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Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jewel in the morning. I remember I'm

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Speaker 1: performing in Everett tomorrow at the Historic every Theater. You

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Speaker 1: can get tickets at ugly tickets dot com. We're coming

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Speaker 1: up in just a few minutes. About a year ago,

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Speaker 1: we have two people on the phone for what turned

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Speaker 1: out to be one of the most controversial second date

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Speaker 1: updates we've ever done. It featured a guy named Connor

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Speaker 1: and a woman named Kate, and the way it ended

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Speaker 1: took everybody by surprise. If you've never heard it before,

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Speaker 1: we're about to replay it for you, and then afterwards

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Speaker 1: you'll get an update from the couple and find out

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Speaker 1: where they are today in your second Date Update update

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Speaker 1: right now, Brook and Jewels second Date up to date,

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Speaker 1: the most successful dating site isn't Tender. It isn't plenty

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Speaker 1: of Fists dot com, even though that's a really good one.

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Speaker 1: But it's actually Instagram. A lot of people meet on Instagram,

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Speaker 1: and apparently that's how Connor, who's on the phone for

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Speaker 1: a second day update today, met the girl that he

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Speaker 1: wants to call. What's up? Connor? Hey, what's going on? Guys?

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Speaker 1: So if you decided to go with Instagram said a

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Speaker 1: plenty of fists. Huh yeah, yeah, I mean Instagram the

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Speaker 1: is like the new tender. Basically, I don't think you

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Speaker 1: heard what he said. Yeah, I think people did. Yeah. Um,

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Speaker 1: what's the girl's name you want to call today? Her

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Speaker 1: name is Kate. Kate all right? And how did you

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Speaker 1: meet Kate on Instagram? Well, you know, as as it

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Speaker 1: usually goes, you know, you're kind of perusing around on

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Speaker 1: the Gram and you see attractive women and she caught

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Speaker 1: my eyes, so I started following her. She's absolutely gorgeous,

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Speaker 1: and one day, um, she posted this. Really you need

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Speaker 1: to check it out for yourself. It's like really phenomenal picture.

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Speaker 1: It's the boudoir picture and it's it's stunning, Okay, stunning,

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Speaker 1: Send it along, tag us out. Oh my god, So

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Speaker 1: are you one of the creeps that commented on it

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Speaker 1: I mean, they're posting it was for you to look at,

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Speaker 1: so I wouldn't categorize it as creeping. No. What happened

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Speaker 1: was there was a woman who commented on it, and

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Speaker 1: I had no idea who this woman was, and she

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Speaker 1: Mid's absolutely disgusting. And you know, how dare you post

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Speaker 1: something like this on Instagram? Oh my gosh? And yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know, right, so you came to her defense? Were

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Speaker 1: you the Knight in Shining Armor? You saw your moment? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: been jealous of the way Kate looked. Um, so I

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Speaker 1: come back. Yeah, that was that was. I guess that

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Speaker 1: was my Knight in Shining Armor moment. And Kate had

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Speaker 1: reached out to me and she thanked me. Oh is

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Speaker 1: that when you asked her out on a date? Yep?

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Speaker 1: That's when I made some moves. And what was it

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Speaker 1: like the first time you guys met in person? It was?

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Speaker 1: It was great. I mean, she looked the same way

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Speaker 1: she was really cool. We talked about what she did

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Speaker 1: but there's also benefits to it like this, And who

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Speaker 1: So you thought of her as girlfriend potential? Then absolute

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Speaker 1: the morning, right in the middle of a second day update,

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Speaker 1: and Connor is on the phone, and today he wants

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Speaker 1: to call a woman named Kate. He met her on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: They went out to a bar, hung out. He says

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Speaker 1: hang on, Oh whoa who was a big NBA trade?

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Speaker 1: We're talking about We're talking about something again. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: a sudden. Oh second, right, yeah, Connor went out with

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Speaker 1: about the trade? Yeah? No, but I guess I gotta

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Speaker 1: is this Kate? Yes, here says hey Kate, how are you?

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Speaker 1: to just promote your Instagram. This dude that you went

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Speaker 1: and Connor has been trying to get ahold of you.

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Speaker 1: to Connor and he told us all about your date. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you guys, oh that's right. He did say he laughed

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Speaker 1: to know how we feel. Like that's a point, just

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Speaker 1: Well what were you saying? I don't know, Just like

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Speaker 1: I want to I want to hear her out what

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Speaker 1: This is embarrassing. Yeah, and freaking weird and and and

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