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Speaker 1: Dumping somebody is never fun. It's the Jewbile show. It's

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Speaker 1: always a really long, hard conversation where you want to

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Speaker 1: let them down easy, and also don't want to sit

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Speaker 1: there and talk too much about it because you know

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Speaker 1: you have a date plan for right after that conversation.

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Speaker 1: You don't want to be late. That's why breakups can

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Speaker 1: be messy. And if you need proof of that, one

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Speaker 1: Florida couple is making national headlines today because of their

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Speaker 1: messy public breakup. How did one couple's breakup d with

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Speaker 1: twelve people in handcuffs? WHOA tell you right after this? Also,

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Speaker 1: what's the worst way to break up with someone?

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Speaker 2: Ooh?

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Speaker 1: Text ten four one O six one. I will tell

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Speaker 1: you what that story is right after this. My ex

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Speaker 1: dumped me on my birthday. Ooh, this is a text

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Speaker 1: We got in at four one o six one. Took

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Speaker 1: me to dinner, handed me a card and I thought

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Speaker 1: it was sweet. It read let's not keep pretending?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I said, is this a bit? And then he said

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Speaker 1: surprise and then walked off. Wow, that's cool.

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Speaker 3: Pay for the dinner?

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Speaker 1: Nothing is cool. That's a terrible way to be dumped.

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Speaker 1: What's the what's the worst way to dump somebody because

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Speaker 1: a couple is making national headlines this morning because of

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Speaker 1: their messy breakup that happened in public. Here's the story

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Speaker 1: out of Jacksonville, Florida. Police were called to a local

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Speaker 1: Golden Corral buffet when a romantic dinner turned into an

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Speaker 1: all out food fight that left everybody' stun oh no.

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Speaker 1: According to witnesses Leah and Trent with the couple's name,

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Speaker 1: they had just made their third trip to the carving

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Speaker 1: station when things took a sudden turn. Apparently, Tyler screamed out,

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Speaker 1: I knew it. You always take the last roll, and

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Speaker 1: that's symbolic of how you take everything.

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Speaker 3: She's really been repressing a lot.

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Speaker 1: That was from a woman named Brenda f who was

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Speaker 1: a nearby customer, who also added that she could tell

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Speaker 1: it was gonna get serious, so she ducked behind a

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Speaker 1: soft serve machine the guy's girlfriend. This is in the

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Speaker 1: middle of a golden buffet landscape. The guy's girlfriend allegedly responded, well,

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Speaker 1: that's rich coming from a man who hides his gambling

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Speaker 1: dead in a laundry hamper, and then slapped him in

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Speaker 1: the face with Annie.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 4: They were holding those on for a while.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, things were just festering. I mean, if you're gonna fight,

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Speaker 1: it better be at the Golden Crown date night at

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Speaker 1: the Golden Corld Cafe. Baby. Hey, apparently it got more

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Speaker 1: chaotic from there.

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Speaker 2: Ey.

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Speaker 1: Witnesses say that the man that was in the argument, Trent,

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Speaker 1: attempted to storm off, but then slipped on some gravy

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Speaker 1: and fell, and that's when he started freaking out and

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Speaker 1: climbed on top of the salad bar and launched into

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Speaker 1: a monologue to the entire restaurant about how he was

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Speaker 1: breaking up with his girlfriend before starting to toss salad

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Speaker 1: items at her and other patrons. Oh my, that caused

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Speaker 1: at least nine others to join in the food fight,

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Speaker 1: taking sides on her side or his side.

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Speaker 3: Wow, that's fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it does sound fun. I can't I can't say that.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't probably take advantage of that if there was

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Speaker 1: a food fight starting up, right.

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Speaker 3: You just pick a side and you go to it

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Speaker 3: and you start throwing.

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Speaker 1: By the end of it, at least twelve people were arrested,

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Speaker 1: and the Golden Corral location had be closed for a

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Speaker 1: week due for cleaning. After Oh that's a messy breakup.

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Speaker 2: Literally, although that sounds better than a lot of other

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Speaker 2: ways to break up. At least it's eventful. You're kind

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Speaker 2: of distracted. You're not crying or heartbroken. You're more mad.

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Speaker 2: You can put it into the role.

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Speaker 3: You're not messing up anybody's car.

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Speaker 1: You know all that kind of right, Yeah, you can

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Speaker 1: cry later about it. We know you're like got it

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Speaker 1: getting bailed out of jail and you're just like, did

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Speaker 1: that actually happen? Did we just tear up a golden hopefully.

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Speaker 3: You pocketed a brownie, like, you know, or maybe your leg.

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Speaker 1: Maybe we should get back together.

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Speaker 3: You're munching in the cell next to each other, sharing.

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Speaker 1: A chicken legs.

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Speaker 3: You know they got back together too.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they definitely did.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: They're just laughing about it. Yeah, time gravy and through.

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Speaker 1: Because of that, people online are sharing the worst ways

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Speaker 1: to dump somebody. Ghosting is one of the worst ways

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Speaker 1: to dump somebody.

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Speaker 3: Actly.

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Speaker 4: You don't even know that you're getting dumped until like

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Speaker 4: days later, probably I know.

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Speaker 2: But it's like you start to feel it and they

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Speaker 2: and you just go and you look for facts and

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Speaker 2: then you ended up breaking up with yourself.

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Speaker 3: And you're like, cool it is true.

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Speaker 1: When you get ghosted, you kind of do break up

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Speaker 1: with yourselves. I got a certain point out to be like, Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're not just busy. No, they're not gonna just get

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Speaker 1: back to me. I don't think after this long no.

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Speaker 2: And then you walk by the window and you see

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Speaker 2: him sitting there lovingly with somebody else with blonde hair,

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Speaker 2: and you're like.

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Speaker 3: Oh, so that's what happened. And then you're like, I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna block you. But he's not even calling.

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Speaker 1: Somebody said that the dated somebody for eight months, and

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Speaker 1: one day he just stopped talking to them and vanished.

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Speaker 1: Said a week later, she saw him at a Trader

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Speaker 1: Joe's and she saw him, but he didn't He didn't

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Speaker 1: know that she saw him. But he ducked down an

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Speaker 1: aisle and then came back back out with the shirt

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Speaker 1: pulled over his head, like yeah, trying to hide from

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Speaker 1: there's just a weird guy with a shirt pulled over

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Speaker 1: his head walking around.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but really that tracks because if you're so much

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Speaker 2: of a coward that you can't even break up with

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Speaker 2: somebody that you've been with eight months, of course you're

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Speaker 2: gonna cover your.

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Speaker 4: Because I'm scared how do you even do that though,

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Speaker 4: Like you were with him for eight months. You talked,

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Speaker 4: you hung out, you did other things like.

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Speaker 1: Hi, it's just called does not even ghosting, that's abandonment, sucker. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that must.

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Speaker 2: Have happened to them as a child, So there's probably

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Speaker 2: a way to feel bad for them here too, But

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Speaker 2: don't repeat the cycle.

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Speaker 1: Another one of the worst ways to dump somebody is

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Speaker 1: during a fight. During a fight, experts a breakup during

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Speaker 1: high emotional arousal are linked to impulsive decision making, and

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Speaker 1: it's often used as a power tactic. And it's not

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Speaker 1: sincere when you break up with someone in a fight.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, or it's the one way that you won't feel

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Speaker 2: bad about it because that happened to me. I think

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Speaker 2: I told you guys this before, But I got broken

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Speaker 2: up with on Valentine's Day really, so uh huh. He

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Speaker 2: had just awo hours to work. I got a dozen roses.

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Speaker 2: We went out to dinner, then we went out to

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Speaker 2: drinks afterwards. We're both kind of buzz having fun. I'm

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Speaker 2: thinking it's going to be a great night. We get back,

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Speaker 2: he starts picking a fight with me, and the next

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Speaker 2: thing I know, he's kicking me and my roses and

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Speaker 2: all this.

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Speaker 3: Stuff outside of the house.

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Speaker 2: What this was a time when I had a lot

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Speaker 2: of energy, so I was willing out and he called

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Speaker 2: the cops, and at that moment we broke up.

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Speaker 3: No, the worst part though, wasn't the cops. I got

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Speaker 3: home with those roses.

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Speaker 2: The next morning, I woke up there were spiders all

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Speaker 2: over the counter because they were inside of the roses.

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Speaker 2: So kicked me out without my shoes, called the cops,

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Speaker 2: gave me roses that had spiders in them. All after

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Speaker 2: a really nice day, so I'm thinking I'm loved and

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Speaker 2: things are great.

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Speaker 3: The next thing I know, I'm like, whoa, you guys

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Speaker 3: wonder why I'm wild. This is the kind of stuff

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Speaker 3: that happened all the.

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Speaker 4: Time that's so messed up, not on Valentine's Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 4: So half the time, I feel like when you break

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Speaker 4: up during a fight, sometimes you don't mean it and

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Speaker 4: it's like immediate regret. But because you're in a fight

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Speaker 4: and you're arguing and like you're all like the anger,

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Speaker 4: like you just say whatever, it's kind of like, oh fine,

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Speaker 4: you don't like this, we should break up, and like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: you're not thinking the other person will be like fine,

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Speaker 4: but they're also mad, so then they're just gonna say fine.

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Speaker 3: Then you're broken up, and then the next day you're like,

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Speaker 3: oh no.

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Speaker 1: But for me, the worst part about trying to break

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Speaker 1: up in a fight is you're in the heat of

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Speaker 1: the moment moment, you know, so it's all chaotic and stuff,

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Speaker 1: and you're like I'm out and you slam the door.

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Speaker 1: And then for me, every time I've done that, I've

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Speaker 1: been like, I forgot my keys. I have to go

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Speaker 1: back in now and grab my keys. Were yeah, I

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Speaker 1: just forgot my keys. It's the most awkward couple of

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Speaker 1: seconds where you're like, dang it.

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Speaker 3: It's the most