WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update UPDATE PODCAST: Broke a Shoe 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:01.599 It's Brook and Jewel in the morning. I remember I'm 0:00:01.639 --> 0:00:04.080 performing in Everett tomorrow at the Historic every Theater. You 0:00:04.080 --> 0:00:06.840 can get tickets at ugly tickets dot com. We're coming 0:00:06.880 --> 0:00:08.360 up in just a few minutes. About a year ago, 0:00:08.400 --> 0:00:10.600 we have two people on the phone for what turned 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:12.319 out to be one of the most controversial second date 0:00:12.400 --> 0:00:14.960 updates we've ever done. It featured a guy named Connor 0:00:15.040 --> 0:00:17.040 and a woman named Kate, and the way it ended 0:00:17.160 --> 0:00:19.960 took everybody by surprise. If you've never heard it before, 0:00:20.120 --> 0:00:22.200 we're about to replay it for you, and then afterwards 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:24.440 you'll get an update from the couple and find out 0:00:24.440 --> 0:00:27.280 where they are today in your second Date Update update 0:00:27.880 --> 0:00:34.000 right now, Brook and Jewels second Date up to date, 0:00:35.000 --> 0:00:39.520 the most successful dating site isn't Tender. It isn't plenty 0:00:39.560 --> 0:00:43.440 of Fists dot com, even though that's a really good one. 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:47.479 But it's actually Instagram. A lot of people meet on Instagram, 0:00:47.520 --> 0:00:49.800 and apparently that's how Connor, who's on the phone for 0:00:49.840 --> 0:00:51.920 a second day update today, met the girl that he 0:00:51.960 --> 0:00:54.640 wants to call. What's up? Connor? Hey, what's going on? Guys? 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:56.320 So if you decided to go with Instagram said a 0:00:56.360 --> 0:01:00.240 plenty of fists. Huh yeah, yeah, I mean Instagram the 0:01:00.560 --> 0:01:02.920 is like the new tender. Basically, I don't think you 0:01:03.040 --> 0:01:07.880 heard what he said. Yeah, I think people did. Yeah. Um, 0:01:07.920 --> 0:01:10.080 what's the girl's name you want to call today? Her 0:01:10.160 --> 0:01:12.679 name is Kate. Kate all right? And how did you 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:16.520 meet Kate on Instagram? Well, you know, as as it 0:01:16.640 --> 0:01:19.440 usually goes, you know, you're kind of perusing around on 0:01:19.480 --> 0:01:23.600 the Gram and you see attractive women and she caught 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:28.720 my eyes, so I started following her. She's absolutely gorgeous, 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:36.240 and one day, um, she posted this. Really you need 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:40.840 to check it out for yourself. It's like really phenomenal picture. 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:46.000 It's the boudoir picture and it's it's stunning, Okay, stunning, 0:01:46.200 --> 0:01:51.720 Send it along, tag us out. Oh my god, So 0:01:51.840 --> 0:01:53.960 are you one of the creeps that commented on it 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:55.880 and like tagged your bro in it, like and not 0:01:55.920 --> 0:01:58.480 even a description, just tagged your bro in her picture. 0:01:58.840 --> 0:02:01.200 I mean, they're posting it was for you to look at, 0:02:01.360 --> 0:02:05.320 so I wouldn't categorize it as creeping. No. What happened 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:08.600 was there was a woman who commented on it, and 0:02:08.800 --> 0:02:11.160 I had no idea who this woman was, and she 0:02:11.280 --> 0:02:15.360 had said, you look like a tramp in this photo. 0:02:16.800 --> 0:02:20.960 Mid's absolutely disgusting. And you know, how dare you post 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:24.600 something like this on Instagram? Oh my gosh? And yeah, 0:02:24.600 --> 0:02:26.720 I know, right, so you came to her defense? Were 0:02:26.760 --> 0:02:29.320 you the Knight in Shining Armor? You saw your moment? Yeah, 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:32.200 I guess you could say that this woman must have 0:02:32.200 --> 0:02:35.600 been jealous of the way Kate looked. Um, so I 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:38.320 chimed in and I said, look, if you don't like it, 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:45.760 just don't follow her, simple as that. Oh damn, big 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:50.000 come back. Yeah, that was that was. I guess that 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:52.600 was my Knight in Shining Armor moment. And Kate had 0:02:52.720 --> 0:02:56.840 reached out to me and she thanked me. Oh is 0:02:56.880 --> 0:02:59.000 that when you asked her out on a date? Yep? 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:03.160 That's when I made some moves. And what was it 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:05.720 like the first time you guys met in person? It was? 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:07.839 It was great. I mean, she looked the same way 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:10.600 she did on Instagram. But she's still wearing that boudoir 0:03:10.680 --> 0:03:16.320 picture that she posted. You know, she had clothing on. Yeah, 0:03:16.360 --> 0:03:17.880 I mean, I think now is the time that we 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:24.440 can switch to talking about her personality. Guys. What I mean, 0:03:24.480 --> 0:03:26.920 did you guys connect? What did you talk about? Yeah? No, 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:29.840 she was really cool. We talked about what she did 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:32.520 for a living. We talked about Instagram and the pros 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:37.280 and cons of Instagram and how causing problems in society, 0:03:37.360 --> 0:03:40.120 but there's also benefits to it like this, And who 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:43.120 would have ever thought, I mean, truly, I think Instagram 0:03:43.560 --> 0:03:46.200 is a way to meet people, whether it's friends or 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:51.200 business connections or significant others. Why not you know for sure? 0:03:51.320 --> 0:03:55.040 So you thought of her as girlfriend potential? Then absolute 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:57.320 absolutely that was hoba. I mean, this was like the 0:03:57.360 --> 0:04:00.200 first hot girl I've been on a date with in 0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:04.600 a long time, all right, a long long time. And 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:08.480 we went to a bar for the date went really well, 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:11.160 but you know, they just took a turn when we 0:04:11.160 --> 0:04:13.920 were getting ready to go to the next bar. Why. 0:04:14.240 --> 0:04:15.760 I don't think it was a big deal, but she 0:04:15.880 --> 0:04:18.680 kind of she she kind of took a weird step. 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:21.039 She was wearing these really high heels, and she took 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:25.520 a weird step and she she broke her heel. Um, 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:31.560 and you started laughing uncontrollably. I mean, I like, I chuckle. 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:35.920 I was like, didn't think I mean I did. I mean, 0:04:35.960 --> 0:04:37.400 at first, I was like, oh my god, are you okay? 0:04:37.400 --> 0:04:38.760 And then I kind of chuckled and thought it was 0:04:38.880 --> 0:04:42.520 kind of comical. But she needed a pair of new shoes. Yeah, 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:44.720 so did she leave? I mean, what do you do 0:04:44.760 --> 0:04:46.560 the rest of the night. No, that wasn't the end 0:04:46.560 --> 0:04:48.880 of it. I do Look, we kind of laughed it off. 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:52.920 We went to the next bar. Did she just hobble along? No? 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:54.800 Well we ended up we ended up getting a new 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:57.160 pair of shoes for her. Oh okay, so you stopped 0:04:57.200 --> 0:04:59.480 along the way to another bar and got a new 0:04:59.520 --> 0:05:02.440 pair of shoes, yes, yep, okay, okay. And then we 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:05.400 got to the next bar and we had a drink 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:10.040 and all right, I just want to get all these 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:12.560 cards out on the table and say that this is 0:05:12.560 --> 0:05:18.560 the part where I may have screwed up. Okay, um, 0:05:18.680 --> 0:05:20.760 we you know, we were having a great time making 0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:24.680 that connection, and my team was on the television. I 0:05:24.839 --> 0:05:26.760 just wanted to check out the game and see what 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:28.760 was going on, see what the score was, see how 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:31.160 things were going. And then I turned back and she 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:35.520 had this like totally look on our face. WHOA, because 0:05:35.800 --> 0:05:38.560 how long had you turned around to watch the game? 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:43.320 I mean maybe like a minute or two? Not be 0:05:43.520 --> 0:05:45.760 sure about that, or did you get completely wrapped up 0:05:45.760 --> 0:05:47.240 in it and forget that you were on a date. 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:49.599 That's a long tap. And did you just turn around 0:05:49.600 --> 0:05:51.840 while she was in the middle of telling you something important. 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:56.000 I mean, I could multitap. It doesn't sound like it 0:05:56.040 --> 0:05:58.160 at all. It's pretty obvious when somebody tunes you out 0:05:58.160 --> 0:06:01.880 and starts watching a TV talk. I wasn't tuning her. 0:06:01.920 --> 0:06:04.479 I was still listening. My ears were still available through 0:06:04.520 --> 0:06:07.640 her voice. Okay, So when you turned around and she 0:06:07.720 --> 0:06:10.640 seemed kind of upset, is that how everything ended? Or 0:06:10.680 --> 0:06:13.159 did it continue on for a little bit? Things got 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:16.240 really awkward. I said, I was sorry, you know, it's 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:20.360 just my team, and you know, I apologize, and I 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:22.599 thought we would be cool and everything would be okay 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:27.400 after that, and it wasn't. She said, you know what, 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:30.320 I'm sorry, I gotta go meet up with my friends. 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:33.520 And I went in for this hug and it was 0:06:33.760 --> 0:06:38.599 just the most awkward moment of my life. Then she left, 0:06:39.480 --> 0:06:42.599 and I'd try to reach out to her, you know, 0:06:42.680 --> 0:06:45.359 because I was totally bummed. She was gorgeous, she was cool. 0:06:45.880 --> 0:06:49.560 She hasn't returned any of my text any of my calls, 0:06:49.839 --> 0:06:52.200 and I don't really think what I did was a 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:54.080 big deal. That's the thing. Like at the time, I 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:56.600 was like, what did I do. Now that i'm thinking about, 0:06:56.640 --> 0:06:59.480 I'm like, Okay, maybe she got upset that I turned 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:02.360 around at the game for a minute or two, but like, 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:05.720 that's me just digging for series. I really don't think 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:08.800 it's a problem. So okay, well play a song, come back, 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:10.800 and then call her and get your second date update. 0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:18.000 All right, yeah, all right, man. Hang on FBI in 0:07:18.000 --> 0:07:21.960 the morning, right in the middle of a second day update, 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:24.320 and Connor is on the phone, and today he wants 0:07:24.360 --> 0:07:27.640 to call a woman named Kate. He met her on Instagram. 0:07:27.960 --> 0:07:30.480 They went out to a bar, hung out. He says 0:07:30.480 --> 0:07:32.160 he had a good time, but hold on a second, 0:07:32.200 --> 0:07:35.760 hang on, Oh whoa who was a big NBA trade? 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:38.680 We're talking about We're talking about something again. I don't know. 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:40.000 I feel like I'm talking to my husband all of 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:45.960 a sudden. Oh second, right, yeah, Connor went out with 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:49.160 Kate to a bar. He thinks the reason she's not 0:07:49.200 --> 0:07:51.760 calling back is because there was a moment where there 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:54.200 was some sports on TV. He turned around to watch 0:07:54.200 --> 0:07:56.160 it for what he says, like one or two minutes, 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:58.640 and then when he tuned back into the conversation. She 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:00.880 just looked upset, and he thinks that that's where everything 0:08:00.920 --> 0:08:02.480 went wrong. So we're about to get on the phone 0:08:02.680 --> 0:08:04.440 and find out if that is the reason he's not 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:06.440 getting a call back. All right, Connor, do you here 0:08:06.480 --> 0:08:13.600 about the trade? Yeah? No, but I guess I gotta 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:16.840 check Sports Center tonight. Oh yeah, that's crazy. I mean, 0:08:16.960 --> 0:08:19.080 even though you said that that only lasted a minute 0:08:19.160 --> 0:08:21.000 or two, I think that's all it takes. Like if 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:24.240 that was an issue for her in previous relationships, and 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:27.080 she's like red flag, I'm not Yeah, I'm not getting 0:08:27.120 --> 0:08:30.240 into that again where I'm dating a guy who is 0:08:30.400 --> 0:08:33.000 so obsessed with sports that he can't pay attention during 0:08:33.080 --> 0:08:35.880 one meal or wondering. Yeah, you're right, maybe her past 0:08:36.040 --> 0:08:39.959 was haunting her. Yeah, find out. All right, I'm a 0:08:40.040 --> 0:08:49.320 dollar phone him right now. Here we go. Hello, Hi 0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:54.000 is this Kate? Yes, here says hey Kate, how are you? 0:08:54.040 --> 0:08:59.880 This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, okay, 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:05.840 are you familiar with the show? Kind though? Kind of 0:09:05.840 --> 0:09:09.000 familiar is what we go for. So that's good. Well, 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:12.440 I'm calling today because actually one of our listeners emailed 0:09:12.520 --> 0:09:17.920 us about you because you're super hot on Instagram? Yeah, okay, okay, 0:09:17.920 --> 0:09:19.480 so we just wanted a ready follow your Instagram. So 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:22.920 you want to shout out your handle or no, where 0:09:22.920 --> 0:09:26.719 are you? Seriously? What what is this? We don't want 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:29.040 to just promote your Instagram. This dude that you went 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:31.959 out on a date with named Connor actually emailed us. 0:09:33.120 --> 0:09:38.040 Oh yeah, yeah, what if you on? Well, we do 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:40.280 a segment on a show called The Second Date Update, 0:09:40.360 --> 0:09:41.800 and Connor has been trying to get ahold of you. 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:44.480 But apparently you don't want to go on another date. No, 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:48.000 I don't. Did you just find that he wasn't the 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:50.959 right person for you? Just just like when we were 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:55.240 talking before we actually met a person. I thought he's 0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:58.120 going to be like a nice guy. Yeah, he seems 0:09:58.160 --> 0:10:01.000 like a gentleman and that we went at one time 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:05.640 and he was not. He wasn't a gentleman. No, so 0:10:05.760 --> 0:10:08.280 he didn't like open your doors and stuff like he 0:10:08.360 --> 0:10:11.640 did that. I don't know, Like it was okay first, 0:10:12.000 --> 0:10:14.240 but then he decided to be like a jerk at 0:10:14.280 --> 0:10:16.400 some point during the night. Was it because he stopped 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:19.240 listening to you to watch sports for a second? Wait, 0:10:19.280 --> 0:10:21.800 how do you know about that? Well, because we talked 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:24.760 to Connor and he told us all about your date. Okay, 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:27.960 so did he tell you about how I like broke 0:10:28.080 --> 0:10:31.120 my heel on the date? Yeah, and he said that 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:33.120 you guys, oh that's right. He did say he laughed 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:35.520 at you a little bit. Well, it was like, Okay, 0:10:35.760 --> 0:10:37.880 it wasn't even the fact that he laughed, because like 0:10:37.960 --> 0:10:39.840 I mean, like I laughed too, Like it wasn't like 0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:42.320 that part wasn't a big deal. But then like, so 0:10:42.400 --> 0:10:44.520 we went to go get new shoes because like obviously 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:46.600 I can't walk around like that. So We're at the 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:49.800 shoe store and I just kept like trying to drop 0:10:49.880 --> 0:10:52.920 him and be like yeah, like these are like my 0:10:53.000 --> 0:10:56.760 favorite shoes. I'm so upset, Like if this happened on 0:10:56.800 --> 0:10:59.559 our date, what's the hint though, I don't get what 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:02.400 your hint was hint to what? Well, like I keep 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:05.000 mentioning like over and over, like yeah, like it happened 0:11:05.000 --> 0:11:07.480 on this date, like you know, we're on a date. 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:10.120 He just doesn't seem to be getting it. I don't 0:11:10.120 --> 0:11:14.200 get it either. You don't like, how do you not 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:20.320 get it? What I don't? You're in a shoe store 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:24.520 and what you like your shoes. What I'm saying is 0:11:25.040 --> 0:11:30.120 my shoe broke on our date. So I feel like 0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:33.720 that means it's his responsibility to buy me new shoes. 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:39.520 What why would that be his responsibility? Did he break 0:11:39.559 --> 0:11:43.080 your shoe? It's not like he physically broke it, but 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:46.000 it's kind of his fault because if I was sitting 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:49.600 at home, my shoe would not be broken. No, No, 0:11:49.920 --> 0:11:53.079 that is a stretch. Is such a big stretch. I 0:11:53.080 --> 0:11:56.679 don't feel like that should be his responsibility. Well, okay, 0:11:56.720 --> 0:11:59.360 think about it this way though. Okay, he invited me out, 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:02.800 like him to pay for like the meal, drinks, like whatever, 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:05.240 like whatever we do, I would expect him to pay 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:09.760 for Okay, So, like, by the same logic, if my 0:12:09.840 --> 0:12:16.160 shoe breaks, that's just an expense of the date. That's 0:12:16.200 --> 0:12:19.679 like saying, if while on your date, your car gets stolen, 0:12:19.840 --> 0:12:22.200 he has to replace your car. I mean, but that 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:27.520 would never happen because I would never drive myself. Obviously 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:31.440 he's gonna be picking me up. It's just like it's 0:12:31.440 --> 0:12:33.400 a thing for me, like, you know, like I want 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:36.320 to date a guy who's going to be like consider it. 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:39.199 You know, like obviously if I'm upset that my shoe 0:12:39.280 --> 0:12:41.800 is broken. He should care like, he should want to 0:12:41.800 --> 0:12:43.280 fix that. He should want to make me feel better, 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:47.520 not make me have to pay for shoes on a 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:51.880 date day. Oh my god, you are so high maintenance. Wow. 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:55.280 I'm not like high maintenance. Like I don't like being 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:57.959 called high maintenance. I'm just saying I know how I 0:12:58.000 --> 0:13:02.199 deserve to be traded and I'm not gonna over wed. Okay, 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:06.240 I did badly? Okay, whatever. Can't you have your standards? 0:13:06.280 --> 0:13:09.520 I guess this is a standard I do. And if 0:13:09.520 --> 0:13:12.959 he's not going to meet them, like somebody else will. Wow. Okay, 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:15.240 so you're just looking for a sugar daddy. I'm not 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:17.840 looking for a sugar daddy. This is different like looking 0:13:17.880 --> 0:13:20.000 for a sugar daddy like I could have them, dude 0:13:20.000 --> 0:13:23.199 pay my rent? Yeah, problem, Okay, hold on one second, 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:24.960 because I think I heard Connor try to chime in there. 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:26.959 Because Connor's actually on the other line listening and wants 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:29.480 to talk to you. Yeah. I was gonna say, could 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:31.320 you guys like chill out and let me listen to 0:13:31.360 --> 0:13:35.480 what she has to say? What? Who? What's going on? Oh? Yeah, 0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:37.480 Connor's on the other line, Kate and wanted to talk 0:13:37.480 --> 0:13:42.160 to you. Oh my god, of course, Kate. Honestly, I'm 0:13:42.200 --> 0:13:45.120 just shocked. I had no idea that you wanted me 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:48.800 to pay. It didn't even cross my mind for a second. Okay, 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:51.079 but that, like that should cross your mind, you know 0:13:51.120 --> 0:13:54.520 what I'm saying, Like if we're on a date, you know, 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:57.120 like you asked me out. My shoes broke as a 0:13:57.240 --> 0:13:59.360 result of me being out with you, and I don't 0:13:59.400 --> 0:14:03.760 understand why you wouldn't think that you should even offer. Look, 0:14:03.840 --> 0:14:06.760 you're probably right, I just wish you would have asked me. 0:14:06.800 --> 0:14:09.320 I'm not a mind reader. Wow. Yeah, okay, but like 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:11.080 I don't feel like I should even have to ask. 0:14:11.120 --> 0:14:13.040 I think that's just obvious. And then I'm like dropping 0:14:13.080 --> 0:14:16.559 hints too that you should have picked up on. Well, 0:14:16.600 --> 0:14:18.240 then I need to pick up like a copy of 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:21.240 Dating for Dummies at the bookstore, because clearly I don't 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:23.840 know the rules of dating. I'm so sorry. Yeah, apparently 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:28.520 not like that was just extremely rude, Like it's extremely 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:32.120 rude that he didn't pay for your shoes. There's there's 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:34.680 actually some woman who would think could be extremely rude 0:14:34.680 --> 0:14:36.800 if he insisted on pain, Like I don't need you 0:14:36.840 --> 0:14:39.200 to pay for my things. I am a successful woman 0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:41.640 with my own job, and I could pay for my 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:48.480 own damn shoot, um no, that makes no sense. I'm 0:14:48.520 --> 0:14:50.760 not asking for a lot. I'm just asking for you 0:14:50.800 --> 0:14:55.720 to act with a gentleman like. That's it. I'm so sorry. 0:14:55.800 --> 0:14:58.640 This just has never happened to me before. I've never 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:02.360 been in this situation. I just really didn't know how 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:07.800 to handle it, So I don't really know what more 0:15:07.840 --> 0:15:11.520 to say. Well, maybe you just haven't been on a 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:15.480 date with girls like me before, like quality women's Like 0:15:15.640 --> 0:15:17.840 I don't know what kind of like crash bags you're 0:15:17.880 --> 0:15:22.880 normally dating, bat like that kind of treatment. But I'm 0:15:22.920 --> 0:15:29.120 certainly not going to right. Oh my god, Connor, is 0:15:29.120 --> 0:15:31.840 that very okay with you? All this? Like you're still 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:34.760 attracted to Kate? I mean, I do feel bad. I 0:15:34.760 --> 0:15:41.120 feel like I ruined her night. Um guilty shoes. I'm 0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:43.760 really sorry, Kate. I was totally out of line, and 0:15:43.880 --> 0:15:46.960 I promise I will keep an eye out for exactly 0:15:47.000 --> 0:15:49.120 what you need. I just want to see you again. 0:15:50.160 --> 0:15:52.320 I mean, I don't really know what else to say 0:15:52.360 --> 0:15:55.200 to you at this point, unless you're gonna like reimburse 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:59.440 me for the shoes. Don't you dare? Connor? Oh my god, 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:02.040 don't want. I mean, if you want me to, I 0:16:02.080 --> 0:16:05.960 totally will. You will. How much did these shoes cost? 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:08.720 By the way, yes, I'm lucky. Forget there's some my 0:16:08.760 --> 0:16:11.120 cheap ones. They were like two twenty or something like that. 0:16:11.200 --> 0:16:14.560 Oh my god. If you're going to continue this, I 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:16.800 hope you have a big bank account. Connor, are you 0:16:16.880 --> 0:16:19.840 willing to drop two hundred and twenty dollars to reimburse 0:16:19.880 --> 0:16:21.560 her for those shoes that she paid for to go 0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:24.080 on another date? Yeah? Of course, I had a great time, 0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:29.440 and okay to twenty is Look, it's a worthy investment, 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:33.080 all right. Well, when I'm asked a question, Hey, Kate, 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:34.800 would you like to go out with Connor again on 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:38.880 a second date? We will pay for the meal, he'll 0:16:38.960 --> 0:16:42.360 buy new shoes. I suppose. Wait, let me just get 0:16:42.400 --> 0:16:45.400 this out there. I'm not just doing this because I 0:16:45.400 --> 0:16:48.880 think it's the right thing to do. I genuinely like you. 0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:53.040 I had a great time with you, and money isn't everything, 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:56.160 and I'd rather spend the money and see you again 0:16:56.200 --> 0:17:02.440 than I'm not. Okay, are you going to actually behave 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:09.679 like a gentleman this time? Yeah? Like I would be 0:17:09.720 --> 0:17:13.000 willing to go out with you one more time, but like, seriously, 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:14.880 if you mess up at all, like that's it, Oh 0:17:14.920 --> 0:17:17.320 my god, and you just wait on your date. Her 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:19.560 designer bag is going to break and oh my god, 0:17:19.640 --> 0:17:24.719 suddenly I need to get at five hundred first. I mean, 0:17:24.760 --> 0:17:26.760 I'm just saying that my dad did break. He better 0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:31.639 be ready to replace. A promise is a promise. Whatever 0:17:31.680 --> 0:17:37.800 you need, My credit card is ready, is working out. 0:17:37.920 --> 0:17:40.119 You'll go out with Connor again as long as he 0:17:40.240 --> 0:17:44.840 doesn't make any mistakes because you have a zero tarlerance policy. Connor, 0:17:44.840 --> 0:17:49.800 you're willing to pay for whatever Kate needs during your date. Okay, 0:17:49.960 --> 0:17:52.320 well all right, sounds like a real love story. Yeah, 0:17:52.359 --> 0:17:54.160 you might want to have to pay for dinner Connor too, 0:17:54.160 --> 0:17:55.960 because all we have at the radio station or like 0:17:55.960 --> 0:17:58.000 gift cards to chain restaurants, and I don't think Kate's 0:17:58.000 --> 0:18:01.840 gonna want to eat a broken jupil in the morning. 0:18:02.080 --> 0:18:04.640 That was a second day update from about a year ago. 0:18:04.840 --> 0:18:07.000 And from time to time we'd like to check in 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:09.359 and see how people are doing. Connor and Kate are 0:18:09.400 --> 0:18:11.080 actually on the phone right now. What's up you guys? 0:18:11.119 --> 0:18:14.600 How you doing? Hey, well you got some new shoes, Kate, 0:18:14.640 --> 0:18:18.440 I hope clots of new shoes. Yeah. So what's been 0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:20.040 going on since you guys went out on your date? 0:18:20.480 --> 0:18:23.880 I mean things have been going really well. We've we've 0:18:23.920 --> 0:18:27.040 just been living kind of a happy lifestyle together and 0:18:27.119 --> 0:18:34.800 you guys are still together. Yeah. Second, yeah, you know, 0:18:34.880 --> 0:18:36.720 I know there were a lot of people that said 0:18:36.760 --> 0:18:39.240 we weren't a good match, but we've been together for 0:18:39.280 --> 0:18:42.760 almost a year now and we're proving people wrong. Okay, 0:18:43.200 --> 0:18:46.440 it's going well. Yeah, I mean people said some mean 0:18:46.560 --> 0:18:49.960 things about both of you. Yeah, I mean whatever, I 0:18:49.960 --> 0:18:53.000 don't care, like I am who I am? All right? 0:18:53.040 --> 0:18:54.560 Well good, I mean I seem to work out, Like 0:18:54.760 --> 0:18:57.880 how serious are you guys living together anything yet? Or Yeah? 0:18:57.880 --> 0:19:01.760 I mean it's going good, like not perfect or whatever, 0:19:01.920 --> 0:19:06.120 but likes. But I don't know. I mean, I don't 0:19:06.119 --> 0:19:08.800 know if it's for everything that we're trying. You sound 0:19:08.920 --> 0:19:13.199 super positive about it. Wait, hold on, babe, what do 0:19:13.200 --> 0:19:16.840 you mean it's not a forever thing. I mean, I 0:19:16.880 --> 0:19:20.399 don't know. I've never been in a forever relationship before, 0:19:20.680 --> 0:19:23.840 so I don't know what that feels like. I mean, 0:19:23.880 --> 0:19:26.440 I'm not sure to feel like this oh wait, wait, 0:19:26.480 --> 0:19:30.240 so so hot hot you're saying, after being together almost 0:19:30.280 --> 0:19:34.639 a year, you don't feel like we're gonna go the distance? 0:19:35.480 --> 0:19:37.760 Then what what are we doing? Cukes? But I'm just 0:19:37.800 --> 0:19:40.119 a little lost. No, I'm like just trying to be 0:19:40.200 --> 0:19:43.240 honest with every out how we're doing, Like that's what 0:19:43.280 --> 0:19:46.520 the show is, like we're doing pretty good. It's not 0:19:47.119 --> 0:19:50.960 always good or it's not like pretty, but like we're fine. 0:19:51.600 --> 0:19:53.560 Wait are you serious? We came onto the show and 0:19:53.600 --> 0:19:55.920 you're gonna just drop this on me like a freaking 0:19:56.000 --> 0:19:58.800 bomb now in front of everybody. Okay, well they want 0:19:58.840 --> 0:20:00.720 to know how we feel. Like that's a point, just 0:20:00.840 --> 0:20:02.879 like get an update. I'm giving an update. This is 0:20:02.880 --> 0:20:05.120 how I feel. It's just not all we need to tell. 0:20:05.160 --> 0:20:07.119 Like sometimes you get stouts. Do you guys want to 0:20:07.119 --> 0:20:08.200 do this? Do you guys want to do this? And 0:20:08.280 --> 0:20:11.800 something other than the second date update? Updates? Awkwards like 0:20:11.840 --> 0:20:15.120 you need to figure out something. Wait, day finish that thought? 0:20:15.160 --> 0:20:19.040 Well what were you saying? I don't know, Just like 0:20:19.119 --> 0:20:21.359 sometimes you hear your friends talking about dating and you 0:20:21.440 --> 0:20:24.840 miss it by a second life what you're telling me 0:20:24.880 --> 0:20:29.240 you miss dating? Sometimes we would just be honest, like 0:20:29.280 --> 0:20:34.760 don't get jealous like everybody does. Who Wow, I don't 0:20:34.800 --> 0:20:37.480 even know if to say. I can't even believe what 0:20:37.520 --> 0:20:40.639 I'm what I'm hearing. If we're fine, I just don't know. 0:20:41.720 --> 0:20:45.639 Those are two different statements. Yeah, the first one different 0:20:45.640 --> 0:20:48.360 than the second one. I don't want to. I don't 0:20:48.400 --> 0:20:50.720 want to just be fine. I mean, if that's honestly 0:20:50.760 --> 0:20:58.600 how you feel, then maybe we shouldn't be seen each Okay, Well, 0:20:58.640 --> 0:21:03.160 if that's what you think, and maybe you're right. Guys, Okay, 0:21:03.200 --> 0:21:04.720 how many times have you guys broken up and gone 0:21:04.760 --> 0:21:08.320 together and you well, you've done it a lot. No, 0:21:08.400 --> 0:21:12.440 this is kind of after literally a year and and 0:21:12.440 --> 0:21:16.560 and and wait, so are we breaking up? Then? What's 0:21:19.200 --> 0:21:24.920 I hain't a guess, So, guys, hang on, hang on, 0:21:25.000 --> 0:21:26.360 I want to I want to hear her out what 0:21:26.840 --> 0:21:29.960 you guess? I don't know. It sounds like you want 0:21:29.960 --> 0:21:34.400 to and I don't really care. So and you don't care? 0:21:34.440 --> 0:21:37.200 All right, Okay, you're the one that break up. Wow, 0:21:37.560 --> 0:21:39.359 I really wish you had just told me all this 0:21:39.440 --> 0:21:41.520 before we agreed to go on the radio with them again. 0:21:41.560 --> 0:21:45.640 This is embarrassing. Yeah, and freaking weird and and and 0:21:45.640 --> 0:21:50.280 and hey, Connor, don't feel bad. Breakups happened and nobody 0:21:50.680 --> 0:21:53.080 thought you guys who would go through. Yeah, you're not 0:21:53.160 --> 0:22:00.720 even not even her rude kind of the truth. Yeah, 0:22:00.760 --> 0:22:03.760 and you're a queen of not being rude. Well, thank 0:22:03.800 --> 0:22:05.840