
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 1: get the ring in a right man, you're gonna go

800
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 1: in it. Can I say one more thing to both

801
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 1: of you? Are better? I tell you what if they did?

802
00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 1: I want to hear me, and you're gonna have some

803
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,239
Speaker 1: more problems. This is nephew telling me from the Steve

804
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 1: Harvin Morning Show, y'all just got pranked. But the niece's

805
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:48,239
Speaker 1: sister that that's why she ain't got no man to

806
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:54,680
Speaker 1: be Wow. That's man, Wow, that's how cool? Time is

807
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:58,400
Speaker 1: you about to start me? Wow? I think I'm sorry, Baby,

808
00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:05,280
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I ring. I gotta ask y'all something.

809
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:09,800
Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the low but

810
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 1: Steve hard Ring Baby is always about the ring. The

811
00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 1: ring is important, Yes, ring is import It is importent. Man,

812
00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 1: where do you come up with this? That dude, he's

813
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 1: the man you got left side of the brain, back coner,

814
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 1: right there, left side of the brain, back corner. All

815
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:42,640
Speaker 1: that your easiness is right up in the front walking

816
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 1: about back somewhere like you gotta get it here? Thank you,

817
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: left side of the brain. I can tell you it's

818
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 1: right there. How much was your ring when you bought

819
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 1: thirteen hund Yeah? Right, y' on tell it done? Well,

820
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I'll tell it if you say

821
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:11,839
Speaker 1: how much one you bought? Jack, I'm about now. Well,

822
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 1: I was witch you and you coherse me on it. Man. Man,

823
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:25,279
Speaker 1: that's great. Wow, well, I wish we had time to

824
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 1: hear more about that story. Wow, thank you, nephew. Coming

825
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 1: up next, it is the Strawberry letter subject a huge

826
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:35,800
Speaker 1: problem in our relationship. We'll get into it right after this.

827
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now

828
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:44,959
Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex,

829
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 1: parenting and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve

830
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:52,439
Speaker 1: Harvey FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could we're

831
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:54,919
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

832
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 1: going to read this one today and hold on time.

833
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 1: We gotta put your hair and air strong. WHOA see

834
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:09,200
Speaker 1: you're a little off today, nephew. Subjects A huge problem,

835
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 1: A huge problem in our relationship. Here's Stephen Shirley. My

836
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,800
Speaker 1: boyfriend and I have been together for five years and

837
00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 1: we've been faced with many obstacles. But the main one

838
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:23,680
Speaker 1: started over two years ago when I cheated on him

839
00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:26,720
Speaker 1: and admitted it. I swore to never do it again,

840
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 1: and we moved on. I really thought all that all

841
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:33,920
Speaker 1: was forgiven, but my boyfriend still has major trust issues

842
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:37,239
Speaker 1: with me. And here's why. He has a high sex

843
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:40,279
Speaker 1: drive and so do I, but I refuse to give

844
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 1: in whenever he wants to have sex, which is every

845
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:47,320
Speaker 1: day or every other day. He knows exactly why I

846
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:50,319
Speaker 1: won't do it as much as he'd like to. It's

847
00:55:50,360 --> 00:55:55,880
Speaker 1: because he is too darn huge. Yes, he's enormous, and

848
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:59,919
Speaker 1: I love it, but not every day. I just can't

849
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 1: do it. He told me that I'm just using that

850
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:05,880
Speaker 1: as an excuse, but he knows better because when he

851
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:08,560
Speaker 1: first when we first met, he told me that his

852
00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend broke up with him because of his huge issue.

853
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:14,279
Speaker 1: This huge issue. He told me that he scared away

854
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:17,239
Speaker 1: so many females when they saw it for the first time.

855
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 1: I want him to trust me, but I feel bad

856
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:24,160
Speaker 1: depriving him, depriving him of something we both enjoy. We've

857
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:27,719
Speaker 1: tried counseling, but the female therapist was more intrigued with

858
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 1: him than she wasn't actually helping us. I am tired

859
00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:35,279
Speaker 1: of telling him, yeah, get a new therapist right away,

860
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:37,839
Speaker 1: right I am tired of telling him that he's more

861
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 1: than enough man for me and I have no desire

862
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 1: to cheat on him. How can I make a grown

863
00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 1: man feel secure? Leaving him is not an option? Please help? Wow,

864
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:51,360
Speaker 1: so many women would love to be in your shoes.

865
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 1: I actually think a woman wrote in just last week

866
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:58,840
Speaker 1: or so about her man having the exact opposite problem.

867
00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:01,680
Speaker 1: But I'm not here to tell you to count your

868
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 1: blessings because your issue is very real to you, and

869
00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:08,840
Speaker 1: you're right. Sex should be enjoyable for both of you

870
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:12,359
Speaker 1: most of the time, if not all of the time,

871
00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:16,720
Speaker 1: and if Sizes is making you, you know, not want

872
00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 1: to do it whenever he wants to, then it is

873
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 1: a problem. And it's a good thing. You guys went

874
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:24,960
Speaker 1: to a therapist, but obviously she was the wrong one

875
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:27,800
Speaker 1: because you said she was more interested in him than

876
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:30,520
Speaker 1: helping you. There are other people out there that can

877
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 1: help you. But so he keeps pestering you to do

878
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 1: it because he thinks you're cheating on him. Is that

879
00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 1: what I'm to get from this letter? Because you cheated

880
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 1: on him before and that has made him insecure? Is

881
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:47,440
Speaker 1: that what you're saying? You ask, how can you make

882
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 1: a grown man feel secure? Well, I mean, you know,

883
00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 1: being there, loving him, being supportive and all those things.

884
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:58,880
Speaker 1: I'm sure that's several ways to do that. But the

885
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:02,760
Speaker 1: insecurity is within himself. I mean, you know, it's not

886
00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 1: just you. His ex girlfriend broke up with him. He

887
00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:09,080
Speaker 1: scared a lot of females away when they saw him

888
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 1: for the first time, So it's not just you. Don't

889
00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:15,160
Speaker 1: put that on yourself. Don't take that all on yourself,

890
00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 1: because it's not that and that's not your issue. Really,

891
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:22,080
Speaker 1: your issue is size matters, and that's what you guys

892
00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 1: really need to deal with, Uh, Steve, I go through

893
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 1: this a lot. Yeah, Uh, you know I got quiet

894
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 1: on this letter, very quiet because I had to listen carefully.

895
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:53,240
Speaker 1: But this ain't about me. They always you know, you know,

896
00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:55,360
Speaker 1: I don't know what you think to start is letter is?

897
00:58:56,120 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 1: That's why I had it, But I had to read

898
00:58:57,840 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 1: in between the lines carevilly. It wasn't me, Oh, a

899
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:04,840
Speaker 1: huge problem. When did you realize it? Well? You know,

900
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:07,440
Speaker 1: it was boyfriend and girlfriend all this health. You know,

901
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 1: I swore, h, here's a problem. Though she cheated on

902
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 1: him and admitted it. Uh, that ain't ever good to

903
00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 1: admit you cheated to anybody, man or woman. Don't admit

904
00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 1: it that they don't know. They don't know. Don't walk

905
00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 1: in the house, have a confession. It was just bother

906
00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:38,800
Speaker 1: in me. Let it bother you here. Hell's way worse

907
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:42,120
Speaker 1: things can bother. Let that bother you, but don't walk

908
00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:45,040
Speaker 1: in the house. Tell it man or him. All right,

909
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 1: let's move. And I really thought always forgiving. But my

910
00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 1: boyfriend had come fro trust issues with me. And here's why. See,

911
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:54,560
Speaker 1: he got a high sex driving, So do I, but

912
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:57,320
Speaker 1: I refuse to give in whenever he wants to have sex,

913
00:59:57,680 --> 00:59:59,760
Speaker 1: which is every day or every other day. He knows

914
00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 1: it's actually why I don't want to do it as much.

915
01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:10,440
Speaker 1: It's called he's too damn He Yes, he's enormous and

916
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:14,600
Speaker 1: I love it, but not every day. I just can't.

917
01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 1: Then he told her you using that as excuse, But

918
01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 1: he told her that his as girlfriend broke over here

919
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:29,439
Speaker 1: because he was too much. So now we must talk

920
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:33,840
Speaker 1: about this and get it out the way. Please, what

921
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:37,440
Speaker 1: is it, Steve? We must talk about the types of

922
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:44,960
Speaker 1: injuries bought a happening in this relationship, because that is

923
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:49,240
Speaker 1: the major focal point where I ain't nobody trying to

924
01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 1: get to seem like button me. Sherley won't dapple in

925
01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:58,760
Speaker 1: this area cause Sherley's very careful. I, on the other hand,

926
01:00:59,280 --> 01:01:04,000
Speaker 1: I am unders standing this woman's problem because this woman

927
01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 1: is saying he's enormous, he too damn huge. These are

928
01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:20,640
Speaker 1: sis that happens. These are sexual injuries, things that happen

929
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 1: sexually but can be described in other ways. Thank you

930
01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 1: for that. Let us start. The wall paper has come

931
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:45,240
Speaker 1: off the walls. See listen carefully. These are sexual injuries.

932
01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:53,480
Speaker 1: The wall paper doesn't come off the wall. He in there,

933
01:01:53,760 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 1: read decorate. This part is read decorating and whoa paper

934
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:08,439
Speaker 1: then come off the wall? You better go. Boy. When

935
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:12,520
Speaker 1: I come back, I would describe to you a series

936
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:17,880
Speaker 1: of sexual injuries that's happenings in this relationship. All right,

937
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:22,680
Speaker 1: Coming up Steve Harvey's part two of his response to

938
01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:26,960
Speaker 1: this strawberry letter. Today's subject a huge problem in our relationship.

939
01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:30,560
Speaker 1: We'll do that at twenty three after the hour. Right

940
01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:34,320
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956
01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:32,120
Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter subject to huge problem in

957
01:03:32,320 --> 01:03:38,560
Speaker 1: our relationship. Well, this woman has relationship with this man

958
01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:41,400
Speaker 1: and they don't have sex often as he won't too

959
01:03:41,440 --> 01:03:44,080
Speaker 1: which is every day every other day, because the problem

960
01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:47,400
Speaker 1: is he just too huge. He just too damn big,

961
01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:49,680
Speaker 1: is too much. She don't want to do this every day,

962
01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:52,560
Speaker 1: but she loved him and she loves it just too

963
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:59,800
Speaker 1: much though. Now you know, so I've determined that what

964
01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 1: the real cause of this letter is it sexual injuries.

965
01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:11,120
Speaker 1: These are things that is happening in now that's producing

966
01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:16,200
Speaker 1: some hurt in a lot of ways both him and hub.

967
01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:24,600
Speaker 1: Let's go over some of these. You can have a

968
01:04:25,120 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 1: problem called b DL. BDF normally comes from athletes, but

969
01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:35,440
Speaker 1: you can get BDF and him being as huge as

970
01:04:35,560 --> 01:04:40,480
Speaker 1: he is. Yeah, BDF stands for the basketball don't fit.

971
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:45,960
Speaker 1: And we are just trying to keep this where we

972
01:04:46,040 --> 01:04:51,000
Speaker 1: can stay on the al but disgusted. You understand though

973
01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:56,240
Speaker 1: BdL is a certain it's just stands for the basketball

974
01:04:57,000 --> 01:05:02,640
Speaker 1: don't fit. If we move, and all you will throw.

975
01:05:02,880 --> 01:05:05,040
Speaker 1: I want you all to throw professions at me, and

976
01:05:05,120 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 1: I'll tell you how to go. Let's move on down

977
01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:16,720
Speaker 1: to the mechanic. His water pump don't fit over the gasket.

978
01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 1: Wow about a truck driver a leak? His truck driver,

979
01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:30,400
Speaker 1: the trailer is too heavy for the cab. Get the

980
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:34,640
Speaker 1: swung loose on the freeway and his wrecking hell and

981
01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:41,120
Speaker 1: causing accident. It's a pile up on the freeway because

982
01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:47,520
Speaker 1: bit Trump Johnson, it's slanging trailer all over the four five.

983
01:05:48,600 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 1: How about the fireman? The fireman is hell and no

984
01:05:53,440 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 1: fire stands a chance because he got the biggest holes

985
01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:04,880
Speaker 1: up to the fire truck and the water coming from everywhere.

986
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:09,480
Speaker 1: He's able to attach himself to four five hundreds at

987
01:06:09,560 --> 01:06:15,960
Speaker 1: once and a fire don't stand Ain't that's the five man.

988
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:24,760
Speaker 1: Let's move on to the plumber. The plumber ripped up

989
01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:31,800
Speaker 1: some pipes. Yeah the plumber, Uh got the snake out?

990
01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:37,720
Speaker 1: The rotor root of man is in the driveway. Got

991
01:06:39,520 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 1: any other perfect gardeners? The gardeners flowering every fry. Could

992
01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:51,000
Speaker 1: Lord here he come? He ain't even using regular garden tunes,

993
01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:56,040
Speaker 1: or he ain't garden hearing that digging up to feel

994
01:06:57,080 --> 01:07:06,720
Speaker 1: flowing every Friday, Howard Biden the zookeeper. The zookeeper can't

995
01:07:07,080 --> 01:07:18,280
Speaker 1: keep the monkey in the cage out the zoopkeeople, can't

996
01:07:18,560 --> 01:07:24,400
Speaker 1: keep the market in the cage, and can't Kong already loose.

997
01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:40,200
Speaker 1: The bartender is shaking up that big silver flash. What

998
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:45,920
Speaker 1: you want to Moscow music? I asked you, did you

999
01:07:46,080 --> 01:07:51,640
Speaker 1: want some of this Moscot music? See, we can do this.

1000
01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:58,800
Speaker 1: Clever about play football player? Or he get the first

1001
01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:05,680
Speaker 1: down every time he stepped on the fields. First first down, sir,

1002
01:08:07,560 --> 01:08:10,200
Speaker 1: Big Jack Johnson on the field, that's the first dollar, sir.

1003
01:08:11,200 --> 01:08:19,360
Speaker 1: That's t y'alls work or construction work, hard hat. We

1004
01:08:21,240 --> 01:08:27,880
Speaker 1: are welding the frame for the building, huh, And we're

1005
01:08:28,040 --> 01:08:33,600
Speaker 1: pulling concrete, but there's some concrete that needs to be

1006
01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:39,559
Speaker 1: removed first. So we're asking brother Jack Johnson to bring

1007
01:08:39,720 --> 01:08:45,040
Speaker 1: the jack hamible bust just concrete though, so we can

1008
01:08:45,120 --> 01:08:48,800
Speaker 1: get back to building. Brother Jack, come on out with

1009
01:08:48,960 --> 01:08:54,040
Speaker 1: the jack Hamible so we can get back to building

1010
01:08:54,880 --> 01:09:01,560
Speaker 1: our building. All right? What about a third surgeon. And

1011
01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:09,320
Speaker 1: now you're laying on it. Huh, you're laying on it.

1012
01:09:11,120 --> 01:09:15,439
Speaker 1: You've gotten comfortable. But you don't realize that that ain't

1013
01:09:15,479 --> 01:09:22,880
Speaker 1: a guarney. That's me. I don't know who with the

1014
01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:27,200
Speaker 1: bed sheet on me, but I thank you. You think

1015
01:09:27,320 --> 01:09:34,719
Speaker 1: it's a guarney, But that's me. What about a chef

1016
01:09:36,000 --> 01:09:41,240
Speaker 1: or shell? You're standing there waiting on it to happen.

1017
01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:49,160
Speaker 1: You think he's about to pull out a knife. No,

1018
01:09:49,720 --> 01:09:55,360
Speaker 1: it's a butcher block, big old huncle wood and how

1019
01:09:55,400 --> 01:09:59,880
Speaker 1: many knives in that thing? It's a whole set of

1020
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:04,960
Speaker 1: gets to you, all right, chelf old boy r d

1021
01:10:06,840 --> 01:10:12,800
Speaker 1: F chef boy ah. All right, look, we got to

1022
01:10:12,840 --> 01:10:15,160
Speaker 1: get out of your email, at your Instagram, at your

1023
01:10:15,240 --> 01:10:19,679
Speaker 1: thought for seure on today's strawberry letter at Steve Harvey

1024
01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:23,240
Speaker 1: f M coming up in ten minutes. Warnings you should

1025
01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:26,600
Speaker 1: have listened to Okay, we'll get into that right after this.

1026
01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:32,439
Speaker 1: You're listening to show warnings you should have listened to

1027
01:10:33,200 --> 01:10:35,840
Speaker 1: so on TV on the TV show we all love

1028
01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:38,840
Speaker 1: we love this show, Game of Thrones. We can't talk

1029
01:10:39,000 --> 01:10:41,280
Speaker 1: enough about it. Yes, we are the best TV show

1030
01:10:41,439 --> 01:10:44,840
Speaker 1: every time. He John Snow has been telling everyone just

1031
01:10:45,040 --> 01:10:48,680
Speaker 1: that Junior Winter is coming for seasons and now the

1032
01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:54,519
Speaker 1: seven kingdoms are finally listening to him, or are they anyway?

1033
01:10:54,760 --> 01:10:57,240
Speaker 1: Where you ever warned? It brings me to this where

1034
01:10:57,240 --> 01:10:59,879
Speaker 1: you ever warned about something to come that you ignore

1035
01:11:00,240 --> 01:11:02,799
Speaker 1: or you decided you deal with it when it comes,

1036
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Speaker 1: and then regret not heating the foreshadowing sooner? Ye? So

1037
01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:10,200
Speaker 1: what was it, Steve? And how did it all turn

1038
01:11:10,280 --> 01:11:14,040
Speaker 1: out for you? I need the game and throwing music. Okay,

1039
01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:17,880
Speaker 1: let's go. We got it, and we got it for you. Yeah. Yeah,

1040
01:11:19,960 --> 01:11:26,800
Speaker 1: it was in the winter, Yes you're Grace, nineteen seventy three, Yes,

1041
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Speaker 1: you're Grace. I was using my father's station wag. My

1042
01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:39,880
Speaker 1: father told me home by one am. I was out

1043
01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:44,680
Speaker 1: having a wonderful time. I decided to fifteen, what's the

1044
01:11:44,800 --> 01:11:48,840
Speaker 1: time I would bring the car back. I pulled into

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01:11:48,920 --> 01:11:51,600
Speaker 1: the driveway, walked up the backstairs, turned my key in

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01:11:51,680 --> 01:11:55,439
Speaker 1: the door, stepped into the kitchen, turned around and locked

1047
01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:59,720
Speaker 1: the door behind me. Walked past the refrigerator. On the

1048
01:11:59,800 --> 01:12:02,839
Speaker 1: other side of the refrigerator was a short dog skinned

1049
01:12:02,920 --> 01:12:14,200
Speaker 1: man slick card. His goal to crush me, to show

1050
01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:18,800
Speaker 1: that I wasn't a man. I thought I was. He

1051
01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:24,840
Speaker 1: knocked my ass clean through the dining rule. Who I

1052
01:12:25,080 --> 01:12:29,080
Speaker 1: fell over a thirteen inch color TV with rabbit ears

1053
01:12:29,160 --> 01:12:33,360
Speaker 1: on it. Your grace knocked the rabbit ears over, broke one.

1054
01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:36,400
Speaker 1: He was there waiting, holding it in his hand when

1055
01:12:36,439 --> 01:12:38,960
Speaker 1: I stood up and said, old, so now you're breaking

1056
01:12:39,040 --> 01:12:43,519
Speaker 1: stuff you ain't got money to pay for. Sucker punched

1057
01:12:43,600 --> 01:12:47,639
Speaker 1: me a second time. I flew over the coffee table,

1058
01:12:47,880 --> 01:12:50,960
Speaker 1: knocked over a bowl of mints, landed on the couch

1059
01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:54,599
Speaker 1: with the plastic on it, several cuts because the plastic

1060
01:12:54,800 --> 01:13:01,200
Speaker 1: was old. The back of my triceps was bleeding from

1061
01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:06,400
Speaker 1: the cutch. That I was a young man never to

1062
01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:11,200
Speaker 1: take my father's car pass the our again because he

1063
01:13:11,520 --> 01:13:19,400
Speaker 1: told me, don't your ass do that? That was it.

1064
01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:23,840
Speaker 1: That was my Game of Thrones moment. Got knocked over

1065
01:13:23,920 --> 01:13:27,680
Speaker 1: two thrones or TV and a coffee yeahs to prove it?

1066
01:13:29,160 --> 01:13:31,200
Speaker 1: What about you telling me? Yeah, I know you got one,

1067
01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:37,519
Speaker 1: but my mama gave me man, uh huh, come on,

1068
01:13:37,680 --> 01:13:45,920
Speaker 1: get your game of Thrones. It was my mother. Other

1069
01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:50,920
Speaker 1: gracefully told me as I was speaking back and talking

1070
01:13:51,040 --> 01:13:53,920
Speaker 1: back to my mother in a manner and tones she

1071
01:13:54,040 --> 01:13:58,840
Speaker 1: did not care for. And I my mother said, you

1072
01:13:59,640 --> 01:14:03,320
Speaker 1: will as I say, I will knock you into next week.

1073
01:14:04,720 --> 01:14:08,479
Speaker 1: I gracefully looked my mother and I said, book me

1074
01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:13,160
Speaker 1: for Thursday. What have you lost your money? And I

1075
01:14:13,360 --> 01:14:19,839
Speaker 1: was not smoothed the blade you. As my eyes opened,

1076
01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:23,160
Speaker 1: that was my father standing over me, along with poor

1077
01:14:23,280 --> 01:14:30,439
Speaker 1: white people, big huge white lights. And my daddy said,

1078
01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:41,160
Speaker 1: you're going to leave your mama alone with your mother, boyadji,

1079
01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:51,360
Speaker 1: And that's a true story. Leave both of you. You're wings.

1080
01:14:51,439 --> 01:14:55,400
Speaker 1: We never take them seriously doing no. My mother, at

1081
01:14:55,479 --> 01:15:00,280
Speaker 1: the middle age of thirty one, had eleven you old

1082
01:15:00,320 --> 01:15:05,080
Speaker 1: boy who was not fully thinking. She told him, do

1083
01:15:05,280 --> 01:15:12,320
Speaker 1: not put hangers behind the door. Take your hangers and

1084
01:15:12,600 --> 01:15:15,120
Speaker 1: hang them in the closet. But the Alemnu I was

1085
01:15:15,280 --> 01:15:22,360
Speaker 1: such a stubborn and foregoing young line live well. Them

1086
01:15:22,479 --> 01:15:26,240
Speaker 1: hangers had built up behind that door. One morning before

1087
01:15:26,400 --> 01:15:30,679
Speaker 1: my school. Yes, early in the morning, I'm in the bed,

1088
01:15:30,840 --> 01:15:39,800
Speaker 1: comfortably sleep, ice shut height. Mother came in to wake me. Yes,

1089
01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:44,760
Speaker 1: but she had trouble pushing that door. Hangers held as

1090
01:15:44,760 --> 01:15:51,519
Speaker 1: strong as they could hold it off, old door, hold

1091
01:15:51,560 --> 01:15:57,920
Speaker 1: it off. She broke in that room. We're on my knowing,

1092
01:15:58,560 --> 01:16:01,360
Speaker 1: without warning, yank back the sheets, and with all the

1093
01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:07,320
Speaker 1: fund of Zeus came upon my ass wall like coffee.

1094
01:16:08,280 --> 01:16:11,840
Speaker 1: By that first strike, I woke up. I did not

1095
01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:16,000
Speaker 1: know where I was. I'm looking around to what is

1096
01:16:16,120 --> 01:16:20,439
Speaker 1: happening to me? Yes, you didn't. I'm not tell you

1097
01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:24,880
Speaker 1: before the hang us behind the door, And to this

1098
01:16:25,240 --> 01:16:27,519
Speaker 1: day you would not see a hang on. I go

1099
01:16:27,640 --> 01:16:30,599
Speaker 1: into store. If I see a hang I pick it up.

1100
01:16:32,320 --> 01:16:39,599
Speaker 1: Ass was wall like cough like. It's safe to say, Yes,

1101
01:16:40,439 --> 01:16:50,080
Speaker 1: mother is coming, Mother coming to summarize your grace, Steve,

1102
01:16:54,240 --> 01:16:58,800
Speaker 1: that I too shall develop one simply for the sake

1103
01:16:58,880 --> 01:17:06,520
Speaker 1: of Claire, a tea and continuity. Yes, you're in closing.

1104
01:17:08,560 --> 01:17:12,040
Speaker 1: I want to say for all of us who have

1105
01:17:12,280 --> 01:17:19,800
Speaker 1: fought for better lives, who have griven ourselves to the Yeah,

1106
01:17:20,280 --> 01:17:34,640
Speaker 1: let us know that it range trial coming up at

1107
01:17:34,680 --> 01:17:38,519
Speaker 1: the top of the hour. Break up like a grown up.

1108
01:17:38,720 --> 01:17:42,320
Speaker 1: We'll be back with more right after this. You're listening

1109
01:17:42,600 --> 01:17:49,240
Speaker 1: to show. Well, guys, a breakup can be horrible when

1110
01:17:49,280 --> 01:17:51,639
Speaker 1: you're the one getting dumped. I mean, we've all been there,

1111
01:17:51,680 --> 01:17:54,599
Speaker 1: we know how it feels. But being the breaker upper

1112
01:17:54,840 --> 01:18:00,280
Speaker 1: isn't always easy. That's not always easy, right, Yeah, because

1113
01:18:00,280 --> 01:18:02,240
Speaker 1: you're the one that's going to hurt someone else you

1114
01:18:02,320 --> 01:18:06,519
Speaker 1: know that you care about. Uh, you know, you can

1115
01:18:06,800 --> 01:18:09,800
Speaker 1: make second guess yourself and wonder if you're really doing

1116
01:18:09,880 --> 01:18:14,639
Speaker 1: the right thing. But ghosting isn't cool like texting someone

1117
01:18:14,760 --> 01:18:18,240
Speaker 1: to break up. Okay, so here's some some decent ways

1118
01:18:18,280 --> 01:18:23,479
Speaker 1: to break up, according to Cosmotolitan Cosmopolitan magazine. So, Steve,

1119
01:18:23,560 --> 01:18:25,000
Speaker 1: I know you're going to jump in here if you

1120
01:18:25,080 --> 01:18:27,160
Speaker 1: agree or disagree, or if you have your own thoughts

1121
01:18:27,200 --> 01:18:31,120
Speaker 1: on breaking All right, this is about breaking up grown

1122
01:18:31,160 --> 01:18:34,720
Speaker 1: folks style. We want you to be clear if you're

1123
01:18:34,760 --> 01:18:38,479
Speaker 1: the breaker upper. People only end relationships when their partner

1124
01:18:38,560 --> 01:18:42,759
Speaker 1: doesn't match their outlook, their values, their needs and desires anymore.

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01:18:43,040 --> 01:18:51,840
Speaker 1: Otherwise you're still good, right outlook values good, you don't

1126
01:18:52,439 --> 01:18:55,880
Speaker 1: outlook all that big? Yeah, if you don't. If they

1127
01:18:55,920 --> 01:18:58,000
Speaker 1: don't match that, then you got to break up with them.

1128
01:18:58,439 --> 01:19:01,160
Speaker 1: But if they don't, then you're good. They would, so

1129
01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:03,960
Speaker 1: be clear, but just be clear. It is yeah, well

1130
01:19:04,040 --> 01:19:08,840
Speaker 1: but you know it's you can They're saying you're good.

1131
01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:11,840
Speaker 1: But a person can have all the qualities and you

1132
01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:15,439
Speaker 1: just not like them. Oh okay, I see what I

1133
01:19:15,520 --> 01:19:18,639
Speaker 1: think that can happen ahead, meaning the values and all

1134
01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:21,200
Speaker 1: that can match up. Still, you just don't like you?

1135
01:19:21,600 --> 01:19:23,960
Speaker 1: Like what I like? Yeah, eat what I eat? I

1136
01:19:24,040 --> 01:19:25,400
Speaker 1: want to go where I want to go. But if

1137
01:19:25,439 --> 01:19:30,400
Speaker 1: I don't like you, or why are you with them

1138
01:19:30,400 --> 01:19:33,720
Speaker 1: in the first place? Charlotte, You you do want came

1139
01:19:33,800 --> 01:19:36,960
Speaker 1: up with an adult break off? All right? Fall out

1140
01:19:37,040 --> 01:19:40,479
Speaker 1: of love in your mind? In your mind? First m

1141
01:19:41,160 --> 01:19:43,200
Speaker 1: it's only going to be okay, now, listen to this.

1142
01:19:43,320 --> 01:19:46,479
Speaker 1: It's only going to be harder to end things if

1143
01:19:46,560 --> 01:19:49,400
Speaker 1: you keep thinking about the happy times. So you got

1144
01:19:49,479 --> 01:19:52,040
Speaker 1: to stop that, all right. When you're trying to build

1145
01:19:52,120 --> 01:19:54,880
Speaker 1: up the strength to break up with someone, focus on

1146
01:19:55,000 --> 01:19:59,000
Speaker 1: the top five negative moments of your relationship. This is

1147
01:19:59,040 --> 01:20:06,720
Speaker 1: all according to Cus Talitan, Cosmopolitan Magazine. Cosmopolitan Magazine. This

1148
01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:08,760
Speaker 1: is this is according to them. So, yeah, what do

1149
01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:11,040
Speaker 1: you think. Let's let's hear your point. Yeah, I'm here

1150
01:20:11,120 --> 01:20:13,320
Speaker 1: to help you. You know, I break up with you,

1151
01:20:13,439 --> 01:20:15,519
Speaker 1: but keep doing it with you, you know what I mean,

1152
01:20:15,520 --> 01:20:17,800
Speaker 1: because you're gonna need that's about you're going through this.

1153
01:20:18,080 --> 01:20:21,920
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. That's not healthy. That's no,

1154
01:20:22,080 --> 01:20:25,920
Speaker 1: that ain't time. I'm helping you get through what we're

1155
01:20:26,040 --> 01:20:31,800
Speaker 1: going through. Thing that's unhealthy. No, it's not unhapy. It's

1156
01:20:31,880 --> 01:20:38,320
Speaker 1: unhealthy without Steve jumping here anytime, Cello, chief Love officer. No,

1157
01:20:38,479 --> 01:20:40,920
Speaker 1: so you need you need. It's two million three men

1158
01:20:41,080 --> 01:20:43,920
Speaker 1: on this show. You need to see his side. But

1159
01:20:44,920 --> 01:20:52,439
Speaker 1: what's your side? I'm William, you're with whom? What time? Break? Hey? Yeah,

1160
01:20:52,520 --> 01:20:54,760
Speaker 1: that makes sense to me. Break up? But let's keep going.

1161
01:20:57,920 --> 01:20:59,679
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, come on, think about the show.

1162
01:21:00,160 --> 01:21:02,120
Speaker 1: Let me say that we break up on a Thursday.

1163
01:21:02,200 --> 01:21:05,360
Speaker 1: This is our first Friday apart, right, we'll be posted.

1164
01:21:07,960 --> 01:21:10,120
Speaker 1: We've been doing it on Friday. Let's get back and

1165
01:21:10,840 --> 01:21:16,200
Speaker 1: this makes absolute great sense. I don't know what the

1166
01:21:16,240 --> 01:21:18,479
Speaker 1: people that call apologian talking about, but me and Tommy

1167
01:21:18,560 --> 01:21:21,439
Speaker 1: and other Steve agreed, we've been doing it on Fridays.

1168
01:21:21,520 --> 01:21:28,920
Speaker 1: Why stop? Now that's what guys think. Really, I don't

1169
01:21:28,960 --> 01:21:33,000
Speaker 1: want you to think if I break up, Yeah, but

1170
01:21:33,200 --> 01:21:40,000
Speaker 1: you still coming through? I want to talk then, Okay, Okay,

1171
01:21:40,600 --> 01:21:47,360
Speaker 1: let's just talk about it and bad naked. Yeah, if

1172
01:21:47,439 --> 01:21:50,840
Speaker 1: that's where we are, let me see if I made

1173
01:21:50,880 --> 01:21:59,559
Speaker 1: a mistake. That's that's what you talking about. That's the question.

1174
01:22:01,439 --> 01:22:03,559
Speaker 1: Let's see if I made a mistake. No, he's saying,

1175
01:22:03,640 --> 01:22:06,360
Speaker 1: while we're laying down. Yeah, let's see if I made

1176
01:22:06,400 --> 01:22:12,640
Speaker 1: a mistake, right, Yeah, all right, next moving on from that, ignorance,

1177
01:22:12,800 --> 01:22:17,720
Speaker 1: be kind, very kind, but be strict. Okay. Break ups

1178
01:22:17,720 --> 01:22:21,040
Speaker 1: are hard for both people, So be kind and be

1179
01:22:21,240 --> 01:22:24,800
Speaker 1: respectful while you start to distance yourself. You see that,

1180
01:22:25,320 --> 01:22:29,160
Speaker 1: while you start to distance yourself, but stay strong with

1181
01:22:29,320 --> 01:22:41,439
Speaker 1: your boundary. All right, but it's kind. Yeah, miss many, this,

1182
01:22:41,880 --> 01:22:45,840
Speaker 1: miss many? That many don't burn? No chicken, what don't

1183
01:22:45,840 --> 01:22:52,040
Speaker 1: we tell about? Welcome to ignorant Wednesday. But I'm gonna

1184
01:22:52,040 --> 01:22:54,639
Speaker 1: ask you nicely to get into bed. But then as

1185
01:22:54,720 --> 01:22:56,680
Speaker 1: I do that, I'm gonna be fur when I say

1186
01:22:56,720 --> 01:22:59,720
Speaker 1: it again. Could you please get into bed? No, get

1187
01:22:59,800 --> 01:23:07,040
Speaker 1: your way? That works. Try it's a nice way, but

1188
01:23:07,160 --> 01:23:11,479
Speaker 1: you like it. You like it when I'm direct, I am?

1189
01:23:11,720 --> 01:23:14,680
Speaker 1: I am? Figure Okay, this is what else you have

1190
01:23:14,760 --> 01:23:16,519
Speaker 1: to do, Guys, when you want to break up, you

1191
01:23:16,600 --> 01:23:19,960
Speaker 1: know nicely, like grown ups should do. Figure out how

1192
01:23:20,160 --> 01:23:24,360
Speaker 1: valuable they are? Figure it out? Okay, only you know

1193
01:23:24,600 --> 01:23:27,479
Speaker 1: if this is a five minute breakup over coffee, a

1194
01:23:27,640 --> 01:23:33,719
Speaker 1: sit down, dinner and discussion, or one last night, last

1195
01:23:33,840 --> 01:23:36,880
Speaker 1: night of passion. Finally you said some we agree with

1196
01:23:37,240 --> 01:23:42,519
Speaker 1: one last night of passion before Yeah, break up, yeah, no,

1197
01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:51,640
Speaker 1: nobody want to know coffee, coffee, Nobody looking for no

1198
01:23:51,800 --> 01:23:55,720
Speaker 1: like a mute locke, nobody looking for it up. Who

1199
01:23:55,840 --> 01:24:00,280
Speaker 1: are you guys? Top of that shirt? What you gotta?

1200
01:24:00,280 --> 01:24:02,080
Speaker 1: How valuable? I don't set your price, I said in

1201
01:24:02,160 --> 01:24:08,080
Speaker 1: mynd I know how valuable I am. Okay, I like that. Junior.

1202
01:24:08,680 --> 01:24:11,600
Speaker 1: You have to allow these guys to You've got to

1203
01:24:11,680 --> 01:24:15,720
Speaker 1: see more than one side, because that's actually how they think.

1204
01:24:16,240 --> 01:24:20,400
Speaker 1: Yes it is, no, we have but junior single. Yeah,

1205
01:24:21,000 --> 01:24:23,240
Speaker 1: when you're not hearing they answered the Strawberry letter, it's

1206
01:24:23,280 --> 01:24:31,240
Speaker 1: pretty much like this, pretty much. Yeah, persona, but we

1207
01:24:31,360 --> 01:24:35,760
Speaker 1: are representing the male community throne. All right, now, these

1208
01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:38,040
Speaker 1: are some decent ways to break up. This is according

1209
01:24:38,080 --> 01:24:42,920
Speaker 1: to Cosmopolitan magazine. The last one is focus on the

1210
01:24:43,120 --> 01:24:46,640
Speaker 1: future when it's over. When it's over, it's time to

1211
01:24:46,680 --> 01:24:49,519
Speaker 1: think about all the things you can do now, all

1212
01:24:49,560 --> 01:24:52,880
Speaker 1: the things you can have and uh, you know, and

1213
01:24:53,000 --> 01:24:55,080
Speaker 1: all the things you could be as a single person.

1214
01:24:56,200 --> 01:25:01,439
Speaker 1: That's Cosmo what Jet Magazine. Okay, sure they read that

1215
01:25:01,520 --> 01:25:04,560
Speaker 1: one more time. The last one, Steve, is focused on

1216
01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:07,759
Speaker 1: the future. When it's over, It's time to think about

1217
01:25:07,760 --> 01:25:10,599
Speaker 1: all the things you can now do, that you can

1218
01:25:10,720 --> 01:25:14,160
Speaker 1: have and that you can be as a single person.

1219
01:25:14,439 --> 01:25:18,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I've been thinking about that longfulls over yeah,

1220
01:25:19,400 --> 01:25:23,080
Speaker 1: point right right. All right, guys, we'll be back with

1221
01:25:23,280 --> 01:25:26,320
Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show, The signor Show.

1222
01:25:26,400 --> 01:25:31,240
Speaker 1: We'll be back. You're listening to the Steven Show. Charles

1223
01:25:31,360 --> 01:25:34,559
Speaker 1: Barkley made a plea, a public plea for Lebron James

1224
01:25:34,640 --> 01:25:38,160
Speaker 1: to join inside the NBA. He wanted him to join

1225
01:25:38,240 --> 01:25:40,479
Speaker 1: the crew for the playoffs. But it seems like Lebron

1226
01:25:40,760 --> 01:25:44,759
Speaker 1: might join the crew, as evidence by King James tweet

1227
01:25:44,920 --> 01:25:48,560
Speaker 1: Sir Charles yesterday, Sir Charles, I actually do have a

1228
01:25:48,640 --> 01:25:51,000
Speaker 1: ton going on, but I may take you up on

1229
01:25:51,080 --> 01:25:57,639
Speaker 1: your offer. We shall see inside for the playoffs. Charles

1230
01:25:57,720 --> 01:26:05,960
Speaker 1: car Lebron ro Bro Bro come on, Ron Ron Ron

1231
01:26:07,000 --> 01:26:14,840
Speaker 1: Ron Hey, Ran come John Me, Kenny Shack, We Ernie

1232
01:26:15,720 --> 01:26:23,600
Speaker 1: Ron Ron Ran Fran. James got two us to do.

1233
01:26:23,680 --> 01:26:28,760
Speaker 1: He got he got time. You all that hein' got

1234
01:26:29,479 --> 01:26:32,680
Speaker 1: hey can do it every time. Charles Cardon, Hello, bro

1235
01:26:34,680 --> 01:26:44,800
Speaker 1: Bron Hey, Roan Hey, come John bro Ran, Brannie looking

1236
01:26:44,840 --> 01:26:47,160
Speaker 1: for you, Kenny Shack. We all want to come sit

1237
01:26:47,240 --> 01:26:52,160
Speaker 1: on the inside the NBA Ron Ron. He put me

1238
01:26:52,240 --> 01:26:59,680
Speaker 1: on a hole, all right, said Junior. We're gonna go

1239
01:26:59,800 --> 01:27:02,840
Speaker 1: from the NBA to the NFL. Now, So what's up

1240
01:27:02,880 --> 01:27:11,120
Speaker 1: with Sierra's husband? Uh? Wow, come go ahead. R RO

1241
01:27:13,439 --> 01:27:16,320
Speaker 1: sixty five million guaranteed one hundred and forty million four

1242
01:27:16,439 --> 01:27:22,640
Speaker 1: years when sixty five million dollars signing bonus. Yeah, that's it,

1243
01:27:22,720 --> 01:27:26,679
Speaker 1: guaranteed money, Carl Love. Yes, we're so happy for Sierra

1244
01:27:27,800 --> 01:27:31,120
Speaker 1: man when it was we didn't work out, didn't work out, Yes,

1245
01:27:31,560 --> 01:27:35,519
Speaker 1: it would happen, would happen. Yeah, she held out for

1246
01:27:35,680 --> 01:27:40,160
Speaker 1: the big bucks. Yes, but they really do love each other. Yeah,

1247
01:27:40,479 --> 01:27:43,400
Speaker 1: we're rooting for them. Yes, Love. I met him at

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Speaker 1: the NFL. Really really nice couple. Yeah, and beautiful and

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Speaker 1: their children are beautiful and I love them. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: future Junior. Donna change his name every time a future Westbrook. No,

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Speaker 1: Wilson will. I don't think you're gonna do that. But

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Speaker 1: he has called him dad right now. This is a

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Speaker 1: second major contract though, first of all for eighty million,

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Speaker 1: then you backdoor with a hunting forty. Do you feel

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Speaker 1: like he should be the highest paid player? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I see absolutely no reason why he shouldn't. But you

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Speaker 1: have to remember one key thing about negotiating, it's not

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Speaker 1: what you're worth, it's what you can negotiate. So that's

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Speaker 1: what they settled for. What did he ask for? He

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Speaker 1: is out there crazy, but at one point in time,

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure the request was made to be the

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Speaker 1: highest paid player. That's how you get to that point.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay. His agent said to somebody, he's looking to

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Speaker 1: be the highest paid plan. If you guys want to

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Speaker 1: hang on to him, I think that's where we need

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Speaker 1: to be. Yeah, now let me ask a question. What

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Speaker 1: does it mean? So guaranteed he's getting sixty five? All

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Speaker 1: he said? So what does pickin a day? Oh okay,

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Speaker 1: But as long as he's playing, he gets the rest

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Speaker 1: of it. Oh okay. A football wants you to get

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Speaker 1: hurt and you get out and you're not playing or

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Speaker 1: they or they cut you. Oh okay. All right, Well

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Speaker 1: we'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 1: Show right after this. Go Sierra, did you see him

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Speaker 1: on a gray you're listening to Steven Show? All right.

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Speaker 1: Today's trending story, uh is Steve Harvey's viral video and

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Speaker 1: his emotional, powerful interview with mister Ranni's Pace Uh, Steve,

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Speaker 1: mister Rannis was so inspiring. Uh, and you really brought

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Speaker 1: everyone to tears. Take a listen to this. You know,

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Speaker 1: my mama raised me too, she says, Steve, God gonna

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Speaker 1: get your big house on the hill. One day, he said,

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Speaker 1: but you can't get on the hill and don't tell

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Speaker 1: nobody else how to get up there. That was the

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Speaker 1: hardest thing I ever did you know that tell her

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Speaker 1: doctor take my mama off life support. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I suffered with that for a long time. You know.

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Speaker 1: So I was raised where she in heaven? Now? You know? Yes,

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Speaker 1: yes she watches me, Yes, yes, sir. I just hope

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Speaker 1: she's seeing today, Yes, sir, watching this moment right here,

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Speaker 1: Yes sir, I really only it is not straighten up,

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Speaker 1: start doing right because I just want to see her,

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Speaker 1: yes sir, Yes you don't see her? Oh amen? Wow

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Speaker 1: se wow Wow. Was on yesterday. I mean it got

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Speaker 1: taped a couple of weeks ago, I think. But it

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Speaker 1: sort of crazy, man, I was. Somebody sent it to

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Speaker 1: me on Steve Harvey f film And you know it's

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Speaker 1: sort of crazy man. You know you try not tell

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Speaker 1: you know, it's it's almost like I don't care what

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Speaker 1: you do. It's an amazing thing, man, that I really

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Speaker 1: had to come to terms with the purpose of haters,

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Speaker 1: because you know, I was when I had a Victoria

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Speaker 1: Oldstein on the show the other week and she said

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Speaker 1: something that I had never quite heard put that way.

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Speaker 1: She said that the devil is not interested in you.

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Speaker 1: He's just interested in making sure you don't get to

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Speaker 1: your destiny. That the devil's real interest is not you

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Speaker 1: because he don't care nothing about you. But what his

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Speaker 1: job is to be a deterrent so that you don't

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Speaker 1: ever get to your destiny. And so what I've learned

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Speaker 1: about the trolls and the haters that they're actually doing

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Speaker 1: work for Satan. They're his imps and their job is

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Speaker 1: to throw you off course, yeah, man, it's to keep

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Speaker 1: you out of your destiny. And it's sort of crazy, man,

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Speaker 1: because you look at some of the comments I was.

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Speaker 1: I just read some comments that this girl had sent

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Speaker 1: me from Steve Harvey's FM. Everything was so positive. It's

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Speaker 1: like crazy, like I'm not really messed up about this anything.

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Speaker 1: And you know, because I've really come to the term

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Speaker 1: of understanding and this one woman in the middle of

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Speaker 1: all of this positivity, you know, people remember they mother

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Speaker 1: and remembering how hard it is for them to difficult.

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Speaker 1: You know, everybody on this show, you know, I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know what the acceptance of Tommy, but Tommy the

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Speaker 1: loss his day. So I mean we all have felt

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Speaker 1: power or lost here. Yeah, yeah, you know. And so

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Speaker 1: you know, even in the middle of that, when the

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Speaker 1: people are just grappling with that, Uh, this woman said,

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Speaker 1: I don't really care for Steve Harvey. And if you're

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Speaker 1: not careful, these little comments that you hear can can

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Speaker 1: help you miss the real valid point of what the

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Speaker 1: whole mission of the interview was supposed to do. All right,

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Speaker 1: we'll be back with the last break of the day

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Speaker 1: and some closing remarks from the one and only Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey right after this you're listening to all right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: here we are last break of the day on this

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Speaker 1: Wednesday hump day. You have some closing remarks for us. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you do. You know. Um, I want to talk to

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Speaker 1: everybody today in in another form of encouragement, to talk

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Speaker 1: to you about being uncomfortable and um it's it's something

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Speaker 1: that's a little unnerving to almost everybody. I mean, most

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Speaker 1: people like being comfortable. Nobody really really wants to be uncomfortable,

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Speaker 1: but I want to share something with you. Okay, let

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Speaker 1: me start this way for you, because I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: find a way to put it together. You know, when

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Speaker 1: when you get out your comfort zone, the reason you

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Speaker 1: don't like it is because you feel out of control.

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Speaker 1: You know, your comfort zone offers you a level of security.

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Speaker 1: When you're in your comfort zone, you feel as though, Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's safe right here, I can function, I can handle

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Speaker 1: it because I'm in my comfort zone. If you step

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Speaker 1: out of your comfort zone, you begin to feel a

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Speaker 1: little bit out of control, your little unnerved, Your routines

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01:34:55,640 --> 01:35:00,720
Speaker 1: are not running smoothly. You You feel better when you're

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Speaker 1: in your comfort zone. Because the average person I've discovered

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Speaker 1: likes predictability. The average person I've discovered likes routine. Now,

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Speaker 1: if you don't like predictability and you don't like routine,

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Speaker 1: then you're one of the rare individuals. Most people do.

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Speaker 1: Weigh all better when they're when they're when they're in

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Speaker 1: a routine, when they when they know what's coming and

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Speaker 1: what's what's happening. Well, God, what God does for you

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Speaker 1: is he really does want you to step outside of

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Speaker 1: your comfort zone, because your comfort outside of your comfort

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Speaker 1: zone is where a lot of blessings lay. You know.

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Speaker 1: I heard Will Smith say one time, the best things

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Speaker 1: in life on the other side of fear. Well, it's

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Speaker 1: also true that the best things in life that you

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Speaker 1: can attain are outside of your comfort zone. And so

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Speaker 1: I want you to understand something about when you get

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Speaker 1: forced out of a comfort zone, you get laid off,

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Speaker 1: somebody break up with you, you get told something negative

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Speaker 1: gonna happen, We're closing the plan, We're canceling you. Uh,

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Speaker 1: You're you're not gonna be able to come through. I

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Speaker 1: cancel a meeting. I know you was counting on her,

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Speaker 1: but I'm not dealing with that today. When you are

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Speaker 1: shaking out of your comfort zone, out of your comfortable routines,

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Speaker 1: I want you to understand what God is actually doing

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Speaker 1: for you. God is actually providing for you in that moment,

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Speaker 1: some growth opportunities. I found this to be true over

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Speaker 1: and over. So you are when you when you step

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Speaker 1: outside of your comfort zone or you're kicked outside your

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Speaker 1: comfort zone. Either way, you get outside your comfort zone

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Speaker 1: and there's a growth opportunity there for you. So instead

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Speaker 1: of you know, complaining about the loss of your comfort

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Speaker 1: instead of bemoaning the fact that all me, Oh my,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm about to be uncomfortable. I got laid off,

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Speaker 1: I lost my job. They canceled this, They did this

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Speaker 1: to me, They canceled me. Now was counting on. Instead

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Speaker 1: of acting that way, I want you accept the challenge

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Speaker 1: of something new that's about to happen in your life.

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Speaker 1: Start accepting that because that's the only way change occurs.

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Speaker 1: Growth the curs. Excuse me, that's the only way growth occurs.

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Speaker 1: Growth the curs only when change is made. Nothing grows

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Speaker 1: by staying the same. Every growth moment comes along with change.

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Speaker 1: So embrace your change. When you get kicked out your

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Speaker 1: comfort zone, whether you step out or get kicked out,

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Speaker 1: I want you to look for the challenge or something new.

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Speaker 1: Because one thing about God, he don't close a door

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Speaker 1: without opening another one. I heard it saying read somewhere

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Speaker 1: that it says God takes you from glory to glory.

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Speaker 1: So if you're in a glorious situation and then all

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Speaker 1: of a sudden, a tragedy besets you, or setback, befalls you,

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Speaker 1: or something happens to knock you off the course of

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Speaker 1: the path, quit tripping man, because when that door closes,

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Speaker 1: God leads us from glory to glory. He takes us

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Speaker 1: from one great position to another great position. But you

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Speaker 1: gotta deal with the transition period. You've got to get

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Speaker 1: okay with being uncomfortable, because the best things in life

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Speaker 1: for you are when you're uncomfortable. You're gonna have to

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Speaker 1: get all right with that. See. I've learned in my

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Speaker 1: life to be comfortable being uncomfortable. I've made it a

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Speaker 1: habit of just being okay being uncomfortable. I know my

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Speaker 1: work schedule is crazy to most people. Can I tell

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Speaker 1: y'all something? It's crazy to me too sometimes, And I

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Speaker 1: wonder why I take all this, But I understand something though.

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Speaker 1: I got to get outside my comfort zone. If I

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Speaker 1: want some things in life that are just out on

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Speaker 1: the other side of it, and everything I want right

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Speaker 1: now in my life happens to be on the outside

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Speaker 1: of my comfort zone because what I got now at all,

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Speaker 1: it's in here. I just happen to want some other things.

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Speaker 1: It's nothing wrong with that. So I'm willing to step

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Speaker 1: outside my comfortable comfort zone. I'm actually willing to be

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Speaker 1: comfortable being uncomfortable. That can produce a heck of a life.

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Speaker 1: So when you get pushed out your comfort zone, everybody,

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Speaker 1: don't panic. Don't sweat it. Sometimes God is taking you

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Speaker 1: from glory to glory, but there's a transition period. There's

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Speaker 1: a period where you just gotta just go Wait. There's

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Speaker 1: a period here that I'm going through. But God must

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Speaker 1: have something else for me, because God don't close a

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Speaker 1: door without opening another. That's it. Y'all have agreement, Thank you, sir.

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