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Speaker 1: it came back negative. But I never cheated. Now he

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Speaker 1: What should I do?

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Speaker 2: Well, this is.

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Speaker 1: Okay Lop show. We read the craziest true stories on Earth.

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Speaker 1: I'm John and Sam. What should do?

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Speaker 2: The thing is it came back negative, which, like those

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Speaker 2: tests are ninety nine percent effective. So if it came

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Speaker 2: back negative, like I'm sorry, you probably cheated in your sleep.

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Speaker 1: Or sleepwalking sleep. We've seen it happen before one. We've

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Speaker 1: seen the point zero one percent we have.

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Speaker 2: I think there, well, I think we did read a

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Speaker 1: I don't remember sleep boning. I remember the lab made

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Speaker 1: a mistake actually to Janelle's comment right.

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Speaker 2: There, but we also read a story about sleep boning. Wow,

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Speaker 2: So it could be. It could either be the lab

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Speaker 2: big mistake or sleep boating. Let us know what you

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Speaker 2: think it is in the comments. But let's get to

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Speaker 2: the story.

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Speaker 1: Let's find out. This comes from fully faithful wife. Great

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Speaker 1: user name, Oh she's really some background. This is June sixty,

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty two. Ohpi's twenty nine female. The husband is

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Speaker 1: thirty one male and the daughter's five female. I do

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Speaker 1: not know how it happened, and I haven't been able

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Speaker 1: to stop crying all day. I never cheated. I love

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Speaker 1: my husband. We've been together since college and he is

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Speaker 1: while I slept with two other people, both before we

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Speaker 2: She's like, yeahs does happen with people, ycause they have

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Speaker 2: relationships before the relationship there what?

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Speaker 1: There is no other potential father for our daughter. We

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Speaker 1: were married already and were actively trying for a baby.

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Speaker 1: I never cheated. I never would cheat, and I don't

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Speaker 1: know why he took that stupid test because I would

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Speaker 1: never ever cheat. But it came back negative, and now

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Speaker 1: basically negative of him being the father. Yeah, that's what

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Speaker 1: he's saying there, I mean that's what it came back negative.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, negative.

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Speaker 2: If I printy comes back pauses and then you have

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to convince them it was a

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Speaker 1: it's like he's become suddenly a completely different person from

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Speaker 1: and I showed him at first, but eventually he told

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Speaker 1: him I wouldn't anymore unless he explained why. He's been

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Speaker 1: distant with our daughter too. We've seen this before. It's

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Speaker 1: I mean we say study by all. I mean, I

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Speaker 2: It possible for two Well, if two brown eyed people

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Speaker 1: The other way around. They're both blue eyed and the

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Speaker 1: proving my innocence. Ladies and gentlemen. Of course we have

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Speaker 2: I'm so glad and I hope it's juicy. It's the juicy.

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Speaker 2: most likely, most likely it is a situation where the lab,

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Speaker 1: But do it again, which is what Opie was saying, like, hey,

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Speaker 2: But honestly understandable if like you're dealing with all of

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Speaker 2: But he shouldn't. But he should still, like you should

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Speaker 2: He's cheating and looking for an out and so he

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Speaker 2: Put put put your conspiracies in the chat. If you

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Speaker 1: But to to to further their point, we've always said that,

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Speaker 2: It's a loaded. Yeah, it's like I think you cheated. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Let's get into it. Back to reality. So hi everyone.

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Speaker 1: First off, I wanted to thank everyone who reached out.

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Speaker 1: My original post got so much attention it was hard

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Speaker 1: I think that means just like I'm going ballistic. I'm

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So basically like saying the daughter is not his Yeah,

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Speaker 2: So he said that at birth it's a switch.

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Speaker 1: That birth, it's a switch, that birth switch that. Whoever

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Speaker 1: You completely correctly predicted that. I don't know how this happened,

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is a missing child. Basically, their child

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Speaker 1: A five? Missing for five years?

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Speaker 1: Their child crazy? The child they have is probably missing

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Speaker 2: Five years is a long time, dude. Maybe maybe like

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Speaker 2: Probably like it would be hard legally. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how many of you have been down

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Speaker 1: That's like the red pill rabbit hole, or like.

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Speaker 1: And then you get not one, but two failed paternity

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Speaker 1: I just want to say that number one, I agree

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Speaker 2: Thank you to.

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Speaker 1: Everyone for all your help. That's the end of this story.

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Speaker 2: But we don't know what they ended up doing with

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Speaker 1: We don't know what they ended up doing.

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Speaker 2: Dude. I I I completely I completely understand. Right, I

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Speaker 1: To get out of the relationship.

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Speaker 2: Was it only only one time? Lady? Huh do you

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Speaker 2: Gun Her Wave it is live. Wait the Raven says

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Speaker 2: there was an update? Is there another update?

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Speaker 1: That's that's a great question. There a look a look.

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Speaker 1: Producer Riley is on the case, so we'll see if

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Speaker 1: there's another update. If there is one, we will definitely

442
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Speaker 1: read it on Stella Davis. Yes, the DNA test is proof,

443
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Speaker 1: but his insecurities led to the DNA test in the

444
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Speaker 1: first place.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of what you're saying a little bit earlier,

446
00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:02,680
Speaker 2: where it's like, why are you on those cheating subreds

447
00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:04,919
Speaker 2: to begin with to look for evidence to maybe like

448
00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:09,120
Speaker 2: against your partner because you're insecure or you want out

449
00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:10,040
Speaker 2: of the relationship.

450
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Speaker 1: So both of those things on both sides. It makes

451
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Speaker 1: me angry, especially when going to the my wife cheated

452
00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:19,960
Speaker 1: on me subreddit, like of course, of course, of course

453
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Speaker 1: they're gonna say that.

454
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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, you're you are asking advice from a pool

455
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Speaker 2: of people that have had like failed relationships and are

456
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,840
Speaker 2: probably very bitter. Yeah, and so you're not going to

457
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Speaker 2: get advice that is necessarily like, oh, repair the relationship

458
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Speaker 2: or something. You're gonna get advice that is like take

459
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Speaker 2: everything you can.

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Speaker 1: And on the like, it's it's same same token, two

461
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Speaker 1: sides at the same coin. If you go to like

462
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Speaker 1: men are trash or whatever, it's like people who have

463
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Speaker 1: only had negative experiences with men, Yes, of course, like

464
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Speaker 1: that's all the experiences that these people have had, so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's not Yeah, it's not the way, Janelle says,

466
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Speaker 2: the hospital is going to owe you millions. Yeah, I wonder,

467
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Speaker 2: I wonder if you could like how success, how easily

468
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Speaker 2: or how easy it be to sue the hospital for millions,

469
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:03,919
Speaker 2: and then if you can see the hospital for millions,

470
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Speaker 2: then you could get that big house with all live together.

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Speaker 1: I mean, pretty good idea.

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Speaker 2: The Raven says they went on a hunt for their

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Speaker 2: biological daughter The Raven. Can you send a link to

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, can we put it? Can you put it in?

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Speaker 1: John's producer Riley might have something, y'all.

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Speaker 2: We are allowed to get into another update that hopefully

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Speaker 2: concludes this saga.

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Speaker 1: Hi, everyone onto update number two. All three thousand people

479
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Speaker 1: who followed me, all of the YouTubers who made videos,

480
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Speaker 1: the people on every social media platform from TikTok to

481
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Speaker 1: Tumblr who have been giving advice, My goodness, there's a

482
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Speaker 1: lot going on here which helps confirm my decision to

483
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Speaker 1: not go public with any of this. If this is

484
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Speaker 1: how much attention it got without our names, my goodness,

485
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Speaker 1: I'm very grateful for everyone, and hold no ill will

486
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Speaker 1: towards the shared posts, but I'm very glad the attention

487
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Speaker 1: is not directed at my daughter, either of them I

488
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Speaker 1: think you all deserve an update. So here it goes.

489
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Speaker 1: We found our biological daughter.

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Speaker 2: Holy moly, how twenty three meters and sons she dot com.

491
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Speaker 1: She was in foster care. I don't think it's going

492
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Speaker 1: to surprise a ton of people that the hospital we

493
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Speaker 1: had her at was not the best in the area. No,

494
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Speaker 1: and she was taken home by a family who ended

495
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Speaker 1: up under investigation, and apparently when she was proven not

496
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Speaker 1: their biological child, she was taken by the state.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: I feel horrible for that family, but at the same

499
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Speaker 1: time so grateful that we have found her safe and alive.

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Speaker 1: We started the adoption process immediately, and well, we have

501
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Speaker 1: some pretty significant resources.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: I won't say the settlement money makes up for what

504
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Speaker 1: we went through exactly, but guesses in the chat you

505
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Speaker 1: settle big Protein and Sam Quick us.

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Speaker 2: Uh millions, I think millions. Yeah, I think like two

507
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Speaker 2: to five, two to five.

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Speaker 1: Almost say, like seven thousand and fifty seven, seven hundred

509
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Speaker 1: and fifty. It was close to two million dollars. Oh

510
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Speaker 1: my god, man, it's accurate over here. Who Yeah, we

511
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Speaker 1: had we had one point five to ten MILLI couple

512
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Speaker 1: hundred million, one point seven couple one point seven million

513
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Speaker 1: Kirby Ray super close. Yeah, very nice. Our lawyer said

514
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Speaker 1: that we could have gotten more in court, but honestly,

515
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 1: the hospital wanted to end this fast and quietly, so

516
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Speaker 1: we did. So that's them in the Hospital of Faith,

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Speaker 1: yeah big yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well they're also like making sure it doesn't go into

519
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Speaker 2: the public eye, and right that would yeah, probably you

520
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Speaker 2: if you had a court then it gets it's a

521
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Speaker 2: public hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: We explained to our daughter that her sister is going

523
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Speaker 1: to be coming to stay with us, and that we

524
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Speaker 1: still love her very much. She seems ecstatic about the idea.

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Speaker 1: Here's to hope that actually works out. That is so

526
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Speaker 1: adorable that they're the daughter that they've been raising. Is

527
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Speaker 1: is so excited for me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's what brother, sister.

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Speaker 1: A sister, two sisters, right, yep, yep. Our daughter is

530
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Speaker 1: excited about her sister coming to stay with us. We're

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Speaker 1: planning to move away.

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Speaker 2: Must look somewhat similar if they were so easily swapped.

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Speaker 1: It was the brown eyes that was the so all

534
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Speaker 1: of the other features hair, face, knows like that could

535
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Speaker 1: have all been like, but i'd be I'd be not be.

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Speaker 1: I can't tell.

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Speaker 2: I guess all babies kind of look similar all babies.

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Speaker 2: And do you for any of the mothers out there,

539
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Speaker 2: do you think you could tell your newborn child from

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Speaker 2: another newborn? Obviously not because these moms know. Yeah, would

541
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Speaker 2: you guys know moms? Janelle says, Nope, I couldn't tell.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I could tell. Dude, all babies look

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Speaker 2: actually no, I mean yeah, they do. They do be

544
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Speaker 2: looking they do be looking similar. They're all bald newborn

545
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Speaker 2: babies ugly. That's why you got it huge. You got

546
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 2: to mark your baby. You gotta get get a sharpie

547
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:05,639
Speaker 2: and and do a signature that'll sign your babies after

548
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 2: before you give them away, sign them or like.

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Speaker 1: Even I don't know, like a like an ank litter.

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00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 2: I yeah, I think they are code. You think they

551
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:16,479
Speaker 2: would figure this out by now, I know, but obviously not.

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Speaker 1: Here we go. We are planning to move away from

553
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 1: our hometown in a few months. We found a wonderful

554
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 1: place in a good school district that's a few states

555
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 1: away and has plenty of room for our family to grow.

556
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Speaker 1: I don't know what we're going to do about the

557
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Speaker 1: other family. My biological daughter doesn't seem to remember them

558
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Speaker 1: that much, and I don't really want to involve them

559
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Speaker 1: if I don't have to, but I know it's probably

560
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Speaker 1: morally wrong not to let them know what happened. I

561
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 1: mean that, do you tell the other family? Do you

562
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Speaker 1: tell the other family to give them the option, to

563
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 1: give them the option just to just purely here let

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Speaker 1: them know.

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00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:59,199
Speaker 2: Let's let's ask, Like it's definitely it's definitely bad, like

566
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 2: probably more really bad for the original family to not know.

567
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,200
Speaker 2: But what do you think is best for the kid?

568
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:08,639
Speaker 1: I mean, I think I think they should tell the

569
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Speaker 1: other family at the barest of minimums, Like what.

570
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 2: If they're like, we want, we want the kid back.

571
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: Then you kind of have to take it from there.

572
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 1: I feel like it's one of those things where you're like,

573
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:20,439
Speaker 1: I have to tell you, and like maybe you do

574
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 1: want the kid back, and I'm just gonna have.

575
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Speaker 2: But what if the family sucks, like it says the

576
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 2: biological kid or the non biological kid, so Op's biological

577
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 2: was taken away and put in the foster care because

578
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 2: of something bad that that family potentially did. So what

579
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Speaker 2: if they're like drug addicts or something crazy.

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00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:41,359
Speaker 1: It wasn't, It's from my knowledge of reading it, it

581
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: wasn't one hundred percent clear if it was the family,

582
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Speaker 1: I couldn't see that. But it was like, after they

583
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:50,879
Speaker 1: realized it wasn't theirs, they took it away. But so

584
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 1: it totally could have.

585
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 2: Been, but they would only they would only have to

586
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 2: do biological test if something bad happened. And so the right, right,

587
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 2: So like the second Yeah, the second family. So Robin

588
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 2: Christ says, the second family was under investigation. Would you

589
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 2: want to return a child to such people? Not me

590
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 2: leave the other family in the dark? Right, So you're

591
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 2: you're basically giving a family that was under investigation, who

592
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 2: knows what, but potentially like something bad that they had

593
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 2: to take their child away, Like, would you want to

594
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,359
Speaker 2: potentially give up a child that you have had and

595
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 2: bonded with for the last five years.

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Speaker 1: I'm not even saying give up the child. I'm saying

597
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:33,440
Speaker 1: let them know and then if like, we want the

598
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:33,879
Speaker 1: child back.

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Speaker 2: But the thing is, if you let them know that

600
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 2: they can probably have some legal recourse to take that kit.

601
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Speaker 1: That's true, that's true. I don't know, it's a tough

602
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 1: it's a tough situation.

603
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 2: I don't know. I wonder do you guys get what

604
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 2: I tell? Yeah? So let's rea some of the comments.

605
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 2: Robin Christ says, I wouldn't even tell them. Sarah Bedoff's

606
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 2: is no, they have proven not to be good parents.

607
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 2: Wait until she's eighteen, and they can't do anything regards

608
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Speaker 2: to custody or mess with their lives.

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00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: I didn't think about that.

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00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, Mary am, if they suck, there should be some

611
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 2: law procedures. So that actually is a true that's pretty true.

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00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 1: I wonder if, yeah, could you go through a lawyer

613
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 1: basically being like, hey, I am like legally on the

614
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 1: record informing you, but we have custody because they do. Yeah,

615
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: I mean, but maybe they could sue that.

616
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 2: I wonder what illegal ramifications are. But like also, I mean, yes,

617
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Speaker 2: there might be some laws. But as most of us know,

618
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 2: the criminal justice system or the justice system ain't so

619
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Speaker 2: just all the time. It ain't the best it thought

620
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 2: it thought perfect. So uh yeah, I don't know.

621
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 1: I don't out very tough call to make.

622
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 2: Jem says, the other family didn't seem to go look

623
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Speaker 2: for their child. That's true, but maybe they did and

624
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 2: they just couldn't find them.

625
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:47,959
Speaker 1: True.

626
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 2: I don't know.

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00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 1: That's tough. Riley, what what comments are seeing on the

628
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: on the TikTok side.

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Speaker 2: Oh, some people were like, I wouldn't tell them, they

630
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 2: would come for money. Ko says, the other family should know.

631
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 2: Britt says that would such a hard decision, to be honest.

632
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 2: May said, I remember them making sure the numbers matched

633
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 2: numbers on the baby baby numbers. Maybe yeah, I'm guessing

634
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 2: numbers of like confirming that it's correct or whatever. Sarah

635
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 2: bad off, Happy birthday if it's your birthday to death, Hey,

636
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 2: happy birthday, Happy birthday to you.

637
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 1: There we go, speaking of celebrations. Let's celebrate the rest

638
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 1: of the story.

639
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 2: Let's get it baby.

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00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 1: So again, we're picking back up on the decision of

641
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,479
Speaker 1: telling the family or not. Opie says, I mean that

642
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 1: poor mother must not have any idea what's happened. I

643
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,680
Speaker 1: can only imagine how horrible that would be.

644
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: For now, though, I'm focusing on my daughters and hoping

646
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 1: to plan them a beautiful life. Finally, my husband, I

647
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 1: love it more than anything in the world, and he

648
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 1: loves me. We've been through hell and come out the

649
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 1: other side, and we are not an ot interested in

650
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 1: breaking up or ending the relationship or anything like that.

651
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 2: There we be all right, all right? So the relationship

652
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 2: is so strong.

653
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: He deleted his Reddit account. Thank god.

654
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 2: The Reddit account does not seem too good.

655
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Speaker 1: And he promised that he's going to trust me from

656
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Speaker 1: now on because, as it happens, our child being switched

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Speaker 1: at birth is more likely than me cheating on him. Now,

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Speaker 1: that is a way to put it to you. I

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00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,959
Speaker 1: love him so much and we are going to be okay.

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Speaker 1: This will hopefully be the last time that I use

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Speaker 1: this account. Thank you to everyone who reached out with

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Speaker 1: help and advice.

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Speaker 2: Edit.

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Speaker 1: I've explained as much as I can in the comments.

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Speaker 1: No longer going to be feeding the trolls here, and

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Speaker 1: that is a wrap on that story.

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Speaker 2: Wow, but we didn't get clarity on what they did

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Speaker 2: with the other family.

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Speaker 1: Right for now, they're not reaching out, so OPI has

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Speaker 1: made the decision for now, But it sounds like that

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Speaker 1: door is not closed. Yeah yeah, which I guess it

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Speaker 1: kind of never ends.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I like what one commentary said about maybe

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Speaker 2: waiting until the baby's eighteen and saying it like like

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Speaker 2: I feel like that at the very least is what

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Speaker 2: you should do. Yeah, yeah, but I don't think it,

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Speaker 2: like again, like this family does, didn't didn't seem very good.

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Speaker 2: So would you what is best for the child? Yes,

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Speaker 2: probably staying with this.

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Speaker 1: Staying with his family. They now have two million dollars

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Speaker 1: and base. From me reading in between the lines, I

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Speaker 1: think their entire life set up now is like we

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Speaker 1: are a thousand percent optimizing for We're getting a giant

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Speaker 1: house in an amazing school district. All of it is

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Speaker 1: going to be for these girls, and we'll figure out

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Speaker 1: our job, our jobs if we don't want or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Like they didn't literally didn't even talk about that. Maybe

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Speaker 1: they're just retiring.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean you could, you could cutting on

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Speaker 2: where you're living. You could, Yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 1: Maybe they like if they moved to like Utah and

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Speaker 1: got like a big house.

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Speaker 2: In a great school disc yeah, or North Dakota, North.

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Speaker 1: Dakota, Texas, I know you live?

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Speaker 2: Is anyone from North Dakota? Uh? In any of the

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Speaker 2: chats I would? I would love to know. Drop dropping

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Speaker 2: the cops, Yeah, drop draw to North North Dakota people,

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Speaker 2: let us know what is it like living there? I

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Speaker 2: don't know if I know anyone because there's only fifty

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Speaker 2: thousand people that live in.

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Speaker 1: North's basically, no, it's not that little. No, it's that little,

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Speaker 1: that little No, we're not even gonna go.

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Speaker 2: Five hundred thousand, five hundred thousand, got Yeah, it's seven

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Speaker 2: hundred and seventy four thousand people in North Dakota. Which

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Speaker 2: has which has more peace? So Gutner says, from South Dakota,

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Speaker 2: Uh is that better than in North Dakota.

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Speaker 1: Because our fan gutter? Why whyfe wife?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's from South Dakota, south coast on South Dakota better.

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Speaker 2: But last, any North Dakota people come in, Uh your.

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Speaker 1: Case now or forever, hold your piece.

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Speaker 2: Just remember if you love us, make sure to describe

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Speaker 2: we love you and see it tomorrow