WEBVTT - | Ep 80 | Move B, Get Out The Way! 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:04.360 Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:15.680 Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode 0:00:15.680 --> 0:00:19.279 of Reasonably Shade. D I am Gazelle Bryant. Who's up? 0:00:19.320 --> 0:00:21.799 What's up? In people? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you 0:00:21.880 --> 0:00:26.640 for being here with us. Yes again, Robin, we're still 0:00:26.640 --> 0:00:29.480 in February. Yes, so this is still a Black history 0:00:29.520 --> 0:00:32.120 mod We're still important. We don't we don't have that 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:35.600 many that many days last? Do we have anything? Um? Yes? 0:00:35.960 --> 0:00:39.559 I want to share a quote and this is from 0:00:39.600 --> 0:00:42.959 Shirley Chisholm. If they don't give you, I must try 0:00:42.960 --> 0:00:45.840 to say that my Shirley Chisolm voice. If they don't 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:49.920 give you a seat at the table, bring a folding chair. 0:00:50.120 --> 0:00:56.200 Okay you like that? Okay, all right, you got one. Um. 0:00:56.240 --> 0:00:59.160 I think this is this speaks to you know, just 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:03.680 the mess in Florida. Black history isn't a separate history. 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:06.040 This is all of our history. This is American history, 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:08.200 and we need to understand that it is such an 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:10.720 impact on kids and their values and how they view 0:01:11.200 --> 0:01:16.520 black people. And that is Karen Parsons. Yes, Karen Parsons. Okay, 0:01:16.640 --> 0:01:22.480 and you know one of our favorite forever forever president. Yeah. Um, 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:24.880 change will not come if we wait for some other 0:01:24.959 --> 0:01:28.320 person or some other time. We are the ones we've 0:01:28.319 --> 0:01:32.760 been waiting for. We are the change we seek. Yes, 0:01:32.840 --> 0:01:37.080 Barack Obama, thank you. Yes. Yes. It's like, well, if 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:40.679 you want change, then do it, then get it on yourself. Yes. 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:44.520 I love that. Change is not easy. Change is not easy. Yeah, 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:46.960 it's not you know, it's fine. I just thought about that. 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:51.280 I have a friend who is really passionate about making 0:01:51.360 --> 0:01:55.000 change in one of our major cities school system and 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:57.320 legislation and blah blah blah blah blah, and she's just 0:01:57.360 --> 0:01:59.880 so frustrated with like the roadblocks and the red tape. 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:03.120 Oh yeah, like all the stuff that she's she's meeting, 0:02:03.160 --> 0:02:06.000 and I'm like, oh, I'm like, I know, it's like hard, 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:08.120 it's taking up your time and you're just meeting people 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:10.600 who are like you meet people that are like, yeah, 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:12.799 let's do it, that's great, that's great, and then like 0:02:13.160 --> 0:02:17.040 they don't do anything or whatever. So it is hard. 0:02:17.080 --> 0:02:21.040 It's like, how do you make change when there's so 0:02:21.120 --> 0:02:23.919 much resistance to it or there's so many people that 0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:27.400 you know, so you can't do it, or like that. 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:30.200 It's like baby steps. Yeah, yeah, you gotta try to 0:02:30.320 --> 0:02:33.640 chip away a little bit at a time. Um and 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:37.200 our favor, our favorite. Um, I'm going to reclaim my time, 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:41.880 umxine vaccine waters. Yes, she is all about the chip 0:02:41.880 --> 0:02:44.560 away and the chip away, um, but we have to 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:52.120 talk about our reasonably shady moment of the week. Yes, 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:57.120 A let's see, Um, it's been a little quiet around 0:02:57.120 --> 0:03:00.480 here for me, I do. I was a little frustrated 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:02.639 the other morning. So when one is in the shower, 0:03:02.680 --> 0:03:05.760 like he's usually in the shower when I'm like, you know, 0:03:05.960 --> 0:03:08.000 maybe a little bit before I'm about to wake up, 0:03:09.440 --> 0:03:16.360 and he'll yell from the shower, rob, he's in the shower. 0:03:16.360 --> 0:03:18.760 And then this is a whole frustrating part. He'll be 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:21.120 in the shower. I could be in the kitchen, it 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:24.760 don't matter where I am. The bedroom, the kitchen, you know, wherever, 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:27.840 the basement, and he knows he's in the shower, right, 0:03:28.080 --> 0:03:31.840 but he wants to talk to me lovely, so it'll 0:03:31.840 --> 0:03:40.440 be rap robbing rab rabbing, and I'm like, there's no choice. 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:44.160 I have no choice but to walk stop what I'm doing, 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:49.200 walk up the steps, go in the bathroom and be like, yes, 0:03:49.480 --> 0:03:51.680 because I can't yell back, you know what. I can't 0:03:51.720 --> 0:03:55.760 be like yeah, because he can't hear me. He's in 0:03:55.800 --> 0:03:58.400 the shower, he can't hear me. He knows that, like 0:03:59.000 --> 0:04:02.480 he's forcing me to come upstairs regardless. So so that's 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:05.440 something that he does frequently. It's quite annoying. But he 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:08.920 has a really strong voice that carries yes, and I 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:12.760 can't like, I can't. I can't come back at him 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:15.000 and yell from the from the kitchen. He's not going 0:04:15.040 --> 0:04:17.600 to hear me. My voice doesn't care like that. So anyway, 0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:21.520 the other day, I'm in the bed, So he typically 0:04:21.839 --> 0:04:27.480 would be like Rob Robing, what time is it? What? 0:04:27.480 --> 0:04:30.479 What time is it? So we're gonna put a clock 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:33.520 in the bathroom. So that's what I did. Oh okay, lovely, 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:36.360 So I put a clock in the bathroom. Okay, okay, 0:04:36.400 --> 0:04:38.920 because I was sick of him asking me what time 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:43.760 it was? Love that. So the other day, Rob, what 0:04:43.880 --> 0:04:47.200 time is it? And I just ignored him. I'm like, 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:49.520 I'm not I'm not doing this. But did you tell 0:04:49.600 --> 0:04:52.520 him that there's a clock here? It is? Okay, Yes, yes, 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:54.599 I told him there's a clock. It's right there. You 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:57.719 can see it. Right from the shower. I'm not doing 0:04:57.760 --> 0:05:01.320 this with you. I'm not you're not playing this game. 0:05:01.760 --> 0:05:05.640 I'm not rap. What time is it? I said, one 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:09.080 look at the wall. It's like, oh my bad, bad, 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:13.520 I'm just like I forgot, I forgot. How do you 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:16.640 forget that? I put a damn clock, like, leave me alone. 0:05:16.800 --> 0:05:18.800 He just wants you to he wants you to see 0:05:18.839 --> 0:05:21.680 him naked in the show. I think that's his sexy time. 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:27.120 Oh my gosh. So yeah, shady moment he is, Oh 0:05:27.160 --> 0:05:31.159 my god, just stops. That's that. That's a mess. Um. 0:05:31.279 --> 0:05:34.440 See you don't have to deal with that. No, no, 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:39.120 and no moving on. So my shady moment. I was 0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:42.599 another gym situation. I was walking to the gym and 0:05:43.279 --> 0:05:44.720 I was walking fast because I was trying to get 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:46.760 to my class because I was running late. And this 0:05:46.839 --> 0:05:48.920 lady he she had her head down. I think she 0:05:48.960 --> 0:05:50.080 was I don't know what she was doing, but she 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:51.760 was walking to She was walking kind of slow. She 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:54.839 shut her head down and as soon as we like 0:05:54.920 --> 0:06:01.120 cross paths, she lifted her head and she sneezed on me. Disgusting. 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:06.040 I said, oh my god. And so she was like, 0:06:06.520 --> 0:06:09.839 I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. Oh my gosh. I 0:06:09.839 --> 0:06:12.200 felt like saying, bit you sneezed on me, like you 0:06:12.440 --> 0:06:15.279 sneezed on me. Did she not know you were there? 0:06:15.320 --> 0:06:17.600 Because you said her? Her head was down, she didn't 0:06:17.600 --> 0:06:20.560 see me and I was walking fast, but she sneezed. 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:23.600 I have never been sneezed doing in my life. I 0:06:23.640 --> 0:06:25.800 didn't in my mind. I told myself I didn't feel it, 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:28.640 but I might have, but it was I wanted to 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:30.080 go home and take a shower. I just wanted my 0:06:30.120 --> 0:06:33.560 day to be over. You sneeze on me, lady. I'm 0:06:33.600 --> 0:06:38.080 on to you. But ever if I ever see her again, Lady, 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:39.839 if I ever see you again, I'm coming for you. 0:06:40.120 --> 0:06:42.760 I don't even know if that means listen one time one. 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:45.160 You know, a year after year with Potomac, we get 0:06:45.200 --> 0:06:48.600 sometimes we get different producers and um in this one 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:51.280 producer she reminds me, I can't remember her name that 0:06:51.600 --> 0:06:54.520 I told her she I don't know something's going on 0:06:54.600 --> 0:06:56.760 with the scene and I was upset, and I was like, 0:06:58.200 --> 0:07:00.000 I said something to it, but I was like, I'm 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:03.240 on for you, and she like later she was like, 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:09.760 so should I warn my family? Should I? UM get 0:07:09.800 --> 0:07:13.160 security from my kids. Like. She just was like, I'm 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:15.360 merely trying to figure out what that means. Because you 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:20.400 meant it, you meant you coming for me. What does that? 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:22.640 She's like, I just want to know. Did I start 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:25.200 warning everyone? I was like, I've calmed down. Oh my god, 0:07:25.200 --> 0:07:28.400 I won't be coming for you anymore. He larious. Okay, 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:30.880 So Robin, have you been saving your your quarters and 0:07:30.920 --> 0:07:35.800 your dimes and your nickels for the tickets? Okay? Because 0:07:35.880 --> 0:07:39.520 I register? Yes? Okay, me too. All right, so this 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:42.120 is hopefully by the time this heirs, we have some 0:07:42.200 --> 0:07:44.480 better I have some better news. Okay. I have yet 0:07:44.520 --> 0:07:47.800 to receive any type of email text message from ticket 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:50.600 masks me. You need to have I and I registered. 0:07:50.880 --> 0:07:53.400 I did I. You know, sometimes when I'm doing going 0:07:53.440 --> 0:07:56.160 fast on the on these emails and I don't check 0:07:56.200 --> 0:07:57.920 all the boxes or whatever, I was like, No, I'm 0:07:57.920 --> 0:08:00.880 gonna take my time. I'm gonna check everybody write my 0:08:00.960 --> 0:08:03.520 name correctly. I'm gonna do everything I'm supposed to do. 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:06.280 I want to put smiley faces on the end to 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:09.080 hopefully try to get You're supposed to get a code, right, 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:11.720 I got no code, but some people have gotten codes. 0:08:11.800 --> 0:08:15.000 I know some people have gotten tickets. Yeah, what does 0:08:15.040 --> 0:08:18.560 this mean? So apparently in in my one of my 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:21.600 friend group chats, if you have a city card and 0:08:22.040 --> 0:08:24.520 this is such no great marketing, but yeah, I don't 0:08:24.560 --> 0:08:27.640 have no city card. Well you might want to get one, 0:08:28.800 --> 0:08:31.800 just saying, because that's how you get a ticket. Ye, 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:36.120 just saying. And what do Courtney say? She Courtney got 0:08:36.160 --> 0:08:40.080 two hundred level tickets for three seventy five. So there's 0:08:40.120 --> 0:08:43.040 two hundred level. That's not the floor, it's not nosebleed, 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:46.440 so there's like so nosably just four hundred level, right, Okay, 0:08:46.559 --> 0:08:50.200 so two hundred levels. I mean you're in there. I'm 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:54.400 in there. I'm in there. Where do you want your 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:59.360 seats to be? I'm closed? So what are you paying? 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:02.440 How much? I'm just I'm I'm much gonna pay. I'm balancing. 0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:04.920 I'm I've been saving my coins. Five thousand dollars you're 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:09.160 paying Damn, I'm not paying five thousand hours. I'm because 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:13.800 I can't buy one ticket. I'm hoping, right exactly, I'm hoping. 0:09:15.320 --> 0:09:17.040 I'm okay with the fact that I might not be 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:20.160 in the building. What what do you mean? And I'm 0:09:20.160 --> 0:09:21.800 hoping that they're going to do one of those like 0:09:22.000 --> 0:09:24.760 you know, film it things, like you know, she released 0:09:24.760 --> 0:09:29.280 that homecoming, the Coachella home So you gave up everything, 0:09:29.720 --> 0:09:31.400 you gave up. Well, I mean, if I get to 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:33.400 if we'll see like if I don't get it, I 0:09:33.400 --> 0:09:37.360 don't get it. But I also think, um, once all 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:39.280 these tickets are sold or whatever, like we get closer 0:09:39.320 --> 0:09:41.959 to the date, there's going to be more tickets available. Yeah. 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:44.880 I think there's gonna be a release of tickets right, 0:09:44.960 --> 0:09:47.200 and I'm just gonna snatch those up. I gotta be 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:50.920 on on top of It's amazing, Like we're talking about 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:55.440 football stadiums. We're not talking about basketball arena like this is. 0:09:55.480 --> 0:10:01.560 We're talking about Beyonce. Insane. Yes, that's insane. Well, I 0:10:01.640 --> 0:10:05.199 told you when I saw her in Paris, it was like, yeah, 0:10:05.240 --> 0:10:06.760 it was a stadium. Yeah, I've seen it in the 0:10:06.800 --> 0:10:09.160 football stadium too. But she when she came last time 0:10:09.200 --> 0:10:11.840 was the same I saw at the Raven Stadium in Baltimore. 0:10:12.040 --> 0:10:14.280 To me, it was a stadium. Yeah, and so that's 0:10:14.280 --> 0:10:17.240 that's how she do. But but I don't remember having 0:10:17.280 --> 0:10:19.720 to do all of this to get a Beyonce ticket, 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:21.960 get a football Stadium, That's what I'm saying. I'm like, 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:23.960 I think the Taylor Swift people messed it up, so 0:10:24.040 --> 0:10:26.559 now we got to do different things. But people remember 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:28.600 how people were talking to Oh my god, it's Beyonce 0:10:28.720 --> 0:10:32.079 gonna perform at the Grammys. Yell, no, that's free. No, 0:10:32.520 --> 0:10:35.120 she ain't doing that. If I were her, I wouldn't 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:37.440 do that. And then you know, everyone wants her to 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:41.440 release the visuals renaissance now, and I feel like, Beyonce, 0:10:41.600 --> 0:10:43.880 know what she does might not happen. She's gonna make 0:10:43.880 --> 0:10:48.080 that paper, y'all? Okay, Um, now speaking of not getting 0:10:48.120 --> 0:10:51.439 any paper. So from what I understand, I just found 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:56.000 this out that, um, they honored all of the quarterbacks 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:59.760 from the NFL. Who is the NFL? The NFL for 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:02.720 kiss dreama. Oh, it's all the black quarterbacks, not all 0:11:02.760 --> 0:11:05.600 the quarterbacks, because that'd be a lot. Okay, they honored 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:07.800 all the black quarterbacks and they left off Cam Newton. 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:13.520 Can that's what you get? Okay? That's why was that? A? 0:11:13.760 --> 0:11:17.760 Because no, it wasn't snap food a snap food. Really 0:11:17.800 --> 0:11:21.200 they forgot Cam Newton? But why so? Why? So? Tell 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:24.400 me why? Because he wants all of his women to 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:27.920 be subservient. This is what I think the NFL does 0:11:27.960 --> 0:11:30.240 not care about that. I know they don't care, but 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:32.920 just now does. Yes, he does not want them to 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:36.280 win on their own. He wants them to food. Yes, 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:39.560 so he got what he deserved. Well, I mean yes, 0:11:40.240 --> 0:11:42.240 I mean he's black and he's a quarterback. Like that's 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:45.040 the only criteria because there's only what like five? This 0:11:45.280 --> 0:11:48.839 at least what ten? No more than ta um? I 0:11:48.880 --> 0:11:53.200 mean over the years, there's there's at least ten for sure? Yes, yeah. 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:55.880 What what is Russell? What is Sierra's usband? Is he 0:11:55.920 --> 0:12:01.079 a quarterback? Okay? So this Russell? This Cam? Yeah, there's 0:12:01.640 --> 0:12:04.520 Lamar Jackson. Wait a minute, black way backs in the 0:12:04.559 --> 0:12:07.600 Super Bowl? My home? Is he black? He's black? Okay? 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:10.680 He is? He is biracial? Does he say he's black? 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:13.360 And I'm not trying to be shady, I mean, what 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:15.040 do you want want him to walk around and be like, 0:12:15.080 --> 0:12:19.439 I'm black? Does he viewed himself? I'm black, y'all? You 0:12:19.480 --> 0:12:23.559 know that's how he talks. I'm black, y'all, view himself 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:26.320 as a black man? Knows that, Yes, I believe that 0:12:26.320 --> 0:12:28.360 he knows that he is a black man. Okay, all right, 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:30.320 but I don't know. I mean, i can't speak for him. 0:12:30.360 --> 0:12:33.319 I don't know. I've never seen that even be a topic. 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:38.040 But when people are, you know, even with the Super Bowl, 0:12:38.640 --> 0:12:41.719 it's the headline is this is amazing. There are two 0:12:41.800 --> 0:12:47.760 black quarterbacks in the super Bowl. So yes, my homes. Yes, Yes, 0:12:48.040 --> 0:12:50.040 he has not come out and be like, no, no, 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:53.559 y'all got that wrong. I'm not black, y'all. So I 0:12:53.640 --> 0:12:55.440 was like, no, I'm not black. I'm not black. That's 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:59.560 how he talks. Yes, talks like that. I've never heard him. Yes, 0:12:59.600 --> 0:13:02.679 he talks like that. Okay, Okay, I've seen his wife 0:13:02.720 --> 0:13:07.240 and she's not black at all, not by any stretch. Okay, 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:10.920 uh speaking of, not speaking of but like we we 0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:13.160 haven't discussed this, Robin. I think it's just like, because 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:17.000 so much has happened, it's just kind of like we failed, 0:13:17.160 --> 0:13:20.960 or Gazelle failed to discuss how beautiful your wedding was, 0:13:22.120 --> 0:13:27.880 like totally, utterly, spectacularly beautiful. Thank you you looked amazing 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:30.520 the surround because y'all, remember I wasn't because I wasn't 0:13:30.520 --> 0:13:33.160 invited on TV. I had to watch it with the 0:13:33.200 --> 0:13:35.960 rest of the millions of people. Ain't that rude whatever. 0:13:36.440 --> 0:13:42.080 So the mirrored I'll bet you had was fantastic. Um. 0:13:42.120 --> 0:13:44.920 All the flowers whoever did your flowers did a great jobs. That. 0:13:45.520 --> 0:13:48.880 The company is Bethel Creations. So my friend Natalie, who 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:53.120 is a wedding planner, Um, I enlisted her to you know, 0:13:53.400 --> 0:13:56.560 pull off a beautiful ceremony and it didn't end. So 0:13:56.679 --> 0:13:58.920 she pulled in all her you know, her trusted vendors 0:13:58.960 --> 0:14:01.400 who were able to you know, come in and do it. 0:14:01.600 --> 0:14:05.280 And um. And just for the record, I you know, 0:14:05.720 --> 0:14:08.120 I don't ask for anything for free. So I paid 0:14:08.160 --> 0:14:09.720 for everything, you know what I mean, Like, I don't 0:14:09.760 --> 0:14:12.320 you know you've heard of people in the past trying 0:14:12.360 --> 0:14:15.640 to get all of their wedding stuff free. Like no, 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:18.200 like this was. I don't like to do that at all. 0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:20.120 I don't want free stuff, Like I want to pay 0:14:20.120 --> 0:14:22.920 people for their services. I want to pay them what 0:14:22.960 --> 0:14:25.440 they what they you know, deserve all of that type 0:14:25.440 --> 0:14:28.120 of stuff. So anyway, so these were like her trusted mendor. Okay, 0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:30.120 but I do sometimes like free stuff. Yeah, I'm just 0:14:30.160 --> 0:14:33.160 saying I don't want you to think that, you know. Anyway, 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:36.520 moving on, you know, so my my thing on free stuff, 0:14:37.000 --> 0:14:40.480 it's never free. It's never it's just that it's never free. 0:14:40.640 --> 0:14:42.320 And I'm joking about the free stuff, like I pay 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:45.680 for my stuff because when it is free, then they 0:14:45.720 --> 0:14:47.680 want all of these things attached to it. You gotta 0:14:47.720 --> 0:14:51.080 post eighteen twelve times, you gotta stand on your head, 0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:54.400 you gotta do all this nonsense because it's quote free, 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:57.240 it's not. But then it's not free, right exactly. Yeah, 0:14:57.320 --> 0:15:00.040 And it's like and I'm fine, like I don't I 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:01.600 don't if I pay for it, I'll post like I 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:03.960 don't know. If I want to post something I'm and 0:15:04.000 --> 0:15:07.280 it's you know, and I like it and whatever, I'll 0:15:07.320 --> 0:15:09.840 tag you. It's fine, Like I'm not really like I 0:15:09.880 --> 0:15:12.280 don't know. I just don't want to feel obligated to 0:15:12.280 --> 0:15:16.080 to carry out certain things because you know, something was free, 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:19.160 you know, so so just I just you know. Anyway, 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:22.400 So Natalie, my good friend went to college with her. 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:27.320 You know, um, she's amazing Natalie Melton event design group 0:15:27.400 --> 0:15:30.240 she's based in. Was she at the wedding? Yeah, she 0:15:30.360 --> 0:15:33.800 was world Yeah, because that wasn't there just every she 0:15:33.840 --> 0:15:35.880 was working, so she was there. She was in a 0:15:35.920 --> 0:15:38.720 work mode, so it was okay because she was in 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:42.680 a work mode. Yes, I could have worked it. I 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:44.960 could have held something I don't know, a plant or 0:15:45.200 --> 0:15:48.440 really rose, I don't know. Anyway, moving on, it's not 0:15:48.520 --> 0:15:51.640 about me, so it's not about you. So Natalie event 0:15:51.680 --> 0:15:53.960 design groups like based in you know, the Washington d 0:15:54.040 --> 0:15:56.600 C Areas, If anyone needs an amazing wedding plan or 0:15:56.640 --> 0:16:01.000 please hit her up, because she did in amazing job. 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:04.000 It was. It was nice because it was like, you know, 0:16:04.240 --> 0:16:08.560 clearly very intimate, but it was like more than what 0:16:08.600 --> 0:16:13.360 I imagined. Because when I tell you that wedding in 0:16:13.440 --> 0:16:16.520 Jamaica was going to be some rinky dink mess, that's 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:21.720 why we like they literally when they sent me like okay, 0:16:21.760 --> 0:16:25.280 these are your floral options, and I'm like, what do 0:16:25.360 --> 0:16:27.400 you mean? Like I said, I don't know, this is 0:16:27.440 --> 0:16:30.400 not this does not feel like that what that Jamaica 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:35.840 situation was going to be booty. Yeah, okay, well I'm 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:37.360 glad that that did. I'm glad it happened the way 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:39.120 that it happened. Yeah, And so for me, I was like, 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:40.760 you know what, it happened the way it was supposed 0:16:40.760 --> 0:16:42.840 to happen, like yeah, and it was. It was just 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:53.080 it was really nice, very nice. Thank you. I've been 0:16:53.160 --> 0:16:55.840 meaning to tell you, guys, or tell you. I think 0:16:55.840 --> 0:16:58.640 I did tell you about this show that I watched 0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:04.719 Culture Traders. Yeah, I watched the first episode, so I'm done. Okay, okay, 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:06.520 is it as good like I've seen people say it 0:17:06.560 --> 0:17:08.480 was really good? So so I would say the Last 0:17:08.560 --> 0:17:11.400 Traders is on Peacock, y'all is on Peacock. So it's 0:17:11.400 --> 0:17:14.760 a reality show and there's some Bravo lebs on there. 0:17:14.840 --> 0:17:17.640 So you'll see Kate from below Deck, Um, Kyle from 0:17:17.640 --> 0:17:21.520 Summer House, Resida, and I can spoiler alert Residue booted 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:28.560 the first um, there's a Bachelor survivor people, and then 0:17:28.560 --> 0:17:31.640 there's some regular average I mean average, but regular everyday people, 0:17:31.680 --> 0:17:34.399 everyday folks, right, and it's so it's a great mix. 0:17:35.000 --> 0:17:41.080 And when I tell you, by by episode four maybe five, 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:45.320 everyone is just so paranoid because everyone's lying to everyone 0:17:45.359 --> 0:17:49.199 and everyone's jocking. So the premises there's Traders that no 0:17:49.240 --> 0:17:52.159 one knows our Traders, and then everybody else is a 0:17:52.200 --> 0:17:58.920 faithful deep in the Scottish Highlands. There's a castle where 0:17:58.920 --> 0:18:03.439 the faithful reside their goal when a quarter of a 0:18:03.520 --> 0:18:12.520 million dollars but hitting amongst them are three traders. Exciting, 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:15.679 isn't it? The traitors amongst you? You think, do you 0:18:15.720 --> 0:18:21.720 know who they are? So just no one? And you 0:18:21.760 --> 0:18:25.359 thought the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills is bad. So 0:18:25.400 --> 0:18:27.159 they're all in the house together. They're all in the 0:18:27.200 --> 0:18:29.760 house together, and every night there's a banishment, and you 0:18:29.800 --> 0:18:32.280 want to banish the traders because at the end, whatever 0:18:32.359 --> 0:18:35.080 money is left, if there's a trader there, they get 0:18:35.119 --> 0:18:37.680 all the money. Regardless of how many faithfuls are left, 0:18:38.040 --> 0:18:41.359 they get all the money. So um, and there there 0:18:41.400 --> 0:18:45.760 are in the prize. They say it's two dollars yes, correct. Okay, 0:18:45.800 --> 0:18:50.399 So you're saying, if there are three people left and 0:18:50.480 --> 0:18:52.879 one of them as a trader, the trader gets two 0:18:53.200 --> 0:18:55.560 d and fifty and the other two gets zero zero. 0:18:56.600 --> 0:18:59.840 If there are three people left, then and if they're 0:18:59.840 --> 0:19:02.399 all faithful, and they're all faithful, and they split it 0:19:02.480 --> 0:19:05.560 and split the way, yes, like every day they eliminate somebody, right, 0:19:05.600 --> 0:19:08.360 every day they banished somebody that the whole group talks 0:19:08.640 --> 0:19:10.680 that around table and they talk about in the group 0:19:10.760 --> 0:19:14.080 decides who to banish, and that person. Once they're banish, 0:19:14.119 --> 0:19:15.680 they have to say if they're a trader or faithful, 0:19:15.720 --> 0:19:17.359 so you know, if you're a faithful you want to 0:19:17.400 --> 0:19:21.399 banish a trader, but you know, everybody's so paranoid. Um, 0:19:21.520 --> 0:19:24.280 and then the traders get together at night and they 0:19:24.359 --> 0:19:27.879 murder somebody in the middle of the night, okay, murders 0:19:27.880 --> 0:19:31.760 and quotes like you nobody dying here. So but it 0:19:31.920 --> 0:19:36.480 is so freaking good, really, yes, just seeing how people 0:19:36.520 --> 0:19:39.719 go about like they're so paranoid, but like people are 0:19:39.760 --> 0:19:43.280 being manipulated or people are people know how to play 0:19:43.320 --> 0:19:45.080 the game and people don't, and then people get caught 0:19:45.160 --> 0:19:47.440 up in their feelings and people like you lied to me, 0:19:47.840 --> 0:19:50.240 who told me you were faithful and you're a trader? 0:19:50.600 --> 0:19:54.600 Like it's so really it's I'm like, yeah, hell yeah, 0:19:54.640 --> 0:19:56.840 they lying. They try to win the money like this 0:19:56.880 --> 0:19:58.840 is this is this is a game people. So I 0:19:58.840 --> 0:20:01.720 think it's interesting that they tell you who the traders 0:20:01.720 --> 0:20:05.280 are because I was thinking at first, like we the 0:20:05.720 --> 0:20:07.640 viewers were going to have to try to figure out 0:20:08.320 --> 0:20:10.879 who was who as well. But yeah, I guess not, 0:20:11.000 --> 0:20:12.280 so all right, I need to pick it up and 0:20:12.640 --> 0:20:15.479 keep watching. So you were you were glued. I was glued. 0:20:15.960 --> 0:20:18.200 I even as I'm watching the first episode I called 0:20:18.240 --> 0:20:21.119 my manager and I was like, um, I want to 0:20:21.119 --> 0:20:23.480 be on season two, and in my contract, I wanted 0:20:23.560 --> 0:20:25.920 to say that I'm a trader. So if you see 0:20:25.960 --> 0:20:29.600 me on season two, okay, you just spoiled. Okay, I'm 0:20:29.600 --> 0:20:34.080 not I'm a faithful. I'm a faithful anyway, it's amazing. Yeah, 0:20:34.160 --> 0:20:35.639 I think if I showed up and you were there, 0:20:35.680 --> 0:20:39.680 I'd be like, yeah, she's out of here, get her out. Well, 0:20:39.680 --> 0:20:41.600 they would want to get me out for several reasons. 0:20:41.800 --> 0:20:45.000 But last is so long because she was so the vocal. 0:20:45.119 --> 0:20:48.520 People die on the sword. Um, but you know, I 0:20:48.560 --> 0:20:50.879 don't want to spoil it, but y'all definitely watch it. Okay, 0:20:51.040 --> 0:20:52.880 so you know. It's funny though when they did pick 0:20:53.000 --> 0:20:55.280 the traders, Like so when he when he was picking 0:20:55.280 --> 0:20:59.000 the traders, I was like, if I was picked as 0:20:59.000 --> 0:21:02.240 a trader, you would see all on my face, no 0:21:02.359 --> 0:21:04.520 I'm a poker face, Like I think I would have 0:21:04.560 --> 0:21:07.960 been laughing, like yeah, I would have been like I'm 0:21:08.000 --> 0:21:13.000 a trading yell. You would have been booted immediate big 0:21:13.320 --> 0:21:16.080 goofy smile on my face. I would have I would 0:21:16.080 --> 0:21:19.000 have had to be like biting my cheeks, like oh 0:21:19.080 --> 0:21:21.600 my gosh. I was like, I was like nervous for 0:21:21.640 --> 0:21:23.280 the trader, the people they picked. I was like, how 0:21:23.320 --> 0:21:26.520 are they going to just like go go about and 0:21:26.640 --> 0:21:29.440 like pretend like they're not a trader, because I would 0:21:29.440 --> 0:21:30.760 just be like, and I want to know what that 0:21:30.800 --> 0:21:34.159 contract is because if if I'm getting paid, how do 0:21:34.240 --> 0:21:36.200 I say this? If I'm getting I might not care 0:21:36.320 --> 0:21:38.360 about the pot you know what I mean? Because I'm 0:21:38.359 --> 0:21:40.919 getting paid to be on the show, you know. So 0:21:41.160 --> 0:21:43.840 I don't no, no, no no, but I think in order, 0:21:44.200 --> 0:21:46.520 I feel is not enough. I feel like they need 0:21:46.520 --> 0:21:50.480 to increase it. Really, yes, yeah, First of all, they're 0:21:50.520 --> 0:21:53.600 in Scotland. They have to do I'm sorry, they have 0:21:53.720 --> 0:21:56.760 to do um challenges. The challenges are out of this world. 0:21:57.359 --> 0:21:59.960 The challenges get harder and harder. There was a challenge. 0:22:00.040 --> 0:22:01.640 I was like, I would have tapped out, And what's 0:22:01.680 --> 0:22:05.560 the purpose of the challenge? To get the money? So 0:22:05.600 --> 0:22:09.320