1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: All right, ready, y'all ready, ready scrubbing in with Tilly 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 1: and Tanya rep An iHeartRadio podcast. 3 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. 4 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: Yes we are. We made it. 5 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:22,239 Speaker 2: It's Monday, after the Grammys, after the rainstorm we have. 6 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:26,240 Speaker 2: We have a torrential rainstorm in Los Angeles right now 7 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 2: until the California. 8 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I do feel as Californians we 9 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:35,160 Speaker 1: are not equipped for these things because last night, first 10 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 1: of all, Sunny is so constipated. She hasn't gone though 11 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 1: she will not go in the rain. She's barely peeing, 12 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 1: which is like, I'm so sad. I'm like, I just 13 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 1: feel like it's a uti waiting to happen. But we 14 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 1: had leaves covering like our drains in the backyard, and 15 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: so it like our bottom floods almost flooded our inside 16 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: our house because it was getting so backed up. I 17 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 1: was like, we got to move this. We didn't realize 18 00:00:58,280 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: that leaves were blocking all the drains. 19 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:01,959 Speaker 2: How would you know, I don't know. 20 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 1: So Robbie came in quick, swiftly with the broom and 21 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 1: we're good to go. 22 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of people give us a 23 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 2: hard time when we get bad weather. But the thing 24 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 2: is is that it's not that the rain is horb 25 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 2: I mean, it's not like, oh, we can't handle rain. 26 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:21,759 Speaker 2: It's that we are infrastructure is not built to handle 27 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 2: this nount rain. So it's more like our roads get flooded. 28 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 2: It's not safe in that regard. It's hard to drive, Like, 29 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 2: it's not really oh we're scared of the rain. We 30 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:32,960 Speaker 2: can't handle a little drizzle here and there. It's just 31 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 2: it's we're not built for it, yeah, correct, Or like 32 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 2: it's like it's like a bodybuilder. 33 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: Eating a sour gummy? Was that what you were going for? 34 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 2: No, let's see what Okay, well I was thinking, but 35 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 2: that through me. It's like a body It's like someone 36 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 2: who's never trained for a bodybuilding competition going into a 37 00:01:56,280 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 2: bodybuilding competition, but they're not ready for it. Right. They 38 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 2: have all the tools, but they're not ready for it. Right. 39 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: It's like giving birth without public floor physical theory. 40 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 2: We I think a lot of people do that. Yeah, 41 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 2: but you should. Actually it'd probably be better. 42 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:13,639 Speaker 1: That's what they say. They're like, giving birth is like 43 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: running a marathon. Would you ever run a marathon without training? 44 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: And I was like, no, They're like, that's what happens, 45 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: Like women go into birth without, you know, doing all 46 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: these like getting your body ready again. I have no 47 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 1: idea how that works, but one day I will. Yeah, 48 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: but yeah, I'll never forget that analogy. 49 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 2: I think that it's different for everybody. But I imagine 50 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 2: if I'm like vomiting and nauseous the whole pregnancy, I'm 51 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 2: not worried about doing puvic floor exercises personally. 52 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 1: I don't know how when it comes into play. I 53 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 1: think it's like more towards the end. 54 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:45,639 Speaker 2: Of your pregnacy, seems like I'm not going to want 55 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 2: to do anything at that point. 56 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: I don't know. We'll see. 57 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 2: I think you're prepping. You're prepped, like you've done it. 58 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 1: Thank you so much, thank you. 59 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 2: No one's more ready for pregnancy than Tanya. 60 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: Yeah that's for I don't know about that. 61 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 2: Okay. So the Grammys were last night, so many thoughts. 62 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 2: First of all, I thought it to be a very 63 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:07,360 Speaker 2: entertaining show. 64 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:09,359 Speaker 3: I think that's the general consensus, and I agree. 65 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 1: I was so pleasantly surprised, like I was weirdly giddy 66 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: about the Grammys. 67 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 2: I'm true, and I don't care ever, I used. 68 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 1: To care so much, and then I feel like there 69 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: was like an EBB in the Grammys were just kind 70 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: of like Rent Want Worm. It was kind of like 71 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: rentre And then that last night I was like giddy 72 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 1: just to watch them again. 73 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 2: I was very excited to watch them. I haven't watched 74 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 2: I haven't actually sat down and watched them. I always 75 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 2: just see the highlights and like what people are talking about. 76 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 2: And I sat and watched the whole show, and my 77 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 2: only thing is it could be a little shorter personally. 78 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 1: But I know, I agree one hour shorter. 79 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 2: I agree coming for me, that's a that's a statement. 80 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I guess, let's get it together two and 81 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 1: a half hours. 82 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 2: But what is it. I think it's like they could 83 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 2: limit the performances because I think it's I like to 84 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 2: see the awards because I think people deserve to have 85 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 2: that credit and it be shown. 86 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think some of the performances could have been 87 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: a little scaled back. 88 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 3: I appreciate that they let people talk, you know, that 89 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 3: was the main one of the main complaints about the 90 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 3: Ammys was that people talk for thirty seconds and then 91 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 3: they were getting yelled at. Were this They actually let 92 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 3: people talk. 93 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, it foel like anybody got cut off. 94 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 3: No, it didn't seem like it. But also the in 95 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 3: Memoriam in the Middle, I think there was about a 96 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 3: half an hour that one. 97 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 2: That was a long one, and I respect respect it 98 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 2: was really good. 99 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 3: The Tina Turner's that was really good. 100 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,839 Speaker 1: It was just it was a long time, a long 101 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: long time. I could have gone Love Island UK in 102 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 1: the middle, I was like, oh wow, what's going on 103 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 1: over here with my over the Pond? 104 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I checked out for that, but I was very 105 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:36,679 Speaker 2: into the Tina Turner Tribua. 106 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 3: Yeah. 107 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 2: I did like that too, So yeah, that was my 108 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:43,160 Speaker 2: only thing. But who were your favorite? Where do we start? 109 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: So I just want to say that they're presenters. They 110 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: had the icons out and to me, they've never had 111 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 1: presenters like they did last night, bringing out Mariah Carey, 112 00:04:55,160 --> 00:05:00,080 Speaker 1: Celine Dion, Christina Aguilera, like Lionel Richie. They had the 113 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 1: legends up there in the music space and I loved that. 114 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 2: I did too, because I felt the red carpet was lacking. 115 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 1: Yes, star like, I was like where people it was. 116 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:14,599 Speaker 2: Like influencers and people that I was like, where where 117 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 2: are you going to street out? Where are they? 118 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 1: Where are they? 119 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 2: So? Yeah, I was like really excited once the show 120 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 2: started that they that it was heavy hitters that presented, 121 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:29,279 Speaker 2: And did y'all feel like Trevor Noah was stalling at 122 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 2: the beginning when he was going table to table and 123 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 2: they were waiting for Taylor Swift to walk in. 124 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: Yes, because he had a whole joke about her in 125 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: his monologue she ain't here, this is gonna fall flat. 126 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:40,039 Speaker 2: So he was just kind of like, I feel like 127 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 2: rip jumping. 128 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 1: I did like the way they set up the tables 129 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: this year. I thought that was like a cool different touch. 130 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: It felt more intimate and fun. 131 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 3: I thought Trevor was great. Yeah, complains about Trevor Noah 132 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 3: and usually everyone's complaining about the host. 133 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 1: For some reason, I saw like, actually a really interesting 134 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 1: meme that was that said, this is how you do it. 135 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: You can still have a funny on a log without 136 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:03,040 Speaker 1: treating people like garbage. 137 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 2: That something. He had jokes in there, but they weren't 138 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 2: to hurt anyone's feelings. They were seem to enjoy his jokes. 139 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 1: They're pretty funny. I giggled a little. I mean it 140 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 1: could have been a little funnier. 141 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 2: But you smiled a few times. 142 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:18,720 Speaker 1: Terry Crews one got me. 143 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 2: So it starts out, uh, And did Mailey win the 144 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 2: first award? 145 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? She did? 146 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:29,720 Speaker 2: That was really cool. 147 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 1: It was I didn't realize she never want a Grammy. 148 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 2: I didn't either, girl. 149 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 1: She to me looked and felt just like she was 150 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:39,799 Speaker 1: the vibe of the Grammys having fun, looking good. 151 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 3: I really like Miley Cyrus and I was very happy 152 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 3: for her. But Flowers was not Record of the Year. 153 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 3: I mean, come on, what are we doing? 154 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: Well? Barbie was? What Was I Made For? 155 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 3: No? That was song of the Year? 156 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: So sorry, what was the record of the year Flowers? 157 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 3: And I'm saying that was wrong? That is inaction? 158 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 1: What do you think one? Either who do you think 159 00:06:58,760 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: she have won? 160 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 3: Either What Was I Made For? Or Vampire or even 161 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 3: kill Bill. We're bigger than Flowers by I. 162 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 1: Think Dualipa the Barbie song should have won something. 163 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 3: I don't think it was. 164 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:13,239 Speaker 1: That was a scam. 165 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 2: I feel. I felt so happy for Miley. I loved 166 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 2: every look she had, but I didn't love her hair. 167 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 2: But I know that that was fun like it was 168 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 2: like something that it was like part of the vibe. 169 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 2: It was like Gladiator vibes and not to just talk. 170 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 2: I know, it's like we don't talk about woman's bodies, 171 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 2: but she looks so incredible. I was like, she her body, 172 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 2: she is so strong. 173 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, she always looks good though. 174 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 2: She looks amazing. Yeah, and I love that. She was like, 175 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 2: why are y'all acting like k'll don't know the song? 176 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 3: Yeah? 177 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 2: The kid almost. 178 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: Felt live, you know what I mean, Like she's chatting, 179 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: she's like saying, I don't want to grab me. 180 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 181 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 1: I loved everything. 182 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 2: I felt very fun, exciting. 183 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then the Panta Taylor Swift and Kelsey Vallerini, 184 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: I was like, oh iconic. 185 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 2: I was a little surprised Kelsey didn't want anything. Was 186 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 2: she only nominated for country song? 187 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: I think so? Yeah, I was oppression of one that either, 188 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 1: but Landy Wilson that's had a huge year. Yeah yeah, yeah, Okay, 189 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: when are we gonna get to Taylor Swift? 190 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 2: I mean, I guess now the joke. 191 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 1: Is on us. 192 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 2: You I haven't. I mean I thought, but I wasn't 193 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 2: doing all the like speculating like numbers like the Hey 194 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 2: Babes that you were throwing out. 195 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: Oh my all day, I'm like, we're getting Reputation tonight. 196 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 1: I'm so excited. Reputation is actually Robbie's favorite Taylor album. 197 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 1: So I was like really excited about it. And I 198 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: was like showing him the black and white photo blah 199 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:36,320 Speaker 1: blah blah, and he was like, Reputation is not black 200 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 1: and white, like the whole date was questioning me, and 201 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay. So I kept throwing all the sacks out, 202 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 1: like today's two four, twenty four six, six, it's the 203 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 1: sixty six Grammys. The Reputation is the sixth album, Like, 204 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:50,080 Speaker 1: what's two four the date? Yesterday? The Grammys were on 205 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 1: two four? 206 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 2: What does that mean? Six? 207 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 1: And then twenty four of the year six? 208 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 2: But that's total? 209 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 1: Is it? 210 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 2: That would be? Oh? Gotcha? Okay, keep going. 211 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 1: Reputation is a sixth album. 212 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 2: Gotcha. 213 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: The black and white change. I was like, it's coming, 214 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: it's coming, it's coming. And I even thought her braid, 215 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:13,560 Speaker 1: the braid in her hair last night was like the snake. 216 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 1: It was like a snake wrapping around her. I was like, 217 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 1: it's coming, it's coming, she's wearing black and white. It's coming. 218 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,679 Speaker 1: She hit this with a brand new album, and Robbie 219 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: was like, I told you. 220 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 3: That did you see what was hidden in that error message, 221 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 3: you know fake error message she had in a website. Yeah, 222 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 3: three two one red herring? 223 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: What does that mean? 224 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 3: An anagram for red harring. It was an anagram for 225 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 3: red herring, and a red herring is something that you 226 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 3: used to throw someone off the trail. 227 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 1: I haven't looked up because it's in three two one. 228 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: I was like, it's coming March twenty first, that's the 229 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: day the Kanye and Taylor phone call leaked. That's when 230 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: all the like all the media posted about it. I 231 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:57,839 Speaker 1: was like, this is so genius. And it was all 232 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 1: a new album brand I was. 233 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 2: When she said my new album, I was like, for sure, Oh, 234 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 2: she's gonna say reputation like I never thought there was gonna. 235 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 3: Be freaking out of breaking out. 236 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 1: And then she posts the cover art and in sure 237 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 1: enough it's black and white. I was like, I feel 238 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 1: like a fool. She got you good, She got me good. 239 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 2: I was laughing because Crystal said she like, she's like 240 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 2: I never speculate on these Easter eggs and I was 241 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 2: involved in put like a clown face like the first 242 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 2: time I joined. 243 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I really felt like a clown. 244 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 2: Yesterday, She'll reputation is going to come out until next year. 245 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: Now I realized the pattern. Do you want to see 246 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 1: the pattern home? No? Great, here's the pattern. 247 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 3: By the way. While she's looking that up, my kids 248 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 3: were also freaking out about Olivia performing Vampire and Taylor 249 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 3: standing up and singing along. 250 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 2: But did she know the words or did she Tyler 251 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 2: seem to know the words? 252 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 3: I don't know. 253 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:53,560 Speaker 2: Are you sure it looked like she was. 254 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:55,439 Speaker 3: I just thought that is the way to do it, 255 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,680 Speaker 3: Like Taylor just knows how to do everything, because you 256 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:00,200 Speaker 3: know the camera is going to be on you if 257 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 3: everyone thinks the song is about you, So you just 258 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 3: stand up and you enjoy it, and you go olive 259 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 3: out and just diffuse everything. 260 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: Okay, here's the pattern. 261 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 2: Okay. 262 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:11,960 Speaker 1: Twenty twenty we got new music, we got folklore and evermore. 263 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 2: Okay. 264 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 1: Twenty twenty one, we got the Fearless Taylor's version and 265 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: Red Taylor's version I see the pattern to twenty twenty two, 266 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: we got new music, we got Midnights. Twenty twenty three 267 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 1: we got Speak Now Taylor's version of nineteen eighty nine 268 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 1: Taylor's version. So twenty twenty four we're gonna get new music. 269 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 1: Just this album and then next year we'll get reputation 270 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 1: Taylor's version, and then the debut album Taylor's version. 271 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 2: So unless the red herring is all year long, well, I. 272 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 1: Just she got me good. But let me tell you, 273 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 1: I'm excited about this album. 274 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 2: Me too. But did you see that there's like this 275 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 2: whole thing that Joe Allens in this like, uh, yes, 276 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 2: that's the whole thing. 277 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 1: It's called Tortured Tortured Men's Society. Yeah, and he has 278 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:56,839 Speaker 1: like a group chat with his friends or maybe one 279 00:11:56,880 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 1: friend called Tortured Man Society. So now this alb album 280 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:05,319 Speaker 1: is Tortured Poets Department Department. So it's obviously an album 281 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: about Joe Alwin. And did you look up the date April? 282 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 1: What's the April nineteenth? Yes, it's like the Revolutionary War 283 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 1: or something. 284 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 3: But she that April nineteenth was the Revolutionary Yeah. 285 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 1: I got it in a group chat somewhere home on. 286 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 2: She's got one second. But here's my thing, she said, 287 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 2: I've been keeping a secret for two years. Right, she's 288 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 2: going to bind Joe out here for they broke up 289 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 2: two years ago. I've thrown her, I've thrown her. 290 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 1: Off fact checker. 291 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 3: Maybe, but Midnights has come out since. 292 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, see, I think she I think she's toying with 293 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:44,959 Speaker 1: us with a two years thing. 294 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 2: Or maybe she already wrote these songs and they can 295 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 2: have whatever meaning they need to have. People are going 296 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 2: to speculate about every song she released. 297 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 1: Yes, okay, So April nineteenth, it's Joe over the American 298 00:12:56,679 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 1: Revolution begun in seventeen seventy five on that day. 299 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 3: What do you think that has anything to do with? Like, 300 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 3: I'm sure other things happened on that day in his. 301 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:09,959 Speaker 4: Way, an American striking back against a British person is 302 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:11,439 Speaker 4: the Taylor Swift's tea party. 303 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 2: I guess what was our what was our taniaism of 304 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 2: a reach last week? 305 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 1: That's a reach, reach, reach you guys. 306 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:25,319 Speaker 3: April nineteenth, the first episode of the Simpsons air to 307 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 3: nineteen eighty seven. Think about it. 308 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 1: Wow, that's nothing to do with Joe Owen war war 309 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 1: against Joe Olwen. 310 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 2: I don't think she cares that much. 311 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 1: Oh that's what you think, That's what you think, my dear. 312 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. Anyways, and then she had the clock one that 313 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 2: had the Midnight. That was a nice little treat. Yeah, 314 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 2: I was unsure about the hair with the outfit. I 315 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,440 Speaker 2: liked both, I think separately. I would love to see 316 00:13:57,480 --> 00:14:00,160 Speaker 2: her with just a middle part or like sleek, like 317 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:02,199 Speaker 2: an Alex, like how Alex ear Old did her hair 318 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 2: last night. Taylor with that would be like insane. 319 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. I was confused by the outfit myself, Like I 320 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 1: thought the dress was pretty, the gloves were cool, the 321 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:12,559 Speaker 1: shoes were fine, but all together it was like a 322 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 1: little man. 323 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 2: It makes sense though, the black and white aspect, because 324 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 2: I was like, this is so random. It was such 325 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 2: a random look until she. 326 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 1: Had her gloves with your shoes to me like, I 327 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 1: don't know. 328 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 2: It was. 329 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 1: Girls, please fashion police over here. She can do no 330 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 1: wrong in my opinion. 331 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 2: She did do some wrong in my opinion, oh, because 332 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 2: she won Album of the Year and she gets presented 333 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 2: by the icon. Before there was Taylor Swift in my life, 334 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 2: there was Celine Dion right. She was my childhood, my icon, 335 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 2: my hero, the voice. 336 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm with you. 337 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 2: She's been ill, no one's seen her. We're like, is 338 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 2: she okay? Are we gonna see her again? 339 00:14:56,320 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 3: Not even like ill, like that stiff person syndrome, something. 340 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 2: That people don't even know what it is. It sounds awful, 341 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 2: just concern and she comes out to present Album of 342 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 2: the Year to Taylor Swift. I was like, this is 343 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 2: so iconic Celene Deon presenting Taylor Swift. Taylor doesn't even 344 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 2: look her in the eye. 345 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 3: Okay, she could have been anybody on the planet. 346 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 1: Okay, but you guys. 347 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 3: She could have been an award was sitting Okay. 348 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 2: It's just so always like intentional with like how she 349 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 2: approaches people that anyone any other time, any other person, 350 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 2: I'd be like, Oh, she was frazzled. I was so 351 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 2: so frazzled. 352 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 1: She's winning, she's making history in this wine. Do you 353 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 1: know how the time she's. 354 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 3: Made history. 355 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: History and she was overwhelmed by emotion. She didn't realize 356 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 1: what she was doing. She I think she was so 357 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 1: excited to just get up there, you know, like we 358 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: don't know what that feels like. 359 00:15:57,080 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 2: No, we don't. We don't know what it feels like. 360 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 1: But it really is such a blur, like it's probably like. 361 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:04,360 Speaker 2: I gasped, and maybe that was just it was a 362 00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 2: moment where she wasn't like on and she was just like, WHOA, 363 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:11,320 Speaker 2: I just want she It felt awkward her dragging Lana 364 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 2: up because it felt like Lana didn't want to go, 365 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 2: so she may have been thrown off by doing that. 366 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, Lana was like, but she's hugging everybody on stage. 367 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 3: I kept waiting for her to get to Celine Dean 368 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 3: because they're gonna have a moment and she's gonna like, 369 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 3: you know, bow in front of her all this stuff, 370 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 3: and she's like takes the word out of her hands. 371 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:30,600 Speaker 1: I would have been like, I am not worthy, yes, 372 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 1: but that's me, Taylor. 373 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 2: Do you how Miley did with Maria Harry was like 374 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 2: that that feeling of like an icon handing you're an 375 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 2: icon and you're getting an icon from your icon. Yeah, 376 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 2: it was just very unlike Taylor. I think that's what 377 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 2: threw people off. 378 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I understand, but I I'm going to give give 379 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:49,520 Speaker 1: Taylor the back of the doubt. 380 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 2: Here's the thing. I'm a rider died Taylor. I love 381 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 2: Taylor forever. Everything she does is going to be criticized, 382 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 2: but I'm just saying it. I guessed. 383 00:16:57,920 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, that was not a good look. 384 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie it was not a good look. Thanks. 385 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:07,480 Speaker 2: And then she's like Lana del Rey like paved away 386 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:11,120 Speaker 2: for women to write music and I'm like, what about her? 387 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 3: I paid more respect to the Starbucks pickup box when 388 00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 3: I grabbed my coffee on the way. 389 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:21,640 Speaker 2: I do feel like she just got over. 390 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 3: Thank you. 391 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:28,159 Speaker 2: I think it was bad timing. I think someone yelled 392 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 2: something at her, like one of the people that went 393 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 2: up with her and huh like ack no, no no, 394 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 2: someone that was up on stage with her said something 395 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 2: to her right when she was getting this grabbing this statue. 396 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 2: And so it was just maybe bad timing. But there 397 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:45,880 Speaker 2: was a photo of them after, and I do appreciate tree. 398 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 3: Pain getting one that the business. 399 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, so it was nice to see her like hugging 400 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 2: Sling because it felt like she you know, she she 401 00:17:54,920 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 2: realized what she had done, what she hath done. Yeah, 402 00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:03,480 Speaker 2: but anyways, that was really cool. It's the link came out, 403 00:18:03,520 --> 00:18:04,120 Speaker 2: so good job. 404 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 1: If we could send one note to CBS, CBS, I 405 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:12,680 Speaker 1: love you. I am a Survivor fan. Yeah, I'm looking 406 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:15,240 Speaker 1: at the camera because it's serious. I am a Survivor 407 00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:17,160 Speaker 1: fan through and through. I will never turn my back 408 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 1: on you, CBS. But and I adored the Grammys, watching 409 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 1: on multiple televisions in my home. Please next year, maybe 410 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 1: just one hour shorter thirty minutes, thirty minutes. Yeah, yeah, 411 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:28,640 Speaker 1: Before we. 412 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 2: Move on from the Grammys, the best performance of the 413 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:33,479 Speaker 2: night was Tracy Chapman and Luke Combs. In my opinion, 414 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 2: that was the coolest thing that Tracy Chapman came out 415 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:37,880 Speaker 2: and started Fast. 416 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:39,720 Speaker 3: Car by Tracy Chapman. The original was number one on 417 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 3: iTunes to that. 418 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good one. 419 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:42,159 Speaker 2: You know. 420 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 1: I'm going to argue that as best performance because I 421 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:45,880 Speaker 1: think Dua Lipa really turned it out. 422 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 2: You're kidding, No, you're kidding, You're serious? Wow? Serious? Yeah, 423 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:54,800 Speaker 2: hot take, hot take. 424 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, did you see her came out with a new song, 425 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:02,719 Speaker 1: BAM on like a whatever Rubik's cube looking thing, BAM 426 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 1: with their ass, hanging out with her boyfriend from Rose Center. 427 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 1: BAM's great over that Houdini, BAM into what was the 428 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 1: last one the night, which is like the song of 429 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:17,800 Speaker 1: the year. That was a performance in my opinion. 430 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there's like the performance where it's like 431 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:23,439 Speaker 2: all the bells and whistles, the choreo, the stage set up, 432 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:26,399 Speaker 2: and then there's just like music, you know, where like 433 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 2: someone's on their guitar singing a classic song and it 434 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:31,399 Speaker 2: was like an icon that I don't think anyone expected 435 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:33,280 Speaker 2: Tracy to come out, so that was just really I 436 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 2: sure did not expect that it was emotional. Okay, speaking 437 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:39,560 Speaker 2: of emotional, we're gonna. 438 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 1: Take a break and come back about that. 439 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:44,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I had a mental breakdown solving last night. 440 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'll tell you. I'll tell you to 441 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 1: take a mental breakdown because my head band is so tight, 442 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:53,320 Speaker 1: but I already committed to it. It's like it's on 443 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:54,920 Speaker 1: if you can't take it off. 444 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:55,640 Speaker 2: So you can take it off. 445 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:57,159 Speaker 1: I can't take it off on a big dent in 446 00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 1: my hair. 447 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,679 Speaker 2: Well, that's not good for your brain circulation. Okay, we'll 448 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 2: figure this out. We'll be right back. All right, we're back. 449 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 2: Tanya still has her headband on. Is it squeezing the 450 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 2: few brain cells that are working in there? 451 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, that explains the dual thing. 452 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 1: People will back me on that dual leap of performance, 453 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:37,520 Speaker 1: anybody out there, No, I was joking. 454 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 2: That's what my sisters and I always saying. We have 455 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:42,359 Speaker 2: like one brain cell working, So it's just it. Will say. 456 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,440 Speaker 1: I will say today like normally I fly out of 457 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 1: bed and I feel like I'm thriving, And today I 458 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:48,640 Speaker 1: feel like I'm just getting by. 459 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:52,919 Speaker 2: I know is so mean, but that was so beautifully placed. 460 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:56,680 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, sorry, because you boasted that you're normally thriving 461 00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 2: and today you're surviving, and I think it might be 462 00:20:59,040 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 2: it's just too tight. 463 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 1: Just I'm on, Just let's see what it. 464 00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 2: Looks like if you take it off. Oh, Billy Ray 465 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 2: Cyrus in. 466 00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:14,679 Speaker 1: Like Miley Cyrus from last night a little bit. 467 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 2: Oh it really isn't bad. I would just fluff it 468 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:21,399 Speaker 2: a little bit and there's no dent. Give yourself a break. 469 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's putting it back on. 470 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 1: You know, she's back. She's that makes me feel put together, 471 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 1: So I think I need to leave it on. 472 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:33,400 Speaker 2: Oh I do think Dua Lipa had one of the 473 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 2: best red carpet looks like she looked lawless queen like. 474 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 2: I think she's just stunning. Okay, So after the Grammys, 475 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:48,399 Speaker 2: I had Yeah, because I Phoebe's weirdly been putting like 476 00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:51,400 Speaker 2: she'll just go lay in bed by herself, on top 477 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:53,080 Speaker 2: of the bed. Normally she goes under the bed, but 478 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,119 Speaker 2: recently she's been wanting to get on top of the 479 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:58,399 Speaker 2: bed by herself. And it just made me realize, like 480 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 2: she's getting older and I started thinking about having to 481 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,880 Speaker 2: live life without her one day, and I got like, 482 00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 2: I was sobbing, and Haley was trying not to laugh 483 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:08,920 Speaker 2: because it's. 484 00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:12,159 Speaker 1: The weirdest thing. Robbie's been thinking this lately too, about Sonny, 485 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 1: and he's like, to know, that's what I keep telling him, 486 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:17,400 Speaker 1: But he's having the same exact thoughts as you are. 487 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 1: He's like, I never loved a dog like this, and 488 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 1: I'm I'm realizing like one day one day, and he 489 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:25,920 Speaker 1: gets he's getting like really sad about it. 490 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 2: It's it got really heavy and dark, and I got 491 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,680 Speaker 2: Phoebe really anxious and stressed because I was crying so hard, 492 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:33,400 Speaker 2: so she was like panting. 493 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:33,639 Speaker 1: Like help. 494 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 2: But I got so upset, and Haley's like, you, we 495 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:42,879 Speaker 2: have a long time left of Phoebe six. I mean, 496 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:46,480 Speaker 2: they live like they can live into their late teens. 497 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 3: Tiny dogs a long time. 498 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 2: But she's got some health issues. But dn't I talk 499 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 2: about this on the podcast about how I figured out 500 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:56,120 Speaker 2: all my fragrances were. 501 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 1: I don't think you talking about the podcast. 502 00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:04,040 Speaker 2: Okay. I have been to every doctor and spent insane 503 00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 2: amount of money trying to get Phoebe's She has a 504 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:11,360 Speaker 2: claps tricky, that is true, but she is coughing constantly 505 00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:13,959 Speaker 2: at night, and I was like, I'm not sleeping at all. 506 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:17,679 Speaker 2: Haley's not sleeping. It's I feel horrible for Phoebe. So 507 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:21,160 Speaker 2: I would drop her off at Heidi, her sitter, and 508 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,919 Speaker 2: I would always be like, how is Phoebe's cough and 509 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 2: she goes, oh my gosh, she didn't cough at all. 510 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:28,679 Speaker 2: It was totally fine, and I'm like, what am I 511 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:29,240 Speaker 2: doing wrong? 512 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:29,640 Speaker 1: Right? 513 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:33,359 Speaker 2: So every morning when I make my bed, I spray 514 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 2: at room spray, just like just to make it fresh, 515 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,119 Speaker 2: you know, just make my bed, spray my room spray. 516 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:41,400 Speaker 2: And I realized that's what Phoebe's sleeping on. So I 517 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 2: had texted Heidi, what is what are you doing? Like, 518 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,560 Speaker 2: what's your routine when Phoebe's there? And she looked it 519 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 2: up and she was like, do you We don't use 520 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 2: any perfumes. We use fragrance free detergent. We are very 521 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 2: sensitive to smells and chemicals or whatever, so it could 522 00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:58,600 Speaker 2: be that. And I started thinking about where I spray 523 00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:00,240 Speaker 2: that room spray, which is on the cow to and 524 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,520 Speaker 2: owe my bed, which is where I phebe laize and 525 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:07,160 Speaker 2: she coughs. So I stopped doing it has barely coughed. 526 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 1: Who When you posted that, I literally was like, how 527 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 1: did I not think to tell you? 528 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 2: That? Told me? 529 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 1: But also like, who's still using room spray and chemicals 530 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 1: on their stuff? 531 00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:21,239 Speaker 2: Oh me, I don't know. 532 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 1: It's so toxic. 533 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, well I haven't done it since. 534 00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 1: So toxic. 535 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 2: I know. I love you, know, like I'm so I 536 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,119 Speaker 2: love when my home smells delicious. 537 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,560 Speaker 1: I know I used to be the same way. And 538 00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:34,840 Speaker 1: you know, staying up. 539 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 2: I've given you just like the stale smell. 540 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 1: Now now we're just the stale smelling at home. And 541 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 1: uh and I'm proud of it because you know, we're toxic. 542 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,920 Speaker 2: Free over here. Love that for you. 543 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:49,400 Speaker 1: But I've been looking into Amanda stant and always posts 544 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:51,840 Speaker 1: these like you can boil water and you put like 545 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 1: cinnamon sticks in there and like step to like make 546 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,199 Speaker 1: your house smell really nice. I've always been wanting to 547 00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:56,679 Speaker 1: try that. 548 00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:58,040 Speaker 2: Now's the time. 549 00:24:58,160 --> 00:24:58,840 Speaker 1: Now's the time. 550 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I just stopped doing the room spray. I 551 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,639 Speaker 2: still have like you know, the red diffusers, not the 552 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 2: plug in like that, they're the sticks still bad. But 553 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:10,879 Speaker 2: she seems okay, we're all doing okay, okay, so that 554 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:14,159 Speaker 2: will stay until further notice. Okay, great, But anyways, if 555 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,000 Speaker 2: you have a dog and you're like, wow, my dog 556 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:19,200 Speaker 2: coughs constantly, think about what you're spraying in the air 557 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 2: and cleaning with crazy. Because also we use fragrance free 558 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,640 Speaker 2: detergent because Haley's sensitive to it, so we already had that. 559 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:29,640 Speaker 2: It was just me just polluting her. I feel so guilty. 560 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 1: Think that's how I felt about my vagina too when 561 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:31,880 Speaker 1: I was. 562 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 2: Using It's just the same. It's the same thing. It 563 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,199 Speaker 2: is my dog coughing, losing years off her life, and 564 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,640 Speaker 2: your vagina getting irritated. 565 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:42,960 Speaker 3: Have you apologized, vagina? 566 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:43,639 Speaker 1: Are you kidding? 567 00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:43,840 Speaker 2: Good? 568 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 3: Forgiven? Forgiven? 569 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 1: Okay, how do you know it? 570 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,920 Speaker 3: She interesting? 571 00:25:53,040 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's a whole nother conversation. So anyways, any who. 572 00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 1: I'm happy for Phoebe. Phoebe's gonna have a has a 573 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:04,040 Speaker 1: long life ahead. 574 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 2: That it was really dark, Yeah, and it was sad, 575 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:11,119 Speaker 2: and I really appreciated it. I really appreciate it. Hayley 576 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,240 Speaker 2: trying her best to be supportive, but she was giggling 577 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 2: while I was sobbing. 578 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:18,880 Speaker 1: So I was kind of doing the same thing to Robbie. 579 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 1: Not giggling, but like she's two. 580 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:23,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, she has a lot. 581 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 1: We have a long life. We have so much life 582 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:26,640 Speaker 1: to live with her. 583 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, so much life. Yeah, this is totally off topic, 584 00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:35,159 Speaker 2: but last week before we did the podcast, you met 585 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 2: Kate Hudson, who was one of my all time favorite celebrities, 586 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:42,879 Speaker 2: and you didn't even talk about it, and then you 587 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:44,199 Speaker 2: just post a reel about it. 588 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 1: And I was like, you know, I'm gonna apologize for that, 589 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:50,200 Speaker 1: because that is really cool. I am also obsessed with 590 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 1: Kate Hudson. To me, how to Lose a Guy in 591 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:56,440 Speaker 1: Ten Days was built around like me, Like I was 592 00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:57,359 Speaker 1: the friend you know that. 593 00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:59,520 Speaker 2: I was like, what am I doing wrong? 594 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,359 Speaker 1: Andy Anderson wrote the piece for so yeah. I always 595 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:06,960 Speaker 1: felt so connected to that story and she, to me, 596 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:10,199 Speaker 1: Kate Hudson is Andy Anderson in real life. Oh just 597 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:14,200 Speaker 1: cute as a cucumber and cool and cool and smiley 598 00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,960 Speaker 1: and engaging, so cute. 599 00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 2: I've just been obsessed with her since Tattle has gotten 600 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,400 Speaker 2: ten days and to know that she is Andy Anderson, 601 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 2: like that yellow dress. 602 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,840 Speaker 1: Wanted to wear that to promt me too. I wanted 603 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:29,159 Speaker 1: so badly to promise. 604 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 2: That was such a moment for our age group. 605 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, she really is like that. 606 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that sometimes you need to let me 607 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 2: know who you interview because I think you get to 608 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:41,520 Speaker 2: do so many cool things that you forget how cool 609 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:41,800 Speaker 2: they are. 610 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,120 Speaker 1: I know, and you know what, I actually I made 611 00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:46,480 Speaker 1: a mental note because I was like, she did a 612 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:50,359 Speaker 1: lot of interviews that day. I should have flagged it. 613 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:53,359 Speaker 1: Now that we have Sam here, we should have asked 614 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:55,159 Speaker 1: to have Kate Hudson scrub in she. I'm sure she 615 00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:56,920 Speaker 1: was in the building while we were recording the podcast. 616 00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:01,520 Speaker 2: She might have been, yeah, like hello, just like when 617 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,360 Speaker 2: you're gonna ask Selena next summer with her. 618 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 1: Well, let me tell you who said yes to coming 619 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:11,640 Speaker 1: onto this podcast. 620 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 3: It's a long time. 621 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 1: Aleen Kashishian. Wow, okay, you I did. 622 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:29,880 Speaker 2: The Lord's work for all of those who are not 623 00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 2: in the industry. Can you explain there might be a 624 00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:35,639 Speaker 2: few people know so well. 625 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 1: She celebrated a birthday this weekend. Do you actually all 626 00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:46,560 Speaker 1: of her clients were posting happy birthday to her, such 627 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 1: as Jennifer Aniston, such as Selena Gomez, such as Olivia Rodrigo, 628 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:57,480 Speaker 1: such as Paul Rudd, such as Gwyneth Paltrow, such as 629 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 1: so Eleen, because she she is like this powerhouse manager 630 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 1: in Hollywood. And I went to a rare beauty event 631 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 1: maybe two years ago, and she spoke on like a panel. 632 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,720 Speaker 1: I didn't know who she was except I knew through 633 00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:15,240 Speaker 1: Selena that was her, the Selena's manager. But she was 634 00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:17,680 Speaker 1: speaking at this rare beauty event, and I was so 635 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 1: inspired by her, just because like she is behind so 636 00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:25,800 Speaker 1: many of these huge things that are pop cultured, do 637 00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And so I was like 638 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 1: so inspired by her. I went up to her after class. 639 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 1: After class it was an event. It was like taking 640 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 1: notes brand, yeah, totally, and I was like, oh my gosh, 641 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 1: like I love you. And then I told her, like 642 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 1: I'm friends with Raquel. We're writing this book. So Eileen 643 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:47,000 Speaker 1: actually wrote a oh my gosh, I'm blinking on what 644 00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 1: it's called uh an endorsement. She basically wrote an endorsement 645 00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:53,479 Speaker 1: for our book, for the Sunshine Mind. And we've been 646 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:56,120 Speaker 1: in touch, and she's just I think she's like a 647 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 1: really powerhouse woman. She also she left like a big 648 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:01,640 Speaker 1: firm to start her own thing, and like all her 649 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,400 Speaker 1: clients went with her. So I don't know, I just 650 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 1: think her story is really inspiring. She's just really cool, 651 00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 1: and I wanted her to come on and just kind 652 00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,680 Speaker 1: of share some of these stories, and so she said yes. 653 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:16,040 Speaker 1: So now we're trying and prepare to be amazed. 654 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,360 Speaker 2: Prepare for the fact, Diane Sawyer that interview. Yeah, that's 655 00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 2: what we're gonna do. 656 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:22,400 Speaker 1: Because I also, I don't want to get things wrong 657 00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,000 Speaker 1: because I don't know obviously, I don't know the ins 658 00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:29,680 Speaker 1: and outs of these things, but like Rare Beauty, hugely 659 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:34,240 Speaker 1: inspired and you know by from Aleen. I don't know 660 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:36,960 Speaker 1: about Goop, but I know that Gwyneth is a client 661 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:38,800 Speaker 1: of hers, you know, and I just I was just 662 00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,719 Speaker 1: so curious about her thought process behind, like she's taking 663 00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:47,719 Speaker 1: these actors and actresses and songwriters and and you know, 664 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:52,120 Speaker 1: but also giving them a different like a like a thing. 665 00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, like a brand, like a brand. Yeah. 666 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: Was Likewyneth Paltrow was Twyneth Patrick. She's an actress, award 667 00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 1: winning actress, but now she has Goop, which is like 668 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 1: a whole other thing. Say with Selina, Selena Gomez is 669 00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 1: Selne Gomez, but now she has Rare, which is like 670 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 1: a whole other empire in itself. 671 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 2: And Jennifer Anderson has her hair Caroline lovely lovely lovally. 672 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 2: I don't know I should know what kind of pan 673 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,320 Speaker 2: am I. Yeah, anyways, that's very exciting. 674 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. I slid into the DMS. 675 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:28,360 Speaker 2: Yeah when did I say listen? I knew some of 676 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 2: the letters in it. 677 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,880 Speaker 1: But I into the DMS. It felt very like I 678 00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:33,840 Speaker 1: felt like, I don't know, it's cool. 679 00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,240 Speaker 2: It is cool. Yeah, it's vulnerable. 680 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:37,200 Speaker 1: It is vulnerable. 681 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,880 Speaker 2: Anytime you ask something and they leave you on red 682 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 2: or they're like not right now, it's always kind of like, okay. 683 00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:44,640 Speaker 1: How active she is on socials? Like I don't think 684 00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 1: she's checking her Instagram every day? So I was very 685 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:50,640 Speaker 1: nervous to like send it, but I lucked out because 686 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 1: it was her birthday so she was active. 687 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:56,560 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she was seeing all her posts. Thank you, 688 00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:57,720 Speaker 2: I thank you. 689 00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 1: I'm back in my AG game and my follicular face 690 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:00,760 Speaker 1: doing thing. 691 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:04,400 Speaker 2: I might start sliding in on people's birthdays knowing that 692 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 2: they're going to be checking to see who shouted them out. 693 00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 1: You're welcome, great idea, Thank you. 694 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about the Jason Tartik and the 695 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 2: money talk. 696 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, did you want to talk about your Nickolache video 697 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:20,280 Speaker 1: because I would like justice for Nick Lache. 698 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:24,120 Speaker 2: Okay, so this is not a big story. This is 699 00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,840 Speaker 2: just Nick Lache, who is from ninety eight degrees, heart 700 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:38,000 Speaker 2: throb of the nineties early two, very famous relationship with 701 00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 2: Jessica s birthday. 702 00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 1: Yes they do, Vanessa and Nick, Oh. 703 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:48,320 Speaker 2: Wow, all the knowledge you have and that's why popped up. 704 00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:49,840 Speaker 1: I hardly know that too. 705 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 2: For some reason, he posted a video of him singing 706 00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:56,080 Speaker 2: a Halsey song acoustic. 707 00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:59,200 Speaker 1: Thinking you could live without. 708 00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,800 Speaker 2: Me, Without Me, I think, is what the song is? Yeah? 709 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:03,880 Speaker 1: Is it? Well? 710 00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:08,000 Speaker 2: You gotta performance by Tanya And the comments were just 711 00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:14,280 Speaker 2: like so brutal and I can't explain it, and I 712 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:16,280 Speaker 2: don't know if it's one of those TikTok things. We're like, 713 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:20,040 Speaker 2: it's so crazy how TikTok. One person can have an 714 00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:24,400 Speaker 2: opinion and it can switch the minds or the opinions 715 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:27,000 Speaker 2: of so many other people. It's like one person says like, 716 00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 2: oh my god, this is cringe, and then someone who 717 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 2: would maybe enjoy that on another platform it's like, oh 718 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,960 Speaker 2: my gosh, this is so Crip's true. True, but it 719 00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:41,320 Speaker 2: went very south and the comments were like a lot 720 00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,800 Speaker 2: of people were saying it was giving can and Barbie 721 00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:45,440 Speaker 2: when he's like, I want to play you a song, 722 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,240 Speaker 2: and some of the comments were like when you're on 723 00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:51,040 Speaker 2: a third day and he whips out a guitar and 724 00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:55,000 Speaker 2: says he's never done this before. People were like, it's 725 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:59,400 Speaker 2: giving twenty eight degrees. Yeah, and someone said the crazy 726 00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 2: part is he watched it and then said yep, this 727 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:06,760 Speaker 2: is the one posted and then it's giving ken So anyways, 728 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 2: it was bad. It's rough, it's vulnerable when you post 729 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,560 Speaker 2: on TikTok, anything can happen. It's just you gotta know. 730 00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:15,520 Speaker 2: And then Bethany Frinkle came out and she was like, 731 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,160 Speaker 2: why do we do this? Why are we so mean? 732 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:20,799 Speaker 2: He did nothing wrong. He's a guy who posts a 733 00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,000 Speaker 2: video of him singing. People do that every day on 734 00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,879 Speaker 2: this app, and y'all chose that it was cringe and 735 00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:29,799 Speaker 2: I will not basically, I'm not standing for it. And 736 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 2: so I tell Tanya about it. She has no idea. 737 00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:33,839 Speaker 1: No, I've never seen it once. 738 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 2: When I say I haven't escaped this video, it's like 739 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:39,920 Speaker 2: popping up on people stitching it or do dding it 740 00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:41,680 Speaker 2: like girls will do. 741 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:42,600 Speaker 1: Do you know what's crazy? 742 00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:42,759 Speaker 2: Though? 743 00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 1: After you told me about it, it started showing up 744 00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:48,399 Speaker 1: in my thing, and I'm like, it does and it'll 745 00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:48,759 Speaker 1: be like. 746 00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:50,880 Speaker 2: Girls duetting it and they're acting like they're in the 747 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:56,319 Speaker 2: room with him, Like, oh yeah. 748 00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:57,520 Speaker 1: I say nothing wrong with this video. It's this guy 749 00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:02,680 Speaker 1: who was like enjoying himself in the music space, expressing himself, 750 00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:05,960 Speaker 1: and he's like doing a good job. He sounds good, 751 00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:07,000 Speaker 1: sounds better than I could. 752 00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, me too, I'll give him that. 753 00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:16,280 Speaker 3: It's kind of a low bar. Really, I'm saying, we're. 754 00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:17,520 Speaker 2: Really coming day. 755 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:25,360 Speaker 1: You need this extra pressure, this extra survival mode. 756 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:30,400 Speaker 2: Anyways, It's just it was a reminder of when Tanya 757 00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:32,680 Speaker 2: reacted to it and was like, I see nothing wrong 758 00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:36,560 Speaker 2: with this. I was thinking, did I just read these 759 00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:39,560 Speaker 2: comments and get persuaded to think that this is I mean. 760 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:43,960 Speaker 1: It did, because good Nick, let's get back to this dude. 761 00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:49,360 Speaker 2: No, I think the Barbie reference really maybe got me. 762 00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:50,160 Speaker 2: It was funny. 763 00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:51,640 Speaker 1: That was funny. 764 00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 2: Okay, so you listened or saw an article that Jason 765 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 2: Tartik was talking about like money and relationships or something. 766 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, so he Oh, it was a headline that actually 767 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 1: really got me. Good job, people, I think it was people. 768 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,879 Speaker 2: Stay tuned because we're going to talk about that when 769 00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:27,239 Speaker 2: we come back. Yeah, it was People, all right, we're back. 770 00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:31,240 Speaker 2: So you saw a People headline, yes, about Jason. 771 00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:31,920 Speaker 1: I did. 772 00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:32,200 Speaker 2: So. 773 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:36,239 Speaker 1: It was People magazine and the headline was something like 774 00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:39,040 Speaker 1: the one thing Jason Tarctic would do all over again, 775 00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:41,480 Speaker 1: or it was something very what. 776 00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:43,760 Speaker 2: Is it, the eight Essential Financial Questions? 777 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:43,840 Speaker 3: No? 778 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:46,399 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no that the It was like somebody 779 00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:48,440 Speaker 1: had posted it and it was like very clickbaity, but 780 00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:52,239 Speaker 1: it worked on me. He has an upcoming book that's 781 00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:55,320 Speaker 1: called Talk Money to Me, The Eight Essential Financial Questions 782 00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 1: to Discuss with your Partner, and so he's obviously promoting 783 00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:03,120 Speaker 1: that book, but he was talking about how he did 784 00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,680 Speaker 1: the one thing that he is constantly preaching to people 785 00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,319 Speaker 1: not to do in a relationship, and that's basically, he 786 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:13,520 Speaker 1: moved into his girlfriend's home without discussing any sort of 787 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:18,880 Speaker 1: financial questions. And so he in the book he shares 788 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:21,080 Speaker 1: these things that he thinks are important to discuss before 789 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:25,120 Speaker 1: you move in with your partner, and he wrote credit score. 790 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:27,600 Speaker 1: I didn't know hers, she didn't know mine. 791 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:28,920 Speaker 2: Is he talking about Kaitlin in this? 792 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:29,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, Caitlyn Bristow. 793 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,400 Speaker 2: He said his hands, yeah, oh okay. 794 00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:35,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, total income a guessing game for both 795 00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:37,719 Speaker 1: of us. The fact that they moved into a home 796 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:39,840 Speaker 1: together and never discussed their total income. 797 00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:42,279 Speaker 2: They must be well off if I mean you know 798 00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:43,919 Speaker 2: even in you're well off? 799 00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:45,759 Speaker 1: Is that not something that you asked, like, Oh, I 800 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:47,279 Speaker 1: brought how much do you make in a year? Or 801 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:48,200 Speaker 1: about to move in together? 802 00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:49,960 Speaker 2: No, I think it's important to know. But they probably 803 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:51,759 Speaker 2: knew they're in a place where they can move, that 804 00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,000 Speaker 2: they're in a comfortable place to move forward, and that. 805 00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:56,799 Speaker 1: A total debt he said, are real his in her 806 00:37:56,840 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 1: mystery annual spending habits. We never discussed it and of 807 00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:03,680 Speaker 1: course didn't put together a budget, how bills would be split, 808 00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:07,319 Speaker 1: zero plan in place, joint account wasn't a conversation and 809 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:10,640 Speaker 1: wasn't implemented until years after the move. Purchased a joint 810 00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:13,719 Speaker 1: living asset without a contract, Hello Ramen, which is their dog. 811 00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:17,560 Speaker 1: Four months later, purchased another living asset without a contract, 812 00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 1: Love you Peno, which is their second dog. They bought 813 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,720 Speaker 1: net Worth although wildly incorrect information. Google has more info 814 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:27,839 Speaker 1: on us than conversations we had with each other about it. Oh, 815 00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,520 Speaker 1: retirement goals. I had no clue when she wanted to 816 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:31,600 Speaker 1: retire and vice versa. 817 00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,160 Speaker 3: Some of that is, you know whatever, but the not 818 00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:35,880 Speaker 3: deciding how you're going to split things up when you 819 00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:39,240 Speaker 3: moving together is odd. Like even just basic utilities, who's 820 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,360 Speaker 3: paying for that? It's got to be a conversation. 821 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:45,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I also think too, like I just think now, 822 00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:48,840 Speaker 1: like things are so different, especially because women are working 823 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:50,319 Speaker 1: and like there are a lot of dual what are 824 00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 1: they called dink's dual income, no kids, households, And to me, 825 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,880 Speaker 1: the fact that they lived together and didn't know, like again, 826 00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:02,399 Speaker 1: some of this stuff like I don't know Robbie's credit score. 827 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:03,920 Speaker 1: I don't even know my own credit score right now, 828 00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:05,279 Speaker 1: to be honest, off the top of my head. But 829 00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:08,799 Speaker 1: some of the stuff I don't think is necessary. But 830 00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:11,280 Speaker 1: the fact that they didn't discuss any of that stuff, 831 00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:13,560 Speaker 1: to me is so wild. 832 00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:15,200 Speaker 2: Have you and Robbie talked about this stuff? 833 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:18,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh my gosh, we're actually if anybody's out there 834 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:21,080 Speaker 1: and knows a good financial planner, please holler at your girl, 835 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:23,960 Speaker 1: because we're good. Like we've obviously discussed a lot of 836 00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:27,440 Speaker 1: this type of stuff, like kind of like the bills, 837 00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:33,120 Speaker 1: our total debt, not credit score, total income, all that, 838 00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:36,799 Speaker 1: like retirement goals, We've discussed all these things, but we're 839 00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:40,160 Speaker 1: not really good at like putting a financial plan in place, 840 00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:42,480 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I don't know how 841 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:44,880 Speaker 1: to do that. I'm not great with budgeting, you know. 842 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,279 Speaker 1: So we want to like sit down with somebody to 843 00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,359 Speaker 1: do all that kind of stuff. But I do think 844 00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:52,680 Speaker 1: that these conversations are super important to have with somebody, 845 00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:54,080 Speaker 1: especially before we move in with them. 846 00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,879 Speaker 2: I do too, And I think that especially when you're 847 00:39:56,920 --> 00:40:01,320 Speaker 2: living with independent incomes and you're BO, it's not something 848 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,920 Speaker 2: you discuss. It's assumed. Probably there's probably assumptions that are 849 00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:07,759 Speaker 2: made from one party that the other is not either 850 00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:11,880 Speaker 2: agreeing to or has a different assumption. So I'm actually 851 00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,840 Speaker 2: I think eventually, like in the near future, Haley and 852 00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:17,280 Speaker 2: I will probably move. I mean, I say we basically 853 00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:19,200 Speaker 2: live together. We just have two places, but I think 854 00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,319 Speaker 2: we'll move into one place together. And I think it's 855 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:24,760 Speaker 2: really important to discuss like just things that we probably 856 00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:26,000 Speaker 2: haven't even brought up yet. 857 00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:28,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, because you're right, like right now, you guys do 858 00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 1: have two separate homes, so you're still individuals, right, you know, 859 00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:35,640 Speaker 1: there's not merged, it's not merged. But once you live 860 00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:38,360 Speaker 1: in the same house, like it's merged. 861 00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:41,360 Speaker 2: M Yeah, I think it's really important. 862 00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 1: So once I find my financial planner, I'll send them 863 00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:46,520 Speaker 1: on over your way too. 864 00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:47,160 Speaker 2: Thank you. 865 00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 1: It is it's so interesting to me, you know. 866 00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:53,600 Speaker 2: I also it's it's probably interesting right now because even 867 00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,960 Speaker 2: talking about the wedding stuff is like, you know, having 868 00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 2: to think about the financial and because it's so expensive 869 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,640 Speaker 2: to and it's like, you know, how are we doing this? 870 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,560 Speaker 1: So I think back in the old days there was this, 871 00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:09,160 Speaker 1: you know, it's like the bride's parents pay for the wedding, 872 00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:11,200 Speaker 1: you know. And it's like now we're older, so it's 873 00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:12,960 Speaker 1: like I don't want it all coming from you know, 874 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:14,439 Speaker 1: my parents are gonna help. But it's like I don't 875 00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:15,960 Speaker 1: want it all to come I want to I want to, 876 00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:19,400 Speaker 1: uh what's it called contribute? I want Robi to contribute, 877 00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:20,440 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I want it to 878 00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:23,960 Speaker 1: be all of us contributing. I just don't want that 879 00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:25,080 Speaker 1: to be the case. 880 00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:26,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I think it's smart. 881 00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:31,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I might check out Jason Tartik's book on it. 882 00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:34,120 Speaker 2: He might be a great financial advisor. I don't know. 883 00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:36,160 Speaker 1: He might be a little expensive, I don't know. 884 00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:38,719 Speaker 2: Maybe he can reference somebody, he can refer you to. 885 00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:40,640 Speaker 1: Some such a good idea. I'm sure he knows somebody that. 886 00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like he knows everybody in the world. Yeah. 887 00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:44,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, I heard festival a couple of years ago. We 888 00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:46,400 Speaker 4: were like in a bus going to the venue and 889 00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:49,200 Speaker 4: everyone's partying, old bachelor people on there. Everyone's just like 890 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:52,120 Speaker 4: lights flash and music's all allowed. Jason's in the front 891 00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:54,640 Speaker 4: seat with me, just screaming, going, bro, you gotta buy 892 00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:58,600 Speaker 4: Series Eye. But Treasurydirect dot gov write this down Series 893 00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:01,239 Speaker 4: I bonds, write this down, brot this And I. 894 00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:03,799 Speaker 2: Was like, yeah, sure, did you do it? 895 00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,280 Speaker 4: I sure did? And it was a very safe investment. 896 00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:09,160 Speaker 4: I made a lot of money, Oh my god. And 897 00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:10,640 Speaker 4: that was just like I was just making I had 898 00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:12,240 Speaker 4: to sit next to him, so this is just making conversation. 899 00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:15,160 Speaker 3: He told me what to do. He's the best. 900 00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:16,120 Speaker 4: We love Jason Tartak. 901 00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, maybe we get him on, Yeah I would. 902 00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:20,239 Speaker 2: I think he'd be a great guest. I think you 903 00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:24,120 Speaker 2: guys a lot of information that is stuff that we've 904 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:27,560 Speaker 2: always found. Like I remember growing up thinking about budgeting 905 00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:29,680 Speaker 2: and financial stuff as being the most boring. I'm like, 906 00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:30,840 Speaker 2: I don't want to hear about I don't want to 907 00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:32,640 Speaker 2: learn about it, and now I'm in a place where 908 00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:34,880 Speaker 2: I'm like, I wish someone had taught me. 909 00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:36,960 Speaker 1: And it's so interesting because like there's like, you know, 910 00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,600 Speaker 1: some some married people all just put their money into 911 00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:41,680 Speaker 1: like one pot and it's like one pot and then 912 00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:43,560 Speaker 1: everything goes from that pot. And then I know some 913 00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:46,239 Speaker 1: people who have a joint pot, but then they have 914 00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:50,400 Speaker 1: their individual bank accounts and they split their whenever they 915 00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:53,480 Speaker 1: get their you know, their work payments, it gets split 916 00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:57,080 Speaker 1: between their accounts. It also gets tricky too, Like I 917 00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,720 Speaker 1: remember I was talking to Teddy Mellencamp about this because 918 00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,960 Speaker 1: you know, Robbie does have two kids prior to us, 919 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,040 Speaker 1: and so it's like where does that come into play, 920 00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:07,799 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like who's responsible for what? 921 00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:11,719 Speaker 1: And so it's just it's it's very interesting. There's not 922 00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:13,640 Speaker 1: one way to do it, you know, it's like whatever 923 00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:14,759 Speaker 1: the way you want to do it. 924 00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:20,040 Speaker 2: Wait, did you and Robbie discuss the buying a dog 925 00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:23,200 Speaker 2: and what would happen? Who would get the dog? 926 00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:25,480 Speaker 1: Well, I think at the point when we got Sonny, 927 00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:28,120 Speaker 1: we were kind of at the point our relationship where 928 00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:30,480 Speaker 1: we knew we were and we were going to end 929 00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:34,480 Speaker 1: up together for me at least, I don't know about him. 930 00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:37,200 Speaker 2: But you didn't have a ring yet, so you're not 931 00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:39,160 Speaker 2: You still had your apartment. 932 00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:41,359 Speaker 1: I still had my apartment. But I also think that 933 00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:45,200 Speaker 1: the timeline of our relationship was obviously different than you 934 00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:46,960 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like I was trying to be 935 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,920 Speaker 1: patient to be on his when he was comfortable, you know, 936 00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:51,440 Speaker 1: to like move the relationship for But I feel like 937 00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:53,880 Speaker 1: when we got Sunny, we were both under the impression 938 00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:58,839 Speaker 1: that like this was our this was our end game, gotcha, 939 00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:00,839 Speaker 1: But no, we didn't really talk about what would happen 940 00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,080 Speaker 1: if we broke up, what would happen to Sunny. Yeah, 941 00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:04,680 Speaker 1: I would take her, obviously. 942 00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:07,840 Speaker 2: I don't know after here and how emotionally got that 943 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:09,800 Speaker 2: would have been a battle. 944 00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:15,640 Speaker 3: October twenty fourth, that's Jason Tartik's birthday. So you can 945 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:17,600 Speaker 3: slide right into his DMS on that day and get 946 00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:18,120 Speaker 3: him on the show. 947 00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:19,440 Speaker 2: Well, he's a scorpio. 948 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:23,360 Speaker 1: I just slide in today. I'm feeling good off my 949 00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:26,759 Speaker 1: lean and you know, I'm just gonna keep sliding and 950 00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,760 Speaker 1: getting our guests, keep slidden, keep ladden. 951 00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:35,719 Speaker 2: Actually, speaking of slide, Alex Cooper posted a TikTok today 952 00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:37,239 Speaker 2: and she was saying, hell, I guess she and her 953 00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:39,919 Speaker 2: husband own their business or company together. And she said 954 00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:42,560 Speaker 2: he had the whole team like work remote today because 955 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:44,719 Speaker 2: of the weather in LA. And she's from the East 956 00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:47,799 Speaker 2: Coast and she's like East Coast people just imagine it 957 00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:52,200 Speaker 2: rains and your boss says, stay home, take the day off. 958 00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:54,400 Speaker 2: She's like New York. It's like it's iced over and 959 00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:58,720 Speaker 2: they're like slide to work. Anyways, thought that was funny. 960 00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:02,560 Speaker 1: I slidden her dams too, but she didn't see it. 961 00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,919 Speaker 2: If she didn't see it, it's okay. When they've yes 962 00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:06,600 Speaker 2: a scene. 963 00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:08,920 Speaker 1: I actually don't know. But it was because apparently she 964 00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:11,480 Speaker 1: has to go gluten free because of something she has. 965 00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:13,480 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, girls, okay, you still have pasta. 966 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,480 Speaker 1: There's tons of gluten free and good options here in LA. 967 00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:19,600 Speaker 1: And I was very helpful. Places that's so cute. 968 00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:22,719 Speaker 2: Okay, we have one email and Mark, you can take 969 00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:22,960 Speaker 2: it off. 970 00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:26,480 Speaker 3: Oh, it'd be my pleasure. Thank you so much. Beca Hey, Beca, Tanya, 971 00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:28,200 Speaker 3: Mark and East and I have a new job that 972 00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,359 Speaker 3: requires me to start working in the office at five 973 00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,799 Speaker 3: thirty am. I'm having such a hard time getting it 974 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,160 Speaker 3: at four am every day. Mark and Tanya, any advice 975 00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:38,200 Speaker 3: for getting up early? Can you walk me through your 976 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:41,799 Speaker 3: night and morning routine? From a seriously tired scrubber. Not 977 00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:44,920 Speaker 3: sure why she went anonymous for something so impersonal, but 978 00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:45,279 Speaker 3: she did. 979 00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:47,960 Speaker 2: I appreciate that Easton and I were not included in that, 980 00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:52,000 Speaker 2: and I feel like Easton should be. I definitely shouldn't 981 00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:55,960 Speaker 2: be included in the advice call, But y'all three should 982 00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:57,640 Speaker 2: help a scrubber out. 983 00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:02,239 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, Anonymous. The key to a 984 00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:07,200 Speaker 1: productive mourning routine is a good nighttime routine. 985 00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:08,200 Speaker 3: Preach. 986 00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:08,759 Speaker 2: Yeah. 987 00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:11,960 Speaker 1: Well, so I make sure that I have no stone 988 00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 1: is left unturned before I go to bed. My lunch 989 00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:18,480 Speaker 1: is packed, my coffee maker, the grind's already emptied out 990 00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:20,000 Speaker 1: of the grinder. So all I have to do is 991 00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:22,239 Speaker 1: like put new being, you know what I mean, Like 992 00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:26,760 Speaker 1: everything prep wise. My clothes are set out, my shoes 993 00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:30,000 Speaker 1: are set out, my vitamins already packed and in their thing. 994 00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,680 Speaker 1: Like I'm already set up to where I just have 995 00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:35,560 Speaker 1: to shower, slide into my clothes, gather my things and 996 00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:38,880 Speaker 1: head out the door. My water bottles filled up, everything's 997 00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:41,040 Speaker 1: done before I go to sleep. That is the key 998 00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:44,120 Speaker 1: to a successful morning routine. 999 00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:46,480 Speaker 3: And then, look, we're both cancers. But I couldn't agree 1000 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,960 Speaker 3: more with everything you just said. Yeah, honestly, I said 1001 00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:53,200 Speaker 3: everything out the night before, water, lunch, clothes, everything, and 1002 00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:56,200 Speaker 3: I backtime it. If I got to get up at four, 1003 00:46:56,920 --> 00:47:00,400 Speaker 3: then I'm going to bed at nine. That's seven hours now, 1004 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:02,920 Speaker 3: because I know it's really probably gonna be nine to thirty. 1005 00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:05,120 Speaker 3: But I'm pretty strict about that. I got to get 1006 00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:08,520 Speaker 3: my six and a half or so. Yeah, and another thing, 1007 00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:11,880 Speaker 3: resist the temptation. Now, look, I'm old. It's easy for me. 1008 00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:13,560 Speaker 3: But if you stay up till three in the morning 1009 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:15,439 Speaker 3: on the weekend and then you sleep till noon, you're 1010 00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:16,799 Speaker 3: screwed the following week. 1011 00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,279 Speaker 1: Yeah. You know this book that I'm reading, the one, 1012 00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,759 Speaker 1: the new You know I'm into books. Now, wait, what 1013 00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:25,439 Speaker 1: is it? You know Robby and I started reading at night? 1014 00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:26,560 Speaker 2: No, this is new. 1015 00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:30,560 Speaker 1: We have like a little little book cup. But Robbie 1016 00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:31,800 Speaker 1: didn't like it so much, so he switched to a 1017 00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,319 Speaker 1: different book, The War Going On, because she wants all 1018 00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,480 Speaker 1: self help self help book and he'd like to explore 1019 00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:37,960 Speaker 1: other genres. 1020 00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:40,360 Speaker 2: Perhaps self help at night. Yeah, it's not supposed to 1021 00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:42,560 Speaker 2: do that. Why because they say, you're supposed to do 1022 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:45,279 Speaker 2: something that's like fantasy fiction based so that your brain 1023 00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,319 Speaker 2: can drift off, and when you have self help, it 1024 00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:49,799 Speaker 2: keeps your brain going on like what you need to 1025 00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:50,279 Speaker 2: focus on. 1026 00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:51,719 Speaker 1: I want to tell you I can drift off from 1027 00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,000 Speaker 1: that quite nicely after this, so I'm not having any 1028 00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:57,520 Speaker 1: problems there. But in this book it does also talk 1029 00:47:57,560 --> 00:47:59,080 Speaker 1: about the same thing about how. 1030 00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:03,480 Speaker 2: Like habits stocking the book is it called habit Uh? 1031 00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:06,280 Speaker 1: No habits No, I'll find it for you. It's actually 1032 00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:10,000 Speaker 1: quite quite nice. But it talks about the importance of 1033 00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,840 Speaker 1: keeping that routine consistent during the week and on the weekends, 1034 00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:14,879 Speaker 1: because a lot of people will go to bed at 1035 00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,880 Speaker 1: like two am on the weekends and then try and 1036 00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:19,359 Speaker 1: make it up on the weeks and it just does 1037 00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:19,759 Speaker 1: not work. 1038 00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:21,839 Speaker 3: I don't know anything about you, tired scrub, or maybe 1039 00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:23,600 Speaker 3: you are young and you want to have a social life, 1040 00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:25,000 Speaker 3: and that is going to be a challenge for you. 1041 00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:27,360 Speaker 1: It's going to be a very tough challenge. 1042 00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:29,719 Speaker 3: They say that, you know, the younger generation right now, 1043 00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:32,239 Speaker 3: they're going to bed earlier. They're prioritizing sleep, So maybe 1044 00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:34,920 Speaker 3: that's good for you. But I try to do the 1045 00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:37,320 Speaker 3: nine thirty to four am during the weekend. On the weekends, 1046 00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:38,960 Speaker 3: I try to do eleven to seven. I try to 1047 00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:41,480 Speaker 3: get my eight hours on the weekends, but be up 1048 00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:43,560 Speaker 3: by seven am, and that way I got the whole day. 1049 00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:46,280 Speaker 1: It's called the magic of thinking big. Acquire the secrets 1050 00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:50,280 Speaker 1: of success, achieve everything you've always wanted, personal property, financial security, 1051 00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:54,400 Speaker 1: power and influence, the ideal job, satisfying relationships, and rewarding 1052 00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:55,360 Speaker 1: an enjoyable life. 1053 00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:56,600 Speaker 3: There's the longest time life. 1054 00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:59,640 Speaker 2: Maybe what's the what's the main title? I think that it's. 1055 00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:01,080 Speaker 1: Called the magic of thinking big. 1056 00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:07,640 Speaker 2: Okay better. I feel like if you wake up at 1057 00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:09,600 Speaker 2: four am every day on the week and then you 1058 00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:12,080 Speaker 2: wake up at seven, that is like sleeping in. 1059 00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:15,840 Speaker 3: I love it. It feels great. 1060 00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:19,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know how y'all do it. Four am 1061 00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:23,399 Speaker 2: is middle of the night, and when it's just pitch 1062 00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:25,439 Speaker 2: black outside, you should be in bed. 1063 00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:28,520 Speaker 3: Slide. I have learned to appreciate things like the sunrise. 1064 00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:30,600 Speaker 3: I get to see the sunrise almost every day, and 1065 00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:32,759 Speaker 3: that is a beautiful thing, and not many people get 1066 00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:32,960 Speaker 3: to have. 1067 00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:36,479 Speaker 1: It's true. I do believe a sunrise is definitely better 1068 00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:37,080 Speaker 1: than a sunset. 1069 00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:40,040 Speaker 2: I don't agree, But I love when I catch a 1070 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:42,680 Speaker 2: sunrise because I never see them. Yeah, so's it's like 1071 00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:43,520 Speaker 2: seeing a rainbow. 1072 00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:44,680 Speaker 3: It's so great. 1073 00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:48,200 Speaker 2: I love that they're rare. It's rare for me. So, 1074 00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:52,680 Speaker 2: but sunset's I love because I that's a good time 1075 00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:56,600 Speaker 2: for me. Yeah, the end the day. We don't have 1076 00:49:56,640 --> 00:49:58,920 Speaker 2: a Thursday episode because our guest that was supposed to 1077 00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,040 Speaker 2: come in couldn't get here because of the rain. 1078 00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:06,720 Speaker 1: Yeah she could, respect though, respect to her. Respect Danielle Romo. 1079 00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:07,600 Speaker 2: Danielle Romo. 1080 00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:09,160 Speaker 1: But we're going to get her next week. 1081 00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:10,200 Speaker 2: We are going to get her next week. 1082 00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:11,799 Speaker 1: If you're wondering who Danielle Romo is a. 1083 00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:13,359 Speaker 3: Few people who don't know who Danielle Romo. 1084 00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:17,560 Speaker 1: So Danielle Romo, they'll know if you give birthday July sixteenth. 1085 00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:18,279 Speaker 2: Actually know that. 1086 00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:18,759 Speaker 3: Very good. 1087 00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:26,160 Speaker 1: So she works on this podcast such Scrubbing In. But 1088 00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:28,360 Speaker 1: she's a really big title. We actually what is her title? 1089 00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:32,160 Speaker 3: She oversees a lot of podcasts for Oh. 1090 00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:35,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, we took it out because she can't come. But anyway, 1091 00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:39,279 Speaker 1: she she's been with this podcast for a very long time. 1092 00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:42,319 Speaker 1: I have also been working with her forever, like over 1093 00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:45,440 Speaker 1: a decade, and she's a very strong career woman. But 1094 00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:47,160 Speaker 1: she just had a baby, and I have so many 1095 00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:50,920 Speaker 1: questions about maternity leave because I just think it's the 1096 00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:55,640 Speaker 1: craziest thing. Like, just to me, Maturney leave, like being 1097 00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:58,440 Speaker 1: so focused on your career and just like being all 1098 00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:02,319 Speaker 1: in and then borthing a child and being I don't know, 1099 00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:03,719 Speaker 1: the whole thing is like so crazy to me. 1100 00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:05,920 Speaker 2: I think there's a hard I think there's a hard 1101 00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,680 Speaker 2: working job, and then I think there's being a mom. 1102 00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:11,120 Speaker 2: And I think that, I think being a mom, being 1103 00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:13,720 Speaker 2: a parent, but being a mom might be the hardest 1104 00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:16,680 Speaker 2: job in the world. So to take off a career 1105 00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:19,560 Speaker 2: that you're like working so hard to build and like 1106 00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:23,040 Speaker 2: putting so much your energy and then shifting gears to 1107 00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:27,640 Speaker 2: this different type of hard job obviously very rewarding both, 1108 00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,400 Speaker 2: but it's fascinating. 1109 00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:31,759 Speaker 1: And then just coming back coming back that to me 1110 00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,719 Speaker 1: is even weirder, Like you have thousands of emails, you've 1111 00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:37,680 Speaker 1: just been like in this abyss for however many months, 1112 00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:39,160 Speaker 1: and then you have to just get thrown back in. 1113 00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:41,160 Speaker 1: It is so crazy to me. 1114 00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, So we're gonna talk with her next week and 1115 00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:46,960 Speaker 2: this Thursday, you can re listen to this episode because 1116 00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:47,600 Speaker 2: it was a good one. 1117 00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,080 Speaker 1: It was pretty good. 1118 00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:55,839 Speaker 3: So you're going off on the guy. 1119 00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:59,600 Speaker 2: Ye last few weeks have been good, so go back 1120 00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:02,080 Speaker 2: and listen those if you're missing us on Thursday and 1121 00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:04,720 Speaker 2: all weekend if you want. And we love you so much. 1122 00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:05,520 Speaker 1: Love you so much. 1123 00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:17,960 Speaker 2: Bye. Okay, before we go, I just want to say 1124 00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:20,400 Speaker 2: you look very beautiful and I love your headband and 1125 00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:23,000 Speaker 2: I'm sorry if I was, if we were picking on 1126 00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:26,839 Speaker 2: you today. I really like your headband. I'm sorry it's 1127 00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:29,640 Speaker 2: hurting your head, but I do love it with your look. 1128 00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:30,440 Speaker 1: Thank you. 1129 00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:31,800 Speaker 4: It does look very cute. 1130 00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:32,920 Speaker 2: It's very cute. 1131 00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:34,400 Speaker 1: Did Robbie tell you to do this? 1132 00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:34,960 Speaker 2: No? 1133 00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:35,600 Speaker 1: Oh? 1134 00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:37,280 Speaker 2: Why? 1135 00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:41,200 Speaker 1: Why you can get into that next week? What teezer? 1136 00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:44,120 Speaker 2: Okay, bye bye