WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: I'm Onto You + Just A Little Short 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:01.880 All right, now you can finally get your chores done 0:00:01.880 --> 0:00:04.920 on Saturday, because it's the your back to back classics. 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:07.120 That you, yes, clean, you've been saving for all week. 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:09.640 Right now, that's right, it's Brig and Jeffrey in the morning, 0:00:09.800 --> 0:00:12.920 and just a heads up tomorrow right here on the feed, 0:00:13.119 --> 0:00:17.280 we are going to be hosting something very special, something 0:00:17.600 --> 0:00:22.440 just very unique, and that is our full hour episode, yes, one. 0:00:22.320 --> 0:00:24.360 Of our favorites from last week that we aired on 0:00:24.400 --> 0:00:25.840 our other podcast feeds. 0:00:25.880 --> 0:00:26.040 Yeah. 0:00:26.120 --> 0:00:29.120 Yeah, So we have three podcast feeds. Second Day is 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:31.680 our most popular, and then we have a main feed 0:00:31.760 --> 0:00:34.559 where we do one hour long episodes every day. So 0:00:35.200 --> 0:00:36.960 this is just to give you a taste and see 0:00:37.000 --> 0:00:37.680 if you like it. 0:00:37.680 --> 0:00:43.320 And if you don't turn it off. Yeah, it's simple, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:46.480 Like that's just heads up to check back here tomorrow 0:00:46.680 --> 0:00:49.560 and right now, just enjoy your back to back classics. 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:53.040 If you're a single lady and you're looking to make 0:00:53.080 --> 0:00:56.520 the first move and approach a guy at a bar, wow, 0:00:56.560 --> 0:00:58.400 what is the right play. 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:03.560 Drink? I'm just gonna say make eye contact and say. 0:01:03.440 --> 0:01:07.680 Hi, and you could do what Brooke does, open up 0:01:07.680 --> 0:01:10.000 her purse and say hey, I got some free jerky. 0:01:10.040 --> 0:01:12.839 I bought off a Randol in the street one share 0:01:13.000 --> 0:01:14.959 stick and she's. 0:01:14.800 --> 0:01:17.760 Like, everybody knows jerky stands on the side of the 0:01:17.800 --> 0:01:19.120 highway are the best? 0:01:18.880 --> 0:01:19.600 Are? 0:01:20.120 --> 0:01:20.320 Yes? 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:23.200 It has a surprisingly high success rate. 0:01:23.880 --> 0:01:25.680 Or you can do it, one of our listeners did 0:01:25.720 --> 0:01:28.399 when she saw a cute guy, and even though her 0:01:28.480 --> 0:01:33.400 move was a little unorthodox, apparently it worked. You're gonna 0:01:33.400 --> 0:01:35.920 hear it in your second date update right after this 0:01:37.000 --> 0:01:41.479 second date update for a date, would you rather be 0:01:41.720 --> 0:01:45.640 silently ghosted or blatantly canceled on? 0:01:46.080 --> 0:01:49.640 Yikes? I at least you would know if you're blatantly 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:50.240 canceled on. 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:53.680 Yeah, but I wondering I can make up my own excuse, 0:01:53.800 --> 0:01:56.720 like I'm too perfect? 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:57.360 Yeah, you know what I mean. 0:01:57.880 --> 0:02:00.840 You when you're ghosted, there's still that like glimmer of 0:02:00.920 --> 0:02:05.240 hope that maybe they got the wrong bar or maybe they. 0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:06.760 Got a rested and their phone broke. 0:02:07.040 --> 0:02:09.280 Yeah, because they fell down a man hole and they 0:02:09.320 --> 0:02:13.600 can't get out. You meant a story for yourself there 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:16.919 that makes you feel good. But today, one of our listeners, Jillian, 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:19.920 thought she had a second date locked down until she 0:02:20.000 --> 0:02:24.400 got one very strange last minute text, calling it off, 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:27.400 and now she's really confused and needs our help. Jillian, 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:28.240 Welcome to the show. 0:02:28.800 --> 0:02:29.680 Hi, thank you. 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:32.120 My interest is so Pete don't want to know what 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:35.680 that text message says that someone wassed. 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:39.160 Yeah, so let's start at the beginning of your story. 0:02:39.200 --> 0:02:41.360 How did you meet this guy? What's his name? 0:02:42.000 --> 0:02:42.680 His named Zach? 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:45.480 Okay, where did you and Zach meet? 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:47.160 So? We met at a bar? 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:49.160 Oh in real life? 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:49.960 In real life? 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:54.280 Yeah, I know. So it was like last Friday night. 0:02:54.880 --> 0:02:58.160 I had been planning on staying in, like not going 0:02:58.200 --> 0:02:59.000 out at all that night. 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:02.640 It always happens, right, I know, right, which means that 0:03:02.680 --> 0:03:03.840 you weren't looking your best. 0:03:04.000 --> 0:03:08.639 You're probably kind of a mess. But yes, okay, No, 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:10.480 I don't mean that in a mean way. I was 0:03:10.520 --> 0:03:13.000 looking kid, Okay, that's just mean. 0:03:16.360 --> 0:03:16.600 Yeah. 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:18.720 Then I had this like feeling after I got home 0:03:18.720 --> 0:03:20.480 from work where I was like, no, you know what, 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:22.200 I actually don't want to have a cozy night and 0:03:22.440 --> 0:03:23.960 I want to go do something. 0:03:25.480 --> 0:03:28.040 Feeling like I always have the feeling to go. You're 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:29.840 feeling to go out at so fun. 0:03:29.680 --> 0:03:30.760 You're bringing the good energy. 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:32.200 Okay, So where did you go? 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:32.640 So? 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:34.320 I called my girlfriend? We go to a bar? Kind 0:03:34.320 --> 0:03:37.520 of by my place and we're just hanging out, and 0:03:37.560 --> 0:03:40.960 then I see this guy and I like, I don't 0:03:41.040 --> 0:03:44.480 usually make the first move, like ever, but I was 0:03:44.560 --> 0:03:47.040 kind of like listening to their not listening to their conversation. 0:03:47.080 --> 0:03:48.760 But I was at the bar trying to get a drink. 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:50.080 I thought you were gonna say, but I was kind 0:03:50.080 --> 0:03:50.720 of drunk, so. 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:51.080 I did it. 0:03:53.200 --> 0:03:56.120 Right there. They were talking about the movie Wicked, oh, 0:03:56.240 --> 0:03:58.920 and I had just seen it, and their opinions were 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:02.720 like totally wrong. So I jumped in to tell him 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:05.080 why he was wrong, but also just like to flirt 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:06.000 with him, and. 0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:09.680 Okay, right off the path. 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:12.560 I don't argue about a man with Wicked either. 0:04:12.600 --> 0:04:14.640 I just know that there's two guys arguing over Wicked together. 0:04:16.279 --> 0:04:18.159 I feel like I already know why he's not calling 0:04:18.160 --> 0:04:18.480 you back. 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:23.719 But yeah, no, she was being playful. 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:26.960 Come on, yeah, if you like touch their arm and stuff, 0:04:27.000 --> 0:04:30.560 then they love an argument. So anyway, we ended up 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:33.640 talking for a while. We went to another bar together, 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:39.240 just the two of us. Okay, yeah, well she was 0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:40.960 kind of done. She was like, yeah, I came out 0:04:41.000 --> 0:04:45.159 for you, so if you're good, like bye, and we 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:46.800 had plans for a second date, we were going to 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:49.000 go to this bar that has ski ball and I 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:50.479 was going to beat him at skyball and the gills. 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:52.799 Oh my gosh, So you guys even talked about where 0:04:52.800 --> 0:04:54.360 and when and all of it. 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:58.000 Yeah, all of it. And so then she's the crazy part. 0:04:58.240 --> 0:05:01.479 That morning that we're supposed to go out, I get 0:05:01.480 --> 0:05:05.520 a text from him that says, I'm onto you, dates 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:09.479 off on to you, onto you, I'm on to you. 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:11.440 Yeah, what does that mean? 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:12.279 I don't know. 0:05:12.320 --> 0:05:13.840 I texted it back and I was like, what are 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:16.240 you talking about? And then he just didn't answer me. 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:18.839 Does he think that you're in a relationship or something? 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:19.960 That's the first thing that. 0:05:19.960 --> 0:05:22.040 I think, Oh, yeah, we should have asked, are you 0:05:22.080 --> 0:05:24.040 currently with somebody I know? 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:24.720 No? 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:29.240 Okay, yeah, what's wrong with that? 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:31.960 And that's so strange too, because you don't have any 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:33.599 Like it's not like you can ask his friends. 0:05:33.600 --> 0:05:35.840 You don't know anybody that he knows, you. 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:36.960 Know, right exactly? 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:38.360 If you google search. 0:05:38.120 --> 0:05:40.279 Your name, is there like a weird news article that 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:42.080 comes up of somebody who with a shared name. 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:44.320 I don't even know if he knows my last name 0:05:44.560 --> 0:05:46.880 to google me at all? But also, like I don't 0:05:46.880 --> 0:05:48.120 think anything crazy comes up. 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:49.720 Last name is Dahmer. I don't know. 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:55.159 I swear I paid to have all those articles deleted. 0:05:58.839 --> 0:06:00.000 This is a true mystery. 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:02.560 Yeah. My best guess is that maybe one of his 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:05.760 friends like thought I was someone else that they recognize me, 0:06:06.200 --> 0:06:07.240 you know, like dark bar. 0:06:07.839 --> 0:06:08.280 I don't know. 0:06:08.360 --> 0:06:09.560 Oh yeah, you. 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:11.760 Know what that's happened to my friend group before. Really, 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:14.400 oh she was some other girl, bro, never mind, it 0:06:14.440 --> 0:06:14.960 could be that. 0:06:15.240 --> 0:06:16.559 Like a girl from the dating apps. 0:06:17.279 --> 0:06:20.440 Yeah, he was just so bold, I know, and that 0:06:20.560 --> 0:06:23.000 you don't follow it up, Like, if you're gonna be accused, 0:06:23.080 --> 0:06:24.680 just tell me what's. 0:06:24.279 --> 0:06:25.120 Been accused of. 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:28.400 Yeah, it's just so frustrating. Like I've texted him a 0:06:28.400 --> 0:06:30.560 few times being like, hey, I don't even need to 0:06:30.600 --> 0:06:32.720 go out again, I just want to know what are 0:06:32.720 --> 0:06:34.960 you upset about? And I don't get anything. 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:37.679 Well, And you need to know for future dates because 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:40.400 what if other men say the same thing and you 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:41.800 still don't know what you know? 0:06:44.960 --> 0:06:46.480 Is your purposely using him for something? 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:47.120 Just tell us? 0:06:47.400 --> 0:06:50.359 At least mass texting him makes you sound super laid 0:06:50.400 --> 0:06:53.479 back and chill, so he has nothing to complain about 0:06:53.480 --> 0:06:55.880 when we call him now and try and ask him 0:06:55.920 --> 0:06:58.040 why he didn't follow through with the second date that 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:00.280 you had already arranged with him. 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:02.600 What the hell that text message meant? 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:05.360 Really, pile on and tell him everything is done wrong 0:07:05.400 --> 0:07:06.159 in his life. 0:07:06.520 --> 0:07:07.760 His opinions, we suck. 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:11.840 Yes, good, we will beat him into a pulp. Second 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:13.760 date update coming up right after. 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:16.120 This second date update. 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:20.520 I can't believe we never caught the nursery rhyme connection 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:24.120 because our listener, Jillian, I met a guy named. 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:25.880 Zacha and Jill. 0:07:26.040 --> 0:07:29.440 Zach and Jill, you mean Jack and Jill, But it 0:07:29.520 --> 0:07:30.920 sounds it sounds pretty close. 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:33.200 Okay, someone. 0:07:34.920 --> 0:07:38.040 Someone fluggs preschool in this room, and it was It 0:07:38.080 --> 0:07:40.240 was definitely not Zach rhyme. 0:07:41.200 --> 0:07:43.200 Sorry for trying to draw a connection. I thought it 0:07:43.280 --> 0:07:46.200 was a cute story. They met at a bar. They 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:48.200 were drinking pails of white claw together. 0:07:48.600 --> 0:07:49.520 How the nursery rhyme goes? 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:53.520 Jill said great to another date, and Zach canceled last second. 0:07:54.600 --> 0:07:56.560 Okay, and that's where we are today. 0:07:56.640 --> 0:07:59.640 Like a total jerk, Zach reached out to Jillian the 0:07:59.760 --> 0:08:02.600 day of their second meet up and said, I'm on 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:03.040 to you. 0:08:03.320 --> 0:08:05.120 Date canceled, So Zach just. 0:08:05.120 --> 0:08:07.520 Is fetching a pail of water right now, he's rolling 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:09.760 down a hill. I think I thought it was white claw. 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:12.000 I got the nursery right now. 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:15.360 The whole thing is confusing, especially to Jillian, because there 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:18.040 was no explanation for what he meant by I'm on 0:08:18.160 --> 0:08:18.480 to you. 0:08:19.000 --> 0:08:20.240 It's so accusatory. 0:08:20.400 --> 0:08:23.040 I mean, the thing is is that although Jeff you're 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:25.320 calling him a jerk, he thinks she's a jerk, is. 0:08:25.280 --> 0:08:26.080 What it sounds like. 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:29.000 Yeah, but we don't know why exactly. 0:08:29.160 --> 0:08:31.640 I'm on to you. We'll raise an eyebrow to anybody. Yeah, 0:08:31.760 --> 0:08:33.360 walk up to me and say that right now, I'd 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:34.840 be like, what you feel guilty? 0:08:35.040 --> 0:08:36.680 Yeah, no matter what am I doing? 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:38.800 Yeah, my guess is that he's going to be coming 0:08:38.840 --> 0:08:40.840 in hot like a text like that. 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:43.000 It's not going to be I just. 0:08:42.960 --> 0:08:44.560 Thought, what if it was his tagline? What if he 0:08:44.640 --> 0:08:47.280 answers it like I'm onto you? You know what if 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:47.920 that's his thing? 0:08:50.280 --> 0:08:55.120 Yeah, you probably don't want to end up with him. Yeah, 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:57.840 probably not dial his number. See how he answers the 0:08:57.840 --> 0:09:00.000 phone if he picks up, and hopefully get an explanation 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:00.600 and are you ready? 0:09:01.120 --> 0:09:01.640 I'm ready. 0:09:02.040 --> 0:09:07.160 So that was a question just to myself I'm ready. 0:09:06.120 --> 0:09:07.480 When he's talking to Jeff. 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:18.760 Okay, Hello, Hey is this Zach? 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:21.400 Yes, who's speaking? 0:09:22.280 --> 0:09:24.720 Interesting? Hey Zach, welcome to the show. 0:09:26.600 --> 0:09:29.280 Uh what is this Hello? 0:09:29.559 --> 0:09:30.360 Sorry? Sorry for that. 0:09:30.400 --> 0:09:33.200 She was so flirty with that question. This is there 0:09:33.200 --> 0:09:37.400 a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:42.720 This is a segment called second Date Update. Okay, you 0:09:42.760 --> 0:09:45.760 could help us because we have a listener who you 0:09:45.800 --> 0:09:47.079 met up with the other night. 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:48.920 Her name is Jillian. 0:09:49.360 --> 0:09:50.360 You guys met at a bar. 0:09:51.720 --> 0:09:53.240 Oh my god, are you joking? 0:09:53.559 --> 0:09:54.239 No? 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:57.920 No? Uh yeah, she keeps texting me. 0:09:58.400 --> 0:10:00.640 Yes, right, I can hear your con Can I tell 0:10:00.679 --> 0:10:04.200 you what we know from what Jillian told us? Because 0:10:04.440 --> 0:10:06.560 she said, you guys met at the bar the other night, 0:10:06.840 --> 0:10:10.199 you hit it off, ended up separating from your friend 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:12.200 group to just hang out one on one, and then 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:15.800 arranged a second meetup. Had it all planned out until 0:10:15.840 --> 0:10:18.319 the day of she got this cryptic text from you 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:20.000 saying I'm on to you. 0:10:20.679 --> 0:10:21.920 Yeah. 0:10:21.960 --> 0:10:24.000 Wow, Okay, so she'd told you a lot. 0:10:24.440 --> 0:10:28.280 Yeah, because I mean, honestly, she has no idea what 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:30.160 you're referring to in that text message. 0:10:30.880 --> 0:10:32.840 Well, I can explain that. 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:35.199 That would be great because she just does not understand 0:10:35.280 --> 0:10:37.480 what happened, if she did something wrong. We're just trying 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:38.360 to give her some clarity. 0:10:38.559 --> 0:10:41.480 We asked, are you in the middle of some awful dealings? 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:43.280 And she's like, I am not in the midst of evil, 0:10:43.360 --> 0:10:44.800 so you know what I mean. 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:45.680 So she has no idea what. 0:10:45.679 --> 0:10:46.480 You're talking about. 0:10:46.720 --> 0:10:50.080 Okay. So the day of the next date, I went 0:10:50.120 --> 0:10:53.160 back to the bar that we had met at and 0:10:53.440 --> 0:10:59.000 the spartender recognizes me and he says, hey, are you 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:01.320 hanging out with Jill again anytime soon? 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:01.679 Oh? 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:04.040 They know her at the bar, like she's a regular 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:04.560 or something. 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:07.840 Okay, well that's what I was thinking. So I say, 0:11:08.840 --> 0:11:11.240 what's going on? How do you know her? And he 0:11:11.440 --> 0:11:15.800 says that she calls the bar like every night, asking 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:17.280 if there's any cute guys there. 0:11:18.960 --> 0:11:23.760 Oh really, this world just opened up? Are you serious? 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:26.480 She calls it ahead of time, just to see if 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:28.000 it's worth her time to go down there. 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:31.200 Yeah, not just that place. Apparently she does that all 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:31.720 over town. 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:33.360 How do you know all over town? 0:11:33.440 --> 0:11:36.320 Yes, that's what the bartender said. So I don't know. 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:39.280 So are you upset that you were the cute guy 0:11:39.280 --> 0:11:41.760 that the bartender reported on kind of a compliment, or. 0:11:41.720 --> 0:11:44.160 The fact that she calls the bar every single night 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:44.959 going out. 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:47.440 There, Like she doesn't go to the bar every night. 0:11:47.360 --> 0:11:49.000 Though, unless there's cute guys. 0:11:48.600 --> 0:11:51.240 Yeah, there's a good radio enough, that's why she decided 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:55.520 to go from I'm staying home, I'm going out, yes Worth, 0:11:55.600 --> 0:11:57.120 you're going out for that's a compliment. 0:11:57.640 --> 0:11:58.640 She said that to you. 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:01.480 She mentioned that the night that she was going out 0:12:01.600 --> 0:12:05.280 and met you, she was considering staying in, but something 0:12:05.880 --> 0:12:07.800 changed her mind and she wanted to go. 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:08.760 Out that night instead. 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:10.520 Okay, so it turns. 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:12.280 Out that something was a phone call to the bar 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:14.600 to ask if there's any good looking guys there, but we. 0:12:14.559 --> 0:12:15.079 Didn't know that. 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:17.720 Why does that make you so upset? 0:12:18.000 --> 0:12:20.719 Well, I'm just another cute guy at a bar to her, 0:12:20.760 --> 0:12:24.280 And it's just kind of shady that she is talking 0:12:24.320 --> 0:12:28.160 how spontaneous this whole thing was, when really she kind 0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:29.120 of planned the whole. 0:12:30.679 --> 0:12:32.760 So it feels like you were deceived a little bit. 0:12:33.240 --> 0:12:35.280 It's nice to be the cute guy, but now it's 0:12:35.360 --> 0:12:38.080 like you don't feel special because every night there's another 0:12:38.200 --> 0:12:38.840 cute guy. 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:40.520 And I just feel like it's weird someone pretends they 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:44.319 just met you randomly when they didn't acting a bit. 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:45.280 Yeah, yeah, exactly. 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:48.080 I didn't feel special at all and pretty weird to me. 0:12:48.280 --> 0:12:50.480 Now you feel specially you're on a radio show. 0:12:50.640 --> 0:12:56.320 Yeah, and she calls us every day, though she doesn't 0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:57.520 she's before ever. 0:12:57.640 --> 0:13:00.600 Actually she specifically reached out so that we get in 0:13:00.679 --> 0:13:03.200 contact with you to find this information out. 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:05.000 That should mean something. 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:06.280 Right, I guess. 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:08.040 I mean, now you have your reason. 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:11.640 Uh okay, well, thank you for that, and we're thankful. 0:13:11.640 --> 0:13:14.120 But who I think is more appreciative is actually Jillian, 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:16.439 who is on the other line listening to this conversation. 0:13:16.600 --> 0:13:18.560 It does soe like she's like always on the other line. 0:13:18.720 --> 0:13:23.360 Yeah, this is the only one actually making phone calls 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:23.840 these days. 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:24.720 Jillian, are you there? 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:27.360 I'm here, and I have quite a bit to say in. 0:13:27.360 --> 0:13:30.480 Response to that, good things. 0:13:31.080 --> 0:13:34.320 I'm sorry, No, I'm not sorry. 0:13:34.440 --> 0:13:36.679 What did I get wrong? Listen? First of all, I 0:13:36.720 --> 0:13:43.000 do not call them every night, like Friday and Saturday nights, okay, okay, 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:45.560 And like listen, if I'm at home, I don't want 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:48.360 to have to like put on pants and like make up, 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:52.520 and you know, like just to go to a bar 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:55.600 when there's nobody there and so I'll call be like, hey, 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:57.120 is it popping? There are a lot of guys there, 0:13:57.120 --> 0:14:00.520 what's going on? But I was not find you guys 0:14:00.520 --> 0:14:02.640 when I said I almost never approach anybody. 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:05.040 Oh, she did mention that to U, Zach. 0:14:05.160 --> 0:14:07.280 I mean, yeah, are you still there, Zach? 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:09.800 Yeah, I'm not sure what to believe anymore. I mean 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:14.280 she's saying one thing to you guys, the bartender says 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:16.440 a different thing than me, So I don't know. 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:18.319 This is all kind of shady, dude. 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:20.000 It would have been such a good pickup line to 0:14:20.040 --> 0:14:21.480 walk up to him and be like, hey, I called 0:14:21.480 --> 0:14:22.920 ahead of time and they said you were here. 0:14:23.880 --> 0:14:28.360 You're that well? 0:14:28.800 --> 0:14:31.000 I would Yeah, you're right. 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:31.880 Maybe I'll just say it. 0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:32.360 Yeah. 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:35.240 No, I asked for hot guys and they delivered you. 0:14:35.480 --> 0:14:37.480 I'm so happy to tell us how that goes. 0:14:37.640 --> 0:14:40.560 Not as romantic to a guy's year as you probably think. 0:14:40.680 --> 0:14:43.320 Don't think anyone' will give her romance at a bar, Jeff, 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:44.760 They're just looking to talk. 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:48.960 More Clearly, someone who is looking for romance is Zach, 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:51.680 and he feels like he's not special, that he's just 0:14:51.800 --> 0:14:54.440 one of many guys. You would have taken any cute 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:56.360 guy at the bar that night and he just happened 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:56.840 to be there. 0:14:57.320 --> 0:15:00.080 That is absolutely not accurate. I can see why you 0:15:00.120 --> 0:15:02.760 would think that, but it's it's so not true. 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:07.600 And we do appreciate you coming forward, Gillian and actually 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:09.320 admitting that you did this, because I think a lot 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:12.320 of people would deny it or try to like be like, no, 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:15.080 I've never done that. You told us you were going 0:15:15.160 --> 0:15:16.960 to stay in, but you had a special feeling, and 0:15:17.000 --> 0:15:20.000 the special feeling was a call to the bar asking 0:15:20.000 --> 0:15:23.320 them to scope out hot guys for you. 0:15:22.480 --> 0:15:24.160 Which Alexis is definitely picking up. 0:15:24.200 --> 0:15:25.960 I think every bar should just start posting who's there 0:15:26.000 --> 0:15:29.440 online that. 0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:31.920 You should feel special. The bartender said, there were lots 0:15:31.960 --> 0:15:34.120 of cute guys, but you were the cutest, and you're 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:34.720 the one I talked to. 0:15:35.160 --> 0:15:39.200 Oh look at that stand out. You're a standout cutie, Zach. 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:42.800 It's the strange to pretend like it wasn't all set up. 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:45.880 Well, now that all the information is out there, can 0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:48.640 we book ski ball again and actually follow through with 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:50.640 the second date that you had already planned for each 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:52.200 other before this misunderstanding. 0:15:52.320 --> 0:15:54.960 I mean, if anything, Zach, it shows what a on 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:56.800 top organized woman she is. 0:15:57.400 --> 0:15:59.560 Yeah, she definitely. 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:01.640 Got her her life organized, and if you guys start dating, 0:16:01.640 --> 0:16:03.560 she'll call the bar make sure it's all ugly guys 0:16:03.560 --> 0:16:04.600 the next time she goes. 0:16:04.720 --> 0:16:05.560 That's a good point. 0:16:07.560 --> 0:16:08.200 Since I met you. 0:16:08.560 --> 0:16:15.840 Oh yeah, all right, I mean I'm willing to probably again. 0:16:16.240 --> 0:16:19.640 Okay, really wow, that was so heartfelt, Zach, I really 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:19.960 buy it. 0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:20.520 I know. 0:16:20.560 --> 0:16:22.240 I wonder if this is like setting her up to 0:16:22.280 --> 0:16:22.920 get stood. 0:16:22.760 --> 0:16:24.800 Up now, because if you actually agree to meet up 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:26.080 with her, we will pay for the date. 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:30.120 Yeah, okay again, it just feels. 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:33.440 Like very like you're brushing us off in the room. 0:16:33.520 --> 0:16:34.680 Can feel something's weird. 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:36.880 I didn't expect reactions from men anymore. 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:40.040 Zach, be honest. It doesn't sound like you're actually gonna 0:16:40.040 --> 0:16:40.560 call her, are you? 0:16:41.320 --> 0:16:41.520 Yeah? 0:16:41.680 --> 0:16:42.280 Probably not. 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:47.440 I mean, look now, they're both ghosting each other for 0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:47.880 each other. 0:16:50.920 --> 0:16:54.200