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Speaker 1: All right, This is from Latricia on Steve Harvey FM.

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Speaker 2: Steve.

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Speaker 1: She says, my son barely speaks to me these days,

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Speaker 1: so as a result, I almost never get to see

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Speaker 1: my granddaughter. It feels so unfair. Whatever issues he has

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Speaker 1: with me shouldn't mean I should be kept from my grandchild. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't always around when he was growing up, but

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Speaker 1: I worked hard and provided for him, and he's never

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Speaker 1: appreciated everything I did to sacrifice for him. Now he

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Speaker 1: acts like I was never really there for him. And

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Speaker 1: my punishment is that I don't get to be in

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Speaker 1: his daughter's life. Now. I've always wanted to be that

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Speaker 1: doting grandmother and now I'm being shut out. How am

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Speaker 1: I supposed to handle this? What can I do? Wow?

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Speaker 2: Well, I can't tell you how to handle that because

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Speaker 2: you're his mother. I've never been a mother. You're a grandmother.

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Speaker 2: I've never been a grandmother. So for me to act

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Speaker 2: like I know what you feel and I don't. All

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Speaker 2: I know is you and him have to have a

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Speaker 2: city down and this young man has to grow up. See.

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Speaker 2: You know the problem with hanging on to the past.

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Speaker 2: The past hangs on to you too. So now you

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Speaker 2: can't have a future with your mother, and your baby

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Speaker 2: can't have a future with her grandmama because you still

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Speaker 2: mad about the past. Bro at one point in time,

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Speaker 2: for the good of all involved, especially yourself and your family,

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Speaker 2: you got to let it go. You got to let

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Speaker 2: it go because always remember this. Anything you won't let

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Speaker 2: go of won't let go of you either.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we do that.

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Speaker 2: How y'all like the way I'm starting to edit myself later.

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Speaker 2: It's great, but I don't like it because I really

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Speaker 2: want to know what it's crazy.

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Speaker 1: You finished saying it.

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Speaker 2: Was a junior. I just edited when junior speaking at

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Speaker 2: the U in North Carolina at the I'm just saying,

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Speaker 2: I just said, she did let me do this. I

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Speaker 2: edited myself from saying what I was thinking because he's

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Speaker 2: speaking of sick of Sale convention. He to keep no speaking.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I just have an idea that would really no.

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Speaker 2: Natural point across. I hope people will be giving if

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Speaker 2: they saw it across. No, some people have never seen

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Speaker 2: it though.

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Speaker 1: All right, don't moving on. We have time for We

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Speaker 1: have time for another one. This is from TJ on

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM. TJ says, it's not like I'm new

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Speaker 1: to the dating game, but does something change when you

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Speaker 1: hit thirty. About two months ago, I started dating a

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Speaker 1: girl I met at a work function, and we've really

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Speaker 1: hit it off. In fact, we've just made the whole

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Speaker 1: boyfriend girlfriend thing official. There is a downside though, Apparently

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Speaker 1: being called my girlfriend also entitled her to a key

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Speaker 1: to my place, and I'm not feeling that just right now.

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Speaker 1: And when I said that I wasn't comfortable with it,

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Speaker 1: things turned into a what are you hiding from me? Inquisition?

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Speaker 1: Is this normal?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, dog, you're thirty. You know how long

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Speaker 2: it's been thirty eight years since I've been thirty. I

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Speaker 2: was thirty. I didn't have a key to nothing thirty, man,

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Speaker 2: I'd have gladly gave somebody a key. Anybody had gave

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Speaker 2: me a key. But bro, listen to me, man, when

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Speaker 2: y'all made it official, yeah, what y'all don't live together?

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Speaker 2: What you're hiding from it? That's a fair question, bro.

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Speaker 2: If you don't want to give a key, don't give

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Speaker 2: a key. Personally, I'll give a key, but I just

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Speaker 2: want I just won't get the right one made.

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Speaker 1: Oh my bad, Let me get another one, O my bad?

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Speaker 2: Maybe maybe that I tried to get you a copy made.

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Speaker 2: Maybe they didn't do it right. Yeah, about threefold turn.

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Speaker 1: I'll give you a key.

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Speaker 2: I'm moving, I'm not giving You can't just open the

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Speaker 2: door on me. We ain't that ain't We often be surprised.

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Speaker 1: What are you hiding from me? That's what she wants

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Speaker 1: to know.

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Speaker 2: The truth.

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Speaker 1: Said that exactly exactly. You're listening to the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show