WEBVTT - Complicated Relationships ( Jimmy Kimmel vs Trump and Jeezy opens up about his next chapter) 0:00:02.279 --> 0:00:04.720 I'm a homegrowl that knows a little bit about everything 0:00:04.800 --> 0:00:05.640 and everybody. 0:00:06.519 --> 0:00:09.719 You know, if you don't lie about that, right la Hey, y'all, 0:00:09.760 --> 0:00:10.159 what's up. 0:00:10.240 --> 0:00:13.160 It's Laura the Rosa and this is the latest with 0:00:13.240 --> 0:00:15.800 Laura the Rosa. This is your Deli dig on all 0:00:15.840 --> 0:00:19.920 things pop culture, entertainment, news, and all of the conversations 0:00:19.920 --> 0:00:24.320 that shake the room. Now we are back with another episode, 0:00:24.400 --> 0:00:27.560 so of course we gotta check in behind the scenes 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:33.479 of the Grind at this point, y'all, if I'm being 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:35.680 honest about how I'm feeling, just where I'm at and 0:00:35.720 --> 0:00:38.760 what is going on with myself, I'm counted down to 0:00:38.800 --> 0:00:42.720 days until we are on Christmas break. Like I am, 0:00:42.960 --> 0:00:46.680 honestly and truly counting down. I enjoyed the Thanksgiving break 0:00:46.680 --> 0:00:49.440 in my birthday so much. I know that this Christmas 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:51.400 break won't be the same, because you know, we'll be 0:00:51.479 --> 0:00:51.840 on break. 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:53.159 When I say on break, I don't mean here at 0:00:53.159 --> 0:00:53.680 the podcast. 0:00:53.720 --> 0:00:56.600 You guys will still get episodes here on the podcast, 0:00:56.680 --> 0:00:58.920 but the Breakfast Club will be on break for about 0:00:59.280 --> 0:01:02.080 two weeks. There's no way I can go away for 0:01:02.120 --> 0:01:04.600 two weeks and not work and not watch news and 0:01:04.640 --> 0:01:08.200 not create news. And you know I'm not, but I 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:10.440 am going to give myself some time, like the day 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:16.360 before Christmas Eve to probably about like the twenty fifth, 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:20.360 maybe the twenty fifth. Yeah, so like the twenty six 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:21.640 I'll wake up and get back to work. So I'll 0:01:21.640 --> 0:01:24.200 give myself a couple of days and then I'm back 0:01:24.240 --> 0:01:26.399 at it. Headed to Ghana on the twenty seventh. I'm 0:01:26.400 --> 0:01:30.880 going to Gano for the first time. Taylor's here, y'all. 0:01:31.160 --> 0:01:34.520 Taylor Gang is back. Taylor made it its back. 0:01:34.920 --> 0:01:39.039 She's a mom now, yes, me, and she's back to work, 0:01:39.120 --> 0:01:39.960 and I know that sucks. 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:40.160 Hime. 0:01:40.760 --> 0:01:42.800 Speaking of being back, are you excited to be back? 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:45.520 It's not necessarily exciting, but you know I'm ready to, 0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:49.080 you know, start my new chapter being a mom and still. 0:01:48.880 --> 0:01:51.800 You know, working or working then you know, trying to 0:01:51.840 --> 0:01:54.600 be the boss to that. Have you fold? 0:01:54.640 --> 0:01:56.400 I mean it's only been like a couple of days 0:01:56.480 --> 0:01:58.720 or like, but you have do you feel like, oh 0:01:58.760 --> 0:02:02.360 I got the balance, like the unpacked of like waking 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:04.480 up doing something with baby didn't come work. 0:02:05.000 --> 0:02:07.200 Not necessarily because my son's like. 0:02:07.160 --> 0:02:09.000 All over the place, like he's still grow. 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:14.520 Like he's continuously growing and changing. So it's just it's 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:17.240 just continue like adjusting. 0:02:18.040 --> 0:02:19.360 Well, were we happy to have you back? 0:02:19.520 --> 0:02:20.600 I'm happy to be back there. 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:23.400 Yes, y'all tell like she had no baby nowhere, she 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:27.200 looked exactly the same before her baby was here, like 0:02:27.280 --> 0:02:28.600 literally exactly the same. 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:29.240 Thank you. 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:31.440 But yes, honey, I know you can't wait for the 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:35.200 Christmas break either. Yes, let's go back. That's I came 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:35.919 out perfect. 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:36.680 I got to like. 0:02:36.800 --> 0:02:38.400 Get into it and then I'm like, all right, I'm 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:39.040 on break again. 0:02:39.120 --> 0:02:44.519 Ye yes, so I am counting down those days. Yeah, 0:02:44.639 --> 0:02:47.520 I'm there. I'm counting down. But we are going to 0:02:47.560 --> 0:02:50.240 get into the latest and what's going on. What's going on? 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:54.480 So let's do it, Okay, So first up, Jimmy Kimmel. 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:56.680 Y'all know, I don't know if I said it here 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:59.360 on the podcast, but late Night TV, I just think, 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:01.639 even though I know the you know, the market is 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:04.720 changing and the game is changing, and people a lot 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:06.799 of the eyeballs aren't there anymore. But Jimmy Kimble was 0:03:06.840 --> 0:03:09.720 still on air and doing the thing you all remember. 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:12.000 Back in September, he was taking off air for a 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:15.120 sec because ABC was upset about some comments that he 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:19.000 had made after Charlie Kirk passed away, but then he 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:21.720 was brought back on air. Scoured through the episodes. I 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:24.400 don't know what episode number it is, but we covered 0:03:24.400 --> 0:03:26.880 that here when Kimmel was taken off of air and 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:29.560 the things that were said by the FCC chair mem 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:34.359 Brendan Carr, who you know, threw a very harsh warning 0:03:34.360 --> 0:03:36.880 to the network and said the network in Disney said 0:03:36.920 --> 0:03:38.120 we can do this the easy way, or we can 0:03:38.160 --> 0:03:40.880 do this the hard way. And it was just announced 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:42.640 that not only is he back, I mean, we know 0:03:42.680 --> 0:03:45.160 he's back because we've been watching him, but ABC has 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:47.480 just announced that in Jimmy Kimmel have just announced that 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:50.160 they have extended his show for at least one year. 0:03:50.760 --> 0:03:53.680 After all of that commotion and the suspension and all 0:03:53.720 --> 0:03:56.040 of the things. So kim O put up a post 0:03:56.200 --> 0:03:59.920 from Bloomberg that it's titled Jimmy Kimmel extends deal with 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:02.440 Disney ABC for at least a year and the caption 0:04:03.160 --> 0:04:05.240 he's throwing a shot back at Trump. In the caption, 0:04:05.400 --> 0:04:08.760 he says, I'm pleased to announce another no talent year. 0:04:09.520 --> 0:04:09.680 Now. 0:04:09.720 --> 0:04:12.280 The reason why this is a shot is because the 0:04:12.400 --> 0:04:16.560 Kennedy Center honors took place recently and President Trump was 0:04:16.560 --> 0:04:18.680 the host of the evening and he was asked about, 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:21.560 you know, how he prepared versus not because he said 0:04:21.600 --> 0:04:23.720 he did not prepare, and he took a shot at Kimmel. 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:25.479 Let's take a listen, how. 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:27.080 Have you prepared the host tonight? 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:30.359 Well, maybe I haven't prepared. Maybe you want to be 0:04:30.360 --> 0:04:33.960 a little bit loose. If you look at the great 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:38.560 hosts Johnny Carson, bau Hope, those are the greats. If 0:04:38.560 --> 0:04:40.840 you look at the Nacho greats like Jimmy Kim. 0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:49.640 Okay, so they got this, like I don't know, this 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:52.680 little love hate ish thing going on. I mean, if 0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:55.400 I'm Kimmel, of course I'm leaning into it because I 0:04:55.440 --> 0:04:57.800 mean it makes sense, right, Like, this is the president 0:04:57.839 --> 0:04:59.320 of the United States that people pay a lot of 0:04:59.360 --> 0:05:02.279 attention to. So if he's gonna keep talking about you, 0:05:02.279 --> 0:05:04.080 you get on your show, on your and you respond. 0:05:04.080 --> 0:05:06.120 And that's exactly what he did. 0:05:06.520 --> 0:05:09.960 So Kimmel, as the comedian and late night talk show 0:05:09.960 --> 0:05:12.240 hosts that he is, got on his show to let 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:15.200 Donald Trump know, listen, I'm married, Like, we can't do 0:05:15.279 --> 0:05:16.320 this flirting thing anymore. 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:19.560 Very hurtful. I thought we were friends, I don't know 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:24.000 what's going on. He is really fixated. I'm starting to 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:25.320 think he might have a crush on him. 0:05:25.360 --> 0:05:29.880 Do we know if our media and television and streaming 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:33.080 and you know, all of the things in that market 0:05:33.440 --> 0:05:37.440 are free of control from the Trump administration. No, we 0:05:37.480 --> 0:05:40.160 do not know, honestly, with everything that happened with that 0:05:40.240 --> 0:05:45.040 last merger, the sky Dance merger, and now the conversations 0:05:45.080 --> 0:05:48.200 that we're having with the Netflix and Paramount and Trump's 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:52.560 involvement and all of the things, right, I don't know, 0:05:52.680 --> 0:05:55.039 like they're trying to block out Netflix from you know, 0:05:55.080 --> 0:05:57.719 owning certain things, and Donald Trump is like, you know, 0:05:57.800 --> 0:06:00.560 basically implying that that would cause a monopoly of the industry. 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:04.359 But these last couple of big mergers in that space, 0:06:04.480 --> 0:06:07.080 Trump has been so heavily involved, and he's involved in 0:06:07.080 --> 0:06:09.039 this when he's saying he's going to be involved in 0:06:09.080 --> 0:06:12.080 the approval, we know the guys over at Paramount Ellison, 0:06:12.880 --> 0:06:16.800 that's his homie. So the monopoly to me is looking 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:19.200 like it's in the President's hands, which is crazy. 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:21.520 God be with us. 0:06:22.560 --> 0:06:25.200 Every time I see certain headlines with Trump that aren't 0:06:25.200 --> 0:06:28.960 like presidential or political related, I'm always, and I guess 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:32.159 I mean people could argue that making sure that our 0:06:32.440 --> 0:06:39.360 broadcast and media lanes are not monopolized, it's political, can 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:42.719 be political, right, But I'll be always trying to figure 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:44.480 out like he don't have nothing else to. 0:06:44.440 --> 0:06:48.880 Do exactly, There's so much other stuff he needs to 0:06:50.040 --> 0:06:54.400 really care for, and this stuff I feel like should 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:58.000 be lower in the list. 0:06:59.040 --> 0:07:02.359 Yeah, I agree, but we'll just have to like keep watching. 0:07:02.400 --> 0:07:04.440 I posted to my answer story yesterday that this whole 0:07:04.480 --> 0:07:07.160 like back and forth between Paramount and Netflix is literally 0:07:07.160 --> 0:07:09.360 like the New Real Housewives and Trump is any coin 0:07:09.760 --> 0:07:12.160 and Trump is Andy Cohen, and it like it's giving 0:07:12.480 --> 0:07:15.200 He's sterting up the girls, and the reunion is gonna 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:18.920 happen like once the whoever wins the like the big 0:07:18.960 --> 0:07:21.240 that won't even be the reunion. That'll be like, you know, 0:07:21.920 --> 0:07:23.800 we'll be getting ready for a new season, but the 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:27.760 reunion of this will be like because I know Netflix 0:07:27.760 --> 0:07:31.320 has already had their conversation with Trump Paramount and you 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:33.240 know Ellison, that's that's his friend. 0:07:33.240 --> 0:07:34.160 They're talking all the time. 0:07:34.520 --> 0:07:36.560 There's going to be this one big meeting that they 0:07:36.600 --> 0:07:38.760 have to have or something like Trump is gonna figure 0:07:38.760 --> 0:07:40.120 out a way to get them all in the room 0:07:40.400 --> 0:07:42.600 to argue, just so he can be in the mist 0:07:42.640 --> 0:07:43.960 of it and say I figured it out and I 0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:45.280 did this, and that's gonna be the reunion. 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:48.360 So we will be there, not physically, but we will 0:07:48.360 --> 0:07:49.600 be tuned in. We'll be locked in. 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:54.880 This not another news Speaking of marriages and relationships, Gez 0:07:55.280 --> 0:08:00.480 sat down with Bishop td Jakes on Tdjke's podcast Next Chapter. 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:05.200 And on this podcast, Tdjakes takes. 0:08:05.200 --> 0:08:07.920 Your Life, your story and the interview and divides it 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:10.640 into several different chapters, and he dives really deep into 0:08:10.680 --> 0:08:14.040 like past traumas and you know, like how you've gotten 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:16.240 from one place to the other, your background to who 0:08:16.240 --> 0:08:18.560 you are now, the building of your business, all those things. 0:08:18.840 --> 0:08:21.960 So he's talking to Gz about Jz's life in general, 0:08:22.240 --> 0:08:24.760 some of his hardships and when dealing with his mom 0:08:24.920 --> 0:08:29.080 and their you know, very tremultuous relationship. But then they 0:08:29.120 --> 0:08:32.880 get into relationships and marriage and Jez opens up about 0:08:33.559 --> 0:08:37.720 almost being afraid of bringing mommy issues into his marriage 0:08:37.800 --> 0:08:40.120 or relationship. And then they get to the part that 0:08:40.160 --> 0:08:42.720 I've seen a lot of the blogs and people posting 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:45.400 and talking about because there's a sense of accountability here, 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:47.679 but some people are feeling like there's also a sense 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:50.080 of arrogance. They get to the point where Jezi is 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:53.240 talking about what he learned while in his marriage and 0:08:53.280 --> 0:08:53.880 through divorce. 0:08:54.040 --> 0:08:55.960 He said, he learned that he was a good husband. 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:59.439 Let's sake a lessen, what did you learn from it? 0:09:00.280 --> 0:09:05.000 I learned I was a great husband. I can't. I 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:08.640 got a beautiful daughter out of a situation, so there's 0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:11.920 no regrets there. But I learned a lot about myself. 0:09:12.720 --> 0:09:16.880 I learned that there's things that I continue to work on. 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:23.680 I learned about, you know, my prefaces for things, the 0:09:23.760 --> 0:09:26.720 type of space that I need, the type of moments 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:30.480 that I need to decompress about certain things. And this 0:09:31.280 --> 0:09:37.800 just unselfish nature. You know that I was selfish in 0:09:37.920 --> 0:09:42.959 my prior life, and I think just going forward in life, 0:09:45.440 --> 0:09:49.160 it just taught me how to like give someone else 0:09:49.320 --> 0:09:56.520 grace and actually listen to understand rather than just to 0:09:56.600 --> 0:09:57.560 listen to reply. 0:09:58.040 --> 0:10:03.000 Ye fire back, probably, so Genie has been posting Genie 0:10:03.080 --> 0:10:06.400 is Genie my who is the ex wife of? 0:10:06.559 --> 0:10:08.920 Or they're still going through the divorce. I believe, hold on, 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:09.880 let me double check that. 0:10:10.280 --> 0:10:12.559 Yeah, so the divorce was finalized in June of twenty 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:16.040 twenty four. But Genie my since then has been like, 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:18.079 if you follow her on Instagram, she takes you on 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:21.719 this journey of like single mom life and figuring out 0:10:21.760 --> 0:10:25.160 life after divorce, And so I think she probably will 0:10:25.160 --> 0:10:25.600 fire back. 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:26.880 She's she's been coming off. 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:29.920 The girl has been given very like zen like she's 0:10:29.960 --> 0:10:32.800 in this peaceful state, So we'll see if she keeps 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:35.760 that state after his statement. But I mean, I think 0:10:36.760 --> 0:10:40.199 everything is up for interpretation. I think whenever two people 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:42.480 decide that they're not going to be together, whether marriage 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:47.319 or kids or not or are involved, you can always 0:10:47.360 --> 0:10:49.960 be en villain in somebody's story. So I think he 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:52.240 has his view on the man that he was and 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:54.840 the man he grew into from the situation, what he learned, 0:10:55.160 --> 0:10:57.080 what he didn't, and she's going to have her view, 0:10:57.120 --> 0:10:59.880 so I mean, I'm open to hear her response. But 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:02.760 when I was listening to his response, the whole husband 0:11:02.760 --> 0:11:04.319 thing kind of threw me off because I was like, 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:05.440 what does he mean? 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:06.560 But I think what. 0:11:06.440 --> 0:11:11.480 He meant is that what he learned about himself and 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:15.680 the things that he's taking accountability for, he's capable of 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:18.440 being a good husband. I think at the time in 0:11:18.480 --> 0:11:21.160 their marriage and what they were going through, I think, 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:26.520 even though he didn't say this, listening to it. 0:11:25.280 --> 0:11:28.400 It just sounded like they weren't good for each other. 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:31.760 Yeah, it was random a little bit. 0:11:32.520 --> 0:11:33.559 Yeah, I mean, I have it. 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:35.439 I wonder. I don't know the story how they hooked 0:11:35.480 --> 0:11:39.120 up or any of that, but I remember seeing a 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:40.160 picture with her. 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:43.240 I remember hearing it and seeing it and I thought 0:11:43.280 --> 0:11:47.920 it was fake. I was like, wow, like what they. 0:11:47.840 --> 0:11:50.560 Got married really quickly too, they weren't dating for that long. 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:54.520 Yeah. Okay, so here's the timeline. 0:11:56.160 --> 0:11:59.280 So they made their first public appearance in August twenty nineteen. 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:04.560 They went Instagram official in September twenty nineteen. He proposed 0:12:04.640 --> 0:12:07.840 in March of twenty twenty, now prior to them making 0:12:07.880 --> 0:12:12.319 their first public appearance, and they had their daughter in 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:15.400 January twenty twenty two. So things did move pretty fast. 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:18.600 But they started dating back in late twenty eighteen. They 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:21.079 met on the set of The Real, the talk show 0:12:21.120 --> 0:12:24.240 The Real, and then after that they begin dating and 0:12:24.280 --> 0:12:26.920 then you know, all the things happen. So I mean 0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:31.600 there was like, yeah, they had about a year after 0:12:31.640 --> 0:12:33.000 they had met and started dating. 0:12:33.000 --> 0:12:35.720 That which it can be pretty fast. 0:12:35.760 --> 0:12:38.840 But I also feel like, if you met the right person, Yeah, 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:39.760 I'm not want to judge. 0:12:40.000 --> 0:12:41.480 Yeah, I mean me either. 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:45.160 I think if you met the right person, timeline is 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:49.200 just a moving variable. Yeah, for some I also think, 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:51.840 because I think meeting the right person sometimes also means 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:55.319 that even the things that you guys are finding aren't 0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:58.000 the best about each other or the best about you 0:12:58.040 --> 0:13:03.840 guys together, you are so locked in and there's silver 0:13:03.920 --> 0:13:06.319 lining that you are willing to work on it, I think. 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:07.559 And I think. 0:13:08.800 --> 0:13:12.079 From covering the divorce of GZ and Gennie my hearing 0:13:12.120 --> 0:13:14.920 him in this interview, seeing some of the things that 0:13:15.000 --> 0:13:18.400 she's posted that you know she's learned post divorce just 0:13:18.440 --> 0:13:20.680 about relationships and you know, the new journey she's on, 0:13:21.360 --> 0:13:24.320 it kind of seems like the two had very different 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:25.960 core values. 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:27.160 I will say that. 0:13:27.320 --> 0:13:30.280 And I think, you know, in me dating and like 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:33.920 being intentional about dating like that that's something that it's 0:13:34.480 --> 0:13:35.280 very important to me. 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:37.280 And that's not even something I've learned. 0:13:37.320 --> 0:13:39.680 I've always felt like, all right, when I get to 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:41.720 a point where like I really seriously want to consider 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:43.680 someone being in my life for the rest of my life. 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:46.280 Core values matter because I think, especially when you have kids, 0:13:46.920 --> 0:13:49.199 if everything trips away, like if y'all hate each other 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:51.040 to the bone one day, but y'all still got to 0:13:51.080 --> 0:13:55.200 raise that baby. Your core values if they align, you 0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:57.120 know what I mean, Like there's a synergy there that 0:13:57.120 --> 0:14:00.600 can still happen even as co parents. So it seems like, 0:14:00.640 --> 0:14:02.240 you know, the core values were a bit different. But 0:14:02.600 --> 0:14:05.280 I'm not mad at him for taking accountability within things. 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:08.000 And I'm also not mad at him for feeling like 0:14:08.679 --> 0:14:11.559 he can be a great husband and somebody it might 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:14.200 not be to her, And I think in seeing people's 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:17.080 reaction to it, they're like, oh, not a great husband, 0:14:17.080 --> 0:14:19.160 but it ended up being divorced or not a great husband. 0:14:19.160 --> 0:14:22.160 But she accused you of ABC and D in your divorce, 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:26.440 you know, filings and documents. People got to realize, you know, 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:28.560 you could be a great person to the wrong person, 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:31.480 or you know, he might not have been the best. 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:35.040 There are things. I'm sure we're not his best days. 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:38.800 In that relationship, as in any relationship or you know, marriage, 0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:42.040 but coming out of it and learning, especially at his 0:14:42.120 --> 0:14:45.800 big age, you want to hear that accountability and that maturity. Sure, 0:14:46.000 --> 0:14:47.160 Like if we didn't hear it that I'd be a 0:14:47.160 --> 0:14:51.520 little disappointed, okay that period, especially because he has kids 0:14:52.640 --> 0:14:54.280 and he's been I mean, he's been a father. 0:14:54.360 --> 0:14:55.400 He had kids very young. 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:58.880 But even when he talked about that in this episode, 0:14:58.920 --> 0:15:01.880 he talks about learning toil apologize to his daughter and 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:04.040 some of the things he's recently learning and he's been 0:15:04.080 --> 0:15:06.640 a father, yeah you know what I mean. But again, 0:15:06.720 --> 0:15:08.800 he's growing, he's not And people are just people. Your 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:11.680 parents are just people, married people, just people. You're figuring 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:12.040 it out. 0:15:12.360 --> 0:15:14.560 No, for sure, I feel like my parents are still 0:15:14.800 --> 0:15:18.640 well not their marriage, but like even like with my dad, 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:22.360 Like I feel like he's learning even to be even 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:25.880 more like romantic with my my mom And how long have. 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:28.040 They been married forty five years? 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:31.160 See, Like and I think there's there will be so 0:15:31.200 --> 0:15:33.680 many people that'd be like if your man doesn't court 0:15:33.720 --> 0:15:36.040 you a romance you But he've. 0:15:35.880 --> 0:15:36.640 Done so much. 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:36.960 Yeah. 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:39.800 But like the thing, my dad's been such a provider 0:15:39.880 --> 0:15:43.240 for the family. Yeah, and you know whole lack like 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:46.640 we've always went on family vacations. But I think he's 0:15:46.680 --> 0:15:50.600 starting to realize really what like bringing my mom joy 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:52.080 and that's just being with family. 0:15:52.320 --> 0:15:53.760 Yeah, you know, what I mean, And I love to 0:15:53.760 --> 0:15:56.000 hear that because I also think too that what you 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:57.720 begin to realize, like when you're talking. 0:15:57.520 --> 0:15:59.720 To change, Yes, I when you think about spending life 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:00.480 with some is. 0:16:00.440 --> 0:16:04.000 Like who you are day one, year one, if not 0:16:04.080 --> 0:16:06.120 who you are year forty five. 0:16:06.880 --> 0:16:09.280 That all so you have to relearn each other and 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:10.440 that's like work. And that's what I. 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:13.920 Meant by yeah stuff yep, And that's what I meant 0:16:13.920 --> 0:16:16.160 by like timeline with Geez and Genie Mitt, like you know, 0:16:16.200 --> 0:16:18.480 it seems like things progress pretty quickly with them, but 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:21.880 I mean if you got if you are down for 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:25.000 that ride with that person, you learn each other as 0:16:25.040 --> 0:16:25.320 you go. 0:16:25.400 --> 0:16:26.320 And I mean I know. 0:16:26.280 --> 0:16:29.520 People who've been together for me like since the first 0:16:29.520 --> 0:16:32.640 link literally and are now happily. Have a friend in 0:16:32.680 --> 0:16:36.480 Atlanta who met a guy. She's a model, he's a photographer. 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:39.480 Literally met him. They have a whole life together now, 0:16:39.520 --> 0:16:42.880 three kids in I think they literally met, did a 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:45.120 photo shoot. She finally gave in and gave them like 0:16:45.120 --> 0:16:47.560 went on a date. When from that first date they've 0:16:47.600 --> 0:16:50.120 never separated, moved in I think like within like the 0:16:50.160 --> 0:16:53.200 first like couple months of their relationship and three kids. 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:56.760 Timing and knowing what you want matters a lot, like 0:16:56.920 --> 0:16:57.840 the intention I. 0:16:57.760 --> 0:17:02.320 Told you, Yeah, wow, we are we're in such different 0:17:02.320 --> 0:17:05.040 spaces in our lives tailor last time we were talking 0:17:05.080 --> 0:17:07.520 about relationship, I was in like such a different space. 0:17:07.800 --> 0:17:09.640 I don't think that I wasn't. I'm not even thinking 0:17:09.640 --> 0:17:12.159 I wasn't intentional in that part of my life. But 0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:15.879 I feel like it's I don't think if there's anything 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:19.159 wrong with the per se, but I do think you 0:17:19.240 --> 0:17:22.120 start to realize, like you get you're giving your time, 0:17:22.160 --> 0:17:25.280 your energy, and and your body to people that you 0:17:25.440 --> 0:17:28.080 know you have no further plan with, like at all. 0:17:28.119 --> 0:17:31.080 Like because once I met somebody, like I mentally, I 0:17:31.080 --> 0:17:32.959 got to a point where I'm like, okay, like you know, 0:17:33.560 --> 0:17:35.040 everything's speeding up in life for me. 0:17:35.080 --> 0:17:37.439 I don't have time to just like do whatever. 0:17:38.200 --> 0:17:40.800 And then my intention change and I met somebody and 0:17:41.240 --> 0:17:44.920 I will relinked with somebody that I was just like 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:47.960 I want to be so intentional about this, like I 0:17:48.000 --> 0:17:48.960 want to figure this out. 0:17:49.760 --> 0:17:49.960 Yeah. 0:17:50.040 --> 0:17:53.119 I think like as as people as we get older, 0:17:54.840 --> 0:17:57.359 certain things are more important, and intentions, I guess it, 0:17:57.400 --> 0:17:58.160 are more important. 0:17:58.440 --> 0:18:00.000 People dating people are. 0:17:59.840 --> 0:18:02.160 Just it's fine too, but I feel like it gets 0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:04.960 to a point where it's just like, all right, I 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:10.600 went to be with someone and like grow grow with someone. 0:18:10.880 --> 0:18:11.560 That's important. 0:18:11.760 --> 0:18:14.679 It is. Why was Geez the best? That was Genie 0:18:14.720 --> 0:18:17.400 miy the best? They have a beautiful baby that's so cute. 0:18:17.440 --> 0:18:19.040 I saw a video Genie Might posted the other day 0:18:19.040 --> 0:18:20.920 of her baby girl like kissing her and telling her 0:18:21.280 --> 0:18:22.919 that she like her baby girl, like kiss her on 0:18:22.920 --> 0:18:24.480 her forehead and on both of her cheeks, and I 0:18:24.520 --> 0:18:26.560 told her she loved her, And it was like such 0:18:26.600 --> 0:18:28.200 a moment. I think Genie Mind said it like brought 0:18:28.200 --> 0:18:30.280 her to tears. So you know, a beautiful baby came 0:18:30.280 --> 0:18:31.920 out of that situation at the end of the day. 0:18:32.000 --> 0:18:34.040 So let's keep it going. But make sure you guys 0:18:34.040 --> 0:18:37.320 go check out that full conversation. It is two hours long, 0:18:37.359 --> 0:18:40.240 but it's very in depth. It's super well done too. 0:18:40.640 --> 0:18:43.600 I mean it's Bishop Tdjake so dub, but it's very 0:18:43.600 --> 0:18:46.000 well done. It takes you through Jz's life story and 0:18:46.080 --> 0:18:49.080 kind of really helps you understand who he is as 0:18:49.160 --> 0:18:51.680 a man now and who he was then and kind 0:18:51.720 --> 0:18:54.560 of you know why why we've gotten some of the 0:18:54.680 --> 0:18:57.879 music and the things that we've gotten from GZ throughout 0:18:57.880 --> 0:19:00.000 the year is good and bad. So go check that out. 0:19:00.040 --> 0:19:02.879 It's called Next Chapter with Bishop td Jakes. 0:19:03.040 --> 0:19:05.160 But yeah, guys, that's it for the episode. 0:19:05.200 --> 0:19:07.639