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Speaker 5: If you're a single lady and you're looking to make
Speaker 5: the first move and approach a guy at a bar, wow,
Speaker 5: what is the right play.
Speaker 2: Drink? I'm just gonna say make eye contact and say.
Speaker 5: Hi, and you could do what Brooke does, open up
Speaker 5: her purse and say hey, I got some free jerky.
Speaker 6: I bought off a Randol in the street one share
Speaker 6: stick and she's.
Speaker 1: Like, everybody knows jerky stands on the side of the
Speaker 1: highway are the best?
Speaker 6: Are?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 6: It has a surprisingly high success rate.
Speaker 5: Or you can do it, one of our listeners did
Speaker 5: when she saw a cute guy, and even though her
Speaker 5: move was a little unorthodox, apparently it worked. You're gonna
Speaker 5: hear it in your second date update right after this
Speaker 5: second date update for a date, would you rather be
Speaker 5: silently ghosted or blatantly canceled on?
Speaker 2: Yikes? I at least you would know if you're blatantly
Speaker 2: canceled on.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but I wondering I can make up my own excuse,
Speaker 7: like I'm too perfect?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5: You when you're ghosted, there's still that like glimmer of
Speaker 5: hope that maybe they got the wrong bar or maybe they.
Speaker 2: Got a rested and their phone broke.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because they fell down a man hole and they
Speaker 5: can't get out. You meant a story for yourself there
Speaker 5: that makes you feel good. But today, one of our listeners, Jillian,
Speaker 5: thought she had a second date locked down until she
Speaker 5: got one very strange last minute text, calling it off,
Speaker 5: and now she's really confused and needs our help. Jillian,
Speaker 5: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: Hi, thank you.
Speaker 1: My interest is so Pete don't want to know what
Speaker 1: that text message says that someone wassed.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so let's start at the beginning of your story.
Speaker 6: How did you meet this guy? What's his name?
Speaker 4: His named Zach?
Speaker 6: Okay, where did you and Zach meet?
Speaker 4: So? We met at a bar?
Speaker 2: Oh in real life?
Speaker 8: In real life?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know. So it was like last Friday night.
Speaker 4: I had been planning on staying in, like not going
Speaker 4: out at all that night.
Speaker 1: It always happens, right, I know, right, which means that
Speaker 1: you weren't looking your best.
Speaker 2: You're probably kind of a mess. But yes, okay, No,
Speaker 2: I don't mean that in a mean way. I was
Speaker 2: looking kid, Okay, that's just mean.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Then I had this like feeling after I got home
Speaker 4: from work where I was like, no, you know what,
Speaker 4: I actually don't want to have a cozy night and
Speaker 4: I want to go do something.
Speaker 7: Feeling like I always have the feeling to go. You're
Speaker 7: feeling to go out at so fun.
Speaker 2: You're bringing the good energy.
Speaker 6: Okay, So where did you go?
Speaker 5: So?
Speaker 4: I called my girlfriend? We go to a bar? Kind
Speaker 4: of by my place and we're just hanging out, and
Speaker 4: then I see this guy and I like, I don't
Speaker 4: usually make the first move, like ever, but I was
Speaker 4: kind of like listening to their not listening to their conversation.
Speaker 4: But I was at the bar trying to get a drink.
Speaker 2: I thought you were gonna say, but I was kind
Speaker 2: of drunk, so.
Speaker 6: I did it.
Speaker 4: Right there. They were talking about the movie Wicked, oh,
Speaker 4: and I had just seen it, and their opinions were
Speaker 4: like totally wrong. So I jumped in to tell him
Speaker 4: why he was wrong, but also just like to flirt
Speaker 4: with him, and.
Speaker 2: Okay, right off the path.
Speaker 7: I don't argue about a man with Wicked either.
Speaker 3: I just know that there's two guys arguing over Wicked together.
Speaker 6: I feel like I already know why he's not calling
Speaker 6: you back.
Speaker 2: But yeah, no, she was being playful.
Speaker 4: Come on, yeah, if you like touch their arm and stuff,
Speaker 4: then they love an argument. So anyway, we ended up
Speaker 4: talking for a while. We went to another bar together,
Speaker 4: just the two of us. Okay, yeah, well she was
Speaker 4: kind of done. She was like, yeah, I came out
Speaker 4: for you, so if you're good, like bye, and we
Speaker 4: had plans for a second date, we were going to
Speaker 4: go to this bar that has ski ball and I
Speaker 4: was going to beat him at skyball and the gills.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, So you guys even talked about where
Speaker 1: and when and all of it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, all of it. And so then she's the crazy part.
Speaker 4: That morning that we're supposed to go out, I get
Speaker 4: a text from him that says, I'm onto you, dates
Speaker 4: off on to you, onto you, I'm on to you.
Speaker 6: Yeah, what does that mean?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I texted it back and I was like, what are
Speaker 4: you talking about? And then he just didn't answer me.
Speaker 2: Does he think that you're in a relationship or something?
Speaker 2: That's the first thing that.
Speaker 5: I think, Oh, yeah, we should have asked, are you
Speaker 5: currently with somebody I know?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, what's wrong with that?
Speaker 1: And that's so strange too, because you don't have any
Speaker 1: Like it's not like you can ask his friends.
Speaker 2: You don't know anybody that he knows, you.
Speaker 8: Know, right exactly?
Speaker 2: If you google search.
Speaker 1: Your name, is there like a weird news article that
Speaker 1: comes up of somebody who with a shared name.
Speaker 4: I don't even know if he knows my last name
Speaker 4: to google me at all? But also, like I don't
Speaker 4: think anything crazy comes up.
Speaker 6: Last name is Dahmer. I don't know.
Speaker 5: I swear I paid to have all those articles deleted.
Speaker 6: This is a true mystery.
Speaker 4: Yeah. My best guess is that maybe one of his
Speaker 4: friends like thought I was someone else that they recognize me,
Speaker 4: you know, like dark bar.
Speaker 8: I don't know.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, you.
Speaker 7: Know what that's happened to my friend group before. Really,
Speaker 7: oh she was some other girl, bro, never mind, it
Speaker 7: could be that.
Speaker 2: Like a girl from the dating apps.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was just so bold, I know, and that
Speaker 1: you don't follow it up, Like, if you're gonna be accused,
Speaker 1: just tell me what's.
Speaker 2: Been accused of.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just so frustrating. Like I've texted him a
Speaker 4: few times being like, hey, I don't even need to
Speaker 4: go out again, I just want to know what are
Speaker 4: you upset about? And I don't get anything.
Speaker 1: Well, And you need to know for future dates because
Speaker 1: what if other men say the same thing and you
Speaker 1: still don't know what you know?
Speaker 3: Is your purposely using him for something?
Speaker 6: Just tell us?
Speaker 5: At least mass texting him makes you sound super laid
Speaker 5: back and chill, so he has nothing to complain about
Speaker 5: when we call him now and try and ask him
Speaker 5: why he didn't follow through with the second date that
Speaker 5: you had already arranged with him.
Speaker 2: What the hell that text message meant?
Speaker 6: Really, pile on and tell him everything is done wrong
Speaker 6: in his life.
Speaker 2: His opinions, we suck.
Speaker 5: Yes, good, we will beat him into a pulp. Second
Speaker 5: date update coming up right after.
Speaker 6: This second date update.
Speaker 5: I can't believe we never caught the nursery rhyme connection
Speaker 5: because our listener, Jillian, I met a guy named.
Speaker 2: Zacha and Jill.
Speaker 5: Zach and Jill, you mean Jack and Jill, But it
Speaker 5: sounds it sounds pretty close.
Speaker 2: Okay, someone.
Speaker 1: Someone fluggs preschool in this room, and it was It
Speaker 1: was definitely not Zach rhyme.
Speaker 5: Sorry for trying to draw a connection. I thought it
Speaker 5: was a cute story. They met at a bar. They
Speaker 5: were drinking pails of white claw together.
Speaker 2: How the nursery rhyme goes?
Speaker 5: Jill said great to another date, and Zach canceled last second.
Speaker 6: Okay, and that's where we are today.
Speaker 5: Like a total jerk, Zach reached out to Jillian the
Speaker 5: day of their second meet up and said, I'm on
Speaker 5: to you.
Speaker 6: Date canceled, So Zach just.
Speaker 2: Is fetching a pail of water right now, he's rolling
Speaker 2: down a hill. I think I thought it was white claw.
Speaker 7: I got the nursery right now.
Speaker 5: The whole thing is confusing, especially to Jillian, because there
Speaker 5: was no explanation for what he meant by I'm on
Speaker 5: to you.
Speaker 2: It's so accusatory.
Speaker 1: I mean, the thing is is that although Jeff you're
Speaker 1: calling him a jerk, he thinks she's a jerk, is.
Speaker 2: What it sounds like.
Speaker 6: Yeah, but we don't know why exactly.
Speaker 7: I'm on to you. We'll raise an eyebrow to anybody. Yeah,
Speaker 7: walk up to me and say that right now, I'd
Speaker 7: be like, what you feel guilty?
Speaker 6: Yeah, no matter what am I doing?
Speaker 1: Yeah, my guess is that he's going to be coming
Speaker 1: in hot like a text like that.
Speaker 2: It's not going to be I just.
Speaker 7: Thought, what if it was his tagline? What if he
Speaker 7: answers it like I'm onto you? You know what if
Speaker 7: that's his thing?
Speaker 5: Yeah, you probably don't want to end up with him. Yeah,
Speaker 5: probably not dial his number. See how he answers the
Speaker 5: phone if he picks up, and hopefully get an explanation
Speaker 5: and are you ready?
Speaker 6: I'm ready.
Speaker 5: So that was a question just to myself I'm ready.
Speaker 7: When he's talking to Jeff.
Speaker 6: Okay, Hello, Hey is this Zach?
Speaker 9: Yes, who's speaking?
Speaker 2: Interesting? Hey Zach, welcome to the show.
Speaker 9: Uh what is this Hello?
Speaker 6: Sorry? Sorry for that.
Speaker 5: She was so flirty with that question. This is there
Speaker 5: a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 5: This is a segment called second Date Update. Okay, you
Speaker 5: could help us because we have a listener who you
Speaker 5: met up with the other night.
Speaker 6: Her name is Jillian.
Speaker 2: You guys met at a bar.
Speaker 9: Oh my god, are you joking?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 9: No? Uh yeah, she keeps texting me.
Speaker 5: Yes, right, I can hear your con Can I tell
Speaker 5: you what we know from what Jillian told us? Because
Speaker 5: she said, you guys met at the bar the other night,
Speaker 5: you hit it off, ended up separating from your friend
Speaker 5: group to just hang out one on one, and then
Speaker 5: arranged a second meetup. Had it all planned out until
Speaker 5: the day of she got this cryptic text from you
Speaker 5: saying I'm on to you.
Speaker 10: Yeah.
Speaker 9: Wow, Okay, so she'd told you a lot.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I mean, honestly, she has no idea what
Speaker 1: you're referring to in that text message.
Speaker 9: Well, I can explain that.
Speaker 5: That would be great because she just does not understand
Speaker 5: what happened, if she did something wrong. We're just trying
Speaker 5: to give her some clarity.
Speaker 6: We asked, are you in the middle of some awful dealings?
Speaker 7: And she's like, I am not in the midst of evil,
Speaker 7: so you know what I mean.
Speaker 6: So she has no idea what.
Speaker 10: You're talking about.
Speaker 9: Okay. So the day of the next date, I went
Speaker 9: back to the bar that we had met at and
Speaker 9: the spartender recognizes me and he says, hey, are you
Speaker 9: hanging out with Jill again anytime soon?
Speaker 10: Oh?
Speaker 2: They know her at the bar, like she's a regular
Speaker 2: or something.
Speaker 9: Okay, well that's what I was thinking. So I say,
Speaker 9: what's going on? How do you know her? And he
Speaker 9: says that she calls the bar like every night, asking
Speaker 9: if there's any cute guys there.
Speaker 2: Oh really, this world just opened up? Are you serious?
Speaker 1: She calls it ahead of time, just to see if
Speaker 1: it's worth her time to go down there.
Speaker 9: Yeah, not just that place. Apparently she does that all
Speaker 9: over town.
Speaker 2: How do you know all over town?
Speaker 9: Yes, that's what the bartender said. So I don't know.
Speaker 1: So are you upset that you were the cute guy
Speaker 1: that the bartender reported on kind of a compliment, or.
Speaker 6: The fact that she calls the bar every single night
Speaker 6: going out.
Speaker 2: There, Like she doesn't go to the bar every night.
Speaker 5: Though, unless there's cute guys.
Speaker 7: Yeah, there's a good radio enough, that's why she decided
Speaker 7: to go from I'm staying home, I'm going out, yes Worth,
Speaker 7: you're going out for that's a compliment.
Speaker 9: She said that to you.
Speaker 5: She mentioned that the night that she was going out
Speaker 5: and met you, she was considering staying in, but something
Speaker 5: changed her mind and she wanted to go.
Speaker 6: Out that night instead.
Speaker 9: Okay, so it turns.
Speaker 5: Out that something was a phone call to the bar
Speaker 5: to ask if there's any good looking guys there, but we.
Speaker 6: Didn't know that.
Speaker 2: Why does that make you so upset?
Speaker 9: Well, I'm just another cute guy at a bar to her,
Speaker 9: And it's just kind of shady that she is talking
Speaker 9: how spontaneous this whole thing was, when really she kind
Speaker 9: of planned the whole.
Speaker 2: So it feels like you were deceived a little bit.
Speaker 7: It's nice to be the cute guy, but now it's
Speaker 7: like you don't feel special because every night there's another
Speaker 7: cute guy.
Speaker 3: And I just feel like it's weird someone pretends they
Speaker 3: just met you randomly when they didn't acting a bit.
Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 9: I didn't feel special at all and pretty weird to me.
Speaker 2: Now you feel specially you're on a radio show.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and she calls us every day, though she doesn't
Speaker 6: she's before ever.
Speaker 5: Actually she specifically reached out so that we get in
Speaker 5: contact with you to find this information out.
Speaker 6: That should mean something.
Speaker 4: Right, I guess.
Speaker 9: I mean, now you have your reason.
Speaker 5: Uh okay, well, thank you for that, and we're thankful.
Speaker 5: But who I think is more appreciative is actually Jillian,
Speaker 5: who is on the other line listening to this conversation.
Speaker 6: It does soe like she's like always on the other line.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is the only one actually making phone calls
Speaker 2: these days.
Speaker 6: Jillian, are you there?
Speaker 4: I'm here, and I have quite a bit to say in.
Speaker 5: Response to that, good things.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, No, I'm not sorry.
Speaker 4: What did I get wrong? Listen? First of all, I
Speaker 4: do not call them every night, like Friday and Saturday nights, okay, okay,
Speaker 4: And like listen, if I'm at home, I don't want
Speaker 4: to have to like put on pants and like make up,
Speaker 4: and you know, like just to go to a bar
Speaker 4: when there's nobody there and so I'll call be like, hey,
Speaker 4: is it popping? There are a lot of guys there,
Speaker 4: what's going on? But I was not find you guys
Speaker 4: when I said I almost never approach anybody.
Speaker 6: Oh, she did mention that to U, Zach.
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, are you still there, Zach?
Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm not sure what to believe anymore. I mean
Speaker 9: she's saying one thing to you guys, the bartender says
Speaker 9: a different thing than me, So I don't know.
Speaker 10: This is all kind of shady, dude.
Speaker 1: It would have been such a good pickup line to
Speaker 1: walk up to him and be like, hey, I called
Speaker 1: ahead of time and they said you were here.
Speaker 6: You're that well?
Speaker 8: I would Yeah, you're right.
Speaker 4: Maybe I'll just say it.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 2: No, I asked for hot guys and they delivered you.
Speaker 2: I'm so happy to tell us how that goes.
Speaker 6: Not as romantic to a guy's year as you probably think.
Speaker 1: Don't think anyone' will give her romance at a bar, Jeff,
Speaker 1: They're just looking to talk.
Speaker 5: More Clearly, someone who is looking for romance is Zach,
Speaker 5: and he feels like he's not special, that he's just
Speaker 5: one of many guys. You would have taken any cute
Speaker 5: guy at the bar that night and he just happened
Speaker 5: to be there.
Speaker 4: That is absolutely not accurate. I can see why you
Speaker 4: would think that, but it's it's so not true.
Speaker 5: And we do appreciate you coming forward, Gillian and actually
Speaker 5: admitting that you did this, because I think a lot
Speaker 5: of people would deny it or try to like be like, no,
Speaker 5: I've never done that. You told us you were going
Speaker 5: to stay in, but you had a special feeling, and
Speaker 5: the special feeling was a call to the bar asking
Speaker 5: them to scope out hot guys for you.
Speaker 2: Which Alexis is definitely picking up.
Speaker 3: I think every bar should just start posting who's there
Speaker 3: online that.
Speaker 4: You should feel special. The bartender said, there were lots
Speaker 4: of cute guys, but you were the cutest, and you're
Speaker 4: the one I talked to.
Speaker 2: Oh look at that stand out. You're a standout cutie, Zach.
Speaker 9: It's the strange to pretend like it wasn't all set up.
Speaker 5: Well, now that all the information is out there, can
Speaker 5: we book ski ball again and actually follow through with
Speaker 5: the second date that you had already planned for each
Speaker 5: other before this misunderstanding.
Speaker 1: I mean, if anything, Zach, it shows what a on
Speaker 1: top organized woman she is.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she definitely.
Speaker 7: Got her her life organized, and if you guys start dating,
Speaker 7: she'll call the bar make sure it's all ugly guys
Speaker 7: the next time she goes.
Speaker 2: That's a good point.
Speaker 4: Since I met you.
Speaker 9: Oh yeah, all right, I mean I'm willing to probably again.
Speaker 6: Okay, really wow, that was so heartfelt, Zach, I really
Speaker 6: buy it.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 6: I wonder if this is like setting her up to
Speaker 6: get stood.
Speaker 5: Up now, because if you actually agree to meet up
Speaker 5: with her, we will pay for the date.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay again, it just feels.
Speaker 6: Like very like you're brushing us off in the room.
Speaker 6: Can feel something's weird.
Speaker 3: I didn't expect reactions from men anymore.
Speaker 6: Zach, be honest. It doesn't sound like you're actually gonna
Speaker 6: call her, are you?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 9: Probably not.
Speaker 5: I mean, look now, they're both ghosting each other for
Speaker 5: each other.
Speaker 6: Yeah, two ghosts make a right, it's not it. I
Speaker 6: think it is Zach and Jill. That's how the fairy
Speaker 6: tale ends.
Speaker 2: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: I swear, sometimes you can just tell when somebody isn't
Speaker 5: fully into it and they're just saying yes to go
Speaker 5: along with pure pressure.
Speaker 2: I wanted him to be into it.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but there was something in his voice.
Speaker 6: I was like, yeah, yeah, sure.
Speaker 1: I mean he was still the hottest guy in the bar.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's why he doesn't carry has options.
Speaker 5: But if someone's not into it, you don't want to
Speaker 5: go along with it. Honey, will you marry me?
Speaker 6: Fine?
Speaker 9: No.
Speaker 5: The great thing about it is both of them were
Speaker 5: actually honest with us. In the end, she admitted that
Speaker 5: she calls ahead to bars to scope cute guys out.
Speaker 5: He admits he'll say yes to dates when he doesn't
Speaker 5: really care to actually meet up with him.
Speaker 3: So many questions for the bar, her type, Does she
Speaker 3: give photos, know more about it?
Speaker 6: What does she get out of it? She get tipped more.
Speaker 2: It's a guy. It was a guy, it still is.
Speaker 1: He just gets somebody else to come to the are
Speaker 1: bars are always looking for more women.
Speaker 6: Yeah, all the bartenders out there.
Speaker 5: Make sure you text into seven eight, five, nine two
Speaker 5: when you have cute guys and then so Alexis knows
Speaker 5: where to.
Speaker 6: Be and when to go, even if it's nine am.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she'll be means to you. If you need help
Speaker 5: with your dating life, email the show. We'll call that
Speaker 5: person who's not calling you back and go check out
Speaker 5: all of our second dates up where our podcasts are
Speaker 5: at Brooke and Jeffrey.
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: Hey, kids, today we're all going to learn the difference
Speaker 5: between a share and an overshare. Okay, So I'm going
Speaker 5: to say something and you tell me if you think
Speaker 5: it's a share or an overshare.
Speaker 6: Okay, Okay.
Speaker 5: So I started doing yoga last week and my body
Speaker 5: feels great.
Speaker 2: Yay, that's a share.
Speaker 5: That's right, that's a share everyone all right, now, how
Speaker 5: about this? Now that I'm in yoga, I am so flexible.
Speaker 5: I can clean out my ear using my pinky toe.
Speaker 6: That would be uh. I don't like.
Speaker 2: It as a share, but I don't want that.
Speaker 6: Said over share. But we don't cheer over shares. We
Speaker 6: don't want to do that.
Speaker 7: Ye.
Speaker 5: Now, if only our listener had had that lesson before
Speaker 5: she texted a guy after their date, we wouldn't even
Speaker 5: be in this position. But we're gonna hear about the
Speaker 5: text that probably said a little bit too much in
Speaker 5: your second date update right after this second date update date.
Speaker 5: You know, researchers say what you text a person after
Speaker 5: a good first date, yeah, can actually be more important
Speaker 5: than the date itself.
Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, I mean you do look forward to it.
Speaker 1: That is not.
Speaker 2: Helpful for people who really overthink that text.
Speaker 9: Jeff.
Speaker 5: I'm just saying, look, for example, if you were to
Speaker 5: text hey, I had a great time with you tonight. Also,
Speaker 5: I accidentally took your fork from the dinner for a
Speaker 5: DNA TESTA.
Speaker 6: No, that's not good. You might not go over quite.
Speaker 1: So well soon you just leave it as I took
Speaker 1: your fork and you.
Speaker 10: Just saying night.
Speaker 6: Just try not to overthink it. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 5: Because one of our listeners, Carly, says she had a
Speaker 5: text exchange with a guy after they went out and
Speaker 5: it could be the reason she's not getting called back.
Speaker 5: And we're gonna get to that and talk about the
Speaker 5: text in a little bit. But first Carly, welcome to
Speaker 5: the show.
Speaker 8: Hey, everybody.
Speaker 2: But first Carly, we want to hear the good part.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I don't ask this a lot, but how
Speaker 5: important is it for you, Carly to get a second
Speaker 5: date here with this guy? Is it a like a
Speaker 5: lot like yay nay or hay neighbor type of situation?
Speaker 2: It's hey neighbor, Yeah, that's the media.
Speaker 5: Is it a yay nay or hay neighbor. Where are
Speaker 5: you on the important scale?
Speaker 8: No, No, it's a yay obviously.
Speaker 2: Okay, why would you not do one through ten?
Speaker 5: No, that's not as fun as y We only do
Speaker 5: fun stuff on our show. This this guy is a yay.
Speaker 5: Tell us about him and how you two met.
Speaker 8: His name is Blaine and I was at Top Golf
Speaker 8: with some friends. I was there for a party.
Speaker 2: That's great and a great place to meet people.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I never want someone to see me there.
Speaker 6: Nobody trying to help you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys love to show you. I don't know
Speaker 2: that reach around and just show you how.
Speaker 6: To do it. Is that what Blaine did for you?
Speaker 8: So, like, he was there with a group of guys
Speaker 8: and he were in like the next all over. So
Speaker 8: we were just talking when it wasn't our turn, and
Speaker 8: like we hit it off.
Speaker 6: Cute hit it off, Charley.
Speaker 1: I knew you would fun, Okay, I would, but I
Speaker 1: don't know.
Speaker 6: I'm sorry about that. Yeah I already said that joke.
Speaker 6: But that's okay, Charley, keep going. So you guys hit
Speaker 6: it off like how yeah?
Speaker 8: How he asked me out. I thought it was kind
Speaker 8: of cute because he gave me his number on a
Speaker 8: golf ball. He wrote it on there with a sharpie.
Speaker 7: Oh that's cool.
Speaker 1: Oh, actually, is it bad that I'm already thinking if
Speaker 1: you got married, it would have to all be golf
Speaker 1: seeing now.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, this guy isn't even calling her back. Let's
Speaker 5: not start making the wedding plans and choosing the plates
Speaker 5: and everything.
Speaker 7: That's true.
Speaker 5: Okay, so that sounds really nice. Did you guys end
Speaker 5: up hanging out?
Speaker 8: Yes, we said we were going to hang out next Friday,
Speaker 8: so we kind of planned that even before we left.
Speaker 8: But then we were texting and I was like, I
Speaker 8: wanted to see him sooner, so I moved it up
Speaker 8: to Tuesday.
Speaker 3: Also, don't waste a Friday night.
Speaker 2: That's a good call. It's a whole chapel roone song
Speaker 2: was a weekend on a guy.
Speaker 6: Somebody's jaded over there? All right, okay, so you moved
Speaker 6: it up to tuesday. How did that go?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 8: It was a really good date. I got to know
Speaker 8: a lot about him, like where he grew up and
Speaker 8: like what's important in his life. And you know he's
Speaker 8: into sports and animals. I love animals.
Speaker 1: So okay, so wait, I'm sorry, were you guys just
Speaker 1: at dinner. Is that what you did on Tuesday?
Speaker 8: Yeah? Like dinner, drinks?
Speaker 1: Okay, cool way to downplay it, broke, No, I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to set the scene.
Speaker 6: That's all you just did dinner? Okay. How'd you feel
Speaker 6: after that hangout?
Speaker 8: I mean I felt great, like he seems like a
Speaker 8: really great, caring guy. We did end up kissing.
Speaker 2: Was the kiss?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 8: It was really good.
Speaker 2: She's smiling.
Speaker 8: Okay.
Speaker 5: You did say the one thing that you're worried about
Speaker 5: that could have stopped you from hanging out again was
Speaker 5: your text message exchange afterwards. Can you get into that
Speaker 5: or just read it?
Speaker 6: Just read it. I don't know how long it is.
Speaker 6: Just give us the vibe I think.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 8: I mean, you know, like sometimes when your friends will
Speaker 8: ask you about to some expensive place and you're just
Speaker 8: not in a place to do that. So I just
Speaker 8: wanted to be honest and let him know where I
Speaker 8: was at. I did tell him that I was a
Speaker 8: little short on my rent this month.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, how did you jump from?
Speaker 9: That?
Speaker 2: Was a fun night? The text rent?
Speaker 7: I thought you were just going to say, hey, our
Speaker 7: next day, let's not do top golf.
Speaker 6: Maybe something a little lighter, you know, wait.
Speaker 2: Didn't he pay for dinner?
Speaker 8: Yeah, he paid for dinner.
Speaker 6: Okay, she's just sharing.
Speaker 5: I think she's trying to like be honest and be
Speaker 5: like I'm in a vulnerable place to.
Speaker 2: Really get that.
Speaker 1: I'm just curious how you brought it up, Like is
Speaker 1: it seems so out of the blue.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean we were just like talk about date
Speaker 8: and then we were talking about like, well, what's your
Speaker 8: week like and what are you doing? And I was
Speaker 8: just feeling a little stressed because of this, and so
Speaker 8: like it was just sharing like general stuff.
Speaker 5: Well it sounds normal to me, Like, don't you when
Speaker 5: you were dating Brooke talk about paying rent with all
Speaker 5: the guys that you hung out with your rent?
Speaker 9: Do think?
Speaker 2: Like, I think it's good to be vulnerable with people.
Speaker 1: But I'm wondering if he read it as basically an
Speaker 1: ask for money.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, that's how I read it. How did he
Speaker 6: react to that text?
Speaker 8: He was like really sweet and he he did send
Speaker 8: me a little bit of money. I mean like, oh really,
Speaker 8: that sounds like he's an amazing guy who cares. I
Speaker 8: mean we've been on one date. I wasn't expect seeing
Speaker 8: him to do anything.
Speaker 6: He set Wow, let's just are you taking notes over there?
Speaker 1: But he set you money and then stop talking to you,
Speaker 1: because that's kind of strange.
Speaker 6: Yeah, what happened after that?
Speaker 8: Yeah, and then we were supposed to go out again,
Speaker 8: and now he's just not responding.
Speaker 6: Huh.
Speaker 2: Do you think it regrets the money?
Speaker 1: He said, like, maybe he sent it when he was
Speaker 1: feeling bad, and then after he thought about it, he's like, ah, man,
Speaker 1: that's kind of a week.
Speaker 3: I was money for the date and then he ran out.
Speaker 7: I fought a nice gift for a girl, and you
Speaker 7: spent a couple hundred bucks, and then they kind of
Speaker 7: insinuated one another and you realize, all right, this may
Speaker 7: be the base of the whole relationship. I'm back out
Speaker 7: right now.
Speaker 5: An exchange of money or goods can change the vibe
Speaker 5: between two people. You would know, Jeff, Yes, I'm very
Speaker 5: cold after the exchange. I will tell you that, even
Speaker 5: though I'm satisfied in the moment, let's just not get
Speaker 5: into this hand. We need to call Blaine and figure
Speaker 5: out where his head is at. That's the most important.
Speaker 5: We're going to come back and do that with your
Speaker 5: second date update. Right after this second date update, we're
Speaker 5: in the middle of a second date update with one
Speaker 5: of our listeners, Carly, Am I saying that right?
Speaker 10: Carly? Yeah?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Do you want to emphasize the why more Carle exotic?
Speaker 5: It could be the traditional pronunciation of Carly. We're all
Speaker 5: still recovering from some of the information that we learned
Speaker 5: about her date.
Speaker 6: With Blaine, and she shared a lot. She did all
Speaker 6: the highlights real quick.
Speaker 5: They had a great meet up at Top Golf, It's
Speaker 5: where they met, had a great get to know you
Speaker 5: date sash followed by kind of an awkward text exchange
Speaker 5: that involved him sending our listener Carly money because she
Speaker 5: admitted she was short on.
Speaker 2: Rent, which is really kind of him.
Speaker 10: It is, but it.
Speaker 5: Does change the vibe. I mean me just saying it, Yeah,
Speaker 5: it does. It feels awkward to say they exchanged money afterwards,
Speaker 5: but he did send her some and then after that
Speaker 5: did not follow through with their plans for another date.
Speaker 7: I have a question, don't pipe up this early, but
Speaker 7: was it a loan, Like, was this something you was
Speaker 7: supposed to pay you back? Or he just gave you
Speaker 7: the money expecting nothing.
Speaker 8: Yeah, he didn't say it was alone.
Speaker 6: I guess it's not if he's not calling you back?
Speaker 1: Okays, he's the worst loan shark.
Speaker 6: Yeah, never mind.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean maybe it's just because she didn't send
Speaker 1: him a formal thank you.
Speaker 6: Oh I feel like Carl, you must have said thank you?
Speaker 10: Right?
Speaker 8: Oh yeah of course.
Speaker 6: Okay, So what's running through your head?
Speaker 4: Then?
Speaker 6: What what's going through your mind before we reach out
Speaker 6: to him?
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 8: I mean, like it might have made it weird, but
Speaker 8: I really like I I don't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't know. But you also made your rent, right,
Speaker 2: so that's good news.
Speaker 8: Yeah, but I really like him, So I mean, like,
Speaker 8: I don't they really bummed if that's the reason.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna tell you if a guy asked
Speaker 1: me to help pay his rent, I probably would call
Speaker 1: him back.
Speaker 5: Oh she didn't, Husband, Michael, do not ask bok to
Speaker 5: ship in towards This is on you this time.
Speaker 6: Let's just reach out.
Speaker 5: We'll see if Blaine picks up, and hopefully he has
Speaker 5: an explanation for us.
Speaker 6: But here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Blaine?
Speaker 10: Yeah, it's just Blaine.
Speaker 6: Hey man, what's up.
Speaker 2: It's Jeff, just on a first name basis, Jeff.
Speaker 6: I thought he would know what has anybody ever known. Yeah,
Speaker 6: thanks a lot.
Speaker 10: I'm sorry. Who are you guys?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll explain. We're a radio show. We're called Brook
Speaker 5: and Jeffrey in the morning on the show.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a good thing.
Speaker 5: We're calling you for a really fun, exciting reason because
Speaker 5: we're doing this segment called second Date Update, and we
Speaker 5: got an email from one of our listeners named Carly,
Speaker 5: who says she's very disappointed that you two aren't seeing
Speaker 5: each other and hanging out again.
Speaker 10: Yeah she really liked to Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, make you Does that make you curious?
Speaker 10: You have no, not really. I mean she's cute, she's fun.
Speaker 10: I just not interested in seeing her again. I mean,
Speaker 10: what else do you want me to tell you?
Speaker 6: I get it a million of those out there, But look, it.
Speaker 5: Would be helpful if we get a little bit of
Speaker 5: information for maybe there's more reasoning why. I don't know
Speaker 5: if it's too much to delve into this, but I
Speaker 5: did hear that the two of you guys kissed at
Speaker 5: the end of your date. And usually when that happens
Speaker 5: and the lady says she wants to go out again,
Speaker 5: that's a pretty exciting thing for a guy.
Speaker 10: Yeah, we had a nice kiss at the end of
Speaker 10: the date.
Speaker 2: Okay, can you give us something here to tell her?
Speaker 10: Like, well, okay, after our date we started texting each other.
Speaker 10: She said thanks, I had a good time, and then
Speaker 10: we started making plans that She mentioned that she was
Speaker 10: going to be short on rent next month.
Speaker 6: Whoa, that's that's new information to us.
Speaker 2: Wait, we're going to say that.
Speaker 3: Okay, any chance you sent her money?
Speaker 10: So I actually did?
Speaker 1: Oh wow, yes, we're all acting surprise now, dude, what
Speaker 1: a generous move of you.
Speaker 10: Wow.
Speaker 2: So wait, I have a question. Why did you send
Speaker 2: her money?
Speaker 10: I felt bad. I mean, like I've been short too,
Speaker 10: and I just felt like I can help her out.
Speaker 10: I'm in a decent spot. I asked her what her
Speaker 10: VENMO was, and I kicked her two hundred dollars right away.
Speaker 5: She mentioned that you were like a really good, caring guy.
Speaker 5: So it's clearly coming here.
Speaker 1: And when you're describing it too, like you're not shaming her,
Speaker 1: you're not making her feel bad.
Speaker 5: Like, yeah, did that make it weird though to give
Speaker 5: her the two hundred dollars?
Speaker 10: Not exactly, I mean, I'm what I was weird is
Speaker 10: that she was like, she was very appreciative. She was like,
Speaker 10: thank you, thank you, you know. Yeah, but then she says,
Speaker 10: I'm still eight hundred short.
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay with that.
Speaker 2: An maybe she was just telling you that so that.
Speaker 6: So that you could run her finances.
Speaker 2: Yeah, before how.
Speaker 3: She already said she couldn't pay her I don't.
Speaker 7: Know, and she should follow up with that.
Speaker 6: What was going on? What was going on with your
Speaker 6: in your mind?
Speaker 10: There's no way I'm giving a thousand dollars to a
Speaker 10: chick I just met you, and I'm thinking about, like,
Speaker 10: that's just a bad feeling, you know, it's a whole
Speaker 10: bad vibe.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's really short on rent.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 10: Yeah, I started thinking like, did she do this to
Speaker 10: other guys?
Speaker 1: It definitely doesn't feel like she's a scam artist or
Speaker 1: anything when we talked to her.
Speaker 7: Yeah, most girls don't at first brook.
Speaker 2: Oh, I feel like it's pretty honest.
Speaker 10: Whatever her situation is, it's just not something I want
Speaker 10: to be involved with.
Speaker 5: I think before you make any final decisions on that,
Speaker 5: I feel like maybe you need to hear from Carly herself,
Speaker 5: because she has been listening on the other line wanting
Speaker 5: to talk to you. Yeah, she's waiting for the other
Speaker 5: eight hundred dollars.
Speaker 2: So she didn't call for that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm kidding. We didn't even know about the eight
Speaker 5: hundred dollars death set. So just let Carly talk here.
Speaker 6: Call you there?
Speaker 8: Hey, yeah, I'm here. I mean, you're actually like it's
Speaker 8: a big deal to ask a question like I would
Speaker 8: you know, I didn't even.
Speaker 10: Ask a big deal.
Speaker 8: It was just informing, like I just told him I
Speaker 8: was still short.
Speaker 6: Are you wait?
Speaker 7: Are you putting it out as a vibe, like as
Speaker 7: an insinuation?
Speaker 10: Like why else would you tell me that after I
Speaker 10: just gave you two hundred dollars you know, like why why?
Speaker 10: Why else would you share that information? And what's what's
Speaker 10: this thing about? Like now I'm going to have to
Speaker 10: go to work?
Speaker 2: What is that what you said?
Speaker 4: Carl?
Speaker 2: You're not working?
Speaker 10: She actually said to me, I still got the text.
Speaker 10: I can read it to you.
Speaker 2: Oh that's what I wanted to begin. Please help, That's
Speaker 2: what I asked her to do.
Speaker 6: What did she say?
Speaker 10: Well, no, it says right here. She's like, look, I
Speaker 10: need eight hundred dollars more from you or I'm going.
Speaker 4: To have to go to work.
Speaker 6: Oh okay, that's way different.
Speaker 2: Who I thought you were trying to be vulnerable with
Speaker 2: this guy.
Speaker 8: You have to go to work, I mean, like nobody does.
Speaker 8: I don't want to.
Speaker 2: Crazy.
Speaker 10: This makes me question everything, like how did she even
Speaker 10: get that top golf? You know, did she pay for it?
Speaker 10: Somebody else pay for it?
Speaker 5: You know you don't have to pay for top golf.
Speaker 5: Yes you do if you had a birthday party. You don't, Jeff.
Speaker 2: Everyone chips in for birthday parties except for you. It's
Speaker 2: the same thing when we go to group thing and
Speaker 2: I have to say, Jeff, you have to pay.
Speaker 6: Before they bring the bill. There's nothing should I'm just saying,
Speaker 6: just like everything's.
Speaker 2: Free, you don't pay it not do not back this up, Curly.
Speaker 2: This is not good for you.
Speaker 3: I just don't eve you want rent going like a
Speaker 3: sugar dotty site.
Speaker 10: Not normal date exactly.
Speaker 6: You don't got to trick people. You could just be
Speaker 6: open to yeah, or just get a job.
Speaker 2: Why, it's just the universal rule of life.
Speaker 6: Why even being mean, She went to work, she got
Speaker 6: the money, she paid her rent.
Speaker 2: She said until next month.
Speaker 5: The person that we really need to focus on here
Speaker 5: is Blaine. I bet he feels horrible for not coming
Speaker 5: through for Carly. In her time of need and making
Speaker 5: her work condition out the eight hundred dollars.
Speaker 10: Right, yeah, I I feels so horrible.
Speaker 6: Okay, really wanted to hear because he's.
Speaker 10: No, I'm not responsible for no.
Speaker 5: Man, Well, here's what you won't have to be responsible
Speaker 5: for paying for your next date with Carly because we
Speaker 5: will cover that.
Speaker 6: Bill for you.
Speaker 2: Is that what you call this the beginning, Carly? We're
Speaker 2: going to cover the check.
Speaker 9: No?
Speaker 6: Actually, wait, that made me think of something, Carly.
Speaker 5: Did you move up the date a few days earlier
Speaker 5: so you could ask him for your rent before it
Speaker 5: was due.
Speaker 2: Friday?
Speaker 6: Is that why you changed the day?
Speaker 8: That it's a coincidence?
Speaker 1: Come on, No, wait, Tuesday is way too specific to
Speaker 1: be a coincidence.
Speaker 6: The first of the month, Carly.
Speaker 5: I am equally parts disappointed and impressed by you.
Speaker 8: Okay, you guys are reading way too much into this,
Speaker 8: Like we just get on with the gift card thing.
Speaker 5: Jokes on you, Carly. Nobody here reads. But let's let's
Speaker 5: do what he said. Let's ask Blaine, would you like
Speaker 5: to go out with carl one more time.
Speaker 6: On our dime?
Speaker 10: I'm not feeling it. No, I go next thing? I
Speaker 10: know She's probably gonna be trying to sell me some bitcoin, Carly.
Speaker 5: Do you have some available though, because now the time
Speaker 5: it sounds like.
Speaker 8: No, I don't do crypto standard.
Speaker 1: She doesn't do any money, have nobody Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the morning.
Speaker 6: Man, I didn't know that working was optional.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, it's not je We've all been here
Speaker 7: dedicating her whole life.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I didn't know I could do that. I need,
Speaker 6: I really need to look on to that.
Speaker 5: Hold on a second, Hey, Brooks, I'm a little short
Speaker 5: on plane money this month. You rent your clothes, so
Speaker 5: I'm sure you've got some extra cash.
Speaker 6: Question Mark.
Speaker 2: Brook checking?
Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, I'll see how she responds to that.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 6: Hopefully looking at it is. Look at that she said,
Speaker 6: yes I.
Speaker 9: Did.
Speaker 5: I'm not sending you picks for it.
Speaker 6: You know what appropriate?
Speaker 10: Okay?
Speaker 6: Okay, No, I'm not, Brook stop close, stop it.
Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, I'm just gonna send her to the link
Speaker 5: to our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 10: Either.
Speaker 9: Now.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna send her the link and my photos on there.
Speaker 5: I'm oh god, oh god, please do not talk to
Speaker 5: me ever again. Thank you?
Speaker 6: All Right, the show is going to be weird moving forward.
Speaker 2: Don't send that to me.
Speaker 6: There was something in there for you too. Extra Brook, but.
Speaker 5: Go check out our podcast where you get yours at
Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeff Right. All of our photos are up
Speaker 5: on there, and email the show if you want help.
Speaker 6: We'll call that person who's not calling you back.