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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl, Alex Pete.

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Speaker 2: And it's Sugarl Drey in the car and you.

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Speaker 1: Are tuned into another episode of Poor.

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Speaker 2: Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 1: We had an adventurous past week, sister, We definitely have.

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Speaker 2: You know, we've got a little action going on for

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Speaker 2: us to still be quarantine.

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Speaker 1: We are still quarantine. So what do you think about

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Speaker 1: Atlanta being open?

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Speaker 2: Because it's like open open now, like people are at

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Speaker 2: the clubs Inston Blue has been packed, uh Seevus has

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Speaker 2: been packed, the local clubs, the local suitet lounge has

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Speaker 2: been packed. What do you think about that? I think

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Speaker 2: that it's wild, and I think that this little second

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Speaker 2: search is about to be really crazy. Houston is like

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Speaker 2: crazy as crazy as well. And I think, but you know,

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Speaker 2: Houston is supposed to about to be going back on

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Speaker 2: lockdown from my owners. Well, see, this is my thing

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Speaker 2: with it. I don't understand what made people just wake

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Speaker 2: up and be like, oh, I'm going to go outside

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Speaker 2: and go out now, because there's there's nothing in the

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Speaker 2: news that said, oh it's safe now. Literally everybody was

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Speaker 2: panicking in the beginning, but now everybody's just like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I don't feel like be in the house anymore, so

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Speaker 2: let me just go out.

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Speaker 1: Like did you see that pool party in Houston Boro?

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Speaker 2: Did you see the pool party out here? They posted

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Speaker 2: it on some blog and it looked like it was

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Speaker 2: like a pool party at somebody's house and it was

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Speaker 2: like PAGs. It was crazy. It was like three hundred

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Speaker 2: plus people for sure. And yeahs Clay was crazy as

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Speaker 2: fuck this past Memorial Day weekend as well. I just

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Speaker 2: think it's rideeky Less. I was laughing because I've seen

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Speaker 2: a meme on Instagram and he said, I love how

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Speaker 2: people in Atlanta just decided COVID nineteen is over. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but that's really everybody. Yeah, Like they're just like I

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Speaker 2: just think it's crazy, and he scares me. That's why

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Speaker 2: I've just been trying to limit my interaction with people

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Speaker 2: because people just really not taking it seriously. I feel

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Speaker 2: like as long as we're I feel like we can

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Speaker 2: still go by the CDC's rules ten people or less

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Speaker 2: and that's okay. But I feel like everybody I pretty

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Speaker 2: much have been around, I talk to people like I

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Speaker 2: talked to my friends, and I know that they're not

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Speaker 2: going out, but I'm not gonna lie. My friend Dominda,

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Speaker 2: she's been going out to the clubs and she was

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Speaker 2: trying to hang out through day. I said, oh no, baby,

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Speaker 2: you gotta have fourteen days. Yeah, domin d She tweeted.

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Speaker 2: She tweeted me on Twitter a few days ago, and

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Speaker 2: she was like, I've been outside think I said, I'll

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Speaker 2: see her around you her and god, he about to

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Speaker 2: be in that house cutting up, So you're scared. I mean,

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Speaker 2: more power to the people, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 2: that's going out. If that's what you want to do.

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Speaker 2: At the end of the day, you know, do what

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Speaker 2: you want to do. But I just do think that

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Speaker 2: people still need to be cautious because this is like

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Speaker 2: far from over in my very far from over in

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Speaker 2: my personal opinion. And then a lot of these clubs

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Speaker 2: even been having the audacity to put on their flyers.

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Speaker 2: Oh we're practicing COVID nineteen safety measures. How the fuck

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Speaker 2: are you practicing COVID nineteen safety measures when it's impossible

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Speaker 2: for people to be six feet away from each other

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Speaker 2: and people in that motherfucker smoking hookah and.

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Speaker 1: She what's escobar got shut down?

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Speaker 2: I saw in it. I was just about to say that, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I was gonna exit you see that. That's but that's good.

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Speaker 2: That's good to autoists in these places too. And they

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Speaker 2: just had a drive through graduation at one of the

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Speaker 2: caught it, like a bunch of studies.

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Speaker 1: So it's like, that's crazy. People are trying to do

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Speaker 1: like the drive through.

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Speaker 2: Thing, and shit's still not working. So what I'm trying

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Speaker 2: to understand is how did Escobar get shut down?

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Speaker 1: But they allowing the clubs to stay open.

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Speaker 2: I think they have their They do have regulations, so

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Speaker 2: I think it's like you have to like the staff

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Speaker 1: I think there's like a kind of like a rules.

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Speaker 1: But what about the customers.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know. I don't know what I've

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Speaker 2: been seeing in videos and stuff. They are not wearing masks,

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Speaker 2: they're none. But there is a regulation list that they

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Speaker 2: do have, and apparently whatever the regulation list is, Escobar

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Speaker 2: they're like, do you have a mask? I was like, no,

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Speaker 2: I left my mask at home, So they had to

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Speaker 2: liquor store that's over here by Kiki House, they take

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Speaker 2: And I feel like that's what they need to be

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Speaker 1: They have those little things. It tasts literally two seconds.

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Speaker 2: They like put it on your head and they just

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Speaker 2: press a button and it tells you your temperature.

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Speaker 1: But it's just wild.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. Then, you know, we had an

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Speaker 2: eventful week because you know we had we went to

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Speaker 2: the little function.

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Speaker 1: We went to two make many functions.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so the first only one of them that just

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Speaker 2: really upset me. Okay, so the other week, the week

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Speaker 2: before last, we have a episode and we talked about

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Speaker 2: party etiquette. We talked about BDB like a kid.

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Speaker 1: We just let the girls know all the rules. But

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Speaker 1: you know what, a lot of these bdbs need to

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Speaker 1: take a class too on how to Well, if.

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Speaker 2: You're a BDB, you don't need to take a class

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Speaker 2: because you're already a BDB.

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Speaker 1: It's the one to be bdb's. Well they need to

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Speaker 1: take the class. Well, sometimes I feel like men have money,

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Speaker 1: but they just be like cheap as hell. But it's like,

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Speaker 1: if you want to be cheap, just stay at home.

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Speaker 2: But if you're cheap, then you're not a BDB. True.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean you're a baller because your bank

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Speaker 2: account says so, but you know it ain't. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I ain't never care about dating a BDB who not

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Speaker 2: basically only that's no fun.

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Speaker 1: We went to a game night the other.

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Speaker 2: Night, y'all, and it was just a very poorly planned

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Speaker 2: game night. We show up, there was no there was

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Speaker 2: only one and a half bottles of liquor. One of

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Speaker 2: the bottles of liquor, where I think now that I

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Speaker 2: look back on the situation, was kind of being hit

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Speaker 2: from us. The Crown bottle.

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Speaker 1: They did not want us to drink from that Crown bottle,

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Speaker 1: which is wild because none of us drink.

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Speaker 2: Don't even drink Crown first of all. And there was

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Speaker 2: we were sharing. It was like it was what seven

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Speaker 2: of us, eight of them, it was like eight people. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we were still practicing up.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but we were sharing one bottle of Cosa Migos.

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Speaker 1: Then we were like, you know, we were hungry forrest.

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Speaker 1: They had ordered for a sushi rolls.

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Speaker 2: Literally like we had these big ass plates and then

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Speaker 2: everybody got like three pieces of sushi. I was just

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Speaker 2: very real good. I was merrygether, you know. And it

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Speaker 2: was crazy because I was gonna invite Throwback Bab because

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Speaker 2: I was like, you're right, maybe he could have some

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Speaker 2: glad I did not invite him because would have been

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I would have been so embarrassed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was enough for me. It was definitely a no,

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Speaker 2: I'm never hanging out with him. Yeah. So I feel

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Speaker 2: like for all the bdb's out there, are aspiring bdb's

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Speaker 2: her friends as well, Like if you're having to get

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Speaker 1: Make sure to homie is straight. Make sure everybody is straight.

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Speaker 2: Don't be talking about I'm sure your homegirls today they're

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Speaker 1: Like excuse me, bitch, do we look like we missing

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Speaker 2: And that's one thing I need them to understand. We

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Speaker 2: don't miss meals over here, not at all. Yeah, I got.

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Speaker 1: Three dollars, but if I got my three dollars, drag

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Speaker 1: gonna pay for me? Ain't that right I have? I know,

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: On period pool so.

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Speaker 1: Here and I don't want to go eat, no way,

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Speaker 1: I want you to take me shopping.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like it was just very nasty. It

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Speaker 2: was just very nasty and very rude. But but we

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Speaker 2: redeemed ourselves. On Saturday, we had we went to a pool.

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Speaker 2: Well it wasn't a party.

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Speaker 1: But.

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Speaker 2: It was like a little so that was fun. It

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Speaker 1: Yes, because.

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Speaker 2: You made the potato salad kick away some the Brazilian

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Speaker 2: shrimp and shaky kebabs.

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Speaker 1: We had some links.

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Speaker 2: We had booting.

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Speaker 1: It was all just very classy and everything was fantastic.

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Speaker 1: And before we get into these topics, i just want

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Speaker 1: this now. This is like a friend moment. Okay. So

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Speaker 1: me and Rapper Bay kind of got into.

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Speaker 2: It the other day. Why well, I don't want to

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Speaker 2: say why. Yeah, but we had kind of got into

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Speaker 2: it and he had like hurt my feelings a little bit.

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Speaker 2: And I just feel like sometimes I deal with this

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Speaker 2: feel like because I'm so goofy and I'm so silly,

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Speaker 2: that I just have this like, oh, I'm gonna laugh

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Speaker 2: can say whatever the less because she's not gonna care

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Speaker 2: because she goofy as fucking she gonna after ship off

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Speaker 2: Like damn bitch. I got feelings too. I'll be shocked

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Speaker 2: at sometimes, like because the thing that we got mad

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Speaker 2: laughed it off the first few times, but he kept

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, nigga, this is this isn't funny anymore.

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Speaker 2: Like it's kind of hurting my feelings, Okay, and I

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Speaker 2: just didn't like it. But you play alike, But what's

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Speaker 2: gonna come with the territory? Sometimes because you do play alike,

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Speaker 2: you do, and you do that sometimes I feel like

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Speaker 2: we just be like, oh, I know she playing, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but I feel like you do that. But I don't

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Speaker 2: think I've ever like playing with him. No, I don't

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Speaker 2: think I've ever played with anybody so much that I

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Speaker 1: So yeah, he do not be playing with these hos.

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Speaker 2: Five hundred and ten thousand, and then like Sophia got

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Speaker 2: like four hundred and eighty thousand. Oh okay, anyways, long

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Speaker 2: story short, Sophia let her man get in her head

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Speaker 1: They used to live together because oh wow, live together.

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Speaker 2: So that's so they split up over a difference of

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Speaker 2: No, y'all need to be getting paid more. Y'all need

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Speaker 2: basically leave barstool. But what does her boyfriend do.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, how ungrateful are y'all? Yeah, that's wild, y'all ungrateful?

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Speaker 2: Nothing. They went to barstool. Barstool blew them up. I mean,

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Speaker 2: we've been doing our podcast longer than them, right, So

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Speaker 2: it's just crazy, like when I listen to they pot

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Speaker 1: When I listened to this podcast, I said, bit, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Know you're fucking lying.

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Speaker 1: Now I get it, you know, it's it's a culture thing.

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Speaker 2: like absolutely, iHeart They're literally signing podcasts like they're artists now. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You know, call her Daddy was getting what like they're

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Speaker 2: right from what I saw on their SoundCloud. Now I'm

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00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:09,879
Speaker 2: sure that changed once they got their show and everything

438
00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:10,280
Speaker 2: like that.

439
00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:13,879
Speaker 1: But nah, call her Daddy was doing like big, big, big,

440
00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:14,919
Speaker 1: big huge jumpers.

441
00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:18,600
Speaker 2: That's why I said them asking for more money wasn't

442
00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:22,760
Speaker 2: the problem. But it's just so crazy how ungrateful people be. Man. Yeah, like,

443
00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:25,000
Speaker 2: you know how much I would kill for us to

444
00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:27,520
Speaker 2: have like a production deal for somebody to just like

445
00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:32,119
Speaker 2: shoot our content out there for millions of people to see.

446
00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:34,280
Speaker 2: Like y'all don't have to do nothing as far as

447
00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:38,680
Speaker 2: marketing everything like they handle everything. Y'all have to understand

448
00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:43,200
Speaker 2: too that I think that your upbringing and maybe like

449
00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:45,680
Speaker 2: if you come from a family with money and stuff,

450
00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:49,639
Speaker 2: that type of stuff makes a difference too, because I mean, that's.

451
00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:50,560
Speaker 1: Sound like a lot of money to us, but maybe

452
00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:50,920
Speaker 1: to them.

453
00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:52,760
Speaker 2: They was like, but you know what's crazy about it

454
00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:54,760
Speaker 2: that I don't fuck with is because they be on

455
00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:56,480
Speaker 2: the podcast talking about they broke.

456
00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:58,720
Speaker 1: Bit y'all really got three dollars. Y'all don't know about this.

457
00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:00,840
Speaker 2: Three dollar life, And.

458
00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:03,480
Speaker 1: That's what we know them probably didn't have three dollars

459
00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:03,919
Speaker 1: for Rie, but.

460
00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:06,520
Speaker 2: They will be on the podcast talking about they broke

461
00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:11,399
Speaker 2: that broke, that broke to that demographic of people brokes.

462
00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:14,000
Speaker 2: She's so a completely different things.

463
00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:15,040
Speaker 1: But I don't care.

464
00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:17,280
Speaker 2: Father of the thousand dollars a year is not broke.

465
00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:20,800
Speaker 2: Bro it's not that's not fucking broke at all. Even

466
00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:23,920
Speaker 2: living in New York. Yeah, I agree. You get a

467
00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:27,320
Speaker 2: little apartment and still have hello fucking minie, you know

468
00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,399
Speaker 2: what I mean? And then y'all only working really what

469
00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:31,440
Speaker 2: one day week? One day week?

470
00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:34,160
Speaker 1: That's wow? Well bar still needs to sign us because

471
00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:37,719
Speaker 1: she you know what I'm saying, it's real good here.

472
00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:40,920
Speaker 2: We get it done. So I don't want to sound

473
00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:42,879
Speaker 2: like I'm just hating on these girls, because, like I said,

474
00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:45,879
Speaker 2: I do like to see women doing great things. I

475
00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,240
Speaker 2: wish they'll work it out. But I really kind of

476
00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:50,359
Speaker 2: want to talk about having a podcast with your friend.

477
00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:52,679
Speaker 2: I know we've talked about this a little bit before,

478
00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:54,520
Speaker 2: but I know a lot of y'all want to start

479
00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:55,120
Speaker 2: a podcast.

480
00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:56,639
Speaker 1: I actually had somebody call me.

481
00:20:56,840 --> 00:21:00,920
Speaker 2: I have a lot of people inquire about getting help

482
00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 2: starting their podcast. They're like, should I do it by

483
00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,119
Speaker 2: myself or should I do it with a person, and

484
00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:07,360
Speaker 2: my thing is with that.

485
00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:11,120
Speaker 1: I love our show, yeah, I really do.

486
00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:14,200
Speaker 2: But I'll say this, it ain't nothing like an episode

487
00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:17,760
Speaker 2: with just like me Andrea. But that's just because this

488
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,719
Speaker 2: is a real fucking friendship, like Bi Lex love when

489
00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:22,760
Speaker 2: we just record just the two of Yeah, don't get

490
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:25,479
Speaker 2: me wrong. I love every single guest that we have

491
00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:27,280
Speaker 2: on I'm so grateful that they even came on the

492
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,400
Speaker 2: platform to give us a time. But Bitch, it ain't

493
00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 2: nothing like when it's just me and you just vibing

494
00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:34,879
Speaker 2: and just talking. Yeah. I think whenever you have a

495
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:37,639
Speaker 2: podcast with your friends, it has to be somebody that

496
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:41,480
Speaker 2: you really fucking fucking care about that there's nothing that

497
00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:43,359
Speaker 2: would come in between y'alls, because then I feel like

498
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,720
Speaker 2: it just flow differents, you know what I mean. I

499
00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,920
Speaker 2: feel like at first when we first started doing Whining

500
00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 2: Down Wednesday, before we you know, changed it to poor

501
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:54,119
Speaker 2: Minds and stuff, I feel like it didn't flow differentlessly.

502
00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:57,399
Speaker 2: But that's because, especially more specifically me, I had to

503
00:21:57,480 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 2: really kind of get used to like being on camera

504
00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:03,440
Speaker 2: and talking all the time, like and showing my personality

505
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,159
Speaker 2: to people, because before we started the podcast, I was

506
00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,360
Speaker 2: definitely just one of them girls where it's like, Okay, yeah,

507
00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:09,919
Speaker 2: I had a whole bunch of followers and shit, but

508
00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:13,200
Speaker 2: I just will just.

509
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 1: Post my pictures and shit can go.

510
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,280
Speaker 2: I just felt like, I don't know, I guess I

511
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:18,680
Speaker 2: just used to feel like my personality was reserved for

512
00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:20,159
Speaker 2: the people that knew me in real life. Like the

513
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,880
Speaker 2: people that knew me know that I'm funny and they

514
00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:24,720
Speaker 2: know that I'm crazy and all that type of shit,

515
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:26,200
Speaker 2: and it's like, if you know me and you know that,

516
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,560
Speaker 2: I still need to show that on social media. So

517
00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 2: I think that I had to get used to, you know,

518
00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 2: just being vocal publicly.

519
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:35,639
Speaker 1: And I think another thing that's important when you have

520
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 1: a podcast with your friend.

521
00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:39,920
Speaker 2: Me and Dram we talk about this all the time.

522
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,440
Speaker 2: We had a very long what was it like, six

523
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:45,360
Speaker 2: eight months where we just were not getting along, Like

524
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:49,280
Speaker 2: we were not fucking getting along, and it was like

525
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:52,920
Speaker 2: it was really bad. So we got through that. That's

526
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 2: what I'm gonna say first of all. But I feel

527
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 2: like a lot of people that go through the same

528
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 2: shit that me, you went through, they don't get through

529
00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:59,760
Speaker 2: that shit. So I feel like, if you see those

530
00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:01,760
Speaker 2: red signs and those red flags.

531
00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:02,120
Speaker 1: In the beginning.

532
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:04,240
Speaker 2: That's when you need to make a decision like, Okay, bitch,

533
00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 2: do I still want to do this? Because now I

534
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 2: feel like how strong our relationship is, Bitch, there is

535
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 2: literally nothing that can come in between us, Like whatever

536
00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:13,840
Speaker 2: deal you sign or whatever we do, I don't think

537
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:14,920
Speaker 2: we would ever get.

538
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:17,200
Speaker 1: Into it about some money or some shit because whatever

539
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:17,640
Speaker 1: deal we.

540
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 2: Signed, if anything, I'll be like, somebody be like, oh,

541
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 2: we're gonna pay y'all twenty dollars. I'll be like, yay,

542
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:28,440
Speaker 2: twenty dollars. You'll be like, no, bitch, Lex, I'll be like, definitely,

543
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:31,720
Speaker 2: I'm definitely gonna be the one that's negotiating the numbers

544
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:38,399
Speaker 2: because Lex Is gonna be like, that's quadru I'm not.

545
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:43,679
Speaker 2: But I feel like a lot of the time, like

546
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, when people do shows together

547
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:48,239
Speaker 2: and they can't get past their problems and stuff, I

548
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 2: just be feeling like that's because you're not They.

549
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 1: Not real friends.

550
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:53,199
Speaker 2: Well, I don't want to go up so far as

551
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 2: saying that, but this is where I think the problem lies.

552
00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,040
Speaker 1: In a lot of podcasts. I think people don't stay

553
00:23:58,040 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 1: in they fucking lane.

554
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:01,639
Speaker 2: What do you mean? I think, like, like I said,

555
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:04,440
Speaker 2: if we going to a meeting, I know, for damn shaw,

556
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 2: I probably need to let you talk negotiate, right, you

557
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying now, I'm not saying I'm not

558
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 2: gonna have an opinion or I'm not gonna have no

559
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 2: say so. But it's just like, just like when it

560
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 2: comes to certain stuff like editing or coming up with

561
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:18,199
Speaker 2: certain things like you know that's my role, right, I

562
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,640
Speaker 2: feel like when we talk about certain things like oh,

563
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 2: really doing stuff like being a baddie, like that's your lane.

564
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 2: When it comes to.

565
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 1: Cracking these jokes, you know that's my name. I mean,

566
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 1: we both have rain.

567
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't do very well.

568
00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:32,399
Speaker 1: Like I'm not saying I'm not a bad bitch or

569
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 1: you not funny, right, but I feel like when you

570
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:36,679
Speaker 1: know your land and you stay in that lane and

571
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 1: you stop trying to swerve in somebody else lane, that's

572
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:40,960
Speaker 1: when the clashing starts.

573
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,880
Speaker 2: And another thing is when you have a podcast, you're

574
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 2: gonna have to understand that people gonna have their favorites.

575
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 1: It's gonna be people that are Teamlex, It's gonna be people.

576
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 2: That are team Sure.

577
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:51,880
Speaker 1: You can't let none of that stuff get to your

578
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 1: head either. I can never.

579
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 2: I'm never gonna be like, yeah, I can have poor

580
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 2: Minds with Dred because I can't.

581
00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:59,679
Speaker 1: Could I do a podcast, of course? Yeah, but it

582
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 1: was just a whole different.

583
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 2: It can't I can't even do nothing like this, right, Yeah,

584
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,639
Speaker 2: I can't have these conversations with people like this, you

585
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,120
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. But it's like, could you do

586
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 2: content without me?

587
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,880
Speaker 1: Of course? But it just wouldn't be the same thing, right,

588
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:15,640
Speaker 1: So I think that's what happens. A lot of times

589
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: people feel like, oh, well, let me start this so

590
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:21,120
Speaker 1: I can show her I don't need you, like that's

591
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:22,119
Speaker 1: what a lot of people do.

592
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'm like it end up working out there

593
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:28,200
Speaker 2: will Well, I'll say this, I feel like there's nothing

594
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 2: wrong with starting another podcast or doing other things.

595
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

596
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 2: It shouldn't be. It shouldn't be to someone that you

597
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:38,120
Speaker 2: used to, you know, like I feel like when because

598
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:39,960
Speaker 2: you know, I do wear too next and I'm actually

599
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 2: about to start where two next again, But it has nothing,

600
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,440
Speaker 2: It has no similar things to do with poor minds.

601
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 2: It's completely fucking different. I would never start another podcast

602
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 2: that was like, oh, we're talking about kind of like

603
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:54,400
Speaker 2: current events, relationship topics, sex topics, It's like, wow, when

604
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 2: I could do that here, right, you know what I'm saying.

605
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 2: So I feel like a lot of times people be

606
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:00,719
Speaker 2: thinking it's a competition, but it's like I don't win

607
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 2: unless dre winning vice versa when it comes to poor mind. Yeah,

608
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 2: I just feel like, if you want to do a

609
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 2: podcast with your friend, it just needs to be authentic.

610
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 2: People like authentic stuff, like a lot of stuff that

611
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 2: we be reading online and we be seeing online about,

612
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 2: you know, like reviews and stuff that people give on

613
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:18,919
Speaker 2: different podcasts and stuff. One of the main things that

614
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 2: I notice is that people can always fill the energy

615
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 2: when it's off between the two co host or however,

616
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 2: meaning you're doing the show. People can always tell when

617
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 2: the energy is off because I remember at one point,

618
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 2: like you said, when we weren't really getting along or whatever,

619
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 2: that was one of the main things that people would say,

620
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 2: like in our reviews and stuff on like Apple and stuff,

621
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 2: people always always fucking arguing like it's fucking ridiculous, like

622
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 2: they energy just be off, baby being shady, And so

623
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 2: I just tell why people can always tell, So just

624
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 2: make sure you know what I mean. If you're gonna

625
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,640
Speaker 2: do a podcast with somebody or a friend, quote unquote,

626
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 2: just make sure that y'all got good energy in that

627
00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:00,239
Speaker 2: it's gonna come together well because people can see right

628
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 2: on the Yeah in the video, because people could see

629
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:06,880
Speaker 2: right through that. That's absolutely true. The body language be everything,

630
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,159
Speaker 2: the conversation, because that's a back and forth ben to girl,

631
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,120
Speaker 2: I'm telling you. We used to record, bitch. I used

632
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 2: to walk in and record and I'd be like, all right,

633
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,239
Speaker 2: see that, and we would we would only see each

634
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 2: other on Tuesdays. We would go to that one hour.

635
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: Yes, we would go to well it would really be

636
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 1: too because we would go to the radio station.

637
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 2: But really but but yeah, but that was before we

638
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 2: did the radio station. Because I feel like around the

639
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 2: time that we started being on the radio, it was

640
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 2: started getting a little bit better, started getting a little

641
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,879
Speaker 2: bit better around that time. I feel like it was

642
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 2: before that, like it was like the end of twenty eighteen,

643
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 2: so like maybe like you like, yeah, probably until like

644
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 2: the middle of last year. Yeah, because I feel like

645
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 2: things that are really good, like I said always say,

646
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 2: like we went to Jamaica.

647
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,439
Speaker 1: That was like that was like our breakthrough trip. That

648
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 1: was like our therapy breakthrough trip. We were so fucked

649
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: up at Jamaica.

650
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 2: We had so much fun, and I think it had

651
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 2: just kind of reminded us like that we had to

652
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 2: get back.

653
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 1: To, like.

654
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,919
Speaker 2: Right, it was like every time we got together and

655
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 2: just for giving each other too for things that we

656
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 2: was upset and each other, because I know you was

657
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 2: You had things that you was upset with me about,

658
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 2: and I had things I was upset with you about.

659
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: And it's like, if you just.

660
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 2: Keep harboring on the same things, you know what I mean,

661
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 2: you and this person that are not going to be

662
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,360
Speaker 2: able to get back to a good place. If y'all

663
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:22,360
Speaker 2: both can't kind.

664
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,200
Speaker 1: Of let go.

665
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:25,359
Speaker 2: You have to choose to forget somebody's like if you

666
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 2: don't want to forgive me a choice, right, Because there

667
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:29,919
Speaker 2: was a lot of times you said I was.

668
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 1: Like, well, do you want to be my friend? And

669
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: I you'd be like, no, you know, always tell the truth,

670
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: even oh my god, I.

671
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 2: Was like, no, bitch, I mean, I love you, but

672
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 2: I really don't want to be young. For I never

673
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 2: I don't feel like I ever stopped caring about you.

674
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 2: That's why eventually, you know what I mean, I got

675
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 2: to a point where I was like, okay, cause you know,

676
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 2: I could be stubborn a lot of the time too,

677
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 2: So I feel like eventually I got to a point

678
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 2: to where I was just like, Okay, let me stop

679
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 2: being stubborn and work on these because obviously I still

680
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 2: care about you. And it would be like I would

681
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 2: have conversations with other people around me, like my other

682
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 2: friends and stuff, and they would just be like, well,

683
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 2: stop doing the show, and I would be like, no,

684
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 2: I can't, and that would be like why and I can't.

685
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. That was the advice. Understand you

686
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 2: haven't even took off yet, so like why you can't

687
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 2: stop doing it? But I feel like I just kind

688
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 2: of felt like no, because I feel like if I could,

689
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 2: if I stopped doing the show, then it's like we

690
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 2: really wasn't gonna be friends somewhere. That really poor Minds

691
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 2: was the only thing that was cheaping, and I think

692
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 2: that's kind of how it was for me. A lot

693
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 2: of people were like, just quit the show next, like

694
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 2: you can start something else, you can do something else,

695
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 2: like they'll be fine. But I was like, I'm glad

696
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 2: we pushed through.

697
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 1: That, we did that.

698
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 2: We need we need.

699
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm gonna let you bring in the next topic.

700
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 2: Okay, So the next topic that we're gonna be talking

701
00:29:56,840 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 2: about is a couple goals. I just kind of wanted to,

702
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 2: you know, talk about a little bit people. I feel

703
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 2: like so many people be having such an obsession with

704
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 2: other people's relationships, and it's so weird to me. It's

705
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 2: so weird to me because I can understand having your

706
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 2: opinion about things that you see. I can understand having

707
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 2: your opinion about things that you see online and stuff

708
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 2: like that, but it's just kind of like, why do

709
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 2: you care so much about people that you don't know.

710
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 1: I'll say this, I think a lot now. I don't

711
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 1: mind when people are like, oh, this is cute, or

712
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 1: when they say a couple goes like giving them a compliment,

713
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 1: but I think it's weird when people get so invested

714
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,479
Speaker 1: that they start talking shit and being nasty and being rude,

715
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: like oh, but you're an idiot, bitch, it can never

716
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 1: be me, and stuff like that, like he can, you won't.

717
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 2: But I'll say this, I just think it's really like

718
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 2: if you see a celebrity getting cheated on by her

719
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 2: nigga or whatever, and she takes him back. Why do

720
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 2: you feel the need to comment or call people stupid

721
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 2: or that's not the situation, Like how are you that investing?

722
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 2: It's not and complete. I mean, I see so many

723
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 2: people arguing on Twitter.

724
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 1: About about just celebrity couples, right like I think it's

725
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 1: I think it's why are you are you? But you

726
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 1: know what, I'll say this, I think a lot of

727
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 1: that comes from jealousy too. Absolutely, I absolutely think it

728
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 1: come from jealousy. A lot of the time.

729
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 2: I feel like people be trying to talk down on

730
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 2: people or try to talk about people, but it really

731
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,680
Speaker 2: just be because they're jealous that they be a lot

732
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 2: of the same shit be happening to them or has

733
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 2: happening to them in the past, but they not reaping

734
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 2: the same benefits that these person might be reaping exactly

735
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 2: in their situation. And I'm not saying that I can

736
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 2: be bought, but a lot of girls be like, oh,

737
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 2: a nigga buy you some Lewis shoes, some burkings and

738
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 2: take you on a couple of trip and you be

739
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 2: forgiving him.

740
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 1: It can never be bitch, a nigga never even bought

741
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 1: you a fucking Hamburger.

742
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 2: That's why I say it be the main house. They

743
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 2: be talking about it. It would never be me because

744
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 2: it can't be. It won't be and they and I

745
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 2: just think it's so weird how they like go in

746
00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,200
Speaker 2: and be like, you're so dumb. I can't be bough,

747
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 2: I can't be bought. Sis. Nothing gets done for you,

748
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 2: so you never you can't say what you would do

749
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 2: in that situation because you don't know how yug be spoiled.

750
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 2: If you ain't never been in somebody's shoes, you can

751
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 2: never really talk about what you would do in that

752
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 2: situation because but you don't know what it's like to

753
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 2: be in that. And not only that, I feel like

754
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 2: a lot of times you never know what goes on

755
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 2: behind closed doors between two people. Yes, that's what I'm

756
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 2: That's another thing too. It's like y'all, don't y'all always

757
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 2: be trying to assume that people don't be steading up

758
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 2: for themselves to a nigga, or don't be doing like,

759
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 2: don't say certain cheap to a nigga when a nigga

760
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 2: do them wrong, and stuff like that. Y'all know the

761
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 2: conversations that people have in private and you'll never truly

762
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 2: know what goes on between two people unless you're there right,

763
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 2: and you ain't there right. I feel like a lot

764
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 2: of times people just assume that things are one way,

765
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 2: because I'll say that social media is different. Like I'm

766
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 2: still don't get me wrong, I post shit right. People

767
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 2: don't know what I do for a living. They don't

768
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 2: know where I live, they don't know who I fuck with,

769
00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 2: they don't know nothing about me, even know my real

770
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 2: name true to keep it one hundred. So it's like

771
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 2: for me.

772
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 1: People definitely don't know my real name and so my

773
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: last name right, That's what I'm saying.

774
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 2: So for me, it's kind of like y'all are used

775
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 2: to people that puts all their business out on social

776
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 2: media all day, every day, all day every day.

777
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 1: But you have to realize a lot of these.

778
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 2: People, especially celebrities, they're only giving you a piece of

779
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 2: their life, a small.

780
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 1: Piece, a very very very very very small piece.

781
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 2: So you're making as a think piece and assumptions on

782
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 2: one hundred percent of this person's life when they're only

783
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 2: showing you five percent of the shit and sometimes barely

784
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 2: they but sometimes barely fucking that Mandy had tweeted earlier today,

785
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:44,480
Speaker 2: she was saying that she feels like she talk about

786
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 2: so much in her personal life on horrible decisions, but

787
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 2: she don't want to talk about the niggas that she

788
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 2: talk about, like I mean, the niggas that she fuck

789
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 2: with and stuff, because it's just like, damn, give me

790
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 2: my privacy. Let me have at least that one part

791
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 2: of my life. This to myself because I tell y'all

792
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 2: so fucking much, and I feel the same way about

793
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 2: our show. I had to retweet it because I'm like, yes,

794
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,320
Speaker 2: I feel like sometimes people could be so invasive and

795
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,280
Speaker 2: so nosy and try to piece things together and figure

796
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 2: shit out, and it's just kind of like them, just enjoy,

797
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 2: just enjoy you, Just enjoy the show. Listen, enjoy what

798
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 2: I'm giving you, and stop trying to piece everything together

799
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 2: because what you think you now, you don't know. And nine,

800
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 2: I'll say ten times out of ten loud and wrong.

801
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 2: But I'll say this though, for me, like even with

802
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:31,760
Speaker 2: dealing with Nigerian Bay, like I still talk to Nageria

803
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 2: Bay like that's my nigga. We're very fucking close, right,

804
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 2: But it kind of got overwhelming for me as well

805
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 2: because it was to the point to where like people

806
00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 2: were calling him about the show, and people are tweeting

807
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,399
Speaker 2: me all the time, like I would say something about, oh, y'all,

808
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 2: this nigga look finally be like, oh, where's Nigerian Bay.

809
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:49,239
Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, y'all.

810
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 1: Like can I live?

811
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 2: No, you can't. And it amazing that they gonna say

812
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,879
Speaker 2: when we say stuff like this is oh, well, they

813
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 2: have a podcast, so they're the ones who put in

814
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:01,879
Speaker 2: their ship, so we should be able to comment on it.

815
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:04,399
Speaker 2: And granted that's true, you know what I mean. If

816
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,320
Speaker 2: somebody is putting something out there, you can definitely comment

817
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 2: on it.

818
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,360
Speaker 1: But I feel like it should be taking a surface

819
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:11,840
Speaker 1: level and very lightly.

820
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 2: Yes, it's like I said, sometimes it get a little

821
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 2: bit too in basis and it's just kind of like, okay, damn,

822
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 2: chill relate a little bit, shorty. But yeah, as far

823
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 2: as a couple goes, like I said, I think a

824
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 2: lot of people sometimes they look up to situations that

825
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:29,319
Speaker 2: don't necessarily be looked up to and they just talk

826
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 2: shit about situations that bit you don't even really know

827
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 2: what's going on. I just feel like, at the end

828
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 2: of the day, you just got to let people live

829
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,320
Speaker 2: their life like, you're not gonna always agree with everything

830
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 2: that everybody do. But that's why all of us have

831
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 2: different paths. That's why people have freedom of choice. Allow

832
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 2: people to have their freedom of choice and choose to

833
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 2: live their life the way that they want to live

834
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:50,319
Speaker 2: it. It really shouldn't affect you. I'm not gonna lie like

835
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 2: the way other people live their life. I'm really never

836
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 2: really concerned about shep that don't affect me? Are people

837
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 2: around me?

838
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:57,319
Speaker 3: Right?

839
00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 1: I really don't give a flu.

840
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:00,399
Speaker 2: But not only that, I feel like lot of times

841
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:03,439
Speaker 2: people comment on certain couples, they're like, oh, she dumb. Yeah,

842
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:05,799
Speaker 2: he buy her everything, but he don't really like her.

843
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 2: He don't be posting her. Let me tell y'all something.

844
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 1: These men are buying these girls cars, jewelry, rolexes, bust downs, trips.

845
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:16,959
Speaker 1: If a nigga don't fuck with you, he's not doing

846
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,319
Speaker 1: all that for you, Yeah he not. Every girl is

847
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: somebody A lot, a lot, a lot.

848
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 2: Of these girls are just getting fucked and sit on

849
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 2: their way up these men.

850
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:26,319
Speaker 1: Trust me.

851
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,840
Speaker 2: If you see a girl, she got some nice bags,

852
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 2: got some of my shoes, got some jewelry, got a

853
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 2: nice car, the nigga's fucking with her inside way, shape

854
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 2: or form.

855
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 1: So yeah, niggas gonna do they dirt.

856
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 2: That's what comes with the territory when you fucking with

857
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 2: cer certain type of niggas. But you stupid if you

858
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 2: don't think these girls don't understand that and exactly, And

859
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 2: that's what really is crazy to me. People always be

860
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 2: trying to talk down on girls who will like keep

861
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 2: fucking with a nigga or taking nigga back because they

862
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 2: quote unquote bought them something or did something for them.

863
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 2: But how y'all know that's not how they beach playing

864
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 2: the game. Do y'all ever stop to think that, like

865
00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:05,359
Speaker 2: some bitches really just be wanting the thugs and they

866
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 2: really don't be all up in their feelings. I mean

867
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 2: not saying some girls don't, but a lot of girls

868
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 2: really just be wanting they things give me, and bitches

869
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 2: be thinking that they stupid or bches be trying to

870
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 2: talk about them, but you really don't understand that's probably

871
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 2: all that bitch really won't right, she probably don't even

872
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 2: really give a fuck. Whenever you're in a relationship or

873
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:30,800
Speaker 2: just when you're dealing with somebody, whether you want at tension, love,

874
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 2: a car, shoes back, whatever it is that you want,

875
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 2: make sure you're getting that from that nigga, right, Like

876
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:38,399
Speaker 2: I have some niggas that I just like to fuck

877
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 2: with because they got a good dick, or this nigga

878
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 2: because he bought me a lot of shit, or this

879
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 2: nigga because he gave me a lot of attention, or

880
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like, I feel like, whatever

881
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 2: you want from that person, you should make sure you

882
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:47,799
Speaker 2: should get from him.

883
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: Period.

884
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 2: People just have different breaking points and people have different

885
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 2: things that they okay, we're putting up with. Like for

886
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 2: some women, it is it's like, oh no, I'm not

887
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 2: gonna never deal with that nigga who be cheating on me,

888
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,840
Speaker 2: Like I'm not, okay, fucking well, you must be bought

889
00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:02,840
Speaker 2: the I mean, but I'm just saying for some women,

890
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 2: even if we do think that they living in a

891
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,319
Speaker 2: fairytale world, which we do, you know what I mean,

892
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 2: I feel like, but that's that's how some women think

893
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 2: and that's how they was raised and not get it

894
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 2: because I was raised that way.

895
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 1: Too, But life taught me different, because.

896
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, life has taught me. Life has taught

897
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:24,279
Speaker 2: me a different story, you know what I mean. But

898
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 2: that's definitely how my mom raised me too. It's like,

899
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 2: a man is you You need to be with a

900
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:29,799
Speaker 2: man who's not gonna cheat on you.

901
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 1: And I feel like your mom's supposed to put it.

902
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 2: I mean, your mom is not saying your personally, but no,

903
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 2: not only that, I feel like any parent and I'm

904
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 2: not talking about your parents, but in your parents, it's

905
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 2: like there, if the husband is cheating, I don't think

906
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 2: the mom is gonna tell the kid. Oh yeah, all

907
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 2: these niggas that shit, because what what wife is gonna

908
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 2: paint their husband and to their children, you.

909
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:52,439
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying.

910
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 2: So, of course, a lot of these a lot of

911
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 2: women that were raised in two parent households. You're thinking, oh, well,

912
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 2: my daddy was faithful because we grew up in a

913
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 2: happy home.

914
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:03,919
Speaker 1: Baby, your daddy was outside creeping, right, you talking about

915
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 1: he got over time he was at Gertrude House, girl,

916
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 1: Gertrude ask But no, for real, That's what I'm saying.

917
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 1: So it's just like I feel like, for the most part, everybody,

918
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 1: not everybody, but a lot of women were.

919
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 2: Raised that way, believe it or not. But It's just

920
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,399
Speaker 2: like when you get older, you choose your own path,

921
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,840
Speaker 2: and you decide what type of life you want and

922
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 2: which the things that you want out of life, and

923
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,720
Speaker 2: if you choose to deal with a certain type of nigga,

924
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 2: let people do what the hell they want to do.

925
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 2: Actually say this, the type of things that I know

926
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:41,799
Speaker 2: that I wanted my future relationship is one I'm never

927
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 2: gonna be worried about another bitch. I'm just that's just

928
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,239
Speaker 2: not something I that's just not a bad I want

929
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 2: to fight because I'm gonna be fighting all my life.

930
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 2: I had to fight to be worried. Imagine that type

931
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 2: of existence where you literally wake up every day and

932
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 2: you obsessed and worried about which I'm in because these

933
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 2: men are not gonna fucking stop. They're not worried about it.

934
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 2: Enjoy that man. Nobody belongs to you. Enjoy that man

935
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 2: that enjoy again. See say it again, nobody belongs to you. Now?

936
00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:17,360
Speaker 2: Can I get amn? Hey man? Can I get a man? Halleen?

937
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:21,320
Speaker 1: So I had to take out a church real quick.

938
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 2: But yes, y'all.

939
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:25,120
Speaker 1: Have I thinking that people are positions because they're nice?

940
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's a lot of people's problem when

941
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:30,240
Speaker 2: you date somebody you have You can't be with somebody

942
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:34,319
Speaker 2: and be jealous and be possessive. That's not how relationships work.

943
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,840
Speaker 2: To me, I feel like you're supposed to enjoy people,

944
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 2: like even in your friendships. Like Drea is my friend, right,

945
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 2: Drea can have other friends. Drea can go out with

946
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 2: other people. If Drea is going through something and she

947
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:49,319
Speaker 2: doesn't want to confide in me at the moment, she

948
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 2: can confide in other people. I'm not gonna get mad

949
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:55,280
Speaker 2: jealous because this is a human, This is a grown ass.

950
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 1: Woman, and it's like she does not belong to me.

951
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 2: So I think a lot of problems start relationships when

952
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 2: you think this person belongs to you. Now, I think

953
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:06,320
Speaker 2: there are levels of respect, and you know you're gonna

954
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 2: respect me. You're not about to have like if I'm

955
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 2: your woman, You're not about to be on Instagram in

956
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 2: the club kissing on the bitch and she filming all

957
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 2: and posting it. Now, that's a little bit too right,

958
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. It has to be boundaries, Yeah, boundaries,

959
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 2: exacinitely some boundaries, you know what I'm saying. It's like,

960
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 2: you can't be moving off sloppy out here, but I

961
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 2: feel like real niggas don't move sloppy. Real niggas know

962
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 2: what's up, like they not really out here purposely embarrassing

963
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:37,799
Speaker 2: they may. Yeah, So I just feel like people's you know,

964
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:43,240
Speaker 2: expectations for relationships are different, but lets your expectations be yours.

965
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:46,879
Speaker 2: Stop projecting onto other people because you feel like, oh,

966
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 2: you're she's dumb.

967
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:49,880
Speaker 1: Well that bitch. Maybe I think you're dumb.

968
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:53,279
Speaker 2: Maybe I think you Maybe you're dumb, but you ain't

969
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 2: got nothing, you.

970
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 1: Never been nowhere be So maybe I think you're dumb.

971
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 2: But you talking about you exactly.

972
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 1: I'll let you make it.

973
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 2: No, they can't. Let me and my wife sales make it, honey, Please.

974
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 1: Let me in my wife sales live.

975
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:15,879
Speaker 2: Please, God damn. Okay, so let me know what y'all

976
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 2: think about a couple of goals and things like that.

977
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: We're gonna move on to the next topic. I'll let

978
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:24,799
Speaker 1: you introduce uh this topic as well for the girls.

979
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 2: Okay, So I wanted to talk about this. I'm a

980
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:31,240
Speaker 2: guy that I got because I forgot why I wanted

981
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 2: to talk about this. I actually been having this in

982
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 2: my notes for a few weeks I had wanted to

983
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:36,760
Speaker 2: talk about it a few weeks ago, so I forgot,

984
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 2: like what prompted me to make this a topic on

985
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:42,280
Speaker 2: the show, But I wanted to talk about dating people

986
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 2: if parents don't like or don't approve it, you know,

987
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:47,720
Speaker 2: and would you, you know, would you date a nigga

988
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 2: that y'all mama didn't like?

989
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy to me? Growing up?

990
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 2: My sister has always been the super focused one, go

991
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:58,400
Speaker 2: to college, get a good degree, you know, make money.

992
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 2: But she's never been like the best at picking men

993
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 2: as large as that you have it. And my mom

994
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 2: has literally never liked anybody my sister has dated. She's

995
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 2: tolerated them like nobody. Nope, she's tolerating them this, you know.

996
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 2: I told the story I think a few months ago

997
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 2: on the show. My sister is now with my best friend.

998
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:20,800
Speaker 2: They had a baby together, so they're like in a relationship.

999
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 2: He's the first guy that my mom has ever liked,

1000
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 2: the first one. And for me, I've always dated the

1001
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:28,879
Speaker 2: guys that my mom like, I've never brought a nigga home.

1002
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 2: And my mama was like never. I mean my ex

1003
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 2: that I well, well, my ex that I got in

1004
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,239
Speaker 2: a relationship with the one that tried to make me

1005
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 2: sign the NDA. He don't even have a nickname. Yeah,

1006
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 2: they never met because I was in Atlanta, she was

1007
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 2: in Hoaston. But my ex before that, I was in

1008
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 2: a relationship with him for about two and a half years,

1009
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 2: loved him. Look, I mean they used to they still

1010
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:53,800
Speaker 2: talk to this day, and he just had a baby.

1011
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:56,360
Speaker 2: He used to come to the house and crawfish balls

1012
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:56,880
Speaker 2: all the time.

1013
00:43:57,200 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 1: My ex before that, with the one I use to

1014
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: live with, they had an amazing relationship.

1015
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:05,359
Speaker 2: She was actually heartbroken when me and him broke up

1016
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 2: that I feel like she went through it more than

1017
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 2: I did. So for me, honestly, I love that dynamic

1018
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 2: of like me and my sister, my best friend and

1019
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 2: my mom. We're all in the group chat. I love

1020
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 2: that dynamic of family because I always talk about I

1021
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 2: didn't have a big family grown right, So whenever I'm

1022
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:25,920
Speaker 2: dating somebody, it's absolutely I can't date.

1023
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 1: You if my mom doesn't like you.

1024
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 2: So you were so you could never be with a

1025
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 2: lot of your mom I.

1026
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 1: Can fuck you, you can we can.

1027
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 2: Go, and we can do what we gotta do.

1028
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 1: But if my mama don't like you, you're not about

1029
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 1: to be my man. I'm not marry you. It's not

1030
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:37,879
Speaker 1: I just I'm not doing it.

1031
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 2: I am not gonna lie. I feel that way too,

1032
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 2: because my parents have never liked anybody that I've dated.

1033
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,359
Speaker 2: They always feel like none of them niggas was good

1034
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 2: enough and where all the niggas at now not good enough?

1035
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,319
Speaker 2: Exactly exactly they.

1036
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:54,880
Speaker 1: Had a point.

1037
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:56,959
Speaker 2: So I feel like a lot of the time your

1038
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,840
Speaker 2: parents not to say that they always know best because

1039
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 2: and going back to you know, just being your own

1040
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 2: person and being an individual. You have to live your

1041
00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 2: life how you see feed and make your own choices,

1042
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 2: especially when you become an adult. But I feel like

1043
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 2: a lot of the time parents be on the something

1044
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 2: and we really don't be giving them a lot of

1045
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 2: credit as much credit as they deserve, because even when

1046
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 2: it comes to friendships, I look back at all the

1047
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:22,240
Speaker 2: beeches I used to be cool week and elementary school,

1048
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 2: middle school, all them bitches that my mama used to

1049
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:28,239
Speaker 2: be like that ain't your friends. She don't really fuck

1050
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 2: with you, she don't really like you. And I used

1051
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 2: to be like Mama, whatever, that is my friend a lot,

1052
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 2: and I'm not friends with loving bitches no more. And

1053
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 2: they all ended up doing some fucked up She and

1054
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:39,719
Speaker 2: I had to cut their ass off. And my mama

1055
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 2: didn't never say I told you so, but she knew that.

1056
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 2: In the back of my mind, I remembered what she

1057
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 2: had told me about them people, and she was right.

1058
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 2: And I feel the same way about niggas, you know

1059
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 2: what I mean. And funny, A funny thing about my

1060
00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 2: parents is I only let my daddy need one one

1061
00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 2: dude that I every day. All the other guys he

1062
00:45:57,120 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 2: had never met, only my mama met him. But my

1063
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:02,359
Speaker 2: mama would always tell my dad's stories. But he just

1064
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,680
Speaker 2: never liked the niggas anyway. You just felt like nobody

1065
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:07,759
Speaker 2: was good enough. Yeah, yeah, I think most. I mean, well,

1066
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 2: I don't know because I don't know my daddy. I

1067
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 2: ain't never had no daddy, but I think.

1068
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 1: A lot of dad's.

1069
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 2: My stilly aunt wanted to sing that Tierra Maurice home.

1070
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 1: I had no daddy and Royn when I was growing,

1071
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:24,879
Speaker 1: that was my ship when I used to come on round.

1072
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: Now I used to be seeing that ship hards.

1073
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 2: But no, I feel like most dads feel that way

1074
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 2: about their girl, especially you know you're being the only child. Yeah,

1075
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:36,359
Speaker 2: he was like, you know, but I'm not gonna lie

1076
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 2: my ex up, my last ex that my mom met.

1077
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:42,359
Speaker 1: She was right about him. That's that's a good man, Savannah,

1078
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: that's a good man. He was a good man.

1079
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 2: Now, I'm not gonna say he's making a lot of

1080
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 2: money out here, but he has a stable job. He

1081
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 2: was a very stable person. Like we broke up because

1082
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 2: he didn't want me to go to that Atlanta. Of course,

1083
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:56,280
Speaker 2: he kind of wanted me to do what he was doing.

1084
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 2: He had a house. He wanted me to move into

1085
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 2: the house, and that just wasn't me. Like that just

1086
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:03,319
Speaker 2: wasn't for me at all. But I feel like you're right.

1087
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:06,239
Speaker 2: Parents like they do kind of know. They have a

1088
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,719
Speaker 2: six best they have that six sens. They just don't

1089
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 2: her man, it's good or not. That's why I said,

1090
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 2: if my mama don't like you and I fuck with you,

1091
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 2: I can still fuck with you. But as far as

1092
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:18,279
Speaker 2: moving anything further past that, mama knows best. And I'm

1093
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 2: old enough to know at this point, when my mom

1094
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 2: tells me stuff, I listen, yep, because I used to

1095
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 2: be there.

1096
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 1: Well I'll know. I'll say this.

1097
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 2: I used to be fifteen and sixteen, and my mom

1098
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:31,480
Speaker 2: would give me advice, and I'm mad at myself for

1099
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:33,719
Speaker 2: not listening to her a lot of times. Now, ye

1100
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 2: do live a very different life than my mama.

1101
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:36,319
Speaker 1: Did you know?

1102
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 2: That's what I was about. This is like, that's all

1103
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 2: I was about to say. My mama would never understand.

1104
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:42,840
Speaker 1: Ay, don't know nothing about this lifestyle.

1105
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 2: Right. A lot of times I listen to my mama,

1106
00:47:45,239 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 2: but then sometimes I do take the things that she

1107
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 2: say with the grain of salt, only because I know

1108
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:52,879
Speaker 2: I want a different lifestyle than you know what I mean,

1109
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:54,760
Speaker 2: then she had, and I want.

1110
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:55,840
Speaker 1: Different things than she had.

1111
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:58,839
Speaker 2: So I just feel like I do listen to her,

1112
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:01,760
Speaker 2: but then sometimes I unders saying that she is giving

1113
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 2: good advice, but this doesn't necessarily apply to the situation

1114
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,760
Speaker 2: right right now. And not only that, well, the relationship

1115
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:10,799
Speaker 2: me and my mom have. We don't really even talk

1116
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 2: about my dating life no more, because she knows, like

1117
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:15,240
Speaker 2: this is out of my hands handing. But she knows

1118
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 2: whenever I'm ready to bring somebody home, I feel like

1119
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:20,319
Speaker 2: that's when her advice is gonna kick in. Yeah, because

1120
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:22,880
Speaker 2: right now she feels like, girl, just have fun and

1121
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 2: protect yourself and stay safe. Yeah, like she don't have nothing.

1122
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:27,360
Speaker 2: She don't have no advice to give me. What she

1123
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 2: gonna tell me stop sucking, I'm not gonna do that.

1124
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:31,959
Speaker 2: She's gonna tell me stop traveling. I'm definitely not gonna

1125
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 2: do that. But I got shit to do well my mama, don't.

1126
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 2: She definitely don't try to give me unsolicited advice. Like

1127
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:38,800
Speaker 2: the only time she give me advice is if I

1128
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 2: call her and tell her about something specific and I'm like,

1129
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 2: oh my god, this is stressening me out or piecing

1130
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 2: me off, and then I talk to her about it,

1131
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 2: then of course she'll have you know, I need advice.

1132
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: Like, ho, I'm gonna get this nigga to pay for

1133
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 1: my life.

1134
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't know exactly I'm gonna get this

1135
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 2: nigga about me in the car. Can't tell me that

1136
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:04,200
Speaker 2: she don't got No, it's not from a woman who's

1137
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:07,759
Speaker 2: not married perspective to a car that us.

1138
00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 1: It's a little different when you out here slang in

1139
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:11,799
Speaker 1: this thud.

1140
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 2: So no, I feel like, but going back to what

1141
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 2: I said earlier, I definitely care about my mom's approval,

1142
00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 2: not so much of niggas. I'm just kind of having

1143
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 2: fun with. That's why I haven't introduced anybody to my

1144
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:25,320
Speaker 2: mom because my mom is my best friend.

1145
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 1: She is very fucking important to me. I will beat

1146
00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: your ass behind my mom.

1147
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 2: I don't.

1148
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 1: I just don't play when it comes to my mom.

1149
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:34,479
Speaker 2: That's why I really when I post her, I don't

1150
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 2: tag her. I don't do nonhe that because I don't

1151
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 2: need people trying to find her mess with her because

1152
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:40,320
Speaker 2: she wanted the people to be on Facebook arguing about

1153
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:41,319
Speaker 2: politics all day.

1154
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 1: But he y'all, mama is a toy.

1155
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 2: My mama is a Libra, and so she's very like

1156
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:50,399
Speaker 2: tranquil and always want to keep the peace. Oh it's

1157
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 2: like she don't be So it's like she will not

1158
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:56,000
Speaker 2: approve of somebody that I'm dating or whatever, but she's

1159
00:49:56,120 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 2: never gonna be mean to them, and she's always gonna

1160
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 2: keep it cute. You know, my mind. Is she the

1161
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:03,319
Speaker 2: type of person this is always what she tells me.

1162
00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:06,320
Speaker 2: She's taught me this my whole life. Well, baby, whatever

1163
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:09,680
Speaker 2: you want to do, I'm okay. I just say she

1164
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 2: always say honest, my mom. When my sister had people over,

1165
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 2: like straight up walk past them like they don't exist,

1166
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 2: and not say to me as a mom, girl.

1167
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 1: Like if she don't like you, she just can't be fake.

1168
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 2: That should be me as a mom, Like I'm not

1169
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,279
Speaker 2: gonna play this she at all and I and I

1170
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 2: understand that they're gonna be children, and she once my

1171
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 2: child is like in middle school and she and they

1172
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 2: bring somebody over that I don't like, I'm not about

1173
00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 2: to be well.

1174
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 1: I feel like that's a different kids and you know

1175
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:40,279
Speaker 1: they're not gonna end up.

1176
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying I'm gonna be mean, but I

1177
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:44,719
Speaker 2: just ain't about to go out of my way to

1178
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 2: like be allo. Well, I feel like like you not

1179
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:53,319
Speaker 2: being a good friend to my kids. I'm not saying

1180
00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:54,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be mean.

1181
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying because it's.

1182
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:57,760
Speaker 2: Like kind of like you said, it's just like, hey.

1183
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta know about my business. Nah. I get

1184
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:02,880
Speaker 1: that they're gonna be in the kitchen holding conversation.

1185
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 2: But I think it's but I do think it's weird

1186
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:08,759
Speaker 2: now when parents cross that line and they start being

1187
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:11,759
Speaker 2: an over zealous parent that's always in their kids business

1188
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:14,400
Speaker 2: and being mean to other kids. Like, at the end

1189
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 2: of the day, you're still an adult. Tell your kids,

1190
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:19,040
Speaker 2: but to be mean to kids.

1191
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:19,200
Speaker 1: Now.

1192
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 2: That's so, that's what I'm not saying. You say that, no,

1193
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 2: but you're gonna be mean to a kid. But like

1194
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 2: I said, at the end of the day, if I

1195
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:28,200
Speaker 2: feel if my child is always coming to me and

1196
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:30,680
Speaker 2: telling me a situation, well, first all, I'm not gonna

1197
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:32,439
Speaker 2: even lie to you. If my kid is always coming

1198
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 2: to me telling me about one of their friends and

1199
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 2: how they always hurt their feelings and making him feel

1200
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 2: some type of way, and she like that, you're not

1201
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 2: even about to be able to come to my house, right,

1202
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 2: And it's just me being completely honest, kid or not.

1203
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 2: You know, you always see those little Facebook statuses or

1204
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 2: sweets and people be like, oh my son fast and

1205
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:51,360
Speaker 2: he text texting this little bitch talking about this and that.

1206
00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, damn, you're raising the man you are.

1207
00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:59,760
Speaker 2: And you know I will say this, what's the name Milano?

1208
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 2: Baby Mama had made such a good post today and

1209
00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 2: she was basically saying, like all mothers that are mothers

1210
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 2: of boys, like they have a big responsibility on them, Yeah,

1211
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 2: to raise a new generation of better man.

1212
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:12,880
Speaker 1: Because honestly, I'm not gonna lie to you.

1213
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 2: That's why I don't date a lot of me and

1214
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:17,920
Speaker 2: my age because this my generation especially, This ain't it.

1215
00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:20,960
Speaker 2: These niggas eat truth. This is not this is not

1216
00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:22,880
Speaker 2: it at all, you know what I'm saying. So, my

1217
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:26,200
Speaker 2: sister has two boys and Jackson, y'all know, I love

1218
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 2: my little baby. He is just so well mannered. He

1219
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:31,800
Speaker 2: is so sweet. He has never gave us no problem

1220
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:34,399
Speaker 2: and he is just a good, good, sweet boy.

1221
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: And I will say this about my sister.

1222
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 2: She is doing a damn good job at raising her

1223
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:40,760
Speaker 2: kids because Jackson is just so well mannered.

1224
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 1: Now panut he too little to tell right now, but

1225
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 1: he got a little girl on the grumpy side. But

1226
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 1: he a pisces. So we gonna see how air Well,

1227
00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 1: what's the February seventeen?

1228
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 2: Oh no, he he a pipe? No he a Query's.

1229
00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 1: Oh that's.

1230
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 2: Seventeenth, I believe. So, yeah, it's before because Jordan's my

1231
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 2: best friend. Jordan needs a pisces and he's ques. Oh damn,

1232
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 2: that's crazy.

1233
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:13,960
Speaker 1: Oh my bad, it's the eighteenth.

1234
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 2: Oh so maybe he is a piscey, No, it's he's

1235
00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:19,839
Speaker 2: still little queries. Hold on, let me see, y'all don't

1236
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 2: even know my little peanut birthday he might be on

1237
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:23,439
Speaker 2: the cusp with though.

1238
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he's still in queries. He's a quar hes.

1239
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:30,239
Speaker 2: Gonna be real spiceful. Oh he already is. I know

1240
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:32,879
Speaker 2: he already is. But yeah, I feel like a lot

1241
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 2: of a lot of women that are parents of boys,

1242
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 2: they have a big responsibility to raise just raising little

1243
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:41,279
Speaker 2: boys different because these niggas, now they ain't it child

1244
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:44,399
Speaker 2: they are. Okay, So let us know how y'all feel

1245
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:48,800
Speaker 2: about dating people that your parents don't approve, right, Okay,

1246
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:49,880
Speaker 2: So now we're.

1247
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 1: Gonna get into the bed, the bed, the bed baby.

1248
00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:58,560
Speaker 2: Okay. So I want to talk about this because I

1249
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:03,440
Speaker 2: was getting biged down one time, right, and I do

1250
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 2: not like riding dick, first of all, but I feel

1251
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 2: like I'm very good in other positions. I do what

1252
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 2: needs to be done to where you're not even gonna

1253
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:13,800
Speaker 2: miss it. So first of all, let me tell you

1254
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 2: a story. I was getting some deg and this nigga

1255
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 2: was like, you like to ryde deep? I was like no,

1256
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 2: he was like get on top.

1257
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:25,719
Speaker 1: I was like, oh hell, girl.

1258
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 2: Was so mad.

1259
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:30,120
Speaker 1: So anyways, today's topic is being blex up boat.

1260
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 2: I want to talk about how important it is to

1261
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 2: be flexible on both ends of the spectrum.

1262
00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 1: Now for later. Yeah, nigga.

1263
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:42,840
Speaker 2: Sometimes I like when a nigga like, okay, so you know,

1264
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:44,920
Speaker 2: if they're in a position where like you laying on

1265
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 2: your stomach, you're laying on your stomach and.

1266
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:49,280
Speaker 1: He might want to get on in that frog leg position.

1267
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:50,840
Speaker 1: You gotta be stretched for that.

1268
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:51,720
Speaker 2: Okay.

1269
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:52,359
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1270
00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:54,840
Speaker 2: He on his feet, Yeah, and he's like pounding you

1271
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 2: the smithereens. That's when they got a good grip. But

1272
00:54:57,760 --> 00:54:59,800
Speaker 2: you gotta be bitten down. You gotta stretch for that.

1273
00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 1: Wait you saying you on yostammy, I'm on my sulay flat.

1274
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:06,720
Speaker 2: I'm not laying flat black because he has my hips

1275
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 2: and he's gonna pick up my hips and he's in

1276
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:15,880
Speaker 2: a froggy position and he's you know, smashing those guts.

1277
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:20,280
Speaker 2: So I feel like positions like that you have to stretch.

1278
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:22,560
Speaker 2: I feel like the main position that we all know

1279
00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 2: and love.

1280
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:26,120
Speaker 1: Especially for women, is missionary and you have to be

1281
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 1: able to lift them legs up.

1282
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, there is nothing more than a man loves Now.

1283
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 2: He likes it when you can put your legs around

1284
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 2: his neck. But when you can actually put your legs

1285
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 2: past his neck.

1286
00:55:37,840 --> 00:55:41,919
Speaker 1: Right, maybe it's like a nut, but nut, they gonna

1287
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:45,440
Speaker 1: let fucking tom. So I need to do, ladies to know.

1288
00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:47,320
Speaker 2: Now, I'm not saying you gotta crack off the fucking

1289
00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:49,799
Speaker 2: yoga moves and every time because I'm but if you're

1290
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:53,520
Speaker 2: not flexible enough to like push your legs neck like that,

1291
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:55,440
Speaker 2: you do need to do some of y'all. Yes, I

1292
00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:57,640
Speaker 2: feel like, ladies, we need to start stretching, make sure

1293
00:55:57,680 --> 00:56:00,960
Speaker 2: that pussy gets nice and ready. There's like and the

1294
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:03,720
Speaker 2: men too, the men too. You need to stretch your bag.

1295
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 2: You need to get ready because I feel like if

1296
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:08,320
Speaker 2: you're stretched and your loose for sex, you're gonna have

1297
00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:11,480
Speaker 2: so much better. Sad, just laughing because I just thinking

1298
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 2: about Bedes Thigga fucking once and he was like, oh

1299
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 2: my bag, my bad. Exactly do you need to get

1300
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 2: on top you me? That's what I'm saying. And you know,

1301
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 2: we're getting a little older. Were not young, so we

1302
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:26,839
Speaker 2: got to keep up with the young girls. They're trying

1303
00:56:26,840 --> 00:56:29,880
Speaker 2: to come get our bdbs. We see you poor girls

1304
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 2: out there, y'all be asking us about the bdbs.

1305
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: Every week, baby, asking you every week.

1306
00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:45,120
Speaker 2: You might be taking my man say, okay, relaxed, But no,

1307
00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:47,879
Speaker 2: I just need you ladies to understand it is very,

1308
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:51,279
Speaker 2: very important to stretch. I feel like I'm not saying

1309
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:52,960
Speaker 2: you have to stretch every day. If you do get

1310
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,920
Speaker 2: up to everybody, that's cool. But I definitely definitely stretch,

1311
00:56:56,040 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 2: like three four times a week.

1312
00:56:57,880 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, And but it's not nothing.

1313
00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:02,440
Speaker 2: Long. I wake up in the morning, the first thing

1314
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:04,279
Speaker 2: I do was I might touch my toes for like

1315
00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 2: thirty seconds. And the good thing about stretch is you

1316
00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 2: don't have to do it long long as long as

1317
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 2: you just get your body loosen up, wake up, touch

1318
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,399
Speaker 2: my toes, hold that for thirty seconds. Then I get

1319
00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 2: in the little split position like when my legs open.

1320
00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 2: I'll reach to the right, I reach to the left.

1321
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 2: And then I actually do lay on my back sometimes

1322
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:24,400
Speaker 2: and I can you know, I'll pull my le Well,

1323
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:29,920
Speaker 2: you know that video on my phone. Oh my god,

1324
00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:34,920
Speaker 2: I don't. Oh my god, that is memory. That is

1325
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:37,640
Speaker 2: gonna haunt me for one day. That video is gonna

1326
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 2: haunt me. I'm telling you how is in my phone.

1327
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 2: I know what if you lose your phone, if somebody

1328
00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:45,960
Speaker 2: hack it exactly, Nah, that ain't gonna happen. We ain't

1329
00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:49,120
Speaker 2: gonna even speak that into weeks. But even in that phone,

1330
00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 2: you know who was I giving a dance to? Was

1331
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:57,440
Speaker 2: it Peach the white guy or was it Cass? It

1332
00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 2: was poor cast Cash, just gottae. So what stretches do

1333
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 2: you have because I know you be stretching that pussy.

1334
00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:10,360
Speaker 2: Oh you gotta scretch that growing area, right, go be

1335
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 2: stretching too. But I mean I pretty much do the

1336
00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 2: same thing that you do. Honestly, I don't. I don't

1337
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 2: really do nothing different.

1338
00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:18,000
Speaker 1: From the right.

1339
00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1340
00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 1: Good.

1341
00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 2: Another good stretches when you put your feet together like

1342
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 2: an Indian style and you push your knees down.

1343
00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that stretches your growing area.

1344
00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 2: Because, like I said, if a nigga is on top

1345
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:32,439
Speaker 2: of you and he's going to poundtown and your legs

1346
00:58:32,520 --> 00:58:34,439
Speaker 2: lifted back, I'm telling you that's why you be sore

1347
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:36,880
Speaker 2: the next morning, you be sore right all in that

1348
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 2: growing area. So ladies, make sure before y'all get digged down,

1349
00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:41,960
Speaker 2: you stretch that pussy real real good.

1350
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 1: Okay. So what advice do you have for them if

1351
00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 1: they not flexible? Stretched?

1352
00:58:47,560 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 2: Okay?

1353
00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:49,440
Speaker 1: So this is the best way to stretch too.

1354
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 2: I have been.

1355
00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:53,080
Speaker 1: I know when I was younger, bitch, I was very

1356
00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:53,880
Speaker 1: fucking flexible.

1357
00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:55,800
Speaker 2: But I took guess to when I was I was

1358
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 2: in gymnastics, ballets have it, I did all that shit.

1359
00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:03,480
Speaker 1: So I've never really lost my elasticity in this pussy.

1360
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:07,160
Speaker 2: And stretched really good now. But I've always kept that up.

1361
00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:09,480
Speaker 2: But if you're not flexible at all, the best thing

1362
00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:12,000
Speaker 2: you can do is get your muscles warm. So do

1363
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:14,080
Speaker 2: a little bit of cardio. I'm not saying wen no

1364
00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 2: goddamn mile, but you know, just walk around the block,

1365
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:19,560
Speaker 2: walk around your kitchen, aye on a few times. Get

1366
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,920
Speaker 2: those muscles rammed up a little bit. You want to

1367
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,640
Speaker 2: impress your BDB. You don't want to lose your BDB.

1368
00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 1: Okay, that's true, So get your muscles warmed up.

1369
00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 2: Take like, if you can walk on the treadmill for

1370
00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 2: like ten minutes at like a three or four that's

1371
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:36,640
Speaker 2: not even fast. Just get those because when your muscles

1372
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:39,480
Speaker 2: are warm, it's easier to stretch. Yeah, when you stretching

1373
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:45,360
Speaker 2: cold muscles, that's when you pulling something. So that's why, yes,

1374
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 2: when you leaving the club, you ain't been swirking, because

1375
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:48,640
Speaker 2: you want to be a born bitch.

1376
00:59:48,680 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 1: Sitting down. That's why when you put your legs behind

1377
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 1: your head you hear something popped. Now, if you at

1378
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:56,440
Speaker 1: the clubs shaking ass and twarking, it's gonna be easier

1379
00:59:56,480 --> 00:59:58,560
Speaker 1: for them legs to go back behind your head. You

1380
00:59:58,640 --> 00:59:59,680
Speaker 1: see where I'm going with this.

1381
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:02,920
Speaker 2: Know when you hear something, I'm telling you you got

1382
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 2: a visual. You gotta get the muscles warmed up. I'm

1383
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:09,760
Speaker 2: telling y'all, if you're not flexible, warm up. Just do

1384
01:00:09,840 --> 01:00:12,920
Speaker 2: a little warm a little quick jog five minutes, get

1385
01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 2: those muscles warm, and then stretch.

1386
01:00:14,600 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I do feel like it's never too

1387
01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:19,360
Speaker 1: late in life to like work on your flexibility.

1388
01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:21,640
Speaker 2: Yes, you always supposed to be flexible. That's one of

1389
01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 2: the main things I enjoy about my skills in the bed. Yeah,

1390
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:25,360
Speaker 2: niggas just.

1391
01:00:25,400 --> 01:00:27,960
Speaker 1: Don't like nobody that's really super lazy in bed.

1392
01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:30,080
Speaker 2: The only time I've ever been lazy in bed when

1393
01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:32,800
Speaker 2: it was just I don't know, with the bdb's, I

1394
01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:33,560
Speaker 2: ain't ever lazy.

1395
01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:36,400
Speaker 1: You gotta turn them out, cook a mill the same

1396
01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:37,680
Speaker 1: time and turn a nigga out.

1397
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:41,200
Speaker 2: Now what niggas, it wasn't bdb's. I'm not gonna lie

1398
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:46,040
Speaker 2: my sex was probably lacklust or sometimes oh I because

1399
01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 2: I just feel like, why I'm working hard for? What

1400
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 2: am I working hard for?

1401
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:50,920
Speaker 1: Well? I feel like for now I will literally just

1402
01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:52,040
Speaker 1: be laying I'm dead.

1403
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:54,280
Speaker 2: Well, I still want my nut now, No I do.

1404
01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:57,040
Speaker 2: I mean I do too, but I don't know.

1405
01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:00,480
Speaker 1: See you mean? Am I?

1406
01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:06,120
Speaker 2: Yeah? If it's not a BDB, I'm really not gonna

1407
01:01:06,120 --> 01:01:06,480
Speaker 2: do the mouse.

1408
01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:09,240
Speaker 1: I'm probably not gonna suck your d I'm not lying.

1409
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 1: I swear to God, I like to suck.

1410
01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:13,880
Speaker 2: I do tober. Why I'm gonna say yack If you're

1411
01:01:13,880 --> 01:01:17,240
Speaker 2: not a bd B, well, I don't part of these days,

1412
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:21,240
Speaker 2: I don't be really fucking niggas. That's not bdbs. So yeah,

1413
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:25,800
Speaker 2: but occasionally I was gonna say I definitely have slipped

1414
01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:28,160
Speaker 2: up though, But if I do slip up, I'm really

1415
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:31,040
Speaker 2: not about to just do the most unless maybe I'm drunk.

1416
01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 2: If I'm drunk, than anything, but we know.

1417
01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:38,480
Speaker 1: But if I'm so But if I'm sober, I'm definitely

1418
01:01:38,600 --> 01:01:40,680
Speaker 1: not about to do the most to please you. Like

1419
01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 1: sober sex. I think sober sex is.

1420
01:01:42,800 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 2: So bored me too. I don't really like it to

1421
01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:47,360
Speaker 2: be unless I'm in love with you, I can do

1422
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:49,520
Speaker 2: sober sex. But if I'm not, let's get drunk.

1423
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:51,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love to be drunk and half sticks like

1424
01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:53,400
Speaker 1: that's my favorite pastime.

1425
01:01:57,200 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 2: But most people like reading. We're I'm going to church

1426
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:04,720
Speaker 2: the other you.

1427
01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:06,680
Speaker 1: Know, I have other past times, but you know that's

1428
01:02:06,680 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 1: going to be my favorite. Okay, that's a new hobby.

1429
01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:12,640
Speaker 1: You don't do like questionnaires and they ask you hobbies

1430
01:02:12,680 --> 01:02:13,880
Speaker 1: like what do you do for fun?

1431
01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:14,880
Speaker 2: Dress like have drunk?

1432
01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:19,200
Speaker 1: Said with BDB, I'm okay, So we're gonna get into

1433
01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 1: the bot a A.

1434
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 2: Now okay, so y'all already know what my bop of

1435
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 2: the week is gonna be because I've been tweeting about

1436
01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:28,680
Speaker 2: it all fucking week. Y'all know this is my second

1437
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:34,000
Speaker 2: favorite rapper and I'm just so fucking happy because he

1438
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:34,760
Speaker 2: did it again.

1439
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:38,320
Speaker 1: Thank you Gunnar for blessing our ears because Future didn't

1440
01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:39,360
Speaker 1: have the ability to.

1441
01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:42,400
Speaker 2: Obviously. Now your album did number one, So I'm not

1442
01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:42,840
Speaker 2: gonna do that.

1443
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't do that, because I told y'all I said

1444
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 1: it last week, didn't I.

1445
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 2: But let me say this, Gunner's album is good. He

1446
01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:53,800
Speaker 2: only got maybe three or four songs.

1447
01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:56,000
Speaker 1: I skip on there and I say that that's good

1448
01:02:56,040 --> 01:02:58,400
Speaker 1: because he has eighteen songs on there, so it's only

1449
01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:00,120
Speaker 1: like three or four songs I skip on there. So

1450
01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give y'all my top I couldn't do. I

1451
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:04,200
Speaker 1: was trying to do Top three. I gotta do Top four.

1452
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:08,560
Speaker 2: And actually, these songs are all in a row, you

1453
01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:10,720
Speaker 2: know how when like there's a piece of the album

1454
01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:14,000
Speaker 2: that like it just bangs. The songs are just good

1455
01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:17,280
Speaker 2: right in a row. Right, So y'all gotta listen definitely

1456
01:03:17,400 --> 01:03:20,200
Speaker 2: to number five through eight. That's Dollars on My Head

1457
01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:25,440
Speaker 2: featuring Young Thug, Addies Feature and Nietzschee, Skyboks, and Wanna.

1458
01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:29,080
Speaker 2: First of all, Skybox goes so fucking hard. That's probably

1459
01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:32,280
Speaker 2: my favorite song on the whole album. Skywalks is hard,

1460
01:03:32,400 --> 01:03:34,640
Speaker 2: Wanna is Hard. That's the title track of the album.

1461
01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 2: Wanna is fucking hard, Addies is hard. It's just a

1462
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:39,880
Speaker 2: good album. I'm not gonna lie. Met Gala is hard.

1463
01:03:40,200 --> 01:03:40,800
Speaker 2: Top Floor with.

1464
01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 1: Travis Scott is hard. It's a good fucking album.

1465
01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:46,360
Speaker 2: I feel like Gonna now. Gonna is not no Grammy

1466
01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:49,080
Speaker 2: Award winning artist. So don't go into the album thinking

1467
01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:51,200
Speaker 2: you're about to get some fucking Luther Vand now you

1468
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:53,760
Speaker 2: won't say that this is your favor your second favorite

1469
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:57,880
Speaker 2: rapper in me and back door in Sadie because because

1470
01:03:57,880 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 2: the Grammys don't acknowledge people like that. Think about Hall Heart,

1471
01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:03,200
Speaker 2: Gucci Man goes and does he have any Grammys?

1472
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:05,520
Speaker 1: You know what Grammys cater to. They want to hear

1473
01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:08,640
Speaker 1: Kittrick Lamar because I'm woking. I'd like to, oh, yeah,

1474
01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 1: I went to church and MLK was there. You know

1475
01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:14,320
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, That's what they want to hear at

1476
01:04:14,360 --> 01:04:17,360
Speaker 1: the Grammys. They don't want to hear about addies. He

1477
01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 1: talking about popping parts and eating pussy. That is what

1478
01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:21,040
Speaker 1: he talked about.

1479
01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, So shout up to go stuff.

1480
01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 2: The culture want to hear it. That's what the culture

1481
01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:26,680
Speaker 2: wants to hear. That's why I said Gunna is an

1482
01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 2: amazing rapper. He's That's why in one of his songs

1483
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,920
Speaker 2: he said he said something about I should have got

1484
01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:34,840
Speaker 2: that BT Award. Because absolutely, Gunna needs to be racking

1485
01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:38,520
Speaker 2: up these MTV and BT awards, absolutely because that's what

1486
01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:41,280
Speaker 2: he deserves. I'm not saying he don't deserve a Grammy,

1487
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:46,360
Speaker 2: but fuck the Grammys and that's real. She Okay, so

1488
01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 2: I do have a box from the album too. Well,

1489
01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:51,200
Speaker 2: my Bob's blind for all with him a Little Baby. Okay,

1490
01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:55,480
Speaker 2: so little Baby he's my favorite rapper. We know, I

1491
01:04:55,480 --> 01:04:58,919
Speaker 2: don't know that way. Oh yeah, well that is my favorite.

1492
01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 1: Rapper the.

1493
01:05:02,960 --> 01:05:07,560
Speaker 2: Anyways. So yeah, I really really like this song to meet.

1494
01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:09,960
Speaker 1: Any song for the most part with Little Baby as

1495
01:05:09,960 --> 01:05:10,800
Speaker 1: a feature.

1496
01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:13,600
Speaker 2: Is a vibe. And then you know, I really like

1497
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 2: Brent Face. I think I'm saying his last name right. Yeah,

1498
01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:20,160
Speaker 2: so I really like his album, but lately I've been

1499
01:05:20,200 --> 01:05:24,000
Speaker 2: really listening to Cloudy to like that's my gem. He's

1500
01:05:24,040 --> 01:05:28,560
Speaker 2: a vibe. So then my two bobs of the week. Okay, okay,

1501
01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:31,280
Speaker 2: time to get into the question.

1502
01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:34,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, so, as always we do the advice of the week.

1503
01:05:35,120 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 2: Make sure y'all email us at Ask Poor Minds at

1504
01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:40,880
Speaker 2: gmail dot com if you will like your questions answered.

1505
01:05:41,000 --> 01:05:43,760
Speaker 2: That's a s k p O. You are in my

1506
01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:46,280
Speaker 2: n d s at gmail dot com. And please, like

1507
01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:48,480
Speaker 2: I said, keep it as short as possible. Y'all doing

1508
01:05:48,520 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 2: a good job because we just can't read a whole whole, long, long,

1509
01:05:51,480 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 2: long shit. So you know, bust that ship now, and

1510
01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:55,680
Speaker 2: make me real quick. You want to go first, and

1511
01:05:55,760 --> 01:05:59,320
Speaker 2: when we go, I guess you can go first. Okay,

1512
01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:03,440
Speaker 2: So it says please keep this anonymous. Hey ladies, I

1513
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 2: just want to say how much I love y'all and

1514
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:05,919
Speaker 2: the show.

1515
01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:06,600
Speaker 1: Okay.

1516
01:06:06,760 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 2: So, I have a five year old son.

1517
01:06:08,440 --> 01:06:09,720
Speaker 1: I'm currently engaged to a.

1518
01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:12,960
Speaker 2: Man who is not his biological father, but my son

1519
01:06:13,160 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 2: knows him as dad. My baby daddy doesn't come around physically,

1520
01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:18,280
Speaker 2: but he pays child support.

1521
01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:20,960
Speaker 1: He has multiple kids by other women, but I'm the

1522
01:06:21,040 --> 01:06:22,960
Speaker 1: only one who has him on child support.

1523
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:26,080
Speaker 2: Because of this, the judge orders he pay a pretty

1524
01:06:26,160 --> 01:06:29,800
Speaker 2: large amount for the child support, over twelve hundred a month. Recently,

1525
01:06:29,920 --> 01:06:32,080
Speaker 2: my baby daddy found out that I am engaged, and

1526
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:33,800
Speaker 2: he feels like he should not have to pay any

1527
01:06:33,840 --> 01:06:36,560
Speaker 2: more child support. Since my son has a father figure

1528
01:06:36,560 --> 01:06:39,200
Speaker 2: who pays for everything he brought up to the point

1529
01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:42,040
Speaker 2: that he was laid off due to coronavirus. My fiance

1530
01:06:42,240 --> 01:06:44,880
Speaker 2: pays all the bills plus extras. My son and I

1531
01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:47,840
Speaker 2: are blessed not to have to want for anything because

1532
01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:50,000
Speaker 2: of this. I have just been putting the child support

1533
01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:52,360
Speaker 2: into my son's bank account and not using it for

1534
01:06:52,440 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 2: anything else. My question is should I have simpathy on

1535
01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:57,360
Speaker 2: my baby daddy and let him off the hook from

1536
01:06:57,400 --> 01:06:59,960
Speaker 2: child support or should I have not my problem attitude

1537
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:02,160
Speaker 2: towards the situation and continue.

1538
01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:05,000
Speaker 1: To let him pay. Thanks, ladies, you want to go first.

1539
01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:08,240
Speaker 2: Sure, I absolutely feel like you should not have no

1540
01:07:08,360 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 2: sympathy on that nigga because at the end of the day,

1541
01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:14,400
Speaker 2: that is your child's father. This new man that's in

1542
01:07:14,520 --> 01:07:17,600
Speaker 2: your life is your fiance, and although he is about

1543
01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:19,880
Speaker 2: to be a stepfather to your child, he is not

1544
01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:23,160
Speaker 2: the man who created that child. I definitely feel like

1545
01:07:23,280 --> 01:07:25,480
Speaker 2: your baby daddy still needs to be responsible for his

1546
01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:29,440
Speaker 2: son in some aspect. You already said he don't come around,

1547
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 2: so the least he can do is pay his damn

1548
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:35,720
Speaker 2: child support every month. It's not your problem, that's his

1549
01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:38,320
Speaker 2: problem and he needs to figure it out. And especially

1550
01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:41,600
Speaker 2: if he's already on child support, that's a court order,

1551
01:07:42,240 --> 01:07:44,480
Speaker 2: so he has to pay his child support every month.

1552
01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:47,320
Speaker 2: It's not no negotiating when he Excuse me, when it

1553
01:07:47,360 --> 01:07:50,520
Speaker 2: comes to that sitting, you just said that you don't

1554
01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:53,320
Speaker 2: even use the money suspended on your son because the

1555
01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:56,919
Speaker 2: stepfather is doing everything for y'all financially For the most part.

1556
01:07:57,160 --> 01:07:59,160
Speaker 2: So you're putting the money into an account for him.

1557
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:01,440
Speaker 2: So yes, that could be he's college fund, or there

1558
01:08:01,480 --> 01:08:03,440
Speaker 2: could be some money once he turns eighteen if he

1559
01:08:03,480 --> 01:08:05,240
Speaker 2: want to start a business, start doing whatever he wants

1560
01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:07,320
Speaker 2: to do when he becomes an adult. He can use

1561
01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:09,480
Speaker 2: that to start his business, start doing whatever, you know

1562
01:08:09,520 --> 01:08:10,800
Speaker 2: what I mean. Or you could use that to buy

1563
01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:12,600
Speaker 2: him a car once he gets to high school. And

1564
01:08:12,720 --> 01:08:14,840
Speaker 2: she I feel like he definitely still needs to be

1565
01:08:14,920 --> 01:08:17,640
Speaker 2: paying that money every month and continue to stack and

1566
01:08:17,720 --> 01:08:21,879
Speaker 2: say girl, stack and save. And I one hundred and thousand,

1567
01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:25,400
Speaker 2: one hundred percent agree. I feel like the least you

1568
01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 2: can fucking do is support your child, you know, and

1569
01:08:28,479 --> 01:08:30,320
Speaker 2: a lot of men make the mistake of they be

1570
01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:32,880
Speaker 2: all happy when their child turns eighteen because they don't

1571
01:08:32,880 --> 01:08:34,240
Speaker 2: have to pay no more. But you still have to

1572
01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:36,800
Speaker 2: be a fucking parent. So at the end of the day,

1573
01:08:37,120 --> 01:08:39,439
Speaker 2: when he turns eighteen, it's time to go to college.

1574
01:08:40,120 --> 01:08:41,920
Speaker 2: And just like Dran said, he's gonna need a car.

1575
01:08:42,560 --> 01:08:45,040
Speaker 2: You don't know people's future. You don't know what's going

1576
01:08:45,120 --> 01:08:47,519
Speaker 2: to happen between you and your fiance. No, I'm not

1577
01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:49,599
Speaker 2: saying anything bad, but I wish y'all all the best,

1578
01:08:49,640 --> 01:08:51,640
Speaker 2: But like I said, you never fucking know. But at

1579
01:08:51,640 --> 01:08:54,439
Speaker 2: the end of the day, that child is not anybody

1580
01:08:54,479 --> 01:08:57,120
Speaker 2: else's responsibility. Thank God, the Lord bless you to have

1581
01:08:57,160 --> 01:08:57,559
Speaker 2: a good.

1582
01:08:57,479 --> 01:08:58,200
Speaker 1: Man in your life.

1583
01:08:58,640 --> 01:09:00,840
Speaker 2: But like I said, you're doing the right thing by

1584
01:09:00,920 --> 01:09:03,600
Speaker 2: putting that money into an account for your son. Guess what,

1585
01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:06,120
Speaker 2: when he turns eighteen, he goes to college, it may

1586
01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:08,040
Speaker 2: be your Randy Day or something going on. He needs

1587
01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:10,600
Speaker 2: some money and you know, and you're not gonna have

1588
01:09:10,640 --> 01:09:12,880
Speaker 2: to come. He's gonna be taking care of regardless. So

1589
01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:15,479
Speaker 2: I think you're doing the right thing. And I'm not

1590
01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:17,920
Speaker 2: saying like be like, oh fuck, you give me the money.

1591
01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:20,320
Speaker 2: But I think you need to just explain that to him, like, hey,

1592
01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 2: you know, I'm putting this in an account for our son,

1593
01:09:22,680 --> 01:09:24,800
Speaker 2: so whenever he goes to college, this is gonna be

1594
01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:27,280
Speaker 2: for him to live off of. You have to realize

1595
01:09:27,280 --> 01:09:29,160
Speaker 2: that a lot of college students go to college and

1596
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:32,000
Speaker 2: be broke and they don't have nothing, and a lot

1597
01:09:32,040 --> 01:09:34,880
Speaker 2: of people have to work their way through college. If

1598
01:09:34,920 --> 01:09:38,040
Speaker 2: it's gonna be up to me, Jackson is not gonna

1599
01:09:38,040 --> 01:09:39,560
Speaker 2: have to work when he's through college. He's going to

1600
01:09:39,600 --> 01:09:41,040
Speaker 2: college because I want to be able to help and

1601
01:09:41,160 --> 01:09:42,800
Speaker 2: do that for you because I had to work in

1602
01:09:42,840 --> 01:09:47,519
Speaker 2: college and doing a job and going to college full time.

1603
01:09:47,640 --> 01:09:49,760
Speaker 1: The purpose of being a good parent is to make

1604
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:52,400
Speaker 1: your child's life easier than you had it. So I

1605
01:09:52,439 --> 01:09:54,679
Speaker 1: feel like you're doing a good job. And just explain

1606
01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:57,000
Speaker 1: to him that this is going into an account for him,

1607
01:09:57,520 --> 01:09:59,479
Speaker 1: and that this is gonna be access up. It's gonna

1608
01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:03,040
Speaker 1: be this account when he turns eighteen, or it's gonna

1609
01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:04,960
Speaker 1: be his car fund whenever he turns sixteen to get

1610
01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:07,639
Speaker 1: a car. So no, sis, get your coins for your child.

1611
01:10:07,800 --> 01:10:09,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. And if he has an issue with that, are

1612
01:10:09,439 --> 01:10:11,719
Speaker 2: he having any questions about it or anything with the judge?

1613
01:10:11,800 --> 01:10:13,559
Speaker 2: Well no, I wouldn't say taken up with the judge.

1614
01:10:13,640 --> 01:10:15,519
Speaker 2: Like if it's going into a separate bank account and

1615
01:10:15,600 --> 01:10:17,800
Speaker 2: you stacking and saving it for your son, I would

1616
01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:20,160
Speaker 2: see him in the statements every money, Yeah, I don't.

1617
01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have no issue with that. But you need

1618
01:10:22,240 --> 01:10:24,680
Speaker 2: to be paying your child support. Yeah, And that's a

1619
01:10:24,720 --> 01:10:26,840
Speaker 2: good idea. If he want to say something about what

1620
01:10:26,920 --> 01:10:28,559
Speaker 2: you're doing with the money, just send him a statement

1621
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:31,120
Speaker 2: with everything, an itemized list of everything that you're doing

1622
01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:34,320
Speaker 2: with the money every month, right exactly? So the next

1623
01:10:34,439 --> 01:10:38,240
Speaker 2: question is keeping a BDB. Hey, ladies, I'm a new

1624
01:10:38,320 --> 01:10:41,400
Speaker 2: listener and I absolutely love y'all. I recently reconnected with

1625
01:10:41,479 --> 01:10:44,040
Speaker 2: the guy I lost my virginity to. He wasn't shit

1626
01:10:44,160 --> 01:10:46,960
Speaker 2: back then, but baby, he's a BDB now. Once he

1627
01:10:47,040 --> 01:10:49,880
Speaker 2: got established, and he periodically tried to shoot his shot

1628
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:53,519
Speaker 2: once every year or two. He's always been with other women,

1629
01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:56,840
Speaker 2: so I turned down his advances. However, this time is different.

1630
01:10:57,040 --> 01:10:59,720
Speaker 2: I'm on a hold sugar baby kick right now. Oh no,

1631
01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 2: I'm I'm on a whole sugar baby kick right So,

1632
01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:04,560
Speaker 2: a nigga with a big deck and money excites me.

1633
01:11:05,040 --> 01:11:07,640
Speaker 2: The kicker is he doesn't want to have six He

1634
01:11:07,800 --> 01:11:09,560
Speaker 2: just wants to buy me six toys and play with

1635
01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:12,599
Speaker 2: my plac y'all. This man pulled up on me last

1636
01:11:12,640 --> 01:11:15,120
Speaker 2: night and fingered me didn't even use the toys he

1637
01:11:15,200 --> 01:11:17,680
Speaker 2: paid for, and pulled a stack of hundreds out of

1638
01:11:17,720 --> 01:11:19,800
Speaker 2: his pocket and gave me a couple for my time.

1639
01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:20,320
Speaker 1: He said.

1640
01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:23,080
Speaker 2: Now, my question is how do I got How do

1641
01:11:23,200 --> 01:11:25,320
Speaker 2: I go about getting more out of him? Because, like

1642
01:11:25,439 --> 01:11:28,679
Speaker 2: Drea says, if it ain't being official, it's artificial Thank

1643
01:11:28,760 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 2: you ladies, period pool. I know that's right. I love

1644
01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:35,320
Speaker 2: when y'all quote. I recently had this conversation with a

1645
01:11:35,400 --> 01:11:37,120
Speaker 2: friend because she was asking me how to get stuff

1646
01:11:37,120 --> 01:11:40,160
Speaker 2: out of niggas, and I feel like the best policy

1647
01:11:40,479 --> 01:11:43,120
Speaker 2: is honesty. How is a nigga don't know that you

1648
01:11:43,240 --> 01:11:45,680
Speaker 2: want more? Because let me tell you something that niggas do,

1649
01:11:45,840 --> 01:11:49,320
Speaker 2: especially bdb's, if they feel like you green and you

1650
01:11:49,400 --> 01:11:51,240
Speaker 2: don't know what's going on, they gonna do the bare

1651
01:11:51,320 --> 01:11:53,799
Speaker 2: minimum and give you the least amount of money possible

1652
01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:56,559
Speaker 2: or whatever it is that you want. So the thing

1653
01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:59,160
Speaker 2: how you fix that is let them know, well, hey

1654
01:11:59,680 --> 01:12:01,960
Speaker 2: I have this going on, or hey I need this now.

1655
01:12:02,040 --> 01:12:04,160
Speaker 2: You don't want to be what do we call her,

1656
01:12:04,320 --> 01:12:07,519
Speaker 2: Beggy Pundy, Beggy Bundy bagby. You don't want to be

1657
01:12:07,560 --> 01:12:09,160
Speaker 2: Beggy buddy, So you don't want to be begging. But

1658
01:12:09,240 --> 01:12:11,479
Speaker 2: I feel like when I need something from a nigga,

1659
01:12:11,479 --> 01:12:13,719
Speaker 2: I let them know, well, yeah, you know, I gotta

1660
01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:16,839
Speaker 2: get my hair done. I need to Like, for example,

1661
01:12:16,920 --> 01:12:18,160
Speaker 2: like when we need a cocktail show, I had to

1662
01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:19,840
Speaker 2: let the nigga know, hey, I need my hair done.

1663
01:12:20,160 --> 01:12:22,120
Speaker 2: I'm opening up for the cocktail show. This weekend, I

1664
01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:23,240
Speaker 2: need to outfit.

1665
01:12:23,240 --> 01:12:25,200
Speaker 1: And everything was taken care of. So I feel like,

1666
01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:28,000
Speaker 1: let him know exactly what you need that he gonna

1667
01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:28,640
Speaker 1: take care of it.

1668
01:12:29,200 --> 01:12:32,080
Speaker 2: I completely agree with that. I always say these, I

1669
01:12:32,160 --> 01:12:34,479
Speaker 2: feel like if you don't, And I had to realize

1670
01:12:34,520 --> 01:12:36,840
Speaker 2: these at one point too, because I feel like I

1671
01:12:36,960 --> 01:12:39,200
Speaker 2: kind of used to always just be the type of

1672
01:12:39,280 --> 01:12:41,720
Speaker 2: girl where, you know, niggas would do shit for me,

1673
01:12:42,479 --> 01:12:45,040
Speaker 2: but I would never really want to ask dudes she

1674
01:12:45,240 --> 01:12:47,080
Speaker 2: I would just let him do whatever they wanted to do,

1675
01:12:47,240 --> 01:12:48,680
Speaker 2: and it just so happened. You know. I used to

1676
01:12:48,720 --> 01:12:50,599
Speaker 2: run into some nice guys and they would just always

1677
01:12:50,720 --> 01:12:52,960
Speaker 2: end up doing sit. But when it comes to certain

1678
01:12:53,040 --> 01:12:55,439
Speaker 2: things that you really need, are things that you really want,

1679
01:12:55,800 --> 01:12:57,160
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? How to fuck you expect

1680
01:12:57,200 --> 01:12:59,800
Speaker 2: these niggas to know that you need certain things? If

1681
01:12:59,800 --> 01:13:01,920
Speaker 2: you not telling him specifically what you need.

1682
01:13:01,880 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 1: Does he telling you specifically want to finger that puss.

1683
01:13:04,240 --> 01:13:06,600
Speaker 2: And buy you toys and new all issues? So you know,

1684
01:13:06,680 --> 01:13:08,120
Speaker 2: it's like, I just feel like, you know, you have

1685
01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:10,479
Speaker 2: to tell him. You have to be vocal, because to me,

1686
01:13:10,600 --> 01:13:12,720
Speaker 2: the worst thing that a nigga can do when you

1687
01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:15,200
Speaker 2: tell him what you want or ask him for something

1688
01:13:15,240 --> 01:13:17,320
Speaker 2: that you want to tell you no. And if you

1689
01:13:17,479 --> 01:13:19,840
Speaker 2: know that he a BDB and he tells you flat

1690
01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:22,920
Speaker 2: out no, that ain't the nigga for you, period. You

1691
01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:23,400
Speaker 2: know what I mean?

1692
01:13:23,479 --> 01:13:24,679
Speaker 1: That's just not closed mouth.

1693
01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:28,400
Speaker 2: Don't get fed on the bullet ball. Somebody here calling

1694
01:13:28,479 --> 01:13:30,760
Speaker 2: me on Twitter one day he said like dray and

1695
01:13:30,840 --> 01:13:34,080
Speaker 2: the code said clothes moms, donna get fed on the bullleboard.

1696
01:13:34,160 --> 01:13:36,840
Speaker 2: I said, y y'all, ain't never heard this song, y'all

1697
01:13:38,880 --> 01:13:42,360
Speaker 2: problems Like, Okay, so we're gonna move on to the

1698
01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:43,880
Speaker 2: next one. Were trying to get through a lot of these.

1699
01:13:43,960 --> 01:13:46,760
Speaker 2: We're really behind y'all. We do apologize and just for

1700
01:13:46,880 --> 01:13:49,360
Speaker 2: all the new listeners out there. When we say BDB,

1701
01:13:49,560 --> 01:13:51,519
Speaker 2: that stands for a big dick baller by the way,

1702
01:13:51,560 --> 01:13:53,320
Speaker 2: because he's de terms a lot. But I know we'd

1703
01:13:53,360 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 2: be in a lot of new listeners. Okay, So this says, hey,

1704
01:13:56,040 --> 01:13:59,160
Speaker 2: hey call me milf be. You two have both touched

1705
01:13:59,200 --> 01:14:02,360
Speaker 2: on surgery and post off life, so I like your perspective.

1706
01:14:02,840 --> 01:14:05,320
Speaker 2: Say you've just gotten your the surgery of your choice,

1707
01:14:05,439 --> 01:14:08,679
Speaker 2: maybe a nose y'all boot job or whatever. Also, during

1708
01:14:08,720 --> 01:14:10,600
Speaker 2: this time, you're dating a guy and he's been with

1709
01:14:10,720 --> 01:14:13,759
Speaker 2: you before surgery, and now he's now with you after surgery.

1710
01:14:14,240 --> 01:14:16,680
Speaker 2: Relationship has its issues, but there are plenty of good

1711
01:14:16,760 --> 01:14:17,439
Speaker 2: times as well.

1712
01:14:17,840 --> 01:14:19,200
Speaker 1: Here's the thing, how.

1713
01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:21,800
Speaker 2: Would y'all feel if he continuously posted pictures of you

1714
01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:25,200
Speaker 2: prior to your surgery on his social media despite having

1715
01:14:25,280 --> 01:14:27,639
Speaker 2: pictures of you after the surgery looking good as hell?

1716
01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:29,920
Speaker 1: Tell him to stop posting that shit.

1717
01:14:30,040 --> 01:14:31,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a simple.

1718
01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:31,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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01:14:32,439 --> 01:14:34,479
Speaker 2: I would just tell him, like, damn bay, you know,

1720
01:14:34,960 --> 01:14:36,920
Speaker 2: did I got my body doing or I did whatever?

1721
01:14:37,080 --> 01:14:39,360
Speaker 2: Like I would prefer if you didn't post these ald

1722
01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:40,960
Speaker 2: pictures of me. We could take some new because some

1723
01:14:40,960 --> 01:14:42,559
Speaker 2: of y'all still together, and take some new picture.

1724
01:14:42,600 --> 01:14:45,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, just tell him to stop that shit out. I

1725
01:14:45,760 --> 01:14:48,320
Speaker 1: got that shit out. Okay, So one more.

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01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:52,839
Speaker 2: Okay, So the next question Mother's Day blues. Hi, ladies,

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01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:55,160
Speaker 2: I'm a twenty seven year old woman who up until

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01:14:55,240 --> 01:14:57,400
Speaker 2: last week did not want a baby. I had so

1729
01:14:57,520 --> 01:15:00,320
Speaker 2: many opportunities to get knocked up by BBB's all that,

1730
01:15:00,560 --> 01:15:03,000
Speaker 2: but a baby just was not what I wanted. However,

1731
01:15:03,160 --> 01:15:06,040
Speaker 2: seeing literally everyone around me getting pregnant and having their

1732
01:15:06,080 --> 01:15:09,000
Speaker 2: little ones, watching them growing up has me and my feelings.

1733
01:15:09,360 --> 01:15:11,400
Speaker 2: Now I want a baby. Am I pathetic for having

1734
01:15:11,439 --> 01:15:15,160
Speaker 2: these thoughts? Or is this normal? And she wrote this

1735
01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:19,280
Speaker 2: to us I think the day after well, I'll say this.

1736
01:15:19,600 --> 01:15:21,960
Speaker 2: I feel like it's a normal feeling as you get

1737
01:15:22,040 --> 01:15:24,560
Speaker 2: older to want a baby, but you just have to

1738
01:15:24,600 --> 01:15:26,720
Speaker 2: make sure you want them for the right reasons. I

1739
01:15:26,880 --> 01:15:28,760
Speaker 2: know a lot of women feel like having a baby

1740
01:15:28,800 --> 01:15:30,920
Speaker 2: by rich niggas and end all be y'all, but there's

1741
01:15:30,960 --> 01:15:33,360
Speaker 2: only a handful of women that we know that are

1742
01:15:33,439 --> 01:15:36,080
Speaker 2: living the lavish life from having a baby from a nigga.

1743
01:15:36,240 --> 01:15:38,799
Speaker 2: There's a lot of women out here who have babies

1744
01:15:38,840 --> 01:15:41,960
Speaker 2: by men, and they're not They're getting the bare minimum. Okay,

1745
01:15:42,200 --> 01:15:45,439
Speaker 2: let me tell y'all something. I know some girls out

1746
01:15:45,479 --> 01:15:50,240
Speaker 2: here in Atlanta. They have babies we quote unquote bdb's

1747
01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:53,479
Speaker 2: and they still work in the club, still work in

1748
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:56,040
Speaker 2: the class still, and there's nothing wrong with that. But

1749
01:15:56,120 --> 01:15:59,599
Speaker 2: I'm saying, but you know what I'm saying is it's

1750
01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:02,840
Speaker 2: wrong whenever you're having that baby for a check. Now,

1751
01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:04,960
Speaker 2: you did say that you were like in your feelings

1752
01:16:05,000 --> 01:16:06,680
Speaker 2: a little bit and you just kind of want a child. So,

1753
01:16:07,000 --> 01:16:09,000
Speaker 2: like I said, as you get older, your feelings do

1754
01:16:09,160 --> 01:16:10,840
Speaker 2: change and you do want to be. I feel like

1755
01:16:10,920 --> 01:16:13,240
Speaker 2: that motherly Jane just kicks in for some women at

1756
01:16:13,280 --> 01:16:15,960
Speaker 2: some point. So I feel as long as your feelings

1757
01:16:16,000 --> 01:16:17,920
Speaker 2: are right and you want to have a child because

1758
01:16:17,960 --> 01:16:20,200
Speaker 2: you want to bring a child into this world and

1759
01:16:20,320 --> 01:16:22,519
Speaker 2: you're ready to be a mother, that needs to be

1760
01:16:22,640 --> 01:16:24,920
Speaker 2: the only reason you have a baby is if you're

1761
01:16:24,960 --> 01:16:27,439
Speaker 2: in love and you're ready to create a person out

1762
01:16:27,439 --> 01:16:29,160
Speaker 2: of love, or is if you really want to be

1763
01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:31,640
Speaker 2: a mother and you're ready to have that responsibility. A

1764
01:16:31,760 --> 01:16:34,320
Speaker 2: man with a check should be no reason why you

1765
01:16:34,439 --> 01:16:38,040
Speaker 2: have a baby period. Yeah, I mean, I agree with that.

1766
01:16:38,120 --> 01:16:39,760
Speaker 2: I feel like you have to have a baby when

1767
01:16:39,760 --> 01:16:42,759
Speaker 2: you ready because I feel like, you know, that's normal

1768
01:16:42,840 --> 01:16:45,640
Speaker 2: to be in situations where you dating somebody and a

1769
01:16:45,760 --> 01:16:47,560
Speaker 2: dude might have money or whatever and he wants you

1770
01:16:47,640 --> 01:16:49,200
Speaker 2: to have a child. You should never do something that

1771
01:16:49,280 --> 01:16:51,160
Speaker 2: you're not ready to do. So, you know, kudos to

1772
01:16:51,240 --> 01:16:53,400
Speaker 2: you for not just having a baby just because a

1773
01:16:53,439 --> 01:16:55,519
Speaker 2: nigga wanted you to have one, you know what I mean.

1774
01:16:55,960 --> 01:16:57,960
Speaker 2: It's good that you kind of stuck to your guns

1775
01:16:58,080 --> 01:16:59,840
Speaker 2: and didn't do something that you wasn't ready to do

1776
01:17:00,040 --> 01:17:01,479
Speaker 2: at the time. But I feel like, yeah, I mean,

1777
01:17:01,520 --> 01:17:03,960
Speaker 2: you you're twenty seven, you're not getting no younger. I

1778
01:17:04,000 --> 01:17:05,519
Speaker 2: feel like if you are ready to have a kid,

1779
01:17:05,600 --> 01:17:08,040
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, you got a potential baby

1780
01:17:08,080 --> 01:17:10,400
Speaker 2: daddy or somebody that you care about. Whatever, girl, go

1781
01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:12,600
Speaker 2: ahead and how y your baby. But like LEXI, you know,

1782
01:17:12,800 --> 01:17:15,599
Speaker 2: just make sure that you're doing it for the right

1783
01:17:15,680 --> 01:17:18,519
Speaker 2: reasons and not because you're trying to get a check.

1784
01:17:19,520 --> 01:17:21,760
Speaker 2: You know, specifically, because like I said, a lot of

1785
01:17:21,800 --> 01:17:24,600
Speaker 2: the time, stuff like that do be kind of backfiring

1786
01:17:24,680 --> 01:17:27,439
Speaker 2: on girls when they go into situations for their reason,

1787
01:17:27,479 --> 01:17:30,880
Speaker 2: they don't always end up getting exactly what they think

1788
01:17:30,920 --> 01:17:32,720
Speaker 2: they're gonna get. We see it all the times in

1789
01:17:32,760 --> 01:17:34,599
Speaker 2: the blogs and stuff with a lot of these celebrities,

1790
01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:36,719
Speaker 2: how they baby mamas be suing them for child support

1791
01:17:36,760 --> 01:17:39,280
Speaker 2: because they be saying if they not paying, you know what,

1792
01:17:39,400 --> 01:17:41,120
Speaker 2: they need to be paying and they not taking care

1793
01:17:41,160 --> 01:17:43,559
Speaker 2: of the child. So, you know, just make sure you're

1794
01:17:43,560 --> 01:17:45,320
Speaker 2: doing it for the right reasons. But it is perfectly

1795
01:17:45,400 --> 01:17:47,840
Speaker 2: normal once you get to a certain age to you know,

1796
01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:49,080
Speaker 2: be ready to have a kid.

1797
01:17:50,040 --> 01:17:50,760
Speaker 3: I think that was.

1798
01:17:53,120 --> 01:17:58,479
Speaker 1: A good Sorry, that was a good explanation. Like I said, yeah,

1799
01:17:58,520 --> 01:17:59,400
Speaker 1: we both agree on that.

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01:18:00,360 --> 01:18:01,920
Speaker 2: Is there anything else you need to.

1801
01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:04,720
Speaker 1: No, I don't think I have anything else to add

1802
01:18:04,800 --> 01:18:07,720
Speaker 1: this week. I do have a song I want to

1803
01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:09,519
Speaker 1: sing now, I'm not gonna sing on today because I'm

1804
01:18:09,560 --> 01:18:11,280
Speaker 1: ready to go to sleep. It's late.

1805
01:18:11,400 --> 01:18:12,880
Speaker 2: We about to drop this, y'all about to get this

1806
01:18:13,040 --> 01:18:16,600
Speaker 2: right at fucking midnight, right, so, just in honor of

1807
01:18:17,640 --> 01:18:21,920
Speaker 2: one twelve and the jaggededch versus battle that just happened. Now,

1808
01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:25,439
Speaker 2: who y'all think one? I am not gonna lie.

1809
01:18:26,200 --> 01:18:26,920
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1810
01:18:27,400 --> 01:18:29,519
Speaker 2: It's kind of like a close call for me because

1811
01:18:29,600 --> 01:18:32,679
Speaker 2: I was definitely a Jagged Edge and one twelve girl,

1812
01:18:33,160 --> 01:18:35,320
Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna lie. I was listening to the

1813
01:18:35,360 --> 01:18:38,160
Speaker 2: playlist on title earlier today because they got a versus

1814
01:18:38,280 --> 01:18:41,120
Speaker 2: playlist on the title with all of those with both

1815
01:18:41,160 --> 01:18:43,639
Speaker 2: of their songs on there. And as I was listening

1816
01:18:43,680 --> 01:18:45,960
Speaker 2: to the it's about forty songs, and as I was

1817
01:18:46,040 --> 01:18:49,559
Speaker 2: listening to the playlist, I do feel like Jagged Edge

1818
01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:53,600
Speaker 2: had more radio bots, and so.

1819
01:18:53,960 --> 01:18:54,960
Speaker 1: I definitely agree with you.

1820
01:18:55,080 --> 01:18:58,000
Speaker 2: I feel like the only reason people feel like one

1821
01:18:58,120 --> 01:19:02,640
Speaker 2: twelve one is because they had the songs lined up

1822
01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:04,880
Speaker 2: properly and their sound was a little bit better. Because

1823
01:19:04,920 --> 01:19:07,040
Speaker 2: the thing about these verses battles. It definitely has a

1824
01:19:07,080 --> 01:19:09,360
Speaker 2: lot to do with like the qu energy, the quality

1825
01:19:09,439 --> 01:19:11,760
Speaker 2: and everything like that. But when it comes to like

1826
01:19:11,920 --> 01:19:14,800
Speaker 2: hit for head, Jaggetede definitely got absolutely because once we

1827
01:19:15,040 --> 01:19:16,800
Speaker 2: had used to have a lot of features back in

1828
01:19:16,880 --> 01:19:18,479
Speaker 2: the day. I feel like, so they weren't a lot

1829
01:19:18,520 --> 01:19:21,479
Speaker 2: of other people songs versus Jaggeted. Most of these songs

1830
01:19:21,520 --> 01:19:25,680
Speaker 2: that were heats were just theirs, right, Okay, so let

1831
01:19:25,720 --> 01:19:28,080
Speaker 2: me sing my song, let me let me get the lyrics.

1832
01:19:28,200 --> 01:19:29,479
Speaker 2: I don't want to mess it up. I'm gonna do

1833
01:19:29,720 --> 01:19:32,360
Speaker 2: I was gonna do another one. What are you about

1834
01:19:32,400 --> 01:19:39,240
Speaker 2: to sing? Looking over here, rolling down the lonely highway.

1835
01:19:40,200 --> 01:19:45,200
Speaker 3: Asking God to please forgive me for messing up the

1836
01:19:45,720 --> 01:19:51,240
Speaker 3: blessing he gave to me. I see, stop laughing, bro,

1837
01:19:54,320 --> 01:19:57,400
Speaker 3: feel like I'm just walk right out of half all.

1838
01:19:58,439 --> 01:20:03,560
Speaker 3: It feels like I'm don on my life boy, like

1839
01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:07,360
Speaker 3: a job that's lost. That shirm so skinned. I don't

1840
01:20:07,400 --> 01:20:10,400
Speaker 3: know what to do to get back right with you.

1841
01:20:11,439 --> 01:20:11,960
Speaker 1: That was good.

1842
01:20:12,360 --> 01:20:13,160
Speaker 2: That was good.

1843
01:20:13,479 --> 01:20:21,479
Speaker 1: P I cannot wine, homie, okay, mylf in a moment.

1844
01:20:21,640 --> 01:20:26,639
Speaker 2: Now I'm trying to do a whole the old here

1845
01:20:27,479 --> 01:20:33,800
Speaker 2: poor hall hereut laugh because bro E, those faces that

1846
01:20:33,960 --> 01:20:37,320
Speaker 2: you be making. I'm just letting y'all know this coming

1847
01:20:37,439 --> 01:20:41,240
Speaker 2: to me I cannot take. And yes, please listen. I

1848
01:20:41,320 --> 01:20:42,880
Speaker 2: know it's at the end of the episode. It's not

1849
01:20:42,920 --> 01:20:44,760
Speaker 2: gonna be a YouTube this week. We're gonna be back

1850
01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:47,920
Speaker 2: in the studio very very soon June eighth, the YouTube

1851
01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:50,880
Speaker 2: will be dropped consistently again. But like I said, it's Corona,

1852
01:20:51,000 --> 01:20:53,760
Speaker 2: So please be easy with us. Like I said, make

1853
01:20:53,760 --> 01:20:57,200
Speaker 2: sure y'all email us. Ask poormindt gmail dot com. You

1854
01:20:57,280 --> 01:21:01,479
Speaker 2: got anything you want to add? Oh, oh, our P

1855
01:21:01,760 --> 01:21:02,320
Speaker 2: to that man.

1856
01:21:04,760 --> 01:21:07,280
Speaker 1: It's not funny, but you could at least know the man.

1857
01:21:07,520 --> 01:21:08,000
Speaker 2: His name is.

1858
01:21:08,240 --> 01:21:10,919
Speaker 1: His name was George. I forgot his last name, Jeffrey.

1859
01:21:11,120 --> 01:21:13,760
Speaker 2: I thought, see, no, bitch, you can at least know

1860
01:21:13,880 --> 01:21:15,880
Speaker 2: his name. Why are you talking this?

1861
01:21:16,320 --> 01:21:17,880
Speaker 1: His name was Georgey.

1862
01:21:19,200 --> 01:21:24,960
Speaker 2: You just looked this is not forgive me, yeah, because

1863
01:21:24,960 --> 01:21:28,120
Speaker 2: you the one making a joke, did not. But yes,

1864
01:21:28,320 --> 01:21:31,720
Speaker 2: our P to him, because that was really really streak.

1865
01:21:33,000 --> 01:21:35,560
Speaker 2: I just really did want to, you know, see my

1866
01:21:35,680 --> 01:21:39,320
Speaker 2: condolences to his family because anybody that was close to him.

1867
01:21:39,360 --> 01:21:41,680
Speaker 2: I saw that as well, and I just feel like

1868
01:21:41,760 --> 01:21:44,680
Speaker 2: it was very heartbreaking watching it. Because he was out

1869
01:21:44,720 --> 01:21:46,800
Speaker 2: there working. He don't even live and he didn't even

1870
01:21:46,840 --> 01:21:49,280
Speaker 2: live in Minnesota, and it was just very upsetting and

1871
01:21:49,439 --> 01:21:52,160
Speaker 2: things like that are still happening in twenty twenty.

1872
01:21:52,720 --> 01:21:55,280
Speaker 1: I just feel like for our black men and women,

1873
01:21:55,680 --> 01:21:57,920
Speaker 1: like we just have to move extra careful.

1874
01:21:58,000 --> 01:22:01,160
Speaker 2: We can't. We don't get the player just walking around

1875
01:22:01,479 --> 01:22:06,280
Speaker 2: yeah and living freely. Unfortunately we don't. So Yeah, shout

1876
01:22:06,320 --> 01:22:08,479
Speaker 2: out to his family, Prayers up to all of them

1877
01:22:08,560 --> 01:22:10,600
Speaker 2: and everybody going through it like that.

1878
01:22:10,720 --> 01:22:13,160
Speaker 1: Shit was really sad, But I'm glad that the police

1879
01:22:13,200 --> 01:22:15,919
Speaker 1: department acted quickly and they fired all four involved.

1880
01:22:16,479 --> 01:22:20,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, hopefully they'll be a charge because I don't know

1881
01:22:20,640 --> 01:22:23,120
Speaker 2: why I watched that video, but it was so fucking disturbing.

1882
01:22:23,240 --> 01:22:27,160
Speaker 1: It was very disturbing and pleasure out of there the officer.

1883
01:22:27,160 --> 01:22:28,120
Speaker 1: That was the reason.

1884
01:22:28,200 --> 01:22:30,559
Speaker 2: It was because the people in the background were telling him.

1885
01:22:30,600 --> 01:22:32,840
Speaker 2: But it's like, you know, it's an ego thing. These

1886
01:22:32,920 --> 01:22:36,400
Speaker 2: cops have such a fucking nasty ass ego. So they're

1887
01:22:36,479 --> 01:22:39,599
Speaker 2: telling him, hey, he's not moving, get up off his neck.

1888
01:22:39,640 --> 01:22:42,160
Speaker 2: He's like, no, no, just because you don't want somebody

1889
01:22:42,200 --> 01:22:44,200
Speaker 2: to tell you what to do. But so but now

1890
01:22:44,280 --> 01:22:46,080
Speaker 2: this you have lost your job, and this man has

1891
01:22:46,160 --> 01:22:48,519
Speaker 2: lost his life. So I just feel like for a

1892
01:22:48,560 --> 01:22:52,480
Speaker 2: lot of people, you know, we something's gotta change, so absolutely,

1893
01:22:52,880 --> 01:22:54,720
Speaker 2: and it makes you scared. So like I know, a

1894
01:22:54,760 --> 01:22:57,519
Speaker 2: lot of women were tweeting and stuff who have sons,

1895
01:22:57,600 --> 01:22:59,040
Speaker 2: and a lot of men who have sons. It just

1896
01:22:59,120 --> 01:23:01,920
Speaker 2: makes you scared to raise a black man, a young

1897
01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:04,320
Speaker 2: black man in America right now, you know what I mean.

1898
01:23:04,400 --> 01:23:08,759
Speaker 2: It's very very disheartening to watch things like that. But yeah, Also,

1899
01:23:09,360 --> 01:23:14,280
Speaker 2: I'm gonna update my Amazon my Amazon storefront this week

1900
01:23:14,400 --> 01:23:17,000
Speaker 2: with some more products and stuff. So I'm gonna be

1901
01:23:17,080 --> 01:23:19,639
Speaker 2: posting that on my Instagram story and we're gonna add

1902
01:23:19,720 --> 01:23:22,640
Speaker 2: the liak in the description box. And that's all that

1903
01:23:22,760 --> 01:23:23,479
Speaker 2: I have this week.

1904
01:23:23,680 --> 01:23:25,160
Speaker 1: Alrighty, We'll see y'all next week.

1905
01:23:25,240 --> 01:23:26,000
Speaker 2: Bye y'all, Bye,