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Speaker 1: First day to follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. Danny is on the

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Speaker 1: phone today for a first date follow up, and he's

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Speaker 1: getting ghosted by a woman named Pria. So in a

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Speaker 1: few minutes we're gonna call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 1: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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Speaker 1: a second date. But first, Danny, how long has it

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Speaker 1: been since you heard from Priya?

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Speaker 2: Oh? I haven't heard from her for more about.

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Speaker 1: A week now, Okay, So have you hit her up?

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Speaker 2: I've tried to and I haven't heard anything back.

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Speaker 1: Well, how did you end up leaving the date at

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Speaker 1: the end? Did you feel like you guys were going

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Speaker 3: I mean I thought so, Like we had a good

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Speaker 3: time when I left, she was laughing. I thought we

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Speaker 2: Up, I guess.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll tell us about the date.

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Speaker 3: Well, we went to a paint and sip class, you

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Speaker 3: know the wine easeles instructor wears a beret.

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Speaker 2: That kind of thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean we just we had a really good

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Speaker 3: time because like, okay, I I love her laugh, like

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Speaker 3: she has a very contagious laugh. Every time she giggles,

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Speaker 3: So that was so like fun to just find ways

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Speaker 2: That entire night. And I will admit, while.

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Speaker 3: I was there, you know, at the at the class,

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Speaker 3: I drank a little too much wine. I dip my

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Speaker 3: paintbrush in the glass and started painting with the with

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Speaker 3: the wine, and I was like, oh, this is hilarious.

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Speaker 4: But like some of the other people there got gave

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Speaker 4: me some dirty looks. I worry if maybe it was

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Speaker 4: like awkward or something and.

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Speaker 1: You wasted wine. You started painting with your wine? Noted that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah no, so you try to.

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Speaker 1: Play it off like like you were joking around or

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Speaker 1: yeah no, I like I'm joking around because you were

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Speaker 1: hammered and you couldn't tell the wine from your paint.

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, well, plus, I mean, come on, like, what's

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Speaker 2: Wine into art?

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Speaker 1: How did she react to that?

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Speaker 2: I mean, well, she laughed, she cleaned your lass with mine.

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Speaker 2: I thought we had like a fun little moment.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So okay, what else happened on the day.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean that was that was pretty much all

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Speaker 3: there in the like it was just that class.

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Speaker 2: But we got along just fine. And I don't know

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Speaker 2: what's up.

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Speaker 1: Since after the class. Did y'all just both like leave,

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Speaker 1: you went your separate ways, you walked left, you and right,

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Speaker 1: or did y'all like talk for a little bit, you

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Speaker 3: I mean, we talked like a little bit at the end,

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Speaker 3: but we mostly just parted ways there. But it did

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Speaker 3: end very very sincerely, like I no real reason to

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Speaker 1: Right, So that's the only thing you can think of then,

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Speaker 1: that seemed like a great time.

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Speaker 2: That is the only thing I can think of.

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Speaker 5: I mean, let's not downplay it at that moment, not

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Speaker 5: to make you feel worse about it, but that's kind

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Speaker 5: of a big thing, dipping your paintbrush and wine.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, ok fair, but it is the only thing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, all right, we'll see if we can

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Speaker 1: figure it out for you. Then we'll play a song,

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Speaker 1: come back, call her and see if she'll tell us

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Speaker 1: why she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, we'll get your first date follow up next

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Speaker 1: right in the middle of your first date follow up,

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Speaker 1: and if you're just joining us. Danny is on the

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Speaker 1: phone and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Priya.

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Speaker 1: So we're about to call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 1: a second date. But first, Danny, why don't you break

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Speaker 1: down your date again for us real quick?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Pria and I had mostly a really good time.

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Speaker 3: We went to a paint and ship class had wine.

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Speaker 3: At one point I accidentally drank like because I drank

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Speaker 2: Okay, I just want to see you. What's up?

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Speaker 1: All right? Well, are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 2: Let's ye here we go.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, man, speak to Priya please.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: This is Kria.

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Speaker 1: Hey Pria, how are you? This is a radio show.

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Speaker 1: It's called the Jubil Show.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 1: I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria, and my name is Jubil.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 6: Hello?

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Speaker 2: Everyone?

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Speaker 1: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 6: I think maybe once or twice?

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Speaker 2: Which passing.

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Speaker 1: All right, I think maybe once or twice is exactly

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Speaker 1: what we're looking for when it to people, So don't

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Speaker 1: check it out more than that. Okay, But we do

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Speaker 1: do a segment on the show and it's called the

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Speaker 1: first Date follow Up. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 1: on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them,

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Speaker 1: that person can email us to get you on the

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Speaker 1: phone and ask why you're ghosting. And we got an

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Speaker 1: email about you from somebody.

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Speaker 6: Wait, okay, yes, I have heard your show before. Who

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Speaker 6: could that be?

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Speaker 1: Well, that's what we're asking for you do you know?

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Speaker 6: Is it Jona Say or.

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Speaker 1: It's not Jonathan? No, you got another option? Good for

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Speaker 1: you girl, No Jonathan or Andre you got another third option?

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Speaker 1: How many people are you ghosting?

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Speaker 6: Danny? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Third time as a charm? Yeah, Danny emailed us about you.

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Speaker 1: He said he really liked you and can't figure out

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Speaker 1: why you're not getting back to him. Would you mind

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Speaker 2: Oh god, h this is kind of awkward. Sure, you know.

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Speaker 6: I'm in the arts industry, and I was really appreciative

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Speaker 6: that he took me out to one of those like

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Speaker 6: So I was really excited. He was a really funny guy.

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Speaker 6: He was really sweet, he was warm, you know, really personable,

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Speaker 6: you know, but things took a turn a little bit.

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Speaker 6: I think he had a little too much to drink.

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Speaker 6: I'm not much of a drinker in the first place,

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Speaker 1: What happened.

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Speaker 6: It was a little strange because he accidentally gifted his

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Speaker 2: He thought it would be funny to.

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Speaker 6: Start again going Salvador Dolly with it and you on

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Speaker 6: that line up that canvas, and that was like, you know, okay.

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Speaker 5: I tried to play that off and laugh and you know,

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Speaker 5: it was a good way to handle like an oopsie.

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Speaker 5: But it was a freaking Australian accent that took over.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, what thanks Steve Irwin, you know, rest in peace.

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Speaker 6: He was narrating the evening. I could understand if maybe

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Speaker 2: But it was not.

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Speaker 3: You know, it wasn't good.

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Speaker 6: And every single brushstroke was another sentence to the Australian accent.

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Speaker 6: It's like, all right, do it for one paragraph, but

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Speaker 1: So he was just annoying you with his bank Australian accent.

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Speaker 1: Was he doing that to be funnier? Did he seem

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I assume the alcohol content.

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Speaker 1: That's a good point.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't know, like soft intro to role play.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, thank you for telling us why you're ghosting him.

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Speaker 1: Appreciate that is your chance to go with the Australian guy. Damn.

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Speaker 1: I'm also let you know he's actually on the phone

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Speaker 1: listening and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 6: Oh awesome, look at that. How you doing, Danny?

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Speaker 2: Or you say a good eight?

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Speaker 1: It's on that that.

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Speaker 6: Actually, no, you shouldn't, Danny, Well, go on, I think

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Speaker 6: that's the that's ridiculous thing to go someone over. There's

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Speaker 6: been weirder like that evening. You know, I'm so sorry,

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Speaker 6: but the image of you doing that, he says, feared

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Speaker 6: sitting there, everything's normal, and then all of a sudden

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Speaker 2: Splash of right, I said, drunk.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I didn't know Bluie came out Louie. You know,

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Speaker 3: it puts a little splash of passion across the horizon.

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Speaker 1: Is that the name of your Australian guy?

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Speaker 2: I mean, look, I don't know any Australian people. It's

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Speaker 3: That he comes out.

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Speaker 1: Ego.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean it's nice to have someone I can

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Speaker 6: Okay, no, we need blue to go back inside.

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Speaker 2: I think it makes things fun. What's wrong with bringing

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Speaker 3: Ross energy with, you know, an accent.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, Danny, but it wasn't funny. It was it

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Speaker 6: was really annoying, you know, once or twice. Okay, that's

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Speaker 6: cute going into bluey territory. Now now I'm fifteen years

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Speaker 6: old watching Nickelodeon. It was not.

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Speaker 3: Sexy, but it was funny, all right, Like it was funny.

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Speaker 3: I think maybe you should open your heart to entertainment.

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Speaker 2: A little more. Maybe, I mean I was killing it.

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Speaker 3: I thought, you know, everybody was laughing. The teacher took notice.

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Speaker 2: I thought it was a good time. Everybody seemed to

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Speaker 6: They were laughing at you. Not it was to all that.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, I think there's no such thing as bad publicity.

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Speaker 2: I want to recognize the muse allic matters.

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Speaker 1: Prio. Would you like another date with Danny? Will pay

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Speaker 1: for it.

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Speaker 6: No, I am not ready for another performance art meltdown.

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Speaker 3: Wait wait no, no, no, wait, wait, okay, okay, hear

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Speaker 2: I don't know I went overboard.

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Speaker 3: I had, I had the running commentary everything.

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Speaker 2: It's a bit much. That was kind of a disaster. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'll hear you.

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Speaker 3: I can't promise you that I'll be uh, you know, perfect,

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Speaker 3: but I can't tell yeah, I won't terrorize everyone else there.

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Speaker 2: Come on, just one more chance, like a normal human.

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Speaker 2: I swear I can do that.

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Speaker 1: What do you think one more chance?

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, I'm afraid that I'm not just dodging

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Speaker 6: a bullet, but I'm like dodging paint splatter. And that

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Speaker 6: sounds even scarier to me. But you know, Danny, you

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Speaker 6: are so dramatic but fine. One more, try again, Yes

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Speaker 6: I will, but this is the last chance.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yes, yes, Croakey. I'm excited you will.

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Speaker 1: First date, follow up