1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode 3 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:19,279 Speaker 1: of Reasonably Shade. D I am Gazelle Bryant. Who's up? 4 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:21,799 Speaker 1: What's up? In people? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you 5 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 1: for being here with us. Yes again, Robin, we're still 6 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 1: in February. Yes, so this is still a Black history 7 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: mod We're still important. We don't we don't have that 8 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,600 Speaker 1: many that many days last? Do we have anything? Um? Yes? 9 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:39,559 Speaker 1: I want to share a quote and this is from 10 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:42,959 Speaker 1: Shirley Chisholm. If they don't give you, I must try 11 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:45,840 Speaker 1: to say that my Shirley Chisolm voice. If they don't 12 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 1: give you a seat at the table, bring a folding chair. 13 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 1: Okay you like that? Okay, all right, you got one. Um. 14 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 1: I think this is this speaks to you know, just 15 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 1: the mess in Florida. Black history isn't a separate history. 16 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 1: This is all of our history. This is American history, 17 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: and we need to understand that it is such an 18 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 1: impact on kids and their values and how they view 19 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 1: black people. And that is Karen Parsons. Yes, Karen Parsons. Okay, 20 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 1: and you know one of our favorite forever forever president. Yeah. Um, 21 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: change will not come if we wait for some other 22 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 1: person or some other time. We are the ones we've 23 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 1: been waiting for. We are the change we seek. Yes, 24 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 1: Barack Obama, thank you. Yes. Yes. It's like, well, if 25 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:40,679 Speaker 1: you want change, then do it, then get it on yourself. Yes. 26 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 1: I love that. Change is not easy. Change is not easy. Yeah, 27 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 1: it's not you know, it's fine. I just thought about that. 28 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: I have a friend who is really passionate about making 29 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: change in one of our major cities school system and 30 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: legislation and blah blah blah blah blah, and she's just 31 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 1: so frustrated with like the roadblocks and the red tape. 32 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, like all the stuff that she's she's meeting, 33 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, I'm like, I know, it's like hard, 34 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: it's taking up your time and you're just meeting people 35 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 1: who are like you meet people that are like, yeah, 36 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 1: let's do it, that's great, that's great, and then like 37 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: they don't do anything or whatever. So it is hard. 38 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: It's like, how do you make change when there's so 39 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 1: much resistance to it or there's so many people that 40 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 1: you know, so you can't do it, or like that. 41 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 1: It's like baby steps. Yeah, yeah, you gotta try to 42 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 1: chip away a little bit at a time. Um and 43 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: our favor, our favorite. Um, I'm going to reclaim my time, 44 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: umxine vaccine waters. Yes, she is all about the chip 45 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: away and the chip away, um, but we have to 46 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: talk about our reasonably shady moment of the week. Yes, 47 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: A let's see, Um, it's been a little quiet around 48 00:02:57,120 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: here for me, I do. I was a little frustrated 49 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 1: the other morning. So when one is in the shower, 50 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: like he's usually in the shower when I'm like, you know, 51 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: maybe a little bit before I'm about to wake up, 52 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 1: and he'll yell from the shower, rob, he's in the shower. 53 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 1: And then this is a whole frustrating part. He'll be 54 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 1: in the shower. I could be in the kitchen, it 55 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: don't matter where I am. The bedroom, the kitchen, you know, wherever, 56 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: the basement, and he knows he's in the shower, right, 57 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: but he wants to talk to me lovely, so it'll 58 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: be rap robbing rab rabbing, and I'm like, there's no choice. 59 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: I have no choice but to walk stop what I'm doing, 60 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 1: walk up the steps, go in the bathroom and be like, yes, 61 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 1: because I can't yell back, you know what. I can't 62 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: be like yeah, because he can't hear me. He's in 63 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 1: the shower, he can't hear me. He knows that, like 64 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: he's forcing me to come upstairs regardless. So so that's 65 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 1: something that he does frequently. It's quite annoying. But he 66 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: has a really strong voice that carries yes, and I 67 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 1: can't like, I can't. I can't come back at him 68 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: and yell from the from the kitchen. He's not going 69 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 1: to hear me. My voice doesn't care like that. So anyway, 70 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: the other day, I'm in the bed, So he typically 71 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 1: would be like Rob Robing, what time is it? What? 72 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 1: What time is it? So we're gonna put a clock 73 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 1: in the bathroom. So that's what I did. Oh okay, lovely, 74 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 1: So I put a clock in the bathroom. Okay, okay, 75 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 1: because I was sick of him asking me what time 76 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: it was? Love that. So the other day, Rob, what 77 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 1: time is it? And I just ignored him. I'm like, 78 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not doing this. But did you tell 79 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 1: him that there's a clock here? It is? Okay, Yes, yes, 80 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:54,599 Speaker 1: I told him there's a clock. It's right there. You 81 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,719 Speaker 1: can see it. Right from the shower. I'm not doing 82 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 1: this with you. I'm not you're not playing this game. 83 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: I'm not rap. What time is it? I said, one 84 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: look at the wall. It's like, oh my bad, bad, 85 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: I'm just like I forgot, I forgot. How do you 86 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 1: forget that? I put a damn clock, like, leave me alone. 87 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: He just wants you to he wants you to see 88 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 1: him naked in the show. I think that's his sexy time. 89 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. So yeah, shady moment he is, Oh 90 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 1: my god, just stops. That's that. That's a mess. Um. 91 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 1: See you don't have to deal with that. No, no, 92 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 1: and no moving on. So my shady moment. I was 93 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:42,599 Speaker 1: another gym situation. I was walking to the gym and 94 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 1: I was walking fast because I was trying to get 95 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: to my class because I was running late. And this 96 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 1: lady he she had her head down. I think she 97 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 1: was I don't know what she was doing, but she 98 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: was walking to She was walking kind of slow. She 99 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:54,839 Speaker 1: shut her head down and as soon as we like 100 00:05:54,920 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 1: cross paths, she lifted her head and she sneezed on me. Disgusting. 101 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:06,040 Speaker 1: I said, oh my god. And so she was like, 102 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. Oh my gosh. I 103 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: felt like saying, bit you sneezed on me, like you 104 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 1: sneezed on me. Did she not know you were there? 105 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 1: Because you said her? Her head was down, she didn't 106 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: see me and I was walking fast, but she sneezed. 107 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 1: I have never been sneezed doing in my life. I 108 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: didn't in my mind. I told myself I didn't feel it, 109 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 1: but I might have, but it was I wanted to 110 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 1: go home and take a shower. I just wanted my 111 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 1: day to be over. You sneeze on me, lady. I'm 112 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: on to you. But ever if I ever see her again, Lady, 113 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:39,839 Speaker 1: if I ever see you again, I'm coming for you. 114 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 1: I don't even know if that means listen one time one. 115 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 1: You know, a year after year with Potomac, we get 116 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 1: sometimes we get different producers and um in this one 117 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:51,280 Speaker 1: producer she reminds me, I can't remember her name that 118 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: I told her she I don't know something's going on 119 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: with the scene and I was upset, and I was like, 120 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: I said something to it, but I was like, I'm 121 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 1: on for you, and she like later she was like, 122 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 1: so should I warn my family? Should I? UM get 123 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: security from my kids. Like. She just was like, I'm 124 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 1: merely trying to figure out what that means. Because you 125 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: meant it, you meant you coming for me. What does that? 126 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 1: She's like, I just want to know. Did I start 127 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: warning everyone? I was like, I've calmed down. Oh my god, 128 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: I won't be coming for you anymore. He larious. Okay, 129 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: So Robin, have you been saving your your quarters and 130 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 1: your dimes and your nickels for the tickets? Okay? Because 131 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: I register? Yes? Okay, me too. All right, so this 132 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 1: is hopefully by the time this heirs, we have some 133 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 1: better I have some better news. Okay. I have yet 134 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 1: to receive any type of email text message from ticket 135 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 1: masks me. You need to have I and I registered. 136 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 1: I did I. You know, sometimes when I'm doing going 137 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: fast on the on these emails and I don't check 138 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: all the boxes or whatever, I was like, No, I'm 139 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 1: gonna take my time. I'm gonna check everybody write my 140 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 1: name correctly. I'm gonna do everything I'm supposed to do. 141 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 1: I want to put smiley faces on the end to 142 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: hopefully try to get You're supposed to get a code, right, 143 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: I got no code, but some people have gotten codes. 144 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 1: I know some people have gotten tickets. Yeah, what does 145 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 1: this mean? So apparently in in my one of my 146 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 1: friend group chats, if you have a city card and 147 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: this is such no great marketing, but yeah, I don't 148 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: have no city card. Well you might want to get one, 149 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 1: just saying, because that's how you get a ticket. Ye, 150 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 1: just saying. And what do Courtney say? She Courtney got 151 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 1: two hundred level tickets for three seventy five. So there's 152 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 1: two hundred level. That's not the floor, it's not nosebleed, 153 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 1: so there's like so nosably just four hundred level, right, Okay, 154 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 1: so two hundred levels. I mean you're in there. I'm 155 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: in there. I'm in there. Where do you want your 156 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 1: seats to be? I'm closed? So what are you paying? 157 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 1: How much? I'm just I'm I'm much gonna pay. I'm balancing. 158 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: I'm I've been saving my coins. Five thousand dollars you're 159 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 1: paying Damn, I'm not paying five thousand hours. I'm because 160 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 1: I can't buy one ticket. I'm hoping, right exactly, I'm hoping. 161 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 1: I'm okay with the fact that I might not be 162 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 1: in the building. What what do you mean? And I'm 163 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: hoping that they're going to do one of those like 164 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: you know, film it things, like you know, she released 165 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 1: that homecoming, the Coachella home So you gave up everything, 166 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 1: you gave up. Well, I mean, if I get to 167 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: if we'll see like if I don't get it, I 168 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: don't get it. But I also think, um, once all 169 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 1: these tickets are sold or whatever, like we get closer 170 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:41,959 Speaker 1: to the date, there's going to be more tickets available. Yeah. 171 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 1: I think there's gonna be a release of tickets right, 172 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 1: and I'm just gonna snatch those up. I gotta be 173 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: on on top of It's amazing, Like we're talking about 174 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 1: football stadiums. We're not talking about basketball arena like this is. 175 00:09:55,480 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 1: We're talking about Beyonce. Insane. Yes, that's insane. Well, I 176 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:05,199 Speaker 1: told you when I saw her in Paris, it was like, yeah, 177 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 1: it was a stadium. Yeah, I've seen it in the 178 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 1: football stadium too. But she when she came last time 179 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:11,840 Speaker 1: was the same I saw at the Raven Stadium in Baltimore. 180 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 1: To me, it was a stadium. Yeah, and so that's 181 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 1: that's how she do. But but I don't remember having 182 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 1: to do all of this to get a Beyonce ticket, 183 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 1: get a football Stadium, That's what I'm saying. I'm like, 184 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 1: I think the Taylor Swift people messed it up, so 185 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:26,559 Speaker 1: now we got to do different things. But people remember 186 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 1: how people were talking to Oh my god, it's Beyonce 187 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:32,079 Speaker 1: gonna perform at the Grammys. Yell, no, that's free. No, 188 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 1: she ain't doing that. If I were her, I wouldn't 189 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 1: do that. And then you know, everyone wants her to 190 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 1: release the visuals renaissance now, and I feel like, Beyonce, 191 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 1: know what she does might not happen. She's gonna make 192 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 1: that paper, y'all? Okay, Um, now speaking of not getting 193 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:51,439 Speaker 1: any paper. So from what I understand, I just found 194 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 1: this out that, um, they honored all of the quarterbacks 195 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 1: from the NFL. Who is the NFL? The NFL for 196 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 1: kiss dreama. Oh, it's all the black quarterbacks, not all 197 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 1: the quarterbacks, because that'd be a lot. Okay, they honored 198 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 1: all the black quarterbacks and they left off Cam Newton. 199 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: Can that's what you get? Okay? That's why was that? A? 200 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 1: Because no, it wasn't snap food a snap food. Really 201 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 1: they forgot Cam Newton? But why so? Why? So? Tell 202 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 1: me why? Because he wants all of his women to 203 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 1: be subservient. This is what I think the NFL does 204 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 1: not care about that. I know they don't care, but 205 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 1: just now does. Yes, he does not want them to 206 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 1: win on their own. He wants them to food. Yes, 207 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,560 Speaker 1: so he got what he deserved. Well, I mean yes, 208 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 1: I mean he's black and he's a quarterback. Like that's 209 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 1: the only criteria because there's only what like five? This 210 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:48,839 Speaker 1: at least what ten? No more than ta um? I 211 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 1: mean over the years, there's there's at least ten for sure? Yes, yeah. 212 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 1: What what is Russell? What is Sierra's usband? Is he 213 00:11:55,920 --> 00:12:01,079 Speaker 1: a quarterback? Okay? So this Russell? This Cam? Yeah, there's 214 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 1: Lamar Jackson. Wait a minute, black way backs in the 215 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 1: Super Bowl? My home? Is he black? He's black? Okay? 216 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:10,680 Speaker 1: He is? He is biracial? Does he say he's black? 217 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 1: And I'm not trying to be shady, I mean, what 218 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 1: do you want want him to walk around and be like, 219 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:19,439 Speaker 1: I'm black? Does he viewed himself? I'm black, y'all? You 220 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:23,559 Speaker 1: know that's how he talks. I'm black, y'all, view himself 221 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:26,320 Speaker 1: as a black man? Knows that, Yes, I believe that 222 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 1: he knows that he is a black man. Okay, all right, 223 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 1: but I don't know. I mean, i can't speak for him. 224 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:33,319 Speaker 1: I don't know. I've never seen that even be a topic. 225 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 1: But when people are, you know, even with the Super Bowl, 226 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:41,719 Speaker 1: it's the headline is this is amazing. There are two 227 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 1: black quarterbacks in the super Bowl. So yes, my homes. Yes, Yes, 228 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 1: he has not come out and be like, no, no, 229 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:53,559 Speaker 1: y'all got that wrong. I'm not black, y'all. So I 230 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:55,440 Speaker 1: was like, no, I'm not black. I'm not black. That's 231 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:59,560 Speaker 1: how he talks. Yes, talks like that. I've never heard him. Yes, 232 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:02,679 Speaker 1: he talks like that. Okay, Okay, I've seen his wife 233 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 1: and she's not black at all, not by any stretch. Okay, 234 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 1: uh speaking of, not speaking of but like we we 235 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 1: haven't discussed this, Robin. I think it's just like, because 236 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 1: so much has happened, it's just kind of like we failed, 237 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 1: or Gazelle failed to discuss how beautiful your wedding was, 238 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 1: like totally, utterly, spectacularly beautiful. Thank you you looked amazing 239 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 1: the surround because y'all, remember I wasn't because I wasn't 240 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 1: invited on TV. I had to watch it with the 241 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 1: rest of the millions of people. Ain't that rude whatever. 242 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:42,080 Speaker 1: So the mirrored I'll bet you had was fantastic. Um. 243 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 1: All the flowers whoever did your flowers did a great jobs. That. 244 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: The company is Bethel Creations. So my friend Natalie, who 245 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 1: is a wedding planner, Um, I enlisted her to you know, 246 00:13:53,400 --> 00:13:56,560 Speaker 1: pull off a beautiful ceremony and it didn't end. So 247 00:13:56,679 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 1: she pulled in all her you know, her trusted vendors 248 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 1: who were able to you know, come in and do it. 249 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 1: And um. And just for the record, I you know, 250 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 1: I don't ask for anything for free. So I paid 251 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 1: for everything, you know what I mean, Like, I don't 252 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:12,320 Speaker 1: you know you've heard of people in the past trying 253 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 1: to get all of their wedding stuff free. Like no, 254 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:18,200 Speaker 1: like this was. I don't like to do that at all. 255 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 1: I don't want free stuff, Like I want to pay 256 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 1: people for their services. I want to pay them what 257 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 1: they what they you know, deserve all of that type 258 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 1: of stuff. So anyway, so these were like her trusted mendor. Okay, 259 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:30,120 Speaker 1: but I do sometimes like free stuff. Yeah, I'm just 260 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 1: saying I don't want you to think that, you know. Anyway, 261 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: moving on, you know, so my my thing on free stuff, 262 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:40,480 Speaker 1: it's never free. It's never it's just that it's never free. 263 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: And I'm joking about the free stuff, like I pay 264 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 1: for my stuff because when it is free, then they 265 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 1: want all of these things attached to it. You gotta 266 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 1: post eighteen twelve times, you gotta stand on your head, 267 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 1: you gotta do all this nonsense because it's quote free, 268 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 1: it's not. But then it's not free, right exactly. Yeah, 269 00:14:57,320 --> 00:15:00,040 Speaker 1: And it's like and I'm fine, like I don't I 270 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: don't if I pay for it, I'll post like I 271 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 1: don't know. If I want to post something I'm and 272 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 1: it's you know, and I like it and whatever, I'll 273 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: tag you. It's fine, Like I'm not really like I 274 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 1: don't know. I just don't want to feel obligated to 275 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 1: to carry out certain things because you know, something was free, 276 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 1: you know, so so just I just you know. Anyway, 277 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 1: So Natalie, my good friend went to college with her. 278 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 1: You know, um, she's amazing Natalie Melton event design group 279 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:30,240 Speaker 1: she's based in. Was she at the wedding? Yeah, she 280 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 1: was world Yeah, because that wasn't there just every she 281 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 1: was working, so she was there. She was in a 282 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: work mode, so it was okay because she was in 283 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 1: a work mode. Yes, I could have worked it. I 284 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 1: could have held something I don't know, a plant or 285 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 1: really rose, I don't know. Anyway, moving on, it's not 286 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 1: about me, so it's not about you. So Natalie event 287 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 1: design groups like based in you know, the Washington d 288 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: C Areas, If anyone needs an amazing wedding plan or 289 00:15:56,640 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 1: please hit her up, because she did in amazing job. 290 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 1: It was. It was nice because it was like, you know, 291 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 1: clearly very intimate, but it was like more than what 292 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 1: I imagined. Because when I tell you that wedding in 293 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: Jamaica was going to be some rinky dink mess, that's 294 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 1: why we like they literally when they sent me like okay, 295 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 1: these are your floral options, and I'm like, what do 296 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 1: you mean? Like I said, I don't know, this is 297 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 1: not this does not feel like that what that Jamaica 298 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 1: situation was going to be booty. Yeah, okay, well I'm 299 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 1: glad that that did. I'm glad it happened the way 300 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 1: that it happened. Yeah, And so for me, I was like, 301 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 1: you know what, it happened the way it was supposed 302 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 1: to happen, like yeah, and it was. It was just 303 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 1: it was really nice, very nice. Thank you. I've been 304 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: meaning to tell you, guys, or tell you. I think 305 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 1: I did tell you about this show that I watched 306 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:04,719 Speaker 1: Culture Traders. Yeah, I watched the first episode, so I'm done. Okay, okay, 307 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: is it as good like I've seen people say it 308 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 1: was really good? So so I would say the Last 309 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:11,400 Speaker 1: Traders is on Peacock, y'all is on Peacock. So it's 310 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: a reality show and there's some Bravo lebs on there. 311 00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:17,640 Speaker 1: So you'll see Kate from below Deck, Um, Kyle from 312 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 1: Summer House, Resida, and I can spoiler alert Residue booted 313 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 1: the first um, there's a Bachelor survivor people, and then 314 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:31,640 Speaker 1: there's some regular average I mean average, but regular everyday people, 315 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:34,399 Speaker 1: everyday folks, right, and it's so it's a great mix. 316 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 1: And when I tell you, by by episode four maybe five, 317 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 1: everyone is just so paranoid because everyone's lying to everyone 318 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:49,199 Speaker 1: and everyone's jocking. So the premises there's Traders that no 319 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:52,159 Speaker 1: one knows our Traders, and then everybody else is a 320 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:58,920 Speaker 1: faithful deep in the Scottish Highlands. There's a castle where 321 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:03,439 Speaker 1: the faithful reside their goal when a quarter of a 322 00:18:03,520 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 1: million dollars but hitting amongst them are three traders. Exciting, 323 00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:15,679 Speaker 1: isn't it? The traitors amongst you? You think, do you 324 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 1: know who they are? So just no one? And you 325 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:25,359 Speaker 1: thought the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills is bad. So 326 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:27,159 Speaker 1: they're all in the house together. They're all in the 327 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 1: house together, and every night there's a banishment, and you 328 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 1: want to banish the traders because at the end, whatever 329 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 1: money is left, if there's a trader there, they get 330 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,680 Speaker 1: all the money. Regardless of how many faithfuls are left, 331 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:41,359 Speaker 1: they get all the money. So um, and there there 332 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:45,760 Speaker 1: are in the prize. They say it's two dollars yes, correct. Okay, 333 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:50,399 Speaker 1: So you're saying, if there are three people left and 334 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:52,879 Speaker 1: one of them as a trader, the trader gets two 335 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 1: d and fifty and the other two gets zero zero. 336 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 1: If there are three people left, then and if they're 337 00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:02,399 Speaker 1: all faithful, and they're all faithful, and they split it 338 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 1: and split the way, yes, like every day they eliminate somebody, right, 339 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:08,360 Speaker 1: every day they banished somebody that the whole group talks 340 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 1: that around table and they talk about in the group 341 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 1: decides who to banish, and that person. Once they're banish, 342 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:15,680 Speaker 1: they have to say if they're a trader or faithful, 343 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:17,359 Speaker 1: so you know, if you're a faithful you want to 344 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:21,399 Speaker 1: banish a trader, but you know, everybody's so paranoid. Um, 345 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 1: and then the traders get together at night and they 346 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:27,879 Speaker 1: murder somebody in the middle of the night, okay, murders 347 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: and quotes like you nobody dying here. So but it 348 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 1: is so freaking good, really, yes, just seeing how people 349 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:39,719 Speaker 1: go about like they're so paranoid, but like people are 350 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 1: being manipulated or people are people know how to play 351 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 1: the game and people don't, and then people get caught 352 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 1: up in their feelings and people like you lied to me, 353 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 1: who told me you were faithful and you're a trader? 354 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 1: Like it's so really it's I'm like, yeah, hell yeah, 355 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: they lying. They try to win the money like this 356 00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:58,840 Speaker 1: is this is this is a game people. So I 357 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 1: think it's interesting that they tell you who the traders 358 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 1: are because I was thinking at first, like we the 359 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:07,640 Speaker 1: viewers were going to have to try to figure out 360 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:10,879 Speaker 1: who was who as well. But yeah, I guess not, 361 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 1: so all right, I need to pick it up and 362 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:15,479 Speaker 1: keep watching. So you were you were glued. I was glued. 363 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:18,200 Speaker 1: I even as I'm watching the first episode I called 364 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:21,119 Speaker 1: my manager and I was like, um, I want to 365 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 1: be on season two, and in my contract, I wanted 366 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:25,920 Speaker 1: to say that I'm a trader. So if you see 367 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:29,600 Speaker 1: me on season two, okay, you just spoiled. Okay, I'm 368 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: not I'm a faithful. I'm a faithful anyway, it's amazing. Yeah, 369 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:35,639 Speaker 1: I think if I showed up and you were there, 370 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:39,680 Speaker 1: I'd be like, yeah, she's out of here, get her out. Well, 371 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 1: they would want to get me out for several reasons. 372 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 1: But last is so long because she was so the vocal. 373 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:48,520 Speaker 1: People die on the sword. Um, but you know, I 374 00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:50,879 Speaker 1: don't want to spoil it, but y'all definitely watch it. Okay, 375 00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:52,880 Speaker 1: so you know. It's funny though when they did pick 376 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 1: the traders, Like so when he when he was picking 377 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 1: the traders, I was like, if I was picked as 378 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:02,240 Speaker 1: a trader, you would see all on my face, no 379 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 1: I'm a poker face, Like I think I would have 380 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:07,960 Speaker 1: been laughing, like yeah, I would have been like I'm 381 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 1: a trading yell. You would have been booted immediate big 382 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 1: goofy smile on my face. I would have I would 383 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 1: have had to be like biting my cheeks, like oh 384 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 1: my gosh. I was like, I was like nervous for 385 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 1: the trader, the people they picked. I was like, how 386 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:26,520 Speaker 1: are they going to just like go go about and 387 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 1: like pretend like they're not a trader, because I would 388 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 1: just be like, and I want to know what that 389 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:34,159 Speaker 1: contract is because if if I'm getting paid, how do 390 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,200 Speaker 1: I say this? If I'm getting I might not care 391 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:38,360 Speaker 1: about the pot you know what I mean? Because I'm 392 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:40,919 Speaker 1: getting paid to be on the show, you know. So 393 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 1: I don't no, no, no no, but I think in order, 394 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 1: I feel is not enough. I feel like they need 395 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:50,480 Speaker 1: to increase it. Really, yes, yeah, First of all, they're 396 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 1: in Scotland. They have to do I'm sorry, they have 397 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 1: to do um challenges. The challenges are out of this world. 398 00:21:57,359 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 1: The challenges get harder and harder. There was a challenge. 399 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,640 Speaker 1: I was like, I would have tapped out, And what's 400 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: the purpose of the challenge? To get the money? So 401 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:09,320 Speaker 1: you raise money? Oh I did see that part. Yeah, 402 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:12,239 Speaker 1: there's one challenge. I promise you if they If I 403 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,160 Speaker 1: was there, I would have been like, I'm good, y'all. 404 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:15,679 Speaker 1: I would have ripped that mic off so fast and 405 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:18,400 Speaker 1: been out of there, booked me a ticket home. Really yes. 406 00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 1: I wonder how long they filmed it for another two weeks. 407 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:24,320 Speaker 1: Probably it's a low budget. It's a low budget situation here. Anyway, 408 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:26,159 Speaker 1: I do want to have a disclaimer and then we 409 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,000 Speaker 1: gotta talk about something. I do want to disclaimer or 410 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 1: not disclaimer. But a couple about a month ago, we 411 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 1: talked about the vibranium that's in the Congo, which I 412 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,199 Speaker 1: was like, so Robin was side eyeing me as I 413 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 1: was talking about it because on the Internet there was 414 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 1: a guy that was holding a rock and the rock 415 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 1: seemed to have an electrical charge to end. Okay, so 416 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:50,040 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, it's really true. Wakanda 417 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:53,119 Speaker 1: is real. This is vibranium. Finally watched What Come to 418 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 1: Forever on my couch very long yea, so um, I 419 00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:59,440 Speaker 1: was like, please can I stop it? Can I turn 420 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,679 Speaker 1: it off? Of course you all are reasonably shade Sters 421 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:06,760 Speaker 1: sent us a note saying that, um, there's a claim 422 00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:10,920 Speaker 1: that there's electrically charged stones have been discovered and the 423 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 1: Democratic Republic of the Congo so this is the facts, guys. 424 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:19,680 Speaker 1: Experts are saying that it's unclear exactly how the light 425 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 1: in the video is being powered, but all agree rocks 426 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 1: alone cannot hold the charge. Like and I want to 427 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 1: know who these experts are because as far as I'm concerned, 428 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,040 Speaker 1: I don't know what I'll talk about. And then there's 429 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:35,359 Speaker 1: and then they said that there's no chemical reactive capacity 430 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:38,440 Speaker 1: and a rock that you would get in a battery. 431 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 1: So but that's the whole point for me. The whole 432 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:45,680 Speaker 1: point is, no, rocks are proven not to have electrical charges, 433 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:49,400 Speaker 1: but in the Congo, because the Congo is so special, 434 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:53,320 Speaker 1: that is where the electric rocks live. That this is 435 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:58,120 Speaker 1: not just a rock. No, this is vibra vibranium. We're 436 00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 1: calling it vibranium, but know the Congo people might call 437 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 1: it something else. We're calling it vibrating because of Wakanda. 438 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 1: So you still don't believe. So all of this report 439 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:10,800 Speaker 1: has been refuted, disputed, all of that. I don't. I 440 00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 1: don't believe that what the experts have to say. I believe. 441 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 1: I believe in the Congo. I'm done. I'm done talking, 442 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 1: all right. So I you told me the other day 443 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:26,440 Speaker 1: that you saw you you just saw a car accident. Yes, 444 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 1: and we're bringing this up because guys, we know that 445 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: y'all listen to reasonably shady when you're driving, and we 446 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:35,479 Speaker 1: love y'all for that. However, be careful. Yes right, I 447 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 1: know a lot of y'all listen and you know we 448 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:39,360 Speaker 1: say some things makes you laugh and stuff. So but 449 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:41,399 Speaker 1: but please, we care about you all. We want you 450 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:44,159 Speaker 1: all to be safe. So yes, so, um yeah, the 451 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 1: other day I have like two I got one really 452 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 1: crazy driving story. Um. So the other day, I was 453 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,280 Speaker 1: just like at a red light and all of a sudden, 454 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 1: you just hear like you know, like and then you 455 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 1: see a car like going off onto the side. Um 456 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:02,120 Speaker 1: and apparently the we're at the red light. The guy 457 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 1: it was like two cars in front of me must 458 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,200 Speaker 1: not realized it was a red light. I don't know 459 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 1: if he was distracted, I don't know what. He goes 460 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 1: into the out into the intersection as if we had 461 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 1: a green light. Yeah, and then so the cars in 462 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:18,119 Speaker 1: the that had the green light had to like swerve 463 00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:22,080 Speaker 1: and avoid him, and thank god, like it was a 464 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:26,120 Speaker 1: guy driving a Grand Cherokee. He literally swerved, I mean 465 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,159 Speaker 1: you know, and there's like, you know, debris all on 466 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,920 Speaker 1: the road, so they definitely crashed. But he did literally 467 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 1: had to swerve off the side of the road. And 468 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,439 Speaker 1: where he ended up. He was like right next to 469 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 1: a pole, like he missed the pole on each side, 470 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:40,760 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And I'm like, God, thank god, 471 00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:43,199 Speaker 1: it could have been a disaster. But like, you know, 472 00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:46,680 Speaker 1: just I know you guys listened to the podcast in 473 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 1: the car, and you know we drive every day, Like 474 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 1: just please be careful out here driving Like it's just 475 00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:56,399 Speaker 1: it's scary. Like all it takes is one little you know, 476 00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:00,440 Speaker 1: dis glance away, and I don't want y'all get into 477 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,560 Speaker 1: an accident. Y'all blame it on reasonably shady because I 478 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:06,439 Speaker 1: know that's coming. Yeah no, please, I was blaming my 479 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:08,720 Speaker 1: just on your accident. We just want you all to 480 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,880 Speaker 1: be safe. But then this thing, I just think about 481 00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 1: this one crazy story and its like it gives me 482 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 1: chills to this day. It was like I still remember 483 00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 1: like it was June eight, two thousand sixteen. I was 484 00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:28,159 Speaker 1: driving on I had just had lunch um with my 485 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 1: line sisters in National Harbor. No, no dinner, we had dinner. 486 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 1: It was nighttime. We had dinner in National Harbor. Um. 487 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:38,159 Speaker 1: We were driving home. This is when I lived in 488 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:40,719 Speaker 1: Silver Spring, So I'm on the four ninety five Beltway 489 00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:46,760 Speaker 1: coming from National Harbor to Silver Spring, right and I'm driving. 490 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:51,040 Speaker 1: I'm in the second lane from the fat so so 491 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 1: like you know, you got the fast lane. I'm in 492 00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 1: the lane next to the fast lane and all of 493 00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 1: a sudden, my life and to my line is in 494 00:26:56,800 --> 00:27:00,440 Speaker 1: the cart. My lines was like, um, is there car 495 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:04,959 Speaker 1: heading towards us? Literally driving and there is a car 496 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:10,159 Speaker 1: driving the wrong way in the fast lane so in 497 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:14,920 Speaker 1: the lane next to me, and literally I'm just like frozen, 498 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,119 Speaker 1: Like I'm like what the like and I'm just like, 499 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,480 Speaker 1: oh my god. In the car literally like sped right 500 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:23,919 Speaker 1: past me and it just and then it was just 501 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:26,359 Speaker 1: crazy because I'm like, okay, there has to be an 502 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 1: accident here, right, So oh there was a cop on 503 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:32,280 Speaker 1: my other side. And so when he saw that, he 504 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:34,639 Speaker 1: kind of got over and turned around about about whatever. 505 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 1: So there was a cop that tried to stop them. 506 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:39,399 Speaker 1: Well he I mean he couldn't stop him. Like he 507 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 1: looked that car like zoomed past us in the fast lane. 508 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 1: That was like one of l chop those people. He 509 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:45,920 Speaker 1: was like running from the police. I mean, but there 510 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 1: was no one was no one was chasing him. No, no, 511 00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:49,720 Speaker 1: nobody was chasing this cop. It was just weird. I 512 00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 1: was just trying to like how did we get here? 513 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 1: Like was this intentional? So anyway, the crazy part, I 514 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:58,360 Speaker 1: never saw anything on the news, like, never saw a report. 515 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 1: Like I was like googling, like wrong way driver. I'm 516 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 1: sure nothing came up. I even called the police station, yeah, 517 00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:09,919 Speaker 1: and they were like, hey, you had time on your 518 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 1: hands because I was like so intrigued, like what happened here? Um? 519 00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:17,119 Speaker 1: So anyway, I did, Oh what I also did when 520 00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:21,399 Speaker 1: I got home, I logged into the highways cameras. You 521 00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 1: can log into the cameras, yeah, you can, kind of 522 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 1: Sid's Robin doing because I was I was like, there's 523 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,880 Speaker 1: no way that this person was driving the wrong way 524 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,480 Speaker 1: and like did not cause a disaster. So when I 525 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:36,640 Speaker 1: logged to the cameras, I could see that traffic was stopped, 526 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 1: like there were no cars coming on the highway anyway. 527 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,720 Speaker 1: That still freaks me out to this day because it's 528 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 1: like somebody intentionally like like you know, we just were 529 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:53,240 Speaker 1: sitting ducks almost did you intend? Did they intentionally get 530 00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:54,920 Speaker 1: on four ninety five going the wrong way? I don't. 531 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 1: That's what I'm like, That's what I was trying to 532 00:28:56,720 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 1: figure out. I don't know how. You don't right, you know, 533 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:01,960 Speaker 1: I'm saying, I don't know how. You're in the fast 534 00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:05,640 Speaker 1: lane on the belt Way going the wrong way and 535 00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 1: it wasn't intentional, Like you don't, that's not a mistake. 536 00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:11,640 Speaker 1: I don't know anyway, can I But can I tell 537 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,959 Speaker 1: you what bothers me when I'm driving, because this has 538 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 1: been happening a lot, these people on their phone. We're 539 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 1: at a red light, the light turns green, you better 540 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 1: start moving. You're getting a beat beat And I won't 541 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 1: give you like a bomb. I'm gonna give you a 542 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 1: like a little but like people put your phones down, 543 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 1: I know, pay attention. I would say, I'm guilty of 544 00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 1: that sometimes, you know it's like you're just you're sitting 545 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 1: in the red light your board. You're like, you know, 546 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,280 Speaker 1: trying to pass the time, or or someone texted you 547 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 1: or whatever. But yeah, but definitely like realize that you 548 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 1: are driving. And now now that my kids are, you know, 549 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 1: Grace obviously has a driver's license. The twins are learning 550 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,560 Speaker 1: how to drive because they're like learning now, they're so 551 00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 1: on me with regards to how I drive. So they're like, mom, 552 00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 1: that's a that's not a right on red you cannot turn. 553 00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 1: They're like, Mom, you didn't stop at the stop sign. 554 00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:09,920 Speaker 1: You supposed stop before the line. Not Oh my god. 555 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, i've been driving. How long you've been driving? 556 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:19,400 Speaker 1: Seven seconds? But that's good. That's good that they're being cautious. 557 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,320 Speaker 1: You know, eventually they'll get to they'll be way more 558 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,080 Speaker 1: comfortable and they'll drive the way you drive. But they're 559 00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 1: being cautious. I would rather my kids do that. Didn't 560 00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 1: be like why didn't you run the red light? You 561 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Oh yeah, I do that too anyway, 562 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:35,520 Speaker 1: So anyway, I mean that makes me think of like 563 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 1: when you're driving, like what are some of your pet peeves? 564 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 1: Like that be one, but you know, the people on 565 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:44,000 Speaker 1: the phone, the people yes at the red light light 566 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 1: turnscreen and you're still sitting there on your phone having 567 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 1: a full text message conversation or looking on Instagram or something. 568 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:55,200 Speaker 1: So one of one that like drives me crazy is tailgators. 569 00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 1: Like people who tailgate me? What's a tailgator? So when 570 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 1: you're driving, you know, and they're like clothes, they're close 571 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:06,120 Speaker 1: to you that I hate that. Like, i I'm very 572 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:09,000 Speaker 1: like even though I might drive a little fast. I 573 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 1: still I still make sure I keep a nice distance 574 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:15,160 Speaker 1: between myself and the car in front of me. So 575 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:19,760 Speaker 1: um So I hate when people are like tailgating me, 576 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 1: like it makes me very uncomfortable. And I'll just like, 577 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,520 Speaker 1: you know, because it's kind of like a private investigator. 578 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,000 Speaker 1: They're like on you. Well, it's just dangerous, like you can't. 579 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:29,760 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just scared because I'm like, if I 580 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 1: have to stop suddenly and you're on my ass, yeah 581 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:35,080 Speaker 1: they're gonna get you. Yeah, they're mean, they can't see. 582 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,960 Speaker 1: It just makes me so uncomfortable. So that makes me 583 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,480 Speaker 1: think about the time that I drove home with Carly 584 00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:44,080 Speaker 1: in New York from New York from Bravocan Carly Carly 585 00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 1: r D Yes, Carly is looking to be like when 586 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:50,680 Speaker 1: I tell you, I was sitting in the back, Carley 587 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 1: was driving. It was raining, and she was tailgating everybody. Carly, 588 00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 1: why do you do that? You don't? Oh my god, 589 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,640 Speaker 1: I was like, and I'm so dangerous, And I'm literally 590 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,840 Speaker 1: sitting the whole time just like watching the whole like 591 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,920 Speaker 1: I could not relax because she was so close to everybody, 592 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 1: like she Carly can't drive do you know that you tailgate? Carly? 593 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:16,800 Speaker 1: Carly is saying she knows, she doesn't. Oh don't knowbody 594 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 1: want to hear this? So she just said Carly just 595 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,280 Speaker 1: said she was tired. So she said, I was driving 596 00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 1: and I was tired. That makes it worse. You're tired 597 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:28,200 Speaker 1: and your tailgate and why you don't tailgate? But you 598 00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:32,040 Speaker 1: can't You tired because you were working. Then that's why 599 00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:38,360 Speaker 1: you get paid the big bucks. Hello, get over it anyway, 600 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,600 Speaker 1: So okay, just pay attention to Carly. Yes, I don't 601 00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:44,080 Speaker 1: want anything to happen to you. That makes me nervous. Okay. 602 00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 1: And you were like on the highway it was raining, 603 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:50,560 Speaker 1: you were tired, it was congested, and you were like 604 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 1: close to people. So now she's waiting. But she's blaming 605 00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 1: to like genetics. She said, everybody in my family drives 606 00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:02,880 Speaker 1: that way. So does in New York because they because 607 00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,080 Speaker 1: they learned in New York. New York. No, no, no, 608 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,400 Speaker 1: like I need I need to, Like I gotta see 609 00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 1: what's in front of the car in front of me. Yeah, 610 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,600 Speaker 1: so okay, just just be as, just be careful. She's 611 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,280 Speaker 1: gonna blame it on New York, but she lives in 612 00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 1: full full state of Maryland in Maryland. Like all you're like, 613 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:23,160 Speaker 1: when when did you move to Maryland? Age? Right, So 614 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:27,680 Speaker 1: she's been in Maryland her entire driving career. Yes, yeah, 615 00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,520 Speaker 1: so she want to blame being up on somebody's ass 616 00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:40,840 Speaker 1: from New York. Right, Okay, whatever, moving on. Okay, this 617 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:44,600 Speaker 1: one burns me up and it brings out my um. 618 00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,680 Speaker 1: It used to bring in my road out my road rage. 619 00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:51,880 Speaker 1: People who don't let you merge. Oh, but like, is 620 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:55,000 Speaker 1: it a because I'm I'm a famous merger What do 621 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:56,560 Speaker 1: you mean? Like you're You're like, you're gonna let me 622 00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 1: over regardless, I will shut down the whole damn highway. 623 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:01,560 Speaker 1: You don't let me over, Like I'm like, you're gonna 624 00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:03,720 Speaker 1: let me over, right, But I hate the people who 625 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 1: are like, Nope, you're not getting in. Nope nope, and 626 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:08,279 Speaker 1: they keep pushing on the gas Nope, Nope, you're not 627 00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:10,040 Speaker 1: getting it. Like you know, if it's like traffic, if 628 00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:12,879 Speaker 1: it's like bumper to bumper traffic, right, and you're like 629 00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:16,080 Speaker 1: trying to merge either like okay, you you might be 630 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:17,759 Speaker 1: trying to get in front of traffic and so you 631 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 1: you know, rode up on the side or not the side, 632 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:21,560 Speaker 1: but you know what I mean. Or if you're like 633 00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:25,080 Speaker 1: merging from a ramp and there's literally a person that's 634 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:30,160 Speaker 1: like they are pulling so close to the person in 635 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:32,160 Speaker 1: front of them so you cannot move, so you cannot 636 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,000 Speaker 1: It's like I look at them and I just start 637 00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 1: cracking up. I'm like really, I'm like, that's what we're doing, like, 638 00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:41,400 Speaker 1: because you're going to get home so much quicker because 639 00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 1: you did not let me over. They takething bad happened 640 00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:47,279 Speaker 1: at work. They're just taking it out on the merging. Okay, 641 00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:51,080 Speaker 1: something bad happens, Like they don't like really like do 642 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 1: they think they're getting home that much faster if they 643 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,840 Speaker 1: don't let me over? Or are they just like no, 644 00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,759 Speaker 1: like get in line, Like what is it? They're like, no, 645 00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,440 Speaker 1: get in line because they've been in this traffic and 646 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,759 Speaker 1: now you here, you come, Johnny come lately trying to 647 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,560 Speaker 1: bust up in front them. No, I get it, you 648 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:09,160 Speaker 1: get it. Okay. So you're one of those not really 649 00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:16,040 Speaker 1: kind of kind of but I'm very free with my driving. Yeah, 650 00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:18,239 Speaker 1: I had to like learn, you know, just as I 651 00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:21,640 Speaker 1: got older, just let it all go. But it's like, 652 00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, okay, So here's another one. So when 653 00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:27,239 Speaker 1: you are entering the highway from a ramp, right, and 654 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:31,360 Speaker 1: there's someone behind you, you're there's someone behind you and 655 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:35,200 Speaker 1: you gotta merge over, but that person behind you merges 656 00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 1: over in front of you. I don't like that. Dangerous. 657 00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,400 Speaker 1: That's so annoying. It's not only annoying to dangerous, it 658 00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:43,480 Speaker 1: is dangerous. Right. It's like they're getting in front of there. 659 00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:46,880 Speaker 1: They are so impatient and they just wanna, I don't know, 660 00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 1: get in front of you while you're both trying to merge, 661 00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:53,000 Speaker 1: like can we work together here? Clearly we cannot work together? 662 00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:55,880 Speaker 1: Like what is wrong with you all? Just trying to 663 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,879 Speaker 1: get where we go? It's so crazy, it's so yeah, 664 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 1: that is that's very annoying. So if you do that, 665 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 1: if you don't realize you're doing that, then like you know, 666 00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:08,800 Speaker 1: pull back guys back in front of you, just merge 667 00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,480 Speaker 1: and get over and then you can get over and 668 00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:17,319 Speaker 1: drive fast. Right Okay, oh okay, this is like not 669 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,560 Speaker 1: something that like people do. It's just like the thing whatever. 670 00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:22,560 Speaker 1: So when you're when they're like, oh, yeah, I got 671 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:26,279 Speaker 1: a shortcut, let's take this shortcut, right, who says that 672 00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:32,360 Speaker 1: there's ways, there's Google Maps. So when ways or Google 673 00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:34,600 Speaker 1: Maps or whatever they take you, like on the alternate 674 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:39,880 Speaker 1: route ways, and there's like fifty turns, like I would 675 00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:44,200 Speaker 1: rather just stay straight then take fifty million turns, Like 676 00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:47,279 Speaker 1: I cannot stand that. I can't stand that either. That's 677 00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:50,000 Speaker 1: called the Mulberry Bush. That's where you're going all over 678 00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,880 Speaker 1: the Mulberry Bush and ways. The only time I use 679 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:56,279 Speaker 1: ways is to come to your house because traffic you 680 00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,239 Speaker 1: told me to know, because you said Robin's house is 681 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,239 Speaker 1: hard to find. Oh well, no, it's fine now it's 682 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:03,120 Speaker 1: on them. So at first, when we moved into our 683 00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:05,800 Speaker 1: new house, our street was like a brand new street 684 00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:09,240 Speaker 1: and it wasn't on like Apple Maps or Google Maps, 685 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,640 Speaker 1: and it was taking people like they kept delivering my 686 00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:13,600 Speaker 1: stuff around the corner and all that type of stuff. 687 00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:17,319 Speaker 1: But it's fine now yea. So well, um, yeah, I 688 00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:19,319 Speaker 1: hate ways because of that. And no I don't I 689 00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:22,080 Speaker 1: want to I want to go, yes, the fastest way, 690 00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:25,239 Speaker 1: but if there's traffic, I'll take the Mulberry Bush. But 691 00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:28,279 Speaker 1: it just depends even if it's so even if it's 692 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 1: not traffic, even if it's like a person is like 693 00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:32,080 Speaker 1: oh yeah, don't go that way to go to you know, 694 00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:34,239 Speaker 1: like take that this is my little shortcut. And it's 695 00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,960 Speaker 1: like I'm like, that's not a shortcuts. Like it might 696 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:40,560 Speaker 1: have saved us one minute, but like I literally had 697 00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 1: to just make ten turns, right, Like I hate that. 698 00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 1: I hate that. Um people who break for no reason? Yeah, 699 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:53,879 Speaker 1: like what are you doing? Right? Like why? Right? So 700 00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:57,880 Speaker 1: I'm reluctantly teaching a door how to drive, and so 701 00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:00,360 Speaker 1: she'll just be driving out street zoom zooms, and and 702 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:03,360 Speaker 1: then she's just like break break and I'm like, what 703 00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:05,360 Speaker 1: are you doing? And so she's like, I don't know. 704 00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,279 Speaker 1: I just I was going too fast. I was going 705 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:10,920 Speaker 1: too fast. And so I'm like, what if you because 706 00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,000 Speaker 1: that will cause somebody to hit you from behind, right 707 00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:14,600 Speaker 1: because you break because when they do it, it's like 708 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,080 Speaker 1: out of nowhere, it's like a sudden for no reason. 709 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:18,799 Speaker 1: And so if I if I'm if we're like on 710 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,080 Speaker 1: the highway, we're driving, all of a sudden you break, 711 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:23,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, let me break, right, And then that's 712 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,520 Speaker 1: just so this is what annoys me. If there's two 713 00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:29,600 Speaker 1: lanes and somebody's taking up both the straddling both lanes 714 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:33,080 Speaker 1: and then you and then you so you're so annoyed 715 00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:37,440 Speaker 1: because they've been doing it for a mile and my 716 00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:41,400 Speaker 1: my whole you know, I I have row rage sometimes, 717 00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:43,080 Speaker 1: but like you don't have to work on it. I'm 718 00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,200 Speaker 1: older now and I'm just like try not to get 719 00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:47,560 Speaker 1: very angry. Right, But then you like roll up on 720 00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:48,880 Speaker 1: that present. You get you good a place where you 721 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:50,719 Speaker 1: can roll up on that president and you're ready, like 722 00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 1: you're ready to like look at them and kind of 723 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:54,920 Speaker 1: christ and then you realize like it's a little old 724 00:38:56,000 --> 00:39:00,440 Speaker 1: and you're like, I can't cause I can't even look 725 00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:03,000 Speaker 1: at her. I'll just be like, please get home safely 726 00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:05,760 Speaker 1: because you know they're gonna drive in the middle street 727 00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:08,719 Speaker 1: wherever they're going right. And then I think about my dad. 728 00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:10,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, should you still be driving? Oh? I know, 729 00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:13,719 Speaker 1: I know at some point we need to cut off 730 00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,000 Speaker 1: the old people. This is not agis. Don't send me 731 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:19,800 Speaker 1: no hate mail. But like a d you're done, Yeah, well, 732 00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:23,600 Speaker 1: I mean eight you think so I think you're done driving. 733 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,879 Speaker 1: There's uber's, there's friends, there's you know, call a car, 734 00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:29,759 Speaker 1: there's all kinds of stuff. Fine one, because I think 735 00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,080 Speaker 1: some eighty year olds would probably be mad. Yeah, they 736 00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:34,040 Speaker 1: probably be like, yeah, no, I'm good. I can drive 737 00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:38,200 Speaker 1: like my father's three. He still drives. My dad drives crazy. Okay, 738 00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:40,880 Speaker 1: my dad drives, and it's crazy because he drives slow. 739 00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:43,600 Speaker 1: Does he break for no reason? He's all over the road. 740 00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:47,000 Speaker 1: He takes the whole road is for him. And I'm like, Daddy, 741 00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:49,759 Speaker 1: you gotta get in your lane and so and he's like, 742 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:51,160 Speaker 1: what do you mean? What do you mean? What do 743 00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:53,680 Speaker 1: you mean? What do I mean? Get in your lane? 744 00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:56,479 Speaker 1: Do they is there? Do they make older people take 745 00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:59,600 Speaker 1: the driving test again or do something of check in? 746 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,520 Speaker 1: Know what I mean? I don't know. They probably can't see. 747 00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:05,399 Speaker 1: I'm it's terrible. So I think eighty Okay, guess what 748 00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:08,279 Speaker 1: when I turned eighty, I'm gonna let it go. You 749 00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:11,400 Speaker 1: said that now, Okay, we'll see, I said, seventy five. 750 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:14,640 Speaker 1: I'm good. Yeah, no, that's definitely not happened. Okay, this 751 00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:16,439 Speaker 1: is the side and this is side on never mind, 752 00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:18,640 Speaker 1: that's never mind. When I was married, I used to 753 00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,239 Speaker 1: be like, hey, um, at seventy five, you can have 754 00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:23,080 Speaker 1: sex with whoever you want to have sex with because 755 00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:27,440 Speaker 1: I won't care anymore. He took that and ran with 756 00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:29,560 Speaker 1: it because it didn't wait till he was said we 757 00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:31,839 Speaker 1: were seventy five. But that's not the point. The point 758 00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:33,960 Speaker 1: is at seventy five, if you're still married to somebody, 759 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:36,640 Speaker 1: do you really care who they have sex with? That's 760 00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:39,759 Speaker 1: the question. Where are we going here? Do you really care? 761 00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:43,400 Speaker 1: Like you second five, he's seventy seven. I cannot imagine 762 00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:46,239 Speaker 1: that you care. I can't know if you want to 763 00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:49,399 Speaker 1: like because if there's a moment where I don't want 764 00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 1: to do it and you do, go find somebody else 765 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:55,560 Speaker 1: to do it with. That's that's just my philosophy. Okay, 766 00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:58,080 Speaker 1: So if there are any seventy five year olds listening, 767 00:40:59,840 --> 00:41:02,520 Speaker 1: I hope not because we're in a horrible demographic. That 768 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:06,520 Speaker 1: just kidding, Oh my god, just kidding, just kidding. Just look, 769 00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:10,759 Speaker 1: you will be sing before you know, and I will 770 00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:13,840 Speaker 1: who if I If I'm in a relationship, the dude 771 00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:16,759 Speaker 1: can have a free for all. So your thing, you know, 772 00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:19,160 Speaker 1: it's well, I mean, if you're married, okay. I feel 773 00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:21,719 Speaker 1: like when seventy five year olds or in a relationship, 774 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,400 Speaker 1: they never call them Okay, if they're not married to 775 00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,880 Speaker 1: that person, they don't call them. They're like boyfriend and girlfriend. 776 00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,839 Speaker 1: They just like that's my friend. Really, there's your friend, 777 00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:34,440 Speaker 1: that's their friend. My grandmother had a friend, you know 778 00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:36,839 Speaker 1: what saying? It was like, Okay, I guess. And when 779 00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:38,799 Speaker 1: I think about it now that I'm older, I'm like, 780 00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:43,960 Speaker 1: was he friends with other ladies? Maybe? But Mr Johnson, 781 00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:48,839 Speaker 1: Dennis Johnson, who lived in Augusta, Georgia, grandmother's friend because 782 00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,040 Speaker 1: they didn't live in the same city. No, she lived 783 00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:54,840 Speaker 1: in Baltimore and Dennis Johnson lived in Augusta, and that 784 00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,719 Speaker 1: was her friend. When would they see each other, he 785 00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:00,080 Speaker 1: would come visit or she would go down there, but 786 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,759 Speaker 1: it was always you know, Mr Johnson. So but now 787 00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:05,440 Speaker 1: I think about it, I'm like, oh, that wasn't just 788 00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:08,600 Speaker 1: her friend. Wait a minute, Robber, you're just now figuring 789 00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:12,040 Speaker 1: that out because I was. I was. Mr Johnson was 790 00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:14,640 Speaker 1: getting it in okay with your grandmother, I hate to 791 00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:17,640 Speaker 1: tell you, Okay. And they were driving, they were taking trips, 792 00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:20,640 Speaker 1: driving trips, driving all over the road when they shouldn't 793 00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,800 Speaker 1: have been. No, they should not have been cat calling 794 00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:27,200 Speaker 1: over okay. So Robin and I have had a couple 795 00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:30,520 Speaker 1: of like, well, Robbing in particular, have had a couple 796 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:33,960 Speaker 1: of weeks that have just been like a lot, okay, 797 00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,240 Speaker 1: So well, not really me, but I'm gonna say robbing okay, 798 00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:39,319 Speaker 1: but I'm gonna be in there with you. So this 799 00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:42,239 Speaker 1: So there is a phone number that you can call 800 00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:47,719 Speaker 1: and it gives you encouraging words by the mouths of children, 801 00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:51,640 Speaker 1: and it's beautiful. So I'm gonna read the number seven 802 00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:54,319 Speaker 1: or seven eight seven three seven eight six too. So 803 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,840 Speaker 1: if you call this number, can you read that again? That? Okay? 804 00:42:56,880 --> 00:43:00,600 Speaker 1: Can I seven or seven? That is a pet peeve? Yeah. 805 00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:03,399 Speaker 1: When people call you and they leave your voice mess 806 00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:05,800 Speaker 1: and you say, hey, robbing this Mary Jones, give me 807 00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:11,120 Speaker 1: a call back for one oh photo? What Mary? Really? Okay, 808 00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:14,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it's well seven oh seven eight seven 809 00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:19,319 Speaker 1: three seven eight six too. If you want an encouraging word, 810 00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:21,600 Speaker 1: if they're having a bad day, if you go on 811 00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:23,920 Speaker 1: social media and you realize it's toxic and you just 812 00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:28,480 Speaker 1: need some uplifting words, just call that number and you're 813 00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,719 Speaker 1: gonna get a child to tell you you can do it. 814 00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:37,880 Speaker 1: Life is good, all is well, and it's gonna uplift 815 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,960 Speaker 1: your entire day. Trust and believe Can I can I 816 00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:42,960 Speaker 1: try it? Yes? So Ron's gonna call it right now. 817 00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:44,840 Speaker 1: So you'll can understand what we're talking about, but we 818 00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:46,480 Speaker 1: just want to you know, we always want to give 819 00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,200 Speaker 1: you all something positive out here. I think that a 820 00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:51,040 Speaker 1: positive word from my child, because like, if my kids 821 00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:54,280 Speaker 1: tell me something positive, I'm always like super excited about 822 00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:55,879 Speaker 1: you know what they have to say. They don't say 823 00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:58,600 Speaker 1: it very often, but oh actually you know what. You know, 824 00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:02,040 Speaker 1: he's been giving me hugs lately, angel as a non hugger, 825 00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:04,879 Speaker 1: and she has been like rolling up on me, hugging me, 826 00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:08,360 Speaker 1: telling me she loves me. Welcome to Pup Talk, a 827 00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:15,279 Speaker 1: public art project by west Side School. Get the west 828 00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:18,719 Speaker 1: Side School. If you're feeling mad, frustrated, or nervous. Press one. 829 00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,680 Speaker 1: If you needed words of encouragement and life advice, Press 830 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:26,239 Speaker 1: two if you need to have talks from be grateful 831 00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:33,480 Speaker 1: for yourself. Good, live it up. Be you. I trust 832 00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:38,360 Speaker 1: that you can make things work. Be happy, try it again. 833 00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:42,719 Speaker 1: Believe in yourself. If you're feeling up, I up high 834 00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:47,759 Speaker 1: and unbalanced, think of groundhogs. You can't be different. Oh, 835 00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:52,320 Speaker 1: we say together, don't give up power through We all 836 00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:57,600 Speaker 1: really like you. Oh that is so sweet, So yes, 837 00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,480 Speaker 1: we If you need some words of encouragement, the kids 838 00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:04,360 Speaker 1: will get you to put a smile on your face. Um, 839 00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:06,759 Speaker 1: and that was courtesy of one of our listeners. You say, 840 00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:09,160 Speaker 1: did you give his name? Derek Dash? Shared Dash and 841 00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:12,200 Speaker 1: thank you appreciate the listener. We appreciate. Oh yeah, oh right, 842 00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,480 Speaker 1: god Derek. Yes, we love you. Derek. Derek into a 843 00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:17,840 Speaker 1: live show. Yes, he did with his yes. And he travels. 844 00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:19,440 Speaker 1: He wants everybody now. He travels the world. He goes 845 00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:23,640 Speaker 1: to Paris, London, Italy, Switzerland, He's about to go to Africa. 846 00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:26,239 Speaker 1: He's you know, the man anyway. So I'll never forget 847 00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:29,240 Speaker 1: to live your life either reasonable or shade or both. 848 00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:32,600 Speaker 1: And I'll be careful and safe out there and don't 849 00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:35,839 Speaker 1: cause me to road rage again. You thank you. By 850 00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:46,880 Speaker 1: Reasonably Shady is a production of the Black Affect podcast Network. 851 00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:49,920 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from our heart Radio, visit the I 852 00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:53,200 Speaker 1: Heart Radio app Apple podcast for wherever you listen to 853 00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:56,040 Speaker 1: your favorite shows, and you can connect with us on 854 00:45:56,080 --> 00:46:01,720 Speaker 1: social media at Robin Dixonton, Giselle Bryant. Reasonably Shady