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Speaker 1: All right, So I am recording from my house in Florida,

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Speaker 1: and we came down early because Brin had preseason some

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Speaker 1: preseason sports stuff and doctor and get organized. But what's

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Speaker 1: funny is I wasn't dreading coming down. I wanted to

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Speaker 1: get settled. There's nothing like getting settled. And it has

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Speaker 1: been so many months of like what a circle jerk,

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Speaker 1: like that house that I've talked to you about before

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Speaker 1: drown me and this sort of like all the stuff

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Speaker 1: of all the brands and all the products. And because

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Speaker 1: I never waste, I would always be like, all right,

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Speaker 1: give this to that person, put this there, put this

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Speaker 1: in the city, put this in the Hampton's place, put

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Speaker 1: this in the guest bathroom. Put this so someone has

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Speaker 1: extra shampoos. And then when I was moving, it was

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Speaker 1: and I'm not a hoarder at all, I'm constantly getting rid.

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Speaker 1: When I was moving, it was daunting and overwhelming, and

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Speaker 1: it was just too much accumulated stuff, even from like

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Speaker 1: my first wedding, my second wedding, and when I tell

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Speaker 1: you I'm no one's more organized and no one gets

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Speaker 1: rid of stuff more than I do, it still was overwhelming.

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Speaker 1: Beyond it was like affecting my mental health.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: So I was then going to the Hampton's for the summer,

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Speaker 1: and like it had become a dumping ground for all

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Speaker 1: the stuff. You don't want to let go of something,

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Speaker 1: and you're like, well, let me just put it over there,

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Speaker 1: it in the garage, let me put in the attic.

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Speaker 1: It's for Halloween, all that stuff. So during this move

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Speaker 1: I've been pretty relentless, and at each stop people.

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Speaker 2: Will say, wait, do you want to keep this for X?

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Speaker 1: And I'm like get it out, like, get it out,

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Speaker 1: consign it, send it to charity, put it to Pashmark,

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Speaker 1: which goes to charity.

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Speaker 2: Like get it out.

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Speaker 1: So the whole summer has been like when I got

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Speaker 1: to my place in the Hamptons, it was like that

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Speaker 2: To be done there.

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Speaker 1: You know. I have a couple of places that are

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Speaker 1: for work kind of. I have a place in the

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Speaker 2: Same thing in Miami.

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Speaker 1: So like each place, I've been just moving in circles

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Speaker 1: and putting stuff in bags and put it to here,

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Speaker 1: put it to there.

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Speaker 2: Get rid of it.

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Speaker 1: So This was the last stop on the stuff train,

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Speaker 1: and it felt good to get in here and get settled.

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Speaker 1: And I had been so meticulous about doing so much

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Speaker 1: via text and FaceTime. My team helped me, and I

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Speaker 1: would just be like dump it, dump it, put that there,

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Speaker 2: There were these.

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Speaker 1: Organizers that I'll post that were so amazing because they

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Speaker 1: Like the house had I picked out all the furniture

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Speaker 1: I was just relentless about what they should get rid

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Speaker 1: to every hanging piece of clothing. And when I got

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Speaker 1: here Sunday after a destination wedding, I was concerned that

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Speaker 2: Like I didn't. I was a little activated because I

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Speaker 1: But it just felt immaculate and perfect, and I really

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Speaker 2: But in the sense that I just.

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Speaker 1: Don't want I don't want like operations headquarters to be

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Speaker 1: So I don't want anyone upstairs in my room, and

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Speaker 1: the funk Shue was amazing. And even saying with my

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Speaker 1: city apartment, my Florida apartment, Miami apartment is amazing. So

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Speaker 1: You could understand the whole space you walked in and

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Speaker 1: it was like a kitchen was there, a living room

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Speaker 1: Like you walked into that City apartment, you understood what

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Speaker 1: It's why people gravitate towards a modern kitchen now like

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Speaker 2: And I was like, this, the water is the money shot.

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Speaker 1: So we created just a door that was glass and

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Speaker 1: see the water. But like, it makes your space bigger.

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Speaker 1: It's my most exquisite house I've ever owned. It's the

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Speaker 1: nicest property I've ever owned. And I have really beautiful places,

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy. But there's no clutter in there won't

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Speaker 2: I used to be a mess.

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Speaker 1: let's just discuss what's going on this summer.

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Speaker 1: One would say I'm partially to blame. I've contributed to this.

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Speaker 1: I've posted about and made famous chicken salad at this

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Speaker 1: And so now wealthy people have bought homes in a

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Speaker 2: Okay, Hampton's same thing.

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Speaker 1: Sag Harbor used to be like the provincial cute town

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Speaker 1: And it's just a different crowd. It's just very like

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Speaker 1: But I honestly it's another level getting into the Hampton's.

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