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R 15 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 1: s v P today for a Crting Barrel Private Registry 16 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: event at Crateing Barrel dot com Slash Stores Slash Events. 17 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 18 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 1: on our radio. Hey guys, welcome to the Almost Famous podcast. 19 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: This is Ashley and I have been on the line 20 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 1: for just a few minutes to talk about the very 21 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: very important stuff that happened at Mentel All. It was 22 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: so juicy, and of course, like almost every episode this season, 23 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: Luke stole the show, and not necessarily in a good way. Ben, 24 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: I know there was stuff that you want to talk 25 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: about with Luke in the very short amount of time 26 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 1: we have, So I'm going to give this over to 27 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 1: you right now. Yeah. You know, it's been interesting and 28 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 1: as we've talked about this season, you know, the idea 29 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 1: of sex and religion and of Luke, it's all been 30 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,680 Speaker 1: polarizing and talked about, and uh, you know, I came 31 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 1: out a few weeks ago and kind of talked about 32 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: just how maybe envious I was that um God was 33 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 1: being spoken about so much, and you know, typically on 34 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: this show, we don't see that, and we also don't 35 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 1: get the opportunity to talk about some of these topics 36 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 1: that are pretty taboo, like sex. And I really want to, 37 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: first off, say thanks to the show for opening up 38 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 1: the door for us talk about next is you know, 39 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: I came out pretty strong against Luke a few weeks ago, 40 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: and then I hold to a lot of those opinions. 41 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: The one thing that I felt really convicted of the 42 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: last couple of weeks is that I think my envy 43 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: and my jealousy really kind of swayed my thought process 44 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 1: on Luke. I never I still don't agree with how 45 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: he communicated. I don't agree at the ftance he took 46 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: towards Hannah at all. But I didn't, you know, just 47 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 1: like I preached to take a second and listen to 48 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 1: somebody's story, I dismissed his story right away because of 49 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 1: how he was communicating, and it was unfair to him. Um. 50 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 1: And I also, I want to say this, I've learned 51 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 1: a lot about myself through this season. It's been a 52 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 1: wild season and a lot of these topics hit me 53 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: really personally. And I don't think Luke intentionally came onto 54 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: the show to be a bad dude or to be 55 00:02:55,680 --> 00:03:00,239 Speaker 1: the villain of the season. I think he got caught 56 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 1: up in a mess and a storm that spit him 57 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 1: out in a really ugly way. And it's not editing, 58 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 1: it's not the show being the show, it's that this 59 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 1: whole thing. I think Luke was a really good example 60 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: ash of how this show can come full steam on 61 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:20,079 Speaker 1: you really fast, and unless you're prepared for it, it 62 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:22,919 Speaker 1: can get ugly. And I think was flushed on him, 63 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 1: and he just get smiling down and down down. He 64 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: couldn't get out of it. He couldn't get out of it. 65 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: And and i've i've I have. I felt a little 66 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: bit guilty that I took, you know, what he was 67 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: trying to say, and I assumed that he was trying 68 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: to say it to hurt others. And I don't know 69 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 1: if that's true or not. I don't know this guy. 70 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: And I think I just got caught up in this 71 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: whole season, just like most of the fans did, with 72 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: getting angry, getting resentful, you know, putting up silos and 73 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: not listening to others and what they're trying to say. 74 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 1: And honestly, like who am I to question somebody's story 75 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: and their relationship with something bigger than themselves? Like who 76 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: am I to question if he believes in God or not, 77 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: or if he's a Christian or not, or if his 78 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: beliefs are right or not. Like that's not my place, 79 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: But my place is is to be a fan. And 80 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: now I look back on this season and say, this 81 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 1: was one of the most polarizing characters we have seen 82 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: the whole time. And the doorbell rings in a moment 83 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 1: of drama. Then I don't think you have anything to 84 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: feel guilty about. You're a very I think you've articulate 85 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 1: yourself completely. I'm surprised that you're saying that you feel 86 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: like you were you were je you were that jealous 87 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:41,479 Speaker 1: of Luke having the religious platform that he was given. 88 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 1: Can you like a little bit more? What's that? Can 89 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:48,679 Speaker 1: you like talk about that a little bit more? Yeah? 90 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 1: I can't. This is the right word. No, I was 91 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: because I was jealous because the show, and you know 92 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: the show, and I've always had a good relationship, but 93 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: I never got to talk about Jesus during my season, 94 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: and I never got to fully explain my different thought 95 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 1: processes and how I believe and why I believe in 96 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 1: what I did, And so I did get jealous. I 97 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 1: did get it was hard for me, And I wasn't 98 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: jealous of Luke. It was mostly just being jealous that 99 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 1: this conversation we all bear around somebody that's just new 100 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 1: to this whole thing and just starting to experience God 101 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 1: for the first time. I want to be the guy 102 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 1: to thought like I want to have the opportunity to 103 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 1: talk about Jesus um so people can hear and know 104 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 1: and instead I feel like Luke got thrown into this 105 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,719 Speaker 1: world without knowing what he was getting into. I also 106 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 1: think this though, Ashley. And there's one thing that I 107 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:42,559 Speaker 1: still am confused about, because I've thought about this stuff 108 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 1: a lot, is you know, the one thing with Luke 109 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: I don't get yet, is he, if I remember right, 110 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 1: he was the very first guy to take off his 111 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 1: shirt and start massaging down Hannah. Right. Definitely forgot to 112 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 1: mention that last week in all the hypocrisy, right, I mean, 113 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 1: for a guy that's gonna stand up and speak so 114 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 1: strongly against Anna becoming physical study, I feel like he 115 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: in a sense was almost leading her into that as well. 116 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:11,479 Speaker 1: Like I don't know what he was trying to do 117 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 1: by taking off the shirt and rubbing her down. There's 118 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:17,039 Speaker 1: only one thing that happens, at least in most people's 119 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:26,720 Speaker 1: world after they do that, and that is so Yeah. 120 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 1: I just we've had stored sex so many times on 121 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 1: this podcast in the past couple of weeks. I'm just 122 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 1: trying to come up with alternatives. Well, I get it, 123 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:36,840 Speaker 1: and like we talked about it a ton. I mean, 124 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 1: it's been wild how their responses and I love it. 125 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 1: You know, part of this podcast actually, maybe the only 126 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 1: reason to do a podcast is to get people talking. 127 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: And one of the things that Luke and the rest 128 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:49,919 Speaker 1: of the show has done a great job at this 129 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:52,839 Speaker 1: year is it's gotten people talking about the idea of 130 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: sex and that the idea of faith and the idea 131 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: of relationships, and for that, like, I'm so thankful that 132 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 1: we get to be in the middle of that. Yeah, no, 133 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 1: it's it's great. We've been given a couple of good seasons. 134 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: We've been able to talk about like life in a 135 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: bigger aspect than a lot of previous Bachelor seasons have been. 136 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: You know, like I don't want to put a timetable 137 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 1: on it, but like ever since we started the podcast 138 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 1: was really when it started to bring up more like 139 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 1: cultural topics, Ben, I I could talk about this for 140 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: a while more with you. And I really do feel 141 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: like you should have like your own podcast just called 142 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: Sermons with Ben. I think like it really would be 143 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: a great outlet for you and a really great thing 144 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 1: for a lot of people out there to listen to. 145 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 1: But you also, you have another project coming up, and 146 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: you are um so busy these days. I don't know 147 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 1: if you could be able to handle the Sermons with 148 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 1: Ben podcast. Because you're going on a nationwide tour and 149 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: you announced that yesterday. I'm mental all they announced you 150 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 1: as being the host of this. Can you tell everybody 151 00:07:54,960 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 1: what this is all about? I am so jacked. Actually, um, 152 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be the host of The Bachelor live on 153 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 1: stage show. What it is? It's a live show, uh, 154 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 1: coming all throughout the US. We're stopping in a ton 155 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: of different places, I mean a ton of different places, 156 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: and we're showing up with really the idea that the 157 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation is so good to this show, and the 158 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: Bach Threat and Bachelor have been around for so long 159 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 1: that for the first time ever, we're gonna show up 160 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 1: to your hometown to hopefully give you a tape of 161 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 1: what it's like to be on The Bachelor. So we're 162 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 1: gonna give you a shot at finding love in your hometown. 163 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 1: And you know, obviously drama is gonna come with it. Actually, 164 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: I promise you did. Though it's gonna be awesome. I 165 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 1: was approached a couple of nights ago about Um. I 166 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 1: was at a Rob Thomas concert and these girls were like, 167 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:47,719 Speaker 1: you guys need to go on tour. We want the 168 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 1: almost on this podcast to go on tour. Well, now 169 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: everybody can go and see Ben on tour sometime next year, 170 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 1: and you know, maybe I'll come and say hello, what 171 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 1: a couple of those stops, Ashley, you better come say 172 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: hello to a lot of those styles. Well, thank you, 173 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 1: thank you all right, Well, Ben, thanks for giving us 174 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 1: your time. I know you're super busy this week. Um, 175 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 1: you guys make sure to stay tuned for more information 176 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: about the Bachelor Live tour. And Ben, thanks for coming 177 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:17,680 Speaker 1: on of course and talking about your passionate feelings towards Luke. 178 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 1: You're the best. Ashley, thanks for asking about the tour. 179 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: And also again, I just want to say I thought 180 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 1: this season was great. Um. I thought the characters are polarizing, 181 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: and I thought the topics we're really something to talk about. 182 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 1: And uh and hey, I hope once again, like we 183 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 1: kind of said weeks ago, actually and we can't forget 184 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: this ever in this podcast, I hope that the people 185 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: that come on the show um come out in a 186 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 1: better place than when they entered in. 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It's gonna be like more 272 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: of a roundtable discussion than anything else. Um, I've got 273 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 1: my fiance to my right. His name is Jared Habn. 274 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 1: What's going on, guys? YEA. Then we have Tasia Diagonals 275 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 1: to me. Just paid a little picture here. And then 276 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 1: we have Dean Ungler on the Almost Saras podcast for 277 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 1: the first time like a year or so. It's you've 278 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 1: just been like concentrated so much on your own podcast. 279 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 1: Help us if you listen to this Jared and I 280 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 1: help help, I Suck at Dating and I Heart Radio 281 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: podcast you guys check it out anywhere I heart radio 282 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 1: podcasts are. I'm going to plug that podcast at least 283 00:14:57,960 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 1: fifteen more times. Podcast That's fine. This is why we 284 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 1: you know, um, guests on each other's podcasts. So we're 285 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 1: all here today to talk about Mentel All. We all 286 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: watched it here in our cabin and tahoe together. We 287 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 1: had a lot of commentary while watching it, and we're 288 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 1: going to try to remember all of that and tell 289 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 1: you guys about that. Now. Let's start off at the 290 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 1: top of the episode. Which I thought was the best 291 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 1: part was when Luke decided that even though he was 292 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 1: eliminated last week, that he was still going to join 293 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 1: the other guys at the Rose ceremony. He added himself 294 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 1: to the lineup, and it was the utmost ridiculous. I 295 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 1: actually found those fifteen minutes more interesting than last week's 296 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 1: big hand tal off. We was just really compelling because 297 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 1: we've never seen anything like that before. He literally just 298 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 1: walked into the Rose ceremony as if nothing happened, kind 299 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 1: of like George Castanza and Seinfeld. He got fired on 300 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:59,040 Speaker 1: him Friday, came back Monday like nothing ever happened. That's 301 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 1: funny because the guys have no idea that Chris Harrison 302 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 1: didn't like tell him to go down the stairs like 303 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 1: they were expecting for him to be there, so they 304 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 1: didn't think twice. That was the best part because you're 305 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 1: watching it, they're like, oh my god, they have no 306 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 1: idea he's already been sent home. But it took me 307 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,360 Speaker 1: a second to realize that. Really, yes, I thought it 308 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:20,040 Speaker 1: was hilarious because actually, I I'm shocked at how calm 309 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 1: Hannah was when she saw him there. Like that first 310 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 1: moment where she saw him, it wasn't like, what the 311 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 1: beep are you doing here? I would have stopped dead 312 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:32,240 Speaker 1: in my tracks. Yeah. Yeah, she kept the proposure really well. 313 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:35,760 Speaker 1: I also was surprised at Luke approached her right away. 314 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:38,360 Speaker 1: I guess it makes sense, but I kind of wanted 315 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 1: to see it drug out a little bit. Just him 316 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 1: standing there, just waiting to be handed around here. It 317 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:45,800 Speaker 1: doesn't make sense, but for some reason I was just like, 318 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 1: just just wait a little longer until you walk up 319 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 1: to her, you know what I mean? I like it. 320 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 1: And then he did go up to her, Yeah he did. 321 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:53,360 Speaker 1: He walked up to her, and the other guys are 322 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 1: looking and being of course she's going to try to 323 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 1: steal more time, not even knowing that he's actually eliminated. 324 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 1: And then it was fun to watch them put the 325 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 1: pieces together and be like, oh man, she sent him 326 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 1: home and he came back. This is how crazy he is. 327 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 1: We're gonna get back to like um calling him crazy. 328 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 1: I will say that the first twenty minutes of this 329 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 1: episode made Luke a little bit less Um. I couldn't 330 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 1: defend him anymore. I think last week, I even I 331 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:24,239 Speaker 1: kept repeating that I couldn't call him a dick, no 332 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 1: matter how much I wanted to. I was like, I 333 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 1: think this guy is just so ignorant and over his 334 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:33,879 Speaker 1: head that I don't even think that he's trying to 335 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:37,560 Speaker 1: create malice. But he just doesn't know any better. Um. 336 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:40,239 Speaker 1: But I think listening to him in the car on 337 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:42,919 Speaker 1: the way to that Rose ceremony and him being like, 338 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 1: I know, without a shadow of a doubt that Hannah 339 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:50,439 Speaker 1: is still in love with me, and like, truly believe 340 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:53,879 Speaker 1: that there was a possibility for her to accept the 341 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 1: ring and he had it was nuts. And that's where 342 00:17:57,800 --> 00:18:00,359 Speaker 1: I was like, I cannot defend I can't give this 343 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 1: guy even the sliver of the benefit of the doubt anymore, because, 344 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 1: in in my opinion, that whole scene was completely narcissistic. 345 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:13,640 Speaker 1: Tastia said she doesn't like calling him that word. I don't, well, 346 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:15,720 Speaker 1: I feel like, I don't know, I just feel like 347 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 1: that allows everybody else to call him that, and I 348 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:21,200 Speaker 1: just I don't like people names. I agree, I don't 349 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:25,959 Speaker 1: like the term psychopath or crazy, parcissistic. I think he 350 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:32,160 Speaker 1: was being sure, Yeah, I think when you um involve 351 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:36,920 Speaker 1: a word like psychopath into the conversation when we're watching 352 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 1: you know, The Bachelorette, I think it gets to a degree, 353 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 1: like Tastia said, that is absurd. Yeah, I think that 354 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:46,959 Speaker 1: psychopath is not a word that I want to use 355 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:48,880 Speaker 1: with him. But I think, like for the fact that 356 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:52,920 Speaker 1: he thought that he was so special and that he 357 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:56,959 Speaker 1: couldn't even comprehend the idea that she thinks she'd be 358 00:18:56,960 --> 00:19:00,400 Speaker 1: better suited with another guy, made him see a little 359 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 1: bit self centered, beyond beyond the norm. He definitely came 360 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 1: off self centered, even in the last episode where she 361 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 1: was sending him home and he wouldn't even get up, 362 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:12,480 Speaker 1: wouldn't even leave the chair. But if you think about it, there, 363 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 1: I've been like multiple times throughout the season that she 364 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 1: did send him home or could have sent him home, 365 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 1: and she continued to keep him there like she sent 366 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 1: him home and then he came back in her and 367 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:30,199 Speaker 1: she keeps allowing this behavior. So it's like why he 368 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:33,359 Speaker 1: was encouraging that he's been validated before, you know what 369 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 1: I means. So he's obviously coming from a place of 370 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 1: her validating him and his feelings to play Devil's advocate here. 371 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:42,159 Speaker 1: This is my favorite thing to do. I agree that 372 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:44,439 Speaker 1: none of us are clinical psychologists to be able to 373 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:48,080 Speaker 1: go and say who is and who isn't a psychopath? Right, Yes, 374 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:51,880 Speaker 1: but this dude is such an outlier to the most 375 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 1: extreme extent that we've seen in a long long time, 376 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:57,119 Speaker 1: that level headed normal people can look at his actions 377 00:19:57,280 --> 00:20:00,439 Speaker 1: and be like, those are pretty psychopathic. Look at it 378 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:04,679 Speaker 1: or psychopath? Yeah, I think it's a good idea. I 379 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 1: think so. And I also want to say, and I'm 380 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:10,439 Speaker 1: trying to not say this in a mean way whatsoever, 381 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:13,360 Speaker 1: but I also think Luke p is in way over 382 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 1: his head and has maybe not in a place in 383 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,119 Speaker 1: his life right now where he's ready for a situation 384 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 1: like this, because I don't think that he has the 385 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 1: I don't want to call him unintelligent, but a lot 386 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 1: of his behavior, even at the mental he took such 387 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:31,920 Speaker 1: long pauses because he couldn't think of what to say. 388 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:33,480 Speaker 1: I don't think he couldn't think of it. I think 389 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 1: he needed to be careful with his wording because his 390 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 1: words have been used agains him. Isn't the entire season, 391 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:40,200 Speaker 1: And yes, Dean, do not shake your head right now 392 00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:42,919 Speaker 1: his words you were used against again at the mental 393 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:46,919 Speaker 1: because everything he just like everyone disregarded it, doesn't regret anything. 394 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:49,960 Speaker 1: He thinks that even the hypocrisy which we all saw 395 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:53,280 Speaker 1: with the virginity talk, because he's not a virgin. I understand, 396 00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 1: I'm not you know, I understand the born again part 397 00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:58,960 Speaker 1: of it. But the hypocrisy to say that Hannah, who 398 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 1: admitted on the show last actually had sex with two 399 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:05,800 Speaker 1: people before this, to use that against her, uh, and 400 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:07,879 Speaker 1: then say that he didn't think it was wrong and 401 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:10,159 Speaker 1: he wasn't being hypocritical. I thought, let me present an 402 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:13,440 Speaker 1: idea to the table place I think I just got. 403 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 1: I think I just dialed it in. Exactly what's wrong here? 404 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 1: Luke p said God came to him in the shower, 405 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 1: and if he didn't say that, we would have taken 406 00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 1: his beliefs a little bit more seriously. Here's here's what 407 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,640 Speaker 1: I think is going on. I think he is a 408 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:30,560 Speaker 1: new Christian and he's still trying to understand a lot 409 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 1: about Christianity and how he fits into Christianity. And because 410 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:37,360 Speaker 1: of that, he doesn't fully understand it. He doesn't fully 411 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 1: understand how he fits into it, and so he's like 412 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 1: fumbling right in front of our eyes, and we're watching 413 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 1: him try and figure out exactly what he should be 414 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:49,160 Speaker 1: doing and saying because of the of his faith, and 415 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:50,800 Speaker 1: it's just gonna take him a little bit of time 416 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,000 Speaker 1: to really see how those two things fit together. Wait, 417 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 1: a second game, that was so brilliant, But don't you 418 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 1: feel bad about Okay? So doesn't that make you feel 419 00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,119 Speaker 1: bad for him? Absolutely? Absolutely, He's trying to put he's 420 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:01,359 Speaker 1: trying to put circle into a square. He's trying to 421 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:03,880 Speaker 1: do the best he can, but he keeps failing, right, 422 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 1: And I think that just comes from a lack of 423 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:10,560 Speaker 1: time in this environment, in his faith in Christianity, and 424 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:14,399 Speaker 1: a lack of maybe intelligence. He's not being he's not 425 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:17,680 Speaker 1: being fully himself because he's trying to fit the script 426 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 1: that he's set forth for himself, which is the religious 427 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 1: path that he's taking. So maybe his lack of intelligence 428 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 1: is within the Christian faith and maybe you're right, he 429 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 1: just doesn't know but where he fits into it, starting 430 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,160 Speaker 1: to figure out his own definition of his Christianity, because 431 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people like I think what 432 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 1: we've been seeing from him is just like he believes 433 00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:38,680 Speaker 1: word by word of the Bible, which makes him judge 434 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,360 Speaker 1: Hannah for what she's doing. Yeah, he doesn't like look 435 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:44,640 Speaker 1: at any sort of like modern it's sort of loose 436 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 1: interpretation that many people do today. And I think that 437 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 1: that's why a lot of people are like, you can't, 438 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 1: you can't do what you're doing well. And here's the 439 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,920 Speaker 1: thing making religion look bad. Here's here's the thing too. 440 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:57,160 Speaker 1: That kind of made me think of this was when 441 00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,200 Speaker 1: I look back to my time, does that make me 442 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 1: a necessary to look ba um? When I look back 443 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 1: to my time after the Bachelorette and probably after Paradise 444 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:11,239 Speaker 1: as well, I was trying. I kind of had this 445 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,320 Speaker 1: idea that I was someone that I wasn't because of 446 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 1: like the way that you get edited and then you 447 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:16,760 Speaker 1: want to buy into that edit a little bit. And 448 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,080 Speaker 1: so there were times where I was like digging into 449 00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 1: my own brain trying to figure out exactly the things 450 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 1: to say. And I think that's why he was pausing 451 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 1: for so long, was because he still hasn't really figured 452 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 1: that out exactly who he is yet. But he's trying 453 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,880 Speaker 1: to live by it, Like you said, the Bible almost verbatim, 454 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 1: and he just doesn't maybe fully understand what that means 455 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,640 Speaker 1: for him yet, but I also think you took accountability 456 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 1: for that, and I think Luke's lack of accountability makes 457 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,879 Speaker 1: me frustrated. I totally agree with you, Tasha, where I 458 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:44,760 Speaker 1: do feel bad to him, especially this episode and how 459 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 1: he was bullied by the rest of the guys. We 460 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 1: all talked about at this table, how ridiculous we thought 461 00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 1: and over the top the guys were towards him, and 462 00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:53,359 Speaker 1: then specifically Hannah at at Hannah at the end where 463 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 1: I didn't mind Hannah's entire um Hot Sea interview, Really 464 00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 1: it was a little over the top, but that's forgiven. 465 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,920 Speaker 1: I really hated the last part where she said, um, 466 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 1: where she said, is everybody tell her to talk about 467 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,119 Speaker 1: Luke p? Does everybody wants to move on to Luke Pe? 468 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 1: And he also apologize for bringing him so far? And 469 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:14,719 Speaker 1: I don't think she needs to apologize. Literally ten minutes earlier, 470 00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 1: she was saying how she just needed to figure out 471 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 1: that on her own, So why is she apologizing ten 472 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 1: minutes later that she Oh, I'm sorry I cut them 473 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,439 Speaker 1: around so long. There's no need to apologize. And I 474 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 1: just really hated when she said, is everybody tired of 475 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 1: talking about Luke p? And she said about four or 476 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 1: five times while the only person talking about luke P 477 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,440 Speaker 1: in that moment was was her. And I think it 478 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,120 Speaker 1: sucks because Hannah kind of knows what it feels like 479 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 1: to be on the end of like getting hate and 480 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,439 Speaker 1: bullied by people, you know what I mean, And so 481 00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: for her to actually, I don't know, everyone listens to 482 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:46,960 Speaker 1: the Bachelorette and throw his name out there and be like, 483 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 1: are you tired of that? I'm so sorry for dragging 484 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:50,959 Speaker 1: him along as long as we did. The end of 485 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:53,199 Speaker 1: like luke p segment is over, Like she should know 486 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:58,400 Speaker 1: better not do. Um Let's mention that he did leave 487 00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:01,119 Speaker 1: that taping early because he had to make a wedding 488 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 1: the next day, and they intentionally made it look like 489 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,679 Speaker 1: he just couldn't handle it anymore, but he had a 490 00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 1: flight to catch I do agree with Sorry. Off topic 491 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,640 Speaker 1: of that, but Jared said earlier how he was frustrated 492 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:15,560 Speaker 1: that he refused to take accountability, and that was really 493 00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:17,880 Speaker 1: frustrating too. It's like one thing to make a lot 494 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,160 Speaker 1: of mistakes publicly on television, and then it's a whole 495 00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:22,959 Speaker 1: other thing to kind of sit there and be like, yeah, 496 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 1: I did that. I don't regret any of it. I'm 497 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:27,600 Speaker 1: not upset about any of it. Deal with it kind 498 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 1: of thing. All right, let's go back to the first 499 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,840 Speaker 1: twenty minutes of the episode, where I thought he had 500 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,880 Speaker 1: the most ridiculous behavior he's had all season, I think 501 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:38,880 Speaker 1: last even though he denied that his tone was judgmental 502 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 1: and condescending last week, at least we can say last 503 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:46,880 Speaker 1: week he was speaking from what, like what he thought 504 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 1: was a faith point of view. This week when he 505 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:53,040 Speaker 1: forced himself back to the Rose ceremony and then he 506 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,679 Speaker 1: was like, I'm not leaving until I get conclusion and 507 00:25:55,720 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: clarity or like, what was it closure that's in sane. 508 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 1: He was like, you haven't gotten I haven't gotten closure. 509 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 1: I haven't got closure. Nobody in this franchise gets closure 510 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 1: until the tell all or after time passes. It just 511 00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 1: takes time to get your closure. Yeah, And I again, 512 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:18,560 Speaker 1: he was just being very self absorbed the entire time 513 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,920 Speaker 1: because everything, as hand To pointed out, was about him. 514 00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:23,919 Speaker 1: He was speaking from his heart. His heart was on 515 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 1: the line. Uh, he needed closure. Has that ever happened 516 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:28,520 Speaker 1: before where someone doesn't get the rose and there's like 517 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna stay and I'm just gonna try and 518 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,960 Speaker 1: convince her to talk to me more, convince her to 519 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 1: love me right, let her. She's let him come back again, 520 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:41,640 Speaker 1: but so why not do it to try it again? 521 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 1: This all could have been This all could have been 522 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:46,440 Speaker 1: avoided if she didn't get that fourth rose right before Hometown. 523 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 1: Yeah she did. Was it was it? She was like 524 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,800 Speaker 1: a sexual thing. No, I don't think she ever planned 525 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:56,560 Speaker 1: on having sex with him. I'll be honest. I didn't 526 00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,520 Speaker 1: watch I didn't watch the Fantasy Sweet episode, but I 527 00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:02,240 Speaker 1: watched the home Town episode, so I missed out on 528 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 1: that a little bit. But it's just still it was 529 00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:06,600 Speaker 1: mind blowing. It was mind blowing, but an epic move. 530 00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:09,400 Speaker 1: My my favorite moves of Hannah's so far was when 531 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 1: she moved the podium with the It was like a 532 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:18,640 Speaker 1: symbolistic movement to show she's moving on. You are not 533 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 1: part of this. I was a little disappointed in Tyler, 534 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:24,800 Speaker 1: Pete and Jed for not like being like dude, like 535 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,199 Speaker 1: they were like, do just get out of here? But 536 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 1: like some I feel like there could have been like 537 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: another step to be taken. I don't know it's actually 538 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:33,880 Speaker 1: appropriate for them to stand back and let Harrison and 539 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 1: probably Polly Big Polly security. I saw him scooting the backs, 540 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,679 Speaker 1: definitely about to get involved. It's a tricky thing, right, 541 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 1: Like you're like, how involved do I am I allowed 542 00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,480 Speaker 1: to get right now? Like how you don't want to 543 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:49,239 Speaker 1: be the guy starting any type of physical Well, if 544 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,359 Speaker 1: it escalated, what would you have done? Because Luke was 545 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,200 Speaker 1: literally saying I'm not leaving, So the only way to 546 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:55,879 Speaker 1: get him out would have been to drag him out 547 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,879 Speaker 1: unless Hannah was able to handle the situation. I just 548 00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 1: think that that's that. Uh, that scene went on longer 549 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,119 Speaker 1: than it needed. It was great television. I loved watching it, 550 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:06,679 Speaker 1: but it went on longer than it should have. I 551 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:12,280 Speaker 1: think I think someone they could have chopped three minutes out. Yeah, 552 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,879 Speaker 1: But then I don't know, I I kind of it 553 00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:18,400 Speaker 1: did almost feel like this was a situation between Hannah 554 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:22,240 Speaker 1: and Luke, and I feel that if one or the 555 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 1: other three guys really stepped here was like I'm going 556 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 1: to handle this. I don't know. I felt like maybe 557 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:28,399 Speaker 1: I would have rolled him eyes a little bit, like 558 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,159 Speaker 1: let them just handle it and get this, like, let 559 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,000 Speaker 1: the show handle it, let hand to handle it. I 560 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:33,639 Speaker 1: guess the frustrating thing about it is it's it was 561 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,600 Speaker 1: already handled and so it's like, yeah, like that's kind 562 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 1: of where it is. But at the same time, it's 563 00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:42,000 Speaker 1: not like Luke ran into the road ceremony and like 564 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 1: was running away from security and they couldn't catch him, 565 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:46,520 Speaker 1: Like they let him back. He was in the car, 566 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 1: but they let him back on the show. Let me 567 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:50,680 Speaker 1: ask you, do you who do you think came up 568 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,080 Speaker 1: with the idea? Do you think it was Luke or 569 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 1: do you think it was a production the combination. I'm 570 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 1: sure I think it's a commodation. But the fact again, 571 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 1: I think Luke lack self awareness because at that moment, 572 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:00,720 Speaker 1: even if they were like, hey, do you want to 573 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,520 Speaker 1: go back on, you should have been like, no, it's 574 00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 1: that and if you really cared for her, if you 575 00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 1: cared for and also just kind of could read the situation. 576 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 1: You can't read situation. Let me ask you this, Jared. 577 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:15,320 Speaker 1: If if one of Ashley's exes came up one day 578 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 1: and I was like, Ashley, I miss you. I wanted 579 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:19,520 Speaker 1: like let's talk about this, let's figure this out. What 580 00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 1: would you like? What would you react? Different? Different? Absolutely, 581 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,239 Speaker 1: I know, but like you would be like but if 582 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 1: it was like you'd be like, dude, get the hell 583 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 1: like you would almost physically remove him from them. Yes, 584 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 1: but you also have to be understanding of the situation 585 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 1: you're in. You're on the Bachelor where there are other 586 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 1: guys that she is dating, and you are one of 587 00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 1: those guys. You are not the guy, and as frustrating 588 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 1: and hard as that can be, sometimes you kind of 589 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:44,080 Speaker 1: have to be aware of your surroundings. So you have 590 00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 1: less rights to act like a boyfriend because you're not 591 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 1: technically a boyfriend yet. So if you guys were in 592 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,360 Speaker 1: the lineup with Tyler, Ce and Chad and Pete, you 593 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:55,040 Speaker 1: would have said something, Dean. I mean, I say I 594 00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:58,040 Speaker 1: would have said something, but honestly, I probably done the 595 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,520 Speaker 1: exact same thing that they did. I as soon as 596 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:03,800 Speaker 1: this such situation started escalating, you walk up and you're like, hey, 597 00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,560 Speaker 1: let's all calm down, and then like let them hash 598 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:08,479 Speaker 1: it out. Because but how cool would it be if 599 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 1: you just handled Well, you could tell, you know, it's 600 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 1: really cool, you just want to fight, to be honest, Well, 601 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 1: you could tell that the with the way the camera 602 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:18,080 Speaker 1: was set up, they wanted it to be a Tyler 603 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 1: versus Luke p show because they had that awesome shot 604 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:25,360 Speaker 1: of excuse me, Luke's left with Tyler over his on 605 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 1: his side, and they kept bringing Tyler in in focus 606 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 1: and out of focus, and you could tell it is 607 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 1: like such like the hero versus the villain shot. But 608 00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:36,479 Speaker 1: I loved that because it actually looked like Tyler was 609 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 1: annoyed on behalf of Hannah, like he truly cared and 610 00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:43,600 Speaker 1: wanted to protect and be manly with Hannah. Of course, 611 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:45,560 Speaker 1: have you ever seen do we talk about this year 612 00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:47,600 Speaker 1: or did I just talk about this earlier? Do you 613 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 1: ever see final three contestants be such good friends? It's 614 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,400 Speaker 1: been a while. I think I like it. Yeah, I 615 00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: think that they're all bonding over their disdain for Luke, 616 00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 1: I would assume, but it's like they all seem like 617 00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 1: they're literally best friends. Do you like that? Yeah? I do. 618 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 1: My season was Becca, Whitney and Caitlin and they were 619 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 1: all really tight. Yeah. On ours, it was Kaylin, me 620 00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 1: who else, Cassidy in energy. These are friends, but they 621 00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,240 Speaker 1: seem like they're legitimate, like they're rooting for each other. 622 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 1: Even Jed made a comment where he was like, I 623 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:23,680 Speaker 1: want I'm glad that it's down to three that I'm 624 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,480 Speaker 1: that Hannah should end up with it, Like he even 625 00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:28,880 Speaker 1: said that it sounded like he would be happy if 626 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:30,920 Speaker 1: even she ended up with one of his two friends, right. 627 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 1: But there's something that's always stuck in the back of 628 00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:35,960 Speaker 1: my mind that actually Nick said, because obviously Nick wasn't 629 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,120 Speaker 1: really that like within his friend group at the time 630 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 1: on both seasons of his bachelorette and he always kind 631 00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 1: of it was I don't want to put words in 632 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,000 Speaker 1: his mouth, but it was something along the lines of, 633 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 1: you know, I like these guys, but I'm not here 634 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,160 Speaker 1: for them, And so that's always kind of stuck out 635 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:53,560 Speaker 1: to me. Where guys, if they're really close, it's like, well, yeah, guys, 636 00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,120 Speaker 1: you want to be friends, of course, but now do 637 00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 1: you like you should you should be rooting for anybody 638 00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 1: else at this point. You should not be like, oh, 639 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,720 Speaker 1: well if Jed wins, great, Oh if Tyler wins, that's 640 00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:04,920 Speaker 1: fine too. It's like, no, it's nice, I love this 641 00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,400 Speaker 1: girl in my heart like I want this girl. So 642 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,200 Speaker 1: sometimes when they're too chilly, it makes me a little 643 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:14,000 Speaker 1: of a question. Then how about like that Wilson Phillips 644 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,719 Speaker 1: song where they're like, I'm just happy that you found 645 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:19,400 Speaker 1: your person. Like you know how people say that like 646 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 1: true love means that you just want that person to 647 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,719 Speaker 1: be happy even if they're not with that person. I 648 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 1: don't personally believe this I could because I couldn't do it, 649 00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,600 Speaker 1: Like I know myself, I'm not that good of a person. 650 00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:32,040 Speaker 1: That's like a nice song to write, but in real 651 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:35,320 Speaker 1: life that's a hard Deans nodding, though, what do you 652 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:37,640 Speaker 1: think you really could? Like you'd be happier if your 653 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 1: love moved on and was with somebody that that's like 654 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,400 Speaker 1: the origin of a lot of colloquialisms right where it's 655 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,520 Speaker 1: like if you love a flower, don't pick it because 656 00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 1: then it dies sort of thing where it's like by 657 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 1: doing that, you're kind of taking away It's you're like 658 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,239 Speaker 1: you're like cutting it off. It's at its head, right, 659 00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,880 Speaker 1: So like if the flower is Hannah, then you want 660 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:56,840 Speaker 1: that flower to bloom and blossom as much as it 661 00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:58,880 Speaker 1: possibly can. And if you're the one picking it, then 662 00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 1: it's not going to like necessarily get there. As like, 663 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:02,520 Speaker 1: but do you understand what I'm saying In a sense 664 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,280 Speaker 1: where it's like if you really truly love it someone 665 00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 1: and you're purely selfless, that not many people are, if 666 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,880 Speaker 1: any at all, Like you have to like work to 667 00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:16,440 Speaker 1: achieve enlightenment to be there. But like I think at 668 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,360 Speaker 1: the root of the at the root of what love 669 00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:20,600 Speaker 1: really could be, I think that that there is an 670 00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:23,479 Speaker 1: argument to be made for that. I agree there's two sides. 671 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:27,160 Speaker 1: There's two sides. One is the normal human side, which 672 00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 1: is you shouldn't want her to end up with anybody 673 00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:33,520 Speaker 1: at this point. If you are some crazy Buddha, then sure. 674 00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 1: There's the other side, which Jed is reflecting, and Jed, 675 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:39,440 Speaker 1: we all know, is no Buddha. Well, anytime Jed speaks 676 00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 1: on the show anymore, my eyes immediately rolled to the 677 00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,160 Speaker 1: back of my fame. It is funny looking at it 678 00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:44,840 Speaker 1: through the lens that we have now, where it's like 679 00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 1: you kind of know how what's going to happen. But 680 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 1: all right, I have a great question for Jared right 681 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:53,560 Speaker 1: after this break. 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Jared. 726 00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:31,760 Speaker 1: During the show, you said that it's a totally legitimate question, 727 00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:36,960 Speaker 1: totally fair question to ask the girl, the lead, the bachelorette, 728 00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:39,400 Speaker 1: if she's had sex with any of the other guys, 729 00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:44,359 Speaker 1: can you please explain your feelings? I mean, whether it's 730 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:48,960 Speaker 1: the bachelor who's being questioned by a bachelorette contestant, or 731 00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,719 Speaker 1: a bachelorette being questioned by a bachelor contestant. I mean, 732 00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:55,680 Speaker 1: if you're going into a fantasy suite literally the day 733 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:59,680 Speaker 1: or two days after she just went into a fancy 734 00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:02,560 Speaker 1: suite as someone else. I don't think it's really outside 735 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:07,480 Speaker 1: the lines to ask, hey, did anything happen? Or I 736 00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,600 Speaker 1: mean right, I mean, let's let'sen let's put this back 737 00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:12,360 Speaker 1: into real life for a second. Say you knew someone 738 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:15,080 Speaker 1: you were going into an overnight date with had just 739 00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:18,880 Speaker 1: been in an overnight date with another person two days prior. 740 00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,560 Speaker 1: You wouldn't want to know what you're getting yourself into, 741 00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,759 Speaker 1: like just in case things you know open and why 742 00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:27,040 Speaker 1: doesn't anybody ask? Or do you think that they asked 743 00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:30,160 Speaker 1: beyond the closed doors of the fantasy suit. Yes, let's 744 00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:32,520 Speaker 1: flip flop it real quick too. I think is it 745 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,959 Speaker 1: I think it almost looks less bad for a girl 746 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,560 Speaker 1: to ask a bachelor that question. Yeah, it's definitely the 747 00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:42,000 Speaker 1: double standard, but yes, I just wanted to point that out. Yeah, 748 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:45,000 Speaker 1: it definitely is. Um Okay, I think Luke was in 749 00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:47,120 Speaker 1: every I mean the way he phrased it and the 750 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,239 Speaker 1: whole thing about I'm going to leave if you did 751 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,799 Speaker 1: have something all the work. We're not talking about the 752 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:56,040 Speaker 1: Luke specific situation, because Luke had plenty of connotations and 753 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:58,880 Speaker 1: judgment around the way you said it. But in general, 754 00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:03,560 Speaker 1: we've never really seen a bachelor bachelorette be questioned about 755 00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:05,960 Speaker 1: the other fantasy suites. Yeah, I mean, I don't think 756 00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,640 Speaker 1: it's really that crazy. You don't have to keep it 757 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 1: private just because you're about to go into an overnight 758 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 1: date with this person, or maybe it has been asked 759 00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:14,799 Speaker 1: and we just haven't seen it be here before. I 760 00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:18,120 Speaker 1: think the smart move is to ask in the fantasy suite, 761 00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:19,520 Speaker 1: and that's why we haven't seen it. I think that's 762 00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,120 Speaker 1: what Jared is trying to say, right. So, it's like, 763 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:24,239 Speaker 1: I'm sure that conversation has been had three percent of 764 00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,080 Speaker 1: the time every single time. I guess it of us 765 00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:27,600 Speaker 1: have been well you maybe I don't know if you 766 00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:31,000 Speaker 1: have the cults or not. You maybe speak about this, 767 00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:34,319 Speaker 1: did you it was required? It was obviously the first 768 00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:37,400 Speaker 1: one because he was also a virgin, so how to 769 00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:39,800 Speaker 1: worry about that? But also I was the first person 770 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:41,600 Speaker 1: to go into the fantasy suite, so maybe if I 771 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:42,960 Speaker 1: was the second or the third, I would have asked that, 772 00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:44,799 Speaker 1: did you know that you were the first person? Because 773 00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:46,719 Speaker 1: I'm not sure that at that point you you really 774 00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:51,200 Speaker 1: sure where the order of the dates are. I mean, 775 00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:52,719 Speaker 1: I guess in my head I kind of figured it out, 776 00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:54,520 Speaker 1: but I think with colton's a little different because you 777 00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:56,880 Speaker 1: kind of it's a foregone conclusion he's not going to 778 00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 1: But I will say that I did think about, like 779 00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,240 Speaker 1: if I would have sex with them. First, I wouldn't 780 00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:04,480 Speaker 1: want to have sex with him second, you know what 781 00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:06,960 Speaker 1: I mean. And it's also you're you know, you're falling 782 00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:08,839 Speaker 1: in love with this person, and so I don't think 783 00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,239 Speaker 1: it's Listen, you can't be like, please, don't have sex 784 00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:13,960 Speaker 1: with anybody. That's their choice. But if you're if you are, 785 00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:16,279 Speaker 1: just if you're the second person on a fantacy sweet night, 786 00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:18,400 Speaker 1: I don't think it's really crazy to be like, hey, listen, 787 00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:21,880 Speaker 1: did you sleep with that person? Because if things escalate 788 00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:25,920 Speaker 1: with us tonight. You know, it's just even asked questions 789 00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,560 Speaker 1: about like I don't know. I know everybody's tested before 790 00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 1: the show, but then you get into like some kind 791 00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:32,840 Speaker 1: of muddy details that you really just want to know 792 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:36,280 Speaker 1: as a human being. Okay, I love you. I don't 793 00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:41,520 Speaker 1: think you would have asked Caitlin and well that's who. 794 00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:44,160 Speaker 1: Of course I would have. You really would have asked 795 00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:47,479 Speaker 1: Caitlin if somebody before well, god, that was four years 796 00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:50,839 Speaker 1: I think that back then you wouldn't have. I think 797 00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:53,200 Speaker 1: that Jared today definitely would have asked. But I think 798 00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:55,080 Speaker 1: then you were like I mean, it was also twenty 799 00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:56,880 Speaker 1: six and I look back on that time and I 800 00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:58,759 Speaker 1: thought I was young then, and I do sometimes I 801 00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:00,080 Speaker 1: look back and I think I was too young to 802 00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:02,239 Speaker 1: be on the show. You're so we're both be on. Yeah, 803 00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:06,239 Speaker 1: I think, you know, becoming the person I am now. Yeah, 804 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,080 Speaker 1: I don't know if I would have been ready today 805 00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,600 Speaker 1: you would say something. I'm not worried. I'm not worried. 806 00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:12,920 Speaker 1: I'm not like, I don't not think. I don't think 807 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:14,560 Speaker 1: it's outrageous to ask. But I think that when you 808 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:16,279 Speaker 1: were younger, I don't think you would have. I think 809 00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:18,000 Speaker 1: you would be thought that, like you worship heir and 810 00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:20,120 Speaker 1: you couldn't get you couldn't ruffle her any fathers with that? 811 00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,359 Speaker 1: Moving on? Wait, no, you know what I mean, Like 812 00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:28,279 Speaker 1: you definitely looked at her like she was the bachelorette. Yes, 813 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:30,160 Speaker 1: we all do, right, I looked at Rachel the same 814 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 1: way you looked at Colton the same way the deans like, 815 00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:36,279 Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but anyway, point is like you look 816 00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:37,640 Speaker 1: at them and you're like, wow, you know that's the 817 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,920 Speaker 1: person I'm striving to be with. So there's already you know, 818 00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:46,879 Speaker 1: a celebrity thing saw on TV. Yeah, that's weird that. 819 00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:48,840 Speaker 1: Were you not affected by that at all? Did you 820 00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:50,920 Speaker 1: not view at least called me first met him as 821 00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:54,160 Speaker 1: sometimes celebrity did. Yeah, the same thing with me. I 822 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,239 Speaker 1: was really nervous around him. I thought he was just 823 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:58,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, you're like, oh my god, this 824 00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:01,920 Speaker 1: guy's on TV. I'm a nobody. I think the conclusion 825 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:05,000 Speaker 1: is that it's okay to ask, But just the way 826 00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:07,600 Speaker 1: he handled himself afterwards maybe wasn't the best. Of course. No, 827 00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:09,319 Speaker 1: it was just when it was brought up tonight where 828 00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:12,839 Speaker 1: I forget how it was put. But somebody pretty much 829 00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:15,120 Speaker 1: said like kind of felt like out of bounds to ask. 830 00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:18,640 Speaker 1: I was like, I disagree anyway. Can we talk about 831 00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:21,600 Speaker 1: bullying for a second, because I know we're all talking 832 00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,080 Speaker 1: about that. I don't know if anybody wants to step 833 00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:27,560 Speaker 1: in on that, but my first reaction, Uh, listen, these 834 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:30,279 Speaker 1: guys and the girls put themselves on the show. We 835 00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:33,120 Speaker 1: are open to scrutiny. We're open to judgment. But if 836 00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:36,160 Speaker 1: you're in that mentell audience, you're open to scrutiny as well, 837 00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:37,840 Speaker 1: because you're the one signing that you're gonna be on 838 00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,960 Speaker 1: the show. And the fact that they're clapping and just 839 00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:47,000 Speaker 1: and cringing at Luke p laughing at him, that I 840 00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:49,400 Speaker 1: hated it was bullying, Like you need to be held 841 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:52,280 Speaker 1: accountable too, Like, don't laugh at him. That's still human 842 00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,759 Speaker 1: being up there. They definitely are making making it feel 843 00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:56,799 Speaker 1: like he's like a character in a movie. That you 844 00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:59,399 Speaker 1: can hate a character, don't you can't hate it, like, well, 845 00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,799 Speaker 1: try not to a person. There was So there's this 846 00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:03,759 Speaker 1: experiment a long time ago. I don't remember the name 847 00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,200 Speaker 1: of it right every time I can't remember. I think 848 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,920 Speaker 1: it was monkeys or something. That experiment experimenting on, they 849 00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:10,920 Speaker 1: would make a sound like some sound like a bell. 850 00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:13,520 Speaker 1: Every time they ring the bell, they would give the 851 00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:16,120 Speaker 1: monkey a mint or something right, and then so eventually 852 00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:18,080 Speaker 1: they would ring the bell and there would be no mint, 853 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:20,520 Speaker 1: and the monkey would freak out. Essentially, what's happening is 854 00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:25,200 Speaker 1: these people, the contestants specifically talk about Luke, and they 855 00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:28,520 Speaker 1: get basically lifted up for it. Everyone's like, that's awesome, 856 00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:31,279 Speaker 1: talk about Luke. Yes, and so then everyone else is like, 857 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,240 Speaker 1: I'm going to talk to it about Luke because everyone 858 00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:35,240 Speaker 1: loves it when people talk to it about Luke. Because 859 00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:37,800 Speaker 1: I didn't know they're going to get it. Was like 860 00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:40,640 Speaker 1: that guy who went up to them, what was his 861 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:43,239 Speaker 1: name even I don't even know what his name was. No, 862 00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:46,120 Speaker 1: I don't think it was Devon Dustin dust No, it 863 00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:49,080 Speaker 1: wasn't Dustin. It was Devon. I like Dustin. I think 864 00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,440 Speaker 1: we've all liked Dustin. It was like, who was this 865 00:42:51,520 --> 00:43:00,320 Speaker 1: guy from backstage? Too? Yeah? And he's like, I'm so poorn. 866 00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:03,120 Speaker 1: My my opinion is so valuable right now I need 867 00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:06,200 Speaker 1: to come up and express it. Did he go down? 868 00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:10,160 Speaker 1: He went home really early on the thing? Anything? He 869 00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:13,520 Speaker 1: doesn't know anything, Yeah, but I just like audience and 870 00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:16,759 Speaker 1: audience at home know that you are. Do you think 871 00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:22,160 Speaker 1: that you're all innocent in this, but you're not participating 872 00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:23,960 Speaker 1: in bullying? To be honest with you, it's just like 873 00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:26,920 Speaker 1: writing a mean comment on somebody's photo. Yeah, you know 874 00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:29,560 Speaker 1: what I mean, and everyone liking it. It's the same. 875 00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,439 Speaker 1: It's the same damn thing. Yeah, it's frustrating. No one's 876 00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,160 Speaker 1: free of reproach, right, And so it's like if you're 877 00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:37,719 Speaker 1: giving ship about someone even though you have a lot 878 00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:39,680 Speaker 1: of ship going on as well, it's like the people 879 00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:41,960 Speaker 1: that are bullying are really the ones that are dealing 880 00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,680 Speaker 1: with a lot of their own stuff too, And doesn't 881 00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:46,680 Speaker 1: make it right, No, not at all, that's what I'm saying. 882 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:49,040 Speaker 1: But it's just like it's like, make sure your house 883 00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:52,319 Speaker 1: is clean before you go and criticize other people's dirty 884 00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:53,719 Speaker 1: house this kind of thing. You know what exactly? The 885 00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:55,920 Speaker 1: thing is their house will never be clean because my 886 00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,560 Speaker 1: house isn't clean, Your house isn't clean. Nobody's is right. 887 00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:01,239 Speaker 1: And so like the things that we say reactionary, we're 888 00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:03,800 Speaker 1: watching the show, it's keep it in the context of 889 00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:05,960 Speaker 1: your own living room wherever you watch the show. Why 890 00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:10,160 Speaker 1: do people feel a necessity to say I'm so emotional 891 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:12,600 Speaker 1: and emotionally attached to this show that I'm gonna go 892 00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:16,319 Speaker 1: on social media and type out exactly my thoughts and 893 00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,319 Speaker 1: put a comment under somebody. It's like, just just say it, 894 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:21,839 Speaker 1: and the confines your your own home, because we all 895 00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:24,440 Speaker 1: say things that are exaggerated or dramatic and just keep 896 00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:31,520 Speaker 1: it at that. It just mind. One of the bullying 897 00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:34,560 Speaker 1: tactics from the guys was to use that word psychopath, 898 00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:37,000 Speaker 1: and I wanted to bring that back to this um 899 00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:40,600 Speaker 1: the definition of psychopath and Babe, a picture of Anakin 900 00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:47,279 Speaker 1: Skywalker goes along with this. It's it's uh traditionally a 901 00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:53,960 Speaker 1: personality disorder characterized by persistent antisocial behavior, impaired empathy and remorse, 902 00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:59,920 Speaker 1: and bold, disinhibited and egotistical traits. It's sometimes considered phenomena 903 00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:02,440 Speaker 1: us with sociopathy. And I were going to say that 904 00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:05,000 Speaker 1: that's not Luke. I mean, I mean to say that 905 00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:09,320 Speaker 1: he's definitely um he I think I don't know, impaired empathy. 906 00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:14,239 Speaker 1: I feel like he may have empathy. What's impaired? I 907 00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:18,239 Speaker 1: guess the fact I put a question mark, it's just 908 00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:21,640 Speaker 1: an antisocial behavior. He certainly doesn't get along with the 909 00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:25,520 Speaker 1: other guys. I also think he was isolated. He was isolated. 910 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:27,880 Speaker 1: I mean he got you know, he was going to 911 00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:30,560 Speaker 1: like push himself further and further from them because he 912 00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:33,160 Speaker 1: tried with them, but they would not let them in. 913 00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:35,759 Speaker 1: He would couldn't let him in try after that. So 914 00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:38,360 Speaker 1: I feel like I was at these stupid stories. So 915 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:43,200 Speaker 1: I read a book a while ago. I read a 916 00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:45,000 Speaker 1: book a while ago. I read I read every once 917 00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,160 Speaker 1: in a while. It's a book called The Psychopath Test 918 00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,200 Speaker 1: by Ron Bronson. If you haven't read it, check it out. 919 00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,359 Speaker 1: It's a fantastic book. Why did you have to read it? 920 00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:53,240 Speaker 1: I just thought on the bookshelf and I was curious. 921 00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:57,359 Speaker 1: So in the book, he lists off. He goes, there, 922 00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:00,800 Speaker 1: these are twenty two things that attribute to being a psychopath. 923 00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:02,960 Speaker 1: It's basically a checklist. You go down the list, and 924 00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:06,520 Speaker 1: if you hit thirteen of them, you're considered a psychopath. 925 00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:09,040 Speaker 1: You go through all of them, every single one you 926 00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:10,480 Speaker 1: go through, you're like, oh crap, Like I kind of 927 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:12,279 Speaker 1: fit in that. Oh crap, that's kind of me. And 928 00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:14,520 Speaker 1: at the very end, he goes and by the way, 929 00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,160 Speaker 1: if you're asking yourself if you might be a psychopath. 930 00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:21,560 Speaker 1: You're not a psychopath, because psychopaths don't do that. Luke 931 00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:24,680 Speaker 1: p didn't really seem to express much remorse at the 932 00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:26,840 Speaker 1: mental law, and I think that if he were to 933 00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:29,759 Speaker 1: go through that twenty to check checklist, he might not 934 00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:31,839 Speaker 1: have ever asked himself that question. I mean, who knows. 935 00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:34,600 Speaker 1: But then again, you might be right with your theory earlier, 936 00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:37,040 Speaker 1: where he's just kind of this lost guy trying to 937 00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,359 Speaker 1: figure out who he is and where he fits within 938 00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 1: this Christian faith, and he's he's you know what he is. 939 00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:44,960 Speaker 1: He's kind of like the guy who reads a political 940 00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:49,239 Speaker 1: headline and then immediately just regurgitates everything he just read 941 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,640 Speaker 1: in a three paragraph article and he's like, no, no, no, 942 00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,120 Speaker 1: I'm right because I this and that and that, And 943 00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:56,960 Speaker 1: you're like, you just read that on Twitter and you're 944 00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:00,720 Speaker 1: using bulleton points to bulleton points to try to defend yourself. 945 00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,359 Speaker 1: And so that was a little frustrating to watch because 946 00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:05,040 Speaker 1: I was really hoping Luke would come on, and you 947 00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:07,320 Speaker 1: always want everybody wants a redemption story, right, So I 948 00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:08,920 Speaker 1: think I think we're all rooting for Luke Pe to 949 00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:10,520 Speaker 1: come on and be like, hey, I screwed up. You know, 950 00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,040 Speaker 1: I made a mess of things, and he did that 951 00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:15,799 Speaker 1: to an extent, But then he kept doubling down on 952 00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:19,279 Speaker 1: everything he said during the show, and it's like, but 953 00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:22,280 Speaker 1: then again, like we talked about, I think the guys 954 00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:25,799 Speaker 1: piled on Hannah piled on towards the end um, and 955 00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:27,319 Speaker 1: I think we've all been you know, we all a 956 00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:29,960 Speaker 1: lot of Hannah um. But I just didn't like that 957 00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:33,160 Speaker 1: one moment. I think the funniest part is that he 958 00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:38,480 Speaker 1: continues to be like, I was misunderstood when I said, um, 959 00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:41,560 Speaker 1: if you had sex with anybody in the dantasy suits, 960 00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:44,160 Speaker 1: I would remove myself from this. He was like, I 961 00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:47,480 Speaker 1: was misunderstood. No, dude, you said that statement. How can 962 00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:49,919 Speaker 1: that be missen? How can that be interpreted any other way? 963 00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:51,879 Speaker 1: That's that Actually, I'm glad you brought that up, because 964 00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:53,840 Speaker 1: that frustrated me a lot too. He said he always 965 00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:56,040 Speaker 1: was blaming the other person for not understanding what he 966 00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:58,360 Speaker 1: said when he should just say I misspoke or maybe 967 00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:00,919 Speaker 1: I didn't like say the right thing. He never took 968 00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:04,600 Speaker 1: accountability for that, and that was really frustrating. Like I 969 00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:07,839 Speaker 1: said that I said the wrong thing, would not you misunderstood? 970 00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,640 Speaker 1: Because then that's kind of like alleviating himself of the blame. 971 00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:13,840 Speaker 1: Perfect point. Yes, such a perfect point. Does anybody have 972 00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:16,600 Speaker 1: anything else to say about Luke? Before we move on? 973 00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:19,680 Speaker 1: One thing that I just really again disliked. Connor seems 974 00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:22,640 Speaker 1: like a very nice guy. Hated how he decided out 975 00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:27,640 Speaker 1: of nowhere to tell Luke f you come man, Yeah 976 00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:31,600 Speaker 1: he didn't high school. I think that pulls back down 977 00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:34,040 Speaker 1: to getting positive attention for that, like he's just like, 978 00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:36,839 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get mine while the top kind of thing, 979 00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:38,560 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's like, but then then 980 00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:42,640 Speaker 1: that goes back to the audience just willy nilly flapping 981 00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:46,239 Speaker 1: anything bad said about Luke. P go, guys. It's like, 982 00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:48,680 Speaker 1: can we just all settle down and be adults for 983 00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:52,560 Speaker 1: two minutes or however long filming is. We don't see 984 00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:56,640 Speaker 1: Luke in the preview for Paradise, and um, Dean, we 985 00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:03,640 Speaker 1: don't see you either, talking about yeah you're you're not 986 00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:05,799 Speaker 1: the original You're not in the original castle. I got 987 00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:10,239 Speaker 1: scared for a second. So you guys are in Paradise. 988 00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:14,760 Speaker 1: We don't see Luke in Paradise in the preview, and 989 00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:17,719 Speaker 1: is there any opinions on why you think he's not there? 990 00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:21,239 Speaker 1: I think he probably I think he was probably advised 991 00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:23,400 Speaker 1: that it wouldn't help his case unless he was a 992 00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:27,080 Speaker 1: completely changed man, which is by the mental he's not. 993 00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:31,400 Speaker 1: He's maybe changing shave. But I feel like if you 994 00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:33,239 Speaker 1: would have apologized, would we all think that he's a 995 00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,239 Speaker 1: changed man? I feel like we would have just pulled 996 00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:37,840 Speaker 1: our eyes if he humbled himself, if you presented himself 997 00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:44,879 Speaker 1: and like and I'm sorry, like totally, it just nobody would. Well, 998 00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:48,440 Speaker 1: it depends on his It depends on everything, right, because 999 00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:51,359 Speaker 1: whenever somebody apologizes to you, I think all of us 1000 00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:54,239 Speaker 1: as people can really tell whether it's genuine or not. 1001 00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:56,719 Speaker 1: Um And so I think it was all how he 1002 00:49:56,920 --> 00:50:00,320 Speaker 1: handled himself and presented himself and not saying he should 1003 00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:01,719 Speaker 1: have just come and been like I'm sorry, I'm sorry, 1004 00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:05,479 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but at least been you know, understanding of yeah, 1005 00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:07,319 Speaker 1: I know, I get it. You know, I said some 1006 00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:11,040 Speaker 1: bad things. I misspoken. Uh, you know, I regret some things, 1007 00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:13,440 Speaker 1: and I was being hypocritical at times. And you know, 1008 00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:16,120 Speaker 1: I don't think anybody else was perfect, but you know, 1009 00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:19,279 Speaker 1: just something along the lines. But to titious point, I 1010 00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:22,959 Speaker 1: will say that we've seen so many villains on one 1011 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:25,680 Speaker 1: season become love the next season. So I think it 1012 00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:29,640 Speaker 1: would have been possible. All right, let's move on to 1013 00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:40,960 Speaker 1: other things, but first let's take a break for our sponsors. Alright. 1014 00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:45,680 Speaker 1: Other hot seats on this episode included John Paul Jones, 1015 00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:50,400 Speaker 1: everybody's favorite guy, who got such little screen time. But 1016 00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:52,640 Speaker 1: I think we'll play a big role in Paradise. Can 1017 00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:55,799 Speaker 1: we confirm? I mean, he does look at the he's 1018 00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:58,680 Speaker 1: all over the map. He's definitely. That's definitely why he 1019 00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:00,719 Speaker 1: had a hot seat. It wasn't for anything that he 1020 00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:03,560 Speaker 1: did on Hannessy's like the lead in Almost It's Shadow. 1021 00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:05,200 Speaker 1: It seems like we're going to see different side him 1022 00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:07,560 Speaker 1: because he's very emotional at the end, he was crying, 1023 00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:09,560 Speaker 1: he got in someone's face. Yeah, I don't think we 1024 00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:11,960 Speaker 1: saw any of that on his season. We saw that, 1025 00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:18,879 Speaker 1: what's up, dude, sick? Let's get it. He was made 1026 00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:24,000 Speaker 1: for Paradise. Oh yeah, absolutely? Who else had a hot seat? Mike? 1027 00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:27,560 Speaker 1: Mike who? I think that they are like trying to 1028 00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:31,080 Speaker 1: make the Bachelor, or at least trying to plant the 1029 00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:34,280 Speaker 1: idea of him being the bachelor and some people's heads. 1030 00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:36,840 Speaker 1: But I just I don't think it's going to happen. 1031 00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:40,479 Speaker 1: I was kind of honest a couple of weeks ago 1032 00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:43,520 Speaker 1: when I did meet Mike, albeit very briefly, I didn't 1033 00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:45,640 Speaker 1: get the warmest vibes from him. He didn't come across 1034 00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:47,680 Speaker 1: in person the way he did on DV. That's all 1035 00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,480 Speaker 1: I'm going to say about that, because truly I had 1036 00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:52,680 Speaker 1: I exchanged maybe two minutes of conversation with the guy. 1037 00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:55,520 Speaker 1: How do you guys think Mike came off on at all? 1038 00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:58,520 Speaker 1: I was really impressed by honestly on the mental law. Yeah, 1039 00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:03,560 Speaker 1: he's are super articulate, he speaks well. Um. I didn't 1040 00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:05,320 Speaker 1: like when he called out Luke P though, at the 1041 00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:07,840 Speaker 1: same time, because he called him what a misogynist and 1042 00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:10,040 Speaker 1: he said that his future wife is going to be 1043 00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:13,000 Speaker 1: a prisoner of his hated and it's like, can we 1044 00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:17,920 Speaker 1: just all like, does everybody have to just vocalize the 1045 00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:20,279 Speaker 1: worst things that they think about Luke P? Like can 1046 00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:23,600 Speaker 1: we just move past You're not dealing with him anymore? Yeah, 1047 00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:25,680 Speaker 1: and just yeah, It's like if it didn't have set 1048 00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:30,319 Speaker 1: to your life, did I are you like and see 1049 00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:31,960 Speaker 1: if you ended up with her, it would still be 1050 00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:34,280 Speaker 1: like it would be different because you're like, you really 1051 00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:37,759 Speaker 1: hurt and you gave my fiance the worst time exactly, 1052 00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:41,360 Speaker 1: but didn't know I really liked I can't remember exactly 1053 00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:43,759 Speaker 1: what Dylan said, but it was it was a throwaway 1054 00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:46,600 Speaker 1: line almost, but he it was a throwaway line because 1055 00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:49,120 Speaker 1: he just said one thing and he said something like, hey, 1056 00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:53,560 Speaker 1: Luke p, I'm rooting for you. Um, but like, you know, 1057 00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:55,240 Speaker 1: you just have a lot of work to do something 1058 00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:57,600 Speaker 1: like that. And it was so simple, and it was like, 1059 00:52:57,640 --> 00:53:00,000 Speaker 1: but that's all that needed said instead of Connor saying 1060 00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,120 Speaker 1: f you and Mike being like your future is going 1061 00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:05,400 Speaker 1: to be a prisoner and like, and then what's his 1062 00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:07,520 Speaker 1: name going up to the hot seat, and then the 1063 00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:10,880 Speaker 1: other guy I don't remember, who's Brent. I don't know 1064 00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:14,279 Speaker 1: what his name is, Grant, Grant, thank you? Who's I 1065 00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:15,960 Speaker 1: don't know what the hell he was doing, but he 1066 00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:19,520 Speaker 1: was flammering all over the place. Um. And then I 1067 00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:22,640 Speaker 1: actually liked Mateo. When Matteo went to Mateo for a 1068 00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:25,560 Speaker 1: hot second, was like, hey, let's just let's all move on. 1069 00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:29,839 Speaker 1: We didn't hear much from Garrett, who was quite a 1070 00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:33,360 Speaker 1: heated character this season. It is pretty interesting, do we 1071 00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:36,240 Speaker 1: know we haven't seen Garrett in any Paradise promodes Nope, 1072 00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:39,719 Speaker 1: So maybe they just weren't teeing him up for anything. Yeah, 1073 00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:43,520 Speaker 1: that's interesting though, because he was you know, usually it's 1074 00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:46,800 Speaker 1: really dumb. But the further you are on the left 1075 00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:49,120 Speaker 1: of the hot seat, the more prone you are on 1076 00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:51,759 Speaker 1: that lower level like where Mike was sitting. You know, 1077 00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:57,000 Speaker 1: usually those first like three or four like big characters. Um, 1078 00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:59,960 Speaker 1: and you know, I'm assuming Garrett would be in Paradise 1079 00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:02,680 Speaker 1: on a white wouldn't piece, So you know, yeah, it's 1080 00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:05,640 Speaker 1: weird that he just because Yeah, it's weird. It's weird. 1081 00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:08,480 Speaker 1: So yeah, who else did we see in Paradise at 1082 00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:12,320 Speaker 1: should we should comment on? Demi? Definitely refers to her, 1083 00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:17,320 Speaker 1: definitely refers to being in love with a woman her. Yeah, 1084 00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:20,800 Speaker 1: be interesting to see how they handle that as the show. 1085 00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:23,000 Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds like it might be the first 1086 00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,799 Speaker 1: of its kind. There's some sort of fist fight that 1087 00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:28,439 Speaker 1: looks like involves Jordan's I don't know who the other 1088 00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:31,800 Speaker 1: party is, can see the face, but that looks pretty 1089 00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:35,640 Speaker 1: intense Jordan's back. We know that the last time things 1090 00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:38,919 Speaker 1: got physical in Paradise was with Chad and he got 1091 00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:45,319 Speaker 1: immediately exit out of the process. He got drunk night 1092 00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:48,600 Speaker 1: one and he took good No, he not Sara Harron. 1093 00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:51,120 Speaker 1: He took a swing at Daniel. I think it was 1094 00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:54,080 Speaker 1: more playful than anything Canadian Daniel. But it was like 1095 00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:57,360 Speaker 1: an open, open hand swing. Wasn't like a fist. He 1096 00:54:57,440 --> 00:54:59,600 Speaker 1: just like went like that. Try to like spot his 1097 00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:03,680 Speaker 1: hand away. Um, but that was, you know, good enough 1098 00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:05,319 Speaker 1: for him to get kicked off the show. Apparently so. 1099 00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:07,279 Speaker 1: And then he had some issues with Sarah Hearn where 1100 00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:10,359 Speaker 1: he called her some bad things he later apologized for. Yeah, 1101 00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:12,520 Speaker 1: I apologize, but that's the whole reason I would never 1102 00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:14,120 Speaker 1: be friends with him or have any interest in like 1103 00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:16,840 Speaker 1: being nice to him, because he seems like a real jerk. 1104 00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:22,040 Speaker 1: Who else is in Paradise? Uh? Yeah, I mean the 1105 00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:23,800 Speaker 1: trailer look good. You guys look like you're gonna be 1106 00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:27,399 Speaker 1: very involved. The mustache you crying, tatious, a little upset. 1107 00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:29,200 Speaker 1: The mustache don't have as much of an appearance. I 1108 00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:31,200 Speaker 1: think the mustache is gonna have plenty. It had its 1109 00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:35,239 Speaker 1: own Um, I really didn't know. But why wasn't I 1110 00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:40,000 Speaker 1: more of a central focus? And this is what myself, Tassia. 1111 00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:45,480 Speaker 1: We saw you making out with Blake saw Hannah g 1112 00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:49,880 Speaker 1: and Blake a lot. Everybody seemed to want to ship 1113 00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:54,360 Speaker 1: them Going into this season. We saw Demi accusing Blake 1114 00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:58,920 Speaker 1: of making his rounds, so to speak. I'm curious how 1115 00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:01,160 Speaker 1: that's going to play out too. I can't wait for 1116 00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:06,360 Speaker 1: y'all to see that. Oh interesting. Katie was very upset 1117 00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:09,520 Speaker 1: about not being able to help who she fell in 1118 00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:13,120 Speaker 1: love with. Oh, I can't help, I can't help, she said. 1119 00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:15,840 Speaker 1: I don't remember her saying that. She did say that, Okay, 1120 00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:18,680 Speaker 1: all right. Interesting. It's funny because, like, you know, we 1121 00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:21,320 Speaker 1: kind of know, yeah, but like maybe it's Katie and Demi. 1122 00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:25,399 Speaker 1: Oh interesting, I know she could be referring to somebody else. 1123 00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:28,040 Speaker 1: You're like, hey, you know, super upset, I can't help 1124 00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:32,880 Speaker 1: who I love. There's nothing wrong with that baby. Yeah, Okay, guys, 1125 00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:35,080 Speaker 1: well I think they broke it down pretty well. I mean, 1126 00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:37,960 Speaker 1: we didn't talk about many people beyond Luke Key, but 1127 00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:41,279 Speaker 1: that honestly was the Luke p Show. Again. How did 1128 00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:43,000 Speaker 1: we How did we think of Hannah? How do you 1129 00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:46,919 Speaker 1: think she did? Sorry, Kaa, how do you think Handah 1130 00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:49,640 Speaker 1: did on her mental? Um? I thought she looks stunning? 1131 00:56:49,960 --> 00:56:53,440 Speaker 1: Number one? She looked? Um, I thought, I don't know, 1132 00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:55,200 Speaker 1: to be quite honest with you, the end of it 1133 00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:56,759 Speaker 1: kind of rebbed me the wrong way. I just really 1134 00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:59,560 Speaker 1: didn't think she needed nailed to luke p anymore. Yeah, 1135 00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:02,040 Speaker 1: I thought she was great until that one last line. 1136 00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:04,840 Speaker 1: But that touch she handles herself well. I really liked 1137 00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:08,200 Speaker 1: how she was talking about baggage and she started pointing 1138 00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:10,799 Speaker 1: around at all the guys and she was like, I've 1139 00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,680 Speaker 1: something like I've got baggage, You've got baggage, You've got baggage. 1140 00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:18,919 Speaker 1: We all got bagged. What was it? Oh, we all 1141 00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:23,439 Speaker 1: live in sin you said every day? Do. I love 1142 00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:25,880 Speaker 1: the way she handled herself during the first twenty minutes. 1143 00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:28,919 Speaker 1: It was just like, um, you know, sequel to last 1144 00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:31,280 Speaker 1: week's episode, I thought was pretty allen, So I agree, 1145 00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:34,960 Speaker 1: And you said something last week, um to me. I 1146 00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:38,600 Speaker 1: think off the podcast and it's funny how everybody before 1147 00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:40,600 Speaker 1: the season thought that Hannah was not going to be 1148 00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:43,800 Speaker 1: able to articulate herself. That was the big concern coming in. 1149 00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:46,840 Speaker 1: And I think we can all agree that she's the 1150 00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:51,720 Speaker 1: most the most expressive and communicative and like smart whipped, 1151 00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:55,840 Speaker 1: you know, like that quick witted, always has a comeback woman. 1152 00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:58,440 Speaker 1: You compare that to remember first one with Colton in 1153 00:57:58,480 --> 00:58:02,840 Speaker 1: the hot That's amazing. She's growing up right in front 1154 00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:04,080 Speaker 1: of our eyes. It's almost like it's not even the 1155 00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:06,240 Speaker 1: same person. I was gonna make you comments before we 1156 00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:07,840 Speaker 1: jumped into the Hannah b thing. Do you think we're 1157 00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:10,640 Speaker 1: kind of being hypocritical of we give Hannah b crap 1158 00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:12,320 Speaker 1: for always talking about Luke P and then here we 1159 00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:14,160 Speaker 1: are talking about Luke P. Of course we are. But 1160 00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,480 Speaker 1: the reason we're talking about it is because Hannah talked 1161 00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:19,440 Speaker 1: about it's a slippery slope, the very slippery self. And honestly, 1162 00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:24,240 Speaker 1: I wasn't bothered about Hannah's um discussion with Luke P 1163 00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:29,120 Speaker 1: until that last second where it was just again catering 1164 00:58:29,160 --> 00:58:31,760 Speaker 1: to the audience. It was like, I'm tired of talking 1165 00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:33,480 Speaker 1: Luke P. And she looked at Chris Harrison was like, 1166 00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:34,840 Speaker 1: are you tired? And then she look at the guy, 1167 00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:38,360 Speaker 1: and then she looked at the audiences like is everybody tired? 1168 00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:41,840 Speaker 1: Like she was Oprah giving stuff away, like and you 1169 00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:46,200 Speaker 1: get a Luke and everybody gets yeah. It's like, oh God, 1170 00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:49,920 Speaker 1: can we the poor guy? Like move on? Do you 1171 00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:51,520 Speaker 1: think this is the last we ever see of Luke P? 1172 00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:54,920 Speaker 1: Quite possibly? Yeah, I think so, I think it might be. 1173 00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:57,680 Speaker 1: Do you think he dug his grave and now he's 1174 00:58:57,680 --> 00:58:59,400 Speaker 1: gonna lie in and just be dead. He should just 1175 00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:01,760 Speaker 1: go high. There's a couple of people in the sertise 1176 00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:05,120 Speaker 1: that like, just go hide. Kelsey Poe, the villain on 1177 00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:08,960 Speaker 1: my season, she moved to France. You're kidding. Yeah, she 1178 00:59:09,040 --> 00:59:12,160 Speaker 1: moved to France, like right after the show. And I 1179 00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:16,400 Speaker 1: remember even in between the filming and Women Tell All, 1180 00:59:16,440 --> 00:59:19,120 Speaker 1: she had already gone and gotten a boyfriend in Paris. 1181 00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:23,920 Speaker 1: So like sometimes like it forces you to really as sad. 1182 00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:26,200 Speaker 1: That is sad, but you feel like you have to 1183 00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:28,680 Speaker 1: run and move because people are like I think she 1184 00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:31,919 Speaker 1: loved She just loved France. She felt more shooted there 1185 00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:36,360 Speaker 1: and and anybody who's writing bad things on social media 1186 00:59:36,440 --> 00:59:41,240 Speaker 1: needs to just get a life and move on. But everything, 1187 00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:45,360 Speaker 1: like as soon as the show ends. Every while we 1188 00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:47,960 Speaker 1: were watching, I was like, the kind of Kelsey post situation, 1189 00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:51,400 Speaker 1: Like maybe he's just moved to the country. Instagram. She 1190 00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:55,320 Speaker 1: definitely deleted Instagram. Why would he have Instagram? Keep Instagram? 1191 00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:57,840 Speaker 1: Don't make other people delete your Instagram. Like, listen, Luke 1192 00:59:57,880 --> 01:00:01,160 Speaker 1: p has some issues and he needs to do some 1193 01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:03,560 Speaker 1: soul searching. But at the same time the idea that 1194 01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:07,080 Speaker 1: where anybody to tell somebody else to delete their Instagram 1195 01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:09,760 Speaker 1: because of trolls. I don't want to be that person 1196 01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:12,400 Speaker 1: to be like, no, just to stay away because the 1197 01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:14,800 Speaker 1: internet is going to be too harsh for you, Like no, 1198 01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:18,840 Speaker 1: screw those people, You're fine. I mean, you know, with 1199 01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:21,720 Speaker 1: having an Instagram that makes sense. I don't want to 1200 01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:25,080 Speaker 1: I don't want the trolls to win and otate because 1201 01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:27,600 Speaker 1: if we tell Lupete to delete his Instagram, those trolls 1202 01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:30,680 Speaker 1: who are saying terrible things win. It's true, and you 1203 01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:33,520 Speaker 1: guys would be shocked at the amount of kind comments 1204 01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:35,760 Speaker 1: he has on his Instagram. I started it out last week. Yeah, 1205 01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:38,120 Speaker 1: I meant to bring that up. I wonder, um, if 1206 01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:40,320 Speaker 1: that's kind of why he feels vindicated and the things 1207 01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:42,480 Speaker 1: that he doesn't says is because he's still is surrounded 1208 01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:46,720 Speaker 1: by positivity sometimes and I think that I'm religiously an 1209 01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:48,240 Speaker 1: apt I don't know much, but I think if that 1210 01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:51,480 Speaker 1: I wonder if that stems from the radical side of Christianity, 1211 01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:53,640 Speaker 1: where they're like, I see what he's doing and it's 1212 01:00:53,680 --> 01:00:55,120 Speaker 1: the path of God. And because of that, I want 1213 01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:57,720 Speaker 1: to build him up. Definitely saw comments about that on 1214 01:00:57,800 --> 01:00:59,840 Speaker 1: this Instagram last week. That's kind of what I'm wondering. 1215 01:00:59,880 --> 01:01:01,439 Speaker 1: I can see Luke Pie coming back in like two 1216 01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:03,240 Speaker 1: to three years. You know what if he does come 1217 01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:07,200 Speaker 1: back and he's like, uh, he's he's kind of a 1218 01:01:07,200 --> 01:01:10,400 Speaker 1: new man so to speak, wants to, you know, give 1219 01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:12,840 Speaker 1: it another go of. So he goes to Paradise, you know, 1220 01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:14,760 Speaker 1: and by that time people have kind of forgotten and 1221 01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:16,640 Speaker 1: be like, oh, yeah, he was kind of a little 1222 01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:19,560 Speaker 1: weird on his season. The thing that kind of stinks 1223 01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:21,480 Speaker 1: for him now and for any villain coming off the 1224 01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:24,120 Speaker 1: season that decides not to go almost immediately into Paradise, 1225 01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:26,880 Speaker 1: is now he's going to be tied to the shitty 1226 01:01:26,880 --> 01:01:30,280 Speaker 1: behavior he's had forever exactly. No one's gonna have any 1227 01:01:30,280 --> 01:01:33,440 Speaker 1: other um exposure to him, our idea of him. So 1228 01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:37,080 Speaker 1: it's like, that's just now who he is publicly. Privately 1229 01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:39,240 Speaker 1: maybe entirely different, but publicly that's who he is. That's 1230 01:01:39,280 --> 01:01:44,640 Speaker 1: really sad. Last question for you guys, how do you 1231 01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:49,560 Speaker 1: foresee next week unfolding? I'm excited is getting eliminated? Who's 1232 01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:52,880 Speaker 1: getting eliminated? Well, so next week is what is is 1233 01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:55,320 Speaker 1: next week saw the final two part, so I think 1234 01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:58,440 Speaker 1: it's just, you know, eliminate one of the guys go 1235 01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:03,120 Speaker 1: into those two dates. Then it will be the tell 1236 01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:06,120 Speaker 1: all will be the you know, finale, finale, after the 1237 01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:09,200 Speaker 1: Final Rose, after the final is next week the final week. 1238 01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:13,720 Speaker 1: And it's like, I think the biggest question here is 1239 01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:17,440 Speaker 1: with just three left, one of them being Jed, if 1240 01:02:17,480 --> 01:02:21,560 Speaker 1: she does end up with Jed, the tell all is 1241 01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:23,120 Speaker 1: not tell all? What was it called? After the Final 1242 01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:27,040 Speaker 1: Rose is going to be such a so captivating, like 1243 01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:30,840 Speaker 1: that's our ultimate cliffhanger. Well, everything, you know, everything I 1244 01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:33,600 Speaker 1: see that comes out of Jed's mouth right now, I 1245 01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:38,360 Speaker 1: just immediately scrutinized and probably look way into because like 1246 01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:39,560 Speaker 1: in the back of my mind, I'm like, you have 1247 01:02:39,600 --> 01:02:43,000 Speaker 1: a girlfriend. You have a girlfriend back home. We've talked 1248 01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:47,520 Speaker 1: plenty about it. Yeah, well cases articles written written about it. 1249 01:02:47,520 --> 01:02:49,479 Speaker 1: You're right, Oh, there was this. There was a part 1250 01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:52,080 Speaker 1: in the episode that we just watched where the audience 1251 01:02:52,080 --> 01:02:55,800 Speaker 1: applauded for Jed, and I don't think that they actually 1252 01:02:55,840 --> 01:02:57,520 Speaker 1: did applaud for Jed. I think they took a clip 1253 01:02:57,560 --> 01:02:59,440 Speaker 1: of them applauding elsewhere and put it in there to 1254 01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:02,880 Speaker 1: Jed's Yeah, why would you Because here's the thing, and 1255 01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:05,800 Speaker 1: I've said it before. Jed has not said anything. He 1256 01:03:05,840 --> 01:03:08,000 Speaker 1: has not come out and tried to defend himself. And 1257 01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:10,560 Speaker 1: if he's getting advice to not say anything, I don't 1258 01:03:10,600 --> 01:03:13,040 Speaker 1: think it's good advice because now, in my head, the 1259 01:03:13,120 --> 01:03:15,720 Speaker 1: story is two months old. I believe the story now 1260 01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:17,720 Speaker 1: because I haven't heard anything else. I creeped on his 1261 01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:19,800 Speaker 1: Instagram the other day and it says something along the 1262 01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:23,000 Speaker 1: lines of just protecting his family, protecting my family. I 1263 01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:24,680 Speaker 1: can't speak on it now, but I will when I can. 1264 01:03:24,720 --> 01:03:27,200 Speaker 1: I'm probably telling you he could not do it, Jared. 1265 01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:31,840 Speaker 1: They were for not being able to send him after 1266 01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:34,720 Speaker 1: the Final Rose and regardless of whether or not he's 1267 01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:38,320 Speaker 1: with Hannah, Yeah, he's gonna be on that reunion show. Yeah, 1268 01:03:38,360 --> 01:03:39,800 Speaker 1: he's gonna be. He's on to Find a Rose because 1269 01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:43,120 Speaker 1: it's mental all. Next week's final and there's three guys, Young, Peter, Tyler, 1270 01:03:43,160 --> 01:03:46,439 Speaker 1: and Jed say he comes on. He says it's not true. Well, 1271 01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:48,440 Speaker 1: I mean, are you going to believe him? I don't know. 1272 01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:50,840 Speaker 1: I mean I need like proof, like now, like from 1273 01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:54,880 Speaker 1: people legit receipts. Yeah, I have facts to brack it 1274 01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:56,760 Speaker 1: up because at this point we're all kind of believing 1275 01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:59,560 Speaker 1: what's been out what's out there exactly Like he said, 1276 01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:02,000 Speaker 1: either way, I'm glued to my seat. That's what I'm saying. 1277 01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:07,880 Speaker 1: It's super interesting us better drama. Um yeah, should be interesting. 1278 01:04:07,920 --> 01:04:10,439 Speaker 1: But who do we think she's going to end up with? Tyler? See, 1279 01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:14,000 Speaker 1: I'm the biggest Tyler c stand in the world. I 1280 01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:17,240 Speaker 1: am too. I love how he's proven me wrong because 1281 01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:18,960 Speaker 1: at the beginning of the season, I was like, I 1282 01:04:19,040 --> 01:04:21,400 Speaker 1: can't trust him, and now I'm like, I give him 1283 01:04:21,520 --> 01:04:24,880 Speaker 1: all of my trust. I like, I like, what do 1284 01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:28,240 Speaker 1: you think of Pete with the beard? I like, guys, 1285 01:04:28,320 --> 01:04:30,000 Speaker 1: I don't like it at all. It's so innocent in 1286 01:04:30,040 --> 01:04:32,360 Speaker 1: baby face. He should just embrace it. I liked it. 1287 01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:34,439 Speaker 1: I like Luke Pete with the beard. I like Pete 1288 01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:36,640 Speaker 1: without a beard. Oh I think I like Luke without 1289 01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:39,240 Speaker 1: the beard. Pete was unpredictable, Like he's going to fly 1290 01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:41,479 Speaker 1: me to an article and maybe leave me. Maybe maybe 1291 01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:43,120 Speaker 1: he'll take me back home. I don't know, but maybe 1292 01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:45,320 Speaker 1: he'll marry You want to I want to roll the 1293 01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:50,560 Speaker 1: dice with that kind of Pete. You know what I mean? Oh? 1294 01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:54,440 Speaker 1: Do you think Pete should um talk about the article 1295 01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:57,520 Speaker 1: that came about. I don't think it's worth mentioning he 1296 01:04:57,560 --> 01:04:59,280 Speaker 1: broke up with her. Whether or not he broke up 1297 01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:00,800 Speaker 1: with her to go on this show or not, it 1298 01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:02,800 Speaker 1: doesn't really matter to me. All that matters is that 1299 01:05:02,960 --> 01:05:05,200 Speaker 1: he did do the right thing by breaking up with her. Well, 1300 01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:08,680 Speaker 1: I think the timing also needs to be addressed, because 1301 01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:11,640 Speaker 1: the guy, because the guy got liminated night one, broke 1302 01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:13,560 Speaker 1: up with his girlfriend too, technically, but he just did 1303 01:05:13,560 --> 01:05:16,400 Speaker 1: it the day before day before he left. You know, 1304 01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:19,360 Speaker 1: he broke up with her December December. Yeah, that's three 1305 01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:22,960 Speaker 1: months before filming starts. Yeah, so that's totally fine. I 1306 01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:27,520 Speaker 1: agree he started to be um, you know, probably started 1307 01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:30,880 Speaker 1: casting though, like really started casting. Somebody asked last week, 1308 01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:34,160 Speaker 1: they're like nominated, What does nominated mean? That was one 1309 01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:35,520 Speaker 1: of the emails that we've gotten. I don't think we 1310 01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:39,520 Speaker 1: answered it clearly. Being nominated means like your friend or 1311 01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:41,760 Speaker 1: your family members signed you up for the show, and 1312 01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:46,160 Speaker 1: you didn't go and apply for yourself nominated And for 1313 01:05:46,280 --> 01:05:49,680 Speaker 1: my timeline, just for a reference, I was I first 1314 01:05:49,680 --> 01:05:52,360 Speaker 1: talked to a producer of February twelve, and then I 1315 01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:54,960 Speaker 1: was on the show March fourteenth, ast of different timelines 1316 01:05:55,000 --> 01:06:00,000 Speaker 1: for everyone. I was from my sending in the application 1317 01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:06,360 Speaker 1: in to me being on the show was thirteen months. 1318 01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:08,640 Speaker 1: It's very different parents was I only even know how 1319 01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:12,760 Speaker 1: long was yours? I got a call in October six months, 1320 01:06:12,920 --> 01:06:16,200 Speaker 1: five months about Tasia. How long was your process? Um? 1321 01:06:16,240 --> 01:06:17,760 Speaker 1: I got a phone call, but I actually said I 1322 01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:21,240 Speaker 1: wasn't interested, and I changed my mind about like three 1323 01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:24,920 Speaker 1: weeks before yourself or no, I was actually nominated, So 1324 01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:27,400 Speaker 1: three weeks. I would consider the three week timeline because 1325 01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:30,160 Speaker 1: did you go through all the medical and all that 1326 01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:33,400 Speaker 1: kind of stuff before and then you said no? Did 1327 01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:35,040 Speaker 1: you say? I said no? From the second I got 1328 01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:36,720 Speaker 1: the phone call, I said thank you. And then so 1329 01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:39,120 Speaker 1: once you said yes, I'll do it. Within those three weeks, 1330 01:06:39,160 --> 01:06:40,480 Speaker 1: you did everything you need to do and then you 1331 01:06:40,560 --> 01:06:43,000 Speaker 1: left her filming. Correct. Yeah, see the same thing four 1332 01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:45,080 Speaker 1: weeks for me, It's possible. I'm not saying that Peter 1333 01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:49,120 Speaker 1: is right. I'm just saying that thirteen months, not six months, 1334 01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:51,280 Speaker 1: four weeks, three weeks, or it's all over the place. 1335 01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:53,600 Speaker 1: The only thing I would hold against Peter a little 1336 01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:56,040 Speaker 1: bit is when we all get the phone call At first, 1337 01:06:56,160 --> 01:06:59,360 Speaker 1: we're all asked, are you single? So if he was, 1338 01:06:59,480 --> 01:07:01,360 Speaker 1: if you'd get the phone call in January, then who 1339 01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:03,760 Speaker 1: cares that? But if he did get the phone call 1340 01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:05,560 Speaker 1: before he broke up with a girl and he was like, 1341 01:07:05,600 --> 01:07:08,600 Speaker 1: oh no, I'm still saying going cool, then that's I mean, 1342 01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:10,919 Speaker 1: it's a minischool thing because obviously I'm hoping he didn't 1343 01:07:11,000 --> 01:07:14,320 Speaker 1: dump the person who's meant to be with I Also, 1344 01:07:14,440 --> 01:07:17,000 Speaker 1: I mean like I'm keeping him credit too by saying 1345 01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:21,240 Speaker 1: like you probably hopefully wouldn't be dumping your soul mate, 1346 01:07:21,440 --> 01:07:23,200 Speaker 1: Like if you were that in love and pictured her 1347 01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:25,000 Speaker 1: being your wife, you'd be like, no, screw the show. 1348 01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:26,840 Speaker 1: I don't need that, right. I don't think it's a 1349 01:07:26,880 --> 01:07:28,520 Speaker 1: fun experience, But I don't think it's that cool of 1350 01:07:28,520 --> 01:07:30,480 Speaker 1: an opportunity to be like I'm going to dump my girlfriend, 1351 01:07:30,520 --> 01:07:34,720 Speaker 1: going to dump someone in your love with Totally. I 1352 01:07:34,760 --> 01:07:37,400 Speaker 1: just think that it's a cool Like I said, it's 1353 01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:39,560 Speaker 1: a cool experience, but it's not like the coolest thing. 1354 01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:42,560 Speaker 1: I'm going to go to the furthest extreme to make 1355 01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:44,840 Speaker 1: this happen, because you could go home night one, yeah, 1356 01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:47,040 Speaker 1: and then it's like, all right, well that was fun 1357 01:07:47,080 --> 01:07:50,480 Speaker 1: and life moves on, you know where other people. We're 1358 01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:53,440 Speaker 1: all sitting here doing a freaking podcast. You know, we're 1359 01:07:53,560 --> 01:07:58,240 Speaker 1: very lucky and blessed hashtag blessed. All right, guys, thank 1360 01:07:58,240 --> 01:08:01,920 Speaker 1: you so much for joining me, and thanks for Ben 1361 01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:05,240 Speaker 1: for his little pop in there. Um. We will see 1362 01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:07,640 Speaker 1: you guys next week. Next week is a huge week, 1363 01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:10,320 Speaker 1: the finale. It's our bread and butter and we can't 1364 01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:14,040 Speaker 1: wait to talk to you guys then. Until then, I've 1365 01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:19,000 Speaker 1: been Ashley, I've been Jared, I've been I've been Tyler C. 1366 01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:21,680 Speaker 1: When I've been Dean, I wish I was Tyler C. 1367 01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:29,719 Speaker 1: John Paul Jones. 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