Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jewel in the morning. I remember I'm
Speaker 1: performing in Everett tomorrow at the Historic every Theater. You
Speaker 1: can get tickets at ugly tickets dot com. We're coming
Speaker 1: up in just a few minutes. About a year ago,
Speaker 1: we have two people on the phone for what turned
Speaker 1: out to be one of the most controversial second date
Speaker 1: updates we've ever done. It featured a guy named Connor
Speaker 1: and a woman named Kate, and the way it ended
Speaker 1: took everybody by surprise. If you've never heard it before,
Speaker 1: we're about to replay it for you, and then afterwards
Speaker 1: you'll get an update from the couple and find out
Speaker 1: where they are today in your second Date Update update
Speaker 1: right now, Brook and Jewels second Date up to date,
Speaker 1: the most successful dating site isn't Tender. It isn't plenty
Speaker 1: of Fists dot com, even though that's a really good one.
Speaker 1: But it's actually Instagram. A lot of people meet on Instagram,
Speaker 1: and apparently that's how Connor, who's on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second day update today, met the girl that he
Speaker 1: wants to call. What's up? Connor? Hey, what's going on? Guys?
Speaker 1: So if you decided to go with Instagram said a
Speaker 1: plenty of fists. Huh yeah, yeah, I mean Instagram the
Speaker 1: is like the new tender. Basically, I don't think you
Speaker 1: heard what he said. Yeah, I think people did. Yeah. Um,
Speaker 1: what's the girl's name you want to call today? Her
Speaker 1: name is Kate. Kate all right? And how did you
Speaker 1: meet Kate on Instagram? Well, you know, as as it
Speaker 1: usually goes, you know, you're kind of perusing around on
Speaker 1: the Gram and you see attractive women and she caught
Speaker 1: my eyes, so I started following her. She's absolutely gorgeous,
Speaker 1: and one day, um, she posted this. Really you need
Speaker 1: to check it out for yourself. It's like really phenomenal picture.
Speaker 1: It's the boudoir picture and it's it's stunning, Okay, stunning,
Speaker 1: Send it along, tag us out. Oh my god, So
Speaker 1: are you one of the creeps that commented on it
Speaker 1: and like tagged your bro in it, like and not
Speaker 1: even a description, just tagged your bro in her picture.
Speaker 1: I mean, they're posting it was for you to look at,
Speaker 1: so I wouldn't categorize it as creeping. No. What happened
Speaker 1: was there was a woman who commented on it, and
Speaker 1: I had no idea who this woman was, and she
Speaker 1: had said, you look like a tramp in this photo.
Speaker 1: Mid's absolutely disgusting. And you know, how dare you post
Speaker 1: something like this on Instagram? Oh my gosh? And yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, right, so you came to her defense? Were
Speaker 1: you the Knight in Shining Armor? You saw your moment? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess you could say that this woman must have
Speaker 1: been jealous of the way Kate looked. Um, so I
Speaker 1: chimed in and I said, look, if you don't like it,
Speaker 1: just don't follow her, simple as that. Oh damn, big
Speaker 1: come back. Yeah, that was that was. I guess that
Speaker 1: was my Knight in Shining Armor moment. And Kate had
Speaker 1: reached out to me and she thanked me. Oh is
Speaker 1: that when you asked her out on a date? Yep?
Speaker 1: That's when I made some moves. And what was it
Speaker 1: like the first time you guys met in person? It was?
Speaker 1: It was great. I mean, she looked the same way
Speaker 1: she did on Instagram. But she's still wearing that boudoir
Speaker 1: picture that she posted. You know, she had clothing on. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I think now is the time that we
Speaker 1: can switch to talking about her personality. Guys. What I mean,
Speaker 1: did you guys connect? What did you talk about? Yeah? No,
Speaker 1: she was really cool. We talked about what she did
Speaker 1: for a living. We talked about Instagram and the pros
Speaker 1: and cons of Instagram and how causing problems in society,
Speaker 1: but there's also benefits to it like this, And who
Speaker 1: would have ever thought, I mean, truly, I think Instagram
Speaker 1: is a way to meet people, whether it's friends or
Speaker 1: business connections or significant others. Why not you know for sure?
Speaker 1: So you thought of her as girlfriend potential? Then absolute
Speaker 1: absolutely that was hoba. I mean, this was like the
Speaker 1: first hot girl I've been on a date with in
Speaker 1: a long time, all right, a long long time. And
Speaker 1: we went to a bar for the date went really well,
Speaker 1: but you know, they just took a turn when we
Speaker 1: were getting ready to go to the next bar. Why.
Speaker 1: I don't think it was a big deal, but she
Speaker 1: kind of she she kind of took a weird step.
Speaker 1: She was wearing these really high heels, and she took
Speaker 1: a weird step and she she broke her heel. Um,
Speaker 1: and you started laughing uncontrollably. I mean, I like, I chuckle.
Speaker 1: I was like, didn't think I mean I did. I mean,
Speaker 1: at first, I was like, oh my god, are you okay?
Speaker 1: And then I kind of chuckled and thought it was
Speaker 1: kind of comical. But she needed a pair of new shoes. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so did she leave? I mean, what do you do
Speaker 1: the rest of the night. No, that wasn't the end
Speaker 1: of it. I do Look, we kind of laughed it off.
Speaker 1: We went to the next bar. Did she just hobble along? No?
Speaker 1: Well we ended up we ended up getting a new
Speaker 1: pair of shoes for her. Oh okay, so you stopped
Speaker 1: along the way to another bar and got a new
Speaker 1: pair of shoes, yes, yep, okay, okay. And then we
Speaker 1: got to the next bar and we had a drink
Speaker 1: and all right, I just want to get all these
Speaker 1: cards out on the table and say that this is
Speaker 1: the part where I may have screwed up. Okay, um,
Speaker 1: we you know, we were having a great time making
Speaker 1: that connection, and my team was on the television. I
Speaker 1: just wanted to check out the game and see what
Speaker 1: was going on, see what the score was, see how
Speaker 1: things were going. And then I turned back and she
Speaker 1: had this like totally look on our face. WHOA, because
Speaker 1: how long had you turned around to watch the game?
Speaker 1: I mean maybe like a minute or two? Not be
Speaker 1: sure about that, or did you get completely wrapped up
Speaker 1: in it and forget that you were on a date.
Speaker 1: That's a long tap. And did you just turn around
Speaker 1: while she was in the middle of telling you something important.
Speaker 1: I mean, I could multitap. It doesn't sound like it
Speaker 1: at all. It's pretty obvious when somebody tunes you out
Speaker 1: and starts watching a TV talk. I wasn't tuning her.
Speaker 1: I was still listening. My ears were still available through
Speaker 1: her voice. Okay, So when you turned around and she
Speaker 1: seemed kind of upset, is that how everything ended? Or
Speaker 1: did it continue on for a little bit? Things got
Speaker 1: really awkward. I said, I was sorry, you know, it's
Speaker 1: just my team, and you know, I apologize, and I
Speaker 1: thought we would be cool and everything would be okay
Speaker 1: after that, and it wasn't. She said, you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I gotta go meet up with my friends.
Speaker 1: And I went in for this hug and it was
Speaker 1: just the most awkward moment of my life. Then she left,
Speaker 1: and I'd try to reach out to her, you know,
Speaker 1: because I was totally bummed. She was gorgeous, she was cool.
Speaker 1: She hasn't returned any of my text any of my calls,
Speaker 1: and I don't really think what I did was a
Speaker 1: big deal. That's the thing. Like at the time, I
Speaker 1: was like, what did I do. Now that i'm thinking about,
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, maybe she got upset that I turned
Speaker 1: around at the game for a minute or two, but like,
Speaker 1: that's me just digging for series. I really don't think
Speaker 1: it's a problem. So okay, well play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: and then call her and get your second date update.
Speaker 1: All right, yeah, all right, man. Hang on FBI in
Speaker 1: the morning, right in the middle of a second day update,
Speaker 1: and Connor is on the phone, and today he wants
Speaker 1: to call a woman named Kate. He met her on Instagram.
Speaker 1: They went out to a bar, hung out. He says
Speaker 1: he had a good time, but hold on a second,
Speaker 1: hang on, Oh whoa who was a big NBA trade?
Speaker 1: We're talking about We're talking about something again. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm talking to my husband all of
Speaker 1: a sudden. Oh second, right, yeah, Connor went out with
Speaker 1: Kate to a bar. He thinks the reason she's not
Speaker 1: calling back is because there was a moment where there
Speaker 1: was some sports on TV. He turned around to watch
Speaker 1: it for what he says, like one or two minutes,
Speaker 1: and then when he tuned back into the conversation. She
Speaker 1: just looked upset, and he thinks that that's where everything
Speaker 1: went wrong. So we're about to get on the phone
Speaker 1: and find out if that is the reason he's not
Speaker 1: getting a call back. All right, Connor, do you here
Speaker 1: about the trade? Yeah? No, but I guess I gotta
Speaker 1: check Sports Center tonight. Oh yeah, that's crazy. I mean,
Speaker 1: even though you said that that only lasted a minute
Speaker 1: or two, I think that's all it takes. Like if
Speaker 1: that was an issue for her in previous relationships, and
Speaker 1: she's like red flag, I'm not Yeah, I'm not getting
Speaker 1: into that again where I'm dating a guy who is
Speaker 1: so obsessed with sports that he can't pay attention during
Speaker 1: one meal or wondering. Yeah, you're right, maybe her past
Speaker 1: was haunting her. Yeah, find out. All right, I'm a
Speaker 1: dollar phone him right now. Here we go. Hello, Hi
Speaker 1: is this Kate? Yes, here says hey Kate, how are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, okay,
Speaker 1: are you familiar with the show? Kind though? Kind of
Speaker 1: familiar is what we go for. So that's good. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm calling today because actually one of our listeners emailed
Speaker 1: us about you because you're super hot on Instagram? Yeah, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: so we just wanted a ready follow your Instagram. So
Speaker 1: you want to shout out your handle or no, where
Speaker 1: are you? Seriously? What what is this? We don't want
Speaker 1: to just promote your Instagram. This dude that you went
Speaker 1: out on a date with named Connor actually emailed us.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, what if you on? Well, we do
Speaker 1: a segment on a show called The Second Date Update,
Speaker 1: and Connor has been trying to get ahold of you.
Speaker 1: But apparently you don't want to go on another date. No,
Speaker 1: I don't. Did you just find that he wasn't the
Speaker 1: right person for you? Just just like when we were
Speaker 1: talking before we actually met a person. I thought he's
Speaker 1: going to be like a nice guy. Yeah, he seems
Speaker 1: like a gentleman and that we went at one time
Speaker 1: and he was not. He wasn't a gentleman. No, so
Speaker 1: he didn't like open your doors and stuff like he
Speaker 1: did that. I don't know, Like it was okay first,
Speaker 1: but then he decided to be like a jerk at
Speaker 1: some point during the night. Was it because he stopped
Speaker 1: listening to you to watch sports for a second? Wait,
Speaker 1: how do you know about that? Well, because we talked
Speaker 1: to Connor and he told us all about your date. Okay,
Speaker 1: so did he tell you about how I like broke
Speaker 1: my heel on the date? Yeah, and he said that
Speaker 1: you guys, oh that's right. He did say he laughed
Speaker 1: at you a little bit. Well, it was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: it wasn't even the fact that he laughed, because like
Speaker 1: I mean, like I laughed too, Like it wasn't like
Speaker 1: that part wasn't a big deal. But then like, so
Speaker 1: we went to go get new shoes because like obviously
Speaker 1: I can't walk around like that. So We're at the
Speaker 1: shoe store and I just kept like trying to drop
Speaker 1: him and be like yeah, like these are like my
Speaker 1: favorite shoes. I'm so upset, Like if this happened on
Speaker 1: our date, what's the hint though, I don't get what
Speaker 1: your hint was hint to what? Well, like I keep
Speaker 1: mentioning like over and over, like yeah, like it happened
Speaker 1: on this date, like you know, we're on a date.
Speaker 1: He just doesn't seem to be getting it. I don't
Speaker 1: get it either. You don't like, how do you not
Speaker 1: get it? What I don't? You're in a shoe store
Speaker 1: and what you like your shoes. What I'm saying is
Speaker 1: my shoe broke on our date. So I feel like
Speaker 1: that means it's his responsibility to buy me new shoes.
Speaker 1: What why would that be his responsibility? Did he break
Speaker 1: your shoe? It's not like he physically broke it, but
Speaker 1: it's kind of his fault because if I was sitting
Speaker 1: at home, my shoe would not be broken. No, No,
Speaker 1: that is a stretch. Is such a big stretch. I
Speaker 1: don't feel like that should be his responsibility. Well, okay,
Speaker 1: think about it this way though. Okay, he invited me out,
Speaker 1: like him to pay for like the meal, drinks, like whatever,
Speaker 1: like whatever we do, I would expect him to pay
Speaker 1: for Okay, So, like, by the same logic, if my
Speaker 1: shoe breaks, that's just an expense of the date. That's
Speaker 1: like saying, if while on your date, your car gets stolen,
Speaker 1: he has to replace your car. I mean, but that
Speaker 1: would never happen because I would never drive myself. Obviously
Speaker 1: he's gonna be picking me up. It's just like it's
Speaker 1: a thing for me, like, you know, like I want
Speaker 1: to date a guy who's going to be like consider it.
Speaker 1: You know, like obviously if I'm upset that my shoe
Speaker 1: is broken. He should care like, he should want to
Speaker 1: fix that. He should want to make me feel better,
Speaker 1: not make me have to pay for shoes on a
Speaker 1: date day. Oh my god, you are so high maintenance. Wow.
Speaker 1: I'm not like high maintenance. Like I don't like being
Speaker 1: called high maintenance. I'm just saying I know how I
Speaker 1: deserve to be traded and I'm not gonna over wed. Okay,
Speaker 1: I did badly? Okay, whatever. Can't you have your standards?
Speaker 1: I guess this is a standard I do. And if
Speaker 1: he's not going to meet them, like somebody else will. Wow. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you're just looking for a sugar daddy. I'm not
Speaker 1: looking for a sugar daddy. This is different like looking
Speaker 1: for a sugar daddy like I could have them, dude
Speaker 1: pay my rent? Yeah, problem, Okay, hold on one second,
Speaker 1: because I think I heard Connor try to chime in there.
Speaker 1: Because Connor's actually on the other line listening and wants
Speaker 1: to talk to you. Yeah. I was gonna say, could
Speaker 1: you guys like chill out and let me listen to
Speaker 1: what she has to say? What? Who? What's going on? Oh? Yeah,
Speaker 1: Connor's on the other line, Kate and wanted to talk
Speaker 1: to you. Oh my god, of course, Kate. Honestly, I'm
Speaker 1: just shocked. I had no idea that you wanted me
Speaker 1: to pay. It didn't even cross my mind for a second. Okay,
Speaker 1: but that, like that should cross your mind, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like if we're on a date, you know,
Speaker 1: like you asked me out. My shoes broke as a
Speaker 1: result of me being out with you, and I don't
Speaker 1: understand why you wouldn't think that you should even offer. Look,
Speaker 1: you're probably right, I just wish you would have asked me.
Speaker 1: I'm not a mind reader. Wow. Yeah, okay, but like
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I should even have to ask.
Speaker 1: I think that's just obvious. And then I'm like dropping
Speaker 1: hints too that you should have picked up on. Well,
Speaker 1: then I need to pick up like a copy of
Speaker 1: Dating for Dummies at the bookstore, because clearly I don't
Speaker 1: know the rules of dating. I'm so sorry. Yeah, apparently
Speaker 1: not like that was just extremely rude, Like it's extremely
Speaker 1: rude that he didn't pay for your shoes. There's there's
Speaker 1: actually some woman who would think could be extremely rude
Speaker 1: if he insisted on pain, Like I don't need you
Speaker 1: to pay for my things. I am a successful woman
Speaker 1: with my own job, and I could pay for my
Speaker 1: own damn shoot, um no, that makes no sense. I'm
Speaker 1: not asking for a lot. I'm just asking for you
Speaker 1: to act with a gentleman like. That's it. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: This just has never happened to me before. I've never
Speaker 1: been in this situation. I just really didn't know how
Speaker 1: to handle it, So I don't really know what more
Speaker 1: to say. Well, maybe you just haven't been on a
Speaker 1: date with girls like me before, like quality women's Like
Speaker 1: I don't know what kind of like crash bags you're
Speaker 1: normally dating, bat like that kind of treatment. But I'm
Speaker 1: certainly not going to right. Oh my god, Connor, is
Speaker 1: that very okay with you? All this? Like you're still
Speaker 1: attracted to Kate? I mean, I do feel bad. I
Speaker 1: feel like I ruined her night. Um guilty shoes. I'm
Speaker 1: really sorry, Kate. I was totally out of line, and
Speaker 1: I promise I will keep an eye out for exactly
Speaker 1: what you need. I just want to see you again.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't really know what else to say
Speaker 1: to you at this point, unless you're gonna like reimburse
Speaker 1: me for the shoes. Don't you dare? Connor? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: don't want. I mean, if you want me to, I
Speaker 1: totally will. You will. How much did these shoes cost?
Speaker 1: By the way, yes, I'm lucky. Forget there's some my
Speaker 1: cheap ones. They were like two twenty or something like that.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. If you're going to continue this, I
Speaker 1: hope you have a big bank account. Connor, are you
Speaker 1: willing to drop two hundred and twenty dollars to reimburse
Speaker 1: her for those shoes that she paid for to go
Speaker 1: on another date? Yeah? Of course, I had a great time,
Speaker 1: and okay to twenty is Look, it's a worthy investment,
Speaker 1: all right. Well, when I'm asked a question, Hey, Kate,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Connor again on
Speaker 1: a second date? We will pay for the meal, he'll
Speaker 1: buy new shoes. I suppose. Wait, let me just get
Speaker 1: this out there. I'm not just doing this because I
Speaker 1: think it's the right thing to do. I genuinely like you.
Speaker 1: I had a great time with you, and money isn't everything,
Speaker 1: and I'd rather spend the money and see you again
Speaker 1: than I'm not. Okay, are you going to actually behave
Speaker 1: like a gentleman this time? Yeah? Like I would be
Speaker 1: willing to go out with you one more time, but like, seriously,
Speaker 1: if you mess up at all, like that's it, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, and you just wait on your date. Her
Speaker 1: designer bag is going to break and oh my god,
Speaker 1: suddenly I need to get at five hundred first. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that my dad did break. He better
Speaker 1: be ready to replace. A promise is a promise. Whatever
Speaker 1: you need, My credit card is ready, is working out.
Speaker 1: You'll go out with Connor again as long as he
Speaker 1: doesn't make any mistakes because you have a zero tarlerance policy. Connor,
Speaker 1: you're willing to pay for whatever Kate needs during your date. Okay,
Speaker 1: well all right, sounds like a real love story. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you might want to have to pay for dinner Connor too,
Speaker 1: because all we have at the radio station or like
Speaker 1: gift cards to chain restaurants, and I don't think Kate's
Speaker 1: gonna want to eat a broken jupil in the morning.
Speaker 1: That was a second day update from about a year ago.
Speaker 1: And from time to time we'd like to check in
Speaker 1: and see how people are doing. Connor and Kate are
Speaker 1: actually on the phone right now. What's up you guys?
Speaker 1: How you doing? Hey, well you got some new shoes, Kate,
Speaker 1: I hope clots of new shoes. Yeah. So what's been
Speaker 1: going on since you guys went out on your date?
Speaker 1: I mean things have been going really well. We've we've
Speaker 1: just been living kind of a happy lifestyle together and
Speaker 1: you guys are still together. Yeah. Second, yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: I know there were a lot of people that said
Speaker 1: we weren't a good match, but we've been together for
Speaker 1: almost a year now and we're proving people wrong. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's going well. Yeah, I mean people said some mean
Speaker 1: things about both of you. Yeah, I mean whatever, I
Speaker 1: don't care, like I am who I am? All right?
Speaker 1: Well good, I mean I seem to work out, Like
Speaker 1: how serious are you guys living together anything yet? Or Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean it's going good, like not perfect or whatever,
Speaker 1: but likes. But I don't know. I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: know if it's for everything that we're trying. You sound
Speaker 1: super positive about it. Wait, hold on, babe, what do
Speaker 1: you mean it's not a forever thing. I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I've never been in a forever relationship before,
Speaker 1: so I don't know what that feels like. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not sure to feel like this oh wait, wait,
Speaker 1: so so hot hot you're saying, after being together almost
Speaker 1: a year, you don't feel like we're gonna go the distance?
Speaker 1: Then what what are we doing? Cukes? But I'm just
Speaker 1: a little lost. No, I'm like just trying to be
Speaker 1: honest with every out how we're doing, Like that's what
Speaker 1: the show is, like we're doing pretty good. It's not
Speaker 1: always good or it's not like pretty, but like we're fine.
Speaker 1: Wait are you serious? We came onto the show and
Speaker 1: you're gonna just drop this on me like a freaking
Speaker 1: bomb now in front of everybody. Okay, well they want
Speaker 1: to know how we feel. Like that's a point, just
Speaker 1: like get an update. I'm giving an update. This is
Speaker 1: how I feel. It's just not all we need to tell.
Speaker 1: Like sometimes you get stouts. Do you guys want to
Speaker 1: do this? Do you guys want to do this? And
Speaker 1: something other than the second date update? Updates? Awkwards like
Speaker 1: you need to figure out something. Wait, day finish that thought?
Speaker 1: Well what were you saying? I don't know, Just like
Speaker 1: sometimes you hear your friends talking about dating and you
Speaker 1: miss it by a second life what you're telling me
Speaker 1: you miss dating? Sometimes we would just be honest, like
Speaker 1: don't get jealous like everybody does. Who Wow, I don't
Speaker 1: even know if to say. I can't even believe what
Speaker 1: I'm what I'm hearing. If we're fine, I just don't know.
Speaker 1: Those are two different statements. Yeah, the first one different
Speaker 1: than the second one. I don't want to. I don't
Speaker 1: want to just be fine. I mean, if that's honestly
Speaker 1: how you feel, then maybe we shouldn't be seen each Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: if that's what you think, and maybe you're right. Guys, Okay,
Speaker 1: how many times have you guys broken up and gone
Speaker 1: together and you well, you've done it a lot. No,
Speaker 1: this is kind of after literally a year and and
Speaker 1: and and wait, so are we breaking up? Then? What's
Speaker 1: I hain't a guess, So, guys, hang on, hang on,
Speaker 1: I want to I want to hear her out what
Speaker 1: you guess? I don't know. It sounds like you want
Speaker 1: to and I don't really care. So and you don't care?
Speaker 1: All right, Okay, you're the one that break up. Wow,
Speaker 1: I really wish you had just told me all this
Speaker 1: before we agreed to go on the radio with them again.
Speaker 1: This is embarrassing. Yeah, and freaking weird and and and
Speaker 1: and hey, Connor, don't feel bad. Breakups happened and nobody
Speaker 1: thought you guys who would go through. Yeah, you're not
Speaker 1: even not even her rude kind of the truth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and you're a queen of not being rude. Well, thank
Speaker 1: you guys for checking in. Check in with us again
Speaker 1: in a few months and let us know how things
Speaker 1: are good. Yeah, okay, the most awkward Second Date Update
Speaker 1: update ever Moving ninety two point five