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Speaker 1: Watch up. It's Angela Yee, It's Lift Service and I'm

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Speaker 1: Gigi Maguire, I'm Laura Maura and we have a special

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Speaker 1: collab episode today Point of Mind. Yeah, hi y'all. I'm

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Speaker 1: just so excited to be here, Like when I tell you,

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Speaker 1: I used to be watching Lift Service all the time,

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Speaker 1: so like actually being here with you, like just thank

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Speaker 1: you for having a song, like, well, let's be Andrea

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Speaker 1: and Nicole. Thank y'all for joining us. Yes, I know

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Speaker 1: we've been trying to like work it out timing live

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Speaker 1: with you ladies for quite some time, so we can

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Speaker 1: have some fun, yes, because we don't really come to

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Speaker 1: New York a lot. No, we don't. Like the last

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Speaker 1: time we came, we had our live show out here

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Speaker 1: and we haven't been back since. And I was what

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Speaker 1: in July, Yeah, that summer time. Yeah, that was in

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Speaker 1: summer time with July. So we was like, yeah, we

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Speaker 1: definitely need to make sure we collab with you. So,

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Speaker 1: so I want to talk about this right because we've

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Speaker 1: watched you guys just basically be able to get to

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Speaker 1: a point where you're able to do really well pie casting,

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Speaker 1: and that's something a lot of people are striving to ur.

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Speaker 1: You know, we had these conversations like how you got started,

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Speaker 1: But then now it's like quit your job and make

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Speaker 1: I could tell look at y'all, just briefly tell us

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Speaker 1: the story of how poor minds got out of You

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Speaker 1: guys are friends in real life and sometimes that's hard too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but absolutely, but just tell us how you guys got started,

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Speaker 1: because I know people are listening and thinking about their

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Speaker 1: own positions. Not absolutely, she did say that right, talking

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Speaker 1: about always like we really be like an open book

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Speaker 1: with our at least is about our friendship and like

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Speaker 1: Tom that we weren't getting along and everything. I mean

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Speaker 1: it is. It really is hard to have a business

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Speaker 1: with your friends. So I moved to Atlanta in twenty

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Speaker 1: sixteen from Houston, and I was there for a year.

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Speaker 1: I moved with another girl. We were roommates. E didn't

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Speaker 1: end up working out. We broke our leaves, and then

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Speaker 1: me and Lake would still talk every day, but we

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Speaker 1: had made it. In twenty fifteen, we were working at

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Speaker 1: this strip club to get the bars in them, and

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Speaker 1: we would just keep in touch, and I was like, girl,

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Speaker 1: you need to move to Atlanta because we both have

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Speaker 1: degrees and mass communications and we both kind of wanted

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Speaker 1: to get into radio and entertainment, but we didn't really

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Speaker 1: know what we wanted to do. So she moved out

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Speaker 1: here and people would just be like, y'all need to

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Speaker 1: have a shower or something because y'all chemistry and y'all

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Speaker 1: dynamic is just so crazy, like y'all need to be

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Speaker 1: on camera. So we had this idea to do wind

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Speaker 1: Down Wednesday, Yeah, which is like a thirty mini show

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Speaker 1: that we started in my house and we would just

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Speaker 1: talk about like hot topic, prety stuff. So then we

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Speaker 1: stopped doing that and we had the ideas to turn

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Speaker 1: into a podcast because Mandy positions like one of her friends. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because we were actually our YouTube channel. We were doing

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Speaker 1: everything on that. We were doing makeup challenges. Yeah, nobody

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Speaker 1: actually starting to watch this, they're looking forward to it,

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Speaker 1: and um, Mandy was like, hey, y'all need to get

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Speaker 1: into podcasting. This is where it's sad if y'all really

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Speaker 1: want to, you know, monetize it. Properly. So we linked

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Speaker 1: up with DJ Scream in Atlanta. We changed the name.

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Speaker 1: He was like wandow on Wednesday, it's too generic. Come

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Speaker 1: up with something else. We came up with poor Minds

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Speaker 1: it's just like we just I don't want to say

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Speaker 1: we lucked up because we worked very hard. And the

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Speaker 1: thing about it is we were so consistent, like we

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Speaker 1: were dropping every week when nobody was watching. We Sometimes

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Speaker 1: people feel like they'll start something and immediately it should

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Speaker 1: of just being consistent because even with service, like we're

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Speaker 1: eight years in and people be like, oh, I see

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Speaker 1: I was like Angela left the breakfast club to do this.

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Speaker 1: we didn't. Yeah, we didn't know what it was. When

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Speaker 1: we start a part, we were like what is that?

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Speaker 1: We weren't making no money until we got with eighty five,

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Speaker 1: making money. But I remember we got our first aid trick.

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Speaker 1: was for ninety seven dollars and you couldnot listen. SR

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Speaker 1: y'all busted it down the middle. The CID life is good. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I know that you guys have said this before, but

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Speaker 1: you know, as far as sharing parts of your life, right,

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Speaker 1: at a certain point, you're like, you know what, I

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Speaker 1: don't have to share everything because that's also a conversation.

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Speaker 1: People think that on social media or on a podcast,

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Speaker 1: has just come with age and mature because when we

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Speaker 1: just very much like I don't need people to know

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Speaker 1: everything about me. But when I look back on some

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Speaker 1: of the older episodes, i'd been cringing sometimes used to yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's for me. I would overshare but I

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Speaker 1: would get like really drunk, like me and me would

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Speaker 1: be like black out drunk, don't remember how he got home? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: say I feel like for me personally, um, I still

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Speaker 1: be talked about on Poor Minds. I have a hundred

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Speaker 1: Did you ever get like, did anybody ever get mad

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Speaker 1: But I definitely had a situation where I went on

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Speaker 1: somebody else's show and I was like, and it was

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Speaker 1: every episode they on it, they subscribed and everything. Now,

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Speaker 1: so recently you did a detox, right, yes, Okay, so

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Speaker 1: legs like, we gotta get it back wet, we need

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Speaker 1: to we need to go together. It was good. I

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Speaker 1: one I like and it worked out for you so good?

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Speaker 1: Different it weren't out. I lost six skin glowing? How

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Speaker 1: me not to have sex. Yeah, I was fasten from

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Speaker 1: six you did, That's why you wasn't really fast? Did

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Speaker 1: you manage the bad? Definitely? Saying that when the toxins

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Speaker 1: you know, I ain't gonna be to know that you're

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Speaker 1: not supposed to have that six. And this was the

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Speaker 1: first time that I actually like didn't have six while

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Speaker 1: I was the toxic. Okay, y'all. Do you think because

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Speaker 1: sometimes people say you can focus better when you're not

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Speaker 1: me and they gonna play mind game. I was like

426
00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:55,159
Speaker 1: you and then tell you you crazy. He's like, you

427
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:57,560
Speaker 1: need to go to therapy because you have like literally

428
00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,119
Speaker 1: and I still damn should I go to therapy? Like

429
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 1: he don't want us to go to the fact yeah,

430
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:08,359
Speaker 1: because if we would believe something, we would believe like you,

431
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,320
Speaker 1: we know you lying, But we're like, all right, well

432
00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 1: I didn't catch him and see him. That's long as

433
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:18,159
Speaker 1: I ain't walk in on that, I ain't see it,

434
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:20,359
Speaker 1: I don't happen. I'm gonna just walk away though, because

435
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:22,840
Speaker 1: I think it's happening, so before I walk into it.

436
00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:26,040
Speaker 1: But not that was some crazy shit. I was like, wait,

437
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 1: you just had wait what? But the good thing is

438
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,400
Speaker 1: hindsight is twenty twenty, so it's like once you get

439
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,520
Speaker 1: and that's like where I'm at with my situation. I'm like,

440
00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 1: I'm looking back at my girl. You knew better, you

441
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 1: knew better. But I can honestly sit here and say

442
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:42,160
Speaker 1: I have not been innocent either, Like I have done

443
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,119
Speaker 1: my dirt to him, you know what I'm saying. So

444
00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,440
Speaker 1: it wasn't just like oh, all him, he did bad

445
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,200
Speaker 1: and this and that, because it would be times like

446
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:49,720
Speaker 1: he pissed me off and I would just be like,

447
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:51,720
Speaker 1: all right, you pop up and I'm in combo. You

448
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 1: know what I'm say. That's how I used to be. Yeah,

449
00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:58,760
Speaker 1: So honestly, I'm not gonna lie. I felt like the

450
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:00,600
Speaker 1: past year that we were dealing with each other. He

451
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:02,640
Speaker 1: was like on his get back shit with me, right,

452
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:05,639
Speaker 1: He was like out for revenge, and I'm at this

453
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 1: point I'm like, okay, you know, I put up the

454
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 1: white flag. I thought we was right here, you know.

455
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 1: And he was like, no, a bitch, like come back,

456
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 1: wishaw as well when y'all break up for me. It's

457
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:22,440
Speaker 1: a case back case scenario. Yeah. I'm not one of

458
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 1: the hold grudges though, Like I won't forget, but I'll

459
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 1: forgive and move on. So I think, as long as

460
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 1: you're happy in your situation, yeah, do that. But I

461
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:33,680
Speaker 1: don't know if I necessarily wish them well, I just

462
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,920
Speaker 1: don't wish them back, right right, you just don't care. Yeah,

463
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:39,960
Speaker 1: And I used to be knowing stuff like, um, this

464
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,600
Speaker 1: one guy I knew his girlfriend was cheating on him,

465
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 1: that like the new girl, but I didn't say anything.

466
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 1: I just like, it's not I'm not my business. And

467
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,199
Speaker 1: also coming from me, like you know what he had

468
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:53,159
Speaker 1: wanted to, he probably would have been like he have

469
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:56,639
Speaker 1: told you exactly right, but want to hear him when

470
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:58,879
Speaker 1: to hear it right, because it'll make it seem like

471
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:02,400
Speaker 1: I'm you know, But I just was like that's why

472
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:05,119
Speaker 1: you don't even know. I have a good time, have

473
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,440
Speaker 1: a good life, and you really wished him well because

474
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 1: I feel like you were not meant for me, Like, yeah,

475
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 1: it wasn't because of you. It wasn't because you're being removed.

476
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 1: I feel like God removes people like right, that's all good,

477
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 1: And I don't like likely every person is not like

478
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,640
Speaker 1: everybody feels like, oh you fumbled me. Sometimes people really

479
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 1: didn't fumble you. Y'all aren't meant to me. That's not

480
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,959
Speaker 1: the person. People are a reason in the season. Yes,

481
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 1: your time has come and gone. I learned the lesson

482
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 1: that I was supposed to learn from them with you

483
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,159
Speaker 1: and let me go. Piece. Now do you think that

484
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:39,479
Speaker 1: you could train a man in the bedroom now at

485
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 1: this age? No, No, I don't got time. I need

486
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 1: you to come here ready to go because I get

487
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 1: aggravated and I don't know if I want to. I

488
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:54,159
Speaker 1: tried for two years and I couldn't. Ye, he was

489
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 1: a really function good man. Like if it was, he

490
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 1: was a good person. I just issues too, But like

491
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 1: the dealbreaker, it was just like Okay, I gotta deal

492
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:10,160
Speaker 1: with this and that supposed to it's good, says when

493
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: I started like feeling like, okay, I need something, like

494
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 1: other people started give me feel like I need to

495
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 1: go somewhere else. I was like, you know what, I

496
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 1: gotta let it go. I'm sorry cheat on you, Like,

497
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 1: I don't even want to do this. I don't want

498
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,680
Speaker 1: to lie. Right. But there's some guy because that's also

499
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: a case by case thing, right, because I feel like

500
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:30,159
Speaker 1: there's certain things that we like that other women may

501
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:33,399
Speaker 1: not like. So it is a little bit of a

502
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 1: training period. Well yeah, because I feel like if a

503
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 1: man knows what he's doing in bed already and I

504
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:40,440
Speaker 1: just couldn't tell him a little one to what he

505
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,680
Speaker 1: already know, you know. But versus HA to like really

506
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,360
Speaker 1: teach somebody like they have no idea what they're doing

507
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 1: at all. That's completely different between guiding and then yeah,

508
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,440
Speaker 1: you know, yes, if you just suck, I don't know

509
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 1: if I can teach. I can't teach you how to

510
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 1: stroll to how to get that spot. Some men just

511
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 1: got like they know woman's body. Right. There's this one

512
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 1: guy that I knew him and he was trying to

513
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 1: get with me when I was younger. I was like

514
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 1: twenty one years old, um, and he tried. He tried,

515
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 1: and know he was like, listen, if I can't have you,

516
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:16,360
Speaker 1: let me introduce you to my boy like somebody like yeah,

517
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 1: Like he was just like he meant it like like

518
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 1: if you don't like me, like you such a like,

519
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: let me introduce you to my boy, you know, not

520
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 1: like that. But but um, we kind of like linked

521
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:37,400
Speaker 1: up like twenty years later and it wasn't worth it. No, man,

522
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 1: that's the best sex if And he was like, yeah,

523
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 1: if you would have known this back then, I was like,

524
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 1: I mean I wasn't even thinking, but it's just like

525
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 1: he knew my body, like he knew what to do,

526
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,720
Speaker 1: he knew how to do it like he was he

527
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:56,960
Speaker 1: was I've been waiting for this moment twenty years. They

528
00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: are crazy. They do not that way. I gonna talk

529
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 1: too much, but it was great, but I had to

530
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 1: I had to stop it because of other things. But man,

531
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 1: that would have had me digmatized. Yeah, would you go

532
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:17,400
Speaker 1: back now if you had a chance, because I feel like, well,

533
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: he in a situation that I can't do that, Okay, OK,

534
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 1: but if you're being respectful I noticed, yeah, but if

535
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 1: he wasn't, you would Yeah, we could do that same

536
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:33,160
Speaker 1: until I you know, but yes it was oh man,

537
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 1: But since we're talking about training a man, right, what

538
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 1: are some things that you like in the bedroom that

539
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: might be like out of the ordinary, Like Okay, I

540
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,199
Speaker 1: have to tell guys I like this because they may

541
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 1: not know. So why do you think I'm gonna say it?

542
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 1: I like it them in my butt. I like that.

543
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:52,399
Speaker 1: I like that. Um, I like it when when men talk.

544
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 1: But it's got to be like a certain type of talk,

545
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 1: like because sometimes it can get corny. It can get corny, right,

546
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:01,399
Speaker 1: you have to say the right things. I don't know,

547
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 1: I look because don't ask me what he because I

548
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:10,680
Speaker 1: know you like since we're talking corny, but yeah, because yeah,

549
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,159
Speaker 1: like when a man is like moaning, like I like

550
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 1: a moan, but don't be like doing two to yeah,

551
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 1: like don't be screen movie. Yeah, like we shouldn't be

552
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: moaning the same to you. I've had I told you.

553
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 1: Then he was like what you say? He sounded like parsing. Yeah,

554
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 1: was literally screaming as that used to scream my name

555
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 1: when he came. He used to scream, I like scream

556
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 1: real name, no gigi. He was the screen that Like

557
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 1: what did you at that moment. What was like. I

558
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 1: mean the first time he did it, I was just

559
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: like okay, but then he would do it every single time,

560
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 1: so at that when I just got used to it.

561
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 1: But every single time he came, he was, Oh my god,

562
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: I had a guy like that, Like he was screaming

563
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: and was just like relax. And then if you went

564
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 1: to hotel, you'd be like, who is next door? I

565
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 1: don't neig just be like screaming on like scream And

566
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 1: then at that point I was just having sex with

567
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 1: him because I was in college, I was born, he

568
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: was there, and I'm like, I know this mad ass

569
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 1: coochie I'm giving you is not I don't even like

570
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 1: you bro a little speed where the mast man like

571
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 1: I like poor Nigga put on like like I like

572
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 1: a little tap, you know, I like to be I

573
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 1: feel a little child like anybody spitting in my mouth.

574
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 1: I love they got anybody out, but gotta be dribble,

575
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: the gotta be the right yeah, and they can't be

576
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 1: the yeah yeah. I gotta like drip down somebody that

577
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 1: I guy just spit in his mouth and I couldn't

578
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: do it either, really my mouth drop spitting. I'm that's

579
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 1: the only time spiting I'm swallow. But when you asked

580
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 1: me to spit your mom daddy, I'm gonna do it.

581
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, okay. But if guy, if he comes

582
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 1: in your mouth, can you kiss him right after? Yeah?

583
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 1: I think that's okay. I mean it's no, that's not

584
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 1: freaking what if he asked you to? Um, I would

585
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 1: do it, and I would probably never talk to me

586
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 1: because I want to take. But at the same time,

587
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 1: I like when a guy goes down on me and

588
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 1: kisses me after Ian I want to pick it off

589
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 1: the face. Damn my ship. Yeah. These showers, no, that's you.

590
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 1: Would you get one? Absolutely, I would do one. I've

591
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 1: never been asked that, but I would do it. The showers,

592
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 1: I'm not. Ain't nobody peeling on me, but I'll do it. Yeah,

593
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 1: nobody peeing on me? Yea, not even in the shower.

594
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 1: I think that's the only place I would do it.

595
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 1: I don't think that the pet it's like the beating

596
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 1: the perpees, like like if you want to get Peaceton,

597
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 1: you want to get peace Stone, I'm going to see it. All.

598
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 1: That's that's the type of stuff that you're doing. The

599
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 1: hotel Red Eye all right. Now, let's say it's his birthday.

600
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 1: I got it into your dating and you want to

601
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 1: do something for him that you've never done for him before.

602
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 1: What could that be? In the bedroom? Play with that booty?

603
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 1: H let me drink some water? Period? What if I

604
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 1: have you ever set the guy's toes? That's not a

605
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 1: toe sucker? I need it like wisely, that's too. That's

606
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 1: my name? Did you like my name? It was a

607
00:31:55,200 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 1: big black juicy toe too. But it wasn't a black

608
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 1: tall nail. No, it wasn't a black Okay, yeah, but

609
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 1: the way I sucked, I even just suck it like

610
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: I need like no, I was riding bick from the

611
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 1: bag and then I was like, yeah, let me get

612
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 1: real freaking yeah yeah. He was like rolling his eyes,

613
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: rolling big. That's feel like. I think it feels good,

614
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 1: but I've never done it and I've done everything list

615
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 1: she said. That's where I draw the line. Not necessarily.

616
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 1: I mean, if the right guy asked or told me

617
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 1: that that's what he liked, and I wanted to please

618
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 1: him in that way, then that's a good way to

619
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 1: do it. I'm that way. Um, I really like to

620
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 1: do it, like I don't like to say I'm never

621
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:57,600
Speaker 1: going to do anything because you know the time has

622
00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 1: passed when I've said that, and then I double back

623
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 1: and actually, did you like it? Oh? Yeah, yeah, No,

624
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: I'm a sage, fee, I'm a sage. But something. Look

625
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 1: my the God dated for two years, he played sports

626
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: for ten plus years. You know, I'm seeing a man's

627
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 1: feet that never like feet nice, but yeah, I need

628
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 1: I need a man to have a really nice foot.

629
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 1: I don't think I yeah, he don't got nice, but

630
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 1: they don't bother me with some ugly fee. I can't

631
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 1: do what I mean. Yeah, I mean some things you

632
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 1: can't help like you you know, but it's how you

633
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 1: take care of it. Yeah, no, He's like you got

634
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 1: to care of yourself. And in a way that it's like, okay,

635
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 1: I know God did that to you, but but you

636
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 1: holding it as well, like a black toneil or something

637
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 1: that you just got crusted everywhere. You might have a

638
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: little hammer toe. It's finally you know what I'm saying.

639
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 1: Just make it, make sure you can and get back.

640
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 1: Don't take care of take care of what God gave you. Now.

641
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,359
Speaker 1: But about multitasking, because sometimes in the bedroom it's hard,

642
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: like you be wanting to do a lot of different

643
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 1: things at one time, like are you good at um?

644
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:16,360
Speaker 1: Let's just say you're writing like you said, and you

645
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 1: started sucking a toe. Can you also like it up

646
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,319
Speaker 1: there and start rubbing his balls like you know how

647
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:24,320
Speaker 1: sometimes you do MOLTI sucking on his nipple and stuff

648
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 1: like that or something figure in his button, his dick

649
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 1: in your mouth too, tasks at a tom that, um,

650
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 1: I think the most ATHU was like, if I'm getting

651
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 1: a little, that's probably it. I don't like sixty nine.

652
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 1: I hate. I don't say nine I want to. I'm like,

653
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 1: I want to sit there and relax. You like it,

654
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 1: but I like it. I want to be on top

655
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 1: like I want to. That will never make me. I've

656
00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: never had like an orgasm from that. Never. I'm not

657
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 1: gonna know. I'm not gonna come like that, but I'm

658
00:34:56,520 --> 00:35:00,800
Speaker 1: gonna enjoy the life eating. No, i gotta be on

659
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 1: my back, yeah, yeah, my bad. I'm not gonna come

660
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:06,759
Speaker 1: while I'm ry on your face. I'm not gonna come

661
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 1: while sixty on my back. I don't want no pillows

662
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,879
Speaker 1: under my head or nothing. I flat on my back. Brain.

663
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 1: It's like he's hard to focus when you trying to

664
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:24,280
Speaker 1: suck the and that's that's just one of those intro

665
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 1: you know, is that the bird things like you do

666
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: just were a little bit of a time face. Yeah,

667
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 1: it's like a halftime. It's alway you had to be

668
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:36,480
Speaker 1: on top. What if a guy so can he be

669
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 1: on top during the sixty nine? So so I've had

670
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 1: that happ I've had that. I've had that happy And

671
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 1: this is what I don't like. I don't like when

672
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 1: the dick is forced down my throat, like, let me

673
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:48,840
Speaker 1: do it on my own. It's gonna get there, but

674
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 1: let me let me work it down on my own.

675
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 1: So when when the guy it only happened to me

676
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 1: once and he was on top, and I was like,

677
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 1: he was like shoving the dick, and I was like,

678
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 1: all right, that's what I'm comfortable. Yeah, don't don't be

679
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:01,359
Speaker 1: trying to stick it then. And I've been on top,

680
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 1: but once I've come, it's like, okay, let's go. Let's

681
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:07,880
Speaker 1: I'm keep doing it till he come though, right, But

682
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 1: do you like multiple things being done to you at once?

683
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 1: You Yeah, I'm getting Yes. I hate when guys actually

684
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 1: don't do that, like if you're eating my pussy, you

685
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:22,359
Speaker 1: need to finger the same time you don't. You don't

686
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 1: exactly what I was saying earlier when you have to

687
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 1: train it, because they might be like, okay, women like this,

688
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: but you said it's teaching versus got it because if

689
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 1: you're not even eating my pussy right at all, Like

690
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 1: if a guy's eating your pussy good, all you gotta

691
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 1: do is say, put your fingers in a baby, yeah right,

692
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:39,960
Speaker 1: And you know, but if a guy's just eating it

693
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 1: all wrong anyway, you don't even care to someone to

694
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 1: put the fingers in. You're just like all right. And

695
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: I've been experiencing um in my most recent sexcapades that

696
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 1: I've found really enjoyable, like getting tongue fucked like while

697
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 1: he eating my pussy just like yeah, I actually came

698
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 1: like that reason, Wow, that's how hard come to Oh

699
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: it was amazing and it came out of nowhere too,

700
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 1: like it wasn't you don't usually as a building, and

701
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:16,839
Speaker 1: that thing surprised me. I was like, oh you got

702
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 1: and you got suspect like you got really like I'm

703
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 1: like it nice and gentle, like I'm when a guy's

704
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: eating me out, I like it to be like that's

705
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: the only way I'm really gonna come. Yeah, so you

706
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 1: like it to be like kids, So yeah, like a

707
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:38,439
Speaker 1: little kitty, I want the pressure. Yet, tween, I don't

708
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 1: like when they attack the cleared it like that. Yeah,

709
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, y'all too hard. Yeah, yeah, just like they

710
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 1: don't like teeth. You don't like teeth, or like when

711
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 1: they're like eating and then they touching my titties right,

712
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 1: and they're squeezing my titties too hard, as like I am,

713
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: I'm pierced. God, they're very sensitive. Yeah, I like that.

714
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 1: I like it. I told hard, but I never want

715
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 1: to like, I want to feel it. This dude. I

716
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 1: was like, bro, I want my nipples stop and to

717
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: have my nipples peers too, and yeah, like you be

718
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 1: ready for sleeping. They so sensitive, like you gotta be

719
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 1: really gentle. Yeah, and in general, guys, you can't go

720
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,320
Speaker 1: too hard on the nipples. Right. I had a situation

721
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:31,920
Speaker 1: one time, but afterward I got in this shower and

722
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: it burns because they was going I was like this skin.

723
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 1: You know how few times people be thinking like when

724
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 1: you move that you like that you like, No, I'm

725
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 1: trying from it's with women. It's crazy because when a

726
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 1: guy like we're using our teeth, we're doing something wrong,

727
00:38:57,440 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 1: they'll tell us in me will be uncomfortable, but we

728
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 1: don't want to kill the vill so we don't say anything.

729
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 1: We don't want to hurt sex feelings now right, like

730
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 1: I'm going now. But it's crazy because like in my twins,

731
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:12,439
Speaker 1: I used to just be like. One thing I've learned

732
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 1: over the year. One thing I've learned and service definitely

733
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 1: help is me with communicating during sex. We're talking about

734
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:23,879
Speaker 1: that a lot here, and communicate in during sex helps, right,

735
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:25,919
Speaker 1: It helps you, It helps him and help y'all figure

736
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 1: each other out. And I've definitely learned to speak up

737
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:32,400
Speaker 1: more and be more vocal punattended when it comes to

738
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 1: like what I like, what I don't like, and you know,

739
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 1: more of that, less of that. I like to say

740
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:39,719
Speaker 1: that to like shock guys because they don't expect you

741
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 1: to say it, Like I like to just say things.

742
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's out of nowhere and they're like, WHOA, what

743
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 1: the But it's funny. You'll be lying, Are you be

744
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,360
Speaker 1: telling the truth? I'll be telling you, but it'll just

745
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:51,760
Speaker 1: be shocking because it'll just come out of nowhere. Okay,

746
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 1: it comes from left field, like he be like, but

747
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 1: they like it surprisal. What about phone sex? Have you

748
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:05,080
Speaker 1: ever phone sex? I have, Yeah, but like FaceTime. Yeah,

749
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 1: it's got to be facetix. I feel like on like

750
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 1: the regular phone school. Yeah. The first time having phone

751
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:15,239
Speaker 1: sex was that UM series lip service. Really when we

752
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 1: used to do that, Yeah, you know, but then I

753
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:22,320
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I'm going there without a condom.

754
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 1: It's like what next. I did this thing when I

755
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,880
Speaker 1: was on Serious and people could call in and have

756
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 1: phone sex and it would be like celebrities in there,

757
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 1: and the guy was to be having phone sex. Oh

758
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:41,719
Speaker 1: my god. It was so funny that I'm not gonna lie,

759
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 1: like did it got enjoyable just because it was like

760
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 1: a long distance thing, you know, so it's kind of

761
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 1: like a fantasy. But it was like that person I

762
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 1: would do it with, I probably wouldn't do it with

763
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 1: like anybody else, or you know, it's just like, nah,

764
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 1: I feel like at the point I'm at in life

765
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: right now, I can just get on a flight and

766
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:01,120
Speaker 1: see that. Yeah, I'm put it up. Yeah, I'm pulling up.

767
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 1: At this point, it doesn't feels a little funny. Sometimes

768
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 1: like because if he wants to do it and you

769
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:08,320
Speaker 1: don't want to, right, so sometimes you got to be

770
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: like I faithful girl. Six. Sometimes yeah, men seem to

771
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 1: think that, um, we just have a sex switch that

772
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 1: we could turn on like a robot. Seem to think

773
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: that when they are ready, we are automatically ready, and

774
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 1: just like sorry, not right now. I need to be

775
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 1: there with you. And if I'm not there with you,

776
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 1: then it's you know, let me get a chance to

777
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 1: get there or leave me alone. And I don't care

778
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 1: if you're ready are not? They just like when you

779
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:35,160
Speaker 1: get my nuts trying and sometimes like if you don't

780
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: feel like having sex and you still do it, you'd

781
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 1: be having an attitude Oh my gosh, you like hurry

782
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 1: and you know that one mood that's gonna make him nice,

783
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:46,759
Speaker 1: and you're trying and you're trying to get louder because

784
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: you're like this's gonna make it. You start pulling out

785
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 1: all of the really yeah, yes, all right, let me

786
00:41:56,160 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 1: turn around, not us all being actresses. We got yes

787
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,880
Speaker 1: on the show said before, like you know, sometimes they

788
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 1: fake it, like do they sometimes like we want to

789
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:12,960
Speaker 1: have sex and they don't really want to, And I

790
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 1: don't think a man never not want to have sex

791
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 1: like he's done this period. Sometimes if maybe he's like

792
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 1: kind of checked out, if y'allre like in a relationship,

793
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:26,839
Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes they'll be like no, I'm cool,

794
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 1: like I don't want to, or if he's just tired, yeah,

795
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:31,880
Speaker 1: because they get men get tired too. I guess I

796
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 1: think it'd be too tired. He's still gonna want his

797
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 1: dick set. Yeah. You know what. I've had a situation

798
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:40,680
Speaker 1: where like I always say, like, every once in a while,

799
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: like the person I was saying, like we used to

800
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 1: have like a marathon sex. We have like a lot

801
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:46,759
Speaker 1: a lot of sex, like in a day at night,

802
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: like three four days in a row. So sometimes at

803
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:50,400
Speaker 1: the end I will still be like hey, he was

804
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 1: like yeah yeah, like something like that. We were like, hey,

805
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:57,440
Speaker 1: I'm tapped out. I'm like, okay, Well, let's talk about

806
00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 1: some current events. Things that were happening on social media.

807
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 1: Now we know you guys were Indivision's video. Yes, Yeah,

808
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 1: I want to ask you. Yes, said the girl that

809
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 1: was dancing on stage. Yeah, with them and the guy

810
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 1: I don't even know it's a boyfriend, but let's just

811
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:16,280
Speaker 1: say it. Was she had a girlfriend? Is that inappropriate? Okay,

812
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 1: So this is how I feel about it. I feel like,

813
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 1: if you're a girlfriend or whatever somebody you're talking to,

814
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 1: obviously they're just having fun, and I feel like it's

815
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:27,279
Speaker 1: not now. It's different if she's doing the most, like

816
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,799
Speaker 1: if she's grabbing on him and she's being thirsty, trying

817
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 1: to go backstage, trying to exchange numbers, Like it's a

818
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:34,399
Speaker 1: difference between being a fan and having fun and being

819
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 1: a groupie. So I feel like what she did, what's cool?

820
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 1: He called girls up on the stage, she was dancing

821
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 1: with them, all like, come on now, Like, I don't

822
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 1: think it's not like the nineties anymore, where people were

823
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 1: really taking people from the crowd and bringing them to

824
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,400
Speaker 1: the tour bus. Because the way the atmosphere is now,

825
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 1: they take them from the DM now. But it's like

826
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,720
Speaker 1: the white stuff is now, they're just not doing that anymore.

827
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 1: So I feel like it's it's a line. I feel

828
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 1: like he was being a little dramatic. I think so too.

829
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:00,799
Speaker 1: It was a little dramatic. I think he was being

830
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 1: a little bit. Would you do that while you're in

831
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,800
Speaker 1: a relationship, Um, you know what, I don't think I

832
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 1: would do I wasn't doing this because what I do

833
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 1: think that he was being a little d Yeah he

834
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:13,360
Speaker 1: was meaning I wouldn't personally do it, just because I

835
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't do that anyway, if even if I was single,

836
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 1: I want, yeah, yeah, because it's like, you know, it's

837
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: not gonna lead nowhere like me, like if it was

838
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:23,960
Speaker 1: like even if it was like Drake, like me and

839
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 1: Drake are not about to ride off into the sunset

840
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:27,279
Speaker 1: just because like I don't stage and roll them up

841
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:34,840
Speaker 1: like that's not but no, I do feel like it

842
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:37,640
Speaker 1: was a little dramatic. And then in that instance, that

843
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:41,719
Speaker 1: wasn't her man. She said that wasn't her Yeah, I

844
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 1: didn't know that. I thought, this is not my manh yeah,

845
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 1: she said it's not. And then afterwards Daniel from Division

846
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 1: he ended up taking her to like yeah, like they

847
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 1: wouldn't hung out for a little bit. So it ended

848
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: up being really cool forty period. Okay, now let me

849
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 1: ask you something else because I saw you guys talk

850
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 1: about like dating man with money of course, and security

851
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 1: got a problem. So how how do you ask a

852
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,279
Speaker 1: man for money? And when do you think it's appropriate

853
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 1: to do that or is it ever appropriate. I think

854
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: that it's appropriate whenever you feel comfortable. I feel like,

855
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:22,759
Speaker 1: whenever you feel comfortable asking him, you should ask him.

856
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 1: I think women think too deeply about those type of datings.

857
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 1: I think either a man gonna say yes or he

858
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 1: gonna say no. And if he say no, did he

859
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 1: not the nigga for you? I'm a little like, this

860
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 1: is how I feel about it, Like right, yeah, exactly.

861
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 1: I feel like in my younger days of dating, like

862
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:42,800
Speaker 1: I would like if I needed something and I'm like,

863
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 1: I need help on something, if I ask you and

864
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 1: I know you got it, it shouldn't be a problem,

865
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,120
Speaker 1: especially like if I'm sucking you or we're dating and

866
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:52,359
Speaker 1: we're you know, we're always in each other's space. If

867
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 1: I need help, I need the help. Now I view

868
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 1: it a little bit differently. I like men who ask

869
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 1: me to tell care of things. So if I'm like, oh, hey,

870
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:02,799
Speaker 1: I got x y Z going on, I'm not telling

871
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 1: you this because I'm asking you to take care of it.

872
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:06,360
Speaker 1: But I noticed I do like men who step and

873
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 1: be like, oh well, let me take care of this

874
00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 1: for you, Let me do this, let me do x

875
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:13,320
Speaker 1: y Z. You know. So I feel like the culture

876
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 1: of because we call him Bedb's big big Ballers. So

877
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:20,839
Speaker 1: we had a whole bad B campass, like fuck these

878
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: niggas with mommy, you gotta get it, you gotta get

879
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:27,360
Speaker 1: a gett getty. They really mad now. But I feel

880
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:30,640
Speaker 1: like the girls did take it too far because now

881
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 1: they're getting to the point is it's first day and

882
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 1: you're asking for rim, swift and limits. The tweets that

883
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:41,320
Speaker 1: went Bible today, a girl says she went to the

884
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 1: casino with a guy. They were gambling whatever, having fun.

885
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 1: I guess he won like twelve hundred dollars and she

886
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:49,759
Speaker 1: was just like, you know, tagging along, and she was like,

887
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 1: he only gave me two hundred dollars. He should have

888
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:57,839
Speaker 1: split it with me, Like what you're gambling with much.

889
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:06,279
Speaker 1: I'm like sometimes I'll be like, but I moderation because

890
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:10,320
Speaker 1: I'm setting cinematic expectation. I do think that you have

891
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 1: some men who absolutely on like the first day, second day,

892
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 1: it'd be like that, like that you willing to throw

893
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:19,839
Speaker 1: you some brid rids. But with the average guy, that's

894
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: not happening on and that type of guy he gonna

895
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 1: do it. You're not gonna have to ask right. I'm

896
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 1: used to a man just knowing what the situation is

897
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 1: and just go ahead and handling that without even me

898
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:32,439
Speaker 1: happened to And then when it comes to the point

899
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 1: where I feel like I need to ask, I'm gonna ask, right,

900
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: And guy, you don't like what if it's a guy

901
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 1: you don't even like, you know, you're not gonna deal

902
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:44,760
Speaker 1: taking it In my younger days, I'm not gonna shouldn't.

903
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:47,840
Speaker 1: But yeah, I've definitely taken things some guys I didn't like.

904
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,720
Speaker 1: Listen that you took a whole carn't I really needed

905
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:55,359
Speaker 1: it and he offered it. I'm like, I'm gonna pay

906
00:47:55,360 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 1: you back. Girl, No, let me give you I ain't. No,

907
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 1: don't tell me like no you good, don't because I

908
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 1: don't want to know. Can I get my time? I

909
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:11,920
Speaker 1: don't like you because I tell you off, Like have

910
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 1: you paid somebody bag? Yes? Really by girl and the

911
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 1: girl I gave it back and stuff, but still like

912
00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 1: I just I don't know, it's just me. So the

913
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: start of your question was how do you ask? And

914
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 1: I want y'all to answer that because I definitely have

915
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:27,920
Speaker 1: an answered. I get asked that a lot, like a

916
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:30,960
Speaker 1: lot of not even just um a few friends, but

917
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 1: like strangers in the d M or hear us talking

918
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 1: about stuff like this, and they'll be like, girl, you

919
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: know how do I ask? So I want you guys

920
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:41,200
Speaker 1: to answer that. I just straight up asked shot to

921
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 1: ask for what I want from somebody, like if I

922
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:45,400
Speaker 1: need something or I want something, I'm just ask Like.

923
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, but now you're gonna need to do that though, right, No,

924
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:51,759
Speaker 1: so do you still do it? Yeah? If I want

925
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 1: on a higher scale, that's for sure. I'm not gonna

926
00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 1: lie like, um, I just asked for a personal ask. Ye,

927
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:01,319
Speaker 1: Like I went to the all, I still ask yo,

928
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 1: I got like what what? I got A bunch of

929
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: nail bag? I want my Louis bag I got. I

930
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 1: was like, I want to go shopping. But I was like,

931
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: it's like, hey, I've seen this new person that I wanted. Yeah,

932
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:14,399
Speaker 1: I like so for me, And I told them when

933
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 1: I do answer the question normally to my home girls,

934
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 1: I don't really respond to stranger than the DM because

935
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:20,120
Speaker 1: I used to and then they think that they could

936
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 1: talk to you forever and then yeah, so that's why

937
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:25,440
Speaker 1: I'd be ignoring y'all. But anyway, um, I always say

938
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 1: ask it with confidence. Don't be like do you think

939
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 1: you could possibly make I need you to? Baby? You

940
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:35,919
Speaker 1: think you can't know? No, I need you to. Okay,

941
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: it's how you say it, I need, I want, I'm

942
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 1: gonna need you to, not do you think or maybe

943
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:44,240
Speaker 1: can you like it's you got to use the word confidence.

944
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: But it's I speak that way like hello with somebody

945
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 1: that I'm if it's a guy, like hey, what's up baby?

946
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:55,279
Speaker 1: Can I take you to dinner? Oh? Well, can you

947
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:59,280
Speaker 1: pay my rent? Because I see maybe yeah, I'm telling

948
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 1: you the girl. Yeah. It's a difference between there's a

949
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 1: guys now it is and this is what I want

950
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 1: to say. Yes, we are living in the world where

951
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 1: now it's like you gotta be doing this that that

952
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:16,320
Speaker 1: for me, for you to even fuck me, for you

953
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:17,920
Speaker 1: to even deal with me, for you to even get

954
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:20,280
Speaker 1: a chance to get to know me. Right, But there's

955
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 1: men out here that that's what they like, Like, that's

956
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:27,920
Speaker 1: what that's going to come back first, Right, they're gonna offer,

957
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 1: They're gonna offer first. But it's a difference between dated guys.

958
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:34,640
Speaker 1: So I didn't even have that a right, right, but

959
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:37,320
Speaker 1: anything there's a difference beween a man like he's okay

960
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 1: with being a provider and he wants you to, like,

961
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:43,320
Speaker 1: you know, sit back and you begging. Yeah, because there's

962
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 1: no reason if you ask the guy for some money

963
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 1: one time and he don't come through, just stop asking.

964
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 1: He's not gonna come through. He knows what respond and

965
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 1: stop texting, stop looking up. I promise you. I've never

966
00:50:54,239 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 1: had a guy just well you okay, because I was

967
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 1: trying to think. But I've never asked nobody for money.

968
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:11,120
Speaker 1: I didn't always but I didn't always have money. Oh

969
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:14,800
Speaker 1: you're saying, yeah, like I will ever ever asked anybody

970
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 1: for money in my life, like even when you needed it,

971
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:21,960
Speaker 1: even when I needed it, I've never asked anybody. Yeah.

972
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:25,839
Speaker 1: She was like, yeah, I was just figuring it out

973
00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 1: because I never felt comfortable doing that. And I tell

974
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,279
Speaker 1: you that guys who I don't like even mess with,

975
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 1: do stuff for me and like, you know, try to

976
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 1: give me things. But I also never felt comfortable taking

977
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 1: things in somebody I didn't like. Right, Yeah, if I

978
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 1: knew I'm not gonna date you or go out with

979
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:43,200
Speaker 1: you and don't like you, I don't want to accept

980
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:45,279
Speaker 1: things from you because I feel like there's an expectation

981
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 1: that behind Once they started doing stuff for you, they

982
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 1: think that you like them or they think that's a

983
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 1: way to get in, right, And I'm not gonna lie.

984
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:55,839
Speaker 1: I've been and I think that's why people love Poor

985
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:59,440
Speaker 1: Monsters were so like Transparent because during that era, I

986
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 1: was like watching the old episode and I was like, wow,

987
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 1: but I'm looking at that person and I needed it.

988
00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 1: Like at one point, it was like dating. That's how

989
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 1: I was surviving, Like just going on a one off day,

990
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:12,799
Speaker 1: get a little money here and there. You know, yeah,

991
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 1: little dinner, you lunch. I'm telling you like that. It

992
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:20,400
Speaker 1: was you know, I get a little boyfriend and he

993
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 1: makes sure he paid his bill every month, and you know,

994
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:26,239
Speaker 1: I'm hitting up my ass asking them for X y z's.

995
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:28,759
Speaker 1: It was wild. It was a wild time. I did

996
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 1: what I had to do. But I feel like now

997
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:33,000
Speaker 1: in the space we're in, we try to preach the

998
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 1: message of have a man that's gonna provide for you,

999
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 1: but don't let that be what hinders you because you

1000
00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 1: don't want to wake up and you're sixty five still

1001
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 1: trying to ask niggas for money. Right. I never would

1002
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:47,840
Speaker 1: ask niggas that I didn't like for a day. I

1003
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 1: feel like i'd accepted accept me, I like, but they

1004
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 1: offered it. Well, it was like that I asked you

1005
00:52:56,800 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 1: for money. Oh, he'll know, I'm gonna not talk to really,

1006
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:07,400
Speaker 1: I mean, you were ready, right, And then he was

1007
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:09,680
Speaker 1: like like, I'm gonna keep it real with you. You know,

1008
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:13,879
Speaker 1: I just had a bad situation, lost my job, blah

1009
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:17,280
Speaker 1: blah blah, and for real, I need like two hundred dollars.

1010
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:27,640
Speaker 1: Now I hate two honey. That's in my early twenties.

1011
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:29,960
Speaker 1: I used to like, I had situation where my boyfriend

1012
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 1: was like, we were both in college. I had to

1013
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:33,320
Speaker 1: give him a little money. But that was in my

1014
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 1: early twenties at thirty three, Why you need two hundred dollars? Right,

1015
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 1: like talking, I'm gonna have to agree, right dars. And

1016
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 1: I'm just talking about like of my like tax bracket

1017
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 1: of people that are around me. I don't want to

1018
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:50,279
Speaker 1: surround myself with somebody. And I'm like, because Tom's is hard, right,

1019
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 1: And I'm not shading people because literally we're all we

1020
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 1: could all be one incident away from something you know,

1021
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:59,080
Speaker 1: crazy going on. So that's not what I mean. But

1022
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:02,160
Speaker 1: I feel like if the position I came from when

1023
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,239
Speaker 1: I moved to Atlanta. I always say that I came

1024
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:06,759
Speaker 1: to Atlanta with three dollars literally. If I can do

1025
00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 1: that and make something out of it and figure it

1026
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 1: out and learn how to budget. So if Poormond stopped

1027
00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:14,759
Speaker 1: right now, I'm gonna be good for at least two

1028
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 1: two three years to figure stuff out and make something happen.

1029
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:19,840
Speaker 1: So if you lose your job and that quickly you

1030
00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:23,879
Speaker 1: need two hundred dollars, You're just lost. It's not even

1031
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:26,919
Speaker 1: about the money, it's about your mentality. We can't relate.

1032
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:29,799
Speaker 1: I wanted to take you out right, and you liked him,

1033
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:32,200
Speaker 1: and he was not really doing but then he was like,

1034
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 1: leg I'm gonna be for real. You know, financially things

1035
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:36,880
Speaker 1: have been tough, and I do want to take you up,

1036
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:38,920
Speaker 1: but I'm just not in the space to do what

1037
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 1: I would want to do for you. I like to

1038
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:44,319
Speaker 1: go on trips for days. I just don't know if

1039
00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 1: I'm I'm not right now in my life that to

1040
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:50,760
Speaker 1: comfort me. Yeah, I could do so much for myself,

1041
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:53,839
Speaker 1: Like why would I deprive even being with somebody who

1042
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:57,719
Speaker 1: can't at least give me the same same Like I

1043
00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: take myself on trips all the song one too. So

1044
00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 1: why would I date somebody where I have to like

1045
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 1: us flight? Why you change the comfort plus like you say, yeah,

1046
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:11,359
Speaker 1: but you don't, I don't do you Guys attract men

1047
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 1: who are in that and this is also yeah, And

1048
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:17,920
Speaker 1: I think that's why a lot of men get mad

1049
00:55:17,960 --> 00:55:21,320
Speaker 1: in our comments. Why you you you bitches, y'all be

1050
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 1: wanting all this and x Y I think, and I'm like,

1051
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:24,960
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to y'all. I can't remember the

1052
00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 1: last time I talked to a guy who didn't have

1053
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,440
Speaker 1: I agree. Now its levels. Now I have men that

1054
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 1: were millionaires and not have me and that makes six figures.

1055
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 1: But it's not about how much money they make. It's

1056
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:38,279
Speaker 1: just about like what we can do together? Because I

1057
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:40,279
Speaker 1: don't care how much money you have. How can we

1058
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 1: have fun together? Can we turn up today like regular

1059
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:46,160
Speaker 1: dudes too? When I was younger and I still used

1060
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:53,439
Speaker 1: to be like, can you pay my phone? Tearing you off? Yeah?

1061
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:58,400
Speaker 1: Why not? He's like when I was twenty three, I

1062
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:02,879
Speaker 1: used to definitely be like, at buy me a little

1063
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:11,319
Speaker 1: Michael cores wide at more lenient in my twenties. Um,

1064
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 1: but like I said, now, I feel like the position

1065
00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:17,080
Speaker 1: that I'm in and the life that I've literally created

1066
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:19,600
Speaker 1: for myself because I was tired. I didn't want to

1067
00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:22,800
Speaker 1: live paycheck to paycheck anymore. I didn't want to have

1068
00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:25,279
Speaker 1: to like go out to eat and be like, oh well,

1069
00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 1: let me order this and order this, and I can't.

1070
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:29,800
Speaker 1: I want that, but I can't. I was tired of

1071
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 1: living like that. So it's like, I'm not taking steps backwards.

1072
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 1: And that's what it is. It's about for me. I

1073
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:36,279
Speaker 1: don't care how much money you make. It's not even

1074
00:56:36,320 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 1: about that. It's can I keep my same standard of

1075
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:42,279
Speaker 1: life If I'm dating you, like, I'm not about to

1076
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 1: be eating at STK, then when I'm dating you, now

1077
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 1: I gotta go to Buffalo Wild Hello. And this is

1078
00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:49,400
Speaker 1: the conversation we just had. I told Angela and Buffalo

1079
00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 1: Wild Wings girl to crickets crickets? Nah, I think, where

1080
00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 1: did I just go? I do love pf Chan Is

1081
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:04,360
Speaker 1: that okay? Something? So some things it's okay to do

1082
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 1: for yourself or with the girls, or with the kids

1083
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:09,600
Speaker 1: if you have kids, But when it comes time for

1084
00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:12,439
Speaker 1: a date, I'm not going on a date to where

1085
00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:14,200
Speaker 1: I'm taking my kids I'm not going on a date

1086
00:57:14,239 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 1: to where I'm going with my girls. I'm going on

1087
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 1: a date where it's a special occasion, place where that

1088
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:21,200
Speaker 1: I might treat myself right like, but I'm not gonna

1089
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:23,320
Speaker 1: You need to put if you're trying to take me

1090
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 1: on a date, you need to put some thought into it.

1091
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 1: You need to take me somewhere nice. You're trying to

1092
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 1: imprison me or you feel like when you see what

1093
00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 1: kind of level of life I live, If you can't

1094
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 1: meet me there or beat me there, then why are

1095
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:38,600
Speaker 1: you even? I don't even don't even track those we

1096
00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 1: don't like guy friends like who I never mess but

1097
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 1: or whatever, but when they had like high financial times,

1098
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:45,760
Speaker 1: I would be like, oh, let's go get it, like

1099
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:50,920
Speaker 1: I would pay for it and you but that she

1100
00:57:51,080 --> 00:58:00,560
Speaker 1: feed me, but we love it. And because friends who

1101
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 1: are guys that I'm good friends with and they would

1102
00:58:02,520 --> 00:58:04,080
Speaker 1: have a rough time but now they're doing really well

1103
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 1: and they always be like I just remember how like

1104
00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 1: whenever you know, you never made me feel crazy and

1105
00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 1: I would come meet up with tune. You will always

1106
00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:14,400
Speaker 1: pay for everything. Would you date a guy though that

1107
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 1: you had to pay for everything? Everything though? But I

1108
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 1: don't mind if he doesn't have it like that. Okay,

1109
00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:21,720
Speaker 1: you know, one of my friends told me, she was like,

1110
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 1: I can't wait till I have money so I could

1111
00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 1: date who I want to date. We talk about that

1112
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:28,480
Speaker 1: a lot too, because I'm not gonna being changed though

1113
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 1: once she's riding, because he's more like dahm, Like I

1114
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 1: really fuck with these niggas, Like I really like him

1115
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 1: for real, Like not to say that I didn't used

1116
00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:43,040
Speaker 1: to like, but I'm thinking that I really date niggas

1117
00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 1: that I liked right right, you know, like Okay, lets

1118
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:54,280
Speaker 1: his drive is there, and he's trying, and he's working

1119
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:56,640
Speaker 1: hard and he's on that path, but he's not there yet.

1120
00:58:56,800 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 1: He's not there yet, but you see the potential, you

1121
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 1: see the drive. You see he's trying. He don't got

1122
00:59:01,160 --> 00:59:04,800
Speaker 1: ten kids, he's you know, he's I would do it

1123
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:08,200
Speaker 1: sometimes and I'm not where you guys are at, but

1124
00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying, Like I would still even

1125
00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:12,919
Speaker 1: where I'm at now if it's somebody that I see,

1126
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:15,680
Speaker 1: like you know, because things happen, right, but you're ever

1127
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 1: having some kind of emotion though, because man out here

1128
00:59:19,800 --> 00:59:22,040
Speaker 1: and but they saw your driving, they saw your potential

1129
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 1: they saw you doing. You know what I'm saying, really

1130
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 1: trying to get Now, if you ain't trying and you broken,

1131
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 1: you just broke and you just because you ain't doing

1132
00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:31,280
Speaker 1: nothing right, I get that, but you know, but there's

1133
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:34,200
Speaker 1: a big how how good is your plan? Though? Because

1134
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:37,520
Speaker 1: I feel like once with me, and like I think

1135
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:41,480
Speaker 1: sometimes once we all get an age don't matter. Sometimes

1136
00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:43,920
Speaker 1: sometimes when you get to a certain age, it's like

1137
00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:49,160
Speaker 1: if you're still trying to be a rapper, yeah, I

1138
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:56,320
Speaker 1: don't really know, like trying, yeah, but I mean yeah,

1139
00:59:56,360 --> 01:00:01,000
Speaker 1: but like I go back to your cookie. Sometimes people

1140
01:00:02,040 --> 01:00:05,000
Speaker 1: sometimes people do have potential, but you already have to

1141
01:00:05,080 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 1: have motion. Motion, Like if you are making six figures,

1142
01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 1: whether it be like a hundred thousand and four hundred thousand,

1143
01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:15,440
Speaker 1: eight hundred thousand, but you have potential to be a millionaire.

1144
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:17,919
Speaker 1: And I see it because you already have motion. I'm

1145
01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:21,160
Speaker 1: not in the space of having potential and you just

1146
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:23,040
Speaker 1: like you don't want to work. You're just sitting in

1147
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:25,840
Speaker 1: front of making beats all that, and you have dollar

1148
01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:29,280
Speaker 1: that's not that's not the potential I'm talking about. Yeah,

1149
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 1: you're doing that, but you still got a job over here.

1150
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:35,440
Speaker 1: Where you're making that still music for an example. So

1151
01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:39,080
Speaker 1: like you said, he got scammed out of all that

1152
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:44,920
Speaker 1: money like thoteen millions? You say both the y he did, Yes,

1153
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:49,360
Speaker 1: what happened? He had a management of me, not a

1154
01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:54,120
Speaker 1: manager a financial team. That why A A large reason why.

1155
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:57,800
Speaker 1: I like, what if somebody push their all into a business,

1156
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:00,439
Speaker 1: right that they're trying to do and they have have money,

1157
01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:03,640
Speaker 1: but then, you know, because I know having businesses like

1158
01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:07,040
Speaker 1: theyn't gotta have multiple steams to income. Having a business

1159
01:01:07,360 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 1: could drain you. Yeah, if you don't have other things

1160
01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:11,800
Speaker 1: going on, and that's what you put everything into and

1161
01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 1: then it doesn't work out. And sometimes that is tough

1162
01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:18,720
Speaker 1: for somebody. So right, and like I said something else, right,

1163
01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 1: but I feel like people like that they always know

1164
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:23,680
Speaker 1: how to make a movie and they figure it out exactly,

1165
01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:26,320
Speaker 1: but they might be on down bad when they meet you, right,

1166
01:01:26,440 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 1: but they and they also not gonna ask you for

1167
01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:31,640
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars, you know, like you know, getting back

1168
01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:34,800
Speaker 1: to it, I like, yo, could you call it uber?

1169
01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 1: I'm kidding, I'm kidding, I said, I'm not a guy. Guy.

1170
01:01:40,640 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 1: I was cooling talking to this girl and he was

1171
01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 1: like she asked me to call it uber and sleep

1172
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 1: seen dollars, and I was like, that's crazy because not

1173
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:53,920
Speaker 1: having fifteen dollars as wild. But maybe I didn't call

1174
01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 1: it for right, Like why she even had to call

1175
01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:59,160
Speaker 1: it on with you? He wasn't dating her. It was

1176
01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:03,520
Speaker 1: just somebody that she was like, oh me, like, I

1177
01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:06,600
Speaker 1: don't look tis hard in his mind they went dated,

1178
01:02:06,680 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 1: but in hum mind, when you're right, he probably was

1179
01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:13,200
Speaker 1: one you trying to impress you like that was just

1180
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 1: a girl. It'll be like I put out, I'm gonna

1181
01:02:16,360 --> 01:02:18,160
Speaker 1: call my ouber, but if you don't tell me nave

1182
01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:23,080
Speaker 1: I got you, I don't like. And then if I

1183
01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 1: didn't say me a regular yeah black, you know i'd

1184
01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:30,680
Speaker 1: be calling whatever uber. I'm saying record, you ain't gonna

1185
01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:33,040
Speaker 1: gonna black. It's different like for like you know, my

1186
01:02:33,120 --> 01:02:36,240
Speaker 1: friends whatever we but I'm like, well, I can't even

1187
01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:37,960
Speaker 1: say that because we always take Uber black when we

1188
01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 1: go FLA. So for me, it's regional. Yeah, travel a lot,

1189
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:44,440
Speaker 1: right If in New York, you're either gonna get like

1190
01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:49,920
Speaker 1: the camera like you know, taxi card regular, or you

1191
01:02:50,040 --> 01:02:52,040
Speaker 1: might around and get a tesla or a bin or

1192
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:56,040
Speaker 1: even a black card regular in places like Philly and

1193
01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 1: like stuff like that. I have to call Luck's or

1194
01:02:58,920 --> 01:03:01,360
Speaker 1: a black card because if not, Somebody's two thousand two

1195
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:11,160
Speaker 1: Dusty Atlanta like that too in Atlanta. In Philly, I

1196
01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 1: have to upgrade my car. You have now in La,

1197
01:03:14,680 --> 01:03:16,160
Speaker 1: you don't get a Tesla. You won't get a bed

1198
01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:19,560
Speaker 1: on what you're gonna get. Somebody tell me I have

1199
01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 1: to step up my uber game because I just be

1200
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:28,960
Speaker 1: calling whatever. It's also depend on where you go. You

1201
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:32,200
Speaker 1: smelling like smoke because they just put their weed. Like

1202
01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:34,840
Speaker 1: the last time I got in the uber with somebody

1203
01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:38,720
Speaker 1: who works for me and apparently somebody must appeed on us.

1204
01:03:38,840 --> 01:03:47,200
Speaker 1: She got in there and it was wet and ten

1205
01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 1: hand the cord exactly. Somebody I was actually to come

1206
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:57,720
Speaker 1: film and I got in mind your smelling good get

1207
01:03:57,800 --> 01:03:59,080
Speaker 1: in a car and I don't know. The man was

1208
01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:01,360
Speaker 1: eating some Indian food and you could just smell. I

1209
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 1: got a that guy. I was like, put the windows

1210
01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:05,200
Speaker 1: down and it smells so bad, but I'm so late.

1211
01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:08,479
Speaker 1: Spot right, you can't call another one smells like nothing

1212
01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:12,880
Speaker 1: but spicy. I do too, but I didn't want to

1213
01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:21,840
Speaker 1: smell like and he's like the fan I'm like, yo, bro,

1214
01:04:22,360 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, the regular ubers be crazy. Like I

1215
01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:27,160
Speaker 1: had called one one time and he's right around the

1216
01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:28,720
Speaker 1: corner from my house and I'm like in a rush,

1217
01:04:28,760 --> 01:04:30,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, where are you at? He was like, old,

1218
01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:35,800
Speaker 1: my bad, I'll stop that cookout. I bro, bring your ass.

1219
01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:41,600
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, That's why I stopped. And I know

1220
01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:43,520
Speaker 1: we have to wrap out, but I want to ask you.

1221
01:04:43,640 --> 01:04:45,760
Speaker 1: I see you guys are both doing some type of acting.

1222
01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 1: We are definitely trying to tap into that. Yes we are.

1223
01:04:52,440 --> 01:04:55,240
Speaker 1: We have a little project that we're trying to you know,

1224
01:04:55,440 --> 01:04:58,200
Speaker 1: pull together. We don't want to talk too much about it,

1225
01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:00,640
Speaker 1: but that's the space we definitely want to be in.

1226
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 1: And then just um like hosting things as well, like

1227
01:05:03,720 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 1: we want to eventually host award shows and fun things

1228
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:10,680
Speaker 1: like that. So we're just really trying to expand our

1229
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:14,600
Speaker 1: brand because I feel like Poor Minds has become beyond

1230
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:16,840
Speaker 1: a podcast, like we call it a talk show now,

1231
01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, because it's like it gives

1232
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:21,120
Speaker 1: like late night talk show vibes, you know. So it's

1233
01:05:21,120 --> 01:05:23,280
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff that we're working on, but definitely

1234
01:05:23,320 --> 01:05:25,800
Speaker 1: the acting field is something that we want to try

1235
01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:28,320
Speaker 1: to take over a little one too. You know, we

1236
01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:31,600
Speaker 1: did we did what do we Do Kill Say show? Yeah,

1237
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:35,960
Speaker 1: we did have he Got a show called Churchy So

1238
01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 1: that was like our little acting debut. We only had

1239
01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:43,720
Speaker 1: like two lines, but that area then want I forgot,

1240
01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:52,160
Speaker 1: I had three words. I forgot my damn. But yeah,

1241
01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:54,040
Speaker 1: it's a lot of stuff that we're trying to tap into.

1242
01:05:54,240 --> 01:05:56,200
Speaker 1: But um, I think our focus right now is just

1243
01:05:56,400 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 1: taking Poor Minds to the next level. We have for

1244
01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:02,440
Speaker 1: Richard for Poor two, our tour that we're on starting

1245
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:06,280
Speaker 1: in June July, and we're still adding dates on that.

1246
01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 1: We got the Roots Picnic coming upside service. Yeah, Birthday weekend,

1247
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:20,880
Speaker 1: so we turned it all the way up. Yes, we're

1248
01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:23,160
Speaker 1: gonna do a big in Philly can and then like

1249
01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:25,360
Speaker 1: y'all got to come to a Poor Mine show very

1250
01:06:25,600 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 1: supera so y'all gotta like we gotta definitely, yeah, you

1251
01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 1: gotta be because we'll be outside having the ball for Share.

1252
01:06:37,280 --> 01:06:38,640
Speaker 1: But yeah, we have a lot of stuff you know,

1253
01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:42,439
Speaker 1: we're working on. We have, um, we're trying different things,

1254
01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:45,080
Speaker 1: like we have a karaoke show that we're doing with music.

1255
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 1: It's just on the first one. This week music souldild.

1256
01:06:49,960 --> 01:06:52,880
Speaker 1: So it's just like the possibilities are just endless whenever

1257
01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:55,040
Speaker 1: you're like a true creator. And I think that's why

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Speaker 1: we have just really been successful because we really try

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Speaker 1: to create. It's not about being popular. I'm making a

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Speaker 1: quick dim like, we don't mind taking the long road,

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Speaker 1: you know, because we really just want to create fun,

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Speaker 1: exciting content for people. So and I have a cosmitic

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Speaker 1: busy too. Oh that's how you have here, period beauty

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Speaker 1: collection dot com. You know, shameless pun again okay, but honestly,

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Speaker 1: thank you all for coming to I'm glad we finally

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Speaker 1: made it half Yeah, this us and we're gonna come on.

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Speaker 1: We want to do something with you guys too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: y'all have to come. That's why I said, I didn't

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Speaker 1: know you live in Atlanta, So you know, Angela, next

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Speaker 1: time you come to Atlanta. Look, we're gonna because we look,

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Speaker 1: we have a new studio set, so when you get

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Speaker 1: in there anytime, we please, so let us know, y'all,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna definitely do a Poor Mind's Lip Service everisode

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Speaker 1: because this was this was fun. Yeah, we had a

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Speaker 1: good time, and next time we're gonna do all kinds

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Speaker 1: of shots and really get it back. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: we used to be so wasted that you say, show

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Speaker 1: y'all gotta come to our Houston show. All right, let's

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Speaker 1: let's figure that's cowarded on the tour that you got

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Speaker 1: coming up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we gotta gotta coming up,

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Speaker 1: and we gotta we gotta filly date too. I saw

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Speaker 1: us my mom's birthday. I told twenty eighth maybe I'll

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Speaker 1: maybe y'all fly maybe I'll fly out for that. You're

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Speaker 1: a little yeah, I read with forre Minds Lift Service.

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Speaker 1: Thank y'all. So, mister Mashaw