Speaker 1: Watch up. It's Angela Yee, It's Lift Service and I'm
Speaker 1: Gigi Maguire, I'm Laura Maura and we have a special
Speaker 1: collab episode today Point of Mind. Yeah, hi y'all. I'm
Speaker 1: just so excited to be here, Like when I tell you,
Speaker 1: I used to be watching Lift Service all the time,
Speaker 1: so like actually being here with you, like just thank
Speaker 1: you for having a song, like, well, let's be Andrea
Speaker 1: and Nicole. Thank y'all for joining us. Yes, I know
Speaker 1: we've been trying to like work it out timing live
Speaker 1: with you ladies for quite some time, so we can
Speaker 1: have some fun, yes, because we don't really come to
Speaker 1: New York a lot. No, we don't. Like the last
Speaker 1: time we came, we had our live show out here
Speaker 1: and we haven't been back since. And I was what
Speaker 1: in July, Yeah, that summer time. Yeah, that was in
Speaker 1: summer time with July. So we was like, yeah, we
Speaker 1: definitely need to make sure we collab with you. So,
Speaker 1: so I want to talk about this right because we've
Speaker 1: watched you guys just basically be able to get to
Speaker 1: a point where you're able to do really well pie casting,
Speaker 1: and that's something a lot of people are striving to ur.
Speaker 1: You know, we had these conversations like how you got started,
Speaker 1: But then now it's like quit your job and make
Speaker 1: I could tell look at y'all, just briefly tell us
Speaker 1: the story of how poor minds got out of You
Speaker 1: guys are friends in real life and sometimes that's hard too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but absolutely, but just tell us how you guys got started,
Speaker 1: because I know people are listening and thinking about their
Speaker 1: own positions. Not absolutely, she did say that right, talking
Speaker 1: about always like we really be like an open book
Speaker 1: with our at least is about our friendship and like
Speaker 1: Tom that we weren't getting along and everything. I mean
Speaker 1: it is. It really is hard to have a business
Speaker 1: with your friends. So I moved to Atlanta in twenty
Speaker 1: sixteen from Houston, and I was there for a year.
Speaker 1: I moved with another girl. We were roommates. E didn't
Speaker 1: end up working out. We broke our leaves, and then
Speaker 1: me and Lake would still talk every day, but we
Speaker 1: had made it. In twenty fifteen, we were working at
Speaker 1: this strip club to get the bars in them, and
Speaker 1: we would just keep in touch, and I was like, girl,
Speaker 1: you need to move to Atlanta because we both have
Speaker 1: degrees and mass communications and we both kind of wanted
Speaker 1: to get into radio and entertainment, but we didn't really
Speaker 1: know what we wanted to do. So she moved out
Speaker 1: here and people would just be like, y'all need to
Speaker 1: have a shower or something because y'all chemistry and y'all
Speaker 1: dynamic is just so crazy, like y'all need to be
Speaker 1: on camera. So we had this idea to do wind
Speaker 1: Down Wednesday, Yeah, which is like a thirty mini show
Speaker 1: that we started in my house and we would just
Speaker 1: talk about like hot topic, prety stuff. So then we
Speaker 1: stopped doing that and we had the ideas to turn
Speaker 1: into a podcast because Mandy positions like one of her friends. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because we were actually our YouTube channel. We were doing
Speaker 1: everything on that. We were doing makeup challenges. Yeah, nobody
Speaker 1: was watching anything well right, like other things were had
Speaker 1: like ten views, and wind Down it was getting like
Speaker 1: a hundred. We were like the right. So it was
Speaker 1: like after that and we were like, Okay, people are
Speaker 1: actually starting to watch this, they're looking forward to it,
Speaker 1: and um, Mandy was like, hey, y'all need to get
Speaker 1: into podcasting. This is where it's sad if y'all really
Speaker 1: want to, you know, monetize it. Properly. So we linked
Speaker 1: up with DJ Scream in Atlanta. We changed the name.
Speaker 1: He was like wandow on Wednesday, it's too generic. Come
Speaker 1: up with something else. We came up with poor Minds
Speaker 1: and we started doing the radio out there with him
Speaker 1: every Wednesday. So he just gave us like an hour
Speaker 1: slot to be on there with him talking and it
Speaker 1: started to grow even more and more. So I don't know,
Speaker 1: it's just like we just I don't want to say
Speaker 1: we lucked up because we worked very hard. And the
Speaker 1: thing about it is we were so consistent, like we
Speaker 1: were dropping every week when nobody was watching. We Sometimes
Speaker 1: people feel like they'll start something and immediately it should
Speaker 1: take off, and realize that it could be years yea
Speaker 1: of just being consistent because even with service, like we're
Speaker 1: eight years in and people be like, oh, I see
Speaker 1: you on a new show. I'm like new a podcast.
Speaker 1: I was like Angela left the breakfast club to do this.
Speaker 1: Like used to have to explain to people what a
Speaker 1: podcast was. Right first started doing right maybe told us
Speaker 1: we didn't. Yeah, we didn't know what it was. When
Speaker 1: we start a part, we were like what is that?
Speaker 1: We weren't making no money until we got with eighty five,
Speaker 1: got with eighty five, so this one we really started
Speaker 1: making money. But I remember we got our first aid trick.
Speaker 1: We were working with this company. I forgot what it
Speaker 1: was came, but we got our first aid trick. It
Speaker 1: was for ninety seven dollars and you couldnot listen. SR
Speaker 1: y'all busted it down the middle. The CID life is good. Okay.
Speaker 1: I know that you guys have said this before, but
Speaker 1: you know, as far as sharing parts of your life, right,
Speaker 1: at a certain point, you're like, you know what, I
Speaker 1: don't have to share everything because that's also a conversation.
Speaker 1: People think that on social media or on a podcast,
Speaker 1: you have to tell everybody everything, right, So how you
Speaker 1: determined like what is to be kept private and not
Speaker 1: be put out there like that. I think that that
Speaker 1: has just come with age and mature because when we
Speaker 1: first started the podcast, I was twenty six. Now I'm
Speaker 1: thirty one, and I just feel like, yeah, now I'm
Speaker 1: just very much like I don't need people to know
Speaker 1: everything about me. But when I look back on some
Speaker 1: of the older episodes, i'd been cringing sometimes used to yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, it's for me. I would overshare but I
Speaker 1: would get like really drunk, like me and me would
Speaker 1: be like black out drunk, don't remember how he got home? Yeah,
Speaker 1: And then I would go back and watch the episode. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we got to some point where it was so bad
Speaker 1: we stopped drinking on the show for a while because
Speaker 1: we were getting so drunk it was. But I will
Speaker 1: say I feel like for me personally, um, I still
Speaker 1: share parts of my life. I don't get too in
Speaker 1: detail like I used too because I feel like with
Speaker 1: my dating life with my family, Like at that time,
Speaker 1: the show wasn't big, so it was easy for me
Speaker 1: to talk about a friend, or talk about a boyfriend
Speaker 1: or talk about kissed me off. Now it's different. So
Speaker 1: if I'm dating somebody, you know, they didn't ask to
Speaker 1: be talked about on Poor Minds. I have a hundred
Speaker 1: thousand people like, oh, or is that you? Oh? That's
Speaker 1: who you know? Much more you are you know, So
Speaker 1: it's like now, I just we don't use names as
Speaker 1: much like we used to have characters. Everybody we had
Speaker 1: like rapper Band when I was back bad. That was
Speaker 1: the key we talking in the dressing room. We gave
Speaker 1: everybody names, so nobody knew who. Yeah, I still like.
Speaker 1: But the thing about our listeners is they're so like
Speaker 1: that they were finding out who they were. The point
Speaker 1: the internet B to FBI to c I a digging
Speaker 1: theyby digging in the info, they'd be figuring it out.
Speaker 1: Did you ever get like, did anybody ever get mad
Speaker 1: at you for talking about them? Like I know you
Speaker 1: was talking about me? No, No, that's never happened to me.
Speaker 1: But I definitely had a situation where I went on
Speaker 1: somebody else's show and I was like, and it was
Speaker 1: crazy because we had literally broke up the night before,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm saying, ain't. I was like, well,
Speaker 1: you know, guys intimidated when they find out, you know,
Speaker 1: they do the poor minds y'all gonna talk about me
Speaker 1: because sometimes for guys, it does make them feel a
Speaker 1: little bit nervous. Yeah, I think it's either or I
Speaker 1: think they either be excited talking. I can't wait until
Speaker 1: I see the episode you with Yeah you thought you ain't?
Speaker 1: You know, So sometimes it's like you being excited. But
Speaker 1: sometimes I think, like, like I said, I'll be trying
Speaker 1: to protect people if I had to tell a guy
Speaker 1: many times like I wasn't talking about you the right,
Speaker 1: and I ain't the only guy I dealt with that
Speaker 1: got shot relaxed, right. And the other good thing is
Speaker 1: you could talk about stuff and then let them see it,
Speaker 1: like if you like, hen't eat my pussy right, let
Speaker 1: them talk on the show about the right word like
Speaker 1: too week excited, like nigga, I'm not even about to
Speaker 1: talk about you. And they also trying to act like
Speaker 1: they don't listen. But you know, they do the Clear
Speaker 1: every episode they on it, they subscribed and everything. Now,
Speaker 1: so recently you did a detox, right, yes, Okay, so
Speaker 1: tell me how because I'm I've done a dtox like
Speaker 1: a couple of times and I'm trying to do it again,
Speaker 1: but it just hasn't been lining up for me the
Speaker 1: stars right now for her birthday. Yeah, I think it's
Speaker 1: so busy right now with everything else I have going on.
Speaker 1: It's hard when you're not even to be like stable someplace.
Speaker 1: So how was that for you? I liked it a lot.
Speaker 1: But I always try to do detoxics periodically because I
Speaker 1: just feel like you're always good to like cleanse your
Speaker 1: body of like the toxins and the liquor and all
Speaker 1: of that stuff, but also to I have really wanted
Speaker 1: to lose weight because I'm short, and I just feel
Speaker 1: like when I'll be gaining it too much weight, I'll
Speaker 1: be looking real roly poly and my face gets really yeah,
Speaker 1: and then I'll be having real bad back rolls too.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah. So I was just like, I need to
Speaker 1: lose some weight because last year I was like the
Speaker 1: heaviest I have ever been. Yeah, we both were. That's
Speaker 1: that money. That's that money, and I haven't dreamed yet
Speaker 1: each each other that because that's an honest thing, right.
Speaker 1: Some people would say, well, we don't want to talk
Speaker 1: about other women's bodies, but friends who see each other
Speaker 1: all the time where you're like, girl, we gotta do something. No,
Speaker 1: we've been telling Yeah, we definitely be telling each other.
Speaker 1: But I mean, I talked about this on the show.
Speaker 1: I have body this morphia really bad. So a lot
Speaker 1: of times I'm harder on myself and Dre'll be like, okay, Legs,
Speaker 1: you can do a little one too, but you're being
Speaker 1: extreme look good. Like, So I think we understand how
Speaker 1: to say it to each other because she's not like okay, Legs,
Speaker 1: you getting fat right or no, but like she'll be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: legs like, we gotta get it back wet, we need
Speaker 1: to we need to go together. It was good. I
Speaker 1: need it for How long did I do? It was
Speaker 1: twenty one day and I wasn't she worked about day.
Speaker 1: I was interwerming it fast and like I was the
Speaker 1: one I like and it worked out for you so good?
Speaker 1: Different it weren't out. I lost six skin glowing? How
Speaker 1: do you that work in the bathroom though? Like doing
Speaker 1: doing a detox? Because when I did mine, they told
Speaker 1: me not to have sex. Yeah, I was fasten from
Speaker 1: six you did, That's why you wasn't really fast? Did
Speaker 1: you manage the bad? Definitely? Saying that when the toxins
Speaker 1: are coming out of your body, you're not supposed to really, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't know. Oh okay, so masturbation is fine. Well,
Speaker 1: you know, I ain't gonna be to know that you're
Speaker 1: not supposed to have that six. And this was the
Speaker 1: first time that I actually like didn't have six while
Speaker 1: I was the toxic. Okay, y'all. Do you think because
Speaker 1: sometimes people say you can focus better when you're not
Speaker 1: having sex, I think that, yeah, because it's been since
Speaker 1: last year and I still can't focus. Well, I think
Speaker 1: I need to do. Yeah, you know, I'm When I
Speaker 1: was in my twenties, sex used to distract me just
Speaker 1: because I used to be like all into my men.
Speaker 1: I was like my man, my man, my man. And
Speaker 1: now it's like man, yes, it's like but I feel
Speaker 1: like now the men are you know the guy that
Speaker 1: I deal with. It's not like it's not a distraction,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like our time is our time.
Speaker 1: But when I got to go to work or when
Speaker 1: I have to do X y Z, it's not a problem.
Speaker 1: So it's not a distraction. I think it depends on
Speaker 1: who you're dating. That's only sex with the wrong person. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's when it gets distracting, toxic shit, Yeah for sure. Yes.
Speaker 1: I remember dating a guy. We would get to an
Speaker 1: argument and I just straight up when it go to work,
Speaker 1: because this is when I was way younger. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: it would be like four o'clock and I still be
Speaker 1: at home, like trying to get things right. Man, told
Speaker 1: what you'a man? And heaven used to be the word.
Speaker 1: I found it out one time when I was I
Speaker 1: used to work at the club. I found out my
Speaker 1: dude had cheated on me. Y'all. I was at work.
Speaker 1: I was working out. I was like, you gotta go
Speaker 1: home sick. I was at working. I could tell my
Speaker 1: boyfriend was cheating on me because he kept calling me.
Speaker 1: He never did, but he kept calling, like to check
Speaker 1: and I was still there, Tommy, and I don't answer.
Speaker 1: I'm trying him to take a nap. And then he
Speaker 1: caught back an hour later like hey, if you call me, hey,
Speaker 1: what you're doing? And I was like, let me just
Speaker 1: I just left work. So when I got home, he
Speaker 1: had kept calling my job and I wasn't there. So
Speaker 1: I think he caught on because it took me like
Speaker 1: maybe like forty five minutes to get home on the train.
Speaker 1: And I came home and he was carrying the sheets,
Speaker 1: no bag or nothing to the laundromat because I didn't
Speaker 1: have a watch engineer at the time, and he was
Speaker 1: carrying this together. He so kind of we weren't supposed to,
Speaker 1: but he just didn't leave. That was the only person
Speaker 1: I ever like kind of had staying with me. It
Speaker 1: was for two months, and so he was just taking
Speaker 1: the sheets down the stairs, just holding them in his arms,
Speaker 1: and I was like, what are you doing. He's like,
Speaker 1: I fell asleep. I was sweating real bad. You would
Speaker 1: sweating real bad. Don't even watching that, you gonna remind
Speaker 1: Niga never watched nothing. And I was like, how you
Speaker 1: know he was carried it in his hands, that I
Speaker 1: was coming home, Oh my god, trying to harry up
Speaker 1: clean all right now, I want to ask you some questions,
Speaker 1: because you know how they say that automatically, when you
Speaker 1: meet a guy, you know what it is, right, if
Speaker 1: you would sleep with him or not, or if you
Speaker 1: would categorize him as okay, he would be good just
Speaker 1: to kick it with, but I wouldn't really take him serious,
Speaker 1: or maybe he's relationship material or never, it wouldn't happen.
Speaker 1: Do you think that's a true thing, that when you
Speaker 1: meet a guy you automatically know. I used to think that.
Speaker 1: I don't think that no more though, so I don't
Speaker 1: talk to some people where I was like shocked, my damn,
Speaker 1: So lad this happen. I think for me, I am,
Speaker 1: I'm a leo. I'm all about that passion like I've
Speaker 1: always been. Like, if it's the end of the first
Speaker 1: day and we're not making out with each other all
Speaker 1: over each other, you're not the man for me. So
Speaker 1: I had a recent situation. I'm just like, but I
Speaker 1: felt like all those relationships it was like so much passion,
Speaker 1: but when it ended, it would end so bad, and
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, maybe I need to take a
Speaker 1: different approach. So, like I've recently been like dating a
Speaker 1: guy and I'm like taking things super slow. And it's
Speaker 1: like when you like really take your time and get
Speaker 1: to know somebody, you really have time to decide, you
Speaker 1: know what. I like this about them. I don't like
Speaker 1: this about them. So for me, I'm still kind of
Speaker 1: on the fence about it because this is really my
Speaker 1: first time taking my time because I do not like, well,
Speaker 1: I ain't got the love time now, Like I'm trying
Speaker 1: to get to it. I need to see that we're
Speaker 1: supposed to be on vacation. I love. Yeah, So when
Speaker 1: you first met him, what was your I thought like,
Speaker 1: how did you ctagorize him? Um, it's crazy because when
Speaker 1: we first met, like I looked a mess. I felt
Speaker 1: like I looked a mess. But I just remember he
Speaker 1: was talking to someone and I was like, oh man,
Speaker 1: he has really like nice manners, Like I like the
Speaker 1: way he was talking to the person. And I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: he's cool and then he started talking to me and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh god, and I was kind of
Speaker 1: being rude and kind of like, but when we went
Speaker 1: on our first date and I really sat down and
Speaker 1: talk to him, I was like, Okay, he's very intelligent,
Speaker 1: you know, Like I wouldn't necessarily say he's my type
Speaker 1: as far as just the type of person he is,
Speaker 1: but I'm like, I need something different because I go
Speaker 1: for the same type of guys. So it's like I
Speaker 1: do like him, Like, we have an amazing time together,
Speaker 1: so I like the fact that it's slowly growing. So
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, we'll see, We'll see cha sweech
Speaker 1: it up. Like I feel like, if you're trying the
Speaker 1: same thing all the time and he's not working out,
Speaker 1: you ought to try something. But I have a toxic
Speaker 1: X and he be haunting me and calling me girl.
Speaker 1: So I'm trying to change my way and he knows
Speaker 1: it right, he know, he know he got me down bad.
Speaker 1: That's the bad part about yeah, you know when I
Speaker 1: got you in a little choke called yeah yeah, But
Speaker 1: they get so mad when you get out of it
Speaker 1: finally because yea yeah, oh yeah. And I'm like I'm
Speaker 1: like there, like and I think that like he knows
Speaker 1: it like I know it, like and it's outside of
Speaker 1: like the new guy. It's just like sometimes I I
Speaker 1: will say, I still do this. Sometimes I forget who
Speaker 1: I am and I am just like stop letting these
Speaker 1: niggas playing your face. And I went through a lot
Speaker 1: of trying to let a man validate me and who
Speaker 1: I am. And just because this person doesn't value you
Speaker 1: doesn't mean you're not a good woman. He doesn't have
Speaker 1: the final say so on who you are. So I
Speaker 1: was getting lost in feeling like, man, I'm not good enough.
Speaker 1: I'm not bringing this to the table. I'm not doing this,
Speaker 1: I'm not making him feel good. I'm not being his piece.
Speaker 1: And it's like, so he needs to be my pile,
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And it's not even like so because I
Speaker 1: do care about him and I want I want him
Speaker 1: to be happy. I want him to find happiness. But
Speaker 1: for me, it's just like it's okay to value myself
Speaker 1: and sometimes you just have to walk away, right And yeah,
Speaker 1: all of that, like because I think sometimes guys also
Speaker 1: like you to feel like, yeah, you know, doing enough,
Speaker 1: because that's because sometimes I'll make us want to go far. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you have flash? What meant it so good that you
Speaker 1: kept going back? You know what it was? It's because
Speaker 1: I really I feel like I met him when I
Speaker 1: was young, and we dealt with each other for a
Speaker 1: very long time, so it was kind of like I
Speaker 1: went from a girl to a woman with him. You know,
Speaker 1: like when he met me, I was still working in
Speaker 1: the club and then now I'm doing this, So he
Speaker 1: saw me through all those stages of my life. So
Speaker 1: it's like he knew me inside and out, like he
Speaker 1: knows my family, you know, like Mama passed away last
Speaker 1: year and he was there for me, so a lot
Speaker 1: of that stuff was just um, it was comfortable, right,
Speaker 1: and he knows me inside and out. And I have
Speaker 1: a very complex personality, so it's like I have like
Speaker 1: my you know, in front of the camera's goofy, then
Speaker 1: I have my you know, my insecure side, then I
Speaker 1: have my serious business side. It's like I'm a very
Speaker 1: complex person and he understood all those angles of me.
Speaker 1: So it was just comfortable. You know. I didn't have
Speaker 1: to introduce like, hey, this is what I do for
Speaker 1: a living and this is and both men are like what, well,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to it was just like, okay,
Speaker 1: let me go back to him. He sell the growth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I was like I felt like it was just easier,
Speaker 1: you know. But then it's just like at the same time,
Speaker 1: it was like it's toxic. It's always easy to go
Speaker 1: back when you know, man, And as soon does a
Speaker 1: nigga piss me off the right like you know what,
Speaker 1: you gotta deal with. It's comfortable because as soon as
Speaker 1: a guy even look at me the wrong way, I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm going back on. Yeah, huh, how did you like? Um,
Speaker 1: you know, I really just had to just be you know,
Speaker 1: it's a little I got my peky toe, he might
Speaker 1: grab my pink. But I feel like, you know, I
Speaker 1: side saying like if he started dating somebody else, and um,
Speaker 1: I feel like the stuff that we've been through. And
Speaker 1: that's why I say it's really complicated because we had
Speaker 1: a like a period for like two years or we
Speaker 1: didn't talk and I was in love with a whole
Speaker 1: other man and that's a whole other story. So it's
Speaker 1: very like, so even if he did move on, I'm
Speaker 1: okay with that because I moved on already and I
Speaker 1: got really deep with somebody, like I was over him.
Speaker 1: I wasn't worried. I was in love. So it's like
Speaker 1: we've already been through that. I've already seen what that
Speaker 1: looks like as far as me moving on and being
Speaker 1: in love and him moving on and being you know,
Speaker 1: whatever in love or whatever he had going on. So
Speaker 1: I'm okay with that, Like I'm really I've come to
Speaker 1: terms like this is not We're not each other's person,
Speaker 1: and that's okay. I see your girl, I could relate. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's hard, it's hard. You think, um, do we really
Speaker 1: wish our X as well? He'll knows people independ on
Speaker 1: independ on how we ended, because I feel like you
Speaker 1: end with some people on like some fuck you should like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck what you got going on
Speaker 1: and what you're doing. And but I heard about him,
Speaker 1: like it really wasn't that bad. Like I definitely have
Speaker 1: people that I dated and it ended on good terms
Speaker 1: and we were cool, and I'm just like, okay, I'm
Speaker 1: happy to see you. Know. You gotta know a little boo,
Speaker 1: you got a family, Like that's good. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: funny like when guys cheat on you and then you
Speaker 1: see them with a girl that they cheated on you
Speaker 1: with and you know what, but it never ends, never
Speaker 1: ends well, and you'll be watching. Man. I was about
Speaker 1: to say sad. It was just so whether you're like,
Speaker 1: are you gonna say everything or you're gonna be careful
Speaker 1: with what you're gonna say it, girl, you can't do
Speaker 1: that and then not say one of them actually had
Speaker 1: a baby from the person that they were cheating on
Speaker 1: me with that They told me that I'm crazy and
Speaker 1: I need to go to therapy about that kept me
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, after taking me through hell and
Speaker 1: back because I didn't want to be with them anymore,
Speaker 1: and literally a year ago that's sorry whatever, a year
Speaker 1: after had a baby and I'm like, you took me
Speaker 1: through all of that cast, all that pain, caused all
Speaker 1: that trauma because I was ready to walk away from
Speaker 1: something that wasn't healthy for me or my kids, and
Speaker 1: you ended up like that was like crazy pisces mal
Speaker 1: me and they gonna play mind game. I was like
Speaker 1: you and then tell you you crazy. He's like, you
Speaker 1: need to go to therapy because you have like literally
Speaker 1: and I still damn should I go to therapy? Like
Speaker 1: he don't want us to go to the fact yeah,
Speaker 1: because if we would believe something, we would believe like you,
Speaker 1: we know you lying, But we're like, all right, well
Speaker 1: I didn't catch him and see him. That's long as
Speaker 1: I ain't walk in on that, I ain't see it,
Speaker 1: I don't happen. I'm gonna just walk away though, because
Speaker 1: I think it's happening, so before I walk into it.
Speaker 1: But not that was some crazy shit. I was like, wait,
Speaker 1: you just had wait what? But the good thing is
Speaker 1: hindsight is twenty twenty, so it's like once you get
Speaker 1: and that's like where I'm at with my situation. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm looking back at my girl. You knew better, you
Speaker 1: knew better. But I can honestly sit here and say
Speaker 1: I have not been innocent either, Like I have done
Speaker 1: my dirt to him, you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: it wasn't just like oh, all him, he did bad
Speaker 1: and this and that, because it would be times like
Speaker 1: he pissed me off and I would just be like,
Speaker 1: all right, you pop up and I'm in combo. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm say. That's how I used to be. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So honestly, I'm not gonna lie. I felt like the
Speaker 1: past year that we were dealing with each other. He
Speaker 1: was like on his get back shit with me, right,
Speaker 1: He was like out for revenge, and I'm at this
Speaker 1: point I'm like, okay, you know, I put up the
Speaker 1: white flag. I thought we was right here, you know.
Speaker 1: And he was like, no, a bitch, like come back,
Speaker 1: wishaw as well when y'all break up for me. It's
Speaker 1: a case back case scenario. Yeah. I'm not one of
Speaker 1: the hold grudges though, Like I won't forget, but I'll
Speaker 1: forgive and move on. So I think, as long as
Speaker 1: you're happy in your situation, yeah, do that. But I
Speaker 1: don't know if I necessarily wish them well, I just
Speaker 1: don't wish them back, right right, you just don't care. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I used to be knowing stuff like, um, this
Speaker 1: one guy I knew his girlfriend was cheating on him,
Speaker 1: that like the new girl, but I didn't say anything.
Speaker 1: I just like, it's not I'm not my business. And
Speaker 1: also coming from me, like you know what he had
Speaker 1: wanted to, he probably would have been like he have
Speaker 1: told you exactly right, but want to hear him when
Speaker 1: to hear it right, because it'll make it seem like
Speaker 1: I'm you know, But I just was like that's why
Speaker 1: you don't even know. I have a good time, have
Speaker 1: a good life, and you really wished him well because
Speaker 1: I feel like you were not meant for me, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it wasn't because of you. It wasn't because you're being removed.
Speaker 1: I feel like God removes people like right, that's all good,
Speaker 1: And I don't like likely every person is not like
Speaker 1: everybody feels like, oh you fumbled me. Sometimes people really
Speaker 1: didn't fumble you. Y'all aren't meant to me. That's not
Speaker 1: the person. People are a reason in the season. Yes,
Speaker 1: your time has come and gone. I learned the lesson
Speaker 1: that I was supposed to learn from them with you
Speaker 1: and let me go. Piece. Now do you think that
Speaker 1: you could train a man in the bedroom now at
Speaker 1: this age? No, No, I don't got time. I need
Speaker 1: you to come here ready to go because I get
Speaker 1: aggravated and I don't know if I want to. I
Speaker 1: tried for two years and I couldn't. Ye, he was
Speaker 1: a really function good man. Like if it was, he
Speaker 1: was a good person. I just issues too, But like
Speaker 1: the dealbreaker, it was just like Okay, I gotta deal
Speaker 1: with this and that supposed to it's good, says when
Speaker 1: I started like feeling like, okay, I need something, like
Speaker 1: other people started give me feel like I need to
Speaker 1: go somewhere else. I was like, you know what, I
Speaker 1: gotta let it go. I'm sorry cheat on you, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't even want to do this. I don't want
Speaker 1: to lie. Right. But there's some guy because that's also
Speaker 1: a case by case thing, right, because I feel like
Speaker 1: there's certain things that we like that other women may
Speaker 1: not like. So it is a little bit of a
Speaker 1: training period. Well yeah, because I feel like if a
Speaker 1: man knows what he's doing in bed already and I
Speaker 1: just couldn't tell him a little one to what he
Speaker 1: already know, you know. But versus HA to like really
Speaker 1: teach somebody like they have no idea what they're doing
Speaker 1: at all. That's completely different between guiding and then yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, yes, if you just suck, I don't know
Speaker 1: if I can teach. I can't teach you how to
Speaker 1: stroll to how to get that spot. Some men just
Speaker 1: got like they know woman's body. Right. There's this one
Speaker 1: guy that I knew him and he was trying to
Speaker 1: get with me when I was younger. I was like
Speaker 1: twenty one years old, um, and he tried. He tried,
Speaker 1: and know he was like, listen, if I can't have you,
Speaker 1: let me introduce you to my boy like somebody like yeah,
Speaker 1: Like he was just like he meant it like like
Speaker 1: if you don't like me, like you such a like,
Speaker 1: let me introduce you to my boy, you know, not
Speaker 1: like that. But but um, we kind of like linked
Speaker 1: up like twenty years later and it wasn't worth it. No, man,
Speaker 1: that's the best sex if And he was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: if you would have known this back then, I was like,
Speaker 1: I mean I wasn't even thinking, but it's just like
Speaker 1: he knew my body, like he knew what to do,
Speaker 1: he knew how to do it like he was he
Speaker 1: was I've been waiting for this moment twenty years. They
Speaker 1: are crazy. They do not that way. I gonna talk
Speaker 1: too much, but it was great, but I had to
Speaker 1: I had to stop it because of other things. But man,
Speaker 1: that would have had me digmatized. Yeah, would you go
Speaker 1: back now if you had a chance, because I feel like, well,
Speaker 1: he in a situation that I can't do that, Okay, OK,
Speaker 1: but if you're being respectful I noticed, yeah, but if
Speaker 1: he wasn't, you would Yeah, we could do that same
Speaker 1: until I you know, but yes it was oh man,
Speaker 1: But since we're talking about training a man, right, what
Speaker 1: are some things that you like in the bedroom that
Speaker 1: might be like out of the ordinary, Like Okay, I
Speaker 1: have to tell guys I like this because they may
Speaker 1: not know. So why do you think I'm gonna say it?
Speaker 1: I like it them in my butt. I like that.
Speaker 1: I like that. Um, I like it when when men talk.
Speaker 1: But it's got to be like a certain type of talk,
Speaker 1: like because sometimes it can get corny. It can get corny, right,
Speaker 1: you have to say the right things. I don't know,
Speaker 1: I look because don't ask me what he because I
Speaker 1: know you like since we're talking corny, but yeah, because yeah,
Speaker 1: like when a man is like moaning, like I like
Speaker 1: a moan, but don't be like doing two to yeah,
Speaker 1: like don't be screen movie. Yeah, like we shouldn't be
Speaker 1: moaning the same to you. I've had I told you.
Speaker 1: Then he was like what you say? He sounded like parsing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: was literally screaming as that used to scream my name
Speaker 1: when he came. He used to scream, I like scream
Speaker 1: real name, no gigi. He was the screen that Like
Speaker 1: what did you at that moment. What was like. I
Speaker 1: mean the first time he did it, I was just
Speaker 1: like okay, but then he would do it every single time,
Speaker 1: so at that when I just got used to it.
Speaker 1: But every single time he came, he was, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I had a guy like that, Like he was screaming
Speaker 1: and was just like relax. And then if you went
Speaker 1: to hotel, you'd be like, who is next door? I
Speaker 1: don't neig just be like screaming on like scream And
Speaker 1: then at that point I was just having sex with
Speaker 1: him because I was in college, I was born, he
Speaker 1: was there, and I'm like, I know this mad ass
Speaker 1: coochie I'm giving you is not I don't even like
Speaker 1: you bro a little speed where the mast man like
Speaker 1: I like poor Nigga put on like like I like
Speaker 1: a little tap, you know, I like to be I
Speaker 1: feel a little child like anybody spitting in my mouth.
Speaker 1: I love they got anybody out, but gotta be dribble,
Speaker 1: the gotta be the right yeah, and they can't be
Speaker 1: the yeah yeah. I gotta like drip down somebody that
Speaker 1: I guy just spit in his mouth and I couldn't
Speaker 1: do it either, really my mouth drop spitting. I'm that's
Speaker 1: the only time spiting I'm swallow. But when you asked
Speaker 1: me to spit your mom daddy, I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, okay. But if guy, if he comes
Speaker 1: in your mouth, can you kiss him right after? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I think that's okay. I mean it's no, that's not
Speaker 1: freaking what if he asked you to? Um, I would
Speaker 1: do it, and I would probably never talk to me
Speaker 1: because I want to take. But at the same time,
Speaker 1: I like when a guy goes down on me and
Speaker 1: kisses me after Ian I want to pick it off
Speaker 1: the face. Damn my ship. Yeah. These showers, no, that's you.
Speaker 1: Would you get one? Absolutely, I would do one. I've
Speaker 1: never been asked that, but I would do it. The showers,
Speaker 1: I'm not. Ain't nobody peeling on me, but I'll do it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: nobody peeing on me? Yea, not even in the shower.
Speaker 1: I think that's the only place I would do it.
Speaker 1: I don't think that the pet it's like the beating
Speaker 1: the perpees, like like if you want to get Peaceton,
Speaker 1: you want to get peace Stone, I'm going to see it. All.
Speaker 1: That's that's the type of stuff that you're doing. The
Speaker 1: hotel Red Eye all right. Now, let's say it's his birthday.
Speaker 1: I got it into your dating and you want to
Speaker 1: do something for him that you've never done for him before.
Speaker 1: What could that be? In the bedroom? Play with that booty?
Speaker 1: H let me drink some water? Period? What if I
Speaker 1: have you ever set the guy's toes? That's not a
Speaker 1: toe sucker? I need it like wisely, that's too. That's
Speaker 1: my name? Did you like my name? It was a
Speaker 1: big black juicy toe too. But it wasn't a black
Speaker 1: tall nail. No, it wasn't a black Okay, yeah, but
Speaker 1: the way I sucked, I even just suck it like
Speaker 1: I need like no, I was riding bick from the
Speaker 1: bag and then I was like, yeah, let me get
Speaker 1: real freaking yeah yeah. He was like rolling his eyes,
Speaker 1: rolling big. That's feel like. I think it feels good,
Speaker 1: but I've never done it and I've done everything list
Speaker 1: she said. That's where I draw the line. Not necessarily.
Speaker 1: I mean, if the right guy asked or told me
Speaker 1: that that's what he liked, and I wanted to please
Speaker 1: him in that way, then that's a good way to
Speaker 1: do it. I'm that way. Um, I really like to
Speaker 1: do it, like I don't like to say I'm never
Speaker 1: going to do anything because you know the time has
Speaker 1: passed when I've said that, and then I double back
Speaker 1: and actually, did you like it? Oh? Yeah, yeah, No,
Speaker 1: I'm a sage, fee, I'm a sage. But something. Look
Speaker 1: my the God dated for two years, he played sports
Speaker 1: for ten plus years. You know, I'm seeing a man's
Speaker 1: feet that never like feet nice, but yeah, I need
Speaker 1: I need a man to have a really nice foot.
Speaker 1: I don't think I yeah, he don't got nice, but
Speaker 1: they don't bother me with some ugly fee. I can't
Speaker 1: do what I mean. Yeah, I mean some things you
Speaker 1: can't help like you you know, but it's how you
Speaker 1: take care of it. Yeah, no, He's like you got
Speaker 1: to care of yourself. And in a way that it's like, okay,
Speaker 1: I know God did that to you, but but you
Speaker 1: holding it as well, like a black toneil or something
Speaker 1: that you just got crusted everywhere. You might have a
Speaker 1: little hammer toe. It's finally you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Just make it, make sure you can and get back.
Speaker 1: Don't take care of take care of what God gave you. Now.
Speaker 1: But about multitasking, because sometimes in the bedroom it's hard,
Speaker 1: like you be wanting to do a lot of different
Speaker 1: things at one time, like are you good at um?
Speaker 1: Let's just say you're writing like you said, and you
Speaker 1: started sucking a toe. Can you also like it up
Speaker 1: there and start rubbing his balls like you know how
Speaker 1: sometimes you do MOLTI sucking on his nipple and stuff
Speaker 1: like that or something figure in his button, his dick
Speaker 1: in your mouth too, tasks at a tom that, um,
Speaker 1: I think the most ATHU was like, if I'm getting
Speaker 1: a little, that's probably it. I don't like sixty nine.
Speaker 1: I hate. I don't say nine I want to. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I want to sit there and relax. You like it,
Speaker 1: but I like it. I want to be on top
Speaker 1: like I want to. That will never make me. I've
Speaker 1: never had like an orgasm from that. Never. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna know. I'm not gonna come like that, but I'm
Speaker 1: gonna enjoy the life eating. No, i gotta be on
Speaker 1: my back, yeah, yeah, my bad. I'm not gonna come
Speaker 1: while I'm ry on your face. I'm not gonna come
Speaker 1: while sixty on my back. I don't want no pillows
Speaker 1: under my head or nothing. I flat on my back. Brain.
Speaker 1: It's like he's hard to focus when you trying to
Speaker 1: suck the and that's that's just one of those intro
Speaker 1: you know, is that the bird things like you do
Speaker 1: just were a little bit of a time face. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like a halftime. It's alway you had to be
Speaker 1: on top. What if a guy so can he be
Speaker 1: on top during the sixty nine? So so I've had
Speaker 1: that happ I've had that. I've had that happy And
Speaker 1: this is what I don't like. I don't like when
Speaker 1: the dick is forced down my throat, like, let me
Speaker 1: do it on my own. It's gonna get there, but
Speaker 1: let me let me work it down on my own.
Speaker 1: So when when the guy it only happened to me
Speaker 1: once and he was on top, and I was like,
Speaker 1: he was like shoving the dick, and I was like,
Speaker 1: all right, that's what I'm comfortable. Yeah, don't don't be
Speaker 1: trying to stick it then. And I've been on top,
Speaker 1: but once I've come, it's like, okay, let's go. Let's
Speaker 1: I'm keep doing it till he come though, right, But
Speaker 1: do you like multiple things being done to you at once?
Speaker 1: You Yeah, I'm getting Yes. I hate when guys actually
Speaker 1: don't do that, like if you're eating my pussy, you
Speaker 1: need to finger the same time you don't. You don't
Speaker 1: exactly what I was saying earlier when you have to
Speaker 1: train it, because they might be like, okay, women like this,
Speaker 1: but you said it's teaching versus got it because if
Speaker 1: you're not even eating my pussy right at all, Like
Speaker 1: if a guy's eating your pussy good, all you gotta
Speaker 1: do is say, put your fingers in a baby, yeah right,
Speaker 1: And you know, but if a guy's just eating it
Speaker 1: all wrong anyway, you don't even care to someone to
Speaker 1: put the fingers in. You're just like all right. And
Speaker 1: I've been experiencing um in my most recent sexcapades that
Speaker 1: I've found really enjoyable, like getting tongue fucked like while
Speaker 1: he eating my pussy just like yeah, I actually came
Speaker 1: like that reason, Wow, that's how hard come to Oh
Speaker 1: it was amazing and it came out of nowhere too,
Speaker 1: like it wasn't you don't usually as a building, and
Speaker 1: that thing surprised me. I was like, oh you got
Speaker 1: and you got suspect like you got really like I'm
Speaker 1: like it nice and gentle, like I'm when a guy's
Speaker 1: eating me out, I like it to be like that's
Speaker 1: the only way I'm really gonna come. Yeah, so you
Speaker 1: like it to be like kids, So yeah, like a
Speaker 1: little kitty, I want the pressure. Yet, tween, I don't
Speaker 1: like when they attack the cleared it like that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm like, y'all too hard. Yeah, yeah, just like they
Speaker 1: don't like teeth. You don't like teeth, or like when
Speaker 1: they're like eating and then they touching my titties right,
Speaker 1: and they're squeezing my titties too hard, as like I am,
Speaker 1: I'm pierced. God, they're very sensitive. Yeah, I like that.
Speaker 1: I like it. I told hard, but I never want
Speaker 1: to like, I want to feel it. This dude. I
Speaker 1: was like, bro, I want my nipples stop and to
Speaker 1: have my nipples peers too, and yeah, like you be
Speaker 1: ready for sleeping. They so sensitive, like you gotta be
Speaker 1: really gentle. Yeah, and in general, guys, you can't go
Speaker 1: too hard on the nipples. Right. I had a situation
Speaker 1: one time, but afterward I got in this shower and
Speaker 1: it burns because they was going I was like this skin.
Speaker 1: You know how few times people be thinking like when
Speaker 1: you move that you like that you like, No, I'm
Speaker 1: trying from it's with women. It's crazy because when a
Speaker 1: guy like we're using our teeth, we're doing something wrong,
Speaker 1: they'll tell us in me will be uncomfortable, but we
Speaker 1: don't want to kill the vill so we don't say anything.
Speaker 1: We don't want to hurt sex feelings now right, like
Speaker 1: I'm going now. But it's crazy because like in my twins,
Speaker 1: I used to just be like. One thing I've learned
Speaker 1: over the year. One thing I've learned and service definitely
Speaker 1: help is me with communicating during sex. We're talking about
Speaker 1: that a lot here, and communicate in during sex helps, right,
Speaker 1: It helps you, It helps him and help y'all figure
Speaker 1: each other out. And I've definitely learned to speak up
Speaker 1: more and be more vocal punattended when it comes to
Speaker 1: like what I like, what I don't like, and you know,
Speaker 1: more of that, less of that. I like to say
Speaker 1: that to like shock guys because they don't expect you
Speaker 1: to say it, Like I like to just say things.
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's out of nowhere and they're like, WHOA, what
Speaker 1: the But it's funny. You'll be lying, Are you be
Speaker 1: telling the truth? I'll be telling you, but it'll just
Speaker 1: be shocking because it'll just come out of nowhere. Okay,
Speaker 1: it comes from left field, like he be like, but
Speaker 1: they like it surprisal. What about phone sex? Have you
Speaker 1: ever phone sex? I have, Yeah, but like FaceTime. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's got to be facetix. I feel like on like
Speaker 1: the regular phone school. Yeah. The first time having phone
Speaker 1: sex was that UM series lip service. Really when we
Speaker 1: used to do that, Yeah, you know, but then I
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I'm going there without a condom.
Speaker 1: It's like what next. I did this thing when I
Speaker 1: was on Serious and people could call in and have
Speaker 1: phone sex and it would be like celebrities in there,
Speaker 1: and the guy was to be having phone sex. Oh
Speaker 1: my god. It was so funny that I'm not gonna lie,
Speaker 1: like did it got enjoyable just because it was like
Speaker 1: a long distance thing, you know, so it's kind of
Speaker 1: like a fantasy. But it was like that person I
Speaker 1: would do it with, I probably wouldn't do it with
Speaker 1: like anybody else, or you know, it's just like, nah,
Speaker 1: I feel like at the point I'm at in life
Speaker 1: right now, I can just get on a flight and
Speaker 1: see that. Yeah, I'm put it up. Yeah, I'm pulling up.
Speaker 1: At this point, it doesn't feels a little funny. Sometimes
Speaker 1: like because if he wants to do it and you
Speaker 1: don't want to, right, so sometimes you got to be
Speaker 1: like I faithful girl. Six. Sometimes yeah, men seem to
Speaker 1: think that, um, we just have a sex switch that
Speaker 1: we could turn on like a robot. Seem to think
Speaker 1: that when they are ready, we are automatically ready, and
Speaker 1: just like sorry, not right now. I need to be
Speaker 1: there with you. And if I'm not there with you,
Speaker 1: then it's you know, let me get a chance to
Speaker 1: get there or leave me alone. And I don't care
Speaker 1: if you're ready are not? They just like when you
Speaker 1: get my nuts trying and sometimes like if you don't
Speaker 1: feel like having sex and you still do it, you'd
Speaker 1: be having an attitude Oh my gosh, you like hurry
Speaker 1: and you know that one mood that's gonna make him nice,
Speaker 1: and you're trying and you're trying to get louder because
Speaker 1: you're like this's gonna make it. You start pulling out
Speaker 1: all of the really yeah, yes, all right, let me
Speaker 1: turn around, not us all being actresses. We got yes
Speaker 1: on the show said before, like you know, sometimes they
Speaker 1: fake it, like do they sometimes like we want to
Speaker 1: have sex and they don't really want to, And I
Speaker 1: don't think a man never not want to have sex
Speaker 1: like he's done this period. Sometimes if maybe he's like
Speaker 1: kind of checked out, if y'allre like in a relationship,
Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes they'll be like no, I'm cool,
Speaker 1: like I don't want to, or if he's just tired, yeah,
Speaker 1: because they get men get tired too. I guess I
Speaker 1: think it'd be too tired. He's still gonna want his
Speaker 1: dick set. Yeah. You know what. I've had a situation
Speaker 1: where like I always say, like, every once in a while,
Speaker 1: like the person I was saying, like we used to
Speaker 1: have like a marathon sex. We have like a lot
Speaker 1: a lot of sex, like in a day at night,
Speaker 1: like three four days in a row. So sometimes at
Speaker 1: the end I will still be like hey, he was
Speaker 1: like yeah yeah, like something like that. We were like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm tapped out. I'm like, okay, Well, let's talk about
Speaker 1: some current events. Things that were happening on social media.
Speaker 1: Now we know you guys were Indivision's video. Yes, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I want to ask you. Yes, said the girl that
Speaker 1: was dancing on stage. Yeah, with them and the guy
Speaker 1: I don't even know it's a boyfriend, but let's just
Speaker 1: say it. Was she had a girlfriend? Is that inappropriate? Okay,
Speaker 1: So this is how I feel about it. I feel like,
Speaker 1: if you're a girlfriend or whatever somebody you're talking to,
Speaker 1: obviously they're just having fun, and I feel like it's
Speaker 1: not now. It's different if she's doing the most, like
Speaker 1: if she's grabbing on him and she's being thirsty, trying
Speaker 1: to go backstage, trying to exchange numbers, Like it's a
Speaker 1: difference between being a fan and having fun and being
Speaker 1: a groupie. So I feel like what she did, what's cool?
Speaker 1: He called girls up on the stage, she was dancing
Speaker 1: with them, all like, come on now, Like, I don't
Speaker 1: think it's not like the nineties anymore, where people were
Speaker 1: really taking people from the crowd and bringing them to
Speaker 1: the tour bus. Because the way the atmosphere is now,
Speaker 1: they take them from the DM now. But it's like
Speaker 1: the white stuff is now, they're just not doing that anymore.
Speaker 1: So I feel like it's it's a line. I feel
Speaker 1: like he was being a little dramatic. I think so too.
Speaker 1: It was a little dramatic. I think he was being
Speaker 1: a little bit. Would you do that while you're in
Speaker 1: a relationship, Um, you know what, I don't think I
Speaker 1: would do I wasn't doing this because what I do
Speaker 1: think that he was being a little d Yeah he
Speaker 1: was meaning I wouldn't personally do it, just because I
Speaker 1: wouldn't do that anyway, if even if I was single,
Speaker 1: I want, yeah, yeah, because it's like, you know, it's
Speaker 1: not gonna lead nowhere like me, like if it was
Speaker 1: like even if it was like Drake, like me and
Speaker 1: Drake are not about to ride off into the sunset
Speaker 1: just because like I don't stage and roll them up
Speaker 1: like that's not but no, I do feel like it
Speaker 1: was a little dramatic. And then in that instance, that
Speaker 1: wasn't her man. She said that wasn't her Yeah, I
Speaker 1: didn't know that. I thought, this is not my manh yeah,
Speaker 1: she said it's not. And then afterwards Daniel from Division
Speaker 1: he ended up taking her to like yeah, like they
Speaker 1: wouldn't hung out for a little bit. So it ended
Speaker 1: up being really cool forty period. Okay, now let me
Speaker 1: ask you something else because I saw you guys talk
Speaker 1: about like dating man with money of course, and security
Speaker 1: got a problem. So how how do you ask a
Speaker 1: man for money? And when do you think it's appropriate
Speaker 1: to do that or is it ever appropriate. I think
Speaker 1: that it's appropriate whenever you feel comfortable. I feel like,
Speaker 1: whenever you feel comfortable asking him, you should ask him.
Speaker 1: I think women think too deeply about those type of datings.
Speaker 1: I think either a man gonna say yes or he
Speaker 1: gonna say no. And if he say no, did he
Speaker 1: not the nigga for you? I'm a little like, this
Speaker 1: is how I feel about it, Like right, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: I feel like in my younger days of dating, like
Speaker 1: I would like if I needed something and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I need help on something, if I ask you and
Speaker 1: I know you got it, it shouldn't be a problem,
Speaker 1: especially like if I'm sucking you or we're dating and
Speaker 1: we're you know, we're always in each other's space. If
Speaker 1: I need help, I need the help. Now I view
Speaker 1: it a little bit differently. I like men who ask
Speaker 1: me to tell care of things. So if I'm like, oh, hey,
Speaker 1: I got x y Z going on, I'm not telling
Speaker 1: you this because I'm asking you to take care of it.
Speaker 1: But I noticed I do like men who step and
Speaker 1: be like, oh well, let me take care of this
Speaker 1: for you, Let me do this, let me do x
Speaker 1: y Z. You know. So I feel like the culture
Speaker 1: of because we call him Bedb's big big Ballers. So
Speaker 1: we had a whole bad B campass, like fuck these
Speaker 1: niggas with mommy, you gotta get it, you gotta get
Speaker 1: a gett getty. They really mad now. But I feel
Speaker 1: like the girls did take it too far because now
Speaker 1: they're getting to the point is it's first day and
Speaker 1: you're asking for rim, swift and limits. The tweets that
Speaker 1: went Bible today, a girl says she went to the
Speaker 1: casino with a guy. They were gambling whatever, having fun.
Speaker 1: I guess he won like twelve hundred dollars and she
Speaker 1: was just like, you know, tagging along, and she was like,
Speaker 1: he only gave me two hundred dollars. He should have
Speaker 1: split it with me, Like what you're gambling with much.
Speaker 1: I'm like sometimes I'll be like, but I moderation because
Speaker 1: I'm setting cinematic expectation. I do think that you have
Speaker 1: some men who absolutely on like the first day, second day,
Speaker 1: it'd be like that, like that you willing to throw
Speaker 1: you some brid rids. But with the average guy, that's
Speaker 1: not happening on and that type of guy he gonna
Speaker 1: do it. You're not gonna have to ask right. I'm
Speaker 1: used to a man just knowing what the situation is
Speaker 1: and just go ahead and handling that without even me
Speaker 1: happened to And then when it comes to the point
Speaker 1: where I feel like I need to ask, I'm gonna ask, right,
Speaker 1: And guy, you don't like what if it's a guy
Speaker 1: you don't even like, you know, you're not gonna deal
Speaker 1: taking it In my younger days, I'm not gonna shouldn't.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I've definitely taken things some guys I didn't like.
Speaker 1: Listen that you took a whole carn't I really needed
Speaker 1: it and he offered it. I'm like, I'm gonna pay
Speaker 1: you back. Girl, No, let me give you I ain't. No,
Speaker 1: don't tell me like no you good, don't because I
Speaker 1: don't want to know. Can I get my time? I
Speaker 1: don't like you because I tell you off, Like have
Speaker 1: you paid somebody bag? Yes? Really by girl and the
Speaker 1: girl I gave it back and stuff, but still like
Speaker 1: I just I don't know, it's just me. So the
Speaker 1: start of your question was how do you ask? And
Speaker 1: I want y'all to answer that because I definitely have
Speaker 1: an answered. I get asked that a lot, like a
Speaker 1: lot of not even just um a few friends, but
Speaker 1: like strangers in the d M or hear us talking
Speaker 1: about stuff like this, and they'll be like, girl, you
Speaker 1: know how do I ask? So I want you guys
Speaker 1: to answer that. I just straight up asked shot to
Speaker 1: ask for what I want from somebody, like if I
Speaker 1: need something or I want something, I'm just ask Like.
Speaker 1: I'm like, but now you're gonna need to do that though, right, No,
Speaker 1: so do you still do it? Yeah? If I want
Speaker 1: on a higher scale, that's for sure. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: lie like, um, I just asked for a personal ask. Ye,
Speaker 1: Like I went to the all, I still ask yo,
Speaker 1: I got like what what? I got A bunch of
Speaker 1: nail bag? I want my Louis bag I got. I
Speaker 1: was like, I want to go shopping. But I was like,
Speaker 1: it's like, hey, I've seen this new person that I wanted. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I like so for me, And I told them when
Speaker 1: I do answer the question normally to my home girls,
Speaker 1: I don't really respond to stranger than the DM because
Speaker 1: I used to and then they think that they could
Speaker 1: talk to you forever and then yeah, so that's why
Speaker 1: I'd be ignoring y'all. But anyway, um, I always say
Speaker 1: ask it with confidence. Don't be like do you think
Speaker 1: you could possibly make I need you to? Baby? You
Speaker 1: think you can't know? No, I need you to. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's how you say it, I need, I want, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna need you to, not do you think or maybe
Speaker 1: can you like it's you got to use the word confidence.
Speaker 1: But it's I speak that way like hello with somebody
Speaker 1: that I'm if it's a guy, like hey, what's up baby?
Speaker 1: Can I take you to dinner? Oh? Well, can you
Speaker 1: pay my rent? Because I see maybe yeah, I'm telling
Speaker 1: you the girl. Yeah. It's a difference between there's a
Speaker 1: guys now it is and this is what I want
Speaker 1: to say. Yes, we are living in the world where
Speaker 1: now it's like you gotta be doing this that that
Speaker 1: for me, for you to even fuck me, for you
Speaker 1: to even deal with me, for you to even get
Speaker 1: a chance to get to know me. Right, But there's
Speaker 1: men out here that that's what they like, Like, that's
Speaker 1: what that's going to come back first, Right, they're gonna offer,
Speaker 1: They're gonna offer first. But it's a difference between dated guys.
Speaker 1: So I didn't even have that a right, right, but
Speaker 1: anything there's a difference beween a man like he's okay
Speaker 1: with being a provider and he wants you to, like,
Speaker 1: you know, sit back and you begging. Yeah, because there's
Speaker 1: no reason if you ask the guy for some money
Speaker 1: one time and he don't come through, just stop asking.
Speaker 1: He's not gonna come through. He knows what respond and
Speaker 1: stop texting, stop looking up. I promise you. I've never
Speaker 1: had a guy just well you okay, because I was
Speaker 1: trying to think. But I've never asked nobody for money.
Speaker 1: I didn't always but I didn't always have money. Oh
Speaker 1: you're saying, yeah, like I will ever ever asked anybody
Speaker 1: for money in my life, like even when you needed it,
Speaker 1: even when I needed it, I've never asked anybody. Yeah.
Speaker 1: She was like, yeah, I was just figuring it out
Speaker 1: because I never felt comfortable doing that. And I tell
Speaker 1: you that guys who I don't like even mess with,
Speaker 1: do stuff for me and like, you know, try to
Speaker 1: give me things. But I also never felt comfortable taking
Speaker 1: things in somebody I didn't like. Right, Yeah, if I
Speaker 1: knew I'm not gonna date you or go out with
Speaker 1: you and don't like you, I don't want to accept
Speaker 1: things from you because I feel like there's an expectation
Speaker 1: that behind Once they started doing stuff for you, they
Speaker 1: think that you like them or they think that's a
Speaker 1: way to get in, right, And I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I've been and I think that's why people love Poor
Speaker 1: Monsters were so like Transparent because during that era, I
Speaker 1: was like watching the old episode and I was like, wow,
Speaker 1: but I'm looking at that person and I needed it.
Speaker 1: Like at one point, it was like dating. That's how
Speaker 1: I was surviving, Like just going on a one off day,
Speaker 1: get a little money here and there. You know, yeah,
Speaker 1: little dinner, you lunch. I'm telling you like that. It
Speaker 1: was you know, I get a little boyfriend and he
Speaker 1: makes sure he paid his bill every month, and you know,
Speaker 1: I'm hitting up my ass asking them for X y z's.
Speaker 1: It was wild. It was a wild time. I did
Speaker 1: what I had to do. But I feel like now
Speaker 1: in the space we're in, we try to preach the
Speaker 1: message of have a man that's gonna provide for you,
Speaker 1: but don't let that be what hinders you because you
Speaker 1: don't want to wake up and you're sixty five still
Speaker 1: trying to ask niggas for money. Right. I never would
Speaker 1: ask niggas that I didn't like for a day. I
Speaker 1: feel like i'd accepted accept me, I like, but they
Speaker 1: offered it. Well, it was like that I asked you
Speaker 1: for money. Oh, he'll know, I'm gonna not talk to really,
Speaker 1: I mean, you were ready, right, And then he was
Speaker 1: like like, I'm gonna keep it real with you. You know,
Speaker 1: I just had a bad situation, lost my job, blah
Speaker 1: blah blah, and for real, I need like two hundred dollars.
Speaker 1: Now I hate two honey. That's in my early twenties.
Speaker 1: I used to like, I had situation where my boyfriend
Speaker 1: was like, we were both in college. I had to
Speaker 1: give him a little money. But that was in my
Speaker 1: early twenties at thirty three, Why you need two hundred dollars? Right,
Speaker 1: like talking, I'm gonna have to agree, right dars. And
Speaker 1: I'm just talking about like of my like tax bracket
Speaker 1: of people that are around me. I don't want to
Speaker 1: surround myself with somebody. And I'm like, because Tom's is hard, right,
Speaker 1: And I'm not shading people because literally we're all we
Speaker 1: could all be one incident away from something you know,
Speaker 1: crazy going on. So that's not what I mean. But
Speaker 1: I feel like if the position I came from when
Speaker 1: I moved to Atlanta. I always say that I came
Speaker 1: to Atlanta with three dollars literally. If I can do
Speaker 1: that and make something out of it and figure it
Speaker 1: out and learn how to budget. So if Poormond stopped
Speaker 1: right now, I'm gonna be good for at least two
Speaker 1: two three years to figure stuff out and make something happen.
Speaker 1: So if you lose your job and that quickly you
Speaker 1: need two hundred dollars, You're just lost. It's not even
Speaker 1: about the money, it's about your mentality. We can't relate.
Speaker 1: I wanted to take you out right, and you liked him,
Speaker 1: and he was not really doing but then he was like,
Speaker 1: leg I'm gonna be for real. You know, financially things
Speaker 1: have been tough, and I do want to take you up,
Speaker 1: but I'm just not in the space to do what
Speaker 1: I would want to do for you. I like to
Speaker 1: go on trips for days. I just don't know if
Speaker 1: I'm I'm not right now in my life that to
Speaker 1: comfort me. Yeah, I could do so much for myself,
Speaker 1: Like why would I deprive even being with somebody who
Speaker 1: can't at least give me the same same Like I
Speaker 1: take myself on trips all the song one too. So
Speaker 1: why would I date somebody where I have to like
Speaker 1: us flight? Why you change the comfort plus like you say, yeah,
Speaker 1: but you don't, I don't do you Guys attract men
Speaker 1: who are in that and this is also yeah, And
Speaker 1: I think that's why a lot of men get mad
Speaker 1: in our comments. Why you you you bitches, y'all be
Speaker 1: wanting all this and x Y I think, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to y'all. I can't remember the
Speaker 1: last time I talked to a guy who didn't have
Speaker 1: I agree. Now its levels. Now I have men that
Speaker 1: were millionaires and not have me and that makes six figures.
Speaker 1: But it's not about how much money they make. It's
Speaker 1: just about like what we can do together? Because I
Speaker 1: don't care how much money you have. How can we
Speaker 1: have fun together? Can we turn up today like regular
Speaker 1: dudes too? When I was younger and I still used
Speaker 1: to be like, can you pay my phone? Tearing you off? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Why not? He's like when I was twenty three, I
Speaker 1: used to definitely be like, at buy me a little
Speaker 1: Michael cores wide at more lenient in my twenties. Um,
Speaker 1: but like I said, now, I feel like the position
Speaker 1: that I'm in and the life that I've literally created
Speaker 1: for myself because I was tired. I didn't want to
Speaker 1: live paycheck to paycheck anymore. I didn't want to have
Speaker 1: to like go out to eat and be like, oh well,
Speaker 1: let me order this and order this, and I can't.
Speaker 1: I want that, but I can't. I was tired of
Speaker 1: living like that. So it's like, I'm not taking steps backwards.
Speaker 1: And that's what it is. It's about for me. I
Speaker 1: don't care how much money you make. It's not even
Speaker 1: about that. It's can I keep my same standard of
Speaker 1: life If I'm dating you, like, I'm not about to
Speaker 1: be eating at STK, then when I'm dating you, now
Speaker 1: I gotta go to Buffalo Wild Hello. And this is
Speaker 1: the conversation we just had. I told Angela and Buffalo
Speaker 1: Wild Wings girl to crickets crickets? Nah, I think, where
Speaker 1: did I just go? I do love pf Chan Is
Speaker 1: that okay? Something? So some things it's okay to do
Speaker 1: for yourself or with the girls, or with the kids
Speaker 1: if you have kids, But when it comes time for
Speaker 1: a date, I'm not going on a date to where
Speaker 1: I'm taking my kids I'm not going on a date
Speaker 1: to where I'm going with my girls. I'm going on
Speaker 1: a date where it's a special occasion, place where that
Speaker 1: I might treat myself right like, but I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: You need to put if you're trying to take me
Speaker 1: on a date, you need to put some thought into it.
Speaker 1: You need to take me somewhere nice. You're trying to
Speaker 1: imprison me or you feel like when you see what
Speaker 1: kind of level of life I live, If you can't
Speaker 1: meet me there or beat me there, then why are
Speaker 1: you even? I don't even don't even track those we
Speaker 1: don't like guy friends like who I never mess but
Speaker 1: or whatever, but when they had like high financial times,
Speaker 1: I would be like, oh, let's go get it, like
Speaker 1: I would pay for it and you but that she
Speaker 1: feed me, but we love it. And because friends who
Speaker 1: are guys that I'm good friends with and they would
Speaker 1: have a rough time but now they're doing really well
Speaker 1: and they always be like I just remember how like
Speaker 1: whenever you know, you never made me feel crazy and
Speaker 1: I would come meet up with tune. You will always
Speaker 1: pay for everything. Would you date a guy though that
Speaker 1: you had to pay for everything? Everything though? But I
Speaker 1: don't mind if he doesn't have it like that. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know, one of my friends told me, she was like,
Speaker 1: I can't wait till I have money so I could
Speaker 1: date who I want to date. We talk about that
Speaker 1: a lot too, because I'm not gonna being changed though
Speaker 1: once she's riding, because he's more like dahm, Like I
Speaker 1: really fuck with these niggas, Like I really like him
Speaker 1: for real, Like not to say that I didn't used
Speaker 1: to like, but I'm thinking that I really date niggas
Speaker 1: that I liked right right, you know, like Okay, lets
Speaker 1: his drive is there, and he's trying, and he's working
Speaker 1: hard and he's on that path, but he's not there yet.
Speaker 1: He's not there yet, but you see the potential, you
Speaker 1: see the drive. You see he's trying. He don't got
Speaker 1: ten kids, he's you know, he's I would do it
Speaker 1: sometimes and I'm not where you guys are at, but
Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying, Like I would still even
Speaker 1: where I'm at now if it's somebody that I see,
Speaker 1: like you know, because things happen, right, but you're ever
Speaker 1: having some kind of emotion though, because man out here
Speaker 1: and but they saw your driving, they saw your potential
Speaker 1: they saw you doing. You know what I'm saying, really
Speaker 1: trying to get Now, if you ain't trying and you broken,
Speaker 1: you just broke and you just because you ain't doing
Speaker 1: nothing right, I get that, but you know, but there's
Speaker 1: a big how how good is your plan? Though? Because
Speaker 1: I feel like once with me, and like I think
Speaker 1: sometimes once we all get an age don't matter. Sometimes
Speaker 1: sometimes when you get to a certain age, it's like
Speaker 1: if you're still trying to be a rapper, yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't really know, like trying, yeah, but I mean yeah,
Speaker 1: but like I go back to your cookie. Sometimes people
Speaker 1: sometimes people do have potential, but you already have to
Speaker 1: have motion. Motion, Like if you are making six figures,
Speaker 1: whether it be like a hundred thousand and four hundred thousand,
Speaker 1: eight hundred thousand, but you have potential to be a millionaire.
Speaker 1: And I see it because you already have motion. I'm
Speaker 1: not in the space of having potential and you just
Speaker 1: like you don't want to work. You're just sitting in
Speaker 1: front of making beats all that, and you have dollar
Speaker 1: that's not that's not the potential I'm talking about. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're doing that, but you still got a job over here.
Speaker 1: Where you're making that still music for an example. So
Speaker 1: like you said, he got scammed out of all that
Speaker 1: money like thoteen millions? You say both the y he did, Yes,
Speaker 1: what happened? He had a management of me, not a
Speaker 1: manager a financial team. That why A A large reason why.
Speaker 1: I like, what if somebody push their all into a business,
Speaker 1: right that they're trying to do and they have have money,
Speaker 1: but then, you know, because I know having businesses like
Speaker 1: theyn't gotta have multiple steams to income. Having a business
Speaker 1: could drain you. Yeah, if you don't have other things
Speaker 1: going on, and that's what you put everything into and
Speaker 1: then it doesn't work out. And sometimes that is tough
Speaker 1: for somebody. So right, and like I said something else, right,
Speaker 1: but I feel like people like that they always know
Speaker 1: how to make a movie and they figure it out exactly,
Speaker 1: but they might be on down bad when they meet you, right,
Speaker 1: but they and they also not gonna ask you for
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars, you know, like you know, getting back
Speaker 1: to it, I like, yo, could you call it uber?
Speaker 1: I'm kidding, I'm kidding, I said, I'm not a guy. Guy.
Speaker 1: I was cooling talking to this girl and he was
Speaker 1: like she asked me to call it uber and sleep
Speaker 1: seen dollars, and I was like, that's crazy because not
Speaker 1: having fifteen dollars as wild. But maybe I didn't call
Speaker 1: it for right, Like why she even had to call
Speaker 1: it on with you? He wasn't dating her. It was
Speaker 1: just somebody that she was like, oh me, like, I
Speaker 1: don't look tis hard in his mind they went dated,
Speaker 1: but in hum mind, when you're right, he probably was
Speaker 1: one you trying to impress you like that was just
Speaker 1: a girl. It'll be like I put out, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: call my ouber, but if you don't tell me nave
Speaker 1: I got you, I don't like. And then if I
Speaker 1: didn't say me a regular yeah black, you know i'd
Speaker 1: be calling whatever uber. I'm saying record, you ain't gonna
Speaker 1: gonna black. It's different like for like you know, my
Speaker 1: friends whatever we but I'm like, well, I can't even
Speaker 1: say that because we always take Uber black when we
Speaker 1: go FLA. So for me, it's regional. Yeah, travel a lot,
Speaker 1: right If in New York, you're either gonna get like
Speaker 1: the camera like you know, taxi card regular, or you
Speaker 1: might around and get a tesla or a bin or
Speaker 1: even a black card regular in places like Philly and
Speaker 1: like stuff like that. I have to call Luck's or
Speaker 1: a black card because if not, Somebody's two thousand two
Speaker 1: Dusty Atlanta like that too in Atlanta. In Philly, I
Speaker 1: have to upgrade my car. You have now in La,
Speaker 1: you don't get a Tesla. You won't get a bed
Speaker 1: on what you're gonna get. Somebody tell me I have
Speaker 1: to step up my uber game because I just be
Speaker 1: calling whatever. It's also depend on where you go. You
Speaker 1: smelling like smoke because they just put their weed. Like
Speaker 1: the last time I got in the uber with somebody
Speaker 1: who works for me and apparently somebody must appeed on us.
Speaker 1: She got in there and it was wet and ten
Speaker 1: hand the cord exactly. Somebody I was actually to come
Speaker 1: film and I got in mind your smelling good get
Speaker 1: in a car and I don't know. The man was
Speaker 1: eating some Indian food and you could just smell. I
Speaker 1: got a that guy. I was like, put the windows
Speaker 1: down and it smells so bad, but I'm so late.
Speaker 1: Spot right, you can't call another one smells like nothing
Speaker 1: but spicy. I do too, but I didn't want to
Speaker 1: smell like and he's like the fan I'm like, yo, bro,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, the regular ubers be crazy. Like I
Speaker 1: had called one one time and he's right around the
Speaker 1: corner from my house and I'm like in a rush,
Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, where are you at? He was like, old,
Speaker 1: my bad, I'll stop that cookout. I bro, bring your ass.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, That's why I stopped. And I know
Speaker 1: we have to wrap out, but I want to ask you.
Speaker 1: I see you guys are both doing some type of acting.
Speaker 1: We are definitely trying to tap into that. Yes we are.
Speaker 1: We have a little project that we're trying to you know,
Speaker 1: pull together. We don't want to talk too much about it,
Speaker 1: but that's the space we definitely want to be in.
Speaker 1: And then just um like hosting things as well, like
Speaker 1: we want to eventually host award shows and fun things
Speaker 1: like that. So we're just really trying to expand our
Speaker 1: brand because I feel like Poor Minds has become beyond
Speaker 1: a podcast, like we call it a talk show now,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, because it's like it gives
Speaker 1: like late night talk show vibes, you know. So it's
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff that we're working on, but definitely
Speaker 1: the acting field is something that we want to try
Speaker 1: to take over a little one too. You know, we
Speaker 1: did we did what do we Do Kill Say show? Yeah,
Speaker 1: we did have he Got a show called Churchy So
Speaker 1: that was like our little acting debut. We only had
Speaker 1: like two lines, but that area then want I forgot,
Speaker 1: I had three words. I forgot my damn. But yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a lot of stuff that we're trying to tap into.
Speaker 1: But um, I think our focus right now is just
Speaker 1: taking Poor Minds to the next level. We have for
Speaker 1: Richard for Poor two, our tour that we're on starting
Speaker 1: in June July, and we're still adding dates on that.
Speaker 1: We got the Roots Picnic coming upside service. Yeah, Birthday weekend,
Speaker 1: so we turned it all the way up. Yes, we're
Speaker 1: gonna do a big in Philly can and then like
Speaker 1: y'all got to come to a Poor Mine show very
Speaker 1: supera so y'all gotta like we gotta definitely, yeah, you
Speaker 1: gotta be because we'll be outside having the ball for Share.
Speaker 1: But yeah, we have a lot of stuff you know,
Speaker 1: we're working on. We have, um, we're trying different things,
Speaker 1: like we have a karaoke show that we're doing with music.
Speaker 1: It's just on the first one. This week music souldild.
Speaker 1: So it's just like the possibilities are just endless whenever
Speaker 1: you're like a true creator. And I think that's why
Speaker 1: we have just really been successful because we really try
Speaker 1: to create. It's not about being popular. I'm making a
Speaker 1: quick dim like, we don't mind taking the long road,
Speaker 1: you know, because we really just want to create fun,
Speaker 1: exciting content for people. So and I have a cosmitic
Speaker 1: busy too. Oh that's how you have here, period beauty
Speaker 1: collection dot com. You know, shameless pun again okay, but honestly,
Speaker 1: thank you all for coming to I'm glad we finally
Speaker 1: made it half Yeah, this us and we're gonna come on.
Speaker 1: We want to do something with you guys too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: y'all have to come. That's why I said, I didn't
Speaker 1: know you live in Atlanta, So you know, Angela, next
Speaker 1: time you come to Atlanta. Look, we're gonna because we look,
Speaker 1: we have a new studio set, so when you get
Speaker 1: in there anytime, we please, so let us know, y'all,
Speaker 1: we're gonna definitely do a Poor Mind's Lip Service everisode
Speaker 1: because this was this was fun. Yeah, we had a
Speaker 1: good time, and next time we're gonna do all kinds
Speaker 1: of shots and really get it back. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: we used to be so wasted that you say, show
Speaker 1: y'all gotta come to our Houston show. All right, let's
Speaker 1: let's figure that's cowarded on the tour that you got
Speaker 1: coming up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we gotta gotta coming up,
Speaker 1: and we gotta we gotta filly date too. I saw
Speaker 1: us my mom's birthday. I told twenty eighth maybe I'll
Speaker 1: maybe y'all fly maybe I'll fly out for that. You're
Speaker 1: a little yeah, I read with forre Minds Lift Service.
Speaker 1: Thank y'all. So, mister Mashaw