WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Forbidden Love

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<v Speaker 1>The second. Most of the time, whenever we talk about

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<v Speaker 1>forbidden love on the show, it's about Brooke and her

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<v Speaker 1>insatiable thirst for her cousin Ron stop it.

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<v Speaker 2>I do not like my cousin.

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<v Speaker 1>Not anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>But alas, we're not dealing with that type of forbidden

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<v Speaker 1>love at least good not today. One of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>Mark says he dipped a toe into the forbidden pool

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<v Speaker 1>of romance recently, and he's afraid the lifeguard won't let

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<v Speaker 1>him cannonball all the way in, so he needs our Mark. Why,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show man, Hey.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, Oh man.

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<v Speaker 4>I love a good, juicy story. I mean, I'm dying

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<v Speaker 4>to know who you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's all us your situation.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, so I have a best friend Stuart going

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<v Speaker 3>by Stu. We've been really good friends since college.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, do you want to take it to the next level?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well I thought would be forbidden your best friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, I'm a straight fella, and you know you and

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<v Speaker 3>I have been really good buddies since college. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>I know his family go over his house all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>He los my family.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the best. When you can just like walk in. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you're the second son.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you prefer their family to your own. Yeah, for

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<v Speaker 1>sure most of the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you ever take any family?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's cool. It's nice to have a close friend

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<v Speaker 1>from college.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he's like a brother to me. And I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>afraid I may have ruined everything because I Loki had

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<v Speaker 3>crushed on his younger sister Lisa for a while.

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<v Speaker 4>You did you hook up with her already?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, something did happen, you know, But it's been one

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<v Speaker 3>of those things where I, you know, I couldn't even

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<v Speaker 3>ask because he wouldn't be cool with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh really, he wouldn't be.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, there's two different types. Like I have a friend

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<v Speaker 2>who's literally always asked, like, bro, you should date my sister.

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<v Speaker 2>Be so cool? Yeah, like stay away.

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<v Speaker 1>I asked my best friend from high school if I

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<v Speaker 1>could date his little sister and he said yes. But

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<v Speaker 1>then I asked the sister and she said no. So

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<v Speaker 1>that was a super low moment. Yeah, legally we're supposed to.

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<v Speaker 1>That's rough.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's really weird too, Like it's just like

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<v Speaker 4>a kind of aggressive on your bro's part may be weird.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, how old is a little sister.

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<v Speaker 1>How much younger.

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<v Speaker 3>She was a few years younger. I mean, nothing crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>I was recently single and I was at a bar

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<v Speaker 3>and I saw Lisa there, but I went over and

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<v Speaker 3>started talking to her and we were laughing about something,

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<v Speaker 3>and I said, it's under different circumstances. You know, I

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't friends with your brother. I would have asked you

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<v Speaker 3>out a long time ago.

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<v Speaker 1>What you just told her that?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you had to have been drunk when you said that.

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<v Speaker 3>A little buzz.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I got a little bit of.

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<v Speaker 1>What did she say to that?

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<v Speaker 3>She was like, well, maybe you should do it anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, this is why I always wanted an

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<v Speaker 4>older brother.

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<v Speaker 2>I never had one.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, their friends would be so cute growing up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I agree.

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<v Speaker 4>My friends with older brothers always had hot.

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<v Speaker 1>You'd like to salute around with everybody in your friends

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<v Speaker 1>scroop and in your family. Thank you, Alexa, we got it.

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<v Speaker 1>So she wanted you to ask her out.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I took that as a goal ahead. So I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, what are you doing ten minutes from now?

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<v Speaker 3>And she said, oh, she said, I'm busy, but I'm

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<v Speaker 3>available five minutes from now, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, you guys do have a good banter.

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<v Speaker 2>So was it fun?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, She's like, meet me outside in five. So we

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<v Speaker 3>ended up walking around and grabbing food in a food

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<v Speaker 3>truck and we kind of set up making out.

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<v Speaker 4>My god, so fun and it probably felt like you know,

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<v Speaker 4>it's always fun when it's a little dangerous.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what was good because there's a whole build up

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<v Speaker 1>to that moment. Was it as good as you thought

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<v Speaker 1>it would be?

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<v Speaker 3>It was great? And I mean we had I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>we have a connection. You know, we had a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of fun hanging out, and you know, we had known

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<v Speaker 3>each other for so long, so it was a little

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<v Speaker 3>you know, weird kissing someone that you know that you've

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<v Speaker 3>known for for that long.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I mean that's good news. How did how

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<v Speaker 1>did that night end?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? I was like, we can't tell your brother about this,

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<v Speaker 3>and you said, I'm a grown woman. I can make

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<v Speaker 3>my own decisions.

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<v Speaker 2>That you guys are both adults.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean that makes it feel really immature by trying

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<v Speaker 4>to keep a secret. But I get while you're worried

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<v Speaker 4>about it, if you really think he'd be that upset, Well.

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<v Speaker 3>It kind of changed my tune after that, and I

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<v Speaker 3>said anybody's gonna tell me if it's got to be me,

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<v Speaker 3>and I kind of need some time to figure out

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<v Speaker 3>how to do that.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, what you say to that?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we just kind of got into a disagreement and

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<v Speaker 3>it really just ended sort of weird.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh did she like immediately leave and text her brother?

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<v Speaker 4>Does he know?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know everything. He seems to be okay with two.

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<v Speaker 3>He's not treating me different, and I haven't brought it up,

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<v Speaker 3>so I don't think she said anything.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean hopefully she did and he's cool with it,

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<v Speaker 2>but doesn't sound likely.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you want to date her or do you just

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<v Speaker 4>wanted it to be with that one night?

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<v Speaker 3>Everything except for the end was awesome, and I you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I would love to keep hanging out with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you would like to see your Let's take a

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<v Speaker 1>quick vote around the room. Do we think that this

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<v Speaker 1>is a good idea for him to date his best

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<v Speaker 1>friend's younger sister Alexis?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? Why not?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, one vote for yes, Brook, Yeah, I'm into it.

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<v Speaker 1>The girls love.

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<v Speaker 4>The worst thing that can happen, you lose your best friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, the romantic in me loves this because if

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<v Speaker 1>you Guys, do I'm fast forwarding here end up getting engaged.

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<v Speaker 2>You already have a family's blessing.

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<v Speaker 1>They kissed outside of a killed Let's not.

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<v Speaker 2>Jump the romantic in me. Things will go very well.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And so I'm gonna I'm gonna vote no. This

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<v Speaker 1>is probably not a good idea, but we're gonna that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Only because you were rejected by a sister.

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<v Speaker 1>If I can't have my best friends sister anyway, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call your best friend's sister, Lisa and try and

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<v Speaker 1>get you a second date. Update right after this, all

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<v Speaker 1>right thing, hold on, we're running a little bit short

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<v Speaker 1>on time, so I'm gonna do a quick recap. Guy

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<v Speaker 1>has a best friend from college and he's had a

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<v Speaker 1>crush on his friend's little sister for a few years now.

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<v Speaker 1>One night they ran into each other at a bar,

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<v Speaker 1>ended up hanging out the rest of the evening, and

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<v Speaker 1>even kissed outside of a food truck. Yeah, and Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>here's my question, because I just want to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>I heard it correctly. You definitely don't think her brother

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<v Speaker 1>knows about this.

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<v Speaker 3>No way, he would have freaked out on me by no,

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<v Speaker 3>for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So when do you want to tell him, like

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<v Speaker 1>a month in a year when you start popping out

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<v Speaker 1>nieces and nephews, story, when's the good time at the wedding?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I guess it depends on what happens

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<v Speaker 3>by a year.

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<v Speaker 4>But today we're calling the little sister, right, we're not

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<v Speaker 4>calling I mean, when was the last time you talked

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<v Speaker 4>to her?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I absolutely talked to her since all this went

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<v Speaker 3>down about three weeks.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I have no idea what we're going to get

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<v Speaker 4>on the other line when we call her, like we're.

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<v Speaker 1>A girl hopefully, Well, I know, is she angry?

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<v Speaker 2>Is she Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going in with a positive attitude. Okay, Mark, you

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<v Speaker 1>always do, jeff someone has to. Let's do it. Calling

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<v Speaker 1>Lisa right now? Here we go, Hello, Hey is this Lisa? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is she Lisa. How's it going? You're on the

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<v Speaker 1>right now?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, wait, who is this?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we're a morning show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, and we.

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<v Speaker 2>Are excited to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we have a very interesting conversation looming here.

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<v Speaker 5>I think I don't understand what's happening. I don't understand

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<v Speaker 5>what you mean by the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a lot of explaining to do here.

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<v Speaker 2>We also do a podcast. Does that help? Probably?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, but why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're calling because we're doing a segment called the

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update, and we're trying to ask you a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about your interaction about three weeks ago with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy named Mark.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm saying to the family name Mark.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to label anything.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, what did he tell you? Like, I what did

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<v Speaker 5>he say?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you guys met up randomly at a bar

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<v Speaker 1>one night and ran into each other there hung out

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of the night.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys went to a food truck.

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<v Speaker 1>You remember this, right.

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<v Speaker 5>I very vividly remember this night.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, where did you think?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Throat?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, can you start for the beginning, like

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<v Speaker 4>when Mark said I want to ask you about on

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<v Speaker 4>the date, Like, I mean, it's your brother's best friend.

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<v Speaker 4>What were you thinking?

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<v Speaker 5>So at birst, I actually was like into it just

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<v Speaker 5>because I've always felt like Mark is kind of hot

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<v Speaker 5>and fun and it was exciting and felt this is

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<v Speaker 5>going to sound strange but like a little bit dangerous

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<v Speaker 5>and risky going behind my brother's back because yeah, I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know how much you know, but like Mark is

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<v Speaker 5>best friends with my older brothers too.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, okay, Well because of that though, after we kind

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<v Speaker 7>of had our I mean we like kind of made

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<v Speaker 7>out whatever, and then immediately Mark was like, you can't

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<v Speaker 7>tell your brother.

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<v Speaker 5>And that felt really gross to me, like really controlling,

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<v Speaker 5>Like that felt like a red flag.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I don't think he was like trying to kill

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<v Speaker 1>the romance or anything. I think he was just honestly

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<v Speaker 1>worried that he might be blowing up a good friendship

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<v Speaker 1>for this who wants to keep the good relations with everybody.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess, but that's not attractive to me, Like you're

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<v Speaker 5>making out with me and now you're you're acting scared.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't tell anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Should have waited like five minutes or something.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean we told him. That sounded pretty immature when

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<v Speaker 4>he retold that. I mean, he told us that you

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<v Speaker 4>guys got into an argument about it, and it sounded

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<v Speaker 4>like he kind of realized that too.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, it was a little too late because I decided

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<v Speaker 5>for sure I was going to tell my brother.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh what, so wait, when did you tell him that night?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god?

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<v Speaker 6>What was his respect? Would?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, my brother was cool with it, and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>that's not a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure seriously, mm hmmm.

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<v Speaker 4>Why was Mark so in his head about your brother

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<v Speaker 4>being so weird about it?

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<v Speaker 6>Then?

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<v Speaker 4>Like yeah, he was like for certain that his best

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<v Speaker 4>friend date most sister.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah weird. Well that's weird, that's strange.

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<v Speaker 4>So your brother was actually fine.

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<v Speaker 5>Exactly, He said, Mark's a good guy. If you want

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<v Speaker 5>to hang out with him, that's cool with me.

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't that a good thing for someone?

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<v Speaker 5>But the riskiness, the dangerous part of it was gone,

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<v Speaker 5>which like, okay, that's fine, not all my relationships need

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<v Speaker 5>to be that. But then it just started becoming weird

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<v Speaker 5>for me, like I'm going to be like making out

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<v Speaker 5>with my brother's best friend. This guy knows all my

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<v Speaker 5>brother's deep secrets, Like that's not something.

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<v Speaker 4>So it didn't freak your brother out, it freaked you

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<v Speaker 4>out when you started to think about it.

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<v Speaker 1>The risk and the danger was gone, and then so

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<v Speaker 1>that the romance left. But like, what if I told

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<v Speaker 1>you if you're into risk and danger, there's been somebody

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<v Speaker 1>secretly listening in on this conversation on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>I just don't really know what this is. What do

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<v Speaker 5>you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Mark has been quietly listening, wanting to jump in,

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<v Speaker 1>and you it's dangerous. He's a dangerous ball.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, either a bad boy.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait so Mark heard everything I just said.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, you can ask him.

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<v Speaker 3>Mark, you told your brother, like right off the bath,

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<v Speaker 3>that's what you did.

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<v Speaker 5>Of course, I'm able to make my own decisions, and

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<v Speaker 5>I decided to do that.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, that's the first thing you have to say about

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<v Speaker 6>all of this.

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<v Speaker 3>I just I mean, I don't know why you would

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<v Speaker 3>do that, Like that would be your first instinct when

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I worried about.

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<v Speaker 1>It, but whatever, I mean, he was cool with it. Mark.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I mean that's unexpected. And I was just trying

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<v Speaker 3>to be cautious about relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>See that's the problem right there. Mark, You're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be cautious and she's into danger. You got to be

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<v Speaker 1>dangerous if you want to win.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm still plenty dangerous.

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<v Speaker 1>Really.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, your your your family would hate it if we

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<v Speaker 3>hooked up. I don't think, like, have you told your

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<v Speaker 3>mom about it?

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<v Speaker 5>No, believe it or not. I didn't call my mom.

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<v Speaker 3>You're you're lucky you didn't tell your mom. She would

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<v Speaker 3>have been super angry and.

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<v Speaker 1>Dangerous. Don't tell the dog either going to the gauge

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<v Speaker 1>on this family are.

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<v Speaker 2>So wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like he's trying to make it sound dangerous.

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<v Speaker 1>If you think your parents would be a set, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I think.

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<v Speaker 6>They'd be fine with it too, which makes it feel

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<v Speaker 6>continuously more lame.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Mark, I think of a healthy relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we need to play up Mark's good parts. Right,

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<v Speaker 4>everyone says he's a great guy in your family. He

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<v Speaker 4>obviously likes you, and.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys know each other really well.

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<v Speaker 4>Like that can be a real foundation for something.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just saying. I feel like with Mark specifically, I'd

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<v Speaker 5>want it to feel more dangerous, and it doesn't. And

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<v Speaker 5>so that's just kind of where I'm at.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so maybe that was.

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<v Speaker 3>I do other dangerous things, you know, I gamble until

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<v Speaker 3>I have no money.

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<v Speaker 2>Should not do that? Mark give him a number?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So that's just irresponsible, that's not dangerous.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like I, I also have horrible credit.

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<v Speaker 4>Sometimes I don't wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what we would like to do, Lisa is

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<v Speaker 1>send you and Mark out on another date, and we

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<v Speaker 1>would pay for it. See that? Look at that A

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<v Speaker 1>man who won't even pay for his own.

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<v Speaker 2>Dates because he ran out of money gambling.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't that naughty?

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<v Speaker 5>What do you think, Lisa, Well, I hear that you

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<v Speaker 5>want to do that, and Mark probably wants to do that,

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<v Speaker 5>But I do not want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at that. We finally found someone that doesn't approve

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<v Speaker 1>of the relationship. Dating him would go against your own wishes.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't get any more naughty and risky than that,

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<v Speaker 1>I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, okay, yea, but listen, I do want to

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<v Speaker 6>say I'm okay with us still being friends, but like,

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<v Speaker 6>all of this is really awkward.

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<v Speaker 5>So I think maybe let's shift have some distance for

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<v Speaker 5>a bit and I'll see you when I see you.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, great you are Thanksgiving?

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, I definitely shouldn't have kissed you. Okay, maybe we

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<v Speaker 5>can know.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll laugh about this in the future.

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<v Speaker 4>Thanksgiving broking, Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys, ever heard the phrase trying to catch a

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<v Speaker 1>falling knife.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a good phrase. I already know what it means.

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<v Speaker 1>It's where things are spirally out of control and you're

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<v Speaker 1>in a desperate panic to just stop the damage continuing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we just witnessed with Mark, because he immediately

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<v Speaker 1>came on and thought, you know, what. I'm being too

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<v Speaker 1>safe for her. I need to come across as dangerous.

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<v Speaker 1>And it just got worse and worse and worse till

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<v Speaker 1>we found out he's a degenerate gambler with horrible credit.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I made it broke all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like his buddy's gonna lose respect for him too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, gave you the green light to date my sister

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<v Speaker 1>and then she rejected you.

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<v Speaker 2>What a loser.

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<v Speaker 1>On that.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's the same outcome.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Mark's a good guy. I'm changing my opinion,

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<v Speaker 1>and we need to.

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<v Speaker 2>Make a phone call for you. I know he already

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<v Speaker 2>got rejected.

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<v Speaker 1>We're done. If you ever need a second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>we won't judge you. You can email the show. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who wasn't calling you back.