WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: He Saw What He Saw

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we pulled you last week. Hey, welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the Second Date podcast. By the way, it is Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning. The Second Date Update. We

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<v Speaker 1>sat in a poll that we moved Awkward Tuesday from

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<v Speaker 1>Sunday to Tuesday. Did you think it was brilliant or

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<v Speaker 1>a terrible choice? Believe it or not? Seventy one percent

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<v Speaker 1>of people said brilliant.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, they can keep track of the day of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, yeah, it makes a lot more sense.

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<v Speaker 3>It's happening right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to your Awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 4>If a friend calls you at eleven o'clock at night

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<v Speaker 4>and demands to come over because they have to tell

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<v Speaker 4>you something in person and it can't wait.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, it's probably good news. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, maybe they just finished watching Love Island.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, or maybe they found an extra McNugget in their

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<v Speaker 4>McDonald's bag. Oh go, just say fifteen percent by switching

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<v Speaker 4>insurance providers.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah no, no, not an eleven pm CA Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, unfortunately for our listener, his buddy called him to

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<v Speaker 4>drop a huge, huge bomb about his girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, and now.

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<v Speaker 4>He needs our help getting the truth from her about

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<v Speaker 4>what really happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, it wasn't a chicken nugget.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe that's a good thing that happened.

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<v Speaker 4>We're gonna find out when we do your brand new

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<v Speaker 4>awkward Tuesday phone call right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward, It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 4>Is there any circumstance where you're out somewhere and you

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<v Speaker 4>see a friend's significant other doing something that they shouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>be doing and you decide to keep your mouth shut? Oh,

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<v Speaker 4>because I mean, you can rationalize it in your head, like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what, it's not really any of my business.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to jump to conclusions and stir up

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<v Speaker 4>drama if that's not really what's going on my iesight? Really,

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<v Speaker 4>isn't that good anyway? That could have just been a

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<v Speaker 4>mannequin and I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Totally seeing It's just like you got to eat an

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<v Speaker 1>ice cream on a non cheat day.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, is there any chance you do that? Or do

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<v Speaker 4>you go tell your friend and immediately what you saw?

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<v Speaker 1>It depends depends on the relationship with some.

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<v Speaker 2>Grocery shopping with somebody. I don't know, are they literally

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<v Speaker 2>making out?

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<v Speaker 3>Mind? You guys see something?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Why why aren't you telling you?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I would tell you.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, this is how they kissed.

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<v Speaker 4>See, this is exactly what happened to our listener, Jacob,

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<v Speaker 4>who is left dealing with a very bizarre situation now

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<v Speaker 4>and he does not.

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<v Speaker 3>Know how to proceed. Jacob, Hey, man, are you holding up? Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, you guys, not really?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, oh my god, I'm dying. Who went where

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<v Speaker 1>all of it?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>So I've been seeing this woman, her name is Shannon

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<v Speaker 5>for about a half a year now. We didn't live

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<v Speaker 5>together or anything, but I'd say it's been going pretty

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<v Speaker 5>good for the most part.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought this was going to be about someone you

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<v Speaker 1>saw that we had to call the friend this is

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<v Speaker 1>about you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, this one's about me.

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<v Speaker 5>Shannon and I will have nights where we hang out,

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<v Speaker 5>we do stuff together, but then other nights were apart

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<v Speaker 5>to things where we hang out with her friends. And

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<v Speaker 5>I mean it's healthy.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I disagree you should be spending twenty four seconds.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, that's just my clinging answer.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, like I said, we're not living together. Schedules

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<v Speaker 5>are not framed around one another.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, you have your own lives.

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<v Speaker 1>That's yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Total one night she was out with her friends. Whatever,

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<v Speaker 5>I got a weird call around like eleven from a

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<v Speaker 5>friend of mine, my friend Omar, and Omar was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 5>are you home because I gotta come over and tell

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<v Speaker 5>you something. And he was like like really kind of

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<v Speaker 5>on edge about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Is exactly what I was going to say.

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<v Speaker 2>But a friend says I need to tell you something

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<v Speaker 2>to your face, I'll be like, friendship's over, dude, Sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like anything.

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<v Speaker 4>That must be pretty serious. If he's like demanding to

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<v Speaker 4>go see you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, I knew it was important, so I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>all right, come over whatever. He stops by. He tells

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<v Speaker 5>me that he saw Shannon out at this place called

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<v Speaker 5>Crystal Lounge.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like a shady place.

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<v Speaker 5>She was with a guy, and she was wearing an

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<v Speaker 5>engagement ring finger.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you sure that this guy's good at left and right?

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<v Speaker 1>I have made that mistake before friends.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know what that finger is.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, okay, And that's the thing I was trying to

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<v Speaker 5>defend Shannon. I was like, nah, you know you're wrong,

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<v Speaker 5>But he was pretty adamant. And that's why you had

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<v Speaker 5>to tell me face to face. He saw what he saw?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, did he did he mention anything like specific like

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<v Speaker 4>if they were kissing or holding hands or.

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<v Speaker 1>Doing wearing an engagement ring.

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<v Speaker 3>Josh, you've never put a ring on there.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, maybe it was just like her friend's engagement ring

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<v Speaker 4>that she was trying on for fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, girls clothes always at the bar, just friend.

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<v Speaker 2>It reminds you, bruk, I'll take your wedding ring off

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<v Speaker 2>right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks. Yeah, So, like did he mention anything specific like that?

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<v Speaker 5>So Walmart said they were like physically close to each other,

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<v Speaker 5>but he didn't see any overly romantic gestures happen. So

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, all right, it's probably just a friend and

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<v Speaker 5>she's wearing some kind of fake engagement ring.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I will say, I will say I have

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<v Speaker 1>some really hot friends that will wear fake engagement rings

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<v Speaker 1>so they don't get hit on.

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<v Speaker 5>And I totally get that. And don't get me wrong,

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<v Speaker 5>you guys, Like I feel like I'm dating up. She

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<v Speaker 5>is very attractive. So I see her the next day

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<v Speaker 5>and I bring it up, thinking it's going to be,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, like thirty second conversation. She's gonna laugh, she's

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<v Speaker 5>gonna you know, but she was like, I don't want

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<v Speaker 5>to talk about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Feeling of guilt.

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<v Speaker 5>I try to bring it up a few more times,

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<v Speaker 5>and then Shannon got upset and she stormed out.

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<v Speaker 1>She got you yeah, because you know, Lie, it's upset.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how it works. It's like anybody who's accused of

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<v Speaker 1>cheating will be like, no, you were cheating.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you're on me.

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<v Speaker 5>But that's the thing I thought. I wanted to give

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<v Speaker 5>her like the medicine of the doubt, and I wasn't

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<v Speaker 5>trying to be aggressive about it or like like accusing

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<v Speaker 5>her right and now she's not answering my calls. This

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<v Speaker 5>was just the other night, just this week, and so

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<v Speaker 5>I need advice. I need advice on how to handle it.

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<v Speaker 1>Ask you, are you still hoping that she's not cheating,

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<v Speaker 1>Like there's still.

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<v Speaker 3>A possible that she is cheating?

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<v Speaker 1>In my mind, there's no possibility that she's not cheating.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well, I think you're saying. Everybody in this room

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<v Speaker 4>is kind of in agreement. It looks really bad for

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<v Speaker 4>her right now, and it's very very likely that something

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<v Speaker 4>is happening behind your back.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like we have not just go out of

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<v Speaker 2>the fact she could be a jewelry heist, persons of

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<v Speaker 2>jewelry and she's scared because we just caught her.

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<v Speaker 3>That is a pretty frequent thing that we get on

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<v Speaker 3>the show.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like you want to what you want to

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<v Speaker 1>get the truth out of her?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yeah, I really am still holding out hope for

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<v Speaker 5>it to just be something that she's like embarrassed about,

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<v Speaker 5>doesn't know how to bring it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean it's embarrassed that I was with my fiance.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think that's a highly likely possibility.

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<v Speaker 3>When we call her here, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>They probably haven't gotten married yet. Yeah, ngage, Now you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't see a wedding band.

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<v Speaker 3>It's totally different now, Jake. I'm sorry that you're going

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<v Speaker 3>through this, but we're going to try and.

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<v Speaker 4>Give you a little bit of advice here before we

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<v Speaker 4>call your girlfriend Shannon and let you ask her the question,

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<v Speaker 4>what was going on when my friends saw you out

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<v Speaker 4>the other night at a lounge wearing an engagement ring

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<v Speaker 4>with another guy?

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<v Speaker 1>No matter what happens, like, you're the winner out of this,

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<v Speaker 1>she's the sucky one.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you don't have to hit on him now, he's

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<v Speaker 4>still with somebody.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll get to that in a second. Your awkward Tuesday

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<v Speaker 3>phone calls coming up right after this. It's awkward. It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 4>If you're just joining us for the awkward Tuesday phone call,

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<v Speaker 4>this is what we know. Our listener, Jacob has a

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<v Speaker 4>girlfriend of about half a year. She was spotted out

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<v Speaker 4>recently at a lounge with a different guy wearing an

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<v Speaker 4>engagement bright like I need.

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<v Speaker 1>To be taking notes Jeff so right, Yep, that's weird,

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<v Speaker 1>not good.

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<v Speaker 4>When Jacob brought it up to her in a fun way,

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<v Speaker 4>he expected her to laugh and explain, Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just a stupid situation. I had to wear it. It

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<v Speaker 3>was a big joke.

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<v Speaker 4>But no, she got upset and left and has not

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<v Speaker 4>spoken to him since. That's why he needs our advice

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<v Speaker 4>today on what to say to get his girlfriend to

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<v Speaker 4>just tell him the truth of what is really going on. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it's the least that he deserves. Right, what's your advice.

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<v Speaker 1>To Jacob man, Jacob, it's not looking good.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not really advice.

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<v Speaker 1>I've just like you because if all of those things

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<v Speaker 1>are what happened for real, then it's one hundred percent

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<v Speaker 1>she's cheating, Like there's no way around it, right.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, should I get advice on how to handle it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes? Yes, this has been pretty hopeless so far, you

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<v Speaker 3>just told him the situation.

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<v Speaker 1>You were going to take control of this situation, okay, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and you were going to tell her. You need to

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<v Speaker 1>tell me the truth.

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<v Speaker 5>Now.

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<v Speaker 3>You need to rip it off like a band aid.

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<v Speaker 3>Rip it off like a.

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<v Speaker 1>Band aid, because if she waits any longer, it's only

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get worse. Like you deserve the truth. And if

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<v Speaker 1>she has ever respected you ever in the time that

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<v Speaker 1>she's known you, now is the time to show that.

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<v Speaker 5>There it is all yeah, yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>There was actually a little bit of advice in there.

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<v Speaker 3>Good job edit out the whole.

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<v Speaker 2>Front of that party.

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<v Speaker 1>Every week I give great advice, jose What about you?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you think?

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<v Speaker 5>Jake?

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<v Speaker 3>Remember you need to make her feel comfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>Remind her Honey. I want you to know first, I

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<v Speaker 2>love you, okay, And whatever you say in this conversation,

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<v Speaker 2>I promise not to judge what. We listen and we

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<v Speaker 2>don't judge.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a TikTok tra TikTok. You know what you.

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<v Speaker 2>Give, you judge it, then maybe she will be comfortable

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<v Speaker 2>to I think actually all of us could take that

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<v Speaker 2>advice in this room.

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<v Speaker 3>We should listen and not judge her yet, because there

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<v Speaker 3>could be.

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<v Speaker 4>A logical explanation for this. We're all gonna look really stupid.

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<v Speaker 4>If we're being as capeful as Brook is towards her,

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<v Speaker 4>she would have.

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<v Speaker 3>Just said the logical thing.

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<v Speaker 1>If it was logical, Jeff, she wouldn't have like run

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<v Speaker 1>out of the room.

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<v Speaker 6>You know what, I want to look stupid, So listen

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<v Speaker 6>and then.

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<v Speaker 3>Then we can.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't get me wrong, you guys. If this doesn't go

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<v Speaker 5>my way, I am fully welcome to judge.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, all exactly, that's actually what we do best on

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<v Speaker 3>the show. But let's call her. We'll see if Shannon

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<v Speaker 3>picks up, and then we'll step away and let you make.

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<v Speaker 4>Your awkward call and we'll be here if you feel

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<v Speaker 4>like you need a little bit of help, okay, with

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<v Speaker 4>good luck.

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<v Speaker 6>Hello, Hey, it's me. I said, I don't feel like

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<v Speaker 6>talking right now.

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<v Speaker 5>No, we need to talk right now. What do you mean,

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<v Speaker 5>not feel like talking right now? That's not fair, because.

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<v Speaker 6>You just seem really upset about something that honestly I

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<v Speaker 6>do not feel like talking about.

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<v Speaker 5>Well I don't. How do you think I should feel

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<v Speaker 5>about it?

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<v Speaker 6>Like?

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<v Speaker 5>What? I want to get this I want to get

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<v Speaker 5>this over with. I want to hash this out.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, then just you know what, just move on. What

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<v Speaker 6>we have to hash out, we don't have to hash

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<v Speaker 6>out anymore. Okay? Sorry?

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<v Speaker 5>Am I not supposed to be upset when my buddy

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<v Speaker 5>comes to me saying that you have an engagement ring

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<v Speaker 5>on and you're hanging with some other guy?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, what is that?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>What is that?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry?

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<v Speaker 6>What do you want?

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<v Speaker 3>Your theories?

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<v Speaker 5>All right? I deserve an explanation here, Like, it's my understanding.

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<v Speaker 5>We've been together for six months now, like we're boyfriend

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<v Speaker 5>and girlfriend, and my understanding we're not seeing other people?

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<v Speaker 5>So am I wrong here?

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<v Speaker 6>Jacob? I don't want to hurt you.

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<v Speaker 5>It's see, it's a little late for that. You just

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<v Speaker 5>need to tell me whatever the truth is. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 5>can handle it.

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<v Speaker 6>It's hard to explain.

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<v Speaker 5>Well can you try? Can you try for me here, please? Shannon?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, you know my friend Sierra, right? Yeah? I know Sierral. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>So a couple of months ago she set up this

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<v Speaker 6>like hangout with some old friends. She was saying, we

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<v Speaker 6>hadn't seen them in a while. Could I just come

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<v Speaker 6>and catch up?

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<v Speaker 5>What does this have to do with us?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm getting there. This is not this is an easy Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>So one of the guys who was there to hang like, well,

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<v Speaker 6>he was my ex.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh what what does that even mean?

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<v Speaker 6>So be hooked up and I didn't know what to

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<v Speaker 6>say to you because you're so sweet to me. God, God,

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<v Speaker 6>and I started dating him again, and I know it's

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<v Speaker 6>messed up. I know, but in my head, I was like,

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<v Speaker 6>I've always just wanted to have a forever relationship, be married,

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<v Speaker 6>and so I had it in my head that that

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<v Speaker 6>I was just going to say yes to whoever proposed first.

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<v Speaker 6>And he proposed a few nights ago.

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<v Speaker 5>So so wait, sorry, you're actually you're really engaged. I

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<v Speaker 5>thought I really thought there'd be some other reason to it.

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, I am, I'm engaged to someone else. I'm

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<v Speaker 6>really sorry. I'm sorry. Oh my god, what is that?

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<v Speaker 6>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Man? Okay, oh my god, Shannon.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything, Shannon, we've.

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<v Speaker 3>Been listening to this culture.

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<v Speaker 4>He says, you're on the radio right now with a

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<v Speaker 4>show called Brook and Jeffrey. In the morning, we're doing

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<v Speaker 4>something called awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh what look?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Yeah, you weren't answering my calls, and I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>know how to address this with you. I've been trying,

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<v Speaker 5>and so I called the radio station to help me

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<v Speaker 5>get a hold of you.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and no, God, I believe you did this on

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<v Speaker 6>the radio.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe you shouldn't have been cheating.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we do a lot of these phone calls, I'll

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<v Speaker 4>tell you, Shannon, And we don't normally get a lot

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<v Speaker 4>that and like this. Usually it's somebody playing a joke,

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<v Speaker 4>there's some hilarious misunderstanding. Turns out, Shannon, you're just a

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<v Speaker 4>two timing cheater.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I'm sorry. She said that she can't believe this. No,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry. I can't believe that you're actually engaged. And

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<v Speaker 5>you hit all of this from me, like, hello, are

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<v Speaker 5>you dating?

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<v Speaker 1>For your engage to this guy?

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<v Speaker 6>Who are you? Why do I have to answer questions

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<v Speaker 6>to you? I don't even know who I'm talking to

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<v Speaker 6>at this point. You think I'm just going to answer

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<v Speaker 6>some questions for some people I've never talked to you before.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's pretty valid to the situation. Jacob's friend and

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<v Speaker 3>we're defending jobs.

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<v Speaker 6>Jacome friend he called the radio station. Now he's your friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, he is really cling. You don't know us.

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<v Speaker 6>Jacob is my friend, Like I still want him to

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<v Speaker 6>be part of my life. Sorry, after all.

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<v Speaker 4>Of this, you think Jacob would still want to be

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<v Speaker 4>around you?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so your friend?

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<v Speaker 6>Couldn't we stay friends? Like? I even asked my fiance

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<v Speaker 6>to have our wedding like a year so you could

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<v Speaker 6>have some time to heal because you are a good friend.

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<v Speaker 6>And why there I want you in my life wedding the.

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<v Speaker 1>Year so that your current boyfriend over you that he

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<v Speaker 1>can go to the wed.

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<v Speaker 5>Jacob, I mean, are you and things got to be

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<v Speaker 5>a joke?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, what does your schedule look like next next time?

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<v Speaker 6>I wouldn't joke. You're a special guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, I was joking.

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<v Speaker 5>My schedule next year is figuring out when she's on

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<v Speaker 5>her honeymoon and burning up her apartment.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, let's bring it back a couple of months, Jacob.

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<v Speaker 3>We're on tape here, so this can be used in

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<v Speaker 3>the court of room.

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<v Speaker 6>I can help you.

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<v Speaker 3>To move on. Okay, yeah, okay, yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>You guys you don't know me, but I'm not a

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<v Speaker 6>bad person. Yes, maybe I made a mistake, Maybe I

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<v Speaker 6>should have broken up with Jacob earlier, but I'm not

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<v Speaker 6>a bad person.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe, Jacob, are you willing to call this strike one

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<v Speaker 4>and give it two more?

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<v Speaker 3>Friends, you know, in the name of friendship.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I think all nine innings are over.

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<v Speaker 6>Sports analogy, Okay, I wish Jacob well, I hope he

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<v Speaker 6>has a great life.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what to say to you, Shanon, honestly.

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<v Speaker 3>But Jacob, jeff sure.

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<v Speaker 1>You know Jeffy's going to send you a wedding pressent.

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<v Speaker 3>Ye, guilty, I do. I do perform at weddings, so

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<v Speaker 3>you can hire me.

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<v Speaker 4>But Jacob, the good news is that you got the

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<v Speaker 4>truth right, That's what you were after here the.

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<v Speaker 1>Whole Timely wasted six months on this relationship. But I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that's another positive.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Well, hey, you know, since we're friends legitimately, let's

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<v Speaker 5>go out spend the rest of the week drinking. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>up for it.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean us right?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, drinks on Jacob.

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<v Speaker 3>Cool looking Jeffrey in the morning.