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Speaker 1: is another episode we here again with horrible decisions. It
Speaker 1: is just me your girl Mandy b a k A
Speaker 1: pet Stallion a k ada bitch a k A. I
Speaker 1: really ain't getting no dick right now, but we're gonna
Speaker 1: talk about that. UM. Wheezy actually is on her way
Speaker 1: to the studio. UM. She was getting dick in Miami
Speaker 1: and apparently because of the fucking weather, flight got canceled,
Speaker 1: then delayed, then canceled. She had to buy like two
Speaker 1: other flights today, just a whole lot of mass. So
Speaker 1: wee they may or may not come in midway through
Speaker 1: this episode. But I'm super excited because I am joined
Speaker 1: with two of my friends, two of my creative, very wonderful,
Speaker 1: very melanated so so so before we get into a
Speaker 1: little catch up on my sexless sex life, UM, I
Speaker 1: wanted to introduce the two of you. So I am
Speaker 1: sitting across from Latasha and Jamir. Can you please introduce
Speaker 1: yourselves to our audience to let them know who I
Speaker 1: can see a birth mark? You don't only a special
Speaker 1: for you can see that. Yeah, alright, I'm just Anatasha.
Speaker 1: I am on YouTube. You guys can subscribe and follow
Speaker 1: me there. I'm also a cast member on the grape
Speaker 1: Vine TV and I'm also a filmmaker, catch seasons one
Speaker 1: and to a Sit Black and Relax on Amazon Prime
Speaker 1: and Sit Black and Relax dot com. Sit Black and
Speaker 1: Relax is beautiful. Thank you. That is thinking creative. It's
Speaker 1: really funny. Yeah, that is dope. Isst ship And I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie now I'm gonna really need your help
Speaker 1: because I told you I'm having a problem with thinking
Speaker 1: of titles for some other ship I'm working on. So yeah,
Speaker 1: thank you for And you guys probably know Jamir as well.
Speaker 1: Jamir where may our listeners know you from? From Brooklyn?
Speaker 1: If you're from the um, my name is Jamia Pondum.
Speaker 1: I'm a content creator and a host and just a
Speaker 1: genius a little you're that louder genius. Yeah. Now you
Speaker 1: might have seen me on BT on Stars, on BuzzFeed
Speaker 1: and also the grape Vine. Shout out to the great,
Speaker 1: Shout out to the grad tell them I'll be together
Speaker 1: friend great as times learn such a fun fact about you?
Speaker 1: Oh wait, well, you know all the capitals of every state.
Speaker 1: And I'm ran I'm really geeky and nerdy. I can't
Speaker 1: get words right for on this show, but it's one
Speaker 1: of those things I was probably in kindergarten, and if
Speaker 1: y'all from Florida, we gotta do the FCT, so they
Speaker 1: make us learn all these random ships in Florida because
Speaker 1: the FCT is the Florida Comprehension Assessment Tests that you
Speaker 1: have to take in order. Even if you get all
Speaker 1: as all year in certain grades, if you don't pass
Speaker 1: this standardized test, you get held back. What age do
Speaker 1: you learn stand your ground? Oh? You see one that
Speaker 1: I'm sure if you are, I'm not sure if you
Speaker 1: looked up. But Florida is not the place where we
Speaker 1: brag about our education. This country is not about education. Matthews. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I wanted to do a quick catch up,
Speaker 1: um kind of with what's going on with me. Me
Speaker 1: and Latasha just had a drink before coming here to
Speaker 1: do that. It's crazy, don't have to say, because you
Speaker 1: don't be drinking. The last time we went to the
Speaker 1: beer hall, you was like, my bad, she said no.
Speaker 1: But so Latasha and I were talking and I think
Speaker 1: even the last time we record for the Grapevine, I
Speaker 1: told you all, like my love life has been pretty
Speaker 1: non existent. I'm not even getting dick, so I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm not doing what I need to do with
Speaker 1: a show like this. Um so, as your sex become
Speaker 1: performative for your creative endeavor. So here's the thing. We
Speaker 1: have to do things for research purposes, I feel like.
Speaker 1: And so now I feel like I'm going to be
Speaker 1: the one on the show that talks about a sex
Speaker 1: life with sex not being there. Um So two weeks well,
Speaker 1: two weeks ago, I'm not gonna Two weeks ago, I
Speaker 1: got my wisdom teeth removed and I ended up with Christmas,
Speaker 1: which is a severe case of lockjaw. And so I
Speaker 1: really thought that the Lord Kurt, like, I thought the
Speaker 1: Lord told me that she has been enough. Your mouth
Speaker 1: is going to be out of commission for the rest
Speaker 1: of you. I thought, God, he went from yea way
Speaker 1: to no way. Oh no, oh, absolutely not that's what
Speaker 1: you thought. No, I'm not gonna lie. I literally was
Speaker 1: like he did this on purpose. Absolutely. So I've been
Speaker 1: talking to him like I've been doing my little job exercises,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I can't even fit an Asian dick
Speaker 1: in my mouth right now that if you look okay.
Speaker 1: So I thought of a census of it. So I
Speaker 1: have no idea. I don't know racist because they're no, No,
Speaker 1: it's not really declared it when it's a fact, it's not.
Speaker 1: They have smaller penis size of the stereotype comparison to
Speaker 1: like dynamics. That's why I'm able to kick and move,
Speaker 1: and that's why it ain't so smart, like alright, alright?
Speaker 1: Can we could actually rail it in real bad here
Speaker 1: because there was a loss control. This is the line.
Speaker 1: So I wanted what I can't say? Do you think? Okay, sorry, y'all.
Speaker 1: Apparently I'm being problematic again, and everyone is telling me
Speaker 1: to chill okay, so um go see crazy rich Asians
Speaker 1: howling on all your streaming services, y'all. So I wanted
Speaker 1: to bring up to where I'm like, Okay, I can
Speaker 1: yellow black, I can't dick. Do you see what y'all do?
Speaker 1: Y'all shut up? So as I'm talking to him about
Speaker 1: um taking away my ability to suck dick um, I
Speaker 1: think he didn't like the conversation very much because he
Speaker 1: also has cursed me from getting dick um. And I
Speaker 1: want to tell you, guys, the links of which I
Speaker 1: attempted to get dick um. No, well, his dick is good,
Speaker 1: but this is the links that I went to um
Speaker 1: to get so I'm just listen, listen, so no, I'm
Speaker 1: telling you. So, I'm chilling at home. As y'all know,
Speaker 1: there was like a snowstorm in New York and it's
Speaker 1: snowed for like two days, not really in the Bronx.
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's because we ain't buy water
Speaker 1: or the snow just scared of the Bronx. But you
Speaker 1: don't really get much. Snow wasn't really bad. So I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm like, what are y'all talking about? Canceled flights? Nigga
Speaker 1: is raining, it ain't snowing, Like, I don't even see
Speaker 1: nothing white on the ground. I'm like, the Bronx is
Speaker 1: still Bronx. Todain't a white Bronx. So I'm like, bet
Speaker 1: so this nigga hit me up. We go to Sexton.
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm horny. I'm like, man, I'm me too.
Speaker 1: He's like, you'll be playing. I'm like, no, I'm not.
Speaker 1: He's like, come to Denver. This is at five pm
Speaker 1: on in the area. So he literally listened. That's where
Speaker 1: it's not. There's no, there's no, there's not a Denver
Speaker 1: in Harlem. She said. He said, come to Denver. This
Speaker 1: capital of what Denver? I don't it's Colorado, but I
Speaker 1: don't know if that's I think it is the capital. Right,
Speaker 1: Uh but wait no, wait, let me correct that. I
Speaker 1: don't know all of the capitals of the states. I
Speaker 1: know all of the states in alphabetical order. That's what
Speaker 1: it was. Um. Anyways, right, it's a random thing to know.
Speaker 1: Why the funds in my mind? Anyways, So he hits
Speaker 1: me at five o'clock and it's like, come to Denver.
Speaker 1: I'm like, do you realize it's snowing on the East coast?
Speaker 1: Like I don't think I'm gonna get out? Like her
Speaker 1: flights is canceled, he said, not all the flights, So
Speaker 1: he wasn't wrong. The most big risks not moving. Just
Speaker 1: so he's like, look up a flight and see if
Speaker 1: there's any flights available. So I look up the flights
Speaker 1: and I find a flight and I only fly Delta.
Speaker 1: So I find a flight on Delta. It leaves in
Speaker 1: two hours and forty five minutes. So within twenty minutes
Speaker 1: of us sexting and him telling me to come to Denver,
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, I'm horny. I ain't got
Speaker 1: nobody here fuck it, I'm gonna go to Denver. So
Speaker 1: to Denver for some day from New York. So I'm like,
Speaker 1: bet so, I look up the flight. It's eleven dollars,
Speaker 1: he said, get it, say less. So I get the flight.
Speaker 1: I'm heading to the airport. I have the slowest uber
Speaker 1: in the world. Thing god I left. He was Asian. Actually, um,
Speaker 1: all right, I get to the airport in time. It's lit.
Speaker 1: So I get I board my flight. I'm letting him
Speaker 1: know I'm on my flights see you. So ow I
Speaker 1: land at this point. I landed like ten thirty five,
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I bet ten thirty five solid. We
Speaker 1: got time to kick it do some things. It's a
Speaker 1: little freaking dickey. So mind y'all, here's here. Here's the
Speaker 1: craziest part. I landed at ten thirty five. Do you
Speaker 1: all want to know what time my flight was leaving
Speaker 1: ten fifty the next morning? What so? I was about
Speaker 1: to fly to Denver for twelve hours to get some dick.
Speaker 1: These are the links I have to go to get
Speaker 1: dick right now? Can y'all not look at me so crazy?
Speaker 1: Please please? We're thinking about a train ride that I
Speaker 1: don't like anyway, half of my pain. Anyways, long story short,
Speaker 1: this is how the curse worked. Um. Unfortunately, I sat
Speaker 1: on the runway for three hours, and due to federal regulations,
Speaker 1: once you sit in a plane for so long, you
Speaker 1: have to return back to the gate. So I returned
Speaker 1: back to the gate. By this point of flight was
Speaker 1: supposed to be a seven forty five. It was about
Speaker 1: eleven o'clock and so I hit him. I'm like, I'm
Speaker 1: not coming there. I won't get there till four am,
Speaker 1: So I gotta refund no dick for me. Went home
Speaker 1: and played with myself miserably, and at this very moment, Um,
Speaker 1: my couchie is fed up with this monogamous relationship that
Speaker 1: it has with my fingers, and they fight in because
Speaker 1: my COUCHI is like, Sis, I didn't sign up for
Speaker 1: this monogamous as motherfucking relationship. So there's me doing manual labor.
Speaker 1: I respected, this manual labor is actually driving me nuts. Um.
Speaker 1: But if you guys first fun listen. Um, if you
Speaker 1: guys were you know, maybe not wanting an episode with
Speaker 1: just me, you got it. Yeah. Um, I'm joined with
Speaker 1: my co host who made it from the airport. So
Speaker 1: I don't know if she wants to introduce herself. But
Speaker 1: she has a horrible decision. So while I'm not getting sex,
Speaker 1: she's getting a lot of it. So on dicks, I'll
Speaker 1: tell you that, and on and off them. Absolutely, I
Speaker 1: know how I'm gonna keep this brand up. Legit almost
Speaker 1: didn't make some of my horrible decisions this weekend, and
Speaker 1: I thought, you know what, I haven't added juicily episode.
Speaker 1: Are you able at this point able to have sex
Speaker 1: and get the dick that you want and the lips
Speaker 1: that you want without thinking about Oh I do all
Speaker 1: the time. Yeah, that's why I haven't had sex. I
Speaker 1: don't give a funk. I'm gonna talk about maybe me
Speaker 1: not getting dick, but I'm not gonna do you in
Speaker 1: the moment going ham, You're like, this would be great
Speaker 1: for the show. I'm not. But it's really it's really good.
Speaker 1: It was really good. It was I'm not saying it
Speaker 1: was fully the reason that I made my horrible decision,
Speaker 1: but I will just say this had a great week
Speaker 1: guy I'm dating old Bay, came for Thanksgiving, met my mom,
Speaker 1: we headed out to Miami for the weekend. I was
Speaker 1: gonna say what happened until I realized I probably really
Speaker 1: shouldn't because I did something with a listener from this show,
Speaker 1: and that bitch probably is the reason I have a fever.
Speaker 1: But I will say I was thinking about it all
Speaker 1: weekend and I was like, because I tweeted about it
Speaker 1: because I was so excited, it was so much fun,
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, that wouldn't be right.
Speaker 1: I don't know her numbers, so it's not like I
Speaker 1: could ask her for consent to talking about her, So
Speaker 1: I probably shouldn't do it. But you're doing nicknames anyway. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but when we were in the spot dog let's call her,
Speaker 1: let's call her her PO for short, her PO. It's
Speaker 1: not hurt because it's not herpies, but it's also not
Speaker 1: not herpies. I don't know. We don't know. You don't
Speaker 1: get fevers with herpes, you don't. Okayophobic, but I will
Speaker 1: tell you this. I think I'm providing representation of visibility.
Speaker 1: It was really wild. I woke up and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, like, I don't know what the fun
Speaker 1: is going on. Overnight there was this. It was a thing.
Speaker 1: It was all right, Now, that's problematic. Twelve cast that day.
Speaker 1: It ended around like seven am, and then I woke up. Look,
Speaker 1: all I'm gonna tell you is three. What's three times four?
Speaker 1: Stop doing? Man? What kind of stopped? What is this four?
Speaker 1: What is for? Represent ya box? Oh my god? This
Speaker 1: is right now? That was pretty good. It's hordap this
Speaker 1: is I feel like you're about to cast. Its happening.
Speaker 1: I'm not people shout out mouse jone, my mouth shut
Speaker 1: and out of the building just that fast, please please,
Speaker 1: that's what I heard about you in and out that's
Speaker 1: what I heard about you to check over your show
Speaker 1: that that's not what you heard about my mouth zone.
Speaker 1: I didn't hear that about things. Well I told you, okay, sorry,
Speaker 1: and it's not coming quick if if I'm supposed to
Speaker 1: come that you know what. Hord te tip, it's a
Speaker 1: hord tip tip. I love the horrible decision love. I
Speaker 1: wish jug there's some great black people. It's about three
Speaker 1: black people. A mouse get out. I take it to
Speaker 1: show hord Tip of the day. I would love for
Speaker 1: that to be a new segment. That's like every time
Speaker 1: I smoke weed. I've been doing a lot of writing
Speaker 1: lately and I'm like, what could be a great new segment,
Speaker 1: right and I was like, it's either horror derves and
Speaker 1: it'll be like, I don't know what it's gonna be,
Speaker 1: but I really want to call it horror nerves or
Speaker 1: I like that horror tip tip of the Day. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that was cute. I gotta start thinking, if you guys
Speaker 1: have I'll just collect a modest there we go get
Speaker 1: your ticket. No, but it was a really wild weekend.
Speaker 1: I can't feel my throat. At first I thought I
Speaker 1: had a bruise esophagus um, but that wasn't the case.
Speaker 1: So like I've never I thank you, but I thought
Speaker 1: I had to bruise esophagus. After Old Baby flew back
Speaker 1: to New York, I went to Palace in Miami, the
Speaker 1: gay club, and I was telling everybody how my throat hurts,
Speaker 1: and they were like, oh my god, girl, you probably
Speaker 1: was choking on date. Especially if you go upside down,
Speaker 1: you can get a bruise esophagus. I was like, I
Speaker 1: had no idea, So here I am in the middle
Speaker 1: of this fucking gay club, like do you see it?
Speaker 1: It was really ridiculous, but it inspired me to do
Speaker 1: an episode about sex injuries because I have another one,
Speaker 1: my nigga in the middle of fucking. I got a
Speaker 1: pinched nerve. Basically, I can't even pull up my pants
Speaker 1: without doing it like an old lady. My back is
Speaker 1: sucked up. Like that's how much sex I had this
Speaker 1: weekend with my nigga. I just get to walk away
Speaker 1: scott free, like it's just like, no, it's not gonna
Speaker 1: be without a limp, It's not gonna be without a
Speaker 1: sore throat A lot he did you know that if
Speaker 1: I was tearing up at one point during sex because
Speaker 1: of the pain or because like this does not sound fun,
Speaker 1: it was you promise you had a good time. I
Speaker 1: really did twice. If you had a good time, I
Speaker 1: can't my word, but I will tell you one funny
Speaker 1: thing because I can't really go into detail about what
Speaker 1: happened this weekend. But all I can tell you is
Speaker 1: someone had a busted lip. That's how rough Ship got.
Speaker 1: You almost lose a tone nail that was off my Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I let to talk about it. No, no, no, let
Speaker 1: me tell you. This is a show about horrible decision.
Speaker 1: I've never heard it before. You're talking about that's that
Speaker 1: goddamn clip we need for Instagram. So how did you
Speaker 1: almost lose your whole big all gonna ask me. I
Speaker 1: just I got strupped throat for me pussy goddamn, I
Speaker 1: hope right and that so we're waiting on the story. Latasha,
Speaker 1: go ahead of chair. I tried to perform an action
Speaker 1: on a reclining chair over the summer um and I
Speaker 1: forgot that. You know, we had had some drinks. I
Speaker 1: was tipsy, so was debating me at that at the time, right,
Speaker 1: I said, now I'm gonna extend the chance, so we
Speaker 1: leaned back. I was sexy. It was like a whole movie.
Speaker 1: Was like damn, like that's fire right, And I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna move on down. So I put all
Speaker 1: my weight on the foot of the chair. The entire
Speaker 1: chair tipped over with my feet under it, landed his weight,
Speaker 1: my weight, the weight of the chair, everything on my
Speaker 1: big toe, my cuticle, and slid back. Had a bruise
Speaker 1: my throat. Just yeah, did y'all y'all stop sucking at
Speaker 1: the point or did you at least know so you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? That little blood. So I think
Speaker 1: it's like growing up. But y'all caught your nut and
Speaker 1: then you then you were worried about your what the adrenaline. Probably, well,
Speaker 1: I hate to be embarrassed. I was like doing off
Speaker 1: like sharning. He was like, are you okay? I was
Speaker 1: like none, it green and said yeah, but you literally
Speaker 1: can't like anything happens like we're we're embarrassed, Like I
Speaker 1: don't fell off the bed before. I didn't have to
Speaker 1: keep wig up like I got hit when the wig
Speaker 1: slides and should be so irritated. We was walking in
Speaker 1: its windy as hell outside and she's like, this is
Speaker 1: holding off. The one is lucid in the other ones.
Speaker 1: I think I got a Jewish woman's wig slide ones
Speaker 1: fire and it was you, But I mean the whole thing.
Speaker 1: I've got a problem. So I'm the Jewish one. So
Speaker 1: it's fine. When I was talking about Asians earlier, it
Speaker 1: was an art was about it. The stereotype, like their
Speaker 1: penis is exactly. You've been here before a stream please stream,
Speaker 1: I mean the lighter black panther. You have you guys
Speaker 1: ever watched Asian born? Uh No, they seemed fine to me.
Speaker 1: I've watched people Asian women with black men. I've seen
Speaker 1: that too. Why do you say it's crazy? Everything I like,
Speaker 1: and that's a lot of it. Was filmed, and once
Speaker 1: it was filmed America. Um, they have to blur out
Speaker 1: the genitals and stuff in a lot of Yeah, and
Speaker 1: I find somebody that does porn in Japan. Shout out
Speaker 1: to Ray little Bit Black. She's a Japanese porn star.
Speaker 1: It was my first like pay for porn person. Oh
Speaker 1: my god. And it's so dope because she'll record in Europe,
Speaker 1: so like you can see her pussy. It's great. But
Speaker 1: I always wonder, like, damn if you go back home
Speaker 1: or you even gonna make movie, and what happens to
Speaker 1: like only fans, Like what kind of ship is blocked?
Speaker 1: I mean not even that when it gets one fan?
Speaker 1: When when when I lived in Asia, um, and even
Speaker 1: when I went to the Middle East, I had to
Speaker 1: use a VPN on my computer. There's like no porn allout.
Speaker 1: None of the porn sites pop up, Like you can't
Speaker 1: visit porn over there is. Yeah, Like I literally had
Speaker 1: to my IP addressed to either Europe or America in
Speaker 1: order to I just hate having to use my own
Speaker 1: imagination when I'm trying to please myself so much worker
Speaker 1: teacher and I don't know friends, like I've tried to
Speaker 1: practice so in Japan it worked for me, but in
Speaker 1: Thailand it didn't. I think it's just more of those
Speaker 1: like little rinking you know that was sucked up to
Speaker 1: say too, I guess Dan, but whatever. So it worked
Speaker 1: in one place for me and not in the other.
Speaker 1: And I will say I had to really learn. I
Speaker 1: was in Thailand for two weeks, were friends. I had
Speaker 1: to really learn how to like masturbate and enjoy. I
Speaker 1: also went to Morocco and had to masturbate on my
Speaker 1: own and it's like it took practice, but it made
Speaker 1: the orgasm stronger. She's like me, I came all over
Speaker 1: the world, so it's like a serious I'm expensive. You
Speaker 1: need to know that, not European orgasts. I haven't had it.
Speaker 1: I was coming in Morocco. Prayer came, wow you heard me,
Speaker 1: and I was just like, okay, okay, it's not okay, alright,
Speaker 1: we're gonna go ahead and get We're gonna go ahead
Speaker 1: and get into the vanilla ship this week, if you
Speaker 1: guys all right, first time listener, Vanilla Ship is where
Speaker 1: we find sex in the news. Go figure So for
Speaker 1: this week, um our Vanilla Ship comes from the New
Speaker 1: York Post dot com and it is the first male
Speaker 1: birth control injection that is almost ready for penises. Um.
Speaker 1: The product is ready, with only regulatory approvals pending UM.
Speaker 1: The trials are over, including extended phase three clinical trials,
Speaker 1: for which three hundred and three candidates were recruited with
Speaker 1: a ninety seven point three success rate with no reported
Speaker 1: side effects, which I'm honestly jealous as fuck. How the
Speaker 1: funk do you find a birth control with no side
Speaker 1: effects for men? And we're all out here fucking getting fat,
Speaker 1: getting acne, having mood swings, being fucking miserable, just so
Speaker 1: that we don't get think it's just long term. I
Speaker 1: don't think they've figured it out yet. Um, the product
Speaker 1: can safely be called the world's first male contraceptive. The
Speaker 1: birth control method, which lasts approximately thirteen years, involves injecting
Speaker 1: a polymer called styrene male hydride. Listen, I looked on
Speaker 1: these before, and I don't know into the deference, effectively
Speaker 1: blocking sperm from leaving the text from leaving the testicles.
Speaker 1: The shot preceded by a dose of local anesthesia. It's
Speaker 1: like to plant a traditional can't stand there. You can't
Speaker 1: even say paint my face. It's like laze it right,
Speaker 1: years is too long, though I can see somebody not
Speaker 1: doing It's like getting your Yeah, thirteen years is a
Speaker 1: long time. I don't know if I would. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: long saying kids sometimes. But that's really like even for
Speaker 1: a lot of the female birth controls UM like the
Speaker 1: Marina and I don't even know if that one's approved
Speaker 1: as much anymore, But there's so many other types, like
Speaker 1: the five year one to me is even a lot
Speaker 1: like I just know where I was five years ago
Speaker 1: and where I might be five years from now, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, maybe I'll do the ring. But than
Speaker 1: the ring, you gotta take in and out every like
Speaker 1: what twenty seven days or something. It's just a lot
Speaker 1: like I don't know, getting people, you know anything, something's
Speaker 1: going on, and then it shifts and then someone has
Speaker 1: to help yourself. If someone's gotta go, you gotta go
Speaker 1: in there. My friend is on it now after just
Speaker 1: getting off of UM. She was on Marina or she
Speaker 1: had the copper thing in there UM for for years
Speaker 1: and she had the ring and it's literally fallen out.
Speaker 1: They've had to find it. Apparently she squirts, so it's
Speaker 1: shot across the room during one act and they had
Speaker 1: to find it as a man. That's a bragging right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you ain't shooting new vote rings, that's why it's
Speaker 1: my contraception. I need that. I number wanted something like
Speaker 1: diaphragms rings. I got offered hell of money to do
Speaker 1: an I U d to like get it and do
Speaker 1: like six posts, right, bro. I didn't want a phone
Speaker 1: call with these people. When they read me the side effects,
Speaker 1: I was like, this is this is the reason that
Speaker 1: calls an hour you can die? Like, did you guys
Speaker 1: see the picture of the baby with the I D
Speaker 1: on the side of its head? Yeah? He was, he was,
Speaker 1: I've seen it before. Yet the birth control didn't work,
Speaker 1: so she got pregnant, and when the baby was born,
Speaker 1: the little the thing that was supposed to keep up
Speaker 1: from not coming was that beautiful? Do they expire? Maybe
Speaker 1: hers was old and she kept it in for nine
Speaker 1: months clearly, so I mean maybe I think, Um, I
Speaker 1: know that there's different ones you can get per year,
Speaker 1: Like there's there's one that you can get for three years,
Speaker 1: five years, ten years. I believe those are the things.
Speaker 1: So maybe it was towards her end where she was
Speaker 1: supposed to get it taken out and maybe she didn't.
Speaker 1: It came out of the baby head babies baby used
Speaker 1: to the baby for number one being here reason the
Speaker 1: reason why because you're not supposed to it absolutely is
Speaker 1: you don't go past the ring. The ring set stopped
Speaker 1: sperm for being. Can you imagine if you had a
Speaker 1: baby that went through all those hoops and he came
Speaker 1: out to just be like regular mediocre person, Like yeah,
Speaker 1: like what a million sperms and you get seasoned deeds? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're sucking stupid. You gotta be like prince. You gotta
Speaker 1: play every instrument, every bay the eyes. Have you ever
Speaker 1: got your blood? You gotta swear up blood? You gotta
Speaker 1: That was That was the ultimate of their like you
Speaker 1: basically it was the beginning. Was before you like even fingers? Wow,
Speaker 1: that was it. That was your greatest achievement is getting
Speaker 1: an egg? Have yelling met a kid that was like
Speaker 1: so smart and so good, You'd be like, Wow, there's
Speaker 1: no way I'll make one of these because that happens.
Speaker 1: Know what's crazy is I met I guess child genius
Speaker 1: when I got hired um for the Big Four accounting.
Speaker 1: From that, I worked at all of the first year
Speaker 1: trainees in US who got hired in the tax division
Speaker 1: all went to training the training center together. So we're
Speaker 1: getting drunk. We're fucked up. One of the kids, it
Speaker 1: wasn't supposed to be a kid, one of the new hires,
Speaker 1: was eighteen years old, mind you, with a master's graduated
Speaker 1: at like fifteen years old. Wasn't even old enough to drink.
Speaker 1: And we're all just like, I mean, but technically you're
Speaker 1: smarter than a lot of us, Like eight didn't even
Speaker 1: make it in the company, now works for some government thing,
Speaker 1: because we're like, you're too smart to be here. Like, oh,
Speaker 1: he's smarter. Ship, he's literally a child genius, like doesn't drink,
Speaker 1: was still a virgin, literally just put all his ship
Speaker 1: into the books. And I was like, okay, dumn, what's
Speaker 1: my friend? What do you mean? You know what? I'm
Speaker 1: not not to be president? Though. I find that they
Speaker 1: have no like not common sense, but what's the word
Speaker 1: I'm looking for it. There's a documentary called Class Divided.
Speaker 1: It's about the school Avenues that's across from the projects
Speaker 1: and Chelsea, and so they go back and forth from
Speaker 1: like rich smart kids that do fencing. They fucking play
Speaker 1: the violin, they speak Japanese. And then on the other
Speaker 1: side they they're in the project with these kids, the
Speaker 1: super rich kids. There's like no personality there. They have
Speaker 1: no emotion. It's like the weirdest ship. The other kids
Speaker 1: like you can't even see it in their eyes. They're happy.
Speaker 1: Then the other kids like, oh my god, they gotta
Speaker 1: go to Harvard. I gotta learned viename. You gotta get
Speaker 1: as they gotta get more than days. And it's like
Speaker 1: they're fucking going nuts. I don't ever want a kid
Speaker 1: like that because they never been punched in the mouth
Speaker 1: as a kid. They go through the ring of life,
Speaker 1: they haven't faced adversity. You don't know how to hit
Speaker 1: bottom moments. I kept thinking, like, you know what, I'm broke.
Speaker 1: I went to jail. Here's an ankle bracelet. This is it.
Speaker 1: This is gonna be my moment that I'll talk about
Speaker 1: when I'm famous and I'll be like, no, you guys,
Speaker 1: I ate ramen. Like, so I want to get into
Speaker 1: this week's kick of the week and I want to
Speaker 1: give a shout out. This is actually on pop dust
Speaker 1: dot com, which is dope because I got to record
Speaker 1: with you guys at the popst location of the week.
Speaker 1: For this week, I want to see if you guys
Speaker 1: can guess what it is. Um. It is psychrophilia. What
Speaker 1: do you think psychrophilia stands something? I was so so
Speaker 1: um for this kink of the Week. I've chose it
Speaker 1: specifically because we just got done with a snowstorm all
Speaker 1: the way here. I told um Latasha that my face
Speaker 1: was burning it was so cold. Um and so not
Speaker 1: for people who find pleasure thanks to psycrophilia. This sexual
Speaker 1: arousal comes from being cold or watching others freeze. Um.
Speaker 1: While the majority of folks like they're loving hot and heavy,
Speaker 1: psycho philiacs would rather get a brain freeze and a
Speaker 1: heart on. Um. Yeah, this is some weird ship um
Speaker 1: eskimos aside, it seems unusual that being cold would arouse anyone.
Speaker 1: We've all heard about the cases of unwanted shrinkage, and
Speaker 1: getting undressed in order to get it on would be
Speaker 1: uncomfortable at best. In subzero tempts, goose bumps and frostbite
Speaker 1: seem less than sexy, and numb fingers would make for
Speaker 1: a clumsy, a clumsy makeout session. But this is what
Speaker 1: psychrophilias um are into. And I actually thought It was
Speaker 1: funny because Mega Stallion just um posted that she actually
Speaker 1: can't sleep unless it's really really hot, which I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie before having sex. Even if it's cold outside,
Speaker 1: I turn on my A C. I like for it
Speaker 1: to be cold when I'm sucking. But because I know
Speaker 1: I'm going to get hot, I still don't think I'm
Speaker 1: going like I wouldn't be interested in fucking like in
Speaker 1: the outside temperatures, but during the summer, I'll be like, oh,
Speaker 1: let's go find somewhere to to go foot behind the
Speaker 1: have a small fantasy with like a cab in, but
Speaker 1: it's got to be like some exclusive b and then
Speaker 1: I would suck the cold like put me in that
Speaker 1: like hot. Ask you know when you see those pictures
Speaker 1: of people like Iceland, I would do that, well like
Speaker 1: Recovic and they do what was in the Poconos and
Speaker 1: like what you've been there? No, I didn't know what
Speaker 1: that was. Oh, because it spelled weird. Oh I don't
Speaker 1: know what it looks like read havoc. Really, yeah, that's
Speaker 1: like the blue lagoon Ice Iceland ship. Okay, I don't
Speaker 1: even know. I don know what is recommended. One of
Speaker 1: them is going to find answer the std you catch
Speaker 1: in the cold. I didn't know what really, just a
Speaker 1: very cold virus. That's probably a bitch probably gave me
Speaker 1: recommend shout down to listener Melanie, the one I ran
Speaker 1: into on the plane. That bitch gave me robertasinum on
Speaker 1: the flight. Let handed me a little shot cup. I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, thanks that. She was like, nice medicine.
Speaker 1: So I know, get no, get well, says get Well.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I never imagine having sex in the cold. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: not for me. So that sounds like privilege shoes. You
Speaker 1: mean it sounds shoes incovenence. I don't know my privilege.
Speaker 1: I don't. Definitely sounds like I go to hand in
Speaker 1: hand together. They choose weird ship, they choose inconvenient and
Speaker 1: uncomfortable things to to get off on, and it's just like,
Speaker 1: we have it hard enough just being us, and we
Speaker 1: don't want to make things more difficult than they need
Speaker 1: to be. I've seen my penis in the cold. I
Speaker 1: do not like the way it looks. I mean, but
Speaker 1: I mean that might actually turn some people on, like
Speaker 1: to see the shrinks. So it's crazy. So it's crazy.
Speaker 1: This is this is really weird. But I do not
Speaker 1: that I like flash of dicks or shrunk dicks, but
Speaker 1: like the dicks that I are massive, but it's so
Speaker 1: weird because they start off so small, so I really
Speaker 1: enjoy fucking seeing them be really really big. Then once
Speaker 1: they come playing with how small it is, and I'll
Speaker 1: be like, oh my god, it got a little like
Speaker 1: how does it get so big? And I actually like
Speaker 1: those conversations after have you seen a dick that has
Speaker 1: been in the freezing cold? That's a different film. Two
Speaker 1: balls go and make one need look wait wait, wait, wait, camera,
Speaker 1: you're not looking it up on the screen. I'm like,
Speaker 1: you're not looking up frozen balls, are you? I am?
Speaker 1: And did that screenshots pointing the cold frozen penis about
Speaker 1: to find out but he's looking at frozen balls and
Speaker 1: it's looking like it's just it's just snowballs and stuff.
Speaker 1: I've always been curious enough you can describe it, like
Speaker 1: when people talk about when they can't come and like
Speaker 1: blue balls and how their dick goes back up you
Speaker 1: just like the dick turns, I mean the balls turned
Speaker 1: into one ball. Tell tell me about that. Feels like
Speaker 1: I feel like your balls got really old really quick,
Speaker 1: like they just tucking themselves in the psychophagus and like
Speaker 1: snigger like a mummy, like like like a nut mummy,
Speaker 1: testy mommy. Just but what does it feel? It feel
Speaker 1: like a like a pain. It's tight, it's tight, masage, Like,
Speaker 1: how do you get blue balls from that hot You
Speaker 1: gotta be in a hot way, put them in the
Speaker 1: microwave you got, you gotta saw your dick. You got
Speaker 1: your ball. That's something like does rubbing them or do
Speaker 1: you have to get in like a hot shower. How
Speaker 1: do you get rid of blue balls? So? Oh, blue ball?
Speaker 1: How do you get the blue balls? Yeah? The difference
Speaker 1: you're gonna know how you warm up the frozen balls
Speaker 1: you got and how I would like take a hot
Speaker 1: shower and like dropping separation. No, no, no, The last
Speaker 1: thing you're thinking about when it's freezing outside is jagging
Speaker 1: off typically because you can't grab your dick, and it's
Speaker 1: like mine, mine when it's real looks like a palm
Speaker 1: olive bottle. When it goes it's like, no, that's the girl.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying it goes in at the top and
Speaker 1: then it shrinks in the bay like towards the end
Speaker 1: of it, like a shower. I'm a little bit of
Speaker 1: rock and room. No no, no no, So I don't know.
Speaker 1: I can't compare my dick to anybody else's. I mean,
Speaker 1: when it's when it's young, but when you get gross
Speaker 1: was impressive. In this last year and a half, I
Speaker 1: spent a lot of time with your mayor, and we've
Speaker 1: spoken about his penis more times than I like Badland too.
Speaker 1: I got a handsome PENI I wouldn't know that. And
Speaker 1: I also didn't ask what we're talking about air penis,
Speaker 1: so I would say, I would say it's it's thirty,
Speaker 1: like not a thirty disgrestion. You know what I'm not.
Speaker 1: It's like a CI. You know I'm gonna be road
Speaker 1: Civics never my eight hundred bucks when I moved to
Speaker 1: New York, mainly because the window wouldn't go down. It
Speaker 1: was a really shitty civic. I'm in Orlando this week
Speaker 1: for Thanksgiving past my civic. How do I know it's
Speaker 1: mine because there was a Jesus sticker on the gay thing.
Speaker 1: Not that I don't just Jus, girl, but I was
Speaker 1: so scared to take it off. That ship is the
Speaker 1: only thing keeping that civic together. Jesus do you know
Speaker 1: how shifty your car you gotta be if you celebrate
Speaker 1: eight hundred and honestly, it wasn't a good deal. Like
Speaker 1: over people used to shade me so much in Earlando
Speaker 1: because I was always traveling. I had a really nice apartment,
Speaker 1: but my car was shitty, and it was like, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is how I can afford to live
Speaker 1: in a luxury? Yeah? I probably that was like my baby,
Speaker 1: my little hound Sonata was chuck that we went all
Speaker 1: the way to Times and baby throw that thing. The
Speaker 1: wheels came on that ship. I was I know I
Speaker 1: was pushing that thing. I had it from Hi Left
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Speaker 1: I'm saying, little gas station Hill. That was one of
Speaker 1: like you know, you see how hard you make me?
Speaker 1: And then I saw the pill in the trash can.
Speaker 1: My ego was so bruised, and you said, this ain't me,
Speaker 1: it's the bodegg. I don't know what my fuzzy I
Speaker 1: want to I want to get into our whole decision
Speaker 1: this week, um, and the horrible decision this week actually
Speaker 1: goes like UM against one of the topics we recently
Speaker 1: talked about, shout out to Eddie Della Seppi. I love Eddie.
Speaker 1: He was amazing, we talked about we talked about ghosting
Speaker 1: briefly with him, and so, because we always talk about
Speaker 1: how important communication is, I wanted to have the conversation
Speaker 1: with you too about how to end casual relationships. UM,
Speaker 1: like the classy bit you are. I want to shout
Speaker 1: out to salty world dot net. Um, this is where
Speaker 1: it comes from them. So I wanted to start off simple, UM,
Speaker 1: I guess are you too currently dating or not dating?
Speaker 1: Not dating? Not really okay, but you're not in a
Speaker 1: relationship okay. So The first person that we're going to
Speaker 1: talk about how to end the relationship with is called
Speaker 1: the wrong doer. This person is a guy or girl
Speaker 1: who gave you a bad vibe after one day or interaction. UM,
Speaker 1: anyone with unsolicited unsolicited you ups energy or Trump supporters. UM,
Speaker 1: let's just go ahead and get that out of the way. Umally,
Speaker 1: this is how maybe you just met them on tender.
Speaker 1: You guys have a date and you realize he just
Speaker 1: wasn't it. How do you end that relationship without ghosting them.
Speaker 1: We're trying to be the mature people here now, so
Speaker 1: without just leaving them cold. What do you say to
Speaker 1: a person that you have one interaction, one date with
Speaker 1: and it just didn't go well, Oh, we just go
Speaker 1: away for me to talk. I don't know. I've never
Speaker 1: been in that situation. I've always like, if it was
Speaker 1: just a bad vibe, I've always ghosted. Oh you're a ghost,
Speaker 1: your ghost to like me and it's a bad vibe. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what it was, right. Yeah, But if it just
Speaker 1: was like bland, I've ghost Oh yeah, I don't go
Speaker 1: if it's if it's a bad vibe, though, I'll owe
Speaker 1: you nothing. That was the conversation wave ghosting that we're
Speaker 1: talked about, like, but I think it got to deeper
Speaker 1: and we're gonna go into maybe more profound relationships on
Speaker 1: how you end it. So the next one, um is
Speaker 1: the failed bone. So this one maybe you had bad kissing,
Speaker 1: it stinks. The vibe was also off or one that
Speaker 1: we talked about often. Maybe their limits preclude your kinks
Speaker 1: from being fulfilled. So interesting, but go ahead. You have
Speaker 1: you ever talked to someone who maybe you guys, finally
Speaker 1: got into the sex conversation. You've been on a couple
Speaker 1: of dates and you realize that this person is not
Speaker 1: going to be able to match you in the bedroom. No,
Speaker 1: it was already too late, legs up, full of regret,
Speaker 1: my hair kat and talked me And that's why he
Speaker 1: got a good conversation because you know he got nothing else.
Speaker 1: You're you're taking this time away from me. You have
Speaker 1: sex so bad that you start to like be like,
Speaker 1: you know what, dinner was great though, and maybe we
Speaker 1: could go because he was fun. But let me ask
Speaker 1: you since now you don't skip, y'all, y'all went to
Speaker 1: having sex. So the sex is bad and you decide,
Speaker 1: you know what, I don't really want to have sex
Speaker 1: with this person ever again, how do you tell them
Speaker 1: this probably isn't gonna happen again? Hello, Well, thank you
Speaker 1: so for me, I've actually done it. Like right after,
Speaker 1: I'll hit them with the hit them your way home,
Speaker 1: I'll hit them with the he made thought he was
Speaker 1: spending the night, and I'm so, what you're doing tonight?
Speaker 1: What you're about it? I was like, and I just
Speaker 1: sat there with with regret that damn I just gave
Speaker 1: this nickel pussy and he it just wasn't good. It's
Speaker 1: crazy because I always figured, like when the sex is
Speaker 1: just okay, it's like mutually bad. But like, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no, it's not a good all week, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: come over with the mall. No. I don't like someone
Speaker 1: who thought he laid it down so good. He thought
Speaker 1: I was breakfast the next morning, I was confused. I
Speaker 1: know it wasn't good like that. I'm angry. That's what
Speaker 1: that's me. Here's here's another one that I think is good.
Speaker 1: This one is referred to as the best intentions. So
Speaker 1: this person was super sweet but just didn't do it
Speaker 1: for you. So this maybe leads in maybe they they
Speaker 1: thought things were going great. How do you end it
Speaker 1: with someone where maybe you know, they think it's going
Speaker 1: somewhere and you're like, he's going broke up with my reverend,
Speaker 1: but we didn't sleep together. Short, Please, I don't know
Speaker 1: if I should say his name. I don't know his
Speaker 1: name has a fire name. I think that's the Craflow Dollar,
Speaker 1: Reverend Randy. What what what happened with the Reverend Latasha Dollar?
Speaker 1: We're not out? Did you meet him at the congregation?
Speaker 1: Of course? Also I was a dashing twenty four year
Speaker 1: old aspiring model. Uh he was a dafenair reverend running
Speaker 1: running the car gation. I think he was forty nine
Speaker 1: or something like. That's fine, right, And I was like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I like older man took me on an
Speaker 1: awkward day day. It was so awkward. He was really
Speaker 1: nice and it was sweet, but I was I don't
Speaker 1: want to do this, Like he a little too old.
Speaker 1: He hit me with the linen pants and the sandals,
Speaker 1: like we crossed me crossed a lot of threshold that
Speaker 1: I wasn't quite prepared for. So so how did you
Speaker 1: cut it off? With him? Then? I texted him, I
Speaker 1: was like, hey, he's really beautiful is. I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm transitioning right now. I'm moving into a different like
Speaker 1: um like path and it just is just not like working.
Speaker 1: And I want you to know she's not transitioning her sex.
Speaker 1: This is a second podcast And yeah identified in transition. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I identified with my biological body. Um, and you just
Speaker 1: said I have other things I'm working, like yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: And so I tried to sneak to the church. We
Speaker 1: had to drop off like a tithe or something, and
Speaker 1: he was there and I was trying to avoid himsel
Speaker 1: I was like, give him like the quick walk to
Speaker 1: get out of there. He chased me and follow me.
Speaker 1: He's like, heyy what weird text? You said me? What's
Speaker 1: going on? And I'm like, yeah, things are just like
Speaker 1: weird for me right now, and like I'm like a
Speaker 1: bad place and like it's just like not and I
Speaker 1: just don't want to drag you into it. We always
Speaker 1: tell them that it's not you, it's me, but it
Speaker 1: is that they're good people. It is. Yeah. I don't
Speaker 1: know who it was. I think it was putting someone
Speaker 1: shout out to to and fro miss Ga posted something
Speaker 1: and she was like, I'm so tired of people saying, oh,
Speaker 1: he's a good guy, why did you let that go? Like,
Speaker 1: just because he's a good guy doesn't mean he's a
Speaker 1: good guy for me. And that is so much pressure
Speaker 1: sometimes from people when they try to tell you how
Speaker 1: great somebody is, Like you know, I'm dating someone now
Speaker 1: that is like all over the place, But me too,
Speaker 1: and that ship is compute. The that's why nice guys
Speaker 1: kill us at school. I mean, we are constant whitney
Speaker 1: and they deserve to have us. And if they can't,
Speaker 1: shot them to the face. There's somebody there for you.
Speaker 1: It's just not me and I'm not a cheater. Stop me. Listen,
Speaker 1: stop the whole the whole one. All of us are problematic.
Speaker 1: The next one, listen. The next one is the ultimatum.
Speaker 1: You like them, but you have to lay down the law.
Speaker 1: Ultimatums are best served in person, but if you feel
Speaker 1: you need to get one off your chest in a
Speaker 1: controlled setting, there's a way to text it. People bashing
Speaker 1: as a form of communication, but it can be an
Speaker 1: excellent tool. So one of the examples that they get
Speaker 1: for the ultimatum is I really like you, but being
Speaker 1: polly or being monogamous only seeing you very late night
Speaker 1: once a week isn't working for me? What would you prefer? Um?
Speaker 1: And what do you think? So it's pretty much laying
Speaker 1: down the line as what you expect out of a
Speaker 1: relationship and if that person isn't going to give it
Speaker 1: to you, how you then successfully end that relationship? Um,
Speaker 1: I've definitely been in that situation. It was more like
Speaker 1: I was up front with basically going through something and
Speaker 1: kind of working through the pain and the transgression, everything
Speaker 1: that was going on and not being able to be
Speaker 1: a whole like emotionally available. And they kept trying to
Speaker 1: hit me with the well, then you can't be taking
Speaker 1: me out and we can't be doing this and we
Speaker 1: can't be doing that, And I was like, cool, got you,
Speaker 1: And it was just it was just like that because
Speaker 1: how to me, I can't. I can no longer compromise
Speaker 1: myself or my happiness or my healing for somebody else.
Speaker 1: It just don't work like that. I agree, And I'm
Speaker 1: being I'm front with you and let you know everything
Speaker 1: that's going on, and then don't get me no what
Speaker 1: we're doing going to therapy, That's what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: know she acted the way I acted when I hit
Speaker 1: my big toil. She was like school boy whatever. I
Speaker 1: wanted to ask um the last one before we get
Speaker 1: into the homemail to to jamir UM. So you just
Speaker 1: got out of a relationship that lasted years, UM. And
Speaker 1: I know that when a lot of people are in
Speaker 1: a relationship four years with someone, UM, they feel like
Speaker 1: because they put so much time into the relationship that
Speaker 1: they owe it to themselves to continue to try the
Speaker 1: relationship even if it may or may not be over.
Speaker 1: So I want to know, UM, how you go about
Speaker 1: ending a relationship that kind of has lived its life
Speaker 1: out and you know that it's it's dead, but you
Speaker 1: kind of don't want to leave it. I think it
Speaker 1: was it's hard as fun, mainly because like it's not
Speaker 1: that you don't love this person. It's like both of
Speaker 1: our energies right now are bringing keeping us out of
Speaker 1: ceiling where we don't need to be, and we need
Speaker 1: to remove ourselves from a toxic space. Like I was
Speaker 1: toxic at times, she was she was toxic. So we
Speaker 1: needed to separate. And I had to make that hard
Speaker 1: decision after being with somebody who you thought she was
Speaker 1: gonna marry at one point, to leave not only the
Speaker 1: relationship believe like, um, everything you leave in I left
Speaker 1: you know years almost a decade on and all, yeah
Speaker 1: and uh almost almost a yeah. Do you find that
Speaker 1: like since you're well, you've been a relationship person for
Speaker 1: so long that like dating is hard because you get it.
Speaker 1: You know what's you know what's you know what's difficult? Sex?
Speaker 1: Sex is very difficult because you're so used to being intimate.
Speaker 1: Intimacy is such a big part of sex for me. Now.
Speaker 1: When I was in college, I didn't have to look
Speaker 1: at you, have to kiss you, I'd have to touch you.
Speaker 1: Why do you feel like you can't be intimate now? Well,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I can, but everybody doesn't
Speaker 1: deserve that level of intimate. You can't just be snacking
Speaker 1: on everybody's ass. You know what I'm saying that the
Speaker 1: level of intimacy and comfortability you gotta be with somebody.
Speaker 1: I think comfortable comfortability is like the big thing for me,
Speaker 1: Like I'm no longer interested or desired to which is
Speaker 1: the person who I've been sucking for the last seven years.
Speaker 1: I know we'll talk about it, um and so and so.
Speaker 1: Even with that, I told my friend, even as I
Speaker 1: was coming back from the airport, I was going through
Speaker 1: my phone because I don't suck anyone else in New
Speaker 1: York and literally going through my phone realizing I don't
Speaker 1: have anyone, knowing that there's people on my phone I
Speaker 1: could call just to drop off Dick. But then it's like,
Speaker 1: is this person am I gonna feel comfortable? Do I
Speaker 1: want them in my in my bed? Do I want
Speaker 1: them in my space? I haven't had someone over my
Speaker 1: house in so long. That wasn't him really well, I's
Speaker 1: out of Canadian baby. He don't even count that Nigga
Speaker 1: been in the picture for like six years. But now
Speaker 1: that I have no local anybody, I'm just in that
Speaker 1: space now where I'm just like, damn, finding someone new
Speaker 1: was gonna be hard. This person for the last six
Speaker 1: seven years, we've learned each other's bodies. So even if
Speaker 1: there wasn't the level of intimacy that someone may think
Speaker 1: as far as kissing or you know, the things that
Speaker 1: we didn't really do, the comfortability level that I had
Speaker 1: with him, I feel like I'm never gonna find that,
Speaker 1: and it's gonna take so long to get that again.
Speaker 1: And so I can see how you don't want to
Speaker 1: dive into just having sex with someone because it's gonna
Speaker 1: be different. Is it even gonna be good? Even? Am
Speaker 1: I even gonna enjoy it? Right then, I'm giving out
Speaker 1: boyfriend dick, and I don't what's boyfriend? Um? Who I'm
Speaker 1: touching your You know, like man could feel when you
Speaker 1: just touch somebody's soul, you go, oh my god, I
Speaker 1: just took the class. You got to dig where they're
Speaker 1: making your breakfast in the morning? No what Yeah, but
Speaker 1: it's a certain look, like like somebody can't believe what
Speaker 1: you're doing in them and you you look him in
Speaker 1: there like, oh, I've gone too far? You know what
Speaker 1: I'm getting? Like that when instead of moaning, it's like
Speaker 1: the word is ha right, exactly right, and you're just
Speaker 1: looking and everyone knows good. I think the only piece
Speaker 1: of advice I can give you for that, like I've
Speaker 1: dated people like I'm a person that like generally like
Speaker 1: I'm the emotional one on the show. I make the
Speaker 1: joke that I'm an email ho because I really can
Speaker 1: try to connect on deeper levels. I think for me,
Speaker 1: the way that I found good partners. I mean, right
Speaker 1: now I'm mainly sleeping with one person, but I do
Speaker 1: have great connections with other people, and it's because I
Speaker 1: really built friendships and deeper, like when I wanted to
Speaker 1: fund them, i did it. I kind of waited for
Speaker 1: it to grow a little bit stronger, and it's it's
Speaker 1: like it could seem like you're playing gay aims, but
Speaker 1: it takes a long time to see if you virate
Speaker 1: on the same frequency as somebody else, Like I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't need to uh have that connection with someone
Speaker 1: that I feel like it's a soul mate. I mean,
Speaker 1: like I have friends I connect with like that doesn't
Speaker 1: mean it'll be romantic, and I think we can all
Speaker 1: have sexual partners that we connect with like that. It
Speaker 1: just does take time, and I think like the longer
Speaker 1: it gets, you're like, oh my god, Like I've been
Speaker 1: looking for somebody to fuck, then your horny and then
Speaker 1: once you suck someone and it wasn't that good or
Speaker 1: even more mad, that's the work. That's what I wasn't
Speaker 1: gonna put up with that last night. I just wasn't.
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna be upset. And it's been too long
Speaker 1: since I've had dick, Like it's been since October. It's
Speaker 1: fucking December even though it's only the second bitch yes,
Speaker 1: since yeah, well yeah, we'll talk um. And so to me,
Speaker 1: I'm just like, the fuck, what's going on? Well, even
Speaker 1: because we were on tour and then the bitch was
Speaker 1: on our period, you'll know I ain't working on my period.
Speaker 1: So I'm traveling and I'm thinking I should get it
Speaker 1: because I'm in other cities and I can't. So there's that. UM.
Speaker 1: But I wanted to get into the homemail before we
Speaker 1: get out of here. UM, And this one is called
Speaker 1: am I being too insecure? So hey, ladies, A long
Speaker 1: time listener here. So I've been trying to figure this
Speaker 1: out on my own, but I'm giving up and coming
Speaker 1: for advice. I'm having trouble in my new paradise. Me
Speaker 1: and this dude have been seeing each other for a
Speaker 1: little over a month, and mostly everything is great. We
Speaker 1: get each other's we get each other's personalities. He takes
Speaker 1: me out and shows me off, and sex is great,
Speaker 1: but he hasn't came when we fuck, and when I
Speaker 1: give him head, he says that it's always been like this.
Speaker 1: I've asked him if I need to switch it up,
Speaker 1: and he says, I'm just a pleaser. And it's always
Speaker 1: been hard for me to come. We are both young.
Speaker 1: I'm twenty three and he's twenty two, so we have
Speaker 1: a lot to learn about fucking in general. But bitch,
Speaker 1: I know I get off. I'm pleasing my man, and
Speaker 1: my ego is taking some hits. I'm struggling to see
Speaker 1: this relationship moving anywhere. If he doesn't come soon, I
Speaker 1: need some guidance. Y'all talk about the Blue Choo and
Speaker 1: other products that extend sex for quick coming men. What
Speaker 1: about the opposite. I am tired. I am tired of
Speaker 1: sucking dick and writing this man with no outcome XO
Speaker 1: XO our white patron number four. This is maybe maybe
Speaker 1: that's the condom, and maybe he's trying to be respectful
Speaker 1: about not taking it off. So I just had this incident,
Speaker 1: which is why I feel like I've gone with no sex.
Speaker 1: But there was also we were also highly intoxicated UM.
Speaker 1: But I recently just attempted to have sex UM and
Speaker 1: it was after the club. We were really drunk and
Speaker 1: we got hot and bothered, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: you gotta get a condom, and he was rock hard.
Speaker 1: As we were making out. I was rubbing his dick
Speaker 1: on my like I was hot and bothered, and as
Speaker 1: soon as he put the condom on, that's all. And
Speaker 1: so then me being drunk, I got into and I'm like, solid,
Speaker 1: you're sucking every bit. You're wrong, what's going on? But um,
Speaker 1: she didn't. She didn't mention on here if they were
Speaker 1: fucking unprotected or not. So if I would say the
Speaker 1: condom is a good possibility for a month, that maybe
Speaker 1: is why he's not coming because I have been with
Speaker 1: men who can't come in a condom. So the thing
Speaker 1: that we've done is they'll funk the goddamn shit out
Speaker 1: of me with the condom, and then when I'm done
Speaker 1: being fucked and they know that I've had enough of
Speaker 1: the sex, then we go into okay, we'll suck my
Speaker 1: dick and they'll come off head. So there's roles like that,
Speaker 1: you can titty funk, there's a lot of other things
Speaker 1: that you can do if you can help it. Because
Speaker 1: I know it's a big eager bruise, tell him like
Speaker 1: to jerk off, like like out what makes him finish,
Speaker 1: because I feel like something like that, like he might
Speaker 1: like sex could be boring for some guys, like he
Speaker 1: might be into something extreme that she doesn't know about
Speaker 1: from something Yeah, yeah, I possibly is it acts. So
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. I mean, I'm to be honest,
Speaker 1: Like I've touched my pussy, like if vaginally. It's not
Speaker 1: the easiest thing for some women to have aginal orgasms.
Speaker 1: So I don't mind touching my clip, and I hope
Speaker 1: niggas don't mind either, because I don't give a fuck
Speaker 1: you fucking me and it feels good. I want to
Speaker 1: touch my clip like whatever, just like when a dude
Speaker 1: like pulls like like they said, they say they pull
Speaker 1: out and they start jerking off to come like I
Speaker 1: don't think that's crazy, So I think maybe try incorporating
Speaker 1: that telling like some nasty ship like you want to
Speaker 1: taste it right, so young to not be ejaculating, but
Speaker 1: it could it could be it could be NERD or
Speaker 1: it could be UM. And we've talked about this before.
Speaker 1: If you over like over consume yourself with UM porn
Speaker 1: or masturbation, you become you know, it could actually affect
Speaker 1: you when you're having sex with someone because you're seeking
Speaker 1: a certain way of how you please yourself that this
Speaker 1: person maybe isn't doing. I would I would say, especially
Speaker 1: because you are so young, UM, and I know when
Speaker 1: I was three, the conversations that I was having about
Speaker 1: sex and what I was enjoying and not enjoying weren't
Speaker 1: being had as as often with my partners. So I
Speaker 1: think that this may be something to wear even if
Speaker 1: you're uncomfortable because you mentioned young y'all are y'all need
Speaker 1: to have a conversation like what makes you come? Yeah,
Speaker 1: we need and I think that that needs to be
Speaker 1: in the conversations without making him feel bad. You know
Speaker 1: I need to. I would love to start doing more
Speaker 1: follow up letters to those who have send your whole
Speaker 1: bail into Horrible Decisions at Gmail. Let us know what happened.
Speaker 1: And you're a patron, so if you do have this
Speaker 1: UM conversation, I would love for you to send us
Speaker 1: a message on your update on how the conversation went. UM,
Speaker 1: and if it's patron, of course we can find it
Speaker 1: easier you send us an email, which I also like.
Speaker 1: So if you guys are interested in having UM your
Speaker 1: homemail read and getting your advice from us, because you'll
Speaker 1: be liking our advice, UM, go ahead and send us
Speaker 1: the email to Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com at
Speaker 1: y'all for believing. I mean, maybe it's just me. I
Speaker 1: have no idea what then I'm talking about. Honestly, I
Speaker 1: sweart of God. I'd be reading emails and I'd be like,
Speaker 1: I don't know sek friends, I'd be like, what would
Speaker 1: you say? All caps? And I've done that so much
Speaker 1: because a lot of the home mails sometimes are things
Speaker 1: I would say, like when we first started our show,
Speaker 1: like I would say the first year, I was like
Speaker 1: in a situation ship but didn't know if I was
Speaker 1: and I was super confused. So we'd have people right
Speaker 1: in I'm like, yeah, what what would you say? Then?
Speaker 1: I'll answelest, But but we're not experts, and I think
Speaker 1: we definitely say that often, like it's just listen, don't
Speaker 1: take you with a grain of salt, and don't consult
Speaker 1: your tax accountant or lawyer, all the things that we say. Okay, um,
Speaker 1: I want to thank both of you guys for joining us.
Speaker 1: I love you guys. Is coming up? Um, so I
Speaker 1: guess before we before we get out of here, where
Speaker 1: can our listeners find you? And do you have any
Speaker 1: projects coming up that they should look out for? Find
Speaker 1: me on YouTube? Just Natasha channel watch my web series
Speaker 1: Black and Relax and um, yeah, I'm coming out with
Speaker 1: some something fire next year. That's such a good name
Speaker 1: said that. Yeah, listen, she's she's fraid of right. A
Speaker 1: lot of people can't do that. Bro, Oh it's time.
Speaker 1: I'm excited. She's gonna's gonna help me get in my
Speaker 1: acting bag next year. So we're doing a little creative series.
Speaker 1: I'm excited. So look forward to everything that um Latasha
Speaker 1: got coming forward. Yeah, if you need me to play
Speaker 1: uh dirty, they're on the couch. I mean, shut up.
Speaker 1: I'm very talented and sleeping on couches and playing PlayStations
Speaker 1: just like Quiet Nick on the couch. Yeah that's what. Um.
Speaker 1: You guys can find me at Jamir Pond j M
Speaker 1: E R p O n D, on Instagram and Twitter. Um,
Speaker 1: if you are over forty, ladies, you can find me
Speaker 1: on Facebook. If you look good. You request. I wanted
Speaker 1: to ask you are we getting? Are we getting another
Speaker 1: season of Black Coffee? Oh? I don't know. You don't know,
Speaker 1: but I don't work there. DJ black Hu no like
Speaker 1: the DJ. But it's a show. Oh nigga, I was
Speaker 1: like that, said I was a black coffee actually us well,
Speaker 1: I want to say, keep doing, especially what you're doing
Speaker 1: over with the budd seem the BuzzFeed content. It's super dope,
Speaker 1: your creative ship. What is it? The cocoa butters to
Speaker 1: Melvin's in a spoof of cocoa butter. I didn't not.
Speaker 1: He's a huge youtuper and he made a spoof of
Speaker 1: black He tried each other sweep and sato or something
Speaker 1: like that. It's so funny. It's so funny. So if
Speaker 1: you guys, um see the things that normally go viral
Speaker 1: um on Twitter because you're that fucking dope UM. But
Speaker 1: it is black Twitter, but you were you a part
Speaker 1: of the um? What is it? Aunt? He's trying to
Speaker 1: sweep with phone one with potato salad. It's really good
Speaker 1: salade idea. When it hit the timeline, friends, it's the
Speaker 1: most nigked thing I could do today. Not. I don't
Speaker 1: know anyone who like loves and it's as knowledgeable as
Speaker 1: much as they love it as Jamir like when culture.
Speaker 1: Yeah he is. Yeah, it's a kind of sour dating
Speaker 1: for you. Wait wait, please tell me, because listen, I
Speaker 1: have to stick up. Sorry for my pumpkin lovers. Don't
Speaker 1: tell me you were a part of getting black people
Speaker 1: to try pumpkin spice. That that was. That was over
Speaker 1: in l A. We have a l A. They they
Speaker 1: liked some things, but they were they were shaming the
Speaker 1: pumpkin and the pumpkin spice. And I'm one the connotation though,
Speaker 1: just just like pumpkin spicce makes you think Caucasian, and
Speaker 1: that's you think. I'm never well, I'm one of those
Speaker 1: that like, I'm at Starbucks. Anything with pumpkin on the menu,
Speaker 1: I'm getting. I just went to the grocery store and
Speaker 1: they had pumpkin bagels. Never had it in my life.
Speaker 1: I bought it. They had pumpkin cream cheese. I want,
Speaker 1: I wanted just thinking about I love it. Yeah. But
Speaker 1: before we get out of your guys, just before we could,
Speaker 1: let me come back for a minute love black women. Sorry,
Speaker 1: before we get out of here, I want to let
Speaker 1: you guys know that once again, we have added a
Speaker 1: second show for New York City, so that is January
Speaker 1: at Sony Hall. We is looking forward to see all
Speaker 1: of y'all. If you guys have not yet purchased your
Speaker 1: v I P tickets, there may still be available um
Speaker 1: at this point, I'm not sure them shoulds go fast,
Speaker 1: but we're looking forward to seeing our New York core
Speaker 1: hive amongst the Midwest and Texas. So on January we
Speaker 1: are in Detroit. On January the twenty one, we are
Speaker 1: in Cleveland. On January twenty, we're in Chicago. On the
Speaker 1: we are right here home based in New York City,
Speaker 1: and then we got to twenty in Dallas, followed by
Speaker 1: tow in Houston. We will be releasing more tour dates
Speaker 1: for our Southeast and our West Coast stops in January,
Speaker 1: so look forward to those dates. If you guys haven't yet,
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Speaker 1: many mondays following that quality in me crying on Patreon.
Speaker 1: It's basically what Patreon is to me. I get in
Speaker 1: my feelings. I'm like for the date for the thing.
Speaker 1: If y'all thought we were vulnerable here, If you become
Speaker 1: a patron, you kind of get to get more in
Speaker 1: our business. Um I haven't even talked about him on
Speaker 1: the show yet, but I do have someone called PhD
Speaker 1: in my life right now. Um so I am dating somebody.
Speaker 1: He just lives across country. To the top tier patrons
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Speaker 1: also a group chat that is wild. Someone's tits are
Speaker 1: in there. I don't know what's going on. It's a
Speaker 1: lot um. I go in there and every time in there,
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is this is And I get invite
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Speaker 1: Got pat patron um The content I do post porn.
Speaker 1: We have porn sleepers, um that get posted by our community. Yes, absolutely,
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Speaker 1: with a five minute bonus clip from one of our
Speaker 1: patron episodes. So I want to thank once again Latasha
Speaker 1: and Jamir for finally joining us. I think we've been
Speaker 1: talking about this for over a year, so I'm really
Speaker 1: glad to finally bring you guys on. Check out their platforms,
Speaker 1: and once again this has been yet another episode of
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions. It's funny because the what you're saying with
Speaker 1: just the difference and the guys you're talking to, like,
Speaker 1: that's kind of well, it's seeing me too. So I
Speaker 1: have PhD in aries PhD. Although, like you know, he's
Speaker 1: in the space that he is professionally. He has a
Speaker 1: nine to five. So we're talking about what's going on
Speaker 1: with his job and his career and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: and we didn't have so many arguments about who's sucking
Speaker 1: buying flights and who's not and just the ship like that,
Speaker 1: because he's not used to buying flights. He's like women
Speaker 1: have flown here and when you get here, I take
Speaker 1: care of anything. And I'm like, well, my niggas, boy
Speaker 1: my flight and take care of everything. And then I'm
Speaker 1: talking to Aries. We're literally thirty six hours into talking.
Speaker 1: I tell them the places I'm going this month. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm going to Boston, Detroit and Puerto Rico, UM and Orlando.
Speaker 1: And he's like, well, I really want to see your show,
Speaker 1: so let me know which city I should pull up to.
Speaker 1: That's it. He's like, I'll get my ticket now, Like
Speaker 1: I really want to see one of your shows and
Speaker 1: I think it'll be fun. And I'm like, look how
Speaker 1: different that is? Like he's just well, I hate to
Speaker 1: say it, but you're not saying you have to think,
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna frighten my experience. Older niggas do so.
Speaker 1: But then they are ten years apart. One is twenty nine,
Speaker 1: the other thirty nine. But it's just like I was like,
Speaker 1: he's like, um, Aries, as far as what he wants
Speaker 1: with talking to a woman is exactly where I'm at.
Speaker 1: He's like, I just want consistency. He's like, consistent, see
Speaker 1: in connection are what I'm looking for right now. He's like, pussy,
Speaker 1: I can get that. He's like, so if there's no
Speaker 1: connection or I don't want to be around you and
Speaker 1: you're not consistent, He's like, cause, I'm not gonna text
Speaker 1: you more than you text me. I'm not gonna call
Speaker 1: you more than you call me. He's like, there needs
Speaker 1: to be a mutual interest. Literally everything that I fucking
Speaker 1: say came out of his mouth, and I was just like,
Speaker 1: have you been eaves dropping on my fucking calls? Like
Speaker 1: this was literally just my conversation with my friends. So
Speaker 1: I don't know, We'll see where it goes. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna pressure anything. But he's beautiful, like, well,
Speaker 1: both of them are very handsome um men. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm excited. One does have kids, one doesn't, so I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, but one is local, one isn't. So the
Speaker 1: fact that I'm even entertaining someone that I'm thinking long
Speaker 1: term and that nigga lives in fucking Portland's and then
Speaker 1: I have one that's local, I'm gonna be honest with you.
Speaker 1: I would get annoyed about the play thing, and I
Speaker 1: know I said, like the DC thing, I would have
Speaker 1: just grabbed it. I still stand by that. But Portlands
Speaker 1: to me is different. But the flight is to sixty
Speaker 1: so it's not much. But I'm saying not the price.
Speaker 1: The DC thing to me was very like yo, come
Speaker 1: like he didn't to me in his mind, he didn't
Speaker 1: New York to d C. If I lived important, I'd
Speaker 1: be like it was the same ship. Just show up,
Speaker 1: like it's a train like whatever, Like I wouldn't think
Speaker 1: of something that's small. But because you're going across country
Speaker 1: and now you're coming to me like I can, I
Speaker 1: would expect him to pay. But for some reason, the
Speaker 1: way that you brought up the DC thing, like he
Speaker 1: said it like it's my birthday trip. Just calm dada,
Speaker 1: I could see him skipping around paying it because it's
Speaker 1: a different thing. I don't know where. It felt different
Speaker 1: to me because it was very close. Well that's the thing.
Speaker 1: Like the lived in Philly. He wouldn't be like, let
Speaker 1: me keep getting this forty dollar like you wouldn't think
Speaker 1: about it. I didn't know how much it was to
Speaker 1: go to d C. I thought it was a forty
Speaker 1: dollar train. I know it's more now it's a hunt
Speaker 1: of each way. So the train was actually more expensive
Speaker 1: than my flight was, which is why I took But
Speaker 1: I really didn't know that. I really thought DC was
Speaker 1: like and then I've gone to Philly because I got
Speaker 1: a nigga and Philly and when he's paid for my
Speaker 1: my train to Philly, depending on how last minute is,
Speaker 1: sometimes it's like each way. So it's not the hand track.
Speaker 1: I'm not hos um I did. I did because my friends. Um.
Speaker 1: I called my friend that wasn't my normal go to
Speaker 1: friends and she's like, Bro, you spend that on drinks.
Speaker 1: You spend that when you go eat. I've been with
Speaker 1: you and you're buying rounds for ten people said there
Speaker 1: was a guy. I don't know what you called him,
Speaker 1: but I don't want to say the city because I
Speaker 1: don't know if you brought it up it was he
Speaker 1: was in it. Remember you cut him off him? Yes,
Speaker 1: you said if something started going with this guy, I
Speaker 1: would be flying myself. Yes, that's what you said. Yes,
Speaker 1: So that's so that's where we're having the dilemma now.
Speaker 1: Is it's not the fact that it's buying the ticket,
Speaker 1: especially because my friend was like, bro, you have it.
Speaker 1: You really you really not gonna like funk with a
Speaker 1: guy over two hundred all? Is that you actually really like?
Speaker 1: So The dilemma is oh