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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to mess.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what My mess is just up top. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I forgot my headphones at home.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, on the train, struggling, no book, no Bible of Salvation.

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<v Speaker 2>You have been reading Marie because of you?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh stop it, guys of you? Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>We gotta get the words to these songs. We're not

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<v Speaker 1>paying extra for that. Well. I don't know if the

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<v Speaker 1>listeners know this, but Marie's in solidarity of herd seventy five.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not doing hard doing like a medium. My medium,

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing a medium? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>And what does that entail? So I have to.

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<v Speaker 1>Read ten pages of a book every day? I have

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<v Speaker 1>to walk ten thousand steps a day. I can have

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<v Speaker 1>one cheap meal or alcoholic beverage a week.

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<v Speaker 2>You know how's that going?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? I only had like three. It's solidarity in solidarity,

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<v Speaker 1>solidarity enough solidari honas Yeah, and then there's some other

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that I'm supposed to do, but it's definitely not as.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, and I have to drink.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, two leaders or a leader of water or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that, not a gallon?

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<v Speaker 2>What's a what's the leader of water? A leader is

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<v Speaker 2>like a thing of soda?

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<v Speaker 1>Is two leaders oh okay, so the smaller the half.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you do that anyway, exactly. You're very musturized.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. You know, the wettest friend I know.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, she leak it s chigar like a salt chugar.

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<v Speaker 2>We know the worst of that.

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<v Speaker 1>We do iconic. Okay, So, Marie, we have so much.

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<v Speaker 1>There's just so I can't believe we're gonna need more

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<v Speaker 1>than an hour.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, let's talk. Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So the Tonys were this past weekend, right, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was invited, you know, to sit on some people's laps. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I was invited to see in the Battle Counting. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Hi, George Clooney got some egos and he

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<v Speaker 1>was there. I didn't know he is a listen. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not really a Broadway girly like that. Like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know people's names. I don't know who's up for what.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that I was given two free tickets to

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<v Speaker 1>see a Broadway show and I wanted to see Death

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<v Speaker 1>Becomes Her and I was gonna bring Sydney with me.

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<v Speaker 2>I was very excited about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>We were like, oh, it's camp, it's funny. It's supposed

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<v Speaker 2>to be like a good term. And Michelle Williams was

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<v Speaker 2>going to be there.

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<v Speaker 1>No Desney sewe Michelle Williams, the original Michelle.

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<v Speaker 2>That's only Michelle Williams.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, yeah, she she wasn't gonna be there that day.

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<v Speaker 2>Well maybe it's.

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<v Speaker 1>We're supposed to go to the We were supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>go to the Broadway two pm on Saturday. Now both

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<v Speaker 1>of us wake up, wake up and run out of

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<v Speaker 1>our apartments and don't really eat nothing. No, Sidney had

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<v Speaker 1>a thing a gig before early at noon, which is

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<v Speaker 1>crazy on a Saturday, right, and it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was raining pouring.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>No, Umbrella was not dressed for it. I haven't dressed.

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<v Speaker 1>Sydney had her knees out, she had legs, a light

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<v Speaker 1>denim jacket on. Sydney was dressed, but on dressed. I

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<v Speaker 1>was dressed for the Broadway. I was like, let me

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<v Speaker 1>step out. I had my knee high boots on. Girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you see how the white people

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<v Speaker 1>be pulling up the Broadway, but they be showing up

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<v Speaker 1>in the regular dgulous.

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<v Speaker 2>And I ain't them.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't them, And I'm not bringing my sketches to Broadway. Sketchers, sketch,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what they be wearing well, girl, they be wearing

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<v Speaker 1>the platform, the lift, the lifts, sketch, the workout one yes,

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<v Speaker 1>the shape ups. So at the time the Sydney's at

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<v Speaker 1>her thing, it's the same twelve pm for me and

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<v Speaker 1>I look at the email for the information of where

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<v Speaker 1>we're going. We have tickets for Sunset Boulevard. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>completely different show.

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<v Speaker 2>We weren't ready for that.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted bright fun at Boulevard. They said, it's no

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<v Speaker 1>set design. It's all black. You get they have a

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<v Speaker 1>fog machine. Everybody wears all black, and they don't. They

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<v Speaker 1>don't even have no shoes on me.

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<v Speaker 2>No none.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just very bare, very bare bones. Right. And when

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<v Speaker 1>I when I go see a Broadway show, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to see Broadway set design.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to see Broadway wardrobe. I want to see

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<v Speaker 2>Broadway level.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. So I'm disappointed, But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>texting Sydney, like, girl, let me see if I could

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<v Speaker 1>change this. These tickets.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't so last Sidney's like, what did you say?

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<v Speaker 2>You texted me?

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<v Speaker 1>I said, hey, girl, are we going to have enough

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<v Speaker 1>time to get there? It's already one thirty. Sidney said,

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<v Speaker 1>it's says you still at the house.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, I'm leaving.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm, I'm I'm leaving out the door. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're still And she was still there at like one

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<v Speaker 1>thirty seven.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn near one forty. You live in Brooklyn.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to get to mine out on the train

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<v Speaker 1>at one thirty eight. I mean it was I still

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<v Speaker 1>was too late, but Sidney clocking my location in real

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<v Speaker 1>time because I know, I was like, it's foreign. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I know, this bitch is not I know

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<v Speaker 1>she's nowhere near or she needs to be wasn't and

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't so but hungry all the way into the city. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, well, my it's this My eta is two ten.

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<v Speaker 1>Sydney was supposed to be there like two o five.

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<v Speaker 2>So we get there.

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<v Speaker 1>The closer we get there, the hungrier I am, and

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<v Speaker 1>the more I don't want to go see this play. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna be there on time, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>torrential downpours and then they're having like a festival, a

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<v Speaker 1>food festival in the rain, so it's blocking like the

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<v Speaker 1>way to like get the car square to Times Square.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was like, are we stuck?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So how you were oh, but you did the train.

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<v Speaker 2>I was on the train.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and your phone was at like one and my

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<v Speaker 1>driver did not have a cord.

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<v Speaker 2>Mess He was like, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Got an Android, sir, That's not my first choice. That's

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<v Speaker 1>never our first choice. Apple products only. Yeah, but also

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<v Speaker 1>it's not even that if you if you're the Uber driver,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta have a couple different cords. You gotta have

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<v Speaker 1>at least one Apple and one in and like, if

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<v Speaker 1>you have the Apple, everybody don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Have the new the new Apple, the new iPhone.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, I'm not doing all that. He said, I

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<v Speaker 1>got the Android. If y'all got that, then you're good.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, I got what I got.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>And he didn't. He didn't have no qualms about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And then girl tell me why his his roof was leaking.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like that. He was terre. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe this is happening. But of course this

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<v Speaker 1>is happening. And so I was like, Marie, I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>one percent. I'm going to McDonald's. Meet me at McDonald's.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a safe landmark. But if it no whick McDonald's.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I was in front of. Could you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>some fries. No, Marie, did you get fries or not?

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<v Speaker 1>I did get fries. I did get fries, and you

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<v Speaker 1>need it to what pee pee? Nobody had a charge

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<v Speaker 1>in there. I asked a few. Yeah, people had toothbrush

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<v Speaker 1>and toothpaste to brush their teeth in the bathroom, but

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<v Speaker 1>they had no chargers. People brushing their teeth at the

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<v Speaker 1>sink in McDonald's. That feels like McDonald's tomato. It does

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<v Speaker 1>feel on brand, but it's also like what she Meanwhile,

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<v Speaker 1>she brushed her teeth sucking on a on an orange

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<v Speaker 1>soda right afterwards. It's like, what's the point. You might

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<v Speaker 1>as well just have kept it going, kept all the

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<v Speaker 1>gunk and the junk going. But also orange soda don't

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<v Speaker 1>pair well with minty breath. Like, where was she she

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<v Speaker 1>had like a generic toothbrush? Girls she had she had

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<v Speaker 1>chunk of letthos on in the rain, So I already

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<v Speaker 1>know she she was battling something more than we can

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<v Speaker 1>talk about right now. Lol. Yeah, so we, me and

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<v Speaker 1>Sidney missed the play. We didn't go. I told them

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<v Speaker 1>to release the tickets. I said, I said, we're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna make it. I got the trendy it was two ten,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I had to find Sydney and then we

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<v Speaker 1>were like, let's just go get food, like let's get

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<v Speaker 1>fool instead.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it sounded real good.

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<v Speaker 1>And the thing is is that some of these plays,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you don't get going at the right time,

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<v Speaker 1>then you gotta wait.

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<v Speaker 2>You gotta wait for the intermission.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're so you're watching a little pixelated screw like

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<v Speaker 1>we're looking at right now the whole place you spent on.

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<v Speaker 2>Well didn't. We weren't paying for tickets.

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<v Speaker 1>But I remember when I went to Othello, if we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get there fifteen minutes before the time, they're giving

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<v Speaker 1>up your ticket.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't get it fifteen minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to be there early, or the giving up

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<v Speaker 1>the ticket because there's no late comers, there's no phones,

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<v Speaker 1>they're locking everything up. They said, if you don't get

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<v Speaker 1>here on time, you will not be seeing mister Denzel.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Crazy, And honestly, I feel like that everything should

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<v Speaker 2>be that way.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I've been late to let's say a

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<v Speaker 1>handful of plays, and usually they that first song, they

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<v Speaker 1>won't let you walk down the house for that, and

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<v Speaker 1>then after that first number they're like, okay, go lady,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, we so we missed it. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>went to the Tony's the next day and people were

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<v Speaker 1>like some said Boulevard was really good, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I missed anything.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it won all these awards at the Tony's

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<v Speaker 1>and Nicole won Best Actress, No over Audra, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, damn, maybe I should have gone to see something.

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<v Speaker 1>We could still see it. Yeah, but I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>they're gonna They're not comping those tickets. We're gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>to come out of pocket for that. No, there's so

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<v Speaker 1>many people who listen to the pod hook us up.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll be there on time.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you hear what I just said? She won Best Actress,

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<v Speaker 1>The tickets are not going to be available anymore. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>in their mom is like, well, I want to go

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<v Speaker 1>see the pussy Cat Doll in the in the black

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<v Speaker 1>Neglige singing the Dark.

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<v Speaker 2>With the blood coming down, drip drip, damn Marie.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean sometimes what we learned here in our

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<v Speaker 1>mess is that we we got to see it through.

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<v Speaker 1>My boy, we got to see it. We got to

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<v Speaker 1>see it through. Do you think you could have sat

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<v Speaker 1>through a two and a half hour play Hell Stomach. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>I would have been mad the whole time, and I

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<v Speaker 1>would be nitpicking.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I was like, well the lights is bad in here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>oh is this Broadway?

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<v Speaker 1>She missed that note? Exactly is this Broadway? Or is

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<v Speaker 1>this a high school production?

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly? Is this a talent show? And that's a people.

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<v Speaker 1>Go to places where they're seeing live performances, and if

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<v Speaker 1>you're in a bad mood, if you haven't eaten, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you got some bad news, yes, maybe this thing

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<v Speaker 1>can turn you around.

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean you also are bringing the bad vibes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So I think everything needs to be on a

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<v Speaker 1>clean slate, you know. But sometimes people definitely pull up

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<v Speaker 1>to the comedy shows and it's like, hey, baby, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't get you through your divorce. I got fifteen minutes

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<v Speaker 1>on his stage and you want me to feel better

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<v Speaker 1>about ten years? That's down to draid. I can't help.

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<v Speaker 2>You, and baby, I can't help you through your door. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's the phrase of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure you use that in a sentence at least

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<v Speaker 1>one time when somebody's in the bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey baby, I can't help you through your divorce.

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<v Speaker 1>Cannot I got fifteen minutes, fifteen minute. But that's so

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<v Speaker 1>funny because then we was on the train going to

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<v Speaker 1>get Ramen and we bumped into somebody who listens to

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast. Oh that's right, was it I want to

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<v Speaker 1>say BB or MEMI mem It was me me. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I put it in my notes. She was cute too,

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<v Speaker 1>She was very cute. Was like girls, you get She said,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want you to know that I love the podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>She had a nice and we said she looked really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>She looked. I was like, I love when we see

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<v Speaker 1>our Messi's in the wilds.

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<v Speaker 2>They always do us justice for sure. Yeah I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>I've youet to see a messy looking messy exact and

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<v Speaker 1>that's what you can be a mess, but don't look it.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember when I came back from LA and somebody

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<v Speaker 1>was like, don't look like what you've been through this

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean I have been wearing that you know

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<v Speaker 1>that Bob that I wore the Emmys. It just it

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<v Speaker 1>was all things the Emmy's sad, LA depression Bob just

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<v Speaker 1>and sunken eyes and just very skinny.

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<v Speaker 2>And they were like a tough enough you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Said, I won't say the name but I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>we we don't really speak anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>So oh yo, because of that, I look like what

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<v Speaker 2>you've been through.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw TikTok yesterday was a guy who was like, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>me going through a hard time was the caption. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was just him at a party, him him living

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<v Speaker 1>his best life, and he was like, yeah this, white

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<v Speaker 1>people don't believe I'm going through art And you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why some of our strongest soldiers are battling

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<v Speaker 1>something that you can't see. Is that work for you, Marie,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be a strong soldier. No, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't anymore. No more battling nothing. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to I want to get up. I want to float

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<v Speaker 1>to the next thing. I mean, I guess I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of do that already, Like Marie, what I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to I'm not battling.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>Your middle name is not sense of urgency, like to

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<v Speaker 1>say that you're floating.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's a libra. I just you know what it

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<v Speaker 2>is is.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to feel guilty that it feels like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>floating through my life some days, and then I was like, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I think this is what it's supposed to be for

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<v Speaker 1>me personally, because it's people that are like, they get up, they.

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<v Speaker 2>Go, they go, go, go, go, go, go go all day.

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<v Speaker 2>They get up early.

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<v Speaker 1>They gotta fight traffic, they gotta fight the Starbucks barista.

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<v Speaker 2>They gotta fight to put their baby in a raincoat.

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<v Speaker 1>They gotta fight their husband and make them come come

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<v Speaker 1>like it's all these things they fight for. Then they

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<v Speaker 1>gotta fight for a place at the table at their

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<v Speaker 1>job and YadA, YadA, YadA. And I'm not built for that. No,

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<v Speaker 1>my ancestors have been through enough. I'm gonna agree with

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<v Speaker 1>you on them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I just I'm not. But sister, we are

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<v Speaker 2>gonna work on lateness.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, totally, for sure. We are gonna work on

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<v Speaker 1>because you don't like it when somebody doesn't show up

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<v Speaker 1>on time. You like, I'm out. I hate. I hate

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm early and people are late. But yeah, if

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<v Speaker 1>we all shown up at the same if we're both

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<v Speaker 1>showing up at two ten, then cool. Well what if

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<v Speaker 1>someone is on time, so now you don't respect their time?

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<v Speaker 1>It's not about not respecting. Why am I am? I

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do better? I am today, I really try to

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<v Speaker 1>do it. I woke up, I hit snooze and then

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm getting a lot of extra sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>And I got up and it thirty minutes had passed.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know you have thirty minutes? But then I

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<v Speaker 1>got up and I shot some content that I needed

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<v Speaker 1>to shoot. I got ready for the podcast first, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you know, my content took more time than I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it would. And then it took a long time

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<v Speaker 1>to get to the train. Anyway, that's neither here nor there.

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<v Speaker 1>Starting today, today, today, today, now capital T or lowercase

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<v Speaker 1>big T, little old big d oh, two day day.

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<v Speaker 1>You are gonna work on being on time time management. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you think your time is at an hour and

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<v Speaker 1>a half to it for hour and a half, hour

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<v Speaker 1>and a half. So how do you do it? Let

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<v Speaker 1>me talk to me about how you get out of

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<v Speaker 1>your house in time and hour a by getting ready

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<v Speaker 1>an hour and a half, I'll.

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<v Speaker 2>Beat Becca today.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll beat Becca well. Now that I get up for

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<v Speaker 1>the gym, it definitely helps me start my day.

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<v Speaker 2>And now I know how long it takes me to

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<v Speaker 2>make breakfast. Now, so I.

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<v Speaker 1>Wake up wherever I gotta be, I gotta see how

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<v Speaker 1>long it takes me to get there, and by that time,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm already thinking about how much time I have throughout

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<v Speaker 1>whatever I'm doing. Now, when you check how long it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna take you to get somewhere, are you putting in

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<v Speaker 1>depart at blank time or arrive by blank time?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to arrive by this time.

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<v Speaker 1>So you got to work backwards from there. I've tried

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<v Speaker 1>to do this before. It felt like I was doing

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<v Speaker 1>a math problem. I put the address in, I said, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to take me forty two minutes. That means

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<v Speaker 1>I got to be ready an hour before. That means

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta start getting ready thirty minutes. Like I was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to work backwards and I was like, ooh, that's

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<v Speaker 1>too much mathematic. Yeah it's hard, I know, but I

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<v Speaker 1>do know that if we're doing something together, one of

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<v Speaker 1>us have to be on time. So I know, being

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<v Speaker 1>with you, I'm like, I gotta get there before Marie.

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<v Speaker 1>I got to because we can't both be sliding in.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, hey, y'all, it is up. It is really funny.

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<v Speaker 1>When I get somewhere before Sydney or anybody that I'm with,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very loud about it. Not me getting here before you.

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<v Speaker 1>I shame them, But I should be ashamed to thank

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<v Speaker 1>you Sidney, Wow, thank you for getting me together on

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<v Speaker 1>this close to Juneteenth. I mean, I think we spent

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<v Speaker 1>many many years being like, well, get there, when we'll

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<v Speaker 1>get there, they're happy that our presence is a present.

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<v Speaker 1>They should be glad we got out of bed for

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<v Speaker 1>this booze shit. But like, I mean, the more and

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<v Speaker 1>more I deal with people, it's like some people just

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<v Speaker 1>they don't have no tolerance for it. They're like absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>Amina used to be like that. When we worked at

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<v Speaker 1>the Niche. She would be so pissit us coming in,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, ten fifteen minutes late. She's like, I get

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<v Speaker 1>from Harlem. We were doing hair, we was doing makeup.

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<v Speaker 1>I put rhinestones on my arm. Yeah, Like my friend

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<v Speaker 1>is diamond in crusted, like the Moondo diamond's not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be on time. Diamonds is full.

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<v Speaker 2>You know that's not prompt.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Wow. There was so many years ago, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like I ain't even got no domins on now,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just like I'm just trying to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>my part is right, trying to get sort the part

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<v Speaker 1>is right. Damn Okay, my mess is I gotta stop

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<v Speaker 1>watching the tiktoks that tell you about like a movie

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<v Speaker 1>or show, because whatever they're doing, they're like, even if

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<v Speaker 1>it's bad, even if people hate watch it, they promoted

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<v Speaker 1>so good that it's like, well, I gotta watch this.

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<v Speaker 1>Now they're saying it's bad, so now I have to

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<v Speaker 1>watch the bad. So you watch movie reviews and then

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<v Speaker 1>if they say something is trash, you feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>need to watch it. Yeah, yes, because I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, they're biased, maybe it's not trash.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So what movies are we talking about here? List

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<v Speaker 2>the couple? Top three?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, no, I'm gonna tell you it's very specific.

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<v Speaker 1>One that I watched. Okay, I'm not gonna say I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to say trash. I'm not gonna say trash

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<v Speaker 1>because that is harsh. I'm just gonna tell you the

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<v Speaker 1>level above trash. It was just like the whole time

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<v Speaker 1>I'm watching it, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was just like, why what? Why?

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<v Speaker 1>More? More No, you're you're joking. There's no way what

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing. More the Jonathan Major's movie. Now, I watched

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<v Speaker 1>straw Tyler Perry, Oh what Geraji p Henson. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>could not believe my mouth was open the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>The first ten minutes is the worst thing that could

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<v Speaker 1>possibly happen in every shot. Waking up late for work,

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<v Speaker 1>got your daughter, Oh your landlord's a back to vic.

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<v Speaker 1>You you gotta get to school. Oh I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>enough money to give lunch to my daughter. Sorry this

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<v Speaker 1>is a spoil I should have said spoiler alert. But literally, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>just when you're like, oh, she's gonna have a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of reprieve, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Poorn, rain and car shut down.

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<v Speaker 1>Now she gotta walk in the rain, goes to work.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a robbery. She just wants her check. They rob

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<v Speaker 1>they robbed the job. Oh wait, before they robbed the job,

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<v Speaker 1>she got fired. She got fired, and then they said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you're in cahoots. You're in cahoots with the bank robber.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so it set it off. Oh and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to give up the whole thing. But it's a

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<v Speaker 1>mixed with John Q. Oh you don't want to give

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<v Speaker 1>up the whole thing? I did. No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no no, no, there's more. You have literally people people don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm not gonna say don't watch it, watch it,

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<v Speaker 1>but hey, if you was having a good day, have

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<v Speaker 1>your good day. If you're having a bad day and

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<v Speaker 1>want to feel worse, put that on. Put that shit on.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm having a Can I watch that to feel better

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<v Speaker 1>about my life? No? No? I literally I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so bad. I have to watch something worse

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<v Speaker 1>than this to feel better. Oh, to cleanse the path,

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<v Speaker 1>to cleanse the palette of trauma. Wait, something worse than that,

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<v Speaker 1>worse than that? And I got it? What did you

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<v Speaker 1>watch to cleanse your Tyler Perry palth The Mortician documentary?

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<v Speaker 1>The Mortician, Yes, documentary is about this family that owned

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<v Speaker 1>a funeral home. Okay, white people, black people, No white people,

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<v Speaker 1>then if it was black people, it'd probably be funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I said, Phedra, Oh, exactly funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I said. This has to be worse than Tyler Perry worse. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So y'all got to watch this documentary. It's so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I only watched the first episode, I haven't got

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<v Speaker 1>but basically it's about this funeral home. They it's a

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<v Speaker 1>family business, lamb, and it's basically the business is booming.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody's using it. Everybody everybody's using them, and they're mainly

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<v Speaker 1>using like for caskets. So then they the son David

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<v Speaker 1>finds out like, oh, people want to get cremated and

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<v Speaker 1>it's much cheaper.

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<v Speaker 2>So he's figuring out how much people are charging.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, I'm gonna go lower than that, so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going beneath the rate so that everybody will come to us. Usually,

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<v Speaker 1>when you cremate, it takes like, I don't know, like

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<v Speaker 1>two hours, so you can really just like cremate maybe

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<v Speaker 1>four hours, yeah, to burn a whole body. To cook

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<v Speaker 1>a body, yes, barbecue, does it depend like no size, No, no, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it's two hours.

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<v Speaker 2>That's basically it.

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<v Speaker 1>So then they realized they were like in the first

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<v Speaker 1>year of them having cremation without him, it was like

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<v Speaker 1>like less than two hundred bodies. This man takes over,

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<v Speaker 1>it's in the thousands. It's in the thousands. Now, guess

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<v Speaker 1>how they get that high killing people? No, bitch, they're

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<v Speaker 1>already dead. What is going on? I'm like, what, he's

0:22:02.280 --> 0:22:06.880
<v Speaker 1>the opposite of vigilante. I'm like, no, it's bad, batman.

0:22:07.800 --> 0:22:10.560
<v Speaker 1>He's killing people. And then they're like, oh, my dad

0:22:10.680 --> 0:22:13.520
<v Speaker 1>also died this morning. Okay, okay, I'll see I see

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<v Speaker 1>what you're saying, See what you're saying, but I also

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<v Speaker 1>was about to say, did you smunk weed? What? Cause

0:22:18.480 --> 0:22:21.600
<v Speaker 1>you said he's killing people. I'm like, they're already dead.

0:22:21.640 --> 0:22:23.720
<v Speaker 1>They're coming to they're saying it went from two hundred

0:22:23.720 --> 0:22:26.320
<v Speaker 1>to one thousand, where all these new dead bodies come.

0:22:26.440 --> 0:22:30.600
<v Speaker 1>He's what he's doing. He's packing in the bodies in

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<v Speaker 1>the oven. So instead of putting one body, he's putting ten.

0:22:34.640 --> 0:22:38.040
<v Speaker 1>I feel like one yen ten. And so he's like,

0:22:38.320 --> 0:22:40.679
<v Speaker 1>he's like, hey, y'all got to stop being attached to

0:22:40.720 --> 0:22:44.320
<v Speaker 1>the body. It's gone, the soul is gone. You need

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<v Speaker 1>to just be.

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<v Speaker 2>Rational about what fact is. They're not hearing anymore.

0:22:48.440 --> 0:22:51.560
<v Speaker 1>And so in the ashes, it's like cardboard and other

0:22:51.600 --> 0:22:54.520
<v Speaker 1>things in there, so you're not getting the whole person anyway.

0:22:55.000 --> 0:22:59.120
<v Speaker 1>So they scooping up multiple people's ashes and like that's

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<v Speaker 1>Uncle Fred. Yes, oh the mortician is mess exactly. It's

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<v Speaker 1>but it's so bad. It's worse than Tyler Perry. But good.

0:23:09.080 --> 0:23:11.440
<v Speaker 1>So I could go to sleep on that, and they Okay,

0:23:11.560 --> 0:23:16.639
<v Speaker 1>dead bodies burned, burned in a group is what makes

0:23:16.080 --> 0:23:19.160
<v Speaker 1>you no no what it was? Because he went to jail,

0:23:19.240 --> 0:23:21.880
<v Speaker 1>obviously he gets out. They have all the what's the charge,

0:23:22.720 --> 0:23:25.399
<v Speaker 1>what I'm getting charged for it? I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>dead body, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Basically, basically, no, no, no.

0:23:29.359 --> 0:23:32.360
<v Speaker 1>When you when somebody hands over their body, you're supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to there's just what do you call it? I forgot.

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<v Speaker 2>There's like certain things they're supposed to.

0:23:37.359 --> 0:23:40.840
<v Speaker 1>Like protocol, protocol as a mortician, like you have to have.

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<v Speaker 2>I have no words.

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<v Speaker 1>I have brain frog right now, but brain frog, you

0:23:45.760 --> 0:23:48.680
<v Speaker 1>have to have respect for the body. And these people

0:23:48.680 --> 0:23:51.520
<v Speaker 1>are paying you for I just want these ashes. I

0:23:51.520 --> 0:23:54.760
<v Speaker 1>don't want communal ashes. Well, if you're paying for the

0:23:54.800 --> 0:23:57.960
<v Speaker 1>group on uh, that's the team, right. If you you

0:23:57.960 --> 0:24:00.320
<v Speaker 1>said it's a less than market rate, you could have

0:24:00.359 --> 0:24:01.440
<v Speaker 1>spent a couple extra.

0:24:01.359 --> 0:24:03.520
<v Speaker 2>Hundred dollars and you would have had what you needed

0:24:03.560 --> 0:24:03.760
<v Speaker 2>to have.

0:24:03.960 --> 0:24:07.000
<v Speaker 1>See, now you sound like him, because that's how he

0:24:07.160 --> 0:24:09.600
<v Speaker 1>was in an interview. He's like, what I'm charging to

0:24:09.720 --> 0:24:12.160
<v Speaker 1>you fifty dollars and he's like a lot of these

0:24:12.200 --> 0:24:15.520
<v Speaker 1>bodies they had said, oh, throw the ashes to see

0:24:15.560 --> 0:24:19.200
<v Speaker 1>so there's no ceremony, no nothing. So I think this

0:24:19.240 --> 0:24:20.560
<v Speaker 1>is how it started. He was like, it was a

0:24:20.560 --> 0:24:22.600
<v Speaker 1>lot of bodies that were like, oh, you know, just

0:24:22.640 --> 0:24:24.119
<v Speaker 1>burn them and spread the ashes.

0:24:24.119 --> 0:24:26.280
<v Speaker 2>In the ocean, and nobody's accounting for them.

0:24:26.200 --> 0:24:28.679
<v Speaker 1>He said, So nobody cared about them people anyway, I

0:24:28.720 --> 0:24:31.199
<v Speaker 1>need to know what ocean y'all keep spreading these ashes

0:24:31.240 --> 0:24:33.919
<v Speaker 1>in there, I'd be swimming. Well, I don't be swimming,

0:24:33.960 --> 0:24:36.159
<v Speaker 1>but I'd be putting my feet in. It's not the

0:24:36.280 --> 0:24:39.520
<v Speaker 1>dead bodies NEMO in them. Free Willy. They don't want

0:24:39.520 --> 0:24:42.800
<v Speaker 1>them ashes mixing the ocean. Free Willy from the ashes

0:24:42.880 --> 0:24:45.879
<v Speaker 1>of your auntie. If they don't want it, that's wild.

0:24:46.119 --> 0:24:48.159
<v Speaker 1>It's really fucked up for the I feel like, for

0:24:48.200 --> 0:24:50.520
<v Speaker 1>the ecosystem and all that. And half the time it's like,

0:24:51.000 --> 0:24:52.840
<v Speaker 1>how you know these some of these people didn't even

0:24:53.000 --> 0:24:54.639
<v Speaker 1>know how to swim? Why do you buy ocean?

0:24:55.080 --> 0:24:57.120
<v Speaker 2>But them where they supposed to be lent a tree?

0:24:57.520 --> 0:24:59.600
<v Speaker 1>No. I was like, put the ashes in Walmart, That's

0:24:59.600 --> 0:25:01.800
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. And this that's what they said Walmart.

0:25:02.640 --> 0:25:06.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh like like scatter them at yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:25:06.520 --> 0:25:07.280
<v Speaker 2>yeah yeah.

0:25:07.359 --> 0:25:10.800
<v Speaker 1>So it's a docu series. It's so good, Marie. I think, honestly,

0:25:10.840 --> 0:25:12.800
<v Speaker 1>we need to watch it together. I'll read roch just

0:25:13.000 --> 0:25:15.280
<v Speaker 1>because there's so many times where I was like, oh,

0:25:15.760 --> 0:25:18.479
<v Speaker 1>this man ain't shit. But the thing is is that

0:25:18.520 --> 0:25:21.359
<v Speaker 1>he wasn't pretending, and then you know how they was

0:25:21.400 --> 0:25:22.280
<v Speaker 1>getting all the bodies in.

0:25:23.480 --> 0:25:25.760
<v Speaker 2>I don't even want to say. I don't even want

0:25:25.760 --> 0:25:29.159
<v Speaker 2>to say. The people don't y'all gotta watch it, but

0:25:29.640 --> 0:25:30.400
<v Speaker 2>this man.

0:25:30.520 --> 0:25:35.760
<v Speaker 1>Is evil, evil, evil evil. He was doing a Russian

0:25:35.800 --> 0:25:38.080
<v Speaker 1>doll with the bodies. Oh, he was like one person

0:25:38.080 --> 0:25:40.159
<v Speaker 1>in somebody else's body. No, no, no, no, he was like,

0:25:40.280 --> 0:25:43.240
<v Speaker 1>oh that shoulders take the whole shoulder off. What take

0:25:43.280 --> 0:25:45.560
<v Speaker 1>the whole shoulder? I'm now I'm ruining it for everybody.

0:25:45.600 --> 0:25:48.360
<v Speaker 1>But there's more. There's more episodes, so I'm not even

0:25:48.400 --> 0:25:51.600
<v Speaker 1>giving you everything. He's taking the clothes off the bodies,

0:25:51.760 --> 0:25:55.440
<v Speaker 1>selling it. This man is making so money. Is greedy.

0:25:56.359 --> 0:25:59.879
<v Speaker 1>It's greed, close off of dead whoa selling it. This

0:26:00.000 --> 0:26:01.440
<v Speaker 1>why you gotta wash your clothes when you get it

0:26:01.480 --> 0:26:03.119
<v Speaker 1>at the drift shop before you wear it.

0:26:03.160 --> 0:26:05.560
<v Speaker 2>You have to wash the stuff because.

0:26:05.320 --> 0:26:07.879
<v Speaker 1>You don't know somebody might have almost got cremated in

0:26:07.920 --> 0:26:11.720
<v Speaker 1>that blouse that you're like, oh, this is cute, vintage fit.

0:26:11.880 --> 0:26:16.960
<v Speaker 1>Check wash your clothes, right fit, Check wash them clothes

0:26:17.040 --> 0:26:19.760
<v Speaker 1>before you put them on your body. I don't want

0:26:19.760 --> 0:26:21.600
<v Speaker 1>to say this, but I'm gonna put it out there.

0:26:22.280 --> 0:26:26.280
<v Speaker 1>I have a family member that like, they were trying

0:26:26.280 --> 0:26:28.720
<v Speaker 1>to get suits for him, and so they went to

0:26:28.800 --> 0:26:31.399
<v Speaker 1>Men's warehouse and they got a couple of suits and

0:26:31.400 --> 0:26:34.119
<v Speaker 1>they put all every suit on him, and they were like,

0:26:34.200 --> 0:26:36.200
<v Speaker 1>all right, the other two, we're not gonna use those.

0:26:37.800 --> 0:26:39.119
<v Speaker 2>You said, I'm not gonna finish it.

0:26:39.240 --> 0:26:43.760
<v Speaker 1>You're just like the way you look, just guarantee the

0:26:43.960 --> 0:26:49.960
<v Speaker 1>return policy perfect. How are you going back to Men's

0:26:49.960 --> 0:26:52.280
<v Speaker 1>warehouse with dead body crumbs on?

0:26:52.600 --> 0:26:54.000
<v Speaker 2>First of all, let's talk about this.

0:26:54.600 --> 0:26:56.920
<v Speaker 1>How why do they need to try that different suits

0:26:56.960 --> 0:26:58.919
<v Speaker 1>on them to see what they look like it's a

0:26:58.920 --> 0:27:00.040
<v Speaker 1>dead body because.

0:26:59.840 --> 0:27:02.480
<v Speaker 2>They want they want to make sure it matches the casket.

0:27:02.560 --> 0:27:04.320
<v Speaker 1>You know Black people they like the color cords.

0:27:04.359 --> 0:27:06.159
<v Speaker 2>Well, but you don't have to put the suit on

0:27:06.200 --> 0:27:06.679
<v Speaker 2>the body.

0:27:06.760 --> 0:27:09.360
<v Speaker 1>You can put it on it next to the lining

0:27:09.400 --> 0:27:11.879
<v Speaker 1>of a casket to be like the blue really setting

0:27:11.920 --> 0:27:12.359
<v Speaker 1>off the gray.

0:27:12.480 --> 0:27:14.120
<v Speaker 2>It's not like curtains. You can't.

0:27:14.200 --> 0:27:15.800
<v Speaker 1>It's not like curtains. You put it up against what

0:27:15.840 --> 0:27:16.880
<v Speaker 1>you got. Actually, see how.

0:27:17.240 --> 0:27:20.000
<v Speaker 2>I got some fabrics, watches not screaming.

0:27:21.040 --> 0:27:23.120
<v Speaker 1>I hope this conversation is not triggering for anybody who

0:27:23.840 --> 0:27:26.520
<v Speaker 1>had to spread some ashes or put men's warehouse on

0:27:26.560 --> 0:27:28.600
<v Speaker 1>a body. But first of all, I just want to

0:27:28.680 --> 0:27:32.080
<v Speaker 1>side note, this is mess. This is mess.

0:27:32.400 --> 0:27:34.359
<v Speaker 2>Some things are not gonna be right, some things are

0:27:34.359 --> 0:27:35.720
<v Speaker 2>gonna be all the way wrong.

0:27:35.920 --> 0:27:38.240
<v Speaker 1>But this is this is why you come here if

0:27:38.240 --> 0:27:41.560
<v Speaker 1>you want things to be politically correct and us to

0:27:41.800 --> 0:27:44.119
<v Speaker 1>know all the facts and say it in a in

0:27:44.160 --> 0:27:44.960
<v Speaker 1>a proper way.

0:27:45.119 --> 0:27:47.560
<v Speaker 2>No, it's not happening. Also, it's a podcast.

0:27:47.600 --> 0:27:51.040
<v Speaker 1>You're not listening to ten ten wins or Fox News

0:27:51.320 --> 0:27:55.200
<v Speaker 1>or I don't even know all the news networks NBR. Yeah,

0:27:55.400 --> 0:27:58.439
<v Speaker 1>it's not the daily, the daily, the Daily? Bread is it?

0:27:58.520 --> 0:28:04.040
<v Speaker 1>Was it the daily? It's not that m anyway. That

0:28:04.200 --> 0:28:06.840
<v Speaker 1>is Messydney, thank you for sharing that. It was Marie

0:28:06.960 --> 0:28:07.879
<v Speaker 1>the mortician. Yo.

0:28:07.920 --> 0:28:09.600
<v Speaker 2>When I tell y'all went to bed like this, you

0:28:09.640 --> 0:28:09.919
<v Speaker 2>want this?

0:28:09.960 --> 0:28:14.320
<v Speaker 1>You slapped your hands on your chest like a dead buddy.

0:28:14.600 --> 0:28:16.120
<v Speaker 2>So watching that, do you want to be cremated?

0:28:16.119 --> 0:28:19.080
<v Speaker 1>You think? Yo? This woman had a can, a can

0:28:19.119 --> 0:28:23.399
<v Speaker 1>that looked like like astrology cards was in it. She

0:28:23.520 --> 0:28:25.440
<v Speaker 1>was like, I thought my father was in it. Then

0:28:25.480 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 1>she puts the ashes on her hands. She said, I

0:28:27.800 --> 0:28:28.760
<v Speaker 1>don't think this is my father.

0:28:29.119 --> 0:28:35.040
<v Speaker 2>I said, get out of here. Drama drama.

0:28:35.359 --> 0:28:36.920
<v Speaker 1>This needs to be on Broadway.

0:28:37.200 --> 0:28:39.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I went to I went.

0:28:39.320 --> 0:28:42.560
<v Speaker 1>To this guy's house once and we were all sitting

0:28:42.560 --> 0:28:43.240
<v Speaker 1>around the table.

0:28:43.880 --> 0:28:46.240
<v Speaker 2>They somebody poured drinks. We get ready to drink.

0:28:46.560 --> 0:28:49.960
<v Speaker 1>He like tapped that tap tap that the thing in

0:28:49.960 --> 0:28:53.000
<v Speaker 1>the middle and I was like what, but everybody's tapping

0:28:53.000 --> 0:28:55.640
<v Speaker 1>their glass like kind of like toasting it. Yeah, and

0:28:55.680 --> 0:28:58.120
<v Speaker 1>he was like, that's my father in that can. I said,

0:28:58.440 --> 0:29:01.640
<v Speaker 1>why is he on the table? Also, why do I

0:29:01.680 --> 0:29:05.000
<v Speaker 1>have to tap? I don't know that, man? Is that

0:29:05.040 --> 0:29:07.200
<v Speaker 1>how they cheers? Yeah, they're like tap that. I mean

0:29:07.400 --> 0:29:10.800
<v Speaker 1>maybe it's a trainy thing, but I don't know what.

0:29:11.560 --> 0:29:11.959
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:29:11.960 --> 0:29:13.200
<v Speaker 2>There was a.

0:29:13.240 --> 0:29:19.320
<v Speaker 1>Tidadians in the building accent. Oh you're any training. I

0:29:19.360 --> 0:29:27.600
<v Speaker 1>don't know any I apologize, I apologize any trend Dadians listening.

0:29:27.680 --> 0:29:30.600
<v Speaker 2>If that's in your culture. In the comments, let's know.

0:29:31.360 --> 0:29:33.640
<v Speaker 2>And if it's not, also, let us know. It's mess.

0:29:33.720 --> 0:29:37.080
<v Speaker 1>It's mess. It's nice when we're here for yeah, but

0:29:37.120 --> 0:29:39.080
<v Speaker 1>it's it's It's already only the beginning of the week

0:29:39.080 --> 0:29:42.440
<v Speaker 1>and already a lot of mess has transpired. Oh, Marie,

0:29:43.040 --> 0:29:47.360
<v Speaker 1>another thing, Well wait no, let me, I'm hugging what

0:29:47.480 --> 0:29:50.120
<v Speaker 1>you guys. Sis, Oh, I was just gonna talk about

0:29:50.120 --> 0:29:51.600
<v Speaker 1>how I was late to the Tonys.

0:29:51.840 --> 0:29:54.200
<v Speaker 2>Oh oh yeah, I thought you talked about that already.

0:29:54.240 --> 0:29:54.280
<v Speaker 1>No.

0:29:54.360 --> 0:29:55.840
<v Speaker 2>No, I was late to Sunset Boulevard.

0:29:55.880 --> 0:29:59.600
<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, yes, no say that as well. Say that, Sis,

0:29:59.600 --> 0:30:01.120
<v Speaker 1>bring that, I'll bring that back in.

0:30:03.360 --> 0:30:04.080
<v Speaker 2>I just you know.

0:30:04.240 --> 0:30:06.800
<v Speaker 1>I was invited as a content creator, and so the

0:30:06.880 --> 0:30:08.880
<v Speaker 1>whole point was for me to create content to get

0:30:08.920 --> 0:30:11.120
<v Speaker 1>people to watch the Tonys. And they were like, we

0:30:11.120 --> 0:30:12.520
<v Speaker 1>want you to be there, we want you to be

0:30:12.560 --> 0:30:16.120
<v Speaker 1>there at one twenty pm, and the Tony started at

0:30:16.160 --> 0:30:19.760
<v Speaker 1>eight pm? And I said, well, why would that's mad hours?

0:30:20.000 --> 0:30:22.200
<v Speaker 1>And I said, I'm not, I'm not, I will, I shan't,

0:30:22.640 --> 0:30:26.600
<v Speaker 1>I can't, I won'ts. But somebody was mad at me,

0:30:26.720 --> 0:30:28.680
<v Speaker 1>like I was shooting content while I was running late

0:30:29.200 --> 0:30:31.480
<v Speaker 1>and giving people updates that I was like twenty minutes

0:30:31.520 --> 0:30:34.520
<v Speaker 1>and then thirty minutes or whatever late. And somebody sent

0:30:34.560 --> 0:30:36.960
<v Speaker 1>me a DM and said, do better.

0:30:37.200 --> 0:30:42.320
<v Speaker 2>Well, do better. Being late is not cute, Marie. What

0:30:42.360 --> 0:30:42.800
<v Speaker 2>do you think?

0:30:43.320 --> 0:30:45.080
<v Speaker 1>I think you don't need to be in my inbox?

0:30:45.200 --> 0:30:47.440
<v Speaker 1>DM and me like that, we're just trying to look

0:30:47.440 --> 0:30:51.640
<v Speaker 1>out for you, sister. No, listen, I got there. When

0:30:51.640 --> 0:30:53.680
<v Speaker 1>I got there, and you know, I didn't miss a

0:30:53.680 --> 0:30:56.440
<v Speaker 1>bunch of photo op ops. But I didn't make it

0:30:56.480 --> 0:30:59.240
<v Speaker 1>to the red carpet, and that was at like four thirty.

0:30:59.560 --> 0:31:02.600
<v Speaker 1>So from from one o'clock till four thirty, and then

0:31:02.600 --> 0:31:04.600
<v Speaker 1>from four thirty to eight o'clock it was a lot.

0:31:04.640 --> 0:31:06.920
<v Speaker 1>And then my phone was at nineteen percent when the

0:31:06.960 --> 0:31:10.840
<v Speaker 1>actual Tony started at eight o'clock. It's too long of

0:31:10.880 --> 0:31:17.800
<v Speaker 1>a day. I wasn't even nominated. You were there for

0:31:18.040 --> 0:31:22.120
<v Speaker 1>what wo RK work? Right?

0:31:22.280 --> 0:31:24.560
<v Speaker 2>But let the record show even though I was late

0:31:24.640 --> 0:31:25.720
<v Speaker 2>to get in there, I.

0:31:25.680 --> 0:31:29.520
<v Speaker 1>Was already shooting content at the crib about the Tonys, right,

0:31:29.600 --> 0:31:31.640
<v Speaker 1>So I was already. It's not like I was late

0:31:31.680 --> 0:31:32.960
<v Speaker 1>for work and not working.

0:31:33.440 --> 0:31:34.920
<v Speaker 2>I was doing the work.

0:31:35.400 --> 0:31:39.040
<v Speaker 1>Hey Mary, you know it sound good? Hello, el it

0:31:39.080 --> 0:31:41.240
<v Speaker 1>sounds what's your employer are saying? Because me, I ain't

0:31:41.280 --> 0:31:47.200
<v Speaker 1>your employer. My employer is me. Okay, you're your own boss.

0:31:47.840 --> 0:31:50.720
<v Speaker 1>But if the boss say show up late, then we

0:31:50.800 --> 0:31:57.000
<v Speaker 1>all late. Let's go listen. It's meta. It's meta, and

0:31:57.080 --> 0:31:59.560
<v Speaker 1>meta has what we've been late to many a thing

0:31:59.600 --> 0:32:03.000
<v Speaker 1>for because of meta and or facebooks or Instagram. So

0:32:03.200 --> 0:32:04.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, I was doing what I needed to do

0:32:04.640 --> 0:32:05.600
<v Speaker 1>to get where I needed to get.

0:32:06.520 --> 0:32:09.640
<v Speaker 2>Miss Marie, I'm gonna touch your hand when I say this.

0:32:09.920 --> 0:32:10.880
<v Speaker 2>Your hands so soft.

0:32:10.920 --> 0:32:13.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh, but I'm saying something seriously. Okay, let me get

0:32:13.760 --> 0:32:15.960
<v Speaker 1>your soft, squishy hand, Marie.

0:32:16.480 --> 0:32:19.080
<v Speaker 2>Half of the year's gone. Yeah, the other half of

0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:21.720
<v Speaker 2>the years up to you. It's in your hands.

0:32:22.000 --> 0:32:24.320
<v Speaker 1>I think you really can, at least most of the week,

0:32:24.480 --> 0:32:26.680
<v Speaker 1>be on time most of the week, most of the week.

0:32:27.000 --> 0:32:28.360
<v Speaker 2>So how what's that four days?

0:32:29.000 --> 0:32:30.320
<v Speaker 1>Or if I have like four things to do on

0:32:30.320 --> 0:32:32.440
<v Speaker 1>one day, like on time to three of the things,

0:32:33.080 --> 0:32:36.440
<v Speaker 1>or one day needs to be an on time day.

0:32:36.520 --> 0:32:39.800
<v Speaker 1>And this is the thing. Marie is so charming and funny,

0:32:39.920 --> 0:32:42.400
<v Speaker 1>and when she shows up you're like mad, But then

0:32:42.440 --> 0:32:46.280
<v Speaker 1>you're like, well, she is a good time and she's

0:32:46.360 --> 0:32:49.920
<v Speaker 1>gonna be great. So I guess, I guess I'm gonna

0:32:49.920 --> 0:32:54.320
<v Speaker 1>do it. I'm gonna I said, starting today, today, today,

0:32:54.520 --> 0:32:57.000
<v Speaker 1>not tomorrow tomorrow.

0:32:57.600 --> 0:32:58.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm starting today.

0:32:58.560 --> 0:33:01.240
<v Speaker 1>Okay. We could be on Broadway. We could.

0:33:01.520 --> 0:33:03.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well a little singing duo situation.

0:33:04.000 --> 0:33:05.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you think you can sing and dance at the

0:33:05.720 --> 0:33:10.720
<v Speaker 1>same time? No, okay, So I'm one day nine of

0:33:10.760 --> 0:33:14.560
<v Speaker 1>hard seventy five, like you've been doing it for at

0:33:14.640 --> 0:33:15.400
<v Speaker 1>least Dan.

0:33:15.680 --> 0:33:16.440
<v Speaker 2>It's nine.

0:33:16.520 --> 0:33:19.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm on my ninth day and so I have to

0:33:20.480 --> 0:33:23.720
<v Speaker 1>work out twice a day. So I work out now,

0:33:23.880 --> 0:33:30.480
<v Speaker 1>me and my partner, Dwayne, my mate, my living mate,

0:33:31.280 --> 0:33:33.960
<v Speaker 1>we work out together. But he's like, oh, we're gonna

0:33:33.960 --> 0:33:35.920
<v Speaker 1>get tired of this. We gotta we need to like

0:33:36.000 --> 0:33:40.160
<v Speaker 1>take a class or whatever. So he's like, would you

0:33:40.200 --> 0:33:42.440
<v Speaker 1>take a dancing class? And I was like, I got

0:33:42.440 --> 0:33:45.240
<v Speaker 1>two left feet. I don't know, I'm being embarrassed. He said, okay,

0:33:45.280 --> 0:33:48.080
<v Speaker 1>well let's let's do let's do something together. Now I

0:33:48.080 --> 0:33:51.440
<v Speaker 1>have the video. He's so good. Yeah, he's a professional dancer.

0:33:51.720 --> 0:33:53.480
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't want to go to your class.

0:33:53.520 --> 0:33:55.520
<v Speaker 1>I need to go to the novice class, right, because

0:33:55.520 --> 0:33:58.040
<v Speaker 1>he's gonna be on that fast seven day.

0:34:00.720 --> 0:34:02.160
<v Speaker 2>And you're gonna be in the back Like wait, what

0:34:02.160 --> 0:34:02.600
<v Speaker 2>what is it?

0:34:02.680 --> 0:34:06.400
<v Speaker 1>Huh? Because people who are like trained dances, they learn

0:34:06.480 --> 0:34:09.440
<v Speaker 1>choreography quick, so we gotta see it like twice. Yeah,

0:34:09.520 --> 0:34:12.120
<v Speaker 1>he's good at memory. I mean even with lines. I

0:34:12.160 --> 0:34:15.040
<v Speaker 1>mean I'm just like, so there's nothing you can't do.

0:34:15.200 --> 0:34:17.200
<v Speaker 1>YEA cool? I hate that? Actually hate that.

0:34:17.520 --> 0:34:19.520
<v Speaker 2>No, I love that, but I love that. I'm like,

0:34:20.120 --> 0:34:22.239
<v Speaker 2>can you give that to me?

0:34:23.200 --> 0:34:26.560
<v Speaker 1>I want that. I'm so left. I'm like, but Sidney,

0:34:26.600 --> 0:34:28.719
<v Speaker 1>I've seen you dance before. You you can figure it out.

0:34:29.560 --> 0:34:33.319
<v Speaker 1>That was red Bull. This is me just clear clear.

0:34:33.280 --> 0:34:35.759
<v Speaker 2>Well can you do like an asai bowl? Can you

0:34:35.800 --> 0:34:37.560
<v Speaker 2>do well?

0:34:37.560 --> 0:34:39.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm working on my sugar intake so like I have to.

0:34:40.000 --> 0:34:42.080
<v Speaker 1>It depends on what kind of fruits I'm putting in there.

0:34:42.719 --> 0:34:44.759
<v Speaker 1>This is crazy, Like, I can't believe I'm doing this

0:34:44.800 --> 0:34:47.560
<v Speaker 1>in the summer. This is ridiculous. And I'm like, where

0:34:47.600 --> 0:34:51.120
<v Speaker 1>are the apps? My back hurts, my neck and my

0:34:51.239 --> 0:34:55.919
<v Speaker 1>back hurt, my legs aching, where are the muscles? Oh?

0:34:56.080 --> 0:34:58.200
<v Speaker 1>You think after you said you on your ninth day

0:34:58.239 --> 0:34:59.840
<v Speaker 1>you thought you was gonna have abs already?

0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:02.680
<v Speaker 2>I mean, hellol, it's coming.

0:35:02.760 --> 0:35:04.760
<v Speaker 1>I feel like Jesus came out the wound with abs

0:35:04.800 --> 0:35:06.880
<v Speaker 1>like I need the same. Oh girl, I didn't know

0:35:06.920 --> 0:35:10.759
<v Speaker 1>that you knew marrying them like that. I was there

0:35:10.760 --> 0:35:13.560
<v Speaker 1>at the births. What you're talking about, you the godmother God?

0:35:13.760 --> 0:35:17.920
<v Speaker 1>I was there and everything I was. I was a

0:35:18.080 --> 0:35:20.279
<v Speaker 1>what's that wife? The midwe I was the midwife and

0:35:20.320 --> 0:35:21.720
<v Speaker 1>then what's that wife?

0:35:21.920 --> 0:35:22.480
<v Speaker 2>The mid one?

0:35:22.880 --> 0:35:23.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:35:23.200 --> 0:35:26.800
<v Speaker 2>Now Sydney, I feel like you after like thirty.

0:35:26.520 --> 0:35:28.200
<v Speaker 1>Days, you'll thirty the results.

0:35:28.280 --> 0:35:31.120
<v Speaker 2>That's what I think. Any days, I think realistically you

0:35:31.160 --> 0:35:31.840
<v Speaker 2>need like a month.

0:35:33.160 --> 0:35:35.760
<v Speaker 1>If there's any listeners who are like trying to change

0:35:35.800 --> 0:35:39.520
<v Speaker 1>their lives and they're like in this transformative period, like

0:35:39.600 --> 0:35:41.439
<v Speaker 1>how long did it take you to be like I'm

0:35:41.480 --> 0:35:42.560
<v Speaker 1>seeing results?

0:35:42.880 --> 0:35:45.160
<v Speaker 2>Because that's what I'm here. I'm here for the results.

0:35:45.239 --> 0:35:47.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. But you know what, Sidney, you not gonna see

0:35:47.120 --> 0:35:50.040
<v Speaker 1>the results in you. Somebody else is gonna look at

0:35:50.040 --> 0:35:51.640
<v Speaker 1>you one day and be like, oh snap, girl, like

0:35:51.840 --> 0:35:55.040
<v Speaker 1>this little boss up, and you're gonna be like, it's

0:35:55.120 --> 0:35:58.920
<v Speaker 1>because you see yourself every day and Dwayne sees you

0:35:59.120 --> 0:36:02.520
<v Speaker 1>every day. Yeah, so it's gonna take somebody from the

0:36:02.520 --> 0:36:06.120
<v Speaker 1>outside looking in to be like oh snaps. And it's

0:36:06.120 --> 0:36:09.960
<v Speaker 1>not gonna happen on the ninth day, baby, oh m.

0:36:10.880 --> 0:36:15.240
<v Speaker 1>But the thing is okay, So this is what's crazy

0:36:15.600 --> 0:36:19.080
<v Speaker 1>because people say, oh, you already look good, you look great?

0:36:19.120 --> 0:36:20.960
<v Speaker 1>What are you Like? I was going on stage like

0:36:20.960 --> 0:36:24.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm doing hard seventy five and they're like why, and

0:36:24.600 --> 0:36:27.520
<v Speaker 1>it's like, baby, it's like more than just I love

0:36:27.560 --> 0:36:30.800
<v Speaker 1>a child looking good. It's more about like feeling good,

0:36:30.920 --> 0:36:34.240
<v Speaker 1>like being disciplined and sticking to something.

0:36:34.280 --> 0:36:36.520
<v Speaker 2>You know, even though you know, I love giving up.

0:36:37.520 --> 0:36:40.799
<v Speaker 1>I love tapping now, I love giving up. I'd be like,

0:36:40.840 --> 0:36:42.879
<v Speaker 1>you know what I got, You got it, you got it.

0:36:42.920 --> 0:36:43.120
<v Speaker 2>Listen.

0:36:43.200 --> 0:36:43.680
<v Speaker 1>You don't want to.

0:36:43.680 --> 0:36:46.520
<v Speaker 2>Give up, but sometimes there's sweet relief and giving up.

0:36:46.719 --> 0:36:48.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm not telling you to give up, but I'm saying, like,

0:36:48.680 --> 0:36:51.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, sometimes have you like done a plank and

0:36:51.440 --> 0:36:54.279
<v Speaker 1>you gotta hold it for like sixty seconds or thirty second,

0:36:54.280 --> 0:36:57.040
<v Speaker 1>whatever amount of time, and sometimes you just gotta bend

0:36:57.040 --> 0:36:58.879
<v Speaker 1>the knee. You have to tap that knee down.

0:37:00.080 --> 0:37:01.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I go so mu's better.

0:37:01.719 --> 0:37:03.919
<v Speaker 1>But then I don't know, maybe you're disappointed in yourself

0:37:03.920 --> 0:37:06.319
<v Speaker 1>because you could have made it all the way, Like

0:37:06.480 --> 0:37:09.759
<v Speaker 1>we could have made it to We could have made

0:37:09.760 --> 0:37:11.200
<v Speaker 1>it to the play, but we would not have made

0:37:11.200 --> 0:37:15.520
<v Speaker 1>it through, Okay, I'm sure of that. I was way

0:37:15.560 --> 0:37:18.200
<v Speaker 1>too hungry and the play is two and a half

0:37:18.280 --> 0:37:20.680
<v Speaker 1>hours long, and we would have been sitting there in

0:37:20.719 --> 0:37:24.960
<v Speaker 1>the dark listening to Don't you wish your girlfriend was

0:37:25.360 --> 0:37:34.160
<v Speaker 1>hot like me? No, don't she be sure girlfriend hot

0:37:34.600 --> 0:37:42.120
<v Speaker 1>like me? Don't you wish your girlfriend was hot like me?

0:37:45.120 --> 0:38:10.640
<v Speaker 1>That's it. That's that, yo, we gotta do. Let's talk

0:38:10.680 --> 0:38:12.359
<v Speaker 1>about what you're gonna eat for the summer, because Heart

0:38:12.440 --> 0:38:15.440
<v Speaker 1>seventy five says the summer's gonna be hard for you.

0:38:15.840 --> 0:38:17.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:38:17.320 --> 0:38:21.319
<v Speaker 1>Well, guys, I've been making breakfast pretty much every day,

0:38:21.400 --> 0:38:27.960
<v Speaker 1>so it's like art boiled eggs, like veggies, turkey, bacon.

0:38:28.880 --> 0:38:32.279
<v Speaker 1>I think we might get a blender. Oh, I'm gonna

0:38:32.280 --> 0:38:37.279
<v Speaker 1>start making smoothie. New developments over there, lend. But the

0:38:37.400 --> 0:38:41.680
<v Speaker 1>problem is with the blenders is like, that's so much

0:38:41.680 --> 0:38:43.040
<v Speaker 1>stuff you gotta buy.

0:38:43.239 --> 0:38:44.919
<v Speaker 2>Produce is expensive right now.

0:38:45.000 --> 0:38:46.520
<v Speaker 1>Produce is expensive, but.

0:38:46.560 --> 0:38:48.880
<v Speaker 2>What you mean you gotta get milk or like a

0:38:49.040 --> 0:38:49.720
<v Speaker 2>juice base.

0:38:50.840 --> 0:38:55.080
<v Speaker 1>I still have dairy, but I've toned down tremendously.

0:38:55.640 --> 0:38:57.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't have no milk, no more.

0:38:57.000 --> 0:39:01.160
<v Speaker 1>No oat milk for you, no almond milk. You still

0:39:01.200 --> 0:39:04.480
<v Speaker 1>drinking whole milk like you like it's nineteen ninety nine.

0:39:04.560 --> 0:39:07.960
<v Speaker 2>I love a red cap. I love a red cap.

0:39:08.040 --> 0:39:08.680
<v Speaker 2>I stand on that.

0:39:08.800 --> 0:39:11.480
<v Speaker 1>I was raised by the red cap. Wow, the red

0:39:11.480 --> 0:39:14.719
<v Speaker 1>cap feel like maga. But bo No, No, not like

0:39:14.800 --> 0:39:18.000
<v Speaker 1>that like cat, the red cap on the milk. You

0:39:18.040 --> 0:39:20.960
<v Speaker 1>know it's the red cap. No, people who are Republicans,

0:39:21.000 --> 0:39:23.000
<v Speaker 1>you knew what the f I men. But I'm saying

0:39:23.040 --> 0:39:25.120
<v Speaker 1>Republicans probably drink a whole milk more.

0:39:24.960 --> 0:39:27.160
<v Speaker 2>Than anybody else. No, they don't drink any milk.

0:39:27.200 --> 0:39:30.000
<v Speaker 1>They drink a whole milk from the ball. They don't

0:39:30.000 --> 0:39:33.640
<v Speaker 1>look like they have they made out of milk. No,

0:39:34.200 --> 0:39:35.200
<v Speaker 1>they see through.

0:39:35.200 --> 0:39:37.440
<v Speaker 2>The old milk is like blue States. You know what

0:39:37.480 --> 0:39:37.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm saying.

0:39:38.040 --> 0:39:41.080
<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, you know I was raised in a home

0:39:41.360 --> 0:39:44.920
<v Speaker 1>where they did two percent milk and I hated that.

0:39:45.440 --> 0:39:46.600
<v Speaker 2>I hate white water.

0:39:46.719 --> 0:39:49.600
<v Speaker 1>I was like, what do you this is? No, honestly,

0:39:49.920 --> 0:39:54.240
<v Speaker 1>it was like water down glue. It just was just weird.

0:39:54.239 --> 0:39:57.120
<v Speaker 1>It's like, what are you guys doing? And then they

0:39:57.120 --> 0:40:00.520
<v Speaker 1>will put the splendor in the corn flakes, the sweet

0:40:00.560 --> 0:40:02.480
<v Speaker 1>and low in the corn flake. They're like, oh, we

0:40:02.520 --> 0:40:06.040
<v Speaker 1>can't have sugar. I'm like, where am I living? This

0:40:06.200 --> 0:40:11.600
<v Speaker 1>is child abuse? Splendor in the corn flake? Yes, so

0:40:11.840 --> 0:40:16.279
<v Speaker 1>sticky glue, sast cereal. It was nasty, like there was

0:40:16.440 --> 0:40:20.560
<v Speaker 1>so many years. I remember when I finally had tricks. Oh,

0:40:20.680 --> 0:40:23.520
<v Speaker 1>I remember Trick. When it was cracked for me, I

0:40:23.640 --> 0:40:25.399
<v Speaker 1>was jumping on the walls because I was like, oh

0:40:25.400 --> 0:40:28.719
<v Speaker 1>my god, this is pure sugar. Praise be what's your

0:40:28.760 --> 0:40:31.440
<v Speaker 1>favorite cereal from when you were a kid. My favorite

0:40:31.440 --> 0:40:32.919
<v Speaker 1>cereal to list some few?

0:40:33.080 --> 0:40:35.120
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, no, you got it. You know, I know

0:40:35.200 --> 0:40:35.680
<v Speaker 2>the cereal.

0:40:36.360 --> 0:40:41.560
<v Speaker 1>I liked cinnamon toast crunch that was good, Fruit Loops

0:40:42.520 --> 0:40:45.560
<v Speaker 1>that was cute. I like the Rice Crispy Treats that

0:40:45.680 --> 0:40:48.680
<v Speaker 1>was actually rice, like chunks of rice crispy. That was

0:40:48.760 --> 0:40:52.000
<v Speaker 1>like limited edition or something like that. For some reason,

0:40:52.239 --> 0:40:53.960
<v Speaker 1>they took it off the shelves and I don't know why.

0:40:54.000 --> 0:40:57.719
<v Speaker 2>We candy. It was the best I remember so good.

0:40:57.800 --> 0:41:00.719
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I had that cereal one time and

0:41:00.760 --> 0:41:04.560
<v Speaker 1>then I and then it never was at the store

0:41:04.600 --> 0:41:05.040
<v Speaker 1>of again.

0:41:05.160 --> 0:41:07.920
<v Speaker 2>It was like it was like Sprite Remix. Did you

0:41:07.960 --> 0:41:08.719
<v Speaker 2>have that? I didn't have that.

0:41:08.800 --> 0:41:11.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh I had Sprite Remix in college and I was like, oh,

0:41:11.040 --> 0:41:13.800
<v Speaker 1>this is bomb, And then it was gone, what's sprite remix?

0:41:14.800 --> 0:41:18.400
<v Speaker 1>It's sprite, but like with a twist, like they wouldn't

0:41:18.440 --> 0:41:21.120
<v Speaker 1>explain what flavor it was, but it felt kind of

0:41:21.200 --> 0:41:25.400
<v Speaker 1>like tropical issues. Oh it was sprite, but it tasted

0:41:25.440 --> 0:41:27.399
<v Speaker 1>like a red some yes, but I.

0:41:27.400 --> 0:41:28.879
<v Speaker 2>Tell you it messed me up so bad.

0:41:28.920 --> 0:41:32.160
<v Speaker 1>I had that with Absolute Citron and when I tell you,

0:41:32.239 --> 0:41:34.759
<v Speaker 1>it rocked my socks. I said, I'll never touch either

0:41:34.800 --> 0:41:36.600
<v Speaker 1>of these again. And then it was off the shelves anyway,

0:41:36.600 --> 0:41:39.719
<v Speaker 1>and I said, God, Gods, don't play about me. Yo.

0:41:39.840 --> 0:41:42.160
<v Speaker 2>Remember when they tried to introduce purple ketchup or.

0:41:42.120 --> 0:41:44.440
<v Speaker 1>Something I don't remember, say purple ketchup or blue ketchup.

0:41:44.440 --> 0:41:46.520
<v Speaker 1>It was a different color ketchup, and it was like,

0:41:47.400 --> 0:41:49.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean, my mother didn't buy it, but it just

0:41:50.520 --> 0:41:51.600
<v Speaker 1>it just looked wrong.

0:41:52.200 --> 0:41:52.880
<v Speaker 2>I think that's.

0:41:52.680 --> 0:41:56.240
<v Speaker 1>Why you look so good, because your family didn't introduce

0:41:56.280 --> 0:41:57.680
<v Speaker 1>you to all that trash. Yeah.

0:41:57.680 --> 0:41:59.839
<v Speaker 2>My mom was like, I'm not buying that, and it was.

0:41:59.760 --> 0:42:04.920
<v Speaker 1>Like please what purple ketchup? No, yeah, it looks like

0:42:04.960 --> 0:42:10.160
<v Speaker 1>you didn't have spam Diana sausages. My dad bought those ones,

0:42:10.200 --> 0:42:12.640
<v Speaker 1>and my mother laughed at him, and then me and

0:42:12.680 --> 0:42:15.799
<v Speaker 1>my my siblings were like, lim, can I taste it's

0:42:15.800 --> 0:42:19.520
<v Speaker 1>a sausage in the can? What is that nasty? Yeah?

0:42:19.560 --> 0:42:21.520
<v Speaker 1>But I didn't have spam until recently, like for the

0:42:21.560 --> 0:42:23.080
<v Speaker 1>first time, like maybe like two years ago.

0:42:23.080 --> 0:42:26.360
<v Speaker 2>I had spam fried spam bomb. And now what you

0:42:26.400 --> 0:42:30.040
<v Speaker 2>eat in the spam with what pears well with spam rice.

0:42:30.160 --> 0:42:34.120
<v Speaker 1>Rice, but also eggs, like make it for breakfast and

0:42:34.120 --> 0:42:37.480
<v Speaker 1>stuff spam and eggs. Yeaes spam and eggs. You can

0:42:37.520 --> 0:42:38.880
<v Speaker 1>make a little spam sandwich.

0:42:39.000 --> 0:42:41.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so the spam is the bread.

0:42:41.560 --> 0:42:45.319
<v Speaker 1>No, girl, you put the spam on the bread and

0:42:45.360 --> 0:42:46.759
<v Speaker 1>then put like some cheese in it.

0:42:46.880 --> 0:42:48.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, We're doing all types of things.

0:42:49.400 --> 0:42:49.760
<v Speaker 1>Damn.

0:42:49.880 --> 0:42:52.160
<v Speaker 2>So do you miss spam during the heart seventy five?

0:42:52.920 --> 0:42:56.520
<v Speaker 1>No? I will say. The second day, I'm walking and

0:42:56.600 --> 0:43:00.319
<v Speaker 1>I never ever ever seen donut shop like that.

0:43:00.440 --> 0:43:02.319
<v Speaker 2>I would It was like every other block was a

0:43:02.360 --> 0:43:02.879
<v Speaker 2>donut shot.

0:43:03.840 --> 0:43:07.120
<v Speaker 1>I said, I would love a glaze donut. Oh, a

0:43:07.160 --> 0:43:09.799
<v Speaker 1>gleaz don'nut sound nice? And and the thing is that

0:43:10.040 --> 0:43:13.640
<v Speaker 1>has made me so on edge coffee on seventy six

0:43:13.960 --> 0:43:18.320
<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to guzzle down an espresso. Are you serious?

0:43:18.760 --> 0:43:20.680
<v Speaker 1>So you're gonna go through all of this, You gonna

0:43:20.719 --> 0:43:22.640
<v Speaker 1>get the caffeine out of your system in these seventy

0:43:22.680 --> 0:43:24.520
<v Speaker 1>five days, and then on the seventy sixth day, you're

0:43:24.520 --> 0:43:26.520
<v Speaker 1>gonna wake up and get coffee. This is how but

0:43:26.680 --> 0:43:31.680
<v Speaker 1>this is how disgusting addiction is that I'm on the

0:43:31.800 --> 0:43:34.560
<v Speaker 1>ninth day, I'm still thinking about and I'm like, I

0:43:34.600 --> 0:43:36.640
<v Speaker 1>can't wait till this is over so I can drink

0:43:36.640 --> 0:43:38.360
<v Speaker 1>it again. Yeah, but you know what, after the seventy

0:43:38.360 --> 0:43:40.280
<v Speaker 1>five days, you might not even be thinking about coffee.

0:43:40.640 --> 0:43:42.279
<v Speaker 2>You might not be missing the taste of it when

0:43:42.280 --> 0:43:43.759
<v Speaker 2>you're done. I hope, I pray.

0:43:43.840 --> 0:43:46.359
<v Speaker 1>They say that when you get something out of your

0:43:46.400 --> 0:43:49.640
<v Speaker 1>system and you reintroduce it, you're like, this is nasty.

0:43:49.680 --> 0:43:51.239
<v Speaker 2>This actually doesn't taste good at all.

0:43:51.440 --> 0:43:55.480
<v Speaker 1>And I believe that because even at my like worse

0:43:56.040 --> 0:43:58.839
<v Speaker 1>in terms of coffee, like having like five shots a day,

0:43:59.640 --> 0:44:02.279
<v Speaker 1>I was like, this is so nasty. I would have

0:44:02.400 --> 0:44:06.200
<v Speaker 1>to wash it down with like a juice. You drink

0:44:06.239 --> 0:44:07.920
<v Speaker 1>espresso and then you watch it down with juice.

0:44:08.719 --> 0:44:09.800
<v Speaker 2>That's not very European.

0:44:10.600 --> 0:44:15.080
<v Speaker 1>Girl. I didn't know you was first of all, five

0:44:15.239 --> 0:44:19.440
<v Speaker 1>espresso shots a day is wild and crazy and still

0:44:19.560 --> 0:44:24.200
<v Speaker 1>going to sleep baby still zzz zzz top.

0:44:26.520 --> 0:44:28.600
<v Speaker 2>That's why I was like, something is wrong with me.

0:44:28.719 --> 0:44:31.400
<v Speaker 1>But it was really that I was immune to the

0:44:31.480 --> 0:44:33.040
<v Speaker 1>caffeine because I've had so much.

0:44:33.160 --> 0:44:35.200
<v Speaker 2>Because I'm drinking the coffee.

0:44:34.880 --> 0:44:37.960
<v Speaker 1>Then doing a Red Bull at night. It was sick

0:44:38.000 --> 0:44:39.719
<v Speaker 1>of so what are you what are you prepping for?

0:44:39.840 --> 0:44:40.520
<v Speaker 2>What are you doing?

0:44:40.760 --> 0:44:41.200
<v Speaker 1>Who is this?

0:44:41.440 --> 0:44:44.040
<v Speaker 2>It was just to have conversations and to be on stage.

0:44:44.160 --> 0:44:47.919
<v Speaker 1>That was all. I wasn't folding no clothes. I wasn't

0:44:47.960 --> 0:44:50.840
<v Speaker 1>getting no work done this. You wasn't working on no memoir.

0:44:51.000 --> 0:44:52.280
<v Speaker 2>No, you was just just to maintain.

0:44:52.960 --> 0:44:56.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, Sidney, let's okay, you know what. I'm reinvigorated

0:44:57.120 --> 0:45:00.000
<v Speaker 1>for the hard seventy five. Okay, that's too much coffee

0:45:00.040 --> 0:45:00.680
<v Speaker 1>in your life.

0:45:00.520 --> 0:45:03.600
<v Speaker 2>Sis, Oh thank you, mother, drink mother.

0:45:03.800 --> 0:45:06.720
<v Speaker 1>Show them your giant thermist of water so the listeners

0:45:06.760 --> 0:45:08.920
<v Speaker 1>can see where we at, and I think we're like

0:45:09.560 --> 0:45:13.520
<v Speaker 1>right here, there's almost half well, you know, because when

0:45:13.560 --> 0:45:15.319
<v Speaker 1>I do my walk later, I'm gonna have to bring

0:45:15.360 --> 0:45:17.840
<v Speaker 1>this with me, which is embarrassing. But this is a weapon.

0:45:18.880 --> 0:45:21.480
<v Speaker 2>I wish, I bitch, what like this is I be

0:45:21.560 --> 0:45:22.080
<v Speaker 2>carrying it? Like?

0:45:24.239 --> 0:45:27.080
<v Speaker 1>But I remember going to dinner with you guys, and

0:45:27.160 --> 0:45:28.600
<v Speaker 1>y'all mate, y'all roasted meat.

0:45:28.880 --> 0:45:30.080
<v Speaker 2>Cydny blopped that on the table.

0:45:30.080 --> 0:45:31.400
<v Speaker 1>We were like, yeah, were gonna need a table for

0:45:31.520 --> 0:45:35.839
<v Speaker 1>ten because the thermist needs a chair as well. They

0:45:35.880 --> 0:45:38.839
<v Speaker 1>wanted me to hold somebody's baby, rosebuds baby, and it's like, well,

0:45:38.840 --> 0:45:41.759
<v Speaker 1>Sidny's got our own baby. You got this. It's a

0:45:41.880 --> 0:45:45.359
<v Speaker 1>bad dad. I can't wait for you to have your

0:45:45.440 --> 0:45:49.680
<v Speaker 1>fall body together, which is crazy because the fall you

0:45:49.719 --> 0:45:51.280
<v Speaker 1>don't really show off your body.

0:45:51.320 --> 0:45:53.000
<v Speaker 2>This is when the turtlenecks is poppubut.

0:45:53.040 --> 0:45:57.239
<v Speaker 1>But you can do a crop top under the leather jacket. Nah, girl,

0:45:57.440 --> 0:46:03.880
<v Speaker 1>I might if i'm if I'm really like talking my shit. Girl,

0:46:04.040 --> 0:46:07.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not wearing a jacket. I'm not wearing a jacket,

0:46:07.480 --> 0:46:10.040
<v Speaker 1>and I'm sleeveless. You think everywhere you think the hard

0:46:10.040 --> 0:46:14.839
<v Speaker 1>seventy five is gonna make your anemia go away? Maybe, girl,

0:46:14.880 --> 0:46:17.840
<v Speaker 1>because now I'm just putting things in my body that

0:46:17.920 --> 0:46:22.959
<v Speaker 1>I never have before, like fruits, vegetables. Wow, that's all

0:46:23.000 --> 0:46:27.640
<v Speaker 1>types of I just was not doing it. String beans, cauliflower, cauliflower,

0:46:28.160 --> 0:46:30.520
<v Speaker 1>CAULI aleutely spell it. I don't know, but I was

0:46:30.600 --> 0:46:33.120
<v Speaker 1>putting it in my mouth. I think we can spell

0:46:33.120 --> 0:46:38.800
<v Speaker 1>cauliflower if we tried it together. See a U l

0:46:39.080 --> 0:46:44.399
<v Speaker 1>I flower boo. Okay, Callie, no child left behind over here,

0:46:44.480 --> 0:46:46.399
<v Speaker 1>but we might.

0:46:46.360 --> 0:46:48.840
<v Speaker 2>Have left you bond. Now check our math. Is that

0:46:48.920 --> 0:46:50.239
<v Speaker 2>the right way to spell cauliflower?

0:46:50.520 --> 0:46:53.759
<v Speaker 1>It feels right, all right, So Marie, I have I'm

0:46:53.920 --> 0:46:57.240
<v Speaker 1>gonna bring mess or just livings?

0:46:57.520 --> 0:46:57.839
<v Speaker 2>Just living?

0:46:57.920 --> 0:46:59.880
<v Speaker 1>Okay? Is this message?

0:46:59.920 --> 0:47:00.319
<v Speaker 2>Just living?

0:47:00.640 --> 0:47:03.160
<v Speaker 1>This woman Goods on Instagram and she's like, yep, met

0:47:03.200 --> 0:47:06.200
<v Speaker 1>this man. You know we're dating. I'm like this is

0:47:06.239 --> 0:47:09.440
<v Speaker 1>the one. We're like planning our future together. And I'm like,

0:47:09.960 --> 0:47:12.120
<v Speaker 1>do this is who I want to be with? Boom,

0:47:12.440 --> 0:47:16.720
<v Speaker 1>she gets pregnant. She tells him she's pregnant. He like, actually,

0:47:17.920 --> 0:47:21.359
<v Speaker 1>run that back. I'm married and you need you need.

0:47:22.760 --> 0:47:25.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't even think he offered the five hundred dollars,

0:47:25.080 --> 0:47:26.839
<v Speaker 1>but he was like, you got to handle that, get

0:47:26.920 --> 0:47:28.759
<v Speaker 1>rid of it. Yeah. So then she goes to the

0:47:28.840 --> 0:47:32.600
<v Speaker 1>internet says all this and she's like I can't believe

0:47:32.719 --> 0:47:35.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm like forty and this is happening to me,

0:47:36.400 --> 0:47:40.960
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm six weeks pregnant. All the comments are like, girl,

0:47:41.320 --> 0:47:44.440
<v Speaker 1>you are in enough time to get that. At Bobo,

0:47:44.840 --> 0:47:46.440
<v Speaker 1>they were like, do you need somebody to pull up

0:47:46.480 --> 0:47:48.560
<v Speaker 1>to plant parenthood with juices? What do you need?

0:47:48.680 --> 0:47:50.879
<v Speaker 2>You want some sweats? You want a two pie set?

0:47:51.440 --> 0:47:55.680
<v Speaker 1>You gotta get, Like, don't don't ruin your life like this, Yeah,

0:47:55.840 --> 0:47:58.160
<v Speaker 1>not ruin your life with a baby, but like ruin

0:47:58.239 --> 0:48:00.359
<v Speaker 1>your life in like a messy situation. They're like, if

0:48:00.400 --> 0:48:03.520
<v Speaker 1>he's already saying I'm not gonna be here for this.

0:48:03.920 --> 0:48:07.680
<v Speaker 1>Believe him, Yes, believe him? Is it mess that she

0:48:07.800 --> 0:48:11.880
<v Speaker 1>double backed and was like, actually, I'm gonna make this work.

0:48:12.600 --> 0:48:14.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm not with him, but like, I'm gonna have this

0:48:14.680 --> 0:48:17.719
<v Speaker 2>baby with or without him. Where does she meet him?

0:48:18.480 --> 0:48:18.680
<v Speaker 1>You know?

0:48:19.280 --> 0:48:22.000
<v Speaker 2>Since you know, I don't know the specifics. I'm listening

0:48:22.040 --> 0:48:23.120
<v Speaker 2>in and out, in and out.

0:48:23.239 --> 0:48:23.479
<v Speaker 1>Girl.

0:48:23.600 --> 0:48:25.239
<v Speaker 2>We know that she's six weeks, but we don't know

0:48:25.280 --> 0:48:27.319
<v Speaker 2>where she met this. No, I don't know if it's

0:48:27.520 --> 0:48:29.279
<v Speaker 2>a train, a plane, or hinge. I don't know.

0:48:29.520 --> 0:48:31.200
<v Speaker 1>Is it messy or just living for her to be like,

0:48:31.239 --> 0:48:33.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm still gonna have this baby. Yeah, I feel like

0:48:33.719 --> 0:48:36.000
<v Speaker 1>it's a little bit of both, but I understand why.

0:48:36.320 --> 0:48:38.959
<v Speaker 1>Like you said, she's forty, this could be her last

0:48:39.040 --> 0:48:41.919
<v Speaker 1>chance to do it, and you know, at your big

0:48:41.960 --> 0:48:44.279
<v Speaker 1>age to be showing up at the plant parenthood or

0:48:44.320 --> 0:48:48.279
<v Speaker 1>the gynecologist to terminate a pregnancy. It's like, can you

0:48:48.719 --> 0:48:50.520
<v Speaker 1>if this is something that you can do on your own,

0:48:50.640 --> 0:48:52.480
<v Speaker 1>and you've decided you want to do it, then I

0:48:52.560 --> 0:48:56.960
<v Speaker 1>guess do it. But it's also messy because she's now

0:48:57.040 --> 0:49:01.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna be tied to that man forever. Like if he's

0:49:01.440 --> 0:49:02.839
<v Speaker 1>telling you to get rid of it, and he doesn't

0:49:02.840 --> 0:49:05.279
<v Speaker 1>want no parts. He's not gonna he's not gonna help

0:49:05.360 --> 0:49:07.719
<v Speaker 1>you out. But if you want this kid to have

0:49:07.960 --> 0:49:11.640
<v Speaker 1>relationship with their father, then you know that's where the

0:49:11.719 --> 0:49:15.160
<v Speaker 1>mess is. I don't know. I see so people in

0:49:15.239 --> 0:49:18.040
<v Speaker 1>the comments, they're like, okay, so if you agreeing to

0:49:18.280 --> 0:49:21.480
<v Speaker 1>like having the kid, then why are you going back

0:49:21.520 --> 0:49:23.600
<v Speaker 1>to him and being like, oh I need child support?

0:49:23.640 --> 0:49:25.480
<v Speaker 2>He already said I don't want no parts, right.

0:49:26.080 --> 0:49:26.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:49:26.560 --> 0:49:27.239
<v Speaker 2>It's a tough one.

0:49:27.560 --> 0:49:30.440
<v Speaker 1>You know what's mess? Why is it on the internet? Like,

0:49:30.719 --> 0:49:32.520
<v Speaker 1>just don't leave us out of it? I don't want

0:49:32.560 --> 0:49:35.120
<v Speaker 1>I like, why am I hearing this? I should not

0:49:35.239 --> 0:49:39.239
<v Speaker 1>be allowed to hear something so personal while I'm in

0:49:39.360 --> 0:49:43.880
<v Speaker 1>the shower. But wig off, that's what the internet is now.

0:49:44.000 --> 0:49:46.200
<v Speaker 1>First of all, she said, I'm not gonna get engaged

0:49:46.239 --> 0:49:49.040
<v Speaker 1>to this married man. I'm gonna get the engagement on socials.

0:49:49.480 --> 0:49:52.080
<v Speaker 1>She said, let me tell you something. This video gonna

0:49:52.120 --> 0:49:54.680
<v Speaker 1>go viral and then I'm gonna share my wish list

0:49:54.760 --> 0:49:56.279
<v Speaker 1>and get everything that my baby needs.

0:49:56.640 --> 0:49:59.359
<v Speaker 2>Maybe maybe that's the train of thought.

0:49:59.440 --> 0:50:02.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I know, before I make a decision, before

0:50:02.200 --> 0:50:04.399
<v Speaker 1>I post a certain picture, or I'll post a certain video,

0:50:04.680 --> 0:50:06.520
<v Speaker 1>I'll message you and be like which one is better?

0:50:07.000 --> 0:50:08.840
<v Speaker 1>Or message my and I'll message my sister and I

0:50:08.920 --> 0:50:11.560
<v Speaker 1>messaged like a couple different people, and then you know,

0:50:11.719 --> 0:50:16.239
<v Speaker 1>based on what the group says, I'll take that into consideration.

0:50:16.560 --> 0:50:19.160
<v Speaker 1>But I mean, going on social media to ask people

0:50:19.160 --> 0:50:21.560
<v Speaker 1>if you should have an abortion or not? Is is

0:50:21.719 --> 0:50:25.239
<v Speaker 1>miss But I don't think she asked that. I think

0:50:25.320 --> 0:50:28.800
<v Speaker 1>she was just saying, like, you know, this is what's happening.

0:50:29.239 --> 0:50:30.960
<v Speaker 1>Like I think she was like, I don't know what

0:50:31.040 --> 0:50:33.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do, but I mean it was it was

0:50:33.840 --> 0:50:37.000
<v Speaker 1>like fourteen thousand comments, I'm sure, and most of them

0:50:37.040 --> 0:50:38.960
<v Speaker 1>were like what in support of her or telling her

0:50:39.000 --> 0:50:42.000
<v Speaker 1>to you know. Yeah, they were like since what state

0:50:42.040 --> 0:50:44.919
<v Speaker 1>you live in? Is it? Because if you and New York, girl,

0:50:45.040 --> 0:50:48.520
<v Speaker 1>there's about three other locations quick fast. Yeah.

0:50:49.040 --> 0:50:49.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:50:49.480 --> 0:50:53.000
<v Speaker 1>And then other people's like I can't believe all these women,

0:50:53.280 --> 0:50:55.640
<v Speaker 1>like this is disgusting behavior.

0:50:56.120 --> 0:50:59.360
<v Speaker 2>What's disgusting telling her she should go to you know,

0:51:00.840 --> 0:51:01.920
<v Speaker 2>and she got a good job.

0:51:01.960 --> 0:51:03.279
<v Speaker 1>Did she look? What did her house look like in

0:51:03.360 --> 0:51:06.560
<v Speaker 1>the background, what was the we'll call the cabinet? Did

0:51:06.600 --> 0:51:10.000
<v Speaker 1>she have like with the bead of Queen's size, like no, no,

0:51:10.239 --> 0:51:13.960
<v Speaker 1>I just I will say this. I think you know,

0:51:14.960 --> 0:51:18.320
<v Speaker 1>if you think that you're ready to have a child,

0:51:18.760 --> 0:51:22.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm obviously all in support in that, but I also

0:51:22.239 --> 0:51:25.800
<v Speaker 1>think you got to think about the child, like is

0:51:25.880 --> 0:51:30.160
<v Speaker 1>this a situation that makes sense for this human being?

0:51:30.560 --> 0:51:35.560
<v Speaker 1>Like some things are preventable, and you know, that's how

0:51:35.600 --> 0:51:38.279
<v Speaker 1>I think about my mom. Sometimes it's like, Okay, the

0:51:38.400 --> 0:51:41.160
<v Speaker 1>first kid, all right, she didn't get it right, That's okay.

0:51:41.360 --> 0:51:43.640
<v Speaker 2>The second kid is like, all right, you know what,

0:51:43.800 --> 0:51:45.839
<v Speaker 2>maybe you're working through it. You might be better.

0:51:46.280 --> 0:51:49.279
<v Speaker 1>The third kid. The third kid, you're like, oh man,

0:51:50.120 --> 0:51:52.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to have this third kid. It's like, Mama,

0:51:52.760 --> 0:51:58.200
<v Speaker 1>you gotta close the shop down twenty four hours, no

0:51:58.400 --> 0:52:02.600
<v Speaker 1>more new customers. That's that's insane. By the third kid,

0:52:02.680 --> 0:52:06.960
<v Speaker 1>you still you're like, oh man, another kid. It's like, yeah,

0:52:07.040 --> 0:52:08.920
<v Speaker 1>so you have to do things to make sure you're

0:52:09.000 --> 0:52:12.120
<v Speaker 1>not having you're not getting pregnant. I understand that. But

0:52:12.239 --> 0:52:15.040
<v Speaker 1>if she did that, then you wouldn't be here. What

0:52:15.120 --> 0:52:21.759
<v Speaker 1>would you do? What do No? What would you do

0:52:21.880 --> 0:52:24.520
<v Speaker 1>without you? Yeah? Yeah, I wouldn't be here.

0:52:24.560 --> 0:52:26.600
<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't be in the red room with nobody.

0:52:26.840 --> 0:52:28.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Oh that's sweet.

0:52:29.280 --> 0:52:31.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh, my god, I think that was the gayest thing

0:52:31.080 --> 0:52:37.960
<v Speaker 2>I've heard. You say, I'll be bro but you know,

0:52:38.160 --> 0:52:38.520
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:52:39.719 --> 0:52:40.399
<v Speaker 1>I met a woman.

0:52:40.520 --> 0:52:42.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh at that dinner that we was at a couple

0:52:42.120 --> 0:52:43.120
<v Speaker 2>of months ago, I met a lady.

0:52:43.280 --> 0:52:45.640
<v Speaker 1>The girl who was sitting next to me, she's pregnant,

0:52:46.200 --> 0:52:49.080
<v Speaker 1>and she was saying that she had she she was

0:52:49.160 --> 0:52:52.680
<v Speaker 1>an author, and she was a successful, you know, woman

0:52:52.880 --> 0:52:55.800
<v Speaker 1>in the corporate world and YadA YadA, YadA ya, and

0:52:56.160 --> 0:52:58.920
<v Speaker 1>she was single and she didn't find a partner and

0:52:59.000 --> 0:53:01.920
<v Speaker 1>her biological clock ticking and she decided she's having a

0:53:02.000 --> 0:53:03.040
<v Speaker 1>baby by herself.

0:53:03.400 --> 0:53:05.200
<v Speaker 2>It's women who decide that they just gonna do it,

0:53:05.200 --> 0:53:07.680
<v Speaker 2>and they're not gonna wait for somebody to the right

0:53:07.800 --> 0:53:10.520
<v Speaker 2>person or the right time. They're like, the time is now.

0:53:11.360 --> 0:53:14.680
<v Speaker 2>I have the means I'm having this baby. Did you

0:53:14.760 --> 0:53:16.560
<v Speaker 2>get that she has the means?

0:53:17.760 --> 0:53:19.160
<v Speaker 1>Well, that's why I asked what the lady in the

0:53:19.200 --> 0:53:21.320
<v Speaker 1>background her house looked like, like, did it look like

0:53:21.360 --> 0:53:21.879
<v Speaker 1>she had the means?

0:53:21.960 --> 0:53:23.080
<v Speaker 2>Or was she doing it in her car?

0:53:23.360 --> 0:53:25.880
<v Speaker 1>Like? And what going to go with it was that

0:53:26.040 --> 0:53:28.000
<v Speaker 1>in a car. I don't think you need to be

0:53:28.320 --> 0:53:31.360
<v Speaker 1>rich to have a child, but I do know the

0:53:32.360 --> 0:53:34.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, mental anguish that you have to deal with

0:53:34.920 --> 0:53:39.720
<v Speaker 1>when you have like a deadbeat baby daddy. I personally

0:53:39.800 --> 0:53:41.440
<v Speaker 1>don't know about that, but that's not all you know,

0:53:41.480 --> 0:53:43.440
<v Speaker 1>the mental language. No, no, no, But I know people

0:53:43.480 --> 0:53:46.239
<v Speaker 1>who had to deal with that. It's affected because it

0:53:46.280 --> 0:53:51.160
<v Speaker 1>doesn't just affect the mother and the child, affects everybody

0:53:51.239 --> 0:53:55.000
<v Speaker 1>that's around them. It affects your tribe. It's trickled down.

0:53:55.080 --> 0:53:57.600
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't when people make decisions you're like, it's just me,

0:53:57.719 --> 0:53:59.560
<v Speaker 1>and no, that's not the case.

0:53:59.640 --> 0:54:00.640
<v Speaker 2>We all all involved.

0:54:00.680 --> 0:54:03.240
<v Speaker 1>Now. It takes a village. It does take a village.

0:54:03.280 --> 0:54:04.920
<v Speaker 1>But if you have a village that can help you

0:54:05.000 --> 0:54:09.719
<v Speaker 1>do it, then do it. But me personally, that's not

0:54:09.760 --> 0:54:11.000
<v Speaker 1>the way that I would want to do it. And

0:54:11.040 --> 0:54:13.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't even know if I ever need to do it.

0:54:13.520 --> 0:54:23.160
<v Speaker 2>But a liar baby, a married man's baby. I need

0:54:23.239 --> 0:54:25.359
<v Speaker 2>to know where she met him. You know what, I'll

0:54:25.360 --> 0:54:27.680
<v Speaker 2>go back. I'll find out for you.

0:54:27.840 --> 0:54:30.040
<v Speaker 1>And it's probably something crazy like she met him at

0:54:30.080 --> 0:54:32.919
<v Speaker 1>at the Lord's house, she met him at God's house.

0:54:33.680 --> 0:54:36.960
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm giving it's given church, yes, and

0:54:37.239 --> 0:54:39.239
<v Speaker 1>he and that means he was he wasn't bringing his

0:54:39.320 --> 0:54:43.279
<v Speaker 1>wife to church like he's a teator for multiple in

0:54:43.480 --> 0:54:44.160
<v Speaker 1>multiple ways.

0:54:44.280 --> 0:54:46.680
<v Speaker 2>That's O D. Shall we read some of these messages?

0:54:46.800 --> 0:54:46.920
<v Speaker 1>Yes?

0:54:47.000 --> 0:54:47.280
<v Speaker 2>Please.

0:54:47.880 --> 0:54:49.680
<v Speaker 1>My girlfriend and I have been together a year, but

0:54:49.800 --> 0:54:52.279
<v Speaker 1>she is the love of my life. There's no one

0:54:52.360 --> 0:54:54.520
<v Speaker 1>that compares to her. I want you guys to know.

0:54:54.600 --> 0:54:56.680
<v Speaker 1>Both of those sentences had an exclamation mark at the

0:54:56.760 --> 0:54:58.520
<v Speaker 1>end of the day. So it's the love of my

0:54:58.760 --> 0:55:02.160
<v Speaker 1>life and no one compares to her. A few months ago, though,

0:55:02.239 --> 0:55:04.600
<v Speaker 1>I messed up. I had a friend who is also

0:55:04.640 --> 0:55:08.160
<v Speaker 1>a lesbian, who was literally just a friend. We barely talked,

0:55:08.600 --> 0:55:11.360
<v Speaker 1>but when we did it was usually just, hey, this happened,

0:55:11.360 --> 0:55:13.160
<v Speaker 1>and I need advice before I run my mouth kind

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<v Speaker 1>of thing. I didn't mention it to my girlfriend simply

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<v Speaker 1>because we don't speak that often or about anything disrespectful.

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<v Speaker 1>My girlfriend found it and said I broke her trust

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<v Speaker 1>for not telling her I was friends with a lesbian.

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<v Speaker 1>She is friends with tons and half she's done stuff with,

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<v Speaker 1>but never had a relationship. Well months later after, she

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<v Speaker 1>said she would get over it because I didn't do

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<v Speaker 1>anything wrong technically, she keeps throwing jabs like I hope

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<v Speaker 1>you never cheat on me, or I hope you're not

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<v Speaker 1>talking to anybody you're not supposed to.

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<v Speaker 2>It hurts my feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I should have told her about it, but

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't spoken to this girl since out of respect

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<v Speaker 1>to my girlfriend. I need help on how to get

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<v Speaker 1>my girlfriend to stop saying these things about me cheating

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff, because it really digs at me and puts

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<v Speaker 1>me into a space of being with my exes who

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<v Speaker 1>all all did this because they were up to something.

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<v Speaker 1>What do I do? Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, so do you think that she's saying that?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think she's cheating?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, hit dogs, holla?

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<v Speaker 1>So if you're if you're because like if I see

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<v Speaker 1>a message and I'm like, this looks sketchy, but like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't like this. I don't ever want

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<v Speaker 1>to see this again. If you could say okay, then

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<v Speaker 1>no problem, then we.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to clean slate again.

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<v Speaker 1>But if I keep egging it on and I still

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<v Speaker 1>don't trust you and I'm picked, why why do I

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<v Speaker 1>not have no trust at all? You just y'all were

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<v Speaker 1>just friends. You're like, you didn't tell me I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like that, but you didn't do anything, So why would

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<v Speaker 1>I keep like pegging you about? Oh? I hope you

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<v Speaker 1>don't cheat on me. Oh, you didn't tell me nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to know how she found out. Did she

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<v Speaker 2>go through your phone?

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<v Speaker 1>You know she did?

0:56:59.680 --> 0:57:01.560
<v Speaker 2>She was through your phone had so.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like your girlfriend didn't trust you in the

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<v Speaker 1>first place for her to be going through your phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and now every time she sees you talking to somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>she's like happy, don't cheat it, do feel like something?

0:57:14.680 --> 0:57:17.080
<v Speaker 1>Why is she so suspicious? Is she hot in something?

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<v Speaker 2>And why is she going through your phone? The people

0:57:20.040 --> 0:57:22.160
<v Speaker 2>need to know that's mess. Leave my phone alone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, when you have that like feeling in your heart

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<v Speaker 1>and in your gut, that's like, let me get that

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<v Speaker 1>cold because I'm going through that phone.

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<v Speaker 2>You already you're going out the door.

0:57:35.200 --> 0:57:37.160
<v Speaker 1>You got you gotta leave because it's like, if I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I have to break your trust to get

0:57:40.800 --> 0:57:44.680
<v Speaker 1>the truth, that's too many steps that we laps and

0:57:44.800 --> 0:57:47.120
<v Speaker 1>obstacles were going through. It's just like get somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>Else, Yeah, do something else.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're telling us that you weren't saying anything crazy,

0:57:51.200 --> 0:57:55.040
<v Speaker 1>you weren't being disrespectful. You were just asking like, hey,

0:57:55.120 --> 0:57:58.480
<v Speaker 1>this happened, like asking for advice and stuff. So if

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<v Speaker 1>that's all that it was, what did she see that

0:58:00.080 --> 0:58:02.360
<v Speaker 1>made her so upset exact because it's a lesbian.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what she looked like there, it is,

0:58:05.440 --> 0:58:09.080
<v Speaker 2>she probably cute. She probably a cute ass lesbian, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit younger.

0:58:10.760 --> 0:58:14.960
<v Speaker 1>She and those two piece fashion over sets, looset heels,

0:58:15.680 --> 0:58:16.800
<v Speaker 1>and you're like, oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, that's not just a regular friend. You

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<v Speaker 2>know what I'm saying. She wasn't in no a six

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<v Speaker 2>sweat and suit from Tzara, a pretty little thing, two piece,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I said.

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<v Speaker 1>One of those lesbians with the lashes and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>microbladed eyebrows.

0:58:31.200 --> 0:58:34.160
<v Speaker 2>Lesbians with lashes, they exist SEMs.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I think I would. I would sit

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<v Speaker 1>down and be like, hey, okay, I thought we had

0:58:42.680 --> 0:58:44.840
<v Speaker 1>a clean slate. I said, I would not do this anymore.

0:58:44.960 --> 0:58:47.320
<v Speaker 1>I like, I won't lie to you or won't not

0:58:47.480 --> 0:58:50.919
<v Speaker 1>tell you information. I thought we moved on. You keep

0:58:51.280 --> 0:58:54.000
<v Speaker 1>bringing this up? What's up? What is this about? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You need to hit her with one of these a

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<v Speaker 1>If you can't forgive me for this, if this is

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<v Speaker 1>something that is you're gonna hold over my head forever,

0:59:02.400 --> 0:59:06.280
<v Speaker 1>then maybe we should go our separate ways. Maybe we

0:59:06.400 --> 0:59:13.000
<v Speaker 1>should go our separate ways. That's the title of the episode. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm back, baby, I'm back. You can't stop me, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling it. I'm telling the title, and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Will say you you did it it, tosok. You almost

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<v Speaker 2>a whole hour to say that. So people were comments

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<v Speaker 2>and they're like, no, I love when she says.

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<v Speaker 1>That, say that title.

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<v Speaker 2>They were like, what ass wipe told.

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<v Speaker 1>Sydney not to say the title? Come my messengers.

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<v Speaker 2>I love y'all. Miss Yeah, that was I think that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all we got. This was a really fulfilling solo. Marie.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I hope that you guys enjoyed this.

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<v Speaker 1>On the way to work, I know that's where some

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<v Speaker 1>of y'all listen. Where else do people listen. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people have cars, a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>are doing many tasks and they're like they need something

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<v Speaker 1>to hear in the background.

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<v Speaker 2>And they love it.

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<v Speaker 1>They love us.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's a question for the episode. We need y'all to

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<v Speaker 2>answer the question.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it mess or just living to be forty years

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<v Speaker 1>old and have a baby by a married man who

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<v Speaker 1>told you not to have the baby. We just want

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<v Speaker 1>to know. I need to know you're like most of me,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe it's not to you, okay, and please continue

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<v Speaker 1>to leave reviews. I love all the reviews.

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<v Speaker 2>Keep them.

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<v Speaker 1>I need y'all to flood the reviews. We need more.

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<v Speaker 2>I want more on Spotify and we need a hard

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<v Speaker 2>seventy five.

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<v Speaker 1>We need a hard time. Get's drink a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>work today, Goodbye Boy. Mess with Sidney Washington and Marie

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