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Speaker 1: What's its way for Angela Yee?

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Speaker 2: I'm Angela Yee And this is exciting because we just

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Speaker 2: had Doctor Heavenly on and now, sweetie, if I'm married

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Speaker 2: to Medicine, is here with us? Hey, yep, I'm here

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Speaker 2: all right? So first season, I'm married to Medicine. You're

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Speaker 2: the youngest out of all the women on the show.

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Speaker 2: I am, which you make sure they.

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Speaker 1: Know I am right, So they make sure they let

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Speaker 1: me know.

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Speaker 2: And you guys are about to film the reunion. Yes,

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Speaker 2: so how are you feeling.

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Speaker 1: I'm a little nervous about it.

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Speaker 3: I have a lot to get off my chest and

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Speaker 3: I just want to make sure that I'm heard.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah. Are you going in there with a game plan? Somewhat?

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Speaker 1: I can't.

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Speaker 3: I can't tell you exactly what the game plan is,

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Speaker 3: but I will be prepared.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: So let's talk about some things that happened, because this

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Speaker 2: is your first season on the show, and definitely a

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Speaker 2: lot of storylines.

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Speaker 1: Let's use that word instead of drama.

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Speaker 2: A lot of storylines revolved around certain things that you

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Speaker 2: had going on. So I just want to make sure

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Speaker 2: that we clarify certain things. And like we said, Doctor

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Speaker 2: Heavenly was here the other day, and so just even

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Speaker 2: you getting onto the show, she did have a hand

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Speaker 2: in that, Is that correct?

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Speaker 1: She did? Okay?

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Speaker 3: And I met her at the Jackie's first fifty Shades

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Speaker 3: of Pink, and her and Jackie both worked and really

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Speaker 3: wanted me to be a part of the show, and

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Speaker 3: eventually it came in a fruition and I joined with

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Speaker 3: that with her encouragement, and you know the opportunity.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: And then your husband, doctor g would he have been

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Speaker 2: on the show without you or gone shows more about

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Speaker 2: the women. So so the reason he's there really is

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Speaker 2: because of me, is because of it, and I'm there

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Speaker 2: because of him.

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Speaker 1: Okay. He brought me on since he was on the

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Speaker 1: show previously.

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Speaker 2: All right, and so now, of course he was previously

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Speaker 2: married to Quad. Yes, and so that also happened on

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Speaker 2: this season. Now, Phaeder invited Quad to your bridal shower,

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Speaker 2: and you actually reacted in a way I didn't expect

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Speaker 2: you would like sit next to me. You were very

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Speaker 2: nice to her. Doctor Heavenly was here. She said, you're

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Speaker 2: a fan of Quid. Now what were you thinking when

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Speaker 2: that happened? And why was that your reaction?

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Speaker 1: That was my reaction?

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Speaker 3: Because me and my husband had a conversation about how

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Speaker 3: when I when I come into this group, he didn't

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Speaker 3: want me to get into it.

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Speaker 1: He didn't want to see his new wife fight with

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Speaker 1: his ex wife. And because of these women, they're very

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Speaker 1: strong opinionated. Some people tell lies.

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Speaker 3: I just wanted her to sit next to me and

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Speaker 3: hear from my mouth before anybody else starts to spend

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Speaker 2: What did you think about Quid when you got to

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Speaker 3: And such a such an ung retire it was, it

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Speaker 3: was It was kind of awkward, but there's no animosity

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Speaker 3: with her, I thought she was she was nice. You know,

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Speaker 3: there's there's nothing like she was married to Gregory years ago.

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Speaker 3: I met Gregory about a couple of years after the divorce,

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Speaker 3: so it really shouldn't be an issue.

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Speaker 1: So it was no problem. She actually congratulate.

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Speaker 3: Us on our engagement a couple of months fires so

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Speaker 3: any think it would be a.

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Speaker 2: Big deal, right, And also you found out the news

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Speaker 2: that it was going to be more expensive to have

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Speaker 2: your wedding. Your reaction was very like what was going

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Speaker 2: on with that reaction because I didn't know if something

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Speaker 3: A lot was going on. I switched my venue last minute,

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Speaker 3: and I couldn't get the videographer and all that to

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Speaker 3: and it was like two days prior, and it came

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Speaker 3: with like additional space to decorate and that was just

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Speaker 1: So I don't know your wedding, I'd be like, we

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Speaker 3: And then like then I had to meltdown about that,

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Speaker 3: and then they walked into XYX.

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Speaker 1: So it was just like so much happening, Yeah, so much.

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Speaker 1: I felt like it was just everything piled up against me.

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Speaker 2: And that's why I kind of just when you saw

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Speaker 2: the footage of his bachelor party and he invited did

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Speaker 2: the stripper to the wedding?

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Speaker 1: What did you think about that. Hey, I am.

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Speaker 3: A woman that's very confident in my relationship and then

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Speaker 1: Half fun, right, you know.

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Speaker 3: I had my I had two bachelor parties, one with

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Speaker 1: Saw the ladies. We saw some massages.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so you know, I was like, do you

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Speaker 3: have fun? But I was like, okay, you did a

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Speaker 3: little much come out, you know, taking his pants down,

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Speaker 3: and they're not coming back, come back like you trying

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Speaker 3: to get that filming you right, I also know their filming,

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Speaker 3: so it was only so far up. But you know

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Speaker 3: what I realized, because you are the new one on

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Speaker 3: the show, people are experienced at having moments. You know,

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Speaker 3: it's ten seasons in and so for you, this is

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Speaker 3: certain things you didn't expect or maybe you didn't know

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Speaker 3: how to to react because a lot of this is

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Speaker 1: Yeah it is.

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Speaker 3: It's been difficult because I'm like, I wait, it didn't

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Speaker 3: with the punches, and I'm learning to turn the negatives

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Speaker 3: on my social media. Yeah, I want people to get

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Speaker 3: just Gregory's wife. You know, I was a woman before that.

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Speaker 3: I worked for the intelligence community. I was in the

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Speaker 3: I've done so mad. Yeah, like you do put some

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Speaker 1: Was there ever a time and you were like I

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Speaker 3: I would say, really honestly, after a hole down, I

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Speaker 3: It was just like the gimmer and my skin, and

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Speaker 3: then it was like at the batch reread party, it

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Speaker 1: It's supposed to be happy.

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Speaker 3: I'm supposed to be in bliss right now, and I

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Speaker 3: was like, I just feel like everything's like piling up

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Speaker 3: it was just so much. And I'm new to Atlanta,

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Speaker 1: So it was just so tough for me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think people have to take that into consideration

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Speaker 2: when they're watching too, Yeah, that this is all new

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Speaker 2: for you. Yes, Now what about you saying that doctor

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Speaker 2: G is controlling? Did you really say that and do

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Speaker 3: Well, at the time, while I said it, I was

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Speaker 3: I think that I did not use the right word.

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Speaker 1: He's learned from it. I gotten that ass a little bit,

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Speaker 1: and you know, and he knows, like you know, that's

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Speaker 3: And we are you know, we're learning, we're growing in

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Speaker 3: we're supposed to overcome come it and move on.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: And you said that doctor Heavenly said that her husband

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Speaker 2: had cheated on her previously, but she denies that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so what was that conversation? So well, really we had.

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Speaker 3: That sit down conversation when I was saying Gregory was controlling,

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Speaker 1: And she was like, you know, she told me about a.

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Speaker 3: So I'm putting two and two together because she also

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Speaker 3: told me when Mariah originally said that she that she

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Speaker 3: actually said that she believed him.

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Speaker 1: And I said, well, you're supposed to believe. Why would

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Speaker 3: And she was all like, you know, shoot, I believed it.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: So she's been trying to get ahead of it. She's

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Speaker 3: Know, if he did, I'm buying some ass like you know,

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Speaker 3: that's just her getting I just put two and two together,

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Speaker 1: Didn't find evidence.

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Speaker 2: She just believes that she saw or caught him cheating, right,

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Speaker 2: It's just that somebody else told her that, and she

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Speaker 3: Went with She was like she was afraid and she

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Speaker 3: said that like she was like checking and asking Damon,

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Speaker 3: like is everything okay? So you know, hey, she's deflecting,

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Speaker 3: I think, and I think that she pretends like her

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Well, she always says that her relationship is kind of

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Speaker 2: You think that the show has affected your relationship any

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Speaker 2: way because it has been stressful.

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Speaker 1: It has been stressful.

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Speaker 2: You think for you, guys, because that seems the person

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think that's a positive thing for you

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Speaker 2: She feels because you're her sister, and I feel like

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Speaker 3: She'd be ready to fight, but like she's she's been

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Speaker 2: And so for you and for people in your hometown,

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00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,760
Speaker 2: your family, how are they feeling watching your journey?

444
00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:34,040
Speaker 3: You know what, some of my family do try not

445
00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:36,240
Speaker 3: to watch it because they get upset with some of

446
00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:41,160
Speaker 3: the ladies, especially Heavenly, my mom, like she's not feeling

447
00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:45,160
Speaker 3: it at all. But as long as I'm learning from

448
00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:48,040
Speaker 3: the ladies, and you know, they're all entrepreneurs, and I

449
00:18:48,119 --> 00:18:49,520
Speaker 3: think that we can learn a lot from each other.

450
00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:51,879
Speaker 3: But like I think of my parents, they're just kind

451
00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:53,920
Speaker 3: of like taking a back seat sometimes and like I

452
00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:56,120
Speaker 3: don't need to watch this because yeah, the baby, yeah

453
00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:58,520
Speaker 3: yeah yeah, because the women are their age, Like my

454
00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:01,359
Speaker 3: parents have been a really young age, so like some

455
00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:02,480
Speaker 3: of the women are older my mom my.

456
00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:05,360
Speaker 1: Mom's fifty one. Oh well your mom is young, yeah, yeah,

457
00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:07,679
Speaker 1: So you know, it's it's kind of hard for her.

458
00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:10,200
Speaker 3: I'm still gonna always be her baby beer, so she

459
00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:12,159
Speaker 3: just feels like she's the mama bear, like I need

460
00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:14,280
Speaker 3: to come and live me, you know, I think about it.

461
00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,800
Speaker 3: I put myself in like I look at my little nephew.

462
00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:19,240
Speaker 3: He's three, my sister's baby, and I'm like, and I

463
00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:20,760
Speaker 3: can't imagine someone my age picking on.

464
00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:23,359
Speaker 1: Him, you know. So I guess that's how kind of

465
00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:24,120
Speaker 1: how they both feel.

466
00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:26,200
Speaker 2: But you know, your husband is a lot older, so

467
00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:30,440
Speaker 2: his circle is gonna be, yeah, a circle. What about

468
00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:31,919
Speaker 2: bringing him around your circle.

469
00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:35,720
Speaker 3: We are you know, I kind of struggle with that

470
00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:38,040
Speaker 3: at times with some of my friends because they didn't

471
00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:39,080
Speaker 3: know how to be you know.

472
00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:40,760
Speaker 1: But I'm actually surrounding my.

473
00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:44,040
Speaker 3: Myself more so with friends that are in age GAT

474
00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:47,480
Speaker 3: relationships because it's actually more common than you think.

475
00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:48,080
Speaker 1: I have a lot of.

476
00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:50,360
Speaker 3: Friends that in our age GAT relationship. Like my friend

477
00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:55,800
Speaker 3: over here her boyfriend seventeen years older. I mean, this

478
00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:58,160
Speaker 3: is what these young women are looking for, Like they're

479
00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:00,560
Speaker 3: looking for older men because it's just it ain't where

480
00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:02,800
Speaker 3: it's it no more. Especially it's hard, especially in black men.

481
00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:05,480
Speaker 3: You know, it's not a lot of men that.

482
00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:07,840
Speaker 1: Are making six figures. Have you ever dated out of

483
00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:08,280
Speaker 1: your race?

484
00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:12,520
Speaker 3: Yes, I had, and I've always been open. It's just

485
00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:14,359
Speaker 3: it just didn't work out for me. I found I

486
00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:17,080
Speaker 3: found mine on my I Love my Life in.

487
00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:19,000
Speaker 1: The DMS, and you used to it in his den

488
00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:22,800
Speaker 1: went down to the that's it, hey, but it worked

489
00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:24,320
Speaker 1: out for you, it did, you know?

490
00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:27,639
Speaker 3: I just hey, I say go after whatever you believe in,

491
00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:30,840
Speaker 3: like you never know, just start a conversation, like, you know,

492
00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:32,840
Speaker 3: this is techn new technology.

493
00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:34,920
Speaker 1: We met during the time of COVID.

494
00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:37,120
Speaker 3: And during the pandemic, so that was like the easiest

495
00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 3: way to communicate with people when I was dating.

496
00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:40,399
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, why not reach out to him

497
00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:42,879
Speaker 1: and say, hey, there anybody else you reached out to.

498
00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:46,119
Speaker 1: I just know I did meet some people on Clubhouse

499
00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:47,440
Speaker 1: because Clubhouse was getting.

500
00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:49,600
Speaker 3: Oh you was lit on comoring. I had to get

501
00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:53,760
Speaker 3: an invite. I don't even know what's going on in Clubhouse.

502
00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:56,399
Speaker 3: More logged back into it and I was like, oh,

503
00:20:56,440 --> 00:21:01,080
Speaker 3: it's ahead of time. Yeah, yeah, so some guys on Clubhouse.

504
00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:04,639
Speaker 1: But yeah, but I'm at mine through the DMS, and

505
00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:06,399
Speaker 1: you know, I just said something really fun. I can

506
00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:08,720
Speaker 1: give you what you want and then you put the baby.

507
00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:12,159
Speaker 2: That's why people feel like, oh, she did this, They

508
00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:14,800
Speaker 2: say that on the show, But the truth is, like

509
00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:18,359
Speaker 2: you found out what was wrong, right, you know the issues,

510
00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,800
Speaker 2: and that's not doesn't mean that it's not gonna happen, right,

511
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,000
Speaker 2: And it just means that there's more work that you

512
00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:24,280
Speaker 2: have to do to make it happy.

513
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

514
00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 3: And my husband, I mean he's a doctor of psychiatry

515
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:31,200
Speaker 3: and internal medicine so like, and he's been around the

516
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,920
Speaker 3: block for years, Like you know, he wouldn't get divorced

517
00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:36,080
Speaker 3: and then be single for all these years and then

518
00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:38,240
Speaker 3: make a decision just based off of sole reason me

519
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:40,560
Speaker 3: having a baby to just be with me, like you know,

520
00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 3: he of course he knows my medical history.

521
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:44,200
Speaker 1: We've talked, we have the conversations. We've been together.

522
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:47,119
Speaker 3: We were three together three years prior to getting married,

523
00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:48,760
Speaker 3: so it's been long conversations about this.

524
00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:49,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

525
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:50,680
Speaker 2: People have to realize that too because they see you

526
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 2: on the show and they think it happened like no, yeah, guys, No.

527
00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 3: We've been talking since twenty twenty of February when we

528
00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,600
Speaker 3: made an official in twenty twenty one, so we've known

529
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:01,080
Speaker 3: each other this.

530
00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:02,680
Speaker 1: You'll be there would be four years.

531
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:04,879
Speaker 2: Were you concerned about any of the things that Quad

532
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:07,359
Speaker 2: said that she had issues about when it came to him.

533
00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:08,399
Speaker 1: Did you guys discuss that.

534
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:12,680
Speaker 3: No, we never did discuss that, And I don't really

535
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:14,440
Speaker 3: want to go down that road. I mean, her story

536
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:16,399
Speaker 3: is her story, and I know the man who he

537
00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:20,119
Speaker 3: is today, and I think that she, you know, she

538
00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:23,159
Speaker 3: may have some some some issues with it, but like,

539
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:26,160
Speaker 3: also it is kind of weird that she did reach

540
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,199
Speaker 3: out and say, hey, congratulations, and she said she got

541
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:29,240
Speaker 3: butterflies in her stomach.

542
00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:31,719
Speaker 1: So it's just like, I'm really she's been kind of inconsistent.

543
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 2: Would it bother you if she rejoined the show, because

544
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 2: it feels like people are trying to get her to

545
00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 2: come back on.

546
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,879
Speaker 3: It wouldn't really bother me, Like, it wouldn't be an issue.

547
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 3: I just would I prefer to leave the past in

548
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:45,720
Speaker 3: the past and let's move forward.

549
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 1: So you are down to do it another season if

550
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:51,040
Speaker 1: I go back and forth.

551
00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:54,199
Speaker 3: All the time because it was tough filming with Oh

552
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 3: my god, it was so tough film.

553
00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 1: Does it depend on this reunion? I think so.

554
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:01,920
Speaker 3: I think it's been dependent on the fans too, because

555
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:03,680
Speaker 3: I have so many women that reach out to me.

556
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:05,480
Speaker 3: It's like, you're doing a good job. You know, You're

557
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:07,119
Speaker 3: you know, I'm watching the show because of you.

558
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 1: And I'm like, wow, really, I'm.

559
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 3: Really making a difference, you know, right, you know, And

560
00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 3: I talked, I talked to some of the fans, Like

561
00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 3: I saw some of the airport at people DM me

562
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 3: about you know, matriosis and stuff like that.

563
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 2: Right, and if you're going to be doing things, because

564
00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:21,879
Speaker 2: I think one of the most important things people have

565
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,399
Speaker 2: to realize on a platform like this, you need to

566
00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 2: have something that you're selling to, right, you know, And

567
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 2: I think that's important while you have this going on,

568
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 2: at least let me get my business, right.

569
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:33,880
Speaker 1: Yes, I want to get my business. Start with the tea.

570
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 1: You know, they call me Sweet Tea on.

571
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 3: The show, and I love tea. I love I love

572
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 3: drinking tea. So I was like, why not, you know,

573
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 3: have my own medicinal tea line. Maybe get some T shirts,

574
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:46,040
Speaker 3: some tea cups hot.

575
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 1: Right, So you know, I was just like why not.

576
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 1: So this is a great opportunity. And I felt like

577
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 1: it was going to open doors. This is what Heaven

578
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: was telling me. It's gonna open the doors, right, And

579
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:59,479
Speaker 1: She's right about that you joined dock to Heavenly University too.

580
00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:04,640
Speaker 1: I want my money back. But yeah, like you you know, yeah,

581
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:05,440
Speaker 1: I didn't have to learn that.

582
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:07,440
Speaker 3: I did not really learn that through her, but like

583
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 3: you know, that's just the obvious. But she was trying

584
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 3: to convince me to join the show.

585
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 1: So was But now she convinced you she did.

586
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 2: She did, And I really do feel like once you

587
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,720
Speaker 2: get into the groove and figure out it's like a dance,

588
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 2: it is, and once you get into that groove, because

589
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 2: I think right now, it's hard what everybody's.

590
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:26,440
Speaker 1: Weighing in saying things.

591
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 2: You don't know how things are edited until it comes out.

592
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 2: You don't know what people are saying about you until

593
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:34,879
Speaker 2: you watch the episodes. You know, what was the hardest episode.

594
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:36,920
Speaker 1: For you to watch? The hardest was the Bachelor Party?

595
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:38,160
Speaker 1: Like that was hard.

596
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,120
Speaker 3: Like Sphaedrier actually wanted me to get on the live

597
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 3: on that Sunday and I actually did a green screen,

598
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 3: but I really didn't want to do it because it

599
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:47,119
Speaker 3: was it was very emotional for me seeing me like

600
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 3: break down.

601
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 1: Like that because it is really sister.

602
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:51,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was still real life to me, you know,

603
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:55,879
Speaker 3: And I'm not an actress, like what you see is

604
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:57,359
Speaker 3: what you get, and it was one hundred percent of

605
00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 3: me on the show. So I just I didn't like

606
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,359
Speaker 3: watching it at all. And me fussing and fighting with

607
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 3: my sister, Yeah that was at but of course, yeah,

608
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:09,640
Speaker 3: I think I think that, like, because she's my twin

609
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 3: and she's the closest to me, you take comfortable. Yeah,

610
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 3: it's the most comfortable. But she always gonna be there

611
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 3: for me, like she's done it to me, so it's like,

612
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:19,159
Speaker 3: you know, we we we know each other, and I

613
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 3: felt safe with her.

614
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:22,359
Speaker 2: And there was one scene where you were trying on

615
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 2: dresses and everybody did not like that you were being

616
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:28,200
Speaker 2: quote body shamed, but I think you had a great

617
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 2: reaction to that.

618
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I actually did not like it either.

619
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 3: I was actually really upset and actually showed up to

620
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 3: the wine tasting that Toya did for her wine to

621
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 3: get upset. And you know, that's a very intimate moment,

622
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 3: like you know, you usually have your family there and

623
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 3: stuff like that, and I just felt like, whoa, you know,

624
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 3: y'all are kind of you know, body shaming me instead

625
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 3: of like, you know, the comments weren't really.

626
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: Endearing, right, you know, it wasn't like, I like the

627
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 1: way this one looks, that's amazing. Maybe if we take

628
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 1: this in here and right.

629
00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:00,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was just like you know, I felt like

630
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 2: when people see themselves on TV, because I noticed that too,

631
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 2: and a lot like people look way different season one

632
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 2: than they do by like yeah, yeah.

633
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 1: So I'm like, you know, y'all got to keep in mind,

634
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 1: like where did you start out?

635
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,160
Speaker 2: You know, yeah, because it's not easy being on TV

636
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 2: and having people watch you every single week, and then

637
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 2: you're also picking yourself apart.

638
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's like you're and you're reliving it over

639
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 3: and over again. You're you know, you're living it and

640
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 3: in real time whenever you're filming, and then it airs

641
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 3: and then everybody has something to say, and then at

642
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:27,400
Speaker 3: the room you got to review everything again, like it's

643
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 3: it's an emotional rollercoaster.

644
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 1: It has been like I would be lying.

645
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 2: To you, I said it would wasn't all right, Well,

646
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 2: I mean you look great, so and I know you

647
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:38,640
Speaker 2: have a lot going on today and before you leave

648
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 2: because they said you have to go. But one more thing,

649
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 2: I just want to ask you tell us something positive

650
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,400
Speaker 2: that didn't make it on the air, that you would

651
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 2: have liked for people to see.

652
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 1: I would say the apology I did with my sister.

653
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 3: I did like a personal apology with her, and you know,

654
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 3: I told her I love her and that you know,

655
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 3: you know me, that's you know, that's not me and

656
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 3: that's not my character. And it hurt me to go

657
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 3: off like that, and she was hurt. And I wish

658
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 3: people see more of like who I am. Also, like

659
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:11,399
Speaker 3: me with my job, I.

660
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,120
Speaker 1: Wanted them to see more of that, you know, because

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Speaker 1: I'm more than just Gregory's wife. I'm you know, I'm

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Speaker 1: a veteran, I'm a you know, I'm a program coordinator.

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Speaker 1: I work for the government. Like I wanted to see

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Speaker 1: more of that.

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Speaker 2: So okay, well good, Well, hopefully when you are back

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Speaker 2: for next season, you'll be able to know what it

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Speaker 2: is that you need to maneuver and make happen. But

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Speaker 2: thank you so much for coming, Sweet Tea. Make sure

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Speaker 2: y'all watch Married to Medicine. Any last things you want

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Speaker 2: to say.

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Speaker 3: Just make sure you watch Married to Medicine on Sundays

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Speaker 3: at nine pm Easter Standard time.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, thank you so much. We appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: Way up