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Speaker 1: Welcome to reasonably shady mail bag.

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Speaker 2: What's up everyone?

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Speaker 1: What up?

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Speaker 2: Thank you for being here with us. We're about to

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Speaker 2: get in.

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Speaker 1: I'm mail bag, ye ye, yes, Okay.

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Speaker 2: You can do it. Okay, you've got mail. So this

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Speaker 2: one says you ready, don't read this well, it says,

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Speaker 2: please keep my name anonymous. Okay, take out all right,

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Speaker 2: so listen.

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Speaker 1: Moving forward, let's not read the full day. Okay, this

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Speaker 1: is from no one. Okay, all right, Hi beautifuls please

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Speaker 1: keep this anonymous. Okay, so we'll take out her name

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Speaker 1: because the people I'm about to talk about listen to

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Speaker 1: your podcast. Ooh, First, I want you to know that

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Speaker 1: your audience is probably more diverse than you think.

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Speaker 2: Hell, I'm a white lady older than Karen. Hey, hey, grandma.

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Speaker 1: And I've been listening since the jump. Anyway, I adore

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Speaker 1: you both.

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Speaker 2: But now thank you.

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Speaker 1: I'm in a predicament that only you, too can give

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Speaker 1: me advice on Okay, I'm feeling shady.

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Speaker 2: But I just don't know.

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Speaker 1: My best friend is almost fifty years Oh no, my

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Speaker 1: best friend of almost fifty years has a grown daughter

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Speaker 1: who called me the other day for advice. My friend

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Speaker 1: has no idea that I'm talking to her daughter about

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Speaker 1: problems she's dealing with, some of which include situations with

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Speaker 1: her mother. Obviously, she's coming to me because she can

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Speaker 1: trust me to help her since I've.

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Speaker 2: Known her her whole life.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and I would never steer her wrong. Let's getting good.

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Speaker 1: This is gonna be me and Core gonna be calling me.

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Speaker 1: Can I talk to you about my mom?

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Speaker 2: And I'd be like, pull up a chance? Okay.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, yesterday I was on the phone with my friend

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Speaker 1: for damn near two hours talking about our usual stuff.

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Speaker 1: After hanging up, I started feeling guilty and shady that

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Speaker 1: she doesn't know about my conversations with her daughter. Now

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Speaker 1: I'm going to look like I'm sneaking around behind her

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Speaker 1: back if it comes out. I'm trying to think how

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Speaker 1: would I feel if the tables were turned. I think

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Speaker 1: I would feel okay because I would trust her with

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Speaker 2: Okay? Am I the shadiest of friends? Or am I reasonable?

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Speaker 1: What should I do? I know I can't count on

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Speaker 1: you to give it to me, all right. I know

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Speaker 1: I can count on you'all to give it to me straight.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, lovely, ladies. You're the best.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I believe.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I just first want to say Taylor definitely take

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Speaker 1: out her name, yes, because we just totally cole busted

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Speaker 1: those that situation. Okay, So yeah, is this reasonable or shady?

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Speaker 2: I believe. I believe it's reasonable because I would want

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Speaker 2: my child to have another you know, adult or you know,

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Speaker 2: parental figure that they feel comfortable enough with talking confidentially. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I like that, And I just think you know, once

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Speaker 2: an adult child, like, yeah, over eighteen. Once your kids

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Speaker 1: Them be true, right, very true.

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Speaker 2: So you don't really deserve to know everything, although you

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Speaker 2: would want to know everything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So no, I feel like I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: kind of wouldn't I get what you're saying. Yeah, but okay,

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Speaker 1: let's just say it's me and you, and Grace is

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Speaker 1: coming to you and telling you information about her that

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Speaker 1: I don't know, right, I feel I'll be in my feelings.

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Speaker 1: But because I'm like, I'm her mama, why don't I

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Speaker 2: But if but if Grace is like Robin, please do

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Speaker 1: My mom please, like of course you're not gonna tell me.

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Speaker 1: But Grace, why are you going to Robin anyway when

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Speaker 2: Because for whatever reason, she didn't feel like she could

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Speaker 2: because I mean, I don't okay, but would you tell me? No, Damn,

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to say anything. Yeah, So I think

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Speaker 1: have a relationship. None of my kids can talk to Robin.

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Speaker 2: But don't you want your kids to have an adult

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Speaker 2: know kids, they don't always take their parents advice. They

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Speaker 2: pretty much give them the same advice that you probably would.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you know, but if it's something that I really

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Speaker 2: Know, it's right. So I guess it depends on how

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Speaker 2: yeah serious this is.

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Speaker 1: Like if she's trying to move to Tijuana to be

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Speaker 2: But I think as your friend, i'd be like, all right, Grace,

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Speaker 2: you have to tell your mother. Okay, you know what

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Speaker 2: I mean, right, right, right, right?

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Speaker 1: You know, yes, And if she doesn't tell me that

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Speaker 1: I'm coming for you, right, because you didn't make sure

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Speaker 1: she told me, Because because she tells me that she's like,

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Speaker 1: well Robin knew, I'd.

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Speaker 2: Be like what, oh yeah, I would be mad, like

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Speaker 2: rob it? Oh hell no.

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Speaker 1: I mean it does get a little like it's sticky sticky, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I could see it goes both ways.

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Speaker 2: But I just feel like, mm, I would I do

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Speaker 2: want my child to feel like they can trust people totally,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I feel that. I feel that parenting is.

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Speaker 1: I was talking to actually a guy recently and he

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Speaker 1: Like it's a rap. I'm done, Like you can't be

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Speaker 1: you do realize that's not unconditional love. That's actually conditional,

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Speaker 2: But also I think you probably think that you have

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Speaker 1: So I would be offended, like why couldn't you tell me?

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind her telling you, but why couldn't you

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Speaker 2: Not every parent has that relationship with their kids, true,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean, because because at least he's talking.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so I see the different sound. So like

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Speaker 1: tell me what you're telling Robin that, yeah, that would

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I know with my nephews.

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Speaker 1: They would tell me stuff because I would just ask

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Speaker 2: And they would tell me, but they weren't telling their.

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Speaker 1: Parents, right, So yeah, yeah, okay, it's a little different.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, man, it's definitely different. Scenarios. But I

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Speaker 2: think I think you're good.

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Speaker 1: This is actually the two different definition of reasonably shady. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because it can go both ways. So thank you, ma'am

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Speaker 1: for helping us like figure that out. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: That was a good one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I like that one. This is from Rachel. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm not supposed to say names anymore, but she doesn't

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Speaker 2: Just don't say their last name.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is Rachel poppy Cock. Okay, what, don't make

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Speaker 2: Oh you made up a name?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Rachel poppy Cut Okay, yeah, okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: she says, Hey, Robin, it is not.

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Speaker 2: My favorite g Eb's first lee. It's firstly, it's not

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Speaker 1: Thirdly, yes, true, I thought it was first.

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Speaker 1: Firstly, I have to say, you both provide me so

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Speaker 1: much entertainment throughout the week. I've only been listening for

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Speaker 1: a couple of months now, so I flip flop between

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Speaker 1: current and old episodes. Sometimes my coworkers catch me cracking

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Speaker 1: up at my desk, especially listening to the stories about

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Speaker 1: why women haven't gone back for a second hookup.

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Speaker 2: What you mean but that would all be too so right.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't even I don't remember saying that. Oh, Gus,

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Speaker 1: if he's horrible the first time, I'm gonna go back

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Speaker 1: for some.

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Speaker 2: More that you're not. Well, yeah, I'm not going back for.

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Speaker 1: Some more horrible, horrible penish your whole. Yes, So I've

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Speaker 1: got several. I tell everybody they should listen to your show.

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Speaker 2: So thank you.

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Speaker 1: The reason I wanted to write in is to see

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Speaker 1: if I'm just completely out of the loop or not.

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Speaker 2: Okay, long story short.

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Speaker 1: My friend at work was telling me about how another

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Speaker 1: coworker of ours, who was in their sixties called his

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Speaker 1: daughter ratchet. Okay, we were so surprised to hear him

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Speaker 1: say this about his daughter. We are both millennials and

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Speaker 1: thought ratchet was a negative word to use for somebody.

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Speaker 1: But when I googled it, dictionary dot com said it

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Speaker 1: was now used as a term for female empowerment.

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Speaker 2: What since when dictionary dot com is wrong? Are you okay?

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Speaker 2: Are you sure about this? She said?

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Speaker 1: Have you ladies heard about this change? And I'm just

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Speaker 1: living under a rock or is dictionary dot com lie.

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Speaker 2: In they're lying?

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Speaker 1: Hopefully you'll be able to address this because I'm dying

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Speaker 1: to hear your answer as much love sprinkled with some

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Speaker 1: reasonable shade, Rachel.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, ratchet, I'm looking at myself.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, First of all, I don't as you look

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Speaker 1: it up. First of all, I don't feel like ratchet

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Speaker 1: is horrible. That's not a horrible term.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is so weird, all right, So this is

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Speaker 2: so weird. So the definition this is the adjective ratchet.

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Speaker 2: Number one says flashy, unrefined, et cetera, low class, ratchet

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Speaker 2: girls wearing too much makeup. Number two exhibiting or affirming

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Speaker 2: low class traits in a way that is considered authentic.

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Speaker 2: Better to stay a ratchet But okay, this is on.

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Speaker 2: This is this sentence on dictionary dot com. Dictionary dot com.

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Speaker 2: Better to stay a ratchet bitch than become a bougie

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Speaker 2: poser like her?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: First of all, I didn't know we were going to

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Speaker 1: dictionary dot com for definitions, but.

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Speaker 2: Well, what else do we go to dictionary dot com

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Speaker 2: for definitions? I mean, for don't go to dictionary doc

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Speaker 2: Google like you google it. She's that dictionary doctor.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, okay, okay, what dictionary dot com talking about

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Speaker 1: and then.

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Speaker 2: The third tradition says extremely good awesome.

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Speaker 1: Okay, stop it. Stop a dictionary doctor, you're fired. You're

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Speaker 1: totally opposite. You can't be low class and and extremely

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Speaker 1: good awesome.

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Speaker 2: What Yeah, okay, no, okay, this is news, Rachel. This

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Speaker 2: is this is this is when bad means bad and

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Speaker 2: bad means good. Right. Yeah, so, but no, I've never

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Speaker 2: used it like, I've never heard anyone use it in

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Speaker 2: that way. If anyone was to say, all right, sorry,

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Speaker 2: so when so when bad means good, he'd be like, oh,

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Speaker 2: that's a bad bitch right there, that's a bad man, Agema.

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Speaker 2: I've never heard anyone be like, that's a ratchet bitch

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Speaker 2: right there.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, ratchet, she is a ratchet. No, ratchet is

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Speaker 1: still bad. Yeah, but it's not bad like offensive. If

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Speaker 1: someone called me ratchet, I'd be like you no, no,

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Speaker 1: because you know you're not ratchet. So you'd be like, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm ratchet.

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Speaker 2: I show you ratchet. Right, Yeah, it's true. Yeah, so

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Speaker 2: you know we aren't using it that way. No, So

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Speaker 2: you're not out of the loop, Rachel.

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Speaker 1: You're not out of the loop. We're not using it

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Speaker 1: that way. And more importantly, dictionary dot com is run by.

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey Epstein. Aliens.

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Speaker 1: Aliens don't know what they talk about, right, Okay, yes,

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Speaker 1: not Jeffrey Epstein.

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Speaker 2: Do we Believeste?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we said we. We don't believe Epstein is

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Speaker 1: still alive.

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Speaker 2: Oh right, because there was a picture of them, Yes,

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Speaker 2: I'm supposedly a picture of a man with a bunch

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Speaker 2: of hair and beard, look like Jason, if you're that man? Right,

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Speaker 2: like you're that man, and all of a sudden your

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Speaker 2: picture is everywhere. I don't think that's a I think so.

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Speaker 1: Yes, true, that could be, but I mean, if he

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Speaker 1: is alive, it wouldn't be surprising.

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Speaker 2: No, no, yeah, because he's.

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Speaker 1: Got a lot of people in the choke hold holding

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Speaker 1: their balls tight.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, so a lot of names.

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Speaker 1: But I do appreciate I'm sorry, I do appreciate you

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Speaker 1: when when there is a name and the person is like,

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Speaker 1: hell no, let me Because the other day it was like,

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Speaker 1: excuse me, let me tell you why my name came

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Speaker 1: up because other people ain't saying Shitright.

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Speaker 2: When is jay Z going to say something? Is it

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Speaker 2: his name in it? Jay Z and Beyonce? Are they

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Speaker 2: in it? Am I making that up?

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Speaker 1: You're not making I don't know about Beyonce. Maybe jay

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Speaker 1: Jay was something somewhere with Harry Harvey.

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Speaker 2: He was quick to talk about. Yes, when that man

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Speaker 2: found a lawsuit Tony Busby, Yes, yes, he was quick

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Speaker 2: that's a lie. Yes, But this one we heard silence,

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Speaker 2: Jaiu's silence stepping you. But I don't know what was

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Speaker 2: that about him? I need to order. Yeah it was

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Speaker 2: it was something.

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Speaker 1: There was somebody that called a tip in to I

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Speaker 1: guess the FBI, and he was involved. He was in

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Speaker 1: the tip. It was like jay Z, Harvey, Weinstein and

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Speaker 1: pusha T. I would never put the three of them together.

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Speaker 1: Did something to this person?

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Speaker 2: Oh really? Yeah? Mm okay, Well I hope jay Z

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Speaker 2: did not do whatever I pray. Yeah, well, I hope.

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Speaker 1: Let me just say this, I hope I wish that

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Speaker 1: none of this could have happened to any of these girls.

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Speaker 2: Like it's just terrible. Yeah, it's just freaking it's horrible, terrible. Yeah. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Oh, and you heard about I know I'm going on

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Speaker 1: a rabbit hole. You heard about the creator of the Simpsons.

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Speaker 1: Did we talk about this, No, and how he's on

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Speaker 1: the list and how he was on the Island and

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Speaker 1: that's how the Simpsons always got it right.

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Speaker 2: How they predicted everything. Yep, what really allegedly? Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: interesting makes sense. Alrighty this is from John. Hey, John,

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Speaker 2: I'll say his last name because he wants a birthday

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Speaker 2: shout out John Read I John Read. The subject is

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Speaker 2: it's so funny, he said, hello ladies before the podcast starts.

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Speaker 2: I guess when you press play, it says this is

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Speaker 2: an iHeart podcast certified human. Huh. Oh, so they're saying

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Speaker 2: they have to tell you that we're humans. Oh, it's funny.

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Speaker 2: How we need a disclaimer now, Yes, that is funny,

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Speaker 2: like I like that. So they have to give disclaimers

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Speaker 2: to let you know that the podcast you're listening to

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Speaker 2: is a human. Yeah, okay, this AI shit is out

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Speaker 2: of control, out of control. We need regulation now. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So he says, I was wondering two things. Can I

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Speaker 2: get a late happy birthday from you to My birthday

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Speaker 2: was December third? Oh? Happy but lated happy birthday? December third?

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Speaker 2: That's my brother's birthday. Yeah, good day.

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Speaker 1: And a god that used to date his birthday's December third?

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Speaker 2: Very nice? Is that? Sagittarius? Yeah? Okay? So they're good people.

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Speaker 2: You cool with me, fellow fire sign so heavy belated John.

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Speaker 2: I also want to know what what are your go

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Speaker 2: to cocktails when you go out. I want it to

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Speaker 2: feel like I'm drinking with you guys in spirit. Okay,

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Speaker 2: can I say yours? Yeah? What is mine?

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Speaker 1: I think yours is especially Martin martini or you get

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Speaker 1: a blin not a blini?

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Speaker 2: What are the things? What do you call it? Sparkling wine, prosecco, prosecco, yeah, yes, yeah,

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Speaker 2: am I right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? There?

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Speaker 2: Does that be paying attention? You sure do? Yeah, because

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Speaker 2: you don't know mine? Well, yours is always tequila. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I like mescal the rocks, yes, yes, yeah, okay, I

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Speaker 1: like I like a good mescal. I like, yeah on

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Speaker 1: the rocks and with like a orange slice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So John, we're drinking with you there you.

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Speaker 2: Go, all right? So you got to get your espresso, martini,

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Speaker 2: your prosecco, yeah, and your mescal yep or no. I

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Speaker 2: usually get a rose, that's it, sparkling rose, sparkling rose.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, so we got it. We gotta do that. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So we're setting a date, so me and Robin are

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Speaker 1: going to be hanging out with Karen and Ashley soon

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Speaker 1: because I just miss it. Yes, and we're out of here.

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Speaker 1: That's our mailbag for today, alrighty bye bye