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Speaker 1: talk about that. UM. Wheezy actually is on her way

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Speaker 1: this episode. But I'm super excited because I am joined

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Speaker 1: with two of my friends, two of my creative, very wonderful,

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Speaker 1: very melanated so so so before we get into a

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Speaker 1: little catch up on my sexless sex life, UM, I

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Speaker 1: wanted to introduce the two of you. So I am

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Speaker 1: sitting across from Latasha and Jamir. Can you please introduce

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Speaker 1: yourselves to our audience to let them know who I

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Speaker 1: can see a birth mark? You don't only a special

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Speaker 1: for you can see that. Yeah, alright, I'm just Anatasha.

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Speaker 1: I am on YouTube. You guys can subscribe and follow

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Speaker 1: me there. I'm also a cast member on the grape

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Speaker 1: Vine TV and I'm also a filmmaker, catch seasons one

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Speaker 1: and to a Sit Black and Relax on Amazon Prime

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Speaker 1: and Sit Black and Relax dot com. Sit Black and

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Speaker 1: Relax is beautiful. Thank you. That is thinking creative. It's

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Speaker 1: really funny. Yeah, that is dope. Isst ship And I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna lie now I'm gonna really need your help

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Speaker 1: because I told you I'm having a problem with thinking

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Speaker 1: of titles for some other ship I'm working on. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you for And you guys probably know Jamir as well.

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Speaker 1: Jamir where may our listeners know you from? From Brooklyn?

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Speaker 1: If you're from the um, my name is Jamia Pondum.

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Speaker 1: I'm a content creator and a host and just a

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Speaker 1: genius a little you're that louder genius. Yeah. Now you

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Speaker 1: might have seen me on BT on Stars, on BuzzFeed

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Speaker 1: and also the grape Vine. Shout out to the great,

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Speaker 1: Shout out to the grad tell them I'll be together

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Speaker 1: friend great as times learn such a fun fact about you?

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, well, you know all the capitals of every state.

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Speaker 1: And I'm ran I'm really geeky and nerdy. I can't

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Speaker 1: of those things I was probably in kindergarten, and if

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Speaker 1: y'all from Florida, we gotta do the FCT, so they

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Speaker 1: make us learn all these random ships in Florida because

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Speaker 1: the FCT is the Florida Comprehension Assessment Tests that you

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Speaker 1: have to take in order. Even if you get all

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Speaker 1: this standardized test, you get held back. What age do

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Speaker 1: you learn stand your ground? Oh? You see one that

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Speaker 1: brag about our education. This country is not about education. Matthews. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, I wanted to do a quick catch up,

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Speaker 1: um kind of with what's going on with me. Me

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Speaker 1: like he did this on purpose. Absolutely. So I've been

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Speaker 1: talking to him like I've been doing my little job exercises,

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Speaker 1: So I wanted what I can't say? Do you think? Okay, sorry, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Apparently I'm being problematic again, and everyone is telling me

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Speaker 1: want to tell you, guys, the links of which I

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what are y'all talking about? Canceled flights? Nigga

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Speaker 1: so this nigga hit me up. We go to Sexton.

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Speaker 1: He's like, I'm horny. I'm like, man, I'm me too.

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Speaker 1: He's like, you'll be playing. I'm like, no, I'm not.

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Speaker 1: He's like, come to Denver. This is at five pm

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Speaker 1: it's not. There's no, there's no, there's not a Denver

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Speaker 1: in Harlem. She said. He said, come to Denver. This

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Speaker 1: this monogamous as motherfucking relationship. So there's me doing manual labor.

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Speaker 1: I respected, this manual labor is actually driving me nuts. Um.

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Speaker 1: But if you guys first fun listen. Um, if you

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Speaker 1: I thought, you know what, I haven't added juicily episode.

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Speaker 1: these before, and I don't know into the deference, effectively

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Speaker 1: even say paint my face. It's like laze it right,

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Speaker 1: years is too long, though I can see somebody not

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Speaker 1: getting off of UM. She was on Marina or she

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00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 1: had the copper thing in there UM for for years

422
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:25,199
Speaker 1: and she had the ring and it's literally fallen out.

423
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 1: They've had to find it. Apparently she squirts, so it's

424
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,560
Speaker 1: shot across the room during one act and they had

425
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 1: to find it as a man. That's a bragging right, Yeah,

426
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 1: if you ain't shooting new vote rings, that's why it's

427
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,680
Speaker 1: my contraception. I need that. I number wanted something like

428
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:59,119
Speaker 1: diaphragms rings. I got offered hell of money to do

429
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 1: an I U d to like get it and do

430
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 1: like six posts, right, bro. I didn't want a phone

431
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,880
Speaker 1: call with these people. When they read me the side effects,

432
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: I was like, this is this is the reason that

433
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:13,440
Speaker 1: calls an hour you can die? Like, did you guys

434
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 1: see the picture of the baby with the I D

435
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:18,119
Speaker 1: on the side of its head? Yeah? He was, he was,

436
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 1: I've seen it before. Yet the birth control didn't work,

437
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 1: so she got pregnant, and when the baby was born,

438
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 1: the little the thing that was supposed to keep up

439
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 1: from not coming was that beautiful? Do they expire? Maybe

440
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 1: hers was old and she kept it in for nine

441
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 1: months clearly, so I mean maybe I think, Um, I

442
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:45,120
Speaker 1: know that there's different ones you can get per year,

443
00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: Like there's there's one that you can get for three years,

444
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,680
Speaker 1: five years, ten years. I believe those are the things.

445
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,359
Speaker 1: So maybe it was towards her end where she was

446
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 1: supposed to get it taken out and maybe she didn't.

447
00:26:53,800 --> 00:27:00,200
Speaker 1: It came out of the baby head babies baby used

448
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 1: to the baby for number one being here reason the

449
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 1: reason why because you're not supposed to it absolutely is

450
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 1: you don't go past the ring. The ring set stopped

451
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 1: sperm for being. Can you imagine if you had a

452
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 1: baby that went through all those hoops and he came

453
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 1: out to just be like regular mediocre person, Like yeah,

454
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:24,920
Speaker 1: like what a million sperms and you get seasoned deeds? Yeah,

455
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 1: you're sucking stupid. You gotta be like prince. You gotta

456
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 1: play every instrument, every bay the eyes. Have you ever

457
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:37,120
Speaker 1: got your blood? You gotta swear up blood? You gotta

458
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 1: That was That was the ultimate of their like you

459
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 1: basically it was the beginning. Was before you like even fingers? Wow,

460
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 1: that was it. That was your greatest achievement is getting

461
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 1: an egg? Have yelling met a kid that was like

462
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 1: so smart and so good, You'd be like, Wow, there's

463
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 1: no way I'll make one of these because that happens.

464
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 1: Know what's crazy is I met I guess child genius

465
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 1: when I got hired um for the Big Four accounting.

466
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,959
Speaker 1: From that, I worked at all of the first year

467
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: trainees in US who got hired in the tax division

468
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 1: all went to training the training center together. So we're

469
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:15,639
Speaker 1: getting drunk. We're fucked up. One of the kids, it

470
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 1: wasn't supposed to be a kid, one of the new hires,

471
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 1: was eighteen years old, mind you, with a master's graduated

472
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 1: at like fifteen years old. Wasn't even old enough to drink.

473
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 1: And we're all just like, I mean, but technically you're

474
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:32,120
Speaker 1: smarter than a lot of us, Like eight didn't even

475
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: make it in the company, now works for some government thing,

476
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: because we're like, you're too smart to be here. Like, oh,

477
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 1: he's smarter. Ship, he's literally a child genius, like doesn't drink,

478
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 1: was still a virgin, literally just put all his ship

479
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 1: into the books. And I was like, okay, dumn, what's

480
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: my friend? What do you mean? You know what? I'm

481
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 1: not not to be president? Though. I find that they

482
00:28:56,800 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 1: have no like not common sense, but what's the word

483
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 1: I'm looking for it. There's a documentary called Class Divided.

484
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 1: It's about the school Avenues that's across from the projects

485
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: and Chelsea, and so they go back and forth from

486
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 1: like rich smart kids that do fencing. They fucking play

487
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: the violin, they speak Japanese. And then on the other

488
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 1: side they they're in the project with these kids, the

489
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: super rich kids. There's like no personality there. They have

490
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 1: no emotion. It's like the weirdest ship. The other kids

491
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 1: like you can't even see it in their eyes. They're happy.

492
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 1: Then the other kids like, oh my god, they gotta

493
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 1: go to Harvard. I gotta learned viename. You gotta get

494
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 1: as they gotta get more than days. And it's like

495
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,479
Speaker 1: they're fucking going nuts. I don't ever want a kid

496
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 1: like that because they never been punched in the mouth

497
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 1: as a kid. They go through the ring of life,

498
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: they haven't faced adversity. You don't know how to hit

499
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: bottom moments. I kept thinking, like, you know what, I'm broke.

500
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 1: I went to jail. Here's an ankle bracelet. This is it.

501
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 1: This is gonna be my moment that I'll talk about

502
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 1: when I'm famous and I'll be like, no, you guys,

503
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 1: I ate ramen. Like, so I want to get into

504
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 1: this week's kick of the week and I want to

505
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 1: give a shout out. This is actually on pop dust

506
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 1: dot com, which is dope because I got to record

507
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 1: with you guys at the popst location of the week.

508
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 1: For this week, I want to see if you guys

509
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 1: can guess what it is. Um. It is psychrophilia. What

510
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 1: do you think psychrophilia stands something? I was so so

511
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 1: um for this kink of the Week. I've chose it

512
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 1: specifically because we just got done with a snowstorm all

513
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 1: the way here. I told um Latasha that my face

514
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 1: was burning it was so cold. Um and so not

515
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: for people who find pleasure thanks to psycrophilia. This sexual

516
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 1: arousal comes from being cold or watching others freeze. Um.

517
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: While the majority of folks like they're loving hot and heavy,

518
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 1: psycho philiacs would rather get a brain freeze and a

519
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: heart on. Um. Yeah, this is some weird ship um

520
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 1: eskimos aside, it seems unusual that being cold would arouse anyone.

521
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 1: We've all heard about the cases of unwanted shrinkage, and

522
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 1: getting undressed in order to get it on would be

523
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 1: uncomfortable at best. In subzero tempts, goose bumps and frostbite

524
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: seem less than sexy, and numb fingers would make for

525
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 1: a clumsy, a clumsy makeout session. But this is what

526
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: psychrophilias um are into. And I actually thought It was

527
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 1: funny because Mega Stallion just um posted that she actually

528
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: can't sleep unless it's really really hot, which I'm not

529
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,959
Speaker 1: gonna lie before having sex. Even if it's cold outside,

530
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 1: I turn on my A C. I like for it

531
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 1: to be cold when I'm sucking. But because I know

532
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 1: I'm going to get hot, I still don't think I'm

533
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 1: going like I wouldn't be interested in fucking like in

534
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 1: the outside temperatures, but during the summer, I'll be like, oh,

535
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 1: let's go find somewhere to to go foot behind the

536
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 1: have a small fantasy with like a cab in, but

537
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 1: it's got to be like some exclusive b and then

538
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 1: I would suck the cold like put me in that

539
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 1: like hot. Ask you know when you see those pictures

540
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 1: of people like Iceland, I would do that, well like

541
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 1: Recovic and they do what was in the Poconos and

542
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: like what you've been there? No, I didn't know what

543
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 1: that was. Oh, because it spelled weird. Oh I don't

544
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 1: know what it looks like read havoc. Really, yeah, that's

545
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: like the blue lagoon Ice Iceland ship. Okay, I don't

546
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: even know. I don know what is recommended. One of

547
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 1: them is going to find answer the std you catch

548
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: in the cold. I didn't know what really, just a

549
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: very cold virus. That's probably a bitch probably gave me

550
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 1: recommend shout down to listener Melanie, the one I ran

551
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 1: into on the plane. That bitch gave me robertasinum on

552
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: the flight. Let handed me a little shot cup. I

553
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 1: was like, oh, thanks that. She was like, nice medicine.

554
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 1: So I know, get no, get well, says get Well.

555
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. I never imagine having sex in the cold. Yeah, no,

556
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: not for me. So that sounds like privilege shoes. You

557
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: mean it sounds shoes incovenence. I don't know my privilege.

558
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 1: I don't. Definitely sounds like I go to hand in

559
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: hand together. They choose weird ship, they choose inconvenient and

560
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: uncomfortable things to to get off on, and it's just like,

561
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: we have it hard enough just being us, and we

562
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 1: don't want to make things more difficult than they need

563
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: to be. I've seen my penis in the cold. I

564
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 1: do not like the way it looks. I mean, but

565
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 1: I mean that might actually turn some people on, like

566
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 1: to see the shrinks. So it's crazy. So it's crazy.

567
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: This is this is really weird. But I do not

568
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 1: that I like flash of dicks or shrunk dicks, but

569
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 1: like the dicks that I are massive, but it's so

570
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 1: weird because they start off so small, so I really

571
00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:01,960
Speaker 1: enjoy fucking seeing them be really really big. Then once

572
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 1: they come playing with how small it is, and I'll

573
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:06,120
Speaker 1: be like, oh my god, it got a little like

574
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,320
Speaker 1: how does it get so big? And I actually like

575
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 1: those conversations after have you seen a dick that has

576
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:17,399
Speaker 1: been in the freezing cold? That's a different film. Two

577
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 1: balls go and make one need look wait wait, wait, wait, camera,

578
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 1: you're not looking it up on the screen. I'm like,

579
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 1: you're not looking up frozen balls, are you? I am?

580
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: And did that screenshots pointing the cold frozen penis about

581
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 1: to find out but he's looking at frozen balls and

582
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 1: it's looking like it's just it's just snowballs and stuff.

583
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 1: I've always been curious enough you can describe it, like

584
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 1: when people talk about when they can't come and like

585
00:34:58,000 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 1: blue balls and how their dick goes back up you

586
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:01,600
Speaker 1: just like the dick turns, I mean the balls turned

587
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 1: into one ball. Tell tell me about that. Feels like

588
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:07,359
Speaker 1: I feel like your balls got really old really quick,

589
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: like they just tucking themselves in the psychophagus and like

590
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,880
Speaker 1: snigger like a mummy, like like like a nut mummy,

591
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 1: testy mommy. Just but what does it feel? It feel

592
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 1: like a like a pain. It's tight, it's tight, masage, Like,

593
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 1: how do you get blue balls from that hot You

594
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 1: gotta be in a hot way, put them in the

595
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:34,840
Speaker 1: microwave you got, you gotta saw your dick. You got

596
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 1: your ball. That's something like does rubbing them or do

597
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,360
Speaker 1: you have to get in like a hot shower. How

598
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:43,919
Speaker 1: do you get rid of blue balls? So? Oh, blue ball?

599
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 1: How do you get the blue balls? Yeah? The difference

600
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 1: you're gonna know how you warm up the frozen balls

601
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:49,879
Speaker 1: you got and how I would like take a hot

602
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: shower and like dropping separation. No, no, no, The last

603
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,760
Speaker 1: thing you're thinking about when it's freezing outside is jagging

604
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 1: off typically because you can't grab your dick, and it's

605
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:04,760
Speaker 1: like mine, mine when it's real looks like a palm

606
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,799
Speaker 1: olive bottle. When it goes it's like, no, that's the girl.

607
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,320
Speaker 1: But I'm saying it goes in at the top and

608
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:15,319
Speaker 1: then it shrinks in the bay like towards the end

609
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:19,759
Speaker 1: of it, like a shower. I'm a little bit of

610
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 1: rock and room. No no, no no, So I don't know.

611
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 1: I can't compare my dick to anybody else's. I mean,

612
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,800
Speaker 1: when it's when it's young, but when you get gross

613
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 1: was impressive. In this last year and a half, I

614
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 1: spent a lot of time with your mayor, and we've

615
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 1: spoken about his penis more times than I like Badland too.

616
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: I got a handsome PENI I wouldn't know that. And

617
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:47,880
Speaker 1: I also didn't ask what we're talking about air penis,

618
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:53,240
Speaker 1: so I would say, I would say it's it's thirty,

619
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:55,800
Speaker 1: like not a thirty disgrestion. You know what I'm not.

620
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,839
Speaker 1: It's like a CI. You know I'm gonna be road

621
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:10,800
Speaker 1: Civics never my eight hundred bucks when I moved to

622
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:13,320
Speaker 1: New York, mainly because the window wouldn't go down. It

623
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 1: was a really shitty civic. I'm in Orlando this week

624
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 1: for Thanksgiving past my civic. How do I know it's

625
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 1: mine because there was a Jesus sticker on the gay thing.

626
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,719
Speaker 1: Not that I don't just Jus, girl, but I was

627
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 1: so scared to take it off. That ship is the

628
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:32,719
Speaker 1: only thing keeping that civic together. Jesus do you know

629
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 1: how shifty your car you gotta be if you celebrate

630
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 1: eight hundred and honestly, it wasn't a good deal. Like

631
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634
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636
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637
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638
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651
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652
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663
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664
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665
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:54,360
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666
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:56,360
Speaker 1: me ten times and came and two girls at the

667
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Speaker 1: sex club. So I asked him, has he ever done

668
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 1: it before? I'm you just busted twelve times within a

669
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 1: twelve hour time France, and listen, he wasn't the whole improved.

670
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 1: That's what's why all about it is getting gas station

671
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: dick with that pill. They'd be like, you know what

672
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:26,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying, little gas station Hill. That was one of

673
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: like you know, you see how hard you make me?

674
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:31,839
Speaker 1: And then I saw the pill in the trash can.

675
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: My ego was so bruised, and you said, this ain't me,

676
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:41,800
Speaker 1: it's the bodegg. I don't know what my fuzzy I

677
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 1: want to I want to get into our whole decision

678
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 1: this week, um, and the horrible decision this week actually

679
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,840
Speaker 1: goes like UM against one of the topics we recently

680
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:54,479
Speaker 1: talked about, shout out to Eddie Della Seppi. I love Eddie.

681
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:58,760
Speaker 1: He was amazing, we talked about we talked about ghosting

682
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 1: briefly with him, and so, because we always talk about

683
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:05,400
Speaker 1: how important communication is, I wanted to have the conversation

684
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:09,319
Speaker 1: with you too about how to end casual relationships. UM,

685
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:10,919
Speaker 1: like the classy bit you are. I want to shout

686
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 1: out to salty world dot net. Um, this is where

687
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:16,400
Speaker 1: it comes from them. So I wanted to start off simple, UM,

688
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 1: I guess are you too currently dating or not dating?

689
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 1: Not dating? Not really okay, but you're not in a

690
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: relationship okay. So The first person that we're going to

691
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 1: talk about how to end the relationship with is called

692
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: the wrong doer. This person is a guy or girl

693
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 1: who gave you a bad vibe after one day or interaction. UM,

694
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 1: anyone with unsolicited unsolicited you ups energy or Trump supporters. UM,

695
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,920
Speaker 1: let's just go ahead and get that out of the way. Umally,

696
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 1: this is how maybe you just met them on tender.

697
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 1: You guys have a date and you realize he just

698
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 1: wasn't it. How do you end that relationship without ghosting them.

699
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 1: We're trying to be the mature people here now, so

700
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:00,960
Speaker 1: without just leaving them cold. What do you say to

701
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 1: a person that you have one interaction, one date with

702
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 1: and it just didn't go well, Oh, we just go

703
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 1: away for me to talk. I don't know. I've never

704
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 1: been in that situation. I've always like, if it was

705
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:15,280
Speaker 1: just a bad vibe, I've always ghosted. Oh you're a ghost,

706
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 1: your ghost to like me and it's a bad vibe. Yeah,

707
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 1: that's what it was, right. Yeah, But if it just

708
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 1: was like bland, I've ghost Oh yeah, I don't go

709
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 1: if it's if it's a bad vibe, though, I'll owe

710
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 1: you nothing. That was the conversation wave ghosting that we're

711
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 1: talked about, like, but I think it got to deeper

712
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 1: and we're gonna go into maybe more profound relationships on

713
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 1: how you end it. So the next one, um is

714
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 1: the failed bone. So this one maybe you had bad kissing,

715
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 1: it stinks. The vibe was also off or one that

716
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: we talked about often. Maybe their limits preclude your kinks

717
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 1: from being fulfilled. So interesting, but go ahead. You have

718
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:00,879
Speaker 1: you ever talked to someone who maybe you guys, finally

719
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: got into the sex conversation. You've been on a couple

720
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 1: of dates and you realize that this person is not

721
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 1: going to be able to match you in the bedroom. No,

722
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 1: it was already too late, legs up, full of regret,

723
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:16,640
Speaker 1: my hair kat and talked me And that's why he

724
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:19,279
Speaker 1: got a good conversation because you know he got nothing else.

725
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 1: You're you're taking this time away from me. You have

726
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 1: sex so bad that you start to like be like,

727
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:31,800
Speaker 1: you know what, dinner was great though, and maybe we

728
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: could go because he was fun. But let me ask

729
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 1: you since now you don't skip, y'all, y'all went to

730
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 1: having sex. So the sex is bad and you decide,

731
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:45,399
Speaker 1: you know what, I don't really want to have sex

732
00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:47,799
Speaker 1: with this person ever again, how do you tell them

733
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 1: this probably isn't gonna happen again? Hello, Well, thank you

734
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:58,760
Speaker 1: so for me, I've actually done it. Like right after,

735
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:01,439
Speaker 1: I'll hit them with the hit them your way home,

736
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 1: I'll hit them with the he made thought he was

737
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 1: spending the night, and I'm so, what you're doing tonight?

738
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 1: What you're about it? I was like, and I just

739
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 1: sat there with with regret that damn I just gave

740
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 1: this nickel pussy and he it just wasn't good. It's

741
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 1: crazy because I always figured, like when the sex is

742
00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 1: just okay, it's like mutually bad. But like, no, no, no, no,

743
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:30,359
Speaker 1: no no, it's not a good all week, I'm gonna

744
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 1: come over with the mall. No. I don't like someone

745
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 1: who thought he laid it down so good. He thought

746
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:40,800
Speaker 1: I was breakfast the next morning, I was confused. I

747
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 1: know it wasn't good like that. I'm angry. That's what

748
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,359
Speaker 1: that's me. Here's here's another one that I think is good.

749
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:54,800
Speaker 1: This one is referred to as the best intentions. So

750
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 1: this person was super sweet but just didn't do it

751
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 1: for you. So this maybe leads in maybe they they

752
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 1: thought things were going great. How do you end it

753
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 1: with someone where maybe you know, they think it's going

754
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 1: somewhere and you're like, he's going broke up with my reverend,

755
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:14,719
Speaker 1: but we didn't sleep together. Short, Please, I don't know

756
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 1: if I should say his name. I don't know his

757
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:23,440
Speaker 1: name has a fire name. I think that's the Craflow Dollar,

758
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:30,720
Speaker 1: Reverend Randy. What what what happened with the Reverend Latasha Dollar?

759
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 1: We're not out? Did you meet him at the congregation?

760
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 1: Of course? Also I was a dashing twenty four year

761
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:47,760
Speaker 1: old aspiring model. Uh he was a dafenair reverend running

762
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 1: running the car gation. I think he was forty nine

763
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:52,279
Speaker 1: or something like. That's fine, right, And I was like,

764
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I like older man took me on an

765
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 1: awkward day day. It was so awkward. He was really

766
00:45:57,960 --> 00:45:59,839
Speaker 1: nice and it was sweet, but I was I don't

767
00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 1: want to do this, Like he a little too old.

768
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: He hit me with the linen pants and the sandals,

769
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 1: like we crossed me crossed a lot of threshold that

770
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 1: I wasn't quite prepared for. So so how did you

771
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:10,320
Speaker 1: cut it off? With him? Then? I texted him, I

772
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 1: was like, hey, he's really beautiful is. I was like,

773
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:16,239
Speaker 1: I'm transitioning right now. I'm moving into a different like

774
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 1: um like path and it just is just not like working.

775
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,879
Speaker 1: And I want you to know she's not transitioning her sex.

776
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:25,879
Speaker 1: This is a second podcast And yeah identified in transition. Yeah,

777
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 1: I identified with my biological body. Um, and you just

778
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 1: said I have other things I'm working, like yeah, yeah.

779
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 1: And so I tried to sneak to the church. We

780
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:36,800
Speaker 1: had to drop off like a tithe or something, and

781
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 1: he was there and I was trying to avoid himsel

782
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:39,840
Speaker 1: I was like, give him like the quick walk to

783
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:41,239
Speaker 1: get out of there. He chased me and follow me.

784
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: He's like, heyy what weird text? You said me? What's

785
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 1: going on? And I'm like, yeah, things are just like

786
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 1: weird for me right now, and like I'm like a

787
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:49,920
Speaker 1: bad place and like it's just like not and I

788
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:52,800
Speaker 1: just don't want to drag you into it. We always

789
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: tell them that it's not you, it's me, but it

790
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 1: is that they're good people. It is. Yeah. I don't

791
00:46:58,200 --> 00:46:59,960
Speaker 1: know who it was. I think it was putting someone

792
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:03,240
Speaker 1: shout out to to and fro miss Ga posted something

793
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 1: and she was like, I'm so tired of people saying, oh,

794
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: he's a good guy, why did you let that go? Like,

795
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: just because he's a good guy doesn't mean he's a

796
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:13,280
Speaker 1: good guy for me. And that is so much pressure

797
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 1: sometimes from people when they try to tell you how

798
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 1: great somebody is, Like you know, I'm dating someone now

799
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:20,480
Speaker 1: that is like all over the place, But me too,

800
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: and that ship is compute. The that's why nice guys

801
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 1: kill us at school. I mean, we are constant whitney

802
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:32,800
Speaker 1: and they deserve to have us. And if they can't,

803
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 1: shot them to the face. There's somebody there for you.

804
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 1: It's just not me and I'm not a cheater. Stop me. Listen,

805
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 1: stop the whole the whole one. All of us are problematic.

806
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 1: The next one, listen. The next one is the ultimatum.

807
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 1: You like them, but you have to lay down the law.

808
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 1: Ultimatums are best served in person, but if you feel

809
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 1: you need to get one off your chest in a

810
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 1: controlled setting, there's a way to text it. People bashing

811
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:03,839
Speaker 1: as a form of communication, but it can be an

812
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 1: excellent tool. So one of the examples that they get

813
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 1: for the ultimatum is I really like you, but being

814
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,719
Speaker 1: polly or being monogamous only seeing you very late night

815
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 1: once a week isn't working for me? What would you prefer? Um?

816
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 1: And what do you think? So it's pretty much laying

817
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 1: down the line as what you expect out of a

818
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:24,960
Speaker 1: relationship and if that person isn't going to give it

819
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 1: to you, how you then successfully end that relationship? Um,

820
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 1: I've definitely been in that situation. It was more like

821
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 1: I was up front with basically going through something and

822
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,840
Speaker 1: kind of working through the pain and the transgression, everything

823
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:44,920
Speaker 1: that was going on and not being able to be

824
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:49,279
Speaker 1: a whole like emotionally available. And they kept trying to

825
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:52,319
Speaker 1: hit me with the well, then you can't be taking

826
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 1: me out and we can't be doing this and we

827
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:56,960
Speaker 1: can't be doing that, And I was like, cool, got you,

828
00:48:57,719 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: And it was just it was just like that because

829
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:02,200
Speaker 1: how to me, I can't. I can no longer compromise

830
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:06,239
Speaker 1: myself or my happiness or my healing for somebody else.

831
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 1: It just don't work like that. I agree, And I'm

832
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 1: being I'm front with you and let you know everything

833
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:13,160
Speaker 1: that's going on, and then don't get me no what

834
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:16,160
Speaker 1: we're doing going to therapy, That's what I'm saying. I

835
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 1: know she acted the way I acted when I hit

836
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:25,920
Speaker 1: my big toil. She was like school boy whatever. I

837
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 1: wanted to ask um the last one before we get

838
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:31,800
Speaker 1: into the homemail to to jamir UM. So you just

839
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:35,840
Speaker 1: got out of a relationship that lasted years, UM. And

840
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: I know that when a lot of people are in

841
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:40,920
Speaker 1: a relationship four years with someone, UM, they feel like

842
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:43,480
Speaker 1: because they put so much time into the relationship that

843
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 1: they owe it to themselves to continue to try the

844
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:47,799
Speaker 1: relationship even if it may or may not be over.

845
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 1: So I want to know, UM, how you go about

846
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:54,839
Speaker 1: ending a relationship that kind of has lived its life

847
00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 1: out and you know that it's it's dead, but you

848
00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:00,080
Speaker 1: kind of don't want to leave it. I think it

849
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 1: was it's hard as fun, mainly because like it's not

850
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:06,800
Speaker 1: that you don't love this person. It's like both of

851
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 1: our energies right now are bringing keeping us out of

852
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: ceiling where we don't need to be, and we need

853
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 1: to remove ourselves from a toxic space. Like I was

854
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:17,880
Speaker 1: toxic at times, she was she was toxic. So we

855
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 1: needed to separate. And I had to make that hard

856
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,360
Speaker 1: decision after being with somebody who you thought she was

857
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:27,279
Speaker 1: gonna marry at one point, to leave not only the

858
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:32,839
Speaker 1: relationship believe like, um, everything you leave in I left

859
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 1: you know years almost a decade on and all, yeah

860
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 1: and uh almost almost a yeah. Do you find that

861
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 1: like since you're well, you've been a relationship person for

862
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 1: so long that like dating is hard because you get it.

863
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 1: You know what's you know what's you know what's difficult? Sex?

864
00:50:56,320 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 1: Sex is very difficult because you're so used to being intimate.

865
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 1: Intimacy is such a big part of sex for me. Now.

866
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 1: When I was in college, I didn't have to look

867
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:08,600
Speaker 1: at you, have to kiss you, I'd have to touch you.

868
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:10,759
Speaker 1: Why do you feel like you can't be intimate now? Well,

869
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I can, but everybody doesn't

870
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:16,280
Speaker 1: deserve that level of intimate. You can't just be snacking

871
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 1: on everybody's ass. You know what I'm saying that the

872
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:21,680
Speaker 1: level of intimacy and comfortability you gotta be with somebody.

873
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:25,200
Speaker 1: I think comfortable comfortability is like the big thing for me,

874
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 1: Like I'm no longer interested or desired to which is

875
00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 1: the person who I've been sucking for the last seven years.

876
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 1: I know we'll talk about it, um and so and so.

877
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 1: Even with that, I told my friend, even as I

878
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:42,960
Speaker 1: was coming back from the airport, I was going through

879
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:44,839
Speaker 1: my phone because I don't suck anyone else in New

880
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:48,359
Speaker 1: York and literally going through my phone realizing I don't

881
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:50,040
Speaker 1: have anyone, knowing that there's people on my phone I

882
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:52,040
Speaker 1: could call just to drop off Dick. But then it's like,

883
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:54,680
Speaker 1: is this person am I gonna feel comfortable? Do I

884
00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 1: want them in my in my bed? Do I want

885
00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 1: them in my space? I haven't had someone over my

886
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:00,879
Speaker 1: house in so long. That wasn't him really well, I's

887
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 1: out of Canadian baby. He don't even count that Nigga

888
00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:05,879
Speaker 1: been in the picture for like six years. But now

889
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 1: that I have no local anybody, I'm just in that

890
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 1: space now where I'm just like, damn, finding someone new

891
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:14,960
Speaker 1: was gonna be hard. This person for the last six

892
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 1: seven years, we've learned each other's bodies. So even if

893
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 1: there wasn't the level of intimacy that someone may think

894
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:22,840
Speaker 1: as far as kissing or you know, the things that

895
00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 1: we didn't really do, the comfortability level that I had

896
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 1: with him, I feel like I'm never gonna find that,

897
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:30,879
Speaker 1: and it's gonna take so long to get that again.

898
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 1: And so I can see how you don't want to

899
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:35,919
Speaker 1: dive into just having sex with someone because it's gonna

900
00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:38,359
Speaker 1: be different. Is it even gonna be good? Even? Am

901
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 1: I even gonna enjoy it? Right then, I'm giving out

902
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 1: boyfriend dick, and I don't what's boyfriend? Um? Who I'm

903
00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 1: touching your You know, like man could feel when you

904
00:52:55,800 --> 00:53:00,560
Speaker 1: just touch somebody's soul, you go, oh my god, I

905
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 1: just took the class. You got to dig where they're

906
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 1: making your breakfast in the morning? No what Yeah, but

907
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:10,400
Speaker 1: it's a certain look, like like somebody can't believe what

908
00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 1: you're doing in them and you you look him in

909
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 1: there like, oh, I've gone too far? You know what

910
00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 1: I'm getting? Like that when instead of moaning, it's like

911
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 1: the word is ha right, exactly right, and you're just

912
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:26,919
Speaker 1: looking and everyone knows good. I think the only piece

913
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:29,879
Speaker 1: of advice I can give you for that, like I've

914
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 1: dated people like I'm a person that like generally like

915
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:36,200
Speaker 1: I'm the emotional one on the show. I make the

916
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:38,920
Speaker 1: joke that I'm an email ho because I really can

917
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 1: try to connect on deeper levels. I think for me,

918
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 1: the way that I found good partners. I mean, right

919
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:46,759
Speaker 1: now I'm mainly sleeping with one person, but I do

920
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:48,800
Speaker 1: have great connections with other people, and it's because I

921
00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 1: really built friendships and deeper, like when I wanted to

922
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 1: fund them, i did it. I kind of waited for

923
00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 1: it to grow a little bit stronger, and it's it's

924
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 1: like it could seem like you're playing gay aims, but

925
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 1: it takes a long time to see if you virate

926
00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:05,160
Speaker 1: on the same frequency as somebody else, Like I don't.

927
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:07,919
Speaker 1: I don't need to uh have that connection with someone

928
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 1: that I feel like it's a soul mate. I mean,

929
00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 1: like I have friends I connect with like that doesn't

930
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 1: mean it'll be romantic, and I think we can all

931
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,400
Speaker 1: have sexual partners that we connect with like that. It

932
00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:19,280
Speaker 1: just does take time, and I think like the longer

933
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: it gets, you're like, oh my god, Like I've been

934
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:23,359
Speaker 1: looking for somebody to fuck, then your horny and then

935
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:25,040
Speaker 1: once you suck someone and it wasn't that good or

936
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:28,719
Speaker 1: even more mad, that's the work. That's what I wasn't

937
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 1: gonna put up with that last night. I just wasn't.

938
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:33,799
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna be upset. And it's been too long

939
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:37,319
Speaker 1: since I've had dick, Like it's been since October. It's

940
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:39,839
Speaker 1: fucking December even though it's only the second bitch yes,

941
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 1: since yeah, well yeah, we'll talk um. And so to me,

942
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:46,759
Speaker 1: I'm just like, the fuck, what's going on? Well, even

943
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 1: because we were on tour and then the bitch was

944
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:49,799
Speaker 1: on our period, you'll know I ain't working on my period.

945
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 1: So I'm traveling and I'm thinking I should get it

946
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:55,319
Speaker 1: because I'm in other cities and I can't. So there's that. UM.

947
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 1: But I wanted to get into the homemail before we

948
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:59,919
Speaker 1: get out of here. UM, And this one is called

949
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,960
Speaker 1: am I being too insecure? So hey, ladies, A long

950
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 1: time listener here. So I've been trying to figure this

951
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 1: out on my own, but I'm giving up and coming

952
00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 1: for advice. I'm having trouble in my new paradise. Me

953
00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 1: and this dude have been seeing each other for a

954
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 1: little over a month, and mostly everything is great. We

955
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:20,399
Speaker 1: get each other's we get each other's personalities. He takes

956
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 1: me out and shows me off, and sex is great,

957
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:27,800
Speaker 1: but he hasn't came when we fuck, and when I

958
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 1: give him head, he says that it's always been like this.

959
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:32,920
Speaker 1: I've asked him if I need to switch it up,

960
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,360
Speaker 1: and he says, I'm just a pleaser. And it's always

961
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 1: been hard for me to come. We are both young.

962
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:40,920
Speaker 1: I'm twenty three and he's twenty two, so we have

963
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:43,840
Speaker 1: a lot to learn about fucking in general. But bitch,

964
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:46,880
Speaker 1: I know I get off. I'm pleasing my man, and

965
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:49,920
Speaker 1: my ego is taking some hits. I'm struggling to see

966
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:53,640
Speaker 1: this relationship moving anywhere. If he doesn't come soon, I

967
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 1: need some guidance. Y'all talk about the Blue Choo and

968
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:58,680
Speaker 1: other products that extend sex for quick coming men. What

969
00:55:58,840 --> 00:56:01,920
Speaker 1: about the opposite. I am tired. I am tired of

970
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:05,279
Speaker 1: sucking dick and writing this man with no outcome XO

971
00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:10,399
Speaker 1: XO our white patron number four. This is maybe maybe

972
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:13,280
Speaker 1: that's the condom, and maybe he's trying to be respectful

973
00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 1: about not taking it off. So I just had this incident,

974
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:19,520
Speaker 1: which is why I feel like I've gone with no sex.

975
00:56:19,680 --> 00:56:22,799
Speaker 1: But there was also we were also highly intoxicated UM.

976
00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:26,840
Speaker 1: But I recently just attempted to have sex UM and

977
00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 1: it was after the club. We were really drunk and

978
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:32,319
Speaker 1: we got hot and bothered, and I was like, oh,

979
00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 1: you gotta get a condom, and he was rock hard.

980
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 1: As we were making out. I was rubbing his dick

981
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:40,520
Speaker 1: on my like I was hot and bothered, and as

982
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 1: soon as he put the condom on, that's all. And

983
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:47,400
Speaker 1: so then me being drunk, I got into and I'm like, solid,

984
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:51,279
Speaker 1: you're sucking every bit. You're wrong, what's going on? But um,

985
00:56:51,440 --> 00:56:53,759
Speaker 1: she didn't. She didn't mention on here if they were

986
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:58,320
Speaker 1: fucking unprotected or not. So if I would say the

987
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:02,239
Speaker 1: condom is a good possibility for a month, that maybe

988
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:04,800
Speaker 1: is why he's not coming because I have been with

989
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:08,359
Speaker 1: men who can't come in a condom. So the thing

990
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:11,279
Speaker 1: that we've done is they'll funk the goddamn shit out

991
00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:13,399
Speaker 1: of me with the condom, and then when I'm done

992
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 1: being fucked and they know that I've had enough of

993
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:18,440
Speaker 1: the sex, then we go into okay, we'll suck my

994
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:22,040
Speaker 1: dick and they'll come off head. So there's roles like that,

995
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 1: you can titty funk, there's a lot of other things

996
00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:26,200
Speaker 1: that you can do if you can help it. Because

997
00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 1: I know it's a big eager bruise, tell him like

998
00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 1: to jerk off, like like out what makes him finish,

999
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 1: because I feel like something like that, like he might

1000
00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 1: like sex could be boring for some guys, like he

1001
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:40,880
Speaker 1: might be into something extreme that she doesn't know about

1002
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 1: from something Yeah, yeah, I possibly is it acts. So

1003
00:57:51,320 --> 00:57:53,640
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. I mean, I'm to be honest,

1004
00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:56,600
Speaker 1: Like I've touched my pussy, like if vaginally. It's not

1005
00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 1: the easiest thing for some women to have aginal orgasms.

1006
00:57:59,880 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 1: So I don't mind touching my clip, and I hope

1007
00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:03,360
Speaker 1: niggas don't mind either, because I don't give a fuck

1008
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 1: you fucking me and it feels good. I want to

1009
00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:08,320
Speaker 1: touch my clip like whatever, just like when a dude

1010
00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:10,480
Speaker 1: like pulls like like they said, they say they pull

1011
00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 1: out and they start jerking off to come like I

1012
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:16,800
Speaker 1: don't think that's crazy, So I think maybe try incorporating

1013
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:19,600
Speaker 1: that telling like some nasty ship like you want to

1014
00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:22,800
Speaker 1: taste it right, so young to not be ejaculating, but

1015
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 1: it could it could be it could be NERD or

1016
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:27,560
Speaker 1: it could be UM. And we've talked about this before.

1017
00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 1: If you over like over consume yourself with UM porn

1018
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:37,520
Speaker 1: or masturbation, you become you know, it could actually affect

1019
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 1: you when you're having sex with someone because you're seeking

1020
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:43,040
Speaker 1: a certain way of how you please yourself that this

1021
00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 1: person maybe isn't doing. I would I would say, especially

1022
00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:48,920
Speaker 1: because you are so young, UM, and I know when

1023
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 1: I was three, the conversations that I was having about

1024
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:55,360
Speaker 1: sex and what I was enjoying and not enjoying weren't

1025
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:57,800
Speaker 1: being had as as often with my partners. So I

1026
00:58:57,840 --> 00:59:00,400
Speaker 1: think that this may be something to wear even if

1027
00:59:00,400 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 1: you're uncomfortable because you mentioned young y'all are y'all need

1028
00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 1: to have a conversation like what makes you come? Yeah,

1029
00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 1: we need and I think that that needs to be

1030
00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 1: in the conversations without making him feel bad. You know

1031
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:14,960
Speaker 1: I need to. I would love to start doing more

1032
00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:16,840
Speaker 1: follow up letters to those who have send your whole

1033
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 1: bail into Horrible Decisions at Gmail. Let us know what happened.

1034
00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:22,040
Speaker 1: And you're a patron, so if you do have this

1035
00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:24,720
Speaker 1: UM conversation, I would love for you to send us

1036
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:27,960
Speaker 1: a message on your update on how the conversation went. UM,

1037
00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:29,760
Speaker 1: and if it's patron, of course we can find it

1038
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:31,480
Speaker 1: easier you send us an email, which I also like.

1039
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 1: So if you guys are interested in having UM your

1040
00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:38,160
Speaker 1: homemail read and getting your advice from us, because you'll

1041
00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:40,840
Speaker 1: be liking our advice, UM, go ahead and send us

1042
00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:44,600
Speaker 1: the email to Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com at

1043
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:46,520
Speaker 1: y'all for believing. I mean, maybe it's just me. I

1044
00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 1: have no idea what then I'm talking about. Honestly, I

1045
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:52,000
Speaker 1: sweart of God. I'd be reading emails and I'd be like,

1046
00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 1: I don't know sek friends, I'd be like, what would

1047
00:59:57,720 --> 01:00:00,919
Speaker 1: you say? All caps? And I've done that so much

1048
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:03,640
Speaker 1: because a lot of the home mails sometimes are things

1049
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 1: I would say, like when we first started our show,

1050
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 1: like I would say the first year, I was like

1051
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Speaker 1: in a situation ship but didn't know if I was

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Speaker 1: and I was super confused. So we'd have people right

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Speaker 1: in I'm like, yeah, what what would you say? Then?

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Speaker 1: I'll answelest, But but we're not experts, and I think

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01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 1: we definitely say that often, like it's just listen, don't

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Speaker 1: take you with a grain of salt, and don't consult

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01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:31,480
Speaker 1: your tax accountant or lawyer, all the things that we say. Okay, um,

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Speaker 1: I want to thank both of you guys for joining us.

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Speaker 1: I love you guys. Is coming up? Um, so I

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Speaker 1: guess before we before we get out of here, where

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Speaker 1: can our listeners find you? And do you have any

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Speaker 1: projects coming up that they should look out for? Find

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Speaker 1: me on YouTube? Just Natasha channel watch my web series

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Speaker 1: Black and Relax and um, yeah, I'm coming out with

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Speaker 1: some something fire next year. That's such a good name

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Speaker 1: said that. Yeah, listen, she's she's fraid of right. A

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Speaker 1: lot of people can't do that. Bro, Oh it's time.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited. She's gonna's gonna help me get in my

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Speaker 1: acting bag next year. So we're doing a little creative series.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited. So look forward to everything that um Latasha

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Speaker 1: got coming forward. Yeah, if you need me to play

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Speaker 1: uh dirty, they're on the couch. I mean, shut up.

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Speaker 1: I'm very talented and sleeping on couches and playing PlayStations

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Speaker 1: just like Quiet Nick on the couch. Yeah that's what. Um.

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Speaker 1: You guys can find me at Jamir Pond j M

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Speaker 1: E R p O n D, on Instagram and Twitter. Um,

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Speaker 1: if you are over forty, ladies, you can find me

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Speaker 1: on Facebook. If you look good. You request. I wanted

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Speaker 1: to ask you are we getting? Are we getting another

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Speaker 1: season of Black Coffee? Oh? I don't know. You don't know,

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Speaker 1: but I don't work there. DJ black Hu no like

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Speaker 1: the DJ. But it's a show. Oh nigga, I was

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Speaker 1: like that, said I was a black coffee actually us well,

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Speaker 1: I want to say, keep doing, especially what you're doing

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Speaker 1: over with the budd seem the BuzzFeed content. It's super dope,

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Speaker 1: your creative ship. What is it? The cocoa butters to

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Speaker 1: Melvin's in a spoof of cocoa butter. I didn't not.

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Speaker 1: He's a huge youtuper and he made a spoof of

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Speaker 1: black He tried each other sweep and sato or something

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Speaker 1: like that. It's so funny. It's so funny. So if

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Speaker 1: you guys, um see the things that normally go viral

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Speaker 1: um on Twitter because you're that fucking dope UM. But

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Speaker 1: it is black Twitter, but you were you a part

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Speaker 1: of the um? What is it? Aunt? He's trying to

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Speaker 1: sweep with phone one with potato salad. It's really good

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Speaker 1: salade idea. When it hit the timeline, friends, it's the

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Speaker 1: most nigked thing I could do today. Not. I don't

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Speaker 1: know anyone who like loves and it's as knowledgeable as

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Speaker 1: much as they love it as Jamir like when culture.

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Speaker 1: Yeah he is. Yeah, it's a kind of sour dating

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Speaker 1: for you. Wait wait, please tell me, because listen, I

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Speaker 1: have to stick up. Sorry for my pumpkin lovers. Don't

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Speaker 1: tell me you were a part of getting black people

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Speaker 1: to try pumpkin spice. That that was. That was over

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Speaker 1: in l A. We have a l A. They they

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Speaker 1: liked some things, but they were they were shaming the

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Speaker 1: pumpkin and the pumpkin spice. And I'm one the connotation though,

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Speaker 1: just just like pumpkin spicce makes you think Caucasian, and

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01:03:57,400 --> 01:04:01,479
Speaker 1: that's you think. I'm never well, I'm one of those

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Speaker 1: that like, I'm at Starbucks. Anything with pumpkin on the menu,

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Speaker 1: I'm getting. I just went to the grocery store and

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Speaker 1: they had pumpkin bagels. Never had it in my life.

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Speaker 1: I bought it. They had pumpkin cream cheese. I want,

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Speaker 1: I wanted just thinking about I love it. Yeah. But

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Speaker 1: before we get out of your guys, just before we could,

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Speaker 1: let me come back for a minute love black women. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: before we get out of here, I want to let

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Speaker 1: you guys know that once again, we have added a

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Speaker 1: second show for New York City, so that is January

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Speaker 1: at Sony Hall. We is looking forward to see all

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Speaker 1: of y'all. If you guys have not yet purchased your

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Speaker 1: v I P tickets, there may still be available um

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Speaker 1: at this point, I'm not sure them shoulds go fast,

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Speaker 1: but we're looking forward to seeing our New York core

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Speaker 1: hive amongst the Midwest and Texas. So on January we

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Speaker 1: are in Detroit. On January the twenty one, we are

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Speaker 1: in Cleveland. On January twenty, we're in Chicago. On the

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Speaker 1: we are right here home based in New York City,

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Speaker 1: and then we got to twenty in Dallas, followed by

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Speaker 1: tow in Houston. We will be releasing more tour dates

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Speaker 1: for our Southeast and our West Coast stops in January,

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Speaker 1: so look forward to those dates. If you guys haven't yet,

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Speaker 1: copy your tickets at Horrible Decisions dot com. Also, I

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Speaker 1: want to shout out to all of our patrons. Because

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Speaker 1: of you, we are able to sell tour merch this

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Speaker 1: motherfucking time around. So copy your tour merch and once

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Speaker 1: again shout out to our patrons. For just five dollars

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Speaker 1: you can get it for free starting at fifteen dollars

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Speaker 1: a month, but you guys get three bonus episodes. So

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Speaker 1: not only do you guys hear us every Monday, but

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Speaker 1: three times a month. You guys get an extra episode,

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01:05:57,880 --> 01:06:01,000
Speaker 1: so that seven sometimes eight episodes of depending on how

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Speaker 1: many mondays following that quality in me crying on Patreon.

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01:06:04,800 --> 01:06:07,200
Speaker 1: It's basically what Patreon is to me. I get in

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Speaker 1: my feelings. I'm like for the date for the thing.

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Speaker 1: If y'all thought we were vulnerable here, If you become

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Speaker 1: a patron, you kind of get to get more in

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Speaker 1: our business. Um I haven't even talked about him on

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01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 1: the show yet, but I do have someone called PhD

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01:06:21,440 --> 01:06:24,040
Speaker 1: in my life right now. Um so I am dating somebody.

1152
01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:27,160
Speaker 1: He just lives across country. To the top tier patrons

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Speaker 1: fifteen patrons, you get our exclusive Patreon only merch. There's

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Speaker 1: also a group chat that is wild. Someone's tits are

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Speaker 1: in there. I don't know what's going on. It's a

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Speaker 1: lot um. I go in there and every time in there,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, this is this is And I get invite

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Speaker 1: to the group chat. But you gotta come come a patron.

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Speaker 1: Got pat patron um The content I do post porn.

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Speaker 1: We have porn sleepers, um that get posted by our community. Yes, absolutely,

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Speaker 1: and um so if you guys want to become a patron,

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Speaker 1: go to patreon dot com. Backslash Horrible Decisions. We are

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Speaker 1: an eight teen plus platform, so it does become hard

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Speaker 1: to find. So once again, go to Patreon dot com

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Speaker 1: backslash Horrible Decisions and we're gonna leave you guys off

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Speaker 1: with a five minute bonus clip from one of our

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01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:16,680
Speaker 1: patron episodes. So I want to thank once again Latasha

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Speaker 1: and Jamir for finally joining us. I think we've been

1169
01:07:18,400 --> 01:07:21,360
Speaker 1: talking about this for over a year, so I'm really

1170
01:07:21,840 --> 01:07:24,360
Speaker 1: glad to finally bring you guys on. Check out their platforms,

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Speaker 1: and once again this has been yet another episode of

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Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions. It's funny because the what you're saying with

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Speaker 1: just the difference and the guys you're talking to, like,

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01:07:33,360 --> 01:07:37,000
Speaker 1: that's kind of well, it's seeing me too. So I

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01:07:37,080 --> 01:07:41,800
Speaker 1: have PhD in aries PhD. Although, like you know, he's

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01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:44,200
Speaker 1: in the space that he is professionally. He has a

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01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:46,000
Speaker 1: nine to five. So we're talking about what's going on

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01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:48,240
Speaker 1: with his job and his career and stuff like that,

1179
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:52,080
Speaker 1: and we didn't have so many arguments about who's sucking

1180
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Speaker 1: buying flights and who's not and just the ship like that,

1181
01:07:55,680 --> 01:07:58,080
Speaker 1: because he's not used to buying flights. He's like women

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01:07:58,120 --> 01:07:59,640
Speaker 1: have flown here and when you get here, I take

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01:07:59,680 --> 01:08:02,320
Speaker 1: care of anything. And I'm like, well, my niggas, boy

1184
01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:04,680
Speaker 1: my flight and take care of everything. And then I'm

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01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:09,000
Speaker 1: talking to Aries. We're literally thirty six hours into talking.

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01:08:09,560 --> 01:08:11,800
Speaker 1: I tell them the places I'm going this month. I'm like, yeah,

1187
01:08:11,840 --> 01:08:16,360
Speaker 1: I'm going to Boston, Detroit and Puerto Rico, UM and Orlando.

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01:08:16,840 --> 01:08:19,800
Speaker 1: And he's like, well, I really want to see your show,

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01:08:19,840 --> 01:08:21,720
Speaker 1: so let me know which city I should pull up to.

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Speaker 1: That's it. He's like, I'll get my ticket now, Like

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01:08:25,600 --> 01:08:27,240
Speaker 1: I really want to see one of your shows and

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01:08:27,320 --> 01:08:29,920
Speaker 1: I think it'll be fun. And I'm like, look how

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01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:33,519
Speaker 1: different that is? Like he's just well, I hate to

1194
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:35,680
Speaker 1: say it, but you're not saying you have to think,

1195
01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:40,000
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna frighten my experience. Older niggas do so.

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Speaker 1: But then they are ten years apart. One is twenty nine,

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01:08:42,280 --> 01:08:44,680
Speaker 1: the other thirty nine. But it's just like I was like,

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Speaker 1: he's like, um, Aries, as far as what he wants

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Speaker 1: with talking to a woman is exactly where I'm at.

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Speaker 1: He's like, I just want consistency. He's like, consistent, see

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01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:02,960
Speaker 1: in connection are what I'm looking for right now. He's like, pussy,

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01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:05,600
Speaker 1: I can get that. He's like, so if there's no

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01:09:05,680 --> 01:09:07,600
Speaker 1: connection or I don't want to be around you and

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01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:09,840
Speaker 1: you're not consistent, He's like, cause, I'm not gonna text

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01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:11,439
Speaker 1: you more than you text me. I'm not gonna call

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01:09:11,520 --> 01:09:13,240
Speaker 1: you more than you call me. He's like, there needs

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01:09:13,240 --> 01:09:15,280
Speaker 1: to be a mutual interest. Literally everything that I fucking

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Speaker 1: say came out of his mouth, and I was just like,

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01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:21,479
Speaker 1: have you been eaves dropping on my fucking calls? Like

1210
01:09:21,680 --> 01:09:24,240
Speaker 1: this was literally just my conversation with my friends. So

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Speaker 1: I don't know, We'll see where it goes. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna pressure anything. But he's beautiful, like, well,

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01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:33,479
Speaker 1: both of them are very handsome um men. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm excited. One does have kids, one doesn't, so I mean,

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01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:40,960
Speaker 1: you know, but one is local, one isn't. So the

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Speaker 1: fact that I'm even entertaining someone that I'm thinking long

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Speaker 1: term and that nigga lives in fucking Portland's and then

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Speaker 1: I have one that's local, I'm gonna be honest with you.

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Speaker 1: I would get annoyed about the play thing, and I

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Speaker 1: know I said, like the DC thing, I would have

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Speaker 1: just grabbed it. I still stand by that. But Portlands

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01:09:58,000 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 1: to me is different. But the flight is to sixty

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01:10:00,160 --> 01:10:03,960
Speaker 1: so it's not much. But I'm saying not the price.

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Speaker 1: The DC thing to me was very like yo, come

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Speaker 1: like he didn't to me in his mind, he didn't

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Speaker 1: New York to d C. If I lived important, I'd

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Speaker 1: be like it was the same ship. Just show up,

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Speaker 1: like it's a train like whatever, Like I wouldn't think

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Speaker 1: of something that's small. But because you're going across country

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Speaker 1: and now you're coming to me like I can, I

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Speaker 1: would expect him to pay. But for some reason, the

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Speaker 1: way that you brought up the DC thing, like he

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Speaker 1: said it like it's my birthday trip. Just calm dada,

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Speaker 1: I could see him skipping around paying it because it's

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Speaker 1: a different thing. I don't know where. It felt different

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Speaker 1: to me because it was very close. Well that's the thing.

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Speaker 1: Like the lived in Philly. He wouldn't be like, let

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Speaker 1: me keep getting this forty dollar like you wouldn't think

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Speaker 1: about it. I didn't know how much it was to

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Speaker 1: go to d C. I thought it was a forty

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Speaker 1: dollar train. I know it's more now it's a hunt

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01:10:51,760 --> 01:10:53,960
Speaker 1: of each way. So the train was actually more expensive

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01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:55,960
Speaker 1: than my flight was, which is why I took But

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Speaker 1: I really didn't know that. I really thought DC was

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Speaker 1: like and then I've gone to Philly because I got

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Speaker 1: a nigga and Philly and when he's paid for my

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Speaker 1: my train to Philly, depending on how last minute is,

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01:11:06,479 --> 01:11:11,360
Speaker 1: sometimes it's like each way. So it's not the hand track.

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01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:18,080
Speaker 1: I'm not hos um I did. I did because my friends. Um.

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01:11:18,320 --> 01:11:21,600
Speaker 1: I called my friend that wasn't my normal go to

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01:11:21,760 --> 01:11:25,839
Speaker 1: friends and she's like, Bro, you spend that on drinks.

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01:11:26,479 --> 01:11:29,080
Speaker 1: You spend that when you go eat. I've been with

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Speaker 1: you and you're buying rounds for ten people said there

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Speaker 1: was a guy. I don't know what you called him,

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Speaker 1: but I don't want to say the city because I

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Speaker 1: don't know if you brought it up it was he

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Speaker 1: was in it. Remember you cut him off him? Yes,

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Speaker 1: you said if something started going with this guy, I

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Speaker 1: would be flying myself. Yes, that's what you said. Yes,

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Speaker 1: So that's so that's where we're having the dilemma now.

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Speaker 1: Is it's not the fact that it's buying the ticket,

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Speaker 1: especially because my friend was like, bro, you have it.

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Speaker 1: You really you really not gonna like funk with a

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Speaker 1: guy over two hundred all? Is that you actually really like?

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Speaker 1: So The dilemma is oh