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Speaker 1: So what is this new dating term?

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Speaker 2: All right, So it's called tollyamory, and if you haven't heard.

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Speaker 1: It, you're not allowed memory. I've not heard tollyamory.

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Speaker 3: It's basically when someone knows or strongly suspects that their

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Speaker 3: partner is having a romantic relationship with someone else, but

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Speaker 3: instead of sitting down and talking about it.

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Speaker 2: They kind of just tolerate it and keep the relationship going.

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Speaker 3: Experts say it's much more common than people realize, and

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Speaker 3: the big difference is that it isn't polly amory with

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Speaker 3: a P because there's no mutual agreement with polyamory.

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Speaker 2: That what that means exactly, y'all agree.

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Speaker 3: Like, so it's like you're going to have an open

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Speaker 3: relationship or see other people. I'm aware of it and

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Speaker 3: I'm cool with it. Find blah blah blah. But relationship

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Speaker 3: experts say that the reasons are often less. It's not

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Speaker 3: so much about the relationship. It's more about maybe they

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Speaker 3: have kids, Maybe it's finances, maybe it's because they own

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Speaker 3: the house together, like and so people just turn a

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Speaker 3: blind eye.

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Speaker 2: To these men or women on them because.

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Speaker 3: They think that that's the way to live their life,

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Speaker 3: which I am like I could never live this.

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Speaker 1: Tolly amory means you just look the other way. That

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Speaker 1: by definitely just turn a blind eye, look the other way.

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Speaker 2: Right, like in denial essentially right?

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Speaker 1: I mean do people do it out of love? Like

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Speaker 1: what if they really love someone so much that they

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Speaker 1: just don't want to deal with the conflict.

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Speaker 3: That it's also fear of starting over again, or maybe

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Speaker 3: they just don't think they don't know.

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Speaker 1: Their worth well. As Tany said, none of the amoris

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Speaker 1: are good.

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