1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,120 Speaker 1: Here's a time. Buckle up and hold on tight. We 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: got it for you. Here it is strawberry letter alright, 3 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: subjects from sugar daddy to sour daddy, uh or in 4 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 1: your case, J what E? Dear Stephen Shirley. I once 5 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 1: was in love with the man twenty years older than me. 6 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,639 Speaker 1: I was twenty years old when we met. It was 7 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 1: supposed to be a sugar daddy sugar baby relationship. Needless 8 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:36,839 Speaker 1: to say, the sex was awesome. Things got extremely difficult 9 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 1: when I found out he was a family friend. We 10 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 1: decided we would continue with our deeds and keep it 11 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: a secret. We ended up catching feelings and I was 12 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: head over heels for this man, and I thought he 13 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:49,599 Speaker 1: felt the same way about me. He was single at 14 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: the time, and so was I. But then I found 15 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 1: out he got married. I was devastated, but we continued 16 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: messing around anyway. He and I messed around during his 17 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: entire your marriage. Recently, I met a man that's emotionally 18 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 1: available to me, and now I'm in a great relationship. 19 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 1: I am no longer in love with my sugar daddy. 20 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: After dealing with him and his lives for six years, 21 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 1: I'm ready to move on. The problem is, my sugar 22 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 1: Daddy does not want to let me go. I have 23 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 1: asked him to leave me alone and just go be 24 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: with his wife, but he constantly calls me. I'm over it, 25 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: and I gave him the chance to walk away freely 26 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 1: despite how much he's hurt me. In order to get 27 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: him to leave me alone. Should I tell his wife? 28 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: How else will I get him to go away? Please help? Okay, No, 29 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 1: I don't think it's your place to tell his wife. 30 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 1: If anyone should tell him, it should be him. And 31 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: we know that he's not gonna tell his wife. But 32 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: you stay out of that situation. You're in a relationship now, 33 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: you've moved on. You do have some options here though. 34 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: You can change your phone number. That's pretty fairly easy. 35 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 1: You can change your number and don't give it out 36 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: to him ever again, so he can stop calling you, 37 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: or you can and you can just stop talking to 38 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 1: him altogether. If he does call, you don't answer his 39 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: phone calls, or if you pick up the phone, don't 40 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: talk to him, hang up in his face. If you 41 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 1: have moved on, then truly move on. You finally have 42 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: gotten away from this old guy and gotten into a 43 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 1: good relationship. Now let him go. You say you are 44 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 1: ready to move on. That's what you said in your letter. 45 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: So go on with your new life with this new guy. 46 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: Just stop talking to this guy. Stop answering his phone calls. 47 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: It's easy if it's true that you're not in love 48 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: with him anymore. Uh, don't jeopardize what you have with 49 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: your new man. Please don't do that. You're all grown 50 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 1: up now, and what you don't want to do is 51 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: for your new man to, you know, start thinking something 52 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: is going on in this old relationship all of that. 53 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: So you don't want that. Move on. Cut this man 54 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: off a clean break. Go Jay, don't be flowing around 55 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:05,800 Speaker 1: with his thingam just a message on your phone. I 56 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: know you see me calling you now. I don't call 57 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 1: your mama house cause this is the house. I don't 58 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 1: call your brother house. And I'm gonna come by your 59 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 1: job tomorrow. Is there's nothing to play with, okay. I 60 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:18,079 Speaker 1: got I got money involved in this thing right here. 61 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 1: I don't pay your life bill, I don't help you 62 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 1: with your car note. I'm giving your kids money. This 63 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: is how you're gonna do me. You're gonna do me 64 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 1: like that. Hey and me again, look at the ing 65 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: you know that they don't get ugly. If you wanted 66 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: to get ugly, can get ugly. Okay, if you wanted 67 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: to get ugly, can get ugly. I know you see 68 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: me calling you. You don't act like you don't see 69 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: me calling you. I don't call you, boy, I don't 70 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: call you ahead of time. I call your job and 71 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: call your mama. Huseeah, guess who. I ain't got a 72 00:03:55,800 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 1: number of time old because I'm old. I didn't want 73 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 1: to do today. I'm gonna get my medication. I'm gonna 74 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: stop by your house. Okay, I'm stopping by. I'm stopping back. 75 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 1: Look at your wonder. I'm sitting there. Look at you 76 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: wod look at you win. Well you're gonna do like that? 77 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 1: That ain't gonna do me, y'all. I don't put time 78 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: and like I was saying, if I got kid off, 79 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: I put time a time to the religion right here, 80 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:36,359 Speaker 1: and you ain't gonna do it like that. Okay. Running 81 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 1: from looking about to go to bed, I'm gonna down 82 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 1: the thing in the morning. I'm gonna call you. Okay, morning, 83 00:04:47,480 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 1: how you doing time? One more? One more Jack? I 84 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: just want to see you think is come my nephew 85 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 1: from sugar Daddy. Is scar Daddy? What you got this 86 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: twenty year old girl? Alright, let's get it out there. 87 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 1: Here's a problem. After reading the whole thing twice, you 88 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 1: are the most selfish person I think that. No, no, no, 89 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: no no, you are so selfish. This man gave you 90 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 1: six good years, six plus good years of sugar daddy life, 91 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 1: and now you're trying to lead you possibility. You don't 92 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: know how sugar daddy works, baby girl. You don't know 93 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:50,039 Speaker 1: how this go. You can't leave you once you eat you. 94 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: You know what sugar daddies do. Sugar daddy, take care 95 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 1: of car, no, take care of bills, get you some clothes, 96 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 1: got you some food, day care rent. He'd been sugar 97 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: daddy and his butt off, and then you got to 98 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 1: just call you didn't feel in love. Now you're ready 99 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:10,280 Speaker 1: to go. That ain't how this go like that. It's 100 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:13,599 Speaker 1: sugar babies like you that gives sugar babies a bad man. 101 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: You're understand me. You are the worst sugar baby possible 102 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 1: because you don't understand the respect level that you're supposed 103 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: to have. All right, and the most important thing that 104 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 1: you never do, you don't tell this man white nothing. 105 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: You know, this is between you and him. You wasn't 106 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 1: telling her nothing when it was going well, were you? 107 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 1: Because it was all fun in the sun, wasn't it. Huh. 108 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 1: It's people like you that really bothered me. You've bothered me. 109 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:50,480 Speaker 1: You know why, because you're take it. You're taken from 110 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:55,280 Speaker 1: a respectable sugar dad, a respectable one, okay, who has 111 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: been in the game for quite some time, it was 112 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 1: and use people like you that can mess up a 113 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: happy home. He's in his feelings because I've been there, 114 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: and I know the love and the understanding that Amerking 115 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: have sugar babies, and I know it. You don't know 116 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 1: how hard it is to love two people. You don't 117 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: know what it is my wife. You have broken the 118 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: sugar Daddy coat. You broke the sugar Daddy coat. You 119 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: don't I know, buddy. We're gonna come back with part 120 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: two of this crazy letter. If you have a crazy relationship, 121 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:43,120 Speaker 1: send us your letter at Steve Harvey dot com. We 122 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 1: will be back at twenty three afterward Part two. Crazy. 123 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 124 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: We're back to the Strawberry letter from Sugar Daddy to 125 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 1: sour Daddy and listen. If you have any relationship issues, 126 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 1: please please please email us at Steve Harvey dot com 127 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 1: and com and submit your letters. Okay, we're here for you. 128 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: We want to give you advice, we want to help you. 129 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 1: This letter from sugar Daddy to sour Daddy is from 130 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: a woman that was in love with a man who 131 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 1: was twenty years older than her. She was twenty years 132 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 1: old when they met, he was forty. Obviously, she wanted 133 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 1: a sugar daddy sugar baby relationship. That's where they were 134 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 1: supposed to have. She says the sex was awesome. It 135 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 1: got extremely difficult when she found out he was a 136 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:32,079 Speaker 1: family friend, but they decided to continue anyway, and um 137 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 1: lo and behold, she caught feelings for him. She was 138 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 1: just really into this guy. She was sprung. Uh he 139 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:40,559 Speaker 1: he thought, um she thought that he felt the same way. 140 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:43,319 Speaker 1: But then she later found out that he got married 141 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: on her. She was devastated, but they continued messing around. Uh, 142 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: they messed around his entire marriage. Recently, she met a 143 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:54,719 Speaker 1: man that's emotionally available to her and she's filling him 144 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:58,079 Speaker 1: a whole lot there in a relationship now. But old 145 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 1: guy won't let her go. He won't let her go. 146 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: He keeps calling her. Yeah, he won't, he won't stop. 147 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 1: And she is asking should she tell his wife because 148 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,080 Speaker 1: she wants him to stop. She's way over him, all right, 149 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: so um, junior, time for you, young guy. Let's step 150 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: up to the play. I don't think we are dressing 151 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 1: this with the most uh this best possible solution. And 152 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna help in that department either, but I 153 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: will say this. I'm just gonna let you know. There 154 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: is nothing more dangerous than a sugar daddy undefeating. This 155 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:43,080 Speaker 1: boy got some stamina. He's not gonna get died. Journey, 156 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:50,079 Speaker 1: no no hot no diabetes, no heart failure, no heart disease, 157 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 1: his blood levels is right. Is in trouble? Brother h 158 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: fit and he right around all day a cell phone, 159 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 1: He knowledgeable, savvy in some trouble. I mean social media's 160 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 1: talking hood as well, not a phone call. But every 161 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 1: time she posts, he post, right, she is in some trouble. 162 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 1: She can't be on the ground looking good. Girl called 163 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 1: me asking should she tell his wife what she needs 164 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 1: to do if she really wants to get out of 165 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 1: and I'm sorry to do way that is operate. If 166 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 1: you won't out the contract, you gotta put somebody else 167 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,439 Speaker 1: in your place. I suggest you find your best looking 168 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 1: girlfriend and all the way. Alright, alright, alright, you expect 169 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 1: Oh that'll run him off. That's a good one. That's 170 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 1: another option. Yeah, that's good. Your number and all of 171 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:02,200 Speaker 1: that and all her Yeah, yeah, say I'm pregnant. Yeah, 172 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:08,320 Speaker 1: I've been taking care of everything else. She can't run 173 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:14,839 Speaker 1: the sugar daddy away. All right, Jay, give me, give 174 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: me a couple more messages. I have a list of 175 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 1: all the things that have been voting you, okay, Serials 176 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 1: about hoping bean bo, light bulb, about underwear, about sheets. 177 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:35,079 Speaker 1: I didn't pay the cable bill. I didn't pay the 178 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 1: light bill. These are the things i'dn't done it for you. 179 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 1: And then how you're gonna treat me. I'm sorry by yesterday. 180 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 1: You know how my medication give me a bolar do 181 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:55,560 Speaker 1: mean things I said? So, please send my apologies. I 182 00:11:55,600 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 1: wrote your song. I love you so much. Would you 183 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 1: please come back to me. I love you so much, girl, 184 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 1: my bending, I love you so much. I want you 185 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:26,679 Speaker 1: back in my life. I love you so much. Please 186 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:33,200 Speaker 1: don't tell my wife. I damn If you have relationship issues, 187 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:38,839 Speaker 1: hit us out. Steve Harvey love so much. We gotta go, Jake, 188 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 1: Email us or instagram your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letterard 189 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 1: my girl, Shirlie. 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