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Speaker 2: The biggest and if you didn't know it, Brook is

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Speaker 2: That literally gives me nightmares.

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Speaker 1: The shocking part of it is that I'm being one

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Speaker 1: hundred percent truthful here. That moth was recently found near

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Speaker 1: someone's front door, just three miles from our radio studio.

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Speaker 2: We have to burn the whole city down, honestly, like

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Speaker 2: the whole place. I'm not kidding. It's time to move.

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Speaker 2: What country does it have? These?

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Speaker 1: The only thing, the only thing more shocking than the

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Speaker 1: giant moth high underneath Brooks pillow. Crazy twist that we

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Speaker 1: never saw coming in today's brand new textual Healing, Oh

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Speaker 1: never saw it coming.

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Speaker 2: We didn't get out of here.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you're gonna see it either. We're gonna

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Speaker 2: Shut the door quickly so doesn't get.

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Speaker 1: Text you will. He then text you will. Have you

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Speaker 1: ever had a case of huh, where do I know

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Speaker 2: Every person in this office, like, wait, do.

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Speaker 1: You work here? Brook has it at work all the time.

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Speaker 1: And I know Alexis's parents struggle with that every time

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Speaker 1: she asked more money. Yeah, how do we know you?

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Speaker 1: That's right, you are superficial daughter who has a really

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Speaker 1: We'll see how long that lasts Celestis. But we do

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Speaker 1: was Lewis. Lewis, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, we I mean, I have so much empathy

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Speaker 2: for you right now. I've been there, my friend. Who

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Speaker 2: is it that you can't recognize? I guess you can't

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Speaker 3: Can you? Well?

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Speaker 1: Tell us the story behind what happened, Like, where did

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Speaker 4: Okay, let me start from the beginning. So I went

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Speaker 2: Talk, okay, And did you know her from the office

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Speaker 1: So she I hate that because then it puts the

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Speaker 3: She said, yeah, i'd like that, and she gave me

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Speaker 3: Here's my Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, here's my underwear. I'll write my number down.

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Speaker 3: She stowed me up. She stood me up. Man, Now

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Speaker 3: For it, right, But it was just there was just

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Speaker 1: But the good news is, all those years later, she

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean she did know my face, but she

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's so awkward, Like, how are you going

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Speaker 3: And yeah, I mean I don't. And again, I don't

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Speaker 1: I think embarrassing her sounds more fun to me.

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Speaker 1: Car with you, Alexis, I don't know what what do

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Speaker 2: It's got to be funny, like it has to be

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Speaker 2: I mean the secret is you can't come across sounding bitter.

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Speaker 2: You have to be like, hey, I remembered awkward story time.

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Speaker 2: I remembered where we met awkward story time? Question marks

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Speaker 1: where do I know you from?

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Speaker 1: The thing is he has no hard feelings about it

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Speaker 1: I know, the light bulb went off.

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Speaker 2: It turns out that she's the jerk in the story. Like,

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Speaker 3: Be Okay, I text about five years ago.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you start with maybe you start with along sow. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's really important that we frame this at

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Speaker 3: Sure, So this is what I want to send. Pretty funny.

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Speaker 3: I'm putting a laugh of MALTI two of them.

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Speaker 3: About five years ago you and I matched on a

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Speaker 1: Yeah you could be. You could be a little playful

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Forgot, and another laugh.

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Speaker 2: Emoji or I got to go on a date by myself.

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Speaker 1: That's just pathetic. So I think that's a good plan.

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Speaker 1: Send it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, I'm sending Okay, said hopefully.

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Speaker 1: She remembers that she's the one who did the ghosting

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't want her to know it's like

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Speaker 1: We can type back again to be clear.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think that's a little over the top.

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Speaker 3: See what she says.

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Speaker 2: She I mean, it seems like you had a really

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Speaker 2: You have some reports.

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Speaker 3: Hey, guys, I see a text bubble.

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Speaker 1: Good Alexis. If someone did that to you and it

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Speaker 1: was like you accidentally didn't show up, would you be offended?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: See, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: That's the better side to be on than to find

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Speaker 2: Oh I would I would just be so cringe.

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Speaker 3: She responded.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what she said?

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Speaker 3: Okay, here, it's just shut up, dot dot dot. You're

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Speaker 3: saying I ghosted you. This is all in caps. She

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Speaker 3: ghosted you. Where will we lead it?

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Speaker 1: She doesn't remember?

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Speaker 2: Okay, she's still in all caps. Interesting, where was it?

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Speaker 3: Lewis can be specific with its.

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Speaker 1: Probably a good idea if you're trying to remind her

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Speaker 1: of where.

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Speaker 3: Was the bar grill?

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Speaker 2: Okay, don't be too specific, it sounds kind of pathetic. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I was at eight pm on January nine, Maybe you say,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I tried in my diary about it.

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Speaker 1: Also, I'm glad it's a restaurant. He wasn't like at

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Speaker 1: a Blockbuster. Remember then we would know the issue. I think, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you just put the name of the.

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Speaker 2: Place that it was, and then I say, honestly, no

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Speaker 2: big deal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, broke.

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Speaker 3: The bar grill sinking emoji And okay, okay, that's all right.

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Speaker 1: That's like you're trying to remember it the best emoji

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Speaker 1: Did you add Brooks thing on it about seriously no

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Speaker 1: big deal? The second follow up text? Right now, a

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Speaker 3: Seriously was no big deal? No big deal? Okay, smile, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Don't say like every time I drive past it, I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, save that for date number two.

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Speaker 2: And are you I mean, do you think we could

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Speaker 2: I mean that'd be kind of cute, like, hey, you

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Speaker 1: He's already going out with her on a date. Do

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Speaker 2: I mean she said hangout. I don't know if she

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Speaker 2: she I didn't realize it.

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Speaker 3: Was a date. He responded, Oh she did. Okay, whoa, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: she's responding like really quick, and she said, yeah old

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Speaker 1: Wait what whoa?

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Speaker 2: Oh he's angry. What did you do?

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Speaker 3: Nothing? I didn't do anything wrong. I mean she's the

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Speaker 2: I feel like you're forgetting something. Yeah, you gotta ask,

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Speaker 2: you gotta say what? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: My favorite line?

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Speaker 2: Wait what yeah?

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Speaker 3: Wait, she just responded again.

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Speaker 2: Oh she's double responding, was it?

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Speaker 3: And it says? I showed my friend your photos and

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Speaker 3: she recognized you and said you were engaged. I don't

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Speaker 3: date cheaters.

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Speaker 2: Oh were you engaged?

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Speaker 3: Yes? Let me explain. Let me explain, guys, let me explain.

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Speaker 3: We were engaged, yes, but the relationship was on its

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Speaker 2: Did your fiance know that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we were both on the virtue breaking up as

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Speaker 3: it was, and we did.

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Speaker 2: So you wait until after you break before you start

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Speaker 3: Don't know, but I'm shutting something back right now, hold on,

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Speaker 3: Like you're in the wrong here, Louis.

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Speaker 1: You were engaged at the time, whether or not the

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Speaker 3: I said, I'm sorry. I said sorry, but I've changed

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Speaker 3: them single now, Oh god, nobody.

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Speaker 2: He's gonna believe that.

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Speaker 1: No emojis.

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Speaker 2: You said you wonder single on the dating app five

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Speaker 2: years ago and you were engaged.

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Speaker 1: That's the perfect time to use the one hundred emojis

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Speaker 3: That is what a mess. He just responded.

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Speaker 1: I don't even care what she said.

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Speaker 2: It's not going to be good, is your side?

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Speaker 3: She said, forget it, I can't do this. Don't contact

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was it. That's a big lesson there. She

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Speaker 2: looks good for bailing them.

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Speaker 4: Great.

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Speaker 1: Now we have to Catfisher.

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Speaker 3: I love for that. If you guys are.

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Speaker 1: Not the whole already.

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Speaker 3: Coffee is for closures. Coffee is for closures.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't don't think this date is going to happen, sorry, man,

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Speaker 1: but I don't think it should either, Like you didn't

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Speaker 1: remember that part of it years ago? How would he

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Speaker 2: You know, just don't don't that's hard, don't leave.

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Speaker 1: What have you learned here, Lewis? What lesson have you

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Speaker 1: learned through all of this?

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Speaker 3: I mean, it was what it was back then, and

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Speaker 3: maybe that was wrong, you know, not to tell her.

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Speaker 1: Yes, sure we learned it was what it was. Much

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Speaker 1: that's a pretty good lesson, baby steps.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why people think always achieved.

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Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,