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Speaker 1: All right, we pulled you last week. Hey, welcome to

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Speaker 1: the Second Date podcast. By the way, it is Brooke

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the morning. The Second Date Update. We

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Speaker 1: sat in a poll that we moved Awkward Tuesday from

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Speaker 1: Sunday to Tuesday. Did you think it was brilliant or

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Speaker 1: a terrible choice? Believe it or not? Seventy one percent

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Speaker 1: of people said brilliant.

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Speaker 2: Hey, they can keep track of the day of the week.

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Speaker 1: Now, yeah, it makes a lot more sense.

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Speaker 3: It's happening right now.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to your Awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 4: If a friend calls you at eleven o'clock at night

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Speaker 4: and demands to come over because they have to tell

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Speaker 4: you something in person and it can't wait.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's probably good news. Right.

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Speaker 1: Oh, maybe they just finished watching Love Island.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, or maybe they found an extra McNugget in their

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Speaker 4: McDonald's bag. Oh go, just say fifteen percent by switching

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Speaker 4: insurance providers.

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Speaker 3: Yeah no, no, not an eleven pm CA Okay.

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Speaker 4: Well, unfortunately for our listener, his buddy called him to

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Speaker 4: drop a huge, huge bomb about his girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: Oh, and now.

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Speaker 4: He needs our help getting the truth from her about

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Speaker 4: what really happened.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it wasn't a chicken nugget.

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Speaker 3: Maybe that's a good thing that happened.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna find out when we do your brand new

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Speaker 4: awkward Tuesday phone call right after this.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward, It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 4: Is there any circumstance where you're out somewhere and you

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Speaker 4: see a friend's significant other doing something that they shouldn't

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Speaker 4: be doing and you decide to keep your mouth shut? Oh,

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Speaker 4: because I mean, you can rationalize it in your head, like,

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Speaker 4: you know what, it's not really any of my business.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to jump to conclusions and stir up

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Speaker 4: drama if that's not really what's going on my iesight? Really,

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Speaker 4: isn't that good anyway? That could have just been a

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Speaker 4: mannequin and I'm.

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Speaker 1: Totally seeing It's just like you got to eat an

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Speaker 4: Yeah, is there any chance you do that? Or do

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Speaker 4: you go tell your friend and immediately what you saw?

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Speaker 1: It depends depends on the relationship with some.

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Speaker 2: Grocery shopping with somebody. I don't know, are they literally

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Speaker 3: Mind? You guys see something?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 3: Why why aren't you telling you?

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Speaker 1: I don't think I would tell you.

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Speaker 3: Now, this is how they kissed.

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Speaker 4: See, this is exactly what happened to our listener, Jacob,

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Speaker 4: who is left dealing with a very bizarre situation now

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Speaker 4: and he does not.

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Speaker 3: Know how to proceed. Jacob, Hey, man, are you holding up? Okay?

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Speaker 5: Honestly, you guys, not really?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, oh my god, I'm dying. Who went where

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Speaker 1: all of it?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 5: So I've been seeing this woman, her name is Shannon

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Speaker 5: for about a half a year now. We didn't live

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Speaker 1: I thought this was going to be about someone you

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Speaker 1: saw that we had to call the friend this is

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, this one's about me.

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Speaker 5: Shannon and I will have nights where we hang out,

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Speaker 5: we do stuff together, but then other nights were apart

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Speaker 5: to things where we hang out with her friends. And

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Speaker 5: I mean it's healthy.

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Speaker 3: You know, I disagree you should be spending twenty four seconds.

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Speaker 3: You know, that's just my clinging answer.

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Speaker 5: I mean, like I said, we're not living together. Schedules

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Speaker 5: are not framed around one another.

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Speaker 3: Right, you have your own lives.

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Speaker 1: That's yeah.

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Speaker 5: Total one night she was out with her friends. Whatever,

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Speaker 5: I got a weird call around like eleven from a

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Speaker 3: Is exactly what I was going to say.

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Speaker 2: But a friend says I need to tell you something

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Speaker 4: That must be pretty serious. If he's like demanding to

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I knew it was important, so I was like,

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Speaker 5: all right, come over whatever. He stops by. He tells

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Speaker 5: Crystal Lounge.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like a shady place.

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Speaker 5: She was with a guy, and she was wearing an

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Speaker 1: Are you sure that this guy's good at left and right?

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Speaker 1: I have made that mistake before friends.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know what that finger is.

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Speaker 5: Yes, okay, And that's the thing I was trying to

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Speaker 5: defend Shannon. I was like, nah, you know you're wrong,

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Speaker 5: But he was pretty adamant. And that's why you had

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Speaker 4: Well, did he did he mention anything like specific like

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Speaker 1: Doing wearing an engagement ring.

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Speaker 3: Josh, you've never put a ring on there.

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Speaker 4: Well, maybe it was just like her friend's engagement ring

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Speaker 3: Yeah, girls clothes always at the bar, just friend.

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Speaker 2: It reminds you, bruk, I'll take your wedding ring off

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 3: Thanks. Yeah, So, like did he mention anything specific like that?

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Speaker 5: So Walmart said they were like physically close to each other,

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Speaker 5: I'm like, all right, it's probably just a friend and

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Speaker 5: she's wearing some kind of fake engagement ring.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I will say, I will say I have

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Speaker 1: so they don't get hit on.

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Speaker 5: And I totally get that. And don't get me wrong,

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Speaker 5: you guys, Like I feel like I'm dating up. She

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Speaker 5: and I bring it up, thinking it's going to be,

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Speaker 5: I try to bring it up a few more times,

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Speaker 5: and then Shannon got upset and she stormed out.

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Speaker 1: She got you yeah, because you know, Lie, it's upset.

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Speaker 1: That's how it works. It's like anybody who's accused of

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Speaker 3: Oh you're on me.

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Speaker 5: But that's the thing I thought. I wanted to give

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Speaker 5: I need advice. I need advice on how to handle it.

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Speaker 1: Ask you, are you still hoping that she's not cheating,

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Speaker 1: Like there's still.

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Speaker 3: A possible that she is cheating?

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Speaker 1: In my mind, there's no possibility that she's not cheating.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, I think you're saying. Everybody in this room

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Speaker 4: is kind of in agreement. It looks really bad for

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Speaker 4: is happening behind your back.

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Speaker 2: I feel like we have not just go out of

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Speaker 3: That is a pretty frequent thing that we get on

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Speaker 1: I mean, like you want to what you want to

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I really am still holding out hope for

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Speaker 5: it to just be something that she's like embarrassed about,

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Speaker 5: doesn't know how to bring it up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's embarrassed that I was with my fiance.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that's a highly likely possibility.

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Speaker 3: When we call her here, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: They probably haven't gotten married yet. Yeah, ngage, Now you

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Speaker 3: It's totally different now, Jake. I'm sorry that you're going

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Speaker 4: Give you a little bit of advice here before we

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Speaker 4: call your girlfriend Shannon and let you ask her the question,

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Speaker 4: what was going on when my friends saw you out

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Speaker 4: the other night at a lounge wearing an engagement ring

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Speaker 1: No matter what happens, like, you're the winner out of this,

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Speaker 1: she's the sucky one.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you don't have to hit on him now, he's

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Speaker 3: We'll get to that in a second. Your awkward Tuesday

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Speaker 3: phone calls coming up right after this. It's awkward. It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 4: If you're just joining us for the awkward Tuesday phone call,

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Speaker 4: this is what we know. Our listener, Jacob has a

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Speaker 4: recently at a lounge with a different guy wearing an

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Speaker 1: To be taking notes Jeff so right, Yep, that's weird,

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Speaker 1: not good.

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Speaker 4: When Jacob brought it up to her in a fun way,

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Speaker 4: he expected her to laugh and explain, Oh.

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Speaker 3: It's just a stupid situation. I had to wear it. It

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Speaker 4: But no, she got upset and left and has not

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Speaker 4: spoken to him since. That's why he needs our advice

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Speaker 4: just tell him the truth of what is really going on. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it's the least that he deserves. Right, what's your advice.

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Speaker 1: To Jacob man, Jacob, it's not looking good.

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Speaker 3: It's not really advice.

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Speaker 1: I've just like you because if all of those things

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Speaker 1: she's cheating, Like there's no way around it, right.

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Speaker 5: Like, should I get advice on how to handle it?

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Speaker 3: Yes? Yes, this has been pretty hopeless so far, you

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Speaker 3: just told him the situation.

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Speaker 1: You were going to take control of this situation, okay, right,

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Speaker 1: and you were going to tell her. You need to

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Speaker 1: tell me the truth.

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 3: You need to rip it off like a band aid.

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Speaker 3: Rip it off like a.

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Speaker 1: Band aid, because if she waits any longer, it's only

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Speaker 1: gonna get worse. Like you deserve the truth. And if

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Speaker 1: she's known you, now is the time to show that.

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Speaker 5: There it is all yeah, yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 3: There was actually a little bit of advice in there.

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Speaker 3: Good job edit out the whole.

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Speaker 2: Front of that party.

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Speaker 1: Every week I give great advice, jose What about you?

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Speaker 3: What do you think?

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Speaker 5: Jake?

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Speaker 3: Remember you need to make her feel comfortable.

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Speaker 2: Remind her Honey. I want you to know first, I

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Speaker 2: love you, okay, And whatever you say in this conversation,

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Speaker 2: I promise not to judge what. We listen and we

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Speaker 2: don't judge.

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Speaker 3: That's a TikTok tra TikTok. You know what you.

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Speaker 3: We should listen and not judge her yet, because there

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Speaker 4: A logical explanation for this. We're all gonna look really stupid.

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Speaker 4: If we're being as capeful as Brook is towards her,

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Speaker 3: Just said the logical thing.

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Speaker 1: If it was logical, Jeff, she wouldn't have like run

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Speaker 6: You know what, I want to look stupid, So listen

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Speaker 3: Then we can.

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Speaker 5: Don't get me wrong, you guys. If this doesn't go

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Speaker 3: Yes, all exactly, that's actually what we do best on

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Speaker 3: the show. But let's call her. We'll see if Shannon

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Speaker 4: Your awkward call and we'll be here if you feel

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Speaker 6: Hello, Hey, it's me. I said, I don't feel like

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Speaker 5: No, we need to talk right now. What do you mean,

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Speaker 6: You just seem really upset about something that honestly I

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Speaker 5: Well I don't. How do you think I should feel

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 5: What? I want to get this I want to get

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Speaker 6: Okay, then just you know what, just move on. What

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Speaker 6: we have to hash out, we don't have to hash

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Speaker 5: Am I not supposed to be upset when my buddy

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Speaker 2: Like, what is that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: What is that?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry?

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Speaker 6: What do you want?

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Speaker 3: Your theories?

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Speaker 5: All right? I deserve an explanation here, Like, it's my understanding.

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Speaker 5: We've been together for six months now, like we're boyfriend

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Speaker 5: So am I wrong here?

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Speaker 6: Jacob? I don't want to hurt you.

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Speaker 5: It's see, it's a little late for that. You just

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Speaker 6: It's hard to explain.

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Speaker 5: Well can you try? Can you try for me here, please? Shannon?

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Speaker 6: Well, you know my friend Sierra, right? Yeah? I know Sierral. Okay,

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Speaker 6: So a couple of months ago she set up this

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Speaker 5: What does this have to do with us?

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Speaker 6: I'm getting there. This is not this is an easy Okay.

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Speaker 6: So one of the guys who was there to hang like, well,

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Speaker 5: Oh what what does that even mean?

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Speaker 6: So be hooked up and I didn't know what to

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Speaker 6: and I started dating him again, and I know it's

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Speaker 6: I've always just wanted to have a forever relationship, be married,

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Speaker 5: So so wait, sorry, you're actually you're really engaged. I

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Speaker 6: No, no, I am, I'm engaged to someone else. I'm

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Speaker 6: really sorry. I'm sorry. Oh my god, what is that?

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Speaker 6: What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Man? Okay, oh my god, Shannon.

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Speaker 1: Everything, Shannon, we've.

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Speaker 3: Been listening to this culture.

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Speaker 4: He says, you're on the radio right now with a

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Speaker 3: Oh what look?

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Speaker 5: Okay, Yeah, you weren't answering my calls, and I didn't

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Speaker 5: know how to address this with you. I've been trying,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and no, God, I believe you did this on

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Speaker 3: Maybe you shouldn't have been cheating.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we do a lot of these phone calls, I'll

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Speaker 4: tell you, Shannon, And we don't normally get a lot

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm sorry. She said that she can't believe this. No,

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry. I can't believe that you're actually engaged. And

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Speaker 5: you hit all of this from me, like, hello, are

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Speaker 1: For your engage to this guy?

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Speaker 6: Who are you? Why do I have to answer questions

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Speaker 6: to you? I don't even know who I'm talking to

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Speaker 3: Well, it's pretty valid to the situation. Jacob's friend and

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Speaker 6: Jacome friend he called the radio station. Now he's your friend.

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Speaker 3: Yes, he is really cling. You don't know us.

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Speaker 6: Jacob is my friend, Like I still want him to

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Speaker 4: Of this, you think Jacob would still want to be

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so your friend?

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Speaker 6: Couldn't we stay friends? Like? I even asked my fiance

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Speaker 6: And why there I want you in my life wedding the.

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Speaker 1: Year so that your current boyfriend over you that he

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Speaker 5: Jacob, I mean, are you and things got to be

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Speaker 3: Well, what does your schedule look like next next time?

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Speaker 6: I wouldn't joke. You're a special guy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I was joking.

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Speaker 5: My schedule next year is figuring out when she's on

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Speaker 3: Oh, let's bring it back a couple of months, Jacob.

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Speaker 3: We're on tape here, so this can be used in

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Speaker 6: I can help you.

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Speaker 3: To move on. Okay, yeah, okay, yeah.

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Speaker 6: You guys you don't know me, but I'm not a

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Speaker 4: Maybe, Jacob, are you willing to call this strike one

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Speaker 3: Friends, you know, in the name of friendship.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think all nine innings are over.

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Speaker 6: Sports analogy, Okay, I wish Jacob well, I hope he

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Speaker 3: I don't know what to say to you, Shanon, honestly.

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Speaker 3: But Jacob, jeff sure.

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Speaker 1: You know Jeffy's going to send you a wedding pressent.

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Speaker 3: Ye, guilty, I do. I do perform at weddings, so

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Speaker 3: you can hire me.

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Speaker 4: But Jacob, the good news is that you got the

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Speaker 4: truth right, That's what you were after here the.

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Speaker 1: Whole Timely wasted six months on this relationship. But I

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Well, hey, you know, since we're friends legitimately, let's

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Speaker 3: What do you mean us right?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, drinks on Jacob.

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Speaker 3: Cool looking Jeffrey in the morning.