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Speaker 2: You know what My mess is just up top. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I forgot my headphones at home.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, on the train, struggling, no book, no Bible of Salvation.

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Speaker 2: You have been reading Marie because of you?

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Speaker 1: Oh stop it, guys of you? Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: We gotta get the words to these songs. We're not

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Speaker 1: paying extra for that. Well. I don't know if the

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Speaker 1: listeners know this, but Marie's in solidarity of herd seventy five.

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Speaker 1: She's not doing hard doing like a medium. My medium,

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Speaker 1: you're doing a medium? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And what does that entail? So I have to.

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Speaker 1: Read ten pages of a book every day? I have

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Speaker 1: to walk ten thousand steps a day. I can have

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Speaker 2: You know how's that going?

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Speaker 1: Oh? I only had like three. It's solidarity in solidarity,

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Speaker 1: solidarity enough solidari honas Yeah, and then there's some other

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Speaker 1: stuff that I'm supposed to do, but it's definitely not as.

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Speaker 2: Oh, and I have to drink.

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Speaker 1: Uh, two leaders or a leader of water or something

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Speaker 1: like that, not a gallon?

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Speaker 2: What's a what's the leader of water? A leader is

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Speaker 1: Is two leaders oh okay, so the smaller the half.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you do that anyway, exactly. You're very musturized.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. You know, the wettest friend I know.

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Speaker 2: Wait, she leak it s chigar like a salt chugar.

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Speaker 2: We know the worst of that.

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Speaker 1: We do iconic. Okay, So, Marie, we have so much.

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Speaker 1: There's just so I can't believe we're gonna need more

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Speaker 2: Oh, let's talk. Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: So the Tonys were this past weekend, right, and I

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Speaker 1: was invited, you know, to sit on some people's laps. No,

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Speaker 1: Becomes Her and I was gonna bring Sydney with me.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 2: We were like, oh, it's camp, it's funny. It's supposed

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Speaker 1: I know, yeah, she she wasn't gonna be there that day.

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Speaker 1: We're supposed to go to the We were supposed to

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Speaker 1: our apartments and don't really eat nothing. No, Sidney had

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Speaker 2: No, Umbrella was not dressed for it. I haven't dressed.

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Speaker 1: Sydney had her knees out, she had legs, a light

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Speaker 1: The closer we get there, the hungrier I am, and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and your phone was at like one and my

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Speaker 1: He said, I'm not doing all that. He said, I

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Speaker 1: I don't like that. He was terre. I was like,

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Speaker 1: That's all I was in front of. Could you wanted

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Speaker 1: need it to what pee pee? Nobody had a charge

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Speaker 1: So you're so you're watching a little pixelated screw like

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Speaker 1: We could still see it. Yeah, but I don't think

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Speaker 2: We'll be there on time.

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Speaker 1: Did you hear what I just said? She won Best Actress,

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Speaker 1: The tickets are not going to be available anymore. Everybody

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Speaker 1: Neglige singing the Dark.

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Speaker 2: With the blood coming down, drip drip, damn Marie.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean sometimes what we learned here in our

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Speaker 1: see it through. Do you think you could have sat

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Speaker 1: I would have been mad the whole time, and I

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Speaker 2: Exactly? Is this a talent show? And that's a people.

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Speaker 1: finds out like, oh, people want to get cremated and

434
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:09,960
Speaker 1: it's much cheaper.

435
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:12,000
Speaker 2: So he's figuring out how much people are charging.

436
00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:14,640
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm gonna go lower than that, so I'm

437
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:19,480
Speaker 1: going beneath the rate so that everybody will come to us. Usually,

438
00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:22,040
Speaker 1: when you cremate, it takes like, I don't know, like

439
00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:24,840
Speaker 1: two hours, so you can really just like cremate maybe

440
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:29,080
Speaker 1: four hours, yeah, to burn a whole body. To cook

441
00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 1: a body, yes, barbecue, does it depend like no size, No, no, baby,

442
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:36,320
Speaker 1: It's just it's two hours.

443
00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:37,240
Speaker 2: That's basically it.

444
00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 1: So then they realized they were like in the first

445
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:44,640
Speaker 1: year of them having cremation without him, it was like

446
00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:47,880
Speaker 1: like less than two hundred bodies. This man takes over,

447
00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 1: it's in the thousands. It's in the thousands. Now, guess

448
00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 1: how they get that high killing people? No, bitch, they're

449
00:21:56,600 --> 00:22:02,280
Speaker 1: already dead. What is going on? I'm like, what, he's

450
00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:06,880
Speaker 1: the opposite of vigilante. I'm like, no, it's bad, batman.

451
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 1: He's killing people. And then they're like, oh, my dad

452
00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 1: also died this morning. Okay, okay, I'll see I see

453
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:15,600
Speaker 1: what you're saying, See what you're saying, but I also

454
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:18,480
Speaker 1: was about to say, did you smunk weed? What? Cause

455
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:21,600
Speaker 1: you said he's killing people. I'm like, they're already dead.

456
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 1: They're coming to they're saying it went from two hundred

457
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 1: to one thousand, where all these new dead bodies come.

458
00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 1: He's what he's doing. He's packing in the bodies in

459
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:34,400
Speaker 1: the oven. So instead of putting one body, he's putting ten.

460
00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 1: I feel like one yen ten. And so he's like,

461
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:40,679
Speaker 1: he's like, hey, y'all got to stop being attached to

462
00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 1: the body. It's gone, the soul is gone. You need

463
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 1: to just be.

464
00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:48,160
Speaker 2: Rational about what fact is. They're not hearing anymore.

465
00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,560
Speaker 1: And so in the ashes, it's like cardboard and other

466
00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 1: things in there, so you're not getting the whole person anyway.

467
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:59,120
Speaker 1: So they scooping up multiple people's ashes and like that's

468
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 1: Uncle Fred. Yes, oh the mortician is mess exactly. It's

469
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:08,879
Speaker 1: but it's so bad. It's worse than Tyler Perry. But good.

470
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,440
Speaker 1: So I could go to sleep on that, and they Okay,

471
00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:16,639
Speaker 1: dead bodies burned, burned in a group is what makes

472
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:19,160
Speaker 1: you no no what it was? Because he went to jail,

473
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:21,880
Speaker 1: obviously he gets out. They have all the what's the charge,

474
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:25,399
Speaker 1: what I'm getting charged for it? I mean, you know,

475
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:27,119
Speaker 1: dead body, I don't know.

476
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 2: Basically, basically, no, no, no.

477
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:32,360
Speaker 1: When you when somebody hands over their body, you're supposed

478
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 1: to there's just what do you call it? I forgot.

479
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 2: There's like certain things they're supposed to.

480
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 1: Like protocol, protocol as a mortician, like you have to have.

481
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:43,200
Speaker 2: I have no words.

482
00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:45,679
Speaker 1: I have brain frog right now, but brain frog, you

483
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,680
Speaker 1: have to have respect for the body. And these people

484
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 1: are paying you for I just want these ashes. I

485
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 1: don't want communal ashes. Well, if you're paying for the

486
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,960
Speaker 1: group on uh, that's the team, right. If you you

487
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,320
Speaker 1: said it's a less than market rate, you could have

488
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:01,440
Speaker 1: spent a couple extra.

489
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 2: Hundred dollars and you would have had what you needed

490
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 2: to have.

491
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 1: See, now you sound like him, because that's how he

492
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 1: was in an interview. He's like, what I'm charging to

493
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,160
Speaker 1: you fifty dollars and he's like a lot of these

494
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 1: bodies they had said, oh, throw the ashes to see

495
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:19,200
Speaker 1: so there's no ceremony, no nothing. So I think this

496
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 1: is how it started. He was like, it was a

497
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 1: lot of bodies that were like, oh, you know, just

498
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 1: burn them and spread the ashes.

499
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 2: In the ocean, and nobody's accounting for them.

500
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,679
Speaker 1: He said, So nobody cared about them people anyway, I

501
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:31,199
Speaker 1: need to know what ocean y'all keep spreading these ashes

502
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,919
Speaker 1: in there, I'd be swimming. Well, I don't be swimming,

503
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 1: but I'd be putting my feet in. It's not the

504
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 1: dead bodies NEMO in them. Free Willy. They don't want

505
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 1: them ashes mixing the ocean. Free Willy from the ashes

506
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 1: of your auntie. If they don't want it, that's wild.

507
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:48,159
Speaker 1: It's really fucked up for the I feel like, for

508
00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 1: the ecosystem and all that. And half the time it's like,

509
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 1: how you know these some of these people didn't even

510
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 1: know how to swim? Why do you buy ocean?

511
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,120
Speaker 2: But them where they supposed to be lent a tree?

512
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 1: No. I was like, put the ashes in Walmart, That's

513
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:01,800
Speaker 1: what I mean. And this that's what they said Walmart.

514
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 2: Oh like like scatter them at yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

515
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 2: yeah yeah.

516
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 1: So it's a docu series. It's so good, Marie. I think, honestly,

517
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 1: we need to watch it together. I'll read roch just

518
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 1: because there's so many times where I was like, oh,

519
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,479
Speaker 1: this man ain't shit. But the thing is is that

520
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 1: he wasn't pretending, and then you know how they was

521
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 1: getting all the bodies in.

522
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 2: I don't even want to say. I don't even want

523
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,159
Speaker 2: to say. The people don't y'all gotta watch it, but

524
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:30,400
Speaker 2: this man.

525
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 1: Is evil, evil, evil evil. He was doing a Russian

526
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 1: doll with the bodies. Oh, he was like one person

527
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:40,159
Speaker 1: in somebody else's body. No, no, no, no, he was like,

528
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 1: oh that shoulders take the whole shoulder off. What take

529
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 1: the whole shoulder? I'm now I'm ruining it for everybody.

530
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,360
Speaker 1: But there's more. There's more episodes, so I'm not even

531
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 1: giving you everything. He's taking the clothes off the bodies,

532
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:55,440
Speaker 1: selling it. This man is making so money. Is greedy.

533
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 1: It's greed, close off of dead whoa selling it. This

534
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 1: why you gotta wash your clothes when you get it

535
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,119
Speaker 1: at the drift shop before you wear it.

536
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 2: You have to wash the stuff because.

537
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,879
Speaker 1: You don't know somebody might have almost got cremated in

538
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 1: that blouse that you're like, oh, this is cute, vintage fit.

539
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 1: Check wash your clothes, right fit, Check wash them clothes

540
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 1: before you put them on your body. I don't want

541
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 1: to say this, but I'm gonna put it out there.

542
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 1: I have a family member that like, they were trying

543
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 1: to get suits for him, and so they went to

544
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,399
Speaker 1: Men's warehouse and they got a couple of suits and

545
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 1: they put all every suit on him, and they were like,

546
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 1: all right, the other two, we're not gonna use those.

547
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 2: You said, I'm not gonna finish it.

548
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 1: You're just like the way you look, just guarantee the

549
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 1: return policy perfect. How are you going back to Men's

550
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 1: warehouse with dead body crumbs on?

551
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 2: First of all, let's talk about this.

552
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:56,920
Speaker 1: How why do they need to try that different suits

553
00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:58,919
Speaker 1: on them to see what they look like it's a

554
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:00,040
Speaker 1: dead body because.

555
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 2: They want they want to make sure it matches the casket.

556
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 1: You know Black people they like the color cords.

557
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:06,159
Speaker 2: Well, but you don't have to put the suit on

558
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:06,679
Speaker 2: the body.

559
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:09,360
Speaker 1: You can put it on it next to the lining

560
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:11,879
Speaker 1: of a casket to be like the blue really setting

561
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 1: off the gray.

562
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,120
Speaker 2: It's not like curtains. You can't.

563
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: It's not like curtains. You put it up against what

564
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 1: you got. Actually, see how.

565
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 2: I got some fabrics, watches not screaming.

566
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,120
Speaker 1: I hope this conversation is not triggering for anybody who

567
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: had to spread some ashes or put men's warehouse on

568
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 1: a body. But first of all, I just want to

569
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: side note, this is mess. This is mess.

570
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 2: Some things are not gonna be right, some things are

571
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 2: gonna be all the way wrong.

572
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 1: But this is this is why you come here if

573
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 1: you want things to be politically correct and us to

574
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 1: know all the facts and say it in a in

575
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 1: a proper way.

576
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 2: No, it's not happening. Also, it's a podcast.

577
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 1: You're not listening to ten ten wins or Fox News

578
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 1: or I don't even know all the news networks NBR. Yeah,

579
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:58,439
Speaker 1: it's not the daily, the daily, the Daily? Bread is it?

580
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 1: Was it the daily? It's not that m anyway. That

581
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 1: is Messydney, thank you for sharing that. It was Marie

582
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 1: the mortician. Yo.

583
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 2: When I tell y'all went to bed like this, you

584
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:09,919
Speaker 2: want this?

585
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 1: You slapped your hands on your chest like a dead buddy.

586
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:16,120
Speaker 2: So watching that, do you want to be cremated?

587
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 1: You think? Yo? This woman had a can, a can

588
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:23,399
Speaker 1: that looked like like astrology cards was in it. She

589
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 1: was like, I thought my father was in it. Then

590
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 1: she puts the ashes on her hands. She said, I

591
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: don't think this is my father.

592
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 2: I said, get out of here. Drama drama.

593
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:36,920
Speaker 1: This needs to be on Broadway.

594
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I went to I went.

595
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 1: To this guy's house once and we were all sitting

596
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 1: around the table.

597
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 2: They somebody poured drinks. We get ready to drink.

598
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 1: He like tapped that tap tap that the thing in

599
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: the middle and I was like what, but everybody's tapping

600
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 1: their glass like kind of like toasting it. Yeah, and

601
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 1: he was like, that's my father in that can. I said,

602
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: why is he on the table? Also, why do I

603
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 1: have to tap? I don't know that, man? Is that

604
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: how they cheers? Yeah, they're like tap that. I mean

605
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 1: maybe it's a trainy thing, but I don't know what.

606
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:11,959
Speaker 1: I don't know.

607
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 2: There was a.

608
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 1: Tidadians in the building accent. Oh you're any training. I

609
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 1: don't know any I apologize, I apologize any trend Dadians listening.

610
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:30,600
Speaker 2: If that's in your culture. In the comments, let's know.

611
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 2: And if it's not, also, let us know. It's mess.

612
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 1: It's mess. It's nice when we're here for yeah, but

613
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: it's it's It's already only the beginning of the week

614
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: and already a lot of mess has transpired. Oh, Marie,

615
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 1: another thing, Well wait no, let me, I'm hugging what

616
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 1: you guys. Sis, Oh, I was just gonna talk about

617
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 1: how I was late to the Tonys.

618
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah, I thought you talked about that already.

619
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: No.

620
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 2: No, I was late to Sunset Boulevard.

621
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, yes, no say that as well. Say that, Sis,

622
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 1: bring that, I'll bring that back in.

623
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 2: I just you know.

624
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 1: I was invited as a content creator, and so the

625
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: whole point was for me to create content to get

626
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 1: people to watch the Tonys. And they were like, we

627
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 1: want you to be there, we want you to be

628
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 1: there at one twenty pm, and the Tony started at

629
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 1: eight pm? And I said, well, why would that's mad hours?

630
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 1: And I said, I'm not, I'm not, I will, I shan't,

631
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 1: I can't, I won'ts. But somebody was mad at me,

632
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 1: like I was shooting content while I was running late

633
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,480
Speaker 1: and giving people updates that I was like twenty minutes

634
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 1: and then thirty minutes or whatever late. And somebody sent

635
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 1: me a DM and said, do better.

636
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 2: Well, do better. Being late is not cute, Marie. What

637
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 2: do you think?

638
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 1: I think you don't need to be in my inbox?

639
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 1: DM and me like that, we're just trying to look

640
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 1: out for you, sister. No, listen, I got there. When

641
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 1: I got there, and you know, I didn't miss a

642
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: bunch of photo op ops. But I didn't make it

643
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 1: to the red carpet, and that was at like four thirty.

644
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 1: So from from one o'clock till four thirty, and then

645
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 1: from four thirty to eight o'clock it was a lot.

646
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 1: And then my phone was at nineteen percent when the

647
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 1: actual Tony started at eight o'clock. It's too long of

648
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: a day. I wasn't even nominated. You were there for

649
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 1: what wo RK work? Right?

650
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 2: But let the record show even though I was late

651
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:25,720
Speaker 2: to get in there, I.

652
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 1: Was already shooting content at the crib about the Tonys, right,

653
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: So I was already. It's not like I was late

654
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 1: for work and not working.

655
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 2: I was doing the work.

656
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 1: Hey Mary, you know it sound good? Hello, el it

657
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: sounds what's your employer are saying? Because me, I ain't

658
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 1: your employer. My employer is me. Okay, you're your own boss.

659
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 1: But if the boss say show up late, then we

660
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 1: all late. Let's go listen. It's meta. It's meta, and

661
00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 1: meta has what we've been late to many a thing

662
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: for because of meta and or facebooks or Instagram. So

663
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: you know, I was doing what I needed to do

664
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 1: to get where I needed to get.

665
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 2: Miss Marie, I'm gonna touch your hand when I say this.

666
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 2: Your hands so soft.

667
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:13,719
Speaker 1: Oh, but I'm saying something seriously. Okay, let me get

668
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 1: your soft, squishy hand, Marie.

669
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 2: Half of the year's gone. Yeah, the other half of

670
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 2: the years up to you. It's in your hands.

671
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: I think you really can, at least most of the week,

672
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: be on time most of the week, most of the week.

673
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 2: So how what's that four days?

674
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 1: Or if I have like four things to do on

675
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 1: one day, like on time to three of the things,

676
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 1: or one day needs to be an on time day.

677
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: And this is the thing. Marie is so charming and funny,

678
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: and when she shows up you're like mad, But then

679
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 1: you're like, well, she is a good time and she's

680
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 1: gonna be great. So I guess, I guess I'm gonna

681
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 1: do it. I'm gonna I said, starting today, today, today,

682
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 1: not tomorrow tomorrow.

683
00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 2: I'm starting today.

684
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 1: Okay. We could be on Broadway. We could.

685
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, well a little singing duo situation.

686
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, you think you can sing and dance at the

687
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 1: same time? No, okay, So I'm one day nine of

688
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 1: hard seventy five, like you've been doing it for at

689
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 1: least Dan.

690
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 2: It's nine.

691
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 1: I'm on my ninth day and so I have to

692
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: work out twice a day. So I work out now,

693
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: me and my partner, Dwayne, my mate, my living mate,

694
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 1: we work out together. But he's like, oh, we're gonna

695
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: get tired of this. We gotta we need to like

696
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: take a class or whatever. So he's like, would you

697
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 1: take a dancing class? And I was like, I got

698
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: two left feet. I don't know, I'm being embarrassed. He said, okay,

699
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 1: well let's let's do let's do something together. Now I

700
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 1: have the video. He's so good. Yeah, he's a professional dancer.

701
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want to go to your class.

702
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 1: I need to go to the novice class, right, because

703
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 1: he's gonna be on that fast seven day.

704
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 2: And you're gonna be in the back Like wait, what

705
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 2: what is it?

706
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: Huh? Because people who are like trained dances, they learn

707
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 1: choreography quick, so we gotta see it like twice. Yeah,

708
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 1: he's good at memory. I mean even with lines. I

709
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 1: mean I'm just like, so there's nothing you can't do.

710
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 1: YEA cool? I hate that? Actually hate that.

711
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 2: No, I love that, but I love that. I'm like,

712
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:22,239
Speaker 2: can you give that to me?

713
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 1: I want that. I'm so left. I'm like, but Sidney,

714
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 1: I've seen you dance before. You you can figure it out.

715
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 1: That was red Bull. This is me just clear clear.

716
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 2: Well can you do like an asai bowl? Can you

717
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 2: do well?

718
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 1: I'm working on my sugar intake so like I have to.

719
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 1: It depends on what kind of fruits I'm putting in there.

720
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:44,759
Speaker 1: This is crazy, Like, I can't believe I'm doing this

721
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 1: in the summer. This is ridiculous. And I'm like, where

722
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 1: are the apps? My back hurts, my neck and my

723
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:55,919
Speaker 1: back hurt, my legs aching, where are the muscles? Oh?

724
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 1: You think after you said you on your ninth day

725
00:34:58,239 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 1: you thought you was gonna have abs already?

726
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 2: I mean, hellol, it's coming.

727
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:04,760
Speaker 1: I feel like Jesus came out the wound with abs

728
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 1: like I need the same. Oh girl, I didn't know

729
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: that you knew marrying them like that. I was there

730
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 1: at the births. What you're talking about, you the godmother God?

731
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 1: I was there and everything I was. I was a

732
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,279
Speaker 1: what's that wife? The midwe I was the midwife and

733
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:21,720
Speaker 1: then what's that wife?

734
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 2: The mid one?

735
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 1: Yeah?

736
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:26,800
Speaker 2: Now Sydney, I feel like you after like thirty.

737
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 1: Days, you'll thirty the results.

738
00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 2: That's what I think. Any days, I think realistically you

739
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:31,840
Speaker 2: need like a month.

740
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,760
Speaker 1: If there's any listeners who are like trying to change

741
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 1: their lives and they're like in this transformative period, like

742
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,439
Speaker 1: how long did it take you to be like I'm

743
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 1: seeing results?

744
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 2: Because that's what I'm here. I'm here for the results.

745
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 1: Yeah. But you know what, Sidney, you not gonna see

746
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 1: the results in you. Somebody else is gonna look at

747
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:51,640
Speaker 1: you one day and be like, oh snap, girl, like

748
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 1: this little boss up, and you're gonna be like, it's

749
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 1: because you see yourself every day and Dwayne sees you

750
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 1: every day. Yeah, so it's gonna take somebody from the

751
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 1: outside looking in to be like oh snaps. And it's

752
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: not gonna happen on the ninth day, baby, oh m.

753
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:15,240
Speaker 1: But the thing is okay, So this is what's crazy

754
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: because people say, oh, you already look good, you look great?

755
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: What are you Like? I was going on stage like

756
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 1: I'm doing hard seventy five and they're like why, and

757
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: it's like, baby, it's like more than just I love

758
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,800
Speaker 1: a child looking good. It's more about like feeling good,

759
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,240
Speaker 1: like being disciplined and sticking to something.

760
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 2: You know, even though you know, I love giving up.

761
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:40,799
Speaker 1: I love tapping now, I love giving up. I'd be like,

762
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:42,879
Speaker 1: you know what I got, You got it, you got it.

763
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 2: Listen.

764
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 1: You don't want to.

765
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 2: Give up, but sometimes there's sweet relief and giving up.

766
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 1: I'm not telling you to give up, but I'm saying, like,

767
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes have you like done a plank and

768
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,279
Speaker 1: you gotta hold it for like sixty seconds or thirty second,

769
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 1: whatever amount of time, and sometimes you just gotta bend

770
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:58,879
Speaker 1: the knee. You have to tap that knee down.

771
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I go so mu's better.

772
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:03,919
Speaker 1: But then I don't know, maybe you're disappointed in yourself

773
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 1: because you could have made it all the way, Like

774
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:09,759
Speaker 1: we could have made it to We could have made

775
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: it to the play, but we would not have made

776
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 1: it through, Okay, I'm sure of that. I was way

777
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 1: too hungry and the play is two and a half

778
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 1: hours long, and we would have been sitting there in

779
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:24,960
Speaker 1: the dark listening to Don't you wish your girlfriend was

780
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 1: hot like me? No, don't she be sure girlfriend hot

781
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 1: like me? Don't you wish your girlfriend was hot like me?

782
00:37:45,120 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 1: That's it. That's that, yo, we gotta do. Let's talk

783
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:12,359
Speaker 1: about what you're gonna eat for the summer, because Heart

784
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,440
Speaker 1: seventy five says the summer's gonna be hard for you.

785
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:17,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

786
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:21,319
Speaker 1: Well, guys, I've been making breakfast pretty much every day,

787
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 1: so it's like art boiled eggs, like veggies, turkey, bacon.

788
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:32,279
Speaker 1: I think we might get a blender. Oh, I'm gonna

789
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 1: start making smoothie. New developments over there, lend. But the

790
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 1: problem is with the blenders is like, that's so much

791
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:43,040
Speaker 1: stuff you gotta buy.

792
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:44,919
Speaker 2: Produce is expensive right now.

793
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 1: Produce is expensive, but.

794
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,880
Speaker 2: What you mean you gotta get milk or like a

795
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:49,720
Speaker 2: juice base.

796
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 1: I still have dairy, but I've toned down tremendously.

797
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 2: I don't have no milk, no more.

798
00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 1: No oat milk for you, no almond milk. You still

799
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: drinking whole milk like you like it's nineteen ninety nine.

800
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 2: I love a red cap. I love a red cap.

801
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 2: I stand on that.

802
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 1: I was raised by the red cap. Wow, the red

803
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: cap feel like maga. But bo No, No, not like

804
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 1: that like cat, the red cap on the milk. You

805
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 1: know it's the red cap. No, people who are Republicans,

806
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 1: you knew what the f I men. But I'm saying

807
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 1: Republicans probably drink a whole milk more.

808
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 2: Than anybody else. No, they don't drink any milk.

809
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: They drink a whole milk from the ball. They don't

810
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 1: look like they have they made out of milk. No,

811
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: they see through.

812
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 2: The old milk is like blue States. You know what

813
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

814
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 1: Okay, well, you know I was raised in a home

815
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 1: where they did two percent milk and I hated that.

816
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 2: I hate white water.

817
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 1: I was like, what do you this is? No, honestly,

818
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:54,240
Speaker 1: it was like water down glue. It just was just weird.

819
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 1: It's like, what are you guys doing? And then they

820
00:39:57,120 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: will put the splendor in the corn flakes, the sweet

821
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 1: and low in the corn flake. They're like, oh, we

822
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 1: can't have sugar. I'm like, where am I living? This

823
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 1: is child abuse? Splendor in the corn flake? Yes, so

824
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:16,279
Speaker 1: sticky glue, sast cereal. It was nasty, like there was

825
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 1: so many years. I remember when I finally had tricks. Oh,

826
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 1: I remember Trick. When it was cracked for me, I

827
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:25,399
Speaker 1: was jumping on the walls because I was like, oh

828
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: my god, this is pure sugar. Praise be what's your

829
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 1: favorite cereal from when you were a kid. My favorite

830
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:32,919
Speaker 1: cereal to list some few?

831
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:35,120
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, you got it. You know, I know

832
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 2: the cereal.

833
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 1: I liked cinnamon toast crunch that was good, Fruit Loops

834
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 1: that was cute. I like the Rice Crispy Treats that

835
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 1: was actually rice, like chunks of rice crispy. That was

836
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 1: like limited edition or something like that. For some reason,

837
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 1: they took it off the shelves and I don't know why.

838
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 2: We candy. It was the best I remember so good.

839
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 1: I feel like I had that cereal one time and

840
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 1: then I and then it never was at the store

841
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 1: of again.

842
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:07,920
Speaker 2: It was like it was like Sprite Remix. Did you

843
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:08,719
Speaker 2: have that? I didn't have that.

844
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 1: Oh I had Sprite Remix in college and I was like, oh,

845
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,800
Speaker 1: this is bomb, And then it was gone, what's sprite remix?

846
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 1: It's sprite, but like with a twist, like they wouldn't

847
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 1: explain what flavor it was, but it felt kind of

848
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 1: like tropical issues. Oh it was sprite, but it tasted

849
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:27,399
Speaker 1: like a red some yes, but I.

850
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:28,879
Speaker 2: Tell you it messed me up so bad.

851
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: I had that with Absolute Citron and when I tell you,

852
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 1: it rocked my socks. I said, I'll never touch either

853
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 1: of these again. And then it was off the shelves anyway,

854
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 1: and I said, God, Gods, don't play about me. Yo.

855
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 2: Remember when they tried to introduce purple ketchup or.

856
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 1: Something I don't remember, say purple ketchup or blue ketchup.

857
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 1: It was a different color ketchup, and it was like,

858
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 1: I mean, my mother didn't buy it, but it just

859
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 1: it just looked wrong.

860
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 2: I think that's.

861
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:56,240
Speaker 1: Why you look so good, because your family didn't introduce

862
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 1: you to all that trash. Yeah.

863
00:41:57,680 --> 00:41:59,839
Speaker 2: My mom was like, I'm not buying that, and it was.

864
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 1: Like please what purple ketchup? No, yeah, it looks like

865
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:10,160
Speaker 1: you didn't have spam Diana sausages. My dad bought those ones,

866
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 1: and my mother laughed at him, and then me and

867
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 1: my my siblings were like, lim, can I taste it's

868
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: a sausage in the can? What is that nasty? Yeah?

869
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 1: But I didn't have spam until recently, like for the

870
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: first time, like maybe like two years ago.

871
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:26,360
Speaker 2: I had spam fried spam bomb. And now what you

872
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 2: eat in the spam with what pears well with spam rice.

873
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 1: Rice, but also eggs, like make it for breakfast and

874
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:37,480
Speaker 1: stuff spam and eggs. Yeaes spam and eggs. You can

875
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 1: make a little spam sandwich.

876
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:41,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, so the spam is the bread.

877
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:45,319
Speaker 1: No, girl, you put the spam on the bread and

878
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:46,759
Speaker 1: then put like some cheese in it.

879
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, We're doing all types of things.

880
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:49,760
Speaker 1: Damn.

881
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 2: So do you miss spam during the heart seventy five?

882
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 1: No? I will say. The second day, I'm walking and

883
00:42:56,600 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 1: I never ever ever seen donut shop like that.

884
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:02,319
Speaker 2: I would It was like every other block was a

885
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:02,879
Speaker 2: donut shot.

886
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 1: I said, I would love a glaze donut. Oh, a

887
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 1: gleaz don'nut sound nice? And and the thing is that

888
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 1: has made me so on edge coffee on seventy six

889
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:18,320
Speaker 1: I can't wait to guzzle down an espresso. Are you serious?

890
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 1: So you're gonna go through all of this, You gonna

891
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 1: get the caffeine out of your system in these seventy

892
00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 1: five days, and then on the seventy sixth day, you're

893
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 1: gonna wake up and get coffee. This is how but

894
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: this is how disgusting addiction is that I'm on the

895
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 1: ninth day, I'm still thinking about and I'm like, I

896
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 1: can't wait till this is over so I can drink

897
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:38,360
Speaker 1: it again. Yeah, but you know what, after the seventy

898
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:40,280
Speaker 1: five days, you might not even be thinking about coffee.

899
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 2: You might not be missing the taste of it when

900
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:43,759
Speaker 2: you're done. I hope, I pray.

901
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,359
Speaker 1: They say that when you get something out of your

902
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 1: system and you reintroduce it, you're like, this is nasty.

903
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 2: This actually doesn't taste good at all.

904
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: And I believe that because even at my like worse

905
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:58,839
Speaker 1: in terms of coffee, like having like five shots a day,

906
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:02,279
Speaker 1: I was like, this is so nasty. I would have

907
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 1: to wash it down with like a juice. You drink

908
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 1: espresso and then you watch it down with juice.

909
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 2: That's not very European.

910
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 1: Girl. I didn't know you was first of all, five

911
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 1: espresso shots a day is wild and crazy and still

912
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: going to sleep baby still zzz zzz top.

913
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 2: That's why I was like, something is wrong with me.

914
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:31,400
Speaker 1: But it was really that I was immune to the

915
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 1: caffeine because I've had so much.

916
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 2: Because I'm drinking the coffee.

917
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 1: Then doing a Red Bull at night. It was sick

918
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 1: of so what are you what are you prepping for?

919
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 2: What are you doing?

920
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 1: Who is this?

921
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 2: It was just to have conversations and to be on stage.

922
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:47,919
Speaker 1: That was all. I wasn't folding no clothes. I wasn't

923
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:50,840
Speaker 1: getting no work done this. You wasn't working on no memoir.

924
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:52,280
Speaker 2: No, you was just just to maintain.

925
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:56,640
Speaker 1: Okay, well, Sidney, let's okay, you know what. I'm reinvigorated

926
00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 1: for the hard seventy five. Okay, that's too much coffee

927
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:00,680
Speaker 1: in your life.

928
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 2: Sis, Oh thank you, mother, drink mother.

929
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:06,720
Speaker 1: Show them your giant thermist of water so the listeners

930
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 1: can see where we at, and I think we're like

931
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 1: right here, there's almost half well, you know, because when

932
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:15,319
Speaker 1: I do my walk later, I'm gonna have to bring

933
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:17,840
Speaker 1: this with me, which is embarrassing. But this is a weapon.

934
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 2: I wish, I bitch, what like this is I be

935
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 2: carrying it? Like?

936
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 1: But I remember going to dinner with you guys, and

937
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:28,600
Speaker 1: y'all mate, y'all roasted meat.

938
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:30,080
Speaker 2: Cydny blopped that on the table.

939
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:31,400
Speaker 1: We were like, yeah, were gonna need a table for

940
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:35,839
Speaker 1: ten because the thermist needs a chair as well. They

941
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:38,839
Speaker 1: wanted me to hold somebody's baby, rosebuds baby, and it's like, well,

942
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 1: Sidny's got our own baby. You got this. It's a

943
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:45,359
Speaker 1: bad dad. I can't wait for you to have your

944
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 1: fall body together, which is crazy because the fall you

945
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:51,280
Speaker 1: don't really show off your body.

946
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 2: This is when the turtlenecks is poppubut.

947
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 1: But you can do a crop top under the leather jacket. Nah, girl,

948
00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:03,880
Speaker 1: I might if i'm if I'm really like talking my shit. Girl,

949
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 1: I'm not wearing a jacket. I'm not wearing a jacket,

950
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 1: and I'm sleeveless. You think everywhere you think the hard

951
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:14,839
Speaker 1: seventy five is gonna make your anemia go away? Maybe, girl,

952
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 1: because now I'm just putting things in my body that

953
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:22,959
Speaker 1: I never have before, like fruits, vegetables. Wow, that's all

954
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:27,640
Speaker 1: types of I just was not doing it. String beans, cauliflower, cauliflower,

955
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 1: CAULI aleutely spell it. I don't know, but I was

956
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 1: putting it in my mouth. I think we can spell

957
00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:38,800
Speaker 1: cauliflower if we tried it together. See a U l

958
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:44,399
Speaker 1: I flower boo. Okay, Callie, no child left behind over here,

959
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:46,399
Speaker 1: but we might.

960
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:48,840
Speaker 2: Have left you bond. Now check our math. Is that

961
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:50,239
Speaker 2: the right way to spell cauliflower?

962
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:53,759
Speaker 1: It feels right, all right, So Marie, I have I'm

963
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:57,240
Speaker 1: gonna bring mess or just livings?

964
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:57,839
Speaker 2: Just living?

965
00:46:57,920 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 1: Okay? Is this message?

966
00:46:59,920 --> 00:47:00,319
Speaker 2: Just living?

967
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 1: This woman Goods on Instagram and she's like, yep, met

968
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:06,200
Speaker 1: this man. You know we're dating. I'm like this is

969
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 1: the one. We're like planning our future together. And I'm like,

970
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: do this is who I want to be with? Boom,

971
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:16,720
Speaker 1: she gets pregnant. She tells him she's pregnant. He like, actually,

972
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:21,359
Speaker 1: run that back. I'm married and you need you need.

973
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 1: I don't even think he offered the five hundred dollars,

974
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:26,839
Speaker 1: but he was like, you got to handle that, get

975
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:28,759
Speaker 1: rid of it. Yeah. So then she goes to the

976
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 1: internet says all this and she's like I can't believe

977
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 1: you know, I'm like forty and this is happening to me,

978
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 1: Like I'm six weeks pregnant. All the comments are like, girl,

979
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 1: you are in enough time to get that. At Bobo,

980
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 1: they were like, do you need somebody to pull up

981
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 1: to plant parenthood with juices? What do you need?

982
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:50,879
Speaker 2: You want some sweats? You want a two pie set?

983
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 1: You gotta get, Like, don't don't ruin your life like this, Yeah,

984
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 1: not ruin your life with a baby, but like ruin

985
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:00,359
Speaker 1: your life in like a messy situation. They're like, if

986
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 1: he's already saying I'm not gonna be here for this.

987
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 1: Believe him, Yes, believe him? Is it mess that she

988
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:11,880
Speaker 1: double backed and was like, actually, I'm gonna make this work.

989
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 2: I'm not with him, but like, I'm gonna have this

990
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:17,719
Speaker 2: baby with or without him. Where does she meet him?

991
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 1: You know?

992
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 2: Since you know, I don't know the specifics. I'm listening

993
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 2: in and out, in and out.

994
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:23,479
Speaker 1: Girl.

995
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 2: We know that she's six weeks, but we don't know

996
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 2: where she met this. No, I don't know if it's

997
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 2: a train, a plane, or hinge. I don't know.

998
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 1: Is it messy or just living for her to be like,

999
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 1: I'm still gonna have this baby. Yeah, I feel like

1000
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 1: it's a little bit of both, but I understand why.

1001
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:38,959
Speaker 1: Like you said, she's forty, this could be her last

1002
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,919
Speaker 1: chance to do it, and you know, at your big

1003
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:44,279
Speaker 1: age to be showing up at the plant parenthood or

1004
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 1: the gynecologist to terminate a pregnancy. It's like, can you

1005
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 1: if this is something that you can do on your own,

1006
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 1: and you've decided you want to do it, then I

1007
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:56,960
Speaker 1: guess do it. But it's also messy because she's now

1008
00:48:57,040 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 1: gonna be tied to that man forever. Like if he's

1009
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:02,839
Speaker 1: telling you to get rid of it, and he doesn't

1010
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 1: want no parts. He's not gonna he's not gonna help

1011
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 1: you out. But if you want this kid to have

1012
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 1: relationship with their father, then you know that's where the

1013
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 1: mess is. I don't know. I see so people in

1014
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 1: the comments, they're like, okay, so if you agreeing to

1015
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 1: like having the kid, then why are you going back

1016
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 1: to him and being like, oh I need child support?

1017
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:25,480
Speaker 2: He already said I don't want no parts, right.

1018
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1019
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 2: It's a tough one.

1020
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 1: You know what's mess? Why is it on the internet? Like,

1021
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 1: just don't leave us out of it? I don't want

1022
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:35,120
Speaker 1: I like, why am I hearing this? I should not

1023
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:39,239
Speaker 1: be allowed to hear something so personal while I'm in

1024
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 1: the shower. But wig off, that's what the internet is now.

1025
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 1: First of all, she said, I'm not gonna get engaged

1026
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 1: to this married man. I'm gonna get the engagement on socials.

1027
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 1: She said, let me tell you something. This video gonna

1028
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 1: go viral and then I'm gonna share my wish list

1029
00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:56,279
Speaker 1: and get everything that my baby needs.

1030
00:49:56,640 --> 00:49:59,359
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe that's the train of thought.

1031
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I know, before I make a decision, before

1032
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:04,399
Speaker 1: I post a certain picture, or I'll post a certain video,

1033
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 1: I'll message you and be like which one is better?

1034
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:08,840
Speaker 1: Or message my and I'll message my sister and I

1035
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 1: messaged like a couple different people, and then you know,

1036
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:16,239
Speaker 1: based on what the group says, I'll take that into consideration.

1037
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:19,160
Speaker 1: But I mean, going on social media to ask people

1038
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 1: if you should have an abortion or not? Is is

1039
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:25,239
Speaker 1: miss But I don't think she asked that. I think

1040
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:28,800
Speaker 1: she was just saying, like, you know, this is what's happening.

1041
00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 1: Like I think she was like, I don't know what

1042
00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do, but I mean it was it was

1043
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:37,000
Speaker 1: like fourteen thousand comments, I'm sure, and most of them

1044
00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:38,960
Speaker 1: were like what in support of her or telling her

1045
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 1: to you know. Yeah, they were like since what state

1046
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:44,919
Speaker 1: you live in? Is it? Because if you and New York, girl,

1047
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 1: there's about three other locations quick fast. Yeah.

1048
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:49,239
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1049
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:53,000
Speaker 1: And then other people's like I can't believe all these women,

1050
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 1: like this is disgusting behavior.

1051
00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:59,360
Speaker 2: What's disgusting telling her she should go to you know,

1052
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 2: and she got a good job.

1053
00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:03,279
Speaker 1: Did she look? What did her house look like in

1054
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 1: the background, what was the we'll call the cabinet? Did

1055
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 1: she have like with the bead of Queen's size, like no, no,

1056
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 1: I just I will say this. I think you know,

1057
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 1: if you think that you're ready to have a child,

1058
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 1: I'm obviously all in support in that, but I also

1059
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:25,800
Speaker 1: think you got to think about the child, like is

1060
00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 1: this a situation that makes sense for this human being?

1061
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 1: Like some things are preventable, and you know, that's how

1062
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:38,279
Speaker 1: I think about my mom. Sometimes it's like, Okay, the

1063
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 1: first kid, all right, she didn't get it right, That's okay.

1064
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 2: The second kid is like, all right, you know what,

1065
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:45,839
Speaker 2: maybe you're working through it. You might be better.

1066
00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 1: The third kid. The third kid, you're like, oh man,

1067
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,560
Speaker 1: I don't want to have this third kid. It's like, Mama,

1068
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 1: you gotta close the shop down twenty four hours, no

1069
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 1: more new customers. That's that's insane. By the third kid,

1070
00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:06,960
Speaker 1: you still you're like, oh man, another kid. It's like, yeah,

1071
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 1: so you have to do things to make sure you're

1072
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 1: not having you're not getting pregnant. I understand that. But

1073
00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: if she did that, then you wouldn't be here. What

1074
00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:21,759
Speaker 1: would you do? What do No? What would you do

1075
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 1: without you? Yeah? Yeah, I wouldn't be here.

1076
00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be in the red room with nobody.

1077
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh that's sweet.

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Speaker 2: Oh, my god, I think that was the gayest thing

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Speaker 2: I've heard. You say, I'll be bro but you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I met a woman.

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Speaker 2: Oh at that dinner that we was at a couple

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Speaker 2: of months ago, I met a lady.

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Speaker 1: The girl who was sitting next to me, she's pregnant,

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00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 1: and she was saying that she had she she was

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Speaker 1: an author, and she was a successful, you know, woman

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00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:55,800
Speaker 1: in the corporate world and YadA YadA, YadA ya, and

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00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:58,920
Speaker 1: she was single and she didn't find a partner and

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00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 1: her biological clock ticking and she decided she's having a

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Speaker 1: baby by herself.

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Speaker 2: It's women who decide that they just gonna do it,

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Speaker 2: and they're not gonna wait for somebody to the right

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00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 2: person or the right time. They're like, the time is now.

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Speaker 2: I have the means I'm having this baby. Did you

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Speaker 2: get that she has the means?

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Speaker 1: Well, that's why I asked what the lady in the

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Speaker 1: background her house looked like, like, did it look like

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Speaker 1: she had the means?

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Speaker 2: Or was she doing it in her car?

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Speaker 1: Like? And what going to go with it was that

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00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 1: in a car. I don't think you need to be

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Speaker 1: rich to have a child, but I do know the

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Speaker 1: you know, mental anguish that you have to deal with

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00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:39,720
Speaker 1: when you have like a deadbeat baby daddy. I personally

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Speaker 1: don't know about that, but that's not all you know,

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Speaker 1: the mental language. No, no, no, But I know people

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Speaker 1: who had to deal with that. It's affected because it

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Speaker 1: doesn't just affect the mother and the child, affects everybody

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Speaker 1: that's around them. It affects your tribe. It's trickled down.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't when people make decisions you're like, it's just me,

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00:53:57,719 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 1: and no, that's not the case.

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Speaker 2: We all all involved.

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00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:03,240
Speaker 1: Now. It takes a village. It does take a village.

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00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:04,920
Speaker 1: But if you have a village that can help you

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00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:09,719
Speaker 1: do it, then do it. But me personally, that's not

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Speaker 1: the way that I would want to do it. And

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Speaker 1: I don't even know if I ever need to do it.

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Speaker 2: But a liar baby, a married man's baby. I need

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00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:25,359
Speaker 2: to know where she met him. You know what, I'll

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Speaker 2: go back. I'll find out for you.

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Speaker 1: And it's probably something crazy like she met him at

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Speaker 1: at the Lord's house, she met him at God's house.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm giving it's given church, yes, and

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Speaker 1: he and that means he was he wasn't bringing his

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Speaker 1: wife to church like he's a teator for multiple in

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Speaker 1: multiple ways.

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Speaker 2: That's O D. Shall we read some of these messages?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Please.

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Speaker 1: My girlfriend and I have been together a year, but

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00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 1: she is the love of my life. There's no one

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00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:54,520
Speaker 1: that compares to her. I want you guys to know.

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00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 1: Both of those sentences had an exclamation mark at the

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Speaker 1: end of the day. So it's the love of my

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00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 1: life and no one compares to her. A few months ago, though,

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00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 1: I messed up. I had a friend who is also

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Speaker 1: a lesbian, who was literally just a friend. We barely talked,

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Speaker 1: but when we did it was usually just, hey, this happened,

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Speaker 1: and I need advice before I run my mouth kind

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Speaker 1: of thing. I didn't mention it to my girlfriend simply

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00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 1: because we don't speak that often or about anything disrespectful.

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Speaker 1: My girlfriend found it and said I broke her trust

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00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 1: for not telling her I was friends with a lesbian.

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00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:28,759
Speaker 1: She is friends with tons and half she's done stuff with,

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Speaker 1: but never had a relationship. Well months later after, she

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00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:34,800
Speaker 1: said she would get over it because I didn't do

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00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 1: anything wrong technically, she keeps throwing jabs like I hope

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00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:40,320
Speaker 1: you never cheat on me, or I hope you're not

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00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:41,759
Speaker 1: talking to anybody you're not supposed to.

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Speaker 2: It hurts my feelings.

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Speaker 1: I know I should have told her about it, but

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00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:48,560
Speaker 1: I haven't spoken to this girl since out of respect

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00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:50,879
Speaker 1: to my girlfriend. I need help on how to get

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00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:53,400
Speaker 1: my girlfriend to stop saying these things about me cheating

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00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:56,520
Speaker 1: and stuff, because it really digs at me and puts

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00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:59,719
Speaker 1: me into a space of being with my exes who

1157
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:02,240
Speaker 1: all all did this because they were up to something.

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00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:05,520
Speaker 1: What do I do? Oh?

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00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:10,920
Speaker 2: Wait, so do you think that she's saying that?

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00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:11,920
Speaker 1: Do you think she's cheating?

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00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:14,920
Speaker 2: I mean, hit dogs, holla?

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00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 1: So if you're if you're because like if I see

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00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:22,920
Speaker 1: a message and I'm like, this looks sketchy, but like

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00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:25,799
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't like this. I don't ever want

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00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 1: to see this again. If you could say okay, then

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00:56:29,719 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 1: no problem, then we.

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00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:31,799
Speaker 2: Want to clean slate again.

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00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 1: But if I keep egging it on and I still

1169
00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 1: don't trust you and I'm picked, why why do I

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00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:42,799
Speaker 1: not have no trust at all? You just y'all were

1171
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:46,560
Speaker 1: just friends. You're like, you didn't tell me I didn't

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00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:49,160
Speaker 1: like that, but you didn't do anything, So why would

1173
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 1: I keep like pegging you about? Oh? I hope you

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00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 1: don't cheat on me. Oh, you didn't tell me nothing.

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00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:57,680
Speaker 2: I need to know how she found out. Did she

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00:56:57,760 --> 00:56:58,399
Speaker 2: go through your phone?

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00:56:58,440 --> 00:56:59,000
Speaker 1: You know she did?

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00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 2: She was through your phone had so.

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00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 1: It sounds like your girlfriend didn't trust you in the

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00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 1: first place for her to be going through your phone,

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00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:11,160
Speaker 1: and now every time she sees you talking to somebody,

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00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:14,360
Speaker 1: she's like happy, don't cheat it, do feel like something?

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00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 1: Why is she so suspicious? Is she hot in something?

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00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:19,919
Speaker 2: And why is she going through your phone? The people

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00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 2: need to know that's mess. Leave my phone alone.

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00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:27,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, when you have that like feeling in your heart

1187
00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:30,400
Speaker 1: and in your gut, that's like, let me get that

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00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:32,160
Speaker 1: cold because I'm going through that phone.

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00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 2: You already you're going out the door.

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00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:37,160
Speaker 1: You got you gotta leave because it's like, if I

1191
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 1: feel like I have to break your trust to get

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00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:44,680
Speaker 1: the truth, that's too many steps that we laps and

1193
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 1: obstacles were going through. It's just like get somebody.

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00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 2: Else, Yeah, do something else.

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00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 1: And you're telling us that you weren't saying anything crazy,

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00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: you weren't being disrespectful. You were just asking like, hey,

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00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:58,480
Speaker 1: this happened, like asking for advice and stuff. So if

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00:57:58,520 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 1: that's all that it was, what did she see that

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00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 1: made her so upset exact because it's a lesbian.

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00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:05,160
Speaker 2: I don't know what she looked like there, it is,

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00:58:05,440 --> 00:58:09,080
Speaker 2: she probably cute. She probably a cute ass lesbian, maybe

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00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 2: a little bit younger.

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00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 1: She and those two piece fashion over sets, looset heels,

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00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:16,800
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, yeah.

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00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:19,400
Speaker 2: No, no, no, that's not just a regular friend. You

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00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:21,200
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. She wasn't in no a six

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00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:25,479
Speaker 2: sweat and suit from Tzara, a pretty little thing, two piece,

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00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:26,640
Speaker 2: Like I said.

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00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:29,640
Speaker 1: One of those lesbians with the lashes and you know,

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00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:31,440
Speaker 1: microbladed eyebrows.

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Speaker 2: Lesbians with lashes, they exist SEMs.

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00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:40,040
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think I would. I would sit

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00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 1: down and be like, hey, okay, I thought we had

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00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:44,840
Speaker 1: a clean slate. I said, I would not do this anymore.

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00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:47,320
Speaker 1: I like, I won't lie to you or won't not

1216
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:50,919
Speaker 1: tell you information. I thought we moved on. You keep

1217
00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 1: bringing this up? What's up? What is this about? Yeah?

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00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 1: You need to hit her with one of these a

1219
00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 1: If you can't forgive me for this, if this is

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00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 1: something that is you're gonna hold over my head forever,

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00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:06,280
Speaker 1: then maybe we should go our separate ways. Maybe we

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00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:13,000
Speaker 1: should go our separate ways. That's the title of the episode. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm back, baby, I'm back. You can't stop me, but

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00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:19,480
Speaker 1: I'm telling it. I'm telling the title, and I.

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00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 2: Will say you you did it it, tosok. You almost

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00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 2: a whole hour to say that. So people were comments

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00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 2: and they're like, no, I love when she says.

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00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 1: That, say that title.

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00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:29,880
Speaker 2: They were like, what ass wipe told.

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00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:35,600
Speaker 1: Sydney not to say the title? Come my messengers.

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00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:39,040
Speaker 2: I love y'all. Miss Yeah, that was I think that's it.

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Speaker 1: That's all we got. This was a really fulfilling solo. Marie.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I hope that you guys enjoyed this.

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Speaker 1: On the way to work, I know that's where some

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00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:51,760
Speaker 1: of y'all listen. Where else do people listen. I mean

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00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:53,640
Speaker 1: a lot of people have cars, a lot of people

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00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:56,720
Speaker 1: are doing many tasks and they're like they need something

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Speaker 1: to hear in the background.

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Speaker 2: And they love it.

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Speaker 1: They love us.

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00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:00,920
Speaker 2: Here's a question for the episode. We need y'all to

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Speaker 2: answer the question.

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01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:04,720
Speaker 1: Is it mess or just living to be forty years

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01:00:04,720 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 1: old and have a baby by a married man who

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01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:08,240
Speaker 1: told you not to have the baby. We just want

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01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 1: to know. I need to know you're like most of me,

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01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:18,320
Speaker 1: but maybe it's not to you, okay, and please continue

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01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:21,880
Speaker 1: to leave reviews. I love all the reviews.

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01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:22,360
Speaker 2: Keep them.

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01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 1: I need y'all to flood the reviews. We need more.

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Speaker 2: I want more on Spotify and we need a hard

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Speaker 2: seventy five.

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Speaker 1: We need a hard time. Get's drink a lot of

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Speaker 1: work today, Goodbye Boy. Mess with Sidney Washington and Marie

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Speaker 1: Foston is a production by Will Ferrell's Big Money Players

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01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:48,400
Speaker 1: and iHeartRadio podcast created and hosted by Sidney Washington and

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01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:52,640
Speaker 1: Marie Foston. Executive produced by Olivia Aguilar and Hans Sonny,

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01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:56,560
Speaker 1: super produced by Becca Ramos, edited a mixed by Brian Jeffries.

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