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Speaker 1: Let's go, let's go, let's go.

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Speaker 2: I'll scrub them in with Becca Tilly an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello, everybody, we are scrubbing in. How's everyone doing.

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Speaker 3: I'm great.

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Speaker 1: Team super Easton gave a thumbs up. You don't have

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Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know if I'm as happy as you

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Speaker 4: guys are.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's just Monday. It's a beautiful day, the sun

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Speaker 2: start of a week.

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Speaker 1: I'm alive. Yeah, I had a rough morning.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what happened?

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Speaker 2: What happened?

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Speaker 1: I just woke up. Oh, I woke up. I never

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Speaker 1: have coffee. First of I ate vegetables last night. I

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Speaker 1: never had vegetables. And then I woke up and I

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Speaker 1: had coffee and my stomach is not responding well to

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Speaker 3: What is this?

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Speaker 1: My body is like rejecting the vegetables. It's like, no,

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Speaker 1: get that out of here. We want past dude. But

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, I I feel I'm here.

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Speaker 3: So because Tany didn't want you spraying something of hers

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Speaker 3: in your mouth because you've been sick.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what is it?

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Speaker 2: B vitamina?

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Speaker 1: And you spray it under your tongue, but you don't

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Speaker 1: put it in your mouth, you spray it from a

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Speaker 2: I would like to preface this by saying Becca had

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Speaker 2: told me that she wasn't feeling well. You did say

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Speaker 2: you had the sniffles.

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Speaker 1: I have the sniffles. I think it's allergies.

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Speaker 2: So me being a responsible adult that doesn't want to

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Speaker 2: get sick, being a hypochondria, and that.

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Speaker 3: Too fine line.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to get sick. So I just got

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Speaker 2: freaked out when she started pulling my thing into close.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you don't. I didn't even get close to

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Speaker 1: putting it in my mouth, and I was I just

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Speaker 1: asked you to spray it, and you sprayed it all

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Speaker 5: I have a beef with people that think the sniffles

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Speaker 5: when they say it's allergies, because it's like you have

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Speaker 3: Same thing with people to say they got food poisoning

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Speaker 3: going to infect you with. Oh no, no, no, it's

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Speaker 3: just food poisoning. No, it's not.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that person is meackatilly right now. If I wake

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Speaker 2: blame you Mark. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was not part of that at all, but okay

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Speaker 2: You're like, calm down.

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Speaker 1: If what's done is done, what's done.

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Speaker 2: Throw that away before I use it?

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Speaker 1: Can I have it? I feel like that's good. I

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Speaker 1: don't throw it away, Give it to me. I don't

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Speaker 1: mind germs. Germs build your immune system. Actually, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: I hope I'm not one of those moms who's like

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Speaker 2: Touch in going to be one of those I know's Yeah, I.

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Speaker 2: Like I see my nephew drop something on the floor

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Speaker 3: Like, yeah, you're not gonna get sick though, from floor?

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Speaker 1: You know, immune system?

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Speaker 4: Do you get anything from floor?

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Speaker 3: No one else is licking the floor. You know it's dirt,

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Speaker 1: Your yeah, yeah, yeah, start the germs dirt.

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Speaker 3: And also I think your immune system is what your

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Speaker 2: Healthy dinner from where Ralph's.

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Speaker 1: Oh I made it.

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Speaker 2: I texted you last night. I said, what are you doing?

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Speaker 4: Know, how did that make you feel? Tanya?

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Speaker 2: Actually it was okay. I was really tired last night.

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Speaker 1: I've literally answered every FaceTime she's called me. Yes.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so we I was at Ralph's in Long

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Speaker 2: Beach over the weekend for this kiss FM event and

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Speaker 2: And then the funniest she had the best reaction. She goes,

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Speaker 1: I love it. I answered and I was still in bed,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody came with like Meredith Gray's my spirit animals.

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Speaker 1: Shine out, Tony.

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Speaker 5: When you have a boyfriend, are you the same way

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 5: What happens if they don't text you back or answer

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Speaker 4: Did you hear about the woman? She went on a

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Yeah, Tony, I was gonna ask, like, when

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Speaker 1: are you? Why aren't you answering me? Do you still

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Speaker 1: love me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Do you still love me? Gets tossed around a lot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I knew. I I think that's not just a

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Speaker 1: You're like, well, mine's like hours, but you know, but

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Speaker 3: Well, let's talk about Thursday night, because Thursday night was interesting.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: If my understanding is you had plans to hang out

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Speaker 1: But guess what ended up happening. What happened watched We

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Speaker 3: Up to the plans, you should punish.

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Speaker 2: Her for that just ten minutes. It was a quick punishment.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, are you mad at me? Are we gonna

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Speaker 1: can we move on from this?

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Speaker 2: No, but let's talk about that episodes talking about Grace

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Speaker 2: you start. I cried at three different moments.

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Speaker 3: Do you remember the moments?

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Speaker 2: Yes? I do, is.

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Speaker 3: Spoiler everybody, I hope now boiler alert.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but a lot of people are still like catching

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Speaker 1: up on season, so take a break for a second.

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Speaker 3: Moment Number one.

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Speaker 2: everybody saw that it was her, and Meredith said, she's

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Speaker 2: not gray, or she's not dead until she's blue, or.

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Speaker 1: No, until she's warm and dead.

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Speaker 3: She's not dead until she's warm and dead, the same

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Speaker 3: It was a great episode. Okay, yes, number three and then.

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Speaker 4: Jack and then his wife died.

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Speaker 1: There was just something that I was like, I don't

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Speaker 3: It's not going how I hoped it would go No, the.

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Speaker 2: Why is soft now? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Shandas like gone soft on its. Normally in the past,

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Speaker 1: Is always wedding planning episode.

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Speaker 3: Who I didn't see the preview for next week?

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Speaker 1: She's fine aund the wedding planner. Well, they're seeing each other.

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Speaker 3: So Joe and April's planning it. Oh yeah, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: I am that is gonna be like corny, corny cheeseball.

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Speaker 1: It's so Joe getting locked in like a shed.

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Speaker 2: And they're like, this is the worst. I'm so upset

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Speaker 1: It felt like old Grace.

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Speaker 2: And then all of a sudden, April is like happy

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling really weird from that spray. I'm like Dizzey

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Speaker 2: Have you eaten today?

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Speaker 4: What was in the spring?

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Speaker 2: It's just edamin. You need to eat food.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Clammy.

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Speaker 4: I could have had an antihistamine or something.

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Speaker 2: No, it's just a be vitamin.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't just hit me.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be vitamin high.

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Speaker 2: Drunk. I'm not gonna lie, ok.

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Speaker 1: But anyways, all in all, I was very happy with

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Speaker 3: I agree, Well, we are stopping short of saying that

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Speaker 3: Grace is back because we're still worried about next week.

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Speaker 2: I'm worried about that.

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Speaker 3: I had a Grace sighting yesterday. Isn't that fantastic? I

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Speaker 3: was at the counter in Studio City, Laurel Canyon, in

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Speaker 3: your names if I had. But there was doctor Ben Warren. Oh,

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Speaker 3: I love it looking great. Yeah, rather jacket jeans, just

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Speaker 5: He was Episode one wasial episode.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we had so awesome.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he is awesome.

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Speaker 3: That's why I almost had tied because I know he's

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Speaker 4: You know, I just picking up A nineteen get renewed.

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Speaker 1: It got renewed. Speaking of, I have.

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Speaker 4: Been meaning to ask you this, what happened with Dexter? Like,

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Speaker 1: After spoiler alert after Rita died? I like couldn't. I

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Speaker 1: Like I wasn't leaving my couch. I like was saying no.

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Speaker 2: To everything comes back on Friday. Uh, thirteen reasons.

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Speaker 1: Why oh that one?

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Speaker 6: That?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I watched that in a full day too.

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Speaker 2: And what are you doing Saturday morning at five am?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? We already talked about this.

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Speaker 2: You don't want to watch it with me?

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Speaker 1: The Royal Wedding, Yeah, I think you're on your own, Tanya, Okay. Cool.

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Speaker 3: The last Royal wedding we all watched together because it

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Speaker 3: We came in like two that day in our pajamas

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Speaker 3: to watch it. But it's on a Saturday.

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Speaker 5: I will be asleep, so you're going to set an

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Speaker 2: Hell's yeah, I'm gonna watch it with you.

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Speaker 1: It means that much to you to watch.

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Speaker 2: This is a royal wedding. This is like the closest

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Speaker 5: This isn't the royal wedding. This is the royal wedding's

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Speaker 5: sibling who will never be royal. He'll never be kidding.

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Speaker 2: This is a royal wedding. This is a royal wedding.

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Speaker 3: It is a royal wedding. It's not the royal Charleston

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Speaker 3: I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Saying it's the royal wedding.

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Speaker 5: I'm saying it's a royal Weddy and Andrew. That's what

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Speaker 2: Yeah with the common American or is that a word America?

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Speaker 1: I don't think American.

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Speaker 4: She is American, which does give it.

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Speaker 5: Once she grew up totally, she was a deal or

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Speaker 1: you have me interested five am. Not a chance. I

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Speaker 5: And then have tea and crumpets with back at like

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Speaker 2: We could watch the highlights the highlights Okay, I don't

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I was just gonna say, how are you gonna watch?

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Speaker 1: She's like trying to live stream it anywhere she can

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure it's live streaming.

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Speaker 1: this spa sounds great. So she sends me the link

446
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Speaker 1: for it, and it's called like Beverly Hot Springs and

447
00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:33,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, this sounds so relaxing Hot Springs. Like

448
00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:37,960
Speaker 1: all for it. So We're going get there check in.

449
00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:41,680
Speaker 1: I'm kind of like this isn't as like fancy or

450
00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:44,840
Speaker 1: nice as I had homes, but mostly once we get in.

451
00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,840
Speaker 1: So we walk in and I'm like, I'm gonna work.

452
00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:51,399
Speaker 1: I'm pretty modest, Like I'm not someone who like won't

453
00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:53,520
Speaker 1: change in front of friends or like whatever if I

454
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Speaker 1: feel comfortable. But I also am not all about walking

455
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Speaker 1: around fully nude. So we're both like, let's put our

456
00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:05,399
Speaker 1: ear very you're not super nune. Yeah, Tanya doesn't care

457
00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:09,560
Speaker 1: at all. Yeah, So I'm like, I'm gonna put my

458
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Speaker 1: slim suit on because there's a ton of people here

459
00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:15,719
Speaker 1: walking around and I feel better in some suit. So

460
00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:18,760
Speaker 1: as we're getting ready, these two ladies are like Ali,

461
00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:22,560
Speaker 1: Ali and Ali's looking around. She's like me, and they're

462
00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:25,960
Speaker 1: like yeah, come on, and so like just start, they

463
00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,399
Speaker 1: like walk out and leave us, and we're like what

464
00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:30,560
Speaker 1: are we supposed to follow them? Like what do we do?

465
00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:33,359
Speaker 1: So we go and they take us back. We're getting

466
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Speaker 1: like a full body scrub, and they have these different

467
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Speaker 1: rooms that are just separated by like curtains. Okay, and

468
00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:43,160
Speaker 1: they're like some suit off, lay down on the table.

469
00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:47,439
Speaker 1: I'm like, they're like some sit off, lay down on

470
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Speaker 1: the table, face up. I'm like, oh my god. So

471
00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:52,840
Speaker 1: I'm like walking by and there's like these naked women

472
00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:58,080
Speaker 1: just like well on the table, fully exposed. She scrubs

473
00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:02,720
Speaker 1: every heart of my body. I felt like I was

474
00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 1: like a Thanksgiving turkey being prepped. And it wasn't gentle, relaxing.

475
00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:09,679
Speaker 1: It was like, you know, like a mom bathing a

476
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Speaker 1: child aggressively. And then she'd be like turnover. It was

477
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Speaker 1: like not like okay, now, turnover. It was very like turnover.

478
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Speaker 1: She scrubbed everything. Okay, she goes go into the hot tub,

479
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:28,840
Speaker 1: come back in three minutes.

480
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Speaker 2: So I'm like, god, sounds like very like militant.

481
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Speaker 1: Yeah. So I go out and there's women in the

482
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Speaker 1: hot tub area. So I go back and I'm gonna

483
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Speaker 1: put my somesuit on. She's like no, no, no go, like,

484
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Speaker 1: won't give me my subsuit? No to go.

485
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Speaker 5: Alan comes out and we have the giggles so bad.

486
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Speaker 1: That it's like embarrassing. It was. I have never been

487
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Speaker 1: more uncomfortable in my entire life.

488
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Speaker 2: But you do sounds very pleasant to me. No getting

489
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Speaker 2: a nice scrub and walking around getting the hotspot.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I mean we were the only two people who

491
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Speaker 1: were uncomfortable in are like nudity there. Everyone else is

492
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Speaker 1: just walking around.

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Speaker 4: On the l side.

494
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Speaker 1: Was just females. Yeah, but it was definitely like people no,

495
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Speaker 1: no cares.

496
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Speaker 2: Better than the all ages and bed in the mudbath

497
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Speaker 2: we did together.

498
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Speaker 1: That was sick different, similar but different. Okay, I forgot

499
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Speaker 1: about that.

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Speaker 3: Did you enjoy it on any Like let's say it

501
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:29,920
Speaker 3: was just you and Ali no other people around, would

502
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Speaker 3: you have enjoyed it in that sense?

503
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Speaker 6: Like?

504
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Speaker 3: Was it a good after you left there feeling refreshed

505
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Speaker 3: or scrubbed?

506
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Speaker 1: I kind of. I was looking pain a little bit,

507
00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,919
Speaker 1: like my skin felt wrong. I got it was a

508
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 1: milk bath, so she like bathed me in milk and wow,

509
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 1: literally I looked down because my eyes were closed all

510
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:48,440
Speaker 1: the time, and I looked out. I'm covered in milk

511
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,399
Speaker 1: and she was massaging me and it hurts so bad,

512
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:54,720
Speaker 1: and like I would kind of like flinch, like ease

513
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 1: up a little bit. She didn't elbows. Yeah, four arms.

514
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Speaker 3: Wow, I'm lactose in top and I could never.

515
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:04,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I like her. And she like was

516
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:06,159
Speaker 1: like on your face, poured it in, and I like

517
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Speaker 1: this supposed to It.

518
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Speaker 4: Was just, oh, this sounds super off.

519
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:11,879
Speaker 2: I went to a spa this weekend to her Mother's day.

520
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:13,639
Speaker 2: Had quite that opposite experience.

521
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you went to like a freaking yeah, it's nice,

522
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Speaker 1: luxury small. That was not I thought that's what I

523
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:23,639
Speaker 1: was going to, but it was not. I'm hot. I

524
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:26,359
Speaker 1: don't know if it's like rethinking about that day for

525
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Speaker 1: me or what.

526
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Speaker 3: Well, I have Lauren on the line.

527
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Speaker 1: I'm ready to talk to Lauren.

528
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Speaker 3: Lauren was on Facebook. I let her tell us the story.

529
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Speaker 3: But to me, this was like, this is the power

530
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Speaker 3: of our Facebook group, your Facebook group that this has

531
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Speaker 3: been put together. It's such a wonderful community.

532
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Speaker 2: Which is so I.

533
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 3: Was so touched by Lauren's story because now the Facebook

534
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Speaker 3: group is like changing lives.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Lauren, Hey, how's it going.

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Speaker 6: It's going.

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Speaker 1: We're good. You got the whole squad here.

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, it's just so crazy.

539
00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 1: Well, it's so crazy. What happened what you posted? It was.

540
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Speaker 1: It was one of those moments because I don't know

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Speaker 1: if you've listened when we talk about how I always

542
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Speaker 1: feel like I miss posts, like I'll just see him

543
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:11,320
Speaker 1: scattered around, but Mark and Tany will bring one up

544
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Speaker 1: that I haven't seen or anything. But I saw this one,

545
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 1: and it it just I got so happy because it

546
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 1: was aside from everything just being so encouraging and people

547
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 1: meeting up and making friends, you kind of took it

548
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Speaker 1: to another level.

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Speaker 6: Well thanks, I'm glad to do that. You guys.

550
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, so tell everyone the story in case they didn't see.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. So I posted a couple of months ago just

552
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Speaker 6: asking for advice. I mean, I'll find attendant. You know

553
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 6: that it's my dream job, and asked if anyone having

554
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Speaker 6: any advice, and Lauren shout to me and said that

555
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Speaker 6: her mom was a recruiter for an airline that I

556
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Speaker 6: applied to. So she put me in contact with her mom,

557
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Speaker 6: and her mom was extremely helpful and gave me really

558
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Speaker 6: great advice, and there was really just a familiar space

559
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Speaker 6: for the interview, and I ended up getting the job

560
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Speaker 6: and I started training.

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Speaker 2: Today's so awesome.

562
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Speaker 1: How training go?

563
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Speaker 6: Oh my good. We're just getting started. But it's really overwhelming.

564
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Speaker 3: You said as your dream job, is it everything you

565
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Speaker 3: hope it would be?

566
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Speaker 1: So far?

567
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Speaker 3: I know it's early.

568
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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I'm really excited to see where it goes.

569
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Speaker 6: I've been at a desk job, so it's going to

570
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Speaker 6: be a complete one eighty. But I'm really excited.

571
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Speaker 1: So awesome, I know, I'm so excited for you. I mean,

572
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Speaker 1: it's real. It's so nice to have like a big

573
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Speaker 1: change like that, and especially for it to happen the

574
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Speaker 1: way it did.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and thank you guys so much for what you've

576
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Speaker 6: done with the podcast. I know it's really helped me

577
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Speaker 6: and it helped a lot of other people too. It's

578
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Speaker 6: really great.

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Speaker 2: That's a good thing right there.

580
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it really is.

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Speaker 6: That Mourn and her mom are seriously the nicest people

582
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Speaker 6: I've ever met.

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Speaker 1: Do y'all live in the same area or was it

584
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Speaker 1: just so?

585
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Speaker 6: She lives in Dallas and I live in Oklahoma City.

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Speaker 6: That's about fun hour. Yeah, yeah, we're going to get

587
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Speaker 6: one down here for training.

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Speaker 1: Well I love that. Well, thank you so much for

589
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Speaker 1: sharing the story, because it could have been something that

590
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 1: y'all just, you know, kept to yourself and.

591
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 2: Post a picture. Did you post a picture in your

592
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Speaker 2: fun attendant outfit? Can you do that?

593
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Speaker 3: Oh?

594
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:25,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'll post a doctor training okay, and a

595
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Speaker 1: picture of y'all when y'all meet up. Yeah, okay. Well,

596
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: thanks for talking to us today and telling everybody.

597
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Speaker 6: Yeah, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations, we love you, thank you, we love you.

599
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 2: Bye, Lauren, bye, and bye, thank you. Sorry, sorry Mark,

600
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 2: bye bye.

601
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Speaker 3: There's so much on that Facebook page. Like Jordan lives

602
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,439
Speaker 3: in Seattle. She wanted a day with a doctor, like

603
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Speaker 3: how cool is that?

604
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 2: She's like Meredith in real life.

605
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Speaker 3: She said she knows how to push to a VP

606
00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 3: and he said that's way too much happy to get by.

607
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:01,880
Speaker 3: But there was a push to a EPI on Thursday night.

608
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 2: Yeah for April, and April needed a lot and.

609
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: She needed prayers and and then this one.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to mention. A woman on the Facebook page

611
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 3: needs advice. She always uses dating apps, but she always

612
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,880
Speaker 3: stops the conversation before they meet up because she has

613
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Speaker 3: a fear of it being a serial killer. Okay, natural,

614
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 3: But she mete, a very very cute guy, and they're

615
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 3: texting back and forth, and the problem is she always

616
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,399
Speaker 3: puts the best version of herself on Instagram. She's an

617
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 3: actress and a model, so her photos are touched up,

618
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Speaker 3: and she feels like her life seems more exciting than

619
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Speaker 3: it really is. And she's nervous that when he meets

620
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Speaker 3: her in person, he's going to be disappointed. She's not

621
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Speaker 3: going to live up to the life or the pictures

622
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Speaker 3: that she puts out there. She says, thank you for

623
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Speaker 3: reading this. If you have a similar experience, how did

624
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Speaker 3: it go? Like, do you ever worry about that? Like you,

625
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 3: like Becka especially, you have some very glamorous photos out there, Tanya,

626
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 3: we know you do, though you do, I mean, you

627
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 3: have some professional photos taken. Do you ever worry about

628
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Speaker 3: that when you meet somebody it's not going to be

629
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Speaker 3: what you've put out there.

630
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Speaker 1: I feel like on my story I put a lot

631
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Speaker 1: out alfare of like me in my real life, and

632
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Speaker 1: so I know I don't feel I mean, I feel

633
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: like my personality is way better in person than it

634
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 1: is like in a picture. Anyway, you know, like I

635
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: feel like me meeting me in person. Even if you're like, oh,

636
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 1: she's maybe prettier in her photo, it's like, oh, she's fun.

637
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:26,160
Speaker 2: That photo just knocks it out of the I agree.

638
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,240
Speaker 1: Or just like more you can get more from someone

639
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 1: talking to them than you do looking at a professionally.

640
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,479
Speaker 2: I get what she's saying. I totally understand what she's

641
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 2: saying because I think that it's a thought that like

642
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 2: a lot of people have, Like sometimes when I'm on

643
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 2: dating apps and you put like your best photos on

644
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 2: the dating app, and then you're like, shoot, when I

645
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 2: meet him, is he going to be like, well, where's

646
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 2: this girl? Picture number three? You know? So I think

647
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 2: it is like a common thing that does go through

648
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Speaker 2: your head.

649
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 3: But uh so, what's your advice for her?

650
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 1: I think I think you're.

651
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 2: Overthinking it, you're weigh in your head. I think take

652
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 2: that thought, okay, say that loud, put it in a

653
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 2: nice little box, roll it up in a little boat,

654
00:28:58,520 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 2: and put it away.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I think everyone feels that way,

656
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Speaker 1: Like even he probably feels that way. He probably has

657
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 1: his best photos on the app too. But I also

658
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 1: feel like, no matter how I just had this conversation

659
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 1: yesterday with a friend. No matter how attractive or how

660
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 1: attracted I am to someone physically, if I meet them

661
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 1: and there's not something there in a personality, I don't

662
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 1: care what they look like. Same Yeah, not even. I

663
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 1: mean chemistry is like necessary, but just being able to

664
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 1: have like a good conversation and being able to feel comfortable.

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Speaker 1: I think that's so much more important than like looking

666
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Speaker 1: at an attractive face.

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00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

668
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Speaker 3: So go with Becca's point of view. I know that

669
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 3: your personality is going to absolutely cause them to fall

670
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 3: head over heels for you.

671
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, the personality is key.

672
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 2: I say, speak your insecurity, literally, speak it out, put

673
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 2: it in a box, tie the box up with a ribbon,

674
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Speaker 2: and place it under your bed.

675
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Speaker 3: Doesn't there you go.

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Speaker 2: I'm very like tangible.

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00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 1: I like, yeah, with like your how you think of

678
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 1: a memory and what you wore before you give it away?

679
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, say it out loud, speak it out loud, and

680
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 2: then I'm ready to part with it.

681
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 1: It is there. It is Parkcess. I want to talk

682
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: about one of our new sponsors on the show. It's Hubble,

683
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: and it is a It is a company for contact lenses.

684
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 2: Yes, so the magic in these is you basically get

685
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Speaker 2: every single day, you get a new pair of lenses.

686
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Speaker 2: So it's sixty contacts for thirty dollars. So that's basically

687
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Speaker 2: a dollar a day.

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Speaker 1: Which is that I don't wear contacts, but.

689
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Speaker 2: Easton wears contacts. Is that expensive?

690
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Speaker 3: A dollar a day?

691
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Speaker 1: Right?

692
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Speaker 2: That's cheap.

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Speaker 7: No, it's really cheap. Yeah, it's insanely cheap. Let me

694
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Speaker 7: tell you something right now, your boys been wearing contacts

695
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Speaker 7: since ninth grade. I was not going into high school

696
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Speaker 7: with glasses. Yeah, I'm of an advanced age now, so

697
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 7: I have experience of contacts. And I was wearing the

698
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Speaker 7: ones where you have to change them every two weeks,

699
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Speaker 7: and oh my god, what a pain. They get dirty,

700
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 7: they get screwed up. The daily ones that Helble sells

701
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 7: is such a better deal. First of all, it's cheaper,

702
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Speaker 7: and also, like, I don't know if it's just me,

703
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 7: if other contact people out there went away in on this.

704
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:16,479
Speaker 7: The idea of like taking them out and putting them

705
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 7: in a thing, you know what, it's so weird thought.

706
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, I wouldn't want to like put something in

707
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 2: my eye, take it out overnight, leave it in some

708
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 2: weird gel and then put that back of my finger

709
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 2: in my eye. It sounds so like not hygienic.

710
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 7: It's really cathartic to just pull it out and then

711
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 7: flick it into the trash like gone, today is over,

712
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 7: We're starting a new day tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I think I would enjoy that work contacts. I

714
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 2: think I would want new ones every day.

715
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Speaker 1: It's like new eyes every day exactly.

716
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Speaker 7: And fresh Eyes, Fresh Eyes, Fresh Eyes and other contact companies.

717
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Speaker 7: I've spent like five hundred dollars for like a box

718
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Speaker 7: for like a month, Like I swear to God, it's insane.

719
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Speaker 7: It's so expensive.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so this is amazing.

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Speaker 7: This is an incredible deal.

722
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Speaker 2: Incredible.

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Speaker 1: Oh there you go. So I mean from from the

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Speaker 1: source hisself, himself.

725
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Speaker 2: From the source himself, from the monkeys, monkey.

726
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 1: From the monkeys, now, thank you, thank you?

727
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Speaker 2: Is that the same? What is it?

728
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Speaker 7: No, it would be straight from the horse's mouth. If

729
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 7: I was a Hubble employee, I.

730
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Speaker 1: Was gonna say nothing about that made sense. But I

731
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 1: am high on B vitamins right now. But wait, I

732
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Speaker 1: want to talk about some of the other benefits of Hubble.

733
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Speaker 1: They sell directly to you, so they can offer context

734
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Speaker 1: for half the price. They can send you to an

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Speaker 1: optometrist if you don't have a prescription, right, which is

736
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Speaker 1: really nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

738
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you don't have to overpay. You're not overwearing.

739
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Speaker 1: I know some friends really push it to the limit

740
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Speaker 1: on how long they'll wear their contacts.

741
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Speaker 2: Gross.

742
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Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't want to be judgmental because I don't

743
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Speaker 1: wear them, but I'm kind of like it's gross.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Just go to Hubblecontacts dot com. T you first two

746
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Speaker 2: weeks of lenses for free. So that's fifteen pairs of

747
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Speaker 2: lenses for R E E.

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Speaker 1: So go to Hubblecontacts dot com get twenty twenty vision

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Speaker 1: for half the price. Make sure to select our show

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Speaker 1: at checkout. It's listed as Becca Tilly, not scrubbing in.

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Speaker 1: It's listed in a dropbox as Becca or drop drop

752
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Speaker 1: down down, drop down you drop down menu as Becca Tilly.

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Speaker 1: That's h U B B L E Contacts dot com

754
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Speaker 1: and select this show last name Tilly, first name Becca,

755
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Speaker 1: Like I did? Yeah, well done?

756
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Speaker 3: So many emails, Oh my goodness, gracious, Taylor and tennessee what.

757
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 2: I pulled out? Some of that? Okay?

758
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Speaker 3: Is one of them you wanted to read?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

760
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Speaker 3: Right, She says she's literally sitting in the parking lot

761
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Speaker 3: of the gym thinking about a comment that guy made

762
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Speaker 3: to her. On Saturday night, she was at a Sinco

763
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Speaker 3: de Mayo party and the guy who had been flirting

764
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Speaker 3: with me pretty hardcore made a comment that pretty much

765
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Speaker 3: shattered me. It's Tuesday now and I still cry if

766
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Speaker 3: I think about it.

767
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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: He had been telling me how gorgeous he thought I was,

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Speaker 3: and how my personality was just as great, and then

770
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Speaker 3: he said, you know you have a weight problem. Right first.

771
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Speaker 3: Being a tad intoxicated and completely off guard, I said,

772
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Speaker 3: I'm aware, I'm fat. He replied, you're gorgeous, but you'd

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Speaker 3: be even pretty and I cut him off and I

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Speaker 3: told him to not even finish that sentence. Even though

775
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:11,240
Speaker 3: he didn't finish the sentence, it cut me, and I cried,

776
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Speaker 3: Why do you guys think they can say that? How

777
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:15,320
Speaker 3: do you shake something like that off? He continued to

778
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 3: tell me how I needed to find a guy in

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Speaker 3: his thirties who wouldn't be so caught up with appearances

780
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Speaker 3: but would see my personality. He thought he was doing

781
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Speaker 3: me a favor, but I can't shake it. Any advice,

782
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:28,240
Speaker 3: by the way, love you all, look forward to y'all's

783
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:31,760
Speaker 3: realness every single week. Also dreading Thursday's episode of GRAE,

784
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Speaker 3: this is she wrote this before the April episode air,

785
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Speaker 3: So this is tough.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm my blood's boil.

787
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Speaker 2: Oh. So I'm completely like disregarding her issue right now,

788
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Speaker 2: and I want to find this man. How do we

789
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Speaker 2: find this man? And like publicly, like.

790
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Speaker 3: Humiliation said, you know, she's not the first person he's

791
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Speaker 3: done a routine like this.

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Speaker 1: But I didn't even know. I didn't even know that

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Speaker 1: guys did that in real life.

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Speaker 2: If somebody said that, literally, if somebody said that to me,

795
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Speaker 2: I would slap them so hard across the face.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad she was like cut him off and was like,

797
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:07,880
Speaker 1: don't even finish that sentence.

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Speaker 2: H Taylor, I'm surprised you didn't smack him. Yeah, that's

799
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 2: so rude and unexpected, Like I can't.

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Speaker 5: Do you think people ever say stuff like that actually

801
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,800
Speaker 5: from a good place, not from a being a jerk place?

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Speaker 1: I do? I think.

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Speaker 2: I think if somebody was a very close friend of mine, yeah,

804
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 2: and was like, you look like you're not healthy, like

805
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Speaker 2: you need you know what I mean? I think there

806
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 2: is a place that you can come at it from,

807
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Speaker 2: but not a stranger that you just meant at a bar.

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Speaker 1: And a guy like I like. I guess if it

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Speaker 1: was another girlfriend who I was super close with or

810
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Speaker 1: someone that I respected their opinion, they knew me and

811
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Speaker 1: they were like, hey, I noticed that you seemed like unhappy.

812
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 1: If it was something like that, but if if it

813
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Speaker 1: from a stranger and like someone of the opposite sex, like.

814
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Speaker 2: I'm not one to fight, but I literally want to fight.

815
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Speaker 2: Find this guy.

816
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Speaker 1: Let's find him.

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00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 5: I would be interesting if you found him, though, to

818
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Speaker 5: hear his hear his side, because look, I'm not saying

819
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Speaker 5: he did the right thing.

820
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Speaker 4: I don't know that he.

821
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Speaker 5: I think it was a little out of place for

822
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Speaker 5: him to say it. But I'm wondering, if you heard

823
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Speaker 5: his story, if he had a different perspective that we're

824
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Speaker 5: not seeing.

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Speaker 3: I think some guys are just douchebags. This is one

826
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Speaker 3: of those guys.

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Speaker 5: Didn't she say he was flirting with her and said

828
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Speaker 5: she was gorgeous?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think even more so he like he like.

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Speaker 1: I think that's why it affected her.

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Speaker 5: Have you ever like put your hair up and someone

832
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Speaker 5: says to you, oh, you like, you look so pretty

833
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 5: with your hair up.

834
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Speaker 4: Are you offended if you typically wear your hair down.

835
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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think it's the same.

836
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Speaker 4: It's not.

837
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Speaker 5: But I'm just trying to, like I'm trying to see

838
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Speaker 5: it from another side. Because my gut reaction. I think

839
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Speaker 5: I emailed her back and said sorry about this guy.

840
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:58,359
Speaker 5: And then as I as we wrote back and forth,

841
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Speaker 5: I think I wrote for some reason, I don't think

842
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 5: he came from a bad place, even though he's an idiot.

843
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:05,280
Speaker 4: Was what I wrote.

844
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Speaker 5: This is like, he's an idiot, but I don't know

845
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Speaker 5: that he was coming from a bad place.

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Speaker 3: It's like his Simon Cowell complex. I think, like Simon

847
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 3: Cowell empowered people to just be brutally honest, and I

848
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 3: think he's got that in his head that, like I can,

849
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Speaker 3: I can evaluate people, even him telling her she's gorgeous,

850
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Speaker 3: I don't think come from a good place. I think

851
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,840
Speaker 3: it's all from him evaluating other humans to his standard

852
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:27,280
Speaker 3: of beauty.

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Speaker 1: I wonder what he I wonder what his what he

854
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 1: looked like, like, what his if he was like insecure

855
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:36,440
Speaker 1: about something so he was I don't know. I don't know.

856
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:37,439
Speaker 2: I don't this guy.

857
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can keep no, keep it, Yeah, I don't know.

858
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: I don't like it, I don't have like a I

859
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 1: don't have that gut feeling about it.

860
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Speaker 4: I'd be curious if he what his his story.

861
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 3: But the question is how does she get over this?

862
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 3: How does she move past it? She really kind of

863
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 3: rocked her.

864
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 2: The problem is is she can't get like. There's no

865
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 2: thing that we can say that is going to help

866
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Speaker 2: her get through this because she's always going to have

867
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 2: that burned in her brain. That makes sense.

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Speaker 1: My only advice would be, if you want to take

869
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 1: that router, if you if you want to change things right,

870
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 1: but for yourself.

871
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:20,320
Speaker 2: Maybe yeah, this is the catalyst to make your life change.

872
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 2: Come back to that bar in like a couple months

873
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 2: and be like, but if you're if your you guys

874
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 2: couldn't see me, but yeah, ga.

875
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Speaker 1: The finger, double finger. But if you are happy and feeling,

876
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 1: if you feel confident and felt good before this guy's

877
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 1: ignorant comment, then live your life.

878
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 4: And like that's good advice.

879
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, don't don't do it because of him, do

880
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:44,320
Speaker 1: it for you.

881
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,239
Speaker 4: Have you ever had someone criticize you?

882
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, that's my social media day, and does.

883
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:54,400
Speaker 4: Any of it sting?

884
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 5: And then you take something from it.

885
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:00,760
Speaker 1: If it's what's actually very interest saying. If it's about

886
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 1: my character, I like to take something from it because

887
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 1: I think that that's something to reflect on. If it's

888
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 1: about my physical appearance, then it's kind of like shrug

889
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:12,800
Speaker 1: it off. Whatever.

890
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 4: Very interesting.

891
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll never forget. I got a comment. This was

892
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 2: right after I was going through my breakup and we

893
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 2: were talking about it on the morning show and I

894
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 2: went to a wedding where he was going to be

895
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 2: and so on air posted some photo of me at

896
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 2: the wedding or whatever, and I'm thank god. I get

897
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,359
Speaker 2: really nice comments on all my Instagram things. But one

898
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 2: person commented like Tanya could really use some squats or

899
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:42,240
Speaker 2: something about something like that, I could use some exercise whatever.

900
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 2: And I still remember it, and it was one comment.

901
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 2: This was years ago, and I remember seeing it and

902
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:53,720
Speaker 2: being like, that's so hurtful, you know what I mean? Yeah, Like, also,

903
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 2: you didn't even know what kind of mental state I

904
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:58,719
Speaker 2: wasn't at that point. I was like on the deep end,

905
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 2: like I was not well, and to see something like that,

906
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:03,720
Speaker 2: I was like, how dare you? I just think it's

907
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 2: it's not a place for strangers to say things about

908
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 2: anybody's physical appearance. Yeah, nevertheless, somebody needed a bar. I

909
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 2: don't care what his intentions are. It's rude, it's disrespectful,

910
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:15,720
Speaker 2: and it's not cool.

911
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 3: And that is just the world we live in now

912
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 3: with social media, everyone's gonna have to deal with that

913
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 3: at some point. We need to get better at letting

914
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 3: it roll off our back.

915
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 2: Well, there's literally no excuse for this guy. Like, if

916
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 2: he told me his story, I'd be like bye.

917
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 5: Except that you're doing the same thing. You're judging him

918
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 5: for being a jerk based on no information.

919
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 2: I have information. I have an email right here.

920
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:42,320
Speaker 5: For a perspective. I'm just curious what his story was

921
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:46,439
Speaker 5: to say. Maybe they had a much more in depth

922
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:49,840
Speaker 5: conversation where she started talking about I don't know what.

923
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:52,359
Speaker 5: We only have limited amount of details, So maybe they

924
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 5: started talking about things like For example, let's say I'm

925
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 5: talking to somebody who hates their job and I just

926
00:40:57,800 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 5: met them and they're saying to me they hate their

927
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,759
Speaker 5: job blah blah blah, and I say, maybe should find

928
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 5: another job, Like, you're not gonna come at me because

929
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:07,399
Speaker 5: I'm giving that.

930
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 2: A different There's something that's so physical, Yes, parents, is

931
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,319
Speaker 2: just not cool. Yeah, I don't that's fair.

932
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:16,160
Speaker 4: That's totally fair.

933
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,720
Speaker 3: Argument, Tanya. What other emails did you flag?

934
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 2: Oh, I didn't read it, but I just have I

935
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 2: read the first Nances. I have my own des.

936
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, that's Ashley. She just discovered the podcast a

937
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 3: few weeks ago. She's been bing, just listening every episode.

938
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,760
Speaker 3: I recently listened to an episode Rebecca talked about Dez

939
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 3: and how hard it was to like him so much

940
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 3: and not have those feelings reciprocated. Well, I have my

941
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 3: own deaths in my life. We grew up together. We're

942
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 3: best friends all through high school. I liked him and

943
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 3: he liked me, and everyone knew it, but we never

944
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 3: told each other. Then he moved to Georgia for years

945
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 3: and we lost contact. He just moved back to my

946
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 3: town and for being gone for six years, he's single.

947
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 3: I'm single. We don't talk much as to each other. Occasionally.

948
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 3: We share a friend group. Everyone that knows us roots

949
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 3: for us to be together and says we would be

950
00:41:57,320 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 3: perfect if we would just go on a date. Already.

951
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 3: I want to get to know him again with the

952
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:03,840
Speaker 3: intention of pursuing a relationship. Should I ask him on

953
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 3: a date or am I holding onto a relationship that

954
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 3: miffed its chance.

955
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's kind of the same thing as Dez,

956
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,799
Speaker 1: but it's I held on for a very long time

957
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 1: to does and to this day, I loved Z. He's

958
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 1: someone that I care about as a friend because we

959
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 1: were friends growing up and our families or whatever. But

960
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 1: I held on and spent a lot of lonely, tough

961
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 1: nights wanting someone who didn't want me back, And I

962
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 1: think sometimes you need to let go of those things

963
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 1: so that you don't look back and feel like not

964
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 1: that I it's hard to say, I feel like I

965
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 1: wasted my time, but I did let myself hurt and

966
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 1: feel a lot that maybe I could have avoided if

967
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 1: I had just accepted what it was.

968
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 2: I think everybody's been in that situation where they have

969
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 2: strong feelings for somebody that these feelings aren't reciprocated, and

970
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:51,919
Speaker 2: it's hurtful and it makes you sad. But I think

971
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:54,160
Speaker 2: the longer you harp on it, the worse it makes it.

972
00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 2: And I think the best thing that you can do

973
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 2: is just know that if you guys are meant to

974
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 2: be that like, it will come back around, and it

975
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 2: will find its way. I wouldn't waste any energy, So

976
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 2: don't ask him out.

977
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 1: I would. I mean, he he knows she's there, right, like,

978
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 1: just as much as she knows he's there, he knows

979
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: she's there.

980
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 3: That's true.

981
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you. I think, wait, wait, okay, what

982
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 1: do you think you're saying?

983
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:25,880
Speaker 3: Get I'm not with Dean, and our thing is always

984
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 3: go for it? Why not? What do you have to lose?

985
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 3: Take your shot? And you guys are more of the

986
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:33,439
Speaker 3: you want to be pursued things, so I get both

987
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 3: sides of it, but my feeling is always what have

988
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:38,680
Speaker 3: you got to lose? The answer is nothing, because he's

989
00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 3: not even you barely see him as part of your

990
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:42,239
Speaker 3: friend group. He's in Georgia for six years. It's not

991
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 3: like your life would be any worse if you asked

992
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 3: him out and he said no and it became uncomfortable.

993
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:47,840
Speaker 3: Who cares?

994
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:50,399
Speaker 1: It's so funny because like my every time, my gut

995
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 1: reaction is just like wait for him to do it,

996
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:54,160
Speaker 1: like let him if he wants to perceee you. And

997
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:56,719
Speaker 1: then you throw your perspective in there and I'm like, yeah,

998
00:43:57,840 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 1: what do you have to lose?

999
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 3: It could be a great thing you two. Maybe he's

1000
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 3: just shy, maybe he doesn't understand.

1001
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 2: Maybe I know, maybe he needs the handkerchief drop exactly.

1002
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 3: He hears what you're hearing, which is all your friends

1003
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 3: saying you two will be perfect together. He's aware of that.

1004
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 3: For whatever reason, he's not making the move. But there's

1005
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 3: a reason. Find out the reason, go get him.

1006
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:23,840
Speaker 1: That reason is you. Thank you. Yeah, it's been a

1007
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 1: while that one. I was gonna say something. Oh. I

1008
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 1: also always just wanted something, you know, Like, looking back,

1009
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 1: I wish one of my friends had just been.

1010
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,879
Speaker 2: Like Becca shook you and said like he's just.

1011
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:37,880
Speaker 1: Not he's not into you. But instead they'd be like

1012
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:41,320
Speaker 1: he's busy, like he has so much going on movie

1013
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 1: I know, And I just wanted someone like looking back,

1014
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:46,880
Speaker 1: even in the moment, I think I wanted someone to

1015
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:48,840
Speaker 1: just be like he doesn't want you. Yeah, because I

1016
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 1: knew that deep down, I just like couldn't accept it.

1017
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 2: And we've all been there.

1018
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 3: It's okay, Yeah, this is from JC. I don't think

1019
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 3: it's the actual Jac.

1020
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 1: I heard. He's a huge scrubbing infan.

1021
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 3: I think it's a female. In fact, she says, I'm

1022
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 3: re listening to all the old podcasts, but just a

1023
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 3: fuddy the second time around. That is so sweet. Have

1024
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:12,240
Speaker 3: you ever felt lost in life in regards to your career,

1025
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:14,719
Speaker 3: your job, your dreams. I have a regular nine to five,

1026
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 3: but it's not my dream. I'm not doing anything I love.

1027
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 3: I think I know what I want to do, and

1028
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:20,959
Speaker 3: I know what I'm interested in and what I love,

1029
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:23,399
Speaker 3: but it seems impossible to get there. But I think

1030
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 3: this is very relatable for especially for twenty five year

1031
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:29,320
Speaker 3: olds in America right now. Can you guys have different

1032
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 3: paths than a lot of people though?

1033
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 1: So Yeah, But when I was twenty five, I was

1034
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:37,279
Speaker 1: working at the chiropractor's office right before I went on

1035
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, and had I was just I was very

1036
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 1: content there, but you know, I didn't know, like is

1037
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 1: this what I want to do for the rest of

1038
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 1: my life? Or what do I want to do for

1039
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:48,840
Speaker 1: the rest of my life? And had someone told me

1040
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:50,399
Speaker 1: that I would be doing what I'm doing now, I'd

1041
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 1: been like, that's weird. How But I remember being in

1042
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 1: that place, and I was there from like twenty two

1043
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 1: till I went on the back pretty much.

1044
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:03,800
Speaker 3: So three or four years working at the chiropractor's office.

1045
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:04,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, and just and I was, like I said, I

1046
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 1: was very content. It wasn't something I thought about every

1047
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 1: day of like what am I because I was. I

1048
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 1: loved my boss, I loved my coworker. I was very happy.

1049
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: But I think I remember even before I was working

1050
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:17,240
Speaker 1: there being like what am I doing with my life?

1051
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:19,839
Speaker 1: What am I passionate about? What I want to do?

1052
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: And I think I struggled a lot because I couldn't

1053
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:26,839
Speaker 1: I couldn't really list my passions. Like when people are

1054
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: like what are you good at? What do you I'm like,

1055
00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 1: I'm good with people, I love kids, But beyond that,

1056
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:34,399
Speaker 1: I don't really know exactly what I want to do.

1057
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:37,359
Speaker 1: And so for me, I struggled a lot with being

1058
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:40,319
Speaker 1: able to name my passion. But if you know what

1059
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 1: you want to do and have an idea, I think

1060
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 1: you really need to like be grateful for that direction

1061
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:47,800
Speaker 1: because I almost feel like I didn't have that, and

1062
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people don't.

1063
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,360
Speaker 3: That's the first step is identifying that passion. That's a

1064
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 3: very difficult thing for a lot. Yeah, well I always

1065
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 3: knew mine. That was always easy for me, my passion,

1066
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:00,160
Speaker 3: But now a lot of people I talked to you,

1067
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:01,480
Speaker 3: and they have no idea whether one did they just

1068
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:07,279
Speaker 3: go to college because yoused to do. Yeah, doany for me?

1069
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:09,479
Speaker 2: I kind of knew what I knew. I always wanted

1070
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 2: to be in the music space. I just didn't know

1071
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 2: like what in what like area that was. So I

1072
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 2: actually struggled really hard when I graduated from college because

1073
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:18,840
Speaker 2: I had like my bachelor's degree, and we were actually

1074
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 2: just talking about this. I couldn't find a job to

1075
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 2: save my life. So like here I am graduating college

1076
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 2: like all high on life, puffing my chest out like yeah,

1077
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,239
Speaker 2: I graduated, Mom and dad, like I didn't fail out,

1078
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:31,480
Speaker 2: and I couldn't find a job to save my life.

1079
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 2: And I could find a job that wasn't in like

1080
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 2: the realm of what I wanted to do. But I

1081
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:38,520
Speaker 2: didn't want to do that. So I enrolled in community

1082
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 2: college that I could intern back at Valentine in the morning,

1083
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 2: in this space. And so I just I got a

1084
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 2: bunch of internship Los Angeles. Yes, I did radio, and

1085
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 2: then I did MTV, thinking maybe MTV my path, maybe

1086
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:58,239
Speaker 2: written journalism. I always knew music was going to be

1087
00:47:58,280 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 2: like my guiding force.

1088
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,360
Speaker 3: That way you had to get you had to go

1089
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 3: back to college so you could get an internship.

1090
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, And basically I had to pay I think it

1091
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 2: was like eighty bucks a semester community college so that

1092
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 2: I could essentially work twelve hours for free. I was

1093
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 2: paying eighty dollars a semester so that I could work

1094
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 2: twelve hours ships for free.

1095
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 3: So you can't get an internship if you're not a

1096
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:18,880
Speaker 3: college shoot, exactly, even though you'd already graduated. You had

1097
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 3: to pick up classes just to justify the internships. Now

1098
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 3: you're paying to work for free.

1099
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I would work the morning show was from

1100
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 2: five to ten AM, so I would do the Valentine

1101
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:27,320
Speaker 2: from five to ten, and then I would drive to

1102
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:30,040
Speaker 2: Santa Monica, I work at MTV, did their afternoonship from

1103
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 2: one to six. Then I would drive back home Orange County.

1104
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 3: And when were your classes?

1105
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 4: I didn't.

1106
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 2: You don't have to take classes like that was my class?

1107
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 2: Does that make sense?

1108
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 1: Intership? So you're you're paying?

1109
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:42,720
Speaker 2: And I had some and I had some like online classes,

1110
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 2: but I didn't go because I didn't care. I didn't

1111
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 2: need like the credits, do you know what I mean?

1112
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 2: I just stated the certificate that I was enrolled. Wow, isn't

1113
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 2: that bananas, It's just But what I'm saying is is,

1114
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:56,840
Speaker 2: since since jay Z says she knows what she wants,

1115
00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 2: what she's interested in, I would suggest keeping your nine

1116
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 2: to five right now so you have a study income,

1117
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:05,839
Speaker 2: finding some sort of enroll it. I don't know where

1118
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:08,719
Speaker 2: she lives, but enroll in some community college so that

1119
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 2: you can do an internship for free. I know it

1120
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 2: sucks because nobody wants to work for free, but it's

1121
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 2: your way of getting in because for me, essentially getting

1122
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 2: my foot in the door here is what led me

1123
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 2: to where I am now. And it was like that

1124
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 2: kind of steady, like what's it called chance of events

1125
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:27,439
Speaker 2: effect chan of events that happened for me to get here.

1126
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:28,840
Speaker 2: But I think as long as if you know what

1127
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 2: you want, get in for an internship, start there and

1128
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 2: then I think you'll get to the point where you

1129
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 2: can quit your nine to five and go fully into

1130
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:38,240
Speaker 2: this new path.

1131
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:40,880
Speaker 1: But so you have to be a student to do

1132
00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 1: an internship.

1133
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:44,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you have to get college credit. Yeah, unless

1134
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 2: they're doing it like bootleg under the rug and that's sketchy.

1135
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:50,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, just hiring people for free, I don't think it's Yeah.

1136
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:50,600
Speaker 2: That's not legal.

1137
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 1: But if it's a paid internship, you don't you don't

1138
00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 1: have to be a student.

1139
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 2: Correct, Okay, I think paid Yeah.

1140
00:49:58,200 --> 00:49:58,520
Speaker 1: Paid.

1141
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 7: I was an internet radio station that did not care

1142
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 7: if you were a student or not, and they just

1143
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:06,240
Speaker 7: had an army of people not you know, just working

1144
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:06,760
Speaker 7: for free.

1145
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1146
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:10,439
Speaker 7: But that being said, I learned everything I know there

1147
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:12,239
Speaker 7: and it was the most valuable thing I've ever done.

1148
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:12,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1149
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, Because I think by by interning is when you

1150
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 2: realize that kind of what you want, what you don't want,

1151
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:20,359
Speaker 2: and all those things. And I think it is you

1152
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 2: get in there and you meet.

1153
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 3: People foot in the door. We talked about it before.

1154
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, So I think that is the path of

1155
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:30,240
Speaker 2: least resistance where you can keep your income and then

1156
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 2: also follow your passion.

1157
00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 1: But I really think you should, like, you know, what

1158
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:37,240
Speaker 1: you're interested in. I think that's I think you should

1159
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 1: value that because I think a lot of people struggle

1160
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 1: with I think so many people graduate college and are

1161
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:44,120
Speaker 1: like now what.

1162
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure, Sarah is wondering if any of you

1163
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:49,719
Speaker 3: have stories about when you've tried to flirt with a

1164
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:51,920
Speaker 3: guy and it's gone horribly wrong, because.

1165
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:57,080
Speaker 8: She every day Mayo was drunken Margarita's and waved to

1166
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 8: a guy she used to have a crush on on Facebook,

1167
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,360
Speaker 8: which she didn't even realiz that was a thing waving

1168
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:03,120
Speaker 8: on Facebook, but apparently it's a thing.

1169
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:05,719
Speaker 3: And she was talking of friends from college and there's

1170
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:07,319
Speaker 3: a guy named Alex that she remember that he was

1171
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 3: on the hockey team and he was so cute and

1172
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:10,879
Speaker 3: we actually spent the night together. Didn't go all the way,

1173
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 3: but they had a fun night, and then they moved

1174
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 3: across the country from each other. She just randomly waved

1175
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 3: him on Facebook and she didn't realize she had done

1176
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 3: that until she woke up the next morning and he

1177
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 3: had waved back. Oh what is this, she thought to herself.

1178
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:23,880
Speaker 3: So who knows, Maybe something will come from that, But

1179
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 3: she's wondering if you guys have any stories, relatable stories

1180
00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 3: about flirting with somebody. And that did not go well.

1181
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:35,759
Speaker 2: I mean I can go all day, I think for

1182
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:39,120
Speaker 2: I think my issue is I'm just terrible at flirting.

1183
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:42,160
Speaker 2: Like I think I'm just terrible at it. I'm just

1184
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:45,399
Speaker 2: going to chalk it up to that. Not good, not good.

1185
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:47,879
Speaker 3: So what do you have a technique that you use?

1186
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 1: I just be me.

1187
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:54,800
Speaker 3: Okay. Here's a good example of what we're talking about.

1188
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 3: The guy who texted you. Yeah, okay, So there's a

1189
00:51:58,200 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 3: guy she's being set up with. I imagine me.

1190
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:03,359
Speaker 2: You know this guy, he's yeah, yeah.

1191
00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 3: He's older, okay. And he texted her and said, hey,

1192
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 3: when can we talk? Can you talk today?

1193
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:09,320
Speaker 1: We chat?

1194
00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 3: Can you read the response you gave this guy? This

1195
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:13,839
Speaker 3: is an example of Tanya flirt.

1196
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:16,400
Speaker 2: Where is last week? I told you?

1197
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 1: You didn't tell me you texted him?

1198
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 2: Oh, because I was mad at you. It was the

1199
00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 2: day that you had the bigger, better deal thing.

1200
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I didn't even realize I was being

1201
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:29,320
Speaker 1: punished till now.

1202
00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 2: Okay. So he said, like, what's a better day for

1203
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:33,839
Speaker 2: you to chat?

1204
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: Today?

1205
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 2: Or tomorrow? And so I said, Hi, his name, we'll

1206
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 2: just call him mister. However, I said, uh, my day's

1207
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 2: been great so far. How about you. I'm a little

1208
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 2: slammed today, But how about tomorrow afternoon? There's a big

1209
00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:52,719
Speaker 2: Gray's Anatomy episode tonight, so I'm getting together with my

1210
00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:54,799
Speaker 2: girlfriend to watch you. I still watch that.

1211
00:52:54,800 --> 00:53:04,160
Speaker 1: Show, Dona. There's no way you were writing that thinking

1212
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:06,319
Speaker 1: that was good. It's not good.

1213
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:08,759
Speaker 2: It's just me m e me, I.

1214
00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:11,359
Speaker 1: Get I love you so much and I am so

1215
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 1: supportive by I'm so supportive of you being you, but.

1216
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:18,040
Speaker 3: It's not great.

1217
00:53:18,800 --> 00:53:24,799
Speaker 1: Ah, it's so many details, like unnecessary details about what

1218
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 1: you're doing.

1219
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:27,400
Speaker 2: I know. And then I was like, that's why I

1220
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 2: had to throw in the Yeah, I still watch that show.

1221
00:53:29,360 --> 00:53:31,440
Speaker 1: Hot, That's what I'm saying, Like why that was like

1222
00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:33,719
Speaker 1: too many things listed?

1223
00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:37,439
Speaker 2: And then he said he said a crying emoji. He said,

1224
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 2: tomorrow afternoon works, enjoy Gray's Anatomy.

1225
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:42,320
Speaker 3: And then no call ever again.

1226
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 1: So, yeah, couldn't advise me because you were just so upset.

1227
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: You could have been like, I'm upset with you.

1228
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 2: But I know I should have. Can I salvage this

1229
00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 2: at all?

1230
00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:58,680
Speaker 3: Do you want to see? You were on the fence

1231
00:53:58,719 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 3: to begin with.

1232
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 1: Well, look here's I think you sabotage that on purpose.

1233
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 1: Maybe No, I think you did no, because I.

1234
00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:06,960
Speaker 2: Was I had mentally onto the place of like, I

1235
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:08,919
Speaker 2: want to see you see I want to try it out?

1236
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 2: Why not?

1237
00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:14,919
Speaker 3: He's The question is he's forty two, Danya's thirty. Yeah,

1238
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:17,799
Speaker 3: he has two kids. The question is that the right

1239
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:20,399
Speaker 3: fit for Tanya? He's not sure. But now she's saying,

1240
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:21,640
Speaker 3: you know what, I'm gonna be open to the universe

1241
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 3: right now.

1242
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, we talked about it and it was like, what

1243
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 1: do you have to lose? Yeah, you know, but if

1244
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 1: she didn't even give it a chance.

1245
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:31,120
Speaker 3: I found out because she lost it.

1246
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:35,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm watching Grais with my girlfriend. Yeah, I still

1247
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 1: watch that show. Is one of them.

1248
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 3: Funny.

1249
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:47,240
Speaker 1: I was like unnecessary details of it that it's so funny, Like.

1250
00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 3: Could she salvage it? Is there anything at this point?

1251
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:51,880
Speaker 1: Hey? So that was it.

1252
00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:55,440
Speaker 2: Yeah. I was really busy on Friday, so I didn't

1253
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 2: realize that he didn't call me until like Saturday, and

1254
00:54:57,800 --> 00:55:00,279
Speaker 2: I was like, mister, and.

1255
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:02,319
Speaker 3: Now it's Monday afternoon and we have not heard from

1256
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:04,400
Speaker 3: mister Crickets. Mister Cricket.

1257
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 1: Oh, mister Crickets. I don't know, Tanya. I'm sure there's

1258
00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:15,840
Speaker 1: a way to salvage.

1259
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 3: It, all right, real quick, Maggie wants to know your

1260
00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:20,399
Speaker 3: your four favorite Grace characters of all time and your

1261
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 3: least favorite characters.

1262
00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:24,360
Speaker 1: Of all about it favorite owen?

1263
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:27,719
Speaker 2: Oh wait, let's think about it and do this.

1264
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:31,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I want to talk about framebridge I actually have.

1265
00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 1: When you first walk into my apartment, there's a huge

1266
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 1: photo of me and Phoebe and it's framed from Framebridge.

1267
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:39,960
Speaker 1: Oh really cute. Yeah, it's when she was a tiny,

1268
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: sweet little baby. Now she's a nightmare. But I wanted to.

1269
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 2: Lay those teeth are like, she's bad right now. Yeah,

1270
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:50,080
Speaker 2: I have photos of her everywhere though.

1271
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:51,120
Speaker 1: It's so weird.

1272
00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:53,759
Speaker 2: But oh yeah, happy late Mother's Day.

1273
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 1: Thank you. She didn't get me anything rude. So yeah,

1274
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:01,240
Speaker 1: Framebridge makes it super easy. It's super affordable to custom

1275
00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 1: frame your favorite things, from art prints and posters to

1276
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:05,360
Speaker 1: the photos on your phone.

1277
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 2: That's so cool.

1278
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 3: It is shocking how expensive it is to frame things.

1279
00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 2: Oh it's insane.

1280
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 3: That's one of those things that when you become an adult,

1281
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:14,759
Speaker 3: people don't realize that. And I remember I went because

1282
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 3: when I first moved to California, I had like this

1283
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:19,520
Speaker 3: cool picture of the campus at the University of Wisconsin

1284
00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:20,719
Speaker 3: where I went, and I wanted to get it framed

1285
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:22,480
Speaker 3: when I went here. So I went into a frame

1286
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:23,960
Speaker 3: play saided Like then they're like, oh, that'll be one

1287
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:27,080
Speaker 3: hundred and fifty. I was like whoa, yeah, yoh's Oh

1288
00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:29,719
Speaker 3: my god. Yeah, I can't believe how expensive it is.

1289
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:30,839
Speaker 3: It seems like a simple thing.

1290
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:33,279
Speaker 2: Uh huh. I actually have a ton of things that

1291
00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:35,799
Speaker 2: I've been saving that I want to get framed, but

1292
00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:38,279
Speaker 2: I don't have I'm like to get all of these

1293
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 2: things framed would probably cost me a thousand dollars.

1294
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 1: Not anymore, Not anymore, hotel. All you have to do

1295
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:47,320
Speaker 1: you go to framebridge dot com. You upload a photo

1296
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 1: from your computer or directly from your Instagram feed. That's

1297
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:52,719
Speaker 1: what I did. It's a photo from my Instagram. And

1298
00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 1: or if you have a physical item like a ticket, stub, art, print, poster,

1299
00:56:56,760 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 1: anything you have, they'll provide secure prepaid package so you

1300
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 1: can mail it in for free for them to frame it.

1301
00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:06,239
Speaker 1: So you preview your item online once you put it

1302
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:08,880
Speaker 1: in there in any frame style, so choose your favorite.

1303
00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 1: You can get free recommendations from They have designers that

1304
00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 1: will help you as well, and then the expert team

1305
00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 1: at framebridge will custom frame your item in days, not

1306
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 1: weeks or months, and deliver your finished piece directly to

1307
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 1: your door, ready to hang. So they sent me everything ready,

1308
00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 1: I hung it myself, which I don't. I'm not handy

1309
00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:29,000
Speaker 1: at all. Yeah, I'm more handy than one think. Yeah,

1310
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 1: but not that stuff not hanging. But I did it. It

1311
00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:35,080
Speaker 1: was so easy. The best part. Instead of spending the

1312
00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:37,440
Speaker 1: hundreds that you pay at a framing store, their prices

1313
00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: start at thirty nine dollars and the shipping is free.

1314
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:44,160
Speaker 3: That's big. It's ee, that's expensive to ship those a

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Speaker 3: framed whatever.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, our listeners will get fifteen percent off their first

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Speaker 1: order at framebridge dot Com when they use Codebecca. So

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Speaker 1: that's oh sorry. So Framebridge has thousands of five star reviews,

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Speaker 1: make it right. But you're gonna be happy. It's it's

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Speaker 1: so cute. It's like the first thing I see every

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Speaker 1: time I walk in the door.

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Speaker 2: I know it's so cute. I've seen that before.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so get started framing your photos or art today.

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Speaker 3: All Right, here we go. Fave and least Fave from

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Speaker 3: Gray's Anatomy Go. You can go back and forth. You

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Speaker 3: can alternate. Okay, so let's start with favorites. Let's start.

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00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 3: Should we start positive or start negative?

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00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:36,840
Speaker 1: Start positive?

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00:58:36,840 --> 00:58:38,640
Speaker 3: Okay? Favorite characters of all time in.

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Speaker 1: Gray's Anatomy Meredith Derek.

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Speaker 3: Well, we're gonna we're gonna alternate six, so you don't

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00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:45,760
Speaker 3: still all the good?

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Speaker 1: Kay? Got it?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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00:58:46,600 --> 00:58:47,720
Speaker 2: So I can't pick Meredith.

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00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:48,360
Speaker 3: I guess you can.

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Speaker 8: Okay, Meredith, Okay, Okay, Then Becca said Derek.

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00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 1: Christina Okay, Christina double yang.

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00:58:57,920 --> 00:59:03,840
Speaker 2: A Arizona, Arizona, Arizona. Okay, because I only get four.

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00:59:03,960 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 1: I'm so torn on my last one.

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Speaker 3: Any guys make the list.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go Karre I love k I'm going Denny.

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00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 3: Danny do cat Erica? Why are you having an attack

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00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:19,520
Speaker 3: back there?

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00:59:19,520 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 1: She's I just you're forgetting like Izzy and George.

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00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 2: No, I'm not forgetting. I'm you're choosing Arizona?

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00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:31,600
Speaker 1: What about Jackson? Avery?

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00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 3: Sorry? Erica?

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00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:35,800
Speaker 2: Sorry? All right?

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00:59:35,920 --> 00:59:38,080
Speaker 3: Becca's got her? Okay, great, it's a no. Least favorite

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00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:40,160
Speaker 3: characters of all time on Grey's Anatomy.

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00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:42,120
Speaker 1: You can start Tanya.

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00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 2: Mark's creepy pays right now?

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00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:46,080
Speaker 1: Okay.

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00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:48,120
Speaker 2: Least favorite has to be.

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00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 3: Owen Owen Becca Owen.

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00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 2: Oh wow, my number two is Maggie.

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00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:03,400
Speaker 1: You' wait, I gotta think of another one, at least

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01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:10,400
Speaker 1: for this one. I'm gonna go Eliza.

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01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:23,480
Speaker 2: Wow, who did I not like? The girl got electrocuted?

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01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:24,360
Speaker 1: He read?

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01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:25,320
Speaker 2: Oh real?

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01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 1: Wait, no, no, no, no, Malsei or whatever that was her name.

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Speaker 2: I can't even know her name. She didn't even deserve spot.

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Speaker 3: Actress.

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Speaker 2: Someone else I'm gonna go with. I'm Amelia.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, so this is why we're having problems with

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01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:44,080
Speaker 3: the current cast, because you have your three are all current.

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01:00:45,320 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 2: There's not anybody from like the beginning days that I

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01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:53,440
Speaker 2: would like, not enjoyed, that I didn't enjoy from.

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Speaker 1: The Okay, let's make it interesting then, from the beginning days,

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Speaker 1: who would you knock off?

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01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:00,560
Speaker 2: I didn't like Callie in the beginning hm hmm.

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Speaker 1: I didn't like her, but you liked her, I know,

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01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:06,840
Speaker 1: but you liked her.

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01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:10,240
Speaker 2: First three seasons Callie gone.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I think I'm hitting George really.

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01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 2: Wow, wow, I liked I liked George.

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01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:24,760
Speaker 1: I was watching old episodes and I'm like, he's kind

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01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 1: of like scormy, like not scorre me how we say scored,

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01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:28,440
Speaker 1: but like something else, like.

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01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:32,320
Speaker 2: Do you know who I didn't like, Erica Hans.

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Speaker 1: That's so good. Get rid of Erica.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yea Erica will add that to your list. There

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Speaker 3: we go. We have a complete list.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a.

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Speaker 3: Thank you very much, Maggie of all people for setting

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Speaker 3: that in.

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Speaker 1: Uh.

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Speaker 3: I want to do some shout outs before we call

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01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:51,000
Speaker 3: it a podcast. I asked again, what do you guys

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01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 3: do while you're scrubbing in? So right now as they're

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01:01:54,000 --> 01:02:00,840
Speaker 3: listening to this podcast right now, Vidya Nagashana, she's on

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Speaker 3: the train right now, on the way to her job

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01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:04,480
Speaker 3: at a night doctor in New York City. Love, it

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01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:07,200
Speaker 3: isn't that great? Rebecca Nesbit is grading papers in her

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01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:11,600
Speaker 3: planning period right now in Lake Murray Shores, South Carolina. Wow,

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01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:14,320
Speaker 3: isn't that great? It's awesome you're planning period. We have

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01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:17,400
Speaker 3: teachers listening to our show. Actually, Carboneau Charbono, sorry, actually

1406
01:02:17,440 --> 01:02:19,760
Speaker 3: Charbonow just dropped her daughter off at school and is

1407
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 3: driving around Eagle Mountain, Utah, aimlessly just to finish the podcast. Driving.

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Speaker 2: Speak to this one girl that I met over the weekend.

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01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 2: She says that she saves some of the podcasts to

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Speaker 2: binge Listen because of our cliff Cliffhangers, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: are you interested in the right podcast? She's like yeah,

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Speaker 2: And I was like Cliffhanger. She's like, well, this last

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01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 2: one you said to something about some I was like, hmmm,

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01:02:45,120 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 2: I think it was a Juliana Ransack thing.

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01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:49,200
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, they didn't go anywhere, did it.

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01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:49,480
Speaker 1: No?

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01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:51,600
Speaker 2: Well, I mess im her, but she doesn't damn me back.

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Speaker 3: That's been like two weeks.

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01:02:53,680 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 2: It's been one week. Okay, she just have the mac gala.

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01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 1: She very busy.

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Speaker 3: We keep making those excuses for people. Meghan Antson is

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01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 3: on her way home from working Clarkston, Michigan. She listened

1423
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:04,640
Speaker 3: to the first half on her way in in the morning,

1424
01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:06,360
Speaker 3: and now she's listening to this part on her way home.

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01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 3: Brittany Kane is laying in her bubble bath right now,

1426
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:11,880
Speaker 3: pruning up like crazy, listening to our show. Taylor Parsons

1427
01:03:11,920 --> 01:03:13,840
Speaker 3: is pushing her daughter in the stroller right now. Her

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01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:16,800
Speaker 3: daughter harmonizes with Tanya and Becka every time they give

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01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:20,400
Speaker 3: the promo code. Becca cut Tierney van Meter is working

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01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 3: out right now in Lee's Summit, Missouri.

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01:03:23,120 --> 01:03:24,640
Speaker 2: How is it working out to a podcast?

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01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 3: That's an interesting question. I couldn't do that.

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01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1434
01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:31,840
Speaker 1: I just like going on walks. I thoroughly enjoy it.

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01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:36,080
Speaker 3: Makes walks are different. Probably I could listen to a

1436
01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 3: podcast while walking. I don't think I could while working out.

1437
01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:41,080
Speaker 3: I need my eyes to do something. I can't just

1438
01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:43,120
Speaker 3: go to a wall the whole, you know, but go

1439
01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 3: get it. Tyrney. Kayla Williams is babysitting right now at

1440
01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:48,800
Speaker 3: Auburn Hills, Michigan. The kids are asleep, and that's her

1441
01:03:48,880 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 3: chance to listen to the podcast when they sleep. Danielle

1442
01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:54,840
Speaker 3: Torres Roads is shelving books at the Nashville Public Library

1443
01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:57,640
Speaker 3: right now as she's listening to Scrubbing In with Becca

1444
01:03:57,680 --> 01:04:02,040
Speaker 3: and Tanya and Nikki Johnson is literally scrubbed in. She's

1445
01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:05,000
Speaker 3: a pharmacy tech in Florence, Alabama, and is refilling the

1446
01:04:05,080 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 3: Pixus machines pikes that that's in the operating room. That's

1447
01:04:09,080 --> 01:04:14,160
Speaker 3: all the medications used in operations. She restocks machine and

1448
01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:16,160
Speaker 3: that's her job, so she has to scrub it because

1449
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 3: she's in the operating room. That's a lot of totally sanitized.

1450
01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:22,120
Speaker 1: Wait is North Alabama. I think my brother went to

1451
01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:24,400
Speaker 1: went to college in Florence, Alabama.

1452
01:04:24,560 --> 01:04:26,400
Speaker 2: Really, how is he doing?

1453
01:04:26,480 --> 01:04:26,600
Speaker 6: Well?

1454
01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:27,520
Speaker 3: What college did you go to?

1455
01:04:27,680 --> 01:04:28,760
Speaker 1: He went to North Alabama.

1456
01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 3: Well, let's see where that is. And is he still

1457
01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:33,440
Speaker 3: available because a lot of podcast listeners are he is.

1458
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:34,880
Speaker 1: He lives in Midland, Texas.

1459
01:04:35,040 --> 01:04:39,240
Speaker 3: The University of Northern Alabama is in Florence, Alabama. Absolutely right.

1460
01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:40,760
Speaker 3: Shout out to Nikki Johnson.

1461
01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:42,240
Speaker 2: I've been thinking about Chris lately.

1462
01:04:42,840 --> 01:04:49,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, just like, what about thinking thoughts?

1463
01:04:51,240 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 2: What are you going to leave it at the dirty thoughts?

1464
01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:02,120
Speaker 3: It's still your punishment.

1465
01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 1: I think I'm like already so thrown off by these

1466
01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:08,600
Speaker 1: vitamins that I can't even go into you having dirty

1467
01:05:08,600 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 1: thoughts about my brother.

1468
01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 2: I haven't seen him.

1469
01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:14,960
Speaker 3: I think maybe at one point, I don't know. I

1470
01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:16,240
Speaker 3: can't thank you up. I'm sorry.

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01:05:16,280 --> 01:05:18,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't matter like you're saying, oh, he's hot,

1472
01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:22,919
Speaker 1: like is it? Being like duh doesn't help me because

1473
01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:25,120
Speaker 1: it's my brother, right, I don't get to be like

1474
01:05:25,240 --> 01:05:29,360
Speaker 1: yeah right, you know, like he's cute. I think he's

1475
01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:29,960
Speaker 1: so handsome.

1476
01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:32,600
Speaker 2: I'm proud that would you ever live in La Never?

1477
01:05:32,680 --> 01:05:34,480
Speaker 3: I don't think so, would you be? Okay? I think

1478
01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:35,880
Speaker 3: we've asked this before, but would you be a kare

1479
01:05:35,880 --> 01:05:36,800
Speaker 3: of Tanya dating your brother?

1480
01:05:37,280 --> 01:05:37,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1481
01:05:38,640 --> 01:05:42,160
Speaker 2: Fine, it would be so like iconic if I ended

1482
01:05:42,240 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 2: up marrying iconic.

1483
01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 1: She says, iconic. The word iconic has been thrown.

1484
01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:48,920
Speaker 2: Is that iconic?

1485
01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:50,280
Speaker 1: Epic?

1486
01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 2: Is that the one I was looking for.

1487
01:05:51,320 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 3: Would be too much? Tanya? If she was now your

1488
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:56,720
Speaker 3: sister in law and she was at every family occasion.

1489
01:05:56,920 --> 01:06:00,120
Speaker 1: No, I mean, that would be fine. But I'm I'm

1490
01:06:00,160 --> 01:06:02,720
Speaker 1: thinking more of like if they're in an argument, the

1491
01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:07,600
Speaker 1: level of the number of texts and calls and facetimes again,

1492
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:10,720
Speaker 1: so I'm not I mean, he probably would, but I'm

1493
01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:14,840
Speaker 1: thinking about you. Why aren't you answering.

1494
01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:16,600
Speaker 3: Is the is it over there? The thing you got

1495
01:06:16,640 --> 01:06:17,400
Speaker 3: in the mail last week?

1496
01:06:17,480 --> 01:06:20,040
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, how did we forget get that out?

1497
01:06:20,080 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 3: Because we don't want to not do that. By the way,

1498
01:06:22,360 --> 01:06:25,200
Speaker 3: Happy birthday to Riley Hill. In the scrubbon, she wanted

1499
01:06:25,240 --> 01:06:28,960
Speaker 3: to shout out Rile. This came listeners took.

1500
01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:31,800
Speaker 2: Up a gosh, this is a.

1501
01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:33,400
Speaker 3: Go funds, an actual gofund me.

1502
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 2: Because I was missing you and now I'll never have

1503
01:06:36,120 --> 01:06:37,120
Speaker 2: to miss you again.

1504
01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:41,880
Speaker 1: Tilly, I'm fully holding a line Marita cardboard cutout.

1505
01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:50,880
Speaker 2: Just pop it right out. It's pretty life size? Can

1506
01:06:50,920 --> 01:06:52,440
Speaker 2: you stand up next to it?

1507
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:55,960
Speaker 3: Is it actually life size? Wow? It is you guys,

1508
01:06:56,000 --> 01:06:59,200
Speaker 3: look at that. This is everything, Tanya. What will you

1509
01:06:59,240 --> 01:06:59,720
Speaker 3: do with that?

1510
01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:00,600
Speaker 1: You know?

1511
01:07:00,800 --> 01:07:06,480
Speaker 2: Tbd? TBD on what I do with my life size Becca.

1512
01:07:06,560 --> 01:07:09,600
Speaker 2: But I'll tell you that I appreciate it.

1513
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:11,800
Speaker 1: They chose such a good photo. It could have gone

1514
01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:12,840
Speaker 1: really fat.

1515
01:07:13,080 --> 01:07:14,960
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, it's such a pretty photo of you.

1516
01:07:15,440 --> 01:07:18,360
Speaker 3: So shout out to Natalie Cherry who got the ball

1517
01:07:18,560 --> 01:07:21,480
Speaker 3: rolling on this thing. She found the prices and figured

1518
01:07:21,520 --> 01:07:23,400
Speaker 3: it out, and I guess she put up the GoFundMe

1519
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:26,280
Speaker 3: and everybody gave in five bucks or whatever, and there

1520
01:07:26,320 --> 01:07:26,720
Speaker 3: it is.

1521
01:07:27,200 --> 01:07:27,920
Speaker 2: There she is.

1522
01:07:28,480 --> 01:07:31,120
Speaker 3: Now. If Becca wants to go to Celine Diona at

1523
01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:33,840
Speaker 3: the Piano Bar, Tonny can still watch Grays with Becca.

1524
01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:39,520
Speaker 2: We should name we should name her Pecca fake Becca.

1525
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:43,440
Speaker 2: It's me when I say pe.

1526
01:07:45,320 --> 01:07:47,560
Speaker 1: My god, Becca falling apart.

1527
01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:50,000
Speaker 3: I think Beca is funny Becca? Yeah?

1528
01:07:51,160 --> 01:07:52,440
Speaker 2: Am I hang out with Becca tonight?

1529
01:07:52,560 --> 01:08:00,680
Speaker 1: Or Becca? We're all losing it right now. It's actually

1530
01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:03,600
Speaker 1: really cute, super fun. When you said when she sent

1531
01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:05,800
Speaker 1: it to me last week, I was like, wow, we

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Speaker 1: have the best listeners ever, ever, ever, ever, thank you

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01:08:10,480 --> 01:08:15,400
Speaker 1: to everyone for listening. It's time that we have to

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Speaker 1: say goodbye. Unfortunately, Lauren, I just wanted to say thank

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01:08:18,520 --> 01:08:20,439
Speaker 1: you for talking to us and telling us a story

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01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:22,479
Speaker 1: about your new job. Good luck on your job as

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Speaker 1: a flight attendant. We're so happy for you. And thank

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Speaker 1: you to the other Lauren who made it happen. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and mom, her mom, Hubble, Framebridge, Bio Clarity, all of

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Speaker 1: our sponsors. Thank you so much for being on our podcast.

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01:08:35,520 --> 01:08:36,360
Speaker 1: We love y'all.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go hang out with Beka.

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Speaker 1: Keep emails, holding taking selfies right now, keep emailing us.

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Speaker 1: The email is scrubbing in at iHeartMedia dot com. We

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01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:48,720
Speaker 1: love to hear from y'all so much. Keep talking on

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01:08:48,760 --> 01:08:52,679
Speaker 1: the Facebook group, enjoying each other, encouraging each other.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Are all of us going Taylor Swift this weekend?

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Speaker 2: No? I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to. I don't know how to

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Speaker 1: make it happen. I have to go.

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01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:03,759
Speaker 3: I like have to go going Friday. I'm going Saturday

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Speaker 3: with my girls. Their first ever concert is Yes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll find a way. I'm confident.

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Speaker 6: Ok.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, good, we'll talk to you about that next week.

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Speaker 2: I think those other things we needed to talk about too,

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Speaker 2: but I guess it'll have table app Yeah, that'll.

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Speaker 1: Be the cliffhanger next week. We'll talk about him next week.

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Speaker 1: Important thing.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna try and get my guy back.

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Speaker 1: Which one are you gonna salvage? Okay, we need to

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01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:32,080
Speaker 1: talk about that. For you saying anything else, Thank y'all

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Speaker 1: so much for listening.

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01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:34,479
Speaker 2: I just don't want to go. What else can we

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Speaker 2: talk about?

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Speaker 1: Time and Dad.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna try and get Juliana Ransid.

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Speaker 1: Fourteen twenty eight. No. I love that I'm holding her.

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Speaker 2: It's a really pretty picture.

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Speaker 1: Anyway. I don't even know what that's wrong.