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Speaker 2: What's up y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a
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Speaker 2: Happy Thanksgiving and show what's up y'alls? Your co host
Speaker 2: a j Holiday.
Speaker 1: What's up?
Speaker 2: Tam?
Speaker 1: Hey, y'alls be tam bam. I especially love y'all on
Speaker 1: this beautiful Turkey day.
Speaker 2: You full or something you especially love?
Speaker 1: No, it's early. It's early in the morning right now,
Speaker 1: so I ain't fully what's early for y'all? How was
Speaker 1: your weekend?
Speaker 2: Oh, girl, my fucking weekend. I attempted to go out
Speaker 2: on Friday night. I can't speak about exactly what happened
Speaker 2: to me. I'll tell you offline because I haven't talked
Speaker 2: to you, bitch. But when I tell you, I'm not
Speaker 2: dating no more like I'm literally getting married into a
Speaker 2: twenty four. I already know that. Like I know, I
Speaker 2: don't want to meet no new niggas. That shit is
Speaker 2: over with, That shit is dead. I already got my husband.
Speaker 2: As far as I'm concerned, I'm gonna just pick one
Speaker 2: of these niggas and it's gonna be over period. Because
Speaker 2: I can't. I can't. I can't do no more new niggas.
Speaker 2: Like a nigga literally asked me if I'm fucking or not?
Speaker 2: And when I said no, the date was over. Damn
Speaker 2: you call her Helle sacrifice? Yo, Well well then that's
Speaker 2: just life. Now. Almost got into a fight, well, a
Speaker 2: verbal altercation with a bitch name. I not even gonna
Speaker 2: call a girl name, but I can call her name.
Speaker 2: Nobody know her anyway. She was sitting next to me
Speaker 2: at the bar at cheesecake factory. I literally got cheesecake factory. Yes,
Speaker 2: I was there, literally got it.
Speaker 1: Verbal she don't love herself, she went to cheesecake factory.
Speaker 2: No, but listen, why the verbal altercation with this, with this,
Speaker 2: with this woman's husband was because he started talking about
Speaker 2: the list. I said, listen, I don't think a woman
Speaker 2: came up with that list. I really feel like that's
Speaker 2: some shit somebody created to start controversy online. And here
Speaker 2: you are, drunk and a fucking cheesecake factory, questioning me
Speaker 2: about why I'm in a cheesecake factory. Bitch? Are you dumb?
Speaker 2: The man.
Speaker 1: He asking you about it? Why you're there? Well?
Speaker 2: How you feel? I said, just like like what I
Speaker 2: just said, I think is something that somebody created. And
Speaker 2: I was like, Furthermore, I like cheesecake Factory. I drank
Speaker 2: a my tie. I either get a salad or the
Speaker 2: miso salmon and crab onetans every time I come here.
Speaker 2: When I do eat at Cheeseak Factory, it's one of
Speaker 2: my favorite places. It has a very vast menu. I
Speaker 2: don't have a problem with a date to the Cheesecake Factory.
Speaker 1: Write me neither.
Speaker 2: Girl. But when I tell you this this woman's husband,
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, girl, you need to leave him because
Speaker 2: he is jealous of you. That's really the sting from
Speaker 2: I mouthed to her, I say you need to leave.
Speaker 2: I mouthed that to her. For sure.
Speaker 1: That's not nice.
Speaker 2: Girl. Let me tell you, I can see him transforming
Speaker 2: to somebody else as we're sitting there. So imagine the
Speaker 2: type of shit she go through at the house.
Speaker 1: Why is you all of you wasn't man of your business?
Speaker 2: He started that shit. I was minding my business. I
Speaker 2: was minding my business. He started that shit and he
Speaker 2: wasn't even sitting next to me. She was sitting next
Speaker 2: to me. So you are on the other side of
Speaker 2: your woman directing questions at me.
Speaker 1: You just trying to brown delicious brown bread in you.
Speaker 2: Didn't get no bread. I'm trying not to do no carbs.
Speaker 2: I didn't even get the bread, and I like the bread. Girl.
Speaker 2: He started going on and on about her buying him
Speaker 2: some five dollar oils or some shit, and how he
Speaker 2: wanted some fucking gift set from Macy's, like with different fragrances,
Speaker 2: different colognes. I'm like, do you want flowers?
Speaker 1: Also?
Speaker 2: Do you want to be wine and dine? Its sound
Speaker 2: like you want to be a woman.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: That was the beginning of my night. And then I
Speaker 2: linked up and hung out. It wasn't even a date.
Speaker 2: I just messed somebody out right quick and never again.
Speaker 2: Like who Like I really thought y'all niggas only existed
Speaker 2: on the Internet, But y'all really be out here in
Speaker 2: real life wreaking havoc on the community. Y'all, y'all niggas
Speaker 2: are bad for the ecosystem, like some of y'all, some
Speaker 2: of y'all, girl, these niggas exist, these internet podcasts, niggas
Speaker 2: exist in real life.
Speaker 1: People might say we want we are them, No.
Speaker 2: Man, I'm talking about like the bad bitch niggas, like
Speaker 2: they really exist.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there's a whole MANI sphere for them.
Speaker 2: Girl. You know what, Listen in the animal kingdom, there's
Speaker 2: a lot of male animals that die, haven't never mated, right,
Speaker 2: that is supposed to happen amongst humans, I think male,
Speaker 2: and that's where these people are. Right, So the ones
Speaker 2: who really don't have access to pussy be the ones
Speaker 2: that like really want women to collectively lower their standards
Speaker 2: so they can have access to kuci bitches, don't do it, somebody.
Speaker 2: These niggas supposed to die never have made it. Okay,
Speaker 2: that's just what it's supposed to be.
Speaker 1: At this point, it's Thanksgiving.
Speaker 2: Well, thank you, good grief guys.
Speaker 1: She whiz.
Speaker 2: You asked me what my weekend was liking? That was it? Okay? Yeah?
Speaker 2: I had it. Other than that, I ain't do much.
Speaker 2: I try. I tried to do some shit Friday night,
Speaker 2: and it just I decided, Well, I'm.
Speaker 1: Proud that you didn't give him none because he didn't
Speaker 1: deserve it.
Speaker 2: Cool girl, I was never even a thought in my mind.
Speaker 2: That's why I was so offended. Like, yeah, I would just
Speaker 2: headed eat and drink and get to know you and
Speaker 2: that's it that part or just hang out like you
Speaker 2: can't even do that anymore, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: And I was even offering the papers of shit. I
Speaker 2: was like, hey man, I got the next rounds just
Speaker 2: so he went and think of some shit. But he insisted.
Speaker 2: And then he was like, just just tell me now,
Speaker 2: just tell me now if I don't have a chance.
Speaker 2: That's really how it went. If he have a chance
Speaker 2: with you or a chance with you to smash. And
Speaker 2: I was like, and then the place where we went,
Speaker 2: the place I met him at, I literally ended up
Speaker 2: changing clothes to match this guy's fly. I came out
Speaker 2: the house and one thing on sawd he was at
Speaker 2: what he had on and I was like, hey, let
Speaker 2: me I'm gonna run back to the house real quick.
Speaker 2: He didn't see me see him, and I literally ran
Speaker 2: back to how to the house, change clothes and put
Speaker 2: on Jordan's okay, to match what he was looking like.
Speaker 2: We end up going to play. Yes, we ended up
Speaker 2: going to a place where what I had on was good,
Speaker 2: you know, because people was in there with sneakers on.
Speaker 2: You didn't take me no place to be looking extra cute.
Speaker 2: And yeah, I was like, you know, after he made
Speaker 2: the comment about sex or whatever, I'm like, I'm pretty
Speaker 2: sure somebody in there who will fuck you. It ain't
Speaker 2: gonna be me, though. I was like, you want me
Speaker 2: to leave? You want me to leave?
Speaker 1: He said no.
Speaker 2: He basically was like, I'm sure, I'm sure somebody would,
Speaker 2: but it won't be me, sir, it won't be me. Sorry,
Speaker 2: these niggas exist.
Speaker 1: That happened to her. Well, my weekend was better. It
Speaker 1: was my sister's birthday. She turned thirty.
Speaker 2: Six, and uh, I'll be lying about y'all age.
Speaker 1: No, I just have to. I can't tell hers now
Speaker 1: because she's my baby sister, so well, I can't tell
Speaker 1: her shit.
Speaker 2: So you don't.
Speaker 1: Go get a ball parker what I am by telling
Speaker 1: this bitchge not doing that, So anyway, shame she'll tell
Speaker 1: you ask them. I surprised her. It was so funny
Speaker 1: because I act like none of her friends. I was like,
Speaker 1: where your friends at? I was like, your friends, ain't
Speaker 1: she I'm the only one here? But they was all there.
Speaker 1: They was all there waiting on her to get there.
Speaker 1: But I was just playing it like they wasn't ship.
Speaker 1: It was so funny and we all went to this
Speaker 1: place called the We started at me and her started
Speaker 1: at Tsunamis so we could let all her friends gather
Speaker 1: at the Grand. This place in Columbia. It's like a
Speaker 1: bowling bar alley.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that place. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And it's not a bowling alley. It it's like a bar.
Speaker 2: It's like a it's a restaurant. What they used to
Speaker 2: have like games downstairs. Remember these have a pool tape
Speaker 2: and all that stuff. It's like a really nice.
Speaker 1: Like yeah dates spot right. So I waited for all
Speaker 1: of them together there, and then we left there and
Speaker 1: we got into this uber from Tsunami to the Grand.
Speaker 1: This man pulled up as soon as we got in.
Speaker 1: He passed us microphones what like, he had like the
Speaker 1: ball light, like the disco ball in there, and he
Speaker 1: had the iPad where you could pick your song. Oh
Speaker 1: my god. We had so much karaoke and the uber
Speaker 1: it was so lid. I was like five star experience,
Speaker 1: and Tanya was just singing so loud, off key. We
Speaker 1: just had so much fun and that I wanted to
Speaker 1: spin around the block a couple of times, but he
Speaker 1: dropped us right off. And then she saw all her
Speaker 1: friends and we got really drunk, ordered some champagne a
Speaker 1: few bottles, and we had a great time. It was
Speaker 1: so much fun. But at Tsunami, I was sitting at
Speaker 1: the bar minding my business and the bartender came over
Speaker 1: with a shot. He was like, the young lady over
Speaker 1: there said she listens to your podcast and she love
Speaker 1: you too, and I was like, oh nay, So I
Speaker 1: waved at her and I thanked they're for the shot.
Speaker 1: So Las Shine Harris girl, Thank you girl. I appreciate
Speaker 1: you and I love you so much for sending me
Speaker 1: some liquor and making me feel like bossed uppy.
Speaker 2: She so wasn't that so nice what you said? Her
Speaker 2: name was.
Speaker 1: Lashan Lashan Harris. All right, Labella Bear. She's Labella Bear
Speaker 1: on Instagram. So shout out to you, girl. I hope
Speaker 1: you're having a happy Thanksgiving and I appreciate you for
Speaker 1: us sending me my flowers at the.
Speaker 2: Okay, I know that using name, I don't know the person.
Speaker 1: Well, she's a sweetheart, y'all. If y'all see me out,
Speaker 1: please send me shots everybody, because I wanted that. She
Speaker 1: helped me my night to start.
Speaker 2: I never know where people be from. Who'll be dming,
Speaker 2: she'd be dming me. Hey girl, Yeah, hey girl, I'm
Speaker 2: like wall I know that use a name from someplace.
Speaker 2: That's crazy. We be really out here, like not using
Speaker 2: our real names. The more labella bear right.
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Speaker 3: of the week.
Speaker 2: Well as the biggest center of twenty twenty three, Tammy
Speaker 2: Don't Don't.
Speaker 1: I would go with let yeah Sean, Puffy, Diddy Combs
Speaker 1: jump jump dumb dwn.
Speaker 2: Damn Diddy. Let that nigga had the fucking Internet on fire,
Speaker 2: on fire, y'all. On Thursday, I was sitting in Hunger Games.
Speaker 2: You know, Hunger Games came up with the fourth uh.
Speaker 2: I think I think this was a pre Yeah, I
Speaker 2: think this was actually a prequel though, you know, it's
Speaker 2: like before the other Hunger Games, but they came up.
Speaker 2: I love Hunger Games. I went to He was by
Speaker 2: myself on Thursday. I missed an intricate part of the
Speaker 2: fucking movie because I got an alert on my phone,
Speaker 2: ended up on Instagram, and the fucking Internet was on
Speaker 2: fire with this shit going on with did he man?
Speaker 1: Yo? You know, I used to love Diddy.
Speaker 2: You know that why I never loved him.
Speaker 1: I just thought that he was a powerful black man
Speaker 1: who followed his dreams and made things happen for him
Speaker 1: and others. So I just loved that about him. But
Speaker 1: this shit, so if you were under a rock, Cassie Pop,
Speaker 1: Cassie Venture popped out and said, did he been doing
Speaker 1: all this? And I want thirty million from his ass?
Speaker 1: And the lawsuit alleged that he did. He was abusive,
Speaker 1: he made her have sex with other men, he raped her,
Speaker 1: all these horrible, horrific things. This is from the Neighborhood Talking.
Speaker 1: It says Miss Ventura was eventually instructed to use websites
Speaker 1: and escort services to find mail sex workers to participate
Speaker 1: in sexual acts. Miss Venture to mister Combs told Miss
Speaker 1: Ventur to search for large black I don't know what
Speaker 1: that word is because it's covered up but on the website,
Speaker 1: but I'm thinking it's dick. Uh. Sometimes mister Combes would
Speaker 1: pay to fly mail sex workers to his location, including
Speaker 1: to multiple multiple cities in the United States as well
Speaker 1: as abroad. He required Miss Ventur and his staff to
Speaker 1: help him make these arrangements. Mister Combs's assistant would help
Speaker 1: to set up the fos, including by setting up the
Speaker 1: hotel suites with baby oil and astroglide. Oh, she was
Speaker 1: getting at an.
Speaker 2: Mister Comebs always he was doing some anal.
Speaker 1: Mister Combs always supplied Miss Venturer and the sex worker
Speaker 1: with piece of mounts with drugs before and during the FO.
Speaker 1: I don't know what that means FO whatever. Miss Vaturia
Speaker 1: was given ecstasy, cocaine, GHB, academy, marijuana and alcohol and
Speaker 1: excessive amounts during fos, which, oh, that's the freak out. Freakouts,
Speaker 1: which allowed her to dissociate this during the horrorrific encounters.
Speaker 1: It became commonplace to get ivy fluids in the days
Speaker 1: after and freak out to recover from the excessive substance
Speaker 1: pushed upon her. Miss Materia was required to dress up
Speaker 1: and linguere for freakouts, and mister Combs's insisted she wear
Speaker 1: a white nail polish to contrast her nails with the
Speaker 1: skin of the black men he hired to have.
Speaker 2: Listen. People on the Internet was pointing out how Yo
Speaker 2: Miami always got white polish on honey.
Speaker 1: Mmm, well, all of us got on white polish though,
Speaker 1: don't we alway die Down't no, but you don't wear
Speaker 1: polish period though?
Speaker 2: But associated with him him, that's some shit he liked.
Speaker 1: Yep. During the freak out, mister Combs would instruct Miss
Speaker 1: Ventur to pour excessive amounts of oil over herself. Mister
Speaker 1: Comebs would then extruct Miss Ventur and the sex workers
Speaker 1: to speak to each other, and then would specifically tell
Speaker 1: Miss Ventura where to touch the sex workers. Mister Comebs
Speaker 1: would say things like grab his big black jick and
Speaker 1: ask her how does it feel, as he directed her
Speaker 1: to perform for him.
Speaker 2: Ah, this is some Roman shit, dog, this is some
Speaker 2: real Roman shit. I just think I'm just thinking about
Speaker 2: the medieval movies. I've seen movies from the medieval times
Speaker 2: and be this type of shit right here, like they
Speaker 2: be having those wild sex ass sex orgies and stuff
Speaker 2: like that.
Speaker 1: Some people be into that shit. Really.
Speaker 2: Oh she was done right. So a lot of people
Speaker 2: are coming out, like slim Thug for instance, right, and
Speaker 2: they're asking, you know, why did she waits along and
Speaker 2: speak up? Oh, she just want to payday. You know.
Speaker 1: She deserves.
Speaker 2: You got to hit certain type of people where it
Speaker 2: really hurts you. Know what I'm saying, and this is
Speaker 2: a this is a billionaire or they said he's worth
Speaker 2: about nine hundred and something million dollars, so he got
Speaker 2: thirty m's to give her. The thing is, she wasn't
Speaker 2: even trying to take this shit to court. They were
Speaker 2: calling a shakedown because she did come, you know, send
Speaker 2: a demand for the thirty million, well eight figures. So
Speaker 2: he offered her eight figures not to go public. He
Speaker 2: didn't deliver on it, so she went public. It's almost
Speaker 2: like he was calling her bluff. He really thought he
Speaker 2: still had control of control of her as far as
Speaker 2: I'm concerned, And Cassie called that nigga bluff and filed
Speaker 2: the lawsuit. So Diddy can't be prosecuted in criminal court,
Speaker 2: but in the state of New York they have this
Speaker 2: Survivor's Act or something where victims of sexual assault can
Speaker 2: sue the assailants civil and civil court. She had one
Speaker 2: week left on the statute of limitation to file this lawsuit,
Speaker 2: and that's what she did, and that niggas settled within
Speaker 2: twenty four hours, that that might be like the fastest
Speaker 2: and then now him and the lawyer's trying to say,
Speaker 2: oh it wasn't because you know, he's not trying to.
Speaker 2: It's not because he's guilty that. No, he's definitely guilty
Speaker 2: because nobody that knows him who he ain't been industry
Speaker 2: the hollow.
Speaker 1: Forever since I've been alive and I and maybe maybe
Speaker 1: before I was born, and nobody, not one person, not
Speaker 1: one person came forward and said, not the shine Puffy Combs.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: Mama, not even his mama came forward and said that
Speaker 1: because they knew it was true. Did you see did
Speaker 1: y'all see that picture of him sitting out that by
Speaker 1: the pool with an Asian lady looking like he was
Speaker 1: about to cry.
Speaker 2: He definitely was looking stressed out.
Speaker 1: He looked real stressed out.
Speaker 2: He looked like he was stressed. You know, a lot
Speaker 2: of these people think they untouchable. You know, it's cool,
Speaker 2: like you can have a god complex, but you are.
Speaker 2: You can't just go around here iolating people and thinking
Speaker 2: that shit ain't gonna never catch up with you.
Speaker 1: And I don't like.
Speaker 2: Exactly false idols. Man, y'all gotta be careful who the
Speaker 2: fuck y'all be worshiping. These people do not be good people, man.
Speaker 2: And the thing is all like I It's not my
Speaker 2: place to condemn people, even when people do. The worship.
Speaker 2: The people I don't fuck with is like child molesters,
Speaker 2: and people would just be out here murdering for no reason.
Speaker 1: Let's be clear. He was thirty seven and she was
Speaker 1: nineteen when they got to get.
Speaker 2: Absolutely so manipulation at its finest. Girl was in a
Speaker 2: clubhouse room and they were in there arguing the difference
Speaker 2: between manipulation and a predator, Like predators manipulate. Right, what
Speaker 2: are y'all talking about?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, like one of their greatest tactics.
Speaker 2: Exactly. Yes, she was an adult in some people's eyes.
Speaker 2: I don't think nineteen years old is an adult. I'd
Speaker 2: question where were her parents at the time. But this
Speaker 2: is a man who's at that's like how many years ago,
Speaker 2: now thirteen years ago? So like Diddy was at the
Speaker 2: height of his career. For sure at that time, I
Speaker 2: would I would have went.
Speaker 1: I wasn't showing if I was hurt. If he slid
Speaker 1: into my MySpace at thirty thirty seven, I'm nineteen and
Speaker 1: he I see him diddy bopping all over the TV,
Speaker 1: I'm going, most most young girls would have gone.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess man, that's not unfortunate.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it really is what happened to But here's the
Speaker 1: crazy part is this is just one story of many
Speaker 1: that never get told, you know.
Speaker 2: And that's why he paid the money. He paid the
Speaker 2: money because if they would have went to court and
Speaker 2: disposition depskys in deposition, there would be way more evidence
Speaker 2: presented to the public for people to really see who
Speaker 2: he was. His the best bet was to pay that money.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he got on the phone.
Speaker 2: That's the part that people exactly give her what she wants.
Speaker 1: Period give her what she wants so she can shut up.
Speaker 2: And niggas like like like he he came back out
Speaker 2: saying he was never he's never been violated. But there
Speaker 2: are a lot of men who have been violated by
Speaker 2: men as children or even in prison who stole to
Speaker 2: this day can't find the words to come out and
Speaker 2: tell somebody that that happened to them. But here you
Speaker 2: are having zero empathy for Cassie because she wants at
Speaker 2: least a payday. She's I'm pretty sure she's still in
Speaker 2: the process of healing. That money will help. Hey that bitch, Okay, hey,
Speaker 2: hey her, you actually owe her more.
Speaker 1: I feel like all of us need a little piece
Speaker 1: to have witnesses.
Speaker 2: Now, we need reparations from Diddy, all of us do,
Speaker 2: God damn, because if they cancel Diddy music.
Speaker 1: We ain't gonna have nothing left to listen to eat
Speaker 1: us produce. All the biggest songs of our life was samples.
Speaker 2: They was all samples. He don't got no original beats
Speaker 2: for real, remixing Marriy J Blige, whole catalog and samples.
Speaker 2: I love, I love, I love Mary J Blige. Okay,
Speaker 2: I'm listen. I love that's one of my favorite artists.
Speaker 2: But let's be very fucking clear. Diddy and Kanye are
Speaker 2: the sample kings because sampling everything you didn't even know
Speaker 2: was a goddamn sample.
Speaker 1: Yo. I see some Uh, there was this what do
Speaker 1: you call them? A psychic who came out and.
Speaker 2: Said, oh, yes, Sloan that's her name.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this was gonna happen. And she said, you know,
Speaker 1: months ago, in June, June and June she predicted.
Speaker 2: She said that kim Porter came to her. Kim Porter
Speaker 2: was describing like what happened to her the day she died.
Speaker 2: That's the thing I think that would have came out
Speaker 2: in court I don't think that forty seven year old
Speaker 2: woman just dropped dead, and the psychic was saying, how
Speaker 2: Kim died so abruptly? She just hopped out her body
Speaker 2: and then she went immediately to look at her nose
Speaker 2: because she was sick. She had some type of congestion
Speaker 2: and she was using some type of inhaler. She was
Speaker 2: living in a home that wasn't her permanent resident, and
Speaker 2: she wasn't really in control of like the mechanics of
Speaker 2: the home. But somebody came and installed cameras there that
Speaker 2: she didn't know about. And something she's passed something on
Speaker 2: to a lawyer. It's some other shit about to come out.
Speaker 2: I feel like the year twenty twenty four is about
Speaker 2: to be way more revelations and a retribution. It's a
Speaker 2: lot of shit going on saying like it's the eight.
Speaker 1: Twenty twenty four is like some life path eight or
Speaker 1: some shit. One of my clients was telling me, and
Speaker 1: if you turn the eight to the side, it's an
Speaker 1: infinity symbol. So that's what your so is going to
Speaker 1: happen this year in twenty twenty four.
Speaker 2: It's coming back around, it's coming back home.
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't put goodness I you know, I encourage you
Speaker 1: to spend these last months putting nothing but goodness out
Speaker 1: so you get goodness back.
Speaker 2: Listen. I don't not believe karma, but I am Karma.
Speaker 2: I do the coming around.
Speaker 1: You do the comment.
Speaker 2: I mean, I do the come I do both. Okay.
Speaker 2: I make sure I do right by people. That's all
Speaker 2: you gotta do. Man. I don't know if you can
Speaker 2: reverse bad Karman three months, but y'all could try.
Speaker 1: I mean it'll help you.
Speaker 2: Got thirty ms, she got thirty million dollars.
Speaker 1: Most of us don't, all right, So can we move
Speaker 1: on to fifty cent?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: Move on to so fIF is walking away Scott free
Speaker 1: from an incident that left a woman with a severe
Speaker 1: laceration to her head back in August age show. Now,
Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all remember this, but in La
Speaker 1: at the Crypto dot Com Arena, fifty was on stage
Speaker 1: and he was experiencing some technical difficult difficulties, and in
Speaker 1: a fit of rage, he furiously flung a microphone into
Speaker 1: the crowd and harmed Power one O six radio host
Speaker 1: Rihanna mo Legan. I hope I pronounced that right. If
Speaker 1: I did not apologize the woman's injuries were so severe
Speaker 1: that she require immediate medical assistance. After she found the
Speaker 1: police report on August thirtieth, the case jumped through the
Speaker 1: hands of multiple agencies until being brought to the La
Speaker 1: City Attorney's office, and according to TMZ, the city's attorney's
Speaker 1: office said no criminal charges will be founded here. Yeah,
Speaker 1: absolutely not fifty as long as he remains out of trouble.
Speaker 1: The case will remain open one year from the day
Speaker 1: of the incident, is open to reevaluations, terror further issues
Speaker 1: transpared between both parties.
Speaker 2: That was definitely an accident. I'm pretty sure he didn't
Speaker 2: pick her to hit with the thing. He probably just enraged,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, like you're performing, you look stupid,
Speaker 2: Your audio messed up. He did not target her to
Speaker 2: hit her.
Speaker 1: It could have been anybody, Okay, but when you if
Speaker 1: you're in a car accident and you didn't target nobody
Speaker 1: to hit him, you can still get amazed.
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure she was compensated. I'm pretty sure she
Speaker 2: was compensated.
Speaker 1: Okay, they left off.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm pretty sure she was commentated at least medical bills.
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's no charges yeah, no, Yeah, that's.
Speaker 2: A bit much. Yeah, just an accident.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'm not mad at that, but he did
Speaker 1: kind of have a little tempertation from on stage. You're
Speaker 1: a grown man, Why you threw that out there like that?
Speaker 2: But he's a cancer.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I might have did it too.
Speaker 2: All right, what y'all think about? Party distrack from Meg
Speaker 2: the Stallion. Okay, the rapper Slash Rider dropped a new
Speaker 2: song called The Person th h e E Okay, like
Speaker 2: the obviously aimed at Meg, with the lyrics explicitly mentioning
Speaker 2: her by name, because you know, she came out with
Speaker 2: her song recently and she didn't say any names. She said,
Speaker 2: you's fucking on the bitch in the sand bed I
Speaker 2: lay my head and like, she didn't really say any names.
Speaker 2: But he was very direct. He said, I'm not talking
Speaker 2: to mag the Stallion. I'm talking talking to Meghan the
Speaker 2: Person Person. When I tell you this was some ether
Speaker 2: in a very nice and loving way. He flamed her
Speaker 2: ass up, he did. And I'm confused by the response
Speaker 2: from women. They're calling him a narcissist. It's really weird.
Speaker 2: It's given like no accountability at all. Okay, so now
Speaker 2: we be dragging men. Okay, we help other women drag men.
Speaker 1: You be dragging them.
Speaker 2: You just shut up. Listen, y'all. Tam may not drag
Speaker 2: them on this podcast, we definitely drag niggas in our
Speaker 2: fucking private conversation. I don't know what she's I'm a paul.
Speaker 1: I don't know what she's talking about.
Speaker 2: And that man he mentioned her and y'all gotta listen
Speaker 2: to the lyrics of the song. I know a lot
Speaker 2: of people only listen to like the little snippets on nine.
Speaker 2: They listen to the chorus of the song, but it
Speaker 2: was very tasteful. His response to her, I do think
Speaker 2: there's a lot of time, like there's a lot of
Speaker 2: things we won't be known about people like he know
Speaker 2: her person read the lyrics. Oh go ahead, all right.
Speaker 1: This the girl that I'm trying to propose to, ask
Speaker 1: Greg Una. I picked out a ring, then you lied
Speaker 1: to my face, went on TV, and then lied to
Speaker 1: Gail King party raps. I found out the rest of
Speaker 1: the world. God, I treated you like a queen whole time.
Speaker 1: I'm a clown in your circus. I tried to pull
Speaker 1: you up out the mud. Here you are trying to
Speaker 1: drown me on purpose. You know, the devil was a
Speaker 1: serpent for some streams and views. Girl, I hope it
Speaker 1: was worth it. This ain't for Meghan the Stallion. This
Speaker 1: is for Meghan the person, he continues. The way you
Speaker 1: painting this picture's a shame. How many times did I
Speaker 1: catch you texting the niggas? You did you first? I
Speaker 1: just did me bigger. You flew out the country. Ain't
Speaker 1: called for days. In my mind, we had a we
Speaker 1: had parted ways. You was back moving awful, strange, and
Speaker 1: the effort to fix it. I took all the blame,
Speaker 1: like I always do, apologize for shit that I know
Speaker 1: I ain't do. Damn, I leave him. I don't feel
Speaker 1: I don't feel like he lying. M M. I don't feel.
Speaker 2: But you know why because I remember I remember Megae
Speaker 2: Stallion doing an interview. I forgot who it was with,
Speaker 2: and she was talking about like how good he is
Speaker 2: for her mental health, how you know in her previous
Speaker 2: relationships it really just was like physical, just sex and
Speaker 2: all this stuff, like physical tractions. But he was like, man,
Speaker 2: she was like my boyfriend. She's so excited about him
Speaker 2: and how good he is for her mental health. Like
Speaker 2: I can't everybody can't be in the wrong meg Yeah,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, everybody else can't be the problem.
Speaker 2: At some point we all look in the mirror accountability,
Speaker 2: self awareness. Where is it? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Everybody calling him lame for defending himself. What is wrong
Speaker 2: with y'all?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Because yeah, y'all think these are the women who be
Speaker 2: in relationships and think that they have no like y'all
Speaker 2: perfect in the relationship. The only reason why you think
Speaker 2: you perfect is because your nigga don't never say no
Speaker 2: than you. We are just more voisterous about our grievances
Speaker 2: with men. A lot of times men just suffering silence.
Speaker 2: They don't say shit. And even though one part of
Speaker 2: the lyrics, he was like, you know, we basically like
Speaker 2: the relationship ended quietly or we had a clean break,
Speaker 2: but now you want to make shit messy, I believe that.
Speaker 2: Don't put me in your lyrics, right cause she definitely
Speaker 2: was dating a new nigga in two point two seconds.
Speaker 1: Right and then all right, So because I love making
Speaker 1: this st Y'all'm a fan of her beauty too. Obviously
Speaker 1: I don't know her personally, but I did side out
Speaker 1: when her best friend was no longer her best friend, like,
Speaker 1: this is your best bitch and y'all fell out. But wow,
Speaker 1: what happened?
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: What happens so big that y'all can't come back as
Speaker 1: best friends?
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know that. Now we're going
Speaker 2: back into the case, and I listen. I believe Tory
Speaker 2: Lanez is guilty. He did not shoot her. He did
Speaker 2: shoot at her. He is guilty of that. Did he
Speaker 2: deserve ten years? Maybe not? And then now what party
Speaker 2: is saying? Party? You was just defending her in a
Speaker 2: situation just a few months ago. What are we saying now?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: What are we saying now? Like? Why are you murky
Speaker 2: in the water again?
Speaker 1: He well, he sounds like he's saying he was deceived.
Speaker 2: With everybody else. That's what I don't know, y'all. I
Speaker 2: don't know, y'all, bey get right with God. I can't
Speaker 2: y'all got going on.
Speaker 1: I can't wait till she write a book. Oh she
Speaker 1: didn't write a book, right, whoever?
Speaker 2: She should have known better, because that nigga is very
Speaker 2: eloquent with words.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna use audible credit for that movefucker.
Speaker 2: She I want to hear it.
Speaker 1: So this is not stupid Internet news. This is actually
Speaker 1: very sad. Twenty three year old Anna Clara been Nevedos
Speaker 1: ben Nevedas tragically passed away as Taylor Swift's Brazil Ara's
Speaker 1: tour show began in Rea Dejaire on Friday, November seventeen.
Speaker 1: Who's that on Taylor Swift show?
Speaker 2: Yeah? But who is Anna Clara?
Speaker 1: She was just a concert goer. She was a front
Speaker 1: row of the show and apparently the stadium was one
Speaker 1: hundred and forty degrees inside what and that thousands of
Speaker 1: people There were a thousand phaetons in the building because
Speaker 1: of how the temperature inside the building, but they kept
Speaker 1: the show going, which is weird to me. Why they
Speaker 1: would keep the show going at this temperature.
Speaker 2: Was it an indoor arena or clearly.
Speaker 1: Was inside it's a stadium.
Speaker 2: M hm.
Speaker 1: It was reportedly over one hundred degrees fire high inside
Speaker 1: and cause a thousand fathings during the show and after
Speaker 1: being resuscitated, stayed in for about forty minutes. The woman
Speaker 1: had a second cardiac arrest and route to the hospital.
Speaker 2: So out of all the people that were there because
Speaker 2: her Taylor Swept shows are really big. This is the
Speaker 2: only person who passed.
Speaker 1: Well, this is this is the one that was reported on.
Speaker 1: I can't say this is the only, but they said
Speaker 1: it was a thousand fathings. And then this young she
Speaker 1: was only twenty three years old, very young girl in
Speaker 1: the front row seat and passed away. And her father says,
Speaker 1: I lost my only daughter, a happy and intelligent girl.
Speaker 1: She was about to graduate in psychology next April, saving money.
Speaker 1: I have no word to express my pain. She left
Speaker 1: home to fulfill a dream and came back dead. I
Speaker 1: wanted to be found out whether they were in fact
Speaker 1: prohibited from bringing water, whether there was negligence in providing
Speaker 1: her assistance resting this girl.
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, this is astro world shit. Yeah yeah interesting.
Speaker 2: I'll keep my comments because y'all already be calling me crazy.
Speaker 2: But yeah interesting. Thanksgiving, Thanks right, dad, This ain't my holiday.
Speaker 2: I'm a native American.
Speaker 1: Thanks. The only Christopher we acknowledge is wireless. Girl.
Speaker 2: Did you see uh Temmy out with Tamar ex boyfriend Petty.
Speaker 1: Patty? She Patty?
Speaker 2: She don't tell a bitch of fuck your daddy?
Speaker 1: Okay, right, and post it and post it on Instagram.
Speaker 1: Look at me with your daddy.
Speaker 2: Bitch girl like like we don't do we care?
Speaker 1: No, but I'm sure tay Mar was spitting bullets when
Speaker 1: she's seeing his listen, is he a cloud chaser or what?
Speaker 1: Because I know you knew that this was going on
Speaker 1: and you you out there with Tommy, come.
Speaker 2: On now, right? So Jeremy Jeremy Robinson, Tamar's ex fiance,
Speaker 2: because they were allegedly engaged after last week whole little
Speaker 2: I don't know what the hell had going on with
Speaker 2: Chris Shawn Rock at the Tamark concert. Tommy chimed in, right,
Speaker 2: so they jumped on Tommy ass. And now this week,
Speaker 2: well this weekend, Tommy was sitting pretty with uh, mister
Speaker 2: Jeremy Robinson at a basketball game. That bitch Patty and
Speaker 2: didn't say nothing. She basically tapped Tamar in Tamar, can
Speaker 2: you fight?
Speaker 1: Right? Because that's what was happened. That was like do
Speaker 1: you want to fight? That picture was like do you
Speaker 1: want to fight? Because you I want to fight?
Speaker 2: Can you fight?
Speaker 1: But about to fight with no Tommy, imagine that.
Speaker 2: Absolutely not.
Speaker 1: But ta.
Speaker 2: Bar got a lot my sisters.
Speaker 1: Tell me, I don't know how many sisters, tom you got.
Speaker 2: It's a lot of tell me got kids, she got
Speaker 2: teenage daughters.
Speaker 1: She got yeah, she got grown kids. I don't know.
Speaker 1: To make it happen, y'all might need to just have
Speaker 1: a conversation shame, because what is it really even about.
Speaker 1: It's stupid if you think about it. The only person
Speaker 1: I feel like who should be really upset is on
Speaker 1: the Patty Pie Nigga.
Speaker 2: You lost tour, Patty Pie Nigga. I don't understand none
Speaker 2: of that, beef man. I really don't care. We got
Speaker 2: this segment, That's why we're talking about it.
Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck going on with them?
Speaker 2: People are right, and the last day I wanted to
Speaker 2: talk about was uh this uh Nick Cannon baby mama.
Speaker 2: Her name is Bree Testing. She is on real one
Speaker 2: of the Real Housewives shows, I believe. But she blurted
Speaker 2: out how she done small Michael B. Jordan's child, and
Speaker 2: she said that dick was trash. I can see that.
Speaker 1: I can don't ruin kill Manga for me because kill
Speaker 1: Mangat means something different. That is a character that means
Speaker 1: something different from me.
Speaker 2: So you think Michael B. Jordan got a good dick
Speaker 2: when you look at.
Speaker 1: Him, kill Margaret killed a pussy in my imagination.
Speaker 2: When you look at Michael B.
Speaker 1: Jordan's Did you hear what I just said?
Speaker 2: She said, They asked him how was the sex?
Speaker 1: Was it good?
Speaker 2: She said no?
Speaker 1: She hat she hating on him. She hated boy because
Speaker 1: he wife her. Up. Girl, I'm trying to if he
Speaker 1: wanted with her, if he really wanted to be her,
Speaker 1: she'd be like, He's the best I ever had in
Speaker 1: my life. I love him. Okay, he didn't wife her.
Speaker 1: And now she's saying the dickens trash. I do that
Speaker 1: all the time. Yo, Yo, that's a joke, y'all.
Speaker 2: I'm mad. Mad his dick was trash. I'm mad his
Speaker 2: dick was trash.
Speaker 1: Oh God, forgive me. That was a joke, y'all.
Speaker 2: Just hold on. Did I say she was on the Housewives.
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, y'all. She was on the TV show
Speaker 2: called Selling Sunset. She's a realtor. It was a Selling
Speaker 2: Sunset reunion and she was asked about, you know, having
Speaker 2: had sex with ADYE celebrities, and Michael B. Jordan came
Speaker 2: up on the list on the vegenda and he did
Speaker 2: not deliver the dick would never ever kiss and tail
Speaker 2: like that would you me either? That is so whack bitch.
Speaker 2: That is so I'm trying to like, if I was him,
Speaker 2: I'd smack her in public, Like why would you do that? About? Now?
Speaker 1: Who's gonna want to smash you? You talk too much?
Speaker 2: Right? Bitch? Is she married? She has a baby for
Speaker 2: Nick Cannon? Oh no, she just wanted Nick Cannon. She's
Speaker 2: in Nick Cannon's hear them baby Mama's damn yeah, Chatty
Speaker 2: Patty Michael B. Jordan must not be paying for imininity.
Speaker 2: That's what happened. Yetta pay bitches to shut the fuck
Speaker 2: up nowadays. Okay, thirty million.
Speaker 1: She didn't know she was gonna say that.
Speaker 2: Thirty million is the going rate apparently, period. So what
Speaker 2: we talk about this week? Child? For Thanksgiving?
Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about Black family traditions? Your family traditions.
Speaker 1: Is it anything that y'all do and the dudes and
Speaker 1: don'ts at the black household? When is Turkey Day?
Speaker 2: Do not eat the middle of a mac don't.
Speaker 1: Hey, that's fighting. We're gonna fight. If you dig a
Speaker 1: spoon right down in the middle of the macaroni.
Speaker 2: And cheese, you can go to ass.
Speaker 1: You start from the corner and work in until it's over.
Speaker 2: If you don't want no edges, wait till somebody, wait
Speaker 2: till it works its way into the middle. You just
Speaker 2: don't come with a spoon and the middle of the mac.
Speaker 1: Yes, only I feel like only children, a child making
Speaker 1: their own plate, would do that. No adult, no Black
Speaker 1: adult knows they know not to do that shit.
Speaker 2: Right, you know, I don't think so, y'all. We'll get
Speaker 2: into it right back.
Speaker 1: So, y'all, it's Turkey Day, and I wanted to have
Speaker 1: a discussion about the seven unwritten rules of Black family Thanksgiving,
Speaker 1: and then we can get into like some black family traditions,
Speaker 1: like some that your family might have in mind. Sorry,
Speaker 1: let me tell you. Let me start with the first
Speaker 1: unwritten rule of Black families.
Speaker 2: Waitin a goddamn plate. Don't be showed up to people's
Speaker 2: house with nothing. That's my unwritten rule.
Speaker 1: What it bringing something?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, everybody gotta bring something, even if you just
Speaker 2: bring in some styropham cups or some goddamn place a
Speaker 2: very real weed, at least bring up.
Speaker 1: Oh, don't bring my whole family, because no heating all
Speaker 1: day until dinner time.
Speaker 2: No, that's a real thing. Because I already know I'm
Speaker 2: about to eat bout three thousand calories for Thanksgiving. I'm
Speaker 2: saving all my calories today.
Speaker 1: But I'm not eating nothing a day until it's after dinner.
Speaker 2: My mom's outed some new shit the last two years.
Speaker 2: She'd be cooking through breathay too, that is too much food.
Speaker 1: No, I don't want no breakfasts. I just want champagne
Speaker 1: and orange juice with just a little orange juice. And
Speaker 1: that's see it till I'm drinking until Mimosa's. That's see
Speaker 1: it until term.
Speaker 2: What dum your family usually eat?
Speaker 1: We my mom probably serves food around two to three o'clock.
Speaker 2: Honestly, girl, it'd be eight o'clock by the time we
Speaker 2: it'd be late at you know, it was already getting
Speaker 2: dark early. It definitely be nighttime by the time we
Speaker 2: eat every years late.
Speaker 1: Really, Yeah, I don't start cooking till the day. No,
Speaker 1: she cooks the night, but she start cooking the night before.
Speaker 2: But somehow we still end up eating late as hell?
Speaker 1: Why I would have to eat breakfast because we know
Speaker 1: we eat around we start eating that too, but we
Speaker 1: eat throughout the night though, it'd be.
Speaker 2: Latest fuck before we start eating. You know, you have
Speaker 2: to ship people looking no more. Anyways, I always end
Speaker 2: I'm having to cook my own party collar greens. Usually
Speaker 2: this is how this is my Thanksgiving. For the last
Speaker 2: few years, I've had coli greens, macaroni and cheese and salmon.
Speaker 2: That's it. That's what I've been eating.
Speaker 1: That's your Thanksgiving me. Yeah, because I don't eat all
Speaker 1: the neck bones. No one of those fucking vegan turkeys
Speaker 1: with a piece of wood in it. No.
Speaker 2: Okay, last year I did do. I did try to
Speaker 2: make me a meatloaf and I overcooked it. I used
Speaker 2: and I've done this before, like using like the Boca
Speaker 2: or the Beyond meat to make a meat loaf. But
Speaker 2: I overcooked it so that shit was hard to sell.
Speaker 2: It was not good. It tastes like hardboard.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I couldn't bela.
Speaker 2: I don't really look forward to like the holiday food
Speaker 2: no more.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you can't eat none of it. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: can eat the size some of them that don't include
Speaker 1: like most of that stuff.
Speaker 2: You having meat. And it's like my mom put extra
Speaker 2: If I even wanted to pick out some shit, I couldn't.
Speaker 2: It's like she put extra neck bonus. Yes, And while
Speaker 2: I'm put their action and neck bone up, big tank
Speaker 2: pails looking like penises and U girl. All right, another,
Speaker 2: let me tell you one thing I do. I definitely
Speaker 2: drink a smooth.
Speaker 1: Move about a love of their nark. That's an unwritten
Speaker 1: room for me because I'm getting all of this out
Speaker 1: of me in the morning, out of eight seventeen thousand calories,
Speaker 1: and I'm getting them all out in the world. Don't
Speaker 1: play with me.
Speaker 2: That might be some type of uh like you know, tradition, bitch,
Speaker 2: don't call it nothing else.
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 2: The next one not adarexia? What's the lilimia?
Speaker 1: Only on Thanksgiving? If I did it every Friday, it
Speaker 1: would be bitch. I'd be taking not real accidents. But
Speaker 1: I definitely do a smooth move or a ballerina tea,
Speaker 1: or I'd be doing like the little tree bock the
Speaker 1: Cossas cigarata.
Speaker 2: I will be having that day before Thanksgiving, the night before,
Speaker 2: around six pm the night before.
Speaker 1: No, I do it on the night of Thanksgiving because
Speaker 1: that's when I ate all the food.
Speaker 2: Well, you mighty. I might even do it twice because
Speaker 2: I already don't be regular. Sorry, y'all, all right.
Speaker 1: They will embrace yourself for your nosy relatives trying to
Speaker 1: get all up in your business.
Speaker 2: It's them aunts asking you when why are you not married?
Speaker 2: Why are you rushing when you'd be a single mom?
Speaker 2: Like your ass? Where is your baby daddy?
Speaker 1: When you gonna give your mama a grand baby? Well,
Speaker 1: we ain't got no more, hope.
Speaker 2: My mama already got grandkids. She ain't care why you care? Right, yeah,
Speaker 2: ain't no kids. I don't like that shit, and I
Speaker 2: think it's very disrespect you. Now you don't never bring
Speaker 2: no man with you? Then now if I bring a
Speaker 2: different man every year, and now I'm a home.
Speaker 1: Right, you can't win. You can't win.
Speaker 2: Pringing different nigga every year to Thanksgiving.
Speaker 1: I mean all right, So even though you're only going
Speaker 1: from the living room to the dining room all day,
Speaker 1: you must look cute. You gotta put that shit on you.
Speaker 2: Definitely gotta have a Thanksgiving off.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and push it on. You gotta look like somebody. Now.
Speaker 1: Last year, I think I did stay in Pj's all
Speaker 1: day long and my mom's I just did. I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck. This year, I've cooked nobody.
Speaker 2: It was just me, my mom, my baby, sister, my
Speaker 2: nieces and my sister, my other sister, So this is
Speaker 2: the immediate family. So y'all ain't went nowhere, so we.
Speaker 1: Know we was at the house. But I mean most
Speaker 1: people still get dressed up even to go in they
Speaker 1: living room.
Speaker 2: So I dressed up because my dad his birthday, so
Speaker 2: it's every ten years. His birthday is on Thanksgiving. This year,
Speaker 2: I think his birthday might be like the day after Thanksgiving.
Speaker 2: He's a twenty fifth November, so we always end up
Speaker 2: going from my mom's house to my dad's. So this
Speaker 2: this year, his birthday is actually on Saturday, so I'll probably,
Speaker 2: you know, go to his house after we eat at
Speaker 2: my mom's house, go to his house and hang out
Speaker 2: over there. That's where the liquor and the weed be at.
Speaker 2: That's the after our spot.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're lucky that your parents lived at close near
Speaker 1: each other where you can visit with both of them.
Speaker 1: You know, I would, I typically would have to choose
Speaker 1: one or the other because my dad is in Chicago.
Speaker 1: But normally I'm with my mother's side and not my
Speaker 1: father's side for holidays. That's just how it is, you know.
Speaker 2: So one of my cousins last week was my cousin
Speaker 2: one of my other family's wedding and so a cousin
Speaker 2: who I hadn't seen since we were kids. Basically she
Speaker 2: came into town. She just retired from the military.
Speaker 3: And.
Speaker 2: You know, she was questioning, like why the family never
Speaker 2: like she she's my uncle's my first cousin. But you know,
Speaker 2: usually the when the mom and the dad split, the
Speaker 2: kids go with the mom. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 2: so like you don't really see that other immediate family anymore.
Speaker 2: And she I guess she was feeling some type of
Speaker 2: way about that, like we didn't do enough to see them.
Speaker 2: But I mean, it's just the same. I could say
Speaker 2: the same thing about my dad side of the family.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. They didn't come to make
Speaker 2: sure we was good at any point, whether we was
Speaker 2: breathing or not. If we see them, we saw him. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's usually like that. It's just once the family breaks up,
Speaker 2: the kids usually be with the mama side, and that's
Speaker 2: just how it goes.
Speaker 1: It really do go like there. But the only way
Speaker 1: is if like the mama on drugs or she did
Speaker 1: right with the daddy's side, that's right how I go.
Speaker 2: And I guess both sides have to do a good
Speaker 2: job of making sure the family because you're still family
Speaker 2: right right all together and not but they don't you
Speaker 2: barely be even knowing your aunties in there, because then.
Speaker 1: It'd be weird. All right, Sneak a bite of food
Speaker 1: if Grandma's prayer is going on too long? You ever
Speaker 1: did it?
Speaker 2: I always put my eyes open anyway, so I'm looking
Speaker 2: at everybody else in their eyes closed. I should start
Speaker 2: hitting people.
Speaker 1: I don't do that.
Speaker 2: I don't eat off people plate.
Speaker 1: Wi. You know, I never get too long where I
Speaker 1: got to eat before, typically because oftentimes I'll be doing
Speaker 1: some a good portion of cooking. So you know, you
Speaker 1: don't even really be like one to eat right thing right,
Speaker 1: I don't be one to eat right away.
Speaker 2: But I see you uncooked all day long, like I
Speaker 2: really don't want to eat. That's even cooking a regular
Speaker 2: fucking meals. So Thanksgiving like I'm waiting, y'all, I just be.
Speaker 1: Sitting there like a proud mama. You know how mama
Speaker 1: be when she watching her kids open up Christmas friends,
Speaker 1: That's how I be. When people be eating the food
Speaker 1: and they'd be like.
Speaker 2: Oh, who made the macaroni, like like last year, last year,
Speaker 2: so my mama be cooking with stress and last year
Speaker 2: I was like, let me make the macaroni. She couldn't
Speaker 2: just let me make the macaroni. She still went ahead
Speaker 2: and made her macaroni. And then it felt some type
Speaker 2: of way when my pan was going and her pan
Speaker 2: was still standing as stiff as it.
Speaker 1: Hey, mama, it's better than stiffa get cold that macaroni.
Speaker 2: Be stressful.
Speaker 1: It's said that macaroni is important. That's one of the
Speaker 1: most important dishes. You gotta make it right, and you
Speaker 1: play it up. Everybody is gonna be mad at you. Yes,
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving is not the time. And this is another unwritten
Speaker 1: rule that's probably not on this list.
Speaker 2: You got don't fuck with the new recipes on Thanksgiving.
Speaker 2: Don't This is not the time to be trying.
Speaker 1: No news.
Speaker 2: Yes, do the shit how it's supposed to be done.
Speaker 2: Stop putting all this heavy cream and everything. Tammy, I
Speaker 2: love him. Everything do not called for heavy done. Look
Speaker 2: at the calories and heavy cream. I watched these videos
Speaker 2: on TikTok on Instagram. It's like heavy cream is going
Speaker 2: in every meal now, boxtails and heavy cream, Like what
Speaker 2: are we doing.
Speaker 1: No, that's wold, but I better make the gravy nice
Speaker 1: to think.
Speaker 2: What are y'all doing with the heavy cream?
Speaker 1: Good? I put it in a lot of things. My grits,
Speaker 1: I put it in.
Speaker 2: I used coconut cream in my grits and it's so good.
Speaker 2: I've never tried with all my creamy. But the heavy
Speaker 2: cream just make them like there's some sour cream a
Speaker 2: little bit. No, that's too much.
Speaker 1: And my macaroni and cheese too. I put them both
Speaker 1: in there. Yeah, you running out. I'm running in to
Speaker 1: the house to eat another bike.
Speaker 2: Okay, stomach running off? Like God, damn cheese and heavy cream?
Speaker 2: What's the next one?
Speaker 1: Stay out of grown folks business unless they ask for
Speaker 1: your opinion. I am grown.
Speaker 2: I don't like that, and I don't like doing that.
Speaker 2: The kids either stay in the kids place. I feel
Speaker 2: like our kids are the most overly sexualized. But then
Speaker 2: at the same time, you want them to be stay
Speaker 2: in the kids place, but everything else is a fucking goal.
Speaker 2: Kids have in mind, they should be able to engage
Speaker 2: in conversations with adults. You know what I'm saying. At
Speaker 2: what point I could not wait to get grown to
Speaker 2: cut adults out. Okay, it's a lot of shit. Been
Speaker 2: on my mind since I heard them conversations, since we
Speaker 2: was kids. I've been wanting to tell you about your
Speaker 2: goddamn self.
Speaker 1: No mind your business. Stay. I believe in a child
Speaker 1: should stay in their place. What is a child's place?
Speaker 2: Though?
Speaker 1: A child's place is to just absorb and learn from
Speaker 1: the environment around.
Speaker 2: So just shut the fuck up and learn. Yeah, a
Speaker 2: lot of times they be learning a lot of bad
Speaker 2: habits that adults do and anything. But because the adults,
Speaker 2: they can do it. But y'all doing childish shit.
Speaker 1: But you know what, you can also learn the things
Speaker 1: not to do by the adults around you. Like you
Speaker 1: can look at it and be like, Okay, I know,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be like Uncle Gerdy because he's drunk.
Speaker 1: He gotta eat his plate outside because he don't know
Speaker 1: how to act. Grandma won't let him in.
Speaker 2: The house, which is childish. Which is childish. And you're
Speaker 2: telling a child to stay in a child place while
Speaker 2: adults doing childish shit. Well, drinking, getting too drunk all
Speaker 2: a thing, Grandma.
Speaker 1: You sit outside and.
Speaker 2: We all of us are big kids, that's all we are.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I think we mature and grow some
Speaker 1: more than the child.
Speaker 2: Just staying in a child's face. I think that we
Speaker 2: can learn lot from kids. Kids are very honest.
Speaker 1: You know. We can't learn a lot. We can learn
Speaker 1: how to love better from children, that's for sure. But
Speaker 1: I do think there's some lessons that come along with
Speaker 1: life that children just don't have.
Speaker 2: And tell them about it early and stop telling them
Speaker 2: to mind the business. Some things ain't just four childs
Speaker 2: might like, give me an example or some shit. Kids
Speaker 2: should not be around to hear about your sex life.
Speaker 2: Oh absolutely, That's why y'all talk about sex on Thanksgiving
Speaker 2: and the kids can't be around for it. Why y'all
Speaker 2: talk about anything.
Speaker 1: Now? You know how I go with a family get together.
Speaker 1: You're fucking on that full stomach, right, That's something that
Speaker 1: a child should not just be privy to and you
Speaker 1: should stay out of the conversation.
Speaker 2: Did you on social media? This is a birthday party
Speaker 2: and these these kids with guns and money and there's
Speaker 2: three grown four grown men behind them.
Speaker 1: No, I did not do.
Speaker 2: The internet roar about it, you know, because they always
Speaker 2: like the point to women and show how we fel
Speaker 2: in the community, you know, But women are out here killing.
Speaker 1: No, we're not killing each other, but like the men are.
Speaker 2: It's terrible, Like what are y'all doing? Yeah, it's the
Speaker 2: kids birthday party and they up there with the guns
Speaker 2: and the money. Eight seven six year olds kids babies.
Speaker 1: But now here's the thing. I don't think there's anything
Speaker 1: wrong with teaching your kids how to use guns, but
Speaker 1: you have to teach the responsibility with guns. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: doing all this things like I could probably the studio
Speaker 1: is not right. But if you want to teach your
Speaker 1: child how to properly use a fire arm, I don't
Speaker 1: see nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 2: Absolutely not. Yeah, that's not what they was doing. Yeah,
Speaker 2: they were being niggas.
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I'm not here for them because there's a.
Speaker 2: Difference between black people and niggas. And those were some
Speaker 2: niggas in that video doing some nigga shit with.
Speaker 1: Them nigga kids.
Speaker 2: Who that's me? Yeah it is not me, and their
Speaker 2: kids is being raised by niggas. Niggas be procreating way
Speaker 2: faster than black people thought. We got to get ahead
Speaker 2: of the shit.
Speaker 1: What goodness and then the last one your leftovers are
Speaker 1: good until Christmas?
Speaker 2: What that's what? That last fun that's what Alis said, Now,
Speaker 2: if you freeze them greens, yeah, and freeze piece of
Speaker 2: that turkey.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Now I remember turkey sandwiches and ham sandwiches. I mean
Speaker 2: we was eating that ship for seven days after Thanksgiving
Speaker 2: for real. Honestly, my mom be down, bail a whole
Speaker 2: turkey caucus and make gravy and rice.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, but like I have just cried, Crystal love
Speaker 1: her to death. That's one of my oldest clients. I
Speaker 1: love her. I came to do her hair. I came
Speaker 1: to her house.
Speaker 2: It was like at least eight days after Thanksgiving, and
Speaker 2: she was offering.
Speaker 1: Me stuffing it candy, years and turkey. I was like, bitch,
Speaker 1: you work on that be poisoned by this shit. You're
Speaker 1: going to die that shit out. She's like, it's still good.
Speaker 1: You cannot eat it. I say, after nowadgrigerator, I say,
Speaker 1: after four days, you need to throw that shit away.
Speaker 2: Absolutely meat, poultry and you dripping. If you still got
Speaker 2: a turkey after four and five days.
Speaker 1: Right, that turkey would ain't broady that good? Or you
Speaker 1: know it could be big. Y'all could have different types,
Speaker 1: because I know people who have different like, oh, it's
Speaker 1: the fried turkey. It's a smoke turkey, you know, throw
Speaker 1: that shit away after four days you don't need if
Speaker 1: it's not frozen, throw it out.
Speaker 2: So you would take some thought out Thanksgiving?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I will. I will eat some thought out Thanksgiving, y'all. Nasty.
Speaker 1: I will. If it's frozen, it's good. But if it's
Speaker 1: if you just had it in refrigerator tomorrow, eat this
Speaker 1: mac and cheese. First of all, If your mac and
Speaker 1: cheese lasted that long, it wasn't good. That pas should
Speaker 1: be empty, exactly, it wasn't good. All right, that's the
Speaker 1: list of a rent role. Now let's just get into
Speaker 1: our family traditions.
Speaker 2: What's my family traditions for Thanksgiving? Like I said, we
Speaker 2: take all day long to eat. Usually my mom starts
Speaker 2: cooking all the food the day before, the pies first, probably,
Speaker 2: and we still don't eat until eight o'clock Thanksgiving.
Speaker 1: Like matter what, we still don't eat.
Speaker 2: I don't. And it's always just our little immediate family. Yeah,
Speaker 2: my sister's day, kids and husband. Whatever nigga I might
Speaker 2: bring for the year, that's usually what it is.
Speaker 1: Are you gonna bring a nigga this year?
Speaker 2: You know? I keep a nigga with me, okay to
Speaker 2: bring this yes a new own nigga.
Speaker 1: Oh, I know.
Speaker 2: I've got a nigga.
Speaker 1: I carry it off. I cannot keep up green. Last year,
Speaker 1: my niece said something to me last year, if y'all
Speaker 1: were tuning in, and I brought it up, and it
Speaker 1: really hurt my pillows because I was trying to encourage
Speaker 1: her to come in the kitchen and learn how to cook.
Speaker 1: And I was like, how you gonna have a man
Speaker 1: if you can't learn how to cook my knee, you
Speaker 1: ain't gonna.
Speaker 2: Know how to make him no things? Giving me us
Speaker 2: like you know how to make a Thanksgiving million? You
Speaker 2: ain't got no bad stem y'all whitey.
Speaker 1: I had to grab my little glass of champagne and
Speaker 1: take a walk down the street where she said, hey,
Speaker 1: called me, called.
Speaker 2: Me from down the street while she's sipping up emosa
Speaker 2: right right side of stressed on the floor because her
Speaker 2: uh niece, who's supposed to stay the child place, give
Speaker 2: your eyes some fucking mirror right quick.
Speaker 1: And I did not like it. I w wasn't the
Speaker 1: double backslap for ass?
Speaker 2: I really did, like, I want your ask the truth?
Speaker 2: Girl cooking for these niggas don't keep them, but you
Speaker 2: still need to know. You needn't know how to take
Speaker 2: pey for your damn self and your partner.
Speaker 1: Nurseman is the woman's job, I.
Speaker 2: Feel like, absolutely always, So you are responsible for the
Speaker 2: nursement of your family women, Yes, your family fat.
Speaker 1: Is your fault, bitch. Sure, so you know she was right,
Speaker 1: but she was also wrong, So all right, you know she.
Speaker 2: Was not wrong. She was right.
Speaker 1: She was wrong as fun, and we're gonna move on, Harry,
Speaker 1: I didn't say, I didn't say. I did say, how
Speaker 1: you're gonna keep a man and you don't know how
Speaker 1: to cook? So okay, she's writing that that knowing how
Speaker 1: to cook does not keep a man right. But it's
Speaker 1: important to know how to cook if you have.
Speaker 2: A family, right.
Speaker 1: So that's where I'm writing it, And we ain't gonna
Speaker 1: stay a motherfucking thing else about it now. So when
Speaker 1: I was a kid, we don't do it as much anymore.
Speaker 1: But when I was little, we will always get up
Speaker 1: and watch the mats He's Day Parade on television. For never.
Speaker 1: You never did that.
Speaker 2: I've watched it, but it wasn't like a thing. It
Speaker 2: wasn't like I always did that but you see, my
Speaker 2: mama grew up in New Jersey and as a child
Speaker 2: she would actually go to it.
Speaker 1: So it was a thing for us to just get
Speaker 1: up and watch it and watch all them big ass
Speaker 1: floats and things like that. I think last year Benedett
Speaker 1: College was actually in.
Speaker 2: The mad watched that last year.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so they shout out to Bennedicte bc BC.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: This one says, break out the family photos and go
Speaker 1: through like a member of the family.
Speaker 2: I guess occasionally do that annually because you know, when
Speaker 2: you trying to, you know, figure yourself out, it's good
Speaker 2: to look at old memories, you know, old pictures of yourself,
Speaker 2: old pictures of your family.
Speaker 1: I don't even think they get your back photo albums anymore,
Speaker 1: Like we're real photos in it. Like my grandmother, God
Speaker 1: rest her soul, she just kept all that. We got
Speaker 1: pictures from the eighteen hundreds, you know, like really really old.
Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, we got I got a.
Speaker 1: Deed from like the early eighteen hundreds, from the land
Speaker 1: that belongs to my mom and it's past. It has
Speaker 1: like the slight lineage. Yeah, owner's name to my great
Speaker 1: great great grandfather, you know, passing it on. I haven't really.
Speaker 2: Yeah wow, So yeah, that's a blessing y'all, because I
Speaker 2: feel like black people they don't give a damn about lineage.
Speaker 2: I remember telling my mom, I was going down to
Speaker 2: the State archives second, look up our family. You know
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like, because you have some of that
Speaker 2: stuff you can get off of ancestry dot com or
Speaker 2: I think it's familiesfamily dot org or something like that,
Speaker 2: they have some things, but some things they intentionally keep
Speaker 2: from you. So you got to actually go to deeds
Speaker 2: and records and look your family up. And she was like,
Speaker 2: why you don't understand how important family is?
Speaker 1: Right, very very very important?
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, and knowing where you come from that might
Speaker 2: be something people need to start doing with like Thanksgiving week,
Speaker 2: go figure out who the fuck y'all are.
Speaker 1: Right, so you can know a little bit about why
Speaker 1: you aren't.
Speaker 2: We and you might realize you shouldn't be celebrating Thanksgiving.
Speaker 2: God damn it right because he was who they was
Speaker 2: putting on the tape.
Speaker 1: Another one that I think a lot of black fam
Speaker 1: I think most families, not just Black families do this
Speaker 1: is go around the table and say what they're thankful
Speaker 1: for before the meal. Do y'all do that?
Speaker 2: No, but that that should be a good practice. Maybe
Speaker 2: I'll implement that this year.
Speaker 1: Where you go to Thanksgiving, definitely do it. I make
Speaker 1: sure my family does it every time and talk about
Speaker 1: what we thankful for. Some people say funny shit and
Speaker 1: then some people get real thoughtful and sometimes it even
Speaker 1: gets emotional. So it's a good practice of all y'all
Speaker 1: listening to this on Thanksgiving, you know, to have your
Speaker 1: family do it together today celebrate friends Giving. I think
Speaker 1: that's a new tradition that's come along in the past.
Speaker 2: What decade, I've attended one Friendsgiving and it was my friend,
Speaker 2: my only white friend. You know, everybody, I got a
Speaker 2: black friend, my one white friend. I attended Friendsgiving with
Speaker 2: a bunch of other white people. I was only black girl.
Speaker 2: Actually it was one other black girl. Y'all. You want
Speaker 2: to tell you what these bitches did to me on Friendsgiving?
Speaker 2: They ate my fucking food. I brought food down with
Speaker 2: me to Friendsgiving weekend. We all stayed at my homegirl's
Speaker 2: house and she had this whole thing a lot. It
Speaker 2: was really nice because you know, Chosen is one of
Speaker 2: the most historic cities in America, right and it's a
Speaker 2: big tourist place. The people who lived there oftentimes we
Speaker 2: don't appreciate like Charleston, right, So we actually tour Charleston
Speaker 2: as tourists as as opposed to residents. And the people
Speaker 2: she had like came out, you know, from out of town.
Speaker 2: Somebody came from Vegas, like, so she wanted to show
Speaker 2: them around. So that's what we did. Anyway, it was
Speaker 2: these fucking bitches. One of them drove a pickup truck.
Speaker 2: She ate my goddamn Chinese food. I put my food
Speaker 2: in the oven and went and took a shower. When
Speaker 2: I came downstairs out to shower, my food was on
Speaker 2: the counter, picked over pieces of shrimp. Ate. I spent
Speaker 2: thirty dollars on this Chinese. I don't eat cheap Chinese food.
Speaker 2: Your friends Giving meal was no, no, no. This is
Speaker 2: the weekend of This is the friends Given weekend. So
Speaker 2: this is like the first night I'm just meeting y'all bitches,
Speaker 2: and night one. Oh yes, I told my friend, I said,
Speaker 2: listen when we were on a boat ride the next day,
Speaker 2: I'm pissed the whole day about my food from the
Speaker 2: night before, I said, listen, when we get back to
Speaker 2: the house. Can you run back the cameras and your
Speaker 2: house so you could see who ate my food? And
Speaker 2: he'll go to bitch next to me, I think I
Speaker 2: might have you. You both take warming food that's warming
Speaker 2: up in the oven out the oven and eat it
Speaker 2: and ate somebody shit, that's wow. You didn't put that there.
Speaker 2: You didn't purchase that. I couldn't believe it happened. And
Speaker 2: then the same bitch planted a shirt of hers in
Speaker 2: my luggage and then asked my friends to ask me
Speaker 2: about the shirt.
Speaker 1: What was her deal?
Speaker 2: She go, they didn't fucking like me?
Speaker 1: Why because she was black?
Speaker 2: That's what That's how I feel, because what the fuck?
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I don't want your funk exactly.
Speaker 2: And listen at the dinner after, you know, she admitted
Speaker 2: to eating my food right without the cameras having to
Speaker 2: be ran back. But at friends giving dinner, I said, listen,
Speaker 2: I don't know how y'all do, but black people do
Speaker 2: not like people touching their food. Okay, period, Add fucking
Speaker 2: friends giving people do die by eating about eating somebody
Speaker 2: else's food. White people like to put their hands in food,
Speaker 2: Like if you have a buffet of food set out
Speaker 2: they'll instead of using the tongs or whatever to picture
Speaker 2: it up, they putting their hands in it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's weird.
Speaker 2: Why not I know some white people who don't do that,
Speaker 2: but I know some white people could do this.
Speaker 1: Yes, I also know something to eat boogers, like stop
Speaker 1: touching the food. That's so funny you mentioned bookers y'all. Today,
Speaker 1: I like, I left my house and I was like,
Speaker 1: I fell half asleep. You know how sometimes your face,
Speaker 1: even though you wash your faces, still look like you
Speaker 1: just woke up. I went down a Starbucks that's below
Speaker 1: my building, and this white man said, you have a
Speaker 1: beautiful smile. Because I was looking at Sprowling on my phone.
Speaker 1: I was like, thank you. Go into Starbucks. This black
Speaker 1: man comes up and asks me for my phone number,
Speaker 1: and then the barista gave me a free dessert. I
Speaker 1: paid for my drink, but he gave me like a
Speaker 1: free little He was like, oh, this is about to
Speaker 1: be over. You gotta try it, like just be it
Speaker 1: so nice to me. I was like, damn, I feel
Speaker 1: like men are so nice when I feel ugly. And
Speaker 1: I made a post about it, like off of my
Speaker 1: close friends, and I had a whole booger and my number.
Speaker 2: I was like, I got a whole booger hanging out
Speaker 2: my nose, and I'm getting all this attention when I'm
Speaker 2: glabbed up.
Speaker 1: It's quiet. That's crazy.
Speaker 2: This goes to the thing where I say men like
Speaker 2: safe women. You know what I'm saying. They like the
Speaker 2: dress down because it's less of a threat. Nobody else
Speaker 2: wants you but me girl, right with this whole booger
Speaker 2: hanging out you enough?
Speaker 1: Can I get your number? It was like one of
Speaker 1: those breathing ones. I'm like that out, Sure you can
Speaker 1: get my number. A booker blowing in and out. We
Speaker 1: should go outside looking.
Speaker 2: Real homely with boogers to see how many niggas we get.
Speaker 1: And they go out and get dressed up. It's just
Speaker 1: crazy quiet. Back to the topic. So this one is
Speaker 1: like ready to rumble. It's calling it ready to rumble,
Speaker 1: like having a football game, like where families play. The
Speaker 1: guys go out and play football before Thanksgiving dinner.
Speaker 2: Oh the racist ass men running out of the street
Speaker 2: pulling hamstrings and shit, Oh, I race.
Speaker 1: I race every year every single year. I'm smoking somebody
Speaker 1: who won it? Why are you so excited? Because that
Speaker 1: shit ain't have me lit because everybody think I'll slow
Speaker 1: because I got these big old buzzs. Them buzzs be
Speaker 1: moving down the street, and I be bare for it.
Speaker 1: I'm country, I'm taking my shoes off and I'm smoking
Speaker 1: everybody who won.
Speaker 2: I feel like you cheating. I feel like them at
Speaker 2: your ass being flated.
Speaker 1: Be like air, like a hot air balloon, and be
Speaker 1: pushing you down the street.
Speaker 2: Because bitch, I seen that video. It them legs be going.
Speaker 1: I'll be gone. Everybody cheating, let us go again? Know
Speaker 1: the fuck I ain't. That's the chucky doll running out
Speaker 1: of the street.
Speaker 2: Girl beat it.
Speaker 1: Oh goodness, and like a ten on the list, giving
Speaker 1: back Like black people, we do participate in like food drives,
Speaker 1: kid goods.
Speaker 2: You always hear about how giveaways, her giveaways, even the
Speaker 2: neighborhood drug dealer giving our Turkey's allway you the community.
Speaker 1: I think that's a huge we do. I don't know
Speaker 1: if that goes on in other communities as much. I
Speaker 1: can't speak to that. I oh bad to friends giving though.
Speaker 1: Last year I got invited to a friends giving hosted
Speaker 1: by a white girl. Honestly, and this year they had
Speaker 1: it this other day and I didn't get an invitation.
Speaker 1: Now I'm just wondering why. So if you listen to
Speaker 1: the show, wondering why I wasn't invited because y'all short
Speaker 1: toured my macaroni teased last year, I felt away.
Speaker 2: Also didn't invite you to friendsgiving This year. You saw
Speaker 2: the invitations go out.
Speaker 1: I didn't see no. I saw. I saw everybody having
Speaker 1: fun at the friends giving all my story? Ray, why
Speaker 1: was I Why was I excluded?
Speaker 2: Shamee? Was there other black people there last year?
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a very diverse group and Hispanic Asian, black white.
Speaker 1: It was very diverse group that I was just excluded from.
Speaker 1: So there's that. It's okay because I'm gonna have a
Speaker 1: Division Poort party in January, and I don't know who's
Speaker 1: making the cut.
Speaker 2: Bitch, you can't make the list.
Speaker 1: Now, it's cool. I you know you don't. You don't
Speaker 1: have to be invited to everything, right, Yeah, I'm okay
Speaker 1: with that shit.
Speaker 2: A vision board party, that's good. That's you gonna do
Speaker 2: that in January.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna be fun. I'm gonna get some drinks, cocktails.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna curate some cute cocktails to go with Vision
Speaker 1: and we're gonna I'm gonna buy a bunch of cardboards
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna ask everybody like bring one magazine. That
Speaker 1: way we can have a lot to cut from. And
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it upstairs in the clubhouse.
Speaker 2: Nice, I'm here all right. This year, I'm actually gonna
Speaker 2: execute Yeah, I'm still executing it. Look, I've been walking
Speaker 2: around with that saying Vision board on my goddamn cell
Speaker 2: phone since two years ago. Now, right, do you feel
Speaker 2: like you've knocked some things off of it? You still
Speaker 2: got Jonathan Majors. No, I replaced that nigga. Yeah, you
Speaker 2: canna I replace that guy who got it? I think
Speaker 2: I just got a black man on it now. Actually
Speaker 2: I replaced them with a kid. He was right there.
Speaker 2: I want like a black ass little click here with
Speaker 2: blood hair. It's like like what I'm trying to manifest.
Speaker 1: That's not word at all. Y'all. Happy Thanksgiving to y'all.
Speaker 1: Let's just share what we're grateful for before we go.
Speaker 2: Ooh, it is twenty twenty three, and I am grateful
Speaker 2: for my health, my edges, my family. I am grateful
Speaker 2: for a sound mine. Still, I'm grateful for Tamila bowing
Speaker 2: youm my co host and drama.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 2: I'm just grateful to stobe breathing shit. You know what
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Every day you can get up and make
Speaker 2: a difference. Even if you have those goals you know
Speaker 2: you want to meet or that vision board, you have
Speaker 2: a new start every day. Absolutely, you don't have to
Speaker 2: wait to the new year. You don't have to wait
Speaker 2: to Thanksgiving. Every single day you can make a difference.
Speaker 2: And that's what I'm grateful for.
Speaker 1: And man, that was good. You stole all of mine.
Speaker 1: Let me think what am I grateful for. I'm grateful
Speaker 1: for the breath and my lungs every day. I'm grateful
Speaker 1: that my MS is and remission. I'm grateful to still
Speaker 1: have my mom and dad health and my sisters. I'm
Speaker 1: grateful for this podcast, my co host. I'm grateful that
Speaker 1: I have a skill that sustains my livelihood and I
Speaker 1: don't have to answer to nobody or suck dick about it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I thank you, even though I enjoyed that at times.
Speaker 2: But you don't got to do it. I don't have
Speaker 2: to do it for a living. Ain't being somebody saying me?
Speaker 2: And if you're listening.
Speaker 1: And I'm also grateful for the growth that I've experienced
Speaker 1: over this past year as a woman. You know, Yep,
Speaker 1: there's a.
Speaker 2: Lot of things that I just wouldn't acknowledge in twenty
Speaker 2: twenty two that I was forced to acknowledge.
Speaker 1: I was forced to look at myself in a real
Speaker 1: way this year, and I'm grateful for that growth. So
Speaker 1: I think that's about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to add I'm also definitely grateful for
Speaker 2: my parents. A lot of people didn't make it the
Speaker 2: last few years, especially with COVID and all that. A
Speaker 2: lot of people parents didn't make it. I'm so grateful
Speaker 2: to still have my two parents around there being this
Speaker 2: as cookie as they fucking want to be. Even my stepdad,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. He has a lot of
Speaker 2: health issues and he's still kicking it, still kicking it
Speaker 2: for them.
Speaker 1: So y'all, y'all practice gratitude today and share with your
Speaker 1: family what you're grateful for around the table. We love y'all.
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, thank you guys for coming out. I bless
Speaker 2: you can nay eat that motherfucking turkey, dry ass turkey.
Speaker 2: I might use some turkey in another country, not the
Speaker 2: United States though. Anyway, y'all, if you enjoy this episode,
Speaker 2: this Turkey Day episode, tune in every Thursday on your
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Speaker 2: this is your co host, AJ Holiday two point On Instagram,
Speaker 2: kick It.
Speaker 1: Tam y'all's official Tam brend I really do love y'all.
Speaker 2: Remember speak now and never hold your meat. Deuce bye baby,