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Speaker 1: In the meantime, while they were trying to find somewhere,

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Speaker 2: Do we.

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Speaker 1: Pull all uh let them move in or not? I'm like,

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Speaker 2: Sounds like terrible.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they don't sound like good house.

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Speaker 1: Guess house living? Like living part living? What were we

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Sophia.

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Speaker 1: We got there one morning when everyone was out, uh,

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Speaker 5: What if you're like me, I don't just keep underwear

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Speaker 6: Put money in there.

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Speaker 3: I was like they were saying, like, you kept your

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, they're there, But I keep like other valuables.

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Speaker 5: I was really confused, dude, that's what people do, don't

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Speaker 5: you put like jewelry and non jewelry is Yeah, I

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's not that valuable. Keep cash, So.

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Speaker 5: You don't keep cash. No, what's gonna happen whenever freaking millennial,

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Speaker 4: We're gonna barter man cash, gonna.

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Speaker 5: Yeah no you can't. You didn't do the folly training.

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Speaker 5: You can't fight, find another skill all attack, I'll fight

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Speaker 5: Christian today. We were we were about to tussle earlier.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we were.

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Speaker 1: About to throw down anyways, I digress. Oh wait, so

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Speaker 1: let me make sure I got this clear. So basically,

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Speaker 4: No, I think what happened is.

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Speaker 1: Sisters underwa o pe underwear because I was just trying

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Speaker 1: Oh so so okay, So I think I was like.

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Speaker 4: I thought her underwear was in your drawer.

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Speaker 2: Yes, sorry, exactly.

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Speaker 1: It'd be like it'd be like going through Riley's drawer

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Speaker 2: I need I need to find It's like my underwear

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Speaker 2: is not in Ley.

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Speaker 6: Oh you're super high at that point.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh that's true.

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Speaker 2: Another great point. This is so layered, Like.

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Speaker 6: Onto them because they can get into your stuff.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because I would have put locks on the outside

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Speaker 2: I would love a lock on my door.

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Speaker 6: No, I would love it's from the outside. So, like,

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Speaker 1: Now, so you you would have locked me in and

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Speaker 1: no reason for your family to go through your your stuff,

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Speaker 1: your stuff, like it's just Oh so the age breakdowns?

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Speaker 1: What's what's that is unknown?

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Speaker 4: Is it like the title?

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Speaker 6: It, all right? Fine? When do you learn to read

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Speaker 1: When do you learn to read and write? Yes, it's

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Speaker 7: But yeah, this is like the fact I just I

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Speaker 1: When people are like, oh, you don't trust me by

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Speaker 3: Like the reason I'm putting the locks on is because

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Speaker 2: Literally, no one should care.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it shouldn't affect you at all.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm putting lock on my own door. I'm putting

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Speaker 2: Put locks on your car? I did?

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Speaker 4: I locked it?

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Speaker 2: And you know what, I am so offended.

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Speaker 4: It's because I think you're untrustworthy in a creep.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I want to take your car and and just

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Speaker 1: I thought you trusted me. I am the a hole

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Speaker 1: Shouldn't there be trust for people who want to steal

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Speaker 4: I think you're right. I'm gonna not lock my car from.

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Speaker 2: Now, Amen, sister.

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Speaker 3: You know what, Actually last night Christian moved my car

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Speaker 1: And then I was like another reason that I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: And when they say their feelings are hurt, I would

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Speaker 1: This whole comment and wee will Wobblejay says.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if anyone uh, I don't know anyone

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Speaker 1: Pap the profile and join if you want to freaking

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Speaker 6: What are we doing, Riley, We're not having it.

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Speaker 2: I'm kicking him out immediately, no questions, done.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe I'll buy the shirt collar and I'm just like,

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I would be furious, and for my own part,

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Speaker 2: Right, it's a big Is he going to go cheat

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Speaker 1: Is he going to uh, you know, not just do

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Speaker 4: I just I think I would kick them out of Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Pick him out immediately. Yeah, I would kick out the

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Speaker 3: Like, yeo, this guy's well I think I think what

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Speaker 1: Yeah, at this time, could even question for you. Do

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Speaker 2: Are you like? Hey?

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Speaker 1: I for those reasons I just mentioned, and the fact

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Speaker 1: Yeah, to create as much basically separation and barriers and

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Speaker 2: Fair enough? Yeah? Fair enough?

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Speaker 2: Time for okop relash.

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Speaker 8: I'm furious because my brother spent two hundred thousand dollars

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Speaker 8: of my inheritance on food and games, but it gets worse.

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Speaker 2: It's light work. Light work.

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Speaker 1: They were doing doing Dyllans eight little that's like three Ubers,

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Speaker 1: Come on, three Ubers, you know, a few Dave and Busters.

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Speaker 8: Oh, you're going to maybe like Clash of Clans, making

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Speaker 8: sure you get that that gold. Gotta get a baby,

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Speaker 8: gotta get that. Okay, it's okay, Yeah, angry Birds. I

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Speaker 8: don't know what other and other games people play. Mafia

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Speaker 8: mob thing, Yeah, Mafia Bob, you know that one. Let's see.

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Speaker 8: I am nineteen and I currently live in New York City.

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Speaker 8: My parents died when my brothers and I were young.

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Speaker 8: Eldest was eleven. Second the brother in question was seven,

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Speaker 8: It was in March of twenty nineteen that I finally

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Speaker 8: got it. It turned out to be quite a large sum. Oh,

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Speaker 2: Bro get turning eighteen getting two hundred and.

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Speaker 8: Thirty grand insane.

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Speaker 1: That's I would have pieced that out a little bit,

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Speaker 8: You would give it like you give like eighteen and

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Speaker 2: You know, yeah, just dole it out gradually. But maybe

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Speaker 8: I thought you were about to say, is like damn

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Speaker 8: two hundred thirty thousand five parents, wank wank. I decided

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Speaker 8: to split the money into two accounts, seventy five thousand

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Speaker 8: But that was only like a thousand to two thousand

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. And he's like not even eighteen years old, So.

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Speaker 8: No, no, So he's the brother is like twenty one,

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Speaker 8: like that is bad. So we're still going a little

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Speaker 2: And John, what is one.

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Speaker 8: Spend one hundred ninety seven thousand dollars right? Maybe like cars,

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Speaker 8: A vote, I get some big things, right?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: What did he do? Sam?

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Speaker 8: What did all on food and in game purchases? How

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Speaker 8: it's a line of Uber eats, Postmates and game purchases.

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Speaker 8: My grandma wants me to forgive him and let him

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Speaker 8: My mind is completely blown round.

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Speaker 2: That would suck so much? What two hundred k? Two

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Speaker 1: OPI probably planned their life around being able to have

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Speaker 8: Good handle handle on things, and like, but yeah, shit,

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Speaker 8: my god, to spend that much on like in game

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Speaker 8: in game purchases, which is like insane, like how much

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Speaker 8: are you playing? You know, paying on clatches.

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Speaker 2: Maybe she could sue, like for Clash of Clans to

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Speaker 2: Oh oh god.

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Speaker 8: So question one is how did he get access to this?

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Speaker 2: Right? True?

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Speaker 8: Apparently my grandma sends him to the store with her

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Speaker 8: ATM card to get money. He memorized her card and

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Speaker 8: Oh my god, there's another update. I've managed to convince

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Speaker 8: my grandma, after a long argument about this potentially ruining

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Speaker 8: his life, to sue the bank for negligence and speak

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Speaker 8: to a lawyer. We're going to see if the court

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Speaker 8: would be willing to send him to a mental institution,

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Speaker 8: said jail, which I don't know. I feel like that

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Speaker 8: might be worse. I don't know, man, I don't know.

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Speaker 8: We haven't got him arrested yet, but I told her

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Speaker 8: if need be, I would call them myself. I like

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Speaker 8: to clarify my grandmother's intentions on protecting him like this.

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Speaker 8: My mother committed suicide right after my father died. My

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Speaker 8: grandma felt responsible for not helping her and seeing the

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Speaker 8: depression that took hold of her. She explained to me

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Speaker 8: that she knew something was mentally wrong with my mother

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Speaker 8: and was trying to make up for it by ignoring

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Speaker 8: my mother's mental state by shielding him. She had no

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Speaker 8: plane stealing my inheritance other than giving him her card.

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Speaker 8: So I went to the bank because he went through

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Speaker 8: my grandmother's account. The bank says we have no claim,

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Speaker 8: no case to sue the bank with. There's nothing I

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Speaker 8: can do to get the money back. I'm ruined financially.

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Speaker 8: All I can do is sue him and put him

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Speaker 8: in jail, but I'm never going to see that money again.

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Speaker 8: I'd like to thank everyone once again for their help.

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Speaker 8: And I'm sorry if I haven't responded to messages, I

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Speaker 8: guess I'm just screwed.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, oh p the.

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Speaker 8: Brother is such a dick though, Wow, Like imagine having that,

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Speaker 8: like what happened to the I wonder like what the

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Speaker 8: older older brother thinks, because like there's the Moral brothers,

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Speaker 8: the one that stole everything from op. I wonder what

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Speaker 8: the older brother thinks.

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Speaker 2: And also what was the time span in which he

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Speaker 2: did this, like two years or a year or two years?

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Speaker 8: I think it was a year or two years, I

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Speaker 8: mean blowing two hundred k two years.

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Speaker 1: And it's and it's so terrible because like it would

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Speaker 1: be one thing if he bought like, you know, cars

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Speaker 1: and like others, you can sell that. You can sell

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Speaker 1: that and recoup some of the money an in.

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Speaker 8: Game purchase, unless he's gonna like maybe he can sell

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Speaker 8: his Classic Clans account.

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Speaker 2: What if? What if? What if?

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Speaker 1: Like you know, because like games are like introducing NFTs

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Speaker 1: and stuff, what if he actually like bought like game

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Speaker 1: NFTs and ended up being worth like millions of dollars.

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Speaker 8: Well, the NFT market has crashed, so he's probably screwed

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Speaker 8: either way. But damn that sucks. Guys, watch your bank accounts,

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Speaker 8: please please just look. Make sure no one's stealing, like

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Speaker 8: you give.

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Speaker 1: Your family member, Like just here's what you do. There's

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Speaker 1: money like I was. I was about to say, hire

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Speaker 1: someone to do him. Like wait, that's actually worse. Like

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Speaker 1: just figure out way to watch your finances. Watch, watch

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Speaker 1: your finances. My girlfriend broke up with me, had a

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Speaker 1: baby with another man. Now she's dying and wants me

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Speaker 1: to adopt the kid.

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Speaker 2: Okay, op, but dumb, dumb but dumb dumb but dumb,

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Speaker 2: dumb but dumb dumb dum storre storre store and.

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Speaker 8: The crowd goes wild. That was That was John's nineteen

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Speaker 1: Wow, thank you so much, welcome. My girlfriend broke up

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Speaker 1: with me, had a baby with another man. Now she's

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Speaker 1: dying and wants me to adopt the kid.

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Speaker 8: That is a roller coaster, but I want to strap

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Speaker 8: in and get ready to go on the loop de loops.

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Speaker 2: Not a situation I would want to be in.

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Speaker 8: No, but I want to hear about it and live

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Speaker 8: vicariously through others pain.

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Speaker 1: I thirty one m met my ex girlfriend twenty nine

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Speaker 1: female on a dating app around seven years ago. She

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Speaker 1: had a son just six months. All of the time

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Speaker 1: she was with multiple guys and ended up pregnant, still

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Speaker 1: not knowing who the biological father is.

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Speaker 2: Ooh big oo ouch.

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Speaker 1: But it wasn't that much of an issue to me

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Speaker 1: because she seemed like a great person and we had

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Speaker 1: a lot in common. After a few weeks of chatting

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Speaker 1: and talking online, we went on a first date and

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Speaker 1: had a great time. After that, we just started hanging

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Speaker 1: out whenever she could, and shortly after she introduced me

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Speaker 1: to her son. A few months into our relationship, we

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Speaker 1: moved in together to save money.

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Speaker 8: Dude, you shouldn't move in with someone to save money

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Speaker 8: if it's a romantic partner, because that's when things can

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Speaker 1: And a few months like that's not a lot of time.

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Speaker 1: I started helping take care of her child whenever I could,

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Speaker 1: and we really grew fond of each other, and he

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Speaker 1: even started calling me Papa, and we just went along

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Speaker 1: with it since my girlfriend didn't mind. Now, almost five

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Speaker 1: years into our relationship, she told me that she wants

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Speaker 1: to break up with me because I became boring and

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Speaker 1: not an active person like I used to be.

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Speaker 8: That hurts man not even like, yeah, you know, I

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Speaker 8: think our lives are just going in different directions, like

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Speaker 8: you're boring and you're fat and ugly, and I at too.

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Speaker 1: We used to go on hikes and travel around the

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Speaker 1: country on weekends, so I obviously don't do that much anymore.

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Speaker 1: And she also said I work too much, you know,

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Speaker 1: the cherry on.

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Speaker 8: The cake, damn, trying to provide for the family.

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Speaker 1: It was a rough time after that, and I had

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Speaker 1: explaining to a five year old that he'll no longer

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Speaker 1: be seeing as popuble oh bro.

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Speaker 2: But I managed to get over it in a few months.

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Speaker 2: I found a better.

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Speaker 1: Job that allowed me to work remotely, and I had

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Speaker 8: Sick, Sometimes you gotta drop the baggage to become a

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Speaker 8: free man.

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Speaker 2: Don't check it in, just put it on. Carry on now.

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Speaker 1: A few days ago, I got a call from my ex.

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Speaker 1: So you know, time is passed, okay. She said that

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Speaker 1: she is sick and in the hospital. She removed one

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Speaker 1: tumor in her other breast and she will need that

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Speaker 1: removed as well. So like this is this is serious,

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Speaker 1: serious stuff right here. Yeah, she is scared that she

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Speaker 1: might die if it doesn't work out. Oh no, asked

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Speaker 1: me if i'd be willing to become her son's legal

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Speaker 1: guardian and adopt him since she has no one else

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Speaker 1: to ask.

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Speaker 8: Frick dude, that is such a tough ask.

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Speaker 1: Now, as mentioned, I live a different lifestyle now, he's

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Speaker 1: no longer boring because of her.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, he ain't got the time.

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Speaker 1: I travel a lot, I invested myself, so I told

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Speaker 1: her that I can't do that. She told me that

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Speaker 1: her son misses me and would love to see me,

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Speaker 1: but I said no again, And after I said no again,

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Speaker 1: she started crying, calling me names before just ending the call. Now,

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Speaker 1: and they told me that it's an eft up thing

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Speaker 1: to refuse after all those years that we spent together,

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Speaker 1: I feel like trash now. So the question is am

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Speaker 8: Baby baby dude, frick Like, dude, this is so tough.

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Speaker 8: I don't think he's an a hole for saying no.

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Speaker 8: I mean like it's like it's not his problem necessarily.

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Speaker 8: It's definitely not the nicest thing he could do, Like

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Speaker 8: the nicest thing he could do would be to adopt

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Speaker 8: his ex girlfriends, his dying ex girlfriend's kid. But like

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Speaker 8: it's not his responsibility, right, Like he's he's not related

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Speaker 8: by blood. He dated this girl for a couple of years,

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Speaker 8: and you know the girl had a kid, but that

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Speaker 8: doesn't mean that it's suddenly his kid.

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Speaker 1: And also the girl broke up with him exactly. Actually,

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Speaker 1: there there was an interesting comment that I pulled in

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Speaker 1: that in that regard. So this is from Unpopular Kryptonite.

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Speaker 1: Great handle there, Oh I actually got some kryptonite right here.

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Speaker 2: Uh oh, but yeah, that is right.

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Speaker 8: There'sted I've been crystaled. I'm a Crystal boy now still.

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Speaker 1: Saying sports sports Crystal sport boys. So on Popular Kryptoni says,

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Speaker 1: not the a whole don't do it. The kid doesn't

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Speaker 1: remember you, it's been two years. She can ask one

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Speaker 1: of the more interesting excess to adopt her.

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Speaker 8: Since you were so boring, baby, Yeah yeah, I I

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Speaker 8: totally forgot how mean she was when she broke up

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Speaker 8: with her.

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Speaker 2: Exactly. Yeah. That's the thing is like she's like, you're

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Speaker 2: so boring, Like I ask one of your more savage

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Speaker 2: super savage. Oh yeah, I mean in the end, although

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Speaker 2: really quick.

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Speaker 8: I don't like if you want an empathetic answer, the

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Speaker 8: reddit comments are the worst.

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Speaker 2: Place if you want to go there for the empathy,

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Speaker 2: like you're you're not.

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Speaker 8: Like, if you want to become a better person, just

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Speaker 8: just don't take the advice of reddit comments. Reddit comments

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Speaker 8: are like that that girl is you know, crazy, or

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Speaker 8: she's a complete b But you know, we were out

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Speaker 8: here trying to be mother Teresa. Yeah we're so, you know,

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Speaker 8: we're trying to be better humans. A little sugar to

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Speaker 8: your side, you know what I mean? Like I had

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Speaker 8: an ex girlfriend of like three years. She has a

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Speaker 8: couple of sisters, or like, like what no, of four

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Speaker 8: or five years ago?

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Speaker 2: Like you dated her for four or five years.

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Speaker 8: I did her for two years and it ended like

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Speaker 8: four or five years ago.

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Speaker 2: Okay, got it? Got it.

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Speaker 8: If she suddenly said, Sam, I'm dying, can you adopt

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Speaker 8: my sister?

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Speaker 2: I would be like, bro, you broke up with me? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's I don't. I don't think. I'm like, uh no,

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Speaker 2: I you know that I've moved on.

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Speaker 8: I'm living my life. I got other things to worry about.

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Speaker 1: I think I think that's like basically, if you break

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Speaker 1: up with someone, it's an opt out for their family essentially,

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Speaker 1: Like you're basically saying like, I don't want you in

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Speaker 1: my life, Like, yeah, I don't want you. I don't

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Speaker 1: want you in my life, in my family's life.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, And you can't just like say like hey, you know,

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Speaker 8: like whenever you when you need something for someone else

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Speaker 8: in your family, just like hey, like I need your help.

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Speaker 2: Like, that's not how it works now. If like Op

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Speaker 2: really wanted to, that's fine.

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Speaker 8: But yeah, yeah, Like I think it's okay for her

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Speaker 8: to ask, that's a fair Yeah, but I don't think

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Speaker 8: it's Op's responsibility.

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Speaker 2: To say yes yes or to guilt trip him. Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, but you know what, it is okay to guilt

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