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Speaker 2: I'm so excited. I'm trying not to fan girl out

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Speaker 2: ahead and introduce her and if you don't know about her,

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Speaker 2: just tune in. Okay. Star Dawkins a multi passionate and

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Speaker 2: multi talented social media influencer turned businesswoman. Star is a

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Speaker 2: founder and CEO of Sweet Cookie Wash Enterprise, through which

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Speaker 2: she inspires scores of women with the perfect recipes for cleansing, protecting,

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Speaker 2: and balancing their vagina using all natural products from her

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Speaker 2: growing brand. In twenty seventeen, she launched her business and

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Speaker 2: made over one hundred k that year, and then two

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Speaker 2: years later she made a million dollars and just last

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Speaker 2: Black Friday. Okay, she has an inspiring story, a captivating personality,

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Speaker 2: until the end, Lady Star, welcome to cultivating her space.

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Speaker 5: He Kin, you described me? Can you describe me? When

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Speaker 5: I'm dating? I come to the the you know the

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Speaker 2: Mean to gotch you?

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Speaker 3: Is this what are you got you?

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Speaker 2: I got you girl?

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Speaker 1: Well, yes, yes, he has the does the best intros.

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Speaker 1: So Star, we are so happy to have you, and

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Speaker 1: I love it. So I was like, oh, yes, we're

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Speaker 1: is this person worth disrupting my vaginal pH?

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Speaker 2: Four?

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Speaker 1: Damn excellent question?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Personally, when I saw that quote, I was like, this

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Speaker 1: So I'm curious, Star, what influenced that particular question.

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Speaker 3: I think I asked, is that person worth disrupting your

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Speaker 3: And then in order for you to even be stimulated.

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Speaker 3: in my humble opinion, like you know, you start sliding

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Speaker 3: These are things that really bring the intimacy into sex.

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Speaker 3: It's not just how you book. It's not just a

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Speaker 2: Go ahead, but if you do get into affection.

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Speaker 5: We have Cookie restore work acid suppository.

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Speaker 3: Gus. Yeah, you know you liked him that much and

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Speaker 2: Star. I love I love that number one. But the

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Speaker 2: how I think many of us were raised and we

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Speaker 2: Just use some water. Talk about your thoughts, on that

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Speaker 3: I like to break it down as simple like this,

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Speaker 3: kept saying water, water, water, You pool, and everybody knows

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Speaker 3: all day, some of you discharge. So you're telling me,

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Speaker 3: I say natural, it doesn't mean that it might not

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Speaker 3: So I came out with a cookie miss once I

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Speaker 3: found this out, and cookie miss is literally alo Vera

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Speaker 3: and rose water. You at least want to use something

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Speaker 3: with antibacterial property to rinse the area. Water is not antibacterial.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, now I have it.

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Speaker 1: thinking about, well, what are gynecologists or primary care doctors

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Speaker 1: how does this work with what Western medicine approaches may

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Speaker 3: Right, the gynecologists might be.

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Speaker 1: The one saying that. So what would be your response

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Speaker 6: Y'all.

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Speaker 3: Don't think I'm raised with y'all, but I just wanted

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Speaker 3: they bathe. Okay, we have to understand that the people

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Speaker 3: a lot of even going to American spelling, it doesn't

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Speaker 5: So I'm saying all of this to show you.

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Speaker 3: Do your own research. Just because somebody is qualified by

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Speaker 3: But gynecologists, you have to remember they're a part of

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Speaker 3: They're starting their own feminine hygiene brand. Gynecologists were prescribing

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Speaker 1: That's right now it's back in question again. Yes, I

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Speaker 3: Yes y'all, y'all don't know what y'all doing. Y'all just

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Speaker 3: you know you're all human. So you go with America

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Speaker 3: and we see it.

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Speaker 2: You know these are valid points that makes purpose and start.

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Speaker 2: We have to know we kind of jump right in.

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Speaker 2: Can we talk about your origin story? Because you have

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Speaker 2: such an aspiring story. I loved your your ideas around manifestation.

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Speaker 2: So talk to us about what were you thinking when

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Speaker 2: you moved to LA with two hundred dollars?

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Speaker 3: I don't remember, but I did move to LA. I

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Speaker 3: So what you think is intended to tear you down,

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Speaker 2: Thank you?

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Speaker 2: And I love about you, right, it's so powerful. One

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Speaker 3: You have to drink that water.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 3: It's like I remember parents being so kind of I

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Speaker 3: you need to go bathe to kids. But Sam, your

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Speaker 3: Yes you do, but eating white will really save you

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Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: But at the same time, as long as you keep

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Speaker 1: Okay, questions hopeful, So we keep saying BB. Right for

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Speaker 5: What is b B and how do we know if

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Speaker 3: Okay, BB is backterial vaginosis. It's characterized by an extreme

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Speaker 5: cookie test on the web.

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Speaker 3: What do you do? And you can literally we give

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Speaker 3: you a swabber and a tester swab your discharge and

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Speaker 3: you put it in the circle and it will turn

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Speaker 3: a color to let you know what you you know

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Speaker 3: and then after you see the color, go to your gynecologist,

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Speaker 3: buy cookie restore and go to your gynecologist.

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Speaker 2: Now, sorry, you had this video on your Instagram that

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Speaker 2: I would love for you to talk about it. You

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Speaker 2: talked it was a video, or you talked about knowing

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Speaker 2: people from back in the day and people haven't hate

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Speaker 2: in their heart and them not realizing it. And I

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Speaker 2: was like, people need to hear this, talk about it

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 3: Don't you talk about the one where I said, people

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Speaker 3: will be like, oh, I remember her, she used to

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Speaker 3: be for her, not even.

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Speaker 6: All of that.

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Speaker 3: Oh he had a little rapper now, but he used to.

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Speaker 1: That.

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Speaker 3: Never have to feel like you're stuck in a role.

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Speaker 3: This life is your movie, not your mom's, not your dad's,

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Speaker 3: not your teachers, and the characters changed. We watch a

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Speaker 3: movie and we see people literally change through events in

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Speaker 3: the movie. Life is the exact same way. And your

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Speaker 3: life could be a book volume one, Volume two, Volume three. Okay,

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Speaker 3: even the Bible has all and new. You don't got

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Speaker 3: to worry about who I was. This is who I

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Speaker 3: am now. And guess what, I don't care if I

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Speaker 3: told you that an hour ago.

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Speaker 5: I could change my opinion in the next hour.

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Speaker 3: Because I talked to somebody and they gave me a

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Speaker 3: different opinion. So don't hold me to nothing. The only

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Speaker 3: thing constant in life is change.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: Yep, not NASA.

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Speaker 1: Everyone is always asking you now about cookie wash and

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Speaker 1: vaginal health. Right, what is one question that you wish

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Speaker 1: people would ask you more often in your interviews?

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Speaker 5: What are my plans outside of cookie wash?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 1: Sar plans outside of cookie wash?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I love doing manifestation content. Sometimes I think

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Speaker 3: of doing like courses, but more like one on one

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Speaker 3: like if we could do a group boom, because I have.

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Speaker 3: I have helped people literally manifest one hundred thousand dollars

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Speaker 3: in a month, and I kind of practiced on my

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Speaker 3: friends and family and you know, anybody that would let

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Speaker 3: me kind of coach them. And when I've seen my power,

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Speaker 3: I said, you know, I definitely want to tap into this. However,

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Speaker 3: dealing with humans on a regular clock to class that

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Speaker 3: might be a little bit. I can't alat that's a lot.

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Speaker 3: But recently I've tapped back into entertainment. You guys will

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Speaker 3: be the first to know I had my first acting gig.

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Speaker 3: It's a voiceover job for reality T show. I can't

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Speaker 3: say just yet, but that is amazing, Thank you. And

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Speaker 3: I recently recorded my first song and I'm doing a

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Speaker 3: merge of Latin reggaeton and dance all because I'm Jamaican.

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Speaker 3: I grew up in Miami, so I'm surrounded by Spanish influence,

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Speaker 3: and a big part of the Spanish influence is Jamaica hands.

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Speaker 3: The reason it's called Ooh, I love it.

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Speaker 2: So happy that we got the exclusive, Yes, we got

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Speaker 2: the exclusive because of time. We're going to transition and

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Speaker 2: shift up the energy in this interview, and because we recognize, appreciate,

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Speaker 2: and celebrate the multi fasted woman, and we believe that

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Speaker 2: it's okay to be classy and ratchet, it's okay to

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Speaker 2: be elegant and dance the strip club music. We want

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Speaker 2: to invite you to the oh you Classic Challenge? Oh

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Speaker 2: you clatch it? Did you take on the challenge?

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Speaker 3: What I gotta go?

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Speaker 1: Ooh?

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Speaker 3: We asked you questions. That's good, we like it. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So here here's where you're.

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Speaker 2: Signing up for. We're going to ask three questions, We're

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Speaker 2: going to share three sentence completions, and then we're going

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Speaker 2: to pull up three photos of you and you get

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Speaker 2: to choose one photo from your Instagram and give us

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Speaker 2: more context on the photo.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: So the first question is what is the best piece

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Speaker 2: of advice you've ever received.

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Speaker 3: Then your man wallet or another woman will from my grandma,

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Speaker 3: get out, go ahead, grandma.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Grandma came with Okay, I came to.

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Speaker 3: My grandma came with it.

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Speaker 2: Though I like that Grandma wasn't playing right? All right?

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Speaker 3: Next question work or two steps? What do I prefer

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Speaker 3: to do?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Two step?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 5: Really okaye?

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Speaker 2: A little smile, she's like, okay, So I question number three,

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Speaker 2: what's the sexiest item you own?

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Speaker 4: Hm?

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Speaker 3: Hmm my booth? Okay, I love that. Okay, I love it.

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Speaker 2: We've never got we never got that one before. We

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Speaker 2: usually get addressed or you know, something like that.

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Speaker 3: But I love it my booths.

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Speaker 2: Boom, there we go own them?

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Speaker 3: Yes you do? There you go.

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Speaker 2: They're yours?

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Speaker 3: Yes, all right. So our sentence completion.

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Speaker 1: One thing I wish people knew about me is.

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Speaker 3: I hate chocolate. Don't buy me chocolate.

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Speaker 2: Okay, don't y'all heard it here? First, do not buy

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Speaker 2: our chocolate? Okay. Our next completion is the most embarrassing

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Speaker 2: thing I've ever done to get expressions attention is look

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Speaker 2: at her face.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I'm pretty embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're listening we're.

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Speaker 2: Waiting for it.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I fell on purpose before I tell,

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Speaker 3: like in front of the boys, so like you could

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Speaker 3: like feel bad for me and want to talk to

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Speaker 3: me and be like, am you okay? Did you think

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna just leave it at that? I did fall?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, our last and just completely go ahead,

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Speaker 1: doctor dout. What I love most about myself is.

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Speaker 3: My confidence, all right.

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Speaker 2: And a lot of other people love that two star.

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Speaker 2: And we're gonna go ahead and move on to our photos,

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Speaker 2: so you sless the number four one to three. I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna show you that photo on screens. You can tell

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Speaker 2: us more about three. Okay, let's see number three. Oh okay,

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Speaker 2: this is a cute one. Let's see a more context

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Speaker 2: on baby star here and tell us something about this picture.

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Speaker 3: We would not know a boy looking at it. I

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Speaker 3: was pissed off because I traveled to Georgia to watch

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Speaker 3: my team, which was Florida State, win the game against

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Speaker 3: I forgot who was playing, and they did not win.

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Speaker 3: But our boys were really running football for like two years,

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Speaker 3: so I think they was kind of getting a little

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Speaker 3: leg they were, So that was mad. I didn't drive

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Speaker 3: all the way there to lose. We're talking so much

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Speaker 3: crap in the game.

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Speaker 2: Well you look so cut. We just we just want

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Speaker 2: to thank you so much for your time, for your energy,

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Speaker 2: for your talents and what you do for the community

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Speaker 2: and the light that you bring to the world. Was

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Speaker 2: so grateful that we had this conversation with you, and

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Speaker 2: we'd love for you to tell folks how they can

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Speaker 2: tune into what stars doing next and also purchase their

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Speaker 2: their products and all the good stuff. Tell them where

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Speaker 2: to find you start.

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Speaker 3: You can find me at s D A R R

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Speaker 3: d A w k I n Z so it's Star

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Speaker 3: Dawkins with the Z on Everything YouTube, Instagram.

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Speaker 5: You can find me on iTunes too.

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Speaker 3: I have affirmations there for money and what you call

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Speaker 3: that confidence money and confidence affort affirmation. But I'm pretty

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Speaker 3: active on Instagram and.

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Speaker 6: YouTube, so follow me there and ww dotcookies dot org

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Speaker 1: Hey lady, is doctor Dom here from the Cultivating her

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Speaker 1: Space podcast. Are you currently a resident of the state

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Speaker 1: of California and contemplating starting your therapy journey? Well, if so,

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Speaker 1: look forward to hearing from you. Thanks for joining us today.

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Speaker 1: Please note that our show may contain conversations about self help, advice,

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Speaker 1: self empowerment, and mental health, but is by no means

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Speaker 1: meant to be a substitute for an ongoing formal relationship

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Speaker 1: with a trained mental health provider. If you are, and

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Speaker 1: when you know is in need of mental health care,

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Speaker 7: be sure to click the Patreon tab to get access

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Speaker 7: to video content, bonuses, and our weekly after show and

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Speaker 7: before we meet again, repeat after me.

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Speaker 2: Greatness is my birthright, so I no longer ask for permission,