1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,880 Speaker 1: All right, now you can finally get your chores done 2 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: on Saturday, because it's the your back to back classics. 3 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 2: That you, yes, clean, you've been saving for all week. 4 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:09,640 Speaker 1: Right now, that's right, it's Brig and Jeffrey in the morning, 5 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: and just a heads up tomorrow right here on the feed, 6 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:17,280 Speaker 1: we are going to be hosting something very special, something 7 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 1: just very unique, and that is our full hour episode, yes, one. 8 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 3: Of our favorites from last week that we aired on 9 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 3: our other podcast feeds. 10 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 11 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, So we have three podcast feeds. Second Day is 12 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: our most popular, and then we have a main feed 13 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 1: where we do one hour long episodes every day. So 14 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 1: this is just to give you a taste and see 15 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: if you like it. 16 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 2: And if you don't turn it off. Yeah, it's simple, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 17 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,480 Speaker 1: Like that's just heads up to check back here tomorrow 18 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 1: and right now, just enjoy your back to back classics. 19 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 5: If you're a single lady and you're looking to make 20 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 5: the first move and approach a guy at a bar, wow, 21 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 5: what is the right play. 22 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 2: Drink? I'm just gonna say make eye contact and say. 23 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:07,680 Speaker 5: Hi, and you could do what Brooke does, open up 24 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 5: her purse and say hey, I got some free jerky. 25 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,839 Speaker 6: I bought off a Randol in the street one share 26 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 6: stick and she's. 27 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 1: Like, everybody knows jerky stands on the side of the 28 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: highway are the best? 29 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 6: Are? 30 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 1: Yes? 31 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 6: It has a surprisingly high success rate. 32 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 5: Or you can do it, one of our listeners did 33 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,399 Speaker 5: when she saw a cute guy, and even though her 34 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:33,400 Speaker 5: move was a little unorthodox, apparently it worked. You're gonna 35 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 5: hear it in your second date update right after this 36 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:41,479 Speaker 5: second date update for a date, would you rather be 37 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 5: silently ghosted or blatantly canceled on? 38 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 2: Yikes? I at least you would know if you're blatantly 39 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 2: canceled on. 40 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, but I wondering I can make up my own excuse, 41 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 7: like I'm too perfect? 42 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean. 43 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 5: You when you're ghosted, there's still that like glimmer of 44 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 5: hope that maybe they got the wrong bar or maybe they. 45 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 2: Got a rested and their phone broke. 46 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, because they fell down a man hole and they 47 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 5: can't get out. You meant a story for yourself there 48 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 5: that makes you feel good. But today, one of our listeners, Jillian, 49 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:19,920 Speaker 5: thought she had a second date locked down until she 50 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 5: got one very strange last minute text, calling it off, 51 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 5: and now she's really confused and needs our help. Jillian, 52 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 5: Welcome to the show. 53 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 4: Hi, thank you. 54 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 1: My interest is so Pete don't want to know what 55 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: that text message says that someone wassed. 56 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, so let's start at the beginning of your story. 57 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 6: How did you meet this guy? What's his name? 58 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 4: His named Zach? 59 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 6: Okay, where did you and Zach meet? 60 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 4: So? We met at a bar? 61 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 2: Oh in real life? 62 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 8: In real life? 63 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know. So it was like last Friday night. 64 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 4: I had been planning on staying in, like not going 65 00:02:58,200 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 4: out at all that night. 66 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 1: It always happens, right, I know, right, which means that 67 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 1: you weren't looking your best. 68 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 2: You're probably kind of a mess. But yes, okay, No, 69 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 2: I don't mean that in a mean way. I was 70 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 2: looking kid, Okay, that's just mean. 71 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 9: Yeah. 72 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 4: Then I had this like feeling after I got home 73 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 4: from work where I was like, no, you know what, 74 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 4: I actually don't want to have a cozy night and 75 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 4: I want to go do something. 76 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 7: Feeling like I always have the feeling to go. You're 77 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 7: feeling to go out at so fun. 78 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 2: You're bringing the good energy. 79 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 6: Okay, So where did you go? 80 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:32,640 Speaker 5: So? 81 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 4: I called my girlfriend? We go to a bar? Kind 82 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 4: of by my place and we're just hanging out, and 83 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 4: then I see this guy and I like, I don't 84 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 4: usually make the first move, like ever, but I was 85 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 4: kind of like listening to their not listening to their conversation. 86 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 4: But I was at the bar trying to get a drink. 87 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 2: I thought you were gonna say, but I was kind 88 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 2: of drunk, so. 89 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 6: I did it. 90 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 4: Right there. They were talking about the movie Wicked, oh, 91 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 4: and I had just seen it, and their opinions were 92 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 4: like totally wrong. So I jumped in to tell him 93 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 4: why he was wrong, but also just like to flirt 94 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 4: with him, and. 95 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 2: Okay, right off the path. 96 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 7: I don't argue about a man with Wicked either. 97 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 3: I just know that there's two guys arguing over Wicked together. 98 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 6: I feel like I already know why he's not calling 99 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 6: you back. 100 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 2: But yeah, no, she was being playful. 101 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 4: Come on, yeah, if you like touch their arm and stuff, 102 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 4: then they love an argument. So anyway, we ended up 103 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 4: talking for a while. We went to another bar together, 104 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 4: just the two of us. Okay, yeah, well she was 105 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 4: kind of done. She was like, yeah, I came out 106 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 4: for you, so if you're good, like bye, and we 107 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 4: had plans for a second date, we were going to 108 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 4: go to this bar that has ski ball and I 109 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:50,479 Speaker 4: was going to beat him at skyball and the gills. 110 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:52,799 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, So you guys even talked about where 111 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 1: and when and all of it. 112 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, all of it. And so then she's the crazy part. 113 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:01,479 Speaker 4: That morning that we're supposed to go out, I get 114 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 4: a text from him that says, I'm onto you, dates 115 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 4: off on to you, onto you, I'm on to you. 116 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, what does that mean? 117 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:12,279 Speaker 2: I don't know. 118 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 4: I texted it back and I was like, what are 119 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 4: you talking about? And then he just didn't answer me. 120 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 2: Does he think that you're in a relationship or something? 121 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 2: That's the first thing that. 122 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 5: I think, Oh, yeah, we should have asked, are you 123 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 5: currently with somebody I know? 124 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 4: No? 125 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, what's wrong with that? 126 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: And that's so strange too, because you don't have any 127 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 1: Like it's not like you can ask his friends. 128 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:35,840 Speaker 2: You don't know anybody that he knows, you. 129 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 8: Know, right exactly? 130 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 2: If you google search. 131 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 1: Your name, is there like a weird news article that 132 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: comes up of somebody who with a shared name. 133 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 4: I don't even know if he knows my last name 134 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 4: to google me at all? But also, like I don't 135 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 4: think anything crazy comes up. 136 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:49,720 Speaker 6: Last name is Dahmer. I don't know. 137 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:55,159 Speaker 5: I swear I paid to have all those articles deleted. 138 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 6: This is a true mystery. 139 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 4: Yeah. My best guess is that maybe one of his 140 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 4: friends like thought I was someone else that they recognize me, 141 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 4: you know, like dark bar. 142 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 8: I don't know. 143 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, you. 144 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 7: Know what that's happened to my friend group before. Really, 145 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 7: oh she was some other girl, bro, never mind, it 146 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 7: could be that. 147 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:16,559 Speaker 2: Like a girl from the dating apps. 148 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was just so bold, I know, and that 149 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: you don't follow it up, Like, if you're gonna be accused, 150 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 1: just tell me what's. 151 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 2: Been accused of. 152 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just so frustrating. Like I've texted him a 153 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 4: few times being like, hey, I don't even need to 154 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 4: go out again, I just want to know what are 155 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 4: you upset about? And I don't get anything. 156 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:37,679 Speaker 1: Well, And you need to know for future dates because 157 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: what if other men say the same thing and you 158 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 1: still don't know what you know? 159 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 3: Is your purposely using him for something? 160 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 6: Just tell us? 161 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:50,359 Speaker 5: At least mass texting him makes you sound super laid 162 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:53,479 Speaker 5: back and chill, so he has nothing to complain about 163 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 5: when we call him now and try and ask him 164 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:58,040 Speaker 5: why he didn't follow through with the second date that 165 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:00,280 Speaker 5: you had already arranged with him. 166 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 2: What the hell that text message meant? 167 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 6: Really, pile on and tell him everything is done wrong 168 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:06,159 Speaker 6: in his life. 169 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 2: His opinions, we suck. 170 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 5: Yes, good, we will beat him into a pulp. Second 171 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 5: date update coming up right after. 172 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 6: This second date update. 173 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 5: I can't believe we never caught the nursery rhyme connection 174 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 5: because our listener, Jillian, I met a guy named. 175 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 2: Zacha and Jill. 176 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 5: Zach and Jill, you mean Jack and Jill, But it 177 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 5: sounds it sounds pretty close. 178 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 2: Okay, someone. 179 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: Someone fluggs preschool in this room, and it was It 180 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 1: was definitely not Zach rhyme. 181 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 5: Sorry for trying to draw a connection. I thought it 182 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 5: was a cute story. They met at a bar. They 183 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 5: were drinking pails of white claw together. 184 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 2: How the nursery rhyme goes? 185 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 5: Jill said great to another date, and Zach canceled last second. 186 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 6: Okay, and that's where we are today. 187 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 5: Like a total jerk, Zach reached out to Jillian the 188 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 5: day of their second meet up and said, I'm on 189 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 5: to you. 190 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 6: Date canceled, So Zach just. 191 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 2: Is fetching a pail of water right now, he's rolling 192 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 2: down a hill. I think I thought it was white claw. 193 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 7: I got the nursery right now. 194 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 5: The whole thing is confusing, especially to Jillian, because there 195 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 5: was no explanation for what he meant by I'm on 196 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 5: to you. 197 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 2: It's so accusatory. 198 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: I mean, the thing is is that although Jeff you're 199 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 1: calling him a jerk, he thinks she's a jerk, is. 200 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 2: What it sounds like. 201 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, but we don't know why exactly. 202 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 7: I'm on to you. We'll raise an eyebrow to anybody. Yeah, 203 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 7: walk up to me and say that right now, I'd 204 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 7: be like, what you feel guilty? 205 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:36,680 Speaker 6: Yeah, no matter what am I doing? 206 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, my guess is that he's going to be coming 207 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 1: in hot like a text like that. 208 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 2: It's not going to be I just. 209 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 7: Thought, what if it was his tagline? What if he 210 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 7: answers it like I'm onto you? You know what if 211 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 7: that's his thing? 212 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, you probably don't want to end up with him. Yeah, 213 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 5: probably not dial his number. See how he answers the 214 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 5: phone if he picks up, and hopefully get an explanation 215 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 5: and are you ready? 216 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 6: I'm ready. 217 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 5: So that was a question just to myself I'm ready. 218 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 7: When he's talking to Jeff. 219 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 6: Okay, Hello, Hey is this Zach? 220 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 9: Yes, who's speaking? 221 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 2: Interesting? Hey Zach, welcome to the show. 222 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 9: Uh what is this Hello? 223 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 6: Sorry? Sorry for that. 224 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 5: She was so flirty with that question. This is there 225 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 5: a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 226 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 5: This is a segment called second Date Update. Okay, you 227 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 5: could help us because we have a listener who you 228 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:47,079 Speaker 5: met up with the other night. 229 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 6: Her name is Jillian. 230 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 2: You guys met at a bar. 231 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 9: Oh my god, are you joking? 232 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:54,239 Speaker 2: No? 233 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 9: No? Uh yeah, she keeps texting me. 234 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 5: Yes, right, I can hear your con Can I tell 235 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 5: you what we know from what Jillian told us? Because 236 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:06,560 Speaker 5: she said, you guys met at the bar the other night, 237 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:10,199 Speaker 5: you hit it off, ended up separating from your friend 238 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 5: group to just hang out one on one, and then 239 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 5: arranged a second meetup. Had it all planned out until 240 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:18,319 Speaker 5: the day of she got this cryptic text from you 241 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 5: saying I'm on to you. 242 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 10: Yeah. 243 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 9: Wow, Okay, so she'd told you a lot. 244 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I mean, honestly, she has no idea what 245 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 1: you're referring to in that text message. 246 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 9: Well, I can explain that. 247 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:35,199 Speaker 5: That would be great because she just does not understand 248 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 5: what happened, if she did something wrong. We're just trying 249 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 5: to give her some clarity. 250 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 6: We asked, are you in the middle of some awful dealings? 251 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 7: And she's like, I am not in the midst of evil, 252 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 7: so you know what I mean. 253 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:45,680 Speaker 6: So she has no idea what. 254 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 10: You're talking about. 255 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 9: Okay. So the day of the next date, I went 256 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 9: back to the bar that we had met at and 257 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 9: the spartender recognizes me and he says, hey, are you 258 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 9: hanging out with Jill again anytime soon? 259 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:01,679 Speaker 10: Oh? 260 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 2: They know her at the bar, like she's a regular 261 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 2: or something. 262 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 9: Okay, well that's what I was thinking. So I say, 263 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 9: what's going on? How do you know her? And he 264 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 9: says that she calls the bar like every night, asking 265 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 9: if there's any cute guys there. 266 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 2: Oh really, this world just opened up? Are you serious? 267 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 1: She calls it ahead of time, just to see if 268 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 1: it's worth her time to go down there. 269 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:31,200 Speaker 9: Yeah, not just that place. Apparently she does that all 270 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 9: over town. 271 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 2: How do you know all over town? 272 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 9: Yes, that's what the bartender said. So I don't know. 273 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 1: So are you upset that you were the cute guy 274 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: that the bartender reported on kind of a compliment, or. 275 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 6: The fact that she calls the bar every single night 276 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:44,959 Speaker 6: going out. 277 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 2: There, Like she doesn't go to the bar every night. 278 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 5: Though, unless there's cute guys. 279 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, there's a good radio enough, that's why she decided 280 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 7: to go from I'm staying home, I'm going out, yes Worth, 281 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 7: you're going out for that's a compliment. 282 00:11:57,640 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 9: She said that to you. 283 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 5: She mentioned that the night that she was going out 284 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 5: and met you, she was considering staying in, but something 285 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 5: changed her mind and she wanted to go. 286 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 6: Out that night instead. 287 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 9: Okay, so it turns. 288 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 5: Out that something was a phone call to the bar 289 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 5: to ask if there's any good looking guys there, but we. 290 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:15,079 Speaker 6: Didn't know that. 291 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:17,720 Speaker 2: Why does that make you so upset? 292 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:20,719 Speaker 9: Well, I'm just another cute guy at a bar to her, 293 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 9: And it's just kind of shady that she is talking 294 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 9: how spontaneous this whole thing was, when really she kind 295 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 9: of planned the whole. 296 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 2: So it feels like you were deceived a little bit. 297 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 7: It's nice to be the cute guy, but now it's 298 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,080 Speaker 7: like you don't feel special because every night there's another 299 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 7: cute guy. 300 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 3: And I just feel like it's weird someone pretends they 301 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:44,319 Speaker 3: just met you randomly when they didn't acting a bit. 302 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, exactly. 303 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:48,080 Speaker 9: I didn't feel special at all and pretty weird to me. 304 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 2: Now you feel specially you're on a radio show. 305 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, and she calls us every day, though she doesn't 306 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 6: she's before ever. 307 00:12:57,640 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 5: Actually she specifically reached out so that we get in 308 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 5: contact with you to find this information out. 309 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 6: That should mean something. 310 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 4: Right, I guess. 311 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 9: I mean, now you have your reason. 312 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 5: Uh okay, well, thank you for that, and we're thankful. 313 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 5: But who I think is more appreciative is actually Jillian, 314 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:16,439 Speaker 5: who is on the other line listening to this conversation. 315 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 6: It does soe like she's like always on the other line. 316 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is the only one actually making phone calls 317 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 2: these days. 318 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 6: Jillian, are you there? 319 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 4: I'm here, and I have quite a bit to say in. 320 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 5: Response to that, good things. 321 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:34,320 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, No, I'm not sorry. 322 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:36,679 Speaker 4: What did I get wrong? Listen? First of all, I 323 00:13:36,720 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 4: do not call them every night, like Friday and Saturday nights, okay, okay, 324 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:45,560 Speaker 4: And like listen, if I'm at home, I don't want 325 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:48,360 Speaker 4: to have to like put on pants and like make up, 326 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 4: and you know, like just to go to a bar 327 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 4: when there's nobody there and so I'll call be like, hey, 328 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 4: is it popping? There are a lot of guys there, 329 00:13:57,120 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 4: what's going on? But I was not find you guys 330 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 4: when I said I almost never approach anybody. 331 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 6: Oh, she did mention that to U, Zach. 332 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, are you still there, Zach? 333 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm not sure what to believe anymore. I mean 334 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 9: she's saying one thing to you guys, the bartender says 335 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:16,440 Speaker 9: a different thing than me, So I don't know. 336 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:18,319 Speaker 10: This is all kind of shady, dude. 337 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 1: It would have been such a good pickup line to 338 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 1: walk up to him and be like, hey, I called 339 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 1: ahead of time and they said you were here. 340 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 6: You're that well? 341 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 8: I would Yeah, you're right. 342 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 4: Maybe I'll just say it. 343 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 7: Yeah. 344 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 2: No, I asked for hot guys and they delivered you. 345 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 2: I'm so happy to tell us how that goes. 346 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 6: Not as romantic to a guy's year as you probably think. 347 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 1: Don't think anyone' will give her romance at a bar, Jeff, 348 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 1: They're just looking to talk. 349 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 5: More Clearly, someone who is looking for romance is Zach, 350 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 5: and he feels like he's not special, that he's just 351 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 5: one of many guys. You would have taken any cute 352 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 5: guy at the bar that night and he just happened 353 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 5: to be there. 354 00:14:57,320 --> 00:15:00,080 Speaker 4: That is absolutely not accurate. I can see why you 355 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 4: would think that, but it's it's so not true. 356 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 5: And we do appreciate you coming forward, Gillian and actually 357 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 5: admitting that you did this, because I think a lot 358 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 5: of people would deny it or try to like be like, no, 359 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 5: I've never done that. You told us you were going 360 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 5: to stay in, but you had a special feeling, and 361 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 5: the special feeling was a call to the bar asking 362 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 5: them to scope out hot guys for you. 363 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 2: Which Alexis is definitely picking up. 364 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 3: I think every bar should just start posting who's there 365 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 3: online that. 366 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 4: You should feel special. The bartender said, there were lots 367 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 4: of cute guys, but you were the cutest, and you're 368 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 4: the one I talked to. 369 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 2: Oh look at that stand out. You're a standout cutie, Zach. 370 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 9: It's the strange to pretend like it wasn't all set up. 371 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 5: Well, now that all the information is out there, can 372 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:48,640 Speaker 5: we book ski ball again and actually follow through with 373 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 5: the second date that you had already planned for each 374 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 5: other before this misunderstanding. 375 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 1: I mean, if anything, Zach, it shows what a on 376 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 1: top organized woman she is. 377 00:15:57,400 --> 00:15:59,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, she definitely. 378 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 7: Got her her life organized, and if you guys start dating, 379 00:16:01,640 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 7: she'll call the bar make sure it's all ugly guys 380 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 7: the next time she goes. 381 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 2: That's a good point. 382 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 4: Since I met you. 383 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 9: Oh yeah, all right, I mean I'm willing to probably again. 384 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 6: Okay, really wow, that was so heartfelt, Zach, I really 385 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 6: buy it. 386 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 2: I know. 387 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 6: I wonder if this is like setting her up to 388 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 6: get stood. 389 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 5: Up now, because if you actually agree to meet up 390 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 5: with her, we will pay for the date. 391 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay again, it just feels. 392 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 6: Like very like you're brushing us off in the room. 393 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 6: Can feel something's weird. 394 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 3: I didn't expect reactions from men anymore. 395 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 6: Zach, be honest. It doesn't sound like you're actually gonna 396 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 6: call her, are you? 397 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 4: Yeah? 398 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 9: Probably not. 399 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 5: I mean, look now, they're both ghosting each other for 400 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 5: each other. 401 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, two ghosts make a right, it's not it. I 402 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 6: think it is Zach and Jill. That's how the fairy 403 00:16:56,840 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 6: tale ends. 404 00:16:57,800 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 2: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning. 405 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:04,320 Speaker 5: I swear, sometimes you can just tell when somebody isn't 406 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 5: fully into it and they're just saying yes to go 407 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:07,880 Speaker 5: along with pure pressure. 408 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 2: I wanted him to be into it. 409 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:12,439 Speaker 7: Yeah, but there was something in his voice. 410 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 6: I was like, yeah, yeah, sure. 411 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 1: I mean he was still the hottest guy in the bar. 412 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 1: Maybe that's why he doesn't carry has options. 413 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:22,879 Speaker 5: But if someone's not into it, you don't want to 414 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:25,919 Speaker 5: go along with it. Honey, will you marry me? 415 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:31,199 Speaker 6: Fine? 416 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:33,679 Speaker 9: No. 417 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 5: The great thing about it is both of them were 418 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:37,679 Speaker 5: actually honest with us. In the end, she admitted that 419 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:40,160 Speaker 5: she calls ahead to bars to scope cute guys out. 420 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 5: He admits he'll say yes to dates when he doesn't 421 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 5: really care to actually meet up with him. 422 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 3: So many questions for the bar, her type, Does she 423 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:50,800 Speaker 3: give photos, know more about it? 424 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 6: What does she get out of it? She get tipped more. 425 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 2: It's a guy. It was a guy, it still is. 426 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 1: He just gets somebody else to come to the are 427 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 1: bars are always looking for more women. 428 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, all the bartenders out there. 429 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 5: Make sure you text into seven eight, five, nine two 430 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 5: when you have cute guys and then so Alexis knows 431 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 5: where to. 432 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 6: Be and when to go, even if it's nine am. 433 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, she'll be means to you. If you need help 434 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 5: with your dating life, email the show. We'll call that 435 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 5: person who's not calling you back and go check out 436 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:24,640 Speaker 5: all of our second dates up where our podcasts are 437 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:26,200 Speaker 5: at Brooke and Jeffrey. 438 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:28,159 Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 439 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:32,880 Speaker 5: Hey, kids, today we're all going to learn the difference 440 00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:37,919 Speaker 5: between a share and an overshare. Okay, So I'm going 441 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:40,880 Speaker 5: to say something and you tell me if you think 442 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,200 Speaker 5: it's a share or an overshare. 443 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 6: Okay, Okay. 444 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:48,440 Speaker 5: So I started doing yoga last week and my body 445 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 5: feels great. 446 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:50,680 Speaker 2: Yay, that's a share. 447 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:57,479 Speaker 5: That's right, that's a share everyone all right, now, how 448 00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 5: about this? Now that I'm in yoga, I am so flexible. 449 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:04,399 Speaker 5: I can clean out my ear using my pinky toe. 450 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 6: That would be uh. I don't like. 451 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:10,399 Speaker 2: It as a share, but I don't want that. 452 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 6: Said over share. But we don't cheer over shares. We 453 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 6: don't want to do that. 454 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:16,199 Speaker 7: Ye. 455 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:20,399 Speaker 5: Now, if only our listener had had that lesson before 456 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 5: she texted a guy after their date, we wouldn't even 457 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:26,399 Speaker 5: be in this position. But we're gonna hear about the 458 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:30,119 Speaker 5: text that probably said a little bit too much in 459 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:34,680 Speaker 5: your second date update right after this second date update date. 460 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 5: You know, researchers say what you text a person after 461 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:42,160 Speaker 5: a good first date, yeah, can actually be more important 462 00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:43,400 Speaker 5: than the date itself. 463 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:45,639 Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, I mean you do look forward to it. 464 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:46,240 Speaker 1: That is not. 465 00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 2: Helpful for people who really overthink that text. 466 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 9: Jeff. 467 00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:51,879 Speaker 5: I'm just saying, look, for example, if you were to 468 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 5: text hey, I had a great time with you tonight. Also, 469 00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:58,399 Speaker 5: I accidentally took your fork from the dinner for a 470 00:19:58,520 --> 00:19:59,360 Speaker 5: DNA TESTA. 471 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 6: No, that's not good. You might not go over quite. 472 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: So well soon you just leave it as I took 473 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 1: your fork and you. 474 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:10,640 Speaker 10: Just saying night. 475 00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 6: Just try not to overthink it. That's all I'm saying. 476 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:15,439 Speaker 5: Because one of our listeners, Carly, says she had a 477 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:18,359 Speaker 5: text exchange with a guy after they went out and 478 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:21,400 Speaker 5: it could be the reason she's not getting called back. 479 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,439 Speaker 5: And we're gonna get to that and talk about the 480 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 5: text in a little bit. But first Carly, welcome to 481 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:27,160 Speaker 5: the show. 482 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:29,400 Speaker 8: Hey, everybody. 483 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:31,200 Speaker 2: But first Carly, we want to hear the good part. 484 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:34,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I don't ask this a lot, but how 485 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 5: important is it for you, Carly to get a second 486 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 5: date here with this guy? Is it a like a 487 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 5: lot like yay nay or hay neighbor type of situation? 488 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:45,639 Speaker 2: It's hey neighbor, Yeah, that's the media. 489 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:48,680 Speaker 5: Is it a yay nay or hay neighbor. Where are 490 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 5: you on the important scale? 491 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 8: No, No, it's a yay obviously. 492 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 2: Okay, why would you not do one through ten? 493 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:58,639 Speaker 5: No, that's not as fun as y We only do 494 00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 5: fun stuff on our show. This this guy is a yay. 495 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 5: Tell us about him and how you two met. 496 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 8: His name is Blaine and I was at Top Golf 497 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 8: with some friends. I was there for a party. 498 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:13,159 Speaker 2: That's great and a great place to meet people. 499 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I never want someone to see me there. 500 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:20,119 Speaker 6: Nobody trying to help you. 501 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:22,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys love to show you. I don't know 502 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 2: that reach around and just show you how. 503 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:28,160 Speaker 6: To do it. Is that what Blaine did for you? 504 00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:30,440 Speaker 8: So, like, he was there with a group of guys 505 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 8: and he were in like the next all over. So 506 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 8: we were just talking when it wasn't our turn, and 507 00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 8: like we hit it off. 508 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:40,160 Speaker 6: Cute hit it off, Charley. 509 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:52,720 Speaker 1: I knew you would fun, Okay, I would, but I 510 00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:53,200 Speaker 1: don't know. 511 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 6: I'm sorry about that. Yeah I already said that joke. 512 00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,600 Speaker 6: But that's okay, Charley, keep going. So you guys hit 513 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 6: it off like how yeah? 514 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 8: How he asked me out. I thought it was kind 515 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:04,919 Speaker 8: of cute because he gave me his number on a 516 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 8: golf ball. He wrote it on there with a sharpie. 517 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 7: Oh that's cool. 518 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,160 Speaker 1: Oh, actually, is it bad that I'm already thinking if 519 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 1: you got married, it would have to all be golf 520 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 1: seeing now. 521 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:16,480 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, this guy isn't even calling her back. Let's 522 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 5: not start making the wedding plans and choosing the plates 523 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 5: and everything. 524 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:20,440 Speaker 7: That's true. 525 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:23,879 Speaker 5: Okay, so that sounds really nice. Did you guys end 526 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 5: up hanging out? 527 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,520 Speaker 8: Yes, we said we were going to hang out next Friday, 528 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:29,920 Speaker 8: so we kind of planned that even before we left. 529 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,680 Speaker 8: But then we were texting and I was like, I 530 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 8: wanted to see him sooner, so I moved it up 531 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:35,960 Speaker 8: to Tuesday. 532 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:37,440 Speaker 3: Also, don't waste a Friday night. 533 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:40,280 Speaker 2: That's a good call. It's a whole chapel roone song 534 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:42,320 Speaker 2: was a weekend on a guy. 535 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 6: Somebody's jaded over there? All right, okay, so you moved 536 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,399 Speaker 6: it up to tuesday. How did that go? 537 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? 538 00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 8: It was a really good date. I got to know 539 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,119 Speaker 8: a lot about him, like where he grew up and 540 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,440 Speaker 8: like what's important in his life. And you know he's 541 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 8: into sports and animals. I love animals. 542 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:58,919 Speaker 1: So okay, so wait, I'm sorry, were you guys just 543 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: at dinner. Is that what you did on Tuesday? 544 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 8: Yeah? Like dinner, drinks? 545 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 1: Okay, cool way to downplay it, broke, No, I'm just 546 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 1: trying to set the scene. 547 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:09,160 Speaker 6: That's all you just did dinner? Okay. How'd you feel 548 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 6: after that hangout? 549 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:11,919 Speaker 8: I mean I felt great, like he seems like a 550 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 8: really great, caring guy. We did end up kissing. 551 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 2: Was the kiss? 552 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:18,640 Speaker 1: Oh? 553 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:19,360 Speaker 8: It was really good. 554 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 2: She's smiling. 555 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:22,399 Speaker 8: Okay. 556 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 5: You did say the one thing that you're worried about 557 00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:27,399 Speaker 5: that could have stopped you from hanging out again was 558 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 5: your text message exchange afterwards. Can you get into that 559 00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 5: or just read it? 560 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 6: Just read it. I don't know how long it is. 561 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:39,960 Speaker 6: Just give us the vibe I think. 562 00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 4: Yeah. 563 00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:43,159 Speaker 8: I mean, you know, like sometimes when your friends will 564 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,359 Speaker 8: ask you about to some expensive place and you're just 565 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 8: not in a place to do that. So I just 566 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:49,720 Speaker 8: wanted to be honest and let him know where I 567 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 8: was at. I did tell him that I was a 568 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 8: little short on my rent this month. 569 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:57,120 Speaker 2: Oh okay, how did you jump from? 570 00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:57,280 Speaker 9: That? 571 00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,640 Speaker 2: Was a fun night? The text rent? 572 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:02,199 Speaker 7: I thought you were just going to say, hey, our 573 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:03,680 Speaker 7: next day, let's not do top golf. 574 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:06,360 Speaker 6: Maybe something a little lighter, you know, wait. 575 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:07,399 Speaker 2: Didn't he pay for dinner? 576 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 8: Yeah, he paid for dinner. 577 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:10,919 Speaker 6: Okay, she's just sharing. 578 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 5: I think she's trying to like be honest and be 579 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:14,080 Speaker 5: like I'm in a vulnerable place to. 580 00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:14,679 Speaker 2: Really get that. 581 00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 1: I'm just curious how you brought it up, Like is 582 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:18,959 Speaker 1: it seems so out of the blue. 583 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:21,320 Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean we were just like talk about date 584 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 8: and then we were talking about like, well, what's your 585 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,520 Speaker 8: week like and what are you doing? And I was 586 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 8: just feeling a little stressed because of this, and so 587 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 8: like it was just sharing like general stuff. 588 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:32,919 Speaker 5: Well it sounds normal to me, Like, don't you when 589 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 5: you were dating Brooke talk about paying rent with all 590 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,240 Speaker 5: the guys that you hung out with your rent? 591 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:39,440 Speaker 9: Do think? 592 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:42,399 Speaker 2: Like, I think it's good to be vulnerable with people. 593 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,320 Speaker 1: But I'm wondering if he read it as basically an 594 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:46,480 Speaker 1: ask for money. 595 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, that's how I read it. How did he 596 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:49,359 Speaker 6: react to that text? 597 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 8: He was like really sweet and he he did send 598 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 8: me a little bit of money. I mean like, oh really, 599 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:57,720 Speaker 8: that sounds like he's an amazing guy who cares. I 600 00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 8: mean we've been on one date. I wasn't expect seeing 601 00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:01,680 Speaker 8: him to do anything. 602 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:04,959 Speaker 6: He set Wow, let's just are you taking notes over there? 603 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 1: But he set you money and then stop talking to you, 604 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 1: because that's kind of strange. 605 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:11,719 Speaker 6: Yeah, what happened after that? 606 00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 8: Yeah, and then we were supposed to go out again, 607 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 8: and now he's just not responding. 608 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:17,679 Speaker 6: Huh. 609 00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 2: Do you think it regrets the money? 610 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 1: He said, like, maybe he sent it when he was 611 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 1: feeling bad, and then after he thought about it, he's like, ah, man, 612 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 1: that's kind of a week. 613 00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:26,640 Speaker 3: I was money for the date and then he ran out. 614 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 7: I fought a nice gift for a girl, and you 615 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:31,439 Speaker 7: spent a couple hundred bucks, and then they kind of 616 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:33,719 Speaker 7: insinuated one another and you realize, all right, this may 617 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 7: be the base of the whole relationship. I'm back out 618 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 7: right now. 619 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 5: An exchange of money or goods can change the vibe 620 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:44,560 Speaker 5: between two people. You would know, Jeff, Yes, I'm very 621 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 5: cold after the exchange. I will tell you that, even 622 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 5: though I'm satisfied in the moment, let's just not get 623 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,400 Speaker 5: into this hand. We need to call Blaine and figure 624 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,479 Speaker 5: out where his head is at. That's the most important. 625 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 5: We're going to come back and do that with your 626 00:25:56,800 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 5: second date update. Right after this second date update, we're 627 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,480 Speaker 5: in the middle of a second date update with one 628 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,360 Speaker 5: of our listeners, Carly, Am I saying that right? 629 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:08,400 Speaker 10: Carly? Yeah? 630 00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:08,640 Speaker 9: Yeah? 631 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,200 Speaker 2: Do you want to emphasize the why more Carle exotic? 632 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:17,359 Speaker 5: It could be the traditional pronunciation of Carly. We're all 633 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 5: still recovering from some of the information that we learned 634 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 5: about her date. 635 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:23,400 Speaker 6: With Blaine, and she shared a lot. She did all 636 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:24,640 Speaker 6: the highlights real quick. 637 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,879 Speaker 5: They had a great meet up at Top Golf, It's 638 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,679 Speaker 5: where they met, had a great get to know you 639 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 5: date sash followed by kind of an awkward text exchange 640 00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 5: that involved him sending our listener Carly money because she 641 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:39,560 Speaker 5: admitted she was short on. 642 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,360 Speaker 2: Rent, which is really kind of him. 643 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:43,960 Speaker 10: It is, but it. 644 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 5: Does change the vibe. I mean me just saying it, Yeah, 645 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:50,720 Speaker 5: it does. It feels awkward to say they exchanged money afterwards, 646 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 5: but he did send her some and then after that 647 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 5: did not follow through with their plans for another date. 648 00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:59,359 Speaker 7: I have a question, don't pipe up this early, but 649 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:01,560 Speaker 7: was it a loan, Like, was this something you was 650 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 7: supposed to pay you back? Or he just gave you 651 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 7: the money expecting nothing. 652 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,359 Speaker 8: Yeah, he didn't say it was alone. 653 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,400 Speaker 6: I guess it's not if he's not calling you back? 654 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 1: Okays, he's the worst loan shark. 655 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, never mind. 656 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean maybe it's just because she didn't send 657 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:18,159 Speaker 1: him a formal thank you. 658 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 6: Oh I feel like Carl, you must have said thank you? 659 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:22,080 Speaker 10: Right? 660 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:23,280 Speaker 8: Oh yeah of course. 661 00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:24,640 Speaker 6: Okay, So what's running through your head? 662 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:24,800 Speaker 4: Then? 663 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,720 Speaker 6: What what's going through your mind before we reach out 664 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 6: to him? 665 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:27,919 Speaker 4: I don't know. 666 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 8: I mean, like it might have made it weird, but 667 00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,199 Speaker 8: I really like I I don't know. 668 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't know. But you also made your rent, right, 669 00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:36,080 Speaker 2: so that's good news. 670 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 8: Yeah, but I really like him, So I mean, like, 671 00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,399 Speaker 8: I don't they really bummed if that's the reason. 672 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna tell you if a guy asked 673 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,760 Speaker 1: me to help pay his rent, I probably would call 674 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 1: him back. 675 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 5: Oh she didn't, Husband, Michael, do not ask bok to 676 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,640 Speaker 5: ship in towards This is on you this time. 677 00:27:59,000 --> 00:27:59,639 Speaker 6: Let's just reach out. 678 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,600 Speaker 5: We'll see if Blaine picks up, and hopefully he has 679 00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:02,639 Speaker 5: an explanation for us. 680 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 6: But here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Blaine? 681 00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 10: Yeah, it's just Blaine. 682 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 6: Hey man, what's up. 683 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:19,960 Speaker 2: It's Jeff, just on a first name basis, Jeff. 684 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 6: I thought he would know what has anybody ever known. Yeah, 685 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:26,160 Speaker 6: thanks a lot. 686 00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,119 Speaker 10: I'm sorry. Who are you guys? 687 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll explain. We're a radio show. We're called Brook 688 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 5: and Jeffrey in the morning on the show. 689 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:37,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a good thing. 690 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:40,720 Speaker 5: We're calling you for a really fun, exciting reason because 691 00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 5: we're doing this segment called second Date Update, and we 692 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 5: got an email from one of our listeners named Carly, 693 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,520 Speaker 5: who says she's very disappointed that you two aren't seeing 694 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 5: each other and hanging out again. 695 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:55,800 Speaker 10: Yeah she really liked to Yeah, okay. 696 00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:59,160 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, make you Does that make you curious? 697 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 10: You have no, not really. I mean she's cute, she's fun. 698 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,000 Speaker 10: I just not interested in seeing her again. I mean, 699 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:08,360 Speaker 10: what else do you want me to tell you? 700 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:15,920 Speaker 6: I get it a million of those out there, But look, it. 701 00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:17,719 Speaker 5: Would be helpful if we get a little bit of 702 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:21,960 Speaker 5: information for maybe there's more reasoning why. I don't know 703 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,440 Speaker 5: if it's too much to delve into this, but I 704 00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:26,239 Speaker 5: did hear that the two of you guys kissed at 705 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 5: the end of your date. And usually when that happens 706 00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 5: and the lady says she wants to go out again, 707 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 5: that's a pretty exciting thing for a guy. 708 00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,200 Speaker 10: Yeah, we had a nice kiss at the end of 709 00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:39,520 Speaker 10: the date. 710 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:43,000 Speaker 2: Okay, can you give us something here to tell her? 711 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 10: Like, well, okay, after our date we started texting each other. 712 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:51,320 Speaker 10: She said thanks, I had a good time, and then 713 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 10: we started making plans that She mentioned that she was 714 00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:56,720 Speaker 10: going to be short on rent next month. 715 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,400 Speaker 6: Whoa, that's that's new information to us. 716 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 2: Wait, we're going to say that. 717 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:06,520 Speaker 3: Okay, any chance you sent her money? 718 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:07,680 Speaker 10: So I actually did? 719 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 1: Oh wow, yes, we're all acting surprise now, dude, what 720 00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:13,640 Speaker 1: a generous move of you. 721 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:14,640 Speaker 10: Wow. 722 00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:16,760 Speaker 2: So wait, I have a question. Why did you send 723 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 2: her money? 724 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 10: I felt bad. I mean, like I've been short too, 725 00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 10: and I just felt like I can help her out. 726 00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 10: I'm in a decent spot. I asked her what her 727 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 10: VENMO was, and I kicked her two hundred dollars right away. 728 00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:32,240 Speaker 5: She mentioned that you were like a really good, caring guy. 729 00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:34,520 Speaker 5: So it's clearly coming here. 730 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,320 Speaker 1: And when you're describing it too, like you're not shaming her, 731 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:38,800 Speaker 1: you're not making her feel bad. 732 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:42,160 Speaker 5: Like, yeah, did that make it weird though to give 733 00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 5: her the two hundred dollars? 734 00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:47,040 Speaker 10: Not exactly, I mean, I'm what I was weird is 735 00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:49,240 Speaker 10: that she was like, she was very appreciative. She was like, 736 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:51,840 Speaker 10: thank you, thank you, you know. Yeah, but then she says, 737 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:53,720 Speaker 10: I'm still eight hundred short. 738 00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, okay with that. 739 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 2: An maybe she was just telling you that so that. 740 00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 6: So that you could run her finances. 741 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, before how. 742 00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:07,440 Speaker 3: She already said she couldn't pay her I don't. 743 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 7: Know, and she should follow up with that. 744 00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 6: What was going on? What was going on with your 745 00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 6: in your mind? 746 00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 10: There's no way I'm giving a thousand dollars to a 747 00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,320 Speaker 10: chick I just met you, and I'm thinking about, like, 748 00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 10: that's just a bad feeling, you know, it's a whole 749 00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 10: bad vibe. 750 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:24,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's really short on rent. 751 00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:25,000 Speaker 5: Yeah. 752 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,280 Speaker 10: Yeah, I started thinking like, did she do this to 753 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 10: other guys? 754 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 1: It definitely doesn't feel like she's a scam artist or 755 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:31,960 Speaker 1: anything when we talked to her. 756 00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, most girls don't at first brook. 757 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 2: Oh, I feel like it's pretty honest. 758 00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:40,280 Speaker 10: Whatever her situation is, it's just not something I want 759 00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:41,080 Speaker 10: to be involved with. 760 00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:44,200 Speaker 5: I think before you make any final decisions on that, 761 00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:47,640 Speaker 5: I feel like maybe you need to hear from Carly herself, 762 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,000 Speaker 5: because she has been listening on the other line wanting 763 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:52,400 Speaker 5: to talk to you. Yeah, she's waiting for the other 764 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:53,560 Speaker 5: eight hundred dollars. 765 00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,400 Speaker 2: So she didn't call for that. 766 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm kidding. We didn't even know about the eight 767 00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:00,240 Speaker 5: hundred dollars death set. So just let Carly talk here. 768 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:00,840 Speaker 6: Call you there? 769 00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,680 Speaker 8: Hey, yeah, I'm here. I mean, you're actually like it's 770 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 8: a big deal to ask a question like I would 771 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:08,480 Speaker 8: you know, I didn't even. 772 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:09,320 Speaker 10: Ask a big deal. 773 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,600 Speaker 8: It was just informing, like I just told him I 774 00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:13,880 Speaker 8: was still short. 775 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 6: Are you wait? 776 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:16,840 Speaker 7: Are you putting it out as a vibe, like as 777 00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 7: an insinuation? 778 00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:20,360 Speaker 10: Like why else would you tell me that after I 779 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:22,960 Speaker 10: just gave you two hundred dollars you know, like why why? 780 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,920 Speaker 10: Why else would you share that information? And what's what's 781 00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,200 Speaker 10: this thing about? Like now I'm going to have to 782 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:28,840 Speaker 10: go to work? 783 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:30,720 Speaker 2: What is that what you said? 784 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:31,000 Speaker 4: Carl? 785 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 2: You're not working? 786 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,520 Speaker 10: She actually said to me, I still got the text. 787 00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 10: I can read it to you. 788 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 2: Oh that's what I wanted to begin. Please help, That's 789 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 2: what I asked her to do. 790 00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:40,840 Speaker 6: What did she say? 791 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 10: Well, no, it says right here. She's like, look, I 792 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 10: need eight hundred dollars more from you or I'm going. 793 00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 4: To have to go to work. 794 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:49,760 Speaker 6: Oh okay, that's way different. 795 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 2: Who I thought you were trying to be vulnerable with 796 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 2: this guy. 797 00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 8: You have to go to work, I mean, like nobody does. 798 00:32:58,520 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 8: I don't want to. 799 00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:01,280 Speaker 2: Crazy. 800 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 10: This makes me question everything, like how did she even 801 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 10: get that top golf? You know, did she pay for it? 802 00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 10: Somebody else pay for it? 803 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 5: You know you don't have to pay for top golf. 804 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,360 Speaker 5: Yes you do if you had a birthday party. You don't, Jeff. 805 00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 2: Everyone chips in for birthday parties except for you. It's 806 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,280 Speaker 2: the same thing when we go to group thing and 807 00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:20,200 Speaker 2: I have to say, Jeff, you have to pay. 808 00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 6: Before they bring the bill. There's nothing should I'm just saying, 809 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:25,560 Speaker 6: just like everything's. 810 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 2: Free, you don't pay it not do not back this up, Curly. 811 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:29,640 Speaker 2: This is not good for you. 812 00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,000 Speaker 3: I just don't eve you want rent going like a 813 00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:31,960 Speaker 3: sugar dotty site. 814 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:33,280 Speaker 10: Not normal date exactly. 815 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:34,720 Speaker 6: You don't got to trick people. You could just be 816 00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,160 Speaker 6: open to yeah, or just get a job. 817 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:42,600 Speaker 2: Why, it's just the universal rule of life. 818 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:44,640 Speaker 6: Why even being mean, She went to work, she got 819 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:45,880 Speaker 6: the money, she paid her rent. 820 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:47,120 Speaker 2: She said until next month. 821 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:49,520 Speaker 5: The person that we really need to focus on here 822 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 5: is Blaine. I bet he feels horrible for not coming 823 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,760 Speaker 5: through for Carly. In her time of need and making 824 00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:56,880 Speaker 5: her work condition out the eight hundred dollars. 825 00:33:56,960 --> 00:34:01,120 Speaker 10: Right, yeah, I I feels so horrible. 826 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,840 Speaker 6: Okay, really wanted to hear because he's. 827 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 10: No, I'm not responsible for no. 828 00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:08,920 Speaker 5: Man, Well, here's what you won't have to be responsible 829 00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:11,160 Speaker 5: for paying for your next date with Carly because we 830 00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:11,959 Speaker 5: will cover that. 831 00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:12,480 Speaker 6: Bill for you. 832 00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,279 Speaker 2: Is that what you call this the beginning, Carly? We're 833 00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:16,280 Speaker 2: going to cover the check. 834 00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:16,799 Speaker 9: No? 835 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,360 Speaker 6: Actually, wait, that made me think of something, Carly. 836 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,280 Speaker 5: Did you move up the date a few days earlier 837 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:24,399 Speaker 5: so you could ask him for your rent before it 838 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:25,040 Speaker 5: was due. 839 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:27,400 Speaker 2: Friday? 840 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:28,960 Speaker 6: Is that why you changed the day? 841 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:31,000 Speaker 8: That it's a coincidence? 842 00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:35,960 Speaker 1: Come on, No, wait, Tuesday is way too specific to 843 00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:36,839 Speaker 1: be a coincidence. 844 00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:44,520 Speaker 6: The first of the month, Carly. 845 00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:48,080 Speaker 5: I am equally parts disappointed and impressed by you. 846 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,279 Speaker 8: Okay, you guys are reading way too much into this, 847 00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:53,160 Speaker 8: Like we just get on with the gift card thing. 848 00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:57,000 Speaker 5: Jokes on you, Carly. Nobody here reads. But let's let's 849 00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,279 Speaker 5: do what he said. Let's ask Blaine, would you like 850 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,080 Speaker 5: to go out with carl one more time. 851 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:01,959 Speaker 6: On our dime? 852 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:06,880 Speaker 10: I'm not feeling it. No, I go next thing? I 853 00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 10: know She's probably gonna be trying to sell me some bitcoin, Carly. 854 00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:14,279 Speaker 5: Do you have some available though, because now the time 855 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:14,920 Speaker 5: it sounds like. 856 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,320 Speaker 8: No, I don't do crypto standard. 857 00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:23,520 Speaker 1: She doesn't do any money, have nobody Brook and Jeffrey 858 00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:24,840 Speaker 1: in the morning. 859 00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:27,640 Speaker 6: Man, I didn't know that working was optional. 860 00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,960 Speaker 7: Oh my god, it's not je We've all been here 861 00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:33,160 Speaker 7: dedicating her whole life. 862 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:34,839 Speaker 6: Yeah, I didn't know I could do that. I need, 863 00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:36,040 Speaker 6: I really need to look on to that. 864 00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:39,479 Speaker 5: Hold on a second, Hey, Brooks, I'm a little short 865 00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:42,480 Speaker 5: on plane money this month. You rent your clothes, so 866 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:44,440 Speaker 5: I'm sure you've got some extra cash. 867 00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:45,640 Speaker 6: Question Mark. 868 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:47,600 Speaker 2: Brook checking? 869 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:51,000 Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, I'll see how she responds to that. 870 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:51,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. 871 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 6: Hopefully looking at it is. Look at that she said, 872 00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:57,000 Speaker 6: yes I. 873 00:35:59,480 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 9: Did. 874 00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:02,480 Speaker 5: I'm not sending you picks for it. 875 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:04,719 Speaker 6: You know what appropriate? 876 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:05,360 Speaker 10: Okay? 877 00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:11,640 Speaker 6: Okay, No, I'm not, Brook stop close, stop it. 878 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, I'm just gonna send her to the link 879 00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:18,279 Speaker 5: to our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey. 880 00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:20,439 Speaker 10: Either. 881 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:20,600 Speaker 9: Now. 882 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:22,560 Speaker 5: I'm gonna send her the link and my photos on there. 883 00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:29,359 Speaker 5: I'm oh god, oh god, please do not talk to 884 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:33,240 Speaker 5: me ever again. Thank you? 885 00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,439 Speaker 6: All Right, the show is going to be weird moving forward. 886 00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:36,600 Speaker 2: Don't send that to me. 887 00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:38,920 Speaker 6: There was something in there for you too. Extra Brook, but. 888 00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:42,960 Speaker 5: Go check out our podcast where you get yours at 889 00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:44,960 Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeff Right. All of our photos are up 890 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,600 Speaker 5: on there, and email the show if you want help. 891 00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:49,520 Speaker 6: We'll call that person who's not calling you back.